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<rss xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0" xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" version="2.0"><channel><title>The 'Ships n Sex Podcast with OEV</title><link>https://www.shipsnsex.com/</link><description><![CDATA[Come thru frustrated, leave out Liberated as we show frustrated believers how to Embrace their Sexuality in order to create the 'Ships n Sex Life of their Dreams without compromising their faith.]]></description><atom:link href="https://www.spreaker.com/show/3056164/episodes/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><language>en</language><category>Sexuality</category><copyright>Copyright Octavia EV (OEV)</copyright><image><url>https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3ddb99b0fec9f629e5e6a0f741805f95.jpg</url><title>The 'Ships n Sex Podcast with OEV</title><link>https://www.shipsnsex.com/</link></image><lastBuildDate>Thu, 19 Feb 2026 22:08:24 +0000</lastBuildDate><itunes:author>Octavia EV (OEV)</itunes:author><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Octavia EV (OEV)</itunes:name><itunes:email>support@shipsnsex.com</itunes:email></itunes:owner><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3ddb99b0fec9f629e5e6a0f741805f95.jpg"/><itunes:subtitle>Come thru frustrated, leave out Liberated as we show frustrated believers how to Embrace their Sexuality in order to create the 'Ships n Sex Life of their Dreams without compromising their faith.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Come thru frustrated, leave out Liberated as we show frustrated believers how to Embrace their Sexuality in order to create the 'Ships n Sex Life of their Dreams without compromising their faith.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:category text="Health &amp; Fitness"><itunes:category text="Sexuality"/></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Society &amp; Culture"><itunes:category text="Relationships"/></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Education"><itunes:category text="Self-Improvement"/></itunes:category><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><item><title>21. The Curious Case of KeKe Palmer</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/21-the-curious-case-of-keke-palmer--56407233</link><description><![CDATA[Tune in as OEV talks about 3 main points that's key in relationships within the drama that transpired between KeKe Palmer and the father of her child.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56407233</guid><pubDate>Tue, 08 Aug 2023 20:49:12 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56407233/sns_episode_21_final_kekepalmer.mp3" length="43896126" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/d8f1aff3-2d95-473d-a822-7aa16032cc39/d8f1aff3-2d95-473d-a822-7aa16032cc39.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/d8f1aff3-2d95-473d-a822-7aa16032cc39/d8f1aff3-2d95-473d-a822-7aa16032cc39.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/d8f1aff3-2d95-473d-a822-7aa16032cc39/d8f1aff3-2d95-473d-a822-7aa16032cc39.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Octavia EV (OEV)</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Tune in as OEV talks about 3 main points that's key in relationships within the drama that transpired between KeKe Palmer and the father of her child.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Tune in as OEV talks about 3 main points that's key in relationships within the drama that transpired between KeKe Palmer and the father of her child.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2744</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3ddb99b0fec9f629e5e6a0f741805f95.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>20. The Power of Marriage: Dwayne Wade &amp; Gabrielle Union</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/20-the-power-of-marriage-dwayne-wade-gabrielle-union--53487522</link><description><![CDATA[Former Pro Basketball Player Dwayne Wade and Popular Actress Gabrielle Union were both previously married to others, yet the super power they possess today didn't come until they connected with and eventually married each other. Together they've change a lot of the public's view on gender even when it seem, most don't agree. They have a marriage that many love and many hate but one thing you can't deny is the power they exude since connecting. So what is that to you?<br /><br />Listen in as Your Favorite Sexologist shares what you can learn from the power of their marriage whether you love ''em or not, agree with them or not and apply it to your plan in creating the 'Ships n SexLife of Your Dreams.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53487522</guid><pubDate>Mon, 10 Apr 2023 00:51:27 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53487522/sns_episode_20_final_edited_dwade_gabby.mp3" length="49393589" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/f3873f2e-e100-4f2e-806d-f40304d5958a/f3873f2e-e100-4f2e-806d-f40304d5958a.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/f3873f2e-e100-4f2e-806d-f40304d5958a/f3873f2e-e100-4f2e-806d-f40304d5958a.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/f3873f2e-e100-4f2e-806d-f40304d5958a/f3873f2e-e100-4f2e-806d-f40304d5958a.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Octavia EV (OEV)</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Former Pro Basketball Player Dwayne Wade and Popular Actress Gabrielle Union were both previously married to others, yet the super power they possess today didn't come until they connected with and eventually married each other. Together they've...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Former Pro Basketball Player Dwayne Wade and Popular Actress Gabrielle Union were both previously married to others, yet the super power they possess today didn't come until they connected with and eventually married each other. Together they've change a lot of the public's view on gender even when it seem, most don't agree. They have a marriage that many love and many hate but one thing you can't deny is the power they exude since connecting. So what is that to you?<br /><br />Listen in as Your Favorite Sexologist shares what you can learn from the power of their marriage whether you love ''em or not, agree with them or not and apply it to your plan in creating the 'Ships n SexLife of Your Dreams.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3088</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>basketball,dwaynewade,gabbyunion,gabrielleunion,gender,love,marriage,octaviaevance,power,powerful,relationshipcoach,relationships,sex,sexcoach,sexology,sexuality,shipsnsex,thewades,zayawade</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3ddb99b0fec9f629e5e6a0f741805f95.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>19. The Power of Marriage: Will &amp; Jada Pinkett Smith</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/19-the-power-of-marriage-will-jada-pinkett-smith--53340455</link><description><![CDATA[Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith have a powerful marriage. Love them, hate them or don't care, listen in anyway as Your Favorite Sexologist goes all the way in on how you can benefit from the power of marriage in Will and Jada's relationship.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53340455</guid><pubDate>Sun, 26 Mar 2023 10:05:13 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53340455/sns_episode_17_final_edited_copy_4.mp3" length="43526285" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/d7a9d21e-0114-44c4-addb-6b01d2a757a1/d7a9d21e-0114-44c4-addb-6b01d2a757a1.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/d7a9d21e-0114-44c4-addb-6b01d2a757a1/d7a9d21e-0114-44c4-addb-6b01d2a757a1.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/d7a9d21e-0114-44c4-addb-6b01d2a757a1/d7a9d21e-0114-44c4-addb-6b01d2a757a1.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Octavia EV (OEV)</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith have a powerful marriage. Love them, hate them or don't care, listen in anyway as Your Favorite Sexologist goes all the way in on how you can benefit from the power of marriage in Will and Jada's relationship.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith have a powerful marriage. Love them, hate them or don't care, listen in anyway as Your Favorite Sexologist goes all the way in on how you can benefit from the power of marriage in Will and Jada's relationship.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2721</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>chrisrock,jadapinkett,love,marriage,netflix,oscars,power,relationship,relationships,sex,sexuality,slap,willandjada,willsmith</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3ddb99b0fec9f629e5e6a0f741805f95.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>18. You Can Have it All</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/18-you-can-have-it-all--53102932</link><description><![CDATA[It's your life but you don't have everything you want/desire. Why not? Do YOU really believe you can have what you really want/desire? It's all about the options YOU create. Listen in as OEV breaks down how you can have it all in your 'Ships n Sex.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53102932</guid><pubDate>Sun, 05 Mar 2023 20:47:55 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53102932/sns_episode_17_final_edited.mp3" length="25276926" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/b52386e2-1659-4f04-b142-b5bde5e6a52b/b52386e2-1659-4f04-b142-b5bde5e6a52b.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/b52386e2-1659-4f04-b142-b5bde5e6a52b/b52386e2-1659-4f04-b142-b5bde5e6a52b.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/b52386e2-1659-4f04-b142-b5bde5e6a52b/b52386e2-1659-4f04-b142-b5bde5e6a52b.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Octavia EV (OEV)</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It's your life but you don't have everything you want/desire. Why not? Do YOU really believe you can have what you really want/desire? It's all about the options YOU create. Listen in as OEV breaks down how you can have it all in your 'Ships n Sex.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It's your life but you don't have everything you want/desire. Why not? Do YOU really believe you can have what you really want/desire? It's all about the options YOU create. Listen in as OEV breaks down how you can have it all in your 'Ships n Sex.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1580</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>all,belief,blackwomen,christian,church,create,creates,creator,creators,desire,desires,dreams,faith,life,marriage,men,relationships,sex,wants,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3ddb99b0fec9f629e5e6a0f741805f95.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>17. The Rise of Toxic Femininity?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/17-the-rise-of-toxic-femininity--49623775</link><description><![CDATA[Is Toxic Femininity on the rise? Wait...is it even real? Tune in as OEV breaks down what's true as it pertains to toxic masculinity vs toxic femininity. Make sure to share with your friends and discuss.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49623775</guid><pubDate>Tue, 17 May 2022 02:54:33 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49623775/sns_episode_17_final_edited.mp3" length="18968245" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/b1012065-19fe-4e35-9138-82a74d9f843a/b1012065-19fe-4e35-9138-82a74d9f843a.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/b1012065-19fe-4e35-9138-82a74d9f843a/b1012065-19fe-4e35-9138-82a74d9f843a.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/b1012065-19fe-4e35-9138-82a74d9f843a/b1012065-19fe-4e35-9138-82a74d9f843a.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Octavia EV (OEV)</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Is Toxic Femininity on the rise? Wait...is it even real? Tune in as OEV breaks down what's true as it pertains to toxic masculinity vs toxic femininity. Make sure to share with your friends and discuss.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Is Toxic Femininity on the rise? Wait...is it even real? Tune in as OEV breaks down what's true as it pertains to toxic masculinity vs toxic femininity. Make sure to share with your friends and discuss.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1186</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>feminine,femininity,jada,jadapinkettsmith,marriage,masculine,masculinity,men,relationships,thesmiths,toxic,toxicfemininity,toxicmasculinity,willsmith,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3ddb99b0fec9f629e5e6a0f741805f95.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>16. The Power of Your Clitoris</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/16-the-power-of-your-clitoris--49304859</link><description><![CDATA[Do you know the Power of Your own Clitoris? What? Listen in as OEV breaks it down and why you should care.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49304859</guid><pubDate>Mon, 04 Apr 2022 21:10:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49304859/sns_episode_15_final_edited.mp3" length="23450022" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/ce191921-b5be-4659-86e1-b87be8e9e1a8/ce191921-b5be-4659-86e1-b87be8e9e1a8.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/ce191921-b5be-4659-86e1-b87be8e9e1a8/ce191921-b5be-4659-86e1-b87be8e9e1a8.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/ce191921-b5be-4659-86e1-b87be8e9e1a8/ce191921-b5be-4659-86e1-b87be8e9e1a8.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Octavia EV (OEV)</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you know the Power of Your own Clitoris? What? Listen in as OEV breaks it down and why you should care.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you know the Power of Your own Clitoris? What? Listen in as OEV breaks it down and why you should care.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1466</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>clitoris,faith,love,marriage,relationships,sex,sexologist,sexpositive,sextalk,sexual,sexuality,women,womenoffaith</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3ddb99b0fec9f629e5e6a0f741805f95.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>15. How to Snatch His Soul - The Blueprint</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/15-how-to-snatch-his-soul-the-blueprint--48810431</link><description><![CDATA[As a followup to her recent viral TikTok Video on 'How to Snatch His Soul, OEV shares the blueprint of Soul Snatching by breaking down each piece of the blueprint. Listen in as she breaks down the powers of...<br /><br />The Power of Your P<br />The Power of Your Emotional Connection<br />The Power of Your Vulnerability<br />seasoned with a Side of Sexual Tension<br />mixed with<br />Dope Ass Sexual Positions = Soul Snatched!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48810431</guid><pubDate>Mon, 28 Feb 2022 17:25:37 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/48810431/sns_episode_15_final_edited.mp3" length="13233845" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/bed8577d-561b-47c1-9806-d40657e0707f/bed8577d-561b-47c1-9806-d40657e0707f.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/bed8577d-561b-47c1-9806-d40657e0707f/bed8577d-561b-47c1-9806-d40657e0707f.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/bed8577d-561b-47c1-9806-d40657e0707f/bed8577d-561b-47c1-9806-d40657e0707f.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Octavia EV (OEV)</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>As a followup to her recent viral TikTok Video on 'How to Snatch His Soul, OEV shares the blueprint of Soul Snatching by breaking down each piece of the blueprint. Listen in as she breaks down the powers of...&#13;
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The Power of Your P&#13;
The Power of Your...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[As a followup to her recent viral TikTok Video on 'How to Snatch His Soul, OEV shares the blueprint of Soul Snatching by breaking down each piece of the blueprint. Listen in as she breaks down the powers of...<br /><br />The Power of Your P<br />The Power of Your Emotional Connection<br />The Power of Your Vulnerability<br />seasoned with a Side of Sexual Tension<br />mixed with<br />Dope Ass Sexual Positions = Soul Snatched!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>828</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>emotional,husbands,intimacy,love,lovemaking,marriage,men,pleasure,relationships,sex,sexuality,shipsnsex,snatch,snatching,soul,vulnerability,wives,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/9537e4efdf9465046b4cb00c94147a0b.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>14. Why Women Should Not Divorce</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/14-why-women-should-not-divorce--48635286</link><description><![CDATA[The bible clearly shows women never divorced their husbands, so why are women (of faith) the primary filers of divorce when the bible says otherwise? Listen in as OEV shares on why women are divorcing in what seems like droves and how religion has played a great part in placing the failures of marriage on women.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48635286</guid><pubDate>Tue, 08 Feb 2022 01:00:30 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/48635286/sns_episode_14_edited.mp3" length="36764105" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/8b4828b0-37a0-4178-82cd-b91655f0ff62/8b4828b0-37a0-4178-82cd-b91655f0ff62.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/8b4828b0-37a0-4178-82cd-b91655f0ff62/8b4828b0-37a0-4178-82cd-b91655f0ff62.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/8b4828b0-37a0-4178-82cd-b91655f0ff62/8b4828b0-37a0-4178-82cd-b91655f0ff62.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Octavia EV (OEV)</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The bible clearly shows women never divorced their husbands, so why are women (of faith) the primary filers of divorce when the bible says otherwise? Listen in as OEV shares on why women are divorcing in what seems like droves and how religion has...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The bible clearly shows women never divorced their husbands, so why are women (of faith) the primary filers of divorce when the bible says otherwise? Listen in as OEV shares on why women are divorcing in what seems like droves and how religion has played a great part in placing the failures of marriage on women.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2298</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>bible,blackwomen,church,divorce,husbands,love,marriage,relationships,religion,sex,wives,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3ddb99b0fec9f629e5e6a0f741805f95.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>13. The End of Dysfunctional 'Ships in 2022</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/13-the-end-of-dysfunctional-ships-in-2022--48528475</link><description><![CDATA[It's 2022...isn't it time we "un-normalize" coming from, being in and creating dysfunctional relationships? Time to destroy this theme of our lives now. Tune in as OEV shares why January 31st is an interesting day to start the End of Dysfunctional 'Ships in 2022.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48528475</guid><pubDate>Mon, 31 Jan 2022 20:25:43 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/48528475/sns_episode_14_edited.mp3" length="24450475" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/90185850-ec62-4f7d-87d4-4fa8f1ad13ff/90185850-ec62-4f7d-87d4-4fa8f1ad13ff.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/90185850-ec62-4f7d-87d4-4fa8f1ad13ff/90185850-ec62-4f7d-87d4-4fa8f1ad13ff.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/90185850-ec62-4f7d-87d4-4fa8f1ad13ff/90185850-ec62-4f7d-87d4-4fa8f1ad13ff.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Octavia EV (OEV)</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It's 2022...isn't it time we "un-normalize" coming from, being in and creating dysfunctional relationships? Time to destroy this theme of our lives now. Tune in as OEV shares why January 31st is an interesting day to start the End of Dysfunctional...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It's 2022...isn't it time we "un-normalize" coming from, being in and creating dysfunctional relationships? Time to destroy this theme of our lives now. Tune in as OEV shares why January 31st is an interesting day to start the End of Dysfunctional 'Ships in 2022.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1465</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuse,blackwomen,divorce,dysfunction,dysfunctional,marriage,relationships,sex,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/9537e4efdf9465046b4cb00c94147a0b.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Are We Cheating Our Oldest Child Out of Their Childhood?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/are-we-cheating-our-oldest-child-out-of-their-childhood--15702928</link><description><![CDATA[Are we cheating our oldest child out of their childhood? Are we making our oldest child (especially if they're a girl), a parent before their time? Are we forcing the oldest child to do things that we as mothers are actually supposed to do? Tune in to hear OEV's confession and take on an issues that's been hindering our communities for decades.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15702928</guid><pubDate>Wed, 12 Sep 2018 19:54:51 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/15702928/sns_butchered_episode_10_full_mp3.mp3" length="40078316" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/be2edd88-0e68-44ce-842e-af3ff202a615/be2edd88-0e68-44ce-842e-af3ff202a615.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/be2edd88-0e68-44ce-842e-af3ff202a615/be2edd88-0e68-44ce-842e-af3ff202a615.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/be2edd88-0e68-44ce-842e-af3ff202a615/be2edd88-0e68-44ce-842e-af3ff202a615.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Octavia EV (OEV)</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are we cheating our oldest child out of their childhood? Are we making our oldest child (especially if they're a girl), a parent before their time? Are we forcing the oldest child to do things that we as mothers are actually supposed to do? Tune in to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are we cheating our oldest child out of their childhood? Are we making our oldest child (especially if they're a girl), a parent before their time? Are we forcing the oldest child to do things that we as mothers are actually supposed to do? Tune in to hear OEV's confession and take on an issues that's been hindering our communities for decades.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2505</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>blackfamilies,blackmoms,blackmothers,childhood,children,dysfunction,families,family,mothers,oldestchild,siblings,theblackfamily</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3ddb99b0fec9f629e5e6a0f741805f95.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Did Women Throw Ariana Grande Under the Bus to Protect Their Bishop?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/did-women-throw-ariana-grande-under-the-bus-to-protect-their-bishop--15649607</link><description><![CDATA[Did Women throw Ariana Grande under the bus to protect their Bishop? Do women throw each other under the bus over a man? Do we side with & protect men way more than we do one another? 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Tune in as OEV gives a different perspective surrounding the Ariana Grande & Bishop Ellis controversy at Aretha Franklin's funeral.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1558</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>arethafranklin,arianagrande,blackwomen,church,friends,inappropriate,metoo,rape,relationships,sexualmisconduct,uncomfortable,women,womenofcolor</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3ddb99b0fec9f629e5e6a0f741805f95.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Real Reason Women Can't Get Along!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-real-reason-women-can-t-get-along--15598847</link><description><![CDATA[They say women can't get along, is it true? Well overall they may have a point but what can be done about this? Join OEV she tackles the real reason women can't get along and what can be done about it. 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Don't forget to follow on Spreaker and share, Share, SHARE!!! :)]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1201</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>blackwomen,confrontation,covenant,friends,friendship,friendshipgoals,friendships,girlfriends,ladies,love,marriage,mentors,relationships,ships,supportsystem,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3ddb99b0fec9f629e5e6a0f741805f95.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Long Live the Ride or Die Chick!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/long-live-the-ride-or-die-chick--15498449</link><description><![CDATA[Are you a "Ride or Die" Chick? Do you believe in riding for your man till the wheels fall off? No matter what, you rolling till death do you part right? Or even ridin for life for your fam and friends too? Well then this is just the podcast for you. 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Well then this is just the podcast for you. Tune in as OEV shares why she says, "Long Live the Ride or Die Chick"! 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Tune in to hear how this main reason is causing women to continue to attract, entertain, date and eventually marry broken men. Please remember to follow as well as share Share SHARE with as many ladies you know.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15451991</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Aug 2018 01:20:51 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/15451991/sns_butchered_epi_6_full.mp3" length="38721747" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Octavia EV (OEV)</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>A follow up to the popular Episode "What Happens When You Marry the Broken Man", OEV is back to share the main reason women keep attracting and choosing broken men to be in 'ships with. 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Please remember to follow as well as share Share SHARE with as many ladies you know.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2421</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>blackwomen,broken,brokenmen,dating,divorce,dysfunction,helpmeet,love,marriage,men,relationships,selflove,separation,sex,ships,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3ddb99b0fec9f629e5e6a0f741805f95.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>What Happens When You Marry the Broken Man?</title><link>https://octaviaevance.com/podcast/what-happens-when-you-marry-the-broken-man/</link><description><![CDATA[What happens when you marry the "Broken Man"? What happens when you didn't pass up on that "blessing", saw his potential and married him but it doesn't seem like a blessing...Now what? Join OEV as she shares what really happens when we marry broken men and what we NOW gotta do about it! Share with all the ladies you know!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15401835</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Aug 2018 00:25:48 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/15401835/sns_butchered_episode_5_aud.mp3" length="44059885" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Octavia EV (OEV)</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What happens when you marry the "Broken Man"? What happens when you didn't pass up on that "blessing", saw his potential and married him but it doesn't seem like a blessing...Now what? Join OEV as she shares what really happens when we marry broken...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What happens when you marry the "Broken Man"? What happens when you didn't pass up on that "blessing", saw his potential and married him but it doesn't seem like a blessing...Now what? Join OEV as she shares what really happens when we marry broken men and what we NOW gotta do about it! Share with all the ladies you know!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2754</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>blackwomen,broken,brokenmen,divorce,love,marriage,men,podsinblack,relationships,separation,sex,ships,strugglelove,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3ddb99b0fec9f629e5e6a0f741805f95.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Stop Wasting Time and Get Your 'Ships Together NOW!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/stop-wasting-time-and-get-your-ships-together-now--15330761</link><description><![CDATA[Got some strugglin 'ships in ya life? Marriageships, Friendships or Kinships? Listen in as OEV gives you a quick pep talk to gettin your 'ships together now. 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Share with as many ladies as you know.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1134</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>blackwomen,covenants,divorce,friends,friendships,kinships,kinsmen,marriage,oev,relationships,separation,sex,ships,struggle,strugglelove,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3ddb99b0fec9f629e5e6a0f741805f95.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Death of A Marriage...The Stigma of the Divorced Woman!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/death-of-a-marriage-the-stigma-of-the-divorced-woman--15284793</link><description><![CDATA[Please join OEV as she shares on the various definitions of marriage, the erroneous teachings of divorce and the stigma many women of color face after divorce. 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