<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?>
<rss xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0" xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" version="2.0"><channel><title>Control with Aduni</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/show/control-with-aduni</link><description><![CDATA[Discussing topics relating to self awareness, personal development and emotional intelligence; to bring about decent living and peaceful coexistence.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></description><atom:link href="https://www.spreaker.com/show/4599239/episodes/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><language>en</language><category>Self-Improvement</category><copyright>Copyright Ifeoluwapo Aduni Abe</copyright><image><url>https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5310cbee8b5fc2b72c5da4e120426742.jpg</url><title>Control with Aduni</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/show/control-with-aduni</link></image><lastBuildDate>Fri, 10 Oct 2025 16:23:20 +0000</lastBuildDate><itunes:author>Ifeoluwapo Aduni Abe</itunes:author><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Ifeoluwapo Aduni Abe</itunes:name><itunes:email>abeife28@gmail.com</itunes:email></itunes:owner><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5310cbee8b5fc2b72c5da4e120426742.jpg"/><itunes:subtitle>Discussing topics relating to self awareness, personal development and emotional intelligence; to bring about decent living and peaceful coexistence.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Discussing topics relating to self awareness, personal development and emotional intelligence; to bring about decent living and peaceful coexistence.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:category text="Education"><itunes:category text="Self-Improvement"/></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Leisure"/><itunes:category text="Health &amp; Fitness"><itunes:category text="Mental Health"/></itunes:category><itunes:explicit>clean</itunes:explicit><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><podcast:funding url="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&amp;utm_medium=rss&amp;utm_campaign=rss">Support the podcast!</podcast:funding><item><title>S3E10 - Friendship breakups</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/s3e10-friendship-breakups--51210971</link><description><![CDATA[Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51210971</guid><pubDate>Sun, 11 Sep 2022 08:01:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51210971/imported_166282133329906_audio.mp3" length="41644182" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Ifeoluwapo Aduni Abe</itunes:author><itunes:duration>2603</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>clean</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6b022b6df514db3035c1acbe22c5cf21.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>S3E9 - Parenting 101</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/s3e9-parenting-101--51067319</link><description><![CDATA[Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51067319</guid><pubDate>Mon, 29 Aug 2022 16:20:33 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51067319/imported_1661785816354546_audio.mp3" length="56827389" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Ifeoluwapo Aduni Abe</itunes:author><itunes:duration>3552</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>clean</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c8e6a0bec5fe1d13048bc6c80b279d1f.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>S3E8 - DNA Test</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/s3e8-dna-test--50274945</link><description><![CDATA[Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50274945</guid><pubDate>Sun, 03 Jul 2022 08:01:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/50274945/imported_1655801682257412_audio.mp3" length="63789332" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Ifeoluwapo Aduni Abe</itunes:author><itunes:duration>3987</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childbearing,dna.,dna-test,marriage,marriage&amp;family</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>clean</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a6b3fcc00d07778b901121a08a007a09.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>S3E7 - Dealing With Inlaws</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/s3e7-dealing-with-inlaws--50370212</link><description><![CDATA[Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50370212</guid><pubDate>Sun, 26 Jun 2022 17:29:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/50370212/imported_1656264165911431_audio.mp3" length="43738984" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Ifeoluwapo Aduni Abe</itunes:author><itunes:duration>2734</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>clean</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f808a14a0d00dfdd15bc92f790420b19.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>S3E6 - Wedding Bells</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/s3e6-wedding-bells--50056997</link><description><![CDATA[Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50056997</guid><pubDate>Sun, 05 Jun 2022 08:01:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/50056997/imported_1653386712744539_audio.mp3" length="46457390" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Ifeoluwapo Aduni Abe</itunes:author><itunes:duration>2904</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>controversial,realconversations,weddingbells,weddingbellsdramatalk</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>clean</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/9cc4ed8ab3d2fd0c47797acb2041d0d4.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>S3E5 - Abortion</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/s3e5-abortion--49612479</link><description><![CDATA[Let's talk Abortion. Murder or not?<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49612479</guid><pubDate>Sun, 01 May 2022 10:13:48 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49612479/imported_1651399378207019_audio.mp3" length="43875656" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Ifeoluwapo Aduni Abe</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Let's talk Abortion. Murder or not?</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Let's talk Abortion. Murder or not?<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2743</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abortion,abortion-debate,abortionrights,realconversations,relationships</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>clean</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/162f20dbcad767f96cde91bd27961dbe.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>S3E4 - Relationship Dynamics</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/s3e4-relationship-dynamics--49466747</link><description><![CDATA[Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49466747</guid><pubDate>Mon, 18 Apr 2022 14:38:10 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49466747/imported_1650292577152783_audio.mp3" length="44485458" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Ifeoluwapo Aduni Abe</itunes:author><itunes:duration>2781</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>clean</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/9d1128396c46cf811083c726654e2a18.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>S3E3 - Office Romance</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/s3e3-office-romance--49300749</link><description><![CDATA[Office husband, office wife. How ideal is it?<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49300749</guid><pubDate>Sun, 03 Apr 2022 11:02:52 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49300749/imported_1648983672595315_audio.mp3" length="42247710" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Ifeoluwapo Aduni Abe</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Office husband, office wife. How ideal is it?</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Office husband, office wife. How ideal is it?<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2641</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>clean</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e3b3f0784d203dc7365e651056572645.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>S3E2 - First Dates</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/s3e2-first-dates--49110971</link><description><![CDATA[Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49110971</guid><pubDate>Sun, 20 Mar 2022 08:01:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49110971/imported_1647632811639909_audio.mp3" length="60970606" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Ifeoluwapo Aduni Abe</itunes:author><itunes:duration>3811</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>dates,firstdates,red-flags,relationships</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>clean</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6f12b88c6359f776301ee9822e2bbb1e.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>S3E1 - Talking Stage</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/s3e1-talking-stage--48944280</link><description><![CDATA[The Almighty Talking Stage is one of the most controversial discussions on the Nigerian Twitter TL. In this episode, Aduni and two guests share their ideals, thoughts and opinions of what the talking stage should be about.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48944280</guid><pubDate>Sun, 06 Mar 2022 08:01:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/48944280/imported_1646359626309240_audio.mp3" length="52285413" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Ifeoluwapo Aduni Abe</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The Almighty Talking Stage is one of the most controversial discussions on the Nigerian Twitter TL. In this episode, Aduni and two guests share their ideals, thoughts and opinions of what the talking stage should be about.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The Almighty Talking Stage is one of the most controversial discussions on the Nigerian Twitter TL. In this episode, Aduni and two guests share their ideals, thoughts and opinions of what the talking stage should be about.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3268</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>dating,dating+nigerian+men,datingtips,lifestyleradio,relationshipadvice,relationships,selfhelppodcast,talkingstage</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>clean</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5310cbee8b5fc2b72c5da4e120426742.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>S2E4 - Self Love</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/s2e4-self-love--48164266</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, Aduni continues the conversation from the last episode, looking into the definition of self love and why it is important to love one's self.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48164266</guid><pubDate>Tue, 04 Jan 2022 15:33:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/48164266/imported_1641309954584979_audio.mp3" length="38453498" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Ifeoluwapo Aduni Abe</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode, Aduni continues the conversation from the last episode, looking into the definition of self love and why it is important to love one's self.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, Aduni continues the conversation from the last episode, looking into the definition of self love and why it is important to love one's self.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2404</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>clean</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5310cbee8b5fc2b72c5da4e120426742.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Christmas Is Here.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/christmas-is-here--48045801</link><description><![CDATA[When Christmas arrives, we each have our own interpretation and expectations of the festive season. In this special episode, you will be entertained by the Christmas interpretations and expectations of Aduni and the two guests on the show. Merry After Christmas!<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48045801</guid><pubDate>Sun, 26 Dec 2021 10:01:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/48045801/imported_1640336707430322_audio.mp3" length="46743700" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Ifeoluwapo Aduni Abe</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>When Christmas arrives, we each have our own interpretation and expectations of the festive season. In this special episode, you will be entertained by the Christmas interpretations and expectations of Aduni and the two guests on the show. Merry After...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[When Christmas arrives, we each have our own interpretation and expectations of the festive season. In this special episode, you will be entertained by the Christmas interpretations and expectations of Aduni and the two guests on the show. Merry After Christmas!<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2922</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>clean</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/225339329bd4cfbd86c17f8484e67b9d.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>S2E3 - Self Development</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/s2e3-self-development--47973545</link><description><![CDATA[What should one do after accepting the truth about themselves that isn't pleasant? Aduni talks at length on what developing one's self entails and is particular about the difference between becoming a better version vs another version of yourself.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47973545</guid><pubDate>Sun, 19 Dec 2021 10:01:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47973545/imported_1639820470484492_audio.mp3" length="33430047" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Ifeoluwapo Aduni Abe</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What should one do after accepting the truth about themselves that isn't pleasant? Aduni talks at length on what developing one's self entails and is particular about the difference between becoming a better version vs another version of yourself.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What should one do after accepting the truth about themselves that isn't pleasant? Aduni talks at length on what developing one's self entails and is particular about the difference between becoming a better version vs another version of yourself.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2090</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>clean</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5310cbee8b5fc2b72c5da4e120426742.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>S2E2 - Self Acceptance</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/s2e2-self-acceptance--47796213</link><description><![CDATA[Accepting there's a problem is the first step in dealing with the problem. That being said, in this episode Aduni explores the concept of self acceptance and why it is important to accept what is the way it is.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47796213</guid><pubDate>Sun, 05 Dec 2021 18:29:22 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47796213/imported_1638728899260931_audio.mp3" length="19189760" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Ifeoluwapo Aduni Abe</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Accepting there's a problem is the first step in dealing with the problem. That being said, in this episode Aduni explores the concept of self acceptance and why it is important to accept what is the way it is.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Accepting there's a problem is the first step in dealing with the problem. That being said, in this episode Aduni explores the concept of self acceptance and why it is important to accept what is the way it is.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1200</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>clean</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5310cbee8b5fc2b72c5da4e120426742.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Let's Sail Again, Shall We?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/let-s-sail-again-shall-we--47727649</link><description><![CDATA[After the long hiatus has come to an end, it is only right that I record and publish a welcome back episode filled with new updates about the podcast. Let's sail again, shall we?<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47727649</guid><pubDate>Wed, 01 Dec 2021 10:01:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47727649/imported_1638312614775987_audio.mp3" length="9496032" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Ifeoluwapo Aduni Abe</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>After the long hiatus has come to an end, it is only right that I record and publish a welcome back episode filled with new updates about the podcast. Let's sail again, shall we?</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[After the long hiatus has come to an end, it is only right that I record and publish a welcome back episode filled with new updates about the podcast. Let's sail again, shall we?<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>594</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>clean</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2d52a6c885ae9e4aa43aa415eaaa7fb7.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>S2E1 - Self Awareness</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/s2e1-self-awareness--44192676</link><description><![CDATA[The title for this season of the podcast is 'Within the self' and it is only right to start looking withing the self by being self aware. In this episode, Aduni speaks about knowing who you are and asks questions we should ask ourselves and answer honestly in order to be in the know; to be aware of our core being, beliefs and values.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/44192676</guid><pubDate>Sun, 04 Apr 2021 13:39:42 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/44192676/imported_1617543417530913_audio.mp3" length="21000755" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Ifeoluwapo Aduni Abe</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The title for this season of the podcast is 'Within the self' and it is only right to start looking withing the self by being self aware. In this episode, Aduni speaks about knowing who you are and asks questions we should ask ourselves and answer...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The title for this season of the podcast is 'Within the self' and it is only right to start looking withing the self by being self aware. In this episode, Aduni speaks about knowing who you are and asks questions we should ask ourselves and answer honestly in order to be in the know; to be aware of our core being, beliefs and values.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1313</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>self awareness</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>clean</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/7734e866d236befc150881e93b2eca39.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>#08: What do you have to say?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/08-what-do-you-have-to-say--42719725</link><description><![CDATA[As the year ends, it's undeniable that we all have something if not a lot to say about it. For that reason, Aduni took the time to discuss with 4 other people on what they have to say about the year 2020. From their social lives, to work and to personal relationships.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/42719725</guid><pubDate>Wed, 30 Dec 2020 11:35:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/42719725/imported_1609327067721136_audio.mp3" length="71712182" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Ifeoluwapo Aduni Abe</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>As the year ends, it's undeniable that we all have something if not a lot to say about it. For that reason, Aduni took the time to discuss with 4 other people on what they have to say about the year 2020. From their social lives, to work and to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[As the year ends, it's undeniable that we all have something if not a lot to say about it. For that reason, Aduni took the time to discuss with 4 other people on what they have to say about the year 2020. From their social lives, to work and to personal relationships.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4483</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>clean</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07049836eeab3c31179245288c4ce8c0.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>#07: Tick says the clock.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/07-tick-says-the-clock--42583295</link><description><![CDATA[Tick says the clock, tick tick, what you have to do, do quick. On this episode of Control with Aduni, she discusses being present and taking action rather than wishing away valuable, irretrievable time.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/42583295</guid><pubDate>Sun, 20 Dec 2020 16:21:14 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/42583295/imported_160848071466566_audio.mp3" length="17747800" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Ifeoluwapo Aduni Abe</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Tick says the clock, tick tick, what you have to do, do quick. On this episode of Control with Aduni, she discusses being present and taking action rather than wishing away valuable, irretrievable time.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Tick says the clock, tick tick, what you have to do, do quick. On this episode of Control with Aduni, she discusses being present and taking action rather than wishing away valuable, irretrievable time.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1110</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>mindfulness,self awareness,time consciousness</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>clean</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/df5bdd9fd6892e4188b6273c5c8320b0.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>#06: Apology not accepted.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/06-apology-not-accepted--42484922</link><description><![CDATA[Apologising is not the same as seeking forgiveness and there's a very thin line between the two actions. On this episode, Aduni makes an attempt to explain the differences and why your apology is not acceptable.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/42484922</guid><pubDate>Mon, 14 Dec 2020 18:59:46 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/42484922/imported_1607971877206803_audio.mp3" length="27736607" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Ifeoluwapo Aduni Abe</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Apologising is not the same as seeking forgiveness and there's a very thin line between the two actions. On this episode, Aduni makes an attempt to explain the differences and why your apology is not acceptable.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Apologising is not the same as seeking forgiveness and there's a very thin line between the two actions. On this episode, Aduni makes an attempt to explain the differences and why your apology is not acceptable.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1734</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>emotional intelligence,self awareness</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>clean</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/477919cd6934e69534c32630dc3d40e3.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>#05: Dear Friend or Acquaintance...</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/05-dear-friend-or-acquaintance--42343557</link><description><![CDATA[Relationships may be intangible but there are still some we value way more than others. Making sure you're aware of positions people occupy in your life and communicating that to them allows for healthy relationships without unnecessary expectations, that may lead to drama or disappointment. In this episode, Aduni speaks on the different categories friendships could be identified by.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/42343557</guid><pubDate>Sun, 06 Dec 2020 13:29:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/42343557/imported_1607260750993883_audio.mp3" length="22006804" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Ifeoluwapo Aduni Abe</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Relationships may be intangible but there are still some we value way more than others. Making sure you're aware of positions people occupy in your life and communicating that to them allows for healthy relationships without unnecessary expectations,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Relationships may be intangible but there are still some we value way more than others. Making sure you're aware of positions people occupy in your life and communicating that to them allows for healthy relationships without unnecessary expectations, that may lead to drama or disappointment. In this episode, Aduni speaks on the different categories friendships could be identified by.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1376</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>emotional intelligence,self awareness</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>clean</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e44403d8f7ff2e6a586c85138ed9a703.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>#04: Confrontation.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/04-confrontation--41989079</link><description><![CDATA[What comes to mind when we hear the word Confrontation? We inherently believe it to have a negative connotation, and this shouldn't necessarily be the case. For that reason, Aduni makes an attempt to answer the 5 W's and H questions about confrontation also introducing the inquiry method of handling confrontations.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/41989079</guid><pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2020 19:27:48 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/41989079/ep_4_confrontation.mp3" length="29812191" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Ifeoluwapo Aduni Abe</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What comes to mind when we hear the word Confrontation? We inherently believe it to have a negative connotation, and this shouldn't necessarily be the case. For that reason, Aduni makes an attempt to answer the 5 W's and H questions about...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What comes to mind when we hear the word Confrontation? We inherently believe it to have a negative connotation, and this shouldn't necessarily be the case. For that reason, Aduni makes an attempt to answer the 5 W's and H questions about confrontation also introducing the inquiry method of handling confrontations.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1864</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>emotional intelligence,self awareness</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>clean</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5f58678215ebfd3a9e228215c12c0f4c.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>#03: Silence.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/03-silence--41524163</link><description><![CDATA[With the recent happenings in Nigeria and especially in respect to the #EndSARS protests, Aduni discusses the concept of silence as to whether it is consent or not consent, giving instances to support the notion. Regardless, silence is golden.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/41524163</guid><pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2020 19:30:35 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/41524163/imported_1603049141258201_audio.mp3" length="30805934" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Ifeoluwapo Aduni Abe</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>With the recent happenings in Nigeria and especially in respect to the #EndSARS protests, Aduni discusses the concept of silence as to whether it is consent or not consent, giving instances to support the notion. Regardless, silence is golden.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[With the recent happenings in Nigeria and especially in respect to the #EndSARS protests, Aduni discusses the concept of silence as to whether it is consent or not consent, giving instances to support the notion. Regardless, silence is golden.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1926</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>activism,emotional intelligence,human rights</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>clean</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c1b3523a491f02b02e21ecdcdc899f02.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>#02: Boundaries</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/02-boundaries--41290193</link><description><![CDATA[We all have limits as humans and boundaries are what communicate that line; they are a deeply personal choice and for that reason, vary from one person to another. In this episode, Aduni discussed ways you can identify what your boundaries are and establishing those boundaries, as well as how to respect already set boundaries.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/41290193</guid><pubDate>Sun, 04 Oct 2020 12:12:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/41290193/imported_1601812690488525_audio.mp3" length="17979185" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Ifeoluwapo Aduni Abe</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We all have limits as humans and boundaries are what communicate that line; they are a deeply personal choice and for that reason, vary from one person to another. In this episode, Aduni discussed ways you can identify what your boundaries are and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We all have limits as humans and boundaries are what communicate that line; they are a deeply personal choice and for that reason, vary from one person to another. In this episode, Aduni discussed ways you can identify what your boundaries are and establishing those boundaries, as well as how to respect already set boundaries.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1124</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>emotional intelligence,interpersonal relationship,mindfulness</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>clean</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e6d0207d43e91f6433428cd96df561a0.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>#01: Positive Vibes Only</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/01-positive-vibes-only--41185206</link><description><![CDATA['Positive Vibes Only' creates an ideal that is unrealistic and almost unattainable as it breeds fear and intolerance for the balance life has to offer. In this episode, Aduni makes an attempt to explain the concept from her perspective and believes you can learn a thing or two.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">b7e2b8da-f108-4f1a-af10-db18afa2a0ed</guid><pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2020 01:28:24 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/41185206/https_d3ctxlq1ktw2nl_cloudfront_net_staging_2020_09_20_1f39f78f9290e3551d265328e610ae7a.mp3" length="14663813" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Ifeoluwapo Aduni Abe</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>'Positive Vibes Only' creates an ideal that is unrealistic and almost unattainable as it breeds fear and intolerance for the balance life has to offer. In this episode, Aduni makes an attempt to explain the concept from her perspective and believes...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA['Positive Vibes Only' creates an ideal that is unrealistic and almost unattainable as it breeds fear and intolerance for the balance life has to offer. In this episode, Aduni makes an attempt to explain the concept from her perspective and believes you can learn a thing or two.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>917</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>emotional intelligence,interpersonal relationship,positivity,self awareness</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>clean</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5310cbee8b5fc2b72c5da4e120426742.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Control with Aduni  (Trailer)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/control-with-aduni-trailer--41185207</link><description><![CDATA[Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/control-with-aduni--4599239/support</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">a7637b48-5042-4ad2-a73c-65e53faafc82</guid><pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2020 00:51:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/41185207/https_d3ctxlq1ktw2nl_cloudfront_net_staging_2020_8_20_109429717_44100_2_4683598c1772c.mp3" length="712619" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Ifeoluwapo Aduni Abe</itunes:author><itunes:duration>45</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>clean</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5310cbee8b5fc2b72c5da4e120426742.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>trailer</itunes:episodeType></item></channel></rss>
