https://www.spreaker.com/show/love-capacity-podcastenKids & FamilyCopyright Divorce Is Not An Optionhttps://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/7cf6fffade1b0c5ea22ef9fff7005538.jpghttps://www.spreaker.com/show/love-capacity-podcastFri, 02 Dec 2022 03:14:34 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionDivorce Is Not An Optionfeeds@spreaker.comLove Capacity is the measure of your ability to receive, provide and be accountable for an unconditional, forgiving, profoundly tender, passionate affection to another person. Go to LoveCapacity.com and take your Love Capacity Quiz . . . the quiz only...cleanepisodichttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/love-capacity-quiz-score-4-afraidtag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/801243487Sat, 18 Apr 2020 00:39:06 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionAfraid: You are adamantly against taking any emotional risk. You are not only afraid to love, you are also afraid of being loved because of your fear of letting your guard down. In each of your past relationships you purposely hold back or you believe...1414cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/love-capacity-quiz-score-3-confused
You have been loved but not the way that you wanted to be loved. You have loved others but not the way that they wanted to be loved. Because of your past painful experiences, you hesitate to exhibit love for your partner until they have shown you love first. In this game of “protecting your heart” no one wins. Once you learn that you may get hurt in the process of loving someone, you will gain the clarity that you need to move past your relationship disappointments. You have to be willing to get hurt to win at love.

Be sure to call into the Love Capacity Hotline and share your story after you take your quiz: (214) 744-3685.]]>tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/796237270Sat, 11 Apr 2020 18:42:43 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionSo today we are talking about the Love Capacity Score = 3, which means Confused. The Definition of Confused is: You have been loved but not the way that you wanted to be loved. You have loved others but not the way that they wanted to be loved....
You have been loved but not the way that you wanted to be loved. You have loved others but not the way that they wanted to be loved. Because of your past painful experiences, you hesitate to exhibit love for your partner until they have shown you love first. In this game of “protecting your heart” no one wins. Once you learn that you may get hurt in the process of loving someone, you will gain the clarity that you need to move past your relationship disappointments. You have to be willing to get hurt to win at love.

Be sure to call into the Love Capacity Hotline and share your story after you take your quiz: (214) 744-3685.]]>1335cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/digging-deeper-into-the-love-capacity-sctag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/772298836Sat, 07 Mar 2020 17:24:39 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionReceived some good feedback and additional questions on our last Podcast on Love Capacity Score: 2 = Damaged. So we wanted to dig into that a little bit more. Answer some questions for caller. Review a couple of points. Let's go! Subscribe and follow!1766cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/love-capacity-quiz-score-2-damagedYou still believe in love but you are concerned that love as you believe it to be may not be attainable. You do not trust the opposite sex to match your ability to provide, receive and be accountable for love. You are angry and hurt and you stayed far too long in a very bad relationship. Take some time to heal from your emotional disappointments. Take some time to forgive those who hurt you. Healing is for you. Forgiveness is for them. Without the ability to heal, without the ability to forgive, there is not ability to accomplish true love.]]>tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/762502375Tue, 18 Feb 2020 04:13:25 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionLove Capacity Score: 2 = Damaged You still believe in love but you are concerned that love as you believe it to be may not be attainable. You do not trust the opposite sex to match your ability to provide, receive and be accountable for love. You are...You still believe in love but you are concerned that love as you believe it to be may not be attainable. You do not trust the opposite sex to match your ability to provide, receive and be accountable for love. You are angry and hurt and you stayed far too long in a very bad relationship. Take some time to heal from your emotional disappointments. Take some time to forgive those who hurt you. Healing is for you. Forgiveness is for them. Without the ability to heal, without the ability to forgive, there is not ability to accomplish true love.]]>1246cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/love-capacity-quiz-podcast-i-am-confusedtag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/757886560Sun, 09 Feb 2020 21:48:26 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionToday on the Love Capacity Quiz Podcast we talk about when a person is confused about their next move in a relationship. We also answer 3 questions from callers. Be sure to call into the Love Capacity Quiz Podcast Hotline and leave your relationship...1350cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/love-capacity-score-1-self-centered
Be sure to subscribe to our podcast!]]>tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/749038867Sat, 25 Jan 2020 01:14:16 +0000Divorce Is Not An Option1 – Self-Centered:: You may be single, married, or dating. But what is certain is that you’ve totally given up on love. Receive love? You can do. Provide love or be accountable for love? Not your priority. You have vowed to make the best decisions for...
Be sure to subscribe to our podcast!]]>862cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/introducing-the-love-capacity-quiz
Visit LoveCapacity.com and take the quiz and you get your Love Capacity Quiz Score, Score Title and your Score Description.]]>tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/746215882Mon, 20 Jan 2020 03:28:44 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionLove Capacity is the measure of your ability to receive, provide and be accountable for an unconditional, forgiving, profoundly tender, passionate affection to another person. Visit LoveCapacity.com and take the quiz and you get your Love Capacity...
Visit LoveCapacity.com and take the quiz and you get your Love Capacity Quiz Score, Score Title and your Score Description.]]>827cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/episode-29-5-reasons-to-fight-for-your-mtag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/405222315Mon, 26 Feb 2018 00:00:00 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionToday’s show is about “5 Reasons to Fight For Your Marriage”. Too many couples blame the institution of marriage instead of taking responsibility themselves. Which is why I don't believe in marriage counseling anymore. I believe in husband coaching...1844cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/episode-28-10-steps-to-better-sex_1tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/399343269Tue, 13 Feb 2018 00:00:00 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionThis week we are talking about "10 Steps To Better Sex". We approach this topic from initially from a healthy and fitness standpoint before we get down to the nitty gritty. We talk about how what you eat affects your health and how your heath affects...2087cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/episode-27-3-dimensions-of-lovetag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/395187324Tue, 06 Feb 2018 00:00:00 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionWith Valentine's Day right around the corner it is time for us to revisit Love Capacity. On today's show we talk with Sean from Houston, Shanice from Denver, Toya from Michigan, James from Jacksonville, Stacy Lee from Chicago and we have a mystery...1897cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/episode-26-5-reasons-why-my-relationship
1.) He loves me
2.) He is romantic
3.) He is supportive
4.) He is caring
5.) He loves his daughter.]]>tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/390634050Sun, 28 Jan 2018 00:00:00 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionToday we are talking about an article on StevenJamesDixon.com called “5 Reasons Why My Relationship Works With My Drug Addicted Boyfriend.” I will give you the 5 Reasons she stayed but you still have to listen . . . Deal? Okay, cool: 1.) He loves me...
1.) He loves me
2.) He is romantic
3.) He is supportive
4.) He is caring
5.) He loves his daughter.]]>2077cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/episode-25-the-one-thing-that-you-can-do_1tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/385723205Thu, 18 Jan 2018 00:00:00 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionIn this week's podcast we talk about an article on Ebony.com (@EbonyMag) by SHANTELL E. JAMISON (@ShanTell_em) called "This Couple Saved Their Marriage By Asking One Important Question."1837cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/episode-24-the-difference-between-money-tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/385280126Wed, 10 Jan 2018 00:00:00 +0000Divorce Is Not An Option"The Money Episode" - Today we are talking about student loans, car loans, mortgages, cash, credit, investments. A little bit of everything. Enjoy! Tell a friend. Subscribe to our podcast. Thanks!2168cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/episode-23-3-reasons-why-problem-solving_1tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/366112937Thu, 07 Dec 2017 00:00:00 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionIn today's episode we talk about why problem solving is so difficult for married folks. What do people mean when they say compromise, negotiate, sacrifice? Do marriages really have peaks and valley's and good times and bad? Good conversation today....2921cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/episode-22-3-of-the-most-common-financia_1tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/362806667Thu, 30 Nov 2017 00:00:00 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionIn today's podcast we talk about a lot of financial mistakes that people make every day that are not considered mistakes. Mistakes like the 30 year loan versus the 15 year loan. Not maxing out the $18,000 per year that you can put in your 401K. Car...2987cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/episode-21-be-a-freak-for-your-spouse-se_1
1.)Step #8 - Resetting Sexual Expectations
2.)Step #9 – Scheduling A Sexual Experience
3.)Step #10 - Being a Freak for your spouse.

Follow! Repost! Tweet! Tell-A-Friend! Enjoy!]]>tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/356928275Fri, 17 Nov 2017 00:00:00 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionThis week we are talking about husbands and wives having mo' and mo' better sex in marriage. We are focusing on three things this week: 1.)Step #8 - Resetting Sexual Expectations 2.)Step #9 – Scheduling A Sexual Experience 3.)Step #10 - Being a...
1.)Step #8 - Resetting Sexual Expectations
2.)Step #9 – Scheduling A Sexual Experience
3.)Step #10 - Being a Freak for your spouse.

Follow! Repost! Tweet! Tell-A-Friend! Enjoy!]]>2780sexymarriagescleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/episode-20-10-pounds-for-love-10pounds4l_1tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/348467937Tue, 24 Oct 2017 00:00:00 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionRecently I was asked a very interesting question. "What topic is the most difficult to discuss with couples that come to you for relationship coaching?" I took a moment to consider topics such as finances, cheating, communication, and sex but I...282410pounds4lovecleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/episode-19-10-ways-to-go-from-girlfriend_2tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/348241333Mon, 23 Oct 2017 00:00:00 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionHere are the "10 Ways To Go From Girlfriend to Wife" - 1.) Be a Woman All Day, Everywhere 2.) Be Independent 3.) Stay On Your Tippy Toes 4.) Turn His House Into a Home 5.) Be a Godly Woman 6.) Watch His Momma, Do What She Do 7.) Challenge Him 8.) Be...2927cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/episode-18-submission-vs-independence-wh_1tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/345533307Thu, 05 Oct 2017 00:00:00 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionToday we discuss an article on StevenJamesDixon.com called Episode 18 "Submission vs. Independence" – What Do Men Really Want? During the podcast we will talk about two examples of submission and two examples of independence. Thanks for listening!...2950cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/episode-17-stupid-questions-that-men-ask_1
"Stupid Questions That Women Ask Men." 1.) Where is this relationship going? 2.) At what point do you think you will be ready for a commitment? 3.) What made you chose her? Why her? Who is she? Follow our podcast on Spreaker! Thanks!]]>tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/344431845Thu, 28 Sep 2017 00:00:00 +0000Divorce Is Not An Option"Stupid Questions That Men Ask Women" - 1.) Do you want to a divorce? 2.) What do you want from me? 3.) How can we work things out and meet halfway? "Stupid Questions That Women Ask Men." 1.) Where is this relationship going? 2.) At what point do...
"Stupid Questions That Women Ask Men." 1.) Where is this relationship going? 2.) At what point do you think you will be ready for a commitment? 3.) What made you chose her? Why her? Who is she? Follow our podcast on Spreaker! Thanks!]]>2954cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/episode-16-you-dont-know-nothing-about-l_1
"Love Capacity is the measure of your ability to receive, provide and be accountable for an unconditional, forgiving, profoundly tender, passionate affection to another person."]]>tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/343465302Thu, 21 Sep 2017 00:00:00 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionThis week on the podcast we talked about the concept of Love Capacity in detail so this will be a very interesting show. Even more interesting if you have your score in hand! Some people will be mad. So what! It is not my fault. IT IS YOUR SCORE!...
"Love Capacity is the measure of your ability to receive, provide and be accountable for an unconditional, forgiving, profoundly tender, passionate affection to another person."]]>2730cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/episode-15-war-the-black-man-vs-the-blac_1
We ask the question "Should Black women move past the preference of marrying a black man?"]]>tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/342126469Wed, 13 Sep 2017 00:00:00 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionBlackDemographics.com - There are about 364,000 more Black men who are married than Black women. An overwhelming percentage of Black women are married to Black men (94%), about 86% of Black men are married to Black women." We ask the question "Should...
We ask the question "Should Black women move past the preference of marrying a black man?"]]>2871cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/divorce-is-not-an-option-episode-14-the-tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/309124750Thu, 23 Feb 2017 00:00:00 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionThis week we are talking about Awkward Relationship Coaching Sessions. We talk about reasons to break off a relationship like "Your dude being a drug dealer" or "Your girl wanting a thug instead of a nice guy." We talk about dating married men. We...2761cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/divorce-is-not-an-option-episode-13-yourtag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/305714322Thu, 02 Feb 2017 00:00:00 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionCongrats to Tamara and her new husband! They were married over the weekend and are on their honeymoon this week so I had to pull up Chapters 9 & 10 from the audio book "Men Don't Heal, We Ho" for your listening pleasure. Take your #LoveCapacity Quiz...2870cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/divorce-is-not-an-option-episode-12-is-stag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/303620632Fri, 20 Jan 2017 00:00:00 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionIf you are listening to this . . . Donald Trump is President. We talk about the Obama years. Did Obama do enough for black people? How about poor people? Is Steve Harvey an Uncle Tom? Have you been paying attention to Trump's Cabinet picks? All this...2803cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/divorce-is-not-an-option-episode-11-nego1. Talk your issues out.
2. Choose the right time and situation.
3. Address one or two specific behaviors at a time.
4. Use “I” statements.
5. Make it a give-and-take.
6. Keep things light.]]>tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/302301402Thu, 12 Jan 2017 00:00:00 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionThis week Steven and Tamara talk about 6 tips for "Negotiating With The Spouse". Article from HuffPost. 1. Talk your issues out. 2. Choose the right time and situation. 3. Address one or two specific behaviors at a time. 4. Use “I” statements. 5....1. Talk your issues out.
2. Choose the right time and situation.
3. Address one or two specific behaviors at a time.
4. Use “I” statements.
5. Make it a give-and-take.
6. Keep things light.]]>2622cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/divorce-is-not-an-option-episode-10-staytag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/301163758Fri, 06 Jan 2017 00:00:00 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionIn this episode Tamara and Steven discuss a number of marriages, their problems, the proposed solutions and developing an attitude of "Stay Married or Die Trying!"2744cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/divorce-is-not-an-option-episode-9-hos-gtag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/297983249Thu, 15 Dec 2016 00:00:00 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionIn this week's podcast we talk a little bit about submission, a lotta bit about leadership. We mix in some talk about the differences between Relationships and Marriage. Finished up with some controversial political talk. We had fun! You will too! Enjoy!2699cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/divorce-is-not-an-option-episode-8-if-thtag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/296624429Wed, 07 Dec 2016 00:00:00 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionTamara's getting married! We got the story of how her future husband proposed. I also tell the story of how I asked my wife to marry me. We also discuss the HBO hit series "Insecure" and we round out the show with some political talk. Enjoy!2583cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/divorce-is-not-an-option-episode-7-you-ttag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/295458123Tue, 29 Nov 2016 00:00:00 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionDuring this episode I tell a story about a husband and wife who actually know how to do this marriage thang. Also for your listening pleasure Chapter 7 "Back in the dating game" and Chapter 8 "All women are the same" from the audio book "Men Don't...2785cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/divorce-is-not-an-option-episode-6-why-itag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/294371596Wed, 23 Nov 2016 00:00:00 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionThis podcast will serve three purposes. Purpose #1 is to say to the Black Man, “You Take For Granted From Whence You Came.” Purpose #2 is to say to the Black Woman, “Your Imperfection Is What Has Made You Perfect.” Purpose #3 . . . Love who loves you.2840cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/divorce-is-not-an-option-episode-5-imma-tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/293591366Tue, 15 Nov 2016 00:00:00 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionDue to a family emergency we were not able to record a new show this week. However, we still wanted to provide our listeners with some audio entertainment. This week you get to listen to Chapters 4, 5 and 6 of the audio book "Men Don't Heal, We Ho."...2335cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/divorce-is-not-an-option-episode-4-dont-tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/292340848Thu, 10 Nov 2016 00:00:00 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionTamara and I were not able to record a new podcast this week so I am releasing the first three chapters of my audiobook "Men Don't Heal, We Ho" for your listening pleasure. Don't forget to subscribe/follow our podcast!2715cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/divorce-is-not-an-option-episode-3-how-t
How To Save A Marriage In One Year.
Step #1: For the first three months, it is self evaluation time. Are you a part of the problem?
Step #2: For the next three more months purge your anger. Get rid of your heartache and disappointment and most of all stop feeling sorry for yourself.
Step #3: Your first six months of the year are the easy part, now it’s time for some hard work. Re-learn your spouse. Observe them. Start over from scratch. Who are you married to?

Call and leave your thoughts about the podcast call this number: 469-294-3795.]]>tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/290914394Tue, 01 Nov 2016 00:00:00 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionPlease subscribe / follow the "Divorce Is Not An Option" Podcast on Spreaker, iTunes, Podcast, SoundCloud, Google Play or wherever you listen to podcasts. How To Save A Marriage In One Year. Step #1: For the first three months, it is self...
How To Save A Marriage In One Year.
Step #1: For the first three months, it is self evaluation time. Are you a part of the problem?
Step #2: For the next three more months purge your anger. Get rid of your heartache and disappointment and most of all stop feeling sorry for yourself.
Step #3: Your first six months of the year are the easy part, now it’s time for some hard work. Re-learn your spouse. Observe them. Start over from scratch. Who are you married to?

Call and leave your thoughts about the podcast call this number: 469-294-3795.]]>2047cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/episode-2-why-you-will-marry-the-wrong-ptag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/289843508Tue, 25 Oct 2016 03:56:47 +0000Divorce Is Not An Option"Why You Will Marry The Wrong Person" is an article by Alain de Botton that was published on the NewYorkTimes.com on May 28, 2016. During this podcast we discuss the article and introduce a new co-host: Tamara Glaspie. Be sure to subscribe / follow...2620cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/divorce-is-not-an-option-episode-2-why-ytag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/290342939Fri, 14 Oct 2016 00:00:00 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionWhy You Will Marry The Wrong Person is an article by Alain de Botton that was published on the NewYorkTimes.com on May 28, 2016. During this podcast we discuss the article and introduce a new co-host: Tamara Glaspie. Be sure to subscribe / follow our...2620cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/dinao/episode-1-no-sex-for-single-women-day
In 2011 hundreds of women vowed to stop giving up their sex for free. In 2012 we picked up some momentum and even more women agreed to the challenge.

Then 2013, 2014, 2015 and now in 2016 the 5th Anniversary of “No Sex For Single Women Day” we need hundreds of thousands of women to increase their standards for providing no strings attached sex.

Single women - I want to hear from you. We are launching the first ever Divorce is not an Option podcast and I want to know how you feel about No Sex for Single Women Day. Leave me a voicemail at +469-294-3795
and your voicemail could be featured on an upcoming podcast.]]>tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/280798281Wed, 31 Aug 2016 20:25:39 +0000Divorce Is Not An OptionThe first Monday in September is Labor Day. Labor = Work. No Sex For Single Women Day is the first Tuesday in September because that Monday, Labor Day, should serve as a reminder to single women that their sex should be worked for. In 2011 hundreds...
In 2011 hundreds of women vowed to stop giving up their sex for free. In 2012 we picked up some momentum and even more women agreed to the challenge.

Then 2013, 2014, 2015 and now in 2016 the 5th Anniversary of “No Sex For Single Women Day” we need hundreds of thousands of women to increase their standards for providing no strings attached sex.

Single women - I want to hear from you. We are launching the first ever Divorce is not an Option podcast and I want to know how you feel about No Sex for Single Women Day. Leave me a voicemail at +469-294-3795
and your voicemail could be featured on an upcoming podcast.]]>2195cleanfull