https://www.spreaker.com/show/real-recovery-talk_1enSociety & CultureCopyright Tom Conradhttps://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6333674d3bbe350188a7d5139e2436d4.jpghttps://www.spreaker.com/show/real-recovery-talk_1Wed, 08 Mar 2023 18:19:51 +0000Tom ConradTom Conradfeeds@spreaker.comReal Recovery Talk is a show that is dedicated to giving you the information and resources that you need to ensure lasting recovery from addictions. Within this show you will better understand why addicts do what they do and what goes on in their...cleanepisodichttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/260-gio-had-his-spiritual-experience-ins8fe57057-196e-49a3-af4f-6171dfec43a7Wed, 08 Mar 2023 17:59:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode, Ben and I have on Justin, who shares his story about how he got clean and sober inside prison. Justin spent just about four years inside prison walls, but inside those walls is when he had his spiritual experience, and was then...3795cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/259-how-internalized-homophobia-fueled-hTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>e6109494-7b17-486d-855d-399878891000Sun, 05 Mar 2023 12:00:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode Ben and I have on a dear friend names BEN as well!  Ben is a man who has stayed sober for 21 years and shares his story on the struggles that he had growing up as a gay man and how it fueled his addiction.  He also shares his struggles...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>4038cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/258-grag-w-shares-his-comeback-story-froTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>034b0ab4-26ae-43ff-8847-64f19f317541Wed, 01 Mar 2023 12:00:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode we have on Greg who shares his story on how he got clean and sober and what it took for him to finally get there.  Greg is very open about his faith and what it has done for him this time around.  If you have any questions you can...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>2300cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/257-hear-from-two-licensed-clinicians-hoTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>aad8e51e-86b3-45b3-ba5f-a956b2e88b79Sun, 26 Feb 2023 12:00:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode we have on two therapists that work here at Rock Recovery Center!  Nicole and Maya wanted to come on and share how the have seem families impacted by their addictions and what they can do to help.  We often times look over the families...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>2664cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/256-at-19-years-old-nick-has-an-opportun2f12bdff-737e-4458-8c5e-ac4d1b0ffb27Wed, 22 Feb 2023 12:00:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode we have Nick who is a 19 year old young adult who has a opportunity ahead of him that he has taken advantage of!  Nick is well on his way to create a life for himself that will serve him very well in the years to come!  You will hear a...4243cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/255-he-moved-3-000-miles-away-to-get-sobf12d2005-33a9-47b4-b0fe-f2883230c201Sun, 19 Feb 2023 12:00:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode we have a guest on names Tim!  Tim has decided to attend treatment here at Rock Recovery Center in Florida all the way from California!  We get into detail about why it took so long for Tim to get sober and ultimately what help him...2855cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/254-addicted-to-marijuana-and-fitness-jaTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>90a651a6-9f59-4df8-bc9a-537f2bb08e9aSun, 12 Feb 2023 12:00:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode, Ben and I have an opportunity to sit down with Jack, who decided he wanted to share his story with all of you. Jack first was addicted to many hours in the gym. Jack shared that his gym addiction was to address an internal issue that...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>3438cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/253-xanax-does-it-really-help-with-anxieTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>6fc6d221-5918-4854-8530-05842c1bc66dWed, 08 Feb 2023 12:00:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode myself, Ben and Steve have a discussion both around Suboxone and Xanax.  We discuss what our observations have been with both ourselves, and others, when is comes to taking this drugs.  We talk about the pitfalls of taking them and...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>3583cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/252-why-bother-getting-sober-there-is-noTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>91d352a9-c49d-47ea-a87e-0ef1ee8182f3Sun, 05 Feb 2023 12:00:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode I want to discuss with you find your WHY behind getting sober.  I know I have talked about this before but I think it is worth bringing up again.  It is easy to stop using substances, but what is going to keep you from picking up...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>781cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/251-27-treatment-centers-later-anthony-nTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>bd10fd9b-0b48-4919-8f4d-d6bfd7ad3a70Wed, 01 Feb 2023 12:00:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode Ben and I have a discussion with anthony who has opted to come on the show and share his experience with getting clean and sober!  Anthony is open about how many times he went to treatment and ulitmately what it took for him to finally...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>3277cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/250-your-sober-help-othersTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>5ec681c0-23ea-47e5-83eb-1bdca6c629c7Sun, 29 Jan 2023 12:00:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode Ben and I have on Matt Anderson again to have a discussion around helping other people and spreading the message of HOPE!  Far to often, people go into a 12 step meeting and dont get the message that they are needing to hear.  If you...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>3820cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/249-what-it-took-for-billy-g-to-finally-Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>801ec833-c407-4a25-9801-7330ddc477e3Wed, 25 Jan 2023 12:00:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode Ben and I have a discussion with Billy.  BIlly is a good friend of ours that has had his struggles with drugs and alcohol.  Billy is now clean 6+ years and he goes into detail about what it took for him to finally stop.  If you have...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>3915cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/248-should-you-work-in-addiction-treatmeTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>70963ab6-f969-456b-9385-2d388d9cd557Sun, 22 Jan 2023 12:00:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode Ben and I discuss the process that it took for him and I to build the careers that we have lover the past 10 years.  We often times hear from people in early recovery, that they want to work in treatment.  Although we think that it is...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>1747cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/247-12-step-people-are-crazy-brian-shareTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>9c5fe6a9-7971-4cfa-90bf-99a2efc4d88dWed, 18 Jan 2023 12:00:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode we have a conversation with Brian who shares his story about getting sober.  Brian shares what his mindset was before deciding to get clean and sober and how things quickly changed for him when he started his recovery journey.  Brian...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>1894cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/246-can-you-meet-your-life-partner-in-reTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>662de493-7b53-471e-a10a-3919e475933aWed, 11 Jan 2023 17:57:00 +0000Tom ConradHey there! In this episode Ben and I discuss rehab remonaces!  We see them all to often and they 99.999% of the time never work.  We talk in detail about our specific situations when attempting this and how it ended up for us!  If you have any...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>2032cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/245-loved-ones-you-are-not-helpingTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>da73c611-46fe-4a7d-bc80-0acc5969c0d1Sun, 08 Jan 2023 12:00:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode Ben and I have a discussion around parents and loved ones of people trying to get clean and sober.  There are times when they think that they are helping when in fact all they are doing is hurting.  If parents and loved ones were able...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>1655cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/244-2023-are-you-living-your-legacyTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>dc98a6e4-ff8d-4ace-a3a2-786b12284b7fSun, 01 Jan 2023 12:00:00 +0000Tom ConradIt is January 1st! Can you believe it?  Another year is down, and nother one to come.  WHat are you going to do different this year?  Are you going to get sober?  If you are sober, lets do something to ANTI-UP your sobriety!  If you have any questions...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>1519cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/243-relapse-after-multiple-years-of-sobre145c4bd-2ed0-46e2-b63c-75ecb3a6ecd2Wed, 28 Dec 2022 21:28:00 +0000Tom ConradOn this show, we have on Tara, who talks in detail about her recovery over the years. Tara talks a lot about her history with drug use, and how she ended up becoming an addict at a very young age. Tara talks a lot about her recovery and sobriety and...2846cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/242-rrt-christmas-specialTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>a333d7be-6966-4c5c-a155-5b2d07b9e236Sun, 25 Dec 2022 12:00:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode we have on Steve!  We wanted to come on and just talk Christmas!  Steve shares about his past Christmas's when he was in active addiction and what it is like now!  If you have any questions, comments or concerns you can reach out to us...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>1426cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/241-does-insurance-cover-addiction-treatfe1c76b8-1078-4fb8-81d9-dde3ede6978fWed, 21 Dec 2022 12:00:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode we take a deep dive into the minds of the insurance companies when it comes to covering treatment for addiction.  We have a special guest, Brad, who's job is to talk to the insurance companies and get them to cover as much treatment as...2424cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/240-17-years-in-prison-violent-offender-839774cd-4ef3-445e-a25b-74063bdb3230Sun, 18 Dec 2022 12:00:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode we have a special guest Matt Anderson!  Matt has a heck of a story and has come on the show to share it with all of you!4799cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/239-athlete-and-trainer-struggles-with-a7ac83bcc-ee1a-46d2-8146-7b67d05da0c8Wed, 14 Dec 2022 12:00:00 +0000Tom Conrad In this episode, I have a conversation with Tom, who, seemingly on the surface has it all put together. Tom does struggle with alcoholism and is on his journey of sobriety as we speak. Tom speaks in detail about how alcoholism has affected his life...1929cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/238-clinical-case-worker-steve-differencTom@rockrecoverycenter.com and Ben@rockrecoverycenter.com ]]>038bfd6a-9820-4219-979f-55d4d5c02010Mon, 05 Dec 2022 02:33:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode we have on Steve who is a clinical case worker here at Rock Recovery Center.  Steve spends his days working with each individual client making sure that they are attaining their goals they have set for themselves all while advancing in...Tom@rockrecoverycenter.com and Ben@rockrecoverycenter.com ]]>1718cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/237-having-a-mindset-shift-payton-sharesTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>6b00dadd-6fa9-4a42-b105-3118a0c68a99Wed, 30 Nov 2022 17:27:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode Ben and I have a conversation with Payton around her failed treatment attempts and ultimately what it took for her to get sober.  She goes into detail about her mindset with past treatment attempts to what her mindset is now having 4...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>1653cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/236-four-aspects-of-our-recovery-that-we1325478d-aaae-4528-a004-2a5f7a0aa278Sun, 27 Nov 2022 16:58:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode I discusse four aspects of our recovery that we can always work on. There are always improvements to be made in our sobriety journey and if we don't make a conscious effort to make those improvements then we will not reach our fullest...754cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/235-joey-m-his-addiction-to-drugs-and-gaTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>8cd92d59-89e9-455f-b38b-a17e9dc6b89aWed, 23 Nov 2022 12:00:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode Ben and I have a guest on who we have gotten to know rather well over the past year.  Joey has decided to come on and share what his experience has been like getting sober and the areas in which he screwed up.  Joey has done a lot of...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>2160cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/234-dont-waste-your-time-going-to-treatmTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@rockrecoverycenter.com]]>ae2ebf8b-9661-4e84-878f-ad12e9fa4b5aSun, 20 Nov 2022 12:00:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode Ben and I discuss why some people end up wasting their time while in treatment.  We see it more often then we care to admit.  When we have someone that enters into the treatment process and they dont do anything, they are wasting their...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@rockrecoverycenter.com]]>1622cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/233-5-tips-to-staying-sober-during-the-hTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>1a6f2b61-1cd1-40b0-9e4b-1674db153e97Wed, 16 Nov 2022 12:00:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode I discuss ways in which you can enjoy the holidays and stay sober at the same time!  It can be a very stressful time of year.  If not fully prepared, it could be a high risk of relapse.  If you have any questions about your situation...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>928cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/232-stop-cutting-corners-sobriety-is-a-m1ce57b53-b5ac-487c-9a5d-0d22c7cd8195Thu, 10 Nov 2022 16:24:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode I discuss what cutting corners can do to you in the recovery process. We benlieve it is very necessary for people to put forth as much effort as possible without cutting corners. Cutting corners can prevent us from having the true...917cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/231-you-will-relapse-if-you-dont-pay-attTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>923e444f-4636-4765-9468-8ddcddc19f5aSun, 06 Nov 2022 11:00:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode I discuss three areas in which I believe are extremely important to pay attention to.  Sobriety is an offensive game.  We need to be stragtegic with our day to day life and not put ourselves in situations where we are vulnerable!  If...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>778cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/230-4-pillars-of-sobriety-health-home-coTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>7be1b88c-60c0-4fb8-b7b1-cd5154c48cccWed, 02 Nov 2022 14:19:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode Ben and I discuss the 4 pillars of recovery/sobriety!  We discuss having a healthy home, having our health intact, having a purpose for ourselves and having a strong community!  We believe that it is important to have a good grasp on...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>2157cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/229-married-with-addiction-brennan-and-aTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>58f9632a-32ee-480c-b4cc-076a79dfb2d5Sun, 30 Oct 2022 11:00:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode we have on Alex and Brennan who are a lovely married couple who have agreed to come on and share their experience with addiction within their marraige and how they have recovered!  They talk in detail how addiction has effected their...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>2727cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/228-how-to-overcome-obstacles-in-early-sTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>cc9e2728-afd5-4ea6-9c74-6ec5cce409f3Wed, 26 Oct 2022 21:00:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode I discuss with you how important it is to have obstacles in our sobriety journey!  Often times we want our sobriety to be perfect.  We don't want to have any setbacks and we dont want to go through any tough times.  Well, reality is,...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>1307cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/227-are-you-an-alcoholicTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>4d2b6ef0-405d-4dd6-955f-31b9df4174cdSun, 23 Oct 2022 11:00:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this epsiode I discuss the 5 stages of alcoholism!  Where do you see yourself amongst these stages?  These stages are very interesting in the sense that you can jump around from stage to stage.  We are hopeful that you can get to the recovery stage...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>1079cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/226-mom-named-cheri-discusses-her-experiTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>d76b39bc-5288-4db9-94d9-afc64212ac3cWed, 19 Oct 2022 11:00:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode we discuss what the process was like for a mother who was extremely helpful for her son to get sober. We discuss in detail what the relapses looked like and finally what she ended up having to do in order for him to get sober. She...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>2124cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/225-how-can-you-help-getting-your-loved-8daf7ca9-9063-41e1-9104-fce6444173eaWed, 12 Oct 2022 14:26:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode I discuss a topic that could be a massive pain point for some people.  Often times it is difficult for people to let their loved ones fight their own battles.  We need to allow people to experience struggle when getting sober!  If we...626cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/224-what-are-you-willing-to-neglectTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>68eb285e-851e-4f3a-bfc2-9b86fb7a7d2dSun, 09 Oct 2022 11:00:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode I discuss the importance of neglecthing things in our lives in order to build a much more solid foundation of sobriety.  Often times we are to consumed with outside noise, car, job, career, relationships etc.  If we spend to much time...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>715cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/223-listeners-e-mail-im-newly-sober-can-Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com!]]>5dc2b285-f0a5-4e1c-a7dd-e07f2a44ef15Wed, 05 Oct 2022 15:48:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode we read to you an email that we recieved from one of our listeners!  We dont not use names of course to keep them anonomous.  In this particular email we have someone ask if it is ok for them to use Kratom when getting sober?  We go...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com!]]>1301cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/222-eric-b-his-mental-health-struggles-aTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>f9954d9e-b485-42b0-8af0-fbe184fbd388Sun, 02 Oct 2022 11:00:00 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode we have a guest Eric who wanted to come on the show and tlak about his mental health struggle growing up and how it influenced his addiction for many years!  Eric has done a great job at taking his sobriety and really allowing it to...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>3534cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/221-do-you-need-to-believe-in-god-to-getff291ea3-58eb-4191-b17c-82529f5108dcSun, 25 Sep 2022 11:00:21 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode Ben discusses his thoughts and opinions on Spirituality in within the confins of getting sober!  It is no secret that any 12 step program has a strong emphasis on spirituality.  Now, some people have a hard time with spirituality and...932cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/220-service-work-is-it-necessary-to-stayTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>d93d35ae-70c1-4927-8254-bfccafd15880Wed, 21 Sep 2022 11:00:25 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode I discuss the importance of doing service work when getting clean and sober!  We often times hear about how important it is to do service work, but is it really that important?  Well, in my opinion it is one of the most vital peices...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>598cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/219-are-12-step-meetings-right-for-me-heTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>3dfd4028-ede9-4818-aead-9c87f1ce9c9eWed, 14 Sep 2022 18:16:51 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode I discuss with you what meetings look like in reality compared to what we wish that they looked like!  If we just go to meetings, it will not keep us sober.  We need to build a network of people that will help us navigate our sobriety...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>711cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/218-taking-suboxone-for-8-years-brennan-Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>cd7bbb03-a86e-4a17-8405-c07f88725144Sun, 11 Sep 2022 11:10:59 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode we take a deep dive into a real life experience with someone that was on suboxone for a really long time! Brennan shares with all of us why he was on it and why it took him so long to come off of it!  Goes without saying, we are not...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>2252cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/217-you-cant-please-everybody-be-selfishf76d78c5-cfd6-44c0-8715-caeeaa6d5636Wed, 07 Sep 2022 19:23:33 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode I discuss why it is so important to think selfishly when first getting clean and sober.  We need to think about what is best for us and not what is best for other people.  It is easy to allow outside influence dictate our next move in...527cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/216-three-tips-to-anti-up-your-sobriety177c1323-e801-488c-acc3-5bd743ac2716Sun, 04 Sep 2022 11:00:47 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode I give you three tips that you can implement today to anti-up your sobriety! It does not take a lot of work to implement what I am about to tell you. Just because we put down the drink in the drug doesn't mean that everything is going...656cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/215-time-to-make-new-friendsben@rockrecoverytalk.com ]]>ad75b05b-b244-4fb9-8d55-13f9a4c2f6b6Thu, 01 Sep 2022 19:10:50 +0000Tom ConradIn this I discuss the importance of making new friends when getting sober. Often times when we get sober our old friends look at us like we're an alien or something. Reality is, that you will not be able to keep the same friends that you had while you...ben@rockrecoverytalk.com ]]>433cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/214-zach-shares-how-sobriety-has-changedTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>2b05765b-f090-4204-a1dd-5a7ecb633a0aSun, 28 Aug 2022 11:00:52 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode I have a young man names Zach who was couragous enough to come on and share his experience in his first 2 months of sobriety!  Zach is very wise and has a lot of good information to share.  Zach has come such a long way in a short 2...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>1713cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/213-take-some-initiative-for-your-yourseTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>d5363a63-c2a7-4977-a93d-f612b35fa3ceWed, 24 Aug 2022 14:16:19 +0000Tom ConradIn this that I discuss why it is so important to take some initiative not only for yourself but for your recovery. Nothing sobriety process is going to get handed to you. We have to take the initiative to put 1 foot in front of the other to attain the...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>879cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/212-building-rapport-why-its-so-importanTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com  ]]>1589029b-802d-412e-9f82-91c132ceed9bSun, 21 Aug 2022 14:17:43 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode we discuss why it is so important to build rapport right off the bat with out clients.  Often times our clients come into treatment and they dont trust anyone, let alone want to be in treatment!  That is wny we focus so much on...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com  ]]>1233cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/211-nicole-bifano-lcsw-are-you-making-prBen@realrecoverytalk.com and Tom@realrecoverytalk.com]]>d8a6f244-f6c8-4cd1-9fe5-e5f528d073a9Wed, 17 Aug 2022 14:55:42 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode we have Nicole Bufano who is a licensed clinical social worker and works here at Rock Recovery Center. Nicole is our assistant Clinical Director and also a primary therapist here. In this episode we discuss measurable goals that we...Ben@realrecoverytalk.com and Tom@realrecoverytalk.com]]>2150cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/210-why-we-need-to-learn-to-trust-peopleTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com   ]]>bb4f99c2-9b91-41e1-b012-e041194e7e4eSun, 14 Aug 2022 11:00:51 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode we discuss the importance of being able to trust people when getting clean and sober. Often times in our addictions we felt betrayed and felt like we didn't have any support from anybody. It is not uncommon for us to not be able to...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com   ]]>1591cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/209-do-you-have-a-vision-for-your-sobrieben@realrecoverytalk.com ]]>e738f0f3-6974-412e-a70b-51b5c65053d9Wed, 10 Aug 2022 14:28:36 +0000Tom Conrad In this episode I discuss the importance of having a vision not only for your sobriety but also for your life in general. Often times we think getting sober is just about putting down a drink in the drugs, but there is so much more to it. If we do...ben@realrecoverytalk.com ]]>944cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/208-handling-different-personalities-parben@realrecoverytalk.com ]]>68046748-82a7-4dd5-bf10-4ca7d085a745Sun, 07 Aug 2022 11:00:47 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode we continue our discussion about different personalities that we come in contact with throughout the treatment process. We discuss how the different personalities that we interact with can ultimately affect our recovery in a negative...ben@realrecoverytalk.com ]]>2054cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/207-how-to-navigate-different-personalitTom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>11e5d854-fbdf-4f93-9574-624c4d9ef06eMon, 25 Jul 2022 01:11:03 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode we discuss a few different ways in which somone can present differently when getting clean and sober.  It can be a lot to handle and knowing how to naviagate each person differerently can be a huge advantage.  If you would like to talk...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com]]>1689cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/206-be-careful-who-you-take-advice-from-Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com ]]>d4f87a82-f86d-47ee-a3d7-1b6814e4d140Mon, 18 Jul 2022 12:25:42 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode we discuss taking advice from people when first getting sober. We discus the importance of being able to seek wisdom from those who have lived recovery. We discus situations in which you could get bad advice from people and how...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com and Ben@realrecoverytalk.com ]]>1785cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/205-lets-talk-vulnerability-why-being-vu3a4d4be9-dbb3-4099-b9b9-dc3b2e4b138bSun, 10 Jul 2022 11:00:08 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode we discussed Wyatt is so important to be vulnerable in the recovery process. Often times people have a hard time opening up to others, which causes them to not have the level of growth in their recovery as they should. When we are able...1068cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/204-my-dad-had-a-stroke-this-is-the-even0149cd1c-2e93-4299-8ba4-485dfa60bfdcSun, 26 Jun 2022 11:00:39 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode I discussed a life-changing event that took place on June 14, 2022. My dad had a massive stroke and lost his vision. Along with that a lot of his memory has been severely affected. These are the things that we often talk about when...906cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/203-dont-make-these-5-excuses-for-going-Tom@realrecoverytalk.com Ben@realrecoverytalk.com  ]]>7493dd40-a025-43ee-8e2e-0e9f9e2a546cSun, 19 Jun 2022 12:52:49 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode we discuss the Top 5 reasons/excuses as to why people dont go into drug treatment.  We are very good at talking ourselves out of doing the things that we know are best for us.   Realtiy is, there are no good excuse to not go to...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com Ben@realrecoverytalk.com  ]]>1898cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/202-dont-let-your-sobriety-get-staleTom@realrecoverytalk.com Ben@realrecoverytalk.com Thank you for all of your support!]]>968abc4c-945b-49a7-aff9-c3f65fb29ebbTue, 14 Jun 2022 13:53:54 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode we discuss five tips to keep your sobriety intact and not let it get stale. No matter where you are in the sobriety journey it is important to stay active and to continue to build on your sobriety. We can do this in many different...Tom@realrecoverytalk.com Ben@realrecoverytalk.com Thank you for all of your support!]]>2020cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/201-top-5-reasons-you-keep-going-back-to7a347735-7ac1-40f0-afa8-ec8d5e6fe8e5Sun, 05 Jun 2022 11:00:17 +0000Tom ConradIn this episode we discuss the top five reasons why you keep going back to treatment. Unfortunately people have unrealistic expectations around what treatment is supposed to be for. We tell people all the time, if you're not doing it while you're in...2081cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/200-were-back-thanks-for-the-undertandin532e35a4-8647-46d7-91f1-e0304b794808Mon, 30 May 2022 01:08:06 +0000Tom Conrad1773cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/199-how-to-stay-sober-during-the-holiday

If your family is a party family and always uses drugs or alcohol, your best choice is to not attend a family gathering. Be proud of your sobriety and do not put yourself in a situation to lose what you have done for yourself! 

There’s nothing on the face of this planet that is worth more than your sobriety. Share this podcast with a friend and leave us a review!   Show Notes: [01:44] Sobriety - you haven’t had to be sober for previous holidays, but now you do! [03:22] Going into your first holiday season as a sober person. [04:33] #1 Create a plan for your holiday [07:11]What should you do when your family puts you in a not-so-great situation? Plan ahead! [09:09] #3 Communicate with your family members [12:03] Decide what family members are supportive and communicate with them. #4 Set up your accountability beforehand. [15:59] Know that you have a say in what you do with alcohol.  [19:09] Be proud to be the sober person in the crowd. [20:15] There’s nothing on the face of this planet that is worth more than your sobriety.   Links and Resources: Real Recovery Live Chat Real Recovery Talk on the Web Real Recovery Talk on YouTube Leave Real Recovery Talk a review on iTunes Rock Recovery Center  ]]>d44db76c-da38-4827-88a7-4f7f60c787f0Thu, 09 Dec 2021 11:06:07 +0000Tom ConradThe holiday season is here upon us. This can be tough for those who are in early recovery, especially being with family. Along with family comes a lot of emotions. You may have indulged in drugs and alcohol to get through previous holidays to get...

If your family is a party family and always uses drugs or alcohol, your best choice is to not attend a family gathering. Be proud of your sobriety and do not put yourself in a situation to lose what you have done for yourself! 

There’s nothing on the face of this planet that is worth more than your sobriety. Share this podcast with a friend and leave us a review!   Show Notes: [01:44] Sobriety - you haven’t had to be sober for previous holidays, but now you do! [03:22] Going into your first holiday season as a sober person. [04:33] #1 Create a plan for your holiday [07:11]What should you do when your family puts you in a not-so-great situation? Plan ahead! [09:09] #3 Communicate with your family members [12:03] Decide what family members are supportive and communicate with them. #4 Set up your accountability beforehand. [15:59] Know that you have a say in what you do with alcohol.  [19:09] Be proud to be the sober person in the crowd. [20:15] There’s nothing on the face of this planet that is worth more than your sobriety.   Links and Resources: Real Recovery Live Chat 1482cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/198-addicted-to-meth-devin-shares-his-stwebsite, where you can download episodes with helpful information for those in recovery and their families. Share this podcast with a friend and leave us a review!   Show Highlights [02:12] - How early did Devin start experimenting with substances  [05:07] - Isolation can influence substance abuse [08:46] - What did Devin’s aunt say to him to help him get treatment [12:13] - A relapse occurs when he thinks he has his drug usage under control  [18:30] - What was Devin’s mindset when he restarted his program against drug usage [21:24] - Here are steps to support loved ones through treatment   Episode Links and Resources Real Recovery Live Chat Real Recovery Talk on the Web Real Recovery Talk on YouTube Leave Real Recovery Talk a review on iTunes Rock Recovery Center Real Recovery Talk on Facebook Find out more about Al-Anon and how this resource can support your family Ideas for a show? Email us tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by Pro Podcast Solutions  ]]>03da93cc-c493-4df6-b5df-6ce88a63d958Thu, 25 Nov 2021 08:00:00 +0000Tom Conrad“Addiction is so big in our society right now that it’s best that you let loved ones know that they can have help. They can receive help, and they can do this. It doesn’t have to kill them.” -Devin Today, Ben and I chatted with Devin, who’s an example...website, where you can download episodes with helpful information for those in recovery and their families. Share this podcast with a friend and leave us a review!   Show Highlights [02:12] - How early did Devin start experimenting with substances  [05:07] - Isolation can influence substance abuse [08:46] - What did Devin’s aunt say to him to help him get treatment [12:13] - A relapse occurs when he thinks he has his drug usage under control  [18:30] - What was Devin’s mindset when he restarted his program against drug usage [21:24] - Here are steps to support loved ones through treatment   Episode Links and Resources Real Recovery Live Chat Real Recovery Talk on the Web Real Recovery Talk on YouTube Leave Real Recovery Talk a review on iTunes Rock Recovery Center Real Recovery Talk on Facebook Find out more about Al-Anon and how this resource can support your family Ideas for a show? Email us tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by 1565cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/197-getting-hooked-on-and-off-drugs-and-website, where you can download episodes with helpful information for those in recovery and their families. Share this podcast with a friend and leave us a review!   Show Highlights [05:26] What made Ira swear off heavy drinking for 13 years [07:26] How he got high on alcohol and drugs at the same time [10:49] Frequent hospital visits as an easy way to get a fix [14:11] Why the substance of choice plays a minor part in addiction overall [18:46] Ira’s downturn before the turnaround [29:36] An intervention that led to him getting treatment for his health problems [40:04] The place and the meeting that ended up saving his life [46:58] How the last few months of Ira’s life have changed   Episode Links and Resources Real Recovery Live Chat Real Recovery Talk on the Web Real Recovery Talk on YouTube Leave Real Recovery Talk a review on iTunes Rock Recovery Center Real Recovery Talk on Facebook Find out more about Al-Anon and how this resource can support your family Ideas for a show? Email us tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by Pro Podcast Solutions  ]]>8f8f5ab2-b9e2-468d-b608-97dc2016c717Fri, 19 Nov 2021 15:37:41 +0000Tom Conrad“I have a purpose today, and I feel God steps in my life a lot and he was telling me to have courage and be fearless.” -Ira Today, Ben and I chatted with Ira, who’s a real deal addict. He’s had a ton of health issues like cancer, diabetes, and even...website, where you can download episodes with helpful information for those in recovery and their families. Share this podcast with a friend and leave us a review!   Show Highlights [05:26] What made Ira swear off heavy drinking for 13 years [07:26] How he got high on alcohol and drugs at the same time [10:49] Frequent hospital visits as an easy way to get a fix [14:11] Why the substance of choice plays a minor part in addiction overall [18:46] Ira’s downturn before the turnaround [29:36] An intervention that led to him getting treatment for his health problems [40:04] The place and the meeting that ended up saving his life [46:58] How the last few months of Ira’s life have changed   Episode Links and Resources Real Recovery Live Chat Real Recovery Talk on the Web Real Recovery Talk on YouTube Leave Real Recovery Talk a review on iTunes Rock Recovery Center Real Recovery Talk on Facebook Find out more about Al-Anon and how this resource can support your family Ideas for a show? Email us tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by Pro Podcast Solutions  ]]>3233cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/196-starting-an-addiction-during-collegewebsite, where you can download episodes with helpful information for those in recovery and their families. Share this podcast with a friend and leave us a review!   Show Highlights [06:04] Starting by experimenting with drugs and alcohol during his high school years. [09:48] Reed’s progression from college drinking and drugs to DEA raids. [21:27] Why being a helicopter parent can persuade your kids to do drugs. [32:19] Entering into his first treatment program. [41:27] Needing a geographical change depends on your home life. [50:11] We discuss the pros and cons of methadone. [57:46] Speaking to other through AA to educate college students on drugs and alcohol.   Episode Links and Resources Real Recovery Live Chat Real Recovery Talk on the Web Real Recovery Talk on YouTube Leave Real Recovery Talk a review on iTunes Rock Recovery Center Real Recovery Talk on Facebook Find out more about Al-Anon and how this resource can support your family Ideas for a show? Email us tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by Pro Podcast Solutions]]>d782381f-d5a4-4182-bcab-62e4d95bfbdbThu, 04 Nov 2021 10:20:20 +0000Tom Conrad“I have a place that I was comfortable with that I was already a part of for my recovery.” -Reed Today, Ben and I chatted with Reed, who tells his story about how his addiction started in college. Raised locally in Palm Beach Gardens, Reed had a good...website, where you can download episodes with helpful information for those in recovery and their families. Share this podcast with a friend and leave us a review!   Show Highlights [06:04] Starting by experimenting with drugs and alcohol during his high school years. [09:48] Reed’s progression from college drinking and drugs to DEA raids. [21:27] Why being a helicopter parent can persuade your kids to do drugs. [32:19] Entering into his first treatment program. [41:27] Needing a geographical change depends on your home life. [50:11] We discuss the pros and cons of methadone. [57:46] Speaking to other through AA to educate college students on drugs and alcohol.   Episode Links and Resources Real Recovery Live Chat Real Recovery Talk on the Web Real Recovery Talk on YouTube Leave Real Recovery Talk a review on iTunes Rock Recovery Center Real Recovery Talk on Facebook Find out more about Al-Anon and how this resource can support your family Ideas for a show? Email us tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by Pro Podcast Solutions]]>3921cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/195-healing-trauma-to-break-free-from-adwebsite, where you can download episodes with helpful information for those in recovery and their families. Share this podcast with a friend and leave us a review!   Show Highlights [02:32] Natalie talks about her past history growing up in a family of six children. [07:22] Using the white chip to surrender yourself so you can heal. [12:53] How surrendering leads to recovery for addicts. [17:48] Utilizing sobriety in the form of having clean people around you to help you change your lifestyle. [22:49] Moving from one addiction to another because you need the high to survive. [33:07] How Natalie’s life has changed since she started her recovery. [45:00] What she is doing to continue her recovery into sobriety.   Episode Links and Resources Real Recovery Live Chat Real Recovery Talk on the Web Real Recovery Talk on YouTube Leave Real Recovery Talk a review on iTunes Rock Recovery Center Real Recovery Talk on Facebook Find out more about Al-Anon and how this resource can support your family Ideas for a show? Email us tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by Pro Podcast Solutions]]>f09acdd4-4a72-497e-aea4-eac0fb1d1fc8Thu, 28 Oct 2021 07:00:00 +0000Tom Conrad“Life continues to show up, whether you want to be a part of it or not.” -Natalie Today, Ben and I chatted with Natalie, who endured horrible abuse as a small girl that gave her immense amounts of childhood trauma that ended up turning into a drug and...website, where you can download episodes with helpful information for those in recovery and their families. Share this podcast with a friend and leave us a review!   Show Highlights [02:32] Natalie talks about her past history growing up in a family of six children. [07:22] Using the white chip to surrender yourself so you can heal. [12:53] How surrendering leads to recovery for addicts. [17:48] Utilizing sobriety in the form of having clean people around you to help you change your lifestyle. [22:49] Moving from one addiction to another because you need the high to survive. [33:07] How Natalie’s life has changed since she started her recovery. [45:00] What she is doing to continue her recovery into sobriety.   Episode Links and Resources Real Recovery Live Chat Real Recovery Talk on the Web Real Recovery Talk on YouTube Leave Real Recovery Talk a review on iTunes Rock Recovery Center Real Recovery Talk on Facebook Find out more about Al-Anon and how this resource can support your family Ideas for a show? Email us tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by Pro Podcast Solutions]]>2977cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/194-sher-canada-gets-her-life-back-at-agwebsite, where you can download episodes with helpful information for those in recovery and their families. Share this podcast with a friend and leave us a review!   Show Highlights [02:45] Sher’s childhood with an alcoholic mother. [11:33] Striking a balance between serving addicts and family life.  [21:57] Retiring at the age of 56, Sher joined a tennis club and started drinking. [25:06] Her partner starts to realize she is drinking too much.  [35:55] Figuring out what you love to do and make money at it for your career. [37:10] Sher’s partner moves out and leaves alcohol recovery center information behind. [44:03] Her first few days at Rock Recovery Center. [56:36] No matter how successful you are, alcohol and drugs can bring you down in life. [61:33] Finding her sponsor through the AA program.   Episode Links and Resources Real Recovery Live Chat Real Recovery Talk on the Web Real Recovery Talk on YouTube Leave Real Recovery Talk a review on iTunes Rock Recovery Center Real Recovery Talk on Facebook Find out more about Al-Anon and how this resource can support your family Ideas for a show? Email us tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by Pro Podcast Solutions  ]]>564b0eb7-0496-4df4-91bd-00ff7a885800Thu, 21 Oct 2021 07:00:00 +0000Tom Conrad“You’ve got to surrender - I came here and gave it all up to you.” -Sher Today, Ben and I chatted with Sher Canada, a former client at Rock Recovery Center. We could tell that she was someone special shortly after she arrived at Rock Recovery. In our...website, where you can download episodes with helpful information for those in recovery and their families. Share this podcast with a friend and leave us a review!   Show Highlights [02:45] Sher’s childhood with an alcoholic mother. [11:33] Striking a balance between serving addicts and family life.  [21:57] Retiring at the age of 56, Sher joined a tennis club and started drinking. [25:06] Her partner starts to realize she is drinking too much.  [35:55] Figuring out what you love to do and make money at it for your career. [37:10] Sher’s partner moves out and leaves alcohol recovery center information behind. [44:03] Her first few days at Rock Recovery Center. [56:36] No matter how successful you are, alcohol and drugs can bring you down in life. [61:33] Finding her sponsor through the AA program.   Episode Links and Resources Real Recovery Live Chat Real Recovery Talk on the Web Real Recovery Talk on YouTube Leave Real Recovery Talk a review on iTunes Rock Recovery Center Real Recovery Talk on Facebook Find out more about Al-Anon and how this resource can support your family Ideas for a show? Email us tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by Pro Podcast Solutions  ]]>4086cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/193-vince-has-been-to-10-treatment-centenew website where you can download any episode right from my site along with other useful information for those in recovery.

• Share this podcast with a friend and leave us a review!

Show Notes:

• [03:09] Vince talks about his past experiences growing up in Philadelphia.
• [07:11] His first experience drinking in sixth grade.
• [13:33] Social acceptance and drug culture.
• [15:21] Personal identity associated with career for men.
• [18:25] Vince had his first experience with opiate drugs his senior year in high school.
• [19:45] He started stealing from his family to buy more opiate drugs.
• [25:11] The “Florida Shuffle” moving on from the treatment facility to another facility.
• [28:40] Ben talks about the incredible recovery culture in Florida.
• [33:10] Why Vince having his daughter wasn’t enough to keep him sober.
• [37:01] Sobriety and addiction and how these two can easily interchange. 
• [40:13] What is different for Vince in this recovery process?
• [43:42] His biggest fears for the recovery process.
• [45:27] Vince’s spiritual AA experience.

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• Real Recovery Live Chat
• Real Recovery Talk on the Web
• Real Recovery Talk on YouTube
• Leave Real Recovery Talk a review on iTunes
• Rock Recovery Center
• Real Recovery Talk on Facebook
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]]>9ba75b0c-0fdd-4115-a1f0-0745998db36bThu, 14 Oct 2021 14:11:51 +0000Tom ConradIn today's episode, Ben and I talk with Vince, a 25-year-old recovering addict from Philadelphia. He stole a bottle of vodka and drank the entire bottle in sixth grade. In the summer of his freshman year of high school, Vince started smoking pot....new website where you can download any episode right from my site along with other useful information for those in recovery.

• Share this podcast with a friend and leave us a review!

Show Notes:

• [03:09] Vince talks about his past experiences growing up in Philadelphia.
• [07:11] His first experience drinking in sixth grade.
• [13:33] Social acceptance and drug culture.
• [15:21] Personal identity associated with career for men.
• [18:25] Vince had his first experience with opiate drugs his senior year in high school.
• [19:45] He started stealing from his family to buy more opiate drugs.
• [25:11] The “Florida Shuffle” moving on from the treatment facility to another facility.
• [28:40] Ben talks about the incredible recovery culture in Florida.
• [33:10] Why Vince having his daughter wasn’t enough to keep him sober.
• [37:01] Sobriety and addiction and how these two can easily interchange. 
• [40:13] What is different for Vince in this recovery process?
• [43:42] His biggest fears for the recovery process.
• [45:27] Vince’s spiritual AA experience.

Episode Links and Resources

• Real Recovery Live Chat
• Real Recovery Talk on the Web
• 3020cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/192-growing-up-in-manhattan-selling-drugwebsite where you can download episodes with helpful information for those in recovery and their families. Share this podcast with a friend and leave us a review!   Show Notes: [02:05] Tom’s early years and how he became addicted to alcohol.  [04:22] How New York and growing up in a fast-paced environment impacted Tom’s addiction. [10:32] His circle of friends in high school was drug dealers selling weed. [14:00] The thought of getting sober was scary for Tom because he realized he would need to grow up. [16:55] The first time he decided to stop being an addict was on 9-11. [18:33] Discovering opiate drugs and how Tom thought he would be OK with opiates. [21:44] Adding cocaine to his alcohol and opiate drug addiction. [26:29] First time Tom experience hope in his life to get off of drugs and alcohol. [35:14] The point at which Tom stopped making excuses in his life. [40:16] Surrendering and how this affected his healing journey to recovering.   Episode Links and Resources Real Recovery Live Chat Real Recovery Talk on the Web Real Recovery Talk on YouTube Leave Real Recovery Talk a review on iTunes Rock Recovery Center Real Recovery Talk on Facebook Find out more about Al-Anon and how this resource can support your family Ideas for a show? Email us tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by Pro Podcast Solutions]]>b4486ca6-2c5e-4c44-a5a8-2a3c378975f9Thu, 07 Oct 2021 07:00:00 +0000Tom Conrad“What alcohol was doing for me outlaid what it was doing to me.” --Tom Today, Ben and I are talking to Tom, who works in the recovery field. Born and raised in downtown Manhattan, he became a drug dealer and eventually became sober from drugs and...website where you can download episodes with helpful information for those in recovery and their families. Share this podcast with a friend and leave us a review!   Show Notes: [02:05] Tom’s early years and how he became addicted to alcohol.  [04:22] How New York and growing up in a fast-paced environment impacted Tom’s addiction. [10:32] His circle of friends in high school was drug dealers selling weed. [14:00] The thought of getting sober was scary for Tom because he realized he would need to grow up. [16:55] The first time he decided to stop being an addict was on 9-11. [18:33] Discovering opiate drugs and how Tom thought he would be OK with opiates. [21:44] Adding cocaine to his alcohol and opiate drug addiction. [26:29] First time Tom experience hope in his life to get off of drugs and alcohol. [35:14] The point at which Tom stopped making excuses in his life. [40:16] Surrendering and how this affected his healing journey to recovering.   Episode Links and Resources Real Recovery Live Chat Real Recovery Talk on the Web Real Recovery Talk on YouTube Leave Real Recovery Talk a review on iTunes Rock Recovery Center Real Recovery Talk on Facebook Find out more about Al-Anon and how this resource can support your family Ideas for a show? Email us tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by Pro Podcast Solutions]]>2927cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/191-al-dutzik-the-real-deal-alcoholic-thwebsite where you can download episodes with helpful information for those in recovery and their families. Share this podcast with a friend and leave us a review!   Show Notes: [03:15] Al’s experience with alcohol and growing up with an alcoholic father. [07:04] The emotional void that alcohol fills. [10:08] Starting to drink in the morning to avoid feeling hungover. [17:56] The wheels fall off when the alcohol doesn’t work to solve your problems. [20:01] How he decided to go into rehab and who helped him get there. [24:58] Going into recovery simplified Al’s life in a very profound way. [30:39] His first conference call with an addiction counselor. [34:34] Be willing to take suggestions from others to help you on the road to recovery. [39:33] What AA is all about and how you can use AA to recover. [43:48] Giving up alcohol gave Al his entire life back.   Episode Links and Resources Real Recovery Live Chat Real Recovery Talk on the Web Real Recovery Talk on YouTube Leave Real Recovery Talk a review on iTunes Rock Recovery Center Real Recovery Talk on Facebook Find out more about Al-Anon and how this resource can support your family Ideas for a show? Email us tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by Pro Podcast Solutions  ]]>d4d3a87f-970d-42c0-9339-b22603d4a046Thu, 30 Sep 2021 07:00:00 +0000Tom Conrad“’Alcohol was the substance I just could not go without - I felt safe with alcohol.” -Al Today, Ben and I are talking to Al, a native of Pittsburgh, who is sharing with us today his journey and what he did to become sober. He talks with us about...website where you can download episodes with helpful information for those in recovery and their families. Share this podcast with a friend and leave us a review!   Show Notes: [03:15] Al’s experience with alcohol and growing up with an alcoholic father. [07:04] The emotional void that alcohol fills. [10:08] Starting to drink in the morning to avoid feeling hungover. [17:56] The wheels fall off when the alcohol doesn’t work to solve your problems. [20:01] How he decided to go into rehab and who helped him get there. [24:58] Going into recovery simplified Al’s life in a very profound way. [30:39] His first conference call with an addiction counselor. [34:34] Be willing to take suggestions from others to help you on the road to recovery. [39:33] What AA is all about and how you can use AA to recover. [43:48] Giving up alcohol gave Al his entire life back.   Episode Links and Resources Real Recovery Live Chat Real Recovery Talk on the Web Real Recovery Talk on YouTube Leave Real Recovery Talk a review on iTunes Rock Recovery Center Real Recovery Talk on Facebook Find out more about Al-Anon and how this resource can support your family Ideas for a show? Email us tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by Pro Podcast Solutions  ]]>3209cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/190-the-first-30-days-of-treatmentnew website where you can download any episode right from my site along with other useful information for those in recovery. Look for our new daily shows, which are five minutes or under! Listen in for yourself or for a friend. You can also find our new short episodes on our Facebook page.
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    Show Notes: [05:48] What the first seven days of treatment will most likely be for an addict in recovery. [06:05] Variables which affect the length and severity of detox. [09:28] The next phase of your healing: moving to a residential facility. [12:24] You may have spent multiple years becoming an addict, you will most likely spend months if not years to recover to the point of not falling back to your addiction. [14:41] Have you identified your triggers? If so, what are coping skills you are using to calm your reaction to your triggers? [16:48] An example of what shouldn’t happen when you come in for recovery. [19:42] We work with clients for three to four months on a continual basis to continue their recovery process.   Links and Resources: Real Recovery Live Chat Real Recovery Talk on the Web Real Recovery Talk on YouTube Leave Real Recovery Talk a review on iTunes Rock Recovery Center Real Recovery Talk on Facebook Ideas for a show? Email us tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com  ]]>e30d213a-5634-445f-8fc1-ad95c0707f39Thu, 23 Sep 2021 07:00:00 +0000Tom ConradHere we are with Real Recovery Talk! Do you know someone who is considering going to a treatment facility for up to 30 days? Today, I’m going to talk about how you most likely won’t be cured by going to treatment for 30 days. There are a few people...new website where you can download any episode right from my site along with other useful information for those in recovery. Look for our new daily shows, which are five minutes or under! Listen in for yourself or for a friend. You can also find our new short episodes on our Facebook page.
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    Show Notes: [05:48] What the first seven days of treatment will most likely be for an addict in recovery. [06:05] Variables which affect the length and severity of detox. [09:28] The next phase of your healing: moving to a residential facility. [12:24] You may have spent multiple years becoming an addict, you will most likely spend months if not years to recover to the point of not falling back to your addiction. [14:41] Have you identified your triggers? If so, what are coping skills you are using to calm your reaction to your triggers? [16:48] An example of what shouldn’t happen when you come in for recovery. [19:42] We work with clients for three to four months on a continual basis to continue their recovery process.   Links and Resources: Real Recovery Live Chat Real Recovery Talk on the Web 1308cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/189-perry-struggles-with-kratom-and-the-website where you can download episodes with helpful information for those in recovery and their families. Share this podcast with a friend and leave us a review!   Show Notes: [01:33] Perry talks about his backstory and history of addiction. [04:11] How he became interested and addicted to psychedelic drugs. [06:55] Social aspect of doing drugs and participating in raves. [11:47] Ben talks about what Kratom is and why it’s a bad choice to get off of drugs. [14:44] The first time Perry tried Kratom and how he became addicted to this drug. [22:09] How Perry decided to get back on Kratom after he was clean for a year. [31:57] Different phases of Kratom use when taking it daily. [36:07] Life became unmanageable once he was addicted to Kratom. [41:57] How Perry decided to get off Kratom and his plan for his future.   Episode Links and Resources Real Recovery Live Chat Real Recovery Talk on the Web Real Recovery Talk on YouTube Leave Real Recovery Talk a review on iTunes Rock Recovery Center Real Recovery Talk on Facebook Find out more about Al-Anon and how this resource can support your family Ideas for a show? Email us tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by Pro Podcast Solutions]]>abba16b1-89d0-4fc6-9f50-3b32969eb8dfThu, 16 Sep 2021 07:00:00 +0000Tom Conrad“Kratom feels like an opiate, you get strong feelings similar to opiates.’” -Perry Today, Ben and I are talking to Perry, a 24-year-old from Maryland and started smoking marijuana at age 16. He lost everything that he owned and had to drug and alcohol...website where you can download episodes with helpful information for those in recovery and their families. Share this podcast with a friend and leave us a review!   Show Notes: [01:33] Perry talks about his backstory and history of addiction. [04:11] How he became interested and addicted to psychedelic drugs. [06:55] Social aspect of doing drugs and participating in raves. [11:47] Ben talks about what Kratom is and why it’s a bad choice to get off of drugs. [14:44] The first time Perry tried Kratom and how he became addicted to this drug. [22:09] How Perry decided to get back on Kratom after he was clean for a year. [31:57] Different phases of Kratom use when taking it daily. [36:07] Life became unmanageable once he was addicted to Kratom. [41:57] How Perry decided to get off Kratom and his plan for his future.   Episode Links and Resources Real Recovery Live Chat Real Recovery Talk on the Web Real Recovery Talk on YouTube Leave Real Recovery Talk a review on iTunes Rock Recovery Center Real Recovery Talk on Facebook Find out more about Al-Anon and how this resource can support your family Ideas for a show? Email us tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by Pro Podcast Solutions]]>3076cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/188-ken-b-35-retired-from-the-army-discuwebsite where you can download any episode along with helpful information for those in recovery and the families of those in recovery.
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    Show Notes: [06:20] Ken talks about the parallels between his childhood and the military. [07:38] He discusses how drinking was embedded into the military back in the 80s and 90s. [10:01] Ken recalls his experience in Iraq on a specific “crazy” mission. [13:25] Why many men in the company used heroin as their drug of choice in the military. [16:10] How the military and his marriage kept him busy enough that he drank less. [21:17] Having the root of his moral compass grounded in God. [22:52] Ken describes the series of events leading him up to his successful recovery at Rock Recovery Center. [31:59] The seven points of rehabilitation he took on his journey to recovery. [50:23] Where Ken is going from here and what his future looks like.   Episode Links and Resources Real Recovery Live Chat Real Recovery Talk on the Web Real Recovery Talk on YouTube Leave Real Recovery Talk a review on iTunes Rock Recovery Center Real Recovery Talk on Facebook Find out more about Al-Anon and how this resource can support your family Ideas for a show? Email us tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by Pro Podcast Solutions  ]]>a161ec40-85a7-4a92-a626-914b8a17243fThu, 09 Sep 2021 11:59:34 +0000Tom Conrad“You couple substance abuse with PTSD and I’m wondering, ‘How do I fit in?’” -Ken Today, Ben and I are talking to Ken, a 35-year active military combat-in-arms, now veteran, discussing his alcoholism and addiction and what his post-military recovery...website where you can download any episode along with helpful information for those in recovery and the families of those in recovery.
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    Show Notes: [06:20] Ken talks about the parallels between his childhood and the military. [07:38] He discusses how drinking was embedded into the military back in the 80s and 90s. [10:01] Ken recalls his experience in Iraq on a specific “crazy” mission. [13:25] Why many men in the company used heroin as their drug of choice in the military. [16:10] How the military and his marriage kept him busy enough that he drank less. [21:17] Having the root of his moral compass grounded in God. [22:52] Ken describes the series of events leading him up to his successful recovery at Rock Recovery Center. [31:59] The seven points of rehabilitation he took on his journey to recovery. [50:23] Where Ken is going from here and what his future looks like.   Episode Links and Resources Real Recovery Live Chat Real Recovery Talk on the Web Real Recovery Talk on YouTube Leave Real Recovery Talk a review on iTunes Rock Recovery Center Real Recovery Talk on Facebook Find out more about Al-Anon and how this resource can support your family Ideas for a show? Email us tom@realrecoverytalk.com and fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/187-5-advantages-to-sobriety-that-we-didtom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by Pro Podcast Solutions  ]]>0165faec-0d6b-4085-9918-ea0a863ded09Thu, 02 Sep 2021 07:00:00 +0000Tom Conrad“I can’t even put into words how tight-knit a community that we’re a part of.” -Ben Today, Ben and I will cover the top five unexpected benefits that have come about because of our sobriety. These positive side effects are items that naturally and...tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by Pro Podcast Solutions  ]]>3066cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/186-cody-w-his-successes-finance-and-alltom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by Pro Podcast Solutions  ]]>d39dab2f-3f2f-4d17-9da4-94913741c1e6Thu, 26 Aug 2021 09:36:18 +0000Tom Conrad“You have choices in what you do with your time, and that’s up to the individual.” -Cody Today, Ben and I are chatting with Cody, who was very successful in life, and then addiction took it all away. Listen in to find out how he is rebuilding his life...tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by Pro Podcast Solutions  ]]>3144cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/175-geographical-change-assisting-peoplee587ef3e-3d1e-4544-80f0-8f32d54be914Thu, 22 Apr 2021 07:00:00 +0000Tom ConradGeographical change can help assist people going through recovery. A change that includes getting away from the people and influences that led to the addiction in the first place can be helpful. Benjamin B. and Renee L. are here today to talk about...2338cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/174-our-thoughts-on-california-sober-akatom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by Pro Podcast Solutions  ]]>fd854b00-dbc8-4b09-8cd7-6fbd5bd06ac9Thu, 15 Apr 2021 10:26:37 +0000Tom Conrad“I know people that have gotten clean and sober off of their drug of choice... and have tried this 'medical marijuana' aspect of it... and... I don't know of anybody that was able to stay that way and maintain sobriety after going down that road.”...2560cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/171-the-importance-of-exercise-when-gettbe73eaf8-aa10-43e2-969f-c61b62beedc4Thu, 04 Mar 2021 14:30:47 +0000Tom ConradGetting clean and sober can be stressful. We try to do everything possible to help people going through recovery deal with stress. It's scientifically proven that exercise will help reduce stress levels. This is why we can't emphasize the importance...2307cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/170-allie-severino-host-and-producer-of-tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by Pro Podcast Solutions Visit Allie Severino on the web Check out American Relapse]]>d1107e35-bb05-4c4e-8770-7e09676e257eThu, 18 Feb 2021 08:00:00 +0000Tom ConradToday, Ben and I are chatting with Allie Severino, host of the “Dope Sick Nation”, which premiered on VICE in 2019. Allie’s goal is to help educate and heal America with her series offering a unique, inside perspective on the addiction problems facing...tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by Pro Podcast Solutions Visit Allie Severino on the web Check out American Relapse]]>3169cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/169-jacob-tells-his-story-about-relapse-tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by Pro Podcast Solutions]]>f38f2a84-084b-434f-8f72-71a913ee5d96Thu, 04 Feb 2021 08:00:00 +0000Tom ConradToday, Ben and I are chatting to Jacob, who tells us his story of relapse, which led him to his deterioration and how he dug himself back out to sobriety again. Being introduced to alcohol at age 8, Jacob had a long and challenging life ahead of...tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by Pro Podcast Solutions]]>2754cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/168-how-to-not-relapse-with-ben-and-tomtom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by Pro Podcast Solutions]]>52af0fe3-a908-4e73-bfd0-bea2a2677b51Thu, 28 Jan 2021 08:00:00 +0000Tom ConradToday, Ben and I are chatting about gaining enough positive capital into your life for relapse prevention. Many people get sober, and relapsing can be expected. In this episode, we want to teach you tools and action steps to prevent relapse. Build...tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by Pro Podcast Solutions]]>2711cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/167-ask-yourself-these-3-things-before-stom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by Pro Podcast Solutions]]>50011523-c22e-4f6d-b879-cfafe0e2bc69Thu, 21 Jan 2021 11:39:17 +0000Tom ConradToday, I’ll be talking about three questions you want to think about and reflect on before deciding to speak with your loved one about becoming clean and sober. No matter if they are a daughter, son, parent, or friend, these are three critical...tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by Pro Podcast Solutions]]>1761cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/166-is-methadone-an-effective-treatment-f25f2a99-6228-49cb-8ae2-c3eb7c8b96f6Thu, 14 Jan 2021 08:00:00 +0000Tom ConradAre you considering methadone or suboxone prescription as a way to treat heroin addiction for you or a loved one? Is this a safe way to beat an opioid addiction or will it only make the struggle more difficult? Ben Bueno is a recovering heroin addict...1304cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/165-how-self-esteem-directly-affects-ourfd6c9fbe-71fe-4e06-b049-0e40729354bdThu, 07 Jan 2021 14:48:51 +0000Tom ConradEveryone on the planet is affected by self-esteem in one way or another. Today, Tom discusses how self-esteem in general can influence addiction. In this episode, he talks about what self-esteem is and why positive self-esteem is so important for...1811cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10643772/164-the-unfortunate-truths-of-addictiontom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by Pro Podcast Solutions]]>c4e884a3-d90c-4299-9067-a109931514f7Thu, 31 Dec 2020 08:00:00 +0000Tom ConradWe received two phone calls a couple of days ago that two people we know quite well had overdosed on drugs. One was rushed to the hospital, treated, and released. However, the second person is in ICU and will most likely not make it through his...tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com Podcast editing and show notes by Pro Podcast Solutions]]>2063cleanfull