http://www.letsnotbetrash.comenComedyCopyright Be Heard Talkhttps://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b2ddb806dcd2825a8df1fd652db320d6.jpghttp://www.letsnotbetrash.comMon, 04 Mar 2024 10:29:22 +0000Be Heard TalkBe Heard Talksfritz86@gmail.comA Podcast for Multidimensional Men.trueepisodichttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/beyond-budden-don-t-try-to-save-people-at-the-strip-club--45102540https://api.spreaker.com/episode/45102540Wed, 02 Jun 2021 15:21:29 +0000Be Heard TalkEvan and Joel, are joined by Natalie Peña & Nkwa Asonye their LNBT cohost debut (and Patrick joins from the road in the second half). They discuss the broader issues of workplace harassment that Joe Budden demonstrated in his actions at his podcast...5249budden,club,feminism,gender,harassment,love,masculinity,men,patriarchy,sex,strip,women,worktruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/white-wakanda--44599243https://api.spreaker.com/episode/44599243Sun, 02 May 2021 21:59:32 +0000Be Heard TalkOn this episode of Let's Not Be Trash: Trash Talk, Evan, Funnyman Stan, and Patrick discuss what these youngins think they know, what they don't, Seinfeld v. Friends (Seinfeld), flats v. drums (flats, though not unanimous), Tim Scott and Kamala Harris...4571america,biden,blm,chicken,friends,kamala,nyc,racism,republicans,seinfeld,wingstruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/have-yall-even-tried-soap--44566407https://api.spreaker.com/episode/44566407Fri, 30 Apr 2021 01:41:29 +0000Be Heard TalkEvan, Stan F., and Joel discuss triflin' male hygiene deficiency (TMHD) and how it connects to misogyny, the concept of repurposed misandry, and unpack the intricacies of being confident in your appearance.3712ass,comedy,dating,feminism,hygiene,masculinity,misandry,misogyny,orgies,orgy,sex,soap,washtruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/where-the-box-spring-at--43711577
0:00 - 15: 27 - Stan D. dated somebody without a bed (by her choice)
15:27 - 35:47 Intro & tangent into Hatian and Italian names
35:47 - 1:22: 59 - Chris D'Elia and closing]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/43711577Wed, 03 Mar 2021 01:04:14 +0000Be Heard TalkStan D., Stan T., Patrick, and Evan discuss a relationship with no bed, go on a tangent into Haitian and Italian names, and Chris D'Elia's recent video discussing his indiscretions. 0:00 - 15: 27 - Stan D. dated somebody without a bed (by her...
0:00 - 15: 27 - Stan D. dated somebody without a bed (by her choice)
15:27 - 35:47 Intro & tangent into Hatian and Italian names
35:47 - 1:22: 59 - Chris D'Elia and closing]]>4979assault,beds,consent,dating,haitian,italian,love,masculinity,men,relationships,sex,sexualtruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/mickey-d-s-and-a-rolly-for-vday-not-together--43564553https://api.spreaker.com/episode/43564553Sun, 21 Feb 2021 03:52:31 +0000Be Heard TalkEvan, Stan, and Patrick start on an absolute tangent discussing Connecticut v. NY drivers and the MTA before exchanges valentine and romantic woes.4881bronx,brooklyn,comedians,comedy,connecticut,dating,day,love,mta,nyc,public,queens,rolex,romance,sex,transportation,valentine'struefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-was-january--43313037https://api.spreaker.com/episode/43313037Sat, 06 Feb 2021 01:53:00 +0000Be Heard TalkEvan, Courtney, and Patrick discuss how to process January 2021 we enter February, Black History Month, and continue an ongoing discussion of dating habits that drive us buck ass wild. They also pay homage to legends who have passed away, Hank Aaron...5987aaron,acting,baseball,black,cicely,comedy,communication,dating,denzel,film,ghosting,history,january,love,politics,romance,sports,toxictruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-ghost-block-the-approach-and-the-brave--43098334
0:00 - Intros and "outdoor dining" during Covid
3:30 - Ghost-blocking
15:40 - Responding to a thread on how to 'respectfully' approach women
35:33 - The Inaguration, shade, shine, and the road forward.
49:15 - Big updates for Courtney]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/43098334Mon, 25 Jan 2021 00:02:30 +0000Be Heard TalkEvan and Courtney discuss the frustration of the 'ghost-block,' respond to a thread on how to respectfully approach women, and reactions to the inauguration of President Biden, VP Harris, and what it means going forward. 0:00 - Intros and "outdoor...
0:00 - Intros and "outdoor dining" during Covid
3:30 - Ghost-blocking
15:40 - Responding to a thread on how to 'respectfully' approach women
35:33 - The Inaguration, shade, shine, and the road forward.
49:15 - Big updates for Courtney]]>3341biden,communication,dating,ghosting,inauguration,kamala,politics,racism,relationships,sexismtruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/where-we-came-from-where-we-are-and-where-to-go-from-here-feat-hernan-carvente-martinez--43019564
8:17: Evan and Stan D. stop talking about cars

8:18: We remember to introduce the show.

Round 2 min later: We talk about the Capitol riots and hoe ass logic

17:00 - Interview w/ Hernán re: prison and police reform v. foundational change, and 70 million Trumps supporters.

1:00:00 - Courtney joins and gives his take on the discussion re: 70 million Trump supporters

Check out the following organizations mentioned in the podcast:

https://www.healingninjas.org/
Instagram: @consentisthestandard]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/43019564Wed, 20 Jan 2021 02:47:31 +0000Be Heard TalkPatrick, Stan D., and Evan are joined by prison reformer, health & wellness advocate, and youth mentor, Hernán Carvente Martínez to discuss what rehabilitation, accountability, and justice can truly look like. Brief appearance by our man Courtney...
8:17: Evan and Stan D. stop talking about cars

8:18: We remember to introduce the show.

Round 2 min later: We talk about the Capitol riots and hoe ass logic

17:00 - Interview w/ Hernán re: prison and police reform v. foundational change, and 70 million Trumps supporters.

1:00:00 - Courtney joins and gives his take on the discussion re: 70 million Trump supporters

Check out the following organizations mentioned in the podcast:

https://www.healingninjas.org/
Instagram: @consentisthestandard]]>4683advocacy,health,incarceration,latino,mental,police,policing,prison,reform,wellnesstruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/america-season-finale-pt--42891451https://api.spreaker.com/episode/42891451Tue, 12 Jan 2021 01:18:19 +0000Be Heard TalkLet's Not Be Trash: Trash Talk returns with a BBQs sized cup of flaming basura of dangerous white nonsense for the first show of 2021. Patrick and Evan (and a brief cameo by Courtney) discuss the Domestic Terrorist Insurgence on the Capitol.37482020,2021,america,democracy,democrats,insurgence,politics,republicans,sedition,terrorism,treason,trump,usatruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/a-journey-of-afrodominicanxthings-w-danyeli-rodriguez-del-orbe--40906189
They discuss immigrant experiences across coasts, misinformation and anti-blackness between Dominican and Haitian communities, and what masculinity looks like in 2020 and how far it has to go to be equitable for all genders active in dismantling sexism.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/40906189Tue, 15 Sep 2020 02:08:57 +0000Be Heard TalkEvan and Stan are joined by poet, author, and activist Danyeli Rodríguez del Orbe, founder of afrodominicanxthings platform on Instagram and co-host of Loose Accents podcast. They discuss immigrant experiences across coasts, misinformation and...
They discuss immigrant experiences across coasts, misinformation and anti-blackness between Dominican and Haitian communities, and what masculinity looks like in 2020 and how far it has to go to be equitable for all genders active in dismantling sexism.]]>4061anti-blackness,colonization,colorism,dating,dominican,dominicana,haiti,hatian,immigrants,immigration,latina,latino,latinx,love,masculinity,patriarchy,poets,racism,sex,sexismtruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/entitlement-decency-acceptance-hey-big-head--40903718https://api.spreaker.com/episode/40903718Mon, 14 Sep 2020 23:03:56 +0000Be Heard TalkEvan is joined by Courtney Starks, and returning co-hosts Jordan Taylor and Patrick Mackendy to draw on personal experience and socialized norms discuss a few topics frequently conflated in modern dating.4025dating,entitlement,love,misogyny,patriarchy,privlege,racism,romance,sex,sexismtruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/haiti-dr-anti-blackness-and-anti-brutality--40687103https://api.spreaker.com/episode/40687103Fri, 04 Sep 2020 00:33:44 +0000Be Heard TalkJordan Taylor and activist, organizer, and photographer, Jay Espinoza to discuss anti-blackness ans the divide between Hatian and Dominican communities at home and abroad. We also revisit the status of Joe Biden's campaign and policing.47012020,biden,black,brutality,diaspora,dominican,dr,election,haiti,haitian,latino,police,policing,politics,racismfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/this-is-what-it-looks-like-men-masculinitly-and-mental-health-within-black-creatives-and-media--40067004
We have an amazing panel of guests including:

Coutrney Starks, Host, Courtney's Corner
Jordan Taylor, BLM activist, Hudson Valley, Writer, Comic
Patrick Mackendy - Writer, Founder, "Write Night"
Jamall Blake - Founder, blkmttrmvmt
Justin Jenkins, Writer, thegqgentlemen; Writer and Producer, cre8tivetibe.

Co-hosted by Comedian, Stan Talouis]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/40067004Fri, 31 Jul 2020 02:01:39 +0000Be Heard TalkOn this special Episode of Let's Not Be Trash We have an amazing panel of guests including: Coutrney Starks, Host, Courtney's Corner Jordan Taylor, BLM activist, Hudson Valley, Writer, Comic Patrick Mackendy - Writer, Founder, "Write Night"...
We have an amazing panel of guests including:

Coutrney Starks, Host, Courtney's Corner
Jordan Taylor, BLM activist, Hudson Valley, Writer, Comic
Patrick Mackendy - Writer, Founder, "Write Night"
Jamall Blake - Founder, blkmttrmvmt
Justin Jenkins, Writer, thegqgentlemen; Writer and Producer, cre8tivetibe.

Co-hosted by Comedian, Stan Talouis]]>8299falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-s-left-to-say-what-s-left-to-do--28968198https://api.spreaker.com/episode/28968198Wed, 03 Jun 2020 01:28:19 +0000Be Heard TalkStan and Evan dedicate this show to discuss how we can still laugh during these times, the continued protests, riots, and responses regarding George Floyd's murder and the decades long pattern of systemic police brutality against black people.3652brutality,comedian,comedy,justice,podcast,police,protests,race,racism,riots,socialtruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/comedy-consent-cops--28559159https://api.spreaker.com/episode/28559159Thu, 28 May 2020 18:10:24 +0000Be Heard TalkStan and Evan talk about the intricacies as to what qualifies as comedy, good comedy, and Stan discusses more details about the industry itself. We then revisit the Ahmaud Arbery murder and the ongoing issue of police brutality in the US. We close by...3191assault,brutality,comedy,consent,cops,masculinity,policing,race,racism,rape,sex,sexismtruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/albanian-all-stars-w-nfl-de-kristjan-sokoli-comedian-leonarda-jonie-director-redon-demushi--28091523
Stan and Evan are joined by NFL DE, Kristjan Sokoli, Comedian, Leonarda Jonie, & Director, Redon Demushi. We discuss gender, sports, comedy, art, politics, and family as they relate to Albania and the US. A war in the Balkans did not break out, as Leonarda had expected, once a critical mass of "Shqipes" congregated. Although there is still time.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/28091523Fri, 22 May 2020 23:06:46 +0000Be Heard TalkThree Albanians, an Italian, and a Haitian Walk Into a Zoom (and leave w/ a construction contract). Stan and Evan are joined by NFL DE, Kristjan Sokoli, Comedian, Leonarda Jonie, & Director, Redon Demushi. We discuss gender, sports, comedy, art,...
Stan and Evan are joined by NFL DE, Kristjan Sokoli, Comedian, Leonarda Jonie, & Director, Redon Demushi. We discuss gender, sports, comedy, art, politics, and family as they relate to Albania and the US. A war in the Balkans did not break out, as Leonarda had expected, once a critical mass of "Shqipes" congregated. Although there is still time.]]>5714albania,albanians,comedians,comedy,football,gender,haitians,italians,masculinity,nfl,poltics,sex,shqipe,sportstruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/this-is-quaratnine-talkbout-dating-policing-aim-dail-up-baseball-and-the-bible-for-an-hour-and-a-half--27539983https://api.spreaker.com/episode/27539983Sun, 17 May 2020 01:43:35 +0000Be Heard TalkTitle is self explanatory.6144aim,baseball,bible,communication,coronavirus,covid,love,masculinity,policing,quarantine,relationships,religion,sex,sportstruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/revisiting-consent-the-friendzone-and-our-political-choices-in-2020--26807994
The three revisit consent and the friendzone in wake of allegations of sexual misconduct and assault against two prominent influencers.

We also discuss how to approach voting in 2020, given the choices we have--and what our vote really means.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/26807994Wed, 06 May 2020 02:11:55 +0000Be Heard TalkEvan is joined by both co-hosts, Stanley Fritz and Stan Talouis. The three revisit consent and the friendzone in wake of allegations of sexual misconduct and assault against two prominent influencers. We also discuss how to approach voting in...
The three revisit consent and the friendzone in wake of allegations of sexual misconduct and assault against two prominent influencers.

We also discuss how to approach voting in 2020, given the choices we have--and what our vote really means.]]>3611assault,corona,covid,dating,elections,feminism,friendzone,hip-hop,influencers,love,masculinity,nyc,politics,relationships,sex,votingtruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/rep-for-representation-feat-bx-15-congressional-candidate-tomas-ramos--26467212https://api.spreaker.com/episode/26467212Fri, 01 May 2020 01:58:04 +0000Be Heard TalkIn a Zoom being grimey shortened episode of an otherwise great show, Stan and Evan interview BX-15 congressional candidate, Tomas Ramos, who is running for Congressman Jose Serrano's open seat. Recording resumes in the middle of Tomas detailing his...2792bronx,congress,dominican,elections,incarceration,injustice,latinos,nyc,politicstruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/grief-depression-loneliness-and-our-way-forward-as-men-w-tom-biddulph--25819353
Tom discusses how he coped with trauma, tragedy, and loss and found resiliency through therapy, writing, and connecting with others--but it took a journey to get there.

Stan and Evan discuss their own journeys from adolescence through adulthood to express emotion in healthy ways as men. Then, they discuss how to deal with our current situation of mass quarantine, which has left many feeling lonely and disconnected.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/25819353Tue, 21 Apr 2020 01:36:28 +0000Be Heard TalkStan T. and Evan are joined by Tom Biddulph, who has channeled his experiences with a spectrum of emotions, including grief and anger, to his blog and YouTube channel, Good Grievings. Tom discusses how he coped with trauma, tragedy, and loss and...
Tom discusses how he coped with trauma, tragedy, and loss and found resiliency through therapy, writing, and connecting with others--but it took a journey to get there.

Stan and Evan discuss their own journeys from adolescence through adulthood to express emotion in healthy ways as men. Then, they discuss how to deal with our current situation of mass quarantine, which has left many feeling lonely and disconnected.]]>3050depression,emotion,gender,grief,laughter,life,loss,love,masculinity,men,resilience,sadnesstruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/single-taken-quarantined-w-special-guest-sexologist-michelle-hope--25654162https://api.spreaker.com/episode/25654162Fri, 17 Apr 2020 20:15:05 +0000Be Heard TalkEvan and Stan are joined by Sexologist Michelle Hope as she returns to the show to discuss how quarantine is affecting sex lives for those who are single and in relationships. She also discusses her charity for domestic violence survivors who are in...2250corona,coronavirus,domestic,feminism,gender,masculinity,porn,quarantine,relationships,sex,survivor,violencetruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/our-personal-rona-champ--25259891https://api.spreaker.com/episode/25259891Fri, 10 Apr 2020 23:22:15 +0000Be Heard TalkIn LNBT quarantine edition #4, Stan survives the Rona and exchanges funny tales with Evan about Rona etiquette and past adventures.4011ass,corona,coronavirus,fbi,gangs,relationships,rona,sex,spytruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/a-damn-beef-patty-a-shake--24730378
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Image via Shutterstock]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/24730378Thu, 02 Apr 2020 03:02:10 +0000Be Heard TalkRona, Barack Obama, Trump, customizing baseball rosters, dating quests in quarantine, a terrible prank, a terrible apology, and delinquency during Toy Story 3, all come together in this episode of Let's Not Be Trash. -- Image via Shutterstock
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Image via Shutterstock]]>3893baseball,comedian,comedy,corona,coronavirus,covid-19,dating,love,quarantine,romance,sextruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/coronav-comedy-feat-comic-porn-personality-minnie-scarlet--24271503https://api.spreaker.com/episode/24271503Wed, 25 Mar 2020 01:25:44 +0000Be Heard TalkStan & Evan are joined by Comic and Porn Personality, Minnie Scarlet to discuss, how she is a damn essential worker during these times (for two essential services) her securing that bag during quarantine, her plans to livestream content to keep us all...3211business,comedy,corona,dating,feminism,gender,masculinity,porn,quarantine,relationships,sex,sexism,toxic,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/coronav-comedy-feat-comedian-sarah-garner--24271483Evan and Stan are joined by comedian Sarah Garner to discuss struggles women encounter in the comedy world, quarantine & coping, cats, and why the government wants to shut us down because of Stan's revelation.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/24271483Wed, 25 Mar 2020 01:25:38 +0000Be Heard TalkStan and Evan are joined by Comedian and "Not Your Therapist," Sarah Garner. Evan and Stan are joined by comedian Sarah Garner to discuss struggles women encounter in the comedy world, quarantine & coping, cats, and why the government wants to shut...Evan and Stan are joined by comedian Sarah Garner to discuss struggles women encounter in the comedy world, quarantine & coping, cats, and why the government wants to shut us down because of Stan's revelation.]]>1194advice,business,comedy,corona,dating,feminism,gender,masculinity,quarantine,relationships,sex,sexism,therapy,toxic,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/coronav-comedy-ft-comedian-ariel-leaty--24271355https://api.spreaker.com/episode/24271355Wed, 25 Mar 2020 01:25:28 +0000Be Heard TalkStan and Evan are joined by Comedian Ariel Leaty. They discuss tf the words life-in-quarantine are doing in our mout. Cooking away woes. Ariel's come up in the comedy world, and the obstacles she still encounters as a queer woman comedian of color. We...987business,comedy,cooking,corona,dating,feminism,gender,masculinity,quarantine,relationships,sex,sexism,toxic,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/coronav-comedy-intro--24271343They catch up and talk shit before introducing a fire lineup of women comics for one of our best episodes yet.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/24271343Wed, 25 Mar 2020 01:25:17 +0000Be Heard TalkEvan and Stan are live from their beds and living rooms w/ poor connections and unemployment. They catch up and talk shit before introducing a fire lineup of women comics for one of our best episodes yet.They catch up and talk shit before introducing a fire lineup of women comics for one of our best episodes yet.]]>884business,comedy,corona,dating,feminism,gender,masculinity,quarantine,relationships,sex,sexism,toxic,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/quarantine-and-cutty-feat-co-host-comedian-stan-talouis-and-naledi-slim-anderson--23956334
- that Rona
- Women's History Month
- what is a man's role in women having better sex
- how to communicate during sex
- what intersectionality looks like
- what men supporting women (especially black women) DOESN'T look like
- interracial relationships
- A Supreme Court of Public Opinion
- chicken wings
- and, of course how men can best support women]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/23956334Mon, 16 Mar 2020 23:35:07 +0000Be Heard TalkEvan and co-host, comedian Stan Talouis are joined by podcaster and writer, Naledi "Slim" Anderson to discuss: - that Rona - Women's History Month - what is a man's role in women having better sex - how to communicate during sex - what...
- that Rona
- Women's History Month
- what is a man's role in women having better sex
- how to communicate during sex
- what intersectionality looks like
- what men supporting women (especially black women) DOESN'T look like
- interracial relationships
- A Supreme Court of Public Opinion
- chicken wings
- and, of course how men can best support women]]>5606black,chicken,corona,covid-19,dating,interracial,intersectional,love,quarantine,relationships,sex,virustruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/international-women-s-day-part-3-feat-minnie-scarlet-natalia-alfonso-and-stan-talouis--23839156
In part two we continue our discussions on experiences with: sexual assault, the justice system (and lack thereof) for assault survivors, and police accountability. As well as how men can best support women in 2020.

(Thumbnail cover art: Kelsey Drake).]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/23839156Fri, 13 Mar 2020 19:18:01 +0000Be Heard TalkFor this special episode of International Women's Day, Evan and guest host, Comedian Stan Talouis, are joined by comic and porn start personality, Minnie Scarlet, and political consultant and author, Natalia Alfonso. In part two we continue our...
In part two we continue our discussions on experiences with: sexual assault, the justice system (and lack thereof) for assault survivors, and police accountability. As well as how men can best support women in 2020.

(Thumbnail cover art: Kelsey Drake).]]>3921abuse,dating,feminism,gender,history,legbtqia,love,masculinity,men,porn,pornography,sex,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/international-women-s-day-part-2-feat-minnie-scarlet-natalia-alfonso-and-stan-talouis--23839115
In part two we continue our discussions on experiences with: sexual assault, the justice system (and lack thereof) for assault survivors, and police accountability. As well as insights on sex work and experiences w/ poly-amorous relations.

(Thumbnail cover art: Kelsey Drake).]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/23839115Fri, 13 Mar 2020 19:00:38 +0000Be Heard TalkFor this special episode of International Women's Day, Evan and guest host, Comedian Stan Talouis, are joined by comic and porn start personality, Minnie Scarlet, and political consultant and author, Natalia Alfonso. In part two we continue our...
In part two we continue our discussions on experiences with: sexual assault, the justice system (and lack thereof) for assault survivors, and police accountability. As well as insights on sex work and experiences w/ poly-amorous relations.

(Thumbnail cover art: Kelsey Drake).]]>3471abuse,consent,dating,gender,love,masculinity,porn,pornography,relationships,sex,slutshaming,women,worktruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/international-women-s-day-part-1-feat-minnie-scarlet-natalia-alfonso-and-stan-talouis--23732034
In part one we discuss experiences with: sexual assault, the justice system (and lack thereof) for assault survivors, and police accountability.

(Thumbnail cover art: Kelsey Drake).]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/23732034Wed, 11 Mar 2020 00:43:16 +0000Be Heard TalkFor this special episode of International Women's Day, Evan and guest host, Comedian Stan Talouis, are joined by comic and porn start personality, Minnie Scarlet, and political consultant and author, Natalia Alfonso. In part one we discuss...
In part one we discuss experiences with: sexual assault, the justice system (and lack thereof) for assault survivors, and police accountability.

(Thumbnail cover art: Kelsey Drake).]]>3776assault,comedy,consent,dating,gender,lgbtqia,love,masculinity,misogyny,patriarchy,politics,porn,pornography,rape,relationships,sex,sexism,trans,transphobia,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/we-stand-w-onlyfans--23408090https://api.spreaker.com/episode/23408090Tue, 03 Mar 2020 00:12:34 +0000Be Heard TalkEvan and Stan discuss Bernie Sanders, the close of Black History Month, the Start of Women's History Month, and the OnlyFans hack.22052020,bernie,cosby,elections,love,masculinity,onlyfans,podcast,politics,race,romance,sanders,sex,sexism,toxic,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/between-tumblefuck-carajoland-in-69-minutes-wi-guest-host-comedian-stan-talouis--22857077
They discuss a WIDE ASF range of topics from inopportune times to be sick to toxic masculinity in comedy to tumblr to tumblr porn to tumblr porn leading to police involved shootings livestreamed on Instagram to Black History Month to an innovative reparations proposal involving Venmo to the politics of comedy, cancel culture, letting people have moments & separating the art from the artist, and alll the way back to porn (in a more wholesome way).

Naturally this episode was 69 minutes.

We back. Start your week all over the place w/ Let's Not Be Trash.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/22857077Mon, 17 Feb 2020 02:33:14 +0000Be Heard TalkEvan is joined by guest host, friend and comedian Stanley Talouis. They discuss a WIDE ASF range of topics from inopportune times to be sick to toxic masculinity in comedy to tumblr to tumblr porn to tumblr porn leading to police involved...
They discuss a WIDE ASF range of topics from inopportune times to be sick to toxic masculinity in comedy to tumblr to tumblr porn to tumblr porn leading to police involved shootings livestreamed on Instagram to Black History Month to an innovative reparations proposal involving Venmo to the politics of comedy, cancel culture, letting people have moments & separating the art from the artist, and alll the way back to porn (in a more wholesome way).

Naturally this episode was 69 minutes.

We back. Start your week all over the place w/ Let's Not Be Trash.]]>4149baseball,basketball,comedy,football,gender,maculinity,police,porn,pornography,race,raparations,sex,sports,tumblrtruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/it-s-2020-this-vday-treat-yourself-to-being-treated-well--22603849
But her comments made it to the show's discussion

The Superbowl, Latino influence and diaspora, black history, Valentines, & Singles Awareness Day (SAD), Only Fans Accounts (OFA), pressure to "settle" in relationships, and Sachel Page are discussed.

As you can see, your boys got layers.

Corrections: Edgar Renteria was born in Baranquilla, Colombia--not Cartagena.
More info on common misconceptions between "Hispanic" and "Latino."

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GBt5rMD2aDc]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/22603849Mon, 10 Feb 2020 04:16:50 +0000Be Heard TalkStanley and Evan are rabble rousin for the first 10 minutes of the show and then remember they have a podcast to do. Unfortunately, our great interview with Social Worker and Political Strategist, Natalia Alfonso was technically challenged. Remember,...
But her comments made it to the show's discussion

The Superbowl, Latino influence and diaspora, black history, Valentines, & Singles Awareness Day (SAD), Only Fans Accounts (OFA), pressure to "settle" in relationships, and Sachel Page are discussed.

As you can see, your boys got layers.

Corrections: Edgar Renteria was born in Baranquilla, Colombia--not Cartagena.
More info on common misconceptions between "Hispanic" and "Latino."

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GBt5rMD2aDc]]>1526abuse,baseball,football,kobe,mlb,nfl,ptsd,relationships,sex,single,sports,toxic,valentine's,vdaytruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/a-year-of-untrashing-a-space-for-healing-a-space-for-mamba--22348378https://api.spreaker.com/episode/22348378Sun, 02 Feb 2020 23:21:49 +0000Be Heard TalkEvan and Stanley answer listener questions on the illegitimate continued perception--and valuation--of the male "player" in 2020, why people flake online, unfair assessments of women's emotions, how we can hold space for grief and trauma, Kobe, his...3126assault,gender,grief,kobe,love,player,podcast,sex,survivors,traumatruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/breaking-news--22110900
https://www.facebook.com/sexpositivefamilies/photos/a.116712285649145/505491453437891/?type=3&theater

Stanley and Evan address topics and questions brought up by friends and listeners, starting with how to suggest that a partner should get more exercise, breaking the news to a partner the desire for an open relationship--then receive literal breaking news about the death of Kobe Bryant.

After addressing the immediate impact, especially to Stanley, whose favorite athlete is Kobe, they try to move on to the rest of the topics including:

society valuing narcissism in dating and how it shows up on a nearly clinical level;

the epidemic not understanding the female orgasm;

going from a long term relationship right to new one;

how to effectively, and decently and strike up a conversation in the "#MeToo" era;

how online dating complicates communicating certain important personal details early on to a potential partner.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/22110900Mon, 27 Jan 2020 06:24:49 +0000Be Heard TalkPlease keep this statement in mind: https://www.facebook.com/sexpositivefamilies/photos/a.116712285649145/505491453437891/?type=3&theater Stanley and Evan address topics and questions brought up by friends and listeners, starting with how to...
https://www.facebook.com/sexpositivefamilies/photos/a.116712285649145/505491453437891/?type=3&theater

Stanley and Evan address topics and questions brought up by friends and listeners, starting with how to suggest that a partner should get more exercise, breaking the news to a partner the desire for an open relationship--then receive literal breaking news about the death of Kobe Bryant.

After addressing the immediate impact, especially to Stanley, whose favorite athlete is Kobe, they try to move on to the rest of the topics including:

society valuing narcissism in dating and how it shows up on a nearly clinical level;

the epidemic not understanding the female orgasm;

going from a long term relationship right to new one;

how to effectively, and decently and strike up a conversation in the "#MeToo" era;

how online dating complicates communicating certain important personal details early on to a potential partner.]]>2346advice,apps,athletes,autism,couples,dating,exercise,kobe,love,online,polyamory,relationships,sex,sportstruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-awesomeness-of-awkwardness-w-avi-klein-of-hey-man-podcast--22001217
They discuss how they got into their work, why it's important for men to discuss masculinity, #MeToo, how awkward moments are vital to healthy relationships, and how to "call men in" to the fold.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/22001217Fri, 24 Jan 2020 00:01:11 +0000Be Heard TalkEvan meets with Avi Klein from "Hey, Man" podcast. They discuss how they got into their work, why it's important for men to discuss masculinity, #MeToo, how awkward moments are vital to healthy relationships, and how to "call men in" to the fold.
They discuss how they got into their work, why it's important for men to discuss masculinity, #MeToo, how awkward moments are vital to healthy relationships, and how to "call men in" to the fold.]]>2673dating,gender,masculinity,metoo,sextruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/maybe-i-m-just-tryna-take-a-leak-in-peace-b--21862492https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21862492Sun, 19 Jan 2020 23:55:25 +0000Be Heard TalkStanley and Evan discuss bail reform, the Sanders-Warren feud, whether we as men should accept the label of "sexist," the occasional misappropriation of toxic masculinity, and current Let's Not Be Trash literature.2975democrats,feminism,gender,masculinity,politics,sex,sexism,toxictruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/elected-to-elevate-with-senator-alessandra-biaggi--21731186
- The transition from being candidate to elected - and your journey entering politics.
- Why the woman’s reproductive rights act was so important? And what it took to pass.
- Navigating in a space that can be a "boys club" & how she's seen sexism in her life and career?
- Taking on the governor and his campaign contributions
- How can we (men, constituents) support you and your initiatives.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21731186Thu, 16 Jan 2020 02:28:49 +0000Be Heard TalkOn this special episode of Let's Not Be Trash Stanley and Evan interview State Senator Alessandra Biaggi. We discuss: - The transition from being candidate to elected - and your journey entering politics. - Why the woman’s reproductive...
- The transition from being candidate to elected - and your journey entering politics.
- Why the woman’s reproductive rights act was so important? And what it took to pass.
- Navigating in a space that can be a "boys club" & how she's seen sexism in her life and career?
- Taking on the governor and his campaign contributions
- How can we (men, constituents) support you and your initiatives.]]>1966assault,gender,healthcare,local,nys,politics,senate,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/states-of-being-false-prophets-pt-3--19813566https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19813566Sat, 02 Nov 2019 02:03:59 +0000Be Heard TalkOn this two part (three part due to technical difficulties) remote episode of Let's Not Be Trash, Evan and Stanley discuss Tank's comments on what qualifies as gay, Stanley comments on Tank's comments on what qualifies as gay, cultural appropriation,...2906truefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/states-of-being-false-prophets-pt-2--19813549https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19813549Sat, 02 Nov 2019 02:01:57 +0000Be Heard TalkOn this two part (three part due to technical difficulties) remote episode of Let's Not Be Trash, Evan and Stanley discuss Tank's comments on what qualifies as gay, Stanley comments on Tank's comments on what qualifies as gay, cultural appropriation,...1951appropriation,feminism,homophobia,kanye,lgbtqia,masculinity,tank,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/states-of-being-false-prophets-pt-1--19813015https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19813015Sat, 02 Nov 2019 01:46:47 +0000Be Heard TalkOn this two part (three part due to technical difficulties) remote episode of Let's Not Be Trash, Evan and Stanley discuss Tank's comments on what qualifies as gay, Stanley comments on Tank's comments on what qualifies as gay, people's comments on...328appropriation,feminism,homophobia,kanye,lgbtqia,masculinity,tank,womentruefull