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<rss xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0" xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" version="2.0"><channel><title>The Speaking Out on Sex Abuse Podcast</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-speaking-out-on-sex-abuse-podcast--2851342</link><description><![CDATA[Jimmy Hinton, a minister, and his mother, Clara Hinton, reported Jimmy's father when a victim reported to them that she'd been abused.  Sadly, this is rare.  Churches typically defend and protect abusers.  This show is dedicated to the millions of survivors who have been mistreated or not believed by the church.  Jimmy and Clara wish to bring hope to survivors and shift the current culture in the churches that are perpetuating abuse.]]></description><atom:link href="https://www.spreaker.com/show/2851342/episodes/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><language>en</language><category>Education</category><copyright>Copyright Jimmy and Clara Hinton</copyright><image><url>https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg</url><title>The Speaking Out on Sex Abuse Podcast</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-speaking-out-on-sex-abuse-podcast--2851342</link></image><lastBuildDate>Tue, 24 Sep 2024 16:23:14 +0000</lastBuildDate><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:name><itunes:email>feeds@spreaker.com</itunes:email></itunes:owner><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:subtitle>Jimmy Hinton, a minister, and his mother, Clara Hinton, reported Jimmy's father when a victim reported to them that she'd been abused.  Sadly, this is rare.  Churches typically defend and protect abusers.  This show is dedicated to the millions of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Jimmy Hinton, a minister, and his mother, Clara Hinton, reported Jimmy's father when a victim reported to them that she'd been abused.  Sadly, this is rare.  Churches typically defend and protect abusers.  This show is dedicated to the millions of survivors who have been mistreated or not believed by the church.  Jimmy and Clara wish to bring hope to survivors and shift the current culture in the churches that are perpetuating abuse.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:category text="Education"/><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><item><title>Episode 249 | The End Is Near</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-249-the-end-is-near--54066200</link><description><![CDATA[Hey listeners! After over half a decade of podcasting, we've decided to make some big changes in life. We'll be making a big shift in our focus, so tune in to hear what we'll be up to and why we decided to wind the podcast down. We're so grateful to everyone who has listened to us for the past five years. Thank you isn't adequate to show our appreciation for you!<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54066200</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Jun 2023 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/54066200/episode_249.mp3" length="31340251" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/b8af74ab-59a2-4526-bc22-321be45e0c2e/b8af74ab-59a2-4526-bc22-321be45e0c2e.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/b8af74ab-59a2-4526-bc22-321be45e0c2e/b8af74ab-59a2-4526-bc22-321be45e0c2e.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/b8af74ab-59a2-4526-bc22-321be45e0c2e/b8af74ab-59a2-4526-bc22-321be45e0c2e.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Hey listeners! After over half a decade of podcasting, we've decided to make some big changes in life. We'll be making a big shift in our focus, so tune in to hear what we'll be up to and why we decided to wind the podcast down. We're so grateful to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Hey listeners! After over half a decade of podcasting, we've decided to make some big changes in life. We'll be making a big shift in our focus, so tune in to hear what we'll be up to and why we decided to wind the podcast down. We're so grateful to everyone who has listened to us for the past five years. Thank you isn't adequate to show our appreciation for you!<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1959</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>clarahinton,csa,jimmyhinton</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 248 | Sifting Through Mental Illness and Scams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-248-sifting-through-mental-illness-and-scams--53998766</link><description><![CDATA[Trauma has a very difficult effect on survivors. Unfortunately there are scammers too. We have to distinguish between people who suffer with mental illness and people who are scammers. The former need us to point them to good resources and the latter need blocked. Sometimes it's very difficult to distinguish. In this episode we use real examples.<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53998766</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 May 2023 17:00:24 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53998766/episode_248.mp3" length="31340251" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/641424fa-bbdb-467b-8f04-54ac63e96f06/641424fa-bbdb-467b-8f04-54ac63e96f06.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/641424fa-bbdb-467b-8f04-54ac63e96f06/641424fa-bbdb-467b-8f04-54ac63e96f06.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/641424fa-bbdb-467b-8f04-54ac63e96f06/641424fa-bbdb-467b-8f04-54ac63e96f06.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Trauma has a very difficult effect on survivors. Unfortunately there are scammers too. We have to distinguish between people who suffer with mental illness and people who are scammers. The former need us to point them to good resources and the latter...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Trauma has a very difficult effect on survivors. Unfortunately there are scammers too. We have to distinguish between people who suffer with mental illness and people who are scammers. The former need us to point them to good resources and the latter need blocked. Sometimes it's very difficult to distinguish. In this episode we use real examples.<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1959</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>clarahinton,csa,jimmyhinton,mentalhealth</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 247| Whistleblower Exposes ICC "Cult" That Ignored Abuse for Decades</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-247-whistleblower-exposes-icc-cult-that-ignored-abuse-for-decades--53921237</link><description><![CDATA[Meet Chele Roland, the whistleblower who exposed the International Churches of Christ for decades of abuse cover-ups. After podcasting about her own abuse on WhaTheFlok podcast, Chele began getting all kinds of messages from survivors of abuse from the International Churches of Christ. The ICOC/ICC, known as "The Boston Movement," put a huge emphasis on recruiting "disciples" who were personally responsible for producing large numbers of converts to Christianity.<br /><br />The rules were very strict and Chele was one of the people responsible for producing converts. Her story of sexual abuse is tied to the ICOC/ICC and her conditioning kept her silent for years. After reaching out to over sixty church leaders and not receiving a single response, Chele decided to lead the way for other survivors to seek justice and stop the abuses that are still happening. Chele's story is one of courage and honor. We were so glad to have her share her story!<br /><br />Chele's YouTube channel and podcast, WhaTheFlok:<br /> <a href="https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCcLQYNEbPjmrzxYkGCbd5Fg" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> @whatheflokcultsurvivalstor6528 </a><br />https://www.whatheflok.com/<br /><br />*Book Chele suggests for survivors of sexual abuse:<br />The Body Keeps Score by Vessel Van Der Kolk MD<br /><br />Free2b non profit for survivors to have access to resources and therapy, etc: Free2b.nonprofit@gmail.com<br />IG: @Free2b<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53921237</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 May 2023 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53921237/episode_247.mp3" length="77990765" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/80cd3cda-0582-4840-bea4-e051e57ef2b8/80cd3cda-0582-4840-bea4-e051e57ef2b8.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/80cd3cda-0582-4840-bea4-e051e57ef2b8/80cd3cda-0582-4840-bea4-e051e57ef2b8.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/80cd3cda-0582-4840-bea4-e051e57ef2b8/80cd3cda-0582-4840-bea4-e051e57ef2b8.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Meet Chele Roland, the whistleblower who exposed the International Churches of Christ for decades of abuse cover-ups. After podcasting about her own abuse on WhaTheFlok podcast, Chele began getting all kinds of messages from survivors of abuse from...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Meet Chele Roland, the whistleblower who exposed the International Churches of Christ for decades of abuse cover-ups. After podcasting about her own abuse on WhaTheFlok podcast, Chele began getting all kinds of messages from survivors of abuse from the International Churches of Christ. The ICOC/ICC, known as "The Boston Movement," put a huge emphasis on recruiting "disciples" who were personally responsible for producing large numbers of converts to Christianity.<br /><br />The rules were very strict and Chele was one of the people responsible for producing converts. Her story of sexual abuse is tied to the ICOC/ICC and her conditioning kept her silent for years. After reaching out to over sixty church leaders and not receiving a single response, Chele decided to lead the way for other survivors to seek justice and stop the abuses that are still happening. Chele's story is one of courage and honor. We were so glad to have her share her story!<br /><br />Chele's YouTube channel and podcast, WhaTheFlok:<br /> <a href="https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCcLQYNEbPjmrzxYkGCbd5Fg" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> @whatheflokcultsurvivalstor6528 </a><br />https://www.whatheflok.com/<br /><br />*Book Chele suggests for survivors of sexual abuse:<br />The Body Keeps Score by Vessel Van Der Kolk MD<br /><br />Free2b non profit for survivors to have access to resources and therapy, etc: Free2b.nonprofit@gmail.com<br />IG: @Free2b<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4875</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>cheleroland,clarahinton,csa,cultabuse,endabuse,icoc,icocabuse,jimmyhinton,stopabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/7562174c9d8ba8fc7996cba5d09e38a1.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 246 | Lives Are Spared Because of You Listeners!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-246-lives-are-spared-because-of-you-listeners--53822453</link><description><![CDATA[<b>A little over a month ago we had an episode on helping our friend in Haiti purchase a motorcycle so that he could deliver food, water, and medicine to desperate people. Not only did we meet our goal, but we actually surpassed it with enough money to purchase more food and medicine. In a world with lots of bad news, we wanted to share some good. We legitimately cannot thank you all enough. Our dear friend Julien is SO happy and has been giving daily updates. Thank you to our faithful listeners who donated, prayed, and just offered support by listening. Lives are literally being saved because of you!!</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him</b><br /><b><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp</a> <br /></b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Support us on Patreon:</b><br /><b><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /></b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Find us on Facebook:</b><br /><b><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> </b><br /><b><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /></b><br /><b></b><br /><b>And Twitter:</b><br /><b><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /></b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Intro-- Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /></b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Outro-- I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a> </b>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53822453</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 May 2023 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53822453/episode_246.mp3" length="26216489" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/6dc12b69-dd0b-4be0-a047-779942150875/6dc12b69-dd0b-4be0-a047-779942150875.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/6dc12b69-dd0b-4be0-a047-779942150875/6dc12b69-dd0b-4be0-a047-779942150875.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/6dc12b69-dd0b-4be0-a047-779942150875/6dc12b69-dd0b-4be0-a047-779942150875.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>A little over a month ago we had an episode on helping our friend in Haiti purchase a motorcycle so that he could deliver food, water, and medicine to desperate people. Not only did we meet our goal, but we actually surpassed it with enough money to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<b>A little over a month ago we had an episode on helping our friend in Haiti purchase a motorcycle so that he could deliver food, water, and medicine to desperate people. Not only did we meet our goal, but we actually surpassed it with enough money to purchase more food and medicine. In a world with lots of bad news, we wanted to share some good. We legitimately cannot thank you all enough. Our dear friend Julien is SO happy and has been giving daily updates. Thank you to our faithful listeners who donated, prayed, and just offered support by listening. Lives are literally being saved because of you!!</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him</b><br /><b><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp</a> <br /></b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Support us on Patreon:</b><br /><b><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /></b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Find us on Facebook:</b><br /><b><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> </b><br /><b><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /></b><br /><b></b><br /><b>And Twitter:</b><br /><b><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /></b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Intro-- Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /></b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Outro-- I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a> </b>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1639</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>clarahinton,csa,helpthehomeless,helpthepoor,jimmyhinton</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 245 | Change Your Attitude Change Your Outcome</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-245-change-your-attitude-change-your-outcome--53737845</link><description><![CDATA[We saw a recent video by Steve Harvey about the importance of stopping negative self-talk. It was so powerful, and we wanted to share how important it is to have a proper attitude to change the outcome of our lives. Our talk, both negative and positive, really can determine the direction our lives will take.<br /><br />Steve Harvey Video:<br />https://youtu.be/yWDo-y-tK7k<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53737845</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 May 2023 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53737845/episode_245.mp3" length="31635748" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/733f2a71-2a4d-4764-8bf4-7bf3a53eac65/733f2a71-2a4d-4764-8bf4-7bf3a53eac65.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/733f2a71-2a4d-4764-8bf4-7bf3a53eac65/733f2a71-2a4d-4764-8bf4-7bf3a53eac65.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/733f2a71-2a4d-4764-8bf4-7bf3a53eac65/733f2a71-2a4d-4764-8bf4-7bf3a53eac65.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We saw a recent video by Steve Harvey about the importance of stopping negative self-talk. It was so powerful, and we wanted to share how important it is to have a proper attitude to change the outcome of our lives. Our talk, both negative and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We saw a recent video by Steve Harvey about the importance of stopping negative self-talk. It was so powerful, and we wanted to share how important it is to have a proper attitude to change the outcome of our lives. Our talk, both negative and positive, really can determine the direction our lives will take.<br /><br />Steve Harvey Video:<br />https://youtu.be/yWDo-y-tK7k<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1978</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>attitude,changeyourattitude,clarahinton,csa,jimmyhinton,selftalk,steveharvey,stopabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 244 | What To Do About Non-Reportable Instances of Abuse</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-244-what-to-do-about-non-reportable-instances-of-abuse--53667527</link><description><![CDATA[Not everything is reportable when it comes to abuse. So many people feel stuck because they don't know what to do when they cannot report to police. Should you tell anyone? Who should you tell? What do you tell them? Find out in this episode.<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53667527</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Apr 2023 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53667527/episode_244.mp3" length="29161848" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/64eecd80-d5be-4f01-b4ff-ffbc62ad4d0d/64eecd80-d5be-4f01-b4ff-ffbc62ad4d0d.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/64eecd80-d5be-4f01-b4ff-ffbc62ad4d0d/64eecd80-d5be-4f01-b4ff-ffbc62ad4d0d.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/64eecd80-d5be-4f01-b4ff-ffbc62ad4d0d/64eecd80-d5be-4f01-b4ff-ffbc62ad4d0d.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Not everything is reportable when it comes to abuse. So many people feel stuck because they don't know what to do when they cannot report to police. Should you tell anyone? Who should you tell? What do you tell them? Find out in this episode.

Jimmy’s...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Not everything is reportable when it comes to abuse. So many people feel stuck because they don't know what to do when they cannot report to police. Should you tell anyone? Who should you tell? What do you tell them? Find out in this episode.<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1823</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>clarahinton,csa,jimmyhinton,stopabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 243| People Defending James MacDonald</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-243-people-defending-james-macdonald--53595867</link><description><![CDATA[James MacDonald was recently arrested for felony charges of assault by means likely to produce great bodily injury. MacDonald beat up a 59 year old woman and sent her to the hospital when there was a small fender bender. People have been defending Mr. MadDonald, saying that he was framed, he's innocent until proven guilty, and that we need to focus on stories of grace and not highlight felony crimes.<br /><br />This episode highlights those remarks so that we can better understand how churches are likely to respond to abuse allegations.<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53595867</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Apr 2023 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53595867/episode_243.mp3" length="34483722" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/c7b065bc-2218-4212-80f3-cfd718f6a6c3/c7b065bc-2218-4212-80f3-cfd718f6a6c3.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/c7b065bc-2218-4212-80f3-cfd718f6a6c3/c7b065bc-2218-4212-80f3-cfd718f6a6c3.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/c7b065bc-2218-4212-80f3-cfd718f6a6c3/c7b065bc-2218-4212-80f3-cfd718f6a6c3.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>James MacDonald was recently arrested for felony charges of assault by means likely to produce great bodily injury. MacDonald beat up a 59 year old woman and sent her to the hospital when there was a small fender bender. People have been defending Mr....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[James MacDonald was recently arrested for felony charges of assault by means likely to produce great bodily injury. MacDonald beat up a 59 year old woman and sent her to the hospital when there was a small fender bender. People have been defending Mr. MadDonald, saying that he was framed, he's innocent until proven guilty, and that we need to focus on stories of grace and not highlight felony crimes.<br /><br />This episode highlights those remarks so that we can better understand how churches are likely to respond to abuse allegations.<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2156</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>clarahinton,csa,dv,jamesmacdonald,jimmyhinton</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Edpisode 242| Dalai Lama's Pathetic Apology</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/edpisode-242-dalai-lama-s-pathetic-apology--53526218</link><description><![CDATA[Why in the world did the Dalai Lama ask a young boy to suck his tongue? The fact that this was called out so publicly is a great sign that people are fed up with people acting creepy toward our young children. In this episode we talk about the extremely inappropriate comment, including kissing the boy on the lips, followed by a very weak apology. This was chalked up to "innocent joking" that is routinely done with children.<br /><br />We believe the public is finally fed up with the excuses for these kinds of sick behaviors with our children. Even Cardi B is fed up!<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53526218</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Apr 2023 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53526218/edpisode_242.mp3" length="29642919" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/78e77b5e-8a51-461f-9fe6-cc863ec716b3/78e77b5e-8a51-461f-9fe6-cc863ec716b3.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/78e77b5e-8a51-461f-9fe6-cc863ec716b3/78e77b5e-8a51-461f-9fe6-cc863ec716b3.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/78e77b5e-8a51-461f-9fe6-cc863ec716b3/78e77b5e-8a51-461f-9fe6-cc863ec716b3.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Why in the world did the Dalai Lama ask a young boy to suck his tongue? The fact that this was called out so publicly is a great sign that people are fed up with people acting creepy toward our young children. In this episode we talk about the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why in the world did the Dalai Lama ask a young boy to suck his tongue? The fact that this was called out so publicly is a great sign that people are fed up with people acting creepy toward our young children. In this episode we talk about the extremely inappropriate comment, including kissing the boy on the lips, followed by a very weak apology. This was chalked up to "innocent joking" that is routinely done with children.<br /><br />We believe the public is finally fed up with the excuses for these kinds of sick behaviors with our children. Even Cardi B is fed up!<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1853</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,clarahinton,csa,dalai,dalailama,jimmyhinton,metoo</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 241 | We Have To Face Our Pain!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-241-we-have-to-face-our-pain--53463466</link><description><![CDATA[There's one theme that runs thick among all survivors - loss. And it's not just survivors of abuse. So many millions of people have lost so much. Death is also something that we all will have to face, both among loved ones and we have to face the reality that we ourselves will die, guaranteed. Grief reaches us in tons of different ways and often we're not prepared to face it.<br /><br />But face it we must. We have to face pain to get better. We have to deal with it, process it, acknowledge it, and embrace it if we are going to conquer it. And it's quite possible to conquer our pain! In this episode we talk about facing our pain. We cannot ignore it, mask it, or pretend like it doesn't exist.<br /><br />Clara's Website:<br />https://www.silentgriefsupport.com/<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53463466</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Apr 2023 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53463466/episode_241.mp3" length="31556336" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/d42174d5-3e8e-4044-a5aa-ccfb3e0ec1e1/d42174d5-3e8e-4044-a5aa-ccfb3e0ec1e1.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/d42174d5-3e8e-4044-a5aa-ccfb3e0ec1e1/d42174d5-3e8e-4044-a5aa-ccfb3e0ec1e1.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/d42174d5-3e8e-4044-a5aa-ccfb3e0ec1e1/d42174d5-3e8e-4044-a5aa-ccfb3e0ec1e1.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There's one theme that runs thick among all survivors - loss. And it's not just survivors of abuse. So many millions of people have lost so much. Death is also something that we all will have to face, both among loved ones and we have to face the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There's one theme that runs thick among all survivors - loss. And it's not just survivors of abuse. So many millions of people have lost so much. Death is also something that we all will have to face, both among loved ones and we have to face the reality that we ourselves will die, guaranteed. Grief reaches us in tons of different ways and often we're not prepared to face it.<br /><br />But face it we must. We have to face pain to get better. We have to deal with it, process it, acknowledge it, and embrace it if we are going to conquer it. And it's quite possible to conquer our pain! In this episode we talk about facing our pain. We cannot ignore it, mask it, or pretend like it doesn't exist.<br /><br />Clara's Website:<br />https://www.silentgriefsupport.com/<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1973</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childloss,churchtoo,clarahinton,csa,endaubse,endtrafficking,grief,jimmyhinton,metoo,sorrow,trauma</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 240 | Beware of Self Proclaimed Experts</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-240-beware-of-self-proclaimed-experts--53392392</link><description><![CDATA[We're really don't like the term "expert" anymore. Writing a book, taking a course, or holding a certificate or political office doesn't necessarily make someone an expert. There are lots of people in every field who claim to be experts but they lack credibility. Credibility is far superior to claiming expertise, especially when it comes to trauma. Trauma experts are people who have lots of education, experience, and credibility among the people they help.<br /><br />That's not to say that only professionals can be helpful, but be very cautious when people claim to be experts but lack credibility or a vast amount of experience and education. It really matters, when we are processing trauma, whether someone is credible or not.<br /><br />CNBC article- nearly half of retirees plan to retire in debt:<br />https://www.cnbc.com/2021/11/16/46-percent-of-americans-expect-to-retire-in-debt.html<br /><br />Social Security Study:<br />https://www.ssa.gov/policy/docs/research-summaries/debt-trend.html<br /><br />Credit Card Debt at All Time High:<br />https://www.cnbc.com/2023/03/09/as-credit-card-debt-hits-new-high-households-near-a-breaking-point.html<br /><br />NM Lawmakers Destroy Chile Industry:<br />https://www.abqjournal.com/2579812/lawmakers-overreach-killing-new-mexico-chile-industry.html<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53392392</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Mar 2023 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53392392/episode_240.mp3" length="30694504" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/46e2f68a-8309-47b3-95fc-5d3ce8e26cfe/46e2f68a-8309-47b3-95fc-5d3ce8e26cfe.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/46e2f68a-8309-47b3-95fc-5d3ce8e26cfe/46e2f68a-8309-47b3-95fc-5d3ce8e26cfe.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/46e2f68a-8309-47b3-95fc-5d3ce8e26cfe/46e2f68a-8309-47b3-95fc-5d3ce8e26cfe.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We're really don't like the term "expert" anymore. Writing a book, taking a course, or holding a certificate or political office doesn't necessarily make someone an expert. There are lots of people in every field who claim to be experts but they lack...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We're really don't like the term "expert" anymore. Writing a book, taking a course, or holding a certificate or political office doesn't necessarily make someone an expert. There are lots of people in every field who claim to be experts but they lack credibility. Credibility is far superior to claiming expertise, especially when it comes to trauma. Trauma experts are people who have lots of education, experience, and credibility among the people they help.<br /><br />That's not to say that only professionals can be helpful, but be very cautious when people claim to be experts but lack credibility or a vast amount of experience and education. It really matters, when we are processing trauma, whether someone is credible or not.<br /><br />CNBC article- nearly half of retirees plan to retire in debt:<br />https://www.cnbc.com/2021/11/16/46-percent-of-americans-expect-to-retire-in-debt.html<br /><br />Social Security Study:<br />https://www.ssa.gov/policy/docs/research-summaries/debt-trend.html<br /><br />Credit Card Debt at All Time High:<br />https://www.cnbc.com/2023/03/09/as-credit-card-debt-hits-new-high-households-near-a-breaking-point.html<br /><br />NM Lawmakers Destroy Chile Industry:<br />https://www.abqjournal.com/2579812/lawmakers-overreach-killing-new-mexico-chile-industry.html<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1919</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,clarahinton,csa,endabuse,experts,jimmyhinton,metoo,stopabuse,therapists,therapy,trauma,traumainformed</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 239 | Do I Need To Immediately Forgive My Abuser?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-239-do-i-need-to-immediately-forgive-my-abuser--53311979</link><description><![CDATA[Most often survivors are told to immediately forgive their abuser yet no demands are placed on the abuser. Survivors are told that this is the only way they can receive healing. We long for the day when justice is sought FIRST, then people talk about forgiveness. In the end, what keeps us all safe from abusers is when some form of justice keeps them at bay where they can no longer produce victims, contact victims, or harass innocent people. Once an abuser begins the process of repaying what they took from their victims we can begin a conversation about forgiveness.<br /><br />Please note that we are not attempting to convince anyone to change their views on forgiveness. We are, however, talking about what worked for us and many survivors we've spoken with. You may find these conversations difficult but that in no way diminishes your healing journey.<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport <br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53311979</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Mar 2023 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53311979/episode_239.mp3" length="42395689" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Most often survivors are told to immediately forgive their abuser yet no demands are placed on the abuser. Survivors are told that this is the only way they can receive healing. We long for the day when justice is sought FIRST, then people talk about...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Most often survivors are told to immediately forgive their abuser yet no demands are placed on the abuser. Survivors are told that this is the only way they can receive healing. We long for the day when justice is sought FIRST, then people talk about forgiveness. In the end, what keeps us all safe from abusers is when some form of justice keeps them at bay where they can no longer produce victims, contact victims, or harass innocent people. Once an abuser begins the process of repaying what they took from their victims we can begin a conversation about forgiveness.<br /><br />Please note that we are not attempting to convince anyone to change their views on forgiveness. We are, however, talking about what worked for us and many survivors we've spoken with. You may find these conversations difficult but that in no way diminishes your healing journey.<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport <br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2650</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>clarahinton,csa,endabuse,forgiveness,healingfromabuse,howtoforgive,jimmyhinton,stopabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 238 | Help Us Help Good People!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-238-help-us-help-good-people--53226045</link><description><![CDATA[You won't want to miss this story of our good friend in Haiti who needs our help. It's incredible how things come full circle and that someone we met over a decade ago has made such an impact on us. We're helping raise money for our good friend Julien for transportation so he can deliver food and medicine to people in his community.<br /><br />If you'd like to help, please visit the link below and share! https://www.paypal.com/pools/c/8Sn4Wq7sx6<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53226045</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Mar 2023 17:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53226045/episode_238.mp3" length="31756538" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You won't want to miss this story of our good friend in Haiti who needs our help. It's incredible how things come full circle and that someone we met over a decade ago has made such an impact on us. We're helping raise money for our good friend Julien...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You won't want to miss this story of our good friend in Haiti who needs our help. It's incredible how things come full circle and that someone we met over a decade ago has made such an impact on us. We're helping raise money for our good friend Julien for transportation so he can deliver food and medicine to people in his community.<br /><br />If you'd like to help, please visit the link below and share! https://www.paypal.com/pools/c/8Sn4Wq7sx6<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1985</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,clarahinton,csa,helpingothers,helpthoseinneed,jimmyhinton,lendahand,metoo,stopabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 237 | Surprising Stats About Prisoners In the US</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-237-surprising-stats-about-prisoners-in-the-us--53149594</link><description><![CDATA[Very often we are contacted about churches that invite sex offenders into their worship services. We also are asked what the chances are of getting a conviction when abuse is reported. We found some recent statistics on prisons in the US and, to be honest, we were a little surprised. There is a big disparity between the number of sex offenders in prison and the number of those on the sex offender registry.<br /><br />Again, to our surprise, prison populations dramatically shrunk from 2019 to 2020. We do know that most sex offenders receive light sentences, so the statistics actually make sense and should cause us to be extremely vigilant.<br /><br />Prison population ranked by state:<br />https://worldpopulationreview.com/state-rankings/prison-population-by-state<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53149594</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Mar 2023 18:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53149594/episode_237.mp3" length="31338161" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Very often we are contacted about churches that invite sex offenders into their worship services. We also are asked what the chances are of getting a conviction when abuse is reported. We found some recent statistics on prisons in the US and, to be...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Very often we are contacted about churches that invite sex offenders into their worship services. We also are asked what the chances are of getting a conviction when abuse is reported. We found some recent statistics on prisons in the US and, to be honest, we were a little surprised. There is a big disparity between the number of sex offenders in prison and the number of those on the sex offender registry.<br /><br />Again, to our surprise, prison populations dramatically shrunk from 2019 to 2020. We do know that most sex offenders receive light sentences, so the statistics actually make sense and should cause us to be extremely vigilant.<br /><br />Prison population ranked by state:<br />https://worldpopulationreview.com/state-rankings/prison-population-by-state<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1959</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,csa,endabuse,jimmyhinton,metoo,prison,stopabuse,usprisons</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 236 | Which Abuse Prevention Training Is Right for You?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-236-which-abuse-prevention-training-is-right-for-you--52827413</link><description><![CDATA[Believe it or not, there aren't that many training courses out there on abuse prevention. Perhaps that's why we have such an epidemic of abuse.<br /><br />In this episode, we talk about the pros and cons of in-person versus online content and look at a couple different training options that might be right for you!<br /><br />Jimmy and Clara's Training Videos (with more added each month!!): https://momence.com/video/plugin/30112<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52827413</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Feb 2023 18:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/52827413/episode_236.mp3" length="30995853" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Believe it or not, there aren't that many training courses out there on abuse prevention. Perhaps that's why we have such an epidemic of abuse.

In this episode, we talk about the pros and cons of in-person versus online content and look at a couple...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Believe it or not, there aren't that many training courses out there on abuse prevention. Perhaps that's why we have such an epidemic of abuse.<br /><br />In this episode, we talk about the pros and cons of in-person versus online content and look at a couple different training options that might be right for you!<br /><br />Jimmy and Clara's Training Videos (with more added each month!!): https://momence.com/video/plugin/30112<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1938</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuseprevention,churchtoo,clarahinton,csa,jimmyhinton,metoo,onlinecourse,preventabuse,stopabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 235 | Why We're Still Christians</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-235-why-we-re-still-christians--52746883</link><description><![CDATA[Surprisingly, we get asked a lot if we still have faith in God after all that our family has been through. The answer is a resounding YES. We had plenty of faith struggles, but we came out stronger in our belief of God.<br /><br />There is a lot of ugliness in the world and, unfortunately, in the church too. When everything was stripped from us, all we had left was God. He certainly looks different than he did before all of our tragedies, but that's a good thing.<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52746883</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2023 18:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/52746883/episode_235.mp3" length="34367111" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Surprisingly, we get asked a lot if we still have faith in God after all that our family has been through. The answer is a resounding YES. We had plenty of faith struggles, but we came out stronger in our belief of God.

There is a lot of ugliness in...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Surprisingly, we get asked a lot if we still have faith in God after all that our family has been through. The answer is a resounding YES. We had plenty of faith struggles, but we came out stronger in our belief of God.<br /><br />There is a lot of ugliness in the world and, unfortunately, in the church too. When everything was stripped from us, all we had left was God. He certainly looks different than he did before all of our tragedies, but that's a good thing.<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2148</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,clarahinton,csa,endabuse,jimmyhinton,metoo,stopabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 234 | Deception Detection Techniques from the FBI</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-234-deception-detection-techniques-from-the-fbi--52683439</link><description><![CDATA[I once had the privilege to learn from former FBI agent Jim Clemente. His passion for profiling, the fact that he's a survivor of child sexual abuse, and his vast knowledge of abusers' techniques make him a leading expert. He really was a catalyst for getting me started on researching abuse techniques.<br /><br />Deception detection is a very important skill that FBI agents use to determine when someone is lying. Everyone is capable of learning the basics of deception detection. In this episode, we talk about the different techniques Jim Clemente teaches for detecting deception.<br /><br />YouTube video of Jim Clemente on Deception Detection:<br />https://youtu.be/tpJcBozuF6A<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52683439</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2023 18:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/52683439/episode_234.mp3" length="29722331" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>I once had the privilege to learn from former FBI agent Jim Clemente. His passion for profiling, the fact that he's a survivor of child sexual abuse, and his vast knowledge of abusers' techniques make him a leading expert. He really was a catalyst for...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[I once had the privilege to learn from former FBI agent Jim Clemente. His passion for profiling, the fact that he's a survivor of child sexual abuse, and his vast knowledge of abusers' techniques make him a leading expert. He really was a catalyst for getting me started on researching abuse techniques.<br /><br />Deception detection is a very important skill that FBI agents use to determine when someone is lying. Everyone is capable of learning the basics of deception detection. In this episode, we talk about the different techniques Jim Clemente teaches for detecting deception.<br /><br />YouTube video of Jim Clemente on Deception Detection:<br />https://youtu.be/tpJcBozuF6A<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1858</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,clarahinton,csa,deception,deceptiondetection,jimmyhinton,liars,metoo,stopabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Epsiode 233 | Helping People Find Safe Shelter</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/epsiode-233-helping-people-find-safe-shelter--52617695</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode we share dos and don'ts when helping people find safe shelter. Domestic violence is the leading cause of people needing to find safe shelter. But those people are very vulnerable and often fall prey to people who are waiting to take advantage of them, making them worse off than they were before they left their abuser.<br /><br />It's important that we take our time to learn the dos and don'ts so that we don't send people into harms way.<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52617695</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2023 18:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/52617695/epsiode_233.mp3" length="36449802" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode we share dos and don'ts when helping people find safe shelter. Domestic violence is the leading cause of people needing to find safe shelter. But those people are very vulnerable and often fall prey to people who are waiting to take...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode we share dos and don'ts when helping people find safe shelter. Domestic violence is the leading cause of people needing to find safe shelter. But those people are very vulnerable and often fall prey to people who are waiting to take advantage of them, making them worse off than they were before they left their abuser.<br /><br />It's important that we take our time to learn the dos and don'ts so that we don't send people into harms way.<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2279</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,clarahinton,csa,endtrafficking,humantrafficking,jimmyhinton,metoo,sextrafficking,stopabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Epsiode 232 | Abuse Statistics and Predictions for 2023</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/epsiode-232-abuse-statistics-and-predictions-for-2023--52553378</link><description><![CDATA[There are some troubling trends with sexual abuse, violence, and drug abuse in the US. Each year we read the Pennsylvania annual report on abuse to gauge what is happening with abuse in our state. Then we look at national statistics. Unfortunately, the numbers are not easing. There are a lot of compound traumas that families are facing.<br /><br />In this episode, we give our opinion for where we are heading this year and how we can help ease this epidemic of abuse.<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: <br />How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him <br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro-- Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro-- I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52553378</guid><pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2023 18:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/52553378/epsiode_232.mp3" length="37350086" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There are some troubling trends with sexual abuse, violence, and drug abuse in the US. Each year we read the Pennsylvania annual report on abuse to gauge what is happening with abuse in our state. Then we look at national statistics. Unfortunately,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There are some troubling trends with sexual abuse, violence, and drug abuse in the US. Each year we read the Pennsylvania annual report on abuse to gauge what is happening with abuse in our state. Then we look at national statistics. Unfortunately, the numbers are not easing. There are a lot of compound traumas that families are facing.<br /><br />In this episode, we give our opinion for where we are heading this year and how we can help ease this epidemic of abuse.<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: <br />How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him <br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro-- Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro-- I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2335</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusestatistics,churchtoo,clarahinton,csa,jimmyhinton,metoo,stopabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 231| Domestic Violence Is Rising Dramatically</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-231-domestic-violence-is-rising-dramatically--52486254</link><description><![CDATA[There has been a recent string of murder-suicides in the news since the new year. Domestic violence has been dubbed the "Shadow Pandemic" and is giving way to large numbers of calls to police. Many of the women who were murdered had a history of telling friends they felt unsafe, filing protective orders, and were making futile attempts to stay separated from their male partner.<br /><br />This is a troubling trend that we need to be aware of and known how to respond because chances are good that you know someone who is victim to a violent partner. In this episode we offer ways that we can be involved. We cannot wait to make a police report after the fact. When we know there is violence, we should begin advocating for victims.<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside:<br />How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro-- Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro-- I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52486254</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2023 18:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/52486254/episode_231.mp3" length="32831529" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There has been a recent string of murder-suicides in the news since the new year. Domestic violence has been dubbed the "Shadow Pandemic" and is giving way to large numbers of calls to police. Many of the women who were murdered had a history of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There has been a recent string of murder-suicides in the news since the new year. Domestic violence has been dubbed the "Shadow Pandemic" and is giving way to large numbers of calls to police. Many of the women who were murdered had a history of telling friends they felt unsafe, filing protective orders, and were making futile attempts to stay separated from their male partner.<br /><br />This is a troubling trend that we need to be aware of and known how to respond because chances are good that you know someone who is victim to a violent partner. In this episode we offer ways that we can be involved. We cannot wait to make a police report after the fact. When we know there is violence, we should begin advocating for victims.<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside:<br />How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro-- Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro-- I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2052</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,clarahinton,csa,domesticviolence,dv,jimmyhinton,metoo,stopabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 230| Compound Trauma Is NO Joke!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-230-compound-trauma-is-no-joke--52424123</link><description><![CDATA[We're not even two weeks in and this year has already proven to be a monster. Just today (after this recording) I got news that a beloved friend passed away this morning. Millions of people are trying to learn how to cope with compound trauma. In this episode we talk about how grief grips us and how we have learned to embrace it.<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: <br />How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him <br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro-- Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro-- I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52424123</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Jan 2023 18:02:44 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/52424123/episode_230.mp3" length="37354684" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We're not even two weeks in and this year has already proven to be a monster. Just today (after this recording) I got news that a beloved friend passed away this morning. Millions of people are trying to learn how to cope with compound trauma. In this...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We're not even two weeks in and this year has already proven to be a monster. Just today (after this recording) I got news that a beloved friend passed away this morning. Millions of people are trying to learn how to cope with compound trauma. In this episode we talk about how grief grips us and how we have learned to embrace it.<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: <br />How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him <br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro-- Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro-- I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2335</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>anxiety,churchtoo,clarahinton,csa,grief,jimmyhinton,metoo,stopchildabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 229 | A Year In Review and BIG NEWS!!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-229-a-year-in-review-and-big-news--52363224</link><description><![CDATA[Well, 2022 came to a close and handed the baton to 2023! What a year 2022 was. There were lots of ups and downs. In this episode, we talk about the challenges we faced in 2022 and what we plan to do about it for 2023 (hint--I think anyone who is struggling will enjoy this news!)!!<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro-- Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro-- I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52363224</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Jan 2023 18:14:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/52363224/episode_229.mp3" length="33535373" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Well, 2022 came to a close and handed the baton to 2023! What a year 2022 was. There were lots of ups and downs. In this episode, we talk about the challenges we faced in 2022 and what we plan to do about it for 2023 (hint--I think anyone who is...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Well, 2022 came to a close and handed the baton to 2023! What a year 2022 was. There were lots of ups and downs. In this episode, we talk about the challenges we faced in 2022 and what we plan to do about it for 2023 (hint--I think anyone who is struggling will enjoy this news!)!!<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut<br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor<br />https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport<br /><br />And Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro-- Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro-- I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2096</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childloss,churchtoo,clarahinton,csa,depression,grief,jimmyhinton,metoo,stopabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 228 | Mary Byler Amish Misfit</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-228-mary-byler-amish-misfit--52259412</link><description><![CDATA[Mary Byler joins us to discuss her new book, "Reflections and Memories of an Amish Misfit: My Therapist Says That's Not True, But I Digress." This is one of the most important discussions we've had yet on abuse in Amish communities. Mary, who grew up Amish, suffered years of abuse at the hands of her father and brothers. Now freed from abuse, Mary is a leading victims' advocate, working to help rescue more people from abuse within Amish and Plain communities.<br /><br />Mary's book:<br />https://www.amazon.com/Reflections-Memories-Amish-Misfit-therapist-ebook/dp/B0BPQJNT7K/ref=sr_1_1?crid=AQKSL8TJMLGQ&amp;keywords=mary+byler&amp;qid=1671729452&amp;sprefix=mary+byler%2Caps%2C82&amp;sr=8-1 <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport And<br /><br />Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro-- Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br />Outro-- I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52259412</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Dec 2022 18:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/52259412/episode_228.mp3" length="85554155" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Mary Byler joins us to discuss her new book, "Reflections and Memories of an Amish Misfit: My Therapist Says That's Not True, But I Digress." This is one of the most important discussions we've had yet on abuse in Amish communities. Mary, who grew up...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Mary Byler joins us to discuss her new book, "Reflections and Memories of an Amish Misfit: My Therapist Says That's Not True, But I Digress." This is one of the most important discussions we've had yet on abuse in Amish communities. Mary, who grew up Amish, suffered years of abuse at the hands of her father and brothers. Now freed from abuse, Mary is a leading victims' advocate, working to help rescue more people from abuse within Amish and Plain communities.<br /><br />Mary's book:<br />https://www.amazon.com/Reflections-Memories-Amish-Misfit-therapist-ebook/dp/B0BPQJNT7K/ref=sr_1_1?crid=AQKSL8TJMLGQ&amp;keywords=mary+byler&amp;qid=1671729452&amp;sprefix=mary+byler%2Caps%2C82&amp;sr=8-1 <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport And<br /><br />Twitter:<br />https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton<br /><br />Intro-- Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br />Outro-- I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5348</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>amishabuse,churchabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,csa,jimmyhinton,metoo,stopabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/93f604eb878f623f69dcf6d67a56a40e.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 227 | Should the Church Die To Stop Abuse?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-227-should-the-church-die-to-stop-abuse--52196466</link><description><![CDATA[Whether the church should completely crumble or continue to exist is a wildly hot topic right now. SO much abuse has taken place, and continues to take place, in the church. I often say that it's embarrassing at how terrible the church responds to abuse. And it's embarrassing at how many abusers are "restored" back to ministry positions. So does the church need to completely fall? Would children be safer if churches ceased to exist?<br /><br />Find out our position in this episode.<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp Support us on Patreon:<br /><br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut Find us on Facebook:<br /><br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport And Twitter: https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton <br /><br />Intro-- Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro-- I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52196466</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Dec 2022 18:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/52196466/episode_227.mp3" length="34764591" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Whether the church should completely crumble or continue to exist is a wildly hot topic right now. SO much abuse has taken place, and continues to take place, in the church. I often say that it's embarrassing at how terrible the church responds to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Whether the church should completely crumble or continue to exist is a wildly hot topic right now. SO much abuse has taken place, and continues to take place, in the church. I often say that it's embarrassing at how terrible the church responds to abuse. And it's embarrassing at how many abusers are "restored" back to ministry positions. So does the church need to completely fall? Would children be safer if churches ceased to exist?<br /><br />Find out our position in this episode.<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br />https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref=cm_sw_su_dp Support us on Patreon:<br /><br />https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut Find us on Facebook:<br /><br />https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport And Twitter: https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12<br />https://twitter.com/clarahinton <br /><br />Intro-- Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350 Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro-- I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2173</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,csa,jimmyhinton,metoo,spiritualabuse,stopabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/edc7f42163b103e8579237a9e9cb64a8.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 226 | What Does Forgive as the Lord Forgives Mean???</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-226-what-does-forgive-as-the-lord-forgives-mean--52132393</link><description><![CDATA[We hear from people all the time that victims need to forgive their abusers no matter what. First of all, we disagree. Secondly, what does it mean to forgive as the Lord forgives? In an age when abusers are openly welcomed by the church, we really need to better understand what it means to forgive like God forgives. <br /><br />Article, A Perpetrator In the Pews:<br /><a href="https://christianchronicle.org/sex-offenders-presence-at-worship-stirs-discord-in-pennsylvania-congregation/" rel="noopener">https://christianchronicle.org/sex-offenders-presence-at-worship-stirs-discord-in-pennsylvania-congregation/</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52132393</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Dec 2022 18:04:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/52132393/episode_226.mp3" length="46369645" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We hear from people all the time that victims need to forgive their abusers no matter what. First of all, we disagree. Secondly, what does it mean to forgive as the Lord forgives? In an age when abusers are openly welcomed by the church, we really...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We hear from people all the time that victims need to forgive their abusers no matter what. First of all, we disagree. Secondly, what does it mean to forgive as the Lord forgives? In an age when abusers are openly welcomed by the church, we really need to better understand what it means to forgive like God forgives. <br /><br />Article, A Perpetrator In the Pews:<br /><a href="https://christianchronicle.org/sex-offenders-presence-at-worship-stirs-discord-in-pennsylvania-congregation/" rel="noopener">https://christianchronicle.org/sex-offenders-presence-at-worship-stirs-discord-in-pennsylvania-congregation/</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2899</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,clarahinton,csa,jimmyhinton,metoo</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 225 | Should My Church Allow Sex Offenders To Attend?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-225-should-my-church-allow-sex-offenders-to-attend--52060020</link><description><![CDATA[Registered sex offender Dashawn Williams was charged with raping two women after serving only 3.5 years in prison for sex offenses against a 15 year old. According to the New York Post, Williams was released on parole 2 years ago. In addition to the case of the 15 year old girl, Williams had been arrested multiple times in the past for aggravated harassment and criminal obstruction of breathing. <br /><br />Just this past week, I was asked by a church leader what my thoughts were on allowing a sex offender to attend that particular church, which is full of little children. My answer is always a resounding, "NO!!!!!" In this episode we unpack all this and talk about the chronic problem of churches sneaking sex offenders into the church. <br /><br />New York Post Article:<br /><a href="https://nypost.com/2022/11/28/registered-sex-offender-charged-with-raping-two-women-at-a-bronx-hotel/" rel="noopener">https://nypost.com/2022/11/28/registered-sex-offender-charged-with-raping-two-women-at-a-bronx-hotel/</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52060020</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Dec 2022 18:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/52060020/episode_225.mp3" length="33624398" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Registered sex offender Dashawn Williams was charged with raping two women after serving only 3.5 years in prison for sex offenses against a 15 year old. According to the New York Post, Williams was released on parole 2 years ago. In addition to the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Registered sex offender Dashawn Williams was charged with raping two women after serving only 3.5 years in prison for sex offenses against a 15 year old. According to the New York Post, Williams was released on parole 2 years ago. In addition to the case of the 15 year old girl, Williams had been arrested multiple times in the past for aggravated harassment and criminal obstruction of breathing. <br /><br />Just this past week, I was asked by a church leader what my thoughts were on allowing a sex offender to attend that particular church, which is full of little children. My answer is always a resounding, "NO!!!!!" In this episode we unpack all this and talk about the chronic problem of churches sneaking sex offenders into the church. <br /><br />New York Post Article:<br /><a href="https://nypost.com/2022/11/28/registered-sex-offender-charged-with-raping-two-women-at-a-bronx-hotel/" rel="noopener">https://nypost.com/2022/11/28/registered-sex-offender-charged-with-raping-two-women-at-a-bronx-hotel/</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2102</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusersatchurch,churchtoo,clarahinton,csa,jimmyhinton,metoo,registeredoffenders</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/60525e4c3b71758218507058069b2f63.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 224: Should You Pay for Background Check Services?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-224-should-you-pay-for-background-check-services--51927503</link><description><![CDATA[There are a lot of sites that will conduct all background checks for you in one click of a button, searching databases like the sex offender registry, criminal records, court records, and so on. Lots of people ask me what paid background check service I'd recommend.<br /><br />In this episode, we talk about a recent live demonstration we did, putting paid services to the test. Are they worth it? Should we pay for them? Are there free services out there? Or should we do our own research? We break ALL of this down in this episode.<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51927503</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2022 18:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51927503/episode_224.mp3" length="31444323" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There are a lot of sites that will conduct all background checks for you in one click of a button, searching databases like the sex offender registry, criminal records, court records, and so on. Lots of people ask me what paid background check service...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There are a lot of sites that will conduct all background checks for you in one click of a button, searching databases like the sex offender registry, criminal records, court records, and so on. Lots of people ask me what paid background check service I'd recommend.<br /><br />In this episode, we talk about a recent live demonstration we did, putting paid services to the test. Are they worth it? Should we pay for them? Are there free services out there? Or should we do our own research? We break ALL of this down in this episode.<br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1966</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>backgroundchecks,clarahinton,csa,jimmyhinton,stopabuse,stopcsa</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f93cfa6bc35a9b8f45b1ff2023a15f50.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 223: Decency Will Win the Battle Against Abuse</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-223-decency-will-win-the-battle-against-abuse--51852191</link><description><![CDATA[In a wildly divided and politically charged world, we believe that decency will win the day in the end! When people are treated with decency it completely changes their outlook on life. We can help improve the mental health of others by treating them with decency. In this episode we talk about the need for the advocacy community to lead the way in showing kindness and compassion for survivors. We can greatly minimize the impact abuse has on people, and do a better job of preventing it, if we keep decency at the forefront of all that we do. <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51852191</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2022 18:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51852191/episode_223.mp3" length="37968666" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In a wildly divided and politically charged world, we believe that decency will win the day in the end! When people are treated with decency it completely changes their outlook on life. We can help improve the mental health of others by treating them...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In a wildly divided and politically charged world, we believe that decency will win the day in the end! When people are treated with decency it completely changes their outlook on life. We can help improve the mental health of others by treating them with decency. In this episode we talk about the need for the advocacy community to lead the way in showing kindness and compassion for survivors. We can greatly minimize the impact abuse has on people, and do a better job of preventing it, if we keep decency at the forefront of all that we do. <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2374</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childsexualabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,csa,endabuse,endabusenow,jimmyhinton,metoo,stopabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 222: Number of Female Pedophiles DOUBLES In Four Years</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-222-number-of-female-pedophiles-doubles-in-four-years--51764761</link><description><![CDATA[A very recent article in the UK shows the dramatic uptick in female pedophile offenders. Experts in criminal justice are now recognizing that there are FAR more female pedophiles than we ever imagined. Virtually every study that exists on female predators is outdated. The world is constantly changing and we are officially a hyper-sexual culture. Kids are getting VERY mixed messages about gender identity, sexual fluidity, and so on. <br /><br />We need to have a heightened awareness that the number of female child sexual abusers is increasing rapidly. We cannot assume that, because our kids are with females, they are safe. We need to ask the right questions and have the right safeguards in place for the safety of our children. <br /><br />Pamela Paul's Book "Pornified": <br /><a href="https://rb.gy/hv2jsi" rel="noopener">https://rb.gy/hv2jsi</a><br /><br />Daily Mail article "Number of female paedophiles nearly DOUBLES in four years":<br /><a href="https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9162391/Number-female-paedophiles-nearly-DOUBLES-four-years.html" rel="noopener">https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9162391/Number-female-paedophiles-nearly-DOUBLES-four-years.html</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51764761</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Nov 2022 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51764761/episode_222.mp3" length="38758609" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>A very recent article in the UK shows the dramatic uptick in female pedophile offenders. Experts in criminal justice are now recognizing that there are FAR more female pedophiles than we ever imagined. Virtually every study that exists on female...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[A very recent article in the UK shows the dramatic uptick in female pedophile offenders. Experts in criminal justice are now recognizing that there are FAR more female pedophiles than we ever imagined. Virtually every study that exists on female predators is outdated. The world is constantly changing and we are officially a hyper-sexual culture. Kids are getting VERY mixed messages about gender identity, sexual fluidity, and so on. <br /><br />We need to have a heightened awareness that the number of female child sexual abusers is increasing rapidly. We cannot assume that, because our kids are with females, they are safe. We need to ask the right questions and have the right safeguards in place for the safety of our children. <br /><br />Pamela Paul's Book "Pornified": <br /><a href="https://rb.gy/hv2jsi" rel="noopener">https://rb.gy/hv2jsi</a><br /><br />Daily Mail article "Number of female paedophiles nearly DOUBLES in four years":<br /><a href="https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9162391/Number-female-paedophiles-nearly-DOUBLES-four-years.html" rel="noopener">https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9162391/Number-female-paedophiles-nearly-DOUBLES-four-years.html</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2423</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,clarahinton,csa,femaleoffenders,femalepedophiles,jimmyhinton,metoo,stopabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/17f275509fe5c9d8534b4b09dccf66a2.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 221: School Teachers 100 Times More Likely To Abuse Kids than Catholic Priests</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-221-school-teachers-100-times-more-likely-to-abuse-kids-than-catholic-priests--51704246</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, we discuss the sharp rise in women teachers as abusers and how this has a major impact on our schools. The statistics for sexual predators as teachers is on the rise, and so is the number of female abusers. What in the world is going on in our schools and what can we do about it? <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a> <br /><br /><br />Teachers 100 Times More Likely Article: <br /><a href="https://go2tutors.com/teachers-more-likely-abuse-kids/" rel="noopener">https://go2tutors.com/teachers-more-likely-abuse-kids/</a><br /><br />Sexual Abuse by Educators and School Staff Abstract:<br /><a href="https://www.ojp.gov/ncjrs/virtual-library/abstracts/sexual-abuse-educators-and-school-staff#" rel="noopener">https://www.ojp.gov/ncjrs/virtual-library/abstracts/sexual-abuse-educators-and-school-staff#</a>:~:text=Official%20statistics%20indicate%20that%20the,emotional%20bonding%20from%20an%20adult.<br /><br />Wisconsin Teacher Performs In Drag to Students:<br /><a href="https://www.foxnews.com/us/wisconsin-high-school-drag-show-teacher" rel="noopener">https://www.foxnews.com/us/wisconsin-high-school-drag-show-teacher</a><br /><br />Increasing Number of Female Teacher Abusers:<br /><a href="https://www.thedoanlawfirm.com/blog/2020/august/increasing-number-of-female-teachers-found-sexua/" rel="noopener">https://www.thedoanlawfirm.com/blog/2020/august/increasing-number-of-female-teachers-found-sexua/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51704246</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Oct 2022 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51704246/episode_221.mp3" length="32027376" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode, we discuss the sharp rise in women teachers as abusers and how this has a major impact on our schools. The statistics for sexual predators as teachers is on the rise, and so is the number of female abusers. What in the world is going...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, we discuss the sharp rise in women teachers as abusers and how this has a major impact on our schools. The statistics for sexual predators as teachers is on the rise, and so is the number of female abusers. What in the world is going on in our schools and what can we do about it? <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a> <br /><br /><br />Teachers 100 Times More Likely Article: <br /><a href="https://go2tutors.com/teachers-more-likely-abuse-kids/" rel="noopener">https://go2tutors.com/teachers-more-likely-abuse-kids/</a><br /><br />Sexual Abuse by Educators and School Staff Abstract:<br /><a href="https://www.ojp.gov/ncjrs/virtual-library/abstracts/sexual-abuse-educators-and-school-staff#" rel="noopener">https://www.ojp.gov/ncjrs/virtual-library/abstracts/sexual-abuse-educators-and-school-staff#</a>:~:text=Official%20statistics%20indicate%20that%20the,emotional%20bonding%20from%20an%20adult.<br /><br />Wisconsin Teacher Performs In Drag to Students:<br /><a href="https://www.foxnews.com/us/wisconsin-high-school-drag-show-teacher" rel="noopener">https://www.foxnews.com/us/wisconsin-high-school-drag-show-teacher</a><br /><br />Increasing Number of Female Teacher Abusers:<br /><a href="https://www.thedoanlawfirm.com/blog/2020/august/increasing-number-of-female-teachers-found-sexua/" rel="noopener">https://www.thedoanlawfirm.com/blog/2020/august/increasing-number-of-female-teachers-found-sexua/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2002</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusiveteachers,churchtoo,clarahinton,csa,jimmyhinton,metoo,stopabuse,stopcsa,teacherswhoabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/68eb29a5b727f0ac3006bd0f2eb8a3b3.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 220: We Did Our First Live Abuse Prevention Training!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-220-we-did-our-first-live-abuse-prevention-training--51634844</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, we talk about our newest endeavor for our patrons. We just began a monthly live Zoom session where we do specialized abuse prevention training. These trainings come from over 10 years of research and experience traveling the country, training the military, police departments, corrections officers, schools, and churches. As you can tell, we're pretty excited and wanted to share more details with you! <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51634844</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Oct 2022 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51634844/episode220.mp3" length="29324434" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode, we talk about our newest endeavor for our patrons. We just began a monthly live Zoom session where we do specialized abuse prevention training. These trainings come from over 10 years of research and experience traveling the country,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, we talk about our newest endeavor for our patrons. We just began a monthly live Zoom session where we do specialized abuse prevention training. These trainings come from over 10 years of research and experience traveling the country, training the military, police departments, corrections officers, schools, and churches. As you can tell, we're pretty excited and wanted to share more details with you! <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1833</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuseprevention,abusepreventiontraining,clarahinton,csa,jimmyhinton,redflags,signsofabuse,stopabuse,stopchildabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 219: Why Are Registered Sex Offenders Allowed on Facebook?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-219-why-are-registered-sex-offenders-allowed-on-facebook--51565877</link><description><![CDATA[Did you know that it's perfectly legal for registered sex offenders to be on social media? That's right, as long as they're not on supervision even sexually violent predators can have as many social media accounts as they want. This means they are on Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, and any popular social media platforms your children and grandchildren are using. <br /><br />In this episode, we talk about a real life situation of a sex offender on Facebook who looks like a perfect candidate for a church volunteer. Unless churches really do their homework, they would never know that the people they are asking to serve did hard time in prison. <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51565877</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Oct 2022 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51565877/episode_219.mp3" length="34409743" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Did you know that it's perfectly legal for registered sex offenders to be on social media? That's right, as long as they're not on supervision even sexually violent predators can have as many social media accounts as they want. This means they are on...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Did you know that it's perfectly legal for registered sex offenders to be on social media? That's right, as long as they're not on supervision even sexually violent predators can have as many social media accounts as they want. This means they are on Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, and any popular social media platforms your children and grandchildren are using. <br /><br />In this episode, we talk about a real life situation of a sex offender on Facebook who looks like a perfect candidate for a church volunteer. Unless churches really do their homework, they would never know that the people they are asking to serve did hard time in prison. <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2151</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,csa,jimmyhinton,metoo,registeredsexoffenders,stopabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6b634ae611f5e8c952c92bc52a55eed6.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 218: What To Expect When Reporting Abuse</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-218-what-to-expect-when-reporting-abuse--51489006</link><description><![CDATA[Lots of people wonder what to expect when reporting abuse. Heck, we did too. There are so many unknown variables that it's impossible to predict the future, but we hope to ease some concerns in this episode. We share why we reported and what some things are that people can expect when they make a report. <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51489006</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Oct 2022 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51489006/episode_218.mp3" length="38919105" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Lots of people wonder what to expect when reporting abuse. Heck, we did too. There are so many unknown variables that it's impossible to predict the future, but we hope to ease some concerns in this episode. We share why we reported and what some...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Lots of people wonder what to expect when reporting abuse. Heck, we did too. There are so many unknown variables that it's impossible to predict the future, but we hope to ease some concerns in this episode. We share why we reported and what some things are that people can expect when they make a report. <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2433</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childabuse,childsexabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,csa,howtoreport,jimmyhinton,metoo,reportabuse,reportingabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/fccafb5d1dcbf373bb082897a1268b46.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 217:  When Kids Display Signs of Abuse</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-217-when-kids-display-signs-of-abuse--51418823</link><description><![CDATA[We get asked by many parents what to do when their kids are displaying signs of abuse. In this episode, we talk about what those signs are and how parents should intervene. <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51418823</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Sep 2022 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51418823/episode_217.mp3" length="33685002" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We get asked by many parents what to do when their kids are displaying signs of abuse. In this episode, we talk about what those signs are and how parents should intervene. &#13;
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Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We get asked by many parents what to do when their kids are displaying signs of abuse. In this episode, we talk about what those signs are and how parents should intervene. <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2106</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childabuse,childsexabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,csa,jimmyhinton,metoo,signsofabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 216: Middle School Boys Create "Pedo Database" for Creepy Teacher and He's Now On Leave</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-216-middle-school-boys-create-pedo-database-for-creepy-teacher-and-he-s-now-on-leave--51346187</link><description><![CDATA[If ever there is reason for hope, it is this! After witnessing female classmates being sexually harassed by their teacher, a group of middle school boys in Rhode Island reported to higher-ups. When the administration failed to report or take action, the boys took matters into their own hands. They started a Discord channel, documenting the creepy behavior in real time. Every time the teacher would touch a girl, make creepy comments, or ask them to dance, the boys were typing away, writing the direct quotes from their teacher. <br /><br />Once the teacher was finally turned in for stalking a middle school girl he was coaching, the Discord channel was handed over to the police and is being used as evidence. These boys are heroes, and in this episode we talk about what it takes for kids to put adult abusers in the hot seat. It's time the tables are turned on these abusers. <br /><br />Photo by Taylor Flowe: <br /><a href="https://unsplash.com/photos/4nKOEAQaTgA" rel="noopener">https://unsplash.com/photos/4nKOEAQaTgA</a><br />Find Taylor on Unsplash:<br /><a href="https://unsplash.com/" rel="noopener">https://unsplash.com/</a>@taypaigey   <br /><br />Article about these heroic boys' actions: <br /><a href="https://www.insider.com/teacher-on-leave-middle-school-boys-creep-pedo-database-girls-2022-9?amp&fbclid=IwAR2RDwgHuR4vSYh0Go5SCsOOzUsFZ7v7FMG_ca2gw_9TCO5edrN0G7L-ou4" rel="noopener">https://www.insider.com/teacher-on-leave-middle-school-boys-creep-pedo-database-girls-2022-9?amp&fbclid=IwAR2RDwgHuR4vSYh0Go5SCsOOzUsFZ7v7FMG_ca2gw_9TCO5edrN0G7L-ou4</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51346187</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Sep 2022 17:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51346187/episode_216.mp3" length="29139278" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If ever there is reason for hope, it is this! After witnessing female classmates being sexually harassed by their teacher, a group of middle school boys in Rhode Island reported to higher-ups. When the administration failed to report or take action,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If ever there is reason for hope, it is this! After witnessing female classmates being sexually harassed by their teacher, a group of middle school boys in Rhode Island reported to higher-ups. When the administration failed to report or take action, the boys took matters into their own hands. They started a Discord channel, documenting the creepy behavior in real time. Every time the teacher would touch a girl, make creepy comments, or ask them to dance, the boys were typing away, writing the direct quotes from their teacher. <br /><br />Once the teacher was finally turned in for stalking a middle school girl he was coaching, the Discord channel was handed over to the police and is being used as evidence. These boys are heroes, and in this episode we talk about what it takes for kids to put adult abusers in the hot seat. It's time the tables are turned on these abusers. <br /><br />Photo by Taylor Flowe: <br /><a href="https://unsplash.com/photos/4nKOEAQaTgA" rel="noopener">https://unsplash.com/photos/4nKOEAQaTgA</a><br />Find Taylor on Unsplash:<br /><a href="https://unsplash.com/" rel="noopener">https://unsplash.com/</a>@taypaigey   <br /><br />Article about these heroic boys' actions: <br /><a href="https://www.insider.com/teacher-on-leave-middle-school-boys-creep-pedo-database-girls-2022-9?amp&fbclid=IwAR2RDwgHuR4vSYh0Go5SCsOOzUsFZ7v7FMG_ca2gw_9TCO5edrN0G7L-ou4" rel="noopener">https://www.insider.com/teacher-on-leave-middle-school-boys-creep-pedo-database-girls-2022-9?amp&fbclid=IwAR2RDwgHuR4vSYh0Go5SCsOOzUsFZ7v7FMG_ca2gw_9TCO5edrN0G7L-ou4</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1822</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuseinschools,abusiveteachers,childabuse,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,metoo,sexabuse,stopabuse,stopchildabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/92120d230beed3b6c7ae526121b01a44.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 215: Our Top 5 Components of Good Abuse Prevention Training</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-215-our-top-5-components-of-good-abuse-prevention-training--51269361</link><description><![CDATA[Child abuse prevention training is inadequate at best. In this episode, we share our top 5 components that are necessary for a good training. <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51269361</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Sep 2022 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51269361/episode_215.mp3" length="37410690" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Child abuse prevention training is inadequate at best. In this episode, we share our top 5 components that are necessary for a good training. &#13;
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Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Child abuse prevention training is inadequate at best. In this episode, we share our top 5 components that are necessary for a good training. <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2339</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childabuse,childabuseprevention,churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,metoo,redflagbehavior,redflags,stopchildabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0799bef4e3f091f9750bd2588f4feb6e.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 214: Our Abuse Training Is All Wrong</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-214-our-abuse-training-is-all-wrong--51188025</link><description><![CDATA[Nobody in their right mind would lock themselves inside a burning building. The same should be true for active shooters. Nobody should willingly lock themselves inside a building with a shooter. Yet many outdated trainings teach people to do exactly that. Uvalde, TX is a case-in-point of everything gone wrong. Many innocent lives were lost because of inadequate training and a poor response by police. <br /><br />The same can be said about sexual abuse training. In many instances, inadequate and outdated training puts innocent people at very high risk. For example, churches are notorious for locking known abusers up in the same building as children and keeping their sex offender status hidden from church members. Then churches decry abuse. <br /><br />On this episode we introduce the problem of improper training. In following episodes we'll talk about solutions. <br /><br />Video on Uvalde Timeline: <br /><a href="https://youtu.be/pBMcoMtxNaY" rel="noopener">https://youtu.be/pBMcoMtxNaY</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51188025</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Sep 2022 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51188025/episode_214.mp3" length="33701720" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Nobody in their right mind would lock themselves inside a burning building. The same should be true for active shooters. Nobody should willingly lock themselves inside a building with a shooter. Yet many outdated trainings teach people to do exactly...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Nobody in their right mind would lock themselves inside a burning building. The same should be true for active shooters. Nobody should willingly lock themselves inside a building with a shooter. Yet many outdated trainings teach people to do exactly that. Uvalde, TX is a case-in-point of everything gone wrong. Many innocent lives were lost because of inadequate training and a poor response by police. <br /><br />The same can be said about sexual abuse training. In many instances, inadequate and outdated training puts innocent people at very high risk. For example, churches are notorious for locking known abusers up in the same building as children and keeping their sex offender status hidden from church members. Then churches decry abuse. <br /><br />On this episode we introduce the problem of improper training. In following episodes we'll talk about solutions. <br /><br />Video on Uvalde Timeline: <br /><a href="https://youtu.be/pBMcoMtxNaY" rel="noopener">https://youtu.be/pBMcoMtxNaY</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2107</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusetraining,childabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,metoo,nomoreabuse,preventabuse,redflags</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/616467cab8305416927a5f1c9822d762.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 213: Children of the Underground - People Living In Fear</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-213-children-of-the-underground-people-living-in-fear--51103028</link><description><![CDATA[FX has a new docu-series called Children of the Underground. There is a real crisis of victims of abuse whom the system has failed. Our laws cannot protect everyone and often abused children are put right back into the homes of their abusers. <br /><br />In this episode we talk about this crisis and how people can get involved on a local level to help catch some of these victims so they don't have to be on the run. We need to work with people on a local level if we are ever going to get a grip on this crisis that is facing our nation. <br /><br />FX Documentary: <br /><a href="https://www.fxnetworks.com/shows/children-of-the-underground" rel="noopener">https://www.fxnetworks.com/shows/children-of-the-underground</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51103028</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Sep 2022 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51103028/episode_213.mp3" length="37284049" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>FX has a new docu-series called Children of the Underground. There is a real crisis of victims of abuse whom the system has failed. Our laws cannot protect everyone and often abused children are put right back into the homes of their abusers. &#13;
&#13;
In...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[FX has a new docu-series called Children of the Underground. There is a real crisis of victims of abuse whom the system has failed. Our laws cannot protect everyone and often abused children are put right back into the homes of their abusers. <br /><br />In this episode we talk about this crisis and how people can get involved on a local level to help catch some of these victims so they don't have to be on the run. We need to work with people on a local level if we are ever going to get a grip on this crisis that is facing our nation. <br /><br />FX Documentary: <br /><a href="https://www.fxnetworks.com/shows/children-of-the-underground" rel="noopener">https://www.fxnetworks.com/shows/children-of-the-underground</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2331</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,humantrafficking,jimmyhinton,metoo,runawaychildren,sextrafficking,undergroundrailroad</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/eb0b7f386ddbd353092c9714a189b172.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 212: Proof the SBC STILL Doesn't Get It!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-212-proof-the-sbc-still-doesn-t-get-it--51029789</link><description><![CDATA[The SBC is being investigated by the Department of Justice. This would be enough to make anyone shake in their boots. But not the SBC. Instead they chose to minimize DECADES of harassing victims, putting known pedophiles back in the pulpit, and threatening victims with their top attorneys. Since the DOJ announced that they are investigating the SBC, the top leaders apologized for "mistakes" they made in the past and assured people that their leaders are proving to be fully committed to not repeating more "mistakes." <br /><br />Interestingly, J.D. Greear's Summit Church STILL has a policy that keeps registered sex offenders' status hidden from the church. In fact, they offer them "shepherding groups" to minister to them while the policy mentions nothing about abuse survivors receiving shepherding. <br /><br />We will see what the DOJ investigation brings, but for now we are not holding our breath hoping for any meaningful change from leaders. <br /><br />Twitter post by Christa Brown: <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/ChristaBrown777/status/1560628250690277378" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/ChristaBrown777/status/1560628250690277378</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51029789</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 Aug 2022 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51029789/episode_212.mp3" length="35468016" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The SBC is being investigated by the Department of Justice. This would be enough to make anyone shake in their boots. But not the SBC. Instead they chose to minimize DECADES of harassing victims, putting known pedophiles back in the pulpit, and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The SBC is being investigated by the Department of Justice. This would be enough to make anyone shake in their boots. But not the SBC. Instead they chose to minimize DECADES of harassing victims, putting known pedophiles back in the pulpit, and threatening victims with their top attorneys. Since the DOJ announced that they are investigating the SBC, the top leaders apologized for "mistakes" they made in the past and assured people that their leaders are proving to be fully committed to not repeating more "mistakes." <br /><br />Interestingly, J.D. Greear's Summit Church STILL has a policy that keeps registered sex offenders' status hidden from the church. In fact, they offer them "shepherding groups" to minister to them while the policy mentions nothing about abuse survivors receiving shepherding. <br /><br />We will see what the DOJ investigation brings, but for now we are not holding our breath hoping for any meaningful change from leaders. <br /><br />Twitter post by Christa Brown: <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/ChristaBrown777/status/1560628250690277378" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/ChristaBrown777/status/1560628250690277378</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2217</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusesurvivor,childabuse,churchabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,metoo,sbc,sbcabuse,trauma</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 211: Pedophiles Among Us - How Do We Respond? (Part 2)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-211-pedophiles-among-us-how-do-we-respond-part-2--50950885</link><description><![CDATA[Pedophiles are all around us. Registered sex offenders are everywhere. Other known sex offenders are in our circle of friends and family. Then there are all the predators who are abusing children but are have not been found out yet. There are three basic schools of thought: (1) put all child sexual predators on an island somewhere, (2) welcome them into our churches and families, or (3) let sleeping dogs lie.<br /><br />The reality is that they are everywhere. We can't ship them on an island, so how do we recognize them as functioning members of society while still setting boundaries and protecting our little ones? This is a balance MOST people have not been able to figure out. That's why this series is so important to us! <br /><br />60 Minutes Australia, Predator Park:<br /><a href="https://youtu.be/OiquubYVbWQ" rel="noopener">https://youtu.be/OiquubYVbWQ</a><br /><br /> Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50950885</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Aug 2022 17:00:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/50950885/episode_211.mp3" length="30714148" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Pedophiles are all around us. Registered sex offenders are everywhere. Other known sex offenders are in our circle of friends and family. Then there are all the predators who are abusing children but are have not been found out yet. There are three...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Pedophiles are all around us. Registered sex offenders are everywhere. Other known sex offenders are in our circle of friends and family. Then there are all the predators who are abusing children but are have not been found out yet. There are three basic schools of thought: (1) put all child sexual predators on an island somewhere, (2) welcome them into our churches and families, or (3) let sleeping dogs lie.<br /><br />The reality is that they are everywhere. We can't ship them on an island, so how do we recognize them as functioning members of society while still setting boundaries and protecting our little ones? This is a balance MOST people have not been able to figure out. That's why this series is so important to us! <br /><br />60 Minutes Australia, Predator Park:<br /><a href="https://youtu.be/OiquubYVbWQ" rel="noopener">https://youtu.be/OiquubYVbWQ</a><br /><br /> Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1920</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusers,childabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,metoo,redflags,stopchildabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 210: Pedophiles Among Us - How Do We Respond? (Part 1)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-210-pedophiles-among-us-how-do-we-respond-part-1--50884623</link><description><![CDATA[Pedophiles are all around us. Registered sex offenders are everywhere. Other known sex offenders are in our circle of friends and family. Then there are all the predators who are abusing children but are have not been found out yet. There are three basic schools of thought: (1) put all child sexual predators on an island somewhere, (2) welcome them into our churches and families, or (3) let sleeping dogs lie.<br /><br />The reality is that they are everywhere. We can't ship them on an island, so how do we recognize them as functioning members of society while still setting boundaries and protecting our little ones? This is a balance MOST people have not been able to figure out. That's why this series is so important to us! <br /><br />60 Minutes Australia, Predator Park:<br /><a href="https://youtu.be/OiquubYVbWQ" rel="noopener">https://youtu.be/OiquubYVbWQ</a><br /><br /> Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50884623</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 Aug 2022 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/50884623/episode_210.mp3" length="34363768" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Pedophiles are all around us. Registered sex offenders are everywhere. Other known sex offenders are in our circle of friends and family. Then there are all the predators who are abusing children but are have not been found out yet. There are three...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Pedophiles are all around us. Registered sex offenders are everywhere. Other known sex offenders are in our circle of friends and family. Then there are all the predators who are abusing children but are have not been found out yet. There are three basic schools of thought: (1) put all child sexual predators on an island somewhere, (2) welcome them into our churches and families, or (3) let sleeping dogs lie.<br /><br />The reality is that they are everywhere. We can't ship them on an island, so how do we recognize them as functioning members of society while still setting boundaries and protecting our little ones? This is a balance MOST people have not been able to figure out. That's why this series is so important to us! <br /><br />60 Minutes Australia, Predator Park:<br /><a href="https://youtu.be/OiquubYVbWQ" rel="noopener">https://youtu.be/OiquubYVbWQ</a><br /><br /> Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2148</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childabuse,churchabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,csa,jimmyhinton,metoo,pedophiles,sexoffenders,stopabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 209: Easiest Way to Spot a Child Abuser (Part 5)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-209-easiest-way-to-spot-a-child-abuser-part-5--50815325</link><description><![CDATA[There's a reason why people keep getting fooled by child abusers. They blend in really well with the rest of us. The fruits they produce look just like the fruits you and I produce. It's not until we inspect those fruits that we realize how rotten it is on the inside. We developed a tool to help identify and inspect the fruits that abusers produce. <br /><br />This tool helps to easily recognize high risk individuals. This is part one of a series where we cover 20 different fruits, or patterns abusers have. <br /><br />Fruits Tool:<br /><a href="https://docs.google.com/presentation/d/1kn6WatpsXl2E4mTbRvkZipG50v0oYmGRGUwJzTpx4wo/edit?usp=sharing" rel="noopener">https://docs.google.com/presentation/d/1kn6WatpsXl2E4mTbRvkZipG50v0oYmGRGUwJzTpx4wo/edit?usp=sharing</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50815325</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Aug 2022 17:18:41 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/50815325/episode_209.mp3" length="42257763" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There's a reason why people keep getting fooled by child abusers. They blend in really well with the rest of us. The fruits they produce look just like the fruits you and I produce. It's not until we inspect those fruits that we realize how rotten it...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There's a reason why people keep getting fooled by child abusers. They blend in really well with the rest of us. The fruits they produce look just like the fruits you and I produce. It's not until we inspect those fruits that we realize how rotten it is on the inside. We developed a tool to help identify and inspect the fruits that abusers produce. <br /><br />This tool helps to easily recognize high risk individuals. This is part one of a series where we cover 20 different fruits, or patterns abusers have. <br /><br />Fruits Tool:<br /><a href="https://docs.google.com/presentation/d/1kn6WatpsXl2E4mTbRvkZipG50v0oYmGRGUwJzTpx4wo/edit?usp=sharing" rel="noopener">https://docs.google.com/presentation/d/1kn6WatpsXl2E4mTbRvkZipG50v0oYmGRGUwJzTpx4wo/edit?usp=sharing</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2642</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuse,childabuse,churchabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,redflags,redflagsofabusers</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 208: Easiest Way to Spot a Child Abuser (Part 4)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-208-easiest-way-to-spot-a-child-abuser-part-4--50722055</link><description><![CDATA[There's a reason why people keep getting fooled by child abusers. They blend in really well with the rest of us. The fruits they produce look just like the fruits you and I produce. It's not until we inspect those fruits that we realize how rotten it is on the inside. We developed a tool to help identify and inspect the fruits that abusers produce. <br /><br />This tool helps to easily recognize high risk individuals. This is part one of a series where we cover 20 different fruits, or patterns abusers have. <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50722055</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 Jul 2022 13:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/50722055/tomp3_cc_episode_208_easiest_way_to_spot_a_child_abuser_part_4.mp3" length="39667525" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There's a reason why people keep getting fooled by child abusers. They blend in really well with the rest of us. The fruits they produce look just like the fruits you and I produce. It's not until we inspect those fruits that we realize how rotten it...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There's a reason why people keep getting fooled by child abusers. They blend in really well with the rest of us. The fruits they produce look just like the fruits you and I produce. It's not until we inspect those fruits that we realize how rotten it is on the inside. We developed a tool to help identify and inspect the fruits that abusers produce. <br /><br />This tool helps to easily recognize high risk individuals. This is part one of a series where we cover 20 different fruits, or patterns abusers have. <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2480</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childabuse,childabuser,churchabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,redflagbehavior,redflags</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 207:  Easiest Way to Spot a Child Abuser (Part 3)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-207-easiest-way-to-spot-a-child-abuser-part-3--50668825</link><description><![CDATA[There's a reason why people keep getting fooled by child abusers. They blend in really well with the rest of us. The fruits they produce look just like the fruits you and I produce. It's not until we inspect those fruits that we realize how rotten it is on the inside. We developed a tool to help identify and inspect the fruits that abusers produce. <br /><br />This tool helps to easily recognize high risk individuals. This is part one of a series where we cover 20 different fruits, or patterns abusers have. <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50668825</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 Jul 2022 17:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/50668825/episode_207.mp3" length="37600862" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There's a reason why people keep getting fooled by child abusers. They blend in really well with the rest of us. The fruits they produce look just like the fruits you and I produce. It's not until we inspect those fruits that we realize how rotten it...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There's a reason why people keep getting fooled by child abusers. They blend in really well with the rest of us. The fruits they produce look just like the fruits you and I produce. It's not until we inspect those fruits that we realize how rotten it is on the inside. We developed a tool to help identify and inspect the fruits that abusers produce. <br /><br />This tool helps to easily recognize high risk individuals. This is part one of a series where we cover 20 different fruits, or patterns abusers have. <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2351</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,metoo,redflagbehaviors,redflags,signsofabusers</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 206: Easiest Way to Spot a Child Abuser (Part 2)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-206-easiest-way-to-spot-a-child-abuser-part-2--50497764</link><description><![CDATA[There's a reason why people keep getting fooled by child abusers. They blend in really well with the rest of us. The fruits they produce look just like the fruits you and I produce. It's not until we inspect those fruits that we realize how rotten it is on the inside. We developed a tool to help identify and inspect the fruits that abusers produce. <br /><br />This tool helps to easily recognize high risk individuals. This is part one of a series where we cover 20 different fruits, or patterns abusers have. <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50497764</guid><pubDate>Thu, 07 Jul 2022 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/50497764/episode_206.mp3" length="43619474" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There's a reason why people keep getting fooled by child abusers. They blend in really well with the rest of us. The fruits they produce look just like the fruits you and I produce. It's not until we inspect those fruits that we realize how rotten it...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There's a reason why people keep getting fooled by child abusers. They blend in really well with the rest of us. The fruits they produce look just like the fruits you and I produce. It's not until we inspect those fruits that we realize how rotten it is on the inside. We developed a tool to help identify and inspect the fruits that abusers produce. <br /><br />This tool helps to easily recognize high risk individuals. This is part one of a series where we cover 20 different fruits, or patterns abusers have. <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2727</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childabuse,churchabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,redflags</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 205 Easiest Way to Spot a Child Abuser (Part 1)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-205-easiest-way-to-spot-a-child-abuser-part-1--50411587</link><description><![CDATA[There's a reason why people keep getting fooled by child abusers. They blend in really well with the rest of us. The fruits they produce look just like the fruits you and I produce. It's not until we inspect those fruits that we realize how rotten it is on the inside. We developed a tool to help identify and inspect the fruits that abusers produce. <br /><br />This tool helps to easily recognize high risk individuals. This is part one of a series where we cover 20 different fruits, or patterns abusers have. <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50411587</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jun 2022 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/50411587/episode_205_easiest_way_to_spot_a_child_abuser_part_1.mp3" length="71813362" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There's a reason why people keep getting fooled by child abusers. They blend in really well with the rest of us. The fruits they produce look just like the fruits you and I produce. It's not until we inspect those fruits that we realize how rotten it...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There's a reason why people keep getting fooled by child abusers. They blend in really well with the rest of us. The fruits they produce look just like the fruits you and I produce. It's not until we inspect those fruits that we realize how rotten it is on the inside. We developed a tool to help identify and inspect the fruits that abusers produce. <br /><br />This tool helps to easily recognize high risk individuals. This is part one of a series where we cover 20 different fruits, or patterns abusers have. <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2147</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childabuse,childpredators,churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,metoo,redflags,spottingabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 204: How the Bible Describes Wolves (and It's Not Nice)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-204-how-the-bible-describes-wolves-and-it-s-not-nice--50224255</link><description><![CDATA[The Bible describes a class of people who have not, do not, and will not ever change. It's an impossibility. Their hearts have been so hardened that they have zero desire to change. Jesus says that a bad tree CANNOT produce good fruit. In this episode, we share scriptures that speak to this. And there are many of them. Wolves are not sheep, plain and simple. When we identify them, the message is universal--avoid them! <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50224255</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Jun 2022 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/50224255/episode_204.mp3" length="40605988" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The Bible describes a class of people who have not, do not, and will not ever change. It's an impossibility. Their hearts have been so hardened that they have zero desire to change. Jesus says that a bad tree CANNOT produce good fruit. In this...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The Bible describes a class of people who have not, do not, and will not ever change. It's an impossibility. Their hearts have been so hardened that they have zero desire to change. Jesus says that a bad tree CANNOT produce good fruit. In this episode, we share scriptures that speak to this. And there are many of them. Wolves are not sheep, plain and simple. When we identify them, the message is universal--avoid them! <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2538</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childabuse,churchabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,metoo,wolves,wolvesinsheepsclothing</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 203: Abusers Don't Change (The Bible Says So)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-203-abusers-don-t-change-the-bible-says-so--50139011</link><description><![CDATA[Abusers will never change. A person who oppresses innocent people for their own pleasure is warped. The Bible repeatedly refers to them as wolves. Wolves don't change, because they can't change. This episode kicks off a series on how to positively recognize and identify a wolf in sheep's clothing. <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50139011</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Jun 2022 17:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/50139011/episode_203.mp3" length="32676049" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Abusers will never change. A person who oppresses innocent people for their own pleasure is warped. The Bible repeatedly refers to them as wolves. Wolves don't change, because they can't change. This episode kicks off a series on how to positively...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Abusers will never change. A person who oppresses innocent people for their own pleasure is warped. The Bible repeatedly refers to them as wolves. Wolves don't change, because they can't change. This episode kicks off a series on how to positively recognize and identify a wolf in sheep's clothing. <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2043</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childabuse,churchabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,metoo,wolves</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 202: Pastor John Lowe II Confronted By Woman He Raped When She Was 16</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-202-pastor-john-lowe-ii-confronted-by-woman-he-raped-when-she-was-16--50041144</link><description><![CDATA["I was just 16 when you took my virginity on your office floor. Do you remember that?" Those are the words from Bobbi Gephart, who confronted her abuser in front of his congregation after he gave a "confession" of an "affair" some 20 years ago. John Lowe II lied on stage, telling his church that he had an "affair," leaving out an important detail--it was no affair at all. Instead, he raped a 16 year old girl and abused her for years. <br /><br />This is a case-in-point that survivors of abuse have more power than their abusers give them credit for. Lowe was completely blindsided, not expecting his victim to take the stage after his "confession." <br /><br />Full video of the confrontation:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/maisey.cook.9/videos/325339683012147" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/maisey.cook.9/videos/325339683012147</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50041144</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Jun 2022 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/50041144/episode_203.mp3" length="27715291" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>"I was just 16 when you took my virginity on your office floor. Do you remember that?" Those are the words from Bobbi Gephart, who confronted her abuser in front of his congregation after he gave a "confession" of an "affair" some 20 years ago. John...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA["I was just 16 when you took my virginity on your office floor. Do you remember that?" Those are the words from Bobbi Gephart, who confronted her abuser in front of his congregation after he gave a "confession" of an "affair" some 20 years ago. John Lowe II lied on stage, telling his church that he had an "affair," leaving out an important detail--it was no affair at all. Instead, he raped a 16 year old girl and abused her for years. <br /><br />This is a case-in-point that survivors of abuse have more power than their abusers give them credit for. Lowe was completely blindsided, not expecting his victim to take the stage after his "confession." <br /><br />Full video of the confrontation:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/maisey.cook.9/videos/325339683012147" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/maisey.cook.9/videos/325339683012147</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Support us on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a> <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1733</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusivepastor,churchabuse,churchresponsetoabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,metoo</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4c6de7b3e734c4313000e47f2e55b162.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 201: SBC Secret Database Proves Leaders Never Cared About Victims</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-201-sbc-secret-database-proves-leaders-never-cared-about-victims--49950560</link><description><![CDATA[It keeps getting worse and worse for the SBC. The more we learn, the more we realize it is reckless at best and, at worst, completely incapable of change. After publicly claiming that it was impossible to create a database, we now know that it had it's own secret list of predator pastors all along. <br /><br />The SBC has a long road ahead, but honestly we're not convinced that it will change. We'll give our reasons why we think that, and give our opinion on what it will take to actually begin to change this broken culture of abuse and cover-ups. <br /><br />Houston Chronicle Timeline of Tuesday's meeting:<br /><a href="https://www.houstonchronicle.com/news/investigations/article/Southern-Baptist-executive-committee-to-meet-to-17194690.php?utm_campaign=CMS%20Sharing%20Tools%20" rel="noopener">https://www.houstonchronicle.com/news/investigations/article/Southern-Baptist-executive-committee-to-meet-to-17194690.php?utm_campaign=CMS%20Sharing%20Tools%20</a>(Premium)&utm_source=t.co&utm_medium=referral<br /><br />Christianity Today article:<br /><a href="https://www.christianitytoday.com/news/2022/may/southern-baptist-abuse-investigation-sbc-ec-legal-survivors.html" rel="noopener">https://www.christianitytoday.com/news/2022/may/southern-baptist-abuse-investigation-sbc-ec-legal-survivors.html</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49950560</guid><pubDate>Thu, 26 May 2022 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49950560/episode_201.mp3" length="31339415" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It keeps getting worse and worse for the SBC. The more we learn, the more we realize it is reckless at best and, at worst, completely incapable of change. After publicly claiming that it was impossible to create a database, we now know that it had...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It keeps getting worse and worse for the SBC. The more we learn, the more we realize it is reckless at best and, at worst, completely incapable of change. After publicly claiming that it was impossible to create a database, we now know that it had it's own secret list of predator pastors all along. <br /><br />The SBC has a long road ahead, but honestly we're not convinced that it will change. We'll give our reasons why we think that, and give our opinion on what it will take to actually begin to change this broken culture of abuse and cover-ups. <br /><br />Houston Chronicle Timeline of Tuesday's meeting:<br /><a href="https://www.houstonchronicle.com/news/investigations/article/Southern-Baptist-executive-committee-to-meet-to-17194690.php?utm_campaign=CMS%20Sharing%20Tools%20" rel="noopener">https://www.houstonchronicle.com/news/investigations/article/Southern-Baptist-executive-committee-to-meet-to-17194690.php?utm_campaign=CMS%20Sharing%20Tools%20</a>(Premium)&utm_source=t.co&utm_medium=referral<br /><br />Christianity Today article:<br /><a href="https://www.christianitytoday.com/news/2022/may/southern-baptist-abuse-investigation-sbc-ec-legal-survivors.html" rel="noopener">https://www.christianitytoday.com/news/2022/may/southern-baptist-abuse-investigation-sbc-ec-legal-survivors.html</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1959</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,metoo,sbc,sbcabuse,stopabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0657193dd6b5729ee58009814660f440.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 200: Top 20 Lessons We Learned Podcasting</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-200-top-20-lessons-we-learned-podcasting--49860012</link><description><![CDATA[This marks our 200th episode! This is a huge milestone for us, so we decided to share our top 20 lessons we've learned from podcasting over the past few years. We've cried and laughed a lot over the course of 200 episodes. But most importantly, we've met many people who have taught us so much. We wanted to share those lessons with you! <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49860012</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 May 2022 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49860012/episode_200.mp3" length="33206439" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This marks our 200th episode! This is a huge milestone for us, so we decided to share our top 20 lessons we've learned from podcasting over the past few years. We've cried and laughed a lot over the course of 200 episodes. But most importantly, we've...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This marks our 200th episode! This is a huge milestone for us, so we decided to share our top 20 lessons we've learned from podcasting over the past few years. We've cried and laughed a lot over the course of 200 episodes. But most importantly, we've met many people who have taught us so much. We wanted to share those lessons with you! <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2076</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuseawareness,childabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,metoo</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode199: Husband Touches Minor and This Church Lets Him off the Hook</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode199-husband-touches-minor-and-this-church-lets-him-off-the-hook--49672765</link><description><![CDATA[We need to learn from the mistakes of others. Oftentimes we feel like we're living in the movie Groundhog Day. We see the same stories repeat themselves over and over again. A story that one of our patrons sent our way from The Dr. John Delony Show is no exception. A wife and mother to a young child called in to say that her husband had inappropriately touched a 13 year old girl at church. What unfolded in the conversation was both mortifying and predictable. Not only did the church fail to report the abuse, but they let the abuser control the narrative the entire way. <br /><br />These gross injustices must be corrected. We've got to stop putting a microphone into the hands of the abuser and start calling the police. We HAVE to turn the tables on the abusers and stop making is so darn easy for them to abuse our children. <br /><br />In this episode, we talk about the four strikes this church had and what we need to do to correct these poor responses. <br /><br />The Dr. John Delony Show full episode:<br /><a href="https://youtu.be/sxSMr8PW6wM" rel="noopener">https://youtu.be/sxSMr8PW6wM</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49672765</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 May 2022 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49672765/episode199.mp3" length="35629766" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We need to learn from the mistakes of others. Oftentimes we feel like we're living in the movie Groundhog Day. We see the same stories repeat themselves over and over again. A story that one of our patrons sent our way from The Dr. John Delony Show is...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We need to learn from the mistakes of others. Oftentimes we feel like we're living in the movie Groundhog Day. We see the same stories repeat themselves over and over again. A story that one of our patrons sent our way from The Dr. John Delony Show is no exception. A wife and mother to a young child called in to say that her husband had inappropriately touched a 13 year old girl at church. What unfolded in the conversation was both mortifying and predictable. Not only did the church fail to report the abuse, but they let the abuser control the narrative the entire way. <br /><br />These gross injustices must be corrected. We've got to stop putting a microphone into the hands of the abuser and start calling the police. We HAVE to turn the tables on the abusers and stop making is so darn easy for them to abuse our children. <br /><br />In this episode, we talk about the four strikes this church had and what we need to do to correct these poor responses. <br /><br />The Dr. John Delony Show full episode:<br /><a href="https://youtu.be/sxSMr8PW6wM" rel="noopener">https://youtu.be/sxSMr8PW6wM</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2227</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childabuse,churchabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,metoo,pedophiles</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/489211f86d34bdac4ce89ff033aab787.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 198: Gothard's Girls- Charis Barker's Experience as a Survivor</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-198-gothard-s-girls-charis-barker-s-experience-as-a-survivor--49584835</link><description><![CDATA[As a 16 year old girl, Charis Barker had no idea that her world was about to change forever. As an obedient daughter of followers of Gothard, she dreamed of one day sitting at the feet of him. Her wish came true and, to her surprise, Gothard singled her out and called her on stage. He told her that she had "bright eyes," a term of endearment that he used to let someone know that they were "godly." He urged her later that night to leave with him to work for him back at Headquarters in Chicago. <br /><br />Charis and her parents decided she would finish high school then she would go. As a 17 year old, she left home for Chicago and worked directly for Gothard. The abuse began immediately. In this episode, Charis talks about different ways Gothard abused her, how she learned of other victims, and how they banded together to expose the evils of this man. <br /><br />Response to Institute in Basic Life Principles: <br /><a href="https://medium.com/" rel="noopener">https://medium.com/</a>@frostyrach/three-former-plaintiffs-respond-to-the-institute-in-basic-life-principles-978d88d15872<br /><br />Gavin DeBecker's book, The Gift of Fear:<br /><a href="https://amzn.to/3KkPptI" rel="noopener">https://amzn.to/3KkPptI</a><br /><br />Wade Mullen's book, Something's Not Right: <br /><a href="https://amzn.to/3EVx31d" rel="noopener">https://amzn.to/3EVx31d</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49584835</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 Apr 2022 17:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49584835/episode_198.mp3" length="62294308" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>As a 16 year old girl, Charis Barker had no idea that her world was about to change forever. As an obedient daughter of followers of Gothard, she dreamed of one day sitting at the feet of him. Her wish came true and, to her surprise, Gothard singled...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[As a 16 year old girl, Charis Barker had no idea that her world was about to change forever. As an obedient daughter of followers of Gothard, she dreamed of one day sitting at the feet of him. Her wish came true and, to her surprise, Gothard singled her out and called her on stage. He told her that she had "bright eyes," a term of endearment that he used to let someone know that they were "godly." He urged her later that night to leave with him to work for him back at Headquarters in Chicago. <br /><br />Charis and her parents decided she would finish high school then she would go. As a 17 year old, she left home for Chicago and worked directly for Gothard. The abuse began immediately. In this episode, Charis talks about different ways Gothard abused her, how she learned of other victims, and how they banded together to expose the evils of this man. <br /><br />Response to Institute in Basic Life Principles: <br /><a href="https://medium.com/" rel="noopener">https://medium.com/</a>@frostyrach/three-former-plaintiffs-respond-to-the-institute-in-basic-life-principles-978d88d15872<br /><br />Gavin DeBecker's book, The Gift of Fear:<br /><a href="https://amzn.to/3KkPptI" rel="noopener">https://amzn.to/3KkPptI</a><br /><br />Wade Mullen's book, Something's Not Right: <br /><a href="https://amzn.to/3EVx31d" rel="noopener">https://amzn.to/3EVx31d</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3894</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>billgothard,churchabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,duggards,gothardabuse,gothardvictims,iblp,jimmyhinton,metoo</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6502315749f2afc99b91baea5173e67d.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 197: Churches Guarantee Failure When They Defend Abusers</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-197-churches-guarantee-failure-when-they-defend-abusers--49505408</link><description><![CDATA[Why are so many churches still insistent on defending abusers? They sit in support of abusers in the courtroom. They tell survivors to move on. They develop policies that protect the abuser. They put them in positions of authority. And they develop "care teams" for the abuser. <br /><br />In this episode, we share what we believe is the #1 contributor to empowering abusers and catapulting abuse to a whole other level. Fortunately, some churches are getting the message and are shifting this culture but we need many more to join the ranks if we are going to extinguish the flames of abuse. <br /><br /> Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49505408</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 Apr 2022 17:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49505408/episode_197.mp3" length="32327053" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Why are so many churches still insistent on defending abusers? They sit in support of abusers in the courtroom. They tell survivors to move on. They develop policies that protect the abuser. They put them in positions of authority. And they develop...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why are so many churches still insistent on defending abusers? They sit in support of abusers in the courtroom. They tell survivors to move on. They develop policies that protect the abuser. They put them in positions of authority. And they develop "care teams" for the abuser. <br /><br />In this episode, we share what we believe is the #1 contributor to empowering abusers and catapulting abuse to a whole other level. Fortunately, some churches are getting the message and are shifting this culture but we need many more to join the ranks if we are going to extinguish the flames of abuse. <br /><br /> Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2021</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childabuse,churchabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,enablers,enablingabuse,jimmyhinton,metoo,sexoffenders</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 196: The Thing That All Successful Advocates Have in Common</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-196-the-thing-that-all-successful-advocates-have-in-common--49436475</link><description><![CDATA[All great advocates have one thing in common. Just a little hint, it's not that they have a big platform. Some of the best advocates have no platform online. In fact, they may not be known beyond their local community. So what is it that makes advocates successful? We unpack all that and more in this episode. <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49436475</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 Apr 2022 17:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49436475/episode_196.mp3" length="37211324" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>All great advocates have one thing in common. Just a little hint, it's not that they have a big platform. Some of the best advocates have no platform online. In fact, they may not be known beyond their local community. So what is it that makes...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[All great advocates have one thing in common. Just a little hint, it's not that they have a big platform. Some of the best advocates have no platform online. In fact, they may not be known beyond their local community. So what is it that makes advocates successful? We unpack all that and more in this episode. <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2326</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childabuse,childabuseprevention,churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,metoo,stoppingabuse,victimadvocates</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2cff1f6ca1c6327e2b808d02e5129f49.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 195: Why Churches Love to Bully Survivors</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-195-why-churches-love-to-bully-survivors--49353017</link><description><![CDATA[You may have noticed that we deleted an episode. This was thanks to a church threatening a guest we had on and we all decided it was safest for her if we just removed the episode. Sadly, this is common practice for churches. They routinely bully, intimidate, threaten, and scare survivors into silence. And all of this is "in the name of God." <br /><br />In this episode, we address this plague that is within the diseased church culture. We also offer these 5 tips for churches to avoid these abusive techniques: <br />1.  Believe survivors<br />2.  Let survivors tell their story, even if it makes you (the church) look bad<br />3.  Ask what you can do to do better<br />4.  Ask for the survivor's help<br />5.  Ask what the survivor needs<br /><br />Just doing these 5 things would be a complete game changer both for the church and for the survivor. This isn't rocket science. So why are so many churches STILL getting it so wrong? <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49353017</guid><pubDate>Thu, 07 Apr 2022 17:00:05 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49353017/episode_195.mp3" length="36726073" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You may have noticed that we deleted an episode. This was thanks to a church threatening a guest we had on and we all decided it was safest for her if we just removed the episode. Sadly, this is common practice for churches. They routinely bully,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You may have noticed that we deleted an episode. This was thanks to a church threatening a guest we had on and we all decided it was safest for her if we just removed the episode. Sadly, this is common practice for churches. They routinely bully, intimidate, threaten, and scare survivors into silence. And all of this is "in the name of God." <br /><br />In this episode, we address this plague that is within the diseased church culture. We also offer these 5 tips for churches to avoid these abusive techniques: <br />1.  Believe survivors<br />2.  Let survivors tell their story, even if it makes you (the church) look bad<br />3.  Ask what you can do to do better<br />4.  Ask for the survivor's help<br />5.  Ask what the survivor needs<br /><br />Just doing these 5 things would be a complete game changer both for the church and for the survivor. This isn't rocket science. So why are so many churches STILL getting it so wrong? <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2296</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusivechurches,churchabuse,churchbullies,churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,metoo</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e843f2e2fbc6630bbbaf2adab1b18b0f.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 193: The Best Way to Protect Kids From Abuse</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-193-the-best-way-to-protect-kids-from-abuse--49178684</link><description><![CDATA[SO many children were not, and STILL are not, able to be protected from abusers. What is the best line of defense against an abuser? This is a very hotly debated subject. Some believe that adults should have all the responsibility for protecting innocent people. Those in this camp often believe that teaching a child to protect him or herself puts too much pressure on children. <br /><br />Others believe that we should teach children to protect themselves. While we believe that children should be educated, we have a long way to go in teaching adults to listen to disclosures from children. Often kids are not believed or adults will find some way to fail to protect them. We have a long road to go. In this episode we lay out what we believe is the best course of action. <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49178684</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Mar 2022 17:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49178684/episode_193.mp3" length="31747761" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>SO many children were not, and STILL are not, able to be protected from abusers. What is the best line of defense against an abuser? This is a very hotly debated subject. Some believe that adults should have all the responsibility for protecting...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[SO many children were not, and STILL are not, able to be protected from abusers. What is the best line of defense against an abuser? This is a very hotly debated subject. Some believe that adults should have all the responsibility for protecting innocent people. Those in this camp often believe that teaching a child to protect him or herself puts too much pressure on children. <br /><br />Others believe that we should teach children to protect themselves. While we believe that children should be educated, we have a long way to go in teaching adults to listen to disclosures from children. Often kids are not believed or adults will find some way to fail to protect them. We have a long road to go. In this episode we lay out what we believe is the best course of action. <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1985</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuseawareness,childabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,metoo,protectingkids</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e578d10580e9d7de75dd6126d09ce8b1.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 192: Should Spouses Report Abuse? It's Complicated</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-192-should-spouses-report-abuse-it-s-complicated--49093536</link><description><![CDATA[We know that mandated reporters must always report suspicions of abuse of a minor. But what about spouses of abusers? Oftentimes there is no "smoking gun" that creates a reportable incident, but there are oddities and red flags. Other times there may be a disclosure by a child of abuse but the fear of harassment, intimidation, or even death will keep spouses from reporting abusers. <br /><br />It gets a lot more complicated when the person who may be in the know is the spouse of the abuser. For decades, Clara didn't know that her husband was an abuser. It wasn't until she began to separate emotionally from him that she knew how manipulative he was. Then when her youngest daughter disclosed abuse to us, it became crystal clear. There was no question that he did it. We ended up reporting him, and he is serving a life sentence in prison for sex crimes against children. <br /><br />In this episode, Clara offers insight as someone who was the former wife of a serial abuser. These are important tips for spouses who are trapped in a high risk, high tension marriage or relationship. <br /><br />If your spouse is exhibiting certain behaviors that are troubling but you don't know how to properly interpret them, see this helpful checklist by Brenda Campbell: <br /><a href="http://brendafindingelysium.blogspot.com/p/you-might-be-married-to-pedophile-if.html?m=1" rel="noopener">http://brendafindingelysium.blogspot.com/p/you-might-be-married-to-pedophile-if.html?m=1</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49093536</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Mar 2022 17:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49093536/episode_192.mp3" length="36473626" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We know that mandated reporters must always report suspicions of abuse of a minor. But what about spouses of abusers? Oftentimes there is no "smoking gun" that creates a reportable incident, but there are oddities and red flags. Other times there may...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We know that mandated reporters must always report suspicions of abuse of a minor. But what about spouses of abusers? Oftentimes there is no "smoking gun" that creates a reportable incident, but there are oddities and red flags. Other times there may be a disclosure by a child of abuse but the fear of harassment, intimidation, or even death will keep spouses from reporting abusers. <br /><br />It gets a lot more complicated when the person who may be in the know is the spouse of the abuser. For decades, Clara didn't know that her husband was an abuser. It wasn't until she began to separate emotionally from him that she knew how manipulative he was. Then when her youngest daughter disclosed abuse to us, it became crystal clear. There was no question that he did it. We ended up reporting him, and he is serving a life sentence in prison for sex crimes against children. <br /><br />In this episode, Clara offers insight as someone who was the former wife of a serial abuser. These are important tips for spouses who are trapped in a high risk, high tension marriage or relationship. <br /><br />If your spouse is exhibiting certain behaviors that are troubling but you don't know how to properly interpret them, see this helpful checklist by Brenda Campbell: <br /><a href="http://brendafindingelysium.blogspot.com/p/you-might-be-married-to-pedophile-if.html?m=1" rel="noopener">http://brendafindingelysium.blogspot.com/p/you-might-be-married-to-pedophile-if.html?m=1</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2280</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,failuretoreport,jimmyhinton,mandatedreporters,mandatedreporting,metoo,reportabuse,spouseofabuser</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/97be81a186e6867ddb694b9e1c9524de.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 191: 5 People Jailed for Not Reporting Abuse</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-191-5-people-jailed-for-not-reporting-abuse--49016232</link><description><![CDATA[When officials at Midland Christian School in Texas were told about a 9th grade boy being bullied and sexually assaulted with a baseball bat they did nothing. Superintendent Jared Lee told other staffers to investigate instead of calling the police. As a result two coaches and three administrators were arrested and charged with failure to report and intent to conceal neglect or abuse. <br /><br />Failure to report has very serious consequences. This is because victims are cheated out of getting the help they need and abusers run free. When this story broke, it didn't take long for Christians to blast news outlets, calling them fake news and saying there is no point in reporting this kind of "news." Some readers argued that people are innocent until proven guilty, so reporters are just "throwing stones" at these faculty members. <br /><br />In this episode we talk about the need to report and how these arrests could be a demonstration of more of what's to come when mandated reporters cover up abuse. <br /><br />NBC News story: <br /><a href="https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/5-officials-christian-school-texas-charged-report-alleged-sexual-assau-rcna16813" rel="noopener">https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/5-officials-christian-school-texas-charged-report-alleged-sexual-assau-rcna16813</a><br /><br />The Christian Chronicle Story: <br /><a href="https://christianchronicle.org/officials-at-christian-school-in-texas-charged-with-failing-to-report-students-sexual-assault/" rel="noopener">https://christianchronicle.org/officials-at-christian-school-in-texas-charged-with-failing-to-report-students-sexual-assault/</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49016232</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Mar 2022 18:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49016232/episode_191.mp3" length="34060747" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>When officials at Midland Christian School in Texas were told about a 9th grade boy being bullied and sexually assaulted with a baseball bat they did nothing. Superintendent Jared Lee told other staffers to investigate instead of calling the police....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[When officials at Midland Christian School in Texas were told about a 9th grade boy being bullied and sexually assaulted with a baseball bat they did nothing. Superintendent Jared Lee told other staffers to investigate instead of calling the police. As a result two coaches and three administrators were arrested and charged with failure to report and intent to conceal neglect or abuse. <br /><br />Failure to report has very serious consequences. This is because victims are cheated out of getting the help they need and abusers run free. When this story broke, it didn't take long for Christians to blast news outlets, calling them fake news and saying there is no point in reporting this kind of "news." Some readers argued that people are innocent until proven guilty, so reporters are just "throwing stones" at these faculty members. <br /><br />In this episode we talk about the need to report and how these arrests could be a demonstration of more of what's to come when mandated reporters cover up abuse. <br /><br />NBC News story: <br /><a href="https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/5-officials-christian-school-texas-charged-report-alleged-sexual-assau-rcna16813" rel="noopener">https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/5-officials-christian-school-texas-charged-report-alleged-sexual-assau-rcna16813</a><br /><br />The Christian Chronicle Story: <br /><a href="https://christianchronicle.org/officials-at-christian-school-in-texas-charged-with-failing-to-report-students-sexual-assault/" rel="noopener">https://christianchronicle.org/officials-at-christian-school-in-texas-charged-with-failing-to-report-students-sexual-assault/</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2129</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,mandatedreporters,mandatedreporting,metoo,reportabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 190: How Do I Make It Another Day?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-190-how-do-i-make-it-another-day--48857450</link><description><![CDATA[Life is moving fast. We experience life and death in our families, and sometimes simultaneously. In this episode we talk about the highs and lows we're currently experiencing in our family and how we manage it all. Many survivors experience so many ups and downs. This is perfectly normal and doesn't make anyone weak. <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48857450</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Feb 2022 18:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/48857450/episode_190.mp3" length="32031137" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Life is moving fast. We experience life and death in our families, and sometimes simultaneously. In this episode we talk about the highs and lows we're currently experiencing in our family and how we manage it all. Many survivors experience so many...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Life is moving fast. We experience life and death in our families, and sometimes simultaneously. In this episode we talk about the highs and lows we're currently experiencing in our family and how we manage it all. Many survivors experience so many ups and downs. This is perfectly normal and doesn't make anyone weak. <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2002</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childabuse,churchabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,metoo,toughlife</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 189: Do Abusers Really Groom Their Victims?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-189-do-abusers-really-groom-their-victims--48768392</link><description><![CDATA[We hear all the time that abusers "groom" their victims and the communities around them. But is this term accurate for what they are really doing? We've been talking about abusers testing their victims and the people around them for years. We finally explain why in this episode. Terminology is important. <br /><br />Here is a blog post I wrote on this subject: <br /><a href="https://jimmyhinton.org/why-i-talk-about-abusers-testing-instead-of-grooming/" rel="noopener">https://jimmyhinton.org/why-i-talk-about-abusers-testing-instead-of-grooming/</a><br /><br />Champions of Illusion Part 1 (With Drs. Macknik and Martinez-Conde)<br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QXgRO8g95sw" rel="noopener">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QXgRO8g95sw</a><br /><br />Champions of Illusion Part 2<br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xm4B8eyDHGU" rel="noopener">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xm4B8eyDHGU</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48768392</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Feb 2022 18:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/48768392/episode_189.mp3" length="38341903" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We hear all the time that abusers "groom" their victims and the communities around them. But is this term accurate for what they are really doing? We've been talking about abusers testing their victims and the people around them for years. We finally...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We hear all the time that abusers "groom" their victims and the communities around them. But is this term accurate for what they are really doing? We've been talking about abusers testing their victims and the people around them for years. We finally explain why in this episode. Terminology is important. <br /><br />Here is a blog post I wrote on this subject: <br /><a href="https://jimmyhinton.org/why-i-talk-about-abusers-testing-instead-of-grooming/" rel="noopener">https://jimmyhinton.org/why-i-talk-about-abusers-testing-instead-of-grooming/</a><br /><br />Champions of Illusion Part 1 (With Drs. Macknik and Martinez-Conde)<br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QXgRO8g95sw" rel="noopener">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QXgRO8g95sw</a><br /><br />Champions of Illusion Part 2<br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xm4B8eyDHGU" rel="noopener">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xm4B8eyDHGU</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2397</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,clarahinton,grooming,howabusersgroom,jimmyhinton,metoo,testing</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f231d1e1e06c50fd276f1d999426ee91.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 188:  Megachurch Pastor Restores Himself to the Pulpit After Infidelity</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-188-megachurch-pastor-restores-himself-to-the-pulpit-after-infidelity--48676002</link><description><![CDATA[Tavner Smith is pastor of Venu Church, one of the fastest growing mega church movements in the US. After alleged infidelity with a staffer was discovered, others on staff urged him to step down for a year until they could sort out details. Smith refused, saying that he would be back in the pulpit by February. After only six weeks of him stepping away from the pulpit, he placed himself back into his preaching position. <br /><br />In the meantime, eight staff members resigned and several other people left the church, siting a toxic environment with zero accountability. In this episode, we talk about the toxic church culture that enables pastors (and other leaders) to have the power to restore themselves while, ironically, having the power to kick other members out of the church. This broken system is what allows leaders to control the narrative and keep abusing. <br /><br />The Roys Report article: TN Megachurch Pastor Returns After Six-Week Absence for Alleged Adultery<br /><a href="https://julieroys.com/tn-pastor-returns-pulpit-absence-alleged-adultery/" rel="noopener">https://julieroys.com/tn-pastor-returns-pulpit-absence-alleged-adultery/</a><br /><br />The Roys Report article: Pastor’s Alleged Infidelity Causes Staff Exodus from Venue Church<br /><a href="https://julieroys.com/pastors-alleged-infidelity-staff-exodus-venue-church/" rel="noopener">https://julieroys.com/pastors-alleged-infidelity-staff-exodus-venue-church/</a><br /><br />Dr. Robert Caildini's book, The Psychology of Persuasion: <br /><a href="https://amzn.to/3gvmPcG" rel="noopener">https://amzn.to/3gvmPcG</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48676002</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Feb 2022 18:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/48676002/episode_188.mp3" length="34614961" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Tavner Smith is pastor of Venu Church, one of the fastest growing mega church movements in the US. After alleged infidelity with a staffer was discovered, others on staff urged him to step down for a year until they could sort out details. Smith...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Tavner Smith is pastor of Venu Church, one of the fastest growing mega church movements in the US. After alleged infidelity with a staffer was discovered, others on staff urged him to step down for a year until they could sort out details. Smith refused, saying that he would be back in the pulpit by February. After only six weeks of him stepping away from the pulpit, he placed himself back into his preaching position. <br /><br />In the meantime, eight staff members resigned and several other people left the church, siting a toxic environment with zero accountability. In this episode, we talk about the toxic church culture that enables pastors (and other leaders) to have the power to restore themselves while, ironically, having the power to kick other members out of the church. This broken system is what allows leaders to control the narrative and keep abusing. <br /><br />The Roys Report article: TN Megachurch Pastor Returns After Six-Week Absence for Alleged Adultery<br /><a href="https://julieroys.com/tn-pastor-returns-pulpit-absence-alleged-adultery/" rel="noopener">https://julieroys.com/tn-pastor-returns-pulpit-absence-alleged-adultery/</a><br /><br />The Roys Report article: Pastor’s Alleged Infidelity Causes Staff Exodus from Venue Church<br /><a href="https://julieroys.com/pastors-alleged-infidelity-staff-exodus-venue-church/" rel="noopener">https://julieroys.com/pastors-alleged-infidelity-staff-exodus-venue-church/</a><br /><br />Dr. Robert Caildini's book, The Psychology of Persuasion: <br /><a href="https://amzn.to/3gvmPcG" rel="noopener">https://amzn.to/3gvmPcG</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2164</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,metoo,pastorabuse,pastoralabuse,sexualabuse,spiritualabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 187:  Has Your Host Lost His Mind?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-187-has-your-host-lost-his-mind--48573965</link><description><![CDATA[Questions are pouring in. . . has Jimmy lost his mind? Won't you get frostbite? Why would you do this? So we decided to have a little fun with this episode and answer a lot of the questions we've been getting about what would possess your host to climb an ice fall and go swimming in an icy river. Hope you enjoy and, as always, stay warm!! <br /><br />Insights by Kari Leibowitz on her PhD. study on Norwegian people in winter:<br /><a href="https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2015/07/the-norwegian-town-where-the-sun-doesnt-rise/396746/" rel="noopener">https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2015/07/the-norwegian-town-where-the-sun-doesnt-rise/396746/</a><br /><br />Wim Hof (Ice Man) Brain Over Body Michigan Study: <br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YficBlvPwWQ" rel="noopener">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YficBlvPwWQ</a><br /><br />Wim Hof Influencing the Immune System: <br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A6jqaALpEFM" rel="noopener">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A6jqaALpEFM</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48573965</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Feb 2022 18:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/48573965/episode_187.mp3" length="27352084" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Questions are pouring in. . . has Jimmy lost his mind? Won't you get frostbite? Why would you do this? So we decided to have a little fun with this episode and answer a lot of the questions we've been getting about what would possess your host to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Questions are pouring in. . . has Jimmy lost his mind? Won't you get frostbite? Why would you do this? So we decided to have a little fun with this episode and answer a lot of the questions we've been getting about what would possess your host to climb an ice fall and go swimming in an icy river. Hope you enjoy and, as always, stay warm!! <br /><br />Insights by Kari Leibowitz on her PhD. study on Norwegian people in winter:<br /><a href="https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2015/07/the-norwegian-town-where-the-sun-doesnt-rise/396746/" rel="noopener">https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2015/07/the-norwegian-town-where-the-sun-doesnt-rise/396746/</a><br /><br />Wim Hof (Ice Man) Brain Over Body Michigan Study: <br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YficBlvPwWQ" rel="noopener">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YficBlvPwWQ</a><br /><br />Wim Hof Influencing the Immune System: <br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A6jqaALpEFM" rel="noopener">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A6jqaALpEFM</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1710</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/055c8dbc5c5a54e40323ba82b36ee2e8.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 186: Senator Book's Nude Photos Leaked and Sold</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-186-senator-book-s-nude-photos-leaked-and-sold--48470376</link><description><![CDATA[Lauren Book has been through a lot. As a child she was sexually abused for years by her female nanny. Lauren wrote about her experience in her book, "It's OK to Tell." Since then she has become a powerful voice in the advocacy community. Most recently, she won a seat in the Florida State Senate and is working hard to change laws. But those laws couldn't protect her from having her phone hacked and nude images stolen that were meant only for her husband's eyes. <br /><br />Not only were those images stolen, but the investigation revealed that they've been sold and circulated online since 2020. Lauren said that having this happen brought up so many things from her past and she would have ended her life if it hadn't been for her children. In this episode we talk about how vulnerable we all are, and what steps we can take to protect ourselves and children. Once these phots are online, they never disappear. Lauren knows this too well and is creating legislation that makes it a felony in Florida to steal someone's private photos and videos. <br /><br />Lauren Book's Memoire "It's OK To Tell"<br /><a href="https://amzn.to/3AwhXgF" rel="noopener">https://amzn.to/3AwhXgF</a><br /><br />Florida senator fights back over nude images stolen from her:<br /><a href="https://abcnews.go.com/Politics/wireStory/florida-senator-fights-back-nude-images-stolen-82458522" rel="noopener">https://abcnews.go.com/Politics/wireStory/florida-senator-fights-back-nude-images-stolen-82458522</a><br /><br />Holly Madison claims she was ‘afraid to leave’ the Playboy Mansion due to ‘mountain of revenge porn’:<br /><a href="https://www.foxnews.com/entertainment/holly-madison-afraid-leave-playboy-mansion-revenge-porn-secrets-of-playboy" rel="noopener">https://www.foxnews.com/entertainment/holly-madison-afraid-leave-playboy-mansion-revenge-porn-secrets-of-playboy</a><br /><br />Colorado deputy with OnlyFans account retires after being discovered by female officer:<br /><a href="https://www.foxnews.com/us/colorado-sheriffs-deputy-retires-30k-settlement-only-fans" rel="noopener">https://www.foxnews.com/us/colorado-sheriffs-deputy-retires-30k-settlement-only-fans</a><br /><br />'Everyone and their mum is on it': OnlyFans booms in popularity during the pandemic:<br /><a href="https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2020/dec/23/everyone-and-their-mum-is-on-it-onlyfans-boomed-in-popularity-during-the-pandemic" rel="noopener">https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2020/dec/23/everyone-and-their-mum-is-on-it-onlyfans-boomed-in-popularity-during-the-pandemic</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48470376</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Jan 2022 18:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/48470376/episode_186.mp3" length="32027376" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Lauren Book has been through a lot. As a child she was sexually abused for years by her female nanny. Lauren wrote about her experience in her book, "It's OK to Tell." Since then she has become a powerful voice in the advocacy community. Most...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Lauren Book has been through a lot. As a child she was sexually abused for years by her female nanny. Lauren wrote about her experience in her book, "It's OK to Tell." Since then she has become a powerful voice in the advocacy community. Most recently, she won a seat in the Florida State Senate and is working hard to change laws. But those laws couldn't protect her from having her phone hacked and nude images stolen that were meant only for her husband's eyes. <br /><br />Not only were those images stolen, but the investigation revealed that they've been sold and circulated online since 2020. Lauren said that having this happen brought up so many things from her past and she would have ended her life if it hadn't been for her children. In this episode we talk about how vulnerable we all are, and what steps we can take to protect ourselves and children. Once these phots are online, they never disappear. Lauren knows this too well and is creating legislation that makes it a felony in Florida to steal someone's private photos and videos. <br /><br />Lauren Book's Memoire "It's OK To Tell"<br /><a href="https://amzn.to/3AwhXgF" rel="noopener">https://amzn.to/3AwhXgF</a><br /><br />Florida senator fights back over nude images stolen from her:<br /><a href="https://abcnews.go.com/Politics/wireStory/florida-senator-fights-back-nude-images-stolen-82458522" rel="noopener">https://abcnews.go.com/Politics/wireStory/florida-senator-fights-back-nude-images-stolen-82458522</a><br /><br />Holly Madison claims she was ‘afraid to leave’ the Playboy Mansion due to ‘mountain of revenge porn’:<br /><a href="https://www.foxnews.com/entertainment/holly-madison-afraid-leave-playboy-mansion-revenge-porn-secrets-of-playboy" rel="noopener">https://www.foxnews.com/entertainment/holly-madison-afraid-leave-playboy-mansion-revenge-porn-secrets-of-playboy</a><br /><br />Colorado deputy with OnlyFans account retires after being discovered by female officer:<br /><a href="https://www.foxnews.com/us/colorado-sheriffs-deputy-retires-30k-settlement-only-fans" rel="noopener">https://www.foxnews.com/us/colorado-sheriffs-deputy-retires-30k-settlement-only-fans</a><br /><br />'Everyone and their mum is on it': OnlyFans booms in popularity during the pandemic:<br /><a href="https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2020/dec/23/everyone-and-their-mum-is-on-it-onlyfans-boomed-in-popularity-during-the-pandemic" rel="noopener">https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2020/dec/23/everyone-and-their-mum-is-on-it-onlyfans-boomed-in-popularity-during-the-pandemic</a><br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2002</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,laurenbook,metoo,onlinetrafficking,sextortion</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/d094fb16c04b4b88621eb94ed182f8b8.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 185: How To Handle a Spiritual Abuser</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-185-how-to-handle-a-spiritual-abuser--48375503</link><description><![CDATA[Spiritual abuse is rampant. Does the church have a ripe environment to produce or enable narcissistic leaders? Some statistics show that narcissism is rising pretty dramatically, and recent investigations show the epidemic of abuse in the church. <br /><br />So how do we handle spiritual abusers? In this episode we explore different ways to shut down an abuser and protect our own boundaries. <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48375503</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Jan 2022 18:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/48375503/episode_185.mp3" length="38599366" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Spiritual abuse is rampant. Does the church have a ripe environment to produce or enable narcissistic leaders? Some statistics show that narcissism is rising pretty dramatically, and recent investigations show the epidemic of abuse in the church....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Spiritual abuse is rampant. Does the church have a ripe environment to produce or enable narcissistic leaders? Some statistics show that narcissism is rising pretty dramatically, and recent investigations show the epidemic of abuse in the church. <br /><br />So how do we handle spiritual abusers? In this episode we explore different ways to shut down an abuser and protect our own boundaries. <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2413</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuseinthechurch,churchabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,howtohandleanabuser,jimmyhinton,metoo,spiritualabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 184:  Pastor Kicks Visitor Out for Requesting Prayer | Spiritual Abuse</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-184-pastor-kicks-visitor-out-for-requesting-prayer-spiritual-abuse--48282819</link><description><![CDATA[Spiritual abuse is rampant, and not many religious leaders are talking about it. It's also VERY hard to define spiritual abuse in our legal system and that, combined with religious freedom, makes it nearly impossible to convict people for spiritual abuse. In this episode, we define what spiritual abuse is (or at least what it includes) and talk about the insignificance of spiritual abusers. <br /><br />We'll spend a couple episodes talking about spiritual abuse and how to deflate these abusers. The church needs to start standing up to these abusers and stop giving them power. <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Become a patron of the podcast: <br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48282819</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Jan 2022 18:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/48282819/episode_184.mp3" length="37755924" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Spiritual abuse is rampant, and not many religious leaders are talking about it. It's also VERY hard to define spiritual abuse in our legal system and that, combined with religious freedom, makes it nearly impossible to convict people for spiritual...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Spiritual abuse is rampant, and not many religious leaders are talking about it. It's also VERY hard to define spiritual abuse in our legal system and that, combined with religious freedom, makes it nearly impossible to convict people for spiritual abuse. In this episode, we define what spiritual abuse is (or at least what it includes) and talk about the insignificance of spiritual abusers. <br /><br />We'll spend a couple episodes talking about spiritual abuse and how to deflate these abusers. The church needs to start standing up to these abusers and stop giving them power. <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Become a patron of the podcast: <br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2360</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,ifbabuse,jimmyhinton,spiritualabuse,stevenanderson</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 183: Why Are Abusers So Weird? This Is How Pedophiles Think</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-183-why-are-abusers-so-weird-this-is-how-pedophiles-think--48189640</link><description><![CDATA[On December 19th, 27 year old Tyler Henegar, a registered sex offender, shamelessly broke into a little girl's apartment and was caught wearing nothing but the little girl's shoes. This Cinderella was chased out of the house by the girl's mother and was later apprehended by police. And remember Captain Underpants, the perverted colonel from Canada who flew Queen Elizabeth around? He broke into dozens of women's and little girls houses, stealing hundreds of pairs of their underwear and bras. He photographed himself wearing the underwear, and wore underwear from girls as young as 9 years old. <br /><br />He was later arrested when 2 women went missing and, tragically, their bodies were found. Not only did this colonel murder the women, he also filmed himself doing it. There is good reason why we argue that pedophiles should never be near children. Their minds are warped and this is how they think about children. <br /><br />Aside from the murders and break-ins, the other scenarios are not uncommon. Pedophiles do very strange things with their victims and often have multiple paraphilias (a condition characterized by abnormal sexual desires). This is how they think about sex and children. Churches that are quick to embrace sex offenders REALLY need to reexamine why. Are these really the people we want sitting within view of our children? <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Stories that were used in this episode:<br /><a href="https://www.wvlt.tv/2021/12/27/report-wanted-sex-offender-arrested-after-breaking-into-home-stealing-items/?fbclid=IwAR2AFBb9lB9VsUSZstlhP3ZVWfxwlevGZZ1olLyGFIW1ZNxIX5uGlnvl5IY" rel="noopener">https://www.wvlt.tv/2021/12/27/report-wanted-sex-offender-arrested-after-breaking-into-home-stealing-items/?fbclid=IwAR2AFBb9lB9VsUSZstlhP3ZVWfxwlevGZZ1olLyGFIW1ZNxIX5uGlnvl5IY</a><br /><br /><a href="https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/more-than-a-dozen-women-across-the-us-say-a-new-york-christian-camp-leader-abused-them-as-teens/ar-AAKHwxy" rel="noopener">https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/more-than-a-dozen-women-across-the-us-say-a-new-york-christian-camp-leader-abused-them-as-teens/ar-AAKHwxy</a><br /><br /><a href="https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1321764/Pilot-Colonel-Russell-Williams-broke-girls-bedrooms-steal-underwear.html" rel="noopener">https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1321764/Pilot-Colonel-Russell-Williams-broke-girls-bedrooms-steal-underwear.html</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48189640</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Jan 2022 18:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/48189640/episode_183.mp3" length="33751457" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>On December 19th, 27 year old Tyler Henegar, a registered sex offender, shamelessly broke into a little girl's apartment and was caught wearing nothing but the little girl's shoes. This Cinderella was chased out of the house by the girl's mother and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[On December 19th, 27 year old Tyler Henegar, a registered sex offender, shamelessly broke into a little girl's apartment and was caught wearing nothing but the little girl's shoes. This Cinderella was chased out of the house by the girl's mother and was later apprehended by police. And remember Captain Underpants, the perverted colonel from Canada who flew Queen Elizabeth around? He broke into dozens of women's and little girls houses, stealing hundreds of pairs of their underwear and bras. He photographed himself wearing the underwear, and wore underwear from girls as young as 9 years old. <br /><br />He was later arrested when 2 women went missing and, tragically, their bodies were found. Not only did this colonel murder the women, he also filmed himself doing it. There is good reason why we argue that pedophiles should never be near children. Their minds are warped and this is how they think about children. <br /><br />Aside from the murders and break-ins, the other scenarios are not uncommon. Pedophiles do very strange things with their victims and often have multiple paraphilias (a condition characterized by abnormal sexual desires). This is how they think about sex and children. Churches that are quick to embrace sex offenders REALLY need to reexamine why. Are these really the people we want sitting within view of our children? <br /><br />Jimmy’s book, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church for Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp <br /><br />Find us on Facebook:<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor</a> <br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport</a> <br /><br />And Twitter:<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12</a> <br /><a href="https://twitter.com/clarahinton" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/clarahinton</a> <br /><br />Stories that were used in this episode:<br /><a href="https://www.wvlt.tv/2021/12/27/report-wanted-sex-offender-arrested-after-breaking-into-home-stealing-items/?fbclid=IwAR2AFBb9lB9VsUSZstlhP3ZVWfxwlevGZZ1olLyGFIW1ZNxIX5uGlnvl5IY" rel="noopener">https://www.wvlt.tv/2021/12/27/report-wanted-sex-offender-arrested-after-breaking-into-home-stealing-items/?fbclid=IwAR2AFBb9lB9VsUSZstlhP3ZVWfxwlevGZZ1olLyGFIW1ZNxIX5uGlnvl5IY</a><br /><br /><a href="https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/more-than-a-dozen-women-across-the-us-say-a-new-york-christian-camp-leader-abused-them-as-teens/ar-AAKHwxy" rel="noopener">https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/more-than-a-dozen-women-across-the-us-say-a-new-york-christian-camp-leader-abused-them-as-teens/ar-AAKHwxy</a><br /><br /><a href="https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1321764/Pilot-Colonel-Russell-Williams-broke-girls-bedrooms-steal-underwear.html" rel="noopener">https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1321764/Pilot-Colonel-Russell-Williams-broke-girls-bedrooms-steal-underwear.html</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2110</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusesucks,childabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,csa,jimmyhinton,metoo,registeredsexoffenders</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/53c4888b98628b5088b80de74a9e0342.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 182: How Did Rogel Lose Control? | Insight From a Trucker</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-182-how-did-rogel-lose-control-insight-from-a-trucker--48037178</link><description><![CDATA[Rogel Aguilera-Mederos was sentenced to 110 years in prison for a an accident in 2019 that took the lives of 4 people and left 10 more injured. His brakes failed going down Lookout Mountain on I 70 eastbound, a 6,000 foot drop towards the city of Denver. It's a very dangerous hill that some companies ban first-year drivers from because of their lack of experience. This was Rogel's first solo trip and he was loaded with lumber, making his truck somewhere around the 80,000 lb gross limit. <br /><br />The prosecution argued that he had ample opportunity to avoid the crash and that he ignored all of those opportunities. But what actually led to the brakes failing and what was possibly going through his mind as everything unfolded? I've descended that same hill multiple times, and even did so as a rookie driver. Believe me, it's scary. <br /><br />There is a petition that has gained over 4.5 million signatures to give Rogel clemency. The trucking industry is protesting this lengthy sentence with the hashtag #NoTrucksToColorado. <br /><br />In this episode we take another angle--we talk about how the vast majority of sexual abuse cases are never investigated. Of the ones that are, very few offenders receive a lengthy sentence. Judges are often extremely lenient on sex offenders. We talk about the miscarriage of justice in this episode and what needs to change. <br /><br />Why Society Goes Easy On Rapists:<br /><a href="https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2019/05/sexual-assault-rape-sympathy-no-prison.html" rel="noopener">https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2019/05/sexual-assault-rape-sympathy-no-prison.html</a><br /><br />My memoire The Devil Inside: <br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48037178</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Dec 2021 14:49:11 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/48037178/episode_182.mp3" length="48450246" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Rogel Aguilera-Mederos was sentenced to 110 years in prison for a an accident in 2019 that took the lives of 4 people and left 10 more injured. His brakes failed going down Lookout Mountain on I 70 eastbound, a 6,000 foot drop towards the city of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Rogel Aguilera-Mederos was sentenced to 110 years in prison for a an accident in 2019 that took the lives of 4 people and left 10 more injured. His brakes failed going down Lookout Mountain on I 70 eastbound, a 6,000 foot drop towards the city of Denver. It's a very dangerous hill that some companies ban first-year drivers from because of their lack of experience. This was Rogel's first solo trip and he was loaded with lumber, making his truck somewhere around the 80,000 lb gross limit. <br /><br />The prosecution argued that he had ample opportunity to avoid the crash and that he ignored all of those opportunities. But what actually led to the brakes failing and what was possibly going through his mind as everything unfolded? I've descended that same hill multiple times, and even did so as a rookie driver. Believe me, it's scary. <br /><br />There is a petition that has gained over 4.5 million signatures to give Rogel clemency. The trucking industry is protesting this lengthy sentence with the hashtag #NoTrucksToColorado. <br /><br />In this episode we take another angle--we talk about how the vast majority of sexual abuse cases are never investigated. Of the ones that are, very few offenders receive a lengthy sentence. Judges are often extremely lenient on sex offenders. We talk about the miscarriage of justice in this episode and what needs to change. <br /><br />Why Society Goes Easy On Rapists:<br /><a href="https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2019/05/sexual-assault-rape-sympathy-no-prison.html" rel="noopener">https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2019/05/sexual-assault-rape-sympathy-no-prison.html</a><br /><br />My memoire The Devil Inside: <br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3029</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>clarahinton,jimmyhinton,justice,justiceforrogel,notruckstocolorado,rogel,rogelaguilera-mederos,truckaccident</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 181: Anna Duggar Stands By Josh | Eric Skwarczynski of Preacher Boys</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-181-anna-duggar-stands-by-josh-eric-skwarczynski-of-preacher-boys--47946703</link><description><![CDATA[In 2018 Mike Huckabee, former governor of Arkansas, radically defended Josh Duggar when it became public that he had sexually abused young girls, including his own sisters. Huckabee said that no purpose is served by people bringing up Josh's past. Similarly, Josh's wife Anna stood by his side throughout his trail for possession of child abuse material. Anna was seen smiling and holding Josh's hand. <br /><br />Eric Skwarczynski of the Preacher Boys Podcast is very familiar with the toxic teaching the Duggars have on sexuality. Women are taught to be submissive to men in authority, including their husbands. In this episode Eric talks about the culture within the IFB and beyond that breeds abusive systems and why Anna Duggar chose to stand by her husband despite multiple scandals involving minor children. <br /><br />To subscribe to Preacher Boys YouTube channel: <br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUnhn-4KoLWr0ffbPjMf-gQ" rel="noopener">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUnhn-4KoLWr0ffbPjMf-gQ</a> <br /><br />To support Preacher Boys on Patreon: <br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/preacherboys" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/preacherboys</a> <br /><br />Purchase Jimmy's memoire The Devil Inside:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support The Speaking Out on Sex Abuse Podcast on Patreon: <br /><a href="https://patreon.com/speakingout" rel="noopener">https://patreon.com/speakingout</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47946703</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Dec 2021 18:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47946703/episode_181.mp3" length="81610292" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In 2018 Mike Huckabee, former governor of Arkansas, radically defended Josh Duggar when it became public that he had sexually abused young girls, including his own sisters. Huckabee said that no purpose is served by people bringing up Josh's past....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In 2018 Mike Huckabee, former governor of Arkansas, radically defended Josh Duggar when it became public that he had sexually abused young girls, including his own sisters. Huckabee said that no purpose is served by people bringing up Josh's past. Similarly, Josh's wife Anna stood by his side throughout his trail for possession of child abuse material. Anna was seen smiling and holding Josh's hand. <br /><br />Eric Skwarczynski of the Preacher Boys Podcast is very familiar with the toxic teaching the Duggars have on sexuality. Women are taught to be submissive to men in authority, including their husbands. In this episode Eric talks about the culture within the IFB and beyond that breeds abusive systems and why Anna Duggar chose to stand by her husband despite multiple scandals involving minor children. <br /><br />To subscribe to Preacher Boys YouTube channel: <br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUnhn-4KoLWr0ffbPjMf-gQ" rel="noopener">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUnhn-4KoLWr0ffbPjMf-gQ</a> <br /><br />To support Preacher Boys on Patreon: <br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/preacherboys" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/preacherboys</a> <br /><br />Purchase Jimmy's memoire The Devil Inside:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Support The Speaking Out on Sex Abuse Podcast on Patreon: <br /><a href="https://patreon.com/speakingout" rel="noopener">https://patreon.com/speakingout</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5101</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>19andcounting,annaduggar,childabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,duggars,ericskwarczynski,jimmyhinton,joshduggar,joshduggarabuse,metoo,preacherboys</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 180: Les Ferguson Jr. on Child Abuser Who Murdered His Son and Wife</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-180-les-ferguson-jr-on-child-abuser-who-murdered-his-son-and-wife--47854228</link><description><![CDATA[On October 10, 2011, Les Ferguson Jr. thought it would be an ordinary day--a celebration of his and Karen's 24th wedding anniversary. But then Les received a call with screaming in the background. The call dropped. Les rushed to his house only to find his street lined with police cars and swat teams. In his heart he knew that it was his family who was targeted. <br /><br />The murderer was a trusted church member at the church Les preached at who had been sexually abusing Les' 21 year old disabled son. Les is a family friend, fellow minister, and the author of "Still Wrestling: Faith Renewed Through Brokenness." <br /><br />In this episode Les talks about signs that he missed, how his church responded, and how his journey of wrestling with God has strengthened his faith and understanding. <br /><br />Les' journey has helped us shape our own. He is an example of what it takes to rise up out of the ashes of devastation that happens at the hands of abusers who try to destroy our lives. <br /><br />Les' book Still Wrestling: <br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Still-Wrestling-Renewed-through-Brokenness/dp/1684260507/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Still-Wrestling-Renewed-through-Brokenness/dp/1684260507/ref</a>=sr_1_3?keywords=still+wrestling&qid=1638978000&sr=8-3<br /><br />Jimmy's book The Devil Inside: <br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47854228</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Dec 2021 18:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47854228/episode_180.mp3" length="63594161" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>On October 10, 2011, Les Ferguson Jr. thought it would be an ordinary day--a celebration of his and Karen's 24th wedding anniversary. But then Les received a call with screaming in the background. The call dropped. Les rushed to his house only to find...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[On October 10, 2011, Les Ferguson Jr. thought it would be an ordinary day--a celebration of his and Karen's 24th wedding anniversary. But then Les received a call with screaming in the background. The call dropped. Les rushed to his house only to find his street lined with police cars and swat teams. In his heart he knew that it was his family who was targeted. <br /><br />The murderer was a trusted church member at the church Les preached at who had been sexually abusing Les' 21 year old disabled son. Les is a family friend, fellow minister, and the author of "Still Wrestling: Faith Renewed Through Brokenness." <br /><br />In this episode Les talks about signs that he missed, how his church responded, and how his journey of wrestling with God has strengthened his faith and understanding. <br /><br />Les' journey has helped us shape our own. He is an example of what it takes to rise up out of the ashes of devastation that happens at the hands of abusers who try to destroy our lives. <br /><br />Les' book Still Wrestling: <br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Still-Wrestling-Renewed-through-Brokenness/dp/1684260507/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Still-Wrestling-Renewed-through-Brokenness/dp/1684260507/ref</a>=sr_1_3?keywords=still+wrestling&qid=1638978000&sr=8-3<br /><br />Jimmy's book The Devil Inside: <br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3975</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuserswhokill,childabuse,childabuseawareness,childabusekills,churchtoo,clarahinton,homicide,jimmyhinton,lesferguson,metoo</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/9da3ae946daad8e2927fadc9c16b1330.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 179: How to Talk to Your Kids About Abuse</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-179-how-to-talk-to-your-kids-about-abuse--47757336</link><description><![CDATA[Finding out that a child was senselessly harmed by an abuser is a parent's worst nightmare. Many parents of abused children ask what they could have done differently. There is no "silver bullet" to prevent abuse. Sometimes abusers still easily bypass the safety net measures we parents put into place. <br /><br />Protecting children requires a multi-level approach. Educating our children is adding one more layer of protection. So how do we teach our children to protect their own bodies? We believe that developing a culture of education in the home is key. Talks about safety should be a regular part of family dialogue. <br /><br />In this episode, we follow an excellent article called 10 Ways to Teach Children to Speak Up About Sexual Abuse. <br /><a href="https://childmind.org/article/10-ways-to-teach-your-child-the-skills-to-prevent-sexual-abuse/" rel="noopener">https://childmind.org/article/10-ways-to-teach-your-child-the-skills-to-prevent-sexual-abuse/</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47757336</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Dec 2021 18:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47757336/episode_179.mp3" length="37433678" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Finding out that a child was senselessly harmed by an abuser is a parent's worst nightmare. Many parents of abused children ask what they could have done differently. There is no "silver bullet" to prevent abuse. Sometimes abusers still easily bypass...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Finding out that a child was senselessly harmed by an abuser is a parent's worst nightmare. Many parents of abused children ask what they could have done differently. There is no "silver bullet" to prevent abuse. Sometimes abusers still easily bypass the safety net measures we parents put into place. <br /><br />Protecting children requires a multi-level approach. Educating our children is adding one more layer of protection. So how do we teach our children to protect their own bodies? We believe that developing a culture of education in the home is key. Talks about safety should be a regular part of family dialogue. <br /><br />In this episode, we follow an excellent article called 10 Ways to Teach Children to Speak Up About Sexual Abuse. <br /><a href="https://childmind.org/article/10-ways-to-teach-your-child-the-skills-to-prevent-sexual-abuse/" rel="noopener">https://childmind.org/article/10-ways-to-teach-your-child-the-skills-to-prevent-sexual-abuse/</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2340</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuseeducation,childabuse,childeducation,churchtoo,clarahinton,goodtouchbadtouch,jimmyhinton,metoo,teachingkidsaboutabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 178:  How Do You Let Your Kids Know a Family Member Is an Abuser?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-178-how-do-you-let-your-kids-know-a-family-member-is-an-abuser--47542304</link><description><![CDATA[How, when, and should you tell your kids that a family member is an abuser? This question gets asked A LOT. I recently wrote a blog post called "It’s been 10 years since reporting my dad and the reality of losing so much is hitting hard": <a href="https://jimmyhinton.org/its-been-10-years-since-reporting-my-dad-and-the-reality-of-losing-so-much-is-hitting-hard/" rel="noopener">https://jimmyhinton.org/its-been-10-years-since-reporting-my-dad-and-the-reality-of-losing-so-much-is-hitting-hard/</a><br /><br />There was an outpouring of emails after I wrote that from people wanting to know how to talk to their children about a family member who is an abuser. Because every family and individual is different, and because every abuse situation is so different, there isn't a one-size-fits-all approach. BUT I'm willing to share some tips for people based on my approach with telling my children about their grandfather who is in prison for the rest of his life. <br /><br />These are sensitive conversations and your approach to addressing it is deeply personal. In this episode we help guide you through these tough conversations with your kids. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47542304</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Nov 2021 18:00:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47542304/episode_178.mp3" length="32337084" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>How, when, and should you tell your kids that a family member is an abuser? This question gets asked A LOT. I recently wrote a blog post called "It’s been 10 years since reporting my dad and the reality of losing so much is hitting hard":...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[How, when, and should you tell your kids that a family member is an abuser? This question gets asked A LOT. I recently wrote a blog post called "It’s been 10 years since reporting my dad and the reality of losing so much is hitting hard": <a href="https://jimmyhinton.org/its-been-10-years-since-reporting-my-dad-and-the-reality-of-losing-so-much-is-hitting-hard/" rel="noopener">https://jimmyhinton.org/its-been-10-years-since-reporting-my-dad-and-the-reality-of-losing-so-much-is-hitting-hard/</a><br /><br />There was an outpouring of emails after I wrote that from people wanting to know how to talk to their children about a family member who is an abuser. Because every family and individual is different, and because every abuse situation is so different, there isn't a one-size-fits-all approach. BUT I'm willing to share some tips for people based on my approach with telling my children about their grandfather who is in prison for the rest of his life. <br /><br />These are sensitive conversations and your approach to addressing it is deeply personal. In this episode we help guide you through these tough conversations with your kids. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2022</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuseinfamily,abusers,childabuse,childsexabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,csa,familyabuser,jimmyhinton,metoo,reportabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 177: Is the American Church Decline Contributing to Abuse?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-177-is-the-american-church-decline-contributing-to-abuse--47429226</link><description><![CDATA[The church in the US is in a freefall decline. The decline is unprecedented. The majority of church membership is held in churches of under 100 in attendance. At the same time, the megachurches are growing while "mom and pop" small churches are closing their doors. The problem is very, very dire. So where does this leave our children who are being raised in the church today? <br />Are they more at risk or is abuse going to see a decline as churches decline? We unpack this and more in this episode. <br /><br />US Church in decline: <br /><a href="https://www.pewforum.org/2019/10/17/in-u-s-decline-of-christianity-continues-at-rapid-pace/" rel="noopener">https://www.pewforum.org/2019/10/17/in-u-s-decline-of-christianity-continues-at-rapid-pace/</a><br /><br /><a href="https://www.christianpost.com/news/sbc-church-membership-suffers-new-historic-1-year-decline.html" rel="noopener">https://www.christianpost.com/news/sbc-church-membership-suffers-new-historic-1-year-decline.html</a><br /><br />The Growth Gap by Christianity Today: <br /><a href="https://www.christianitytoday.com/news/2019/march/lifeway-research-church-growth-attendance-size.html" rel="noopener">https://www.christianitytoday.com/news/2019/march/lifeway-research-church-growth-attendance-size.html</a><br /><br />How the Evangelical Church Messed Up and Lost Its Way: <br /><a href="https://baptistnews.com/article/how-the-evangelical-church-forsook-messed-up-and-lost-its-way/#" rel="noopener">https://baptistnews.com/article/how-the-evangelical-church-forsook-messed-up-and-lost-its-way/#</a>.YYvwcWDMJhE<br /><br />The Changing Landscape of Insuring Churches:<br /><a href="https://churchexecutive.com/archives/ebook/child-sexual-abuse-insurance-the-landscape-continues-to-change" rel="noopener">https://churchexecutive.com/archives/ebook/child-sexual-abuse-insurance-the-landscape-continues-to-change</a><br /><br />Jimmy's book, The Devil Inside:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47429226</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 Nov 2021 18:00:05 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47429226/episode_177.mp3" length="40834194" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The church in the US is in a freefall decline. The decline is unprecedented. The majority of church membership is held in churches of under 100 in attendance. At the same time, the megachurches are growing while "mom and pop" small churches are...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The church in the US is in a freefall decline. The decline is unprecedented. The majority of church membership is held in churches of under 100 in attendance. At the same time, the megachurches are growing while "mom and pop" small churches are closing their doors. The problem is very, very dire. So where does this leave our children who are being raised in the church today? <br />Are they more at risk or is abuse going to see a decline as churches decline? We unpack this and more in this episode. <br /><br />US Church in decline: <br /><a href="https://www.pewforum.org/2019/10/17/in-u-s-decline-of-christianity-continues-at-rapid-pace/" rel="noopener">https://www.pewforum.org/2019/10/17/in-u-s-decline-of-christianity-continues-at-rapid-pace/</a><br /><br /><a href="https://www.christianpost.com/news/sbc-church-membership-suffers-new-historic-1-year-decline.html" rel="noopener">https://www.christianpost.com/news/sbc-church-membership-suffers-new-historic-1-year-decline.html</a><br /><br />The Growth Gap by Christianity Today: <br /><a href="https://www.christianitytoday.com/news/2019/march/lifeway-research-church-growth-attendance-size.html" rel="noopener">https://www.christianitytoday.com/news/2019/march/lifeway-research-church-growth-attendance-size.html</a><br /><br />How the Evangelical Church Messed Up and Lost Its Way: <br /><a href="https://baptistnews.com/article/how-the-evangelical-church-forsook-messed-up-and-lost-its-way/#" rel="noopener">https://baptistnews.com/article/how-the-evangelical-church-forsook-messed-up-and-lost-its-way/#</a>.YYvwcWDMJhE<br /><br />The Changing Landscape of Insuring Churches:<br /><a href="https://churchexecutive.com/archives/ebook/child-sexual-abuse-insurance-the-landscape-continues-to-change" rel="noopener">https://churchexecutive.com/archives/ebook/child-sexual-abuse-insurance-the-landscape-continues-to-change</a><br /><br />Jimmy's book, The Devil Inside:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2553</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuseinchurch,churchabuse,churchdecline,churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,metoo,spiritualabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 176: Trauma Voyeurism - Why We're Obsessed With Watching Other People's Trauma</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-176-trauma-voyeurism-why-we-re-obsessed-with-watching-other-people-s-trauma--47316214</link><description><![CDATA[2014 marked a dark year for celebrities who's cloud photos and videos had been hacked. Nude photos that were meant to remain private instantly became an internet sensation, much at the expense of the celebrity victims. From nude photos to "Karen" meltdowns, our society is obsessed with making private encounters public domain, truly invading the privacy of people. Algorithms are designed to catapult a video to viral status if a video is genuinely grotesque and shocking. <br /><br />It's possible that this shock culture we live in is why trauma from survivors of abuse is often put on full display for the world to see. In short, trauma sells.<br /><br />NSVRC article on the prevalence of Trauma Voyeurism:<br /> <a href="https://www.nsvrc.org/blogs/exploring-conversation-trauma-blog-series/Trauma-Voyeurism" rel="noopener">https://www.nsvrc.org/blogs/exploring-conversation-trauma-blog-series/Trauma-Voyeurism</a><br /><br />The Guardian article on Faces of Death:<br /><a href="https://www.theguardian.com/film/2018/oct/01/banned-in-46-countries-is-faces-of-death-the-most-shocking-film-ever" rel="noopener">https://www.theguardian.com/film/2018/oct/01/banned-in-46-countries-is-faces-of-death-the-most-shocking-film-ever</a><br /><br />Rep. Tomlinson's legislation on sextortion suicide case:<br /><a href="https://www.buckscountycouriertimes.com/story/news/2021/10/28/bensalem-family-pushes-legislation-after-suicide-sextortion-case-pennsylvania-crime-cyberstalking/8571540002/" rel="noopener">https://www.buckscountycouriertimes.com/story/news/2021/10/28/bensalem-family-pushes-legislation-after-suicide-sextortion-case-pennsylvania-crime-cyberstalking/8571540002/</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47316214</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Nov 2021 17:00:16 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47316214/episode_176.mp3" length="36022648" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>2014 marked a dark year for celebrities who's cloud photos and videos had been hacked. Nude photos that were meant to remain private instantly became an internet sensation, much at the expense of the celebrity victims. From nude photos to "Karen"...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[2014 marked a dark year for celebrities who's cloud photos and videos had been hacked. Nude photos that were meant to remain private instantly became an internet sensation, much at the expense of the celebrity victims. From nude photos to "Karen" meltdowns, our society is obsessed with making private encounters public domain, truly invading the privacy of people. Algorithms are designed to catapult a video to viral status if a video is genuinely grotesque and shocking. <br /><br />It's possible that this shock culture we live in is why trauma from survivors of abuse is often put on full display for the world to see. In short, trauma sells.<br /><br />NSVRC article on the prevalence of Trauma Voyeurism:<br /> <a href="https://www.nsvrc.org/blogs/exploring-conversation-trauma-blog-series/Trauma-Voyeurism" rel="noopener">https://www.nsvrc.org/blogs/exploring-conversation-trauma-blog-series/Trauma-Voyeurism</a><br /><br />The Guardian article on Faces of Death:<br /><a href="https://www.theguardian.com/film/2018/oct/01/banned-in-46-countries-is-faces-of-death-the-most-shocking-film-ever" rel="noopener">https://www.theguardian.com/film/2018/oct/01/banned-in-46-countries-is-faces-of-death-the-most-shocking-film-ever</a><br /><br />Rep. Tomlinson's legislation on sextortion suicide case:<br /><a href="https://www.buckscountycouriertimes.com/story/news/2021/10/28/bensalem-family-pushes-legislation-after-suicide-sextortion-case-pennsylvania-crime-cyberstalking/8571540002/" rel="noopener">https://www.buckscountycouriertimes.com/story/news/2021/10/28/bensalem-family-pushes-legislation-after-suicide-sextortion-case-pennsylvania-crime-cyberstalking/8571540002/</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2252</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>clarahinton,jimmyhinton,sexabuse,trauma,traumavoyeurism,viralculture,viralvideos,voyeurism</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 175: Are People Secretly Filming You?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-175-are-people-secretly-filming-you--47201412</link><description><![CDATA[Just this week a school teacher in Wisconsin was sentenced to twelve years in prison for secretly videotaping his students on field trips in their hotel rooms. Voyeurism is incredibly common and is very difficult to prosecute. Our laws vary wildly from state to state and prosecutors must show intent. <br /><br />In this episode we talk about the problem of video voyeurs and what we can do to protect ourselves and our children from these peeping Toms. <br /><br />Wisconsin Ex-Teacher Sentenced:<br /><a href="https://www.winonadailynews.com/news/local/ex-wisconsin-teacher-gets-12-years-for-secret-videotapes/article_181210da-879b-541e-b539-468d29f39ddb.html" rel="noopener">https://www.winonadailynews.com/news/local/ex-wisconsin-teacher-gets-12-years-for-secret-videotapes/article_181210da-879b-541e-b539-468d29f39ddb.html</a><br /><br />Most recent list of states and their laws on voyeurism:<br /><a href="https://silo.tips/download/video-voyeurism-laws" rel="noopener">https://silo.tips/download/video-voyeurism-laws</a> <br /><br />WOMAN Means Something on the problem of video voyeurism:<br /><a href="https://womanmeanssomething.com/the-voyeurism-epidemic/" rel="noopener">https://womanmeanssomething.com/the-voyeurism-epidemic/</a> <br /><br />List of hidden cameras sold on Amazon:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/s?k=hidden+camera&crid=1EX3MUQ8YWU8N&sprefix=hidden+%2Caps%2C164&ref=nb_sb_ss_ts-doa-p_1_7" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/s?k=hidden+camera&crid=1EX3MUQ8YWU8N&sprefix=hidden+%2Caps%2C164&ref=nb_sb_ss_ts-doa-p_1_7</a> <br /><br />Forbes article on how to find hidden cameras in a room:<br /><a href="https://www.forbes.com/sites/tjmccue/2019/10/30/how-to-find-a-hidden-camera-in-your-house-or-airbnb-or-anywhere/?sh=584320c01860" rel="noopener">https://www.forbes.com/sites/tjmccue/2019/10/30/how-to-find-a-hidden-camera-in-your-house-or-airbnb-or-anywhere/?sh=584320c01860</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47201412</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 Oct 2021 17:00:15 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47201412/episode_175.mp3" length="39589511" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Just this week a school teacher in Wisconsin was sentenced to twelve years in prison for secretly videotaping his students on field trips in their hotel rooms. Voyeurism is incredibly common and is very difficult to prosecute. Our laws vary wildly...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Just this week a school teacher in Wisconsin was sentenced to twelve years in prison for secretly videotaping his students on field trips in their hotel rooms. Voyeurism is incredibly common and is very difficult to prosecute. Our laws vary wildly from state to state and prosecutors must show intent. <br /><br />In this episode we talk about the problem of video voyeurs and what we can do to protect ourselves and our children from these peeping Toms. <br /><br />Wisconsin Ex-Teacher Sentenced:<br /><a href="https://www.winonadailynews.com/news/local/ex-wisconsin-teacher-gets-12-years-for-secret-videotapes/article_181210da-879b-541e-b539-468d29f39ddb.html" rel="noopener">https://www.winonadailynews.com/news/local/ex-wisconsin-teacher-gets-12-years-for-secret-videotapes/article_181210da-879b-541e-b539-468d29f39ddb.html</a><br /><br />Most recent list of states and their laws on voyeurism:<br /><a href="https://silo.tips/download/video-voyeurism-laws" rel="noopener">https://silo.tips/download/video-voyeurism-laws</a> <br /><br />WOMAN Means Something on the problem of video voyeurism:<br /><a href="https://womanmeanssomething.com/the-voyeurism-epidemic/" rel="noopener">https://womanmeanssomething.com/the-voyeurism-epidemic/</a> <br /><br />List of hidden cameras sold on Amazon:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/s?k=hidden+camera&crid=1EX3MUQ8YWU8N&sprefix=hidden+%2Caps%2C164&ref=nb_sb_ss_ts-doa-p_1_7" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/s?k=hidden+camera&crid=1EX3MUQ8YWU8N&sprefix=hidden+%2Caps%2C164&ref=nb_sb_ss_ts-doa-p_1_7</a> <br /><br />Forbes article on how to find hidden cameras in a room:<br /><a href="https://www.forbes.com/sites/tjmccue/2019/10/30/how-to-find-a-hidden-camera-in-your-house-or-airbnb-or-anywhere/?sh=584320c01860" rel="noopener">https://www.forbes.com/sites/tjmccue/2019/10/30/how-to-find-a-hidden-camera-in-your-house-or-airbnb-or-anywhere/?sh=584320c01860</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2475</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>clarahinton,hiddencameras,jimmyhinton,videovoyeurs,voyeurism</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 174: What Is the Difference Between Curiosity and a Kid Who Abuses?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-174-what-is-the-difference-between-curiosity-and-a-kid-who-abuses--47081952</link><description><![CDATA[Guest Heather Snyder, counselor and advocate, describes the differences between natural curiosity among children and when they cross sexual boundaries that need to be reported. Parents, teachers, and caretakers should know the differences between normal exploration and curiosity and signs that a child may have been abused. We all need to know when an incident between two children is reportable. <br /><br />In this episode, Heather answers many questions we receive about what is appropriate vs. inappropriate behavior, when a child should be reported, and what resources are available to parents of an offending child and parents of victim children. <br /><br />Victim Services, Inc. <br /><a href="https://victimservicesinc.org/" rel="noopener">https://victimservicesinc.org/</a><br /><br />Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline: <br />1-800-932-0313<br /><br />Pennsylvania Coalition Against Rape<br /><a href="https://pcar.org/" rel="noopener">https://pcar.org/</a><br /><br />For parents struggling with what is appropriate behavior and what is not:<br /><a href="https://www.ashasexualhealth.org/" rel="noopener">https://www.ashasexualhealth.org/</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47081952</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 Oct 2021 17:00:18 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47081952/episode_174.mp3" length="63061263" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Guest Heather Snyder, counselor and advocate, describes the differences between natural curiosity among children and when they cross sexual boundaries that need to be reported. Parents, teachers, and caretakers should know the differences between...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Guest Heather Snyder, counselor and advocate, describes the differences between natural curiosity among children and when they cross sexual boundaries that need to be reported. Parents, teachers, and caretakers should know the differences between normal exploration and curiosity and signs that a child may have been abused. We all need to know when an incident between two children is reportable. <br /><br />In this episode, Heather answers many questions we receive about what is appropriate vs. inappropriate behavior, when a child should be reported, and what resources are available to parents of an offending child and parents of victim children. <br /><br />Victim Services, Inc. <br /><a href="https://victimservicesinc.org/" rel="noopener">https://victimservicesinc.org/</a><br /><br />Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline: <br />1-800-932-0313<br /><br />Pennsylvania Coalition Against Rape<br /><a href="https://pcar.org/" rel="noopener">https://pcar.org/</a><br /><br />For parents struggling with what is appropriate behavior and what is not:<br /><a href="https://www.ashasexualhealth.org/" rel="noopener">https://www.ashasexualhealth.org/</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3942</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childabuse,childabusers,childperpetrators,childsexuality,clarahinton,heathersnyder,jimmyhinton,juvenileoffenders,metoo</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 173:  The Pandemic Within the Pandemic and How You Can Help!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-173-the-pandemic-within-the-pandemic-and-how-you-can-help--46976069</link><description><![CDATA[There is a pandemic within the pandemic that's relentless--from labor shortages to transportation issues, and even increased abuse with decreased reporting. But it's not all bad news! There is a lot we can do to help make this world a better place. In this episode, we talk about ways you, the listeners, can help! <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/46976069</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 Oct 2021 17:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/46976069/episode_173.mp3" length="36132989" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There is a pandemic within the pandemic that's relentless--from labor shortages to transportation issues, and even increased abuse with decreased reporting. But it's not all bad news! There is a lot we can do to help make this world a better place. In...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There is a pandemic within the pandemic that's relentless--from labor shortages to transportation issues, and even increased abuse with decreased reporting. But it's not all bad news! There is a lot we can do to help make this world a better place. In this episode, we talk about ways you, the listeners, can help! <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2259</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childabuse,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,pandemic,stopabuse,stopviolence</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 172: Catholic Church Abuse Cover Ups In France (Here we go again)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-172-catholic-church-abuse-cover-ups-in-france-here-we-go-again--46866211</link><description><![CDATA[Once again the Catholic church made world news when a 2,500 page independent French report came out estimating that 330,000 victims were subjected to abuse by 3,000 Catholic priests and an "unknown number of other people involved in the church." The abuse and cover ups spanned 70 years. The vast majority of cases cannot be criminally investigated because of statutes of limitations. <br /><br />This damning report came out the same day the Southern Baptist Convention held a vote to open legally protected documents to investigators into decades of abuse cover ups. There is a spiritual reckoning that is happening in the largest and third largest Christian denominations in the world. <br /><br />In this episode we talk about how we got here and what we can do about the culture of demanding loyalty to denominational leaders. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a> <br /><br /><br />ABC News article on abuse in the Catholic church: <br /><a href="https://abcnews.go.com/International/wireStory/major-report-expose-sex-abuse-frances-catholic-church-80408030" rel="noopener">https://abcnews.go.com/International/wireStory/major-report-expose-sex-abuse-frances-catholic-church-80408030</a><br /><br />RNS article on SBC: <br /><a href="https://religionnews.com/2021/10/02/why-are-southern-baptists-fighting-over-sexual-abuse/" rel="noopener">https://religionnews.com/2021/10/02/why-are-southern-baptists-fighting-over-sexual-abuse/</a><br /><br />Photo license under Creative Commons. License and attribution: This file is licensed under the Creative Commons Attribution-Share Alike 2.0 Generic license. Casa Rosada (Argentina Presidency of the Nation), CC BY-SA 2.0 &lt<a href="https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/2.0" rel="noopener">https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/2.0</a>&gt, via Wikimedia Commons Photo was adapted and licensor in no way endorses changes made.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/46866211</guid><pubDate>Thu, 07 Oct 2021 17:00:17 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/46866211/episode_172.mp3" length="33652401" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Once again the Catholic church made world news when a 2,500 page independent French report came out estimating that 330,000 victims were subjected to abuse by 3,000 Catholic priests and an "unknown number of other people involved in the church." The...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Once again the Catholic church made world news when a 2,500 page independent French report came out estimating that 330,000 victims were subjected to abuse by 3,000 Catholic priests and an "unknown number of other people involved in the church." The abuse and cover ups spanned 70 years. The vast majority of cases cannot be criminally investigated because of statutes of limitations. <br /><br />This damning report came out the same day the Southern Baptist Convention held a vote to open legally protected documents to investigators into decades of abuse cover ups. There is a spiritual reckoning that is happening in the largest and third largest Christian denominations in the world. <br /><br />In this episode we talk about how we got here and what we can do about the culture of demanding loyalty to denominational leaders. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a> <br /><br /><br />ABC News article on abuse in the Catholic church: <br /><a href="https://abcnews.go.com/International/wireStory/major-report-expose-sex-abuse-frances-catholic-church-80408030" rel="noopener">https://abcnews.go.com/International/wireStory/major-report-expose-sex-abuse-frances-catholic-church-80408030</a><br /><br />RNS article on SBC: <br /><a href="https://religionnews.com/2021/10/02/why-are-southern-baptists-fighting-over-sexual-abuse/" rel="noopener">https://religionnews.com/2021/10/02/why-are-southern-baptists-fighting-over-sexual-abuse/</a><br /><br />Photo license under Creative Commons. License and attribution: This file is licensed under the Creative Commons Attribution-Share Alike 2.0 Generic license. Casa Rosada (Argentina Presidency of the Nation), CC BY-SA 2.0 &lt<a href="https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/2.0" rel="noopener">https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/2.0</a>&gt, via Wikimedia Commons Photo was adapted and licensor in no way endorses changes made.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2104</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>catholicabuse,churchabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,forgiveus,jimmyhinton</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c6a980896e3d677d428fe02718bebd34.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 171: Could Police Have Stopped Gabby Petito's Murder?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-171-could-police-have-stopped-gabby-petito-s-murder--46759111</link><description><![CDATA[Detecting and preventing abuse is not as black and white as we would like. A lot of commentary is happening for what police should have done better to protect Gabby Petito from Brian Laundrie. In this episode we talk about what others can do to help people in distress instead of only relying on police. Police are definitely an important and necessary component for safety but they cannot be the only possible solution. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/46759111</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Sep 2021 17:00:18 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/46759111/episode_171.mp3" length="35995480" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Detecting and preventing abuse is not as black and white as we would like. A lot of commentary is happening for what police should have done better to protect Gabby Petito from Brian Laundrie. In this episode we talk about what others can do to help...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Detecting and preventing abuse is not as black and white as we would like. A lot of commentary is happening for what police should have done better to protect Gabby Petito from Brian Laundrie. In this episode we talk about what others can do to help people in distress instead of only relying on police. Police are definitely an important and necessary component for safety but they cannot be the only possible solution. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2250</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuse,abuseprevention,brianlaundrie,clarahinton,domesticviolence,dv,gabbypetito,jimmyhinton,metoo</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 170:  Mendy Hicks Sues Everyone Who Covered Up Her Abuse</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-170-mendy-hicks-sues-everyone-who-covered-up-her-abuse--46652522</link><description><![CDATA[No child should ever be molested by an adult. Nor should their youth pastor be allowed to molest them, lie about it, and have his whole staff cover for him. Yet as a 13 year old girl this is exactly what happened to Mendy Hicks and others. When Mendy finally did tell at the age of 15 she was told that she was demon possessed, crazy, and was placed in a mental hospital. <br /><br />After she and another victim found out that their abuser was back in the pulpit, they decided enough was enough. They filed a lawsuit 3 years ago, naming their abuser, all the people who covered it up, the church, and the SBC as defendants. <br /><br />In this episode, Mendy tells her heartbreaking story but also shares some insight for church leaders and survivors of abuse. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/46652522</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Sep 2021 17:00:05 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/46652522/episode_170.mp3" length="39334138" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>No child should ever be molested by an adult. Nor should their youth pastor be allowed to molest them, lie about it, and have his whole staff cover for him. Yet as a 13 year old girl this is exactly what happened to Mendy Hicks and others. When Mendy...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[No child should ever be molested by an adult. Nor should their youth pastor be allowed to molest them, lie about it, and have his whole staff cover for him. Yet as a 13 year old girl this is exactly what happened to Mendy Hicks and others. When Mendy finally did tell at the age of 15 she was told that she was demon possessed, crazy, and was placed in a mental hospital. <br /><br />After she and another victim found out that their abuser was back in the pulpit, they decided enough was enough. They filed a lawsuit 3 years ago, naming their abuser, all the people who covered it up, the church, and the SBC as defendants. <br /><br />In this episode, Mendy tells her heartbreaking story but also shares some insight for church leaders and survivors of abuse. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2459</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,justice,justiceforsurvivors,mendyhicks,metoo,sueyourabuser</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6e2c27890ab33b71fd206b3abc1b3840.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 169: Are We Using Too Many Labels for Abuse?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-169-are-we-using-too-many-labels-for-abuse--46550173</link><description><![CDATA[Is the term "abuse" used so much that we are losing efficiency in identifying genuinely threatening people? Labeling is commonplace now and so many people over-label that even people who disagree are labeled as abusers. Our nation is very divided right now and we are losing our focus on being protectors of the innocent. Labels and definitions are important, but if we are using them incorrectly we can do more harm than good. <br /><br />In this episode we talk about the importance of simplifying for the sake of more easily identifying abusive, threatening people.<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/46550173</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Sep 2021 17:00:14 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/46550173/episode_169.mp3" length="42392764" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Is the term "abuse" used so much that we are losing efficiency in identifying genuinely threatening people? Labeling is commonplace now and so many people over-label that even people who disagree are labeled as abusers. Our nation is very divided...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Is the term "abuse" used so much that we are losing efficiency in identifying genuinely threatening people? Labeling is commonplace now and so many people over-label that even people who disagree are labeled as abusers. Our nation is very divided right now and we are losing our focus on being protectors of the innocent. Labels and definitions are important, but if we are using them incorrectly we can do more harm than good. <br /><br />In this episode we talk about the importance of simplifying for the sake of more easily identifying abusive, threatening people.<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2650</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuse,childabuse,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,whatisabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 168:  How Do I Know if a Leader Is Abusive? With Christine Parker</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-168-how-do-i-know-if-a-leader-is-abusive-with-christine-parker--46443599</link><description><![CDATA[It's very difficult for most people to recognize the difference between difficult church leaders and abusive ones. Jimmy and Christine developed a list of traits of abusive leaders and they discuss it in this episode. It's important to know when leaders are abusive and how to confront the abuse. Too many abuse survivors are abused by leaders after their experience of abuse from someone else. <br /><br />To learn more about the work Christine does at PorchSwing Ministries, visit <a href="https://www.porchswingministries.org/" rel="noopener">https://www.porchswingministries.org/</a><br /><br />To see the traits of an abusive leader:<br /><a href="https://drive.google.com/file/d/10uemxJY5uwro_ufWK3fibeM8iNK9JUBh/view?usp=sharing" rel="noopener">https://drive.google.com/file/d/10uemxJY5uwro_ufWK3fibeM8iNK9JUBh/view?usp=sharing</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/46443599</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Sep 2021 17:00:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/46443599/episode_168.mp3" length="66061792" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It's very difficult for most people to recognize the difference between difficult church leaders and abusive ones. Jimmy and Christine developed a list of traits of abusive leaders and they discuss it in this episode. It's important to know when...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It's very difficult for most people to recognize the difference between difficult church leaders and abusive ones. Jimmy and Christine developed a list of traits of abusive leaders and they discuss it in this episode. It's important to know when leaders are abusive and how to confront the abuse. Too many abuse survivors are abused by leaders after their experience of abuse from someone else. <br /><br />To learn more about the work Christine does at PorchSwing Ministries, visit <a href="https://www.porchswingministries.org/" rel="noopener">https://www.porchswingministries.org/</a><br /><br />To see the traits of an abusive leader:<br /><a href="https://drive.google.com/file/d/10uemxJY5uwro_ufWK3fibeM8iNK9JUBh/view?usp=sharing" rel="noopener">https://drive.google.com/file/d/10uemxJY5uwro_ufWK3fibeM8iNK9JUBh/view?usp=sharing</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4129</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuseinchurch,abusiveleaders,christineparker,churchabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,metoo,religiousabuse,spiritualabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/12dc992943e53363088b3bcb8c843f71.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 167: Naghmeh Panahi Testimony of Abuse by Jailed Pastor</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-167-naghmeh-panahi-testimony-of-abuse-by-jailed-pastor--46347129</link><description><![CDATA[Naghmeh gained instant fame when her then husband Saeed Abedini was jailed in Iran for his Christian faith. As an American pastor who was jailed in Iran, it sparked an international outcry against Christian persecution. President Obama and the State Department were able to successfully work a deal with Iran to free Saeed. But there was a dark secret. Saeed had been abusing Naghmeh, and the abuse intensified when he was jailed. <br /><br />Even from jail he would call her a whore and Jezebel, accusing her of stealing his fame. Naghmeh found that, as long as she was married and remained silent about the abuse, she had the full support of the media and big-name Christian leaders. When she decided she could no longer remain silent, she was accused by those same leaders of being unfaithful to Saeed. Others who were once supportive were now completely silent. <br /><br />Naghmeh shares her wisdom for how she navigated these trying times and how she leaned on God to spare her life and gain freedom from abuse.  <br /><br />To learn more about abuse in the church and how to respond, see my book The Devil Inside: How my minister father molested kids in our home and church for decades and how I finally stopped him:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/46347129</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2021 17:00:15 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/46347129/episode_167.mp3" length="61639366" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Naghmeh gained instant fame when her then husband Saeed Abedini was jailed in Iran for his Christian faith. As an American pastor who was jailed in Iran, it sparked an international outcry against Christian persecution. President Obama and the State...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Naghmeh gained instant fame when her then husband Saeed Abedini was jailed in Iran for his Christian faith. As an American pastor who was jailed in Iran, it sparked an international outcry against Christian persecution. President Obama and the State Department were able to successfully work a deal with Iran to free Saeed. But there was a dark secret. Saeed had been abusing Naghmeh, and the abuse intensified when he was jailed. <br /><br />Even from jail he would call her a whore and Jezebel, accusing her of stealing his fame. Naghmeh found that, as long as she was married and remained silent about the abuse, she had the full support of the media and big-name Christian leaders. When she decided she could no longer remain silent, she was accused by those same leaders of being unfaithful to Saeed. Others who were once supportive were now completely silent. <br /><br />Naghmeh shares her wisdom for how she navigated these trying times and how she leaned on God to spare her life and gain freedom from abuse.  <br /><br />To learn more about abuse in the church and how to respond, see my book The Devil Inside: How my minister father molested kids in our home and church for decades and how I finally stopped him:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3853</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,metoo,naghmehabedini,naghmehpanahi,persecution</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e60276f28e05444a5267ec0b297f72ae.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 166: How Clara's Daughter Alex Found Healing from Her Dad's Abuse</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-166-how-clara-s-daughter-alex-found-healing-from-her-dad-s-abuse--46246227</link><description><![CDATA[Clara's youngest daughter, Alex Howlett, was the person who disclosed her dad's abuse to Jimmy and Clara in 2011. Alex was 20 at the time. In this episode she describes her healing journey that began with deep depression and attempted suicide to now owning her own Yoga business and loving every minute of it! <br /><br />Alex will forever be our hero because she had the courage to tell and her disclosure of abuse stopped a very dangerous serial predator, sparing untold numbers of children. <br /><br />If you missed the previous episode when we had Alex on, you won't want to miss that one either. You can view it here: <br /><a href="https://youtu.be/kv8X0vwfzKc" rel="noopener">https://youtu.be/kv8X0vwfzKc</a><br /><br />To order Jimmy's memoir, The Devil Inside: How my minister father molested kids in our home and church for decades and how I finally stopped him, you can find it here:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/46246227</guid><pubDate>Thu, 26 Aug 2021 17:00:11 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/46246227/episode_166.mp3" length="38490279" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Clara's youngest daughter, Alex Howlett, was the person who disclosed her dad's abuse to Jimmy and Clara in 2011. Alex was 20 at the time. In this episode she describes her healing journey that began with deep depression and attempted suicide to now...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Clara's youngest daughter, Alex Howlett, was the person who disclosed her dad's abuse to Jimmy and Clara in 2011. Alex was 20 at the time. In this episode she describes her healing journey that began with deep depression and attempted suicide to now owning her own Yoga business and loving every minute of it! <br /><br />Alex will forever be our hero because she had the courage to tell and her disclosure of abuse stopped a very dangerous serial predator, sparing untold numbers of children. <br /><br />If you missed the previous episode when we had Alex on, you won't want to miss that one either. You can view it here: <br /><a href="https://youtu.be/kv8X0vwfzKc" rel="noopener">https://youtu.be/kv8X0vwfzKc</a><br /><br />To order Jimmy's memoir, The Devil Inside: How my minister father molested kids in our home and church for decades and how I finally stopped him, you can find it here:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2406</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusedbyfather,alexhowlett,churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,metoo,pedophiles,sexabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3ce59ad246f53cd0c94cd1e6eb806f2a.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 165: How Did the Church Respond When We Reported?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-165-how-did-the-church-respond-when-we-reported--46158835</link><description><![CDATA[We don't really talk much about how the church responded when we reported the abuse, but it is an important part of our story. Reporting abuse is often a very lonely road for survivors. But what about for us? Jimmy is the full time minister for the church his dad led for almost 3 decades. Clara was the preacher's wife for that long, too. So did the church respond in a healthy way? <br /><br />While we had some support, our story is not much different from other people who are walking this road of compound traumas. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/46158835</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Aug 2021 17:00:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/46158835/episode_165.mp3" length="38862262" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We don't really talk much about how the church responded when we reported the abuse, but it is an important part of our story. Reporting abuse is often a very lonely road for survivors. But what about for us? Jimmy is the full time minister for the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We don't really talk much about how the church responded when we reported the abuse, but it is an important part of our story. Reporting abuse is often a very lonely road for survivors. But what about for us? Jimmy is the full time minister for the church his dad led for almost 3 decades. Clara was the preacher's wife for that long, too. So did the church respond in a healthy way? <br /><br />While we had some support, our story is not much different from other people who are walking this road of compound traumas. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2429</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuseinchurch,abusetrauma,churchabuse,churchresponsetoabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,reportabuse,reportnow</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 164: Clara Tells Us How She Got Out of an Abusive Marriage (and how you can too)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-164-clara-tells-us-how-she-got-out-of-an-abusive-marriage-and-how-you-can-too--46069265</link><description><![CDATA[Being married to an abuser is incredibly difficult. When the abuse is subtle and highly calculated, it's challenging to even rationalize to yourself the real reasons why you are deciding to end a marriage. This is what makes sophisticated abusers so dangerous and why they are able to keep their spouses trapped in a marriage. <br /><br />Clara Hinton left her marriage before she knew that her husband was a child sexual abuser. In this episode, she talks about signs that started painting a picture that pointed towards spousal abuse. She details how she got the courage to get out and where her support came from. <br /><br />Become a patron:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a><br /><br />Jimmy's book, The Devil Inside:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/46069265</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Aug 2021 17:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/46069265/episode_164.mp3" length="34077884" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Being married to an abuser is incredibly difficult. When the abuse is subtle and highly calculated, it's challenging to even rationalize to yourself the real reasons why you are deciding to end a marriage. This is what makes sophisticated abusers so...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Being married to an abuser is incredibly difficult. When the abuse is subtle and highly calculated, it's challenging to even rationalize to yourself the real reasons why you are deciding to end a marriage. This is what makes sophisticated abusers so dangerous and why they are able to keep their spouses trapped in a marriage. <br /><br />Clara Hinton left her marriage before she knew that her husband was a child sexual abuser. In this episode, she talks about signs that started painting a picture that pointed towards spousal abuse. She details how she got the courage to get out and where her support came from. <br /><br />Become a patron:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a><br /><br />Jimmy's book, The Devil Inside:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2130</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusedwife,abusivemarriages,clarahinton,divorce,jimmyhinton,marriedtoanabuser,spousalabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 163: Cuomo's Behavior Is Eerily Familiar for Church Abuse Survivors</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-163-cuomo-s-behavior-is-eerily-familiar-for-church-abuse-survivors--45981578</link><description><![CDATA[New York's Office of the Attorney General released a damning report yesterday chronicling Governor Andrew Cuomo's creepy, predatory behavior with 11 victims who came forward. The report uncovers a "culture within the Executive Chamber" of cover-ups, fear, demanded loyalty to the governor, and retaliation against those who spoke up. <br /><br />In an act of defiance, Governor Cuomo released a 14 minute video denying any wrongdoing and belittling victims who spoke out about the abuse. In this episode, we talk about the similarities within church and advocacy cultures, where survivors are bullied and threatened into silence. <br />To read the full Attorney General's report: <br /><a href="https://www.rochestercitynewspaper.com/media/pdf/2021.08.03_nyag_-_investigative_report.pdf" rel="noopener">https://www.rochestercitynewspaper.com/media/pdf/2021.08.03_nyag_-_investigative_report.pdf</a><br /><br />For the AP story about Chris Cuomo's role in advising his brother:<br /><a href="https://apnews.com/article/andrew-cuomo-chris-cuomo-cnn-sexual-harassment-report-3f601fbfd65e45e244a98f8e816e1ad5" rel="noopener">https://apnews.com/article/andrew-cuomo-chris-cuomo-cnn-sexual-harassment-report-3f601fbfd65e45e244a98f8e816e1ad5</a><br /><br />To order Jimmy's book, The Devil Inside:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />To check out the podcast on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/45981578</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Aug 2021 17:00:11 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/45981578/episode_163.mp3" length="37805244" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>New York's Office of the Attorney General released a damning report yesterday chronicling Governor Andrew Cuomo's creepy, predatory behavior with 11 victims who came forward. The report uncovers a "culture within the Executive Chamber" of cover-ups,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[New York's Office of the Attorney General released a damning report yesterday chronicling Governor Andrew Cuomo's creepy, predatory behavior with 11 victims who came forward. The report uncovers a "culture within the Executive Chamber" of cover-ups, fear, demanded loyalty to the governor, and retaliation against those who spoke up. <br /><br />In an act of defiance, Governor Cuomo released a 14 minute video denying any wrongdoing and belittling victims who spoke out about the abuse. In this episode, we talk about the similarities within church and advocacy cultures, where survivors are bullied and threatened into silence. <br />To read the full Attorney General's report: <br /><a href="https://www.rochestercitynewspaper.com/media/pdf/2021.08.03_nyag_-_investigative_report.pdf" rel="noopener">https://www.rochestercitynewspaper.com/media/pdf/2021.08.03_nyag_-_investigative_report.pdf</a><br /><br />For the AP story about Chris Cuomo's role in advising his brother:<br /><a href="https://apnews.com/article/andrew-cuomo-chris-cuomo-cnn-sexual-harassment-report-3f601fbfd65e45e244a98f8e816e1ad5" rel="noopener">https://apnews.com/article/andrew-cuomo-chris-cuomo-cnn-sexual-harassment-report-3f601fbfd65e45e244a98f8e816e1ad5</a><br /><br />To order Jimmy's book, The Devil Inside:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />To check out the podcast on Patreon:<br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/SpeakingOut</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2363</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>andrewcuomo,clarahinton,cuomoabuse,cuomobrothers,governorcuomo,jimmyhinton,nygovernorabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 162: How Do We Protect Victims When the Justice System Won't?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-162-how-do-we-protect-victims-when-the-justice-system-won-t--45815437</link><description><![CDATA[Too often people have been made to believe that the ONLY way we can protect victims from abusers is by the legal justice system. "Innocent until proven guilty" is repeated in churches and other organizations, as if someone can't be a dangerous predator unless the court says so. <br /><br />The reality is that the vast majority of abuse cases will never be reported. Of the few that do get reported, the overwhelming majority of those will never result in criminal charges. This means that most known abusers will never be found guilty in the court of law. That places the responsibility to protect victims squarely on the shoulders of us! <br /><br />In this episode, we talk about what that looks like and why it's so important that we take a stand to protect victims even when there isn't a conviction. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/45815437</guid><pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2021 13:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/45815437/episode_162.mp3" length="30180832" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Too often people have been made to believe that the ONLY way we can protect victims from abusers is by the legal justice system. "Innocent until proven guilty" is repeated in churches and other organizations, as if someone can't be a dangerous...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Too often people have been made to believe that the ONLY way we can protect victims from abusers is by the legal justice system. "Innocent until proven guilty" is repeated in churches and other organizations, as if someone can't be a dangerous predator unless the court says so. <br /><br />The reality is that the vast majority of abuse cases will never be reported. Of the few that do get reported, the overwhelming majority of those will never result in criminal charges. This means that most known abusers will never be found guilty in the court of law. That places the responsibility to protect victims squarely on the shoulders of us! <br /><br />In this episode, we talk about what that looks like and why it's so important that we take a stand to protect victims even when there isn't a conviction. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1887</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>clarahinton,jimmyhinton,justice,nojustice</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 161: Are There Really Non-Offending Pedophiles?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-161-are-there-really-non-offending-pedophiles--45801880</link><description><![CDATA[Is there really such a thing as non-offending pedophiles? This is, by far, one of the most hotly debated topics concerning pedophiles. MAPs (Minor Attracted Person) are on the rise and are getting more and more brazen with their degrading comments about children. Here is a good article about their online perversions: <br /><a href="https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8466899/Paedophiles-rebrand-minor-attracted-persons-chilling-online-propaganda-drive.html" rel="noopener">https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8466899/Paedophiles-rebrand-minor-attracted-persons-chilling-online-propaganda-drive.html</a><br /><br />The question remains, is it safe to assume that there really is a class of people who are sexually attracted to prepubescent children but do not (and will not) produce actual victims? <br /><br />We unpack this in this episode. We give our opinion and still provide both sides of the argument. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/45801880</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Jul 2021 17:00:05 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/45801880/episode_161.mp3" length="36809665" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Is there really such a thing as non-offending pedophiles? This is, by far, one of the most hotly debated topics concerning pedophiles. MAPs (Minor Attracted Person) are on the rise and are getting more and more brazen with their degrading comments...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Is there really such a thing as non-offending pedophiles? This is, by far, one of the most hotly debated topics concerning pedophiles. MAPs (Minor Attracted Person) are on the rise and are getting more and more brazen with their degrading comments about children. Here is a good article about their online perversions: <br /><a href="https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8466899/Paedophiles-rebrand-minor-attracted-persons-chilling-online-propaganda-drive.html" rel="noopener">https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8466899/Paedophiles-rebrand-minor-attracted-persons-chilling-online-propaganda-drive.html</a><br /><br />The question remains, is it safe to assume that there really is a class of people who are sexually attracted to prepubescent children but do not (and will not) produce actual victims? <br /><br />We unpack this in this episode. We give our opinion and still provide both sides of the argument. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2301</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,clarahinton,dopedophilesoffend,jimmyhinton,maps,metoo,virtuouspedophiles</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 160: If You've Been Abused In the Church God Will. . .</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-160-if-you-ve-been-abused-in-the-church-god-will--45707973</link><description><![CDATA[Abuse survivors are often told what THEY--not their abusers--did wrong. Survivors are often told that they somehow provoked an abuser to commit crimes against them. They are told that if they lived a better life God wouldn't have allowed them to be abused. They're told to forgive and move on. <br /><br />But what stance does God take against abuse and, just as important, the abuser? Somehow the church has failed in just about every category when it comes to abuse--from causing abuse to covering it up to mistreating victims. In this episode we break down clear answers for how we see God respond to abuse and believe us, it's a far cry from how most churches are responding. <br /><br />To order Jimmy's book, The Devil Inside:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/45707973</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Jul 2021 17:00:16 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/45707973/episode_160.mp3" length="41129273" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Abuse survivors are often told what THEY--not their abusers--did wrong. Survivors are often told that they somehow provoked an abuser to commit crimes against them. They are told that if they lived a better life God wouldn't have allowed them to be...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Abuse survivors are often told what THEY--not their abusers--did wrong. Survivors are often told that they somehow provoked an abuser to commit crimes against them. They are told that if they lived a better life God wouldn't have allowed them to be abused. They're told to forgive and move on. <br /><br />But what stance does God take against abuse and, just as important, the abuser? Somehow the church has failed in just about every category when it comes to abuse--from causing abuse to covering it up to mistreating victims. In this episode we break down clear answers for how we see God respond to abuse and believe us, it's a far cry from how most churches are responding. <br /><br />To order Jimmy's book, The Devil Inside:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2571</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,clarahinton,godhatesabuse,helpfortheabused,jimmyhinton,metoo</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 159: Are My Kids Safe Online? Checklist</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-159-are-my-kids-safe-online-checklist--45552175</link><description><![CDATA[Never before has it been so easy for children to be exploited online. Common Sense Media did a recent survey that shows 54% of children own a smartphone before the age of 11. 84% of teens own a smartphone. With the phones come a host of issues: Ready access to hardcore, violent pornography, secret apps where children are pressured to send explicit photos and videos, cyberbullying, and on the list goes. Not to sound the alarm bells too loudly, but our children truly have become extremely vulnerable. <br /><br />In this episode, we talk about some of the worst (and most popular) apps that kids can have, and what our solution is to making kids safer in a digital world. <br /><br />Here's an NPR story on the issue of so many kids accessing technology: <br /><a href="https://www.npr.org/2019/10/31/774838891/its-a-smartphone-life-more-than-half-of-u-s-children-now-have-one" rel="noopener">https://www.npr.org/2019/10/31/774838891/its-a-smartphone-life-more-than-half-of-u-s-children-now-have-one</a><br /><br />To order Jimmy's book, The Devil Inside: <br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/45552175</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Jul 2021 17:00:14 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/45552175/episode_159.mp3" length="29657129" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Never before has it been so easy for children to be exploited online. Common Sense Media did a recent survey that shows 54% of children own a smartphone before the age of 11. 84% of teens own a smartphone. With the phones come a host of issues: Ready...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Never before has it been so easy for children to be exploited online. Common Sense Media did a recent survey that shows 54% of children own a smartphone before the age of 11. 84% of teens own a smartphone. With the phones come a host of issues: Ready access to hardcore, violent pornography, secret apps where children are pressured to send explicit photos and videos, cyberbullying, and on the list goes. Not to sound the alarm bells too loudly, but our children truly have become extremely vulnerable. <br /><br />In this episode, we talk about some of the worst (and most popular) apps that kids can have, and what our solution is to making kids safer in a digital world. <br /><br />Here's an NPR story on the issue of so many kids accessing technology: <br /><a href="https://www.npr.org/2019/10/31/774838891/its-a-smartphone-life-more-than-half-of-u-s-children-now-have-one" rel="noopener">https://www.npr.org/2019/10/31/774838891/its-a-smartphone-life-more-than-half-of-u-s-children-now-have-one</a><br /><br />To order Jimmy's book, The Devil Inside: <br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1854</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childexploitation,clarahinton,exploitingkidsonline,jimmyhinton,keepingkidssafeonline,kidsapps,onlineapps,onlinesafety,onlinetips,whichappsaresafe</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 158: Former Amish and Mennonites Tell Us How Bad Abuse Really Is (Part 2)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-158-former-amish-and-mennonites-tell-us-how-bad-abuse-really-is-part-2--45523744</link><description><![CDATA[Mary Byler, Misty Griffin, Audrey Kaufman, and Jasper Hoffman talk to us about abuse in the Plain community. They tell us their stories about physical and sexual violence, spiritual abuse, and what we in the English community need to be doing to help rescue the women and children who are trapped. <br /><br />This is part 2 of 2 episodes.<br /><br />To view Mary's video on Old Order Amish: <br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qC4PmBHNFtw" rel="noopener">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qC4PmBHNFtw</a><br /><br />To order Misty's book, Tears of the Silenced:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Tears-Silenced-Childhood-Betrayal-Ultimate-ebook/dp/B07FTQDN38/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Tears-Silenced-Childhood-Betrayal-Ultimate-ebook/dp/B07FTQDN38/ref</a>=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=misty+griffin&qid=1625056207&sr=8-1<br /><br />To hear Jasper's The Plain People's Podcast: <br /><a href="https://theplainpeoplespodcast.libsyn.com/" rel="noopener">https://theplainpeoplespodcast.libsyn.com/</a><br /><br />To order Jimmy's book, The Devil Inside: <br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/45523744</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Jul 2021 17:00:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/45523744/episode_158.mp3" length="54009521" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Mary Byler, Misty Griffin, Audrey Kaufman, and Jasper Hoffman talk to us about abuse in the Plain community. They tell us their stories about physical and sexual violence, spiritual abuse, and what we in the English community need to be doing to help...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Mary Byler, Misty Griffin, Audrey Kaufman, and Jasper Hoffman talk to us about abuse in the Plain community. They tell us their stories about physical and sexual violence, spiritual abuse, and what we in the English community need to be doing to help rescue the women and children who are trapped. <br /><br />This is part 2 of 2 episodes.<br /><br />To view Mary's video on Old Order Amish: <br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qC4PmBHNFtw" rel="noopener">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qC4PmBHNFtw</a><br /><br />To order Misty's book, Tears of the Silenced:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Tears-Silenced-Childhood-Betrayal-Ultimate-ebook/dp/B07FTQDN38/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Tears-Silenced-Childhood-Betrayal-Ultimate-ebook/dp/B07FTQDN38/ref</a>=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=misty+griffin&qid=1625056207&sr=8-1<br /><br />To hear Jasper's The Plain People's Podcast: <br /><a href="https://theplainpeoplespodcast.libsyn.com/" rel="noopener">https://theplainpeoplespodcast.libsyn.com/</a><br /><br />To order Jimmy's book, The Devil Inside: <br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3376</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>amish,amishabuse,audreykaufman,clarahinton,jasperhoffman,jimmyhinton,marybyler,mennonite,mennoniteabuse,mistygriffin,plaincommunity</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 157: Former Amish and Mennonites Tell Us How Bad Abuse Really Is (Part 1)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-157-former-amish-and-mennonites-tell-us-how-bad-abuse-really-is-part-1--45508796</link><description><![CDATA[Mary Byler, Misty Griffin, Audrey Kaufman, and Jasper Hoffman talk to us about abuse in the Plain community. They tell us their stories about physical and sexual violence, spiritual abuse, and what we in the English community need to be doing to help rescue the women and children who are trapped. <br /><br />This is part 1 of 2 episodes.<br /><br />To view Mary's video on Old Order Amish: <br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qC4PmBHNFtw" rel="noopener">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qC4PmBHNFtw</a><br /><br />To order Misty's book, Tears of the Silenced:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Tears-Silenced-Childhood-Betrayal-Ultimate-ebook/dp/B07FTQDN38/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Tears-Silenced-Childhood-Betrayal-Ultimate-ebook/dp/B07FTQDN38/ref</a>=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=misty+griffin&qid=1625056207&sr=8-1<br /><br />To hear Jasper's The Plain People's Podcast: <br /><a href="https://theplainpeoplespodcast.libsyn.com/" rel="noopener">https://theplainpeoplespodcast.libsyn.com/</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/45508796</guid><pubDate>Wed, 30 Jun 2021 12:44:46 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/45508796/episode_157.mp3" length="38532493" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Mary Byler, Misty Griffin, Audrey Kaufman, and Jasper Hoffman talk to us about abuse in the Plain community. They tell us their stories about physical and sexual violence, spiritual abuse, and what we in the English community need to be doing to help...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Mary Byler, Misty Griffin, Audrey Kaufman, and Jasper Hoffman talk to us about abuse in the Plain community. They tell us their stories about physical and sexual violence, spiritual abuse, and what we in the English community need to be doing to help rescue the women and children who are trapped. <br /><br />This is part 1 of 2 episodes.<br /><br />To view Mary's video on Old Order Amish: <br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qC4PmBHNFtw" rel="noopener">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qC4PmBHNFtw</a><br /><br />To order Misty's book, Tears of the Silenced:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Tears-Silenced-Childhood-Betrayal-Ultimate-ebook/dp/B07FTQDN38/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Tears-Silenced-Childhood-Betrayal-Ultimate-ebook/dp/B07FTQDN38/ref</a>=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=misty+griffin&qid=1625056207&sr=8-1<br /><br />To hear Jasper's The Plain People's Podcast: <br /><a href="https://theplainpeoplespodcast.libsyn.com/" rel="noopener">https://theplainpeoplespodcast.libsyn.com/</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2409</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>amishabuse,audreykaufman,clarahinton,jasperhoffman,jimmyhinton,marybyler,mennoniteabuse,mistygriffin,plaincommunities</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 156: Are My Kids Safe at Home? Checklist</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-156-are-my-kids-safe-at-home-checklist--45339196</link><description><![CDATA[Countless sexual abuse victims are not safe in their own homes. Over 60% of sexual abuse survivors are abused by someone related to them in their home. When the majority of abuse happens by a close family member or friend, how can we ensure our homes are safe for our children. <br /><br />One of the most traumatic things for a child is to have the safety of their own home stripped from them. Many adult survivors of abuse still live in constant anxiety and fear when they enter their own homes because of the abuse they endured in their homes as children. This should never be. It certainly shouldn't be the norm. <br /><br />In this episode, we offer some practical things to check to help ensure children are safer in our home. There is no fail safe method to keep them safe all the time, but we can certainly do better. We NEED to do better. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/45339196</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Jun 2021 17:00:15 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/45339196/episode_156.mp3" length="28814106" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Countless sexual abuse victims are not safe in their own homes. Over 60% of sexual abuse survivors are abused by someone related to them in their home. When the majority of abuse happens by a close family member or friend, how can we ensure our homes...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Countless sexual abuse victims are not safe in their own homes. Over 60% of sexual abuse survivors are abused by someone related to them in their home. When the majority of abuse happens by a close family member or friend, how can we ensure our homes are safe for our children. <br /><br />One of the most traumatic things for a child is to have the safety of their own home stripped from them. Many adult survivors of abuse still live in constant anxiety and fear when they enter their own homes because of the abuse they endured in their homes as children. This should never be. It certainly shouldn't be the norm. <br /><br />In this episode, we offer some practical things to check to help ensure children are safer in our home. There is no fail safe method to keep them safe all the time, but we can certainly do better. We NEED to do better. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1801</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuse,abuseathome,churchtoo,clarahinton,homesafety,jimmyhinton,metoo,protectingmykids,sexabuse,sexualabuse,stayingsafeathome</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 155: Are My Kids Safe at School? Checklist</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-155-are-my-kids-safe-at-school-checklist--45245079</link><description><![CDATA[For 180 days out of the year our children will spend the majority of their childhood in the care of people other than their parents. We need to ensure that the people charged with teaching our children are also charged with protecting them. Many schools are danger zones. The number of school teachers sexually abusing students is rising in virtually every state. An estimated 10% of students will experience school employee sexual misconduct by the time they graduate high school. For more information, see the report by National Criminal Justice Reference Service:<br /><a href="https://www.ojp.gov/pdffiles1/nij/grants/252484.pdf" rel="noopener">https://www.ojp.gov/pdffiles1/nij/grants/252484.pdf</a><br /><br />Parents need to know that their kids' schools are safe. And if they aren't safe, parents need to know how to become empowered to help hold schools accountable to become safe. It's no easy task, but in this episode we provide 7 things parents should look for in a safe school. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a><br /><br />0:00 - Intro<br />1:34 - Does the school have good/consistent security measures in place?<br />6:25 - Do schools have good training and do they stay current? <br />8:36 - Do schools train students to look for predators and teach them how to report?<br />13:09 - Do schools communicate who the Title IX coordinator is?<br />15:32 - Are schools transparent with communication? <br />22:02 - Are school activities monitored or do defensive walls come down after hours?<br />26:45 - Does your school "pass the trash"?]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/45245079</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Jun 2021 17:00:15 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/45245079/episode_155.mp3" length="32427363" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>For 180 days out of the year our children will spend the majority of their childhood in the care of people other than their parents. We need to ensure that the people charged with teaching our children are also charged with protecting them. Many...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[For 180 days out of the year our children will spend the majority of their childhood in the care of people other than their parents. We need to ensure that the people charged with teaching our children are also charged with protecting them. Many schools are danger zones. The number of school teachers sexually abusing students is rising in virtually every state. An estimated 10% of students will experience school employee sexual misconduct by the time they graduate high school. For more information, see the report by National Criminal Justice Reference Service:<br /><a href="https://www.ojp.gov/pdffiles1/nij/grants/252484.pdf" rel="noopener">https://www.ojp.gov/pdffiles1/nij/grants/252484.pdf</a><br /><br />Parents need to know that their kids' schools are safe. And if they aren't safe, parents need to know how to become empowered to help hold schools accountable to become safe. It's no easy task, but in this episode we provide 7 things parents should look for in a safe school. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a><br /><br />0:00 - Intro<br />1:34 - Does the school have good/consistent security measures in place?<br />6:25 - Do schools have good training and do they stay current? <br />8:36 - Do schools train students to look for predators and teach them how to report?<br />13:09 - Do schools communicate who the Title IX coordinator is?<br />15:32 - Are schools transparent with communication? <br />22:02 - Are school activities monitored or do defensive walls come down after hours?<br />26:45 - Does your school "pass the trash"?]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2027</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusiveteachers,childabusersatschool,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,reportingabuse,safeschools,schoolsafety</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 154: Are Your Kids Safe at the Doctor? Checklist</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-154-are-your-kids-safe-at-the-doctor-checklist--45150858</link><description><![CDATA[The world was stunned when they learned that US Olympic doctor Larry Nassar sexually abused hundreds of victims. Many were even more shocked to learn that most of his victims had their parents in the same room as Nassar assaulted them. <br /><br />Abuse of children happens across every profession and education level. In this episode we offer a checklist to determine whether your child is safe at the doctor's office. As parents, we have the right to choose our providers and only we can defend and protect our children. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/45150858</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Jun 2021 17:00:16 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/45150858/episode_154.mp3" length="26811663" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The world was stunned when they learned that US Olympic doctor Larry Nassar sexually abused hundreds of victims. Many were even more shocked to learn that most of his victims had their parents in the same room as Nassar assaulted them. 

Abuse of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The world was stunned when they learned that US Olympic doctor Larry Nassar sexually abused hundreds of victims. Many were even more shocked to learn that most of his victims had their parents in the same room as Nassar assaulted them. <br /><br />Abuse of children happens across every profession and education level. In this episode we offer a checklist to determine whether your child is safe at the doctor's office. As parents, we have the right to choose our providers and only we can defend and protect our children. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1676</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusivedoctors,clarahinton,clarahintonpodcast,ismykidsafe,jimmyhinton,jimmyhintonpodcast,larrynassar,safedoctors,safetyfirst</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 153: Are My Kids Safe at Church? Checklist</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-153-are-my-kids-safe-at-church-checklist--45065303</link><description><![CDATA[Do you ever wish you could have a checklist to know whether your kids will be safe at church? A lot of parents rely on churches simply telling them that their kids are safe. But we know that the track record at churches is very grim. In this episode we give a checklist that parents can run through to ensure that there is a culture of protecting children at church. <br /><br />To order Jimmy's book, The Devil Inside:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />To Order Clara's book, Hope 365:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Hope-365-Daily-Meditations-Grieving/dp/1539991539/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Hope-365-Daily-Meditations-Grieving/dp/1539991539/ref</a>=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=hope+365&qid=1622030091&s=books&sr=1-1<br /><br />To Order Clara's children's book, Robbie and the Special Daisies:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Robbie-Special-Daisies-Childs-Grief/dp/B08X6DXRTM/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Robbie-Special-Daisies-Childs-Grief/dp/B08X6DXRTM/ref</a>=sr_1_2?dchild=1&keywords=clara+Hinton&qid=1622030130&s=books&sr=1-2<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/45065303</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 May 2021 17:00:15 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/45065303/episode_153.mp3" length="31127510" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you ever wish you could have a checklist to know whether your kids will be safe at church? A lot of parents rely on churches simply telling them that their kids are safe. But we know that the track record at churches is very grim. In this episode...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you ever wish you could have a checklist to know whether your kids will be safe at church? A lot of parents rely on churches simply telling them that their kids are safe. But we know that the track record at churches is very grim. In this episode we give a checklist that parents can run through to ensure that there is a culture of protecting children at church. <br /><br />To order Jimmy's book, The Devil Inside:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />To Order Clara's book, Hope 365:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Hope-365-Daily-Meditations-Grieving/dp/1539991539/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Hope-365-Daily-Meditations-Grieving/dp/1539991539/ref</a>=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=hope+365&qid=1622030091&s=books&sr=1-1<br /><br />To Order Clara's children's book, Robbie and the Special Daisies:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Robbie-Special-Daisies-Childs-Grief/dp/B08X6DXRTM/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Robbie-Special-Daisies-Childs-Grief/dp/B08X6DXRTM/ref</a>=sr_1_2?dchild=1&keywords=clara+Hinton&qid=1622030130&s=books&sr=1-2<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1946</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusepolicy,aremykidssafe,aremykidssafeatchurch,churchtoo,clarahinton,clarahintonpodcast,hintonpodcast,jimmyhinton,jimmyhintonpodcast,keepingkidssafe,protectionpolicy</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 152:  People Who Should Be Well Trained to Prevent Abuse (But Mostly Aren't)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-152-people-who-should-be-well-trained-to-prevent-abuse-but-mostly-aren-t--44929770</link><description><![CDATA[Do you ever wonder how abuse has become such an epidemic? The statistics are getting worse instead of better. In this episode, we highlight 5 categories of people who should be the best trained to recognize and prevent abuse, including doctors and nurses, yet either lack adequate training or have no training at all. <br /><br />There is no uniform training or requirements for training in these fields, even though abuse is still rampant. What are some other areas that we didn't mention? We'd love to hear your thoughts. <br /><br />For Jimmy's book, The Devil Inside: <br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/44929770</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 May 2021 17:00:14 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/44929770/episode_152.mp3" length="29996930" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you ever wonder how abuse has become such an epidemic? The statistics are getting worse instead of better. In this episode, we highlight 5 categories of people who should be the best trained to recognize and prevent abuse, including doctors and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you ever wonder how abuse has become such an epidemic? The statistics are getting worse instead of better. In this episode, we highlight 5 categories of people who should be the best trained to recognize and prevent abuse, including doctors and nurses, yet either lack adequate training or have no training at all. <br /><br />There is no uniform training or requirements for training in these fields, even though abuse is still rampant. What are some other areas that we didn't mention? We'd love to hear your thoughts. <br /><br />For Jimmy's book, The Devil Inside: <br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1875</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childprotection,clarahinton,internetsafety,jimmyhinton,keepingkidssafe,keepkidssafe,protectourkids,schoolsafety</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 151: Don't Know Where to Begin? Clara and Jimmy's Top Book Recommendations on Abuse in 2021</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-151-don-t-know-where-to-begin-clara-and-jimmy-s-top-book-recommendations-on-abuse-in-2021--44793358</link><description><![CDATA[Do you ever wonder where to begin reading about abuse? There is a sea of books out there and it can be overwhelming. In this episode we divide our top recommendations into four different categories. <br /><br />We hope you find this as helpful as we did! It was a good refresher to go back and review books we hadn't read in several years. <br /><br />Jimmy's book, The Devil Inside, can be ordered here:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/44793358</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 May 2021 17:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/44793358/episode_151.mp3" length="40231915" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you ever wonder where to begin reading about abuse? There is a sea of books out there and it can be overwhelming. In this episode we divide our top recommendations into four different categories. 

We hope you find this as helpful as we did! It was...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you ever wonder where to begin reading about abuse? There is a sea of books out there and it can be overwhelming. In this episode we divide our top recommendations into four different categories. <br /><br />We hope you find this as helpful as we did! It was a good refresher to go back and review books we hadn't read in several years. <br /><br />Jimmy's book, The Devil Inside, can be ordered here:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2515</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusebooks,bestbooksonabuse,booksaboutabuse,booksonabuse,clarahinton,jimmyhinton</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 150: Josh Duggar Was Protected When He Needed Help Instead</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-150-josh-duggar-was-protected-when-he-needed-help-instead--44664481</link><description><![CDATA[Josh Duggar is in trouble AGAIN. This time he was arrested and placed in a Homeland Security facility with two serious federal charges and no bond. His charges include receiving and possessing child abuse materials. Josh has a patterned past of abuse of minors and other sexual misconduct. When he was 14, he molested four younger sisters and a baby sitter. His parents, while calling his actions inexcusable, went on to minimize his crimes by calling them "stupid mistakes." This phrase was repeated by Josh's sisters (also his victims) Jill and Jessa. <br /><br />Mike Huckabee also repeated this phrase when he came to Josh's defense in 2015, even calling Josh "good people." When the public learned of Josh's past crimes when he was a juvenile, Mike Huckabee said, " He and his family dealt with it and were honest and open about it with the victims and the authorities. . . No purpose whatsoever is served by those who are now trying to discredit Josh or his family by sensationalizing the story. Good people make mistakes and do regrettable and even disgusting things." <br /><br />It is no surprise that Josh has been empowered to abuse children, view and download images and videos of children under the age of 12 being abused, and cheat on his spouse. When accountability is low and abuse is minimized, victims are urged to forgive their abuser and move on. This is not an act of compassion for either the abuser or the victims. Josh should have gotten the help he needed when he was first caught at the age of 14. Renowned expert in the field of pedophilia, Dr. Gene Abel, says that sexual fantasies that we have as children are solidified into adulthood when they are paired with arousal. When a teen's fantasies include younger children, those fantasies are solidified well into adulthood. But Abel also says something groundbreaking: "We can change people's sex fantasies." But this only happens with great success when the person is still a minor. <br /><br />This is a cautionary tale of a teenager who's life may have turned out completely different, had he gotten the proper help he needed. Now he is on a dangerous trajectory and is a 33 year old abuser.<br /><br />To order Jimmy's book, The Devil Inside:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Photo used under Creative Commons license. Original photo credit: <br /><a href="https://www.flickr.com/photos/96024429" rel="noopener">https://www.flickr.com/photos/96024429</a>@N00/17966165892<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/44664481</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 May 2021 17:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/44664481/episode_150.mp3" length="43988114" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Josh Duggar is in trouble AGAIN. This time he was arrested and placed in a Homeland Security facility with two serious federal charges and no bond. His charges include receiving and possessing child abuse materials. Josh has a patterned past of abuse...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Josh Duggar is in trouble AGAIN. This time he was arrested and placed in a Homeland Security facility with two serious federal charges and no bond. His charges include receiving and possessing child abuse materials. Josh has a patterned past of abuse of minors and other sexual misconduct. When he was 14, he molested four younger sisters and a baby sitter. His parents, while calling his actions inexcusable, went on to minimize his crimes by calling them "stupid mistakes." This phrase was repeated by Josh's sisters (also his victims) Jill and Jessa. <br /><br />Mike Huckabee also repeated this phrase when he came to Josh's defense in 2015, even calling Josh "good people." When the public learned of Josh's past crimes when he was a juvenile, Mike Huckabee said, " He and his family dealt with it and were honest and open about it with the victims and the authorities. . . No purpose whatsoever is served by those who are now trying to discredit Josh or his family by sensationalizing the story. Good people make mistakes and do regrettable and even disgusting things." <br /><br />It is no surprise that Josh has been empowered to abuse children, view and download images and videos of children under the age of 12 being abused, and cheat on his spouse. When accountability is low and abuse is minimized, victims are urged to forgive their abuser and move on. This is not an act of compassion for either the abuser or the victims. Josh should have gotten the help he needed when he was first caught at the age of 14. Renowned expert in the field of pedophilia, Dr. Gene Abel, says that sexual fantasies that we have as children are solidified into adulthood when they are paired with arousal. When a teen's fantasies include younger children, those fantasies are solidified well into adulthood. But Abel also says something groundbreaking: "We can change people's sex fantasies." But this only happens with great success when the person is still a minor. <br /><br />This is a cautionary tale of a teenager who's life may have turned out completely different, had he gotten the proper help he needed. Now he is on a dangerous trajectory and is a 33 year old abuser.<br /><br />To order Jimmy's book, The Devil Inside:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Photo used under Creative Commons license. Original photo credit: <br /><a href="https://www.flickr.com/photos/96024429" rel="noopener">https://www.flickr.com/photos/96024429</a>@N00/17966165892<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2750</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,joshduggar,joshduggarabusedsisters,joshduggarabuser,joshduggararrest,joshduggarpedophile,joshduggarreleased,metoo</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/aad643bc09e09957adc2d3583f556903.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 149: Should Christians Ever Have Sympathy for Child Abusers?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-149-should-christians-ever-have-sympathy-for-child-abusers--44558161</link><description><![CDATA[Christianity Today International did a survey of 3,000 church leaders and members in 2010, where they found that 80% of respondents believe that sex offenders who have paid their dues in the legal system should be welcomed into the church. Even with the attention #MeToo and #ChurchToo have gotten, churches are still not hesitant to welcome abusers into the fold, often accompanied with secret agreements between church leaders and the offenders. <br /><br />Is it our duty as Christians to welcome abusers into the church? Should we minister to them? We unpack these questions in this episode and explain why we think this is both bad policy and poses a very real danger to innocent children. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/44558161</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Apr 2021 17:00:11 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/44558161/episode_149.mp3" length="33205603" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Christianity Today International did a survey of 3,000 church leaders and members in 2010, where they found that 80% of respondents believe that sex offenders who have paid their dues in the legal system should be welcomed into the church. Even with...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Christianity Today International did a survey of 3,000 church leaders and members in 2010, where they found that 80% of respondents believe that sex offenders who have paid their dues in the legal system should be welcomed into the church. Even with the attention #MeToo and #ChurchToo have gotten, churches are still not hesitant to welcome abusers into the fold, often accompanied with secret agreements between church leaders and the offenders. <br /><br />Is it our duty as Christians to welcome abusers into the church? Should we minister to them? We unpack these questions in this episode and explain why we think this is both bad policy and poses a very real danger to innocent children. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2076</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childabusers,churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,metoo,registeredsexoffenders,sexoffendersinchurch</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 148: Sheila Wray Gregoire Discusses The Great Sex Rescue</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-148-sheila-wray-gregoire-discusses-the-great-sex-rescue--44439450</link><description><![CDATA[Guest Sheila Wray Gregoire discusses the myths in Christian literature that leads to an unhealthy view of sexuality. This certainly applies to child sexual abuse, too. Often victims of abuse--even children--are told that the way they dress "tempted" the abuser. Sheila unpacks the wrongful expectation that sex is about fulfilling the man's sexual desire. She also mentions what parents can be telling their children about sex and creating healthy boundaries. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/44439450</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Apr 2021 17:00:12 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/44439450/episode_148.mp3" length="43356160" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Guest Sheila Wray Gregoire discusses the myths in Christian literature that leads to an unhealthy view of sexuality. This certainly applies to child sexual abuse, too. Often victims of abuse--even children--are told that the way they dress "tempted"...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Guest Sheila Wray Gregoire discusses the myths in Christian literature that leads to an unhealthy view of sexuality. This certainly applies to child sexual abuse, too. Often victims of abuse--even children--are told that the way they dress "tempted" the abuser. Sheila unpacks the wrongful expectation that sex is about fulfilling the man's sexual desire. She also mentions what parents can be telling their children about sex and creating healthy boundaries. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2710</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>clarahinton,jimmyhinton,sexandchurch,sexandmarriage,sheilawraygregoire,thegreatsexrescue</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b6afca5f85457867e7456a12b811cb39.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 147: Should the Church Help Victims Cut Ties With Their Abusers?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-147-should-the-church-help-victims-cut-ties-with-their-abusers--44344097</link><description><![CDATA[Churches default to reconciliation as a first response to uncovering abuse. Leaders often refer to select Bible verses to back their aggressive efforts to reconcile abusers with their victims. This is especially true if the victim is married to the abuser. We see this all the time in violent marriages. Women are very often urged to remain entrapped in abusive homes and submit to their husband's brutality. <br /><br />But should the church instead help victims to cut ties with their abusers? How do we know when it is best to cut ties? We discuss all of this in this episode. <br /><br /> Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/44344097</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Apr 2021 17:00:12 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/44344097/episode_147.mp3" length="35915232" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Churches default to reconciliation as a first response to uncovering abuse. Leaders often refer to select Bible verses to back their aggressive efforts to reconcile abusers with their victims. This is especially true if the victim is married to the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Churches default to reconciliation as a first response to uncovering abuse. Leaders often refer to select Bible verses to back their aggressive efforts to reconcile abusers with their victims. This is especially true if the victim is married to the abuser. We see this all the time in violent marriages. Women are very often urged to remain entrapped in abusive homes and submit to their husband's brutality. <br /><br />But should the church instead help victims to cut ties with their abusers? How do we know when it is best to cut ties? We discuss all of this in this episode. <br /><br /> Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2245</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchabuse,churchtoo,clarahinton,escapingabuse,gettingawayfrommyabuser,jimmyhinton,metoo,spiritualabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 146: Would People Who Welcome Abusers Entrust Their Own Kids With Them?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-146-would-people-who-welcome-abusers-entrust-their-own-kids-with-them--44257933</link><description><![CDATA[We got asked whether we believe people who welcome abusers into the church would actually let their own kids be near the known abusers. It's an important question that not many people are asking. Honestly, it's not one that we have addressed before. <br /><br />We see it all the time. Church leaders talk about registered sex offenders or credibly accused people as if they've fully repented. They welcome them back into the church with open arms. Ironically, as leaders welcome them they also try to hide the fact that they are child abusers. Leaders often sign "covenant agreements" between just them and the abuser, while congregants stay in the dark. So the question is, "Would these same leaders who welcome abusers into the church entrust their own children to the abusers?" The answer may surprise you. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/44257933</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Apr 2021 17:00:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/44257933/episode_146.mp3" length="37856235" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We got asked whether we believe people who welcome abusers into the church would actually let their own kids be near the known abusers. It's an important question that not many people are asking. Honestly, it's not one that we have addressed before....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We got asked whether we believe people who welcome abusers into the church would actually let their own kids be near the known abusers. It's an important question that not many people are asking. Honestly, it's not one that we have addressed before. <br /><br />We see it all the time. Church leaders talk about registered sex offenders or credibly accused people as if they've fully repented. They welcome them back into the church with open arms. Ironically, as leaders welcome them they also try to hide the fact that they are child abusers. Leaders often sign "covenant agreements" between just them and the abuser, while congregants stay in the dark. So the question is, "Would these same leaders who welcome abusers into the church entrust their own children to the abusers?" The answer may surprise you. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2367</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusersbabysitting,abusersdont'tchange,churcheswelcomingabusers,churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 145: Minnesota Overturns Felony Rape Charge</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-145-minnesota-overturns-felony-rape-charge--44147791</link><description><![CDATA[The Minnesota Supreme Court overturned a felony rape conviction because the victim was "voluntarily intoxicated" during the assault. In this episode, we discuss why this is dangerous and why the laws need to catch up. We also discuss the sexual allegations against Governor Cuomo, who famously signed New Yorks' Child Victims Act, providing a two year lookback window for abuse survivors. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/44147791</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Apr 2021 17:00:12 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/44147791/episode_145.mp3" length="31920796" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The Minnesota Supreme Court overturned a felony rape conviction because the victim was "voluntarily intoxicated" during the assault. In this episode, we discuss why this is dangerous and why the laws need to catch up. We also discuss the sexual...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The Minnesota Supreme Court overturned a felony rape conviction because the victim was "voluntarily intoxicated" during the assault. In this episode, we discuss why this is dangerous and why the laws need to catch up. We also discuss the sexual allegations against Governor Cuomo, who famously signed New Yorks' Child Victims Act, providing a two year lookback window for abuse survivors. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1996</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>clarahintonpodcast,intoxicatedrapevictims,jimmyhintonpodcast,metoo,minnesotasupremecourt,nojustice</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 144: Mary Byler - From Amish Survivor to Army Thriver</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-144-mary-byler-from-amish-survivor-to-army-thriver--44049658</link><description><![CDATA[Mary grew up in an Amish home where she was serially molested from the age of 4 or 5 by her father and brothers. She repeatedly told her mom, who blamed the abuse on Mary, saying, "If only you prayed more these bad things wouldn't happen to you." Amish victims are taught to forgive their abuser and to not question any man who holds authority over them. <br /><br />It is against their custom to report abuse to the police. Instead, if abusers are indeed caught and found to be guilty, they are shunned for six weeks before being fully restored to their church and community, no questions asked. Sexual abuse and violence are incredibly common among Amish communities because of this toxic environment, making it nearly impossible for victims to ever escape their abuse. <br /><br />After suffering years of horrific abuse, Mary was finally rescued and was given the opportunity most Amish victims will never receive--reporting to the police. A couple of Mary's abusers received a light sentence but have since been fully restored back to the Amish community with unlimited access to children. In this episode, Mary courageously shares her story, along with invaluable tips when interacting with survivors of sexual abuse. <br /><br />Mary's story can be found here:<br /><a href="https://www.kltv.com/story/2466831/amish-community-shocked-by-one-families-secrets/" rel="noopener">https://www.kltv.com/story/2466831/amish-community-shocked-by-one-families-secrets/</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/44049658</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 Mar 2021 17:00:17 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/44049658/episode_144.mp3" length="53940976" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Mary grew up in an Amish home where she was serially molested from the age of 4 or 5 by her father and brothers. She repeatedly told her mom, who blamed the abuse on Mary, saying, "If only you prayed more these bad things wouldn't happen to you."...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Mary grew up in an Amish home where she was serially molested from the age of 4 or 5 by her father and brothers. She repeatedly told her mom, who blamed the abuse on Mary, saying, "If only you prayed more these bad things wouldn't happen to you." Amish victims are taught to forgive their abuser and to not question any man who holds authority over them. <br /><br />It is against their custom to report abuse to the police. Instead, if abusers are indeed caught and found to be guilty, they are shunned for six weeks before being fully restored to their church and community, no questions asked. Sexual abuse and violence are incredibly common among Amish communities because of this toxic environment, making it nearly impossible for victims to ever escape their abuse. <br /><br />After suffering years of horrific abuse, Mary was finally rescued and was given the opportunity most Amish victims will never receive--reporting to the police. A couple of Mary's abusers received a light sentence but have since been fully restored back to the Amish community with unlimited access to children. In this episode, Mary courageously shares her story, along with invaluable tips when interacting with survivors of sexual abuse. <br /><br />Mary's story can be found here:<br /><a href="https://www.kltv.com/story/2466831/amish-community-shocked-by-one-families-secrets/" rel="noopener">https://www.kltv.com/story/2466831/amish-community-shocked-by-one-families-secrets/</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3372</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusedbyfather,abusedbysiblings,abusedinamishchurch,amishabuse,amishcoverups,clarahinton,generationalabuse,jimmyhinton,marybyler,shunning</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b4742c2fe90bf12c2629155d1022bc19.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 143: Alex-The Hero Who Disclosed Abuse to Jimmy and Clara</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-143-alex-the-hero-who-disclosed-abuse-to-jimmy-and-clara--43947432</link><description><![CDATA[Alex Howlett is Clara's youngest daughter who disclosed her abuse to both Clara and Jimmy at the age of 20. When they discovered that Alex had been abused as a young child by hers and Jimmy's dad, Clara and Jimmy reported it to the police immediately. The brave decision for Alex to report uncovered decades of abuse, many victims, and resulted in a life sentence in prison for her dad. <br /><br />Countless more children were spared because of Alex's decision to tell. Alex talks about why she decided to disclose her abuse and how that was the beginning of her healing journey. Because of Alex, Jimmy immediately began his journey to becoming an advocate and a researcher. Clara has blogged a lot about her experience as the wife of an abuser at <a href="https://findingahealingplace.com/" rel="noopener">https://findingahealingplace.com/</a><br /><br />Jimmy blogs regularly and has training videos at <a href="https://jimmyhinton.org/" rel="noopener">https://jimmyhinton.org/</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/43947432</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2021 17:00:16 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/43947432/episode_143.mp3" length="52127033" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Alex Howlett is Clara's youngest daughter who disclosed her abuse to both Clara and Jimmy at the age of 20. When they discovered that Alex had been abused as a young child by hers and Jimmy's dad, Clara and Jimmy reported it to the police immediately....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Alex Howlett is Clara's youngest daughter who disclosed her abuse to both Clara and Jimmy at the age of 20. When they discovered that Alex had been abused as a young child by hers and Jimmy's dad, Clara and Jimmy reported it to the police immediately. The brave decision for Alex to report uncovered decades of abuse, many victims, and resulted in a life sentence in prison for her dad. <br /><br />Countless more children were spared because of Alex's decision to tell. Alex talks about why she decided to disclose her abuse and how that was the beginning of her healing journey. Because of Alex, Jimmy immediately began his journey to becoming an advocate and a researcher. Clara has blogged a lot about her experience as the wife of an abuser at <a href="https://findingahealingplace.com/" rel="noopener">https://findingahealingplace.com/</a><br /><br />Jimmy blogs regularly and has training videos at <a href="https://jimmyhinton.org/" rel="noopener">https://jimmyhinton.org/</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3258</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusedbymydad,clarahintonpodcast,familyabuse,jimmyhintonpodcast,reportingmydad,sexualabuseinfamily</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/495c7ba28a45db1f46012fc42452247f.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 142: Should Kids Be Taught About Abuse In School?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-142-should-kids-be-taught-about-abuse-in-school--43844906</link><description><![CDATA[Abuse is here to stay. Many abusers are gaining easy access to children through every avenue possible. There is no standard, uniform training offered in schools for kids. Even though the majority of their time from childhood through young adulthood is spent in a classroom, schools are failing to adequately train them to identify abuse and to interrupt the pattern. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/43844906</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 Mar 2021 18:00:13 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/43844906/episode_142.mp3" length="32607503" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Abuse is here to stay. Many abusers are gaining easy access to children through every avenue possible. There is no standard, uniform training offered in schools for kids. Even though the majority of their time from childhood through young adulthood is...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Abuse is here to stay. Many abusers are gaining easy access to children through every avenue possible. There is no standard, uniform training offered in schools for kids. Even though the majority of their time from childhood through young adulthood is spent in a classroom, schools are failing to adequately train them to identify abuse and to interrupt the pattern. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2038</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,clarahinton,goodtouchbadtouch,howdoiteachmykidaboutabuse,jimmyhinton,metoo,teachingkidsaboutabuse,whentoteachkidsaboutabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 141: How to Identify Men Preying on Young Women</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-141-how-to-identify-men-preying-on-young-women--43737578</link><description><![CDATA[Normally we mostly talk about pedophilia on this show, but a question was brought to us about approaching young women who are being preyed upon by sexual predators. It's not uncommon for pedophiles to also target young ladies who have just reached the age of consent. <br /><br />Be aware that the age of consent varies from state to state, and some states are still age 16. Older men often target these young ladies, and the young ladies believe they are falling in love. In this episode, we discuss what patterns to look for in these men who are really predators. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/43737578</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Mar 2021 18:00:14 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/43737578/episode_141.mp3" length="32431960" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Normally we mostly talk about pedophilia on this show, but a question was brought to us about approaching young women who are being preyed upon by sexual predators. It's not uncommon for pedophiles to also target young ladies who have just reached the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Normally we mostly talk about pedophilia on this show, but a question was brought to us about approaching young women who are being preyed upon by sexual predators. It's not uncommon for pedophiles to also target young ladies who have just reached the age of consent. <br /><br />Be aware that the age of consent varies from state to state, and some states are still age 16. Older men often target these young ladies, and the young ladies believe they are falling in love. In this episode, we discuss what patterns to look for in these men who are really predators. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2027</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,menwhopreyonyoungwomen,metoo,sexualpredators,spottingmenwhopreyonyoung</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 140: Being Deception Illiterate Fuels Abuse</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-140-being-deception-illiterate-fuels-abuse--43633263</link><description><![CDATA[If there's one thing we discovered early on, it's that most Christians are deception illiterate. What we mean by that is that there is NOTHING being taught about deception in our Christian colleges and seminaries. I know, because I went through 9 years of college and seminary, receiving a bachelor's in Bible and Religion and a Master of Divinity. Not one word was mentioned about deception in the church, and there certainly was nothing that equipped me to detect deceptive people. <br /><br />In fact, I had no idea that there was such a thing as "Christians" masquerading as real Christians in order to abuse innocent people. I left with two very good degrees and was completely deception illiterate. Unfortunately, experience had to become my teacher. As long as we keep failing to talk and learn about deception techniques, we will always be deception illiterate. And THIS is what abusers are banking on. It's how they are so easily able to deceive, manipulate, and rob the innocence of their victims. <br /><br />In this episode, we talk about ways to overcome deception illiteracy, and contrast Jesus' teaching method with our method today. Our hope is to turn this culture around and start teaching people the mechanics behind deception so that they can learn to detect it. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/43633263</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2021 18:00:16 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/43633263/episode_140.mp3" length="37500969" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If there's one thing we discovered early on, it's that most Christians are deception illiterate. What we mean by that is that there is NOTHING being taught about deception in our Christian colleges and seminaries. I know, because I went through 9...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If there's one thing we discovered early on, it's that most Christians are deception illiterate. What we mean by that is that there is NOTHING being taught about deception in our Christian colleges and seminaries. I know, because I went through 9 years of college and seminary, receiving a bachelor's in Bible and Religion and a Master of Divinity. Not one word was mentioned about deception in the church, and there certainly was nothing that equipped me to detect deceptive people. <br /><br />In fact, I had no idea that there was such a thing as "Christians" masquerading as real Christians in order to abuse innocent people. I left with two very good degrees and was completely deception illiterate. Unfortunately, experience had to become my teacher. As long as we keep failing to talk and learn about deception techniques, we will always be deception illiterate. And THIS is what abusers are banking on. It's how they are so easily able to deceive, manipulate, and rob the innocence of their victims. <br /><br />In this episode, we talk about ways to overcome deception illiteracy, and contrast Jesus' teaching method with our method today. Our hope is to turn this culture around and start teaching people the mechanics behind deception so that they can learn to detect it. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2344</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuseinthechurch,abusersanddeception,abusersaredeceptive,churchtoo,clarahinton,deception,detectingdeception,howtoseedeception,howtospotdeception,jimmyhinton</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 139: Where Was the RZIM Board for the Past 3 Years?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-139-where-was-the-rzim-board-for-the-past-3-years--43527976</link><description><![CDATA[A recent report came out, along with a statement from the RZIM board, detailing multiple abuse victims of Ravi Zacharias. The board issued an apology for not believing allegations that were brought by Lori Ann Thompson in 2017. Though the board issued an apology, where were they 3 years ago when multiple advocates were warning them (with evidence) that Zacharias was a manipulative abuser who also falsified his credentials to secure book and speaking deals? <br /><br />Mr. Zacharias was upheld as a righteous man, and had the full backing of his board even when multiple credible allegations of abuse were brought to them. This made Zacharias feel invincible, and the report shows that he continued abusing women until the time of his death. They uncovered hundreds of images and videos from his phone and one victim alleges that she was raped by Zacharias. <br /><br />Had the board believed victims, they could have stopped a dangerous predator from harming so many innocent women. <br /><br />Christianity Today article: <a href="https://www.christianitytoday.com/news/2021/february/ravi-zacharias-rzim-investigation-sexual-abuse-sexting-rape.html" rel="noopener">https://www.christianitytoday.com/news/2021/february/ravi-zacharias-rzim-investigation-sexual-abuse-sexting-rape.html</a><br /><br />RZIM statement: <a href="https://www.rzim.org/read/rzim-updates/board-statement" rel="noopener">https://www.rzim.org/read/rzim-updates/board-statement</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/43527976</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2021 18:00:11 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/43527976/episode_139.mp3" length="33114070" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>A recent report came out, along with a statement from the RZIM board, detailing multiple abuse victims of Ravi Zacharias. The board issued an apology for not believing allegations that were brought by Lori Ann Thompson in 2017. Though the board issued...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[A recent report came out, along with a statement from the RZIM board, detailing multiple abuse victims of Ravi Zacharias. The board issued an apology for not believing allegations that were brought by Lori Ann Thompson in 2017. Though the board issued an apology, where were they 3 years ago when multiple advocates were warning them (with evidence) that Zacharias was a manipulative abuser who also falsified his credentials to secure book and speaking deals? <br /><br />Mr. Zacharias was upheld as a righteous man, and had the full backing of his board even when multiple credible allegations of abuse were brought to them. This made Zacharias feel invincible, and the report shows that he continued abusing women until the time of his death. They uncovered hundreds of images and videos from his phone and one victim alleges that she was raped by Zacharias. <br /><br />Had the board believed victims, they could have stopped a dangerous predator from harming so many innocent women. <br /><br />Christianity Today article: <a href="https://www.christianitytoday.com/news/2021/february/ravi-zacharias-rzim-investigation-sexual-abuse-sexting-rape.html" rel="noopener">https://www.christianitytoday.com/news/2021/february/ravi-zacharias-rzim-investigation-sexual-abuse-sexting-rape.html</a><br /><br />RZIM statement: <a href="https://www.rzim.org/read/rzim-updates/board-statement" rel="noopener">https://www.rzim.org/read/rzim-updates/board-statement</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2070</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>clarahintonpodcast,jimmyhintonpodcast,ravizacharias,ravizachariasabusescandal,ravizachariasrapeallegation,rzimravizachariasabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 138: The Devil Inside, My Book on Keeping Kids Safe From Abuse</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-138-the-devil-inside-my-book-on-keeping-kids-safe-from-abuse--43405158</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode we discuss my upcoming memoir, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church For Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him. In this candid discussion, we talk about the purpose for writing it, some of the challenges children of abusers face, and how it was written to help parents spare their children from abuse. <br /><br />I learned the hard way that abusers are incredibly skilled at deception and masking the abuse. We had no idea that, for over 4 decades of my dad's life, he was abusing minor children. Abuse is rampant and is not going away. But we can certainly be proactive in finding abusers and shutting them down. <br /><br />The book is available for pre-sale on Amazon.<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/43405158</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2021 18:00:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/43405158/episode_138.mp3" length="34217064" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode we discuss my upcoming memoir, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church For Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him. In this candid discussion, we talk about the purpose for writing it, some of the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode we discuss my upcoming memoir, The Devil Inside: How My Minister Father Molested Kids In Our Home and Church For Decades and How I Finally Stopped Him. In this candid discussion, we talk about the purpose for writing it, some of the challenges children of abusers face, and how it was written to help parents spare their children from abuse. <br /><br />I learned the hard way that abusers are incredibly skilled at deception and masking the abuse. We had no idea that, for over 4 decades of my dad's life, he was abusing minor children. Abuse is rampant and is not going away. But we can certainly be proactive in finding abusers and shutting them down. <br /><br />The book is available for pre-sale on Amazon.<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950948617/ref</a>=cm_sw_su_dp<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2139</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>bookonabuse,bookonsexualabuse,clarahintonpodcast,howtokeepkidssafefromabuse,howtopreventabuseofkids,ismydadanabuser,jimmyhintonbook,jimmyhintonpodcast,thedevilinside,thedevilinsidebook</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 137: Pennsylvania Once Again Fails Child Sex Victims</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-137-pennsylvania-once-again-fails-child-sex-victims--43287812</link><description><![CDATA[Pennsylvania abuse survivors have been trying to get justice for a long time. The 2018 Grand Jury Report, which discovered over 1,000 victims and 300 pedophile priests, recommended that a two year window be opened for victims who fell under an outdated statute of limitations. In 2018 the proposed law passed overwhelmingly in the Pennsylvania House  only to have it squashed by then President pro tempore of the Senate, Joe Scarnati. He intentionally stalled the bill until the clock ran out for that legislative session, effectively killing the bill. <br /><br />Most recently, a state constitutional amendment allowing lawsuits for outdated claims was to appear on the ballot this May. However, that was once again squashed when a "clerical error" was announced, disqualifying the amendment to appear on the ballot. The earliest it can appear on the ballot is in 2023. <br /><br />In this episode, we talk about the implications of this. Was it foul play or is there this level of incompetency in Harrisburg? Either way, the result is devastating injustice for abuse survivors once again. <br /><br /><a href="https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/pennsylvania-agency-bungles-ballot-referendum-child-sex-victims-n1256403" rel="noopener">https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/pennsylvania-agency-bungles-ballot-referendum-child-sex-victims-n1256403</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/43287812</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2021 18:02:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/43287812/episode_137.mp3" length="32596218" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Pennsylvania abuse survivors have been trying to get justice for a long time. The 2018 Grand Jury Report, which discovered over 1,000 victims and 300 pedophile priests, recommended that a two year window be opened for victims who fell under an...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Pennsylvania abuse survivors have been trying to get justice for a long time. The 2018 Grand Jury Report, which discovered over 1,000 victims and 300 pedophile priests, recommended that a two year window be opened for victims who fell under an outdated statute of limitations. In 2018 the proposed law passed overwhelmingly in the Pennsylvania House  only to have it squashed by then President pro tempore of the Senate, Joe Scarnati. He intentionally stalled the bill until the clock ran out for that legislative session, effectively killing the bill. <br /><br />Most recently, a state constitutional amendment allowing lawsuits for outdated claims was to appear on the ballot this May. However, that was once again squashed when a "clerical error" was announced, disqualifying the amendment to appear on the ballot. The earliest it can appear on the ballot is in 2023. <br /><br />In this episode, we talk about the implications of this. Was it foul play or is there this level of incompetency in Harrisburg? Either way, the result is devastating injustice for abuse survivors once again. <br /><br /><a href="https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/pennsylvania-agency-bungles-ballot-referendum-child-sex-victims-n1256403" rel="noopener">https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/pennsylvania-agency-bungles-ballot-referendum-child-sex-victims-n1256403</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2038</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>clarahintonpodcast,jimmyhintonpodcast,pennsylvaniafailsabusevictims,pennsylvaniasol,pennyslvaniasolfail,solreform,statuteoflimiationsfail,statuteoflimitationspa</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 136: Rena Hobbs on Why Churches Cover Up Abuse</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-136-rena-hobbs-on-why-churches-cover-up-abuse--43169348</link><description><![CDATA[Guest Rena Hobbs discusses her former church's cover up of her abuse when she was a young teenager. Her abuser was one of the elder's sons. When her parents reported the abuse, they were reprimanded by the elders. Rena's family was accused of spreading gossip. <br /><br />Because of the failure of church leadership to act, her abuser went on to abuse several more victims. In this episode, Rena tells her powerful story and offers advice to church leaders who are willing to listen. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/43169348</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 Jan 2021 19:07:39 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/43169348/episode_136.mp3" length="49970782" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Guest Rena Hobbs discusses her former church's cover up of her abuse when she was a young teenager. Her abuser was one of the elder's sons. When her parents reported the abuse, they were reprimanded by the elders. Rena's family was accused of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Guest Rena Hobbs discusses her former church's cover up of her abuse when she was a young teenager. Her abuser was one of the elder's sons. When her parents reported the abuse, they were reprimanded by the elders. Rena's family was accused of spreading gossip. <br /><br />Because of the failure of church leadership to act, her abuser went on to abuse several more victims. In this episode, Rena tells her powerful story and offers advice to church leaders who are willing to listen. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3124</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusecoverup,abusecoverupinthechurch,clarahintonpodcast,hidingabuseinthechurch,jimmyhintonpodcast,reportingabuseinthechurch,whychurchescoverupabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 135:  Tackling COVID Crises</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-135-tackling-covid-crises--43042918</link><description><![CDATA[There are so many compounding crises during these times of COVID. With the nation now surpassing 400,000 deaths, people are really struggling. Domestic violence is increasing. The fail rate for kids in school right now is at about 50% nationwide and poverty and hunger are hitting families hard. If ever there's a time to come together to help each other out, this is it. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/43042918</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2021 18:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/43042918/episode_135.mp3" length="38066468" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There are so many compounding crises during these times of COVID. With the nation now surpassing 400,000 deaths, people are really struggling. Domestic violence is increasing. The fail rate for kids in school right now is at about 50% nationwide and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There are so many compounding crises during these times of COVID. With the nation now surpassing 400,000 deaths, people are really struggling. Domestic violence is increasing. The fail rate for kids in school right now is at about 50% nationwide and poverty and hunger are hitting families hard. If ever there's a time to come together to help each other out, this is it. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2380</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>clarahintonpodcast,depressionduringcovid,domesticviolencecovid,domesticviolenceduringcovid,failrateduringcovid,hungerduringcovid,jimmyhintonpodcast,povertylevelsrisigcovid</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 134: Janitta Nichols on Ending Generational Abuse</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-134-janitta-nichols-on-ending-generational-abuse--42933101</link><description><![CDATA[Janitta Nichols grew up in a very broken home where she was physically and sexually abused. By the age of 16, Janitta has experienced over 300 sexual encounters by men in her family. After running away from home, she joined gangs and lived a very tough life, seeking relationships from women because of her lack of trust for men. <br /><br />After finding God, she became a police officer, rescuing children from abusive homes and arresting drug dealers. But there still was a void in her life and she felt restless. After leaving the police force, Janitta started writing her story, revealing the secrets of her past. She now advocates for abuse survivors and works to mend broken relationships within the family. She lives in Texas with her husband and three children. <br /><br />Follow Janitta website:<br /><a href="http://www.janittanichols.com/" rel="noopener">http://www.janittanichols.com/</a><br /><br />Instagram (@iamjanittanichols):<br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/iamjanittanichols/?hl=en" rel="noopener">https://www.instagram.com/iamjanittanichols/?hl=en</a><br /><br />Facebook (@iamjanittanichols):<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/IamJanittaNichols" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/IamJanittaNichols</a><br /><br />Twitter (@IamJanitta):<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/IamJanitta" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/IamJanitta</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/42933101</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2021 18:00:12 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/42933101/episode_134.mp3" length="55632113" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Janitta Nichols grew up in a very broken home where she was physically and sexually abused. By the age of 16, Janitta has experienced over 300 sexual encounters by men in her family. After running away from home, she joined gangs and lived a very...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Janitta Nichols grew up in a very broken home where she was physically and sexually abused. By the age of 16, Janitta has experienced over 300 sexual encounters by men in her family. After running away from home, she joined gangs and lived a very tough life, seeking relationships from women because of her lack of trust for men. <br /><br />After finding God, she became a police officer, rescuing children from abusive homes and arresting drug dealers. But there still was a void in her life and she felt restless. After leaving the police force, Janitta started writing her story, revealing the secrets of her past. She now advocates for abuse survivors and works to mend broken relationships within the family. She lives in Texas with her husband and three children. <br /><br />Follow Janitta website:<br /><a href="http://www.janittanichols.com/" rel="noopener">http://www.janittanichols.com/</a><br /><br />Instagram (@iamjanittanichols):<br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/iamjanittanichols/?hl=en" rel="noopener">https://www.instagram.com/iamjanittanichols/?hl=en</a><br /><br />Facebook (@iamjanittanichols):<br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/IamJanittaNichols" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/IamJanittaNichols</a><br /><br />Twitter (@IamJanitta):<br /><a href="https://twitter.com/IamJanitta" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/IamJanitta</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3974</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>clarahinton,endinggenerationalabuse,fixingbrokenfamilies,howdoiendabuse,howdoistopabuse,iwasabusedbymyparents,janittanichols,jimmyhinton,sexuallyabusedbymydad</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5638966f6d2dad7f3755ee90a6101c7e.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 133: When To Avoid Mean People</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-133-when-to-avoid-mean-people--42831310</link><description><![CDATA[People can be downright mean and there is the common phenomenon of churches and other organizations welcoming known abusers with open arms. The question is, at what point is it proper to cut someone off, to avoid the toxic person? It turns out the Bible actually has a lot to say about it, and one doesn't have to be a Christian to live by these principles. <br /><br />It can be quite confusing to know when to avoid people, and for how long. In this episode, we unpack the criteria for avoiding people while maintaining peace of mind about the decision. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/42831310</guid><pubDate>Thu, 07 Jan 2021 18:19:24 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/42831310/episode_133_audio.mp3" length="30483435" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>People can be downright mean and there is the common phenomenon of churches and other organizations welcoming known abusers with open arms. The question is, at what point is it proper to cut someone off, to avoid the toxic person? It turns out the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[People can be downright mean and there is the common phenomenon of churches and other organizations welcoming known abusers with open arms. The question is, at what point is it proper to cut someone off, to avoid the toxic person? It turns out the Bible actually has a lot to say about it, and one doesn't have to be a Christian to live by these principles. <br /><br />It can be quite confusing to know when to avoid people, and for how long. In this episode, we unpack the criteria for avoiding people while maintaining peace of mind about the decision. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1906</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>avoidingmeanpeople,clarahinton,gettingridofabusers,howtoavoidfakepeople,jimmyhinton,whentoavoidmeanpeople,whentoblocksomeone</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 132: Abusers are Hunters</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-132-abusers-are-hunters--42737702</link><description><![CDATA[The term "abuser" is a broad term that doesn't adequately describe what they do. Abusers, at their core, are hunters. They are thrill seeker junkies, and that's how they describe abusing children. Their minds are very warped and they stalk their prey until they get what they want. In this episode, we talk about how the mind of a predator works and why we believe the term "hunter" should be used instead of abuser. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/42737702</guid><pubDate>Thu, 31 Dec 2020 18:00:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/42737702/episode_132.mp3" length="31339541" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The term "abuser" is a broad term that doesn't adequately describe what they do. Abusers, at their core, are hunters. They are thrill seeker junkies, and that's how they describe abusing children. Their minds are very warped and they stalk their prey...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The term "abuser" is a broad term that doesn't adequately describe what they do. Abusers, at their core, are hunters. They are thrill seeker junkies, and that's how they describe abusing children. Their minds are very warped and they stalk their prey until they get what they want. In this episode, we talk about how the mind of a predator works and why we believe the term "hunter" should be used instead of abuser. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2239</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusertactics,clarahinton,howabusersthink,jimmyhinton,whyabusersdon'tchange</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 131: Healing for the Holidays</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-131-healing-for-the-holidays--42647350</link><description><![CDATA[This year has intensified feelings of loneliness, alienation, anxiety, and depression for millions of people. Abuse survivors know these feelings all too well already. Many people have lost loved ones, or cannot physically be with loved ones over the holiday season. so how do we combat these seasons of isolation? Find out in this episode! <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/42647350</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Dec 2020 18:00:15 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/42647350/episode_131.mp3" length="26013644" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This year has intensified feelings of loneliness, alienation, anxiety, and depression for millions of people. Abuse survivors know these feelings all too well already. Many people have lost loved ones, or cannot physically be with loved ones over the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This year has intensified feelings of loneliness, alienation, anxiety, and depression for millions of people. Abuse survivors know these feelings all too well already. Many people have lost loved ones, or cannot physically be with loved ones over the holiday season. so how do we combat these seasons of isolation? Find out in this episode! <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1859</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>anxietyfromabuse,clarahintonpodcast,healingfromabuse,jimmyhintonpodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 130: Why Don't We Require Anything From Abusers When God Does?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-130-why-don-t-we-require-anything-from-abusers-when-god-does--42537345</link><description><![CDATA[Very often abusers are given a free pass while their victims are told how much hard work they have ahead of them. Abuse victims are told that they need to forgive for any healing to take place, and often they are forced to reconcile with their abuser. In this episode, we talk about turning this around, where we begin to rightfully demand something of the abuser instead of their victims. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/42537345</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Dec 2020 18:00:12 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/42537345/episode_130.mp3" length="33192250" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Very often abusers are given a free pass while their victims are told how much hard work they have ahead of them. Abuse victims are told that they need to forgive for any healing to take place, and often they are forced to reconcile with their abuser....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Very often abusers are given a free pass while their victims are told how much hard work they have ahead of them. Abuse victims are told that they need to forgive for any healing to take place, and often they are forced to reconcile with their abuser. In this episode, we talk about turning this around, where we begin to rightfully demand something of the abuser instead of their victims. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2371</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuseraccountability,accountability,forgiveness</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 129: Is It Unfair to Label Sex Offenders at Church?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-129-is-it-unfair-to-label-sex-offenders-at-church--42416929</link><description><![CDATA[Oftentimes churches choose not to inform their congregations when a convicted sex offender is in the pews. This is an ongoing problem across the nation. Many leaders claim that it is unfair to label someone's identity by the sins of their past. But is it really unfair? Find out what we think in this episode. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/42416929</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Dec 2020 18:00:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/42416929/episode_129.mp3" length="27338993" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Oftentimes churches choose not to inform their congregations when a convicted sex offender is in the pews. This is an ongoing problem across the nation. Many leaders claim that it is unfair to label someone's identity by the sins of their past. But is...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Oftentimes churches choose not to inform their congregations when a convicted sex offender is in the pews. This is an ongoing problem across the nation. Many leaders claim that it is unfair to label someone's identity by the sins of their past. But is it really unfair? Find out what we think in this episode. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1953</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>sexoffenderregistry,sexoffenders,sexoffendersatchurch,speakingout</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 128: The Pain of Loss</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-128-the-pain-of-loss--42318560</link><description><![CDATA[2020 has been a very difficult year for millions of people, and a lot of people are losing loved ones to various illnesses. There are other losses too--lost jobs, businesses, homes, etc. In this episode, we  talk about the pain of loss and how to process the grief. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/42318560</guid><pubDate>Fri, 04 Dec 2020 18:00:18 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/42318560/episode_128.mp3" length="26298170" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>2020 has been a very difficult year for millions of people, and a lot of people are losing loved ones to various illnesses. There are other losses too--lost jobs, businesses, homes, etc. In this episode, we  talk about the pain of loss and how to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[2020 has been a very difficult year for millions of people, and a lot of people are losing loved ones to various illnesses. There are other losses too--lost jobs, businesses, homes, etc. In this episode, we  talk about the pain of loss and how to process the grief. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1879</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>2020,death,grief,loss</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 127:The Most Asked Questions We Receive</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-127-the-most-asked-questions-we-receive--42060015</link><description><![CDATA[Over the last 9 years, we've received countless questions and pleas for help. Most of those are relating to abuse in the religious community. We took the most asked questions and put them into one episode. We are currently working on condensing the most common questions into video resources, which will be hosted at <a href="https://jimmyhinton.org/" rel="noopener">https://jimmyhinton.org/</a><br /><br />If you have questions you'd like to add to the list, please comment and we will see that the questions are added! <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/42060015</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2020 18:00:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/42060015/episode_127.mp3" length="31574696" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Over the last 9 years, we've received countless questions and pleas for help. Most of those are relating to abuse in the religious community. We took the most asked questions and put them into one episode. We are currently working on condensing the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Over the last 9 years, we've received countless questions and pleas for help. Most of those are relating to abuse in the religious community. We took the most asked questions and put them into one episode. We are currently working on condensing the most common questions into video resources, which will be hosted at <a href="https://jimmyhinton.org/" rel="noopener">https://jimmyhinton.org/</a><br /><br />If you have questions you'd like to add to the list, please comment and we will see that the questions are added! <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2256</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>clarahinton,jimmyhinton,questionsaboutabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 126: Questions to Ask References of Preaching Candidates</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-126-questions-to-ask-references-of-preaching-candidates--41941648</link><description><![CDATA[Churches often either don't call references for preaching candidates or they are asking weak questions that tell them nothing about the possibility of a past of abuse. There are literally thousands of preaching ministers that are abusers. These include ones that we know of. There are thousands more who are abusing victims, and nobody besides the victims know. You might ask how it's possible that so many abusers can make it to the pulpit. But, given the interview process, it should come as no surprise that one of the greatest weaknesses of the church is the ability to properly screen candidates. <br /><br />A healthy process isn't complicated. Asking the right questions is vital if we are going to have any interest in learning if a potential candidate has a past of abuse. In this episode, we discuss questions that we would ask past churches where the candidate worked, as well as their references. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/41941648</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2020 18:00:13 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/41941648/episode_126.mp3" length="27585118" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Churches often either don't call references for preaching candidates or they are asking weak questions that tell them nothing about the possibility of a past of abuse. There are literally thousands of preaching ministers that are abusers. These...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Churches often either don't call references for preaching candidates or they are asking weak questions that tell them nothing about the possibility of a past of abuse. There are literally thousands of preaching ministers that are abusers. These include ones that we know of. There are thousands more who are abusing victims, and nobody besides the victims know. You might ask how it's possible that so many abusers can make it to the pulpit. But, given the interview process, it should come as no surprise that one of the greatest weaknesses of the church is the ability to properly screen candidates. <br /><br />A healthy process isn't complicated. Asking the right questions is vital if we are going to have any interest in learning if a potential candidate has a past of abuse. In this episode, we discuss questions that we would ask past churches where the candidate worked, as well as their references. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1971</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusivepastors,abusivepreachers,hiringpastors,preachingcandidates,screeningpastors,screeningpreachers</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 125: Interview Questions to Screen Pastors</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-125-interview-questions-to-screen-pastors--41807665</link><description><![CDATA[It's clear that many churches do a poor job of screening incoming preachers. Many of them are abusers or they turn a blind eye to abuse and excuse it away, demanding victims forgive and move on. In this episode, we share our questions that we would ask someone in an interview. What questions would you add? <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/41807665</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2020 18:00:05 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/41807665/episode_125.mp3" length="30909461" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It's clear that many churches do a poor job of screening incoming preachers. Many of them are abusers or they turn a blind eye to abuse and excuse it away, demanding victims forgive and move on. In this episode, we share our questions that we would...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It's clear that many churches do a poor job of screening incoming preachers. Many of them are abusers or they turn a blind eye to abuse and excuse it away, demanding victims forgive and move on. In this episode, we share our questions that we would ask someone in an interview. What questions would you add? <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2208</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>hiringnewpastors,interviewingnewpastors,interviewquestions,interviewquestionsfornewhires</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 124: Why We Need More Abuser Databases</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-124-why-we-need-more-abuser-databases--41701811</link><description><![CDATA[During the last two episodes, we interviewed the Benningers about their Baptist abuser database at <a href="https://baptistaccountability.org/" rel="noopener">https://baptistaccountability.org/</a> During this episode we give examples to show why we need more databases. <br /><br />We break down how abusers maintain control, stringing church leaders along as they build their web of lies. We urge church leaders not to fall for it. We need to warn people of these harmful sexual predators. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/41701811</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2020 17:00:19 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/41701811/episode_124.mp3" length="30683450" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>During the last two episodes, we interviewed the Benningers about their Baptist abuser database at https://baptistaccountability.org/ During this episode we give examples to show why we need more databases. 

We break down how abusers maintain...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[During the last two episodes, we interviewed the Benningers about their Baptist abuser database at <a href="https://baptistaccountability.org/" rel="noopener">https://baptistaccountability.org/</a> During this episode we give examples to show why we need more databases. <br /><br />We break down how abusers maintain control, stringing church leaders along as they build their web of lies. We urge church leaders not to fall for it. We need to warn people of these harmful sexual predators. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2192</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusersinchurch,database,whyweneedadatabase</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 123: Megan and Dom Benninger of BaptistAccountability.org</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-123-megan-and-dom-benninger-of-baptistaccountability-org--41586343</link><description><![CDATA[When the Benningers found out that their pastor was a convicted child molester who had lost his license to teach in Pennsylvania years ago, they wanted to know more. Why had the church not conducted background checks? Why was this abuser made the superintendent of the Christian school that was meeting in the church? Why was he permitted to substitute teach students when the state revoked his teaching license and deemed him a threat? Any why hadn't the leaders who knew about Don Foose's convictions ever notify other leaders or the congregation? <br /><br />These questions and the lack of answers ultimately led the Benningers to leave OakWoook Baptist church and to start a database for convicted and credibly accused sexual predators in the Baptist churches. In this episode, they tell their story and what led to them starting a national database earlier this year. <br /><br />Their database can be found at:<br /><a href="https://baptistaccountability.org/" rel="noopener">https://baptistaccountability.org/</a><br /><br />The Benningers also manage another website about church cultic abuse at:<br /><a href="https://churchtrauma.org/" rel="noopener">https://churchtrauma.org/</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/41586343</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2020 17:00:15 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/41586343/episode_123.mp3" length="31806193" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>When the Benningers found out that their pastor was a convicted child molester who had lost his license to teach in Pennsylvania years ago, they wanted to know more. Why had the church not conducted background checks? Why was this abuser made the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[When the Benningers found out that their pastor was a convicted child molester who had lost his license to teach in Pennsylvania years ago, they wanted to know more. Why had the church not conducted background checks? Why was this abuser made the superintendent of the Christian school that was meeting in the church? Why was he permitted to substitute teach students when the state revoked his teaching license and deemed him a threat? Any why hadn't the leaders who knew about Don Foose's convictions ever notify other leaders or the congregation? <br /><br />These questions and the lack of answers ultimately led the Benningers to leave OakWoook Baptist church and to start a database for convicted and credibly accused sexual predators in the Baptist churches. In this episode, they tell their story and what led to them starting a national database earlier this year. <br /><br />Their database can be found at:<br /><a href="https://baptistaccountability.org/" rel="noopener">https://baptistaccountability.org/</a><br /><br />The Benningers also manage another website about church cultic abuse at:<br /><a href="https://churchtrauma.org/" rel="noopener">https://churchtrauma.org/</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2272</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusersinchurch,baptistaccountability,baptistdatabase,benningers</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 122: Megan and Dom Benninger of BaptistAccountability.org</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-122-megan-and-dom-benninger-of-baptistaccountability-org--41477608</link><description><![CDATA[When the Benningers found out that their pastor was a convicted child molester who had lost his license to teach in Pennsylvania years ago, they wanted to know more. Why had the church not conducted background checks? Why was this abuser made the superintendent of the Christian school that was meeting in the church? Why was he permitted to substitute teach students when the state revoked his teaching license and deemed him a threat? Any why hadn't the leaders who knew about Don Foose's convictions ever notify other leaders or the congregation? <br /><br />These questions and the lack of answers ultimately led the Benningers to leave OakWoook Baptist church and to start a database for convicted and credibly accused sexual predators in the Baptist churches. In this episode, they tell their story and what led to them starting a national database earlier this year. <br /><br />Their database can be found at:<br /><a href="https://baptistaccountability.org/" rel="noopener">https://baptistaccountability.org/</a><br /><br />The Benningers also manage another website about church cultic abuse at:<br /><a href="https://churchtrauma.org/" rel="noopener">https://churchtrauma.org/</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/41477608</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2020 17:00:10 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/41477608/episode_122.mp3" length="30898490" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>When the Benningers found out that their pastor was a convicted child molester who had lost his license to teach in Pennsylvania years ago, they wanted to know more. Why had the church not conducted background checks? Why was this abuser made the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[When the Benningers found out that their pastor was a convicted child molester who had lost his license to teach in Pennsylvania years ago, they wanted to know more. Why had the church not conducted background checks? Why was this abuser made the superintendent of the Christian school that was meeting in the church? Why was he permitted to substitute teach students when the state revoked his teaching license and deemed him a threat? Any why hadn't the leaders who knew about Don Foose's convictions ever notify other leaders or the congregation? <br /><br />These questions and the lack of answers ultimately led the Benningers to leave OakWoook Baptist church and to start a database for convicted and credibly accused sexual predators in the Baptist churches. In this episode, they tell their story and what led to them starting a national database earlier this year. <br /><br />Their database can be found at:<br /><a href="https://baptistaccountability.org/" rel="noopener">https://baptistaccountability.org/</a><br /><br />The Benningers also manage another website about church cultic abuse at:<br /><a href="https://churchtrauma.org/" rel="noopener">https://churchtrauma.org/</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2207</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusersinchurch,baptistabusers,baptistaccountability,benningers</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 121: Diagnosing Your Church's Health</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-121-diagnosing-your-church-s-health--41346233</link><description><![CDATA[How well does your church or organization do at responding to allegations of abuse? Maybe you're not sure. In this episode, we unpack a short checklist for quickly assessing how well your church or organization responds to abuse allegations.<br /><br />Unhealthy organizations will minimize allegations, hide information, and reframe abuse so that abusers are free to move on to the next organization. Find out how well your organization measures up! <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/41346233</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Oct 2020 17:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/41346233/episode_121.mp3" length="31743656" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>How well does your church or organization do at responding to allegations of abuse? Maybe you're not sure. In this episode, we unpack a short checklist for quickly assessing how well your church or organization responds to abuse allegations....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[How well does your church or organization do at responding to allegations of abuse? Maybe you're not sure. In this episode, we unpack a short checklist for quickly assessing how well your church or organization responds to abuse allegations.<br /><br />Unhealthy organizations will minimize allegations, hide information, and reframe abuse so that abusers are free to move on to the next organization. Find out how well your organization measures up! <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2268</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuseallegations,abuseinchurch,abusivepastors,handlingallegations,respondingtoabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 120: Wade Mullen's New Book, Something's Not Right</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-120-wade-mullen-s-new-book-something-s-not-right--41177126</link><description><![CDATA[Do you ever feel that something's "off" about someone? That may be your intuition telling you that something's not right. Dr. Wade Mullen, researcher and abuse advocate, tells us about his new book, Something's Not Right. Wade has been researching abuse techniques, and talks about impression management strategies that organizations use in the wake of an image-threatening event. <br /><br />Something's not right can be ordered on Amazon:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Somethings-Not-Right-Decoding-Abuse/dp/1496444701/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Somethings-Not-Right-Decoding-Abuse/dp/1496444701/ref</a>=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=something%27s+not+right&qid=1601467636&sr=8-1<br /><br />or on Wade's website:<br /><a href="https://wadetmullen.com/" rel="noopener">https://wadetmullen.com/</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/41177126</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2020 17:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/41177126/episode_120.mp3" length="42563313" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you ever feel that something's "off" about someone? That may be your intuition telling you that something's not right. Dr. Wade Mullen, researcher and abuse advocate, tells us about his new book, Something's Not Right. Wade has been researching...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you ever feel that something's "off" about someone? That may be your intuition telling you that something's not right. Dr. Wade Mullen, researcher and abuse advocate, tells us about his new book, Something's Not Right. Wade has been researching abuse techniques, and talks about impression management strategies that organizations use in the wake of an image-threatening event. <br /><br />Something's not right can be ordered on Amazon:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Somethings-Not-Right-Decoding-Abuse/dp/1496444701/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Somethings-Not-Right-Decoding-Abuse/dp/1496444701/ref</a>=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=something%27s+not+right&qid=1601467636&sr=8-1<br /><br />or on Wade's website:<br /><a href="https://wadetmullen.com/" rel="noopener">https://wadetmullen.com/</a><br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3041</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>clarahinton,jimmyhinton,somethingsnotright,wademullen</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0cda3450fae991073afcda9d58428ffd.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 119: Ravi Zacharias and the Adoration of Abusers</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-119-ravi-zacharias-and-the-adoration-of-abusers--41085596</link><description><![CDATA[Ravi Zacharias, one of the most influential Christian apologists of our time, died on May 19, 2020. Influential people, such as Vice President Pence and Tim Tebow, spoke at his memorial service. Zacharias' abusive background and falsifying information about his credentials has long been overlooked by his supporters. In this episode, we discuss the damage this does to victims, and how our culture of almost deifying Christian celebrities adds to the problem of abuse survivors ever getting true justice. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/41085596</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2020 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/41085596/episode_119.mp3" length="30482307" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Ravi Zacharias, one of the most influential Christian apologists of our time, died on May 19, 2020. Influential people, such as Vice President Pence and Tim Tebow, spoke at his memorial service. Zacharias' abusive background and falsifying information...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Ravi Zacharias, one of the most influential Christian apologists of our time, died on May 19, 2020. Influential people, such as Vice President Pence and Tim Tebow, spoke at his memorial service. Zacharias' abusive background and falsifying information about his credentials has long been overlooked by his supporters. In this episode, we discuss the damage this does to victims, and how our culture of almost deifying Christian celebrities adds to the problem of abuse survivors ever getting true justice. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2178</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,metoo,ravizacharias</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 118: Does Posting Online Save Children From Abuse?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-118-does-posting-online-save-children-from-abuse--40952867</link><description><![CDATA[There's a heightened awareness of child abuse online. A lot of people are posting under the hashtag #SavetheChildren, but is posting articles really saving children from abuse? In this episode, we talk about some of the ways that children can be spared from abuse. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/40952867</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2020 17:00:18 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/40952867/episode_118.mp3" length="27909141" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There's a heightened awareness of child abuse online. A lot of people are posting under the hashtag #SavetheChildren, but is posting articles really saving children from abuse? In this episode, we talk about some of the ways that children can be...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There's a heightened awareness of child abuse online. A lot of people are posting under the hashtag #SavetheChildren, but is posting articles really saving children from abuse? In this episode, we talk about some of the ways that children can be spared from abuse. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1994</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>clarahinton,jimmyhinton,postingonsocialmedia,savethechildren,trafficking</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 117: Christa Brown Discusses Databases for Abusers (Part 2)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-117-christa-brown-discusses-databases-for-abusers-part-2--40814169</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, Christa Brown discusses the importance of a database to identify abusive leaders in the church. She kept her own database for 6 years and knows how vital it is to receive and share information about predator pastors. The Southern Baptist Church still refuses to create a database, and they STILL hide abusers in the pulpit. Christa shares a lot of wisdom about how databases work, and how many potentially abusive pastors are still undetected. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/40814169</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Sep 2020 17:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/40814169/episode_117.mp3" length="30522170" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode, Christa Brown discusses the importance of a database to identify abusive leaders in the church. She kept her own database for 6 years and knows how vital it is to receive and share information about predator pastors. The Southern...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, Christa Brown discusses the importance of a database to identify abusive leaders in the church. She kept her own database for 6 years and knows how vital it is to receive and share information about predator pastors. The Southern Baptist Church still refuses to create a database, and they STILL hide abusers in the pulpit. Christa shares a lot of wisdom about how databases work, and how many potentially abusive pastors are still undetected. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2181</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>baptistdatabase,christabrown,clarahinton,databaseforabusers,jimmyhinton,predatorpastors</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 116: Christa Brown on Stopping Baptist Predators (Part 1)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-116-christa-brown-on-stopping-baptist-predators-part-1--40672774</link><description><![CDATA[Christa Brown contacted 18 Baptist leaders to seek help after she revealed that she had been repeatedly sexually abused as a kid by a Southern Baptist pastor. Christa naively thought that these leaders would care. They did not. Not only was she ignored, but they sent their high power attorneys after her. Her music minister told her to keep quiet about the abuse. These responses sparked a fire inside of Christa and she's been working to hold Baptist leaders accountable ever since. <br /><br />Her book, This Little Light: Beyond a Baptist Preacher Predator and His Gang, is phenomenal. In this episode, Christa talks about the database that she created to identify predator preachers in the Southern Baptist church. We ask Christa if she believes the SBC has learned anything over the years. <br /><br />To order her book, check it out here:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/This-Little-Light-Preacher-Predator/dp/098184183X/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/This-Little-Light-Preacher-Predator/dp/098184183X/ref</a>=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=this+little+light+christa+brown&qid=1599045033&sr=8-1<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/40672774</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Sep 2020 17:00:13 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/40672774/episode_116.mp3" length="33862604" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Christa Brown contacted 18 Baptist leaders to seek help after she revealed that she had been repeatedly sexually abused as a kid by a Southern Baptist pastor. Christa naively thought that these leaders would care. They did not. Not only was she...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Christa Brown contacted 18 Baptist leaders to seek help after she revealed that she had been repeatedly sexually abused as a kid by a Southern Baptist pastor. Christa naively thought that these leaders would care. They did not. Not only was she ignored, but they sent their high power attorneys after her. Her music minister told her to keep quiet about the abuse. These responses sparked a fire inside of Christa and she's been working to hold Baptist leaders accountable ever since. <br /><br />Her book, This Little Light: Beyond a Baptist Preacher Predator and His Gang, is phenomenal. In this episode, Christa talks about the database that she created to identify predator preachers in the Southern Baptist church. We ask Christa if she believes the SBC has learned anything over the years. <br /><br />To order her book, check it out here:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/This-Little-Light-Preacher-Predator/dp/098184183X/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/This-Little-Light-Preacher-Predator/dp/098184183X/ref</a>=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=this+little+light+christa+brown&qid=1599045033&sr=8-1<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2419</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>baptistpredators,christabrown,clarahinton,jimmyhinton,stopbaptistpredators,thislittlelight</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 115: "Hell Hath No Fury" Judge Aquilina Discusses Larry Nassar's Letter (Part 2)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-115-hell-hath-no-fury-judge-aquilina-discusses-larry-nassar-s-letter-part-2--40517252</link><description><![CDATA[In this part 2 of our interview with Judge Aquilina, she discusses the letter Larry Nassar wrote to her, which she read at his sentencing. Nassar's line, "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned," had the entire courtroom gasp as Judge Aquilina read those words. The letter showed Nassar's cold heart and disdain toward children and women.<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/40517252</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2020 17:01:13 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/40517252/episode_115.mp3" length="31965644" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this part 2 of our interview with Judge Aquilina, she discusses the letter Larry Nassar wrote to her, which she read at his sentencing. Nassar's line, "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned," had the entire courtroom gasp as Judge Aquilina read...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this part 2 of our interview with Judge Aquilina, she discusses the letter Larry Nassar wrote to her, which she read at his sentencing. Nassar's line, "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned," had the entire courtroom gasp as Judge Aquilina read those words. The letter showed Nassar's cold heart and disdain toward children and women.<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2284</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>judgeaquilina,justice,larrynassar,metoo,nassar'sletter</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/aa0a40f957e48c65d5e4127e2d73dbf0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 114: Judge Aquilina Talks Abuse Prevention (Part 1)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-114-judge-aquilina-talks-abuse-prevention-part-1--40424616</link><description><![CDATA[Guest Judge Aquilina talks about the Larry Nassar sentencing and how we can help educate ourselves as parents and caretakers of children to prevent abuse. This is part 1 of a 2 part interview. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/40424616</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2020 17:00:47 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/40424616/episode_114.mp3" length="30233256" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Guest Judge Aquilina talks about the Larry Nassar sentencing and how we can help educate ourselves as parents and caretakers of children to prevent abuse. This is part 1 of a 2 part interview. 

Intro--
 Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Guest Judge Aquilina talks about the Larry Nassar sentencing and how we can help educate ourselves as parents and caretakers of children to prevent abuse. This is part 1 of a 2 part interview. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2160</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuseprevention,judgeaquilina,larrynassar</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/aa0a40f957e48c65d5e4127e2d73dbf0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 113: Inmate Released Due to COVID Murders His Victim</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-113-inmate-released-due-to-covid-murders-his-victim--40316696</link><description><![CDATA[What is going on with states releasing inmates like wild fire? On July 29th Ibrahim Bouaichi murdered the woman who alleged that he raped her. He was released from a Virginia jail because his lawyers claimed that the coronavirus put him and other inmates at risk. He was released on $24,000 bond under the condition he stay at home. He didn't. <br /><br />This is not uncommon. Several other violent inmates were released because of COVID only to also murder other victims. California has already released over 17,000 inmates, many of them violent offenders, in the past few months. In this episode we talk about the uphill battle advocates face and how these secret releases of inmates is devastating to victims of these inmates. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/40316696</guid><pubDate>Fri, 14 Aug 2020 12:00:20 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/40316696/episode_113.mp3" length="28742238" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What is going on with states releasing inmates like wild fire? On July 29th Ibrahim Bouaichi murdered the woman who alleged that he raped her. He was released from a Virginia jail because his lawyers claimed that the coronavirus put him and other...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What is going on with states releasing inmates like wild fire? On July 29th Ibrahim Bouaichi murdered the woman who alleged that he raped her. He was released from a Virginia jail because his lawyers claimed that the coronavirus put him and other inmates at risk. He was released on $24,000 bond under the condition he stay at home. He didn't. <br /><br />This is not uncommon. Several other violent inmates were released because of COVID only to also murder other victims. California has already released over 17,000 inmates, many of them violent offenders, in the past few months. In this episode we talk about the uphill battle advocates face and how these secret releases of inmates is devastating to victims of these inmates. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2053</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>covidinsanity,inmatesreleased,stopreleasinginmates</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 112: Is the Shortage of Ministers Fueling Abuse?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-112-is-the-shortage-of-ministers-fueling-abuse--40168178</link><description><![CDATA[There is a vast shortage of people going into preaching ministry. Many are calling the shortage a crisis, and all agree that it will only get worse. In their desperation to find people to fill the pulpit, churches are putting even less emphasis on vetting people. In this episode, we talk about reasons this will exasperate the problem of abuse, and what churches can do about it. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/40168178</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Aug 2020 17:00:10 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/40168178/episode_112_edited.mp3" length="31449284" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There is a vast shortage of people going into preaching ministry. Many are calling the shortage a crisis, and all agree that it will only get worse. In their desperation to find people to fill the pulpit, churches are putting even less emphasis on...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There is a vast shortage of people going into preaching ministry. Many are calling the shortage a crisis, and all agree that it will only get worse. In their desperation to find people to fill the pulpit, churches are putting even less emphasis on vetting people. In this episode, we talk about reasons this will exasperate the problem of abuse, and what churches can do about it. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2247</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuseinthechurch,pastorshortage,risingabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 111: Five Things Leaders Must Do When Allegations of Abuse Arise</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-111-five-things-leaders-must-do-when-allegations-of-abuse-arise--40055124</link><description><![CDATA[When allegations of abuse come to light, churches and other organizations almost immediately go into damage control. The response is predictable as the day is long, and it never sits well with church members or the victims who were hurt. In this episode, we talk about what steps Jimmy took to keep his congregation informed, and how these five steps should be the first thing leaders do when allegations arise. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/40055124</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2020 17:00:16 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/40055124/episode_111_edited.mp3" length="27818472" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>When allegations of abuse come to light, churches and other organizations almost immediately go into damage control. The response is predictable as the day is long, and it never sits well with church members or the victims who were hurt. In this...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[When allegations of abuse come to light, churches and other organizations almost immediately go into damage control. The response is predictable as the day is long, and it never sits well with church members or the victims who were hurt. In this episode, we talk about what steps Jimmy took to keep his congregation informed, and how these five steps should be the first thing leaders do when allegations arise. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1987</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuseallegations,howtohandleabuse,leadershipandabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>episode 110: Where Are the Pedophiles During COVID?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-110-where-are-the-pedophiles-during-covid--39922592</link><description><![CDATA[Schools have been closed for months. Many churches and day cares are closed. Many sporting events have been cancelled. These are all hot spots for pedophiles. So, with all of these places closed or running with very few people, where are the pedophiles, and what are they up to? The statistics over the past few months are showing very troubling trends, especially for online exploitation and trafficking of children. We break it down in this episode. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/39922592</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2020 17:00:11 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/39922592/episode_110_edited.mp3" length="28940484" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Schools have been closed for months. Many churches and day cares are closed. Many sporting events have been cancelled. These are all hot spots for pedophiles. So, with all of these places closed or running with very few people, where are the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Schools have been closed for months. Many churches and day cares are closed. Many sporting events have been cancelled. These are all hot spots for pedophiles. So, with all of these places closed or running with very few people, where are the pedophiles, and what are they up to? The statistics over the past few months are showing very troubling trends, especially for online exploitation and trafficking of children. We break it down in this episode. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2068</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuseduringcovid,covid,exploitation,humantrafficking</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 109: Interview With Sandy Phillips Kirkham (Part 2)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-109-interview-with-sandy-phillips-kirkham-part-2--39777755</link><description><![CDATA[In this part 2, special guest Sandy Phillips Kirkham tells her story of abuse by her youth minister in the 1970s. She was just 16 years old when he first kissed her then progressed to sex when she was 17. The abuse lasted for five years, and included physical violence and psychological abuse. Sandy explains how the beloved pastor was able to abuse her and several other victims while keeping the church under his control. <br /><br />Sandy's book, Let Me Prey Upon You, can be ordered here:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Let-Prey-Upon-You-Ministers/dp/1734195207/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Let-Prey-Upon-You-Ministers/dp/1734195207/ref</a>=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=let+me+prey+upon+you&qid=1594215829&sr=8-1<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/39777755</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Jul 2020 17:00:16 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/39777755/episode_109.mp3" length="32192021" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this part 2, special guest Sandy Phillips Kirkham tells her story of abuse by her youth minister in the 1970s. She was just 16 years old when he first kissed her then progressed to sex when she was 17. The abuse lasted for five years, and included...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this part 2, special guest Sandy Phillips Kirkham tells her story of abuse by her youth minister in the 1970s. She was just 16 years old when he first kissed her then progressed to sex when she was 17. The abuse lasted for five years, and included physical violence and psychological abuse. Sandy explains how the beloved pastor was able to abuse her and several other victims while keeping the church under his control. <br /><br />Sandy's book, Let Me Prey Upon You, can be ordered here:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Let-Prey-Upon-You-Ministers/dp/1734195207/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Let-Prey-Upon-You-Ministers/dp/1734195207/ref</a>=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=let+me+prey+upon+you&qid=1594215829&sr=8-1<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2300</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusivepastors,churchabuse,exposingabuse,sandyphillipskirkham</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 108: Interview With Sandy Phillips Kirkham (Part 1)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-108-interview-with-sandy-phillips-kirkham-part-1--37986180</link><description><![CDATA[Special guest Sandy Phillips Kirkham tells her story of abuse by her youth minister in the 1970s. She was just 16 years old when he first kissed her then progressed to sex when she was 17. The abuse lasted for five years, and included physical violence and psychological abuse. Sandy explains how the beloved pastor was able to abuse her and several other victims while keeping the church under his control. <br /><br />Sandy's book, Let Me Prey Upon You, can be ordered here:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Let-Prey-Upon-You-Ministers/dp/1734195207/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Let-Prey-Upon-You-Ministers/dp/1734195207/ref</a>=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=let+me+prey+upon+you&qid=1594215829&sr=8-1<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/37986180</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2020 17:00:18 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/37986180/episode_108.mp3" length="27485644" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Special guest Sandy Phillips Kirkham tells her story of abuse by her youth minister in the 1970s. She was just 16 years old when he first kissed her then progressed to sex when she was 17. The abuse lasted for five years, and included physical...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Special guest Sandy Phillips Kirkham tells her story of abuse by her youth minister in the 1970s. She was just 16 years old when he first kissed her then progressed to sex when she was 17. The abuse lasted for five years, and included physical violence and psychological abuse. Sandy explains how the beloved pastor was able to abuse her and several other victims while keeping the church under his control. <br /><br />Sandy's book, Let Me Prey Upon You, can be ordered here:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Let-Prey-Upon-You-Ministers/dp/1734195207/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Let-Prey-Upon-You-Ministers/dp/1734195207/ref</a>=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=let+me+prey+upon+you&qid=1594215829&sr=8-1<br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1964</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>healing,pastorabuse,sandyphillipskirkham,sexabuseinthechurch</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 107: Is There Any Meaning After Abuse?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-107-is-there-any-meaning-after-abuse--35452445</link><description><![CDATA[Many survivors wonder how they can find purpose after abuse. Is there a way to do that as you heal? In this episode, we discuss how some have shifted their perspective as they heal in order to help other people. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/35452445</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2020 17:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/35452445/episode_107_edited.mp3" length="25481924" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Many survivors wonder how they can find purpose after abuse. Is there a way to do that as you heal? In this episode, we discuss how some have shifted their perspective as they heal in order to help other people. 

Intro--
 Film Glitch by Snowflake (c)...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Many survivors wonder how they can find purpose after abuse. Is there a way to do that as you heal? In this episode, we discuss how some have shifted their perspective as they heal in order to help other people. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1821</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>afterabuse,findingpurpose,purpose</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 106: How Do We Begin To Trust Again (Part 2)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-106-how-do-we-begin-to-trust-again-part-2--33300266</link><description><![CDATA[Learning to trust people after abuse takes time, and it should. People have to be trustworthy in order to be trusted. In this episode, we talk more about different levels of trust, and how you can regain control over the people you choose to share your life with.<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/33300266</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2020 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/33300266/episode_106_edited.mp3" length="27705832" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Learning to trust people after abuse takes time, and it should. People have to be trustworthy in order to be trusted. In this episode, we talk more about different levels of trust, and how you can regain control over the people you choose to share...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Learning to trust people after abuse takes time, and it should. People have to be trustworthy in order to be trusted. In this episode, we talk more about different levels of trust, and how you can regain control over the people you choose to share your life with.<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1979</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>trust,trustafterabuse,trustingothers</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 105: How Do We Begin To Trust Again? (Part 1)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-105-how-do-we-begin-to-trust-again-part-1--31701251</link><description><![CDATA[Abuse destroys victims' ability to trust again. Learning to trust again is important, but blindly trusting people is not wise. People need to be trustworthy. So how do we find trustworthy people, and how important is it to recognize that there are different levels of trust? Find out as we hash it out in this episode. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284#" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284#</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/31701251</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Jun 2020 17:00:17 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/31701251/episode_105_raw.mp3" length="29245477" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Abuse destroys victims' ability to trust again. Learning to trust again is important, but blindly trusting people is not wise. People need to be trustworthy. So how do we find trustworthy people, and how important is it to recognize that there are...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Abuse destroys victims' ability to trust again. Learning to trust again is important, but blindly trusting people is not wise. People need to be trustworthy. So how do we find trustworthy people, and how important is it to recognize that there are different levels of trust? Find out as we hash it out in this episode. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284#" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284#</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2089</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>learningtotrustagain,trust,trustafterabuse,trustworthypeople</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 104: Do Children Know When Things Aren't Right?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-104-do-children-know-when-things-aren-t-right--30309562</link><description><![CDATA[Children most often do not know that what is happening to them is abuse. They usually don't have the vocabulary to describe it and abusers often make the abuse seem like it is an act of "love." But do children sense that something wrong is happening? And, if so, what tools can we give our children to be able to act on those feelings? <br /><br />Find out in this episode what tips we offer.<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/30309562</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 Jun 2020 17:07:18 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/30309562/episode_104_1.mp3" length="31372098" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Children most often do not know that what is happening to them is abuse. They usually don't have the vocabulary to describe it and abusers often make the abuse seem like it is an act of "love." But do children sense that something wrong is happening?...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Children most often do not know that what is happening to them is abuse. They usually don't have the vocabulary to describe it and abusers often make the abuse seem like it is an act of "love." But do children sense that something wrong is happening? And, if so, what tools can we give our children to be able to act on those feelings? <br /><br />Find out in this episode what tips we offer.<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2241</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuse,childrenabused,tipsforchildren</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 103: Can Abuse Survivors Expect Closure?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-103-can-abuse-survivors-expect-closure--29021309</link><description><![CDATA[What is the difference between healing and closure? They are very different, but are also related. Is it possible for survivors of abuse to get closure and, if so, how is it possible to get there? We unpack this difficult topic in this episode. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/29021309</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Jun 2020 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/29021309/episode_103_edited.mp3" length="26922106" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What is the difference between healing and closure? They are very different, but are also related. Is it possible for survivors of abuse to get closure and, if so, how is it possible to get there? We unpack this difficult topic in this episode....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What is the difference between healing and closure? They are very different, but are also related. Is it possible for survivors of abuse to get closure and, if so, how is it possible to get there? We unpack this difficult topic in this episode. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1923</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>closure,healing,survivingabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 102: How Spouses of Abusers Can Heal</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-102-how-spouses-of-abusers-can-heal--28463660</link><description><![CDATA[Spouses of abusers experience trauma. Many of them lose financial resources, friends, church communities, etc. at the same time that they are processing the reality that the person they once loved and trusted was a fraud. There are multiple layers of trauma in the aftermath of abuse. <br /><br />In this episode, Clara shares parts of her healing journey and explains that help often comes from unlikely places. She offers encouragement to all the people who are walking this difficult path. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/28463660</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2020 17:00:11 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/28463660/episode_102.mp3" length="29844895" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Spouses of abusers experience trauma. Many of them lose financial resources, friends, church communities, etc. at the same time that they are processing the reality that the person they once loved and trusted was a fraud. There are multiple layers of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Spouses of abusers experience trauma. Many of them lose financial resources, friends, church communities, etc. at the same time that they are processing the reality that the person they once loved and trusted was a fraud. There are multiple layers of trauma in the aftermath of abuse. <br /><br />In this episode, Clara shares parts of her healing journey and explains that help often comes from unlikely places. She offers encouragement to all the people who are walking this difficult path. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2132</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>healing,spousesofabusers</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 101: What Spouses of Abusers Are Going Through</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-101-what-spouses-of-abusers-are-going-through--27870154</link><description><![CDATA[We often get messages from people asking what help there is for spouses of abusers. They are often the forgotten group, but their struggle is still very much real. In this episode, Clara shares the struggles that spouses of abusers go through. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/27870154</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 May 2020 17:00:14 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/27870154/episode_101.mp3" length="26680341" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We often get messages from people asking what help there is for spouses of abusers. They are often the forgotten group, but their struggle is still very much real. In this episode, Clara shares the struggles that spouses of abusers go through....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We often get messages from people asking what help there is for spouses of abusers. They are often the forgotten group, but their struggle is still very much real. In this episode, Clara shares the struggles that spouses of abusers go through. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1906</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 100: Boz Tchividjian Addresses Abuse During Quarantines</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-100-boz-tchividjian-addresses-abuse-during-quarantines--27338480</link><description><![CDATA[On this 100th episode of The Speaking Out On Sex Abuse Podcast, we interview Boz Tchividjian, attorney and founder and Executive Director of G.R.A.C.E. Boz talks about the judicial system being overburdened during the COVID-19 quarantines, how abuse is on the rise, and how these issues are complex. We discuss ways individuals, advocates, and churches can prepare to help these victims seek help. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a><br /><br />Transcript for podcast available here: <a href="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1ZfeEBgCeRcfSHfQB76v_Aa2ef0Yook0HNG8ctZUzM1U/edit?usp=sharing" rel="noopener">https://docs.google.com/document/d/1ZfeEBgCeRcfSHfQB76v_Aa2ef0Yook0HNG8ctZUzM1U/edit?usp=sharing</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/27338480</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2020 17:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/27338480/episode_100_shotcut.mp3" length="31662133" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>On this 100th episode of The Speaking Out On Sex Abuse Podcast, we interview Boz Tchividjian, attorney and founder and Executive Director of G.R.A.C.E. Boz talks about the judicial system being overburdened during the COVID-19 quarantines, how abuse...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[On this 100th episode of The Speaking Out On Sex Abuse Podcast, we interview Boz Tchividjian, attorney and founder and Executive Director of G.R.A.C.E. Boz talks about the judicial system being overburdened during the COVID-19 quarantines, how abuse is on the rise, and how these issues are complex. We discuss ways individuals, advocates, and churches can prepare to help these victims seek help. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a><br /><br />Transcript for podcast available here: <a href="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1ZfeEBgCeRcfSHfQB76v_Aa2ef0Yook0HNG8ctZUzM1U/edit?usp=sharing" rel="noopener">https://docs.google.com/document/d/1ZfeEBgCeRcfSHfQB76v_Aa2ef0Yook0HNG8ctZUzM1U/edit?usp=sharing</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2262</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuseduringquarantine,boztchividjian,stopabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 99: Stay Home, Lose Lives</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-99-stay-home-lose-lives--26833658</link><description><![CDATA[There is a dark underbelly of stay-at-home orders that not many people are talking about. Many advocates and case workers are crying out for help because there has been a major uptick of severe cases of domestic violence since the quarantines began. One person in Florida is urging the governor to open schools for two weeks so that teachers can assess and identify children who have been severely abused while on lock down at home. This person called our quarantines as a "pressure cooker environment," where many families are jobless, have bills to pay, and have the stress of raising and teaching their children full time. <br /><br />In this episode, we talk about how staying home is costing lives for a lot of people. Depression, anxiety, and suicide are plaguing families. We also offer some tips for what we can be doing about it right now. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowfla.." rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowfla..</a>. Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblin.." rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblin..</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/26833658</guid><pubDate>Thu, 07 May 2020 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/26833658/episode_99.mp3" length="30259583" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There is a dark underbelly of stay-at-home orders that not many people are talking about. Many advocates and case workers are crying out for help because there has been a major uptick of severe cases of domestic violence since the quarantines began....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There is a dark underbelly of stay-at-home orders that not many people are talking about. Many advocates and case workers are crying out for help because there has been a major uptick of severe cases of domestic violence since the quarantines began. One person in Florida is urging the governor to open schools for two weeks so that teachers can assess and identify children who have been severely abused while on lock down at home. This person called our quarantines as a "pressure cooker environment," where many families are jobless, have bills to pay, and have the stress of raising and teaching their children full time. <br /><br />In this episode, we talk about how staying home is costing lives for a lot of people. Depression, anxiety, and suicide are plaguing families. We also offer some tips for what we can be doing about it right now. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowfla.." rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowfla..</a>. Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblin.." rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblin..</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2162</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuseduringquarantine,anxiety,depression,socialdistancing</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 98: What about people who can't wear masks?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-98-what-about-people-who-can-t-wear-masks--26325787</link><description><![CDATA[Jimmy recently wrote a blog post about survivors of abuse who cannot wear a mask because of their past trauma. Many of these survivors are being harshly judged and bullied for not wearing masks in public. They're being called "selfish, lazy, #CovidStupid," etc. In this episode, we talk about reasons why people may not be able to wear a mask, even in places where it is required. We hope this episode will shine a light on the bullying and our hope is that people are more compassionate towards our neighbors who may be struggling. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/26325787</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2020 17:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/26325787/episode_98_edited.mp3" length="21760045" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Jimmy recently wrote a blog post about survivors of abuse who cannot wear a mask because of their past trauma. Many of these survivors are being harshly judged and bullied for not wearing masks in public. They're being called "selfish, lazy,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Jimmy recently wrote a blog post about survivors of abuse who cannot wear a mask because of their past trauma. Many of these survivors are being harshly judged and bullied for not wearing masks in public. They're being called "selfish, lazy, #CovidStupid," etc. In this episode, we talk about reasons why people may not be able to wear a mask, even in places where it is required. We hope this episode will shine a light on the bullying and our hope is that people are more compassionate towards our neighbors who may be struggling. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1555</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>covid-19,metoo,nomask,whynomask</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 97: Supportive VS Non-Supportive Communities</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-97-supportive-vs-non-supportive-communities--25952382</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode we talk about the difference between having a supportive community versus having a non-supportive community. How the community of friends and family responds to abuse will greatly affect how the survivor enters into a season of healing. How a community responds really matters. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/25952382</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2020 17:00:20 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/25952382/episode_97.mp3" length="32814392" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode we talk about the difference between having a supportive community versus having a non-supportive community. How the community of friends and family responds to abuse will greatly affect how the survivor enters into a season of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode we talk about the difference between having a supportive community versus having a non-supportive community. How the community of friends and family responds to abuse will greatly affect how the survivor enters into a season of healing. How a community responds really matters. <br /><br />Intro--<br /> Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br /> I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2051</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuserecovery,healing,non-supportivecommunity,supportivecommunity</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 96: Abusers Should Be Embarrassed For What They've Done</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-96-abusers-should-be-embarrassed-for-what-they-ve-done--25614298</link><description><![CDATA[It always amazes us that so many churches are afraid to name the sin and name the criminal who committed those offenses against innocent people. Is it fair to name the abuser before the church? What about the rest of us who have to own up to what we've done? All of us are humiliated when we are caught doing something that hurts another person, so why should abusers be exempt from this painful process? Why do churches work so hard to protect the feelings of people who committed criminal offenses against innocent people? We explore this and more in this episode. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/25614298</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2020 17:07:12 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/25614298/episode_96.mp3" length="38984723" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It always amazes us that so many churches are afraid to name the sin and name the criminal who committed those offenses against innocent people. Is it fair to name the abuser before the church? What about the rest of us who have to own up to what...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It always amazes us that so many churches are afraid to name the sin and name the criminal who committed those offenses against innocent people. Is it fair to name the abuser before the church? What about the rest of us who have to own up to what we've done? All of us are humiliated when we are caught doing something that hurts another person, so why should abusers be exempt from this painful process? Why do churches work so hard to protect the feelings of people who committed criminal offenses against innocent people? We explore this and more in this episode. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2437</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>humiliation,repentance,sexoffenders</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 95: Feeling Guilty For Doing Well</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-95-feeling-guilty-for-doing-well--25158402</link><description><![CDATA[Do you ever feel guilty for doing well? If so, you're not alone. Several people have expressed to us that they feel guilty, or are made to feel guilty, for posting that they are doing well. In times of crisis especially, people can be short-fused with people who express encouraging news. While we don't fully understand this phenomenon, we are sympathetic to those who are doing well and are fearful of telling others. We hope this episode can be an encouragement to those who are silently struggling. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a> <br /><br />Link to Bobby Ross's Christian Chronicle article about Carla's parents: <br /><a href="https://christianchronicle.org/forgiving-carlas-killers/" rel="noopener">https://christianchronicle.org/forgiving-carlas-killers/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/25158402</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Apr 2020 16:59:37 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/25158402/episode_95.mp3" length="34639202" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you ever feel guilty for doing well? If so, you're not alone. Several people have expressed to us that they feel guilty, or are made to feel guilty, for posting that they are doing well. In times of crisis especially, people can be short-fused with...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you ever feel guilty for doing well? If so, you're not alone. Several people have expressed to us that they feel guilty, or are made to feel guilty, for posting that they are doing well. In times of crisis especially, people can be short-fused with people who express encouraging news. While we don't fully understand this phenomenon, we are sympathetic to those who are doing well and are fearful of telling others. We hope this episode can be an encouragement to those who are silently struggling. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a> <br /><br />Link to Bobby Ross's Christian Chronicle article about Carla's parents: <br /><a href="https://christianchronicle.org/forgiving-carlas-killers/" rel="noopener">https://christianchronicle.org/forgiving-carlas-killers/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2165</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>doingwell,guilt,hope</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 94: Positive Ways Social Distancing Is Changing Church</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-94-positive-ways-social-distancing-is-changing-church--24749441</link><description><![CDATA[The United States, as well as several other countries, are isolating right now. This has radically increased online activity. While it has created fear and unpredictability in many people, there are still some positive aspects that we felt it was important to highlight. Churches, in particular, are reeling to find a new identity. Volumes of churches are moving services online, and in this episode we share how this positively affects survivors and others who still long for community but cannot attend church in person. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/24749441</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2020 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/24749441/episode_94.mp3" length="29065716" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The United States, as well as several other countries, are isolating right now. This has radically increased online activity. While it has created fear and unpredictability in many people, there are still some positive aspects that we felt it was...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The United States, as well as several other countries, are isolating right now. This has radically increased online activity. While it has created fear and unpredictability in many people, there are still some positive aspects that we felt it was important to highlight. Churches, in particular, are reeling to find a new identity. Volumes of churches are moving services online, and in this episode we share how this positively affects survivors and others who still long for community but cannot attend church in person. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1817</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>covid-19,onlinechurch,positivity,safechurch</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 93: The COVID-19 Increase In Child Abuse and What You Can Do</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-93-the-covid-19-increase-in-child-abuse-and-what-you-can-do--24385893</link><description><![CDATA[Cases of child abuse are rising dramatically during the quarantines. Several news sources are documenting the rise in cases of severe abuse. Fox 6 in Fort Worth says that in a five day period in March, seven cases were reported at a children's hospital and two of the victims died from their injuries. All the victims were under the age of four: <br /><a href="https://fox6now.com/2020/03/23/texas-hospital-sees-spike-in-severe-child-abuse-cases-possibly-related-to-covid-19-stress/" rel="noopener">https://fox6now.com/2020/03/23/texas-hospital-sees-spike-in-severe-child-abuse-cases-possibly-related-to-covid-19-stress/</a><br /><br />In this episode, we offer tips for how to check on neighbors and ensure that the kids are okay. We've got to look at the big picture of this crisis. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/24385893</guid><pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2020 17:00:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/24385893/episode_93.mp3" length="25174098" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Cases of child abuse are rising dramatically during the quarantines. Several news sources are documenting the rise in cases of severe abuse. Fox 6 in Fort Worth says that in a five day period in March, seven cases were reported at a children's...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Cases of child abuse are rising dramatically during the quarantines. Several news sources are documenting the rise in cases of severe abuse. Fox 6 in Fort Worth says that in a five day period in March, seven cases were reported at a children's hospital and two of the victims died from their injuries. All the victims were under the age of four: <br /><a href="https://fox6now.com/2020/03/23/texas-hospital-sees-spike-in-severe-child-abuse-cases-possibly-related-to-covid-19-stress/" rel="noopener">https://fox6now.com/2020/03/23/texas-hospital-sees-spike-in-severe-child-abuse-cases-possibly-related-to-covid-19-stress/</a><br /><br />In this episode, we offer tips for how to check on neighbors and ensure that the kids are okay. We've got to look at the big picture of this crisis. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1574</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>covid-19,quarantineabuse,stopabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 92: COVID-19 Tips for Finding Babysitters for Working Parents</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-92-covid-19-tips-for-finding-babysitters-for-working-parents--24040766</link><description><![CDATA[With the entire country in some form of isolation and most schools out of session, many working parents are scrambling to find sitters for their kids. Abusers prey on desperation to assert themselves as the heroes who will volunteer to watch children. In this episode, we mention five things we recommend for said parents and five things we do not. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/24040766</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2020 17:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/24040766/episode_92.mp3" length="29775829" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>With the entire country in some form of isolation and most schools out of session, many working parents are scrambling to find sitters for their kids. Abusers prey on desperation to assert themselves as the heroes who will volunteer to watch children....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[With the entire country in some form of isolation and most schools out of session, many working parents are scrambling to find sitters for their kids. Abusers prey on desperation to assert themselves as the heroes who will volunteer to watch children. In this episode, we mention five things we recommend for said parents and five things we do not. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1861</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>babysitting,covid-19,socialdistancing</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 91: Advocates Attacking Advocates</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-91-advocates-attacking-advocates--23797018</link><description><![CDATA[There is a trend where abuse advocates are attacked, often by other advocates, for petty reasons. Why is this common, and what does it say about our real focus? Find out what our thoughts are in this episode!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/23797018</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2020 17:20:51 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/23797018/episode_91.mp3" length="31859355" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There is a trend where abuse advocates are attacked, often by other advocates, for petty reasons. Why is this common, and what does it say about our real focus? Find out what our thoughts are in this episode!</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There is a trend where abuse advocates are attacked, often by other advocates, for petty reasons. Why is this common, and what does it say about our real focus? Find out what our thoughts are in this episode!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1992</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>atacks,attackoftheadvocate,what'sgoingon?</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 90: 5 Reasons People Don't Warn Others of Abuse</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-90-5-reasons-people-don-t-warn-others-of-abuse--23489974</link><description><![CDATA[Do you ever wonder why so many people fail to speak up when their alarm bells go off with individuals? In this episode, we explore five reasons why people fail to speak up when they encounter high risk individuals. This episode will identify the problems so we can counter them with solutions. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/23489974</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2020 18:01:29 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/23489974/episode_90.mp3" length="32541047" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you ever wonder why so many people fail to speak up when their alarm bells go off with individuals? In this episode, we explore five reasons why people fail to speak up when they encounter high risk individuals. This episode will identify the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you ever wonder why so many people fail to speak up when their alarm bells go off with individuals? In this episode, we explore five reasons why people fail to speak up when they encounter high risk individuals. This episode will identify the problems so we can counter them with solutions. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2034</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>reportabuse,silence,speakup</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 89: Kelly Haines Takes a Break From Advocacy</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-89-kelly-haines-takes-a-break-from-advocacy--23258667</link><description><![CDATA[Guest Kelly Haines, who is known for going public about her abuse by her former school teacher John Longaker, recently took a break from advocacy. In this episode we talk with Kelly about why she decided to take a break and what her message is to other advocates who are considering taking a step back. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/23258667</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Feb 2020 19:26:16 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/23258667/episode_89.mp3" length="34814327" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Guest Kelly Haines, who is known for going public about her abuse by her former school teacher John Longaker, recently took a break from advocacy. In this episode we talk with Kelly about why she decided to take a break and what her message is to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Guest Kelly Haines, who is known for going public about her abuse by her former school teacher John Longaker, recently took a break from advocacy. In this episode we talk with Kelly about why she decided to take a break and what her message is to other advocates who are considering taking a step back. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2176</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>advocacy,burnout,kellyhaines</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5bf34d66556ca47e5c6ca8c86a7fbd47.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 88: Burnout Among Advocates</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-88-burnout-among-advocates--23000276</link><description><![CDATA[The burnout rate among abuse advocates is very high. Advocates face a host of challenges in addition to doing the difficult work of listening to stories of abuse each day. Is it OK to take a step away? What are some ways we can take care of ourselves and our families before we reach the point of burnout? Find out in this episode! <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/23000276</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Feb 2020 17:54:11 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/23000276/episode_88.mp3" length="28990483" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The burnout rate among abuse advocates is very high. Advocates face a host of challenges in addition to doing the difficult work of listening to stories of abuse each day. Is it OK to take a step away? What are some ways we can take care of ourselves...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The burnout rate among abuse advocates is very high. Advocates face a host of challenges in addition to doing the difficult work of listening to stories of abuse each day. Is it OK to take a step away? What are some ways we can take care of ourselves and our families before we reach the point of burnout? Find out in this episode! <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1812</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>advocateburnout,burnout,r&amp;r</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 87: Joe Scorsone-Preventing Abuse Through Music</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-87-joe-scorsone-preventing-abuse-through-music--22738265</link><description><![CDATA[Joe Scorsone is a sexual abuse survivor and great friend who is an incredibly talented Christian musician. Joe and his wife Beth are the lead singers of Flintface. Joe is currently on the Take Back Your Voice tour, where he is playing for over 300 schools across the US. He's using the power of his story and music to teach a lesson on self-worth and suicide prevention. <br /><br />In our series on abuse in school, we wanted to interview someone who is out there literally keeping our children alive. This is a story you don't want to miss. <br /><br />Check out Flintface here: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/user/officialFLINTface" rel="noopener">https://www.youtube.com/user/officialFLINTface</a><br /><br />Check out their Patreon here: <a href="https://www.patreon.com/FLINTFACEFamily" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/FLINTFACEFamily</a><br /><br />Be sure to listen to the Take Back Your Voice podcast on your favorite app or watch the videos on the Flintface YouTube channel. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/22738265</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Feb 2020 18:21:43 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/22738265/episode_87.mp3" length="31988087" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Joe Scorsone is a sexual abuse survivor and great friend who is an incredibly talented Christian musician. Joe and his wife Beth are the lead singers of Flintface. Joe is currently on the Take Back Your Voice tour, where he is playing for over 300...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Joe Scorsone is a sexual abuse survivor and great friend who is an incredibly talented Christian musician. Joe and his wife Beth are the lead singers of Flintface. Joe is currently on the Take Back Your Voice tour, where he is playing for over 300 schools across the US. He's using the power of his story and music to teach a lesson on self-worth and suicide prevention. <br /><br />In our series on abuse in school, we wanted to interview someone who is out there literally keeping our children alive. This is a story you don't want to miss. <br /><br />Check out Flintface here: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/user/officialFLINTface" rel="noopener">https://www.youtube.com/user/officialFLINTface</a><br /><br />Check out their Patreon here: <a href="https://www.patreon.com/FLINTFACEFamily" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/FLINTFACEFamily</a><br /><br />Be sure to listen to the Take Back Your Voice podcast on your favorite app or watch the videos on the Flintface YouTube channel. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2000</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuse,flintface,suicideprevention</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/be749ee198a5244375dcde33503fa407.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 86: Talking To Kids About Abuse In School</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-86-talking-to-kids-about-abuse-in-school--22484659</link><description><![CDATA[Do you ever wonder how to approach your children about the subject of abuse? It's absolutely essential that we talk to our children about abuse. They need to know what safe boundaries are and how to not fall prey to teachers or peers who are creating scenarios that isolate them. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/22484659</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Feb 2020 18:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/22484659/episode_86.mp3" length="31215280" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you ever wonder how to approach your children about the subject of abuse? It's absolutely essential that we talk to our children about abuse. They need to know what safe boundaries are and how to not fall prey to teachers or peers who are creating...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you ever wonder how to approach your children about the subject of abuse? It's absolutely essential that we talk to our children about abuse. They need to know what safe boundaries are and how to not fall prey to teachers or peers who are creating scenarios that isolate them. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1951</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuse,schoolabuse,stopabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 85: Laura Dunn Talks Title IX and How It Applies to K-12</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-85-laura-dunn-talks-title-ix-and-how-it-applies-to-k-12--22239245</link><description><![CDATA[Guest Laura Dunn talks about Title IX and how it applies to schools for K-12. Most people only think of Title IX as applying to colleges, but this is completely false. Laura L. Dunn is a nationally recognized expert on Title IX and campus sexual assault available for expert witness and consultation services on lawsuits, policies, trainings, and other projects​. She is also an experienced litigator and victims' rights attorney who represents victims of sexual violence and harassment, as well as campus safety whistleblowers. Her website can be found here: <a href="http://www.lldunnlaw.com/" rel="noopener">http://www.lldunnlaw.com/</a><br /><br />In this episode, Laura discusses how Title IX applies to schools for grades K-12, and how abuse--whether from peers or teachers--must be remedied when a complaint is filed. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/22239245</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jan 2020 17:52:54 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/22239245/episode_85.mp3" length="48071156" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Guest Laura Dunn talks about Title IX and how it applies to schools for K-12. Most people only think of Title IX as applying to colleges, but this is completely false. Laura L. Dunn is a nationally recognized expert on Title IX and campus sexual...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Guest Laura Dunn talks about Title IX and how it applies to schools for K-12. Most people only think of Title IX as applying to colleges, but this is completely false. Laura L. Dunn is a nationally recognized expert on Title IX and campus sexual assault available for expert witness and consultation services on lawsuits, policies, trainings, and other projects​. She is also an experienced litigator and victims' rights attorney who represents victims of sexual violence and harassment, as well as campus safety whistleblowers. Her website can be found here: <a href="http://www.lldunnlaw.com/" rel="noopener">http://www.lldunnlaw.com/</a><br /><br />In this episode, Laura discusses how Title IX applies to schools for grades K-12, and how abuse--whether from peers or teachers--must be remedied when a complaint is filed. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3005</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>lauradunn,schoolabuse,titleix</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/81eae93fd40f18cf61fe9c1e2e89a78f.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 84: The Cost of Being Abused</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-84-the-cost-of-being-abused--21991743</link><description><![CDATA[This is part of a series on abuse in schools. Abuse statistics are increasing with teacher/student abuse. In this episode, we discuss the cost of being abused. The CDC did a study in 2012 that shows the estimated cost that follows a victim of abuse throughout their life. This is only one of many reasons why we fight so hard to keep known abusers away from children. <br /><br /><a href="https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/childabuseandneglect/EconomicCost.html" rel="noopener">https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/childabuseandneglect/EconomicCost.html</a><br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21991743</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Jan 2020 17:57:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/21991743/episode_84.mp3" length="30858343" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This is part of a series on abuse in schools. Abuse statistics are increasing with teacher/student abuse. In this episode, we discuss the cost of being abused. The CDC did a study in 2012 that shows the estimated cost that follows a victim of abuse...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This is part of a series on abuse in schools. Abuse statistics are increasing with teacher/student abuse. In this episode, we discuss the cost of being abused. The CDC did a study in 2012 that shows the estimated cost that follows a victim of abuse throughout their life. This is only one of many reasons why we fight so hard to keep known abusers away from children. <br /><br /><a href="https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/childabuseandneglect/EconomicCost.html" rel="noopener">https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/childabuseandneglect/EconomicCost.html</a><br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1929</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>cdc,costofabuse,metoo</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 83: Abuse In Schools and Troubling Stats</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-83-abuse-in-schools-and-troubling-stats--21754044</link><description><![CDATA[Several years ago, a study showed that 3.5 million 8-12th graders in the US report being sexually touched by an adult. Most of those adults are teachers. If we include adults who show pornography, exchange photos, or masturbate in front of students, that number jumps to 4.5 million. There is a very big problem in our schools, and it has not gotten any better. This episode begins a series on abuse in schools and what we can do about it. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21754044</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Jan 2020 17:57:10 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/21754044/episode_83.mp3" length="32164466" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Several years ago, a study showed that 3.5 million 8-12th graders in the US report being sexually touched by an adult. Most of those adults are teachers. If we include adults who show pornography, exchange photos, or masturbate in front of students,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Several years ago, a study showed that 3.5 million 8-12th graders in the US report being sexually touched by an adult. Most of those adults are teachers. If we include adults who show pornography, exchange photos, or masturbate in front of students, that number jumps to 4.5 million. There is a very big problem in our schools, and it has not gotten any better. This episode begins a series on abuse in schools and what we can do about it. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2011</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>metoo,schoolabuse,teacherpredators</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 82: Guest Katie Talks About Triggers</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-82-guest-katie-talks-about-triggers--21509172</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, Katie talks about her experience as a survivor of multiple kinds of abuse-from domestic violence to spiritual abuse-and how she has learned much about her triggers. One of the common myths is that taking care of yourself (doing internal or soul work) will make you well. Katie explains how we can learn to find the source of the external problem by listening to triggers. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21509172</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Jan 2020 18:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/21509172/episode_82.mp3" length="35610121" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode, Katie talks about her experience as a survivor of multiple kinds of abuse-from domestic violence to spiritual abuse-and how she has learned much about her triggers. One of the common myths is that taking care of yourself (doing...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, Katie talks about her experience as a survivor of multiple kinds of abuse-from domestic violence to spiritual abuse-and how she has learned much about her triggers. One of the common myths is that taking care of yourself (doing internal or soul work) will make you well. Katie explains how we can learn to find the source of the external problem by listening to triggers. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2226</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,metoo,ptsd,triggers</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 81: Principles To Guide Policies For Sex Offenders At Church</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-81-principles-to-guide-policies-for-sex-offenders-at-church--20893486</link><description><![CDATA[In light of last week's podcast on the SBC's Caring Well policy that hides convicted abusers in churches, we wanted to be more constructive and offer common sense principles for what churches should be doing when someone on the registry is looking for a church. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20893486</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Dec 2019 17:57:45 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/20893486/episode_81.mp3" length="30741314" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In light of last week's podcast on the SBC's Caring Well policy that hides convicted abusers in churches, we wanted to be more constructive and offer common sense principles for what churches should be doing when someone on the registry is looking for...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In light of last week's podcast on the SBC's Caring Well policy that hides convicted abusers in churches, we wanted to be more constructive and offer common sense principles for what churches should be doing when someone on the registry is looking for a church. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1922</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>caringwell,churchtoo,sbc</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 80: What Is the SBC Thinking With This Policy?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-80-what-is-the-sbc-thinking-with-this-policy--20690620</link><description><![CDATA[The SBC launched the Caring Well course recently, but we find it's policy on integrating registered sex offenders troubling. It is less than transparent, and it allows sex offenders to fly completely under the radar of all church members. It is exactly the kind of policy abusers are hoping for-one that gives them anonymity and is wrapped in secrecy. We unpack parts of the policy in this episode (and vent a lot about it). <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20690620</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Dec 2019 18:29:38 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/20690620/episode_80.mp3" length="42767672" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The SBC launched the Caring Well course recently, but we find it's policy on integrating registered sex offenders troubling. It is less than transparent, and it allows sex offenders to fly completely under the radar of all church members. It is...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The SBC launched the Caring Well course recently, but we find it's policy on integrating registered sex offenders troubling. It is less than transparent, and it allows sex offenders to fly completely under the radar of all church members. It is exactly the kind of policy abusers are hoping for-one that gives them anonymity and is wrapped in secrecy. We unpack parts of the policy in this episode (and vent a lot about it). <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2673</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>caringwell,churchtoo,sbc</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 79: Abuse Survivor Helen Maidenrath Talks About Triggers</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-79-abuse-survivor-helen-maidenrath-talks-about-triggers--20505564</link><description><![CDATA[Helen Maidenrath is a patron of the podcast, is a survivor of abuse, and works in the medical field. She joins the podcast to talk about her triggers and how she has learned to listen to them. We believe that we need to talk more about this important topic, because triggers effect many abuse survivors. Helen discusses how she learned to listen to triggers instead of attempting to run from them. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20505564</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Dec 2019 18:00:17 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/20505564/episode_79.mp3" length="51218389" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Helen Maidenrath is a patron of the podcast, is a survivor of abuse, and works in the medical field. She joins the podcast to talk about her triggers and how she has learned to listen to them. We believe that we need to talk more about this important...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Helen Maidenrath is a patron of the podcast, is a survivor of abuse, and works in the medical field. She joins the podcast to talk about her triggers and how she has learned to listen to them. We believe that we need to talk more about this important topic, because triggers effect many abuse survivors. Helen discusses how she learned to listen to triggers instead of attempting to run from them. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3202</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,metoo,trauma,triggers</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 78: What are the fruits of repentance for a predator?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-78-what-are-the-fruits-of-repentance-for-a-predator--20168113</link><description><![CDATA[How do we know if someone has repented or if they're a wolf? So many Christians are quick to accept words of repentance, or to mistake remorse for repentance. This practice allows predators to flourish inside the church, where they have unfettered access to more victims. In this episode we lay out tangible fruits of repentance where we can tell whether we are being played or whether someone is actually repentant. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20168113</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 Nov 2019 18:00:21 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/20168113/episode_78.mp3" length="42253582" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>How do we know if someone has repented or if they're a wolf? So many Christians are quick to accept words of repentance, or to mistake remorse for repentance. This practice allows predators to flourish inside the church, where they have unfettered...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[How do we know if someone has repented or if they're a wolf? So many Christians are quick to accept words of repentance, or to mistake remorse for repentance. This practice allows predators to flourish inside the church, where they have unfettered access to more victims. In this episode we lay out tangible fruits of repentance where we can tell whether we are being played or whether someone is actually repentant. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2641</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,metoo,repentance</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 77: "Why did it take so long to speak up?"-a response</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-77-why-did-it-take-so-long-to-speak-up-a-response--20027318</link><description><![CDATA[Oftentimes it takes many years--even decades before abuse survivors are able to speak up. Common responses are: "Why did it take so long? If you were that uncomfortable, why wait X number of years? Why now? Do you have an ax to grind? Are you looking for fame? Money? Do you want to ruin his reputation?" These are very common responses that abuse survivors hear, especially in the church. <br /><br />In this episode, you'll hear our take on why we believe these responses are the "norm," and how survivors can find support when the church fails to offer it to them. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20027318</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 Nov 2019 18:00:19 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/20027318/episode_77.mp3" length="30646856" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Oftentimes it takes many years--even decades before abuse survivors are able to speak up. Common responses are: "Why did it take so long? If you were that uncomfortable, why wait X number of years? Why now? Do you have an ax to grind? Are you looking...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Oftentimes it takes many years--even decades before abuse survivors are able to speak up. Common responses are: "Why did it take so long? If you were that uncomfortable, why wait X number of years? Why now? Do you have an ax to grind? Are you looking for fame? Money? Do you want to ruin his reputation?" These are very common responses that abuse survivors hear, especially in the church. <br /><br />In this episode, you'll hear our take on why we believe these responses are the "norm," and how survivors can find support when the church fails to offer it to them. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1916</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,speakingup</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 76: How Triggers Can Be Helpful</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-76-how-triggers-can-be-helpful--19904766</link><description><![CDATA[Do people treat you differently for having triggers? Do you feel like there's something that needs to be worked on when your triggers are active? In this episode, we discuss triggers and how they actually can help protect abuse survivors. The body responds to abuse by offering warnings that something is not right. We also discuss Gavin DeBecker's book The Gift of Fear. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19904766</guid><pubDate>Thu, 07 Nov 2019 18:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/19904766/episode_76.mp3" length="30034963" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do people treat you differently for having triggers? Do you feel like there's something that needs to be worked on when your triggers are active? In this episode, we discuss triggers and how they actually can help protect abuse survivors. The body...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do people treat you differently for having triggers? Do you feel like there's something that needs to be worked on when your triggers are active? In this episode, we discuss triggers and how they actually can help protect abuse survivors. The body responds to abuse by offering warnings that something is not right. We also discuss Gavin DeBecker's book The Gift of Fear. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1878</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,metoo,triggers</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 75: Sitting On the Ash Heap</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-75-sitting-on-the-ash-heap--19785094</link><description><![CDATA[So many people are sitting on their ash heap when their world burns down around them. It leaves them incredibly vulnerable and open to attack from others. In this episode, we discuss reasons why people typically don't sit with survivors on their ash heap. We invite people to sit on the ash heap with those who are suffering without offering advice or dishing out blame. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19785094</guid><pubDate>Thu, 31 Oct 2019 17:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/19785094/episode_75.mp3" length="30507257" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>So many people are sitting on their ash heap when their world burns down around them. It leaves them incredibly vulnerable and open to attack from others. In this episode, we discuss reasons why people typically don't sit with survivors on their ash...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[So many people are sitting on their ash heap when their world burns down around them. It leaves them incredibly vulnerable and open to attack from others. In this episode, we discuss reasons why people typically don't sit with survivors on their ash heap. We invite people to sit on the ash heap with those who are suffering without offering advice or dishing out blame. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1907</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>ashheap,churchtoo,grief,metoo</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 74: How To Move Churches That Are On the Fence</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-74-how-to-move-churches-that-are-on-the-fence--19671630</link><description><![CDATA[Some organizations are very resistant to talking about abuse. Others are on the fence but keep kicking the can down the road. In this episode, we talk about ways to move churches from sitting on the fence to actually taking action to train and protect the innocent. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19671630</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Oct 2019 17:13:59 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/19671630/episode_74.mp3" length="29546369" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Some organizations are very resistant to talking about abuse. Others are on the fence but keep kicking the can down the road. In this episode, we talk about ways to move churches from sitting on the fence to actually taking action to train and protect...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Some organizations are very resistant to talking about abuse. Others are on the fence but keep kicking the can down the road. In this episode, we talk about ways to move churches from sitting on the fence to actually taking action to train and protect the innocent. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1847</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,resistantchurches</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 73: Five Things That Safe Churches Will Do</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-73-five-things-that-safe-churches-will-do--19555575</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, we discuss what five things safe churches will be doing right now. These five things will indicate whether a church is safe or not. This episode stems from a trip Jimmy took to New Mexico, where he encountered a very safe church. When abuse was revealed, the perpetrator was removed immediately and the victims were taken care of and protected by church leaders. Listen to hear what they are doing and why we consider them to be the standard for safe churches. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19555575</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Oct 2019 16:52:16 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/19555575/episode_73.mp3" length="33094007" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode, we discuss what five things safe churches will be doing right now. These five things will indicate whether a church is safe or not. This episode stems from a trip Jimmy took to New Mexico, where he encountered a very safe church. When...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, we discuss what five things safe churches will be doing right now. These five things will indicate whether a church is safe or not. This episode stems from a trip Jimmy took to New Mexico, where he encountered a very safe church. When abuse was revealed, the perpetrator was removed immediately and the victims were taken care of and protected by church leaders. Listen to hear what they are doing and why we consider them to be the standard for safe churches. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2069</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,goodleaders,safechurch</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 72: Sensationalized Forgiveness</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-72-sensationalized-forgiveness--19439359</link><description><![CDATA[The internet almost broke when Brandt Jean forgave his brother Botham's murderer--former Dallas police officer Amber Guyger. Christians took it and ran, touting how wonderful it is that Christians should forgive no matter what. <br /><br />BUT, the most important clause was stripped from Brandt's impact statement: "IF you truly are sorry. . . then I forgive you." Brandt Jean has a very biblical view of forgiveness. He did not sensationalize it; the rest of the world did. Jean did not forgive Amber Guyger for his own healing. He did it because he wanted her to be able to heal. It was a gift that he offered her. And he only did it IF she truly was sorry. In this episode, we explore forgiveness and why so many have turned forgiveness into therapy, when it was never intended to be therapeutic. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19439359</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Oct 2019 17:00:19 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/19439359/forgiveness_final.mp3" length="38301778" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The internet almost broke when Brandt Jean forgave his brother Botham's murderer--former Dallas police officer Amber Guyger. Christians took it and ran, touting how wonderful it is that Christians should forgive no matter what. 

BUT, the most...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The internet almost broke when Brandt Jean forgave his brother Botham's murderer--former Dallas police officer Amber Guyger. Christians took it and ran, touting how wonderful it is that Christians should forgive no matter what. <br /><br />BUT, the most important clause was stripped from Brandt's impact statement: "IF you truly are sorry. . . then I forgive you." Brandt Jean has a very biblical view of forgiveness. He did not sensationalize it; the rest of the world did. Jean did not forgive Amber Guyger for his own healing. He did it because he wanted her to be able to heal. It was a gift that he offered her. And he only did it IF she truly was sorry. In this episode, we explore forgiveness and why so many have turned forgiveness into therapy, when it was never intended to be therapeutic. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2394</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>brandtjean,forgiveness,forgiving,mercy</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 71: Guest Erik Pedersen Shares His Abuse &amp; Cover Ups In Australia</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-71-guest-erik-pedersen-shares-his-abuse-cover-ups-in-australia--19333707</link><description><![CDATA[Erik Pedersen was abused from a young age. He shares how pornography changed him, how he became a target of abuse over and over again, and how he was fueled by drugs and alcohol to numb the pain. Despite the church betraying him countless times, Erik has maintained his faith in God and has vowed to spend the rest of his days exposing abusers in the church. His story is gripping and his humor is unmistakable. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19333707</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Oct 2019 17:00:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/19333707/episode_71.mp3" length="60989857" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Erik Pedersen was abused from a young age. He shares how pornography changed him, how he became a target of abuse over and over again, and how he was fueled by drugs and alcohol to numb the pain. Despite the church betraying him countless times, Erik...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Erik Pedersen was abused from a young age. He shares how pornography changed him, how he became a target of abuse over and over again, and how he was fueled by drugs and alcohol to numb the pain. Despite the church betraying him countless times, Erik has maintained his faith in God and has vowed to spend the rest of his days exposing abusers in the church. His story is gripping and his humor is unmistakable. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3812</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>australia,churchtoo,coverups,metoo</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f74d08ca72c813bbdd51cff4a7a714cf.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 70: Kelly Downing Shares Her Story of Cover Ups In the Mission Field</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-70-kelly-downing-shares-her-story-of-cover-ups-in-the-mission-field--19242332</link><description><![CDATA[Guest Kelly Downing talks about how she decided to warn the church back in Indonesia of her abuser who molested her beginning when she was six. She discusses how the church responded, where her abuser is today, and what the challenges are that abuse survivors face when attempting to save innocent lives from predators. <br /><br />Kelly blogs and posts at No Less Than Light: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/NoLessThanLight/" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/NoLessThanLight/</a><br />And recently began a weekly podcast at <a href="https://anchor.fm/survivorsanctuary" rel="noopener">https://anchor.fm/survivorsanctuary</a><br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19242332</guid><pubDate>Thu, 26 Sep 2019 16:59:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/19242332/episode_70.mp3" length="34648815" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Guest Kelly Downing talks about how she decided to warn the church back in Indonesia of her abuser who molested her beginning when she was six. She discusses how the church responded, where her abuser is today, and what the challenges are that abuse...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Guest Kelly Downing talks about how she decided to warn the church back in Indonesia of her abuser who molested her beginning when she was six. She discusses how the church responded, where her abuser is today, and what the challenges are that abuse survivors face when attempting to save innocent lives from predators. <br /><br />Kelly blogs and posts at No Less Than Light: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/NoLessThanLight/" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/NoLessThanLight/</a><br />And recently began a weekly podcast at <a href="https://anchor.fm/survivorsanctuary" rel="noopener">https://anchor.fm/survivorsanctuary</a><br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2166</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>kellydowning,nolessthanlight,survivorsancturary</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ef576750fc1941d8c9b3b04dbe66b396.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 69: Guest Shaun Doughterty Discusses Senator Folmer's Child Porn Charges</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-69-guest-shaun-doughterty-discusses-senator-folmer-s-child-porn-charges--19150793</link><description><![CDATA[Shaun Dougherty's disclosure of abuse by his priest when he was a child launched the Pennsylvania Grand Jury Investigation of 2016 into the Altoona-Johnstown Diocese. That sparked the state wide Grand Jury Investigation into the remaining 6 dioceses. That bombshell report identified over 1,000 victims who were abused by over 300 priests who where hidden within the Catholic church. <br /><br />A damning story broke September 18th which reported that Pennsylvania Senator Folmer, who stood opposed to statute of limitation reform, was arrested for child porn. One of the images was of a very young girl performing oral sex on a man. Shaun was "basically laughed out of Folmer's office" when he was pleading with the senator to do something to help protect children. We discuss this and more in this episode. <br /><br /><a href="https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2019/09/pennsylvania-state-senator-mike-folmer-child-pornography-charges.html?fbclid=IwAR1e79RJMfG16I_1HjebLm9LvLoGXQk0f6gU_QR5oiFz5jNrxIwwai6MD90" rel="noopener">https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2019/09/pennsylvania-state-senator-mike-folmer-child-pornography-charges.html?fbclid=IwAR1e79RJMfG16I_1HjebLm9LvLoGXQk0f6gU_QR5oiFz5jNrxIwwai6MD90</a><br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19150793</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Sep 2019 15:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/19150793/episode_69.mp3" length="31986833" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Shaun Dougherty's disclosure of abuse by his priest when he was a child launched the Pennsylvania Grand Jury Investigation of 2016 into the Altoona-Johnstown Diocese. That sparked the state wide Grand Jury Investigation into the remaining 6 dioceses....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Shaun Dougherty's disclosure of abuse by his priest when he was a child launched the Pennsylvania Grand Jury Investigation of 2016 into the Altoona-Johnstown Diocese. That sparked the state wide Grand Jury Investigation into the remaining 6 dioceses. That bombshell report identified over 1,000 victims who were abused by over 300 priests who where hidden within the Catholic church. <br /><br />A damning story broke September 18th which reported that Pennsylvania Senator Folmer, who stood opposed to statute of limitation reform, was arrested for child porn. One of the images was of a very young girl performing oral sex on a man. Shaun was "basically laughed out of Folmer's office" when he was pleading with the senator to do something to help protect children. We discuss this and more in this episode. <br /><br /><a href="https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2019/09/pennsylvania-state-senator-mike-folmer-child-pornography-charges.html?fbclid=IwAR1e79RJMfG16I_1HjebLm9LvLoGXQk0f6gU_QR5oiFz5jNrxIwwai6MD90" rel="noopener">https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2019/09/pennsylvania-state-senator-mike-folmer-child-pornography-charges.html?fbclid=IwAR1e79RJMfG16I_1HjebLm9LvLoGXQk0f6gU_QR5oiFz5jNrxIwwai6MD90</a><br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2000</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,metoo,senatorfolmer,shaundougherty</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/db311e9d2ccda405e5e76053235ce8d5.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 68: Is Abuse On the Rise? (Part 2)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-68-is-abuse-on-the-rise-part-2--19077336</link><description><![CDATA[In part 2 we talk about the rise in number of abusers being outed by their victims and why this alone isn't enough to keep kids safe. We give our thoughts on the SBC's Caring Well curriculum and why we believe it will continue to enable abusers. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19077336</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Sep 2019 16:56:21 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/19077336/episode_68.mp3" length="33942046" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In part 2 we talk about the rise in number of abusers being outed by their victims and why this alone isn't enough to keep kids safe. We give our thoughts on the SBC's Caring Well curriculum and why we believe it will continue to enable abusers....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In part 2 we talk about the rise in number of abusers being outed by their victims and why this alone isn't enough to keep kids safe. We give our thoughts on the SBC's Caring Well curriculum and why we believe it will continue to enable abusers. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2122</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>caringwell,churchtoo,riseofabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 67: Is Abuse On the Rise? (Part 1)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-67-is-abuse-on-the-rise-part-1--19013721</link><description><![CDATA[Is abuse on the rise? Are more people reporting abuse because of #MeToo? There are definitely some trends that we are tracking. Find out in this episode what's going on with abuse statistics and what that means for all of us. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19013721</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Sep 2019 17:00:21 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/19013721/episode_67_final.mp3" length="31154676" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Is abuse on the rise? Are more people reporting abuse because of #MeToo? There are definitely some trends that we are tracking. Find out in this episode what's going on with abuse statistics and what that means for all of us. 

Intro--
Film Glitch by...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Is abuse on the rise? Are more people reporting abuse because of #MeToo? There are definitely some trends that we are tracking. Find out in this episode what's going on with abuse statistics and what that means for all of us. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1948</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusestatistics,churchtoo,isabuseincreasing,metoo</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 66: Bad Tweets-SBC Leaders at It Again</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-66-bad-tweets-sbc-leaders-at-it-again--18948847</link><description><![CDATA[Both Al Mohler and Russel Moore came under fire this week from abuse survivors for a series of insensitive tweets. Are they this removed from reality or is this an intentional attempt to silence survivors? Find out our thoughts in this episode. <br /><br />Link to Jimmy's interview with CBN News on February 19, 2019 at 2:30 mark: <a href="https://www1.cbn.com/cbnnews/newswatch?nid=508751" rel="noopener">https://www1.cbn.com/cbnnews/newswatch?nid=508751</a><br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18948847</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Aug 2019 17:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/18948847/episode_66_final.mp3" length="33451362" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Both Al Mohler and Russel Moore came under fire this week from abuse survivors for a series of insensitive tweets. Are they this removed from reality or is this an intentional attempt to silence survivors? Find out our thoughts in this episode. 

Link...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Both Al Mohler and Russel Moore came under fire this week from abuse survivors for a series of insensitive tweets. Are they this removed from reality or is this an intentional attempt to silence survivors? Find out our thoughts in this episode. <br /><br />Link to Jimmy's interview with CBN News on February 19, 2019 at 2:30 mark: <a href="https://www1.cbn.com/cbnnews/newswatch?nid=508751" rel="noopener">https://www1.cbn.com/cbnnews/newswatch?nid=508751</a><br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2091</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>almohler,caringwell,churchtoo,russelmoore,sbc</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 65: The Power of Community</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-65-the-power-of-community--18883147</link><description><![CDATA[Steady, gradual, and meaningful changes are taking place. So many survivors are turning advocates and are even planting and leading churches! There are lots of signs pointing in the direction of hope. Survivors are joining forces and people are listening. There's a long way to go, but positive change is happening. Hang in there and hear about our personal stories of hope. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18883147</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Aug 2019 17:00:17 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/18883147/episode_65_final.mp3" length="30554069" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Steady, gradual, and meaningful changes are taking place. So many survivors are turning advocates and are even planting and leading churches! There are lots of signs pointing in the direction of hope. Survivors are joining forces and people are...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Steady, gradual, and meaningful changes are taking place. So many survivors are turning advocates and are even planting and leading churches! There are lots of signs pointing in the direction of hope. Survivors are joining forces and people are listening. There's a long way to go, but positive change is happening. Hang in there and hear about our personal stories of hope. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1910</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>advocates,change,clarahinton,hope,jimmyhinton</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 64: Tells of Abusers (Part 2)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-64-tells-of-abusers-part-2--18822223</link><description><![CDATA[Is it possible to spot abusers more easily? Most people say that it is incredibly difficult to detect abusers. But what if we use a different method? If we learn what their "tells" are, do you think it's possible to detect abusers more easily? Find out in this episode!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18822223</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Aug 2019 17:00:15 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/18822223/episode_64_final.mp3" length="33306330" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Is it possible to spot abusers more easily? Most people say that it is incredibly difficult to detect abusers. But what if we use a different method? If we learn what their "tells" are, do you think it's possible to detect abusers more easily? Find...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Is it possible to spot abusers more easily? Most people say that it is incredibly difficult to detect abusers. But what if we use a different method? If we learn what their "tells" are, do you think it's possible to detect abusers more easily? Find out in this episode!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2082</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusertells,churchtoo,tells</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 63: Myths and Tells of Abusers (part 1)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-63-myths-and-tells-of-abusers-part-1--18765070</link><description><![CDATA[The most important thing that is often overlooked is how to identify abusers. We focus on background checks, making spaces more visible, adding more adults to oversee children, etc. But are these effective or are they myths that help perpetuate abuse? Find out in this episode! <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18765070</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Aug 2019 17:01:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/18765070/episode_63_final.mp3" length="36358268" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The most important thing that is often overlooked is how to identify abusers. We focus on background checks, making spaces more visible, adding more adults to oversee children, etc. But are these effective or are they myths that help perpetuate abuse?...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The most important thing that is often overlooked is how to identify abusers. We focus on background checks, making spaces more visible, adding more adults to oversee children, etc. But are these effective or are they myths that help perpetuate abuse? Find out in this episode! <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2273</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>knowthethreat,spottingabusers,tells</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 62: Church Decline and Some Great News About It</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-62-church-decline-and-some-great-news-about-it--18697496</link><description><![CDATA[The church in the US is in decline. The Barna Institute did a 2016 study that shows only about 35% of Americans participate in church anymore, despite the fact that over 70% claim that they are Christians. Is there a direct link between church decline and abuse, or are there other major factors? We have high hope that artificial community is deteriorating, while authentic church community will be on the rise. <br /><br />People who have left organized religion often feel like (or are told) that they are not part of the church anymore. This nonsense should motivate us even more to stay united and provide community for one another. In this episode, we share our hope and the direction we think the church will go (and it's great news!). <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18697496</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Aug 2019 16:57:46 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/18697496/episode_62_final.mp3" length="36232462" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The church in the US is in decline. The Barna Institute did a 2016 study that shows only about 35% of Americans participate in church anymore, despite the fact that over 70% claim that they are Christians. Is there a direct link between church decline...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The church in the US is in decline. The Barna Institute did a 2016 study that shows only about 35% of Americans participate in church anymore, despite the fact that over 70% claim that they are Christians. Is there a direct link between church decline and abuse, or are there other major factors? We have high hope that artificial community is deteriorating, while authentic church community will be on the rise. <br /><br />People who have left organized religion often feel like (or are told) that they are not part of the church anymore. This nonsense should motivate us even more to stay united and provide community for one another. In this episode, we share our hope and the direction we think the church will go (and it's great news!). <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2265</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>church,churchtoo,onlinechurch</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 61: Seven Tips for Churches To Help Survivors of Abuse</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-61-seven-tips-for-churches-to-help-survivors-of-abuse--18640186</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, we offer 7 tips for churches to include survivors in shifting church culture to both protect the innocent and bring healing to survivors. We apologize for sound issues in this episode. This was a rare occurrence and we will have these issues resolved for the next episode!! <br /><br />Don't forget to visit <a href="https://jimmyhinton.org/podcast/" rel="noopener">https://jimmyhinton.org/podcast/</a> if you are interested in becoming a patron of this podcast! Check out the rewards that are only available for our patrons! <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18640186</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 Jul 2019 17:00:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/18640186/episode_61_final.mp3" length="30974118" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode, we offer 7 tips for churches to include survivors in shifting church culture to both protect the innocent and bring healing to survivors. We apologize for sound issues in this episode. This was a rare occurrence and we will have these...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, we offer 7 tips for churches to include survivors in shifting church culture to both protect the innocent and bring healing to survivors. We apologize for sound issues in this episode. This was a rare occurrence and we will have these issues resolved for the next episode!! <br /><br />Don't forget to visit <a href="https://jimmyhinton.org/podcast/" rel="noopener">https://jimmyhinton.org/podcast/</a> if you are interested in becoming a patron of this podcast! Check out the rewards that are only available for our patrons! <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1936</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,metoo,tipsforchurches</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 60: Introducing Patreon to This Podcast!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-60-introducing-patreon-to-this-podcast--18582958</link><description><![CDATA[We are excited to be introducing Patreon, where we invite people to become patrons of this podcast in order to grow our community and take this podcast to the next level! Also, in the podcast we mentioned our family's accident in Haiti that happened last week. Here are the links we promised for those who want to learn more about it: <br /><a href="https://christianchronicle.org/agony-prayer-and-tears-of-relief/" rel="noopener">https://christianchronicle.org/agony-prayer-and-tears-of-relief/</a><br /><br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/riverwoodchurchofchrist/videos/451848238981047/" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/riverwoodchurchofchrist/videos/451848238981047/</a><br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18582958</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Jul 2019 17:01:53 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/18582958/episode_60_final.mp3" length="30177906" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We are excited to be introducing Patreon, where we invite people to become patrons of this podcast in order to grow our community and take this podcast to the next level! Also, in the podcast we mentioned our family's accident in Haiti that happened...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We are excited to be introducing Patreon, where we invite people to become patrons of this podcast in order to grow our community and take this podcast to the next level! Also, in the podcast we mentioned our family's accident in Haiti that happened last week. Here are the links we promised for those who want to learn more about it: <br /><a href="https://christianchronicle.org/agony-prayer-and-tears-of-relief/" rel="noopener">https://christianchronicle.org/agony-prayer-and-tears-of-relief/</a><br /><br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/riverwoodchurchofchrist/videos/451848238981047/" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/riverwoodchurchofchrist/videos/451848238981047/</a><br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1887</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>community,patreon,support</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 59: When Ripple Effects are Good</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-59-when-ripple-effects-are-good--18524199</link><description><![CDATA[It's easy for those who've been abused by the church to go down a dark path where they completely lose all hope that there are any good churches. But there are still plenty of great churches out there! In this episode we share stories of churches that are changing the world. It all begins when people do the right thing. Those good ripple effects are never ending! <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18524199</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 Jul 2019 17:02:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/18524199/episode_59_final.mp3" length="31939186" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It's easy for those who've been abused by the church to go down a dark path where they completely lose all hope that there are any good churches. But there are still plenty of great churches out there! In this episode we share stories of churches that...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It's easy for those who've been abused by the church to go down a dark path where they completely lose all hope that there are any good churches. But there are still plenty of great churches out there! In this episode we share stories of churches that are changing the world. It all begins when people do the right thing. Those good ripple effects are never ending! <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1997</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>goodchurches,hope</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 58: Confronting Abusive Leaders</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-58-confronting-abusive-leaders--18328202</link><description><![CDATA[It's no surprise anymore that many, many church leaders are either abusers or are abusive by covering up for abusers. Many lay members of churches feel frustrated after approaching leaders with concerns only to be shut down, shut out, or excommunicated. In this episode, we address the unbiblical nature of that kind of abusive leadership and how members can take this abusive power away from their leaders. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18328202</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Jun 2019 17:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/18328202/episode_58_final.mp3" length="33476857" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It's no surprise anymore that many, many church leaders are either abusers or are abusive by covering up for abusers. Many lay members of churches feel frustrated after approaching leaders with concerns only to be shut down, shut out, or...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It's no surprise anymore that many, many church leaders are either abusers or are abusive by covering up for abusers. Many lay members of churches feel frustrated after approaching leaders with concerns only to be shut down, shut out, or excommunicated. In this episode, we address the unbiblical nature of that kind of abusive leadership and how members can take this abusive power away from their leaders. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2093</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusiveleaders,churchtoo,power</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 57: SBC, Laws That Protect Abusers, and Hope</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-57-sbc-laws-that-protect-abusers-and-hope--18264090</link><description><![CDATA[The Southern Baptist Convention was held this week and J.D. Greear promised to tackle the epidemic of abuse in the church. We give our thoughts about the convention, talk about laws in Pennsylvania that are giving abusers more freedom, and offer our hope for survivors. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18264090</guid><pubDate>Fri, 14 Jun 2019 17:00:16 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/18264090/episode_59_final.mp3" length="38153821" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The Southern Baptist Convention was held this week and J.D. Greear promised to tackle the epidemic of abuse in the church. We give our thoughts about the convention, talk about laws in Pennsylvania that are giving abusers more freedom, and offer our...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The Southern Baptist Convention was held this week and J.D. Greear promised to tackle the epidemic of abuse in the church. We give our thoughts about the convention, talk about laws in Pennsylvania that are giving abusers more freedom, and offer our hope for survivors. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2385</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>coverups,sbc19</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 56: Watchmen-How Do We Warn Others About Abusers?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-56-watchmen-how-do-we-warn-others-about-abusers--18055699</link><description><![CDATA[It's one thing to warn people about abusers with a criminal record. But what about warning people about people who have no record or have been cleared by investigators? Should we drop it? Name people by name? This is a common scenario many people find themselves facing. How do we best protect the innocent when there are credible accusations or some evidence that suggests someone is not a safe person?]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18055699</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 May 2019 17:00:18 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/18055699/episode_56_final.mp3" length="33629412" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It's one thing to warn people about abusers with a criminal record. But what about warning people about people who have no record or have been cleared by investigators? Should we drop it? Name people by name? This is a common scenario many people find...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It's one thing to warn people about abusers with a criminal record. But what about warning people about people who have no record or have been cleared by investigators? Should we drop it? Name people by name? This is a common scenario many people find themselves facing. How do we best protect the innocent when there are credible accusations or some evidence that suggests someone is not a safe person?]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2102</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>safety,warningothers,watchers,watchmen</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 55: Do Abusers Repent?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-55-do-abusers-repent--17947513</link><description><![CDATA[Do abusers ever repent? So many Christians reject the notion that there are actually people who do not change. But how do we know if someone is capable of repenting or not? Find out as we explore this topic. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17947513</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2019 17:00:05 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/17947513/episode_55_final.mp3" length="34794265" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do abusers ever repent? So many Christians reject the notion that there are actually people who do not change. But how do we know if someone is capable of repenting or not? Find out as we explore this topic. 

Intro--
Film Glitch by Snowflake (c)...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do abusers ever repent? So many Christians reject the notion that there are actually people who do not change. But how do we know if someone is capable of repenting or not? Find out as we explore this topic. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2175</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusers,churchtoo,repentance,wolves</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 54: How Do WE Sort Wolves and Sheep?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-54-how-do-we-sort-wolves-and-sheep--17881680</link><description><![CDATA[So many people are afraid to give someone a false label. To play it "safe," most people in the church refuse to name abusers as wolves. This only empowers abusers to continue to create more victims. They do it covertly, intentionally, and often. Wolves are predators by nature. This is what separates them from other sinners. In this episode, we unpack ways to identify and properly name wolves. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17881680</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 May 2019 17:02:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/17881680/episode_54_final.mp3" length="32794330" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>So many people are afraid to give someone a false label. To play it "safe," most people in the church refuse to name abusers as wolves. This only empowers abusers to continue to create more victims. They do it covertly, intentionally, and often....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[So many people are afraid to give someone a false label. To play it "safe," most people in the church refuse to name abusers as wolves. This only empowers abusers to continue to create more victims. They do it covertly, intentionally, and often. Wolves are predators by nature. This is what separates them from other sinners. In this episode, we unpack ways to identify and properly name wolves. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2050</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusers,churchtoo,predators,wolves</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 53: Sorting Sheep and Wolves</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-53-sorting-sheep-and-wolves--17810470</link><description><![CDATA[Way too many churches claim that it's the "Jesus thing" to let everyone inside the church, regardless of their "past." But we argue that this is an anti-Jesus thing to do--that inviting wolves into the flock creates immeasurable carnage. So how do we know the difference between a sheep and a wolf? What's to keep people from crying wolf every time there's someone in the church they don't like? These are the deep questions that you'll find answers to in this episode! <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17810470</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 May 2019 17:00:17 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/17810470/episode_53_final.mp3" length="36958039" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Way too many churches claim that it's the "Jesus thing" to let everyone inside the church, regardless of their "past." But we argue that this is an anti-Jesus thing to do--that inviting wolves into the flock creates immeasurable carnage. So how do we...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Way too many churches claim that it's the "Jesus thing" to let everyone inside the church, regardless of their "past." But we argue that this is an anti-Jesus thing to do--that inviting wolves into the flock creates immeasurable carnage. So how do we know the difference between a sheep and a wolf? What's to keep people from crying wolf every time there's someone in the church they don't like? These are the deep questions that you'll find answers to in this episode! <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2310</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,sheep,wolves</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 52: What Does Jesus Do to Protect From Abusers?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-52-what-does-jesus-do-to-protect-from-abusers--17744924</link><description><![CDATA[Jesus describes himself as the Good Shepherd. The Bible is actually pretty hardcore when it comes to protecting the innocent. Jesus ramps up his rhetoric and shows that he has no tolerance for abusive "wolves." They do not belong in the pasture. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17744924</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 Apr 2019 16:59:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/17744924/episode_52_final.mp3" length="30153664" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Jesus describes himself as the Good Shepherd. The Bible is actually pretty hardcore when it comes to protecting the innocent. Jesus ramps up his rhetoric and shows that he has no tolerance for abusive "wolves." They do not belong in the pasture....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Jesus describes himself as the Good Shepherd. The Bible is actually pretty hardcore when it comes to protecting the innocent. Jesus ramps up his rhetoric and shows that he has no tolerance for abusive "wolves." They do not belong in the pasture. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1885</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusers,defense,goodshepherd,wolves</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 51: John's Salty Introduction to Jesus</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-51-john-s-salty-introduction-to-jesus--17667625</link><description><![CDATA[Introductions are important. John the Baptist introduced Jesus. In fact, he made straight paths for Jesus and prepared the way. John could have introduced Jesus in a million different ways. So how did he introduce him? There are only a couple short accounts of John's introduction and they are very powerful. <br /><br />John set the stage for Jesus' ministry. Since Jesus' mission was to set the captives free and proclaim liberty to the oppressed and poor, it would seem proper for John to give a powerful introduction. John did not mince words. At all. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17667625</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Apr 2019 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/17667625/episode_51_final.mp3" length="30460864" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Introductions are important. John the Baptist introduced Jesus. In fact, he made straight paths for Jesus and prepared the way. John could have introduced Jesus in a million different ways. So how did he introduce him? There are only a couple short...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Introductions are important. John the Baptist introduced Jesus. In fact, he made straight paths for Jesus and prepared the way. John could have introduced Jesus in a million different ways. So how did he introduce him? There are only a couple short accounts of John's introduction and they are very powerful. <br /><br />John set the stage for Jesus' ministry. Since Jesus' mission was to set the captives free and proclaim liberty to the oppressed and poor, it would seem proper for John to give a powerful introduction. John did not mince words. At all. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1904</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>johnthebaptist,justice,oppression,righteousness</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 50: Jesus' Mission to Rescue the Oppressed</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-50-jesus-mission-to-rescue-the-oppressed--17527167</link><description><![CDATA[Jesus was not always gentle and inviting. In fact, he made it clear that some people were wolves and he protected his sheep from them. Wolves are dangerous people who pretend to be good. Jesus didn't invite them into the sheep pen. He kept them at bay. His mission to free the oppressed, set the captives free, take care of the poor, and give recovering sight to the blind was rooted in God's foundation of righteousness and justice. <br /><br />In this episode we talk about why Jesus was so appealing to the oppressed and so offensive to the oppressors. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17527167</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Apr 2019 17:00:18 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/17527167/episode_50_final.mp3" length="34805550" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Jesus was not always gentle and inviting. In fact, he made it clear that some people were wolves and he protected his sheep from them. Wolves are dangerous people who pretend to be good. Jesus didn't invite them into the sheep pen. He kept them at...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Jesus was not always gentle and inviting. In fact, he made it clear that some people were wolves and he protected his sheep from them. Wolves are dangerous people who pretend to be good. Jesus didn't invite them into the sheep pen. He kept them at bay. His mission to free the oppressed, set the captives free, take care of the poor, and give recovering sight to the blind was rooted in God's foundation of righteousness and justice. <br /><br />In this episode we talk about why Jesus was so appealing to the oppressed and so offensive to the oppressors. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2176</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>jesus,jesusdefendsvulnerable,madjesus</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 49: Faulty Foundations-God's Foundation Matters</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-49-faulty-foundations-god-s-foundation-matters--17465458</link><description><![CDATA[If we get the foundation wrong, everything else we build on it will crumble. God's foundation is Righteousness and Justice. If we don't understand his foundation, we will build false doctrines masked in "love" that protect oppressors and reject the oppressed. God has LOTS to say about righteousness, justice, and protecting the oppressed. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17465458</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 Mar 2019 17:01:32 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/17465458/episode_49_final.mp3" length="32136462" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If we get the foundation wrong, everything else we build on it will crumble. God's foundation is Righteousness and Justice. If we don't understand his foundation, we will build false doctrines masked in "love" that protect oppressors and reject the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If we get the foundation wrong, everything else we build on it will crumble. God's foundation is Righteousness and Justice. If we don't understand his foundation, we will build false doctrines masked in "love" that protect oppressors and reject the oppressed. God has LOTS to say about righteousness, justice, and protecting the oppressed. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2009</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuse,foundation,justice,love,righteousness</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 48: Abusers Create Opportunities, Not Look for Vulnerabilities</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-48-abusers-create-opportunities-not-look-for-vulnerabilities--17255086</link><description><![CDATA[We're taught that if we reduce vulnerabilities, that we will reduce the likelihood of abusers creating victims. But this isn't necessarily true. Abusers take our perception of vulnerabilities to create more opportunities to abuse. <br /><br />In this episode, we explore what that looks like through the lens of an abuser. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17255086</guid><pubDate>Thu, 07 Mar 2019 17:59:49 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/17255086/episode_48_final.mp3" length="31955068" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We're taught that if we reduce vulnerabilities, that we will reduce the likelihood of abusers creating victims. But this isn't necessarily true. Abusers take our perception of vulnerabilities to create more opportunities to abuse. 

In this episode,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We're taught that if we reduce vulnerabilities, that we will reduce the likelihood of abusers creating victims. But this isn't necessarily true. Abusers take our perception of vulnerabilities to create more opportunities to abuse. <br /><br />In this episode, we explore what that looks like through the lens of an abuser. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1998</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuse,churchtoo,opportunities,vulnerabilities</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 47: Where Are All the Safe Churches?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-47-where-are-all-the-safe-churches--17184211</link><description><![CDATA[It's disheartening for advocates and survivors to hear all the horror stories of churches who behave badly when it comes to abuse. It can feel like there are aren't any good, safe churches out there. But there are. And we need to know who and where the safe churches are. How encouraging would it be if they started networking to fight back abuse? <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17184211</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 Feb 2019 17:13:35 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/17184211/episode_47_final.mp3" length="31303052" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It's disheartening for advocates and survivors to hear all the horror stories of churches who behave badly when it comes to abuse. It can feel like there are aren't any good, safe churches out there. But there are. And we need to know who and where...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It's disheartening for advocates and survivors to hear all the horror stories of churches who behave badly when it comes to abuse. It can feel like there are aren't any good, safe churches out there. But there are. And we need to know who and where the safe churches are. How encouraging would it be if they started networking to fight back abuse? <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1957</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusiveleaders,churchtoo,safechurch</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 46: Survivors Descend on Vatican &amp; J.D. Greear's Announcement</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-46-survivors-descend-on-vatican-j-d-greear-s-announcement--17108266</link><description><![CDATA[This week has been a huge week in the news. 12 Catholic survivors of sexual abuse were invited to the Vatican to discuss abuse in the church and Southern Baptist Convention president Dr. J.D. Greear made an announcement to unveil a plan moving forward for the Southern Baptist Churches in how they respond to abuse. We give our analysis in this episode and talk about how much power survivors have in changing the culture. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17108266</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2019 18:10:23 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/17108266/episode_46_final.mp3" length="30513527" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week has been a huge week in the news. 12 Catholic survivors of sexual abuse were invited to the Vatican to discuss abuse in the church and Southern Baptist Convention president Dr. J.D. Greear made an announcement to unveil a plan moving forward...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week has been a huge week in the news. 12 Catholic survivors of sexual abuse were invited to the Vatican to discuss abuse in the church and Southern Baptist Convention president Dr. J.D. Greear made an announcement to unveil a plan moving forward for the Southern Baptist Churches in how they respond to abuse. We give our analysis in this episode and talk about how much power survivors have in changing the culture. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1908</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>catholicabuse,churchtoo,southernbaptistchurch,vatican</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 45: The SBC Abuse Scandal and Enabling Cultures</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-45-the-sbc-abuse-scandal-and-enabling-cultures--17044612</link><description><![CDATA[The Houston Chronicle released a 3 part series on abuse cover ups in the Southern Baptist Church over a twenty year span. In this episode we talk about those scandals and what we can do to counter the culture of turning a blind eye to known abusers. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17044612</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 Feb 2019 18:44:33 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/17044612/episode_45_final.mp3" length="32337083" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The Houston Chronicle released a 3 part series on abuse cover ups in the Southern Baptist Church over a twenty year span. In this episode we talk about those scandals and what we can do to counter the culture of turning a blind eye to known abusers....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The Houston Chronicle released a 3 part series on abuse cover ups in the Southern Baptist Church over a twenty year span. In this episode we talk about those scandals and what we can do to counter the culture of turning a blind eye to known abusers. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2022</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,houstonchronicle,sbc</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 44: Interview with Christine Parker of PorchSwing Ministries</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-44-interview-with-christine-parker-of-porchswing-ministries--16986536</link><description><![CDATA[Christine Parker shares what PorchSwing Ministries is all about and they talk the FUNdraiser that Jimmy is doing for PorchSwing on February 15th. If you'd like to sponsor Jimmy's walk in the snow (in sandals, of course!), visit <a href="https://www.porchswingministries.org/" rel="noopener">https://www.porchswingministries.org/</a><br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16986536</guid><pubDate>Fri, 08 Feb 2019 16:06:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/16986536/interview_with_christine_final.mp3" length="43570572" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Christine Parker shares what PorchSwing Ministries is all about and they talk the FUNdraiser that Jimmy is doing for PorchSwing on February 15th. If you'd like to sponsor Jimmy's walk in the snow (in sandals, of course!), visit...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Christine Parker shares what PorchSwing Ministries is all about and they talk the FUNdraiser that Jimmy is doing for PorchSwing on February 15th. If you'd like to sponsor Jimmy's walk in the snow (in sandals, of course!), visit <a href="https://www.porchswingministries.org/" rel="noopener">https://www.porchswingministries.org/</a><br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2724</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchabuse,fundraiser,porchswingministries</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 43: The Inner Turmoil Family Member of Abusers Feel</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-43-the-inner-turmoil-family-member-of-abusers-feel--16895486</link><description><![CDATA[Families of abusers have so many struggles that most people don't even think about. Jimmy and Clara talk about some of the inner turmoil they've experienced in the aftermath of abuse and how speaking up helps the healing process.<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16895486</guid><pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2019 18:08:35 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/16895486/episode_43_final.mp3" length="28585481" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Families of abusers have so many struggles that most people don't even think about. Jimmy and Clara talk about some of the inner turmoil they've experienced in the aftermath of abuse and how speaking up helps the healing process.

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Film Glitch...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Families of abusers have so many struggles that most people don't even think about. Jimmy and Clara talk about some of the inner turmoil they've experienced in the aftermath of abuse and how speaking up helps the healing process.<br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1787</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusestruggles,churchtoo,metoo,struggles</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 42: "Obeying Your Leaders" Is a Bad Translation of Heb. 13:17</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-42-obeying-your-leaders-is-a-bad-translation-of-heb-13-17--16832630</link><description><![CDATA[Yesterday Jimmy wrote a blog post called, "Submitting to Church Leaders Isn't As Biblical As You Think." Today's episode talks about that post and why it has resonated with so many people. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16832630</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jan 2019 19:02:37 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/16832630/episode_42_final.mp3" length="29033951" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Yesterday Jimmy wrote a blog post called, "Submitting to Church Leaders Isn't As Biblical As You Think." Today's episode talks about that post and why it has resonated with so many people. 

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Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Yesterday Jimmy wrote a blog post called, "Submitting to Church Leaders Isn't As Biblical As You Think." Today's episode talks about that post and why it has resonated with so many people. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1815</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>authority,churchabuse,submit,submittoleaders</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 41: Victims of Abuse Are Not "Too Emotional"</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-41-victims-of-abuse-are-not-too-emotional--16739336</link><description><![CDATA[Victims of abuse are often told they're too emotional, too reactive, too bitter, too unforgiving, or have too little faith. But what if they are responding to trauma exactly how we were designed to respond? Many abuse survivors cannot physically walk into a church building because of their past trauma. <br /><br />In this episode, Jimmy and Clara unpack the reasons why, describe why churches are often terrible hospitals for the injured, and how we can better respond. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16739336</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Jan 2019 18:16:26 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/16739336/episode_41_final.mp3" length="33332661" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Victims of abuse are often told they're too emotional, too reactive, too bitter, too unforgiving, or have too little faith. But what if they are responding to trauma exactly how we were designed to respond? Many abuse survivors cannot physically walk...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Victims of abuse are often told they're too emotional, too reactive, too bitter, too unforgiving, or have too little faith. But what if they are responding to trauma exactly how we were designed to respond? Many abuse survivors cannot physically walk into a church building because of their past trauma. <br /><br />In this episode, Jimmy and Clara unpack the reasons why, describe why churches are often terrible hospitals for the injured, and how we can better respond. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2084</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,silence,survivorcare,trauma</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 40: Guest Abbie Schaub Talks About The Keepers</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-40-guest-abbie-schaub-talks-about-the-keepers--16672865</link><description><![CDATA[In 2013, Abbie Schaub and classmate Gemma Hoskins, along with friend and advocate Alan Horn, began investigating the unsolved 1969 murder of Sister Cathrine Cesnik. Sister Cathy was Abbie and Gemma's former teacher at Archbishop Keough High School in Baltimore, Maryland. What began as curiosity into the murder of a beloved teacher ended up becoming a years-long investigation that uncovered another unsolved murder and scores of survivors who were sexually abused by principal Father Joseph Maskell from Keough High. <br /><br />Abbie shares with us what how a simple investigation turned into the Netflix documentary series known as The Keepers. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a><br /><br />Photo used with permission by Abbie Schaub]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16672865</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Jan 2019 18:39:45 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/16672865/episode_40_final.mp3" length="50660413" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In 2013, Abbie Schaub and classmate Gemma Hoskins, along with friend and advocate Alan Horn, began investigating the unsolved 1969 murder of Sister Cathrine Cesnik. Sister Cathy was Abbie and Gemma's former teacher at Archbishop Keough High School in...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In 2013, Abbie Schaub and classmate Gemma Hoskins, along with friend and advocate Alan Horn, began investigating the unsolved 1969 murder of Sister Cathrine Cesnik. Sister Cathy was Abbie and Gemma's former teacher at Archbishop Keough High School in Baltimore, Maryland. What began as curiosity into the murder of a beloved teacher ended up becoming a years-long investigation that uncovered another unsolved murder and scores of survivors who were sexually abused by principal Father Joseph Maskell from Keough High. <br /><br />Abbie shares with us what how a simple investigation turned into the Netflix documentary series known as The Keepers. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a><br /><br />Photo used with permission by Abbie Schaub]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3167</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abbieschaub,cathycesnik,thekeepers</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/45a799c165eb5c193f59cab07229f70e.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 39: Tale of the Tortoise and the Hare</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-39-tale-of-the-tortoise-and-the-hare--16621714</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, we reflect back on 2018 and all the abuse scandals that broke. It was the most active year in modern history for the number of abusers who were exposed, removed, or imprisoned. The slow and steady work of survivors, advocates, and their supporters is making a very big difference. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16621714</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Jan 2019 18:10:37 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/16621714/episode_39_final.mp3" length="31425932" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode, we reflect back on 2018 and all the abuse scandals that broke. It was the most active year in modern history for the number of abusers who were exposed, removed, or imprisoned. The slow and steady work of survivors, advocates, and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, we reflect back on 2018 and all the abuse scandals that broke. It was the most active year in modern history for the number of abusers who were exposed, removed, or imprisoned. The slow and steady work of survivors, advocates, and their supporters is making a very big difference. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1965</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>2018review,churchtoo,metoo</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 38: Guest Joe Capozzi Talks "A Peloton of One"</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-38-guest-joe-capozzi-talks-a-peloton-of-one--16532539</link><description><![CDATA[Guest film producer and abuse survivor Joe Capozzi joins Jimmy and Clara to talk about his documentary, "A Peloton of One." Joe followed fellow survivor Dave Ohlmuller on a bike journey from Chicago to New York and ended his journey at the place where his abuse happened. They interviewed abuse survivors and advocates along the journey and a powerful story unfolded. Joe talks about some of those stories in this powerful episode. <br /><br />To follow this documentary, check out these links, follow, and share: <br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/apelotonofone/" rel="noopener">https://www.instagram.com/apelotonofone/</a><br /><a href="https://www.gofundme.com/dave-ohlmuller-project" rel="noopener">https://www.gofundme.com/dave-ohlmuller-project</a><br /><a href="https://m.facebook.com/APelotonOfOneDoc/" rel="noopener">https://m.facebook.com/APelotonOfOneDoc/</a><br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16532539</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Dec 2018 18:20:24 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/16532539/interview_with_joe_final.mp3" length="29444805" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Guest film producer and abuse survivor Joe Capozzi joins Jimmy and Clara to talk about his documentary, "A Peloton of One." Joe followed fellow survivor Dave Ohlmuller on a bike journey from Chicago to New York and ended his journey at the place where...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Guest film producer and abuse survivor Joe Capozzi joins Jimmy and Clara to talk about his documentary, "A Peloton of One." Joe followed fellow survivor Dave Ohlmuller on a bike journey from Chicago to New York and ended his journey at the place where his abuse happened. They interviewed abuse survivors and advocates along the journey and a powerful story unfolded. Joe talks about some of those stories in this powerful episode. <br /><br />To follow this documentary, check out these links, follow, and share: <br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/apelotonofone/" rel="noopener">https://www.instagram.com/apelotonofone/</a><br /><a href="https://www.gofundme.com/dave-ohlmuller-project" rel="noopener">https://www.gofundme.com/dave-ohlmuller-project</a><br /><a href="https://m.facebook.com/APelotonOfOneDoc/" rel="noopener">https://m.facebook.com/APelotonOfOneDoc/</a><br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1841</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,joecapozzi,pelotonofone</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 37: Jesus Preached Repentance, the Heart of the Gospel</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-37-jesus-preached-repentance-the-heart-of-the-gospel--16462469</link><description><![CDATA[Jesus was not one to mince words. He preached repentance. Jesus was not soft on oppression. In fact, he stood up to read from Isaiah to say that he was sent to set the captives free and care for the poor. The heart of the gospel is repentance that leads to forgiveness. We cannot get away from it and this message is what what so sweet to the oppressed in Jesus' day. <br /><br />The demons fled when they saw Jesus. They shuddered at his name. Jesus was not weak. He exposed and confronted evil. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16462469</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Dec 2018 18:08:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/16462469/baptism_final.mp3" length="22783372" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Jesus was not one to mince words. He preached repentance. Jesus was not soft on oppression. In fact, he stood up to read from Isaiah to say that he was sent to set the captives free and care for the poor. The heart of the gospel is repentance that...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Jesus was not one to mince words. He preached repentance. Jesus was not soft on oppression. In fact, he stood up to read from Isaiah to say that he was sent to set the captives free and care for the poor. The heart of the gospel is repentance that leads to forgiveness. We cannot get away from it and this message is what what so sweet to the oppressed in Jesus' day. <br /><br />The demons fled when they saw Jesus. They shuddered at his name. Jesus was not weak. He exposed and confronted evil. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1424</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>cheapgrace,jesuswastough,repentance</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 36: Repentance Is Central to Forgiveness</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-36-repentance-is-central-to-forgiveness--16402129</link><description><![CDATA[Abuse victims are often forced to forgive their abusers, or they are shamed into it. But repentance is a required condition of forgiveness. In fact, repentance is THE central theme of the Gospel. We cannot get away from repentance. Over and over again the scriptures are clear about bearing fruit in keeping with repentance. Yet this is ignored when church leaders talk to survivors of abuse. They are told, "You need to forgive no matter what." This is a far cry from what the scriptures teach. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16402129</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Dec 2018 18:00:19 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/16402129/repentance_is_central_final.mp3" length="27374653" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Abuse victims are often forced to forgive their abusers, or they are shamed into it. But repentance is a required condition of forgiveness. In fact, repentance is THE central theme of the Gospel. We cannot get away from repentance. Over and over again...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Abuse victims are often forced to forgive their abusers, or they are shamed into it. But repentance is a required condition of forgiveness. In fact, repentance is THE central theme of the Gospel. We cannot get away from repentance. Over and over again the scriptures are clear about bearing fruit in keeping with repentance. Yet this is ignored when church leaders talk to survivors of abuse. They are told, "You need to forgive no matter what." This is a far cry from what the scriptures teach. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1711</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>forgiveness,gospel,repentance</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 35: The Gift of Forgiveness</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-35-the-gift-of-forgiveness--16342231</link><description><![CDATA[Forgiveness is for the person who carries the debt, not the person who was sinned against. When someone is truly repentant and bears fruit in keeping with repentance, forgiveness is the most important gift the repentant sinner can receive. We cheapen forgiveness when we offer it prematurely or without the sinner repenting. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16342231</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Nov 2018 17:55:23 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/16342231/the_gift_of_forgiveness_final.mp3" length="28045478" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Forgiveness is for the person who carries the debt, not the person who was sinned against. When someone is truly repentant and bears fruit in keeping with repentance, forgiveness is the most important gift the repentant sinner can receive. We cheapen...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Forgiveness is for the person who carries the debt, not the person who was sinned against. When someone is truly repentant and bears fruit in keeping with repentance, forgiveness is the most important gift the repentant sinner can receive. We cheapen forgiveness when we offer it prematurely or without the sinner repenting. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1753</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>forgive,forgiveness,giftofforgiveness</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 34: The Purpose of Unforgiveness</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-34-the-purpose-of-unforgiveness--16231506</link><description><![CDATA[Does the Bible really say that we need to forgive unconditionally? It seems that Jesus had more to say about forgiveness than we realize. He also told his disciples that when they forgive anyone, they will be forgiven. But when they withhold forgiveness, it is withheld. What does that mean? What is the purpose of withholding forgiveness? Find out in this episode! <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16231506</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Nov 2018 18:44:49 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/16231506/the_purpose_of_unforgiveness_final.mp3" length="28953285" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Does the Bible really say that we need to forgive unconditionally? It seems that Jesus had more to say about forgiveness than we realize. He also told his disciples that when they forgive anyone, they will be forgiven. But when they withhold...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Does the Bible really say that we need to forgive unconditionally? It seems that Jesus had more to say about forgiveness than we realize. He also told his disciples that when they forgive anyone, they will be forgiven. But when they withhold forgiveness, it is withheld. What does that mean? What is the purpose of withholding forgiveness? Find out in this episode! <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1810</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>forgiveasthelordforgives,forgiveness,unforgiveness</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 33: Forgive As the Lord Forgives (a sermon)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-33-forgive-as-the-lord-forgives-a-sermon--16169997</link><description><![CDATA[The next several podcasts are a sermon series on forgiveness by Jimmy. Survivors are told they need to forgive their abusers. Many abusers are unrepentant and telling survivors to forgive may not be as biblical as we think it is. What does the Bible say about forgiveness in light of God's justice and righteousness? <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16169997</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Nov 2018 18:00:54 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/16169997/forgive_as_the_lord_forgave_final.mp3" length="24150516" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The next several podcasts are a sermon series on forgiveness by Jimmy. Survivors are told they need to forgive their abusers. Many abusers are unrepentant and telling survivors to forgive may not be as biblical as we think it is. What does the Bible...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The next several podcasts are a sermon series on forgiveness by Jimmy. Survivors are told they need to forgive their abusers. Many abusers are unrepentant and telling survivors to forgive may not be as biblical as we think it is. What does the Bible say about forgiveness in light of God's justice and righteousness? <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1510</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,forgiveasthelordforgives,forgiveness</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 32: Abusers Are Dangerous (The Bible Says So)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-32-abusers-are-dangerous-the-bible-says-so--16105032</link><description><![CDATA[The church has become the wild west where abusers are given full cover and free reign. The Bible, on the other hand, is clear about what we need to do with abusive people and whey they are a threat. Perhaps instead of offering platitudes, we should walk beside the scriptures and listen to what they tell us about abuse. God's word should always be the first place we go to for advice. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16105032</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Nov 2018 16:55:53 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/16105032/episode_34_final.mp3" length="28404923" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The church has become the wild west where abusers are given full cover and free reign. The Bible, on the other hand, is clear about what we need to do with abusive people and whey they are a threat. Perhaps instead of offering platitudes, we should...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The church has become the wild west where abusers are given full cover and free reign. The Bible, on the other hand, is clear about what we need to do with abusive people and whey they are a threat. Perhaps instead of offering platitudes, we should walk beside the scriptures and listen to what they tell us about abuse. God's word should always be the first place we go to for advice. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1776</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,risk,wolves</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 31: Where the Church Is Headed and What Needs to Happen</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-31-where-the-church-is-headed-and-what-needs-to-happen--16047055</link><description><![CDATA[Where is the church headed in light of #MeToo and #ChurchToo?  In this episode, Jimmy and Clara share their thoughts for where the church is headed and what needs to happen to bring healing to survivors. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16047055</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 Oct 2018 18:13:34 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/16047055/episode_31_final.mp3" length="28261981" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Where is the church headed in light of #MeToo and #ChurchToo?  In this episode, Jimmy and Clara share their thoughts for where the church is headed and what needs to happen to bring healing to survivors. 

Intro--
Film Glitch by Snowflake (c)...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Where is the church headed in light of #MeToo and #ChurchToo?  In this episode, Jimmy and Clara share their thoughts for where the church is headed and what needs to happen to bring healing to survivors. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1767</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,metoo</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 30: Personal Updates and PA Senate Bill Fail</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-30-personal-updates-and-pa-senate-bill-fail--15994897</link><description><![CDATA[Last evening the Pennsylvania Senate failed to take SB 261 to a vote, which adds insult to injury to survivors in PA. Jimmy breaks it down and gives updates, talks about his upcoming book, and more! <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15994897</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Oct 2018 16:49:52 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/15994897/episode_30_final.mp3" length="32269373" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Last evening the Pennsylvania Senate failed to take SB 261 to a vote, which adds insult to injury to survivors in PA. Jimmy breaks it down and gives updates, talks about his upcoming book, and more! 

Intro--
Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Last evening the Pennsylvania Senate failed to take SB 261 to a vote, which adds insult to injury to survivors in PA. Jimmy breaks it down and gives updates, talks about his upcoming book, and more! <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2017</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>newbook,sb261,updates,windowtojustice</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 29: Guest Mary DeMuth Discusses 7 Deadly Friendships</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-29-guest-mary-demuth-discusses-7-deadly-friendships--15879857</link><description><![CDATA[Author and survivor Mary DeMuth talks about her newest book, The Seven Deadly Friendships: How to Heal When Painful Relationships Eat Away at Your Joy. Mary is a personal friend and this is her 36th book that she's had published! Mary discusses how to identify abusive or unhealthy relationships, which is something that all of us need. If we can identify toxic relationships early on, we can seek intervention before they turn deadly. This discussion is vital and relevant for all of us. <br /><br />Mary's book can be found at <a href="http://www.7deadlyfriendships.com" rel="noopener">www.7deadlyfriendships.com</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15879857</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Oct 2018 18:02:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/15879857/interview_with_mary_final.mp3" length="52687933" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Author and survivor Mary DeMuth talks about her newest book, The Seven Deadly Friendships: How to Heal When Painful Relationships Eat Away at Your Joy. Mary is a personal friend and this is her 36th book that she's had published! Mary discusses how to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Author and survivor Mary DeMuth talks about her newest book, The Seven Deadly Friendships: How to Heal When Painful Relationships Eat Away at Your Joy. Mary is a personal friend and this is her 36th book that she's had published! Mary discusses how to identify abusive or unhealthy relationships, which is something that all of us need. If we can identify toxic relationships early on, we can seek intervention before they turn deadly. This discussion is vital and relevant for all of us. <br /><br />Mary's book can be found at <a href="http://www.7deadlyfriendships.com" rel="noopener">www.7deadlyfriendships.com</a> <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3293</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>7deadlyfriendships,abuse,badrelationships,marydemuth</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/760d646fa5297a799a1db0c29fd3834a.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 28: Our Experience Rallying With Abuse Survivors</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-28-our-experience-rallying-with-abuse-survivors--15822505</link><description><![CDATA[On Monday of this week we attended a rally in Harrisburg where we joined dozens of survivors, including many from the Grand Jury Reports. The world is watching Pennsylvania right now and the legislation that's up for a vote by the Senate is incredibly important. The whole day was inspiring and we were honored to be standing among so many courageous people! <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15822505</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Sep 2018 17:02:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/15822505/episode_29_final.mp3" length="31636583" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>On Monday of this week we attended a rally in Harrisburg where we joined dozens of survivors, including many from the Grand Jury Reports. The world is watching Pennsylvania right now and the legislation that's up for a vote by the Senate is incredibly...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[On Monday of this week we attended a rally in Harrisburg where we joined dozens of survivors, including many from the Grand Jury Reports. The world is watching Pennsylvania right now and the legislation that's up for a vote by the Senate is incredibly important. The whole day was inspiring and we were honored to be standing among so many courageous people! <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1978</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>sb261,timesup,windowtojustice</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 27: Leaders--Give Parents a Fighting Chance, Part 2</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-27-leaders-give-parents-a-fighting-chance-part-2--15765933</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 26 was about leaders who know that there are registered sex offenders in their churches but choose not to inform their churches. This episode continues that discussion but we give suggestions for church members when leaders become abusive and dismissive. <br /><br /> Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15765933</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Sep 2018 17:20:28 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/15765933/episode_27_final.mp3" length="36382510" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 26 was about leaders who know that there are registered sex offenders in their churches but choose not to inform their churches. This episode continues that discussion but we give suggestions for church members when leaders become abusive and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 26 was about leaders who know that there are registered sex offenders in their churches but choose not to inform their churches. This episode continues that discussion but we give suggestions for church members when leaders become abusive and dismissive. <br /><br /> Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2274</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,cover-ups,registeredsexoffenders</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 26: Leaders--Give Parents a Fighting Chance</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-26-leaders-give-parents-a-fighting-chance--15710861</link><description><![CDATA[In the past few weeks, 12 different people from 12 different churches contacted us about their church leaders covering up abuse. In this episode we explain the dangers of that and plead with leaders to reconsider. This is part 1. Next week we will give more specific solutions for how members can be more proactive in defending their children. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15710861</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Sep 2018 17:58:59 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/15710861/episode_26_final.mp3" length="34780054" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In the past few weeks, 12 different people from 12 different churches contacted us about their church leaders covering up abuse. In this episode we explain the dangers of that and plead with leaders to reconsider. This is part 1. Next week we will...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In the past few weeks, 12 different people from 12 different churches contacted us about their church leaders covering up abuse. In this episode we explain the dangers of that and plead with leaders to reconsider. This is part 1. Next week we will give more specific solutions for how members can be more proactive in defending their children. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2174</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,cover-ups,informedchurches</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 25: Which Way Will the Pendulum Swing?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-25-which-way-will-the-pendulum-swing--15656383</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, Jimmy and Clara talk about the tidal wave that is sweeping the nation right now and where they believe the pendulum must swing.  Making progress is about balance, and many survivors are asking what role they have in helping create genuine change that will protect innocent people from being abused.  We have some answers that may be helpful.  <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15656383</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Sep 2018 17:01:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/15656383/episode_25_final.mp3" length="34810565" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode, Jimmy and Clara talk about the tidal wave that is sweeping the nation right now and where they believe the pendulum must swing.  Making progress is about balance, and many survivors are asking what role they have in helping create...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, Jimmy and Clara talk about the tidal wave that is sweeping the nation right now and where they believe the pendulum must swing.  Making progress is about balance, and many survivors are asking what role they have in helping create genuine change that will protect innocent people from being abused.  We have some answers that may be helpful.  <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2176</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,metoo,pendulumswing</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 24: Shaun Dougherty Unpacks the PA Grand Jury Report</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-24-shaun-dougherty-unpacks-the-pa-grand-jury-report--15606386</link><description><![CDATA[In 2012 Shaun Dougherty reported abuse he had suffered at the hands of a priest when he was between the ages of 11 and 13.  An investigation opened and was handed over to the Attorney General's office.  The Altoona-Johnstown Diocese report, which included Shaun's statements, was released in 2016 to the public.  It spurred survivors from all over the Commonwealth of Pennsylvania to report their abuse and ultimately led to the PA Grand Jury Investigation.  This was the largest investigation into Catholic pedophile abuse in history.  It uncovered over 350 pedophiles and over 1,000 victims.  <br /><br />Shaun talks about the impact the report has had on survivors around the globe since its release two weeks ago.  <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15606386</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Aug 2018 17:09:53 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/15606386/shaun_dougherty_final.mp3" length="61205941" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In 2012 Shaun Dougherty reported abuse he had suffered at the hands of a priest when he was between the ages of 11 and 13.  An investigation opened and was handed over to the Attorney General's office.  The Altoona-Johnstown Diocese report, which...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In 2012 Shaun Dougherty reported abuse he had suffered at the hands of a priest when he was between the ages of 11 and 13.  An investigation opened and was handed over to the Attorney General's office.  The Altoona-Johnstown Diocese report, which included Shaun's statements, was released in 2016 to the public.  It spurred survivors from all over the Commonwealth of Pennsylvania to report their abuse and ultimately led to the PA Grand Jury Investigation.  This was the largest investigation into Catholic pedophile abuse in history.  It uncovered over 350 pedophiles and over 1,000 victims.  <br /><br />Shaun talks about the impact the report has had on survivors around the globe since its release two weeks ago.  <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3826</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>catholicabuse,churchtoo,metoo,pagrandjury,shaundougherty</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/39806ca64ed4f67536352c883a26a327.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 23: Jules Woodson on the Impact of Speaking Out</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-23-jules-woodson-on-the-impact-of-speaking-out--15547543</link><description><![CDATA[Jules Woodson tells her brave story of speaking out about her abuse by former Highpoint Church pastor Andy Savage.  Her story has inspired many other survivors to come forward and break their silence.  Jules shares what led her to go public, why she named her abuser by name, and what she hoped would change as a result of her coming forward.  <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15547543</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Aug 2018 11:33:52 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/15547543/podcast_with_jules_final.mp3" length="59377788" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Jules Woodson tells her brave story of speaking out about her abuse by former Highpoint Church pastor Andy Savage.  Her story has inspired many other survivors to come forward and break their silence.  Jules shares what led her to go public, why she...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Jules Woodson tells her brave story of speaking out about her abuse by former Highpoint Church pastor Andy Savage.  Her story has inspired many other survivors to come forward and break their silence.  Jules shares what led her to go public, why she named her abuser by name, and what she hoped would change as a result of her coming forward.  <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3712</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>andysavage,churchtoo,highpoint,juleswoodson,speakingup</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/620cf326ebdca24836aeb3357e377e95.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 22: Abuse Is Never the Survivors' Fault</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-22-abuse-is-never-the-survivors-fault--15502074</link><description><![CDATA[There are so many different ways people attempt to discredit survivors when they disclose their abuse.  They not only discredit them by saying they had a "troubled past," but they also pin blame on them for the abuse happening in the first place.  Survivors are becoming empowered to turn the tables, though! <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15502074</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Aug 2018 17:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/15502074/episode_22_final.mp3" length="30863359" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There are so many different ways people attempt to discredit survivors when they disclose their abuse.  They not only discredit them by saying they had a "troubled past," but they also pin blame on them for the abuse happening in the first place....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There are so many different ways people attempt to discredit survivors when they disclose their abuse.  They not only discredit them by saying they had a "troubled past," but they also pin blame on them for the abuse happening in the first place.  Survivors are becoming empowered to turn the tables, though! <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1929</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>empowered,itsnotyourfault,survivors</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 21: From Victim to Survivor</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-21-from-victim-to-survivor--15456557</link><description><![CDATA[We receive many messages from survivors who get the courage to tell their stories.  We are honored, humbled, and offer encouragement for those who are on the fence wondering whether they are ready to tell or not. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15456557</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Aug 2018 16:58:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/15456557/episode_21_final.mp3" length="32269373" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We receive many messages from survivors who get the courage to tell their stories.  We are honored, humbled, and offer encouragement for those who are on the fence wondering whether they are ready to tell or not. &#13;
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Film Glitch by Snowflake...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We receive many messages from survivors who get the courage to tell their stories.  We are honored, humbled, and offer encouragement for those who are on the fence wondering whether they are ready to tell or not. <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2017</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>speakup,survivor,thriver,voice</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 20: Survivors are Worthy!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-20-survivors-are-worthy--15333597</link><description><![CDATA[Survivors are often the "castaways" of the religious community.  What does the Bible have to say about people who are mistreated, persecuted, or thrown out?  It may be surprising to see how elevated they are in the eyes of God.  <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15333597</guid><pubDate>Thu, 26 Jul 2018 17:00:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/15333597/episode_20_final.mp3" length="34809311" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Survivors are often the "castaways" of the religious community.  What does the Bible have to say about people who are mistreated, persecuted, or thrown out?  It may be surprising to see how elevated they are in the eyes of God.  &#13;
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Intro--&#13;
Film...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Survivors are often the "castaways" of the religious community.  What does the Bible have to say about people who are mistreated, persecuted, or thrown out?  It may be surprising to see how elevated they are in the eyes of God.  <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2176</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,faith,heroesoffaith,survivors</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 19: Help! (Nobody else will)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-19-help-nobody-else-will--15289147</link><description><![CDATA[How can we best respond to abusers' family members and survivors of abuse?  When abusers are outed, abandonment happens quickly for their family and victims.  How do we help create a better supportive community so that survivors aren't treated as if they have leprosy.  <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15289147</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Jul 2018 18:03:23 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/15289147/episode_19_final.mp3" length="36232880" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>How can we best respond to abusers' family members and survivors of abuse?  When abusers are outed, abandonment happens quickly for their family and victims.  How do we help create a better supportive community so that survivors aren't treated as if...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[How can we best respond to abusers' family members and survivors of abuse?  When abusers are outed, abandonment happens quickly for their family and victims.  How do we help create a better supportive community so that survivors aren't treated as if they have leprosy.  <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2265</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>community,healingforsurvivors,helpingsurvivors</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 18: Castaways--Believers Who Have No Church to Call Home</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-18-castaways-believers-who-have-no-church-to-call-home--15248774</link><description><![CDATA[There is a very large number of believers who have no church to call home.  They once were part of a community but that community either failed them or rejected them because of their suffering.  This is not the way Jesus treated the injured.  His care and compassion for the castaways is evident.  <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15248774</guid><pubDate>Fri, 13 Jul 2018 13:35:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/15248774/episode_18_final.mp3" length="21972531" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There is a very large number of believers who have no church to call home.  They once were part of a community but that community either failed them or rejected them because of their suffering.  This is not the way Jesus treated the injured.  His care...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There is a very large number of believers who have no church to call home.  They once were part of a community but that community either failed them or rejected them because of their suffering.  This is not the way Jesus treated the injured.  His care and compassion for the castaways is evident.  <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1374</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abandonedbychurch,castaways,rejection</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 17: Cialdini's 6 Principles of Persuasion, Part 2</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-17-cialdini-s-6-principles-of-persuasion-part-2--15198761</link><description><![CDATA[Last week we discussed Robert Cialdini's book, Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion.  We broke down three of the six principles in part 1 and discussed how these are the same foundation abusers use.  In this episode, we discuss the remaining three principles, and they are POWERFUL ones.  Abusers are slick and crafty for a reason, and technique has much to do with it.  <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15198761</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Jul 2018 17:41:43 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/15198761/episode_17_final.mp3" length="39566590" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Last week we discussed Robert Cialdini's book, Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion.  We broke down three of the six principles in part 1 and discussed how these are the same foundation abusers use.  In this episode, we discuss the remaining three...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Last week we discussed Robert Cialdini's book, Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion.  We broke down three of the six principles in part 1 and discussed how these are the same foundation abusers use.  In this episode, we discuss the remaining three principles, and they are POWERFUL ones.  Abusers are slick and crafty for a reason, and technique has much to do with it.  <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2473</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuse,churchtoo,deceit,persuasion,principlesofpersuasion</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 16: Cialdini's 6 Principles of Persuasion, Part 1</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-16-cialdini-s-6-principles-of-persuasion-part-1--15150405</link><description><![CDATA[Robert Cialdini is Regents' Professor Emeritus of Psychology and Marketing at Arizona State University and is the author of Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion.  He identifies six foundational principles of persuasion and we demonstrate in this episode how abusers use these same principles.  In part 1, we will cover the first three of the six principles.  Understanding these principles helps us understand deception on a whole new level.  <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15150405</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 Jun 2018 17:01:16 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/15150405/episode_16_final.mp3" length="39295334" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Robert Cialdini is Regents' Professor Emeritus of Psychology and Marketing at Arizona State University and is the author of Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion.  He identifies six foundational principles of persuasion and we demonstrate in this...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Robert Cialdini is Regents' Professor Emeritus of Psychology and Marketing at Arizona State University and is the author of Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion.  He identifies six foundational principles of persuasion and we demonstrate in this episode how abusers use these same principles.  In part 1, we will cover the first three of the six principles.  Understanding these principles helps us understand deception on a whole new level.  <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2456</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>cialdini,deception,persuasion,persuasiontechniques</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 15: How Would You Respond to This Application Letter?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-15-how-would-you-respond-to-this-application-letter--15101923</link><description><![CDATA[Jimmy gets asked a lot if there are any ways they can weed out abusers in the application process.  In this episode, he will read a letter for someone who applied to a youth ministry job and then analyze the letter.  Are abusers blatant?  Are they more subtle?  Are there things that would jump out at the interviewers?  Find out in this episode!  <br /><br />***The book mentioned in this episode is Robert Cialdini's book, Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion and can be found here: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Influence-Psychology-Persuasion-Robert-Cialdini/dp/006124189X" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Influence-Psychology-Persuasion-Robert-Cialdini/dp/006124189X</a><br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15101923</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 Jun 2018 17:58:33 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/15101923/episode_15_1.mp3" length="36065280" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Jimmy gets asked a lot if there are any ways they can weed out abusers in the application process.  In this episode, he will read a letter for someone who applied to a youth ministry job and then analyze the letter.  Are abusers blatant?  Are they...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Jimmy gets asked a lot if there are any ways they can weed out abusers in the application process.  In this episode, he will read a letter for someone who applied to a youth ministry job and then analyze the letter.  Are abusers blatant?  Are they more subtle?  Are there things that would jump out at the interviewers?  Find out in this episode!  <br /><br />***The book mentioned in this episode is Robert Cialdini's book, Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion and can be found here: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Influence-Psychology-Persuasion-Robert-Cialdini/dp/006124189X" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Influence-Psychology-Persuasion-Robert-Cialdini/dp/006124189X</a><br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2255</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,hiring,screeningabusers</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 14: Don't Mistake Feelings for Facts</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-14-don-t-mistake-feelings-for-facts--15050023</link><description><![CDATA[It is the norm for churches to cover up for abusers.  The biggest reason, we believe, is that abusers are very good at making others feel sorry for them.  In this episode, Jimmy and Clara talk about what church members can do to hold their leaders accountable.  The tides are changing because of #MeToo and #ChurchToo, and the time is favorable to hold people accountable who cover for abusers.  <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15050023</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 Jun 2018 18:51:27 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/15050023/episode_14_final.mp3" length="30807552" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It is the norm for churches to cover up for abusers.  The biggest reason, we believe, is that abusers are very good at making others feel sorry for them.  In this episode, Jimmy and Clara talk about what church members can do to hold their leaders...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It is the norm for churches to cover up for abusers.  The biggest reason, we believe, is that abusers are very good at making others feel sorry for them.  In this episode, Jimmy and Clara talk about what church members can do to hold their leaders accountable.  The tides are changing because of #MeToo and #ChurchToo, and the time is favorable to hold people accountable who cover for abusers.  <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1926</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 13: From Survivor to Thriver: The Impact of One Voice</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-13-from-survivor-to-thriver-the-impact-of-one-voice--14988743</link><description><![CDATA[The 40th statewide grand jury in Pennsylvania will publicly release an 884 page investigative report into allegations of abuse in the Catholic church this month.  This investigation was the result of survivors who bravely have kept pressure on for the state to act.  There were 57 priests and staff who were implicated in the Eerie diocese alone.  There are 6 dioceses that were investigated.  In this episode, Jimmy and Clara talk about the power each survivor has to bring about sweeping change.  <br /><br />And change is coming very quickly.  The landscape of the church is changing for the good.  Laws are being changed and survivors are leading the way!  Every survivor is needed to keep up the change.  There is much hope!! <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14988743</guid><pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2018 16:00:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/14988743/new_project_todo_make_a_beautiful_sound_1.mp3" length="28401456" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The 40th statewide grand jury in Pennsylvania will publicly release an 884 page investigative report into allegations of abuse in the Catholic church this month.  This investigation was the result of survivors who bravely have kept pressure on for the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The 40th statewide grand jury in Pennsylvania will publicly release an 884 page investigative report into allegations of abuse in the Catholic church this month.  This investigation was the result of survivors who bravely have kept pressure on for the state to act.  There were 57 priests and staff who were implicated in the Eerie diocese alone.  There are 6 dioceses that were investigated.  In this episode, Jimmy and Clara talk about the power each survivor has to bring about sweeping change.  <br /><br />And change is coming very quickly.  The landscape of the church is changing for the good.  Laws are being changed and survivors are leading the way!  Every survivor is needed to keep up the change.  There is much hope!! <br /><br />Intro--<br />Film Glitch by Snowflake (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/snowflake/56350</a> Ft: reusenoise<br /><br />Outro--<br />I Have Often Told You Stories (guitar instrumental) by Ivan Chew (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. <a href="http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284" rel="noopener">http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/ramblinglibrarian/41284</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2029</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>catholicinvestigation,churchtoo,metoo</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 12: The Emotional Impact of Narrative</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-12-the-emotional-impact-of-narrative--14938178</link><description><![CDATA[Abusers are incredibly manipulative.  Join Jimmy and Clara as they share personal stories of Jimmy's dad using emotion through narrative to draw people in.  Find out how abusers use emotions to get what they want.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14938178</guid><pubDate>Thu, 31 May 2018 17:16:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/14938178/episode_12_final.mp3" length="33798528" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Abusers are incredibly manipulative.  Join Jimmy and Clara as they share personal stories of Jimmy's dad using emotion through narrative to draw people in.  Find out how abusers use emotions to get what they want.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Abusers are incredibly manipulative.  Join Jimmy and Clara as they share personal stories of Jimmy's dad using emotion through narrative to draw people in.  Find out how abusers use emotions to get what they want.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2113</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusertechniques,emotions,narrative</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 11: Why Narrative Is Important for Abusers</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-11-why-narrative-is-important-for-abusers--14820555</link><description><![CDATA[Jimmy and Clara discuss why preaching ministry is so enticing for sexual abusers and how narrative is used to reel in victims and swoon adults.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14820555</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2018 18:40:35 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/14820555/episode_11_final.mp3" length="36310272" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Jimmy and Clara discuss why preaching ministry is so enticing for sexual abusers and how narrative is used to reel in victims and swoon adults.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Jimmy and Clara discuss why preaching ministry is so enticing for sexual abusers and how narrative is used to reel in victims and swoon adults.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2270</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusertechniques,deception,narrative</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 10: How Abusers Prey On Our Belief System</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-10-how-abusers-prey-on-our-belief-system--14755810</link><description><![CDATA[Do you eve wonder how abusers get away with so much?  How to they keep people from becoming suspicious of their behavior?  In this episode, Jimmy and Clara discuss the importance of abusers getting to know what we want to believe about others.  Once they find out, they create that very character we want to embrace.  In other words, they give us exactly what we're looking for, making it nearly impossible to suspect them as an abuser.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14755810</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 May 2018 16:59:44 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/14755810/episode_10.mp3" length="35496960" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you eve wonder how abusers get away with so much?  How to they keep people from becoming suspicious of their behavior?  In this episode, Jimmy and Clara discuss the importance of abusers getting to know what we want to believe about others.  Once...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you eve wonder how abusers get away with so much?  How to they keep people from becoming suspicious of their behavior?  In this episode, Jimmy and Clara discuss the importance of abusers getting to know what we want to believe about others.  Once they find out, they create that very character we want to embrace.  In other words, they give us exactly what we're looking for, making it nearly impossible to suspect them as an abuser.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2219</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusers'techniques,belief,churchtoo,gettingawaywithabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 9: The Weaknesses of Red Flag Behaviors</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-9-the-weaknesses-of-red-flag-behaviors--14697479</link><description><![CDATA[Current training focuses on identifying "red flag behaviors" of abusers in order to identify them.  But is this effective?  In this episode, Clara and Jimmy discuss the weaknesses of using red flag behaviors to identify abusers.  <br /><br />This episode is an introduction to creating a paradigm shift where we think in terms of specific techniques instead of focusing on broad behaviors.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14697479</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 May 2018 17:00:42 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/14697479/new_project_todo_make_a_beautiful_sound.mp3" length="36598272" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Current training focuses on identifying "red flag behaviors" of abusers in order to identify them.  But is this effective?  In this episode, Clara and Jimmy discuss the weaknesses of using red flag behaviors to identify abusers.  &#13;
&#13;
This episode is...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Current training focuses on identifying "red flag behaviors" of abusers in order to identify them.  But is this effective?  In this episode, Clara and Jimmy discuss the weaknesses of using red flag behaviors to identify abusers.  <br /><br />This episode is an introduction to creating a paradigm shift where we think in terms of specific techniques instead of focusing on broad behaviors.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2288</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusetechniques,redflagsdon'twork,techniques</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 8: Why So Many Wives Support Abusive Husbands</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-8-why-so-many-wives-support-abusive-husbands--14641260</link><description><![CDATA[Clara and Jimmy discuss the reasons why so many wives choose to support their husbands when allegations of abuse arise.  Many people assume that they are evil, ignorant, or careless.  You may be surprised at the real reasons the abusers are supported by their spouses.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14641260</guid><pubDate>Thu, 26 Apr 2018 16:50:17 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/14641260/episode_7_final.mp3" length="37093248" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Clara and Jimmy discuss the reasons why so many wives choose to support their husbands when allegations of abuse arise.  Many people assume that they are evil, ignorant, or careless.  You may be surprised at the real reasons the abusers are supported...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Clara and Jimmy discuss the reasons why so many wives choose to support their husbands when allegations of abuse arise.  Many people assume that they are evil, ignorant, or careless.  You may be surprised at the real reasons the abusers are supported by their spouses.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2319</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuser'sspouse,denial,fear,supportofabusers,trauma,whyabusersaresupported</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 7: Another reason we "miss it": Socially skilled abusers</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-7-another-reason-we-miss-it-socially-skilled-abusers--14578945</link><description><![CDATA[Many people say to report abuse if we see signs of abuse, but often it doesn't work that way.  We usually have no reason to suspect that someone would be an abuser in the first place.  We, in society, have a completely different perspective that keeps us blind to the abuse, even if there are signs.  In this episode, we will discuss that perspective and talk about the importance of narratives that shape our reality and keep us blind to the abuse.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14578945</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Apr 2018 17:00:05 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/14578945/episode_6_final.mp3" length="30105216" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Many people say to report abuse if we see signs of abuse, but often it doesn't work that way.  We usually have no reason to suspect that someone would be an abuser in the first place.  We, in society, have a completely different perspective that keeps...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Many people say to report abuse if we see signs of abuse, but often it doesn't work that way.  We usually have no reason to suspect that someone would be an abuser in the first place.  We, in society, have a completely different perspective that keeps us blind to the abuse, even if there are signs.  In this episode, we will discuss that perspective and talk about the importance of narratives that shape our reality and keep us blind to the abuse.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1882</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 6: Abuse in plain sight</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-6-abuse-in-plain-sight--14523599</link><description><![CDATA[Larry Nassar successfully abused his victims while parents were in the same room.  He is not unique.  In fact, many sexual abusers abuse their victims right in front of us.  Jimmy co-lectured with neuroscientists Dr. Susana Martinez-Conde and Dr. Stephen Macknik last week to explore the science behind deception.  In this episode, Jimmy and Clara share their "take away" moments from the lecture last week.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14523599</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Apr 2018 17:00:05 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/14523599/new_project_todo_make_a_beautiful_sound.mp3" length="31203840" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Larry Nassar successfully abused his victims while parents were in the same room.  He is not unique.  In fact, many sexual abusers abuse their victims right in front of us.  Jimmy co-lectured with neuroscientists Dr. Susana Martinez-Conde and Dr....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Larry Nassar successfully abused his victims while parents were in the same room.  He is not unique.  In fact, many sexual abusers abuse their victims right in front of us.  Jimmy co-lectured with neuroscientists Dr. Susana Martinez-Conde and Dr. Stephen Macknik last week to explore the science behind deception.  In this episode, Jimmy and Clara share their "take away" moments from the lecture last week.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1951</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childabuse,deception,pedophiletechniques,scienceofdeception</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 5: Processing Grief</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-5-processing-grief--14410824</link><description><![CDATA[When trauma is present, all of the sudden we have to find ways to process it.  Jimmy and Clara talk about their way of processing their grief, questioning God, and how they are finding healing.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14410824</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Mar 2018 17:00:05 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/14410824/episode_5_final.mp3" length="27342336" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>When trauma is present, all of the sudden we have to find ways to process it.  Jimmy and Clara talk about their way of processing their grief, questioning God, and how they are finding healing.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[When trauma is present, all of the sudden we have to find ways to process it.  Jimmy and Clara talk about their way of processing their grief, questioning God, and how they are finding healing.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1709</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>grief,processinggrief,trauma</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 4: The Storm Continues</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-4-the-storm-continues--14359752</link><description><![CDATA[Just prior to and immediately after Jimmy's father's arrest, the family had to make some very difficult decisions.  In this episode, Jimmy and Clara talk about what the families of pedophiles endure once the abuser is outed.  There are so many factors that most people don't think about, but it has a profound impact on the family of abusers.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14359752</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Mar 2018 17:00:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/14359752/episode_4_final.mp3" length="31214592" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Just prior to and immediately after Jimmy's father's arrest, the family had to make some very difficult decisions.  In this episode, Jimmy and Clara talk about what the families of pedophiles endure once the abuser is outed.  There are so many factors...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Just prior to and immediately after Jimmy's father's arrest, the family had to make some very difficult decisions.  In this episode, Jimmy and Clara talk about what the families of pedophiles endure once the abuser is outed.  There are so many factors that most people don't think about, but it has a profound impact on the family of abusers.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1951</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusestinks,churchtoo,reporting</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 3: The Storm After the Calm</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-3-the-storm-after-the-calm--14297341</link><description><![CDATA[How do you brace for a storm when you don't even know that a storm is coming?  After reporting Clara's ex-husband (Jimmy's father) to the police, life got crazy real quick.  After making a police report, there are so many unknowns that you are bombarded with that it's impossible to keep up.  In this episode, Jimmy and Clara share what it was like during the 3 week period after reporting and before the arrest.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14297341</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Mar 2018 17:00:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/14297341/episode_3.mp3" length="32593152" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>How do you brace for a storm when you don't even know that a storm is coming?  After reporting Clara's ex-husband (Jimmy's father) to the police, life got crazy real quick.  After making a police report, there are so many unknowns that you are...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[How do you brace for a storm when you don't even know that a storm is coming?  After reporting Clara's ex-husband (Jimmy's father) to the police, life got crazy real quick.  After making a police report, there are so many unknowns that you are bombarded with that it's impossible to keep up.  In this episode, Jimmy and Clara share what it was like during the 3 week period after reporting and before the arrest.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2038</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childabuse,churchtoo,reporting</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 2: Reporting Should Be Easy but It's Actually Devastating</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-2-reporting-should-be-easy-but-it-s-actually-devastating--14230506</link><description><![CDATA[Most abuse goes unreported, even when a victim discloses or there is reasonable suspicion.  We reported someone we loved and were close to, and it forever changed our lives.  Reporting is not easy when you are reporting someone you love and the stakes are high.  It is our hope that others will follow our example and report when there is reason to believe that a child has been abused.  It is always the right thing to do.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14230506</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Mar 2018 18:00:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/14230506/episode_2_final.mp3" length="34093440" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Most abuse goes unreported, even when a victim discloses or there is reasonable suspicion.  We reported someone we loved and were close to, and it forever changed our lives.  Reporting is not easy when you are reporting someone you love and the stakes...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Most abuse goes unreported, even when a victim discloses or there is reasonable suspicion.  We reported someone we loved and were close to, and it forever changed our lives.  Reporting is not easy when you are reporting someone you love and the stakes are high.  It is our hope that others will follow our example and report when there is reason to believe that a child has been abused.  It is always the right thing to do.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2131</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>churchtoo,pedophiles,report,reportingabuse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 1: Why We Chose to Podcast</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-1-why-we-chose-to-podcast--14181606</link><description><![CDATA[Jimmy and Clara Hinton explain why they chose to begin a podcast together.  Abuse is rampant in the church and there is very little help for people suffering with the aftermath.  They share what led them to provide help for people who went through what their family experienced when they reported Jimmy's father (Clara's ex-husband).]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14181606</guid><pubDate>Fri, 02 Mar 2018 12:35:55 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/14181606/episode_1_final.mp3" length="23361024" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Jimmy and Clara Hinton</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Jimmy and Clara Hinton explain why they chose to begin a podcast together.  Abuse is rampant in the church and there is very little help for people suffering with the aftermath.  They share what led them to provide help for people who went through...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Jimmy and Clara Hinton explain why they chose to begin a podcast together.  Abuse is rampant in the church and there is very little help for people suffering with the aftermath.  They share what led them to provide help for people who went through what their family experienced when they reported Jimmy's father (Clara's ex-husband).]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1461</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuse,church,hinton,pedophiles</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adc65ce5876426562a6e397900fa5eab.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item></channel></rss>
