http://www.theapollosproject.comenReligion & SpiritualityCopyright Chap Bettishttps://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c9517d012a3c5df665bb0bea3339bdaa.jpghttp://www.theapollosproject.comFri, 07 Aug 2026 12:29:34 +0000Chap BettisChap Bettischap@chapbettis.comThe Disciple-Making Parent equips Christian parents to pass the gospel to their children. In the show, we'll think about principles that all parents should know. Listen in on Chap's conversations with equippers in this field.falseepisodichttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/130-tim-challies-technology-q-a--72703993https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72703993Fri, 26 Jun 2026 15:20:46 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we have a Q&A with Tim Challies to explore how churches and families can thoughtfully navigate technology. We discuss the shift from hymnals to projectors, the impact of AI and social media on...2561falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/129-tim-challies-the-porn-free-family--72457842
Resources From This Podcast
Suffering and Our Savior- podcast episode 124 with Tim Challies
Personal Accounts of God’s Goodness in Suffering- podcast episode 125 with Tim Challies
Finding Comfort in Suffering- podcast episode 126 with Tim Challies
Challies.com- Tim Challies’ blog
Covenant Eyes
OpenDNS]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72457842Wed, 10 Jun 2026 12:28:19 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple‑Making Parent Podcast we hear from Tim Challies on how families can create a truly porn‑free home. We'll hear about the early exposure risks children face online, share practical tools such as filtering, accountability...
Resources From This Podcast
Suffering and Our Savior- podcast episode 124 with Tim Challies
Personal Accounts of God’s Goodness in Suffering- podcast episode 125 with Tim Challies
Finding Comfort in Suffering- podcast episode 126 with Tim Challies
Challies.com- Tim Challies’ blog
Covenant Eyes
OpenDNS]]>2101falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/128-tim-challies-deep-thinking-about-helping-our-family-with-technology--72184814
We also explore a distinctly Christian framework for technology. We are image-bearers called to create and use tools for good, while recognizing how sin twists every technology toward harm and idolatry. Finally, we consider what is coming next, including AI, augmented reality, and transhumanism, and how we can choose practices that help our families use technology to love God and serve others.

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Managing Your Households Well

Want to lead your family (and your home) with wisdom in a distracted age? Managing Your Households Well: How Family Leadership Trains You for Church Leadership is a practical resource for church leaders and aspiring leaders—showing how faithful, steady care at home shapes the kind of character needed for lasting ministry leadership.

Learn More


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Resources From This Podcast
Suffering and Our Savior- Podcast with Tim Challies
 ​Personal Accounts of God’s Goodness in Suffering- Podcast with Tim Challies
Finding Comfort in Suffering: Personal Q&A on Grief & God’s Goodness- Podcast with Tim Challies
challies.com – Tim Challies’ blog
The Next Story: Faith, Friends, Family, and the Digital World, by Tim Challies]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72184814Wed, 27 May 2026 12:43:48 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we talk with Tim Challies about how Christian families can think clearly about technology in a world where screens, social media, and now AI are everywhere. We look at the real numbers shaping...
We also explore a distinctly Christian framework for technology. We are image-bearers called to create and use tools for good, while recognizing how sin twists every technology toward harm and idolatry. Finally, we consider what is coming next, including AI, augmented reality, and transhumanism, and how we can choose practices that help our families use technology to love God and serve others.

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Managing Your Households Well

Want to lead your family (and your home) with wisdom in a distracted age? Managing Your Households Well: How Family Leadership Trains You for Church Leadership is a practical resource for church leaders and aspiring leaders—showing how faithful, steady care at home shapes the kind of character needed for lasting ministry leadership.

Learn More


Free Disciple-Making Parent Audiobook

You can also get the Disciple-Making Parent audiobook free. Visit thedisciplemakingparent.com, sign up for the weekly newsletter, and we’ll send you the full audiobook—because we want to help parents and grandparents raise kids who love Jesus and learn to make disciples in everyday life.




Resources From This Podcast
Suffering and Our Savior- Podcast with Tim Challies
 ​Personal Accounts of God’s Goodness in Suffering- Podcast with Tim Challies
Finding Comfort in Suffering: Personal Q&A on Grief & God’s Goodness- Podcast with Tim Challies
challies.com – Tim Challies’ blog
The Next Story: Faith, Friends, Family, and the Digital World, by Tim Challies]]>2472falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/127-dan-darling-how-should-christians-think-about-patriotism--71888865
We unpack why love of country can be an expression of gratitude and a part of discipleship, and how we can teach children and grandchildren to think biblically about their nation without slipping into cynicism or idolatry. We discuss how to tell the full story of history, including real sins and real progress, and why reform is strongest when it grows out of love for a country’s ideals. We also clarify the difference between patriotism and Christian nationalism, and why robust Christian engagement in the public square matters while maintaining a clear distinction between church and state. Along the way, we reflect on American exceptionalism, ordered loves, and practical ways families can cultivate civic gratitude and responsibility.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71888865Wed, 06 May 2026 11:34:11 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we talk with Dan Darling about what healthy Christian patriotism looks like. We unpack why love of country can be an expression of gratitude and a part of discipleship, and how we can teach...
We unpack why love of country can be an expression of gratitude and a part of discipleship, and how we can teach children and grandchildren to think biblically about their nation without slipping into cynicism or idolatry. We discuss how to tell the full story of history, including real sins and real progress, and why reform is strongest when it grows out of love for a country’s ideals. We also clarify the difference between patriotism and Christian nationalism, and why robust Christian engagement in the public square matters while maintaining a clear distinction between church and state. Along the way, we reflect on American exceptionalism, ordered loves, and practical ways families can cultivate civic gratitude and responsibility.]]>2570falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/126-tim-challies-finding-comfort-in-suffering-a-personal-q-a-on-grief-and-god-s-goodness--71341916
Resources From This Podcast
Tim Challies: Suffering and Our Savior (#1 in series)
Tim Challies: Personal Accounts of God’s Goodness in Suffering (#2 in series)
On Jordan’s Stormy Banks, performed by Indelible Grace
Seasons of Sorrow, by Tim Challies
A Manifesto for Times of Suffering- Tim’s “Grief Manifesto”
Dark Clouds, Deep Mercy, by Mark Vroegop
Tim Challies- Walking Through Deep Sorrow and Loss (Prior podcast interview) ​]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71341916Wed, 15 Apr 2026 12:30:09 +0000Chap BettisIn this episode, Chap Bettis sits down with Tim Challies and pastor Travis Rymer for a candid Q&A that closes out The Disciple-Making Parent’s mini-series on suffering. Tim shares Scriptures and hymns that shaped his grief, how his family helped...
Resources From This Podcast
Tim Challies: Suffering and Our Savior (#1 in series)
Tim Challies: Personal Accounts of God’s Goodness in Suffering (#2 in series)
On Jordan’s Stormy Banks, performed by Indelible Grace
Seasons of Sorrow, by Tim Challies
A Manifesto for Times of Suffering- Tim’s “Grief Manifesto”
Dark Clouds, Deep Mercy, by Mark Vroegop
Tim Challies- Walking Through Deep Sorrow and Loss (Prior podcast interview) ​]]>1332falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/125-tim-challies-personal-accounts-of-god-s-goodness-in-suffering--71230948

Topics Covered in This Week’s Podcast
03:46 Introduction: Losing and grieving Nick
09:31 Glimpses of grace
15:25 Tim’s manifesto
21:25 Five lessons about grief
29:31 Five ways to help people who are grieving

Resources From This Podcast
Tim Challies: Personal Accounts of God’s Goodness in Suffering (Previous podcast)
Seasons of Sorrow, by Tim Challies
Challies.com, Tim’s blog
A Manifesto for Times of Suffering
Tim Challies- Walking Through Deep Sorrow and Loss (Prior podcast interview)]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71230948Fri, 10 Apr 2026 11:40:15 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we listen as Tim Challies shares a deeply personal “story of grace” from the aftermath of losing his son, Nick. We hear what those first shocking moments were like, how grief can cloud our...

Topics Covered in This Week’s Podcast
03:46 Introduction: Losing and grieving Nick
09:31 Glimpses of grace
15:25 Tim’s manifesto
21:25 Five lessons about grief
29:31 Five ways to help people who are grieving

Resources From This Podcast
Tim Challies: Personal Accounts of God’s Goodness in Suffering (Previous podcast)
Seasons of Sorrow, by Tim Challies
Challies.com, Tim’s blog
A Manifesto for Times of Suffering
Tim Challies- Walking Through Deep Sorrow and Loss (Prior podcast interview)]]>2167falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/124-tim-challies-suffering-and-our-savior--71040559
Tim walks us through Luke 7:11–17, where Jesus meets a grieving widow in Nain and raises her son, and we’re reminded of three simple, steady truths: death is strong, God is stronger, and one day death itself will die.

As we listen, we’re encouraged to trust God’s good purposes in our pain, to remember that Jesus draws near to the brokenhearted, and to anchor our hope in the future comfort and resurrection promised to all who are in Christ. 

Topics Covered in This Week’s Podcast
4:01 Introduction
11:18 Death is strong
19:04 God is stronger
25:11 Death will die

Resources From This Podcast
Seasons of Sorrow, by Tim Challies
Tim Challies- Walking Through Deep Sorrow and Loss (Prior podcast interview)Challies.com, Tim’s blog]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71040559Wed, 01 Apr 2026 10:23:49 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we begin a new series by listening to Tim Challies as he helps us think biblically about suffering, sorrow, and the compassion of Christ. Tim walks us through Luke 7:11–17, where Jesus meets a...
Tim walks us through Luke 7:11–17, where Jesus meets a grieving widow in Nain and raises her son, and we’re reminded of three simple, steady truths: death is strong, God is stronger, and one day death itself will die.

As we listen, we’re encouraged to trust God’s good purposes in our pain, to remember that Jesus draws near to the brokenhearted, and to anchor our hope in the future comfort and resurrection promised to all who are in Christ. 

Topics Covered in This Week’s Podcast
4:01 Introduction
11:18 Death is strong
19:04 God is stronger
25:11 Death will die

Resources From This Podcast
Seasons of Sorrow, by Tim Challies
Tim Challies- Walking Through Deep Sorrow and Loss (Prior podcast interview)Challies.com, Tim’s blog]]>2521falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/123-chap-bettis-biblical-conflict-resolution-part-4-the-call-to-forgive-handle-difficult-people-and-think-properly-about-boundaries--70715522
We also talk about how to love people who will not repent, including how to stay open-hearted while setting wise limits that separate wisdom from folly, and how to rebuild trust proportionally over time. Along the way, we look at key passages like Acts 15, Matthew 18, Romans 12, and Luke 17, and we end with practical encouragement to pursue peace in a way that honors Christ.

Topics Covered in This Week’s Podcast
01:47 Introduction and review
03:59 Principles of forgiveness
10:29 Inner forgiveness
17:29 Relational forgiveness
22:55 What about someone who will not repent or reconcile?

Resources From This Podcast
Biblical Conflict Resolution Part 1– Introduction and the Call to Glorify God
Biblical Conflict Resolution Part 2– The Call to Get the Log Out of Our Own Eye
Biblical Conflict Resolution Part 3- The Call to Go and Restore
The Peacemaker, by Ken Sande
Pursuing Peace, by Dr. Robert Jones
Making Sense of Forgiveness, by Brad Hambrick]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70715522Wed, 18 Mar 2026 12:12:35 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we start unpacking three hard topics that come up in conflict: forgiveness, reconciliation, and what some people call boundaries. We walk through a simple peacemaking framework, then clarify two...
We also talk about how to love people who will not repent, including how to stay open-hearted while setting wise limits that separate wisdom from folly, and how to rebuild trust proportionally over time. Along the way, we look at key passages like Acts 15, Matthew 18, Romans 12, and Luke 17, and we end with practical encouragement to pursue peace in a way that honors Christ.

Topics Covered in This Week’s Podcast
01:47 Introduction and review
03:59 Principles of forgiveness
10:29 Inner forgiveness
17:29 Relational forgiveness
22:55 What about someone who will not repent or reconcile?

Resources From This Podcast
Biblical Conflict Resolution Part 1– Introduction and the Call to Glorify God
Biblical Conflict Resolution Part 2– The Call to Get the Log Out of Our Own Eye
Biblical Conflict Resolution Part 3- The Call to Go and Restore
The Peacemaker, by Ken Sande
Pursuing Peace, by Dr. Robert Jones
Making Sense of Forgiveness, by Brad Hambrick]]>2782falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/122-chap-bettis-biblical-conflict-resolution-part-3-the-call-to-go-and-restore--70443333
We walk through helpful criteria for making that call, like impact, responsibility, frequency, seriousness, and whether the issue is public or private. Then we cover practical, Christlike communication that aims for reconciliation, including listening well, asking clarifying questions, speaking humbly, and choosing the best setting for hard conversations. 

We also close with a clear warning about gossip and slander, and how to seek wise help without spreading harm. 

Topics Covered in This Week’s Podcast
01:20 Review
02:30 Go, overlook, or submit?
11:20 Wisdom for when to approach
18:13 Go and gently restore
39:39 Getting help while avoiding gossip


Resources From This Podcast
Biblical Conflict Resolution Part 1- Introduction and the Call to Glorify God
Biblical Conflict Resolution Part 2- The Call to Get the Log Out of Our Own Eye
The Peacemaker, by Ken Sande
Pursuing Peace, by Dr. Robert Jones

]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70443333Wed, 04 Mar 2026 15:20:54 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent podcast, we continue our four-part series on biblical conflict resolution. We'll talk about why conflict is part of everyday life and how Scripture helps us respond with wisdom. We review the first two...
We walk through helpful criteria for making that call, like impact, responsibility, frequency, seriousness, and whether the issue is public or private. Then we cover practical, Christlike communication that aims for reconciliation, including listening well, asking clarifying questions, speaking humbly, and choosing the best setting for hard conversations. 

We also close with a clear warning about gossip and slander, and how to seek wise help without spreading harm. 

Topics Covered in This Week’s Podcast
01:20 Review
02:30 Go, overlook, or submit?
11:20 Wisdom for when to approach
18:13 Go and gently restore
39:39 Getting help while avoiding gossip


Resources From This Podcast
Biblical Conflict Resolution Part 1- Introduction and the Call to Glorify God
Biblical Conflict Resolution Part 2- The Call to Get the Log Out of Our Own Eye
The Peacemaker, by Ken Sande
Pursuing Peace, by Dr. Robert Jones

]]>2164falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/121-chap-bettis-biblical-conflict-resolution-part-2-the-call-to-get-the-log-out-of-our-own-eye--70131814
We discuss how to conduct an honest self-examination, looking at both our actions and attitudes that may have contributed to conflict. We explore common blind spots like argumentative spirits, passive-aggressive behavior, and the tendency to see ourselves as more righteous than we actually are. We also examine how leaders in particular need to be willing to acknowledge their blind spots and the impact their words and decisions can have on others. In the second half of the episode, we break down Ken Sande's Seven A's of Confession—a practical framework for asking forgiveness in a way that's genuine, specific, and transformative.

We learn the difference between saying "I'm sorry" and truly asking for forgiveness, and why details like addressing everyone involved, avoiding qualifiers like "if" and "but," and accepting consequences matter so much in the reconciliation process. Whether you're navigating conflict in marriage, parenting, church leadership, or the workplace, this episode equips us with biblical tools to own our part, confess well, and move toward genuine restoration. 

Topics Covered in This Week’s Podcast
02:00 Review
04:49 Principle 2: Get the log out of your own eye
09:34 Questions for self-examination
14:43 Examining our own desires
20:37 Applications
25:46 Confession and forgiveness

Resources From This Podcast
Biblical Conflict Resolution Part 1- Introduction and the Call to Glorify God
The Peacemaker, by Ken Sande
Wisdom and Justice vs. Lack of Wisdom and Injustice]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70131814Wed, 18 Feb 2026 13:02:41 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent podcast, we continue our four-part series on biblical conflict resolution with part two, focusing on the essential practice of examining ourselves before addressing conflicts with others. We explore Jesus'...
We discuss how to conduct an honest self-examination, looking at both our actions and attitudes that may have contributed to conflict. We explore common blind spots like argumentative spirits, passive-aggressive behavior, and the tendency to see ourselves as more righteous than we actually are. We also examine how leaders in particular need to be willing to acknowledge their blind spots and the impact their words and decisions can have on others. In the second half of the episode, we break down Ken Sande's Seven A's of Confession—a practical framework for asking forgiveness in a way that's genuine, specific, and transformative.

We learn the difference between saying "I'm sorry" and truly asking for forgiveness, and why details like addressing everyone involved, avoiding qualifiers like "if" and "but," and accepting consequences matter so much in the reconciliation process. Whether you're navigating conflict in marriage, parenting, church leadership, or the workplace, this episode equips us with biblical tools to own our part, confess well, and move toward genuine restoration. 

Topics Covered in This Week’s Podcast
02:00 Review
04:49 Principle 2: Get the log out of your own eye
09:34 Questions for self-examination
14:43 Examining our own desires
20:37 Applications
25:46 Confession and forgiveness

Resources From This Podcast
Biblical Conflict Resolution Part 1- Introduction and the Call to Glorify God
The Peacemaker, by Ken Sande
Wisdom and Justice vs. Lack of Wisdom and Injustice]]>2084falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/120-chap-bettis-biblical-conflict-resolution-part-1-introduction-and-the-call-to-glorify-god--69784745
We establish that the first and most essential principle in any conflict is to glorify God and please Him above all else. Rather than focusing on controlling outcomes or changing the other person, we learn to ask: "How can I please God in this situation?" This vertical focus keeps us anchored to biblical commands rather than our emotions, and reminds us that we can always control our own response, even when we can't control the conflict's resolution.

We conclude by considering the practical question: How would Jesus live in my situation right now? By aiming to act, react, and pray like Jesus—empowered by the Holy Spirit—we position ourselves to grow through conflict and pursue reconciliation in a way that honors God, regardless of the other person's response.

Resources From This Podcast
The Peacemaker, by Ken Sande
Pursuing Peace, by Dr. Robert Jones
The True Bounds of Christian Freedom, by Samuel Bolton 

Topics Covered in This Week’s Podcast
02:02 Introduction
05:40 The Origin of conflict
09:37 Our God of peace
15:48 Types of conflict
21:18 Glorify God
29:03 Final rewards]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69784745Wed, 04 Feb 2026 14:18:46 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we begin a four-part series on biblical conflict resolution. We explore why conflict is inevitable in relationships—whether between spouses, parents and children, siblings, or within church and...
We establish that the first and most essential principle in any conflict is to glorify God and please Him above all else. Rather than focusing on controlling outcomes or changing the other person, we learn to ask: "How can I please God in this situation?" This vertical focus keeps us anchored to biblical commands rather than our emotions, and reminds us that we can always control our own response, even when we can't control the conflict's resolution.

We conclude by considering the practical question: How would Jesus live in my situation right now? By aiming to act, react, and pray like Jesus—empowered by the Holy Spirit—we position ourselves to grow through conflict and pursue reconciliation in a way that honors God, regardless of the other person's response.

Resources From This Podcast
The Peacemaker, by Ken Sande
Pursuing Peace, by Dr. Robert Jones
The True Bounds of Christian Freedom, by Samuel Bolton 

Topics Covered in This Week’s Podcast
02:02 Introduction
05:40 The Origin of conflict
09:37 Our God of peace
15:48 Types of conflict
21:18 Glorify God
29:03 Final rewards]]>3050falsefullhttps://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/running-through-the-tape-biblical-thoughts-for-dying-and-old-age/
We'll listen to a recent sermon from Chap where he talks about how Christians shouldn't fear talking about our final departure and what it means to "run through the tape" rather than coast into the finish line. 

We examine five biblical principles for facing old age and death with faith and joy, drawing from Paul's final words in 2 Timothy 4. We discuss how death is not the end but a portal to something better, why we should anticipate suffering in our final years, and how to keep our eyes fixed on Christ and heaven even as our bodies decay. We also wrestle with the physical, emotional, and social suffering that comes with aging, and why we should strive for joy instead of becoming sour in our later years.

This conversation challenges us to develop a biblical strategy for finishing well, longing for heaven, and glorifying God even in our dying. ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69531535Wed, 21 Jan 2026 13:52:16 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent, we explore one of life's most avoided topics: death and dying. We'll listen to a recent sermon from Chap where he talks about how Christians shouldn't fear talking about our final departure and what it...
We'll listen to a recent sermon from Chap where he talks about how Christians shouldn't fear talking about our final departure and what it means to "run through the tape" rather than coast into the finish line. 

We examine five biblical principles for facing old age and death with faith and joy, drawing from Paul's final words in 2 Timothy 4. We discuss how death is not the end but a portal to something better, why we should anticipate suffering in our final years, and how to keep our eyes fixed on Christ and heaven even as our bodies decay. We also wrestle with the physical, emotional, and social suffering that comes with aging, and why we should strive for joy instead of becoming sour in our later years.

This conversation challenges us to develop a biblical strategy for finishing well, longing for heaven, and glorifying God even in our dying. ]]>1865falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/118-jai-paul-a-biblical-understanding-of-work--67875921
Jai explains how work was established by God before the fall as a good and noble calling. Unlike ancient myths that portrayed work as a burden or punishment, the Bible reveals that God Himself is a worker, and that humans were created in His image to work and create.

He explores four key questions:

• Where did work come from?
• Why is work so hard?
• Can work be renewed?
• How should we work?

Join us as we discover how our work can honor God and love our neighbors rather than simply serving as a means to personal gain. We also highlight how training our children to serve is one of the seven essential commitments of discipleship parenting. 

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To learn more about Jai Paul and JP Cross Ministries visit: www.jpcross.org]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67875921Wed, 24 Sep 2025 10:54:14 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we explore a biblical understanding of work with a sermon from Jai Paul. In it, we’ll examine how our perception of work shapes not only our own lives but also the values we pass on to our...
Jai explains how work was established by God before the fall as a good and noble calling. Unlike ancient myths that portrayed work as a burden or punishment, the Bible reveals that God Himself is a worker, and that humans were created in His image to work and create.

He explores four key questions:

• Where did work come from?
• Why is work so hard?
• Can work be renewed?
• How should we work?

Join us as we discover how our work can honor God and love our neighbors rather than simply serving as a means to personal gain. We also highlight how training our children to serve is one of the seven essential commitments of discipleship parenting. 

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To learn more about Jai Paul and JP Cross Ministries visit: www.jpcross.org]]>3050falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/117-nate-akin-one-man-s-story-of-following-the-lord--67642958
Nate openly shares about his season of rebellion during college years and the pivotal moment of repentance that redirected his life toward ministry. We discuss Nate's leadership with the Pillar Network, a Baptist association focused on church planting that now has nearly 600 churches in almost 50 countries. The heart of our conversation centers on the parenting principles Nate learned from his father and mother that he's now implementing with his own young children.

Nate reveals his parents' simple yet profound approach: "teach them to love Jesus and have fun with them." We unpack how this philosophy manifested through consistent discipleship, creating space for questions, prioritizing church community, and maintaining a balance of clear boundaries with abundant grace. ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67642958Fri, 05 Sep 2025 10:37:44 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we sit down with Nate Akin to hear his powerful testimony and parenting insights. We explore Nate's journey from growing up in a Christian home to his college basketball career at Murray State,...
Nate openly shares about his season of rebellion during college years and the pivotal moment of repentance that redirected his life toward ministry. We discuss Nate's leadership with the Pillar Network, a Baptist association focused on church planting that now has nearly 600 churches in almost 50 countries. The heart of our conversation centers on the parenting principles Nate learned from his father and mother that he's now implementing with his own young children.

Nate reveals his parents' simple yet profound approach: "teach them to love Jesus and have fun with them." We unpack how this philosophy manifested through consistent discipleship, creating space for questions, prioritizing church community, and maintaining a balance of clear boundaries with abundant grace. ]]>1713falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/116-chap-bettis-remembering-and-proclaiming-god-s-works-to-future-generations--67354800
In this episode, Chap shares a powerful sermon from a church celebrating its 50th anniversary, where he emphasizes that the gospel continues through intentional remembrance and storytelling. We discover how remembering God's interventions—both the miraculous biblical events and the personal moments in our lives—strengthens our faith and keeps us following the Lord.

Join us as we explore the vital mission of equipping parents and grandparents to raise children who not only love the Lord but become disciple-makers themselves, taking the gospel to the world. ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67354800Wed, 13 Aug 2025 10:33:34 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we explore the profound importance of remembering God's works and sharing them with future generations. We examine how memory serves as a beautiful gift that connects our past experiences to...
In this episode, Chap shares a powerful sermon from a church celebrating its 50th anniversary, where he emphasizes that the gospel continues through intentional remembrance and storytelling. We discover how remembering God's interventions—both the miraculous biblical events and the personal moments in our lives—strengthens our faith and keeps us following the Lord.

Join us as we explore the vital mission of equipping parents and grandparents to raise children who not only love the Lord but become disciple-makers themselves, taking the gospel to the world. ]]>1935falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/115-jared-kennedy-children-s-ministry-and-its-importance-in-the-church--67187659
We discuss how children's ministry is not merely childcare but a vital part of the church's mission to pass faith to the next generation. Kennedy challenges the notion that parents are the sole disciplers of children, arguing that Scripture places this responsibility on the entire covenant community.

The conversation highlights how even teaching toddlers is missional work, as they develop crucial vocabulary that forms the building blocks of faith. We also examine how children's ministry serves as a "subversive" training ground for parents to learn discipleship skills they can implement at home.

Join us as we navigate the complementary roles of church and family in raising the next generation of believers - not just as disciples, but as disciple makers with hearts for the nations. 

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Resources From This Podcast:
Keeping Your Children’s Ministry on Mission, by Jared Kennedy
Jared Kennedy at TGC
The Beginner’s Gospel Story Bible, by Jared Kennedy
The Story of Martin Luther, by Jared Kennedy
Gospel-Centered Family
The Fallen Condition Focus, by Bryan Chapell
Read-Aloud Bible Stories, by Ella Lindvall
Managing Your Households Well, by Chap Bettis]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67187659Wed, 30 Jul 2025 10:37:43 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent podcast, we explore the critical balance between children's ministry and parental discipleship in the church. We speak with Jared Kennedy, author of "Keeping Your Children's Ministry on Mission: Practical...
We discuss how children's ministry is not merely childcare but a vital part of the church's mission to pass faith to the next generation. Kennedy challenges the notion that parents are the sole disciplers of children, arguing that Scripture places this responsibility on the entire covenant community.

The conversation highlights how even teaching toddlers is missional work, as they develop crucial vocabulary that forms the building blocks of faith. We also examine how children's ministry serves as a "subversive" training ground for parents to learn discipleship skills they can implement at home.

Join us as we navigate the complementary roles of church and family in raising the next generation of believers - not just as disciples, but as disciple makers with hearts for the nations. 

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Resources From This Podcast:
Keeping Your Children’s Ministry on Mission, by Jared Kennedy
Jared Kennedy at TGC
The Beginner’s Gospel Story Bible, by Jared Kennedy
The Story of Martin Luther, by Jared Kennedy
Gospel-Centered Family
The Fallen Condition Focus, by Bryan Chapell
Read-Aloud Bible Stories, by Ella Lindvall
Managing Your Households Well, by Chap Bettis]]>2638falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/114-robert-jones-pursuing-peace-in-our-everyday-conflicts--66991808
We discuss how conflict is inevitable in all relationships - whether in marriage, parenting, or church leadership. As Dr. Jones explains, statistically "one out of one people" deal with conflict, and those numbers multiply when you add spouses and children to the mix. We also examine the transformative concept of "pleasing God" as our ultimate goal in conflict situations. Rather than focusing on winning arguments or changing others, we explore how prioritizing what pleases God can radically change our approach to disagreements.

This episode offers practical wisdom for anyone experiencing conflict in their relationships and provides a biblical framework for seeing conflict not as something to avoid, but as an opportunity for spiritual growth.

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Thanks for listening to the Disciple Making Parent podcast. We love offering resources to equip you in family discipleship for free, but we can only do that because of our faithful financial partners. Would you consider joining us? We're a small and lean ministry, and we make your kingdom dollars go far. So head on over to www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/partner

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Sign up for the weekly newsletter at disciplemakingparent.com to receive the complete audiobook free. Part of our mission to help parents raise children who love the Lord and become disciple-makers.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66991808Wed, 16 Jul 2025 09:00:16 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we explore the unavoidable reality of conflict in our lives and how to handle it biblically. We're joined by Dr. Robert Jones, author of "Pursuing Peace: A Christian Guide to Our Conflicts," who...
We discuss how conflict is inevitable in all relationships - whether in marriage, parenting, or church leadership. As Dr. Jones explains, statistically "one out of one people" deal with conflict, and those numbers multiply when you add spouses and children to the mix. We also examine the transformative concept of "pleasing God" as our ultimate goal in conflict situations. Rather than focusing on winning arguments or changing others, we explore how prioritizing what pleases God can radically change our approach to disagreements.

This episode offers practical wisdom for anyone experiencing conflict in their relationships and provides a biblical framework for seeing conflict not as something to avoid, but as an opportunity for spiritual growth.

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Thanks for listening to the Disciple Making Parent podcast. We love offering resources to equip you in family discipleship for free, but we can only do that because of our faithful financial partners. Would you consider joining us? We're a small and lean ministry, and we make your kingdom dollars go far. So head on over to www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/partner

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Sign up for the weekly newsletter at disciplemakingparent.com to receive the complete audiobook free. Part of our mission to help parents raise children who love the Lord and become disciple-makers.]]>2695falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/113-brian-croft-the-pastor-s-family--66738271
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Thanks for listening to the Disciple Making Parent podcast. We love offering resources to equip you in family discipleship for free, but we can only do that because of our faithful financial partners. Would you consider joining us? We're a small and lean ministry, and we make your kingdom dollars go far. So head on over to www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/partner

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Sign up for the weekly newsletter at disciplemakingparent.com to receive the complete audiobook free. Part of our mission to help parents raise children who love the Lord and become disciple-makers.

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Resources From This Podcast
The Pastor’s Family, by Brian Croft
Practical Shepherding
Podcast episode: Marriage Panel: A Real Life Conversation and Encouragement
Sermons to Children, by J.C. Ryle
Managing Your Households Well, by Chap Bettis]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66738271Wed, 25 Jun 2025 10:57:28 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent, we welcome Brian Croft to discuss the delicate balance between pastoral ministry and family life. We explore practical ways pastors can faithfully serve their church while prioritizing their spouse and...
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Thanks for listening to the Disciple Making Parent podcast. We love offering resources to equip you in family discipleship for free, but we can only do that because of our faithful financial partners. Would you consider joining us? We're a small and lean ministry, and we make your kingdom dollars go far. So head on over to www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/partner

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Sign up for the weekly newsletter at disciplemakingparent.com to receive the complete audiobook free. Part of our mission to help parents raise children who love the Lord and become disciple-makers.

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Resources From This Podcast
The Pastor’s Family, by Brian Croft
Practical Shepherding
Podcast episode: Marriage Panel: A Real Life Conversation and Encouragement
Sermons to Children, by J.C. Ryle
Managing Your Households Well, by Chap Bettis]]>2500falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/112-chap-bettis-managing-your-households-well-part-2--66495487
Resources Mentioned:

Join Newsletter and get The Disciple-Making Parent audiobook for free
Managing Your Households Well - Amazon
Managing Your Households Well bonuses]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66495487Wed, 11 Jun 2025 09:00:13 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we continue our look at my newest book, Managing Your Households Well. We’ll explore the vital connection between family and church leadership through Paul's teaching in 1 Timothy 3:5. We discover...
Resources Mentioned:

Join Newsletter and get The Disciple-Making Parent audiobook for free
Managing Your Households Well - Amazon
Managing Your Households Well bonuses]]>1337falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/111-chap-bettis-managing-your-households-well-part-1--66311404
This episode unpacks two key insights from first half of the book. Chap discusses the delicate balance of authority and affection in both parenting and pastoring, and why authenticity matters more than maintaining a perfect appearance. Join us as we discover why managing our households well isn't about having a perfect family, but about leading with wisdom, respect, and genuine care.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66311404Wed, 28 May 2025 11:43:40 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we explore the critical but often misunderstood topic of managing our households well. We're excited to announce the release of Chap’s new book "Managing Your Households Well" which examines how...
This episode unpacks two key insights from first half of the book. Chap discusses the delicate balance of authority and affection in both parenting and pastoring, and why authenticity matters more than maintaining a perfect appearance. Join us as we discover why managing our households well isn't about having a perfect family, but about leading with wisdom, respect, and genuine care.]]>1387falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/110-chap-bettis-parenting-young-children-q-a--65592324
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Featured Resources

• Parenting with Confidence Video Course: Get free access to this comprehensive parenting course with the purchase of a workbook. Perfect for individual study or small groups, covering topics like discipline, routines, and building authority with affection.
• The Disciple Making Parent Audiobook: Sign up for the weekly newsletter at disciplemakingparent.com to receive the complete audiobook free. Part of our mission to help parents raise children who love the Lord and become disciple-makers.

]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65592324Wed, 16 Apr 2025 11:51:40 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we introduce a brand new Q & A format. Together, we’ll look at crucial parenting topics including establishing parental authority in early years, handling temper tantrums, navigating...
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Featured Resources

• Parenting with Confidence Video Course: Get free access to this comprehensive parenting course with the purchase of a workbook. Perfect for individual study or small groups, covering topics like discipline, routines, and building authority with affection.
• The Disciple Making Parent Audiobook: Sign up for the weekly newsletter at disciplemakingparent.com to receive the complete audiobook free. Part of our mission to help parents raise children who love the Lord and become disciple-makers.

]]>1527falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/109-collin-hansen-understanding-disenculturation--65308424
Through engaging examples from church history, we examine how to distinguish between essential biblical truths and cultural practices that have become intertwined with faith. From worship styles to dress codes, we discuss how different generations navigate these distinctions. We also tackle challenging topics like historical Christian responses to racism and segregation, while offering practical advice for parents and pastors on helping their communities distinguish between non-negotiable faith elements and cultural expressions.

Drawing from examples like the Jesus Revolution and contemporary church practices, we learn how to maintain strong biblical convictions while showing grace toward different cultural expressions of faith. 

Resources from this podcast:
The Gospel Coalition
Young, Restless, Reformed: A Journalist’s Journey with the New Calvinists, by Collin Hansen
The Gospelbound Podcast
Interview with Collin Hansen on Rediscover Church: Why the Body of Christ is Essential
Before You Lose Your Faith: Deconstructing Doubt in the Church, by Trevin Wax
A God-Sized Vision: Revival Stories that Stretch and Stir, by Collin Hansen
The Fabric of Theology, by Richard Lints (origin of his concept of theological vision)
TGC Foundation Documents: Theological Vision for Ministry
Walking Through Deconstruction: How To Be a Companion In a Crisis of Faith, by Ian Harber
Rebecca McLaughlin

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NEW RESOURCE: "Launch: Biblical Help to Move Your Teen or Young Adult Into the Real World" - A concise one-hour read packed with essential guidance for parents navigating the challenging transition of teens into adulthood. Available on our website and Amazon.

FREE AUDIOBOOK: Get "The Disciple Making Parent" audiobook completely free when you subscribe to our weekly newsletter at disciplemakingparent.com. Join our mission to equip parents, grandparents, and pastors with the tools to pass the gospel to the next generation.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65308424Wed, 02 Apr 2025 10:20:27 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent, we explore the concept of "disenculturation" as an alternative to "deconstruction." We sit down with Collin Hansen, Vice President for content and editor in chief at the Gospel Coalition, to understand...
Through engaging examples from church history, we examine how to distinguish between essential biblical truths and cultural practices that have become intertwined with faith. From worship styles to dress codes, we discuss how different generations navigate these distinctions. We also tackle challenging topics like historical Christian responses to racism and segregation, while offering practical advice for parents and pastors on helping their communities distinguish between non-negotiable faith elements and cultural expressions.

Drawing from examples like the Jesus Revolution and contemporary church practices, we learn how to maintain strong biblical convictions while showing grace toward different cultural expressions of faith. 

Resources from this podcast:
The Gospel Coalition
Young, Restless, Reformed: A Journalist’s Journey with the New Calvinists, by Collin Hansen
The Gospelbound Podcast
Interview with Collin Hansen on Rediscover Church: Why the Body of Christ is Essential
Before You Lose Your Faith: Deconstructing Doubt in the Church, by Trevin Wax
A God-Sized Vision: Revival Stories that Stretch and Stir, by Collin Hansen
The Fabric of Theology, by Richard Lints (origin of his concept of theological vision)
TGC Foundation Documents: Theological Vision for Ministry
Walking Through Deconstruction: How To Be a Companion In a Crisis of Faith, by Ian Harber
Rebecca McLaughlin

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NEW RESOURCE: "Launch: Biblical Help to Move Your Teen or Young Adult Into the Real World" - A concise one-hour read packed with essential guidance for parents navigating the challenging transition of teens into adulthood. Available on our website and Amazon.

FREE AUDIOBOOK: Get "The Disciple Making Parent" audiobook completely free when you subscribe to our weekly newsletter at disciplemakingparent.com. Join our mission to equip parents, grandparents, and pastors with the tools to pass the gospel to the next generation.]]>2567falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/108-melissa-kruger-parenting-with-hope--64973140
We discuss how to create meaningful family connections in a tech-saturated age, establish healthy boundaries while showing acceptance, and maintain availability without sacrificing personal boundaries. Through practical examples and heartfelt insights, we learn how to balance rules with grace, consequences with compassion, and discover why our relationship with God remains the foundation for effective parenting.

Whether you're navigating the teenage years or preparing for them, this conversation offers encouraging perspectives on raising teens with biblical wisdom in a secular age.

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Resources From This Week's Podcast:
Parenting with Hope: Raising Teens for Christ In a Secular Age, by Melissa Kruger 
Walking With God In the Season of Motherhood, by Melissa Kruger
The Gospel Coalition
The New City Catechism
Outliers, by Malcolm Gladwell
David and Goliath, by Malcolm Gladwell

Our new book "Launch: Biblical Help for Moving Your Teen or Young Adult into the Real World" offers practical guidance for parents navigating the transition period, and you can get a free audiobook of "The Disciple Making Parent" by signing up for our newsletter. You can find all of this and more at thedisciplemakingparent.com.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64973140Wed, 19 Mar 2025 12:07:46 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Podcast, we sit down with Melissa Kruger to explore the challenges and joys of raising teenagers in today's world. We discuss how to create meaningful family connections in a tech-saturated age, establish...
We discuss how to create meaningful family connections in a tech-saturated age, establish healthy boundaries while showing acceptance, and maintain availability without sacrificing personal boundaries. Through practical examples and heartfelt insights, we learn how to balance rules with grace, consequences with compassion, and discover why our relationship with God remains the foundation for effective parenting.

Whether you're navigating the teenage years or preparing for them, this conversation offers encouraging perspectives on raising teens with biblical wisdom in a secular age.

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Resources From This Week's Podcast:
Parenting with Hope: Raising Teens for Christ In a Secular Age, by Melissa Kruger 
Walking With God In the Season of Motherhood, by Melissa Kruger
The Gospel Coalition
The New City Catechism
Outliers, by Malcolm Gladwell
David and Goliath, by Malcolm Gladwell

Our new book "Launch: Biblical Help for Moving Your Teen or Young Adult into the Real World" offers practical guidance for parents navigating the transition period, and you can get a free audiobook of "The Disciple Making Parent" by signing up for our newsletter. You can find all of this and more at thedisciplemakingparent.com.]]>3340falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/107-banele-ndlovu-a-story-of-god-s-amazing-grace--64710005
We explore his upbringing in a complex spiritual environment, where traditional ancestor worship met Catholicism. Through his mother's battle with cancer and his own search for truth, we witness how a crisis of faith led him from planning to become an atheist to finding authentic Christianity. His story showcases the contrast between the endless cycle of appeasing ancestors and the transformative power of discovering truth through Scripture.

From believing he was the only true Christian in the world to finding a community of believers, Banele's journey reminds us of how genuine faith can emerge from the depths of spiritual confusion.

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A brand-new resource is coming this June for pastors, deacons, and aspiring church leaders! Managing Your Households Well: How Family Leadership Trains You for Church Leadership is based on Paul’s wisdom in 1 Timothy 3:4 and is designed for church leadership teams to study together.

Pre-order now on Amazon and get ready to strengthen both your home and church leadership!
 
📖 Pre-order here]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64710005Wed, 05 Mar 2025 12:15:41 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Podcast, we journey into the powerful testimony of Banele Ndlovu, a young Zulu man from South Africa who assists with translation work at Imprint ministry. We explore his upbringing in a complex spiritual...
We explore his upbringing in a complex spiritual environment, where traditional ancestor worship met Catholicism. Through his mother's battle with cancer and his own search for truth, we witness how a crisis of faith led him from planning to become an atheist to finding authentic Christianity. His story showcases the contrast between the endless cycle of appeasing ancestors and the transformative power of discovering truth through Scripture.

From believing he was the only true Christian in the world to finding a community of believers, Banele's journey reminds us of how genuine faith can emerge from the depths of spiritual confusion.

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A brand-new resource is coming this June for pastors, deacons, and aspiring church leaders! Managing Your Households Well: How Family Leadership Trains You for Church Leadership is based on Paul’s wisdom in 1 Timothy 3:4 and is designed for church leadership teams to study together.

Pre-order now on Amazon and get ready to strengthen both your home and church leadership!
 
📖 Pre-order here]]>1596falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/106-tommie-van-der-walt-god-s-amazing-grace-in-rescuing-a-prodigal--64447887Imprint Ministries, who shares his journey from being a rebellious prodigal to becoming a passionate minister. Through a powerful testimony involving a car accident and faithful friends, we learn how God's grace and a praying mother's persistence led to his dramatic conversion. 

After his conversion, Tommie's path led him from teaching English in Thailand to establishing Imprint Ministries, an organization dedicated to training pastors and providing affordable Christian resources across Africa. We also gain fascinating insights into the diverse landscape of South African churches, from traditional denominations to unique cultural expressions of faith.

The episode concludes with valuable wisdom on intentional discipleship and the importance of maintaining strong family connections within the church community. 

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Resources From This Podcast:

Imprint 
Ligonier
Desiring God
9Marks
Crossway

Don't miss out on these two valuable resources from The Disciple Making Parent:

Weekly Family Discipleship Email: Sign up at thedisciplemakingparent.com to receive weekly prompts for family discipleship. As a bonus, you'll get the audiobook of The Disciple Making Parent completely free⁠⁠.

The Disciple Making Parent Audio Blog: Listen to over 150 blog posts in audio format, perfect for learning on the go. Find it on your favorite podcast provider by searching "The Disciple Making Parent Audio Blog".

Visit thedisciplemakingparent.com today to access these free resources and strengthen your family's discipleship journey.


]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64447887Wed, 19 Feb 2025 11:29:18 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent, we hear an inspiring story of transformation and ministry in South Africa. We meet Tommie Van Der Walt, the executive director of https://www.imprinton.org, who shares his journey from being a rebellious...Imprint Ministries, who shares his journey from being a rebellious prodigal to becoming a passionate minister. Through a powerful testimony involving a car accident and faithful friends, we learn how God's grace and a praying mother's persistence led to his dramatic conversion. 

After his conversion, Tommie's path led him from teaching English in Thailand to establishing Imprint Ministries, an organization dedicated to training pastors and providing affordable Christian resources across Africa. We also gain fascinating insights into the diverse landscape of South African churches, from traditional denominations to unique cultural expressions of faith.

The episode concludes with valuable wisdom on intentional discipleship and the importance of maintaining strong family connections within the church community. 

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Resources From This Podcast:

Imprint 
Ligonier
Desiring God
9Marks
Crossway

Don't miss out on these two valuable resources from The Disciple Making Parent:

Weekly Family Discipleship Email: Sign up at thedisciplemakingparent.com to receive weekly prompts for family discipleship. As a bonus, you'll get the audiobook of The Disciple Making Parent completely free⁠⁠.

The Disciple Making Parent Audio Blog: Listen to over 150 blog posts in audio format, perfect for learning on the go. Find it on your favorite podcast provider by searching "The Disciple Making Parent Audio Blog".

Visit thedisciplemakingparent.com today to access these free resources and strengthen your family's discipleship journey.


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Today, we will look at the first two chapters of Chap's newest book Launch: Biblical Help for Moving Your Teen or Young Adult into the Real World.



]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63808923Wed, 22 Jan 2025 13:12:48 +0000Chap BettisDo you have teenagers in the house? Are you navigating the transition from childhood to the teenage years—and wondering how to guide them into adulthood? Whether you’re helping them choose a college, explore training opportunities after high school,...
Today, we will look at the first two chapters of Chap's newest book Launch: Biblical Help for Moving Your Teen or Young Adult into the Real World.



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Through biblical examples and practical wisdom, I discuss how planning can be an act of imitating God, while also learning to hold our plans with an open hand. I share insights on seeking godly counsel, setting meaningful goals, and understanding how to approach personal growth in wisdom, physical health, spiritual life, and social relationships.

Whether you're skeptical about New Year's resolutions or eager to make positive changes, this episode provides biblical perspective on how we can thoughtfully approach planning while staying anchored in God's guidance.

Resources from this week's podcast:
31 questions for self-reflection, by Donald Whitney

Topics covered in this week's podcast:
02:16 Principles for planning for the new year: Isaiah 32:8
10:49 We should be making plans
14:55 Holding plans with an open hand
16:55 Practical suggestions]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63566579Fri, 03 Jan 2025 22:20:06 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, I explore the spiritual discipline of making plans and resolutions for the new year. I look at how making noble plans is not just acceptable for Christians, but is actually an aspect of godliness....
Through biblical examples and practical wisdom, I discuss how planning can be an act of imitating God, while also learning to hold our plans with an open hand. I share insights on seeking godly counsel, setting meaningful goals, and understanding how to approach personal growth in wisdom, physical health, spiritual life, and social relationships.

Whether you're skeptical about New Year's resolutions or eager to make positive changes, this episode provides biblical perspective on how we can thoughtfully approach planning while staying anchored in God's guidance.

Resources from this week's podcast:
31 questions for self-reflection, by Donald Whitney

Topics covered in this week's podcast:
02:16 Principles for planning for the new year: Isaiah 32:8
10:49 We should be making plans
14:55 Holding plans with an open hand
16:55 Practical suggestions]]>1487falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/103-jason-hsieh-thoughts-on-biblical-hospitality--62472843
Resources From This Podcast
Why Pursue Hospitality?– Sermon by Jason Hsieh 
A Portrait of Hospitality– Sermon by Jason Hsieh
Message by Chris McGrady on David’s hospitality to Mephibosheth

Topics Covered In This Week’s Podcast
03:03 What is hospitality?
9:35 Hospitality as an implication of the gospel
13:52 Biblical hospitality vs. the world’s hospitality
16:21 Examples of hospitality in Scripture
20:51 Personal experiences of hospitality]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62472843Wed, 23 Oct 2024 11:26:29 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent, we welcome Jason Hsieh as we explore thoughts on biblical hospitality. We dive into the biblical foundations of hospitality, discussing passages from Romans, Deuteronomy, and Hebrews that shed light on...
Resources From This Podcast
Why Pursue Hospitality?– Sermon by Jason Hsieh 
A Portrait of Hospitality– Sermon by Jason Hsieh
Message by Chris McGrady on David’s hospitality to Mephibosheth

Topics Covered In This Week’s Podcast
03:03 What is hospitality?
9:35 Hospitality as an implication of the gospel
13:52 Biblical hospitality vs. the world’s hospitality
16:21 Examples of hospitality in Scripture
20:51 Personal experiences of hospitality]]>1492falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/102-eden-parker-how-bibles-net-can-help-you--62130523Bible.net. We discuss the impact of growing up in a Christian home, the challenges faced during college years, and how these experiences led to the creation of a unique online resource for Bible study. We talk about the importance of discipleship, the role of mentors, and how Bible.net aims to provide curated, reliable Christian content for those seeking answers to life's big questions.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62130523Fri, 27 Sep 2024 15:58:17 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we explore Eden Parker's faith journey and her work with http://bible.net/. We discuss the impact of growing up in a Christian home, the challenges faced during college years, and how these...Bible.net. We discuss the impact of growing up in a Christian home, the challenges faced during college years, and how these experiences led to the creation of a unique online resource for Bible study. We talk about the importance of discipleship, the role of mentors, and how Bible.net aims to provide curated, reliable Christian content for those seeking answers to life's big questions.]]>2717falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/101-brad-wilcox-why-marriage-matters-and-leads-to-flourishing--61185061
Our guest, Professor Brad Wilcox, presents scientific evidence challenging popular myths about marriage and argues for its importance in creating happier individuals and flourishing children. We also look at the concept of "inverted hypocrisy" in how elites portray marriage in media versus their personal lives.

Join us as we navigate through current ideas about marriage, explore which groups are succeeding in maintaining strong marriages, and uncover the statistics that demonstrate the benefits of marriage for men and women.

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Don't miss our latest resource for parents! Our new book "Launch: Biblical Help for Moving Your Teen or Young Adult into the Real World" is now available. This quick read offers practical guidance for parents navigating the challenging transition of their teens and young adults into adulthood. In just about an hour, you'll gain valuable insights on:

• Foundational principles for guiding teens through their later years
• Strategies for three common scenarios: leaving for college, staying at home after graduation, and staying at home longer than expected

As a parent who's been through this journey, I understand the confusion and challenges firsthand. That's why I created this resource to fill the gap in guidance for parents during this crucial time. Get your copy of "Launch" today on our bookstore at thedisciplemakingparent.com or on Amazon, and equip yourself to better support your teen or young adult in their next big step.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/61185061Wed, 28 Aug 2024 11:45:18 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we explore the question "Does marriage really matter?" We examine whether marriage is beneficial for individuals and society, or if it hinders personal fulfillment. We discuss surprising...
Our guest, Professor Brad Wilcox, presents scientific evidence challenging popular myths about marriage and argues for its importance in creating happier individuals and flourishing children. We also look at the concept of "inverted hypocrisy" in how elites portray marriage in media versus their personal lives.

Join us as we navigate through current ideas about marriage, explore which groups are succeeding in maintaining strong marriages, and uncover the statistics that demonstrate the benefits of marriage for men and women.

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Don't miss our latest resource for parents! Our new book "Launch: Biblical Help for Moving Your Teen or Young Adult into the Real World" is now available. This quick read offers practical guidance for parents navigating the challenging transition of their teens and young adults into adulthood. In just about an hour, you'll gain valuable insights on:

• Foundational principles for guiding teens through their later years
• Strategies for three common scenarios: leaving for college, staying at home after graduation, and staying at home longer than expected

As a parent who's been through this journey, I understand the confusion and challenges firsthand. That's why I created this resource to fill the gap in guidance for parents during this crucial time. Get your copy of "Launch" today on our bookstore at thedisciplemakingparent.com or on Amazon, and equip yourself to better support your teen or young adult in their next big step.]]>2980falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/100-chap-bettis-celebrating-100-episodes--60866036
Highlights include:

• Episode 1: Solid Gold Advice from Seasoned Christian Pediatrician - Dr. Tom Hines
• Episode 20: A Baby’s First Year - Dr. Tom Hines
• Episode 6: Bullying and the Gospel - Kevin McKay
• Episode 65: Current Issues Teens Face (Part 1) - Travis Rymer
• Episode 66: Current Issues Teens Face (Part 2) - Travis Rymer
• Episode 68: Respect the Image: How to Communicate Well - Tim Shorey
• Episode 94: God at Work Aboard Mercy Ships - Bekah Bettis
• Episode 83: Marriage Panel: Real-Life Conversation and Encouragment - Chap and Sharon Bettis
• Episode 32: Gospel Infused Parenting - Bob and Julie Kauflin
• Episode 73: How to Shepherd Troubled and Angry Teens - Dr. Rick Horne
• Episode 89: The Toxic War on Masculinity - Nancy Pearcey
• Episode 77: Glimpses of God’s Glory - Chap Bettis
• Episode 78: Glimpses of Christ’s Glory - Chap Bettis
• Episode 79: Glimpses of the Believer’s Glory - Chap Bettis
• Episode 86: Honor: Our Duty to God and Others - Chap Bettis
• Episode 90: Understanding and Helping the Pastor’s Kid - Barnabas Piper
• Episode 59: Hope When You Lose a Child - Cameron Cole
• Episode 72: Walking Through Deep Sorrows and Loss - Tim Challies
• Episode 96: Characters of Easter - Dan Darling
• Episode 39: Characters of Christmas - Dan Darling
• Episode 54: Making Our Church a Safe Place - Jeff Dalrymple

Thank you for being part of this journey. Here's to many more episodes to come!

Be sure to check out my OTHER podcast The Disciple-Making Parent Audio Blog]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60866036Tue, 30 Jul 2024 19:15:59 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we celebrate a major milestone—our 100th episode! We’ll take a moment to reflect on highlights from some standout episodes throughout the years. Highlights include: -...
Highlights include:

• Episode 1: Solid Gold Advice from Seasoned Christian Pediatrician - Dr. Tom Hines
• Episode 20: A Baby’s First Year - Dr. Tom Hines
• Episode 6: Bullying and the Gospel - Kevin McKay
• Episode 65: Current Issues Teens Face (Part 1) - Travis Rymer
• Episode 66: Current Issues Teens Face (Part 2) - Travis Rymer
• Episode 68: Respect the Image: How to Communicate Well - Tim Shorey
• Episode 94: God at Work Aboard Mercy Ships - Bekah Bettis
• Episode 83: Marriage Panel: Real-Life Conversation and Encouragment - Chap and Sharon Bettis
• Episode 32: Gospel Infused Parenting - Bob and Julie Kauflin
• Episode 73: How to Shepherd Troubled and Angry Teens - Dr. Rick Horne
• Episode 89: The Toxic War on Masculinity - Nancy Pearcey
• Episode 77: Glimpses of God’s Glory - Chap Bettis
• Episode 78: Glimpses of Christ’s Glory - Chap Bettis
• Episode 79: Glimpses of the Believer’s Glory - Chap Bettis
• Episode 86: Honor: Our Duty to God and Others - Chap Bettis
• Episode 90: Understanding and Helping the Pastor’s Kid - Barnabas Piper
• Episode 59: Hope When You Lose a Child - Cameron Cole
• Episode 72: Walking Through Deep...]]>1100falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/099-r-albert-mohler-thinking-about-the-next-generation--60651304
  Dr. Mohler shares his personal journey of faith, from his childhood and early influences to his current views on the future for parents and church leaders. We discuss the importance of grounding children in the gospel and the challenges parents face in today's cultural climate.
  
  Additionally, Dr. Mohler offers valuable advice for young parents and reflects on the joy and responsibility of raising the next generation.
  
  Join us for an insightful conversation that aims to equip and encourage parents and grandparents in their mission to pass on the gospel. 
  
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  Dr. Mohler shares his personal journey of faith, from his childhood and early influences to his current views on the future for parents and church leaders. We discuss the importance of grounding children in the gospel and the challenges parents face in today's cultural climate.
  
  Additionally, Dr. Mohler offers valuable advice for young parents and reflects on the joy and responsibility of raising the next generation.
  
  Join us for an insightful conversation that aims to equip and encourage parents and grandparents in their mission to pass on the gospel. 
  
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  Be sure to check out my newest book Launch: Biblical Help for Moving Your Teen or Young Adult into the Real World.]]>2416falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/098-travis-rymer-discerning-false-influencers-among-us--60526872
  In this episode I share a thought-provoking sermon from my associate pastor, Travis Rymer, who guides us through the warnings God gives in 2 Peter 2. As the sermon unfolds, he progressively applies biblical insights to the younger generation.
  
  So join us as we reflect on the impact of false teachers and explore how to equip ourselves and our children to discern truth in a world teeming with ideas. 
  
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  Be sure to check out my newest book Launch: Biblical Help for Moving Your Teen or Young Adult into the Real World.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60526872Thu, 27 Jun 2024 12:39:40 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent podcast, we embark on a journey through an ocean of ideas, recognizing the importance of discernment in navigating the truths and falsehoods that surround us. As we consider the influence we have on our...
  In this episode I share a thought-provoking sermon from my associate pastor, Travis Rymer, who guides us through the warnings God gives in 2 Peter 2. As the sermon unfolds, he progressively applies biblical insights to the younger generation.
  
  So join us as we reflect on the impact of false teachers and explore how to equip ourselves and our children to discern truth in a world teeming with ideas. 
  
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  Be sure to check out my newest book Launch: Biblical Help for Moving Your Teen or Young Adult into the Real World.]]>3171falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/097-chap-bettis-financial-instructions-from-the-master--59920550
  At the end of the sermon, we’ll reflecting on the importance of understanding that everything we have is a blessing from God, and our role is to be good stewards of these resources. So, join us as we navigate the complex world of finance through a biblical lens.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59920550Wed, 08 May 2024 11:43:52 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we share a sermon on Financial Instructions from The Master, where I share biblical teaching and practical suggestions on personal finance and generosity. At the end of the sermon, we’ll...
  At the end of the sermon, we’ll reflecting on the importance of understanding that everything we have is a blessing from God, and our role is to be good stewards of these resources. So, join us as we navigate the complex world of finance through a biblical lens.]]>3210falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/096-dan-darling-the-characters-of-easter--59060196
  We discuss how these real people with complex emotions and decisions bring depth to the biblical narrative. We also touch on the challenges and rewards of parenting, and how the sacrifices made by the parents of James and John provide a powerful example for modern families.
  
  Join us as we reflect on the transformative power of Easter and its characters, and the lessons we can learn from them today. 
  
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  If you're enjoying this podcast, don't forget to subscribe to our Family Discipleship email. This weekly email is designed to help parents, grandparents, and pastors equip the next generation.
  
  You'll receive valuable resources to aid you in passing the gospel to your children or grandchildren. To subscribe, head over to our website, thedisciplemakingparent.com, and sign up for the weekly newsletter.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59060196Fri, 15 Mar 2024 17:56:00 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent, we engage in a compelling conversation with Dan Darling about his book, "The Characters of Easter". We explore the surprising insights into the lives of Peter, John, Judas, Pilate, and other figures from...
  We discuss how these real people with complex emotions and decisions bring depth to the biblical narrative. We also touch on the challenges and rewards of parenting, and how the sacrifices made by the parents of James and John provide a powerful example for modern families.
  
  Join us as we reflect on the transformative power of Easter and its characters, and the lessons we can learn from them today. 
  
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  If you're enjoying this podcast, don't forget to subscribe to our Family Discipleship email. This weekly email is designed to help parents, grandparents, and pastors equip the next generation.
  
  You'll receive valuable resources to aid you in passing the gospel to your children or grandchildren. To subscribe, head over to our website, thedisciplemakingparent.com, and sign up for the weekly newsletter.]]>2027falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/095-ed-moore-raising-children-to-the-glory-of-god--58876489
  He underscores the significance of expressing love to our children frequently and the impact of creating memories through spontaneous, fun, and creative activities.
  
  Ed further highlights the role of faith and grace in parenting, narrating his own journey of learning from failure and defeat. This episode is full of wisdom about raising children in a godly, impactful, and joyful manner.
  
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  Be sure to check out the Disciple Making Parent Audio Blog. This short-form podcast features blog posts read in audio format, perfect for consumption on the go or during chores. Search for and subscribe to the Disciple Making Parent Audio Blog for valuable, bite-sized content.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58876489Thu, 29 Feb 2024 14:46:57 +0000Chap BettisIn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent, we present a special message from Ed Moore. Drawing from his extensive personal and pastoral experience, Ed shares valuable insights on parenting. He underscores the significance of expressing love to...
  He underscores the significance of expressing love to our children frequently and the impact of creating memories through spontaneous, fun, and creative activities.
  
  Ed further highlights the role of faith and grace in parenting, narrating his own journey of learning from failure and defeat. This episode is full of wisdom about raising children in a godly, impactful, and joyful manner.
  
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  Be sure to check out the Disciple Making Parent Audio Blog. This short-form podcast features blog posts read in audio format, perfect for consumption on the go or during chores. Search for and subscribe to the Disciple Making Parent Audio Blog for valuable, bite-sized content.]]>3369falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/094-bekah-bettis-god-at-work-aboard-mercy-ships--58622677
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  The episode highlights the anticipation of heaven as a motivation for Christians to live holy lives, especially in family contexts. We also discuss the reality of judgment and grace, offering practical advice for believers to apply in their daily lives and relationships.
  
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  The episode highlights the anticipation of heaven as a motivation for Christians to live holy lives, especially in family contexts. We also discuss the reality of judgment and grace, offering practical advice for believers to apply in their daily lives and relationships.
  
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  For more information about The Disciple-Making Parent or to join our newsletter visit: www.thedisciplemakingparent.com]]>3035falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/092-andy-davis-heaven-and-the-exciting-things-awaiting-us--58177501https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58177501Tue, 02 Jan 2024 22:38:16 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we have a thought-provoking conversation about the concept of heaven and its significance in our lives. We are joined by special guest Dr. Andy Davis, senior pastor of the First Baptist Church of...3267falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/091-brit-redfield-a-young-woman-s-story-of-the-transforming-power-of-the-gospel--58063149
  
  Resources From This Podcast:
  Brit Redfield at Converge.org– profile and support page
  e-mail Brit
  Baptist Student Ministry
  Living Hope: Support and resources for leaving homosexuality
  Is God Anti-Gay? by Sam AllberryTopics Covered In
  
  This Week’s Podcast:
  00:11 Introduction 
  04:05 Brit’s childhood and upbringing
  09:53 The progression of same-sex attraction in Brit’s teen years
  13:12 Turning away from God in college
  20:04 A softening heart, and God speaking into it
  32:25 Where Brit is today
  35:39 Brit’s advice for parents
  40:18 What Brit would tell her teenage self
  42:12 Recommended resources
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  Resources From This Podcast:
  Brit Redfield at Converge.org– profile and support page
  e-mail Brit
  Baptist Student Ministry
  Living Hope: Support and resources for leaving homosexuality
  Is God Anti-Gay? by Sam AllberryTopics Covered In
  
  This Week’s Podcast:
  00:11 Introduction 
  04:05 Brit’s childhood and upbringing
  09:53 The progression of same-sex attraction in Brit’s teen years
  13:12 Turning away from God in college
  20:04 A softening heart, and God speaking into it
  32:25 Where Brit is today
  35:39 Brit’s advice for parents
  40:18 What Brit would tell her teenage self
  42:12 Recommended resources
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  We discuss the importance of genuine friendships and the need for pastors to advocate for their children. Discover the nuances of being a pastor's kid in different church sizes and roles, and how parents can navigate the balance of modeling their faith while allowing space for their children's questions.
  
  Tune in to gain insights and encouragement for raising children in the ministry.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57846494Wed, 29 Nov 2023 14:16:18 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent, we delve into the unique challenges and blessings of being a pastor's kid. Join us as we explore the pressures of being on display and the expectations that come with it. We discuss the importance of...
  We discuss the importance of genuine friendships and the need for pastors to advocate for their children. Discover the nuances of being a pastor's kid in different church sizes and roles, and how parents can navigate the balance of modeling their faith while allowing space for their children's questions.
  
  Tune in to gain insights and encouragement for raising children in the ministry.]]>2910falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/089-nancy-pearcey-the-toxic-war-on-masculinity--57643536
  We discuss the societal pressures faced by men and the importance of understanding the difference between the good man and the real man. We also discuss the origins of the toxic masculinity narrative and how it has affected the younger generation. Join us as we navigate this urgent issue and discover how biblical principles can shape a positive view of masculinity.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57643536Wed, 15 Nov 2023 11:43:36 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we explore the topic of toxic masculinity and its impact on society. In it, we engage in a thought-provoking conversation with bestselling author and professor Nancy Pearcey about her latest book,...
  We discuss the societal pressures faced by men and the importance of understanding the difference between the good man and the real man. We also discuss the origins of the toxic masculinity narrative and how it has affected the younger generation. Join us as we navigate this urgent issue and discover how biblical principles can shape a positive view of masculinity.]]>3009falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/088-jonathan-leeman-understanding-authority-and-the-blessing-it-brings--57469617
  Our conversation today revolves around Jonathan’s new book Authority: How Godly Rule Protects the Vulnerable, Strengthens Communities, and Promotes Human Flourishing.
  
  We delve into what authority is, the principles of good authority, and different types of ways we exercise authority. We also discuss how the topic of authority is applied in our homes as husbands, wives, parents, and children. We further explore the importance of submitting to higher authorities, the dangers of bad authority, and the essence of good authority. Tune in to hear more about this enlightening conversation on authority.
  
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  Jonathan Lehman serves as the editorial director for 9 Marks and he's co host of the Pastors Talk Podcast. He's the author or editor of over a dozen books and teaches at several seminaries. Jonathan lives with his wife and four daughters in a suburb of Washington, D. C., and he's an elder at Cheverly Baptist Church.
  
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  I want to remind you that we have a second podcast, The Disciple-Making Parent Audio Blog. It’s a short form podcast where I read my blog posts in audio format for your convenience. So you can consume good content while on the go or doing chores. Simply search for and subscribe to The Disciple-Making Parent Audio Blog.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57469617Wed, 01 Nov 2023 12:45:34 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we engage in a discussion about the concept of authority with our guest Jonathan Leeman. Our conversation today revolves around Jonathan’s new book https://a.co/d/cbtmyzI. We delve into what...
  Our conversation today revolves around Jonathan’s new book Authority: How Godly Rule Protects the Vulnerable, Strengthens Communities, and Promotes Human Flourishing.
  
  We delve into what authority is, the principles of good authority, and different types of ways we exercise authority. We also discuss how the topic of authority is applied in our homes as husbands, wives, parents, and children. We further explore the importance of submitting to higher authorities, the dangers of bad authority, and the essence of good authority. Tune in to hear more about this enlightening conversation on authority.
  
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  Jonathan Lehman serves as the editorial director for 9 Marks and he's co host of the Pastors Talk Podcast. He's the author or editor of over a dozen books and teaches at several seminaries. Jonathan lives with his wife and four daughters in a suburb of Washington, D. C., and he's an elder at Cheverly Baptist Church.
  
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  I want to remind you that we have a second podcast, The Disciple-Making Parent Audio Blog. It’s a short form podcast where I read my blog posts in audio format for your convenience. So you can consume good content while on the go or doing chores. Simply search for and subscribe to The Disciple-Making Parent Audio Blog.]]>2964falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/087-matt-schmucker-god-s-call-on-everyone-to-honor-their-parents--57288228
  Tune in as we explore this essential aspect of raising godly children and equipping parents and churches in passing the gospel to the next generation.
  
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  If you're struggling with anger in your home, then Parenting with Patience may be perfect for you. We've received numerous testimonies about how this five week, video driven Bible study has transformed people's lives. So if you're a mom or dad that's struggling with anger, you should check out Parenting with Patience.
  
  For more information, visit parentingwithpatientstudy.com.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57288228Wed, 18 Oct 2023 11:24:00 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we continue our look at honoring parents. In this thought-provoking episode, we’ll hear from Matt Schmucker as he walks us through Exodus 20:12 and provides a strong foundation for understanding...
  Tune in as we explore this essential aspect of raising godly children and equipping parents and churches in passing the gospel to the next generation.
  
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  If you're struggling with anger in your home, then Parenting with Patience may be perfect for you. We've received numerous testimonies about how this five week, video driven Bible study has transformed people's lives. So if you're a mom or dad that's struggling with anger, you should check out Parenting with Patience.
  
  For more information, visit parentingwithpatientstudy.com.]]>2757falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/086-chap-bettis-honor-our-duty-to-god-and-others--57057242
  For more information about The Disciple-Making Parent, visit thedisciplemakingparent.com.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57057242Wed, 04 Oct 2023 12:17:48 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent, we delve into the concept of honor and its significance in our modern world. Join us as we explore the meaning of honor and its relevance in today's narcissistic and therapeutic age. As we reflect on the...
  For more information about The Disciple-Making Parent, visit thedisciplemakingparent.com.]]>1487falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/085-chap-bettis-gospel-secrets-that-parents-forget--56799124https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56799124Thu, 14 Sep 2023 12:01:48 +0000Chap BettisOn this episode, I share my personal experience as a homeschool parent, reflecting on the importance of not losing sight of the big picture in the day-to-day of parenting. We’ll look at some key gospel principles that we may have forgotten in the...3174falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/084-chap-bettis-leaving-a-legacy--54141208
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  We want to help you raise strong disciples of Jesus Christ, who can stand strong in today's culture, and you can get the audiobook of the Disciple Making Parent absolutely free.Simply visit: http://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/freeaudiobook/]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54141208Thu, 08 Jun 2023 17:38:26 +0000Chap BettisLife moves quickly for parents and children alike. As a parent, I was reminded of this when my children shared something they learned in history class. What was once real life to me had become history to them, passed down through a textbook. Passing...
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  We want to help you raise strong disciples of Jesus Christ, who can stand strong in today's culture, and you can get the audiobook of the Disciple Making Parent absolutely free.Simply visit: http://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/freeaudiobook/]]>3491falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/083-marriage-panel-a-real-life-conversation-and-encouragement--53917077
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  We want to help you raise strong disciples of Jesus Christ, who can stand strong in today's culture, and you can get the audiobook of the Disciple Making Parent absolutely free. Simply visit: http://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/freeaudiobook/]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53917077Thu, 18 May 2023 11:38:00 +0000Chap BettisMarriage conferences can encourage and challenge us with the principles they teach. But how does it work in real life? Would you like to hear from some not so perfect couples? We’re continuing a short three-episode series on marriage and in this...
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  We want to help you raise strong disciples of Jesus Christ, who can stand strong in today's culture, and you can get the audiobook of the Disciple Making Parent absolutely free. Simply visit: http://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/freeaudiobook/]]>2650falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/082-deepak-reju-handling-conflict-in-marriage--53727554
  I believe you are going to be truly blessed by this episode.
  
  Deepak Reju serves as the pastor of Biblical Counseling and Family Ministry at Capitol Hill Baptist Church in Washington, DC. He and his wife Sarah, have five children, and Deepak is the author of several books, including Great Kings of the Bible, On Guard, The Pastor and Counseling, and Pornography: Fighting for Purity. He serves also on the board of directors of the Biblical Counseling Coalition and is a trustee for the Christian Counseling and Education Foundation.
  
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  We want to help you raise strong disciples of Jesus Christ, who can stand strong in today's culture, and you can get the audiobook of the Disciple Making Parent absolutely free.Simply visit: http://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/freeaudiobook/]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53727554Wed, 03 May 2023 11:57:25 +0000Chap BettisIn today's episode, I want to share with you some information that's helped me. Our church recently hosted a marriage conference where Deepak Reju was the speaker. I found his third session on handling conflict especially helpful. In it, he talked...
  I believe you are going to be truly blessed by this episode.
  
  Deepak Reju serves as the pastor of Biblical Counseling and Family Ministry at Capitol Hill Baptist Church in Washington, DC. He and his wife Sarah, have five children, and Deepak is the author of several books, including Great Kings of the Bible, On Guard, The Pastor and Counseling, and Pornography: Fighting for Purity. He serves also on the board of directors of the Biblical Counseling Coalition and is a trustee for the Christian Counseling and Education Foundation.
  
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  We want to help you raise strong disciples of Jesus Christ, who can stand strong in today's culture, and you can get the audiobook of the Disciple Making Parent absolutely free.Simply visit: http://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/freeaudiobook/]]>2598falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/081-travis-rymer-1-peter-3-and-honoring-christ-in-your-marriage--53526254
  In this episode, you will learn to serve Jesus in your closest relationship.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53526254Wed, 19 Apr 2023 09:00:02 +0000Chap BettisWe know that marriage is the most intimate of relationships. Our marriages display the gospel to our children and to the world. And yet marriage can be difficult. when two sinners are that close, problems arise. In this episode, you will learn to...
  In this episode, you will learn to serve Jesus in your closest relationship.]]>3598falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/080-chris-martin-how-the-social-internet-threatens-the-people-you-lead--53404998
  So what are we to do? In this interview, we talk with Chris Martin about his new book, The Wolf in Their Pocket, 13 Ways the Social Internet Threatens the People You Lead. We cover a variety of different topics surrounding social media.
  
  To learn more about The Disciple-Making Parent Ministry, visit thedisciplemakingparent.com.
  
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  So what are we to do? In this interview, we talk with Chris Martin about his new book, The Wolf in Their Pocket, 13 Ways the Social Internet Threatens the People You Lead. We cover a variety of different topics surrounding social media.
  
  To learn more about The Disciple-Making Parent Ministry, visit thedisciplemakingparent.com.
  
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  In this episode, you'll be surprised at the findings that we, as believers, are headed for a glorious existence that we can't even imagine and will receive rewards or glory from Christ that will shock us.
  
  This is the third episode in a three-part series on glory.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53225613Wed, 15 Mar 2023 06:00:00 +0000Chap BettisHave you thought biblically and clearly about your coming glory? That's right. Your glory. Does that sound heretical to you? Then, you'll want to listen to this episode. In this episode, you'll be surprised at the findings that we, as believers, are...
  In this episode, you'll be surprised at the findings that we, as believers, are headed for a glorious existence that we can't even imagine and will receive rewards or glory from Christ that will shock us.
  
  This is the third episode in a three-part series on glory.]]>1634falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/078-chap-bettis-glimpses-of-christ-s-glory--53002577
  In this episode, we will look at the key to finishing strong, which is pressing more into the glory of Christ. We will learn Jesus is the focal point of God's glory, and we are to sense that glory increasingly.
  
  This is the second episode in a three-part series on glory.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53002577Tue, 28 Feb 2023 07:00:00 +0000Chap BettisDo you feel stuck in your spiritual walk? Are you an older Christian who opens his Bible and thinks, "I've heard this before?" Do you worry that you are coasting in your Christian life? In this episode, we will look at the key to finishing strong,...
  In this episode, we will look at the key to finishing strong, which is pressing more into the glory of Christ. We will learn Jesus is the focal point of God's glory, and we are to sense that glory increasingly.
  
  This is the second episode in a three-part series on glory.]]>1672falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/077-chap-bettis-glimpses-of-god-s-glory--52825979
  In the next three podcasts, we will explore the subject of glory. Glory is a word we use regularly, but we don't actually know what it means. I've had the privilege of thinking about the answer and preaching several Sunday messages on that topic.
  
  In this first podcast, Glimpses of God's Glory, you can listen to a short topical sermon. We will see four different uses of the word, which explains why we struggle to understand it. And we will think about how the word glory is used in a survey of scripture. Once you understand this teaching, the word glory will pop out at you all over scripture.
  
  Why is this important on a podcast, usually devoted to family discipleship? It's to remind us that everything is not about family discipleship. Everything is ultimately about Jesus; when parents and pastors are reminded of this truth, we'll be healthier leaders.
  
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  We want to help you raise strong disciples of Jesus Christ, who can stand strong in today's culture, and you can get the audiobook of the Disciple Making Parent absolutely free.
  
  Simply visit: thedisciplemakingparent.com/freeaudiobook/]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52825979Tue, 14 Feb 2023 07:00:00 +0000Chap BettisWhat does it mean to glorify God? How do we live for the glory of God, and how does it apply to our family? In the next three podcasts, we will explore the subject of glory. Glory is a word we use regularly, but we don't actually know what it means....
  In the next three podcasts, we will explore the subject of glory. Glory is a word we use regularly, but we don't actually know what it means. I've had the privilege of thinking about the answer and preaching several Sunday messages on that topic.
  
  In this first podcast, Glimpses of God's Glory, you can listen to a short topical sermon. We will see four different uses of the word, which explains why we struggle to understand it. And we will think about how the word glory is used in a survey of scripture. Once you understand this teaching, the word glory will pop out at you all over scripture.
  
  Why is this important on a podcast, usually devoted to family discipleship? It's to remind us that everything is not about family discipleship. Everything is ultimately about Jesus; when parents and pastors are reminded of this truth, we'll be healthier leaders.
  
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  We want to help you raise strong disciples of Jesus Christ, who can stand strong in today's culture, and you can get the audiobook of the Disciple Making Parent absolutely free.
  
  Simply visit: thedisciplemakingparent.com/freeaudiobook/]]>1527falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/076-chap-bettis-preventing-destructive-marital-conflict--52245042
  The issue is not whether we'll have conflict or not, but whether that conflict will be destructive or constructive. Constructive conflict leads to a new understanding of each other, the issue, and ourselves. You end up closer together at the end. Destructive conflict, on the other hand, results in continued upset and bitterness. It leads the parties to pull away emotionally.
  
  So how do we prevent destructive marriage conflict? It's vitally important that we understand this because our marriage displays Christ to a watching world and to our watching children. Well, that's the subject of this podcast. We're gonna talk about Preventing Destructive Martial Conflict.
  
  -----
  
  
  This podcast is a crossover from my other podcast The Disciple-Making Parent Audioblog. In that podcast, I read my blog posts in audio format for your convenience. If you enjoy today's short podcast, I urge you to subscribe.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52245042Wed, 21 Dec 2022 12:09:25 +0000Chap BettisIn any marriage, there will be disagreements, but do you know how to keep your conflict constructive rather than destructive? The issue is not whether we'll have conflict or not, but whether that conflict will be destructive or constructive....
  The issue is not whether we'll have conflict or not, but whether that conflict will be destructive or constructive. Constructive conflict leads to a new understanding of each other, the issue, and ourselves. You end up closer together at the end. Destructive conflict, on the other hand, results in continued upset and bitterness. It leads the parties to pull away emotionally.
  
  So how do we prevent destructive marriage conflict? It's vitally important that we understand this because our marriage displays Christ to a watching world and to our watching children. Well, that's the subject of this podcast. We're gonna talk about Preventing Destructive Martial Conflict.
  
  -----
  
  
  This podcast is a crossover from my other podcast The Disciple-Making Parent Audioblog. In that podcast, I read my blog posts in audio format for your convenience. If you enjoy today's short podcast, I urge you to subscribe.]]>807falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/075-guy-wilcox-how-to-use-the-disciple-making-parent-to-equip-parents-in-your-church--52066212
  In today’s episode, Guy Wilcox, a youth pastor out of Fayetteville, Arkansas, gets very specific about how he used the book, The Disciple-Making Parent to equip the parents in his large church.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52066212Thu, 01 Dec 2022 12:46:28 +0000Chap BettisYou're a person who loves the material that The Disciple-Making Parent produces, but how do you help others catch the vision? What can you do to help others pass the gospel to their children and keep them from becoming spiritual casualties? In...
  In today’s episode, Guy Wilcox, a youth pastor out of Fayetteville, Arkansas, gets very specific about how he used the book, The Disciple-Making Parent to equip the parents in his large church.]]>2048falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/074-keith-plummer-how-scientism-might-be-causing-problems-for-you-or-your-teen--51836392
  Have you ever found yourself thinking something like that? Or maybe your teen has also wished that there was scientific proof for Christianity? If that's true, then this podcast is for you. In today's podcast, we're going to be thinking about the blessing and limitations of science.
  
  We live in a time when we're blessed and amazed at the scientific discoveries that enrich our lives. But a belief in science can morph into the idea that science itself is how we know reality. This belief is certainly held by many around us, and it can affect our faith and the faith of our children.
  
  In today's podcast, I'm talking with Dr. Keith Plummer, a professor of theology and dean in the School of Divinity at Cairn University and a contributing author to the book Before You Lose Your Faith: Deconstructing Doubt in the Church.
  
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  We want to help you raise strong disciples of Jesus Christ, who can stand strong in today's culture, and you can get the audiobook of the Disciple Making Parent absolutely free.
  
  Simply visit: http://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/freeaudiobook/]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51836392Wed, 09 Nov 2022 12:55:45 +0000Chap Bettis"If only I had some scientific proof that Christianity is true that would really strengthen my faith." Have you ever found yourself thinking something like that? Or maybe your teen has also wished that there was scientific proof for Christianity?...
  Have you ever found yourself thinking something like that? Or maybe your teen has also wished that there was scientific proof for Christianity? If that's true, then this podcast is for you. In today's podcast, we're going to be thinking about the blessing and limitations of science.
  
  We live in a time when we're blessed and amazed at the scientific discoveries that enrich our lives. But a belief in science can morph into the idea that science itself is how we know reality. This belief is certainly held by many around us, and it can affect our faith and the faith of our children.
  
  In today's podcast, I'm talking with Dr. Keith Plummer, a professor of theology and dean in the School of Divinity at Cairn University and a contributing author to the book Before You Lose Your Faith: Deconstructing Doubt in the Church.
  
  -----
  
  We want to help you raise strong disciples of Jesus Christ, who can stand strong in today's culture, and you can get the audiobook of the Disciple Making Parent absolutely free.
  
  Simply visit: http://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/freeaudiobook/]]>3028falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/073-rick-horne-how-to-shepherd-troubled-and-angry-teens--51620546
  We're talking with Dr. Rick Horne about the contents of his book, Get Outta My Face: How to Reach Angry and Unmotivated Teens with Biblical Counsel.
  
  The interview and his book will give you some very practical handles on how to speak with teens who are troubled.
  
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  I’d like to let you know that we've started another podcast. It's the disciple Making Parent audio blog, and in that podcast I read some of my blog posts in audio format for your convenience.
  
  https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/audioblog/]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51620546Wed, 19 Oct 2022 13:01:16 +0000Chap BettisThe teenage years can be tumultuous. Suddenly we wake up and find that we have an angry and unmotivated teen. Where did that come from? We're talking with Dr. Rick Horne about the contents of his book, Get Outta My Face: How to Reach Angry and...
  We're talking with Dr. Rick Horne about the contents of his book, Get Outta My Face: How to Reach Angry and Unmotivated Teens with Biblical Counsel.
  
  The interview and his book will give you some very practical handles on how to speak with teens who are troubled.
  
  -----
  
  I’d like to let you know that we've started another podcast. It's the disciple Making Parent audio blog, and in that podcast I read some of my blog posts in audio format for your convenience.
  
  https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/audioblog/]]>2997falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/072-tim-challies-walking-through-deep-sorrow-and-loss--51420278
  On November 3rd, 2020, Tim Challies received just such a call. He received the shocking news that his son Nick had died. During those days, months, and year of loss, Tim began to write. And the content of that writing is what we're going to talk about in this episode. We're going to talk about his most recent book, Seasons of Sorrow: The Pain of Loss and the Comfort of God.
  
  ——
  
  I want to remind you that we give away the audio book of The Disciple Making Parent absolutely free. We're on a mission to equip parents to pass the gospel to their children, and the Disciple Making parent book is at the centerpiece of our ministry.
  
  You can have the audio book for free. Just simply visit the www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/freeaudiobook]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51420278Thu, 29 Sep 2022 19:23:28 +0000Chap BettisIt's every parent's nightmare. An unexpected phone call, an unexpected funeral burying your own child. How do we react in the days and months and years ahead? On November 3rd, 2020, Tim Challies received just such a call. He received the shocking...
  On November 3rd, 2020, Tim Challies received just such a call. He received the shocking news that his son Nick had died. During those days, months, and year of loss, Tim began to write. And the content of that writing is what we're going to talk about in this episode. We're going to talk about his most recent book, Seasons of Sorrow: The Pain of Loss and the Comfort of God.
  
  ——
  
  I want to remind you that we give away the audio book of The Disciple Making Parent absolutely free. We're on a mission to equip parents to pass the gospel to their children, and the Disciple Making parent book is at the centerpiece of our ministry.
  
  You can have the audio book for free. Just simply visit the www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/freeaudiobook]]>2980falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/071-ray-van-neste-reasons-a-preacher-should-address-the-children--51332120
  I planted and pastor to church for 25 years, and I know that everyone has a wonderful idea about what you should be doing with your time. But I would ask you to think about one little section of your sermon. That's what we're gonna be talking about in today's podcast.
  
  We're talking with Dr. Ray Van Neste about his recent blog post entitled: Preacher, Don't Forget to Speak to the Children. And in that post, he lays out several different reasons it’s good for preachers to address the children in their sermon.
  
  I invite you to listen in on my conversation with Ray Van Neste about the Reasons a Preacher Should Address the Children.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51332120Wed, 21 Sep 2022 11:46:56 +0000Chap BettisCould it be that we're ignoring a large group in our worship service, even when they show up week after week? I planted and pastor to church for 25 years, and I know that everyone has a wonderful idea about what you should be doing with your time....
  I planted and pastor to church for 25 years, and I know that everyone has a wonderful idea about what you should be doing with your time. But I would ask you to think about one little section of your sermon. That's what we're gonna be talking about in today's podcast.
  
  We're talking with Dr. Ray Van Neste about his recent blog post entitled: Preacher, Don't Forget to Speak to the Children. And in that post, he lays out several different reasons it’s good for preachers to address the children in their sermon.
  
  I invite you to listen in on my conversation with Ray Van Neste about the Reasons a Preacher Should Address the Children.]]>1831falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/070-deepak-reju-establishing-an-effective-and-safe-children-s-ministry--51173033
  We're going to be talking with Deepak Reju about two of his very helpful books. In the first part of the interview, we will talk about the, his book Build on Jesus: A Comprehensive Guide for Gospel Based Children's Ministry.
  
  In the second half of our conversation, we talk about a second book On Guard: Preventing and Responding to Child Abuse in the Church. We talk about why we should be on guard and what parents and church leaders can do. Whether you're a pastor, a parent, a children's minister, or a volunteer, you will find the conversation with Deepak helpful]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51173033Wed, 07 Sep 2022 12:50:03 +0000Chap BettisThis Sunday, hundreds of thousands of parents will drop off their children at the children's ministry of a church. And hundreds of thousands of volunteer hours will have been spent in preparation, but is the ministry safe? And is it effective?...
  We're going to be talking with Deepak Reju about two of his very helpful books. In the first part of the interview, we will talk about the, his book Build on Jesus: A Comprehensive Guide for Gospel Based Children's Ministry.
  
  In the second half of our conversation, we talk about a second book On Guard: Preventing and Responding to Child Abuse in the Church. We talk about why we should be on guard and what parents and church leaders can do. Whether you're a pastor, a parent, a children's minister, or a volunteer, you will find the conversation with Deepak helpful]]>2613falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/069-chap-bettis-communication-that-creates-community--51012132
  Do you need some challenge to honor the Lord with your words?
  
  I recently preached on Ephesians 4:29. In that passage, God tells us that we're not to let any on wholesome or corrupting talk, come out of our mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up others according to their needs.
  
  All of us need to grow in becoming a godly communicator and I think this sermon might help you in that process.
  
  ——
  
  I'd like to remind you about our video Bible study Parenting with Patience.
  
  It's perfect for those who are in a sin confess, sin confess cycle with anger in the home. I struggled with anger and the truths contained in this study helped me tremendously. And in the launch period, we're giving away a one year subscription of the videos for free with the purchase of a workbook.
  
  Visit www.parentingwithpatiencestudy.com for more information.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51012132Wed, 24 Aug 2022 11:00:03 +0000Chap BettisGod cares about our words. Our words are powerful. They can encourage someone made in God's image or discourage them. Do you need some challenge to honor the Lord with your words? I recently preached on Ephesians 4:29. In that passage, God...
  Do you need some challenge to honor the Lord with your words?
  
  I recently preached on Ephesians 4:29. In that passage, God tells us that we're not to let any on wholesome or corrupting talk, come out of our mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up others according to their needs.
  
  All of us need to grow in becoming a godly communicator and I think this sermon might help you in that process.
  
  ——
  
  I'd like to remind you about our video Bible study Parenting with Patience.
  
  It's perfect for those who are in a sin confess, sin confess cycle with anger in the home. I struggled with anger and the truths contained in this study helped me tremendously. And in the launch period, we're giving away a one year subscription of the videos for free with the purchase of a workbook.
  
  Visit www.parentingwithpatiencestudy.com for more information.]]>2838falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/068-tim-shorey-respect-the-image-how-to-communicate-well--50800660
  What if we had some help thinking biblically about communication?
  In today's podcast, we're going to be talking with my friend, Tim Shorey about his book Respect the Image. In that book, Tim uses the acrostic COMMUNICATE to give us biblical principles of communication.
  
  Chill
  Open Up
  Make Time
  Mean What You Say
  Understand What You Hear
  Nourish with Grace
  Initiate Peace
  Celebrate Others
  Assume You are Wrong
  Think the Best
  Examine Your Heart
  
  I think you'll find our conversation enjoyable and practical as you seek to speak in a godly way and as you seek to train your children to speak in a godly way.
  
  Tim has been a believer for over 40 years and has been in active pastoral ministry since 1982. He is Risen Hope’s primary preaching pastor.
  
  He is the author of Respect the Image: Reflecting Human Worth in How We Listen and Talk.
  He has also written An ABC Prayer to Jesus: Praise for Hearts Both Young and Old; along with two devotional books, Worship Worthy: Alliterative Adoration, and 30/30 Hindsight: 30 Reflections on a 30-Year Headache.
  
  He and his wife, Gayline, have six adult children and more than a dozen grandchildren.
  You can find out more about Tim at his website www.timothyshorey.com or on his Respect the Image Facebook account.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50800660Wed, 03 Aug 2022 14:32:45 +0000Chap BettisOur homes are filled with words. Some of these words are helpful and unfortunately, some are not. What if we had some help thinking biblically about communication? In today's podcast, we're going to be talking with my friend, Tim Shorey about his...
  What if we had some help thinking biblically about communication?
  In today's podcast, we're going to be talking with my friend, Tim Shorey about his book Respect the Image. In that book, Tim uses the acrostic COMMUNICATE to give us biblical principles of communication.
  
  Chill
  Open Up
  Make Time
  Mean What You Say
  Understand What You Hear
  Nourish with Grace
  Initiate Peace
  Celebrate Others
  Assume You are Wrong
  Think the Best
  Examine Your Heart
  
  I think you'll find our conversation enjoyable and practical as you seek to speak in a godly way and as you seek to train your children to speak in a godly way.
  
  Tim has been a believer for over 40 years and has been in active pastoral ministry since 1982. He is Risen Hope’s primary preaching pastor.
  
  He is the author of Respect the Image: Reflecting Human Worth in How We Listen and Talk.
  He has also written An ABC Prayer to Jesus: Praise for Hearts Both Young and Old; along with two devotional books, Worship Worthy: Alliterative Adoration, and 30/30 Hindsight: 30 Reflections on a 30-Year Headache.
  
  He and his wife, Gayline, have six adult children and more than a dozen grandchildren.
  You can find out more about Tim at his website www.timothyshorey.com or on his Respect the Image Facebook account.]]>3258falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/067-chap-bettis-how-understanding-temptation-reorients-us--50656514
  We would do well to recover and think about the biblical teaching on temptation and how it benefits those of us seeking to live out the gospel in our home.
  
  In this episode we’ll look at a proper understanding of temptation and how it can help frame the way we understand ourselves and shepherd our children.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50656514Wed, 20 Jul 2022 12:37:20 +0000Chap BettisIt's easy as Christians to get into a sin confess cycle that we don't actually back up and think about what comes before the sin. Once you start looking, you'll find that both the concept and the word temptation are all over scripture. We would do...
  We would do well to recover and think about the biblical teaching on temptation and how it benefits those of us seeking to live out the gospel in our home.
  
  In this episode we’ll look at a proper understanding of temptation and how it can help frame the way we understand ourselves and shepherd our children.]]>3160falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/066-travis-rymer-current-issues-teens-face-part-2--50096343audiobook@theapollosproject.com letting us know you heard about the offer on the podcast.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50096343Wed, 08 Jun 2022 11:00:02 +0000Chap BettisWe give away the audio book of my book The Disciple-Making Parent, absolutely free. Simply email audiobook@theapollosproject.com letting us know you heard about the offer on the podcast.audiobook@theapollosproject.com letting us know you heard about the offer on the podcast.]]>2393falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/065-travis-rymer-current-issues-teens-face-part-1--50024621audiobook@theapollosproject.com letting us know you heard about the offer on the podcast.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50024621Wed, 01 Jun 2022 12:01:07 +0000Chap BettisWe give away the audio book of my book The Disciple-Making Parent, absolutely free. Simply email audiobook@theapollosproject.com letting us know you heard about the offer on the podcast.audiobook@theapollosproject.com letting us know you heard about the offer on the podcast.]]>2761falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/064-alexander-strauch-the-household-of-god-and-your-household--49756425
  In today's podcast, we're going to be talking with Alexander Strauch about your household, the household of God, and the overlap between the two.
  
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  We give away the audio book of my book The Disciple-Making Parent, absolutely free. Simply email audiobook@theapollosproject.com letting us know you heard about the offer on the podcast.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49756425Wed, 11 May 2022 13:44:49 +0000Chap BettisHow important is the local church in your life? And when you think of your church, what metaphors come to mind? Is one of the first the household of God? What does leadership in the home have to do with leadership in the church? In today's...
  In today's podcast, we're going to be talking with Alexander Strauch about your household, the household of God, and the overlap between the two.
  
  ----
  
  We give away the audio book of my book The Disciple-Making Parent, absolutely free. Simply email audiobook@theapollosproject.com letting us know you heard about the offer on the podcast.]]>2709falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/063-dr-richard-ross-connecting-with-the-heart-of-your-teen--49284674
  In today's episode of the podcast, we're going to talk with Dr. Richard Ross about two very important subjects.
  
  The first is, how do we stay connected to the heart of our teen? What tends to destroy those connections? And second, how do we give our teen a vision for the glorious reign of Christ?
  
  I think you're going to love this episode. It's going to be well worth your time.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49284674Fri, 01 Apr 2022 17:34:13 +0000Chap BettisDo you have teens at home? If so, how's it going? Would you say that your heart is connected to theirs? Would they say their heart is connected to yours? In today's episode of the podcast, we're going to talk with Dr. Richard Ross about two very...
  In today's episode of the podcast, we're going to talk with Dr. Richard Ross about two very important subjects.
  
  The first is, how do we stay connected to the heart of our teen? What tends to destroy those connections? And second, how do we give our teen a vision for the glorious reign of Christ?
  
  I think you're going to love this episode. It's going to be well worth your time.]]>2444falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/062-brett-mccracken-the-wisdom-pyramid--48818217
  But what if all this information was not making my family more wise, but instead more foolish?
  
  In this today’s podcast we are going to talk to Brett McCracken about his book – The Wisdom Pyramid. In it McCracken lays out a vision for the living a wise life by feeding on contents that are good for our souls. With a glimpse at the food pyramid, he is going to encourage us to have large portions of those things that nourish us, and tiny amounts of those that don’t. I think you will find application for yourself and the discipleship of your children.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48818217Mon, 21 Feb 2022 15:08:15 +0000Chap BettisWe are raising children in the information age. We need a new unit of measurement – the exabyte. Experts predict in 2025, 463 exabytes will be created online everyday. That’s the equivalent of over 270 million DVDS. Even more amazingly, that data is...
  But what if all this information was not making my family more wise, but instead more foolish?
  
  In this today’s podcast we are going to talk to Brett McCracken about his book – The Wisdom Pyramid. In it McCracken lays out a vision for the living a wise life by feeding on contents that are good for our souls. With a glimpse at the food pyramid, he is going to encourage us to have large portions of those things that nourish us, and tiny amounts of those that don’t. I think you will find application for yourself and the discipleship of your children.]]>2581falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/061-collin-hansen-rediscover-church-why-the-body-of-christ-is-essential--48395595https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48395595Fri, 21 Jan 2022 21:05:16 +0000Chap BettisChristians usually take church attendance for granted. That is, until Covid struck in March of 2020. But the pandemic merely exposed some of our unclear thinking. After all, why should we go to church? With all the pressures on us as parents, why make...2211falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/060-the-gifts-the-messiah-brings-a-christmas-sermon--48015871I don’t want to give away all the surprises, but in this sermon Isaiah is writing from the mid 700s BC. But he writes and speaks as if he is standing in 100AD looking back on the events of Jesus. We have one coming of light. And we long for the greater fulfillment of light coming into the world.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48015871Wed, 22 Dec 2021 13:30:01 +0000Chap BettisToday I am sharing a sermon I just preached in my home church on Isaiah 9:1-7. It is a fascinating passage and one of the most famous incarnation passages. That’s why it is so appropriate around Christmas. I don’t want to give away all the...I don’t want to give away all the surprises, but in this sermon Isaiah is writing from the mid 700s BC. But he writes and speaks as if he is standing in 100AD looking back on the events of Jesus. We have one coming of light. And we long for the greater fulfillment of light coming into the world.]]>2374falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/059-cameron-cole-hope-when-you-lose-a-child--45411725
  Today’s podcast is one straight for the heart. Do you know families that have lost young children? Are you one of those families? If so, you are part of a fraternity that you never signed up for. This is where Cameron and Laurne Cole found themselves in 2013. How do you go on? Has God abandoned us? How do we process the sorrow?
  
  With the pain raw, Cameron began meditating on Scriptures and truths that would sustain him in the days ahead. The result is the book Therefore I Have Hope: 12 Truths That Comfort, Sustain, and Redeem In Tragedy. And in today’s podcast we are going to meditate on some of those truths for those who are hurting. In addition, Cameron ends with wise pastoral advice to as to how to minister to families that are grieving.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/45411725Wed, 23 Jun 2021 14:19:51 +0000Chap BettisOn November 11th, 2013, Cameron Cole received a call from his wife he will never forget. Their three-year-old son Cam had died in his sleep. It has to be every parent’s worst nightmare. How do we survive? Where is God in that situation? Where can I...
  Today’s podcast is one straight for the heart. Do you know families that have lost young children? Are you one of those families? If so, you are part of a fraternity that you never signed up for. This is where Cameron and Laurne Cole found themselves in 2013. How do you go on? Has God abandoned us? How do we process the sorrow?
  
  With the pain raw, Cameron began meditating on Scriptures and truths that would sustain him in the days ahead. The result is the book Therefore I Have Hope: 12 Truths That Comfort, Sustain, and Redeem In Tragedy. And in today’s podcast we are going to meditate on some of those truths for those who are hurting. In addition, Cameron ends with wise pastoral advice to as to how to minister to families that are grieving.]]>2307falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/058-jonas-williams-chick-fil-a-management-secrets-and-your-home--45233791
  You are in a for a treat today. In this podcast, we are going to talk to Jonas William, owner operator of the Chick-fil-A in Seekonk, MA. This recorded conversation came about because I wanted to learn from him about how Chick-fil-A restaurants are so well run. Why? Well, Scripture tells us that elders and deacons are to manage their households well. While certainly every lesson can’t directly apply, many can.
  
  Jonas became serious about his faith while a student at the University of Georgia. He is a graduate of Southeastern Seminary and served overseas for a number of years. He is married to Melissa and has three children, Luke, Noah, and Zoe.
  
  You are going to love this conversation. It is dripping with Chick-fil-A sauce goodness.
  
  Listen in, and let’s think about how we can lead our families well.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/45233791Wed, 09 Jun 2021 17:32:52 +0000Chap BettisI bet almost everyone listening to this podcast has eaten at a Chick-fil-A. What are their behind-the scenes-secrets, and how can you apply them to your home? You are in a for a treat today. In this podcast, we are going to talk to Jonas William,...
  You are in a for a treat today. In this podcast, we are going to talk to Jonas William, owner operator of the Chick-fil-A in Seekonk, MA. This recorded conversation came about because I wanted to learn from him about how Chick-fil-A restaurants are so well run. Why? Well, Scripture tells us that elders and deacons are to manage their households well. While certainly every lesson can’t directly apply, many can.
  
  Jonas became serious about his faith while a student at the University of Georgia. He is a graduate of Southeastern Seminary and served overseas for a number of years. He is married to Melissa and has three children, Luke, Noah, and Zoe.
  
  You are going to love this conversation. It is dripping with Chick-fil-A sauce goodness.
  
  Listen in, and let’s think about how we can lead our families well.]]>2176falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/057-dr-timothy-paul-jones-how-we-got-the-bible--44608944
  In today’s podcast  we are going to talk to Dr. Timothy Paul Jones, a professor at Southern Seminary about his book How We Got the Bible.
   
  There are a number of cultural myths about the Bible that simply aren’t true. But do we know why? Do our teens?
  
  Dr. Jones has put together a highly readable and beautiful book for teens (and all of us) on how we got the Bible.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/44608944Mon, 03 May 2021 15:05:27 +0000Chap BettisAs Christians, we claim that our Bibles are God’s inspired word. Yet how did we get our Bible? God didn’t just drop those 66 books down from heaven to your local publisher. Are these ancient documents filled with error, giving us wrong information...
  In today’s podcast  we are going to talk to Dr. Timothy Paul Jones, a professor at Southern Seminary about his book How We Got the Bible.
   
  There are a number of cultural myths about the Bible that simply aren’t true. But do we know why? Do our teens?
  
  Dr. Jones has put together a highly readable and beautiful book for teens (and all of us) on how we got the Bible.]]>2792falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/056-the-intersection-of-jesus-and-your-suffering--43834813
  I recently preached a short meditation on Jesus' response to the death of Lazarus in John 11. This short message might be exactly what you or a friend or even your teen needs at this moment.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/43834813Thu, 11 Mar 2021 02:18:31 +0000Chap BettisSuffering can come at us when we least expect it. Life seems to be going well and then a large incident comes at us. Or maybe it is a series of smaller thigns that are repeated over and over. Often we can think that Jesus’ presence is far away. Does...
  I recently preached a short meditation on Jesus' response to the death of Lazarus in John 11. This short message might be exactly what you or a friend or even your teen needs at this moment.]]>1407falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/055-bob-lepine-love-like-you-mean-it--43633946
  In today's podcast we're going to talk with Bob Lepine about his book Love Like You Mean It: The Heart of a Marriage That Honors God. In that resource, Bob walks us through the most well-known passage on love in the Bible, 1 Corinthians 13:4-7.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/43633946Thu, 25 Feb 2021 13:46:17 +0000Chap BettisHow do we actually love our spouse in a way that honors the Lord? And the more we think about it, what is love? The culture is certainly sending us mixed messages. What does godly love look like? In today's podcast we're going to talk with Bob...
  In today's podcast we're going to talk with Bob Lepine about his book Love Like You Mean It: The Heart of a Marriage That Honors God. In that resource, Bob walks us through the most well-known passage on love in the Bible, 1 Corinthians 13:4-7.]]>2444falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/054-jeff-dalrymple-making-our-church-a-safe-place--43419544
  In today’s podcast, we are going to talk to my friend Jeff Dalrymple about a ministry that can help diminish the threat of sexual abuse in the church. This is a vital topic both for the safety of our children and the reputation of Christ.
  
  Jeff has been the catalyst behind a new national organization – The Evangelical Council for Abuse Prevention (or ECAP for short). In this conversation he shares about the unfortunate need for his organization, and how busy pastors and leaders will soon be able to make their churches safer places. For the glory of Christ and for the love of others, our churches should be some of the safest places on earth.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/43419544Fri, 12 Feb 2021 14:39:10 +0000Chap BettisNothing is more precious to us than our children and their innocence. But how do we know that when we drop them off at school or church it is a safe place? And what can we do to make it safer? In today’s podcast, we are going to talk to my friend...
  In today’s podcast, we are going to talk to my friend Jeff Dalrymple about a ministry that can help diminish the threat of sexual abuse in the church. This is a vital topic both for the safety of our children and the reputation of Christ.
  
  Jeff has been the catalyst behind a new national organization – The Evangelical Council for Abuse Prevention (or ECAP for short). In this conversation he shares about the unfortunate need for his organization, and how busy pastors and leaders will soon be able to make their churches safer places. For the glory of Christ and for the love of others, our churches should be some of the safest places on earth.]]>1444falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/053-the-power-of-god-s-book--43045090
  In our time together we looked at the well-known passage of 2 Timothy 3:16-17. Although I didn’t make specific applications to parents, I think they will be obvious.
  
  All of us need God’s book for our own intimate walk with Christ and to equip us to shepherd our children as we teach them, rebuke them, restore them, and train them.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/43045090Thu, 21 Jan 2021 14:46:26 +0000Chap BettisWhat is the most relevant parenting book to help you face the new year? In this episode, I point you to the one essential resource for your family. It has the answer to every problem you will face. In this episode where we continue to hit restart, I...
  In our time together we looked at the well-known passage of 2 Timothy 3:16-17. Although I didn’t make specific applications to parents, I think they will be obvious.
  
  All of us need God’s book for our own intimate walk with Christ and to equip us to shepherd our children as we teach them, rebuke them, restore them, and train them.]]>2369falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/052-injustice-chaos-and-habakkuk--42844009
  And Christians were and are divided about the proper causes and responses to these event. Does God’s word apply to this moment?
  
  The prophet Habakkuk lived in a time when there was profound injustice among God’s people. When he cries out to God for an explanation, he receives a surprising answer. And as a result he was surprisingly transformed.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/42844009Fri, 08 Jan 2021 14:41:53 +0000Chap BettisLast year was a tumultuous summer. Between the fears of quarantine and rationing to the well-publicized shootings and resulting protests and riots, it will be remembered in the history books. Our countries politics are more divided and acrimonious...
  And Christians were and are divided about the proper causes and responses to these event. Does God’s word apply to this moment?
  
  The prophet Habakkuk lived in a time when there was profound injustice among God’s people. When he cries out to God for an explanation, he receives a surprising answer. And as a result he was surprisingly transformed.]]>2373falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/051-dr-david-murray-exploring-the-bible-together--30141951
  In today’s podcast we are going to talk with Dr. David Murray. Dr. Murray has just released the book Exploring the Bible Together: A 52-week Family Worship plan.
  
  But before you become overwhelmed with that take a listen to this podcast. You will discover that it is a simple plan that takes about 4-5 minutes a day. I think you are going to love it. In addition, it is family companion to the study for individual use. So your children 7-12 are working on it by themselves and then come to report it to the whole family that night. But the family devotional book can stand on its own.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/30141951Wed, 17 Jun 2020 17:34:08 +0000Chap BettisFamily worship and devotions can be an ongoing source of guilt. But it doesn’t have to be that way. In today’s podcast we are going to talk with Dr. David Murray. Dr. Murray has just released the book Exploring the Bible Together: A 52-week Family...
  In today’s podcast we are going to talk with Dr. David Murray. Dr. Murray has just released the book Exploring the Bible Together: A 52-week Family Worship plan.
  
  But before you become overwhelmed with that take a listen to this podcast. You will discover that it is a simple plan that takes about 4-5 minutes a day. I think you are going to love it. In addition, it is family companion to the study for individual use. So your children 7-12 are working on it by themselves and then come to report it to the whole family that night. But the family devotional book can stand on its own.]]>1883falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/050-nine-principles-for-overcoming-anger-with-your-children--29429695https://api.spreaker.com/episode/29429695Thu, 04 Jun 2020 20:09:44 +0000Chap BettisNot again! You’ve lost it with the children, yelling at them and hitting the table. And you see them cower in fear or scramble to their rooms. You end up feeling ashamed and embarrassed. “What is wrong with me?” you say to yourself. “How can I get...1709falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/049-five-principles-for-healthy-communication--28050726https://api.spreaker.com/episode/28050726Fri, 22 May 2020 13:00:05 +0000Chap BettisWords, words, words. If you’re a parent, words are flying around your house. Sometimes those words are helpful, and as you well know, many times they’re sinful. How do we get a handle on all those words? How do we communicate well, and how do we teach...1659falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/048-tim-challies-thoughts-on-media-and-your-family--27239276
  In this podcast, I talked with Tim Challies about his perspective on the media and its use in his family. In our time together we talked about some insights on this new world that could guide us as parents.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/27239276Wed, 13 May 2020 14:18:50 +0000Chap BettisThe media, internet, and screens can seem like a tsunami, overwhelming us and our children. Sometimes it seems to disciple our children more than we do. What should a parent do? In this podcast, I talked with Tim Challies about his perspective on...
  In this podcast, I talked with Tim Challies about his perspective on the media and its use in his family. In our time together we talked about some insights on this new world that could guide us as parents.]]>1657falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/047-tim-challies-epic-an-around-the-world-journey-through-christian-history--26346787
  In this podcast, I talked with Tim Challies about his new book and video series – Epic – An Around-the-World Journey through Christian History.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/26346787Wed, 29 Apr 2020 12:45:39 +0000Chap BettisDoes Christian history seem boring to you? Would you like a fun flyover of Christian History to gain some perspective on your heritage as a Christian? In this podcast, I talked with Tim Challies about his new book and video series – Epic – An...
  In this podcast, I talked with Tim Challies about his new book and video series – Epic – An Around-the-World Journey through Christian History.]]>1232falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/046-fathers-at-home-finding-joy-in-the-new-normal--25615316
  I spent some time giving 12 suggestions for dads. The time together starts with perspective and becomes more and more practical as the chat goes on. Although it is aimed at dads, it definitely could apply to moms as well. I hope you will be helped by it.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/25615316Thu, 16 Apr 2020 18:03:29 +0000Chap BettisThis is a strange and disruptive time that got me thinking about hosting a fire-side chat or webinar to help us get through this time. I hosted my first last Tuesday night. It was entitled Fathers at Home: Finding Joy in the New Normal. I spent...
  I spent some time giving 12 suggestions for dads. The time together starts with perspective and becomes more and more practical as the chat goes on. Although it is aimed at dads, it definitely could apply to moms as well. I hope you will be helped by it.]]>1982falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/045-erik-raymond-the-gospel-comes-home--23756941
  Sometimes we need to go back to a book with just God's words in it, and say, "This is what God commands." Pastor Erik Raymond did an excellent job succinctly opening up a passage in Ephesians 6. I liked it so much that I wanted to share it with you.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/23756941Wed, 11 Mar 2020 16:33:23 +0000Chap BettisThere's so much confusing parenting advice out there. Everyone seems to have an opinion. But who's right? What if we could cut through the clutter and hear from a real expert? What if we could hear from God himself? Sometimes we need to go back to...
  Sometimes we need to go back to a book with just God's words in it, and say, "This is what God commands." Pastor Erik Raymond did an excellent job succinctly opening up a passage in Ephesians 6. I liked it so much that I wanted to share it with you.]]>2722falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/044-capturing-valentine-s-day-for-family-discipleship--22752284https://api.spreaker.com/episode/22752284Fri, 14 Feb 2020 02:34:42 +0000Chap BettisValentine's Day is upon us again. Like it or not, it affects us. The messages of romantic love come at us and our children. Can we capture them for good?1354falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/043-summer-off-an-interview-with-tim-zulker-and-miranda-laughlin--22267408
  But how do we go about doing that? Sharing the love of Christ is often a individual endeavor. In today’s podcast, I have a conversation with Tim Zulker and Miranda Laughlin about a summer park ministry that has flourished here in Providence. It is called Summer Off. It might be a way for you and your family to lead a summer outreach in your area.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/22267408Fri, 31 Jan 2020 12:33:47 +0000Chap BettisWe want to have the joy of telling others about Jesus and we want to train our children in this way also. It is a joyful privilege when God uses us. But how do we go about doing that? Sharing the love of Christ is often a individual endeavor. In...
  But how do we go about doing that? Sharing the love of Christ is often a individual endeavor. In today’s podcast, I have a conversation with Tim Zulker and Miranda Laughlin about a summer park ministry that has flourished here in Providence. It is called Summer Off. It might be a way for you and your family to lead a summer outreach in your area.]]>2721falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/042-dave-harvey-i-still-do-growing-closer-and-stronger-through-life-s-defining-moments--21710010
  In today’s podcast, we are going to continue talking with Dave Harvey. In this time together we're going to be talking about his newest book, which is scheduled to drop in January of 2020, I Still Do: Growing Closer and Stronger through Life's Defining Moments. I think it will help you do just that. In this conversation we just scratch the surface of the riches that are in this resource as Dave takes us to look at some defining moment that couples that have been married a while go through.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21710010Wed, 15 Jan 2020 13:39:13 +0000Chap BettisYou've been married now for more than a few years. Kids are everywhere. Work is hard. Fights seem to be increasing. Is this what you signed up for? Would you do it again? Would you still say "I do"? In today’s podcast, we are going to continue...
  In today’s podcast, we are going to continue talking with Dave Harvey. In this time together we're going to be talking about his newest book, which is scheduled to drop in January of 2020, I Still Do: Growing Closer and Stronger through Life's Defining Moments. I think it will help you do just that. In this conversation we just scratch the surface of the riches that are in this resource as Dave takes us to look at some defining moment that couples that have been married a while go through.]]>1613falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/041-dave-harvey-help-for-those-who-love-a-prodigal--21311720
  In Today’s podcast, we are going to talk with Dave Harvey about his book Letting Go: Rugged Love for Wayward Souls. Dave has walked through this situations himself. And it drove deeper into the Scriptures. This book and this interview is some of the fruit of that digging.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21311720Fri, 03 Jan 2020 13:37:26 +0000Chap BettisProdigal. What comes to mind when you hear that word? For some it may be Jesus's beloved story of the father and the two sons. But for others, that word may be a son or daughter, husband or wife who has turned their back on the faith. In Today’s...
  In Today’s podcast, we are going to talk with Dave Harvey about his book Letting Go: Rugged Love for Wayward Souls. Dave has walked through this situations himself. And it drove deeper into the Scriptures. This book and this interview is some of the fruit of that digging.]]>1779falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/040-joel-sedam-the-surprising-presence-of-sloth-in-our-day--20929494
  Joel Sedam is a young pastor friend that I am privileged to know. We were talking recently and he mentioned a sermon he had done on the subject of sloth and how it had caused a paradigm shift in him. How he saw sloth all around. That led me to say, "Let's talk about this on a podcast."
  
  You are going to enjoy this conversation. I think this topic has application as a besetting sin of our media age. It has application for my heart. It has application if you are trying to raise teens for the Lord. It has application for molding young children.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20929494Fri, 20 Dec 2019 21:27:33 +0000Chap BettisWhat comes to mind when you hear the word "sloth?"The strange animal from the rainforest of South America? Your teenage son? What if I told you that this word might be more applicable to your parenting than you think? Joel Sedam is a young pastor...
  Joel Sedam is a young pastor friend that I am privileged to know. We were talking recently and he mentioned a sermon he had done on the subject of sloth and how it had caused a paradigm shift in him. How he saw sloth all around. That led me to say, "Let's talk about this on a podcast."
  
  You are going to enjoy this conversation. I think this topic has application as a besetting sin of our media age. It has application for my heart. It has application if you are trying to raise teens for the Lord. It has application for molding young children.]]>2258falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/039-dan-darling-the-characters-of-christmas--20147973
  
  In today’s podcast I’m delighted to present to you a conversation I had with Dan Darling about his new book The Characters of Christmas: The Unlikely People Caught Up in the Story of Jesus.
  
  
  If you want something to freshen up your Christmas, this short book is for you. Dan walks through numerous characters including Joseph, Mary, the Shepherds, and even Herod the Monster of Christmas to give you a fresh perspective on a familiar story.  In addition, each chapter ends with suggested discussion questions, making it perfect for family devotion. 
  
  You are going to love this conversation, which will deepen your understanding of a familiar story. ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20147973Wed, 20 Nov 2019 19:52:34 +0000Chap BettisAre you rushing around getting ready for the holiday season? What can you do to remember well this incredible divine event that we celebrate each year? In today’s podcast I’m delighted to present to you a conversation I had with Dan Darling about...
  
  In today’s podcast I’m delighted to present to you a conversation I had with Dan Darling about his new book The Characters of Christmas: The Unlikely People Caught Up in the Story of Jesus.
  
  
  If you want something to freshen up your Christmas, this short book is for you. Dan walks through numerous characters including Joseph, Mary, the Shepherds, and even Herod the Monster of Christmas to give you a fresh perspective on a familiar story.  In addition, each chapter ends with suggested discussion questions, making it perfect for family devotion. 
  
  You are going to love this conversation, which will deepen your understanding of a familiar story. ]]>1968falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/038-the-patient-christian-overcoming-anger-in-your-home-and-life--19905560
  What are we talking about? Anger. And the fact is, it is far too prevalent in our parenting. And then we feel guilt or shame, so we cover it up.
  
  The following podcast is a short sermon I preached on becoming a more patient follower of Christ. How? By attacking our nemesis of anger.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19905560Thu, 07 Nov 2019 13:35:54 +0000Chap BettisNot again! You lost it, you're furious, and you feel like a total failure. You yelled, slammed the door, hit the table, or threw your purse. Then the shame and guilt set in. "These are my precious children! What am I thinking? What can I do?" What...
  What are we talking about? Anger. And the fact is, it is far too prevalent in our parenting. And then we feel guilt or shame, so we cover it up.
  
  The following podcast is a short sermon I preached on becoming a more patient follower of Christ. How? By attacking our nemesis of anger.]]>1919falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/037-ginger-hubbard-biblical-wisdom-for-taming-your-child-s-tongue--19571757deadly poison. Are you having trouble dealing with the words of your children?
  
  Scripture says that the tongue is a deadly poison. And that poison comes into the
  house through the sinful hearts of everyone who lives there. For parents, shepherding our children through these issues can be difficult.
  
  How do I handle issues like whining, lying, interrupting, complaining, gossiping?
  
  In this podcast, we talk with Ginger Hubbard about her book- I Can't Believe You Just Said That: Biblical Wisdom for Taming Your Child's Tongue]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19571757Wed, 23 Oct 2019 15:36:12 +0000Chap BettisWhining, lying, interrupting, complaining, arguing, gossiping. Our tongues are a deadly poison. Are you having trouble dealing with the words of your children? Scripture says that the tongue is a deadly poison. And that poison comes into the house...deadly poison. Are you having trouble dealing with the words of your children?
  
  Scripture says that the tongue is a deadly poison. And that poison comes into the
  house through the sinful hearts of everyone who lives there. For parents, shepherding our children through these issues can be difficult.
  
  How do I handle issues like whining, lying, interrupting, complaining, gossiping?
  
  In this podcast, we talk with Ginger Hubbard about her book- I Can't Believe You Just Said That: Biblical Wisdom for Taming Your Child's Tongue]]>2088falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/036-why-do-we-discipline--19445565
  But it is a good and important work.
  
  Listen to our newest podcast - Chapter 17 of The Disciple-Making Parent.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19445565Thu, 10 Oct 2019 20:11:09 +0000Chap BettisAre you weary in the work of training and discipline? Have you lost sight of the reason God has called you to this? I recently have been thinking about parents of young children who are tempted to grow weary in this good and exhausting task because...
  But it is a good and important work.
  
  Listen to our newest podcast - Chapter 17 of The Disciple-Making Parent.]]>1312falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/035-dr-tom-hines-choosing-and-trusting-your-pediatrician--19229504https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19229504Wed, 25 Sep 2019 13:51:57 +0000Chap BettisIn today’s podcast, we talk with my friend Dr. Tom Hines about choosing and trusting a pediatrician over the long haul. As our country grows increasingly hostile to the gospel, Christian parents can overreact or under-react​. I think this will help...2049falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/034-explaining-the-christian-mess-12-things-i-wish-i-knew-as-a-teen--19022900
  In today’s podcast we try to answer the question – Can Jesus explain the mess that Christianity seems to be in? Does this mess discredit Jesus?
  
  I think it is vital that our young people understand these issues. Otherwise, they can be tempted to say, I don’t want to be part of this craziness.
  
  Let’s tune in and start thinking about how we can explain the Christian mess.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19022900Fri, 06 Sep 2019 14:13:03 +0000Chap BettisAs a Christian, do you look around at the messiness of those who call themselves Christians. Does their bizarre behavior make you doubt your own faith? In today’s podcast we try to answer the question – Can Jesus explain the mess that...
  In today’s podcast we try to answer the question – Can Jesus explain the mess that Christianity seems to be in? Does this mess discredit Jesus?
  
  I think it is vital that our young people understand these issues. Otherwise, they can be tempted to say, I don’t want to be part of this craziness.
  
  Let’s tune in and start thinking about how we can explain the Christian mess.]]>1360falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/033-eric-bancroft-teaching-kids-about-sex-in-a-new-era--18880717https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18880717Wed, 21 Aug 2019 20:00:54 +0000Chap Bettisn this podcast I talk with Eric Bancroft. Eric is the pastor of Grace Church in Miami, he has been married for 22 years and has three teenage sons. During this episode, we talk about helping our kids think through the area of sex and how we disciple...2352falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/032-gospel-infused-parenting-a-conversation-with-bob-and-julie-kauflin--18625986
  Although you may know him for his contribution to worship, you may not know that Bob Kauflin has thought a lot about parenting. I first heard Bob teach on parenting at a conference probably about 10 years ago and I thought, "This is excellent teaching from a godly man." He and Julie graciously agreed to talk with me recently.
  
  Bob is the Director of Sovereign Grace Music and the author of numerous popular worship songs. He is also the author of two books – Worship Matters and True Worshipers. In addition, He is a pastor at Sovereign Grace Church in Louisville KY.
  
  He and Julie have been married for 43 years, have six children and (at this point) 19 grandchildren. You are going to enjoy the gospel-infused wisdom and insight from this gracious couple. They were disciple-making parents before there even was such a thing!
  
  This will be a podcast you want to listen to several times, taking notes as you go.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18625986Wed, 24 Jul 2019 15:19:08 +0000Chap BettisThe Kauflin name is probably very familiar to you. Although you may know him for his contribution to worship, you may not know that Bob Kauflin has thought a lot about parenting. I first heard Bob teach on parenting at a conference probably about 10...
  Although you may know him for his contribution to worship, you may not know that Bob Kauflin has thought a lot about parenting. I first heard Bob teach on parenting at a conference probably about 10 years ago and I thought, "This is excellent teaching from a godly man." He and Julie graciously agreed to talk with me recently.
  
  Bob is the Director of Sovereign Grace Music and the author of numerous popular worship songs. He is also the author of two books – Worship Matters and True Worshipers. In addition, He is a pastor at Sovereign Grace Church in Louisville KY.
  
  He and Julie have been married for 43 years, have six children and (at this point) 19 grandchildren. You are going to enjoy the gospel-infused wisdom and insight from this gracious couple. They were disciple-making parents before there even was such a thing!
  
  This will be a podcast you want to listen to several times, taking notes as you go.]]>3479falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/031-thoughts-for-the-summer--18476050https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18476050Sat, 06 Jul 2019 14:05:18 +0000Chap Bettis817falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/030-biblical-investment-thinking-differently-about-money--18337723
  In today’s podcast, I want to introduce you to my friend Daniel Howe. Daniel is the pastor of Christ Reformed Presbyterian church in East Providence RI. I invited him to address some of our families in our church and talk about the budgeting software application “You Need a Budget”.
  
  I have just recently discovered this online site and love it. If you are feeling like you don’t have a handle on your spending, I highly recommend this application.
  
  Daniel has a view on money that I have not heard widely before but I subscribe to –that is investing. What I hear from a lot of Christian teachers involves not spending –and that can be a needed focus. But I think underneath the reason to be more frugal is to invest.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18337723Fri, 21 Jun 2019 14:06:32 +0000Chap BettisDo you and your spouse argue about money? Do you have a common understanding of what the Bible teaches about money? How are you teaching your children about money? In today’s podcast, I want to introduce you to my friend Daniel Howe. Daniel is the...
  In today’s podcast, I want to introduce you to my friend Daniel Howe. Daniel is the pastor of Christ Reformed Presbyterian church in East Providence RI. I invited him to address some of our families in our church and talk about the budgeting software application “You Need a Budget”.
  
  I have just recently discovered this online site and love it. If you are feeling like you don’t have a handle on your spending, I highly recommend this application.
  
  Daniel has a view on money that I have not heard widely before but I subscribe to –that is investing. What I hear from a lot of Christian teachers involves not spending –and that can be a needed focus. But I think underneath the reason to be more frugal is to invest.]]>1457falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/029-loving-one-another-101--18183003
  Jesus told us that all people will know we are his disciples if we love one another. In fact, that command is repeated 11 other times in the New Testament. But what does that love look like?
  
  In today’s podcast, I invite you to listen in on five different aspects or facets of this diamond. You may think of these things as simple But I am regularly surprised at how many Christians don’t practice them. And for our particular application, how many parents don’t train their children in these qualities.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18183003Wed, 05 Jun 2019 19:58:34 +0000Chap BettisAs Christians, we are commanded many times in the New Testament to love one another. But how does that play out in our daily lives?​ And how do we train our children in this? Jesus told us that all people will know we are his disciples if we love...
  Jesus told us that all people will know we are his disciples if we love one another. In fact, that command is repeated 11 other times in the New Testament. But what does that love look like?
  
  In today’s podcast, I invite you to listen in on five different aspects or facets of this diamond. You may think of these things as simple But I am regularly surprised at how many Christians don’t practice them. And for our particular application, how many parents don’t train their children in these qualities.]]>1418falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/028-pray-for-me-campaign-with-tony-souder--18039061In this episode, Tony Souder of the Pray for Me Campaign discusses how he has helped supercharge this idea for churchwide application.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18039061Wed, 22 May 2019 12:58:37 +0000Chap BettisStudies show that young people who are connected with other adults in church have a much higher percentage of remaining with the faith. But as a parent, how can we facilitate this? And as a church leader, what can we contribute? In this episode,...In this episode, Tony Souder of the Pray for Me Campaign discusses how he has helped supercharge this idea for churchwide application.]]>2492falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/027-how-mothers-can-defeat-the-comparison-virus--17871849and feeling inferior? Do you feel overwhelmed trying to do this mom thing?​ Always
  feeling like there is more to do? Then this podcast is for you.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17871849Wed, 08 May 2019 17:14:26 +0000Chap BettisAs a mom, do you find yourself constantly comparing yourself with other families and feeling inferior? Do you feel overwhelmed trying to do this mom thing?​ Always feeling like there is more to do? Then this podcast is for you.and feeling inferior? Do you feel overwhelmed trying to do this mom thing?​ Always
  feeling like there is more to do? Then this podcast is for you.]]>1040falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/026-parenting-q-and-a-with-chap--17673294
  That’s exactly what this recording is. A friend invited me to his church to finish up their study of The Disciple-Making Parent. In that time, we covered all sorts of subjects including ones I did not talk about like: prodigals, advice to young parents, and commitment to the local church.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17673294Thu, 18 Apr 2019 00:44:18 +0000Chap BettisWhat if you could invite me to your Sunday School and ask me some parenting questions to fill in the corners of The Disciple-Making Parent. That’s exactly what this recording is. A friend invited me to his church to finish up their study of...
  That’s exactly what this recording is. A friend invited me to his church to finish up their study of The Disciple-Making Parent. In that time, we covered all sorts of subjects including ones I did not talk about like: prodigals, advice to young parents, and commitment to the local church.]]>2004falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/025-seven-thoughts-on-apologetics-in-a-new-age--17522068In this podcast, I speak about seven new realities that are different from when I grew up and how apologetics can strengthen families and youth.
  Take some time to hear about this vital topic.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17522068Wed, 03 Apr 2019 15:49:29 +0000Chap BettisThe world we are living in is rapidly changing. What are the changes we are facing? And How are parents to walk their children through this anti-Christian turbulence?​ In this podcast, I speak about seven new realities that are different from when I...In this podcast, I speak about seven new realities that are different from when I grew up and how apologetics can strengthen families and youth.
  Take some time to hear about this vital topic.]]>2824falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/024-repentance-god-s-loving-invitation-to-refreshment--17382270
  I think what you will find in this short sermon is that it is a very relevant term. Relevant for your life, relevant for your growth and relevant for your family.
  
  To repent is to have a change of mind that results in a change of direction. It admits there is a standard that we are not meeting up too. And it is a loving call to change. I think you will be edified as you listen to this podcast.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17382270Wed, 20 Mar 2019 15:02:15 +0000Chap BettisWe may think of the word repent as an outdated term, associated with men who walked around downtown with sandwich boards proclaiming, “Repent for the end is at hand.” The term seems odd, patriarchal, narrow-minded, and restrictive I think what you...
  I think what you will find in this short sermon is that it is a very relevant term. Relevant for your life, relevant for your growth and relevant for your family.
  
  To repent is to have a change of mind that results in a change of direction. It admits there is a standard that we are not meeting up too. And it is a loving call to change. I think you will be edified as you listen to this podcast.]]>1390falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/023-dr-david-murray-helping-your-children-read-the-bible--17111287
  Are you struggling to discipline yourself?
  
  Listen in as we talk about Dr. Murray's resource Exploring the Bible.
  
  In addition, we will talk with him about his resource - Christians Get Depressed Too.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17111287Fri, 22 Feb 2019 00:15:47 +0000Chap BettisAre you struggling to train your children in the regular habit of Bible reading? Are you struggling to discipline yourself? Listen in as we talk about Dr. Murray's resource Exploring the Bible. In addition, we will talk with him about his resource...
  Are you struggling to discipline yourself?
  
  Listen in as we talk about Dr. Murray's resource Exploring the Bible.
  
  In addition, we will talk with him about his resource - Christians Get Depressed Too.]]>2383falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/022-love-the-ones-you-re-with-one-way-jesus-shows-off-his-glory--16973797
  This is a profound command and impossible apart from the Spirit. But it is even more profound when we start thinking about loving, not some person at church but my family. My husband, my wife, my child. It is vital we do love each other with an agape love. Our children and the world are watching.
  
  I think you are going to discover encouragement and a new perspective on loving those who may be the hardest – those who live with you at home.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16973797Thu, 07 Feb 2019 19:56:31 +0000Chap BettisWe all know that God calls us to love our family. But what if there was a reason deeper than we knew that could motivate our love? In this podcast, we are going to spend some time thinking about Jesus’ command that his disciples should love one...
  This is a profound command and impossible apart from the Spirit. But it is even more profound when we start thinking about loving, not some person at church but my family. My husband, my wife, my child. It is vital we do love each other with an agape love. Our children and the world are watching.
  
  I think you are going to discover encouragement and a new perspective on loving those who may be the hardest – those who live with you at home.]]>3034falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/021-shepherding-your-spouse-and-children-ideas-and-resources-from-david-michael--16823375
  I sat down with my friend David Michael co-founder of Truth78 and talked about several things he has practiced, still practices, and encourages the church where he serves as Pastor of the Next Generation.
  
  Listen in to this podcast to hear how he prayed over his children as they grew up and how he equips parents, and particularly fathers, to help prepare their children for believer’s baptism.
  
  You are going to be challenged by this conversation.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16823375Wed, 23 Jan 2019 18:22:40 +0000Chap BettisDo you want to grow in your role as the family shepherd? What are just a few tools that could equip you for this vital task? I sat down with my friend David Michael co-founder of Truth78 and talked about several things he has practiced, still...
  I sat down with my friend David Michael co-founder of Truth78 and talked about several things he has practiced, still practices, and encourages the church where he serves as Pastor of the Next Generation.
  
  Listen in to this podcast to hear how he prayed over his children as they grew up and how he equips parents, and particularly fathers, to help prepare their children for believer’s baptism.
  
  You are going to be challenged by this conversation.]]>2688falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/020-dr-tom-hines-a-baby-s-first-year--16678455
  Dr. Tom Hines has been a pediatrician for over 30 years and seen lots of babies. In addition, he and his wife, Mary Jo had four children of their own. He came to talk with me about his best advice that he would give for baby’s first year.
  
  If you are about to have a child listen closely for some great wisdom. If you know someone that is about to have a child, forward the link to them. Believe me, they will thank you when the parents are sleeping through the night again.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16678455Thu, 10 Jan 2019 15:41:32 +0000Chap BettisWhat if you could listen to a wise pediatrician coach you through the first year of your baby’s life? What if he had information that could help you and your baby sleep through the night sooner. Would you be interested? Dr. Tom Hines has been a...
  Dr. Tom Hines has been a pediatrician for over 30 years and seen lots of babies. In addition, he and his wife, Mary Jo had four children of their own. He came to talk with me about his best advice that he would give for baby’s first year.
  
  If you are about to have a child listen closely for some great wisdom. If you know someone that is about to have a child, forward the link to them. Believe me, they will thank you when the parents are sleeping through the night again.]]>3400falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/019-dr-randy-stinson-how-to-have-a-peaceful-home--16571118
  What exactly are the principles that should guide us in that?
  
  For that matter, what exactly is a peaceful family?
  
  You are going to love the countercultural but biblical insight Dr. Randy Stinson brings into having a peaceful family. This conversation came about because of his presentation entitled The Peaceful Home at the ERLC conference this past October. Dr. Stinson is a regular conference speaker on the subjects of adoption, parenting, marriage, and men’s leadership.
  
  In this conversation we talk about: What exactly is a peaceful home? How to conquer sibling rivalry. And the importance of dad being the CFO – Chief Fun Officer.
  
  I promise this conversation will be worth your time!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16571118Wed, 26 Dec 2018 21:48:01 +0000Chap BettisDo you want to have a peaceful home? Doesn’t everyone? What exactly are the principles that should guide us in that? For that matter, what exactly is a peaceful family? You are going to love the countercultural but biblical insight Dr. Randy...
  What exactly are the principles that should guide us in that?
  
  For that matter, what exactly is a peaceful family?
  
  You are going to love the countercultural but biblical insight Dr. Randy Stinson brings into having a peaceful family. This conversation came about because of his presentation entitled The Peaceful Home at the ERLC conference this past October. Dr. Stinson is a regular conference speaker on the subjects of adoption, parenting, marriage, and men’s leadership.
  
  In this conversation we talk about: What exactly is a peaceful home? How to conquer sibling rivalry. And the importance of dad being the CFO – Chief Fun Officer.
  
  I promise this conversation will be worth your time!]]>2077falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/018-dan-darling-the-dignity-revolution-and-your-family--16470792
  On this podcast, I have the privilege to introduce you to a friend of mine, Dan Darling. He has recently released a book that is helpful for pastors and parents. It’s entitled The Dignity Revolution. In it, Dan lays out the case for understanding and then applying this idea of human dignity to many different areas.
  
  I was excited to have this conversation with Dan. He is the Vice President of Communications for the Ethics and Religious Liberty Commission. His writing has appeared in major news outlets like USA Today and CNN. He’s a contributing editor for Christianity today and he hosts a podcast “The Way Home”. Most importantly he is married to Angela and has four children 13 to 7 years old. So, he is right in the middle of his parenting years.
  
  We spend the first half of our time getting our minds around this doctrine. And then for the second half, we start applying it to ourselves and our children.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16470792Fri, 14 Dec 2018 14:07:48 +0000Chap BettisHow do we raise children to respect those who are different from us? What biblical message and doctrines can help us encourage a young person to love all sorts of people? On this podcast, I have the privilege to introduce you to a friend of mine,...
  On this podcast, I have the privilege to introduce you to a friend of mine, Dan Darling. He has recently released a book that is helpful for pastors and parents. It’s entitled The Dignity Revolution. In it, Dan lays out the case for understanding and then applying this idea of human dignity to many different areas.
  
  I was excited to have this conversation with Dan. He is the Vice President of Communications for the Ethics and Religious Liberty Commission. His writing has appeared in major news outlets like USA Today and CNN. He’s a contributing editor for Christianity today and he hosts a podcast “The Way Home”. Most importantly he is married to Angela and has four children 13 to 7 years old. So, he is right in the middle of his parenting years.
  
  We spend the first half of our time getting our minds around this doctrine. And then for the second half, we start applying it to ourselves and our children.]]>2234falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/017-basics-of-conflict-resolution-and-peacemaking--16332968
  If you are, Do you understand what God’s word has to say about handling conflict?
  
  Unfortunately, conflict is a part of every relationship - including our families. If you are the parent of young children you certainly know that!
  
  But most Christians are not equipped to handle the conflict in our relationships with others. And yet God in his grace has given us many principles to help us walk through disagreements. And to teach our children.
  
  The following episode contains a short teaching I did on very high-level principles that come to us from God’s word. Specifically, I am walking us through some principles laid out by Ken Sande in the Peacemaker. This is the classic resource on handling conflict.
  
  Certainly,​ there is a lot more that can be said on this topic. But I think it will get you started in handling the conflict that the Lord brings into your life.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16332968Wed, 28 Nov 2018 19:00:27 +0000Chap BettisAre you in the middle of a conflict in your family? In your church? Or at your work? If you are, Do you understand what God’s word has to say about handling conflict? Unfortunately, conflict is a part of every relationship - including our...
  If you are, Do you understand what God’s word has to say about handling conflict?
  
  Unfortunately, conflict is a part of every relationship - including our families. If you are the parent of young children you certainly know that!
  
  But most Christians are not equipped to handle the conflict in our relationships with others. And yet God in his grace has given us many principles to help us walk through disagreements. And to teach our children.
  
  The following episode contains a short teaching I did on very high-level principles that come to us from God’s word. Specifically, I am walking us through some principles laid out by Ken Sande in the Peacemaker. This is the classic resource on handling conflict.
  
  Certainly,​ there is a lot more that can be said on this topic. But I think it will get you started in handling the conflict that the Lord brings into your life.]]>1479falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/016-the-happy-christian-thoughts-on-the-surprising-duty-of-joy--16211348
  Is a happy family even possible?
  
  In the middle of all this brokenness should a Christian even aim to be happy?
  
  This episode is absolutely vital for disciple-making parents. Happy homes are the place where the gospel passes the most easily. In fact, joy is a preeminent fruit of holiness and yet often we see Christina homes where the mark of being godly is a serious and sour disposition.
  
  Listen in to this message by Dr. David Murray as he explains the surprising duty of joy that should characterize the Christian.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16211348Wed, 14 Nov 2018 15:02:24 +0000Chap BettisHow happy is your family? How happy are you? Is a happy family even possible? In the middle of all this brokenness should a Christian even aim to be happy? This episode is absolutely vital for disciple-making parents. Happy homes are the place...
  Is a happy family even possible?
  
  In the middle of all this brokenness should a Christian even aim to be happy?
  
  This episode is absolutely vital for disciple-making parents. Happy homes are the place where the gospel passes the most easily. In fact, joy is a preeminent fruit of holiness and yet often we see Christina homes where the mark of being godly is a serious and sour disposition.
  
  Listen in to this message by Dr. David Murray as he explains the surprising duty of joy that should characterize the Christian.]]>3661falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/015-the-sad-christian-thoughts-on-the-causes-of-and-possible-solutions-to-depression--16105140And if they do, is it because of sin or because of physical issues, or some combination of the two? And more importantly, what do we do to help those who are depressed.
  
  Take a few minutes to listen to Dr. David Murray as he speaks on depression. These thoughts are from his excellent introductory book Christians Get Depressed Too.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16105140Wed, 31 Oct 2018 21:34:24 +0000Chap BettisDo Christians get depressed? And if they do, is it because of sin or because of physical issues, or some combination of the two? And more importantly, what do we do to help those who are depressed. Take a few minutes to listen to Dr. David Murray...And if they do, is it because of sin or because of physical issues, or some combination of the two? And more importantly, what do we do to help those who are depressed.
  
  Take a few minutes to listen to Dr. David Murray as he speaks on depression. These thoughts are from his excellent introductory book Christians Get Depressed Too.]]>4542falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/014-the-emotional-christian-thoughts-on-perfect-disordered-and-redeemed-emotions--15979267
  Your understanding of emotions will affect your family.
  
  Your understanding of emotions will affect your parenting.
  
  As a parent, your have a theology of emotions. Is it in line with the Bible? Dr. David Murray has written several books for Christians. Christians Get Depressed Too and The Happy Christian help us think biblically about this vital part of our lives.
  
  Invest a few minutes to listen to Dr. David Murray as he speaks on emotion. And as an extra bonus, you will love his Scottish brogue.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15979267Wed, 17 Oct 2018 13:00:17 +0000Chap BettisYour understanding of emotions will affect your life. Your understanding of emotions will affect your family. Your understanding of emotions will affect your parenting. As a parent, your have a theology of emotions. Is it in line with the Bible?...
  Your understanding of emotions will affect your family.
  
  Your understanding of emotions will affect your parenting.
  
  As a parent, your have a theology of emotions. Is it in line with the Bible? Dr. David Murray has written several books for Christians. Christians Get Depressed Too and The Happy Christian help us think biblically about this vital part of our lives.
  
  Invest a few minutes to listen to Dr. David Murray as he speaks on emotion. And as an extra bonus, you will love his Scottish brogue.]]>3868falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/013-handling-worry-and-fear-a-needed-skill-for-every-parent--15863056
  Should we say, "A good parent will worry?" After all what's wrong with worrying?
  
  We might say nothing except that Jesus tell us not to worry. Worry and fear drive many conflict at home and in the church. And these sins destroy the peace of many.
  
  We must start thinking clearly about this subject!
  
  In this episode we will listen in on an introductory counseling equipping module from the Association of Certified Biblical Counselors on this subject. The lecturer also applies these principles to his own life as a parent of a prodigal.
  
  This lecture is used with the kind permission of ACBC.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15863056Tue, 02 Oct 2018 19:32:01 +0000Chap BettisIs worrying synonymous with being a parent? After all there are so many dangers in the world. Should we say, "A good parent will worry?" After all what's wrong with worrying? We might say nothing except that Jesus tell us not to worry. Worry and...
  Should we say, "A good parent will worry?" After all what's wrong with worrying?
  
  We might say nothing except that Jesus tell us not to worry. Worry and fear drive many conflict at home and in the church. And these sins destroy the peace of many.
  
  We must start thinking clearly about this subject!
  
  In this episode we will listen in on an introductory counseling equipping module from the Association of Certified Biblical Counselors on this subject. The lecturer also applies these principles to his own life as a parent of a prodigal.
  
  This lecture is used with the kind permission of ACBC.]]>3652falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/012-marty-machowski-parenting-first-aid--15664201
  Marty Machowski, author of Long Story Short, Old Story New, and numerous other books sat down and talked with me about his new book - Parenting First-Aid.
  
  In this interview, you will hear why he wrote the book, what God has taught him over the years, and two incredible encouraging stories.
  
  Order the book at New Growth Press or on Amazon.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15664201Fri, 07 Sep 2018 14:55:52 +0000Chap BettisParenting is hard work. Often we can get banged up as we walk through some of the difficulties of life. We don't know how to connect what we know to be true about God with the troubles we are facing. Marty Machowski, author of Long Story Short,...
  Marty Machowski, author of Long Story Short, Old Story New, and numerous other books sat down and talked with me about his new book - Parenting First-Aid.
  
  In this interview, you will hear why he wrote the book, what God has taught him over the years, and two incredible encouraging stories.
  
  Order the book at New Growth Press or on Amazon.]]>2287falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/011-evangelism-for-the-tongue-tied-how-anyone-can-tell-others-about-jesus--15555648
  In this episode, we turn the microphones around and Adam Miller interviews me about the contents of the book I wrote several years ago - Evangelism for the Tongue-Tied. In it you will learn how to pray effectively and how to bring up the gospel in an unoffensive way.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15555648Thu, 23 Aug 2018 20:33:02 +0000Chap BettisAs we head back to school with the summer routine behind us, we can have a number of opportunities to share our faith. And yet when it comes to telling others about the most important thing we know - Jesus - we can start to stutter and stammer. Yet a...
  In this episode, we turn the microphones around and Adam Miller interviews me about the contents of the book I wrote several years ago - Evangelism for the Tongue-Tied. In it you will learn how to pray effectively and how to bring up the gospel in an unoffensive way.]]>1628falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/010-the-lavish-father-the-prodigal-sons-and-my-family--15406234
  In this episode I invite you to listen in on a sermon I preached on Luke 15 and The Prodigal Son. Or should I say Prodigal Sons?
  
  If you are the parent of a prodigal child, this episode can help you understand God’s lavish love for you and encourage you to love that prodigal even more. As you enter into the deep pain caused to the father, it may help you draw new strength to love those that have hurt you. If you tend to be the older brother, type it can also help you show more humility at home toward your family.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15406234Wed, 08 Aug 2018 14:23:17 +0000Chap BettisThe Prodigal Son is one of Jesus' most beloved stories. Yet, we could actually be overlooking the main point of the story. In this episode I invite you to listen in on a sermon I preached on Luke 15 and The Prodigal Son. Or should I say Prodigal...
  In this episode I invite you to listen in on a sermon I preached on Luke 15 and The Prodigal Son. Or should I say Prodigal Sons?
  
  If you are the parent of a prodigal child, this episode can help you understand God’s lavish love for you and encourage you to love that prodigal even more. As you enter into the deep pain caused to the father, it may help you draw new strength to love those that have hurt you. If you tend to be the older brother, type it can also help you show more humility at home toward your family.]]>3219falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/009-porn-in-the-church-and-what-you-can-do-a-conversation-with-dan-armstrong-of-covenant-eyes--15326350
  We talk about how prevalent this issue is, what successful churches are doing, and what families can do. Listen in to be educated on this subject.
  
  For a free month of Covenant Eyes go to their website and use coupon code "Apollos" .]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15326350Wed, 25 Jul 2018 14:05:33 +0000Chap BettisPornography is a demonic parasite on the Christian church and Christian family. Unless we have an active strategy it will infiltrate our lives and homes. In this podcast, I talk with Dan Armstrong, Corporate Communications Specialist at Covenant Eyes....
  We talk about how prevalent this issue is, what successful churches are doing, and what families can do. Listen in to be educated on this subject.
  
  For a free month of Covenant Eyes go to their website and use coupon code "Apollos" .]]>1915falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/008-a-prodigal-teen-repents-an-interview-with-travis-rymer--15228477https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15228477Tue, 10 Jul 2018 18:22:28 +0000Chap BettisIf you are the parent of a prodigal, it can be easy to feel shame, guilt, and regret. We can say to ourselves, "If I had done everything right, he would not have rebelled." Join me in this episode as I have a conversation with a man who deliberately...2272falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/007-peacemaking-admonishment-and-healthy-church-life--15149401https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15149401Thu, 28 Jun 2018 15:06:41 +0000Chap BettisYoung people say that they #1 reason they walk away from the faith is hypocrisy in the church. What is the cause of this hypocrisy and how can we solve it? In this episode we talk about the missing elements of admonishment, peacemaking, and church...2330falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/006-bullying-and-the-gospel-what-s-a-parent-to-say-and-do--15030345https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15030345Tue, 12 Jun 2018 16:43:09 +0000Chap BettisBullying is a common childhood problem. How would you help your child if this happened to him or her? Are Christians always to turn the other cheek? How does the gospel apply? Listen in as I have conversation with Kevin McKay about the wise way he...1761christian,parentingfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/005-the-most-important-event-in-history-six-proofs-for-the-resurrection-of-jesus-christ--14926020https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14926020Wed, 30 May 2018 12:18:58 +0000Chap BettisIf the resurrection of Jesus Christ really happened, then it is the most important event in world history. It is the foundational rational proof for that Jesus was who he said he was. Make sure you can articulate the six reasons that Christians know...2266apologetics,resurrectionfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/004-david-and-sally-michael-co-founders-of-children-desiring-god-truth78-part-2--14795073https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14795073Tue, 15 May 2018 10:00:06 +0000Chap BettisListen in to learn about David Michael's family and his exhortation to pastors and the whole church to raise the next generation to hope in God.1545falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/003-david-and-sally-michael-co-founders-of-children-desiring-god-truth78-part-1--14667455https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14667455Mon, 30 Apr 2018 13:05:04 +0000Chap BettisAt a recent conference I had the privilege of sitting down with David and Sally Michael, cofounders of Children Desiring God (now Truth78). In Part 1, I talked with Sally about the vision for the curriculum, how it came about, what's included, and...1643school,sunday,truth78falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/002-solid-gold-advice-from-a-pediatrician-of-25-years-part-2--14442381
  In this episode we will talk about:
  – Introducing structure and limitations for little children
  – Crying and your children – you are not a failure!
  – Boredom, creativity, and toys
  – Training your children to sit for a church meeting
  
  Be sure and check out episode 1 to hear the rest of the conversation.
  
  For more information about The Apollos Project and The Disciple-Making Parent visit
  www.theapollosproject.com .]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14442381Mon, 02 Apr 2018 18:53:51 +0000Chap BettisHow would you like to talk with a Christian pediatrician of 25 year and glean his wisdom? Now you can! Listen in on part 2 of my conversation with my good friend, Dr. Tom Hines. In this episode we will talk about: – Introducing structure and...
  In this episode we will talk about:
  – Introducing structure and limitations for little children
  – Crying and your children – you are not a failure!
  – Boredom, creativity, and toys
  – Training your children to sit for a church meeting
  
  Be sure and check out episode 1 to hear the rest of the conversation.
  
  For more information about The Apollos Project and The Disciple-Making Parent visit
  www.theapollosproject.com .]]>2460falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/001-solid-gold-advice-from-a-pediatrician-of-25-years--14442349
  In this episode we will talk about:
  – The number one issue within parents: Fear
  – The number one issue parents are dealing with: Technology
  – Specific suggestions for media as well as some surprising medical research
  – The overscheduled family and child
  - The importance of family meals
  
  Be sure and check out episode 2 to hear the rest of the conversation.
  
  For more information about The Apollos Project and The Disciple-Making Parent visit
  www.theapollosproject.com .]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14442349Mon, 02 Apr 2018 18:47:13 +0000Chap BettisHow would you like to talk with a Christian pediatrician of 25 year and glean his wisdom? Now you can! Listen in on part 1 of my conversation with my good friend, Dr. Tom Hines. In this episode we will talk about: – The number one issue within...
  In this episode we will talk about:
  – The number one issue within parents: Fear
  – The number one issue parents are dealing with: Technology
  – Specific suggestions for media as well as some surprising medical research
  – The overscheduled family and child
  - The importance of family meals
  
  Be sure and check out episode 2 to hear the rest of the conversation.
  
  For more information about The Apollos Project and The Disciple-Making Parent visit
  www.theapollosproject.com .]]>2003falsefull