https://www.spreaker.com/show/loving-bdsm_1enSociety & CultureCopyright Kayla Lordshttps://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f32483704a9398402b8abb240406ba60.jpghttps://www.spreaker.com/show/loving-bdsm_1Fri, 23 Mar 2018 22:51:34 +0000Kayla LordsKayla Lordsfeeds@spreaker.comSharing a love of BDSM in a loving relationshipyesepisodicKayla Lordsfeeds@spreaker.comSharing a love of BDSM in a loving relationshipYeshttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10281743/complacency-in-d-s-relationships-lb122-l_1https://lovingbdsm.kaylalords.com/?p=7067Fri, 09 Mar 2018 05:15:06 +0000Kayla LordsIn episode 122, we let a rant from John Brownstone and a question from a listener inspire us. People get complacent when they get comfortable or when life gets in the way. It happens in D/s and vanilla relationships. The important thing isn't that...3654yesfullKayla LordsIn episode 122, we let a rant from John Brownstone and a question from a listener inspire us. People get complacent when they get comfortable or when life gets in the way. It happens in D/s and vanilla relationships. The important thing isn't that it'll happen. It's what you'll do about it. In this episode: * Reminder: We're on hiatus until March 30 (just two weeks). * For Kinky Fuckery members, the March submissive meeting is Saturday, March 10 at 8pm EST. * John Brownstone is leading this month's Kinky Book Club discussion in the forum. * Finally, a show idea from a John Brownstone rant! * The listener question got us thinking about complacency – something that can and does happen in any relationship. * The only real fix is communication. You've got to talk about it. Links from the show: They Were Both Subs by Julie Knispel Write for Loving BDSM Join the Loving BDSM Community Support the show Postcard Project Kayla Lords on Fetlife John Brownstone on Fetlife Contact us! Listen to the show: iTunes Google Play Your favorite podcast app!Yeshttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10281743/humiliation-as-a-kink-lb121-loving-bdsmIn this episode:

* We've got new Loving BDSM merchandise available for purchase!
* Our first contributor-written piece goes live on Monday, March 5!
* We're serious about wanting to hire a virtual assistant, and we've talked to a couple of people. If you're interested, let us know.
* A reminder that we'll be on hiatus for two weeks in March (March 16 and March 23)
* Humiliation play isn't for everyone. We love it.
* It exists on a wide spectrum.
* Humiliation is a form of edge play and shouldn't be done lightly.
* Our favorite forms are face-slapping and name-calling.
* We must be in the right mental space to play.
* Be careful when playing with humiliation due to known and unknown triggers.
* Consent and communication are absolutely critical.

Links from the show:
Loving BDSM Keychains
What is Humiliation Play?
Write for Loving BDSM
Join the Loving BDSM Community
Support the show
Postcard Project
Kayla Lords on Fetlife
John Brownstone on Fetlife
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Your favorite podcast app!]]>https://lovingbdsm.kaylalords.com/?p=6971Fri, 02 Mar 2018 05:15:35 +0000Kayla LordsHumiliation as a kink isn't something everybody wants or likes. Even people who aren't into it, though, sometimes wish they understood it. In loving D/s relationships, how you someone let themselves be treated so harshly? "Because it gets us off" is...In this episode:

* We've got new Loving BDSM merchandise available for purchase!
* Our first contributor-written piece goes live on Monday, March 5!
* We're serious about wanting to hire a virtual assistant, and we've talked to a couple of people. If you're interested, let us know.
* A reminder that we'll be on hiatus for two weeks in March (March 16 and March 23)
* Humiliation play isn't for everyone. We love it.
* It exists on a wide spectrum.
* Humiliation is a form of edge play and shouldn't be done lightly.
* Our favorite forms are face-slapping and name-calling.
* We must be in the right mental space to play.
* Be careful when playing with humiliation due to known and unknown triggers.
* Consent and communication are absolutely critical.

Links from the show:
Loving BDSM Keychains
What is Humiliation Play?
Write for Loving BDSM
Join the Loving BDSM Community
Support the show
Postcard Project
Kayla Lords on Fetlife
John Brownstone on Fetlife
Contact us!
Listen to the show:
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Your favorite podcast app!]]>4396yesfullKayla LordsHumiliation as a kink isn't something everybody wants or likes. Even people who aren't into it, though, sometimes wish they understood it. In loving D/s relationships, how you someone let themselves be treated so harshly? "Because it gets us off" is (usually) the answer. We enjoy humiliation play and consider it one of our kinks, and we're happy to share our enjoyment of it with you in this episode. In this episode: * We've got new Loving BDSM merchandise available for purchase! * Our first contributor-written piece goes live on Monday, March 5! * We're serious about wanting to hire a virtual assistant, and we've talked to a couple of people. If you're interested, let us know. * A reminder that we'll be on hiatus for two weeks in March (March 16 and March 23) * Humiliation play isn't for everyone. We love it. * It exists on a wide spectrum. * Humiliation is a form of edge play and shouldn't be done lightly. * Our favorite forms are face-slapping and name-calling. * We must be in the right mental space to play. * Be careful when playing with humiliation due to known and unknown triggers. * Consent and communication are absolutely critical. Links from the show: Loving BDSM Keychains What is Humiliation Play? Write for Loving BDSM Join the Loving BDSM Community Support the show Postcard Project Kayla Lords on Fetlife John Brownstone on Fetlife Contact us! Listen to the show: iTunes Google Play Your favorite podcast app!Yeshttps://www.spreaker.com/user/10281743/making-each-other-better-in-your-d-s-relIn this episode:

* We're (accidentally) building a podcasting network: Loving BDSM, The Smutlancer Podcast, and coming in March, the Masturbation Monday podcast.
* The show will be on a hiatus while we travel to London (March 16 and March 23).
* We're looking for a kink-friendly professional virtual assistant.
This week’s topic comes to you from Twitter and people we really admire. Lots of tweets this week from Doms talking about doing things they want and like, but also that their subs want and like, and things that help submissives be the person they want to be.
The point of any good relationship, D/s or otherwise, is to help each other be the best you can be.
While the focus is on building up submissives, Doms shouldn’t be forgotten.

Links from the show:
The Smutlancer
Masturbation Monday
How to Build Each Other Up in a D/s Relationship
Write for Loving BDSM
Join the Loving BDSM Community
Support the show
Postcard Project
Kayla Lords on Fetlife
John Brownstone on Fetlife
Contact us!
Listen to the show:
iTunes
Google Play
Your favorite podcast app!]]>https://lovingbdsm.kaylalords.com/?p=6777Fri, 23 Feb 2018 05:15:30 +0000Kayla LordsFor a second week in a row, Twitter inspired our topic. Several kinksters tweeted about building a submissive up in a D/s relationship and "leaving them better than you found them." That made us think about how in a D/s relationship both partners can...In this episode:

* We're (accidentally) building a podcasting network: Loving BDSM, The Smutlancer Podcast, and coming in March, the Masturbation Monday podcast.
* The show will be on a hiatus while we travel to London (March 16 and March 23).
* We're looking for a kink-friendly professional virtual assistant.
This week’s topic comes to you from Twitter and people we really admire. Lots of tweets this week from Doms talking about doing things they want and like, but also that their subs want and like, and things that help submissives be the person they want to be.
The point of any good relationship, D/s or otherwise, is to help each other be the best you can be.
While the focus is on building up submissives, Doms shouldn’t be forgotten.

Links from the show:
The Smutlancer
Masturbation Monday
How to Build Each Other Up in a D/s Relationship
Write for Loving BDSM
Join the Loving BDSM Community
Support the show
Postcard Project
Kayla Lords on Fetlife
John Brownstone on Fetlife
Contact us!
Listen to the show:
iTunes
Google Play
Your favorite podcast app!]]>4726yesfullKayla LordsFor a second week in a row, Twitter inspired our topic. Several kinksters tweeted about building a submissive up in a D/s relationship and "leaving them better than you found them." That made us think about how in a D/s relationship both partners can make each other better, too. And an episode was born. In this episode: * We're (accidentally) building a podcasting network: Loving BDSM, The Smutlancer Podcast, and coming in March, the Masturbation Monday podcast. * The show will be on a hiatus while we travel to London (March 16 and March 23). * We're looking for a kink-friendly professional virtual assistant. This week’s topic comes to you from Twitter and people we really admire. Lots of tweets this week from Doms talking about doing things they want and like, but also that their subs want and like, and things that help submissives be the person they want to be. The point of any good relationship, D/s or otherwise, is to help each other be the best you can be. While the focus is on building up submissives, Doms shouldn’t be forgotten. Links from the show: The Smutlancer Masturbation Monday How to Build Each Other Up in a D/s Relationship Write for Loving BDSM Join the Loving BDSM Community Support the show Postcard Project Kayla Lords on Fetlife John Brownstone on Fetlife Contact us! Listen to the show: iTunes Google Play Your favorite podcast app!Yes