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I've spent the past six years dealing with divorce attorneys, custody issues, parental alienation, and inflated spousal support payments.<br /><br />Don’t make the same mistakes I did – subscribe to "Lessons Learned from my Sh*tty Divorce" and learn how to balance the scales of justice a bit more in your favor.]]></description><atom:link href="https://www.spreaker.com/show/4111182/episodes/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><language>en</language><category>Society &amp; Culture</category><copyright>Copyright Joe Edwards</copyright><image><url>https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/fa91e645b5d82198db258c4ad0127fd4.jpg</url><title>Lessons Learned from my Sh*tty Divorce</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lessons-learned-from-my-sh-tty-divorce--4111182</link></image><lastBuildDate>Wed, 07 Apr 2021 15:56:55 +0000</lastBuildDate><itunes:author>Joe Edwards</itunes:author><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Joe Edwards</itunes:name><itunes:email>feeds@spreaker.com</itunes:email></itunes:owner><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/fa91e645b5d82198db258c4ad0127fd4.jpg"/><itunes:subtitle>Think you might be headed for a contentious divorce, or maybe you’ve already started down the path? 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I've spent the past six years dealing with divorce attorneys, custody issues, parental alienation, and inflated spousal support payments.<br /><br />Don’t make the same mistakes I did – subscribe to "Lessons Learned from my Sh*tty Divorce" and learn how to balance the scales of justice a bit more in your favor.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:category text="Society &amp; Culture"/><itunes:explicit>clean</itunes:explicit><itunes:type>serial</itunes:type><item><title>Episode 01: Navigating a Contentious Divorce (AKA - Wake up before you go go)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-01-navigating-a-contentious-divorce-aka-wake-up-before-you-go-go--19603431</link><description><![CDATA[Think you might be heading for a contentious divorce? 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Additional resources referenced in this episode: &#13;
(1) www.calalimonyreform.org/home.html &#13;
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