https://www.spreaker.com/show/eldercare-illuminated
Want full access to Torchlight’s online caregiving platform, including personalized action plans, eGuides, and tools? Have your employer contact us! They can find our information at www.torchlight.care.]]>enHealth & FitnessCopyright Torchlighthttps://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0de822d9d82e27ab7237a5ac6586b4fc.jpghttps://www.spreaker.com/show/eldercare-illuminatedSat, 01 Feb 2025 21:07:02 +0000TorchlightTorchlighttorchlightpodcasts@gmail.comTorchlight’s Eldercare Illuminated empowers family caregivers as they overcome obstacles and navigate the complexities of caring for an ill or aging loved one. Tune in for conversations with top eldercare experts, practitioners, or experienced...
Want full access to Torchlight’s online caregiving platform, including personalized action plans, eGuides, and tools? Have your employer contact us! They can find our information at www.torchlight.care.]]>cleanepisodichttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ten-days-with-dad-a-conversation-with-mark-resnick--49923649
Mark learned more about himself and his dad than he ever anticipated. The result is Ten Days with Dad: Finding Purpose, Passion, & Peace During The Darkest Days of Alzheimer's and COVID-19.

Join us for this episode of Eldercare Illuminated to hear Mark explain what those dark days revealed and how his lifelong ambition to write a book “happened.” Somehow, Mark’s journaling habit resulted in a book that shares life lessons through stories of his youth and his father’s Alzheimer’s journey. Part memoir, part homage to Dad, Ten Days follows Mark’s childhood, being raised with his two brothers by a single father in the suburbs of Boston to his days as his father’s primary caregiver.

About Our Guest:

Father, son, brother, husband, coach: Mark Resnick has had many roles. He explores how these relationships and responsibilities have affected his outlook and the way he lives his life today. Learn more about Mark or reach out to him via his website at https://www.markjresnick.com.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49923649Tue, 24 May 2022 15:14:48 +0000TorchlightMark Resnick’s father was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s in 2014. Five years later, as the disease progressed and COVID began to shut down the country, Mark was plunged into the intimate world of caring for a loved one with a dementia diagnosis in the...
Mark learned more about himself and his dad than he ever anticipated. The result is Ten Days with Dad: Finding Purpose, Passion, & Peace During The Darkest Days of Alzheimer's and COVID-19.

Join us for this episode of Eldercare Illuminated to hear Mark explain what those dark days revealed and how his lifelong ambition to write a book “happened.” Somehow, Mark’s journaling habit resulted in a book that shares life lessons through stories of his youth and his father’s Alzheimer’s journey. Part memoir, part homage to Dad, Ten Days follows Mark’s childhood, being raised with his two brothers by a single father in the suburbs of Boston to his days as his father’s primary caregiver.

About Our Guest:

Father, son, brother, husband, coach: Mark Resnick has had many roles. He explores how these relationships and responsibilities have affected his outlook and the way he lives his life today. Learn more about Mark or reach out to him via his website at https://www.markjresnick.com.]]>2305alzheimer's,caregiving,dementia,eldercarecleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/understanding-your-rights-under-the-family-and-medical-leave-act-fmla--49743304
•FMLA basics, including who is eligible to use FMLA and what criteria must be met;
•How to talk to your employer about using FMLA to meet medical or family needs;
•What to do if you’re getting resistance from your employer; and,
•More!

About Our Guest:

Teri Weber is a partner and Senior Vice President with Spring Consulting Group. She has over 15 years of experience in health and welfare plan strategy, design, and implementation. In addition, she is a subject matter expert on absence management programs, including disability, family medical leave, and leave of absence tracking. Her areas of expertise have allowed her to work with diverse employers and vendors to streamline processes and programs to meet the needs of both employers and employees. Teri holds a BS from the University of Connecticut and an MBA from the University of Massachusetts.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49743304Tue, 10 May 2022 17:25:21 +0000TorchlightThe Family and Medical Leave Act of 1993 (FMLA) is a U.S. law that requires covered employers to provide employees with protected, unpaid leave for certain medical and family reasons. Yet, many Americans are unsure of the ways in which FMLA could make...
•FMLA basics, including who is eligible to use FMLA and what criteria must be met;
•How to talk to your employer about using FMLA to meet medical or family needs;
•What to do if you’re getting resistance from your employer; and,
•More!

About Our Guest:

Teri Weber is a partner and Senior Vice President with Spring Consulting Group. She has over 15 years of experience in health and welfare plan strategy, design, and implementation. In addition, she is a subject matter expert on absence management programs, including disability, family medical leave, and leave of absence tracking. Her areas of expertise have allowed her to work with diverse employers and vendors to streamline processes and programs to meet the needs of both employers and employees. Teri holds a BS from the University of Connecticut and an MBA from the University of Massachusetts.]]>2542benefits,caregiving,eldercare,employee,fmla,leavecleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-become-a-badass-advocate-for-your-seriously-ill-loved-one--49479716
- Build a support team for you and the patient and ask for help when you need it;
- Overcome fear of authority figures and ask doctors effective questions;
- Balance self-care with patient care; and,
- More!

About Our Guest:

Erin Mulqueen Galyean is an author and speaker who trains sales professionals in effective communication with healthcare providers. She lost her father to Non-Hodgkin’s Lymphoma in 1997 and her sister to a rare lung disease in 2018. Fueled by these heartbreaking experiences, Erin helps others become powerful advocates for the seriously ill loved ones in their lives.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49479716Tue, 19 Apr 2022 16:57:51 +0000TorchlightAre you caring for a seriously ill loved one? If so, perhaps there are moments when you feel overwhelmed or even powerless as you try to get (and give) your loved one the best possible care. In this episode, join Torchlight hosts Lenore Tracey and...
- Build a support team for you and the patient and ask for help when you need it;
- Overcome fear of authority figures and ask doctors effective questions;
- Balance self-care with patient care; and,
- More!

About Our Guest:

Erin Mulqueen Galyean is an author and speaker who trains sales professionals in effective communication with healthcare providers. She lost her father to Non-Hodgkin’s Lymphoma in 1997 and her sister to a rare lung disease in 2018. Fueled by these heartbreaking experiences, Erin helps others become powerful advocates for the seriously ill loved ones in their lives.]]>2184advocacy,care,caregiving,eldercare,hospitalization,illness,patientcleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/12-conversations-how-to-talk-to-almost-anyone-about-long-term-care-planning--49411531
In this episode, host Lenore Tracey talks with author, humorist, and elder law attorney Cathy Sikorski. Cathy’s new book, 12 Conversations: How To Talk to Almost Anyone About Long-Term Care Planning gives caregivers and future care recipients — all of us — reasons to talk to each other about how we’ll pay for care and what types of care we want. Better yet, Cathy gives us the language to deal with these conversations, no matter who you’re talking to — Mom, Dad, your grown-up kids, your Uncle Fred, your doctor, or your mom’s doctor.

Check out what long-term care care costs where you (or your loved one) live: https://www.genworth.com/aging-and-you/finances/cost-of-care.html. Best to be sitting down when you do this! Then commit to having those important conversations with the people you love.

*Genworth Financial 2021 Cost of Care Survey

About Our Guest:

Cathy Sikorski has been a caregiver for the last 25 years for eight different family members and friends. A published author and humorist, Sikorski is also a practicing elder law attorney. Her legal expertise and sense of humor have made her a sought-after speaker where she tackles the legal issues that affect those who will one day be or need a caregiver (which is everyone).

Cathy’s most recent book, 12 Conversations: How To Talk to Almost Anyone About Long-Term Care Planning offers practical advice for discussing this difficult topic with your aging parents, your adult children, your siblings, your spouse, and other key players you will meet as a caregiver - or a care recipient. Cathy’s wicked sense of humor and commitment to straight talk will prepare you to get through these conversations successfully - maybe even gracefully!

Cathy’s first book was a memoir, Showering with Nana: Confessions of a Serial (killer) Caregiver. That was followed by Who Moved My Teeth? - a humorous and informative book with practical and legal tips for caregivers and baby boomers. Cathy maintains an active blog “You just have to Laugh…where Caregiving is Comedy…”.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49411531Tue, 12 Apr 2022 14:51:14 +0000TorchlightPeople are encouraged to plan for retirement (Save money!) and dying (Make a will!). But many of us — maybe most of us — forget that there can be a long (and expensive) time in between. In this episode, host Lenore Tracey talks with author,...
In this episode, host Lenore Tracey talks with author, humorist, and elder law attorney Cathy Sikorski. Cathy’s new book, 12 Conversations: How To Talk to Almost Anyone About Long-Term Care Planning gives caregivers and future care recipients — all of us — reasons to talk to each other about how we’ll pay for care and what types of care we want. Better yet, Cathy gives us the language to deal with these conversations, no matter who you’re talking to — Mom, Dad, your grown-up kids, your Uncle Fred, your doctor, or your mom’s doctor.

Check out what long-term care care costs where you (or your loved one) live: https://www.genworth.com/aging-and-you/finances/cost-of-care.html. Best to be sitting down when you do this! Then commit to having those important conversations with the people you love.

*Genworth Financial 2021 Cost of Care Survey

About Our Guest:

Cathy Sikorski has been a caregiver for the last 25 years for eight different family members and friends. A published author and humorist, Sikorski is also a practicing elder law attorney. Her legal expertise and sense of humor have made her a sought-after speaker where she tackles the legal issues that affect those who will one day be or need a caregiver (which is everyone).

Cathy’s most recent book, 12 Conversations: How To Talk to Almost Anyone About Long-Term Care Planning offers practical advice for discussing this difficult topic with your aging parents, your adult children, your siblings, your spouse, and other key players you will meet as a caregiver - or a care recipient. Cathy’s wicked sense of humor and commitment to straight talk will prepare you to get through these conversations successfully - maybe even gracefully!

Cathy’s first book was a memoir, Showering with Nana: Confessions of a Serial (killer) Caregiver. That was followed by Who Moved My Teeth? - a humorous and informative book with practical and legal tips for caregivers and baby boomers. Cathy maintains an active blog “You just have to Laugh…where Caregiving is Comedy…”.]]>2062caregiving,elder,eldercare,financial,law,planning,proxy,willscleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/a-conversation-with-kate-washington-author-of-already-toast--47393962
Sailing into their 40s with no expectation of the disaster that was about to strike, Kate and her husband were raising two children, working, and enjoying successful careers in sunny California. This is the story of their family, plunged into the murky waters of caregiving. It highlights the distressingly inadequate systems that support American families when serious illness strikes. Kate learns caregiving while caregiving – scant on-the-job training for an unanticipated job. She shares how the experience enlightened her and changed her, how historical notions of women as caregivers fare in modern America, and how we might address some of the failings of a fragmented medical and social care construct that many of us will find ourselves immersed in, whether we like it or not.

About Our Guest:

Kate Washington is a writer in Northern California. Her book, Already Toast: Caregiving and Burnout in America (Beacon Press, March 2021), shines a stark light on the experience of family caregivers. Largely left on their own to navigate the medical, insurance, work, and social support systems involved when a loved one becomes ill, caregivers are ill prepared and unsupported as they struggle to manage family and work responsibilities. With 53 million family caregivers in (Caregiving in the U.S. 2020, National Alliance for Caregiving and AARP), Already Toast is a must read for family caregivers, health care and social support workers, and policy makers.

Visit Kate’s website at https://www.kawashington.com/already-toast.html.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47393962Tue, 09 Nov 2021 17:36:25 +0000TorchlightIf you’re looking for a book to create an engrossing TV series, Kate Washington’s Already Toast should be high on your list. Published in March 2021, the book chronicles Kate’s life as a caregiver after her husband is diagnosed with a rare cancer....
Sailing into their 40s with no expectation of the disaster that was about to strike, Kate and her husband were raising two children, working, and enjoying successful careers in sunny California. This is the story of their family, plunged into the murky waters of caregiving. It highlights the distressingly inadequate systems that support American families when serious illness strikes. Kate learns caregiving while caregiving – scant on-the-job training for an unanticipated job. She shares how the experience enlightened her and changed her, how historical notions of women as caregivers fare in modern America, and how we might address some of the failings of a fragmented medical and social care construct that many of us will find ourselves immersed in, whether we like it or not.

About Our Guest:

Kate Washington is a writer in Northern California. Her book, Already Toast: Caregiving and Burnout in America (Beacon Press, March 2021), shines a stark light on the experience of family caregivers. Largely left on their own to navigate the medical, insurance, work, and social support systems involved when a loved one becomes ill, caregivers are ill prepared and unsupported as they struggle to manage family and work responsibilities. With 53 million family caregivers in (Caregiving in the U.S. 2020, National Alliance for Caregiving and AARP), Already Toast is a must read for family caregivers, health care and social support workers, and policy makers.

Visit Kate’s website at https://www.kawashington.com/already-toast.html.]]>2177cancer,caregivers,caregivingcleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/caregiving-am-i-really-cut-out-for-this--47051077
Caregiving is an act of love, devotion, duty, and responsibility. We may have planned to care for our elders, and we may have vowed “in sickness and in health.” We may also have a troubled relationship with the family member or friend who needs our help. Or we may turn green at the sight of blood, need a full eight hours of sleep to be remotely human, or be raising four-year-old triplets.

Listen to two eldercare professionals, (who are also caregivers who have “been there and done that”) discuss how to accept thinking the unthinkable and cope with the must-do’s of a caregiver’s life.

About Our Guest:

Paula Sellars, MSW is an expert in adult learning, training development, and training delivery, particularly in promoting large-scale social change. Paula is the originator of an award-winning training method called Docutraining®, which integrates documentary style film, practical behavioral directives, and human empowerment training to produce reliable behavior change. In her role as president & director of curriculum development at Vistalynk, LLC (https://www.vistalynk.com/vistalynk-home) she brings this same evidence-informed training methodology to support understanding, reflection, intention, and behavior change to aging and caregiving relationships. Paula is also a personal development and entrepreneurial coach.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47051077Tue, 19 Oct 2021 20:24:44 +0000TorchlightIn this episode, host Lenore Tracey and award-winning documentary producer Paula Sellars consider a question that caregivers don’t usually think about — What if I’m not willing, able, or happy to be a caregiver? And it’s obvious companion thought —...
Caregiving is an act of love, devotion, duty, and responsibility. We may have planned to care for our elders, and we may have vowed “in sickness and in health.” We may also have a troubled relationship with the family member or friend who needs our help. Or we may turn green at the sight of blood, need a full eight hours of sleep to be remotely human, or be raising four-year-old triplets.

Listen to two eldercare professionals, (who are also caregivers who have “been there and done that”) discuss how to accept thinking the unthinkable and cope with the must-do’s of a caregiver’s life.

About Our Guest:

Paula Sellars, MSW is an expert in adult learning, training development, and training delivery, particularly in promoting large-scale social change. Paula is the originator of an award-winning training method called Docutraining®, which integrates documentary style film, practical behavioral directives, and human empowerment training to produce reliable behavior change. In her role as president & director of curriculum development at Vistalynk, LLC (https://www.vistalynk.com/vistalynk-home) she brings this same evidence-informed training methodology to support understanding, reflection, intention, and behavior change to aging and caregiving relationships. Paula is also a personal development and entrepreneurial coach.]]>2121caregiving,eldercare,self-carecleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/secrets-to-a-good-night-s-sleep--42521629
Fortunately, whether you have trouble falling asleep, staying asleep, or simply stay up too late at night, most sleep problems are treatable. In this episode, join Eldercare Illuminated host Lenore Tracey and Exceptional Parenting Podcast host Stefanie Boucher as they discuss the beauty and importance of sleep - and the little known secrets to getting a good night’s rest - with clinical sleep educator and behavioral sleep therapist, Rick Clerici. You’ll find out how to use your body’s natural sleep pattern to maximize rest, how to begin preparing your body for sleep from the moment you wake up in the morning, and what to try if parenting or caregiving responsibilities are making sleep difficult.

About Our Guest:

Rick Clerici is a Clinical Sleep Educator and Behavioral Sleep Therapist. As the co-founder of Clear Mind Systems, Rick develops corporate sleep wellness programs, lectures in corporate and university settings nationwide, and serves as Sleep Educator for four major employee assistance programs in Massachusetts. As a personal sleep coach, he and his practice have helped thousands of individuals in all age groups get a better night’s sleep.

Learn more about Rick Clerici and his work by visiting http://www.clearmindsystems.net/.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/42521629Wed, 16 Dec 2020 17:19:35 +0000TorchlightMost people know that sleep is essential to good health. But what you might not know is that 60 to 80 percent of us aren’t getting nearly enough of it - not by a long shot. And that’s a big deal. Studies show that insufficient sleep can lead to poorer...
Fortunately, whether you have trouble falling asleep, staying asleep, or simply stay up too late at night, most sleep problems are treatable. In this episode, join Eldercare Illuminated host Lenore Tracey and Exceptional Parenting Podcast host Stefanie Boucher as they discuss the beauty and importance of sleep - and the little known secrets to getting a good night’s rest - with clinical sleep educator and behavioral sleep therapist, Rick Clerici. You’ll find out how to use your body’s natural sleep pattern to maximize rest, how to begin preparing your body for sleep from the moment you wake up in the morning, and what to try if parenting or caregiving responsibilities are making sleep difficult.

About Our Guest:

Rick Clerici is a Clinical Sleep Educator and Behavioral Sleep Therapist. As the co-founder of Clear Mind Systems, Rick develops corporate sleep wellness programs, lectures in corporate and university settings nationwide, and serves as Sleep Educator for four major employee assistance programs in Massachusetts. As a personal sleep coach, he and his practice have helped thousands of individuals in all age groups get a better night’s sleep.

Learn more about Rick Clerici and his work by visiting http://www.clearmindsystems.net/.]]>2897bedtime,caregiver,caregiving,insomnia,nighttime,rest,sleep,wellnesscleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/home-sharing-creating-friendships-support-and-resources--41353440
Housemates have been a standard for young people starting out after completing their education. What are the many benefits that may be available to an older adult when sharing a living space? Amy Ford, of Silvernest, discusses how this little known option can provide different kinds of support for your loved one. In this discussion, we cover:

- What types of help can be built into a home-sharing agreement
- Safe ways you and your loved one can find a housemate
- Questions to consider when interviewing an applicant
- The importance of creating a formal home sharing agreement to protect both your loved one and her new housemate

Check out these resources to explore the home-sharing option further:

- Silvernest (http://silvernesthome.com/torchlight)
- Senior Homeshares (https://www.seniorhomeshares.com/
- National Shared Housing Resource Center (http://nationalsharedhousing.org/program-directory/)

About Our Guest:

Amy Ford is the Vice President of Strategic Partnerships and Business Development for Silvernest, an online roommate-matching service that pairs empty nesters, retirees and other aging adults with long-term housemates. Amy joined Silvernest from the National Council on Aging (NCOA), where she was the senior director of financial wellness, responsible for leading a team in the Economic Security division that provides education to older adults on a variety of topics related to financial wellness, including the question of considering accessing their home equity.
Before joining NCOA, Amy supported housing counselors in the training division of a large community development organization, NeighborWorks America.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/41353440Wed, 07 Oct 2020 13:07:00 +0000TorchlightMany families today are struggling with uncertainty and threats to home and hearth. Financial instability is a reality for people who have had their work hours reduced or lost their jobs completely. In this episode of Eldercare Illuminated, we’re...
Housemates have been a standard for young people starting out after completing their education. What are the many benefits that may be available to an older adult when sharing a living space? Amy Ford, of Silvernest, discusses how this little known option can provide different kinds of support for your loved one. In this discussion, we cover:

- What types of help can be built into a home-sharing agreement
- Safe ways you and your loved one can find a housemate
- Questions to consider when interviewing an applicant
- The importance of creating a formal home sharing agreement to protect both your loved one and her new housemate

Check out these resources to explore the home-sharing option further:

- Silvernest (http://silvernesthome.com/torchlight)
- Senior Homeshares (https://www.seniorhomeshares.com/
- National Shared Housing Resource Center (http://nationalsharedhousing.org/program-directory/)

About Our Guest:

Amy Ford is the Vice President of Strategic Partnerships and Business Development for Silvernest, an online roommate-matching service that pairs empty nesters, retirees and other aging adults with long-term housemates. Amy joined Silvernest from the National Council on Aging (NCOA), where she was the senior director of financial wellness, responsible for leading a team in the Economic Security division that provides education to older adults on a variety of topics related to financial wellness, including the question of considering accessing their home equity.
Before joining NCOA, Amy supported housing counselors in the training division of a large community development organization, NeighborWorks America.]]>1742caregiving,eldercare,homesharing,home-sharing,housemate,housing,seniorscleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/conversations-with-working-caregivers-amy-lyman--41224301
We open our first episode of the Fall season of Eldercare Illuminated with a far-reaching conversation about what the last few months have been like when a loved one lives in a memory care unit during a COVID-19 outbreak and beyond.

You’ll be surprised to hear that it’s not all bad news:

- Seniors who contract this virus can recover.
- Flexibility lends grace when circumstances continuously change.
- Children (and dogs) still bring joy.
- Workplace support is key to making all the pieces fit together.

Guest Amy Lyman shares the story of caring for a loved one with dementia during the coronavirus pandemic. We learn that loved ones who can only live in the moment may enjoy a special boon while the rest of us are bathed in anxiety.

About Our Guest:

Amy Lyman is Torchlight’s Director of Client Success. In addition to years in the financial services industry, Amy has experience working with adults and facilitating support groups in a mental health clinic. Most recently she worked supporting employees and advising Human Resources professionals and managers about workplace dynamics. Who is she when she’s at home? All of those things and the mother of three, wife, daughter, and primary caregiver for her 88-year-old mother.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/41224301Wed, 30 Sep 2020 13:30:19 +0000TorchlightThe coronavirus pandemic has wreaked havoc on the lives of young and old alike since March. For caregivers who are juggling work, children, and aging or disabled loved ones, the disruptions have been relentless. We open our first episode of the...
We open our first episode of the Fall season of Eldercare Illuminated with a far-reaching conversation about what the last few months have been like when a loved one lives in a memory care unit during a COVID-19 outbreak and beyond.

You’ll be surprised to hear that it’s not all bad news:

- Seniors who contract this virus can recover.
- Flexibility lends grace when circumstances continuously change.
- Children (and dogs) still bring joy.
- Workplace support is key to making all the pieces fit together.

Guest Amy Lyman shares the story of caring for a loved one with dementia during the coronavirus pandemic. We learn that loved ones who can only live in the moment may enjoy a special boon while the rest of us are bathed in anxiety.

About Our Guest:

Amy Lyman is Torchlight’s Director of Client Success. In addition to years in the financial services industry, Amy has experience working with adults and facilitating support groups in a mental health clinic. Most recently she worked supporting employees and advising Human Resources professionals and managers about workplace dynamics. Who is she when she’s at home? All of those things and the mother of three, wife, daughter, and primary caregiver for her 88-year-old mother.]]>16302020,alzheimer's,caregiver,caregiving,coronavirus,covid-19,dementia,eldercare,memory,pandemiccleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-coronavirus-scams-epidemic--27163953
As our guest, Steve Weisman says, “Things aren’t as bad as you think, they are far worse.” But don’t despair. Steve joins Torchlight’s Eldercare Illuminated host, Lenore Tracey, and Exceptional Parenting Podcast host, Stefanie Boucher, for a discussion of what to beware of and how to avoid the clever ways these thieves seek to undermine our digital security. Steve alerts us to attacks and identity theft based on use of websites and apps targeted at students, younger children, seniors, and employees; he offers some surprising insights about how criminals are exploiting the tools and applications we use every day.

Steve has helpful strategies to share for all of us — adults and kids of all ages. Check out his website, Scamicide.com, for regular updates on new scams and how to protect yourself and your loved ones.

About Our Guest:

Steve Weisman, JD is an attorney admitted to practice before the United States Supreme Court, college professor at Bentley University, and nationally recognized expert on scams, identity theft and cybersecurity. He appears regularly in the media to share his knowledge and ideas for staying one step ahead of the bad guys.

You can find Steve’s books on retirement planning and digital security on Amazon. Learn more about identity theft attacks based on use of Facebook, iPad, iPhone, Android, cloud apps, iPod, and other new technologies — and shows you how to protect yourself, or how to fix the damage if you've already been attacked!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/27163953Tue, 12 May 2020 15:41:12 +0000TorchlightAs if the coronavirus pandemic were not bad enough, it has spawned another epidemic. Testing and treatment scams, product delivery scams, tax identity theft, and a multitude of new and creative ways to get people to divulge private information or...
As our guest, Steve Weisman says, “Things aren’t as bad as you think, they are far worse.” But don’t despair. Steve joins Torchlight’s Eldercare Illuminated host, Lenore Tracey, and Exceptional Parenting Podcast host, Stefanie Boucher, for a discussion of what to beware of and how to avoid the clever ways these thieves seek to undermine our digital security. Steve alerts us to attacks and identity theft based on use of websites and apps targeted at students, younger children, seniors, and employees; he offers some surprising insights about how criminals are exploiting the tools and applications we use every day.

Steve has helpful strategies to share for all of us — adults and kids of all ages. Check out his website, Scamicide.com, for regular updates on new scams and how to protect yourself and your loved ones.

About Our Guest:

Steve Weisman, JD is an attorney admitted to practice before the United States Supreme Court, college professor at Bentley University, and nationally recognized expert on scams, identity theft and cybersecurity. He appears regularly in the media to share his knowledge and ideas for staying one step ahead of the bad guys.

You can find Steve’s books on retirement planning and digital security on Amazon. Learn more about identity theft attacks based on use of Facebook, iPad, iPhone, Android, cloud apps, iPod, and other new technologies — and shows you how to protect yourself, or how to fix the damage if you've already been attacked!]]>2589coronavirus,covid-19,cybersecurity,pandemic,scams,securitycleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/conversations-exploring-loss-and-grief--25503140
Join Eldercare Illuminated host Lenore Tracey for a conversation with Amy Tucci, President and CEO of the Hospice Foundation of America. Amy shares her knowledge, experience, and advice for individuals and families grieving after the death of a loved one. Whether someone you care about dies suddenly or after a long illness, the experience is painful; it requires time to understand and incorporate the loss into one’s mental and emotional framework.

Download additional resources to help understand and deal with grief from the Hospice Foundation website at https://hospicefoundation.org/Grief-(1).

Managers and employees can find specific information on how to be helpful when a colleague has lost a loved one in the Hospice Foundation’s booklet Grief at Work: A Guide for Employees and Managers, which can be found at https://hospicefoundation.org/Grief-(1)/Grief-and-the-Workplace.

About Our Guest:

Amy Tucci is the President and CEO of the Hospice Foundation of America (HFA), headquartered in Washington, DC.

She started at the Hospice Foundation in 2004, directing its national Living with Grief® educational event and has been responsible for many educational programs on advanced illness care and grief for both the public and professionals. She has edited several books on end-of-life topics, considering issues such as ethics, pain management, child and adolescent grief, and spirituality.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/25503140Wed, 15 Apr 2020 13:49:50 +0000TorchlightThis podcast was recorded before the coronavirus pandemic. The need to understand the many faces of grief and how to treat each other kindly after a loved one dies is magnified under our current circumstances. Whether you are working remotely or on...
Join Eldercare Illuminated host Lenore Tracey for a conversation with Amy Tucci, President and CEO of the Hospice Foundation of America. Amy shares her knowledge, experience, and advice for individuals and families grieving after the death of a loved one. Whether someone you care about dies suddenly or after a long illness, the experience is painful; it requires time to understand and incorporate the loss into one’s mental and emotional framework.

Download additional resources to help understand and deal with grief from the Hospice Foundation website at https://hospicefoundation.org/Grief-(1).

Managers and employees can find specific information on how to be helpful when a colleague has lost a loved one in the Hospice Foundation’s booklet Grief at Work: A Guide for Employees and Managers, which can be found at https://hospicefoundation.org/Grief-(1)/Grief-and-the-Workplace.

About Our Guest:

Amy Tucci is the President and CEO of the Hospice Foundation of America (HFA), headquartered in Washington, DC.

She started at the Hospice Foundation in 2004, directing its national Living with Grief® educational event and has been responsible for many educational programs on advanced illness care and grief for both the public and professionals. She has edited several books on end-of-life topics, considering issues such as ethics, pain management, child and adolescent grief, and spirituality.]]>1902caregiving,coronavirus,covid-19,eldercare,grief,hospice,losscleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/eldercare-in-the-time-of-coronavirus-social-distancing-and-visiting-your-loved-one--24443537
Guest host Stefanie Boucher usually presents Torchlight’s Exceptional Parenting Podcast, when she’s not writing about the challenges of raising children and navigating education issues for children with and without disabilities. Today, she looks for ways to explain social distancing and how to convince a stubborn loved one that visiting the grandparents is just a bad idea.

As promised in this episode, we’re including links to a couple of graphical representations and expert explanations of how social distancing works:

This BBC video explains social distancing using dominoes: https://www.bbc.co.uk/newsround/51989370

A coronavirus transmission animation, from New Zealand’s online magazine, The Spinoff: https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/4/45/Covid-19-Transmission-graphic-01.gif

An in-depth scientific article in the leading medical journal, The Lancet, “Scientific and ethical basis for social-distancing interventions against COVID-19,” Joseph A Lewnard, Nathan C Lo, Published: March 23, 2020: https://www.thelancet.com/journals/laninf/article/PIIS1473-3099(20)30190-0/fulltext

Johns Hopkins Medicine explains the importance of social distancing, self-quarantine, isolation, and “flattening the curve”: https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseases/coronavirus/coronavirus-social-distancing-and-self-quarantine

Check the CDC’s website, https://coronavirus.gov, for the most current information and recommendations.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/24443537Fri, 27 Mar 2020 21:30:02 +0000TorchlightIn this episode of Eldercare Illuminated, Torchlight’s Eldercare Practice Leader, Lenore Tracey, answers questions about the limitations on visiting nursing homes and assisted living facilities as well as the importance of social distancing for...
Guest host Stefanie Boucher usually presents Torchlight’s Exceptional Parenting Podcast, when she’s not writing about the challenges of raising children and navigating education issues for children with and without disabilities. Today, she looks for ways to explain social distancing and how to convince a stubborn loved one that visiting the grandparents is just a bad idea.

As promised in this episode, we’re including links to a couple of graphical representations and expert explanations of how social distancing works:

This BBC video explains social distancing using dominoes: https://www.bbc.co.uk/newsround/51989370

A coronavirus transmission animation, from New Zealand’s online magazine, The Spinoff: https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/4/45/Covid-19-Transmission-graphic-01.gif

An in-depth scientific article in the leading medical journal, The Lancet, “Scientific and ethical basis for social-distancing interventions against COVID-19,” Joseph A Lewnard, Nathan C Lo, Published: March 23, 2020: https://www.thelancet.com/journals/laninf/article/PIIS1473-3099(20)30190-0/fulltext

Johns Hopkins Medicine explains the importance of social distancing, self-quarantine, isolation, and “flattening the curve”: https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseases/coronavirus/coronavirus-social-distancing-and-self-quarantine

Check the CDC’s website, https://coronavirus.gov, for the most current information and recommendations.]]>1694caregiving,coronavirus,covid-19,distancing,eldercare,seniors,social,visitingcleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/let-there-be-music-the-power-of-music-in-caregiving--24264759
Mary Sue Wilkinson spends her days bringing live music to assisted living facilities, memory care units, and nursing homes. In one of our most popular episodes of Eldercare Illuminated to date, Mary Sue shares her thoughts about the role of music in caring for someone with dementia — and the opportunity to enhance your loved one’s life in myriad ways through live and recorded musical
experiences.

The Rolling Stones’ lead guitarist Keith Richards has said, “Music is a language that
doesn’t speak in particular words. It speaks in emotions, and if it’s in the bones, it’s in
the bones.” For individuals with dementia, music can spark what’s in the bones to rise
to the surface for moments of clarity and happiness.

About Our Guest:

Mary Sue Wilkinson is the founder of Singing Heart to Heart™ and the Young at Heart Music Program. As a career educator and professional musician, she discovered the power of music to awaken memories and bring joy. Today she specializes in using music in dementia care. Her book, “Songs You Know By Heart: A Simple Guide for Using Music in Dementia Care,” her sing along CDs and her E-Book “Finding Memories through Music: A Family
Interview,” as well as other resources are available on her website: https://www.singinghearttoheart.com/home.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/24264759Tue, 24 Mar 2020 21:18:07 +0000TorchlightAre you currently hesitant or unable to visit your loved one due to the coronavirus pandemic? Is your loved one feeling more isolated than usual as a result of social distancing? If so, music may be able to help him or her fight loneliness and even...
Mary Sue Wilkinson spends her days bringing live music to assisted living facilities, memory care units, and nursing homes. In one of our most popular episodes of Eldercare Illuminated to date, Mary Sue shares her thoughts about the role of music in caring for someone with dementia — and the opportunity to enhance your loved one’s life in myriad ways through live and recorded musical
experiences.

The Rolling Stones’ lead guitarist Keith Richards has said, “Music is a language that
doesn’t speak in particular words. It speaks in emotions, and if it’s in the bones, it’s in
the bones.” For individuals with dementia, music can spark what’s in the bones to rise
to the surface for moments of clarity and happiness.

About Our Guest:

Mary Sue Wilkinson is the founder of Singing Heart to Heart™ and the Young at Heart Music Program. As a career educator and professional musician, she discovered the power of music to awaken memories and bring joy. Today she specializes in using music in dementia care. Her book, “Songs You Know By Heart: A Simple Guide for Using Music in Dementia Care,” her sing along CDs and her E-Book “Finding Memories through Music: A Family
Interview,” as well as other resources are available on her website: https://www.singinghearttoheart.com/home.]]>2203alzheimer's,caregiving,coronavirus,covid-19,dementia,eldercare,loneliness,long-distance,music,pandemic,therapycleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/loving-mike-caring-for-a-spouse-with-a-serious-illness--23695430
Guest Rebecca Throop shares what she learned and how her family got through an unexpected caregiving challenge. Rebecca talks about both the practical considerations and the importance of community when a life partner becomes ill. Learn from one caregiver’s grace and fortitude.

About Our Guest:

Rebecca Throop, mother, wife, marketing professional, and caregiver extraordinaire, is responsible for fundraising, marketing, and communications for one of the 10 state-designated community mental health centers (CMHCs) in New Hampshire. She divides her busy life between work, family, friends, and Maggie — her four-footed, furry dog companion.

Rebecca shares another important story in her TedX talk "Change Your Language - Save a Life" delivered in Portsmouth, New Hampshire on January 3rd, 2020.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/23695430Tue, 10 Mar 2020 08:00:08 +0000TorchlightWhat do you do when your husband comes home with a surprise? He’s got cancer. Host Lenore Tracey opens Season Five of Eldercare Illuminated with a conversation about caring for a spouse with a serious illness. Life is going on with its usual ups and...
Guest Rebecca Throop shares what she learned and how her family got through an unexpected caregiving challenge. Rebecca talks about both the practical considerations and the importance of community when a life partner becomes ill. Learn from one caregiver’s grace and fortitude.

About Our Guest:

Rebecca Throop, mother, wife, marketing professional, and caregiver extraordinaire, is responsible for fundraising, marketing, and communications for one of the 10 state-designated community mental health centers (CMHCs) in New Hampshire. She divides her busy life between work, family, friends, and Maggie — her four-footed, furry dog companion.

Rebecca shares another important story in her TedX talk "Change Your Language - Save a Life" delivered in Portsmouth, New Hampshire on January 3rd, 2020.]]>2167cancer,caregiving,community,illness,partner,spousecleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/social-security-is-not-calling--20628117
Need a concrete way to respond to this type of scam call? Consider the following:

1. HANG UP - no need to say a single word!

2. Try one of the following options; print it in big letters and place it by your and your loved one’s phones:

“We don’t respond to telephone solicitations. Thank you.” HANG UP.

“I will call the Social Security Office to verify this call. Thank you.” HANG UP

Sacrifice politeness to protect your social security number and other private information!

About Our Guest:

Cathy Sikorski has been a caregiver for the last 25 years for seven different family members and friends. A published author and humorist, Sikorski is also a practicing elder law attorney. Her legal expertise and sense of humor have made her a sought-after speaker where she tackles the legal issues that affect those who will one day be or need a caregiver (which is everyone).

Cathy’s first book is a humorous memoir Showering with Nana: Confessions of a Serial (killer) Caregiver. That was followed by Who Moved My Teeth? - a humorous and informative book with practical and legal tips for caregivers and baby boomers. Cathy maintains an active blog “You just have to Laugh…where Caregiving is Comedy…”.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20628117Tue, 10 Dec 2019 15:41:52 +0000TorchlightHave you or your loved one gotten one (or more) phone calls from someone saying they are from Social Security? Join host Lenore Tracey and elder law attorney Cathy Sikorski to learn more about these scam calls and how to handle them. Need a...
Need a concrete way to respond to this type of scam call? Consider the following:

1. HANG UP - no need to say a single word!

2. Try one of the following options; print it in big letters and place it by your and your loved one’s phones:

“We don’t respond to telephone solicitations. Thank you.” HANG UP.

“I will call the Social Security Office to verify this call. Thank you.” HANG UP

Sacrifice politeness to protect your social security number and other private information!

About Our Guest:

Cathy Sikorski has been a caregiver for the last 25 years for seven different family members and friends. A published author and humorist, Sikorski is also a practicing elder law attorney. Her legal expertise and sense of humor have made her a sought-after speaker where she tackles the legal issues that affect those who will one day be or need a caregiver (which is everyone).

Cathy’s first book is a humorous memoir Showering with Nana: Confessions of a Serial (killer) Caregiver. That was followed by Who Moved My Teeth? - a humorous and informative book with practical and legal tips for caregivers and baby boomers. Cathy maintains an active blog “You just have to Laugh…where Caregiving is Comedy…”.]]>1156calls,caregiving,eldercare,elderlaw,fraud,legal,phone,scam,scams,socialsecurity,ssncleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bringing-mom-home--20016443
The decision to bring a family member home to live with you is a big one. It works for some families, and it doesn’t for others. It may work in the beginning, but not at the end of your loved one’s journey; or it may work only at the end.

Lenore shares how her family made the decision and the ten items they considered each time they contemplated moving mom home:

- Amount and type of care needed
- Amount of supervision required (especially with a dementia diagnosis)
- Safety
- Activities and opportunities for the caree’s social engagement
- Physical environment: stairs, bathrooms, noise, privacy, etc.
- Family members’ schedules and availability to help
- Impact of professional caregivers coming and going in your home
- Expectations and needs of relatives and friends for visiting
- Pets
- Respite for yourself and other family members who are helping

About Our Guest/Host:

Lenore Tracey is Torchlight’s Eldercare Practice Leader. She has been writing about and providing eldercare for more years than she cares to count.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20016443Wed, 13 Nov 2019 23:18:01 +0000TorchlightIn this episode of Eldercare Illuminated, host Lenore Tracey talks about her own experience bringing her mother home to live with her toward the end of her Alzheimer’s journey. The decision to bring a family member home to live with you is a big...
The decision to bring a family member home to live with you is a big one. It works for some families, and it doesn’t for others. It may work in the beginning, but not at the end of your loved one’s journey; or it may work only at the end.

Lenore shares how her family made the decision and the ten items they considered each time they contemplated moving mom home:

- Amount and type of care needed
- Amount of supervision required (especially with a dementia diagnosis)
- Safety
- Activities and opportunities for the caree’s social engagement
- Physical environment: stairs, bathrooms, noise, privacy, etc.
- Family members’ schedules and availability to help
- Impact of professional caregivers coming and going in your home
- Expectations and needs of relatives and friends for visiting
- Pets
- Respite for yourself and other family members who are helping

About Our Guest/Host:

Lenore Tracey is Torchlight’s Eldercare Practice Leader. She has been writing about and providing eldercare for more years than she cares to count.]]>1185alzheimer's,caregiving,dementia,eldercare,end-of-life,housing,seniorscleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/won-t-you-be-my-neighbor-a-cross-generational-approach-to-loneliness--19735791
At the other end of the arc of life are older adults. Mobility problems, hearing or vision impairment, the devastating loss of a spouse, or a sense of alienation from the fast-paced, technology-drenched environment leave many seniors challenged by social isolation and loneliness.

Joy and Madeline recognized the problem and envisioned a solution. What started as Visiting Students Services for Hire in the San Francisco Bay area is now Mon Ami – a business that pairs young people with adults who need a companion, technology support, an exercise buddy, or household help.

Join Eldercare Illuminated to explore an exciting cross-generational approach to addressing social isolation and loneliness.

About Our Guests:

Graduates of the Stanford University Graduate School of Business, Joy Zhang and and Madeline Dangerfield-Cha discovered that lonely people don’t need more toys and gadgets — they need other human beings. With very different backgrounds (Joy’s experience as a dementia and hospice volunteer and Madeline’s in education and digital marketing), the two discovered a hole in the fabric of eldercare that did not have a high-tech answer. Mon Ami pairs college students with elders living in nursing homes, assisted living facilities, and in the community. Mon Ami companions, the adults they visit, and the family caregivers all benefit. Voila!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19735791Mon, 28 Oct 2019 19:16:36 +0000TorchlightEntrepreneurs Joy Zhang and Madeline Dangerfield-Cha observed the anxiety and stress caused by social isolation and loneliness on college campuses. Smartphones notwithstanding, many college students find themselves aliens in a new world when they...
At the other end of the arc of life are older adults. Mobility problems, hearing or vision impairment, the devastating loss of a spouse, or a sense of alienation from the fast-paced, technology-drenched environment leave many seniors challenged by social isolation and loneliness.

Joy and Madeline recognized the problem and envisioned a solution. What started as Visiting Students Services for Hire in the San Francisco Bay area is now Mon Ami – a business that pairs young people with adults who need a companion, technology support, an exercise buddy, or household help.

Join Eldercare Illuminated to explore an exciting cross-generational approach to addressing social isolation and loneliness.

About Our Guests:

Graduates of the Stanford University Graduate School of Business, Joy Zhang and and Madeline Dangerfield-Cha discovered that lonely people don’t need more toys and gadgets — they need other human beings. With very different backgrounds (Joy’s experience as a dementia and hospice volunteer and Madeline’s in education and digital marketing), the two discovered a hole in the fabric of eldercare that did not have a high-tech answer. Mon Ami pairs college students with elders living in nursing homes, assisted living facilities, and in the community. Mon Ami companions, the adults they visit, and the family caregivers all benefit. Voila!]]>1803aging,caregiving,eldercare,isolation,loneliness,seniorscleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/elder-law-attorney-or-estate-attorney-who-s-who--19244258
About Our Guest:

Cathy Sikorski has been a caregiver for the last 25 years for seven different family members and friends. A published author and humorist, Sikorski is also a practicing elder law attorney. Her legal expertise and sense of humor have made her a sought-after speaker where she tackles the legal issues that affect those who will one day be or need a caregiver (which is everyone).

Cathy’s first book is a humorous memoir Showering with Nana: Confessions of a Serial (killer) Caregiver. That was followed by Who Moved My Teeth? - a humorous and informative book with practical and legal tips for caregivers and baby boomers.  Cathy maintains an active blog “You just have to Laugh…where Caregiving is Comedy…”.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19244258Thu, 26 Sep 2019 17:54:33 +0000TorchlightJoin this episode of Eldercare Illuminated to learn what an elder law attorney or an estate attorney can do for you — and how to choose the right attorney for your situation. Host Lenore Tracey interviews elder law attorney Cathy Sikorski to get the...
About Our Guest:

Cathy Sikorski has been a caregiver for the last 25 years for seven different family members and friends. A published author and humorist, Sikorski is also a practicing elder law attorney. Her legal expertise and sense of humor have made her a sought-after speaker where she tackles the legal issues that affect those who will one day be or need a caregiver (which is everyone).

Cathy’s first book is a humorous memoir Showering with Nana: Confessions of a Serial (killer) Caregiver. That was followed by Who Moved My Teeth? - a humorous and informative book with practical and legal tips for caregivers and baby boomers.  Cathy maintains an active blog “You just have to Laugh…where Caregiving is Comedy…”.]]>2043attorney,caregiving,eldercare,elderlaw,lawyer,legalcleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/let-there-be-music-the-power-of-music-in-caregiving--19061369musician Mary Sue Wilkinson, who spends her days bringing live music to assisted
living facilities, memory care units, and nursing homes. Mary Sue shares her thoughts
about the role of music in caring for someone with dementia — and the opportunity
to enhance your loved one’s life in myriad ways through live and recorded musical
experiences.

The Rolling Stones’ lead guitarist Keith Richards has said, “Music is a language that
doesn’t speak in particular words. It speaks in emotions, and if it’s in the bones, it’s in
the bones.” For individuals with dementia, music can spark what’s in the bones to rise
to the surface for moments of clarity and happiness.

About Our Guest:

Mary Sue Wilkinson is the founder of Singing Heart to Heart™ and the Young at Heart Music Program. As a career educator and professional musician, she discovered the power of music to awaken memories and bring joy. Today she specializes in using music in dementia care. Her book, “Songs You Know By Heart: A Simple Guide for Using Music in Dementia Care,” her sing along CDs and her E-Book “Finding Memories through Music: A Family
Interview,” as well as other resources are available on her website: https://www.singinghearttoheart.com/home.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19061369Tue, 10 Sep 2019 20:20:48 +0000TorchlightEldercare Illuminated launches its fourth season with an interview of professional musician Mary Sue Wilkinson, who spends her days bringing live music to assisted living facilities, memory care units, and nursing homes. Mary Sue shares her thoughts...musician Mary Sue Wilkinson, who spends her days bringing live music to assisted
living facilities, memory care units, and nursing homes. Mary Sue shares her thoughts
about the role of music in caring for someone with dementia — and the opportunity
to enhance your loved one’s life in myriad ways through live and recorded musical
experiences.

The Rolling Stones’ lead guitarist Keith Richards has said, “Music is a language that
doesn’t speak in particular words. It speaks in emotions, and if it’s in the bones, it’s in
the bones.” For individuals with dementia, music can spark what’s in the bones to rise
to the surface for moments of clarity and happiness.

About Our Guest:

Mary Sue Wilkinson is the founder of Singing Heart to Heart™ and the Young at Heart Music Program. As a career educator and professional musician, she discovered the power of music to awaken memories and bring joy. Today she specializes in using music in dementia care. Her book, “Songs You Know By Heart: A Simple Guide for Using Music in Dementia Care,” her sing along CDs and her E-Book “Finding Memories through Music: A Family
Interview,” as well as other resources are available on her website: https://www.singinghearttoheart.com/home.]]>2203alzheimer's,caregiving,dementia,eldercare,music,therapycleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/get-dollars-and-sense-help-with-a-daily-money-manager--18113755
Host Lenore Tracey meets up with Money Manager Barbara Boustead to learn what these professionals do – and don’t do – and how to find one.

Enjoy the podcast and check out the American Association of Daily Money Managers (https://www.aadmm.com/) to learn more.

About Our Guest:

Barbara Boustead, LCSW is a social worker who shifted her focus from working with youth to helping seniors and older adults, military personnel, Veterans, and people with disabilities and chronic illness, including mental illness.

After learning first-hand how important it was to organize and stay current with medical, legal and financial documents for her aging mother, Barbara founded her company, Mary’s Daughter LLC in 2011. Based in Madison, Wisconsin, Mary’s Daughter helps individuals and families with their daily money management and organizing tasks.

Barbara is an active member of the American Association of Daily Money Managers (https://www.aadmm.com/), leading the organization’s Southern Wisconsin chapter.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18113755Wed, 29 May 2019 18:19:13 +0000TorchlightWhen handling the bills and the paperwork are just too much for your loved one and you are too busy or too far away, consider hiring a Daily Money Manager. Professional money managers are advocates who help people sort out bills, health insurance,...
Host Lenore Tracey meets up with Money Manager Barbara Boustead to learn what these professionals do – and don’t do – and how to find one.

Enjoy the podcast and check out the American Association of Daily Money Managers (https://www.aadmm.com/) to learn more.

About Our Guest:

Barbara Boustead, LCSW is a social worker who shifted her focus from working with youth to helping seniors and older adults, military personnel, Veterans, and people with disabilities and chronic illness, including mental illness.

After learning first-hand how important it was to organize and stay current with medical, legal and financial documents for her aging mother, Barbara founded her company, Mary’s Daughter LLC in 2011. Based in Madison, Wisconsin, Mary’s Daughter helps individuals and families with their daily money management and organizing tasks.

Barbara is an active member of the American Association of Daily Money Managers (https://www.aadmm.com/), leading the organization’s Southern Wisconsin chapter.]]>1979bills,caregiving,dailymoneymanager,eldercare,financial,money,moneymanager,moneymanagment,planning,seniorscleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/meet-your-new-bff-the-aging-life-care-manager--17926001
Engaging a care manager can be as brief as a one-time needs assessment or a long-term relationship to manage the complex needs of someone who is frail, ill, or disabled. Another set of eyes and hands, with expertise and connections can make life easier – and better – for the family caregiver and the person receiving care.

Learn more about care managers or find one in your area at the Aging Life Care Association https://www.aginglifecare.org/.

About Our Guest:

Rebecca Wild-Wesley is a former President of the Aging Life Care Association™ New England (ALCANE™). She has over 40 years of experience as a nurse, holds a Master of Arts in Gerontology, and is a Certified Care Manager.

Rebecca realized her long-held goal of providing consultation services to aging families within a
personalized holistic framework when she formed her company, The Aging Space. She left the medical model of eldercare after years of working in home health care and insurance. The Aging Space offers individuals and families help by considering their specific needs and desires and developing a plan. Care managers like Rebecca assess and monitor; plan and problem-solve; educate and advocate; and coach family caregivers — all in service of an aging or ill loved one.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17926001Tue, 14 May 2019 18:02:51 +0000TorchlightHost Lenore Tracey speaks with Rebecca Wild-Wesley to explore how aging life care managers (a.k.a. geriatric care managers) help families and individuals get the right services and the best services for their loved ones. Engaging a care manager can...
Engaging a care manager can be as brief as a one-time needs assessment or a long-term relationship to manage the complex needs of someone who is frail, ill, or disabled. Another set of eyes and hands, with expertise and connections can make life easier – and better – for the family caregiver and the person receiving care.

Learn more about care managers or find one in your area at the Aging Life Care Association https://www.aginglifecare.org/.

About Our Guest:

Rebecca Wild-Wesley is a former President of the Aging Life Care Association™ New England (ALCANE™). She has over 40 years of experience as a nurse, holds a Master of Arts in Gerontology, and is a Certified Care Manager.

Rebecca realized her long-held goal of providing consultation services to aging families within a
personalized holistic framework when she formed her company, The Aging Space. She left the medical model of eldercare after years of working in home health care and insurance. The Aging Space offers individuals and families help by considering their specific needs and desires and developing a plan. Care managers like Rebecca assess and monitor; plan and problem-solve; educate and advocate; and coach family caregivers — all in service of an aging or ill loved one.]]>2022aging,caregiving,caremanager,eldercare,geriatric,lifecaremanager,seniorcleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/excellence-in-dementia-caregiving-with-teepa-snow--17657452
Teepa also shares ideas about how to create meaningful activities and help individuals find purpose in life despite the limitations imposed by the progression of the disease.

About Our Guest:

Teepa Snow is an occupational therapist by trade. She founded her company, Positive Approach to Care, in 2005. Today, she is known around the world for her strategies and interaction techniques that are used to improve communication, engagement, and quality of life for people living with brain change. Teepa travels throughout North America and abroad to train professional and family caregivers. She has taught at colleges and universities, from technical to post-doctoral levels. She is much sought after as a presenter and mentor. Find out more about Teepa or her company at https://teepasnow.com.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17657452Tue, 16 Apr 2019 15:42:34 +0000TorchlightEnjoy this lively conversation with Teepa Snow and learn new ways to think about and work with a loved one with a dementia diagnosis. With the ability to "put your agenda in your back pocket," you can communicate with humor, flexibility, and respect....
Teepa also shares ideas about how to create meaningful activities and help individuals find purpose in life despite the limitations imposed by the progression of the disease.

About Our Guest:

Teepa Snow is an occupational therapist by trade. She founded her company, Positive Approach to Care, in 2005. Today, she is known around the world for her strategies and interaction techniques that are used to improve communication, engagement, and quality of life for people living with brain change. Teepa travels throughout North America and abroad to train professional and family caregivers. She has taught at colleges and universities, from technical to post-doctoral levels. She is much sought after as a presenter and mentor. Find out more about Teepa or her company at https://teepasnow.com.]]>1965alzheimer's,caregiving,dementia,eldercare,seniorscleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/nursing-home-assisted-living-contracts-checking-the-fine-print--17514244to an Assisted Living Facility or a Nursing Home, you need to understand exactly
what you are agreeing to. In this episode, Attorney Christine Boutin shares valuable insights about what these contracts typically contain, what sections you may wish to negotiate, and areas to beware and be wary. Who signs? Who is responsible? And what contract
requirements can you simply reject?

This is a great opportunity to get a close look at some of the details you may be asked to consider when you review such an agreement with or for your loved one.

About Our Guest:

Christine Boutin, Esq. practices law in the state of Massachusetts. She specializes in elder law,
guardianships, and estate planning. An attorney since 1994, Christine is Of Counsel with the firm Levine-Piro Law, PC. She accepts appointments as a guardian ad litem cases alleging neglect of elders and adults with disabilities. She also serves as a guardian, conservator and trustee in cases involving incapacitated persons.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17514244Tue, 02 Apr 2019 21:11:59 +0000TorchlightContracts may not be your favorite reading material. But if your loved one is moving to an Assisted Living Facility or a Nursing Home, you need to understand exactly what you are agreeing to. In this episode, Attorney Christine Boutin shares...to an Assisted Living Facility or a Nursing Home, you need to understand exactly
what you are agreeing to. In this episode, Attorney Christine Boutin shares valuable insights about what these contracts typically contain, what sections you may wish to negotiate, and areas to beware and be wary. Who signs? Who is responsible? And what contract
requirements can you simply reject?

This is a great opportunity to get a close look at some of the details you may be asked to consider when you review such an agreement with or for your loved one.

About Our Guest:

Christine Boutin, Esq. practices law in the state of Massachusetts. She specializes in elder law,
guardianships, and estate planning. An attorney since 1994, Christine is Of Counsel with the firm Levine-Piro Law, PC. She accepts appointments as a guardian ad litem cases alleging neglect of elders and adults with disabilities. She also serves as a guardian, conservator and trustee in cases involving incapacitated persons.]]>2307assistedliving,attorney,caregiving,contracts,elder,eldercare,law,lawyer,nursinghome,seniorliving,seniorscleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/conversations-with-working-caregivers-checking-in-with-alison--17374758
About Our Guest:

Alison Fox heads Service Operations and Support in her job at Torchlight. It could also be argued that she heads Service Operations and Support as the main caregiver for her family’s aging father. With a great sense of humor and top-notch project management skills, Alison puts her years of experience coordinating client services to excellent use in managing the daily needs of an active nonagenarian.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17374758Tue, 19 Mar 2019 20:38:27 +0000TorchlightJoin this episode of Eldercare Illuminated to hear how this working caregiver and her father are weathering the changes that the last few months have brought. Alison and her siblings were anticipating that driving was about to become a problem for...
About Our Guest:

Alison Fox heads Service Operations and Support in her job at Torchlight. It could also be argued that she heads Service Operations and Support as the main caregiver for her family’s aging father. With a great sense of humor and top-notch project management skills, Alison puts her years of experience coordinating client services to excellent use in managing the daily needs of an active nonagenarian.]]>1902caregiving,driving,eldercare,nonogenarian,seniors,transportationcleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/resolving-nursing-home-problems-advocating-for-your-loved-one--17170437
About Our Guest:

Eric Carlson is the Directing Attorney at Washington D.C.-based Justice in Aging. Formerly the National Senior Citizens Law Center, since 1972 Justice in Aging has worked for almost 50 years to address the health and economic security needs of older adults with limited resources.

Eric has experience in many forms of long-term services and supports (LTSS), including home and community-based services, nursing facility care, and assisted living facilities. He led Justice in Aging’s extensive research (funded through The Commonwealth Fund) on Medicaid-funded assisted living and currently is leading a project to assist consumer advocacy on Medicaid managed LTSS in Florida and New Jersey. Eric also serves as President of the national Assisted Living Consumer Alliance and is author of the legal treatise Long-Term Care Advocacy (Matthew Bender and Co.).

Download Justice in Aging's Guide: 25 Common Nursing Home Problems and How to Resolve Them (link - http://www.justiceinaging.org/guide-25-common-nursing-home-problems-and-how-to-resolve-them/)

And

Stories from the Field (link - http://www.justiceinaging.org.customers.tigertech.net/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/Stories-from-the-Field.pdf) , a guide for nursing home residents and their loved ones to recognize and address issues that LGBTQ+ individuals may encounter.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17170437Tue, 26 Feb 2019 15:54:00 +0000TorchlightIn this episode of Eldercare Illuminated, host Lenore Tracey speaks with attorney Eric Carlson about the problems that nursing home residents and their caregivers may face — and what to do about them. Nursing homes throughout the country are bound by...
About Our Guest:

Eric Carlson is the Directing Attorney at Washington D.C.-based Justice in Aging. Formerly the National Senior Citizens Law Center, since 1972 Justice in Aging has worked for almost 50 years to address the health and economic security needs of older adults with limited resources.

Eric has experience in many forms of long-term services and supports (LTSS), including home and community-based services, nursing facility care, and assisted living facilities. He led Justice in Aging’s extensive research (funded through The Commonwealth Fund) on Medicaid-funded assisted living and currently is leading a project to assist consumer advocacy on Medicaid managed LTSS in Florida and New Jersey. Eric also serves as President of the national Assisted Living Consumer Alliance and is author of the legal treatise Long-Term Care Advocacy (Matthew Bender and Co.).

Download Justice in Aging's Guide: 25 Common Nursing Home Problems and How to Resolve Them (link - http://www.justiceinaging.org/guide-25-common-nursing-home-problems-and-how-to-resolve-them/)

And

Stories from the Field (link - http://www.justiceinaging.org.customers.tigertech.net/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/Stories-from-the-Field.pdf) , a guide for nursing home residents and their loved ones to recognize and address issues that LGBTQ+ individuals may encounter.]]>2053alzheimers,care,caregiving,eldercare,home,long-term,nursing,seniorscleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/hidden-helpers-how-hospice-helps-patients-and-families--17086022
This rich conversation about how hospice works, when it makes sense to involve a hospice team, and what to expect is eye-opening. A better understanding of hospice makes it easier for families to reach out when a loved one is nearing end of life.

About Our Guest:

Beth Rubio, MSW, LICSW is a medical social worker who has worked with seniors and their families for over 30 years. As a hospice social worker, she has extensive knowledge about end-of-life care and the many aspects of both the patient’s and the family’s lives that are enhanced by special attention to social, emotional, spiritual, and medical care. In her day-to-day work, Beth focuses on increasing a sense of wellness, reducing stress, and honoring each individual’s unique life journey.

Beth has an undergraduate degree in psychology from Saint Michael's College and a Masters in Social Work from the Boston College Graduate School of Social Work.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17086022Wed, 20 Feb 2019 03:35:56 +0000TorchlightJoin this episode of Eldercare Illuminated to learn more about hospice — what is on offer for patients and their families. Not just for cancer patients, hospice services can make the end-of-life experience less scary and more comfortable for everyone...
This rich conversation about how hospice works, when it makes sense to involve a hospice team, and what to expect is eye-opening. A better understanding of hospice makes it easier for families to reach out when a loved one is nearing end of life.

About Our Guest:

Beth Rubio, MSW, LICSW is a medical social worker who has worked with seniors and their families for over 30 years. As a hospice social worker, she has extensive knowledge about end-of-life care and the many aspects of both the patient’s and the family’s lives that are enhanced by special attention to social, emotional, spiritual, and medical care. In her day-to-day work, Beth focuses on increasing a sense of wellness, reducing stress, and honoring each individual’s unique life journey.

Beth has an undergraduate degree in psychology from Saint Michael's College and a Masters in Social Work from the Boston College Graduate School of Social Work.]]>2220caregiving,eldercare,end-of-life,hospice,seniorscleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/aging-in-place-dr-sarah-szanton-and-the-capable-project--16950798
In this episode, we speak with Dr. Sarah Szanton, one of the founders of the CAPABLE Project (https://nursing.jhu.edu/CAPABLE), which takes the problem of aging in place a step further – addressing both the physical space and the functional limitations of the resident. When you pay attention to both the house and the body, the results can be amazing.

Resources mentioned in this podcast include:

-The CAPABLE Project: https://nursing.jhu.edu/CAPABLE
-Man’s Search for Meaning, by Viktor Frankl (originally published in 1946)

About Our Guest:

Sarah L. Szanton, PhD, ANP, FAAN is the Endowed Professor for Health Equity and Social Justice and Director of the Center for Innovative Care in Aging at the Johns Hopkins University School of Nursing.

While making house calls to homebound, low-income elderly patients in West Baltimore, Dr. Szanton noticed that her patients’ environmental challenges were often as pressing as their health challenges. As a result of her observations, she and colleagues at Johns Hopkins University developed a program of research on the role that the environment and functional limitations play in the ability of older adults to “age in place” or stay out of a nursing home. The result is the CAPABLE Project - Community Aging in Place—Advancing Better Living for Elders, which combines handyman services with nursing and occupational therapy to improve mobility, reduce disability, and decrease healthcare costs.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16950798Tue, 05 Feb 2019 14:11:37 +0000TorchlightIn Season 2, we talked about Aging in Place with the founder of HomesRenewed, which focused on ways to make the built environment work for people who wish to remain in their own homes or apartments and avoid moving into a facility if at all possible....
In this episode, we speak with Dr. Sarah Szanton, one of the founders of the CAPABLE Project (https://nursing.jhu.edu/CAPABLE), which takes the problem of aging in place a step further – addressing both the physical space and the functional limitations of the resident. When you pay attention to both the house and the body, the results can be amazing.

Resources mentioned in this podcast include:

-The CAPABLE Project: https://nursing.jhu.edu/CAPABLE
-Man’s Search for Meaning, by Viktor Frankl (originally published in 1946)

About Our Guest:

Sarah L. Szanton, PhD, ANP, FAAN is the Endowed Professor for Health Equity and Social Justice and Director of the Center for Innovative Care in Aging at the Johns Hopkins University School of Nursing.

While making house calls to homebound, low-income elderly patients in West Baltimore, Dr. Szanton noticed that her patients’ environmental challenges were often as pressing as their health challenges. As a result of her observations, she and colleagues at Johns Hopkins University developed a program of research on the role that the environment and functional limitations play in the ability of older adults to “age in place” or stay out of a nursing home. The result is the CAPABLE Project - Community Aging in Place—Advancing Better Living for Elders, which combines handyman services with nursing and occupational therapy to improve mobility, reduce disability, and decrease healthcare costs.]]>2007aging,caregiving,eldercare,housing,seniorscleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/welcome-to-season-3-of-eldercare-illuminated--17185703https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17185703Mon, 04 Feb 2019 19:55:00 +0000TorchlightWelcome to Season 3 of Eldercare Illuminated, brought to you by Torchlight. Tune in for helpful tips, practical advice, and strategies for caregivers at all stages of helping an aging loved one. Listen to find out what's ahead in the coming months.113caregiving,eldercare,seniorscleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/understanding-long-term-care-insurance--16504326
Eldercare Illuminated host Lenore Tracey spends time in this episode talking to Eileen Tell, to explore what’s available, how it works, and whether to consider long-term care insurance for you or your loved one.

About Our Guest:

Eileen J. Tell, MPH is Principal and CEO of ET Consulting, LLC, a woman-owned business focused on long-term care and aging services. Eileen has more than 30 years of experience and industry thought leadership in long-term care. Areas of expertise include policy analysis, market research, product development, and program management and evaluation. Her clients include the State of Washington Department of Social and Health Services, US Department of Health and Human Services, National Council on Aging (NCOA) and others. She is a graduate of Tufts University and has a Masters of Public Health degree from University of Michigan.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16504326Tue, 18 Dec 2018 05:00:21 +0000TorchlightLong-Term Care Insurance is the only insurance specifically designed to pay for long-term care - the type of care that many of us can expect to need if we reach old age. Yet not many people know about or understand this type of insurance. Eldercare...
Eldercare Illuminated host Lenore Tracey spends time in this episode talking to Eileen Tell, to explore what’s available, how it works, and whether to consider long-term care insurance for you or your loved one.

About Our Guest:

Eileen J. Tell, MPH is Principal and CEO of ET Consulting, LLC, a woman-owned business focused on long-term care and aging services. Eileen has more than 30 years of experience and industry thought leadership in long-term care. Areas of expertise include policy analysis, market research, product development, and program management and evaluation. Her clients include the State of Washington Department of Social and Health Services, US Department of Health and Human Services, National Council on Aging (NCOA) and others. She is a graduate of Tufts University and has a Masters of Public Health degree from University of Michigan.]]>2110caregiving,eldercare,financialplanning,insurance,longtermcarecleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/hidden-helpers-speech-therapy-eldercare--16432689
About Our Guest:

Julia Haffer is a Clinical Speech and Language Pathologist, trained at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. She works primarily with adult patients in hospitals and rehabilitation facilities on a wide variety of speech, language, and swallowing issues. Originally considering a speech pathology career with children, Julia found that working with adults was a challenging and rewarding opportunity, to which she quickly became committed.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16432689Mon, 10 Dec 2018 17:50:26 +0000TorchlightMeet a speech therapist whose work with adults keeps the conversation going! In this episode, Eldercare Illuminated host, Lenore Tracey, meets with a speech and language pathologist. These professionals work with individuals whose medical issues have...
About Our Guest:

Julia Haffer is a Clinical Speech and Language Pathologist, trained at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. She works primarily with adult patients in hospitals and rehabilitation facilities on a wide variety of speech, language, and swallowing issues. Originally considering a speech pathology career with children, Julia found that working with adults was a challenging and rewarding opportunity, to which she quickly became committed.]]>1952alzheimer's,caregiving,eldercare,language,speech,stroke,therapycleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/conversations-with-working-caregivers--16207986
About Our Guest

Alison Fox heads Service Operations and Support in her job at Torchlight. It could also be argued that she heads Service Operations and Support as the main caregiver for her family’s aging father. With a great sense of humor and top-notch project management skills, Alison puts her years of experience coordinating client services to excellent use in managing the daily needs of an active nonagenarian.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16207986Tue, 13 Nov 2018 16:13:20 +0000TorchlightJoin this episode of Eldercare Illuminated to hear how one working caregiver helped her father move from his home of 50+ years into a facility. Torchlight’s Eldercare Practice Leader spends time with a friend and colleague who is juggling parenting,...
About Our Guest

Alison Fox heads Service Operations and Support in her job at Torchlight. It could also be argued that she heads Service Operations and Support as the main caregiver for her family’s aging father. With a great sense of humor and top-notch project management skills, Alison puts her years of experience coordinating client services to excellent use in managing the daily needs of an active nonagenarian.]]>1929assistedliving,caregiving,eldercare,nonegenarian,seniorhousing,seniorscleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/aging-in-place-a-conversation-with-louis-tenenbaum--16091414
As one of the nation’s leaders in shaping a vision to make aging in place possible, Louis shares new ideas and initiatives aimed at making home modifications more affordable and easier to accomplish.

This episode explores emerging and proposed solutions as well as some low-cost ways to start to improve a home for its older residents.

About Our Guest:

Louis Tenenbaum was one of the first contractors to focus his remodeling business on aging in place. More than 80% of adults say they want to stay in their own homes as they grow old, but their homes are not prepared for their new needs. He wondered why so few people were making home modifications, since it’s such a good idea. That led to the creation of Louis’s visionary white paper, Aging in Place 2.0: Rethinking Solutions to the Home Care Challenge, published by the MetLife Mature Market Institute.

A leading authority on Aging in Place, Louis’s work straddles the building, aging, and policy worlds. In 2016 Louis was named a Next Avenue “Influencer in Aging” and won a HIVE (Housing, Innovation, Vision and Economics) award from the building industry.

He founded HomesRenewed™ recognizing that spreading the word, and working with stakeholders to create subsidies and incentives would be critical to market development.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16091414Tue, 30 Oct 2018 13:57:12 +0000TorchlightIn this episode, Torchlight’s Eldercare Practice Leader, Lenore Tracey, discusses aging in place with Louis Tenenbaum. A 2014 report from the Joint Center for Housing Studies of Harvard University, Housing America’s Older Adults - Meeting the Needs of...
As one of the nation’s leaders in shaping a vision to make aging in place possible, Louis shares new ideas and initiatives aimed at making home modifications more affordable and easier to accomplish.

This episode explores emerging and proposed solutions as well as some low-cost ways to start to improve a home for its older residents.

About Our Guest:

Louis Tenenbaum was one of the first contractors to focus his remodeling business on aging in place. More than 80% of adults say they want to stay in their own homes as they grow old, but their homes are not prepared for their new needs. He wondered why so few people were making home modifications, since it’s such a good idea. That led to the creation of Louis’s visionary white paper, Aging in Place 2.0: Rethinking Solutions to the Home Care Challenge, published by the MetLife Mature Market Institute.

A leading authority on Aging in Place, Louis’s work straddles the building, aging, and policy worlds. In 2016 Louis was named a Next Avenue “Influencer in Aging” and won a HIVE (Housing, Innovation, Vision and Economics) award from the building industry.

He founded HomesRenewed™ recognizing that spreading the word, and working with stakeholders to create subsidies and incentives would be critical to market development.]]>1837accessibility,aging,caregiving,eldercare,homemodifications,homesafety,housing,renovations,seniorscleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/medicare-misconceptions-how-to-advocate-for-skilled-care--15969466
For years, Medicare recipients have been denied coverage for services, such as skilled nursing, physical therapy, and occupational therapy, based on the notion that they have plateaued or there is a lack of restoration potential. For example, patients were told (and are still being told) that Medicare would no longer pay for physical therapy because there was no potential for improvement in their condition. Perpetuated for years, this notion has resulted in patients not getting needed services to which they are entitled and from which they can benefit.

Cathy shares the facts and the strategies you need to dispel this myth and advocate effectively for your loved one. Listen and learn.

Then check out additional information from the Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services (and print materials to bring with you) so you have all the information in hand if you need to get your loved one’s providers up to speed.

1. Updated Publication from CMS (Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services), because federal court found that 'virtually no effort' was made to promote the Jimmo vs. Sebelius settlement.
https://www.cms.gov/Center/Special-Topic/Jimmo-Center.html

2. Frequently Asked Questions associated with the above publication:
https://www.cms.gov/Center/Special-Topic/Jimmo-Settlement/FAQs.html

Caregivers, you make such a difference in your loved one’s lives!

About Our Guest:

Cathy Sikorski has been a caregiver for the last 25 years for seven different family members and friends. A published author and humorist, Sikorski is also a practicing elder law attorney. Her legal expertise and sense of humor have made her a sought-after speaker where she tackles the legal issues that affect those who will one day be or need a caregiver (which is everyone).

Cathy’s first book is a humorous memoir Showering with Nana: Confessions of a Serial (killer) Caregiver. That was followed by Who Moved My Teeth? - a humorous and informative book with practical and legal tips for caregivers and baby boomers. Cathy maintains an active blog “You just have to Laugh…where Caregiving is Comedy…”.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15969466Tue, 16 Oct 2018 07:05:21 +0000TorchlightIn this episode of Eldercare Illuminated, host Lenore Tracey and elder law attorney Cathy Sikorski shed light on an enduring misunderstanding about Medicare coverage for skilled services. For years, Medicare recipients have been denied coverage for...
For years, Medicare recipients have been denied coverage for services, such as skilled nursing, physical therapy, and occupational therapy, based on the notion that they have plateaued or there is a lack of restoration potential. For example, patients were told (and are still being told) that Medicare would no longer pay for physical therapy because there was no potential for improvement in their condition. Perpetuated for years, this notion has resulted in patients not getting needed services to which they are entitled and from which they can benefit.

Cathy shares the facts and the strategies you need to dispel this myth and advocate effectively for your loved one. Listen and learn.

Then check out additional information from the Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services (and print materials to bring with you) so you have all the information in hand if you need to get your loved one’s providers up to speed.

1. Updated Publication from CMS (Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services), because federal court found that 'virtually no effort' was made to promote the Jimmo vs. Sebelius settlement.
https://www.cms.gov/Center/Special-Topic/Jimmo-Center.html

2. Frequently Asked Questions associated with the above publication:
https://www.cms.gov/Center/Special-Topic/Jimmo-Settlement/FAQs.html

Caregivers, you make such a difference in your loved one’s lives!

About Our Guest:

Cathy Sikorski has been a caregiver for the last 25 years for seven different family members and friends. A published author and humorist, Sikorski is also a practicing elder law attorney. Her legal expertise and sense of humor have made her a sought-after speaker where she tackles the legal issues that affect those who will one day be or need a caregiver (which is everyone).

Cathy’s first book is a humorous memoir Showering with Nana: Confessions of a Serial (killer) Caregiver. That was followed by Who Moved My Teeth? - a humorous and informative book with practical and legal tips for caregivers and baby boomers. Cathy maintains an active blog “You just have to Laugh…where Caregiving is Comedy…”.]]>1377caregiver,caregiving,eldercare,jimmosettlement,medicaid,medicarecleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-art-of-slow-caregiving--15855665
Tune in to this episode of Eldercare Illuminated to learn about the small, easy-to-implement changes that can transform your caregiving relationship with your loved one. Then, share them with the other caregivers in his or her life.

Fast food or a lovingly prepared home-cooked meal? You decide.

About Our Guest:

Deb Hallisey has over 25 years’ experience as a consultant building and enhancing corporate training programs with Ernst & Young and Huron Consulting group along with smaller boutique firms. In 2015 she became responsible for her mother after her father’s death.
Today, she offers caregivers advice and support on her website Advocate for Mom and Dad. The mission of Advocate for Mom and Dad is to build a community that helps families determine their best answers to the questions of “what do I do?” and “where do I start?”]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15855665Tue, 02 Oct 2018 07:00:06 +0000TorchlightWhen Deb Hallisey became her mother’s primary caregiver, her pace as a busy working daughter changed her relationship with her mom — and not for the better. Since then, Deb has slowed down and become a different type of caregiver. The benefit of doing...
Tune in to this episode of Eldercare Illuminated to learn about the small, easy-to-implement changes that can transform your caregiving relationship with your loved one. Then, share them with the other caregivers in his or her life.

Fast food or a lovingly prepared home-cooked meal? You decide.

About Our Guest:

Deb Hallisey has over 25 years’ experience as a consultant building and enhancing corporate training programs with Ernst & Young and Huron Consulting group along with smaller boutique firms. In 2015 she became responsible for her mother after her father’s death.
Today, she offers caregivers advice and support on her website Advocate for Mom and Dad. The mission of Advocate for Mom and Dad is to build a community that helps families determine their best answers to the questions of “what do I do?” and “where do I start?”]]>1877caregiver,caregiving,slowcaregivingcleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-advocate-for-your-loved-one--15751376
Cathy has been advocating for her clients as well as her own family and friends for many years. Today she is sharing expert strategies and tips to help you get what you need for your loved one. Whether it’s dealing with Medicare, other health insurance, your loved one’s assisted living or nursing home, or other providers of care and services, knowing how to get stuff done on your loved one’s behalf is an invaluable skill.

Listen and learn from a pro: who to call, how to get involved, when to push, and when to back off.

About Our Guest:

Cathy Sikorski has been a caregiver for the last 25 years for seven different family members and friends. A published author and humorist, Sikorski is also a practicing elder law attorney. Her legal expertise and sense of humor have made her a sought-after speaker where she tackles the legal issues that affect those who will one day be or need a caregiver (which is everyone).

Cathy’s first book is a humorous memoir "Showering with Nana: Confessions of a Serial (killer) Caregiver." That was followed by "Who Moved My Teeth?" - a humorous and informative book with practical and legal tips for caregivers and baby boomers. Cathy maintains an active blog “You just have to Laugh…where Caregiving is Comedy…”.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15751376Wed, 19 Sep 2018 03:06:55 +0000TorchlightIn this episode of Eldercare Illuminated, host Lenore Tracey speaks with elder law attorney and humorist Cathy Sikorski. Cathy has been advocating for her clients as well as her own family and friends for many years. Today she is sharing expert...
Cathy has been advocating for her clients as well as her own family and friends for many years. Today she is sharing expert strategies and tips to help you get what you need for your loved one. Whether it’s dealing with Medicare, other health insurance, your loved one’s assisted living or nursing home, or other providers of care and services, knowing how to get stuff done on your loved one’s behalf is an invaluable skill.

Listen and learn from a pro: who to call, how to get involved, when to push, and when to back off.

About Our Guest:

Cathy Sikorski has been a caregiver for the last 25 years for seven different family members and friends. A published author and humorist, Sikorski is also a practicing elder law attorney. Her legal expertise and sense of humor have made her a sought-after speaker where she tackles the legal issues that affect those who will one day be or need a caregiver (which is everyone).

Cathy’s first book is a humorous memoir "Showering with Nana: Confessions of a Serial (killer) Caregiver." That was followed by "Who Moved My Teeth?" - a humorous and informative book with practical and legal tips for caregivers and baby boomers. Cathy maintains an active blog “You just have to Laugh…where Caregiving is Comedy…”.]]>2795advocacy,advocate,assistedliving,caregiving,eldercare,elderlaw,fraud,medicare,nursinghome,seniorscleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/welcome-to-season-2-of-eldercare-illuminated--15751328https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15751328Wed, 19 Sep 2018 02:58:10 +0000TorchlightWelcome to Season 2 of Eldercare Illuminated, brought to you by Torchlight. Tune in for helpful tips, practical advice, and strategies for caregivers at all stages of helping an aging loved one. Listen to find out what's ahead in the coming months.144caregiving,eldercare,torchlightcleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/when-your-loved-one-s-aide-is-a-no-show--14969278
It happens to everyone at some point. The caregiver doesn’t show up, and the day’s schedule is out the window. It doesn’t matter if the reason for the snafu is totally understandable - appendicitis, the trains aren’t running, bubonic plague. It still wrecks your day.

With a little preparation, a plan, and a sense of humor, you and your loved one will manage!

About Our Guest (and Host):

Lenore Tracey is Torchlight’s Eldercare Practice Leader. She has been writing about and providing eldercare for more years than she cares to count.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14969278Tue, 05 Jun 2018 04:15:04 +0000TorchlightIn this episode of Eldercare Illuminated, host Lenore Tracey talks about what to do when your regularly scheduled aide doesn’t make it in for his or her shift. It happens to everyone at some point. The caregiver doesn’t show up, and the day’s...
It happens to everyone at some point. The caregiver doesn’t show up, and the day’s schedule is out the window. It doesn’t matter if the reason for the snafu is totally understandable - appendicitis, the trains aren’t running, bubonic plague. It still wrecks your day.

With a little preparation, a plan, and a sense of humor, you and your loved one will manage!

About Our Guest (and Host):

Lenore Tracey is Torchlight’s Eldercare Practice Leader. She has been writing about and providing eldercare for more years than she cares to count.]]>770caregiving,eldercare,homecarecleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dementia-strategies-for-successful-communication--14792321
About Our Guest:

Betsy Ross MA, LICSW, NHA, is a social worker and geriatric care manager practicing in the Boston area. Throughout her career, Betsy has provided her expertise to seniors and organizations whose mission is to serve them. She has worked as a social worker, nursing home administrator, executive director of a hospice, home care agency, and assisted living and adult day program. Today, Betsy focuses on working with elders and their families through her company, Boundless Options. Betsy is also adjunct faculty at the Simmons College School of Social Work.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14792321Tue, 15 May 2018 06:00:07 +0000TorchlightIn this episode of Eldercare Illuminated, host Lenore Tracey speaks with social worker and geriatric care manager, Betsy Ross, about how best to communicate with a loved one who has dementia. Betsy shares her years of experience working with...
About Our Guest:

Betsy Ross MA, LICSW, NHA, is a social worker and geriatric care manager practicing in the Boston area. Throughout her career, Betsy has provided her expertise to seniors and organizations whose mission is to serve them. She has worked as a social worker, nursing home administrator, executive director of a hospice, home care agency, and assisted living and adult day program. Today, Betsy focuses on working with elders and their families through her company, Boundless Options. Betsy is also adjunct faculty at the Simmons College School of Social Work.]]>1780alzheimer's,caregiving,dementia,eldercare,memorycleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/welcome-to-the-death-cafe--14670244
About Our Guests:

Heather Massey is the cofounder of the Cape Cod Death Café, a representative of the Funeral
Consumers Alliance of Eastern Massachusetts, a death educator, and a Home Funeral Guide with In Loving Hands: Family Directed and Home Based Funerals.

Julie Lipkin is a journalist and editor with the Cape Cod Times. She also works as a freelance writer and editor and is one of the regular facilitators at the Cape Cod Death Café.

Go to www.deathcafe.com to find a DeathCafé in your area, and start the conversation.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14670244Tue, 01 May 2018 06:00:06 +0000TorchlightWhat’s a Death Café? It’s part of a growing movement designed to help us squeamish Americans stop being so fearful of talking about death. Does your family discuss issues around death and dying? Have you and your loved ones expressed your wishes...
About Our Guests:

Heather Massey is the cofounder of the Cape Cod Death Café, a representative of the Funeral
Consumers Alliance of Eastern Massachusetts, a death educator, and a Home Funeral Guide with In Loving Hands: Family Directed and Home Based Funerals.

Julie Lipkin is a journalist and editor with the Cape Cod Times. She also works as a freelance writer and editor and is one of the regular facilitators at the Cape Cod Death Café.

Go to www.deathcafe.com to find a DeathCafé in your area, and start the conversation.]]>2042caregiving,death,dyingcleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/planning-for-care-advice-from-an-elder-law-attorney--14555397
About Our Guest:

Harry S. Margolis has been representing seniors, individuals with special needs and their families since he started ElderLawServices, the predecessor of Margolis & Bloom, in June 1987. His firm has helped thousands of clients pay for long-term care, grapple with the incapacity of a family member, and plan for safe and productive futures for their children and grandchildren. Harry is a Fellow of the National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys and the American College of Trust & Estate Counsel. He has been named a “Super Lawyer” since 2005 and has been recognized as one of the top 100 attorneys in New England.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14555397Tue, 17 Apr 2018 05:30:06 +0000TorchlightIn this episode of Eldercare Illuminated, Torchlight’s VP of Product, Attorney Carolyn Romano chats with Elder Law Attorney, Harry Margolis, about how planning for short- or long-term care needs can protect family assets. In addition to learning what...
About Our Guest:

Harry S. Margolis has been representing seniors, individuals with special needs and their families since he started ElderLawServices, the predecessor of Margolis & Bloom, in June 1987. His firm has helped thousands of clients pay for long-term care, grapple with the incapacity of a family member, and plan for safe and productive futures for their children and grandchildren. Harry is a Fellow of the National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys and the American College of Trust & Estate Counsel. He has been named a “Super Lawyer” since 2005 and has been recognized as one of the top 100 attorneys in New England.]]>1901attorney,caregiving,eldercare,financial,law,medicaid,medicare,planningcleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/making-exercise-happen-tips-from-a-physical-trainer--14451831https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14451831Wed, 04 Apr 2018 05:30:05 +0000TorchlightFor family caregivers, the first items to fall off the to-do list are often the activities we do to take care of ourselves. Yet personal trainer June Melia has had many clients come to her afraid they will develop the same chronic conditions, aches,...1787caregiving,exercise,fitness,healthcleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/working-with-siblings-to-coordinate-care--14331764
In this episode you will hear how Elizabeth transitioned from primary caregiver to supporting a sibling who took on that role, how to share responsibilities among family members near and far, and how participating in eldercare can benefit the youngsters in the family.

About Our Guest:

Elizabeth Miller is a busy professional with a full-time job, growing children, and an elderly parent she cares for along with her siblings. She became a certified caregiving consultant based on her own experience, when she found herself feeling “stressed, overwhelmed and …suffocated by never-ending to-do lists.” Elizabeth’s goal is to help people incorporate caregiving into their lives more successfully and more gracefully. She supports her clients with a wealth of information and ideas, and a can-do attitude.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14331764Tue, 20 Mar 2018 05:00:05 +0000TorchlightEldercare is a family affair. In this episode of Eldercare Illuminated, we speak with Elizabeth Miller, host of happyhealthycaregiver.com. Elizabeth is an experienced caregiver, who became a certified caregiving consultant to support others. Whether...
In this episode you will hear how Elizabeth transitioned from primary caregiver to supporting a sibling who took on that role, how to share responsibilities among family members near and far, and how participating in eldercare can benefit the youngsters in the family.

About Our Guest:

Elizabeth Miller is a busy professional with a full-time job, growing children, and an elderly parent she cares for along with her siblings. She became a certified caregiving consultant based on her own experience, when she found herself feeling “stressed, overwhelmed and …suffocated by never-ending to-do lists.” Elizabeth’s goal is to help people incorporate caregiving into their lives more successfully and more gracefully. She supports her clients with a wealth of information and ideas, and a can-do attitude.]]>1877caregiving,eldercare,siblingscleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/conversations-with-a-home-health-aide--14206064https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14206064Tue, 06 Mar 2018 06:00:06 +0000TorchlightFamily caregivers often work with side by side with paid caregivers who help their loved ones with personal care, mealtimes, and companionship. How can we make it easy for an aide to help? How do we get in the way? Sometimes this is an uneasy...1242aid,alzheimer's,caregiver,caregiving,dementia,eldercare,health,homecleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/caregiver-strategies-when-eating-is-a-challenge--14097418https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14097418Tue, 20 Feb 2018 15:02:59 +0000TorchlightDo you take care of someone who can’t eat or won’t eat? Eating is one of life’s pleasures, but sometimes illness gets in the way. For caregivers, this can be a major frustration. In this episode of Eldercare Illuminated, Torchlight Eldercare Practice...1544caregiving,cooking,eldercare,food,nutrition,recipescleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/where-should-my-loved-one-live--13986299https://api.spreaker.com/episode/13986299Tue, 06 Feb 2018 20:13:54 +0000TorchlightIn this episode of Eldercare Illuminated, experienced caregiver and Torchlight Eldercare Practice Leader, Lenore Tracey, discusses the different housing options available for older adults – including some you’ve probably never heard of before! Listen...2158caregiving,eldercare,housingcleanfull