http://www.olujare.com
In this journey of life, we develop many relationships - with God, with our families, friends, career, food etc.


My aim with this podcast is to share my opinions about these relationships based on personal and shared experiences - the highs and the lows and how we can wade through them to get through life and still have a sense of ‘somebodiness’. It’s Life As I See It.]]>enSelf-ImprovementCopyright Olujarehttps://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5cd4a2e29321fde720a89104ffdf99b2.jpghttp://www.olujare.comTue, 09 Jun 2026 23:51:36 +0000OlujareOlujaresoledivasng@gmail.comHi, I’m Jay and I’m a life enthusiast. My life is based mostly on my Faith, my Family, my love for Fashion and the finer things in life. In this journey of life, we develop many relationships - with God, with our families, friends, career, food etc....
In this journey of life, we develop many relationships - with God, with our families, friends, career, food etc.


My aim with this podcast is to share my opinions about these relationships based on personal and shared experiences - the highs and the lows and how we can wade through them to get through life and still have a sense of ‘somebodiness’. It’s Life As I See It.]]>falseepisodichttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/season-3-episode-2-dreams-detours-and-reality--72446224
If you have given up on those things that got you excited, this one is for you.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72446224Tue, 09 Jun 2026 23:48:30 +0000OlujareOn this episode, I talk about the reality of watching your dreams fade into the background because life is happening. If you have given up on those things that got you excited, this one is for you.
If you have given up on those things that got you excited, this one is for you.]]>486falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/season-3-episode-1-five-lessons-i-m-teaching-my-sons--70544165
They are growing into young adults and with the quality of men in the world today, it is important to me as a mother to instill values in them that will shape them into becoming men that people will want to associate with.

Well grounded and wholesome men.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70544165Mon, 09 Mar 2026 06:28:39 +0000OlujareOn this episode I share 5 lessons I’m intentionally teaching my sons as they settle into their teenage years. They are growing into young adults and with the quality of men in the world today, it is important to me as a mother to instill values in...
They are growing into young adults and with the quality of men in the world today, it is important to me as a mother to instill values in them that will shape them into becoming men that people will want to associate with.

Well grounded and wholesome men.]]>725faith,family,future,lifelessons,love,menfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/season-2-episode-12-small-girl-big-god--69257774
From family moments during the holidays to pursuing career goals and personal development

I open up about the lessons learned and the strength I found in vulnerability.

Join me as I talk about the pressures of self-imposed timelines, the importance of self-acceptance, and the journey towards finding balance and joy amidst life's unpredictability.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69257774Wed, 31 Dec 2025 09:09:23 +0000OlujareIn this last episode of the year, I reflect on challenges, and triumphs. From family moments during the holidays to pursuing career goals and personal development I open up about the lessons learned and the strength I found in vulnerability. Join...
From family moments during the holidays to pursuing career goals and personal development

I open up about the lessons learned and the strength I found in vulnerability.

Join me as I talk about the pressures of self-imposed timelines, the importance of self-acceptance, and the journey towards finding balance and joy amidst life's unpredictability.]]>901career,failure,faith,success,vulnerabilityfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/season-2-episode-11-micro-joys-and-mini-miracles--68832568
Life lately is a lot and can feel very heavy, how do you spark joy and kept it burning gently?]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68832568Tue, 02 Dec 2025 14:48:57 +0000OlujareOn this episode I talk about locking into your micro joys and mini miracles. Life lately is a lot and can feel very heavy, how do you spark joy and kept it burning gently?
Life lately is a lot and can feel very heavy, how do you spark joy and kept it burning gently?]]>537calm,faith,god,joy,life,love,miracles,peacefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/season-2-episode-ten-love-loss--68338590https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68338590Wed, 29 Oct 2025 18:51:59 +0000OlujareThis episode was inspired by my sister girl and It’s about death and grief and what we do with love that has no where to go.799death,grief,loss,lovefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/season-2-episode-eight-life-in-decades--68085958
I talk about how my experiences over the years have shaped me in this current decade.

A short and insightful episode]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68085958Fri, 10 Oct 2025 03:49:29 +0000OlujareOn this episode, I take you through the decades of my life I’ve lived so far. I talk about how my experiences over the years have shaped me in this current decade. A short and insightful episode
I talk about how my experiences over the years have shaped me in this current decade.

A short and insightful episode]]>787emotions,grief,growth,lovefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/season-2-episode-seven-getting-into-jay-s-mind--67499259https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67499259Sun, 24 Aug 2025 23:00:48 +0000OlujareOn this episode I answer questions from my family and friends that give you an insight into who I am.899boundaries,emotions,family,life,lifelessons,lovefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/season-2-episode-six-life-in-london-two-years-later--67146801https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67146801Sun, 27 Jul 2025 22:41:05 +0000OlujareOn this episode, I share a bit of what life has been like in England since two years of relocating from Nigeria616family,friends,marriage,purpose,workfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/season-2-episode-five-life-lessons--66359816https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66359816Sun, 01 Jun 2025 21:49:46 +0000OlujareOn this episode I share 4 lessons I’ve learned on my life journey. Lessons that have made life less burdensome and easier to navigate. Enjoy!706falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/season-2-episode-three-motherhood--65243175
I share some of my experiences on my journey as a mother.

I hope it resonates with you.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65243175Mon, 31 Mar 2025 02:20:08 +0000OlujareThis episode is dedicated to mothers to celebrate Mother’s Day. I share some of my experiences on my journey as a mother. I hope it resonates with you.
I share some of my experiences on my journey as a mother.

I hope it resonates with you.]]>674falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/season-2-episode-two-love-is-a-beautiful-thing--64279300https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64279300Sun, 09 Feb 2025 07:12:43 +0000OlujareIn this episode, I talk about romantic love and the reality of it. Moving from the honeymoon phase to see finish and finding your way to keeping the spark alive.704falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/season-2-episode-one-discontentment--63538807https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63538807Thu, 02 Jan 2025 00:08:15 +0000OlujareOn this episode I talk about the feeling of discontent and possible ways to tackle it. It’s the first episode for the year and one that should help you get into the right mindset.745falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-1-cheers-to-year-36--59679197https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59679197Sat, 27 Apr 2024 22:35:37 +0000OlujareIt’s the first episode this year, my birthday episode and I share a bit of the aspects of my life that define who Jay is. Hope you enjoy listening.646faith,family,love,money,selffalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-9-part-2-finding-a-balance-with-our-emotions--57756878
On this episode I share some of my experiences and my journey to leaning more towards my happy, cheerful self.

Remember to share with a friend or 2 or more, you never can tell who may need to listen]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57756878Tue, 21 Nov 2023 23:46:49 +0000OlujareGetting out of an emotional funk is one of the hardest things to do. On this episode I share some of my experiences and my journey to leaning more towards my happy, cheerful self. Remember to share with a friend or 2 or more, you never can tell who...
On this episode I share some of my experiences and my journey to leaning more towards my happy, cheerful self.

Remember to share with a friend or 2 or more, you never can tell who may need to listen]]>716falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-9-part-1-finding-your-safe-space-and-a-balance-in-your-emotions--57537157https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57537157Tue, 07 Nov 2023 00:27:09 +0000OlujareI talk about creating a safe space for yourself to unburden without fear of judgement or condemnation.649falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-8-understanding-conflicts-hurt-and-forgiveness-in-relationships--57346797https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57346797Sun, 22 Oct 2023 21:36:31 +0000OlujareOn this episode I talk about conflict resolution in relationships398falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-7-finances-self-fulfillment-in-marriage--51226973https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51226973Mon, 12 Sep 2022 09:08:49 +0000OlujareLong time no podcast. Today’s episode will be about Finances and Personal Fulfillment in marriage. I hope you learn a thing or two from here.817finance,marriage&family,money,selflove,senseofselffalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-6-overcoming-sexual-frustration--47008557https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47008557Sat, 16 Oct 2021 21:11:08 +0000OlujareOn this episode I talk about sex and overcoming sexual frustration as a woman. Conversations that need to be had.707climax,orgasm,sex,sexualabusefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-5-self-image-struggles--46768794https://api.spreaker.com/episode/46768794Fri, 01 Oct 2021 03:18:10 +0000OlujareOn this episode I talk about my self image struggles and connecting to my authentic self to find my beautiful. It is worth listening to.486body-positivity,confidence,selfimagefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-4-get-to-know-me--44376700
One lucky listener also stands a chance to win a pack of my card game - IGNITE THE SPARK. Enjoy]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/44376700Sun, 18 Apr 2021 05:53:45 +0000OlujareI get to share a bit of myself with you guys as I answer about 50 random life questions. One lucky listener also stands a chance to win a pack of my card game - IGNITE THE SPARK. Enjoy
One lucky listener also stands a chance to win a pack of my card game - IGNITE THE SPARK. Enjoy]]>879falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-3-part-2-discovering-your-purpose-part-2--41966674https://api.spreaker.com/episode/41966674Fri, 13 Nov 2020 23:30:45 +0000Olujare595faith,godslove,lifeasiseeit,life-lessons,purpose,purpose-driven-lifefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-3-part-i-discovering-your-purpose--41966508https://api.spreaker.com/episode/41966508Fri, 13 Nov 2020 23:19:00 +0000OlujareI share a few of the things I learnt from Rick Warren’s THE PURPOSE DRIVEN LIFE IN A 2 PART EPISODE792christian-living,faith,fulfilment,gods-love,life-lessons,love,purpose,purposedrivenlifefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-2-ii-getting-to-know-yourself-pt-2--40872599https://api.spreaker.com/episode/40872599Sun, 13 Sep 2020 00:20:38 +0000OlujareI share ways in which you can discover yourself and get to know who you are.688falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-2-i-getting-to-know-yourself--40872446https://api.spreaker.com/episode/40872446Sun, 13 Sep 2020 00:06:14 +0000OlujareI share different ways you can discover who you are and get to know yourself better.628family,life,personal-development,selfcarefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-1-faith-passion-reality--28676028https://api.spreaker.com/episode/28676028Sat, 30 May 2020 01:19:03 +0000OlujareGoing through an old blog post, I thought to share my thoughts on Faith, Passion & Reality. I’d love to read your thoughts on this one. Please comment below.854falsefull