https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/first-sports-in-the-morning--2376986enSociety & CultureCopyright Steven Bortsteinhttps://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b8dbf0e4b3f2c52dce75d5586b78e0c3.jpghttps://www.spreaker.com/podcast/first-sports-in-the-morning--2376986Thu, 09 Jul 2026 07:36:07 +0000Steven BortsteinSteven Bortsteinfeeds@spreaker.comfalsea3eceeaa-f94f-53c5-90ea-a14ac0827603episodichttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-011420--21681593https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21681593Tue, 14 Jan 2020 17:00:36 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Drive Time Sports/Castle Country Radio) chats up LSU's win in the National Championship Game and the Astros cheating scandal. Listen to our podcast right here!2201falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-011420--21678551
I’ve been dating my high school sweetheart for about six years. We’ve both gone through ups and downs, done the long-distance thing, dealt with trust issues, and I even forgave him for being with another girl and lying to me about it while he was traveling abroad. However, recently I have been feeling less interested in continuing this relationship. He really hurt me when he cheated and I feel like I can pinpoint that as the moment our relationship began to go south. I think I want to end things.

My friends tell me I should because I’ve never experienced anything other than him and I just don't seem happy anymore. I tell them it's complicated because I feel happy when I am with him. I tormented myself about breaking up with him because we have been dating for six years and he helped me through my grandmother's death and my mom's cancer, and he's such a sweet and caring person. He constantly tells me how much he loves me but I see him more as a friend now. I know when I end things romantically, the friendship will end, and I think that's why I’ve postponed it so much.

I am terrified about making the wrong decision and possibly losing my boyfriend and best friend all at the same time. I am moving next month to a new place and I feel like if I am going to do it, it should be now, but I am still conflicted. Am I making the wrong decision about ending something with someone who really loves me? Should I give it more time?

– Done?]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21678551Tue, 14 Jan 2020 15:36:16 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I’ve been dating my high school sweetheart for about six years. We’ve both gone through ups and downs, done the long-distance thing, dealt with trust issues, and I even forgave him for being with another girl and lying to me about it...
I’ve been dating my high school sweetheart for about six years. We’ve both gone through ups and downs, done the long-distance thing, dealt with trust issues, and I even forgave him for being with another girl and lying to me about it while he was traveling abroad. However, recently I have been feeling less interested in continuing this relationship. He really hurt me when he cheated and I feel like I can pinpoint that as the moment our relationship began to go south. I think I want to end things.

My friends tell me I should because I’ve never experienced anything other than him and I just don't seem happy anymore. I tell them it's complicated because I feel happy when I am with him. I tormented myself about breaking up with him because we have been dating for six years and he helped me through my grandmother's death and my mom's cancer, and he's such a sweet and caring person. He constantly tells me how much he loves me but I see him more as a friend now. I know when I end things romantically, the friendship will end, and I think that's why I’ve postponed it so much.

I am terrified about making the wrong decision and possibly losing my boyfriend and best friend all at the same time. I am moving next month to a new place and I feel like if I am going to do it, it should be now, but I am still conflicted. Am I making the wrong decision about ending something with someone who really loves me? Should I give it more time?

– Done?]]>268falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-011420--21678397https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21678397Tue, 14 Jan 2020 15:28:49 +0000Steven BortsteinThere seems to be some doubt from fans that technology played a part in the Astros ability to steal signs, or that even if the team used advanced methodology, it doesn’t deter from the idea that sign-stealing has always existed and shouldn’t be...786falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-011320--21645507https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21645507Mon, 13 Jan 2020 17:39:00 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh chats up NBA's news and notes, including the latest on Kyrie Irving, Kevin Durant and the Nets plus a preview of 76ers and Pacers. Listen to our podcast right here!1081falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jeff-risdon-011320--21645511https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21645511Mon, 13 Jan 2020 17:38:38 +0000Steven BortsteinJeff Risdon (BrownsWire/USA Today Sports) talks NFL Playoffs and offers thoughts on new head coach Kevin Stefanski. Check out our podcast right here!799falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/justin-mellow-011320--21646212https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21646212Mon, 13 Jan 2020 17:38:15 +0000Steven BortsteinJustin Mellow (MusicCityMiracles/SB Nation) recaps Saturday's stunning win over the Ravens and gives us an early look at the AFC Championship Game vs. the Chiefs. Listen to our podcast right here!908falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-011320--21643831https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21643831Mon, 13 Jan 2020 16:10:16 +0000Steven BortsteinWithout question, the most stunning result of the Divisional Round games was Tennessee demolishing the Ravens. The Ravens owned advantages in nearly every statistical category, time of possession, first downs, 3rd down efficiency. Lamar Jackson did...506falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/james-holas-011020--21549874https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21549874Fri, 10 Jan 2020 17:51:01 +0000Steven BortsteinJames Holas (Hoops Rebellion) talks up the latest NBA headlines, including John Beilein's comments, AD's injury, Joel Embiid and the Sixers plus more. Check out our podcast right here!983falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/phil-harrison-011020--21549879https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21549879Fri, 10 Jan 2020 17:50:42 +0000Steven BortsteinPhil Harrison (Buckeye Wire, College Football News) breaks down Monday night's National Championship game and talks college football headlines. Click the link our podcast right here!1006falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/matt-stevens-011020--21549880https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21549880Fri, 10 Jan 2020 17:50:23 +0000Steven BortsteinMatt Stevens (Ravens Wire/USA Today Sports) previews this weekend's Divisional Round Playoffs, particularly the Baltimore vs. Tennessee game. Listen to our podcast right here!975falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/saturday-div-picks-011020--21549561
49ERS (-7) over Vikings
RAVENS (-9 1/2) over Titans]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21549561Fri, 10 Jan 2020 17:42:51 +0000Steven BortsteinCheck out my best bets for Saturday's NFL Divisional Round games, starting with Minnesota visiting San Francisco followed by Baltimore hosting Tennessee. Audio can be found here! 49ERS (-7) over Vikings RAVENS (-9 1/2) over Titans
49ERS (-7) over Vikings
RAVENS (-9 1/2) over Titans]]>346falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/sunday-div-picks--21549610
CHIEFS (-9 1/2) over Texans
PACKERS (-4 1/2) over Seahawks]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21549610Fri, 10 Jan 2020 17:42:29 +0000Steven BortsteinCheck out my best bets for Sunday's NFL Divisional Round games, starting with Kansas City hosting Houston followed by Seattle visiting Green Bay. Audio can be found here! CHIEFS (-9 1/2) over Texans PACKERS (-4 1/2) over Seahawks
CHIEFS (-9 1/2) over Texans
PACKERS (-4 1/2) over Seahawks]]>387falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-011020--21545443https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21545443Fri, 10 Jan 2020 16:21:16 +0000Steven BortsteinSurely there have to be bigger issues with the 10 and 27 Cleveland Cavaliers than the apparently viral reaction some anonymous teammates had to head coach John Beilein using the word “thugs” to describe the team’s level of play. Even more stunning is...743falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-010920--21515441https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21515441Thu, 09 Jan 2020 17:48:07 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (Touchdown Wire/USA Today) talks rationally about the Rooney Rule and previews this weekend's NFL Divisional Round games. Check out our podcast right here!1533falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/charles-goldman-010920--21515428https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21515428Thu, 09 Jan 2020 17:47:46 +0000Steven BortsteinCharles Goldman (Chiefs Wire/USA Today) previews this weekend's Kansas City vs. Houston divisional round game and more NFL news. Listen to our podcast right here!961falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-010920--21515449https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21515449Thu, 09 Jan 2020 17:47:28 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes (Trojan Football Report) talks College Football national title game and NFL coaching changes and more. Listen to our podcast right here!1081falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-010920--21510997https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21510997Thu, 09 Jan 2020 15:14:05 +0000Steven BortsteinThere are many ways to dealing with getting older. Some of us become complacent and accepting of the journey through time. Some do whatever it takes to battle the ongoing hands of time. There are a lot of people trying to decipher what Tom Brady meant...568falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-010820mp3--21478039https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21478039Wed, 08 Jan 2020 17:34:01 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) previews this weekend's Sony Open and more PGA Tour news. Check out our podcast right here.546falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tim-weaver-010820--21478041https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21478041Wed, 08 Jan 2020 17:33:20 +0000Steven BortsteinTim Weaver (ThePanthersWire/USA Today SMG) talks about the hiring of new head coach Matt Rhule and previews NFL Divisional Round games. Check out our podcast right here.823falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ed-valentine-010820--21478044https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21478044Wed, 08 Jan 2020 17:32:58 +0000Steven BortsteinEd Valentine (BigBlueView/SB Nation) talks about the hiring of new head coach Joe Judge plus previews NFL Divisional Round games. Listen to our podcast right here.577falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/willie-ramirez-010820--21478045https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21478045Wed, 08 Jan 2020 17:32:33 +0000Steven BortsteinWillie Ramirez (AP Sports/Gaming Today) talks NHL news and previews this weekend's NFL Divisional Round games. Check out our podcast right here!1353falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-010820--21474520https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21474520Wed, 08 Jan 2020 14:56:12 +0000Steven BortsteinThe Rooney Rule is back at the center of conversation, thanks in no small part to the actual practice of businessmen doing business. The bottom line is about the man who signs the checks and makes the decisions. It’s fine to want minorities in...616falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/patrick-holloway-010720--21443032https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21443032Tue, 07 Jan 2020 17:02:57 +0000Steven BortsteinPatrick Holloway (Niners Nation/SB Nation) previews this weekend's San Francisco vs. Minnesota matchup and talks other NFL Playoff news. Catch our podcast right here!1006falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/greg-peterson-010720--21443035https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21443035Tue, 07 Jan 2020 17:02:34 +0000Steven BortsteinGreg Peterson (VSIN) chats up headlines around NCAA Men's basketball and latest gambling trends. Check out our podcast right here!857falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-010720--21441133
I'm single and spend a bit of time on dating apps. While swiping through Tinder, I saw my friend's husband. I know without a doubt it was him. He and my friend met on Tinder three years ago and got married shortly after, so I think he would have deleted his profile by now. I was in shock when I saw it and my first reaction was to share it with my friend. I accidentally swiped left on him because of my panic before I got a chance to share it or screenshot it. They are not in an open relationship.

I am torn about what to do now. Do I let my friend know what I saw, having no proof, or just keep my mouth shut while she may be living with an unfaithful spouse? I see this friend maybe once a month, but she and I were best friends in high school and I care for her deeply. I have never had a bad interaction with her husband, but now I'm suspicious of his character. I want to hope he just never got around to deleting his profile, but three years is a long time for it to still exist.

– Not To Be Nosy]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21441133Tue, 07 Jan 2020 15:42:30 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I'm single and spend a bit of time on dating apps. While swiping through Tinder, I saw my friend's husband. I know without a doubt it was him. He and my friend met on Tinder three years ago and got married shortly after, so I think he...
I'm single and spend a bit of time on dating apps. While swiping through Tinder, I saw my friend's husband. I know without a doubt it was him. He and my friend met on Tinder three years ago and got married shortly after, so I think he would have deleted his profile by now. I was in shock when I saw it and my first reaction was to share it with my friend. I accidentally swiped left on him because of my panic before I got a chance to share it or screenshot it. They are not in an open relationship.

I am torn about what to do now. Do I let my friend know what I saw, having no proof, or just keep my mouth shut while she may be living with an unfaithful spouse? I see this friend maybe once a month, but she and I were best friends in high school and I care for her deeply. I have never had a bad interaction with her husband, but now I'm suspicious of his character. I want to hope he just never got around to deleting his profile, but three years is a long time for it to still exist.

– Not To Be Nosy]]>330falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-010720--21440611https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21440611Tue, 07 Jan 2020 15:38:18 +0000Steven BortsteinThe hiring of Mike McCarthy as new head coach of the Cowboys is refreshing in one sense. Over the past couple seasons, the hot trend has been for teams to look for younger coaches, guys with designs on scheming up some all-over-the place offensive...661falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-010620--21409619https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21409619Mon, 06 Jan 2020 17:31:06 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Drive Time Sports/Castle Country Radio) recaps NFL Wildcard Weekend action and talks NFL news. Listen to our podcast right here!1441falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-010620--21407877https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21407877Mon, 06 Jan 2020 15:57:28 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh talks NBA news and notes. Listen here for our exclusive podcast!879falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wade-smith-010620--21407880https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21407880Mon, 06 Jan 2020 15:56:40 +0000Steven BortsteinWade Davis (I Heart Radio, Birmingham, AL) talks about Tua Tagovailoa and his decision to stay at Alabama or enter NFL Draft. Check out our podcast right here!671falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-010620--21407816https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21407816Mon, 06 Jan 2020 15:47:49 +0000Steven BortsteinIt seems almost unfair to devote a lot of time to the Patriots, considering they were beaten over the weekend by the Tennessee Titans, but it’s also unfair to simply put away the Patriots without mention of what happens next for quarterback Tom Brady....610falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/nfc-wildcard-picks--21316941NEW ORLEANS (-7 1/2) vs. Minnesota
PHILADELPHIA vs. Seattle (-2)]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21316941Fri, 03 Jan 2020 17:02:12 +0000Steven BortsteinSUNDAY NEW ORLEANS (-7 1/2) vs. Minnesota PHILADELPHIA vs. Seattle (-2)NEW ORLEANS (-7 1/2) vs. Minnesota
PHILADELPHIA vs. Seattle (-2)]]>305falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/afc-wildcard-picks-010320--21316943HOUSTON (-3) vs. Buffalo
NEW ENGLAND (-5 1/2) vs. Tennessee]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21316943Fri, 03 Jan 2020 17:00:59 +0000Steven BortsteinSATURDAY HOUSTON (-3) vs. Buffalo NEW ENGLAND (-5 1/2) vs. TennesseeHOUSTON (-3) vs. Buffalo
NEW ENGLAND (-5 1/2) vs. Tennessee]]>317falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-010320--21316811https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21316811Fri, 03 Jan 2020 16:48:40 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (Broncos Radio) wraps up the 2019 season for the Denver Broncos and previews playoff matchups. Listen to our podcast right here!939falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-010320--21315672https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21315672Fri, 03 Jan 2020 16:22:06 +0000Steven BortsteinKristi Scales (Cowboys Radio Network) talks about reports of Jason Garrett's firing as Dallas head coach. Check out our podcast right here!1054falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kyle-ratke-010320--21315193https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21315193Fri, 03 Jan 2020 15:38:00 +0000Steven BortsteinKyle Ratke (Vikings Wire/USA Today) previews Minnesota vs. New Orleans and NFL Wildcard matchups. Click the link for our exclusive podcast!782falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-010320--21314176https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21314176Fri, 03 Jan 2020 15:00:06 +0000Steven BortsteinThis Jason Garrett fiasco in Dallas appears to have finally come to an end with reports surfacing this week that he’ll no longer be with the team. Whoever succeeds Garrett as the new coach inherits a team that looks to have a lot of talent but also a...583falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-010220--21286365https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21286365Thu, 02 Jan 2020 17:49:12 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes (Trojan Football Update) recaps USC's loss to Iowa in the Holiday Bowl plus looks back at Oregon's win in the Rose Bowl and much more. Listen to our podcast right here!1149falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-010220--21286361https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21286361Thu, 02 Jan 2020 17:48:50 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (Touchdown Wire/USA Today Sports) previews Wildcard Weekend matchups, chats up coaching news in the NFL and more. Listen to our podcast right here!1504falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-010220--21282066https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21282066Thu, 02 Jan 2020 15:26:11 +0000Steven BortsteinThere’s bound to be some revisionist history tossed around when it comes to the legacy of the late David Stern, former NBA commissioner who passed away at the age of 77. For what it’s worth, the reason you know about the NBA as a global mega business...827falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/year-in-revie-2019--21226220https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21226220Tue, 31 Dec 2019 17:27:40 +0000Steven BortsteinCheck out our recap of the biggest sports stories of 2019!1001falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/glenn-erby-123119--21225844https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21225844Tue, 31 Dec 2019 16:56:11 +0000Steven BortsteinGlenn Erby (The Eagles Wire) previews Sunday's Philadelphia vs. Seattle clash and talks NFL news and notes. Click here for our podcast!827falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/henry-mckenna-123119--21225843https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21225843Tue, 31 Dec 2019 16:54:33 +0000Steven BortsteinHenry McKenna (Patriots Wire) previews Saturday's New England vs. Tennessee Wildcard matchup and more NFL news. Listen to our podcast right here!1047falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jeff-risdon-123119--21225846https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21225846Tue, 31 Dec 2019 16:54:14 +0000Steven BortsteinJeff Risdon (Browns Wire) talks about the firing of head coach Freddie Kitchens and previews NFL Wildcard Weekend games. Check out our podcast right here!1132falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-123119--21223776https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21223776Tue, 31 Dec 2019 15:37:36 +0000Steven BortsteinThe hands of time are ticking on some iconic names in the NFL. While we marvel at the skill level of Drew Brees, we also note that some old-timers are having to come to terms with father time. Eli Manning doesn’t want to be a backup, Philip Rivers may...793falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-123019--21195742https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21195742Mon, 30 Dec 2019 17:10:32 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Drive Time Sports/Castle Country Radio) talks college football bowl season and more. Listen to our podcast right here!1379falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/zachary-neel-123019--21195740https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21195740Mon, 30 Dec 2019 17:10:00 +0000Steven BortsteinZachary Neel (Redskins Wire/USA Today Sports) talks about Bruce Allen and his termination as Redskins president, plus coaching news and NFL playoff talk. Check out our podcast right here.531falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-123019--21195746https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21195746Mon, 30 Dec 2019 17:09:34 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh talks NBA news and more. Listen to our podcast right here.1005falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-123019--21194869https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21194869Mon, 30 Dec 2019 16:31:30 +0000Steven BortsteinWhile several NFL head coaches probably deserved some changes to their job status, none stand out more than Freddie Kitchens. From the day he came on board as interim head coach towards the end of last season, Kitchens seemed to run the team as a...490falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lee-sterling-122019--20924402https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20924402Fri, 20 Dec 2019 17:37:41 +0000Steven BortsteinLee Sterling (Paramount Sports) has best bets and information this weekend's top NFL matchups and College Football Playoff games. Listen to our podcast right here!680falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-122019--20924322https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20924322Fri, 20 Dec 2019 17:37:21 +0000Steven BortsteinKristi Scales (Cowboys Radio Network) previews Dallas vs. Philadelphia and talks about the injury status of Cowboys QB Dak Prescott. Listen to our podcast right here!954falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/james-holas-122019--20924305https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20924305Fri, 20 Dec 2019 17:37:00 +0000Steven BortsteinJames Holas (Hoops Rebellion) recaps last night's NBA matchups featuring wins from Milwaukee and Houston, plus other league news. Check out our podcast right here!923falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-122019--20922821https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20922821Fri, 20 Dec 2019 16:22:12 +0000Steven Bortstein37 bowl games. That’s what’s on tap over the next few weeks as we wrap up the college football season. I’ve long maintained there’s too many bowl games involving too many mediocre teams for people outside those programs to get excited about. So long...734falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-121919--20892679https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20892679Thu, 19 Dec 2019 17:29:27 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (Broncos Radio) recaps last weekend's loss to the Chiefs and previews Sunday's game against the Lions. Check out our podcast right here!673falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-121919--20892684https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20892684Thu, 19 Dec 2019 17:29:03 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (Touchdown Wire/USA Today Sports) talks NFL headlines and previews Week 16 matchups. Listen to our podcast right here!1576falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-121919--20889867https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20889867Thu, 19 Dec 2019 15:22:23 +0000Steven BortsteinThe Jaguars announced this week they were parting ways with former head coach, now vice president Tom Coughlin. It’s been said the generation gap sometimes is too much to overcome when it comes to so-called old schoolers dealing with the new...551falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/willie-ramirez-121819--20859092https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20859092Wed, 18 Dec 2019 17:35:48 +0000Steven BortsteinWillie Ramirez (Gaming Today) talked up Vegas Gold Knights, Arizona Coyotes and betting trends for Week 16 of the NFL season. Listen to our podcast right here!1397falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-121819--20859095https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20859095Wed, 18 Dec 2019 17:35:30 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) recapped last weekend's President's Cup and talked up biggest moments in golf of 2019. Listen to our podcast right here!855falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/nick-wojton-121819--20859101https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20859101Wed, 18 Dec 2019 17:35:13 +0000Steven BortsteinNick Wojton (Bills Wire/USA Today Sports) chatted up Bills Mafia and previewed Buffalo at New England plus offered up his thoughts on Spygate2. Check out our podcast right here.987falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-121819--20856911https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20856911Wed, 18 Dec 2019 15:36:38 +0000Steven BortsteinIt’s time for the Chargers to start thinking about a future without Philip Rivers. In what has been statistically one of his most unproductive seasons, Rivers cannot solely be blamed for the team’s 5 and 9 record, but he certainly hasn’t helped...773falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/phil-harrison-121719--20828463https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20828463Tue, 17 Dec 2019 17:02:23 +0000Steven BortsteinPhil Harrison (Buckeye Wire/USA Today Sports) talks college football bowl games and previews some of the biggest matchups. Check out our podcast right here!884falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/henry-mckenna-121719--20828468https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20828468Tue, 17 Dec 2019 17:02:01 +0000Steven BortsteinHenry McKenna (Patriots Wire/USA Today Sports) talks up Spygate2 and previews New England vs. Buffalo. Listen to our podcast right here!1045falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-121719--20826563
I’m a mid-40 year old woman and currently seeing a man I met online for almost a year. We met some time back, when we were both finalizing details of our divorces. We quickly fell in love. I was drinking – a lot – to numb the pain of the divorce. The drinking caused issues with our relationship, which led to our breakup. At the time, he was an excellent boyfriend and said he was very used to relationships and typically always in one. He did all the right things: nightly check-ins, weekends away, dates out with his friends, and we met each other's kids. It was all good. But my drinking ended it.

Fast forward five years. I've stopped drinking and have managed to get my life into a good, healthy place. I ran into him earlier this year and we began communicating again. Since then, we have been texting a lot and have seen each other a few times. We still have a great chemistry, and he is the kind of man I would like to end up with.

He told me recently that anytime I want to hook up, he'll be interested, but that he can't do anything more. He says he doesn’t want a relationship with anybody. He has a lot of people who need things from him and drain him, including his ex-wife, his kids, people at work. I think he can't handle any more people depending on him. I think the last few women he dated (me included) were sort of trainwrecks.

I want to be the easy-breezy one who says they can handle just dinner and hookups, but the truth is that when I see him, I just want to see more of him. What do I do?

Signed,
Wanting More]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20826563Tue, 17 Dec 2019 15:53:43 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I’m a mid-40 year old woman and currently seeing a man I met online for almost a year. We met some time back, when we were both finalizing details of our divorces. We quickly fell in love. I was drinking – a lot – to numb the pain of the...
I’m a mid-40 year old woman and currently seeing a man I met online for almost a year. We met some time back, when we were both finalizing details of our divorces. We quickly fell in love. I was drinking – a lot – to numb the pain of the divorce. The drinking caused issues with our relationship, which led to our breakup. At the time, he was an excellent boyfriend and said he was very used to relationships and typically always in one. He did all the right things: nightly check-ins, weekends away, dates out with his friends, and we met each other's kids. It was all good. But my drinking ended it.

Fast forward five years. I've stopped drinking and have managed to get my life into a good, healthy place. I ran into him earlier this year and we began communicating again. Since then, we have been texting a lot and have seen each other a few times. We still have a great chemistry, and he is the kind of man I would like to end up with.

He told me recently that anytime I want to hook up, he'll be interested, but that he can't do anything more. He says he doesn’t want a relationship with anybody. He has a lot of people who need things from him and drain him, including his ex-wife, his kids, people at work. I think he can't handle any more people depending on him. I think the last few women he dated (me included) were sort of trainwrecks.

I want to be the easy-breezy one who says they can handle just dinner and hookups, but the truth is that when I see him, I just want to see more of him. What do I do?

Signed,
Wanting More]]>424falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-121719--20825798https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20825798Tue, 17 Dec 2019 15:24:47 +0000Steven BortsteinYes, Josh Gordon is at fault for once again being in violation of the NFL rules regarding substance abuse. Yes, Josh Gordon needs help for his addictions and his need for substances. All those things are true, and it can also be true that Seahawks...716falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-121619--20799415https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20799415Mon, 16 Dec 2019 17:33:43 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh chats up NBA news and notes. Listen to our podcast right here!1058falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-121619--20799416https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20799416Mon, 16 Dec 2019 17:33:25 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini recaps a wild week in MLB free agency moves plus updates on new rules. Listen to our podcast right here!1638falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-121619--20795142https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20795142Mon, 16 Dec 2019 15:25:28 +0000Steven BortsteinI can’t say I was particularly surprised at hearing about how Raiders fans trashed their stadium just after the team played their final game in Oakland. What were these fans supposed to do, treat the place like some sort of museum? The majority of...645falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-121319--20719377https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20719377Fri, 13 Dec 2019 17:27:31 +0000Steven BortsteinPaul West (P Dubs Sports Hub) talks MLB Winter Meetings and new MLB rules for 2020. Listen to our podcast right here!1593falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-121319--20719379https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20719379Fri, 13 Dec 2019 17:27:07 +0000Steven BortsteinKristi Scales (Cowboys Radio Network) talks up Dallas vs. the L.A. Rams and more Cowboys news. Listen to our podcast right here!939falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/mark-lane-121319--20719381https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20719381Fri, 13 Dec 2019 17:26:46 +0000Steven BortsteinMark Lane (The Texans Wire/USA Today Sports) previews the Houston vs. Tennessee Week 15 matchup. Check out our preview right here!536falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-121319--20718057https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20718057Fri, 13 Dec 2019 16:00:08 +0000Steven BortsteinWords only have as much power as we want to give them. And whether those words are written down or spoken, it’s up to both the speaker and listener to choose how much power we give those chosen words. Janoris Jenkins used a disparaging reference when...772falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-121219--20691836https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20691836Thu, 12 Dec 2019 18:46:41 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (Broncos Radio Network) recaps Drew Lock's impressive performance last weekend and previews Denver vs. Kansas City. Check out our podcast right here!778falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-121219--20691834https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20691834Thu, 12 Dec 2019 18:46:22 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (Touchdown Wire/USA Today Sports) talks Spygate 2, Jerry Jones and highlights some of Week 15's biggest games. Listen to our podcast right here!1526falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-121219--20691839https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20691839Thu, 12 Dec 2019 18:46:01 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes (Trojan Football Update) talks up the College Football Playoffs, the Pac-12 title game and much more. Listen to our podcast right here!1184falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-121219--20685888https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20685888Thu, 12 Dec 2019 15:38:37 +0000Steven BortsteinThere’s already been more movement among MLB teams this week than we saw almost all offseason in 2018. It appears some teams are moving on, including the Cubs, who are seeking trade partners for Kris Bryant, as well as the Astros, who may or may not...869falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tyler-dragon-121119--20660062https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20660062Wed, 11 Dec 2019 17:30:43 +0000Steven BortsteinTyler Dragon (Cincinnati Enquirer) talks about "Spygate 2" and offers up his assessment of the latest investigation involving the Patriots "scandal". Listen to our podcast right here!775falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-121119--20660061https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20660061Wed, 11 Dec 2019 17:30:24 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) recaps last weekend's Hero World Challenge and previews the President's Cup. Check out our podcast right here!761falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/willie-ramirez-121119--20660063https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20660063Wed, 11 Dec 2019 17:30:07 +0000Steven BortsteinWillie Ramirez (Gaming Today) previews a big NHL matchup tonight and takes a look at gambling trends in the NFL this weekend. Listen to our exclusive podcast right here.1479falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-121119--20658561https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20658561Wed, 11 Dec 2019 16:00:07 +0000Steven BortsteinIt’s easy to look at the latest allegations facing the New England Patriots and assume they’re cheating. That has more to do with lessons from the past than it does anything to do with the current investigation which claims the Patriots were spying on...481falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-121019--20630492https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20630492Tue, 10 Dec 2019 17:40:51 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Drive Time Sports/Castle Country Radio) chats up the College Football Playoffs, notable bowl games and more. Listen to our podcast right here!1335falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jeremy-beer-121019--20628704https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20628704Tue, 10 Dec 2019 16:29:14 +0000Steven BortsteinAuthor Jeremy Beer (Oscar Charleston) chats up his new book on one of baseball's most unknown but colorful characters. Listen to our podcast right here!981falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-121019--20627535
I finally told my wife of nearly 30 years, the last 10 being without sex, that I wanted a divorce. She is a truly good and kind person and I've stayed married out of obligation to provide for her, although she has a decent job and good benefits. Throughout our marriage I’ve paid the mortgage and all our bills and bought her a good car. The only thing she does for me (and I mean only) is to provide my health insurance. Our life together is civil and peaceful, but my frustration is unbearable. We have no personal connection to each other apart from our grown kids and grandchildren, and she is content to devote her life to them. On my part, I feel that my kids are in charge of their lives and that I've done my best for them and I deserve to lead the life that makes me happy.

When I told her that I wanted a divorce, she said "why bother"? Her only concern seemed to be where she would live. Since I come and go as I please, I’ve met a few women who I sensed were interested in me, but things never progressed, in part, I believe, because I was always upfront about my situation and I really wasn't comfortable with cheating, although I question whether it really would have been.

At the time, it was OK to tell myself that just having a woman interested in me was an accomplishment. The last woman I met was with someone who I assumed was her boyfriend. We exchanged numbers and planned to meet again. I made small talk with this woman (who is much younger than I) but didn't think much of it until she texted me out of the blue the next day saying how nice it was to see me. Through some back and forth we ended up meeting for drinks, which seemed to go well. Our communication is pretty much at zero now. I feel part of the reason is that my marriage made us both hesitant to take things further. Still, the steps I made caused me to feel like more of a man than I had in a long time, while also realizing I was a coward, and it was this that finally caused me to tell my wife I wanted a divorce. So now that I've made the first step. I know that telling a woman that I asked my wife for a divorce is weak, but I feel free to do what I want, more than I have in a long time.

I also realize that until I am divorced I will never be one hundred percent free to pursue any kind of relationship with another woman. I realize I’ll get a lot of ridicule, but save the age comments.

Signed,
Not Yet Divorced]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20627535Tue, 10 Dec 2019 15:24:23 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I finally told my wife of nearly 30 years, the last 10 being without sex, that I wanted a divorce. She is a truly good and kind person and I've stayed married out of obligation to provide for her, although she has a decent job and good...
I finally told my wife of nearly 30 years, the last 10 being without sex, that I wanted a divorce. She is a truly good and kind person and I've stayed married out of obligation to provide for her, although she has a decent job and good benefits. Throughout our marriage I’ve paid the mortgage and all our bills and bought her a good car. The only thing she does for me (and I mean only) is to provide my health insurance. Our life together is civil and peaceful, but my frustration is unbearable. We have no personal connection to each other apart from our grown kids and grandchildren, and she is content to devote her life to them. On my part, I feel that my kids are in charge of their lives and that I've done my best for them and I deserve to lead the life that makes me happy.

When I told her that I wanted a divorce, she said "why bother"? Her only concern seemed to be where she would live. Since I come and go as I please, I’ve met a few women who I sensed were interested in me, but things never progressed, in part, I believe, because I was always upfront about my situation and I really wasn't comfortable with cheating, although I question whether it really would have been.

At the time, it was OK to tell myself that just having a woman interested in me was an accomplishment. The last woman I met was with someone who I assumed was her boyfriend. We exchanged numbers and planned to meet again. I made small talk with this woman (who is much younger than I) but didn't think much of it until she texted me out of the blue the next day saying how nice it was to see me. Through some back and forth we ended up meeting for drinks, which seemed to go well. Our communication is pretty much at zero now. I feel part of the reason is that my marriage made us both hesitant to take things further. Still, the steps I made caused me to feel like more of a man than I had in a long time, while also realizing I was a coward, and it was this that finally caused me to tell my wife I wanted a divorce. So now that I've made the first step. I know that telling a woman that I asked my wife for a divorce is weak, but I feel free to do what I want, more than I have in a long time.

I also realize that until I am divorced I will never be one hundred percent free to pursue any kind of relationship with another woman. I realize I’ll get a lot of ridicule, but save the age comments.

Signed,
Not Yet Divorced]]>451falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-121019--20627341https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20627341Tue, 10 Dec 2019 15:00:06 +0000Steven BortsteinThe Bengals? Seriously? According to multiple reports, the NFL may have to look – once again – into allegations that the Patriots were using cameras to spy on an opponent in preparation for a game this coming weekend. The sleaziness angle of all of...606falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-120919--20602353https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20602353Mon, 09 Dec 2019 17:03:15 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh chats up NBA headlines including the Knicks firing of head coach David Fizdale and more. Listen to our podcast right here!1219falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/glenn-erby-120919--20602355https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20602355Mon, 09 Dec 2019 17:02:55 +0000Steven BortsteinGlenn Erby (The Eagles Wire/USA Today Sports) talks NFC playoff rankings and previews tonight's Dallas vs. Philadelphia game. Hear our Monday Night preview right here!708falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tom-stone-120919--20603599https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20603599Mon, 09 Dec 2019 17:02:32 +0000Steven BortsteinTom Stone (Now Taking The Field) chats up his new book about the all-time dream teams from all 30 MLB franchises! Check out our exclusive podcast right here!856falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-120919--20601143https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20601143Mon, 09 Dec 2019 15:27:12 +0000Steven BortsteinIt’s the same story the last couple years, one star player opts to skip a bowl game in order to protect their draft status. Jake Fromm has nothing to prove by facing an opportunistic Baylor defense in the Sugar Bowl. He was lucky not to be more...637falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/charles-goldman-120619--20533198https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20533198Fri, 06 Dec 2019 17:06:34 +0000Steven BortsteinCharles Goldman (USA Today Sports/Chiefs Wire) previews Kansas City vs. New Enlgand. Check out our podcast right here!970falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/james-holas-120619--20533178https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20533178Fri, 06 Dec 2019 17:06:13 +0000Steven BortsteinJames Holas (Hoops Rebellion) talks Rockets, Knicks, Lakers and more NBA news. Listen to our podcast right here!996falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lee-sterling-120619--20533172https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20533172Fri, 06 Dec 2019 17:05:51 +0000Steven BortsteinLee Sterling (Paramount Sports) has his best bets in college football and the NFL this weekend. Check out our podcast right here!779falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-120619--20531902https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20531902Fri, 06 Dec 2019 15:53:29 +0000Steven BortsteinWhile most fans will be consumed with college football and the NFL in the coming days, MLB’s winter meetings start next week. With that comes big name free agent moves. Pitcher Gerrit Cole is rumored to the Yankees, third baseman Anthony Rendon’s...351falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-120519--20508479https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20508479Thu, 05 Dec 2019 17:31:51 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (USA Today Sports/Touchdown Wire) talks about Ron Rivera's firing at Carolina, the return of Eli Manning and more, including previews of Week 14 matchups. Check out our podcast right here!1509falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-120519--20508316https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20508316Thu, 05 Dec 2019 17:31:29 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (Broncos Radio Network) recaps last week's Denver win over the Chargers and previews Sunday's game against the Texans. Listen to our podcast right here!515falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-120519--20508314https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20508314Thu, 05 Dec 2019 17:31:08 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes (CBS Sports/Trojan Football Update) talks about USC's decision to move ahead with Clay Helton as head football coach and more college football news. Listen to our podcast right here!1400falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-120519--20506752https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20506752Thu, 05 Dec 2019 16:16:01 +0000Steven BortsteinI’d love to get a chance to re-do moments in time where I let myself or others down. I’d love to rewind time and have a chance to fix my own lapses in judgment. The Houston Rockets have no one but themselves to blame for blowing a double digit lead...631falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/willie-ramirez-120419--20483512https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20483512Wed, 04 Dec 2019 17:49:37 +0000Steven BortsteinWillie Ramirez (Gaming Today) chats up the NHL, offers up his take on The Irishman and some NFL gambling trends. Listen to our exclusive podcast right here!1321falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/phil-harrison-120419--20483511https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20483511Wed, 04 Dec 2019 17:49:12 +0000Steven BortsteinPhil Harrison (USA Today Sports/Buckeyes Wire) talks College Football Playoff rankings and previews this weekend's conference championship games. Listen to our podcast right here!781falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tim-weaver-120419--20483508https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20483508Wed, 04 Dec 2019 17:48:49 +0000Steven BortsteinTim Weaver (USA Today Sports/Panthers Wire) chats up the decision of the Panthers to part ways with head coach Ron Rivera. Check out our podcast right here!791falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-120419--20483513https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20483513Wed, 04 Dec 2019 17:48:27 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) looks back at a wild decade for Tiger Woods and previews the Hero World Challenge. Listen to our podcast right here!721falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-120419--20483235https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20483235Wed, 04 Dec 2019 17:36:45 +0000Steven BortsteinThere’s a lot on the line this weekend with conference championship games and the likely fallout effect those games may have on the college football playoff. For those who like some chaos in their pre-holiday festivities, you can cheer for Utah to...554falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/greg-peterson-120319--20456875https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20456875Tue, 03 Dec 2019 17:31:16 +0000Steven BortsteinGreg Peterson (VSIN) chats up tonight's NCAA Basketball headline games and much more college hoops news. Listen to our podcast right here!1081falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lester-wiltfong-120319--20456868https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20456868Tue, 03 Dec 2019 17:30:54 +0000Steven BortsteinLester Wiltfong (SB Nation/Windy City Gridiron) talks NFC North news & previews Bears vs. Cowboys on Thursday night. Check out our podcast right here!721falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-120319--20454455https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20454455Tue, 03 Dec 2019 15:54:57 +0000Steven BortsteinThis is not the first time we’ve reported on Josh Shaw. The recently suspended Arizona Cardinals defensive back ran into some issues when he was a star at USC, but it speaks to an issue that may or may not be an indicator of the new laws on sports...793falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-120319--20454376
How can I recover a friendship once I've caught feelings?

Several years ago, I met a lady. I was coming out of a tumultuous relationship and was apprehensive at first, but began to move on. We got along great and eventually exchanged info. We had a date and hung out frequently, and at times during she would often flirt with me. I was insecure, whereas she was confident.

This time together was short-lived, as she soon started seeing another guy. I saw less and less of her as they began dating, and after awhile, we didn't really talk at all anymore. About two to three years later, she reached out to see how I was doing and invited me to an event. I assumed she might be single, but I was mistaken. I took on a platonic role and we would chat every now and then as friends. Her boyfriend, that same guy from before, was living five hours away.

Eventually, she moved out there with him. They got married. Funny enough, I found myself relocating to that same city. We reconnected and began getting coffee together. She's refreshingly different from most of my friends so I enjoyed seeing her. This worked well for quite a while, and I often talked to her about my failures in the dating world. I even met her husband and helped him with some work. I'd only see her once every month or so, but it was nice.

At some point, my dynamic with her changed. She was more vocal about how I shouldn't be single – about how much of a catch I am. She messaged me more often, and would sometimes touch my arm when we were together. Our hangouts began to feel more like dates. All of this would become increasingly apparent if I’d mention a Tinder date I had. She's generally very open when it comes to talking about sex, but this became a bit more involved in our conversations.
She was always aware I was attracted to her, and she'd tease me about it. This attention from her ignited something in me, and I really fell for her. I couldn't stop thinking about her. I knew she was married, and I knew these thoughts were pointless. At 26, without any notable romantic prospects to distract me (I’ve still never had a real romantic partner), I found myself obsessed, maybe in love.

After a few months of this, this woman moved with her husband. I hadn't seen her in a couple of months and decided, perhaps against my better judgment, to message her. I told her I'd felt like she'd been flirting with me, and asked if there was any weight to that. She didn't take this well. She felt that I'd betrayed our friendship and assured me that whatever I was seeing wasn't there. She'd confided in me about private matters, and she said that by twisting that in a romantic way, I'd failed her as a friend. I didn't know how to reply at first. Eventually I apologized for letting my feelings get in the way of a good friendship, assuring her I wouldn't let my own delusions get the better of me again. She accepted it and we've since chatted a few times, at surface level, back to normal.

Since I don't see her in person anymore, it's easier to move on. However, whenever I do talk to her now, I get a pang of those same feelings, sometimes lingering for days. Seeing her in person again would likely ruin me. She's genuinely a great person and it saddens me to think that a wholesome friendship has been tainted. Without any romantic prospects of my own, is it possible for me to move on from this? Can you resume a normal friendship with someone you've fallen so hard for? I haven't seen her in over six months but still find myself wasting time thinking about this.

– Caught feelings]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20454376Tue, 03 Dec 2019 15:47:41 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, How can I recover a friendship once I've caught feelings? Several years ago, I met a lady. I was coming out of a tumultuous relationship and was apprehensive at first, but began to move on. We got along great and eventually exchanged...
How can I recover a friendship once I've caught feelings?

Several years ago, I met a lady. I was coming out of a tumultuous relationship and was apprehensive at first, but began to move on. We got along great and eventually exchanged info. We had a date and hung out frequently, and at times during she would often flirt with me. I was insecure, whereas she was confident.

This time together was short-lived, as she soon started seeing another guy. I saw less and less of her as they began dating, and after awhile, we didn't really talk at all anymore. About two to three years later, she reached out to see how I was doing and invited me to an event. I assumed she might be single, but I was mistaken. I took on a platonic role and we would chat every now and then as friends. Her boyfriend, that same guy from before, was living five hours away.

Eventually, she moved out there with him. They got married. Funny enough, I found myself relocating to that same city. We reconnected and began getting coffee together. She's refreshingly different from most of my friends so I enjoyed seeing her. This worked well for quite a while, and I often talked to her about my failures in the dating world. I even met her husband and helped him with some work. I'd only see her once every month or so, but it was nice.

At some point, my dynamic with her changed. She was more vocal about how I shouldn't be single – about how much of a catch I am. She messaged me more often, and would sometimes touch my arm when we were together. Our hangouts began to feel more like dates. All of this would become increasingly apparent if I’d mention a Tinder date I had. She's generally very open when it comes to talking about sex, but this became a bit more involved in our conversations.
She was always aware I was attracted to her, and she'd tease me about it. This attention from her ignited something in me, and I really fell for her. I couldn't stop thinking about her. I knew she was married, and I knew these thoughts were pointless. At 26, without any notable romantic prospects to distract me (I’ve still never had a real romantic partner), I found myself obsessed, maybe in love.

After a few months of this, this woman moved with her husband. I hadn't seen her in a couple of months and decided, perhaps against my better judgment, to message her. I told her I'd felt like she'd been flirting with me, and asked if there was any weight to that. She didn't take this well. She felt that I'd betrayed our friendship and assured me that whatever I was seeing wasn't there. She'd confided in me about private matters, and she said that by twisting that in a romantic way, I'd failed her as a friend. I didn't know how to reply at first. Eventually I apologized for letting my feelings get in the way of a good friendship, assuring her I wouldn't let my own delusions get the better of me again. She accepted it and we've since chatted a few times, at surface level, back to normal.

Since I don't see her in person anymore, it's easier to move on. However, whenever I do talk to her now, I get a pang of those same feelings, sometimes lingering for days. Seeing her in person again would likely ruin me. She's genuinely a great person and it saddens me to think that a wholesome friendship has been tainted. Without any romantic prospects of my own, is it possible for me to move on from this? Can you resume a normal friendship with someone you've fallen so hard for? I haven't seen her in over six months but still find myself wasting time thinking about this.

– Caught feelings]]>451falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-120319--20453761https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20453761Tue, 03 Dec 2019 15:20:59 +0000Steven BortsteinThis is not the first time we’ve reported on Josh Shaw. The recently suspended Arizona Cardinals defensive back ran into some issues when he was a star at USC, but it speaks to an issue that may or may not be an indicator of the new laws on sports...451falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-120219--20431116https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20431116Mon, 02 Dec 2019 17:17:58 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Castle Country Radio/Drive Time Sports) breaks down college football headlines and knocks down my USC coaching "conspiracy theory." Check it all out right here!1656falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kyle-ratke-120219--20431114https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20431114Mon, 02 Dec 2019 17:17:39 +0000Steven BortsteinKyle Ratke (USA Today Sports/Vikings Wire) breaks down Monday Night Football between Minnesota and the Seahawks. Check out our exclusive podcast right here!770falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-120219--20431112https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20431112Mon, 02 Dec 2019 17:17:19 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh talks NBA headlines, including the 11-game win streak of the Bucks and the 60-point night of James Harden. Check out our podcast right here!1022falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-120219--20430730https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20430730Mon, 02 Dec 2019 16:50:56 +0000Steven BortsteinThere’s a lot of Patriot haters who want to overreact to Sunday’s loss to the Houston Texans. And while the big story has been the lack of efficiency of New England’s offense, it was their defense that fell flat this time. Numbers matter, and the...703falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jeff-risdon-112619--20289856https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20289856Tue, 26 Nov 2019 17:00:24 +0000Steven BortsteinJeff Risdon (USA Today Sports) talks Browns football and previews Thursday's Lions vs. Bears game. Listen to our podcast right here!1063falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-111919--20263595https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20263595Tue, 26 Nov 2019 16:28:38 +0000Steven Bortstein1362falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/isaiah-hole-112619--20289215https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20289215Tue, 26 Nov 2019 16:28:13 +0000Steven BortsteinIsaiah Hole (Wolverines Wire/USA Today Sports) previews Michigan vs. Ohio State and talks Big 10 Football. Listen to our podcast right here.979falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-112619--20287099https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20287099Tue, 26 Nov 2019 15:38:39 +0000Steven BortsteinAs a fan, I have immense respect watching greatness on the field or wherever it is that athletic prowess is on display. I don’t know about you, but every time I see Lamar Jackson drop back to pass, my first instinct is to marvel at his greatness or to...687falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-112619--20287143
I’ve been on a couple dating sites for about four months. I’ve gone on a couple dates and met some potentially good matches, but they never seem to go pass a month before I’m ghosted and left wondering what went wrong. They usually start out strong. I will receive good morning and night texts, cute compliments, and all the guys have shown enthusiasm about wanting to know more about me. I just can’t figure out why they suddenly fizzle out. Sometimes I’m tempted to message them and just ask what changed, but I’m afraid I might appear crazy. I will admit that I am shy. I’m an introvert who attracts extroverts, so I wonder that if they just conclude that I’m boring in the end.

There was one guy I’ve gone on three dates with and I've felt a spark, but lately I feel him starting to pull away. We’ve shared some personal things, and I know a couple family issues popped up over the weekend. I’m not sure if I’m being impatient or paranoid. Should I just let this one go or be vulnerable and express how I’m feeling? It doesn’t upset me that he may have lost interest or maybe connected better with someone else, I just hate feeling rejected and not knowing why. I'm not head-over-heels for him but I think we could build something more.

Signed,
Wondering]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20287143Tue, 26 Nov 2019 15:24:40 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I’ve been on a couple dating sites for about four months. I’ve gone on a couple dates and met some potentially good matches, but they never seem to go pass a month before I’m ghosted and left wondering what went wrong. They usually start...
I’ve been on a couple dating sites for about four months. I’ve gone on a couple dates and met some potentially good matches, but they never seem to go pass a month before I’m ghosted and left wondering what went wrong. They usually start out strong. I will receive good morning and night texts, cute compliments, and all the guys have shown enthusiasm about wanting to know more about me. I just can’t figure out why they suddenly fizzle out. Sometimes I’m tempted to message them and just ask what changed, but I’m afraid I might appear crazy. I will admit that I am shy. I’m an introvert who attracts extroverts, so I wonder that if they just conclude that I’m boring in the end.

There was one guy I’ve gone on three dates with and I've felt a spark, but lately I feel him starting to pull away. We’ve shared some personal things, and I know a couple family issues popped up over the weekend. I’m not sure if I’m being impatient or paranoid. Should I just let this one go or be vulnerable and express how I’m feeling? It doesn’t upset me that he may have lost interest or maybe connected better with someone else, I just hate feeling rejected and not knowing why. I'm not head-over-heels for him but I think we could build something more.

Signed,
Wondering]]>364falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-112519--20263672https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20263672Mon, 25 Nov 2019 17:43:19 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh previews a big NBA matchup tonight and offers up his views on top storylines around the league. Check out our podcast right here!1037falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-112519--20263630https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20263630Mon, 25 Nov 2019 17:41:06 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Drive Time Sports/Castle Country Radio) talks College Football headlines and more. Listen to our podcast right here!1412falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-112519--20261994https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20261994Mon, 25 Nov 2019 16:06:17 +0000Steven BortsteinRegardless of whether you’re a fan of Cowboys coach Jason Garrett, it’s got to be frustrating knowing the man in charge is running a clown show. I understand there wasn’t much to be pleased about after Sunday’s poor effort against New England, but if...762falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/james-holas-112219--20193787https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20193787Fri, 22 Nov 2019 16:52:08 +0000Steven BortsteinJames Holas (Hoops Rebellion/Dunk Tales Podcast) talks Carmelo Anthony, Lakers, Clippers and more. Listen to our exclusive chat right here!927falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-112219--20192559https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20192559Fri, 22 Nov 2019 16:24:34 +0000Steven BortsteinKristi Scales (Cowboys Radio Network) recaps last weekend Cowboys win over Detroit and this weekend's roadtrip against the Patriots. Listen to our podcast right here!929falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lee-sterling-112219--20192563https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20192563Fri, 22 Nov 2019 16:24:06 +0000Steven BortsteinLee Sterling (Paramount Sports) offers up best bets in college football and the NFL this weekend. Listen to our podcast right here!803falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-112219--20191602https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20191602Fri, 22 Nov 2019 15:24:58 +0000Steven BortsteinThere may never be a “truth be told” moment when it comes to the latest from the Steelers/Browns brawl last week. The six-game suspension of Myles Garrett will stand, but not without Garrett accusing Mason Rudolph of dropping a racial slur during the...722falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-112119--20168191https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20168191Thu, 21 Nov 2019 17:06:12 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (USA Today Sports) talks latest headlines on and off the field around the NFL. Listen to our exclusive chat right here!1498falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-112119--20167353https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20167353Thu, 21 Nov 2019 16:31:16 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (Broncos Radio Network) recaps Denver's loss last week to the Vikings and previews this weekend's matchup with the Bills. Hear our chat right here!744falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-112119--20167060https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20167060Thu, 21 Nov 2019 16:00:17 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes (Trojan Football Update) previews USC vs. UCLA, talks Pac 12 Football and much more. Listen to our chat right here!1372falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-112119--20165742https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20165742Thu, 21 Nov 2019 15:07:46 +0000Steven BortsteinLet’s take a moment to recognize Steelers quarterback Mason Rudolph in taking some accountability for his part in the melee which took place last week. Yes, he was assaulted by Myles Garrett and the helmet shot he took in the final moments of a...668falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-112019--20144676https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20144676Wed, 20 Nov 2019 17:37:19 +0000Steven BortsteinThere are a lot of people who anticipated a comeback from wide receiver Rob Gronkowski. The recently semi-retired Patriots star teased fans earlier this week with an announcement, only to find he was promoting a party he’s hosting in Miami on Super...803falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/willie-ramirez-112019--20144696https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20144696Wed, 20 Nov 2019 17:34:02 +0000Steven BortsteinWillie Ramirez (Gaming Today) chats up NHL headlines and latest sports gambling trends. Listen to our chat right here!1387falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-112019--20144689https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20144689Wed, 20 Nov 2019 17:33:39 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) talks international and regional Tour news. Listen to our podcast right here!734falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kevin-hickey-112019--20144688https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20144688Wed, 20 Nov 2019 17:33:13 +0000Steven BortsteinKevin Hickey (USA Today/Colts Wire) previews Thursday Night Football between Indianapolis and Houston. Listen to our podcast right here!581falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/greg-peterson-112019--20144704https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20144704Wed, 20 Nov 2019 17:32:47 +0000Steven BortsteinGreg Peterson (VSIN) chats up college basketball news and notes. Check out our podcast right here!1242falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-111919--20121825https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20121825Tue, 19 Nov 2019 17:50:30 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Castle Country Radio/Drive Time Sports) talks college football news and notes, as well as thoughts on Tua Tagovailoa's injury. Listen to our podcast right here!1362falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jed-rigney-111919--20121826https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20121826Tue, 19 Nov 2019 17:50:08 +0000Steven BortsteinJed Rigney (Foul Territory Baseball) chats up the latest on the Astros investigation and talks 2020 Hall of Fame nominees. Listen to our podcast right here!937falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-111919--20119518https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20119518Tue, 19 Nov 2019 15:58:12 +0000Steven BortsteinPerhaps it is time for the Chargers to consider the future. After Monday night’s gut-wrenching loss to the Chiefs, which probably ends any playoff aspirations, the QB position should be a topic of conversation. Philip Rivers is on pace for his lowest...580falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-111819--20099891https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20099891Mon, 18 Nov 2019 17:49:16 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh talks Lakers, the return of Paul George to the Clippers and previews a couple top NBA games tonight. Check out our podcast right here!1041falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/charles-goldman-111819--20099901https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20099901Mon, 18 Nov 2019 17:48:50 +0000Steven BortsteinCharles Goldman (USA Today Sports/Chiefs Wire) previews the Monday Night Chiefs vs. Chargers game and talks about the Kaepernick workout. Listen to our chat right here!1149falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-111819--20098438https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20098438Mon, 18 Nov 2019 16:25:51 +0000Steven BortsteinThere was no great intrigue to the Colin Kaepernick workout this past weekend. As expected, it seemed Kaepernick took the opportunity to look good to his friends and fans and possibly film a commercial spot exploiting his efforts. Yes, the man can...626falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/glenn-erby-111519--20050448https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20050448Fri, 15 Nov 2019 17:29:30 +0000Steven BortsteinGlenn Erby (The Eagles Wire) previews the Philadelphia Eagles vs. New England Patriots game this weekend. Listen to our podcast at the link right here.901falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lee-sterling-111519--20050453https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20050453Fri, 15 Nov 2019 17:29:11 +0000Steven BortsteinLee Sterling (Paramount Sports) talks college football and NFL best bets. Check out our podcast right here!979falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-111519--20050829https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20050829Fri, 15 Nov 2019 17:28:51 +0000Steven BortsteinPaul West (P Dubs Sports Hub) talks Astros sign-stealing storyline and what the narrative of that story will be going forward. We also talk MLB awards season and more. Check out our chat right here!1179falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-111519--20049349https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20049349Fri, 15 Nov 2019 16:05:36 +0000Steven BortsteinThese will be interesting days ahead as MLB continues to investigate the sign stealing scandal. The fact is no matter what enforcements are made, someone’s already thought of counter measures to ensure the art of sign stealing continues. And that’s...426falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-111419--20029883https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20029883Thu, 14 Nov 2019 17:59:21 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (USA Today Sports/Touchdown Wire) talks up Colin Kaepernick's workout storyline and previews some of this weekend's biggest games. Click the link here for our exclusive chat!1421falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-111419--20029885https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20029885Thu, 14 Nov 2019 17:58:56 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (Broncos Radio Network) previews Denver on the road facing the Vikings and talks up AFC West storylines as well as the latest on Colin Kaepernick. Click here for our chat.797falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-111419--20029891https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20029891Thu, 14 Nov 2019 17:58:37 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes (Trojan Football Update) and I will talk College Football Playoff rankings, Pac-12 Football and NASCAR's championship weekend. Click here for our exclusive podcast.1395falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-111419--20027754Virtually everything you see during a game or an event that goes outside the lines of a sporting event or any sort of public function is a marketing or publicity stunt.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20027754Thu, 14 Nov 2019 15:00:32 +0000Steven BortsteinThere are publicity stunts and marketing gimmicks in everything you do. That’s primarily what social media is, it’s what you look at and listen to and read about in advertising. It’s called getting the word out on whatever it is that someone is...Virtually everything you see during a game or an event that goes outside the lines of a sporting event or any sort of public function is a marketing or publicity stunt.]]>488falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/willie-ramirez-111319--20011582https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20011582Wed, 13 Nov 2019 17:40:18 +0000Steven BortsteinWillie Ramirez (Gaming Today) chats up the Astros sign stealing scandal and offers up betting advice in the NHL. Check out our podcast right here!1330falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-111319--20011011https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20011011Wed, 13 Nov 2019 17:39:59 +0000Steven BortsteinKristi Scales (Dallas Cowboys Radio Network) looks back at the Cowboys loss to the Vikings and previews this weekend's game at Detroit. Listen to our podcast right here!970falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-111319--20011009https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20011009Wed, 13 Nov 2019 17:39:34 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) talks PGA Tour news and more. Listen to our podcast right here!675falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-111319--20010547https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20010547Wed, 13 Nov 2019 16:31:20 +0000Steven BortsteinI know this will be an unpopular sentiment among sports purists, who want to believe athletes and those in charge of teams wouldn't promote or take part in cheating. But if it's that easy for teams to "steal signs", then you likely get what you...1048falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-111219--19993324https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19993324Tue, 12 Nov 2019 17:39:06 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Drive Time Sports/Castle Country Radio) chatted up last weekend in college football and the latest College Football Playoff rankings and more. Listen to our podcast right here!1369falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-111219--19991459I’ve recently started dating a man who has kids from a previous marriage. As a single woman with no kids, I’m unsure what to expect. Am I being too worried about meeting his kids, or not meeting them?
Both of his kids are old enough to have opinions about me, or us, and I’m worried he’ll use those opinions to judge or determine the course of our time together. Is that wrong?
Signed,
Eager But Concerned]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19991459Tue, 12 Nov 2019 15:40:34 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I’ve recently started dating a man who has kids from a previous marriage. As a single woman with no kids, I’m unsure what to expect. Am I being too worried about meeting his kids, or not meeting them? Both of his kids are old enough to...I’ve recently started dating a man who has kids from a previous marriage. As a single woman with no kids, I’m unsure what to expect. Am I being too worried about meeting his kids, or not meeting them?
Both of his kids are old enough to have opinions about me, or us, and I’m worried he’ll use those opinions to judge or determine the course of our time together. Is that wrong?
Signed,
Eager But Concerned]]>366falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-111219--19990894https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19990894Tue, 12 Nov 2019 15:00:52 +0000Steven BortsteinComing off the heels of a Monday night epic, we’ll soon find out what the 49ers are made of. Now that the perfect season is off, the 49ers have four games in a row to answer some pretty significant questions. Injuries are back on the table for San...605falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/andrew-pasquini-111119--19975016https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19975016Mon, 11 Nov 2019 17:28:50 +0000Steven BortsteinAndrew Pasquini (Niners Wire/USA Today) previews tonight's Monday Night game between San Francisco and Seattle. Listen to our exclusive podcast right here!1068falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-111119--19975019https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19975019Mon, 11 Nov 2019 17:28:29 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh previews the NBA's upcoming schedule, chats up the latest on Dion Waiters and more. Check out the exclusive podcast at the link right here!1016falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-111119--19973960https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19973960Mon, 11 Nov 2019 16:22:57 +0000Steven BortsteinApparently LeBron James thinks it’s a great idea for Deion Sanders to be considered a candidate for the vacant head coaching position at Florida State Football. Whether Sanders is actually a candidate is irrelevant. Consider the source here, a man who...601falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-110819--19927552https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19927552Fri, 08 Nov 2019 16:46:24 +0000Steven BortsteinKristi Scales (Dallas Cowboys Radio) previews Sunday night against the Vikings, recaps last Monday night against the Giants and more. Check out the podcast right here!909falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lee-sterling-110819--19927544https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19927544Fri, 08 Nov 2019 16:45:49 +0000Steven BortsteinLee Sterling (Paramount Sports) has best bets in college football and the NFL plus an upset special for the weekend. Check out our podcast right here!755falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/james-holas-110819--19927738https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19927738Fri, 08 Nov 2019 16:45:27 +0000Steven BortsteinJames Holas (Real Ball Insiders) talks load management and previews NBA matchups this weekend and more. Listen to our podcast right here!969falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-110819--19926925
Let me pour some rainwater on their parade -- be it a pity party or way too premature celebration -- by reminding them that the Raiders trail only Cleveland for most penalties in a game on average this season.

There's other reasons to maybe pump those brakes a bit on the Raiders this season.

For sure, the Raiders are talented, but they are still sorely undisciplined.

Click the link for my thoughts on this story and more in the MORNING MONOLOGUE, heard weekdays during FIRST SPORTS!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19926925Fri, 08 Nov 2019 15:46:19 +0000Steven BortsteinRaiders fans are all up in arms this weekend about their sudden relevance in the playoff picture after an emotional home win against the Chargers. They're gonna be excited for what they think is a surefire playoff run, or they're gonna be irritated...
Let me pour some rainwater on their parade -- be it a pity party or way too premature celebration -- by reminding them that the Raiders trail only Cleveland for most penalties in a game on average this season.

There's other reasons to maybe pump those brakes a bit on the Raiders this season.

For sure, the Raiders are talented, but they are still sorely undisciplined.

Click the link for my thoughts on this story and more in the MORNING MONOLOGUE, heard weekdays during FIRST SPORTS!]]>460falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-110719--19909489https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19909489Thu, 07 Nov 2019 17:35:34 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (Touchdown Wire/USA Today Sports) talks Bears, Browns, Chargers vs. Raiders, Seahawks vs. 49ers and more. Listen to our exclusive podcast right here!1479falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-110719--19909055https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19909055Thu, 07 Nov 2019 17:09:03 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes (Trojan Football Update) chats up USC Football and the latest reporting of Mike Bohn as new AD at Southern Cal. Check out our exclusive chat right here!1335falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dylan-howard-110719--19909052https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19909052Thu, 07 Nov 2019 17:08:39 +0000Steven BortsteinAuthor Dylan Howard previews his new book "Aaron Hernandez' Killing Fields", detailing the investigative new work. Check out our chat and more right here!620falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-110719--19907683https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19907683Thu, 07 Nov 2019 15:33:19 +0000Steven BortsteinThere’s no way to know how much stress or wear and tear there is on the human body when its constantly being pushed. I’ll never sit here and tell you I know what Kawhi Leonard is going through on a daily basis, but if the NBA feels that Leonard...587falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-110619--19890866https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19890866Wed, 06 Nov 2019 17:32:34 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) talks Presidents Cup and more on a rare weekend off on tour. Listen to our podcast right here!460falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tim-weaver-110619--19890869https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19890869Wed, 06 Nov 2019 17:32:15 +0000Steven BortsteinTim Weaver (Panthers Wire/USA Today) talks the latest on Cam Newton and previews this weekend as Carolina faces Green Bay. Check out our podcast right here!632falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/willie-ramirez-110619--19891499https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19891499Wed, 06 Nov 2019 17:31:56 +0000Steven BortsteinWillie Ramirez (Gaming Today) covers the NHL for us and talks about the Islanders, Golden Knights and also offers gambling advice for sports. Check out our podcast right here!1386falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-110619--19888080https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19888080Wed, 06 Nov 2019 15:21:27 +0000Steven BortsteinI don’t believe it’s wrong to be curious as to what led Michael Bennett to stand for the national anthem. The recently acquired member of the Dallas Cowboys had been one of the so-called anthem protesters in recent years with the Seahawks, Patriots...556falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jeff-risdon-110519--19872129https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19872129Tue, 05 Nov 2019 18:00:09 +0000Steven BortsteinJeff Risdon (Browns Wire/USA Today) chatted up the latest on the Browns tumultuous season and previewed Cleveland vs. Buffalo. Listen to our chat right here!807falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-110519--19872134https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19872134Tue, 05 Nov 2019 17:59:50 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Drive Time Sports/Castle Country Radio) previews Alabama vs. LSU and talked about Willie Taggart's firing at FSU. Listen to our podcast right here!1089falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-110519--19870551
I've been seeing a wonderful woman for about five months. We are opposites in many ways, but we share passion for the important things. We text a lot, see each other (or stay over) at least twice a week. We laugh a lot, and are romantic when we are together. It has felt like we were on the verge of making this a serious relationship.

A few nights ago, she said she felt pressured about conversations we had about taking a trip. Then she told me that she used to deal with cutting herself when she got depressed. Her fears from a painful past relationship, and current fears about our relationship triggered this. Then she tried to push me away. It was an emotional night, but I know enough about depression to know that I could only reassure her and let her know that I want to be by her side.

We didn't discuss it for very long and things settled down, and we wound up sleeping together. A lot of what she said that night seemed to be about her opening up and telling me about some of her past struggles, but I can't ignore that she initially started the conversation by pushing me away and being unsure about having a relationship.

I have the sense that she does care for me. I have one big fear of going into a commitment with her, now that I know more about her depression. I'm not afraid of her depression, but I'm scared of loving someone who's too afraid of herself to love me in return.

I understand there are no safety nets, but how do you know whether you should give up or jump into something that has felt like it has the potential to be a match in love? I've always been the one in my previous relationships to do the work, only to have been abandoned by someone who doesn't feel they love me enough. I'm not interested in repeating that.

Signed,
Guy at a Crossroads]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19870551Tue, 05 Nov 2019 16:27:21 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I've been seeing a wonderful woman for about five months. We are opposites in many ways, but we share passion for the important things. We text a lot, see each other (or stay over) at least twice a week. We laugh a lot, and are romantic...
I've been seeing a wonderful woman for about five months. We are opposites in many ways, but we share passion for the important things. We text a lot, see each other (or stay over) at least twice a week. We laugh a lot, and are romantic when we are together. It has felt like we were on the verge of making this a serious relationship.

A few nights ago, she said she felt pressured about conversations we had about taking a trip. Then she told me that she used to deal with cutting herself when she got depressed. Her fears from a painful past relationship, and current fears about our relationship triggered this. Then she tried to push me away. It was an emotional night, but I know enough about depression to know that I could only reassure her and let her know that I want to be by her side.

We didn't discuss it for very long and things settled down, and we wound up sleeping together. A lot of what she said that night seemed to be about her opening up and telling me about some of her past struggles, but I can't ignore that she initially started the conversation by pushing me away and being unsure about having a relationship.

I have the sense that she does care for me. I have one big fear of going into a commitment with her, now that I know more about her depression. I'm not afraid of her depression, but I'm scared of loving someone who's too afraid of herself to love me in return.

I understand there are no safety nets, but how do you know whether you should give up or jump into something that has felt like it has the potential to be a match in love? I've always been the one in my previous relationships to do the work, only to have been abandoned by someone who doesn't feel they love me enough. I'm not interested in repeating that.

Signed,
Guy at a Crossroads]]>326falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-110519--19869487https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19869487Tue, 05 Nov 2019 15:24:26 +0000Steven BortsteinThe Jermaine Whitehead story doesn’t need an additional narrative of race-baiting or triggering equally insensitive commentary. It shouldn’t matter what would be the reaction from fans or media if a person of another color had tweeted the inflammatory...615falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-110419--19852762https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19852762Mon, 04 Nov 2019 17:31:28 +0000Steven BortsteinPaul West (P Dub's Sports Hub) talks MLB news, including Mets managerial decision and free agency news and notes. Listen to our exclusive podcast right here!1275falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-110419--19851828https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19851828Mon, 04 Nov 2019 16:31:43 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh talks NBA news, including the latest on Steph Curry's injury and more. Check out our exclusive podcast right here.1081falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-110419--19850586https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19850586Mon, 04 Nov 2019 15:24:32 +0000Steven BortsteinLet’s make sure not to throw too much gasoline onto the Patriots after seeing their perfect season come to an end Sunday night. The fact is New England still has a substantial lead over Buffalo in their division, as well as a one game lead on the...528falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jed-rigney-110119--19806816https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19806816Fri, 01 Nov 2019 16:40:33 +0000Steven BortsteinJed Rigney (Foul Territory Baseball) chats up the 2019 World Series winners & losers and looks ahead to a busy offseason. Check out our exclusive chat right here!948falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-103119--19789763https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19789763Fri, 01 Nov 2019 15:45:18 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (Broncos Radio) previews Denver vs. Cleveland and talks up latest Broncos news. Click here for our exclusive podcast!675falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-110119--19805926https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19805926Fri, 01 Nov 2019 15:44:54 +0000Steven BortsteinKristi Scales (Dallas Cowboys Radio Network) previews Monday Night Football against the Giants. Listen to our exclusive podcast right here!707falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lee-sterling-110119--19805928https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19805928Fri, 01 Nov 2019 15:44:05 +0000Steven BortsteinLee Sterling (Paramount Sports) has five best bets for both college football and the NFL this weekend. Check them out in our exclusive podcast right here!759falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-110119--19804259https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19804259Fri, 01 Nov 2019 13:56:02 +0000Steven BortsteinIt’s time to call things out the way they really are in Denver, and the way they’re going. I have no faith whatsoever the Broncos are going to win Sunday at home facing Cleveland. It’s not about Baker Mayfield being suddenly a great QB or the Browns...470falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-103119--19789765https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19789765Thu, 31 Oct 2019 16:59:11 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes (Trojan Football Report) previews Saturday's USC vs, Oregon game and talks World Series, NASCAR and more. Check out our podcast right here!1133falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-103119--19789770https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19789770Thu, 31 Oct 2019 16:58:19 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (USA Today Sports/Touchdown Wire) talks Baker Mayfield, Jamal Adams and more NFL news plus previews some of this weekend's biggest games. Listen to our exclusive podcast right here!1294falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-103119--19787517https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19787517Thu, 31 Oct 2019 14:26:30 +0000Steven BortsteinThe sad reality of the sport of horse racing is that it’s not being promoted properly, it’s not being marketed properly and it’s not being reported about in a sensible manner. News coverage of the sport has been reduced to little more than a trickle,...601falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-103019--19770445https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19770445Wed, 30 Oct 2019 16:31:48 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) recaps Tiger Wood's historic victory and talks up this week's big event overseas. Check out our podcast right here!891falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/willie-ramirez-103019--19770447https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19770447Wed, 30 Oct 2019 16:31:26 +0000Steven BortsteinWillie Ramirez (Gaming Today) talks NHL news and notes and offers up betting advice on the NHL and NFL. Listen to our exclusive podcast right here!1160falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-103019--19769328https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19769328Wed, 30 Oct 2019 15:20:54 +0000Steven BortsteinAt long last, and only at the behest of several states creating their own policies, the NCAA has decided to enact its own provisions allowing so-called student athletes to be compensated for their name, image and likeness. The decision is a major and...616falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-102919--19752208https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19752208Tue, 29 Oct 2019 16:32:43 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Castle Country Radio/Drive Time Sports) previews tonight's Game 6 of the World Series and talks new managers in MLB. Listen to our exclusive podcast right here!1412falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/andrew-pasquini-102919--19751337https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19751337Tue, 29 Oct 2019 15:34:26 +0000Steven BortsteinAndrew Pasquini (Niners Wire/USA Today Sports) talks about the unbeaten streak of the SF 49ers and previews Thursday Night Football against the Cardinals. Listen to our exclusive podcast right here!1064falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-102919--19750437
I've been dating my boyfriend for about five months. We met through a mutual friend while I was still dating my ex, and we got together after the breakup. That friend – who still keeps in touch with my ex – recently had my boyfriend hang out with his group of friends, and my ex was there.

My boyfriend knows that this particular guy is my ex and he's not a fan, but now he hangs out with the group of friends a lot even though my ex will be there. Is it wrong for me to get mad? I want him to have his own friends and all, but I don't feel comfortable that my boyfriend is hanging out with this ex and poking through my past. I haven't told my boyfriend how I feel because I'm worried I'm making a big deal out of nothing.

Signed
-- Concerned]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19750437Tue, 29 Oct 2019 14:26:29 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I've been dating my boyfriend for about five months. We met through a mutual friend while I was still dating my ex, and we got together after the breakup. That friend – who still keeps in touch with my ex – recently had my boyfriend hang...
I've been dating my boyfriend for about five months. We met through a mutual friend while I was still dating my ex, and we got together after the breakup. That friend – who still keeps in touch with my ex – recently had my boyfriend hang out with his group of friends, and my ex was there.

My boyfriend knows that this particular guy is my ex and he's not a fan, but now he hangs out with the group of friends a lot even though my ex will be there. Is it wrong for me to get mad? I want him to have his own friends and all, but I don't feel comfortable that my boyfriend is hanging out with this ex and poking through my past. I haven't told my boyfriend how I feel because I'm worried I'm making a big deal out of nothing.

Signed
-- Concerned]]>361falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-102919--19750088https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19750088Tue, 29 Oct 2019 13:55:01 +0000Steven BortsteinI’m happy to note the Embrace the Zero movement is alive and well with both the Cincinnati Bengals and Miami Dolphins. For a moment on Monday night, it looked as if the Dolphins were trying to abandon the cause. Reality set in as the Steelers pulled...622falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-102819--19734035https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19734035Mon, 28 Oct 2019 16:29:26 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh talks NBA news after the first week of the season. Click the link for our exclusive podcast right here!1067falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-102819--19734032https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19734032Mon, 28 Oct 2019 16:29:06 +0000Steven BortsteinPaul West (P Dub's Sports Hub) talks 2019 World Series reactions and more MLB news. Listen to our exclusive podcast right here.1479falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-102819--19732197https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19732197Mon, 28 Oct 2019 14:37:27 +0000Steven BortsteinIf you haven’t already, it may be time to start taking seriously the unbeaten 49ers. It’s easy to suggest they’re not as famous or as polarizing as that other unbeaten team in New England, but what the Patriots have in terms of headlines, San...481falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lee-sterling-102519--19687805https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19687805Fri, 25 Oct 2019 15:25:54 +0000Steven BortsteinLee Sterling (Paramount Sports) offers up best bets in this weekend's college football and NFL action. Check out our exclusive podcast right here!821falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-102519--19687767https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19687767Fri, 25 Oct 2019 15:23:04 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (Broncos Radio Network) previews Sunday's game between Denver and Indianapolis. Click the link right here!841falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-102519--19686686https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19686686Fri, 25 Oct 2019 13:55:28 +0000Steven BortsteinGuys just need to stop guaranteeing things. Men like to be all big and bad when it comes to what will be done. Jarvis Landry of the Browns is no exception. He didn’t say the word, but it’s the same thing. We saw what happened when Eagles head coach...421falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-102419--19670815https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19670815Thu, 24 Oct 2019 16:14:07 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (USA Today Sports/Touchdown Wire) talks up news around the NFL and previews some Week 8 matchups. Listen to our podcast right here!1418falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kyle-ratke-102419--19670268https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19670268Thu, 24 Oct 2019 15:33:47 +0000Steven BortsteinKyle Ratke (USA Today Sports/Vikings Wire) previews tonight's game between Minnesota and the Washington Redskins. Listen to our podcast right here!721falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-102419--19670144https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19670144Thu, 24 Oct 2019 15:23:38 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes (CBS Sports) talks up the legacy of the late Willie Brown and talks Rams and Chargers news. Check out our podcast right here!1275falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-102419--19670080https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19670080Thu, 24 Oct 2019 15:13:00 +0000Steven BortsteinLaVar Ball went from being a cartoonish sports apparel promoter to an even more cartoonish sports personality, rambling on about his sons ability to play basketball and directing insults at those who didn’t buy his rhetoric or his ability to judge...914falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/willie-ramirez-102319--19650820https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19650820Wed, 23 Oct 2019 16:20:29 +0000Steven BortsteinWillie Ramirez (Gaming Today) talks NHL action and the latest sports gambling trends. Check out our exclusive podcast right here!1461falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-102319--19649784https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19649784Wed, 23 Oct 2019 15:34:03 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) talks Skins game and more international tour news. Listen to our podcast right here!823falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tim-weaver-102319--19648878https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19648878Wed, 23 Oct 2019 14:26:24 +0000Steven BortsteinTim Weaver (Panthers Wire/USA Today) has the latest on the Kyle Allen/Cam Newton discussion and previews Panthers vs. 49ers. Listen to our chat right here!775falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-102319--19648553https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19648553Wed, 23 Oct 2019 13:57:47 +0000Steven BortsteinFans of the NFL should keep an eye on the trade deadline next Tuesday. One game this weekend that may give us an idea about buyers and sellers would be the Chargers on the road visiting Chicago. There’s been much in the way of speculation about Bears...361falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jed-rigney-102219--19631985https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19631985Tue, 22 Oct 2019 16:26:31 +0000Steven BortsteinJed Rigney (Foul Territory Baseball) previews the World Series. Click the link for our exclusive podcast right here!989falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/james-holas-102219--19631022https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19631022Tue, 22 Oct 2019 15:00:26 +0000Steven BortsteinJames Holas (Real Ball Insiders) highlights opening night in the NBA and offers predictions for the upcoming season. Listen to our podcast right here!1133falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-102219--19630434https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19630434Tue, 22 Oct 2019 14:27:30 +0000Steven BortsteinThe story about Zach Greinke getting verbally assaulted by Yankees fans isn’t as much a surprise as it is a reminder of your own entitlement. And let’s be clear, assault comes in different fashions. Now the NBA is stepping in as a new season tips off...753falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-102219--19630424
I seem to have an issue in that I can't stick to one woman. As bad as that sounds, I just can't do it. My question for you is: can a man have two relationships?

If a man can’t have two relationships, then why do you think that? Is it a cultural thing, is there a valid reason for why it couldn't be done? Even if both women think it's OK that the man is dating another woman?

I am anxious to hear your thoughts because I'm not happy with one woman.

- Commitment Is Not For Me]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19630424Tue, 22 Oct 2019 14:26:31 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I seem to have an issue in that I can't stick to one woman. As bad as that sounds, I just can't do it. My question for you is: can a man have two relationships? If a man can’t have two relationships, then why do you think that? Is it a...
I seem to have an issue in that I can't stick to one woman. As bad as that sounds, I just can't do it. My question for you is: can a man have two relationships?

If a man can’t have two relationships, then why do you think that? Is it a cultural thing, is there a valid reason for why it couldn't be done? Even if both women think it's OK that the man is dating another woman?

I am anxious to hear your thoughts because I'm not happy with one woman.

- Commitment Is Not For Me]]>410falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/charles-goldman-102119--19614149https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19614149Mon, 21 Oct 2019 16:04:53 +0000Steven BortsteinCharles Goldman (USA Today Sports/Chiefs Wire) talks up the latest status on QB Patrick Mahomes and recaps AFC West action over the weekend. Listen to our podcast right here!1179falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-102119--19612186https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19612186Mon, 21 Oct 2019 13:46:34 +0000Steven BortsteinFor the record, I’m excited about this World Series, and maybe it’s the fan in me who wants this to be a great one, but I expect Houston to win it all. One thing I’m hoping for is a tribute to the team that made it all possible, the Montreal Expos....318falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-102119--19611334NBA insider Jamieson Welsh previews the upcoming opening night of the NBA season and offers predictions on the champions! Listen to our podcast right here!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19611334Mon, 21 Oct 2019 13:39:26 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Castle Country Radio/Drive Time Sports) previews the 2019 World Series. Check out our exclusive podcast right here! NBA insider Jamieson Welsh previews the upcoming opening night of the NBA season and offers predictions on the...NBA insider Jamieson Welsh previews the upcoming opening night of the NBA season and offers predictions on the champions! Listen to our podcast right here!]]>993falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-102119--19611671https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19611671Mon, 21 Oct 2019 13:38:58 +0000Steven BortsteinNBA insider Jamieson Welsh previews the upcoming opening night of the NBA season and offers predictions on the champions! Listen to our podcast right here!1114falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-101719--19571527https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19571527Fri, 18 Oct 2019 15:55:20 +0000Steven BortsteinKristi Scales (Dallas Cowboys Radio Network) previews Sunday Night Football against the Eagles and looks back at last weekend's loss at New York against the Jets. Click the link for exclusive podcast.810falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lee-sterling-101719--19571528https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19571528Fri, 18 Oct 2019 15:55:02 +0000Steven BortsteinLee Sterling (Paramount Sports) has best bets for this weekend's college football and NFL's top games. Listen to our exclusive chat right here!831falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-101719--19571656https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19571656Fri, 18 Oct 2019 15:54:35 +0000Steven BortsteinPaul West (P Dub's Sports Hub) chats NLCS and ALCS news and gives us a look at a potential World Series between Astros and Nationals. Hit the link here for our exclusive podcast!1195falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-101819--19570452https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19570452Fri, 18 Oct 2019 14:38:42 +0000Steven BortsteinA few things we learned from the Chiefs blowout win over the Broncos. First, no one is going to understate the significance of Patrick Mahomes absence, regardless of how long it takes to get him back on his feet. Second, and I don’t know if this can...446falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/laurie-lattimore-101719--19554847https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19554847Thu, 17 Oct 2019 15:57:53 +0000Steven BortsteinLaurie Lattimore-Volkmann (SB Nation/Mile High Report) previews tonight's Broncos vs. Chiefs game. Listen to our chat right here!737falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-101719--19554853https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19554853Thu, 17 Oct 2019 15:57:18 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes (Trojan Football Update) chats USC vs. Arizona plus talks LeBron James, Dodgers season recap and more. Listen to our podcast right here!1110falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-101719--19554928https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19554928Thu, 17 Oct 2019 15:56:57 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (USA Today Sports/Touchdown Wire) talks up news and notes around the NFL. Listen to our chat right here!1414falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-101719--19554086https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19554086Thu, 17 Oct 2019 14:57:09 +0000Steven BortsteinThe song says “Everyone needs a little time away”, but that’s not always a good thing when it comes to the time between the playoffs and the World Series. Three of the most notable winners in League Championship sweeps, the Rockies in 2007, the 2014...433falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/willie-ramirez-101619--19536734https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19536734Wed, 16 Oct 2019 16:33:33 +0000Steven BortsteinWillie Ramirez (Gaming Today) talks NHL news and more, including NFL and MLB betting trends. Check out our podcast right here!1286falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-101619--19536740https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19536740Wed, 16 Oct 2019 16:32:00 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) talks Tiger Woods' memoir and a look at the "Asian Swing" of golf. Listen to our exclusive chat right here!492falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/isaiah-hole-101619--19536747https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19536747Wed, 16 Oct 2019 16:31:24 +0000Steven BortsteinIsaiah Hole (Wolverines Wire/USA Today Sports) previews the Saturday game against Penn State and talks Michigan football. Check out our podcast right here!978falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-101619--19535115https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19535115Wed, 16 Oct 2019 14:25:24 +0000Steven BortsteinThere hasn’t been this much public backlash against LeBron James since the fateful day of the decision, when he announced he’d be taking his talents to South Beach. And I admit, I kinda feel bad for the guy. For all he’s learned about the sport, and...802falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/charles-goldman-101519--19520350https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19520350Tue, 15 Oct 2019 16:57:12 +0000Steven BortsteinCharles Goldman (Chiefs Wire/USA Today) previews Thursday Night Football vs. the Broncos plus looks back at last weekend's loss to the Texans. Listen to our podcast right here!1156falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/glenn-erby-101519--19520348https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19520348Tue, 15 Oct 2019 16:52:35 +0000Steven BortsteinGlenn Erby (Eagles Wire/USA Today) previews Dallas vs. Philadelphia plus talks about last weekend's loss to Minnesota. Check out our podcast right here!467falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-101519--19519234
I'll make things short and sweet. I was in a stagnant relationship for two years with a man who put up walls and strung me along, and I kept letting it happen. Eventually I couldn't take it anymore. Four months ago, it ended, finally, but it felt like it was over long before there was an official breakup.

Within one month of really disconnecting from this ex (blocking him, etc.), I met a man – a wonderful man, who is communicative, inspiring, funny, and respectful. In some ways, based on interests, he is almost like the male version of me. We click in so many ways. I'm spending a ton of time with him and I want to see him even more.

I loved my ex. I still love him because deep down, inside what could be an awful shell, he is a good man. Just not the man for me. That's why it's so surprising that I've completely fallen for this new man and can't fight it – and don't want to. I want something to be wrong, because I'm so smitten. Is it too soon to be this smitten? Is it a red flag that I am?

- Smitten too Soon]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19519234Tue, 15 Oct 2019 15:46:35 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I'll make things short and sweet. I was in a stagnant relationship for two years with a man who put up walls and strung me along, and I kept letting it happen. Eventually I couldn't take it anymore. Four months ago, it ended, finally,...
I'll make things short and sweet. I was in a stagnant relationship for two years with a man who put up walls and strung me along, and I kept letting it happen. Eventually I couldn't take it anymore. Four months ago, it ended, finally, but it felt like it was over long before there was an official breakup.

Within one month of really disconnecting from this ex (blocking him, etc.), I met a man – a wonderful man, who is communicative, inspiring, funny, and respectful. In some ways, based on interests, he is almost like the male version of me. We click in so many ways. I'm spending a ton of time with him and I want to see him even more.

I loved my ex. I still love him because deep down, inside what could be an awful shell, he is a good man. Just not the man for me. That's why it's so surprising that I've completely fallen for this new man and can't fight it – and don't want to. I want something to be wrong, because I'm so smitten. Is it too soon to be this smitten? Is it a red flag that I am?

- Smitten too Soon]]>319falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-101519--19519226https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19519226Tue, 15 Oct 2019 15:45:05 +0000Steven BortsteinThe firestorm between the NBA and its relationship with China was about to simmer down. Let cooler heads prevail as they say. But nope, here comes LeBron James to essentially throw Rockets GM Daryl Morey under the bus, reminding everyone that there’s...1040falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-101419--19503096https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19503096Mon, 14 Oct 2019 16:39:26 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Drive Time Sports/Castle Country Radio) recaps a wild weekend in college football. Check the link for our exclusive podcast.1167falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-101419--19503108https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19503108Mon, 14 Oct 2019 16:38:36 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh talks NBA news and preseason story lines. Click here for our exclusive podcast.1002falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jed-rigney-101419--19503102https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19503102Mon, 14 Oct 2019 16:36:57 +0000Steven BortsteinJed Rigney (Foul Territory Baseball) talks ALCS & NLCS plus Dodgers and Angels chat. Listen to our exclusive podcast right here!746falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-101419--19501636https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19501636Mon, 14 Oct 2019 15:19:49 +0000Steven BortsteinThere will be a whole lot of fact-finding and perhaps uncomfortable news coming forward as we learn more about the untimely passing of Angels pitcher Tyler Skaggs. An investigation with the Drug Enforcement Agency seems to lead to an employee...577falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/saturday-monologue-101119--19460922When Golden State Warriors head coach Steve Kerr was asked earlier this week about relations between China, Hong Kong and the current protests, Kerr deflected the topic, admitting he wasn't well versed on the subject matter. He wasn't as shy later in the week after being the target of criticism from POTUS.
Being opinionated on issues inside our own borders doesn't mean you're speaking badly about America, as POTUS suggested. It does indicate that Kerr understands the enormity of speaking well and informed about issues which he's asked to provide an opinion.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19460922Fri, 11 Oct 2019 16:39:35 +0000Steven BortsteinWhen you're asked a question at a press conference, you're not obligated to answer. But it's how you answer that often speaks volumes. When Golden State Warriors head coach Steve Kerr was asked earlier this week about relations between China, Hong...When Golden State Warriors head coach Steve Kerr was asked earlier this week about relations between China, Hong Kong and the current protests, Kerr deflected the topic, admitting he wasn't well versed on the subject matter. He wasn't as shy later in the week after being the target of criticism from POTUS.
Being opinionated on issues inside our own borders doesn't mean you're speaking badly about America, as POTUS suggested. It does indicate that Kerr understands the enormity of speaking well and informed about issues which he's asked to provide an opinion.]]>701falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-101119--19460918https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19460918Fri, 11 Oct 2019 16:30:18 +0000Steven BortsteinPaul West (P Dub's Sports Hub) talks up all things MLB Playoffs and previews AL and NL Championship Series. Take a listen to our exclusive podcast right here!1033falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-101119--19460457https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19460457Fri, 11 Oct 2019 15:40:10 +0000Steven BortsteinKristi Scales (Dallas Cowboys Radio) previews this weekend's game against the NY Jets as well as recaps last weekend's loss to the Green Bay Packers. Check out our podcast right here!810falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lee-sterling-101119--19460440https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19460440Fri, 11 Oct 2019 15:39:44 +0000Steven BortsteinLee Sterling (Paramount Sports) has this weekend's college football and NFL best bets lined up. Listen to our exclusive podcast right here!720falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-101119--19459084https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19459084Fri, 11 Oct 2019 14:00:22 +0000Steven BortsteinAs the dust settles around the Dodgers and their exit from the National League playoffs, and as I have come to terms with the less than spectacular ending, I’m hoping manager Dave Roberts and his staff keep their jobs. It’s not torture, he’s simply...492falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-101019--19441261https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19441261Thu, 10 Oct 2019 16:45:18 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (USA Today/The NFL Wire) talks up latest headlines around the league and previews Week 6 top matchups. Check out our chat right here!1146falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-101019--19440215https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19440215Thu, 10 Oct 2019 16:01:37 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes and I put a disappointing bow and ribbon around the 2019 LA Dodgers season, plus we preview USC vs. Notre Dame. Click the link for our podcast.1092falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-101019--19440212https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19440212Thu, 10 Oct 2019 16:01:14 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (Broncos Radio Network) previews this weekend's game with the Titans and looks back at Denver's win over the Chargers. Listen to our chat right here!737falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-101019--19439034https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19439034Thu, 10 Oct 2019 14:00:17 +0000Steven BortsteinAs a reporter, I have a responsibility to be fair, unbiased and heartlessly analytical. I reserve my fandom for very few teams or individuals. It will take some time to get over the anger for the collapse of the Dodgers in the MLB playoffs, but the...468falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dan-benton-100919--19424957https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19424957Wed, 09 Oct 2019 17:07:58 +0000Steven BortsteinDan Benton (USA Today Sports/Giants Wire) previews tomorrow night's game between the NY Giants and New England Patriots. Check out our podcast right here!932falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-100919--19424956https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19424956Wed, 09 Oct 2019 17:07:35 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) previews the Houston Open and talks about the European Tour heading to Hong Kong this week. Listen to our podcast right here!531falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/willie-ramirez-100919--19424952https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19424952Wed, 09 Oct 2019 17:07:13 +0000Steven BortsteinWillie Ramirez (Gaming Today/AP Hockey Correspondent) talked up the Vegas Golden Knights as well as other NHL news and notes. Check out our podcast right here!882falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-100919--19422745No one wants athletes to stick to sports, because we as fans as well as detractors love it when people who are wealthy or possess some measure of fame and fortune make mistakes… it’s easier to tear people down when they come from a place of higher ground. We love them when they serve a purpose, but when they “step out of line”, we’re the first ones to set them and their beliefs and their lives on fire.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19422745Wed, 09 Oct 2019 14:35:04 +0000Steven BortsteinThere are lessons to be learned from the noise involving the NBA’s sticky situation with China. And it has little to do with Rockets GM Daryl Morey, but it’s a cautionary tale of what happens when people who aren’t aware of their social media...No one wants athletes to stick to sports, because we as fans as well as detractors love it when people who are wealthy or possess some measure of fame and fortune make mistakes… it’s easier to tear people down when they come from a place of higher ground. We love them when they serve a purpose, but when they “step out of line”, we’re the first ones to set them and their beliefs and their lives on fire.]]>1144falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/james-holas-100819--19408606https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19408606Tue, 08 Oct 2019 16:35:34 +0000Steven BortsteinJames Holas (Real Ball Insiders/Lineups) gives us his insight on the NBA controversy involving China and preseason news and notes. Click the link for our exclusive podcast!1110falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/zachary-neel-100819--19408604https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19408604Tue, 08 Oct 2019 16:31:17 +0000Steven BortsteinZachary Neel (Redskins Wire/USA Today) talks up the story lines surrounding the firing of Jay Gruden and the future of the Redskins. Click the link for our chat!646falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-100819--19406359
My ex-boyfriend broke up with me, and it took me years to realize that we weren't meant for each other. He never understood how to be emotionally supportive, and I never learned how to be emotionally vulnerable. We never even said "I love you" during our year-long relationship. To this day, I have still never said "I love you" in a romantic relationship.

A few months after the breakup, I found out he was hooking up with his recently separated manager whom he always told me he was never attracted to. Moral of my story: believe people when they tell you it's not going to work out.

And now? I can barely maintain a healthy relationship with men because I look for the ones I can change. So, how can I know if someone's the one, when I knowingly keep picking the wrong ones?

– Sensing a pattern]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19406359Tue, 08 Oct 2019 14:37:10 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, My ex-boyfriend broke up with me, and it took me years to realize that we weren't meant for each other. He never understood how to be emotionally supportive, and I never learned how to be emotionally vulnerable. We never even said "I...
My ex-boyfriend broke up with me, and it took me years to realize that we weren't meant for each other. He never understood how to be emotionally supportive, and I never learned how to be emotionally vulnerable. We never even said "I love you" during our year-long relationship. To this day, I have still never said "I love you" in a romantic relationship.

A few months after the breakup, I found out he was hooking up with his recently separated manager whom he always told me he was never attracted to. Moral of my story: believe people when they tell you it's not going to work out.

And now? I can barely maintain a healthy relationship with men because I look for the ones I can change. So, how can I know if someone's the one, when I knowingly keep picking the wrong ones?

– Sensing a pattern]]>376falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-100819--19406095Click the link for my thoughts on this topic and more in the MORNING MONOLOGUE, heard weekdays during FIRST SPORTS!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19406095Tue, 08 Oct 2019 14:22:01 +0000Steven BortsteinInstead of falling victim to the quick reaction in which we tear down Baker Mayfield for his off the field antics and the way he’s failed to live up to the shameless league-wide promotion, let’s just take Monday Night’s performance for what it is, one...Click the link for my thoughts on this topic and more in the MORNING MONOLOGUE, heard weekdays during FIRST SPORTS!]]>670falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-100719--19389699https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19389699Mon, 07 Oct 2019 16:39:43 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Castle Country Radio/Drive Time Sports) talks up MLB Playoff matchups and more. Check out our podcast right here!1150falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jeff-risdon-100719--19389693https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19389693Mon, 07 Oct 2019 16:39:20 +0000Steven BortsteinJeff Risdon (USA Today Sports) previews tonight's MNF game between the Browns and unbeaten 49ers. Listen to our preview right here!660falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lake-lewis-100719--19389688https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19389688Mon, 07 Oct 2019 16:38:58 +0000Steven BortsteinLake Lewis (Heavy.com) lends his insight into the firing of head coach Jay Gruden by the Washington Redskins. Listen to our chat right here!792falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-100719--19388409https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19388409Mon, 07 Oct 2019 14:36:45 +0000Steven BortsteinIn the early Monday morning hours, news came down of the firing of Jay Gruden, who becomes the first coach to get the ax this season. But Gruden’s firing only begins to shed some light on the issues within that team. The contract status of Trent...215falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/matt-stevens-100419--19355796https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19355796Fri, 04 Oct 2019 16:51:32 +0000Steven BortsteinMatt Stevens (Ravens Wire/USA Today) talks Ravens vs. Steelers this weekend and other Ravens storylines. Listen to our exclusive podcast right here!816falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-100419--19355402https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19355402Fri, 04 Oct 2019 16:40:14 +0000Steven BortsteinKristi Scales (Dallas Cowboys Radio) joins us to preview the matchup against the Packers as well as looking back at last weekend's loss at New Orleans. Click here for our exclusive podcast.744falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lee-sterling-100419--19355396https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19355396Fri, 04 Oct 2019 16:39:40 +0000Steven BortsteinLee Sterling (Paramount Sports) offers up a variety of best bets in college football and the NFL. Check here for our exclusive podcast.862falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-100419--19355358https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19355358Fri, 04 Oct 2019 16:07:53 +0000Steven BortsteinThere’s truth to all rumors. Those were the words of Vikings wide receiver Stefon Diggs when asked if there was any validity to claims he was requesting to be traded from the team. I’m glad Diggs cleared that one up, because we in the sports media...784falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-100319--19341103https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19341103Thu, 03 Oct 2019 16:57:54 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Drive Time Sports/Castle Country Radio) previews MLB Playoffs. Check out our exclusive podcast right here!1524falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-100319--19341108https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19341108Thu, 03 Oct 2019 16:53:49 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes talks NCAA "Fair Pay To Play" act as well as Chargers football and Dodger baseball. Listen to our exclusive chat right here!1155falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-100319--19341106https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19341106Thu, 03 Oct 2019 16:51:01 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (Broncos Radio) previews Denver vs. the LA Chargers and talks more Broncos news. Listen to our podcast right here!692falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-100319--19339983https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19339983Thu, 03 Oct 2019 15:04:59 +0000Steven BortsteinVontaze Burfict is "heartbroken" about not playing after his season-long suspension was announced this week for repeated helmet-to-helmet hits, as well as other infractions. I suppose it’s a genuine remorse from Burfict, who can have that broken heart...616falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-100219--19324766https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19324766Wed, 02 Oct 2019 16:03:27 +0000Steven BortsteinAdministrators, athletic directors and conference commissioners are coming out in droves against legislation in California allowing college athletes to receive compensation for their images and likenesses. Some of those people call the concept...854falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dan-lust-100119--19309483https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19309483Tue, 01 Oct 2019 15:53:39 +0000Steven BortsteinAttorney Dan Lust (Goldberg & Segalla) chats up California's Fair Pay To Play Act, signed into law this week. Get all the details and more in our podcast right here!933falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/marcus-mosher-100119--19309485https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19309485Tue, 01 Oct 2019 15:53:08 +0000Steven BortsteinMarcus Mosher (Raiders Wire/USA Today Sports) talked about the Vontaze Burfict suspension and talked Raiders football. Listen to our podcast right here!618falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-100119--19308627
I just turned 35 and I'm a straight man who is also a virgin. I'm relatively religious, and as a result have always believed in waiting to have sex until you are married. I can understand why different people have different opinions on sex before marriage, but I've always thought that at least for myself, that is what I would do.

As I've gotten older, though, I'm starting to doubt that and wonder if it's actually holding me back in my relationships. I'm never sure when and if to mention that I don't believe in sex before marriage. I'm also wondering if it will scare off potential relationships, or maybe I should just bite the bullet and go for it, because it's not as if I'm not interested in having sex. I'm also very interested in getting married and having kids.

I've thought I'd try to meet people through church, but all the churches are full of senior citizens and married couples, not exactly fertile hunting grounds. So, the question is. If I decide to continue not having sex before marriage, at what point should I disclose this to a current partner? Or do you feel I'm sabotaging potential relationships/marriage by not agreeing to sex before marriage, and that I should just do it despite my doubts?

Signed,
- Sick of Waiting]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19308627Tue, 01 Oct 2019 14:37:48 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I just turned 35 and I'm a straight man who is also a virgin. I'm relatively religious, and as a result have always believed in waiting to have sex until you are married. I can understand why different people have different opinions on...
I just turned 35 and I'm a straight man who is also a virgin. I'm relatively religious, and as a result have always believed in waiting to have sex until you are married. I can understand why different people have different opinions on sex before marriage, but I've always thought that at least for myself, that is what I would do.

As I've gotten older, though, I'm starting to doubt that and wonder if it's actually holding me back in my relationships. I'm never sure when and if to mention that I don't believe in sex before marriage. I'm also wondering if it will scare off potential relationships, or maybe I should just bite the bullet and go for it, because it's not as if I'm not interested in having sex. I'm also very interested in getting married and having kids.

I've thought I'd try to meet people through church, but all the churches are full of senior citizens and married couples, not exactly fertile hunting grounds. So, the question is. If I decide to continue not having sex before marriage, at what point should I disclose this to a current partner? Or do you feel I'm sabotaging potential relationships/marriage by not agreeing to sex before marriage, and that I should just do it despite my doubts?

Signed,
- Sick of Waiting]]>360falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-100119--19308625https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19308625Tue, 01 Oct 2019 14:23:19 +0000Steven BortsteinThe news for the Broncos regarding a season-ending injury to Bradley Chubb is another hit to the proud franchise that currently has the longest active losing streak in the NFL. And while this can’t be pinned on first year coach Vic Fangio nor an...516falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jed-rigney-093019--19295220https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19295220Mon, 30 Sep 2019 16:44:08 +0000Steven BortsteinJed Rigney (Foul Territory Baseball) previews the upcoming Widcard matchups and recaps the final weekend of the regular season. Listen to our exclusive podcast right here!678falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-093019--19295219https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19295219Mon, 30 Sep 2019 16:43:48 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Drive Time Sports/Castle Country Radio) recaps all the top stories from this past weekend in college football plus a look at next weekend's action. Click the link for our podcast!1182falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-093019--19293394https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19293394Mon, 30 Sep 2019 14:02:24 +0000Steven BortsteinThe turning of the calendar to the month of October brings with it not only a change in the weather, but the pressure and pageantry of postseason baseball. The playoffs start this week as the magic number to bring home a trophy is 11. For what it’s...585falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-092719--19259214https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19259214Fri, 27 Sep 2019 16:43:11 +0000Steven BortsteinPaul West (P Dub's Sports Hub) previews the final weekend of the MLB regular season and talks potential playoff matchups. Check out our podcast here!1391falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lee-sterling-092719--19258550https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19258550Fri, 27 Sep 2019 15:33:55 +0000Steven BortsteinLee Sterling (Paramount Sports) has you college football and NFL best bets. Check them out right here!738falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-092719--19258546https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19258546Fri, 27 Sep 2019 15:33:29 +0000Steven BortsteinKristi Scales (Dallas Cowboys Radio Network) previews Sunday Night Football on the road at New Orleans. Listen to our podcast right here!824falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-092719--19257309https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19257309Fri, 27 Sep 2019 13:56:22 +0000Steven BortsteinWhat’s in a number? Well, it may be the difference between a new CBA for the NFL which gets done now, but may have an odd number of games for teams going forward. Reports are the NFL is considering eliminating preseason games, but adding only one...413falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-092619--19245211https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19245211Thu, 26 Sep 2019 16:48:25 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes (Trojan Football Update) talks college football, the Rams and Chargers and NASCAR. Hear all about it in our exclusive podcast right here!1113falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-092619--19243431https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19243431Thu, 26 Sep 2019 13:56:32 +0000Steven BortsteinScore one for the owners. It was reported Wednesday that running back Melvin Gordon will return to the Chargers this week. For the record, it appears neither he nor the team buckled on negotiating a new deal of any kind. And while that may make for...454falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-092519--19231804https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19231804Wed, 25 Sep 2019 17:28:20 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (Touchdown Wire/USA Today Sports) previews Week 4 highlight games, talks up the biggest surprises and disappointments thru Week 3 as well as the Cleveland Browns, the Washington Redskins and more. Listen to our podcast right here!1459falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-092519--19231755https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19231755Wed, 25 Sep 2019 17:24:25 +0000Steven BortsteinKnowing the early Christmas present is at home but not being able to open it is frustrating for a kid. Imagine being in charge of a roster of talented athletes but not being able to see one in action for at least a year. The Brooklyn Nets are in that...585falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-092419--19215988https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19215988Tue, 24 Sep 2019 16:38:38 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (Broncos Radio/KOA Radio) talked up the Broncos 0-3 start and looked ahead to this weekend's game against the Jacksonville Jaguars. Listen to our podcast right here!593falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/glenn-erby-092419--19215993https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19215993Tue, 24 Sep 2019 16:38:16 +0000Steven BortsteinGlenn Erby (Eagles Wire/USA Today Sports) chats up the Eagles 1-2 start, looks back at their most recent loss to Detroit and previews Thursday Night Football at Green Bay. Listen to our podcast right here!577falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-092419--19215095
I am a 25-year-old single male and I’ve been listening to this segment for almost a year now. I know you have a reputation for ending relationships, and that’s fine but I also want to know how you think people should approach prioritizing their career and personal goals versus dating.

I’m a student getting my degree in teaching and social work. I also work full time as well. To put it simply, my schedule is a mess. During the semester I work about 35 hours a week, have an unpaid internship for 15 hours, and take classes. Free time can be tough to find. Plus, working in the mental health field can be draining, so I am often exhausted by the end of the week.

I have dated here and there over the last two years, but usually find I don't have the mental and emotional energy to seriously invest in other people. I have one more year of grad school, so I will be quite busy until next June.

However, I really do want to find a partner and would like to date around. But I can’t seem to get the timing right. I keep going back forth between dating a bunch and not wanting to date at all.

Do you think "being too busy" is a fair reason not to date, or is it a cop out? Am I saving myself (and the women I might date) the difficulty of a crazy schedule, or am I selling myself short?

- Busy]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19215095Tue, 24 Sep 2019 14:56:07 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I am a 25-year-old single male and I’ve been listening to this segment for almost a year now. I know you have a reputation for ending relationships, and that’s fine but I also want to know how you think people should approach...
I am a 25-year-old single male and I’ve been listening to this segment for almost a year now. I know you have a reputation for ending relationships, and that’s fine but I also want to know how you think people should approach prioritizing their career and personal goals versus dating.

I’m a student getting my degree in teaching and social work. I also work full time as well. To put it simply, my schedule is a mess. During the semester I work about 35 hours a week, have an unpaid internship for 15 hours, and take classes. Free time can be tough to find. Plus, working in the mental health field can be draining, so I am often exhausted by the end of the week.

I have dated here and there over the last two years, but usually find I don't have the mental and emotional energy to seriously invest in other people. I have one more year of grad school, so I will be quite busy until next June.

However, I really do want to find a partner and would like to date around. But I can’t seem to get the timing right. I keep going back forth between dating a bunch and not wanting to date at all.

Do you think "being too busy" is a fair reason not to date, or is it a cop out? Am I saving myself (and the women I might date) the difficulty of a crazy schedule, or am I selling myself short?

- Busy]]>511falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-092419--19214940https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19214940Tue, 24 Sep 2019 14:39:30 +0000Steven BortsteinI’m not ready to pin Antonio Brown’s misdeeds on social media. After all, he is responsible for his own actions. And if you look at the mass amounts of people on social media, they’re not out there allegedly committing illegal acts. There is a...668falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-092319--19201545https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19201545Mon, 23 Sep 2019 16:34:09 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Drive Time Sports/Castle Country Radio) talks up a busy weekend in college football. Listen to our podcast right here!1542falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/zachary-neel-092319--19201547https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19201547Mon, 23 Sep 2019 16:33:47 +0000Steven BortsteinZachary Neel (Redskins Wire/USA Today Sports) previews Monday Night Football between Washington and the Chicago Bears and talks up NFC East winners and losers this past weekend. Check out our podcast right here!640falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-092319--19200346https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19200346Mon, 23 Sep 2019 14:22:08 +0000Steven BortsteinIt seems like a long time ago, but the Patriots released Antonio Brown on Friday. Then on Sunday morning, in another of an odd series of events from the former Patriot, he vented on Twitter calling out owner Bob Kraft as well as others while...669falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dan-lust-092019--19174434https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19174434Fri, 20 Sep 2019 22:34:21 +0000Steven BortsteinFriday afternoon, the New England Patriots announced in a statement they were releasing wide receiver Antonio Brown after just 11 days and one game with the organization. We're joined by noted sports attorney (see below for the link to the interview)...758falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-092019--19171442https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19171442Fri, 20 Sep 2019 16:28:24 +0000Steven BortsteinPaul West (P Dub's Sports Hub) previews this weekend's MLB matchups and talks up Wildcard races in the American and National Leagues. Listen to our exclusive podcast right here!1212falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-092019--19171440https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19171440Fri, 20 Sep 2019 16:28:05 +0000Steven BortsteinKristi Scales (Dallas Cowboys Radio) previews Sunday's game against the Miami Dolphins and updates us on Dak Prescott's contract status and more. Listen to our podcast right here!947falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lee-sterling-092019--19171436https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19171436Fri, 20 Sep 2019 16:27:44 +0000Steven BortsteinLee Sterling (Paramount Sports) previews some of college and pro football's best bets, including Georgia vs. Notre Dame and Kansas City vs. Baltimore. Check out our exclusive podcast right here!755falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-092019--19171416https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19171416Fri, 20 Sep 2019 16:24:18 +0000Steven BortsteinAdd another name to the list of casualties among starting quarterbacks this season in the NFL. Perhaps it should be noted with little to no ceremony that Miami announced Ryan Fitzpatrick is out and Josh Rosen is in when they face the Cowboys on...376falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-091919--19153376https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19153376Thu, 19 Sep 2019 16:31:18 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes (Trojan Insider Report/KDWN) previews tomorrow's USC vs Utah game and talks college football and NASCAR. Listen to our podcast right here!1268falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-091919--19153750https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19153750Thu, 19 Sep 2019 16:30:55 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (Touchdown Wire/USA Today Sports) looks at quarterback maladies in the NFL and previews this weekend's best games. Listen to our podcast right here!1457falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-091919--19153372https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19153372Thu, 19 Sep 2019 15:54:55 +0000Steven BortsteinThere’s been some chatter about the NFL’s television ratings perhaps taking a hit these next few weeks with the rise of top name quarterbacks missing time due to injury. I think the opposite is more likely to occur. This is the time for networks and...579falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/james-johnson-091819--19141177https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19141177Wed, 18 Sep 2019 16:38:08 +0000Steven BortsteinJames Johnson (Jaguars Wire/USA Today Sports) previews Thursday Night Football and talks Jalen Ramsey news and more. Listen to our podcast right here!901falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-091819--19141187https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19141187Wed, 18 Sep 2019 16:37:48 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) talked Sergio Garcia, Solheim Cup and the newest name on the PGA Tour scene. Check out our exclusive podcast right here!547falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-091819--19139809https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19139809Wed, 18 Sep 2019 14:23:55 +0000Steven BortsteinLet’s just say there’s no surprise when it comes to the fragile state of body and perhaps also of mind when it comes to Panthers QB Cam Newton. It’s more than evident in his demeanor on and off the field that he may not be feeling it anymore when it...461falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jed-rigney-091719--19129392https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19129392Tue, 17 Sep 2019 16:33:48 +0000Steven BortsteinJed Rigney (Foul Territory Baseball) chats up wildcard races and the final few weeks of the MLB regular season and more., including what we as fans want to see as a dream World Series matchup. Listen to our exclusive podcast right here!1092falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ed-valentine-091719--19129396https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19129396Tue, 17 Sep 2019 16:33:25 +0000Steven BortsteinEd Valentine (Big Blue View, SB Nation) chats up the latest on the New York Giants and the decision to go with Daniel Jones as starting quarterback ahead of Eli Manning. Click the link for our exclusive podcast!994falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-091719--19128839
I've been "grieving" the loss of guy I dated for about six months. Initially, we had great chemistry (or so I thought), but once I got to know him better I noticed the difference in our values and principles. We attempted to start dating again several times, but things just don't seem to work out between us.

It's been almost three years since we met and about two years since we stopped seeing each other, and I feel that I still care for him as much as I did when we were together. I'm starting to understand that maybe he just didn't care about me as much as I did about him. As I write this, I'm still examining these feelings.

Does this mean I still haven't gotten over him? Is it more or less complicated than I’m making it out to be? I really feel that these unanswered questions I have are preventing me from moving on and hopefully starting to date other people in the near future.

– Confused]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19128839Tue, 17 Sep 2019 15:27:32 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I've been "grieving" the loss of guy I dated for about six months. Initially, we had great chemistry (or so I thought), but once I got to know him better I noticed the difference in our values and principles. We attempted to start dating...
I've been "grieving" the loss of guy I dated for about six months. Initially, we had great chemistry (or so I thought), but once I got to know him better I noticed the difference in our values and principles. We attempted to start dating again several times, but things just don't seem to work out between us.

It's been almost three years since we met and about two years since we stopped seeing each other, and I feel that I still care for him as much as I did when we were together. I'm starting to understand that maybe he just didn't care about me as much as I did about him. As I write this, I'm still examining these feelings.

Does this mean I still haven't gotten over him? Is it more or less complicated than I’m making it out to be? I really feel that these unanswered questions I have are preventing me from moving on and hopefully starting to date other people in the near future.

– Confused]]>333falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-091719--19128828https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19128828Tue, 17 Sep 2019 15:25:42 +0000Steven BortsteinThe need to readjust on the go is a quality we don’t think of much when it comes to coaches. But I’ll be curious to see how Steelers coach Mike Tomlin goes about the rest of this season without Big Ben. The trade with Miami for Minkah Fitzpatrick...562falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jeff-risdon-091619--19118631https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19118631Mon, 16 Sep 2019 16:58:47 +0000Steven BortsteinJeff Risdon (Browns Wire/USA Today Sports) previews the Monday Night Football game between Cleveland and the NY Jets, plus talks up AFC North storylines. Listen to our podcast right here!908falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-091619--19118633https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19118633Mon, 16 Sep 2019 16:58:19 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Drive Time Sports/Castle Country Radio) talks up Pac-12 Football and national college football headlines. Check out our exclusive podcast right here!1422falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-091619--19116842https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19116842Mon, 16 Sep 2019 15:34:28 +0000Steven BortsteinIf the collective postgame fallout from week 1 of the NFL season was called “Overreaction Monday”, this week’s edition ought to be called “Reality Check Monday”. The Steelers and Giants are both 0 and 2, and with injuries again creeping up on Big Ben...416falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-091319--19092164https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19092164Fri, 13 Sep 2019 16:43:47 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (USA Today Sports/Touchdown Wire) previews key games in Week 2 of the NFL and offers his insight into the Odell Beckham, Jr. comments and the latest on Antonio Brown. Check out our podcast right here!1248falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-091319--19092167https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19092167Fri, 13 Sep 2019 16:43:26 +0000Steven BortsteinKristi Scales (Dallas Cowboys Radio) recaps last week's win over the Giants and previews the team's first roadtrip of the season where they'll face the Washington Redskins. Check out our podcast right here!728falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lee-sterling-091319--19092170https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19092170Fri, 13 Sep 2019 16:42:59 +0000Steven BortsteinLee Sterling (Paramount Sports) offers his best bets in both college football and NFL games this weekend. Listen to our podcast right here!672falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-091319--19090555https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19090555Fri, 13 Sep 2019 14:00:18 +0000Steven BortsteinThe hits just keep on coming to the sport of horse racing. Let it be known that absolutely nothing will change when it comes to Justify winning last year’s Triple Crown. Your recollection, and most importantly history, will not be changed. Maybe...552falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bob-stoops-091219--19079906https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19079906Thu, 12 Sep 2019 16:06:35 +0000Steven BortsteinBob Stoops (Former OU head coach) talks about his new book and talks about his new gig as head coach of the Dallas Renegades in the XFL. Listen to our podcast right here!554falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-091219--19079908https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19079908Thu, 12 Sep 2019 16:06:13 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (Broncos Radio Network) talks last Monday night's loss to the Raiders plus previews Sunday's home opener against the Bears. Listen to our podcast right here!632falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-091219--19079907https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19079907Thu, 12 Sep 2019 16:05:50 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes (USC Trojan Update) talks Lynn Swann's departure from USC, plus California's Fair Pay to Play act and much more. Listen to our podcast right here!1294falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-091219--19079026https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19079026Thu, 12 Sep 2019 14:36:49 +0000Steven BortsteinSometimes a bully needs a kick in the butt to be reminded they’re not the biggest kid in the class. I don’t think the future of American basketball is in some turmoil since they lost in an international tournament most of you had never heard of until...617falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tim-weaver-091119--19068884https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19068884Wed, 11 Sep 2019 16:24:15 +0000Steven BortsteinTim Weaver (Panthers Wire/USA Today Sports) previews Thursday Night Football between the Panthers and Buccaneers and much more. Check out our podcast right here!573falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-091119--19069893https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19069893Wed, 11 Sep 2019 16:23:53 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) previews the opening tournament of the new PGA Tour season and more. Check out our podcast right here!711falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jeremy-evans-091119--19069892https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19069892Wed, 11 Sep 2019 16:22:35 +0000Steven BortsteinJeremy Evans (CSL Legal) chats up the latest developments on the Antonio Brown sexual assault allegations and lawsuit. Check out our podcast right here!857falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-091119--19068426https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19068426Wed, 11 Sep 2019 14:03:12 +0000Steven BortsteinAs far as I’m concerned, let Odell Beckham Junior wear the damn watch. If he’s honestly going to spend more time and effort to protect his ability to wear a gaudy, incredibly expensive and totally unnecessary piece of costume jewelry, who are we to...392falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-091019--19059613https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19059613Tue, 10 Sep 2019 16:46:23 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Busacrini (Castle Country Radio) talks MLB storylines and "level of confidence" for Dodgers baseball. Listen to our podcast right here!1378falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/cory-paus-091019--19059606https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19059606Tue, 10 Sep 2019 16:45:46 +0000Steven BortsteinCory Paus (Bleav Podcast Network) chats up top stories in Pac-12 Football, including the resignation of Lynn Swann as USC Athletic Director. Get the podcast right here!1034falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/danielle-bday--19058449https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19058449Tue, 10 Sep 2019 14:54:27 +0000Steven BortsteinYou escaped "Club 27"!262falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-091019--19058126
I've been dating a guy for a little over a year now, and he has a 2-year-old daughter from a previous relationship. In the beginning of our relationship, I kept finding out on social media that he'd gone places with his ex and his ex's family. Months later, I saw that they all went to a festival together in a different state with some friends. (He told me and had proof that they didn't sleep in the same bedroom.)

When he came back, he told me he has been living with his ex for three years because of their child. Ever since he shared that, he communicates a lot more. He's afraid to tell his ex about us (she's stubborn), and afraid to move out because she's threatened she'll get full custody. He can't do anything because he doesn't have a job. He watches his daughter six days a week because his ex works night shifts. He can only go out one night a week. We can only see each other for a couple of hours every other day.

Him being in his situation has made it hard for us to take the next step in our relationship. Since he was lying in the beginning, it's still kind of hard to trust him to tell me what's happening between him and his ex. Is it worth waiting to see where this can go?

– Stuck]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19058126Tue, 10 Sep 2019 14:26:19 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I've been dating a guy for a little over a year now, and he has a 2-year-old daughter from a previous relationship. In the beginning of our relationship, I kept finding out on social media that he'd gone places with his ex and his ex's...
I've been dating a guy for a little over a year now, and he has a 2-year-old daughter from a previous relationship. In the beginning of our relationship, I kept finding out on social media that he'd gone places with his ex and his ex's family. Months later, I saw that they all went to a festival together in a different state with some friends. (He told me and had proof that they didn't sleep in the same bedroom.)

When he came back, he told me he has been living with his ex for three years because of their child. Ever since he shared that, he communicates a lot more. He's afraid to tell his ex about us (she's stubborn), and afraid to move out because she's threatened she'll get full custody. He can't do anything because he doesn't have a job. He watches his daughter six days a week because his ex works night shifts. He can only go out one night a week. We can only see each other for a couple of hours every other day.

Him being in his situation has made it hard for us to take the next step in our relationship. Since he was lying in the beginning, it's still kind of hard to trust him to tell me what's happening between him and his ex. Is it worth waiting to see where this can go?

– Stuck]]>375falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-091019--19058103https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19058103Tue, 10 Sep 2019 14:24:45 +0000Steven BortsteinAll eyes will be on LA this Sunday when the Rams face New Orleans in a rematch of last season’s controversial NFC Championship. And let’s fan the flame by reminding you the only controversy is in the minds of Saints fans who still should be asking...451falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-090919--19049461https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19049461Mon, 09 Sep 2019 16:58:57 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (Broncos Radio) previews tonight's game against the Raiders. He also discusses the Antonio Brown fallout and talks AFC West winners from Sunday's action. Listen to our podcast right here!913falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/mark-lane-090919--19049464https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19049464Mon, 09 Sep 2019 16:58:10 +0000Steven BortsteinMark Lane (Texans Wire, USA Today Sports) previews Houston vs. New Orleans and talks AFC South rivals. Check out our podcast right here!950falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-090919--19049393https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19049393Mon, 09 Sep 2019 16:51:38 +0000Steven BortsteinThere’s sure to be a ton of reaction, both positive and negative, when it comes to Antonio Brown’s move to the Patriots. Let me prep you for another school of thought, in case you haven’t considered this already. Brown decided to take less money and...885falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/marcus-mosher-090619--19024024https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19024024Fri, 06 Sep 2019 15:51:02 +0000Steven BortsteinMarcus Mosher (Raiders Wire/USA Today Sports) joined us with the latest on the Antonio Brown saga and what it means for the immediate future for both the player and the team. Check out our podcast right here!818falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-090619--19023766https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19023766Fri, 06 Sep 2019 15:23:41 +0000Steven BortsteinKristi Scales (Cowboys Radio) previews the opening season game between Dallas and the NY Giants and recaps a wild offseason for the Cowboys. Click here for our podcast!879falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lee-sterling-090619--19023768https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19023768Fri, 06 Sep 2019 15:23:06 +0000Steven BortsteinLee Sterling (Paramount Sports) has his NFL opening week best bets as well as best bets for week 2 of the college football season. Click here for our exclusive podcast!901falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-090619--19022916https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19022916Fri, 06 Sep 2019 14:00:01 +0000Steven BortsteinHonestly, there wasn’t much to take from Green Bay’s opening night win over the Bears on either side of the ball. Bears fans have every right to be frustrated over the play of quarterback Mitch Trubisky while the Packers could well use the win and...277falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-090519--19013634https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19013634Thu, 05 Sep 2019 16:16:21 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (USA Today SMG) previews some big Week 1 NFL matchups and offers his take on Ezekiel Elliott, Melvin Gordon and Antonio Brown. Check out our podcast right here!1065falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-090519--19013371https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19013371Thu, 05 Sep 2019 15:54:23 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes talks USC, UCLA football as well as Rams and Chargers news. You can hear our podcast right here!1187falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-090519--19012237https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19012237Thu, 05 Sep 2019 14:54:14 +0000Steven BortsteinIn this day when repeated usage of the terms “fake news” and sensationalism are all the rage, it would be nice for some of these national shows to call attention to their glaring need in the past to promote LaVar Ball. Seems his shoes were almost as...649falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/henry-mckenna-090419--19000690https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19000690Wed, 04 Sep 2019 16:27:07 +0000Steven BortsteinHenry McKenna (Patriots Wire) joined us this morning to preview the Sunday Night Football game against the Steelers. We also discussed the Patriots quest for a repeat title bid and more. Listen to our podcast right here!846falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-090419--18999633https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18999633Wed, 04 Sep 2019 14:22:45 +0000Steven BortsteinThere’s nothing inherently wrong about the notion of tanking. Consumers of any given product are allowed to choose whether they support a business that isn’t putting out the best effort. If the front office of the Miami Dolphins organization feels...786falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lee-sterling-082919--18951670There's also only one opening weekend of the college football season.
So we put those things together for an exclusive FIRST SPORTS podcast to open the college football season with our friend and nationally renowned public handicapper Lee Sterling, who runs the operations at Paramount Sports.
We've got five games we're looking at for the Saturday card, including Northwestern vs. Stanford, Oklahoma vs. Houston and Auburn taking on Oregon.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18951670Thu, 29 Aug 2019 19:19:16 +0000Steven BortsteinThere are but a handful of guests who I'll volunteer to come in during my vacation to record a segment. There's also only one opening weekend of the college football season. So we put those things together for an exclusive FIRST SPORTS podcast to open...There's also only one opening weekend of the college football season.
So we put those things together for an exclusive FIRST SPORTS podcast to open the college football season with our friend and nationally renowned public handicapper Lee Sterling, who runs the operations at Paramount Sports.
We've got five games we're looking at for the Saturday card, including Northwestern vs. Stanford, Oklahoma vs. Houston and Auburn taking on Oregon.]]>1283falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-082819--18940390https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18940390Wed, 28 Aug 2019 16:43:49 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes (Trojan Football Report) chatted USC, UCLA football and offered his thoughts on the retirement of Andrew Luck. Check out our podcast right here!1215falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-082819--18940391https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18940391Wed, 28 Aug 2019 16:43:31 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) talked about Rory McIlroy's big payday and talked PGA Tour championships and more. Listen to our podcast right here!787falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-082819--18938642https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18938642Wed, 28 Aug 2019 14:07:19 +0000Steven BortsteinEveryone loves a marketing campaign or feel-good story. When US Womens Soccer team star Carli Lloyd made a 55-yard field goal in a practice session last week, fans and media were abuzz with the idea of Lloyd trying out for an NFL team. I don’t mean to...691falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jed-rigney-082719--18930865https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18930865Tue, 27 Aug 2019 16:37:31 +0000Steven BortsteinJed Rigney (Foul Territory Baseball) talked up the latest in MLB news and notes. Listen to our podcast right here!947falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-082719--18930867https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18930867Tue, 27 Aug 2019 16:37:08 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (TouchdownWire/USA Today SMG) chatted up the Andrew Luck retirement and other NFL preseason news and notes. Check out our podcast here!1201falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-082719--18929744
Last week I caught my boyfriend of a year and half looking through my phone. I did lie to him about who it was who texted me, but I lied to catch him. I agree that it was immature and I am not proud of my behavior, but isn't he equally as wrong for snooping behind my back?

Here's a little back story. I didn't see him snoop because I was in another room, but I could tell by the questions he asked me after I looked at it. When my phone first went off and he told me there was a message, I just dismissed it and said, "It's probably my sister." After I checked my text message he said, "What did your sister have to say?” I didn't answer and put my phone back on the table. He then asked again which made me believe he was setting me up. He then asked, "It was your sister, huh?" And I immediately responded with, "Yup, it was." He then called me out on the lie and I confirmed my suspicion.

I tried to apologize and explain myself. He instantly began grabbing stuff and ran out the door. Later that night, he sent me an email telling me that he couldn't date a liar. Fast forward a week later and we met in a public place and exchanged belongings. That was after he sent irrational and unstable text messages that I didn't respond to. No words were exchanged, but at the end he walked to my car window and said, "Have fun with the new man."

He couldn't be any more wrong. I haven't slept for a week, barely eaten a thing. I am not happy with the way this went down, and I feel as though we should have been able to talk as mature adults. He got extremely impulsive and denied that he did anything wrong. Granted, I admit to being very immature and childish, but I was caught up in the moment.

I am still conflicted. There’s no turning back, and this relationship will never be back to what it was. But I am sad and hurt that he would take a harsh parting cheap shot as he packed his car. It was a shot straight to my soul. He knows there isn't anyone else – we are together every night. The reason he got so upset is because the text message was from someone at work and when he looked at my phone, he didn't recognize the name. Did he have a right to snoop in my phone? And did he have a right to set me up and then turn around and blame me for the whole scenario, when in all actuality my behavior was a direct result of his?

– Confused]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18929744Tue, 27 Aug 2019 14:20:28 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, Last week I caught my boyfriend of a year and half looking through my phone. I did lie to him about who it was who texted me, but I lied to catch him. I agree that it was immature and I am not proud of my behavior, but isn't he equally...
Last week I caught my boyfriend of a year and half looking through my phone. I did lie to him about who it was who texted me, but I lied to catch him. I agree that it was immature and I am not proud of my behavior, but isn't he equally as wrong for snooping behind my back?

Here's a little back story. I didn't see him snoop because I was in another room, but I could tell by the questions he asked me after I looked at it. When my phone first went off and he told me there was a message, I just dismissed it and said, "It's probably my sister." After I checked my text message he said, "What did your sister have to say?” I didn't answer and put my phone back on the table. He then asked again which made me believe he was setting me up. He then asked, "It was your sister, huh?" And I immediately responded with, "Yup, it was." He then called me out on the lie and I confirmed my suspicion.

I tried to apologize and explain myself. He instantly began grabbing stuff and ran out the door. Later that night, he sent me an email telling me that he couldn't date a liar. Fast forward a week later and we met in a public place and exchanged belongings. That was after he sent irrational and unstable text messages that I didn't respond to. No words were exchanged, but at the end he walked to my car window and said, "Have fun with the new man."

He couldn't be any more wrong. I haven't slept for a week, barely eaten a thing. I am not happy with the way this went down, and I feel as though we should have been able to talk as mature adults. He got extremely impulsive and denied that he did anything wrong. Granted, I admit to being very immature and childish, but I was caught up in the moment.

I am still conflicted. There’s no turning back, and this relationship will never be back to what it was. But I am sad and hurt that he would take a harsh parting cheap shot as he packed his car. It was a shot straight to my soul. He knows there isn't anyone else – we are together every night. The reason he got so upset is because the text message was from someone at work and when he looked at my phone, he didn't recognize the name. Did he have a right to snoop in my phone? And did he have a right to set me up and then turn around and blame me for the whole scenario, when in all actuality my behavior was a direct result of his?

– Confused]]>412falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-082719--18929552https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18929552Tue, 27 Aug 2019 13:57:09 +0000Steven BortsteinAs we approach the official start of the college football season this week, let’s take a moment to think of the hard working folks who make up the medical staff at Penn State. According to court documents, a former team doctor was pressured by head...637falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-082619--18920099https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18920099Mon, 26 Aug 2019 16:48:34 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Castle Country Radio) recaps a wild weekend of MLB action, including the Yankees taking two of three from the Dodgers. Listen to our podcast right here!1201falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kevin-hickey-082619--18919349https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18919349Mon, 26 Aug 2019 15:19:04 +0000Steven BortsteinKevin Hickey (Colts Wire/USA Today SMG) updates us on the Andrew Luck retirement story, and details what's next for the Colts. Listen to our podcast right here!1343falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-082619--18918741https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18918741Mon, 26 Aug 2019 14:41:22 +0000Steven BortsteinIf your last image of Andrew Luck had been of him being carted off a field or carried off on a stretcher, there’s a chance many of us wouldn’t be calling him soft for announcing his retirement. Injuries and the way we handle the rehab process is...993falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/zachary-neel-082319--18899427https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18899427Fri, 23 Aug 2019 16:38:18 +0000Steven BortsteinZachary Neel (Redskins Wire) talks Redskins preseason football and highlights the NFC East. Check out our podcast right here!652falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-082319--18899425https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18899425Fri, 23 Aug 2019 16:37:59 +0000Steven BortsteinPaul West (P Dubs Sports Hub) previews three big MLB series this weekend and more. Listen to our exclusive podcast right here!1495falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-082319--18898337https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18898337Fri, 23 Aug 2019 14:25:54 +0000Steven BortsteinWas there a better way for the NFL to plan on doing away with preseason games than what occurred Thursday night in, of all places, Winnipeg? The Raiders and Packers played a game on an 80-yard, nearly unsafe field, presumably uninterested that the...505falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-082219--18889401https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18889401Thu, 22 Aug 2019 16:43:58 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes (CBS Sports) talks USC, UCLA and the latest on the Melvin Gordon situation with the Chargers. Click the link for our podcast right here!1127falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-myerberg-082219--18889404https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18889404Thu, 22 Aug 2019 16:43:40 +0000Steven BortsteinPaul Myerberg (College Football Editor, USA Today) previews the upcoming season and forecasts the Big 10 Conference. Listen to our podcast right here!879falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-082219--18889411https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18889411Thu, 22 Aug 2019 16:43:20 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (NFL Editor, Touchdown Wire) talks Baker Mayfield, Antonio Brown, the XFL and more football news. Check out our podcast right here!1375falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-082219--18889351https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18889351Thu, 22 Aug 2019 16:36:45 +0000Steven BortsteinSign me up now for a less than classic example of football mediocrity when the Guardians take on the Defenders. Those were two of the eight nicknames revealed this week for the teams which will comprise the XFL, set to launch in February. Before you...924falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-082119--18879667https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18879667Wed, 21 Aug 2019 17:13:20 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) previews this weekend's Fed Ex Cup Tour Championship Tournament. Listen to our podcast right here!912falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/phil-steele-082119--18879665https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18879665Wed, 21 Aug 2019 17:13:00 +0000Steven BortsteinPhil Steele previews headlines and storylines for the upcoming College Football season. Check out our podcast right here!1132falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-082119--18879018https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18879018Wed, 21 Aug 2019 15:57:43 +0000Steven BortsteinI get it that Baker Mayfield wants to play the role of the NFL’s newest and better bad boy. He’s the ultimate story of redemption after being passed over so often as a younger player. It’s one thing to demand more of teammates and call out media in...730falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wade-smith-082019--18866964https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18866964Tue, 20 Aug 2019 16:40:03 +0000Steven BortsteinWade Smith (I Heart Radio/Birmingham) talks SEC Football and offers picks on the upcoming college football season. Listen to our podcast right here!831falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jeremy-evans-082019--18866965https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18866965Tue, 20 Aug 2019 16:39:38 +0000Steven BortsteinJeremy Evans (CA Sports Lawyer) talks Michael Avenatti, NIKE and Jay-Z teaming with the NFL. Check out our podcast right here!862falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-082019--18865945
My ex and I dated for four and a half years and were engaged for a time. We had the entire wedding planned, and about five months out from the wedding, I told him I wasn't sure about getting married because I felt we had some things to work out before we said "I do." He wanted to break up because he felt blindsided, and I wanted to work it out because I loved him.

Two months later, he messaged a girl from his work late night from my Facebook page. He didn’t realize that I was logged into his computer. We broke up and he moved out. Two or three weeks go by and we causally start hooking up. Terrible choice, I know. I was confused and thought I still loved him and was feeling vulnerable. We hooked up on and off for about a year before he got into a serious relationship. A couple of years have gone by and he just got out of said relationship.
We started causally catching up and without intending to, hung out and hooked up again.

I don't have feelings for him, but I like the attention. I haven't been able to find someone new since our breakup so I was feeling a little needy. He wants to hook up again, but I'm torn. I'm lonely and could definitely use the affection and attention, but ultimately I know that affection is only temporary and mostly for hookup purposes only. I got a little tipsy the other night and sent him some nudes, which I know was a bad idea but it felt sexy and nice to turn someone on. How can I be strong to tell him no, and in a nice, respectful way? Or should I just say "whatever" and have fun?

– Attention]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18865945Tue, 20 Aug 2019 14:37:14 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, My ex and I dated for four and a half years and were engaged for a time. We had the entire wedding planned, and about five months out from the wedding, I told him I wasn't sure about getting married because I felt we had some things to...
My ex and I dated for four and a half years and were engaged for a time. We had the entire wedding planned, and about five months out from the wedding, I told him I wasn't sure about getting married because I felt we had some things to work out before we said "I do." He wanted to break up because he felt blindsided, and I wanted to work it out because I loved him.

Two months later, he messaged a girl from his work late night from my Facebook page. He didn’t realize that I was logged into his computer. We broke up and he moved out. Two or three weeks go by and we causally start hooking up. Terrible choice, I know. I was confused and thought I still loved him and was feeling vulnerable. We hooked up on and off for about a year before he got into a serious relationship. A couple of years have gone by and he just got out of said relationship.
We started causally catching up and without intending to, hung out and hooked up again.

I don't have feelings for him, but I like the attention. I haven't been able to find someone new since our breakup so I was feeling a little needy. He wants to hook up again, but I'm torn. I'm lonely and could definitely use the affection and attention, but ultimately I know that affection is only temporary and mostly for hookup purposes only. I got a little tipsy the other night and sent him some nudes, which I know was a bad idea but it felt sexy and nice to turn someone on. How can I be strong to tell him no, and in a nice, respectful way? Or should I just say "whatever" and have fun?

– Attention]]>437falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-082019--18865814
Click the link for my thoughts on this and more in today's edition of the MORNING MONOLOGUE, heard weekdays during FIRST SPORTS!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18865814Tue, 20 Aug 2019 14:23:25 +0000Steven BortsteinIt’s time to start making NFL predictions, and while I boast that there is little to glean from a team’s regular season performance based on what you see in the preseason, it CAN be helpful in seeing a team’s progression from one season to the next....
Click the link for my thoughts on this and more in today's edition of the MORNING MONOLOGUE, heard weekdays during FIRST SPORTS!]]>556falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ed-smith-081919--18857191https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18857191Mon, 19 Aug 2019 16:36:33 +0000Steven BortsteinEd Smith (Bleav In Cardinals) talks Arizona Cardinals football preseason notes and previews the NFC West. Take a listen to our chat right here!790falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-081919--18857186https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18857186Mon, 19 Aug 2019 16:36:10 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Drive Time Sports/Castle Country Radio) talks Dodgers and more MLB news. Check out our podcast right here!1391falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-081919--18857192https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18857192Mon, 19 Aug 2019 16:35:51 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (Broncos Radio Network) previews tonight's preseason game against the 49ers. Listen to our podcast right here!465falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-081919--18856732https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18856732Mon, 19 Aug 2019 15:32:06 +0000Steven BortsteinIn the end, people were upset Colin Kaepernick took a settlement from the NFL to end his collusion case. Perhaps justifiably, people thought Colin’s movement was about money. Now Jay Z comes in to offer his services to bring awareness and social...515falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tim-weaver-081619--18836526https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18836526Fri, 16 Aug 2019 16:35:55 +0000Steven BortsteinTim Weaver (Panthers Wire) previews tonight's preseason match against the Bills, talks Cam Newton and other storylines for the Panthers this season. Listen to our podcast right here!752falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/terry-johnson-081619--18836517https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18836517Fri, 16 Aug 2019 16:35:34 +0000Steven BortsteinTerry Johnson (ACC) previews the upcoming college football season. Check out our podcast right here!841falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jed-rigney-081619--18836509https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18836509Fri, 16 Aug 2019 16:35:12 +0000Steven BortsteinJed Rigney (Foul Territory Baseball) talked Dodgers vs. Braves, Yankees vs. Indians and other big series this weekend plus more. Listen to our podcast right here!993falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-081619--18836034https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18836034Fri, 16 Aug 2019 15:25:48 +0000Steven BortsteinThere was no questioning the work Boogie Cousins was putting into his rehab from the 2018 achilles tear. He overcame so much to get back on the floor last season in limited time with Golden State. The Lakers had high hopes when they signed him this...384falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-081519--18827152https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18827152Thu, 15 Aug 2019 16:07:50 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong talked Jaguars, Raiders, Cowboys and the NFL's affiliation with Jay-Z. Check out our podcast right here!1482falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-081519--18827009https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18827009Thu, 15 Aug 2019 15:52:57 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes talked Mike Tyson's weed use plus Chargers and Rams preseason news, USC & UCLA expectations and more. Listen to our podcast right here!1103falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-081519--18826271https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18826271Thu, 15 Aug 2019 14:27:56 +0000Steven BortsteinTo paraphrase Jay Z, let’s be clear about this, the deal being put together between the NFL and Roc Nation isn’t about injustice. He’s got that part right. What is going to be on display for all to see is entertainment disguised as social reform. The...866falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-081419--18816814https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18816814Wed, 14 Aug 2019 15:53:37 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) talks slow play, Tiger Woods and more headlines approaching this week's BMW Championship. Check out our podcast right here!721falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ed-valentine-081419--18816545https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18816545Wed, 14 Aug 2019 15:27:40 +0000Steven BortsteinEd Valentine (Big Blue View/SB Nation) talks NY Giants football and more headlines around Eli Manning, Daniel Jones and the NFC East. Listen to our exclusive podcast right here!820falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chris-hummer-081419--18816548https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18816548Wed, 14 Aug 2019 15:27:01 +0000Steven BortsteinChris Hummer (247 Sports) talks Big 12 Football and more. Listen to our chat right here!876falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-081419--18816063https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18816063Wed, 14 Aug 2019 14:59:46 +0000Steven BortsteinThings just presumably went from bad to worse for the Indianapolis Colts and quarterback/intaker of modern medicine Andrew Luck. What was originally a calf strain, which he was diagnosed with in March, is now a "high anklish" issue in his left leg...522falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-081319--18807045
I fell in love with my dental hygienist, whom I thought was separated. We had a loving and caring friendship that grew into a romance. It lasted more than a year – until recently.

When I found out she was still married, it crushed me, but she told me she was leaving her husband. But it didn't happen. Eventually, I decided to try to move on from her. Every time I stopped talking to her to try to move past our relationship, she sent me a text saying she loved me and still wanted a future together.

Last month, I was celebrating the Fourth of July with someone else, and she sent me a note saying she was going to fight for me and never give up. I explained to her that she needed to get a divorce, and then maybe we could establish something again. But I couldn't stop thinking about her and the promise that she would leave her husband.

Eventually, we got into a fight because I found out she was planning a family vacation with her husband. Hurtful words were spoken. She said that I was being pushy, a bully, and verbally abusive and she feels that she did nothing wrong to me.

I've tried to explain that her not being honest to her husband or family and using me for an emotional and physical affair is just wrong. I still care for her, but now I just want to move forward with my life and forget about her. It's hard because we used to text and talk every day. I know it's best not to contact her. My closest friends who know the whole situation tell me to forget about her, but it is so hard. How do I move forward without feeling hurt or used?

– Used]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18807045Tue, 13 Aug 2019 14:53:35 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I fell in love with my dental hygienist, whom I thought was separated. We had a loving and caring friendship that grew into a romance. It lasted more than a year – until recently. When I found out she was still married, it crushed me,...
I fell in love with my dental hygienist, whom I thought was separated. We had a loving and caring friendship that grew into a romance. It lasted more than a year – until recently.

When I found out she was still married, it crushed me, but she told me she was leaving her husband. But it didn't happen. Eventually, I decided to try to move on from her. Every time I stopped talking to her to try to move past our relationship, she sent me a text saying she loved me and still wanted a future together.

Last month, I was celebrating the Fourth of July with someone else, and she sent me a note saying she was going to fight for me and never give up. I explained to her that she needed to get a divorce, and then maybe we could establish something again. But I couldn't stop thinking about her and the promise that she would leave her husband.

Eventually, we got into a fight because I found out she was planning a family vacation with her husband. Hurtful words were spoken. She said that I was being pushy, a bully, and verbally abusive and she feels that she did nothing wrong to me.

I've tried to explain that her not being honest to her husband or family and using me for an emotional and physical affair is just wrong. I still care for her, but now I just want to move forward with my life and forget about her. It's hard because we used to text and talk every day. I know it's best not to contact her. My closest friends who know the whole situation tell me to forget about her, but it is so hard. How do I move forward without feeling hurt or used?

– Used]]>335falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-081319--18806972https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18806972Tue, 13 Aug 2019 14:47:18 +0000Steven BortsteinWhile all eyes in Dallas have been on Ezekiel Elliott and his holdout, allow me to introduce you to the latest kerfuffle with quarterback Dak Prescott. He wants his lion’s share of the wealth, and a case can be made where he deserves it, even more...738falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/scott-carasik-081219--18799403https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18799403Mon, 12 Aug 2019 17:29:26 +0000Steven BortsteinScott Carasik (The Falcons Wire) previews the upcoming Atlanta Falcons season and talked up the NFC South. Check out our podcast right here!986falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-081219--18799091https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18799091Mon, 12 Aug 2019 16:49:05 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Drive Time Sports, Castle Country Radio) chatted up Pac-12 Football and more. Listen to our podcast right here!1501falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-081219--18798836https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18798836Mon, 12 Aug 2019 16:07:04 +0000Steven BortsteinNot that we should take anything we see in preseason games seriously, but if you happen to be favoring the Cleveland Browns this season, it’s notable what Baker Mayfield did on the opening drive of their blowout win over Washington. Mayfield and his...643falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/marcus-mosher-080919--18774802https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18774802Fri, 09 Aug 2019 16:16:07 +0000Steven BortsteinMarcus Mosher (Raiders Wire/USA Today SMG) chats up Raiders training camp news and notes, talks preseason opener and previews the AFC West. Listen to our podcast right here!984falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jed-rigney-0080919--18774431https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18774431Fri, 09 Aug 2019 15:52:40 +0000Steven BortsteinJed Rigney (Foul Territory Baseball) talks up MLB's announcement of going to the Field of Dreams and more. Check out our podcast right here!827falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/cameron-da-silva-0080919--18774400https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18774400Fri, 09 Aug 2019 15:25:50 +0000Steven BortsteinCameron Da Silva (Rams Wire/USA Today SMG) talks up Rams training camp news, previews this weekend's preseason opener and gives his thoughts on the NFC West. Listen to our podcast right here.1081falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/saturday-monologue-081019--18774004Check the link for my thoughts on this and more during this special edition of the MORNING MONOLOGUE!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18774004Fri, 09 Aug 2019 14:28:03 +0000Steven BortsteinThere's all sorts of silly cliches I could use as to describe my excitement for this idea. Frankly, it's a long time coming.... And yes, I'm hoping this won't be the first time we cross these worlds together. It's too good an idea to just have as a...Check the link for my thoughts on this and more during this special edition of the MORNING MONOLOGUE!]]>456falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-080919--18773412https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18773412Fri, 09 Aug 2019 13:56:21 +0000Steven BortsteinSome fans will paint Kevin Durant as a liar or at the very least as disingenuous with his comments this week saying the Warriors didn’t pressure his early return in the NBA finals after rehabbing an ankle injury. They’ll ask why not then stay with...685falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-080819--18764588https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18764588Thu, 08 Aug 2019 16:01:06 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong talks holdouts, Hard Knocks, Kaepernick, Kitchens, AB's feet and more preseason/training camp news. (Note some audio quality issues). Take a listen to our podcast right here!1018falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-080819--18764464https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18764464Thu, 08 Aug 2019 15:54:38 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (KOA/Broncos/I Heart Radio) previews tonight's Broncos vs. Seahawks showdown plus latest Broncos news. Check out our podcast right here!759falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-080819--18764458https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18764458Thu, 08 Aug 2019 15:54:12 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes (CBS Sports) previews Rams vs. Raiders plus thoughts on the "Rich Paul Rule" and more. Listen to our podcast right here!1185falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-080819--18764455https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18764455Thu, 08 Aug 2019 15:48:22 +0000Steven BortsteinThere’s some misinformation when it comes to Colin Kaepernick’s Instagram video (see above) of him suggesting he’s been denied work for 889 days. It’s true he’s not played in the NFL since he opted out of his contract in March, 2017. But that’s not...832falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-080719--18753432https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18753432Wed, 07 Aug 2019 15:37:02 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (GolfNewsNet) talked up this week's opening round of the FedEx Cup Playoffs. Listen to our podcast right here!545falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jeff-risdon-080719--18753391https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18753391Wed, 07 Aug 2019 15:27:28 +0000Steven BortsteinJeff Risdon (BrownsWire/USA Today) chats up Freddie Kitchens as new head coach and Baker Mayfield's expectations. Plus we talked AFC North teams and more. Listen to our podcast right here!901falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-080719--18751672https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18751672Wed, 07 Aug 2019 14:23:45 +0000Steven BortsteinSay what you will about hating on the name of the football team in Washington, but the Redskins are raising the bar for introducing sports gambling into their games. It’s called Predict the Game and will be introduced for their first preseason game on...631falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/gavino-borquez-080619--18743038https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18743038Tue, 06 Aug 2019 16:40:19 +0000Steven BortsteinGavino Borquez (Chargers Wire/USA Today SMG) previews the Chargers upcoming season and updates the latest on Melvin Gordon's holdout. Listen to our podcast right here!1129falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-080619--18741046
A month ago, I met this guy on Instagram (we have the same interest in cosplaying). Within two weeks, we confessed our feelings for each other, even though it's really out of character for me to fall for someone in such a short time. He lives on the other end of the country while I'm right here. We still manage to find good times to talk. We talk about how much we care for each other and get excited whenever we discuss my going to his city for college next year. He's really funny but can also be serious and a good listener. He's comforted me about my worries and confided in me. We're able to get along well and can talk without feeling pressure (given the circumstances, since we are behind screens).

One thing that kind of bothered me was when I accidentally saw a comment on his account from another woman, and I wound up doing some snooping and found out she was his ex (broke up last fall). So I'm wondering: Am I a rebound or someone to get his mind off of her? He did mention that he wants nothing to do with her, but all of his accounts (he did not tell me about two of them) still follow her. And if it pains him so much, why doesn't he delete his account that has some memories of her on it? The thing is, we haven't really established what our relationship is. There aren't really any labels, and I suppose I'm OK with that because maybe labels add more pressure?

Should I even ask him what we are this early on? I don't want to make assumptions. I've never been in a relationship before, and with the long-distance issue ... well, it makes me scared to ask. I don't want to frighten him away.

– Long-Distance Complications]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18741046Tue, 06 Aug 2019 14:23:55 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, A month ago, I met this guy on Instagram (we have the same interest in cosplaying). Within two weeks, we confessed our feelings for each other, even though it's really out of character for me to fall for someone in such a short time. He...
A month ago, I met this guy on Instagram (we have the same interest in cosplaying). Within two weeks, we confessed our feelings for each other, even though it's really out of character for me to fall for someone in such a short time. He lives on the other end of the country while I'm right here. We still manage to find good times to talk. We talk about how much we care for each other and get excited whenever we discuss my going to his city for college next year. He's really funny but can also be serious and a good listener. He's comforted me about my worries and confided in me. We're able to get along well and can talk without feeling pressure (given the circumstances, since we are behind screens).

One thing that kind of bothered me was when I accidentally saw a comment on his account from another woman, and I wound up doing some snooping and found out she was his ex (broke up last fall). So I'm wondering: Am I a rebound or someone to get his mind off of her? He did mention that he wants nothing to do with her, but all of his accounts (he did not tell me about two of them) still follow her. And if it pains him so much, why doesn't he delete his account that has some memories of her on it? The thing is, we haven't really established what our relationship is. There aren't really any labels, and I suppose I'm OK with that because maybe labels add more pressure?

Should I even ask him what we are this early on? I don't want to make assumptions. I've never been in a relationship before, and with the long-distance issue ... well, it makes me scared to ask. I don't want to frighten him away.

– Long-Distance Complications]]>413falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-080619--18740842https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18740842Tue, 06 Aug 2019 13:55:59 +0000Steven BortsteinThe recent shotgunning of a beer by Browns QB Baker Mayfield at a baseball game should not, under any circumstances, be a cause for alarm by fans or a reason for calling out the man by his detractors. The man wasn’t doing anything illegal or immoral...403falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jeff-risdon-080519--18730018https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18730018Mon, 05 Aug 2019 16:32:51 +0000Steven BortsteinJeff Risdon (LionsWire.com) talked up the Detroit Lions as well as previewing the NFC North. Listen to our chat right here!854falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-080519--18728603https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18728603Mon, 05 Aug 2019 14:23:54 +0000Steven BortsteinSo there’s likely to be some backlash regarding comments made by professional soccer player Alejandro Bedoya after he grabbed an open mic and pleaded for an end to gun violence after a pair of mass shootings left more than two dozen people dead. It’s...685falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/james-johnson-080219--18707903https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18707903Fri, 02 Aug 2019 16:29:59 +0000Steven BortsteinJames Johnson (Jaguars Wire/USA Today SMG) talked up training camp headlines and more. Listen to our podcast right here!875falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jed-rigney-080219--18707897https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18707897Fri, 02 Aug 2019 16:29:35 +0000Steven BortsteinJed Rigney (Foul Territory Baseball) chatted MLB Trade Deadline winners & losers. Check out our podcast right here!936falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-080219--18706557https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18706557Fri, 02 Aug 2019 14:04:01 +0000Steven BortsteinIt’s one thing for Melvin Gordon’s representatives to be looking for a way out of this messy contract situation with the Chargers. But it’s entirely another thing to be playing this out in the court of public opinion. Gordon’s agent is more than...321falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-080119--18697577https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18697577Thu, 01 Aug 2019 16:34:37 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards talked Broncos vs. Falcons in the Hall of Fame Game. Tune in to our podcast right here!433falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-080119--18697498https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18697498Thu, 01 Aug 2019 16:25:04 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini talked MLB trade deadline recaps and the winners and losers! Listen to our podcast right here!973falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-080119--18697495https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18697495Thu, 01 Aug 2019 16:24:38 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong talked NFL training camp updates, holdouts and more. Click here for our podcast!1172falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-080119--18696826https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18696826Thu, 01 Aug 2019 15:09:52 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes talked Clippers, Pac-12 football, Nick Buonicanti and LeBron James. Check out our exclusive podcast right here!1593falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-080119--18696325https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18696325Thu, 01 Aug 2019 14:05:26 +0000Steven BortsteinL.A. Clippers owner Steve Ballmer reportedly wants to change the name of the franchise. As preposterous as this might sound, it’s not that uncommon. Titans become Jets, Bullets become Wizards and Bobcats become Hornets. If the Clippers really want to...661falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/sam-neumann-073119--18686188https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18686188Wed, 31 Jul 2019 16:40:58 +0000Steven BortsteinSam Neumann (Jets Wire/USA Today SMG) talked about Jets training camp news and headlines approaching the 2019 season. Listen to our podcast right here!1038falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kevin-hickey-073119--18686194https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18686194Wed, 31 Jul 2019 16:40:36 +0000Steven BortsteinKevin Hickey (Colts Wire/USA Today SMG) previews the upcoming 2019 Colts season as well as updated the status of QB Andrew Luck. Click the link for our podcast.1089falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-073119--18686198https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18686198Wed, 31 Jul 2019 16:40:16 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) recapped Brooks Koepka's recent win and talked more golf news. Check out our podcast right here!803falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-073119--18685950https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18685950Wed, 31 Jul 2019 16:04:07 +0000Steven BortsteinThe injury bug has risen to the surface in the early days of NFL training camps, but none may be more alarming than Indy quarterback Andrew Luck and an aggravated calf muscle. Sure, the Colts will be protective of Luck and he’ll likely miss the...489falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/mark-lane-073019--18677246https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18677246Tue, 30 Jul 2019 16:43:19 +0000Steven BortsteinMark Lane (Texans Wire) talked training camp news and notes on the Houston Texans. Click the link for a listen to our podcast!758falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crissy-froyd-073019--18677244https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18677244Tue, 30 Jul 2019 16:42:58 +0000Steven BortsteinCrissy Froyd (Titans Wire) talked training camp news and notes on the Tennessee Titans. Listen to our podcast right here!827falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-edelstein-073019--18677243https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18677243Tue, 30 Jul 2019 16:42:37 +0000Steven BortsteinPaul Edelstein (EdelsteinsLaw.com) joined us to talk about new standards being sought after in boxing regulations. Check in with our podcast right here!874falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-073019--18677170
My boyfriend and I have been dating for two months. He is sweet to me, and he treats me like a queen. I am in my 20s and this is my first official relationship. He was previously in a four-year relationship.

The dilemma here seems to be that he knows how to be in a relationship and is pretty accustomed to not being single, while I am the exact opposite. I have a lot of friends, some of which are guys. None of these relationships have ever had any sort of romantic moment but he doesn’t see it that way. He thinks all guys want is sex, and he "knows" this because he is a guy.

To make matters worse, when he and I first started talking, I had a night out with some of my friends. One of those male friends made an inappropriate comment to me, which I responded to by telling him that I found it inappropriate. That same night, one of those guys kissed me. Why this happened, I have not even the slightest clue considering I had not seen him for a long time, and I have no interest in pursuing a friendship with him, much less a romantic relationship. I was completely honest with my now-boyfriend about it. I did feel bad about what happened because even though the relationship was new, I was hoping we might actually keep seeing each other.

Fast forward to now. I asked my boyfriend if he would like to go to a party last week, and he said yes. He asked me who else would be at the event. I told him I had asked a few girlfriends and one guy friend if they would be interested in going with us. This is when things turned ugly. He got upset that I had invited this guy friend. To make a very long story short, he basically reiterated the fact that he does not want me spending time with my male friends or even talking to them. It all goes back to the events of the earlier night.

I don’t think it's fair for him to ask me to cut off all contact with my male friends. I also think it's really unfair to continue to hold that night against me. I feel like if I mess up or say something that upsets him, he is going to break up with me. He always says "you can go hang out with your friends if you want to, but I don't like it, and eventually it will probably be what ends us." I am trying to get him to get to know my friends so maybe he will feel more comfortable and confident, but I feel like he has made up his mind and is unwilling to listen to anything I have to say about it. I do not want to break up with him. I feel this would be a really stupid reason to end a great relationship. However, I do think there has to be a better way so that we are both comfortable. What do you suggest I do?

– Feeling Fragile

Click the link for my reply in this week's edition of CRAZY GOOD ADVICE, heard during FIRST SPORTS!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18677170Tue, 30 Jul 2019 16:30:27 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, My boyfriend and I have been dating for two months. He is sweet to me, and he treats me like a queen. I am in my 20s and this is my first official relationship. He was previously in a four-year relationship. The dilemma here seems to be...
My boyfriend and I have been dating for two months. He is sweet to me, and he treats me like a queen. I am in my 20s and this is my first official relationship. He was previously in a four-year relationship.

The dilemma here seems to be that he knows how to be in a relationship and is pretty accustomed to not being single, while I am the exact opposite. I have a lot of friends, some of which are guys. None of these relationships have ever had any sort of romantic moment but he doesn’t see it that way. He thinks all guys want is sex, and he "knows" this because he is a guy.

To make matters worse, when he and I first started talking, I had a night out with some of my friends. One of those male friends made an inappropriate comment to me, which I responded to by telling him that I found it inappropriate. That same night, one of those guys kissed me. Why this happened, I have not even the slightest clue considering I had not seen him for a long time, and I have no interest in pursuing a friendship with him, much less a romantic relationship. I was completely honest with my now-boyfriend about it. I did feel bad about what happened because even though the relationship was new, I was hoping we might actually keep seeing each other.

Fast forward to now. I asked my boyfriend if he would like to go to a party last week, and he said yes. He asked me who else would be at the event. I told him I had asked a few girlfriends and one guy friend if they would be interested in going with us. This is when things turned ugly. He got upset that I had invited this guy friend. To make a very long story short, he basically reiterated the fact that he does not want me spending time with my male friends or even talking to them. It all goes back to the events of the earlier night.

I don’t think it's fair for him to ask me to cut off all contact with my male friends. I also think it's really unfair to continue to hold that night against me. I feel like if I mess up or say something that upsets him, he is going to break up with me. He always says "you can go hang out with your friends if you want to, but I don't like it, and eventually it will probably be what ends us." I am trying to get him to get to know my friends so maybe he will feel more comfortable and confident, but I feel like he has made up his mind and is unwilling to listen to anything I have to say about it. I do not want to break up with him. I feel this would be a really stupid reason to end a great relationship. However, I do think there has to be a better way so that we are both comfortable. What do you suggest I do?

– Feeling Fragile

Click the link for my reply in this week's edition of CRAZY GOOD ADVICE, heard during FIRST SPORTS!]]>475falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-073019--18676358Click the link for my thoughts on this topic and more during the MORNING MONOLOGUE, heard weekdays during FIRST SPORTS!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18676358Tue, 30 Jul 2019 14:44:25 +0000Steven BortsteinNo offense to Dallas Cowboys owner Jerry Jones, who I’ll readily and willingly admit knows more about how to run a football team than I do, but you’re wrong about this team winning a Super Bowl without Ezekiel Elliott. Jerry may know more about how to...Click the link for my thoughts on this topic and more during the MORNING MONOLOGUE, heard weekdays during FIRST SPORTS!]]>494falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kyle-crabbs-072919--18667703https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18667703Mon, 29 Jul 2019 15:53:04 +0000Steven BortsteinKyle Crabbs (The Dolphins Wire/USA Today) talked up Dolphins training camp updates previews the AFC East. Listen to our podcast right here!1102falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-072919--18667543https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18667543Mon, 29 Jul 2019 15:28:55 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh broke down some latest NBA headlines and more as the league prepares for some quiet time. Check out our podcast right here!931falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-072919--18667059Check the link for my thoughts on this and more during today's MORNING MONOLOGUE, heard weekdays during FIRST SPORTS!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18667059Mon, 29 Jul 2019 14:24:23 +0000Steven BortsteinOf course, we’re all considered a work in progress, and the best of us want the best for anyone trying to better themselves. Tyreek Hill is no exception. But when one is recorded using threatening language to a loved one and may have been involved in...Check the link for my thoughts on this and more during today's MORNING MONOLOGUE, heard weekdays during FIRST SPORTS!]]>906falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jed-rigney-072619--18649060https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18649060Fri, 26 Jul 2019 16:31:54 +0000Steven BortsteinJed Rigney (Foul Territory Baseball) chats up the latest MLB Trade Deadline news as well as previews of upcoming NL series. Listen to our podcast right here!1042falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/james-holas-072619--18649058https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18649058Fri, 26 Jul 2019 16:31:31 +0000Steven BortsteinJames Holas (Real Ball Insiders) talks up NBA investigations into tampering and the Clippers awkward press conference. Check out our podcast right here!830falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-072619--18648085https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18648085Fri, 26 Jul 2019 14:21:00 +0000Steven BortsteinOne thing we’ve learned about superstars this week is the lack of any regret for the actions which brought them to their current situations. Earl Thomas has the audacity to be angry at the same team which he openly requested a trade from while Odell...461falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-072519--18640236https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18640236Thu, 25 Jul 2019 16:21:41 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (Touchdown Wire, USA Today) talks Browns, Jaguars, Cowboys and Chiefs news with training camps opening around the NFL. Listen to our podcast right here.1271falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-072519--18639975https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18639975Thu, 25 Jul 2019 15:42:42 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes talked Rams and Chargers training camp news as well as the Clippers introductory press conference for Kawhi Leonard and Paul George. Listen to our podcast right here.1201falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-072519--18639184https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18639184Thu, 25 Jul 2019 14:09:48 +0000Steven BortsteinTwo examples of celebrity athletes enjoying themselves have drawn the ire of social media critics. LeBron James clearly enjoys his tacos on Tuesdays and Tom Brady took some time to teach his daughter how to jump off a cliff into a body of water....683falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/glenn-erby-072419--18631134https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18631134Wed, 24 Jul 2019 16:01:26 +0000Steven BortsteinGlenn Erby (The Eagles Wire) chats up the news and notes surrounding the opening of Philadelphia Eagles training camp. Click the link for our exclusive podcast!879falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-072419--18631130https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18631130Wed, 24 Jul 2019 16:00:02 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) recaps last weekend's Open Championship and talks more news and notes on the PGA Tour. Check out our podcast right here!994falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-072419--18630842https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18630842Wed, 24 Jul 2019 15:21:34 +0000Steven BortsteinWhen a boxer dies as a result of injuries sustained in the ring, the reaction is quick and there is shock, sadness and remorse. When a former football player dies as a result of injuries sustained on the field, the guy knew what he was getting into....1081falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-072319--18622316https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18622316Tue, 23 Jul 2019 16:38:55 +0000Steven BortsteinPaul West (P Dub's Sports Hub) chatted with me this morning about MLB Trade Deadline news and more. Listen to our podcast right here!1524falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-072319--18621473
There’s a backstory to this. I fell in love with a married woman in the 90s. She was someone I'd known since we were kids, and I ended up getting hurt. I reconnected and fell in love with her again 10 years later when she found me online. It ended badly and thought I had learned my lesson.

Well, fast forward to a couple years ago, I met a woman who was honest with me about everything (including the fact that she had a husband), and we had an affair. In the end, she said she didn't want to hurt her husband by leaving him, even though he is verbally abusive among other things.

She and I are now best friends (the physical relationship is over), and yes, her husband knows everything, but he doesn't care as long as she never leaves him. He knows everything about us and that we talk still every day. I fell into this trap once again and it hurts.

Why do I continue to do this? I invested my heart in this relationship. I know it sounds selfish that all I'm thinking about is me. I just don't want this to happen again. And it's hard just to be friends after what we had (or I thought we had). What can I do to move on and not fall into this again with a married woman?

– Hurting again]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18621473Tue, 23 Jul 2019 14:55:53 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, There’s a backstory to this. I fell in love with a married woman in the 90s. She was someone I'd known since we were kids, and I ended up getting hurt. I reconnected and fell in love with her again 10 years later when she found me online....
There’s a backstory to this. I fell in love with a married woman in the 90s. She was someone I'd known since we were kids, and I ended up getting hurt. I reconnected and fell in love with her again 10 years later when she found me online. It ended badly and thought I had learned my lesson.

Well, fast forward to a couple years ago, I met a woman who was honest with me about everything (including the fact that she had a husband), and we had an affair. In the end, she said she didn't want to hurt her husband by leaving him, even though he is verbally abusive among other things.

She and I are now best friends (the physical relationship is over), and yes, her husband knows everything, but he doesn't care as long as she never leaves him. He knows everything about us and that we talk still every day. I fell into this trap once again and it hurts.

Why do I continue to do this? I invested my heart in this relationship. I know it sounds selfish that all I'm thinking about is me. I just don't want this to happen again. And it's hard just to be friends after what we had (or I thought we had). What can I do to move on and not fall into this again with a married woman?

– Hurting again]]>293falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-072319--18621223https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18621223Tue, 23 Jul 2019 14:26:39 +0000Steven BortsteinWhat we didn’t hear or read about in Odell Beckham Junior’s little pity party interview was any sense of remorse over the way things played out during his stint with the New York Giants. I still have no way of knowing how he plans to show he’s any...624falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-072219--18612973https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18612973Mon, 22 Jul 2019 16:40:16 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Castle Country Radio, Drive Time Sports) chatted Dodgers, Yankees, MLB trade deadline and much more. Check out our exclusive podcast right here!1801falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-072219--18612975https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18612975Mon, 22 Jul 2019 16:38:00 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh chatted NBA news in the aftermath of a tumultuous offseason. Check out our conversation right here!1064falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-072219--18611868https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18611868Mon, 22 Jul 2019 14:24:47 +0000Steven BortsteinIt may be too soon to cast aspersions on John Elway’s ability to discover talent at the QB postion (unless we really want to "deep dive" on that issue), but Drew Lock didn’t exactly catch the eye of new Bronco head coach Vic Fangio who said last week...498falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jed-rigney-071919--18591611https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18591611Fri, 19 Jul 2019 16:17:57 +0000Steven BortsteinJed Rigney (Foul-Territory.com) joined us to talk about managerial rants, robot umpires and MLB trade deadline rumors. Listen to our podcast right here!1048falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/james-holas-071919--18591617https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18591617Fri, 19 Jul 2019 16:17:33 +0000Steven BortsteinJames Holas (RealBallInsiders) chatted up the last days of NBA free agency and early projections for next season. Check out our exclusive podcast here!1063falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-071919--18590909
Check out my thoughts on this and more during the MORNING MONOLOGUE, heard every weekday during FIRST SPORTS!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18590909Fri, 19 Jul 2019 14:43:45 +0000Steven BortsteinThis Mercury retrograde thing has people’s heads spinning. If you believe in this nonsense about the aligning of stars and the moon being full of cheese, you’ve likely experienced some behavior changes. Want one more thing to be depressed about? Watch...
Check out my thoughts on this and more during the MORNING MONOLOGUE, heard every weekday during FIRST SPORTS!]]>551falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-071819--18582418https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18582418Thu, 18 Jul 2019 16:00:25 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (USA Today, TouchdownWire.com) talked up NFL training camp updates, Madden ratings and Baker Mayfield. Check out our podcast right here.1092falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-071819--18582423https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18582423Thu, 18 Jul 2019 16:00:07 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes talked Big 12 Media Days headlines, Dodgers baseball and more. Listen to our podcast right here!1549falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-071819--18581685https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18581685Thu, 18 Jul 2019 14:44:58 +0000Steven BortsteinWhether you’re a fan of Baker Mayfield, or of the Cleveland Browns, or better yet, a hater on one or the other, I’ll admit there’s a curiosity to see what the second year QB can do to right the ship for one of the NFL’s most historic franchises....590falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bob-rose-071719--18573031https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18573031Wed, 17 Jul 2019 16:26:53 +0000Steven BortsteinBob Rose (SB Nation, Canal Street Chronicles) previews the opening of training camp for the New Orleans Saints and talks NFC South predictions and more. Listen to our exclusive podcast right here!974falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-071719--18572530https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18572530Wed, 17 Jul 2019 15:41:22 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) previews this week's Open Championship, also known as the British Open. Check out our preview and predictions in our exclusive podcast right here!910falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-071719--18572520https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18572520Wed, 17 Jul 2019 15:27:01 +0000Steven BortsteinOklahoma head coach Lincoln Riley wanted to make it clear during Big 12 Media Days that despite Jalen Hurts transferring from Alabama after last season to join the Sooners, the job of starting QB isn’t going to be handed to him. But what a job that’s...555falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/matt-stevens-071619--18564132https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18564132Tue, 16 Jul 2019 16:45:40 +0000Steven BortsteinMatt Stevens (RavensWire.com, USA Today SMG) chatted up Baltimore Ravens news on the eve of their opening day of training camp. Check out our conversation right here!1042falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-071619--18564135https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18564135Tue, 16 Jul 2019 16:45:13 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (IHeartRadio) talked Denver Broncos football as they prepare to open training camp for the 2019 season. Listen to our podcast right here!571falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-071619--18563135
I have been divorced for quite some time and have three children. I met a guy who is about eight years younger than me with no children. We fell for each other pretty quickly, and he moved in after about three months of dating. Two years later, we broke up because I felt he didn't have a backbone when it came to standing up to his family. Although my boyfriend and I were very much in love, his family rejected me.

The issue is his family HATES me and the fact that we’re together. They are extremely racist and will never accept me, my biracial children, or the age difference. They refuse to meet me and have told him that if he marries me, he will be eliminated from their will. They said that my children and I will never be welcomed in their home, and that if we had a child together they would have nothing to do with it.

Knowing all of this, we stayed together for two years, broke up for a few, and have now been back together for a year. Even as we dated other people during the two-year breakup, we couldn't forget each other and always stayed in touch. But now that we're back on, the same problems still exist. He's never going to put his foot down with his family; he's the most passive person I have ever met. He doesn't put his foot down with anyone, but especially wants to keep the peace with them. I feel like my children and I deserve more out of a relationship, but at the same time, it's not him, it's them. He's nothing like them – he is good to me and to my children.

I tell myself to focus on that and forget the rest, but it's hard because it's such a major issue. I don't know what to do.

-Needing a backbone]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18563135Tue, 16 Jul 2019 14:39:49 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I have been divorced for quite some time and have three children. I met a guy who is about eight years younger than me with no children. We fell for each other pretty quickly, and he moved in after about three months of dating. Two years...
I have been divorced for quite some time and have three children. I met a guy who is about eight years younger than me with no children. We fell for each other pretty quickly, and he moved in after about three months of dating. Two years later, we broke up because I felt he didn't have a backbone when it came to standing up to his family. Although my boyfriend and I were very much in love, his family rejected me.

The issue is his family HATES me and the fact that we’re together. They are extremely racist and will never accept me, my biracial children, or the age difference. They refuse to meet me and have told him that if he marries me, he will be eliminated from their will. They said that my children and I will never be welcomed in their home, and that if we had a child together they would have nothing to do with it.

Knowing all of this, we stayed together for two years, broke up for a few, and have now been back together for a year. Even as we dated other people during the two-year breakup, we couldn't forget each other and always stayed in touch. But now that we're back on, the same problems still exist. He's never going to put his foot down with his family; he's the most passive person I have ever met. He doesn't put his foot down with anyone, but especially wants to keep the peace with them. I feel like my children and I deserve more out of a relationship, but at the same time, it's not him, it's them. He's nothing like them – he is good to me and to my children.

I tell myself to focus on that and forget the rest, but it's hard because it's such a major issue. I don't know what to do.

-Needing a backbone]]>280falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-071619--18563133https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18563133Tue, 16 Jul 2019 14:38:44 +0000Steven BortsteinThere are eight new head coaches in the NFL as we approach the opening of training camps this week, and perhaps none are as intriguing as Cardinals coach Kliff Kingsbury. The innovator of high powered offenses at Texas Tech, this is a whole new world...476falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/matt-zemek-071519--18554785https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18554785Mon, 15 Jul 2019 16:21:45 +0000Steven BortsteinMatt Zemek (TennisAccent.com) recaps a historic weekend at Wimbledon, including Novak Djokovic winning the men's title and Simona Halep's win over Serena Williams. Listen to our podcast right here!1211falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-071519--18554164https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18554164Mon, 15 Jul 2019 14:54:08 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh recaps the Russell Westbrook/Chris Paul trade plus Anthony Davis' proclamation of the Lakers lineup and more news from NBA Summer League action. Listen to our podcast right here!901falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-071519--18553942https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18553942Mon, 15 Jul 2019 14:19:37 +0000Steven BortsteinSadly, one can no longer look to the NFL as a moral compass or a ways of properly determining the emotional state of a person. Richie Incognito, recently re-signed by the Raiders, reportedly will miss a couple games for an incident which led to his...758falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-071119--18523857https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18523857Thu, 11 Jul 2019 16:12:55 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (Touchdown Wire, USA Today Sports Media Group) talks Chargers, Texans, Cam Newton and other very early NFL training camp news. Listen to our podcast from this morning's show right here!1047falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-071119--18523849https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18523849Thu, 11 Jul 2019 16:12:37 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes talks the "Battle of Los Angeles" between the Lakers and Clippers, as well as NCAA basketball news and the passing of Jim Bouton. Check out our podcast right here!1142falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-071119--18522801https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18522801Thu, 11 Jul 2019 13:54:59 +0000Steven BortsteinThe Houston Texans announced this week their intent to go into this season without a general manager, opting instead to replace fired GM Brian Gaine with a currently placed team of front office types. This move is not unprecedented, but does have a...403falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-071019--18521447https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18521447Thu, 11 Jul 2019 10:52:12 +0000Steven BortsteinPaul West (P Dubs Sports Hub) previews the second half of the MLB season and looks back at all the events from the All-Star weekend. Check out our podcast from Wednesday's show right here!1245falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-071019--18512298https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18512298Wed, 10 Jul 2019 14:23:58 +0000Steven BortsteinThe date is Thursday, August 1st. That’s just three weeks from now. I know it’s been a struggle. I know you’ve suffered through endless talk of baseball, basketball, hockey and spelling bees. I know you’ve tolerated soccer and tennis, but the light at...722falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tamryn-spruill-070919--18503286https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18503286Tue, 09 Jul 2019 16:24:10 +0000Steven BortsteinTamryn Spruill (The Athletic, USA Today SMG) broke down the "equal pay" debate with the USWNT and gave us a recap of their win in the Women's World Cup. Listen to our podcast right here!1057falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-070919--18503288https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18503288Tue, 09 Jul 2019 16:23:46 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Castle Country Radio, Drive Time Sports) chatted juiced baseball as well as news and notes during the All-Star break. Check out our podcast right here!1681falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-070919--18502010
My boyfriend and I are in our late 20s and have been dating for two years & are really happy together. We love each other's families, we don't bicker or fight very often, we laugh all the time, and we can definitely see a future together.

We don't live together yet, but we've talked about it since I do spend most nights at his place anyway. The problem I'm having seems to be the opposite of most other relationships — I have a MUCH higher sex drive than him, and am constantly getting turned down for sex by him. When we do have sex, it's amazing; it's just not as frequent as I'd like. Since I know your fans will be curious, it's currently one to two times a week, and while I'd love daily, I'd be happy with three to four times a week. The first year we were dating, we seemed to be more on the same page, but now our needs seem to have gotten further apart. I've always heard that women's sexual peak is in their 30's while men hit it in their early 20's. If this is the case, I'm worried I'll become even more unsatisfied in an important area of our relationship as I want it even more and he wants it even less.

My ex-boyfriend was pretty sex-crazed and ended up cheating on me, so I'm trying to see a lower sex drive as a positive thing, especially since my current relationship is the best one I've ever been in. Is there a way to compromise or to get him more interested? Or is our sex life going to be totally doomed further down the road?

- Sexually frustrated

Click the link for my thoughts on this topic and more on another episode of CRAZY GOOD ADVICE, heard every Tuesday morning during FIRST SPORTS!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18502010Tue, 09 Jul 2019 14:39:00 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, My boyfriend and I are in our late 20s and have been dating for two years & are really happy together. We love each other's families, we don't bicker or fight very often, we laugh all the time, and we can definitely see a future together....
My boyfriend and I are in our late 20s and have been dating for two years & are really happy together. We love each other's families, we don't bicker or fight very often, we laugh all the time, and we can definitely see a future together.

We don't live together yet, but we've talked about it since I do spend most nights at his place anyway. The problem I'm having seems to be the opposite of most other relationships — I have a MUCH higher sex drive than him, and am constantly getting turned down for sex by him. When we do have sex, it's amazing; it's just not as frequent as I'd like. Since I know your fans will be curious, it's currently one to two times a week, and while I'd love daily, I'd be happy with three to four times a week. The first year we were dating, we seemed to be more on the same page, but now our needs seem to have gotten further apart. I've always heard that women's sexual peak is in their 30's while men hit it in their early 20's. If this is the case, I'm worried I'll become even more unsatisfied in an important area of our relationship as I want it even more and he wants it even less.

My ex-boyfriend was pretty sex-crazed and ended up cheating on me, so I'm trying to see a lower sex drive as a positive thing, especially since my current relationship is the best one I've ever been in. Is there a way to compromise or to get him more interested? Or is our sex life going to be totally doomed further down the road?

- Sexually frustrated

Click the link for my thoughts on this topic and more on another episode of CRAZY GOOD ADVICE, heard every Tuesday morning during FIRST SPORTS!]]>460falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-070919--18501843
Click here to hear my thoughts on this matter and more during the MORNING MONOLOGUE, heard each weekday during FIRST SPORTS!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18501843Tue, 09 Jul 2019 14:27:50 +0000Steven BortsteinThere’s an image problem in the MLB, and there’s no easy solution. The majority of American sports fans like big numbers. It’s the reason they mastered the art of fantasy sports. If pitchers want to talk about integrity of the game, they’re going to...
Click here to hear my thoughts on this matter and more during the MORNING MONOLOGUE, heard each weekday during FIRST SPORTS!]]>707falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jed-rigney-070819--18490478https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18490478Mon, 08 Jul 2019 15:51:22 +0000Steven BortsteinMLB news as we head into the All Star break this morning with the folks at Foul Territory Baseball. Listen to our podcast right here!1038falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-070819--18490027https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18490027Mon, 08 Jul 2019 14:53:38 +0000Steven BortsteinNBA insider Jamieson Welsh chats up the free agent news and much more. Check out our podcast right here!1043falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-070819--18489753https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18489753Mon, 08 Jul 2019 14:25:16 +0000Steven BortsteinSure, there’s a level of pride if you’re celebrating the U.S. Women’s National Team in their World Cup finals win over the Netherlands. Since you’ve invested some time into women’s soccer on the global stage, let’s also encourage you to tune in...679falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-062819--18409206https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18409206Fri, 28 Jun 2019 13:06:59 +0000Steven BortsteinIt’s a gamble, in more ways than one, but it’s a gamble I’d be willing to make. The decision by the Breeders’ Cup to keep this fall’s annual showcase of thoroughbred racing at Santa Anita Park is a bold one. Moving it would only play into the hands of...305falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-062719--18401270https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18401270Thu, 27 Jun 2019 17:08:03 +0000Steven BortsteinMegan Rapinoe’s message to not attend the White House is a 6 month-old story. Her decision to not stand for the flag was rescinded by the very organization she represents. She plays a sport you rarely if ever watch and yet somehow you found the...950falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tamryn-spruill-062719--18401024https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18401024Thu, 27 Jun 2019 16:42:26 +0000Steven BortsteinTamryn Spruill (The Warriors Wire) chats up comments from Andre Iguodala and the latest on Kevin Durant. Click the link for a listen to our podcast!1053falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-062719--18401021https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18401021Thu, 27 Jun 2019 16:42:04 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes explains the recent fascination of the "Fan on the Field" movement and more, including NASCAR and Dodgers news. Listen here to our podcast!1219falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/james-holas-062719--18401019https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18401019Thu, 27 Jun 2019 16:41:43 +0000Steven BortsteinJames Holas (Real Ball Insiders) gives us his predictions for NBA Free Agency moves and breaks down the top NBA storylines. Check out our chat right here!936falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/brian-zipse-062619--18388231https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18388231Wed, 26 Jun 2019 16:26:24 +0000Steven BortsteinBrian Zipse (Horse Racing Nation) recapped a tumultuous season of horse racing at Santa Anita Park and discussed options for new locations for this fall's upcoming Breeders' Cup. Check out our podcast right here!1219falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-062619--18386889https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18386889Wed, 26 Jun 2019 14:36:06 +0000Steven BortsteinIt’s hard to accept what Andre Iguodala says as gospel when he tells us that both Klay Thompson and Kevin Durant are coming back to the Warriors next season, then lays out a scenario where the same team misdiagnosed his own injury last season. Iggy...540falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-062519--18375813https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18375813Tue, 25 Jun 2019 16:33:12 +0000Steven BortsteinPaul West (P Dubs Sports Hub) and I chatted up MLB headlines and why I'm so angry at nets going up all over MLB ballparks. Listen to our podcast right here!1592falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-062519--18373945https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18373945Tue, 25 Jun 2019 14:25:01 +0000Steven BortsteinThe sensitivity factor got ramped up this week when it was announced the NBA was going away from the term owner to describe those who have a controlling share of a franchise. Even the commissioner tried to downplay this, which only undermines the...620falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-062519--18373952
I have been with my husband for about five years now, and we have a child together that just turned one. To provide a little background, we knew each other for a couple of years before dating. We moved in quickly, got engaged, married, and had our first child all within the last five years. He is smart, considerate, generous, and loving. I can't imagine my life without him and would be lost if I had to.

When we argue, though, he becomes a completely different person to me. He has very strong opinions and often doesn't try to look at things from others' perspectives. He makes me feel like my responses to his comments are way out of line and immature. When he starts to make comments or suggestions, I can hear the agitation in his voice, and sometimes I stay quiet so I can calm myself down before it leads to a full-on argument. He tends to continue pushing his points until I eventually snap and defend myself. That leads to hurtful words and far-fetched assumptions about our future. He has this way of making me feel incompetent and like I don't contribute to our relationship.

All of our fights generally stem from something very trivial, but they escalate into something much bigger. We've talked about some extreme things – including separation. Of course, this is not something I want, but I also want to feel that the relationship is something that he values. Generally, he's the one who has suggested separation, but in one particular instance, I'd just about had it. If he thought he did everything in our relationship and that I couldn't do anything right, then I didn't see the point in continuing. I did realize what I said in a moment of rage, and tried to apologize and take it back after I knew I triggered a nerve in him. I tried everything from reasoning, explaining my side, acknowledging that I understood his points, and apologizing, but it hasn't helped. Couple's counseling is also not an option. I have brought it up in several instances during our previous arguments and he refuses to go. He doesn't seem to think we need it. I've tried to talk to someone on my own a couple of times through virtual therapy sessions, but I'm not sure I understand enough about what is actually going through his head to be able to articulate it and get the help we need.

I completely acknowledge that I shouldn't have suggested separation because I know it's not what I want, but now that the damage has been done, how do I reverse it and break through this wall? Are his hurtful words justifiable? How can I prevent these explosions and better understand what's going through his head?

– Hurt and confused]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18373952Tue, 25 Jun 2019 14:24:19 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I have been with my husband for about five years now, and we have a child together that just turned one. To provide a little background, we knew each other for a couple of years before dating. We moved in quickly, got engaged, married,...
I have been with my husband for about five years now, and we have a child together that just turned one. To provide a little background, we knew each other for a couple of years before dating. We moved in quickly, got engaged, married, and had our first child all within the last five years. He is smart, considerate, generous, and loving. I can't imagine my life without him and would be lost if I had to.

When we argue, though, he becomes a completely different person to me. He has very strong opinions and often doesn't try to look at things from others' perspectives. He makes me feel like my responses to his comments are way out of line and immature. When he starts to make comments or suggestions, I can hear the agitation in his voice, and sometimes I stay quiet so I can calm myself down before it leads to a full-on argument. He tends to continue pushing his points until I eventually snap and defend myself. That leads to hurtful words and far-fetched assumptions about our future. He has this way of making me feel incompetent and like I don't contribute to our relationship.

All of our fights generally stem from something very trivial, but they escalate into something much bigger. We've talked about some extreme things – including separation. Of course, this is not something I want, but I also want to feel that the relationship is something that he values. Generally, he's the one who has suggested separation, but in one particular instance, I'd just about had it. If he thought he did everything in our relationship and that I couldn't do anything right, then I didn't see the point in continuing. I did realize what I said in a moment of rage, and tried to apologize and take it back after I knew I triggered a nerve in him. I tried everything from reasoning, explaining my side, acknowledging that I understood his points, and apologizing, but it hasn't helped. Couple's counseling is also not an option. I have brought it up in several instances during our previous arguments and he refuses to go. He doesn't seem to think we need it. I've tried to talk to someone on my own a couple of times through virtual therapy sessions, but I'm not sure I understand enough about what is actually going through his head to be able to articulate it and get the help we need.

I completely acknowledge that I shouldn't have suggested separation because I know it's not what I want, but now that the damage has been done, how do I reverse it and break through this wall? Are his hurtful words justifiable? How can I prevent these explosions and better understand what's going through his head?

– Hurt and confused]]>345falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-062019--18329510https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18329510Thu, 20 Jun 2019 16:47:25 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (Touchdown Wire, USA Today Sports Media) chatted up NFL headlines and the latest happenings around the league. Listen to our podcast right here.1201falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-062019--18329210https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18329210Thu, 20 Jun 2019 16:05:07 +0000Steven BortsteinThe days of shock and outrage that used to follow when a video came out of parents fighting during a little league baseball game have been replaced by days of an almost eerie sense of calm and resignation. Parents living vicariously through their...812falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/james-holas-061919--18319804https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18319804Wed, 19 Jun 2019 16:34:11 +0000Steven BortsteinJames Holas (Real Ball Insiders) chatted up the Anthony Davis trade to the Lakers, the mess with the Rockets and the latest on Kyrie Irving. Check out our chat right here!1321falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-061919--18319133https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18319133Wed, 19 Jun 2019 15:56:20 +0000Steven BortsteinCheck out my chat with Golf News Net's Ryan Ballengee. We looked back at Gary Woodland's first Major victory in the U.S. Open and much more. Listen to our chat right here!780falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-061919--18318145https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18318145Wed, 19 Jun 2019 14:24:09 +0000Steven BortsteinSo I’m guessing those home and auto insurance ads that Chris Paul and James Harden did for TV are no longer any valid. According to reports, the Rockets teammates are about as far apart as two people working for the same company can be. If the rumors...734falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/willie-ramirez-061819--18308930https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18308930Tue, 18 Jun 2019 16:46:05 +0000Steven BortsteinWe chatted with Willie Ramirez (Gaming Today, AP Sports) on this week's NHL Awards and much more. Check out our podcast right here!1298falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-061819--18308932https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18308932Tue, 18 Jun 2019 16:45:35 +0000Steven BortsteinWe talked Lakers trade for Anthony Davis and NBA Draft previews with Jordan Buscarini (Prime Time Sports). Listen to our podcast right here!1399falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-061819--18307684
I met a man around two years ago. He asked my colleague at work about me, found me on social media some time later and eventually started messaging me and asked me out.
Our first date was incredible, but something didn't feel right. I did a little online research and found that he is with someone else – and that they live together. I did not tell him what I discovered.

We would see each other once a month, and if I asked, he would always say he is single. Last month, I was planning a little road trip to get out of town and relax. He said he wanted to go with me, so we rented a place and spent the whole weekend together. It swept me off my feet; no one has ever made me feel so good. Then, when he went on a business trip, he kept texting, telling me how much he missed me.

Weeks later, when I was supposed to go to his place, he told me his brother was visiting, but I saw that his girlfriend was posting Instagram stories from their apartment. I felt it was the moment I should probably tell him that I know the truth, but I couldn't say a word. He says he wants to see me more often; he is now planning a trip overseas for us this summer. I can't help but keep seeing him. I know that the answer is to cut him off, stop seeing him, and move on, but I feel I can't do this.

– Not Good On Tough Decisions

Check out my reply in this week's edition of CRAZY GOOD ADVICE, as heard this morning on FIRST SPORTS!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18307684Tue, 18 Jun 2019 14:19:54 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I met a man around two years ago. He asked my colleague at work about me, found me on social media some time later and eventually started messaging me and asked me out. Our first date was incredible, but something didn't feel right. I did...
I met a man around two years ago. He asked my colleague at work about me, found me on social media some time later and eventually started messaging me and asked me out.
Our first date was incredible, but something didn't feel right. I did a little online research and found that he is with someone else – and that they live together. I did not tell him what I discovered.

We would see each other once a month, and if I asked, he would always say he is single. Last month, I was planning a little road trip to get out of town and relax. He said he wanted to go with me, so we rented a place and spent the whole weekend together. It swept me off my feet; no one has ever made me feel so good. Then, when he went on a business trip, he kept texting, telling me how much he missed me.

Weeks later, when I was supposed to go to his place, he told me his brother was visiting, but I saw that his girlfriend was posting Instagram stories from their apartment. I felt it was the moment I should probably tell him that I know the truth, but I couldn't say a word. He says he wants to see me more often; he is now planning a trip overseas for us this summer. I can't help but keep seeing him. I know that the answer is to cut him off, stop seeing him, and move on, but I feel I can't do this.

– Not Good On Tough Decisions

Check out my reply in this week's edition of CRAZY GOOD ADVICE, as heard this morning on FIRST SPORTS!]]>397falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-061819--18307674Check out my thoughts on this and more in the MORNING MONOLOGUE, heard every weekday on FIRST SPORTS!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18307674Tue, 18 Jun 2019 14:18:05 +0000Steven BortsteinThey say in order to succeed in business, one key is to strike when your arch rival is at their weakest. In the case of the Lakers, the acquisition of Anthony Davis to join LeBron James, and whatever shoe may drop in the coming days is a clear...Check out my thoughts on this and more in the MORNING MONOLOGUE, heard every weekday on FIRST SPORTS!]]>737falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-061719--18298688https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18298688Mon, 17 Jun 2019 16:59:17 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (Orange & Blue AM760) remembers the life and legacy of Broncos owner Pat Bowlen and talks about the future of the team. Hear our chat right here!764falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-061719--18298687https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18298687Mon, 17 Jun 2019 16:55:22 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh broke down the Anthony Davis trade to the Lakers and gave us a wrap-up of the NBA Finals. Listen to our podcast right here!1253falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-061719--18298003https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18298003Mon, 17 Jun 2019 15:21:10 +0000Steven BortsteinHow fitting on the 25th anniversary of the infamous slow speed chase that OJ Simpson now has his own Twitter account. He announced to the world last weekend that he’s got quote a little getting even to do end quote. Not surprising, there are those out...1140falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/fcf-061619--18280853https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18280853Sat, 15 Jun 2019 14:06:06 +0000Steven BortsteinThe CLEAR Program at San Juan College provides occupational training for students with disabilities. Listen to the podcast of this weekend's edition of FOUR CORNERS FOCUS right here!1691falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-061419--18273007https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18273007Fri, 14 Jun 2019 16:59:53 +0000Steven BortsteinPaul West (P Dubs Sports Hub) talked MLB news and notes and "unwritten rules" in sports. Listen to our podcast right here!1298falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-061419--18272156https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18272156Fri, 14 Jun 2019 15:32:16 +0000Steven BortsteinWith the NBA finals in the books, let’s think about the irony of what Kawhi Leonard accomplished. In becoming only the third player to win Finals MVP trophies with two teams alongside Kareem Abdul Jabbar and LeBron James, it’s notable that both former...452falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-061319--18262177https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18262177Thu, 13 Jun 2019 16:46:46 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) gives us a preview of the 2019 U.S. Open, which opens this morning. Listen to our podcast right here!728falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-061319--18262180https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18262180Thu, 13 Jun 2019 16:46:24 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (Touchdown Wire, USA Today Sports Media) chats up Raiders on Hard Knocks and other NFL news. Check out our podcast right here!1147falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-061319--18262183https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18262183Thu, 13 Jun 2019 16:46:05 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes and I chat up the blame game and the "News Dump" mentality of sports. Listen to our podcast right here!1516falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-061319--18260866https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18260866Thu, 13 Jun 2019 14:11:12 +0000Steven BortsteinSportsmanship is the latest thing to be subject to the whims of the PC police. Who determines what’s sportsmanlike and how did they become the arbiter of good taste? I’m not offended by the actions of the US Women’s soccer team. And some American...792falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-061119--18240930https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18240930Tue, 11 Jun 2019 17:46:54 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Castle Country Radio, Drive Time Sports) talked up the Kevin Durant injury storyline as well as offered up predictions on the NBA Finals. Check out our podcast right here.1218falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jed-rigney-061119--18240934https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18240934Tue, 11 Jun 2019 17:46:29 +0000Steven BortsteinJed Rigney (Foul Territory Baseball) chatted up news and notes in MLB. Hear our exclusive podcast right here.873falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-061119--18238851Can you love someone but be madly in love with someone else? Are we meant to be monogamous for 40 something years? I married the safe guy, the good guy, the guy who will be there for you no matter what. The one who makes you laugh and knows you. The other guy is the love of my life – the guy who reminds you that you can be passionate, you don't always have to play it safe, and that you can be pushed outside your comfort zone.
History: I dated both guys on and off for years. While they never met, they know about each other. When I married the safe guy, I thought that was it – I was content and OK with how my life ended up. But things have happened since we’ve been married (nothing to do with him and not his fault, but extreme trauma nonetheless) and I’ve kind of become a bit of a shell of a person. Therapy helped somewhat, but only goes so far.
My ex, the love of my life, suddenly showed up at seemingly the perfect time, and that empty space is starting to feel not so empty. Feelings I never thought I would know again have trickled back in. No cheating; all we've done is talk (he lives 3,000 miles away). I certainly do not want to divorce my husband; he's been there through it all and loves me as best he can. It's just not the same. I know this crowd well enough that cheating will bring out the pitchforks (and honestly I could care less about those). I'm looking for real answers/suggestions either how to cope or how to maneuver through this.

– Comfort Zone

Check out my thoughts and more during this week's edition of CRAZY GOOD ADVICE, as heard on FIRST SPORTS!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18238851Tue, 11 Jun 2019 14:54:48 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, Can you love someone but be madly in love with someone else? Are we meant to be monogamous for 40 something years? I married the safe guy, the good guy, the guy who will be there for you no matter what. The one who makes you laugh and...Can you love someone but be madly in love with someone else? Are we meant to be monogamous for 40 something years? I married the safe guy, the good guy, the guy who will be there for you no matter what. The one who makes you laugh and knows you. The other guy is the love of my life – the guy who reminds you that you can be passionate, you don't always have to play it safe, and that you can be pushed outside your comfort zone.
History: I dated both guys on and off for years. While they never met, they know about each other. When I married the safe guy, I thought that was it – I was content and OK with how my life ended up. But things have happened since we’ve been married (nothing to do with him and not his fault, but extreme trauma nonetheless) and I’ve kind of become a bit of a shell of a person. Therapy helped somewhat, but only goes so far.
My ex, the love of my life, suddenly showed up at seemingly the perfect time, and that empty space is starting to feel not so empty. Feelings I never thought I would know again have trickled back in. No cheating; all we've done is talk (he lives 3,000 miles away). I certainly do not want to divorce my husband; he's been there through it all and loves me as best he can. It's just not the same. I know this crowd well enough that cheating will bring out the pitchforks (and honestly I could care less about those). I'm looking for real answers/suggestions either how to cope or how to maneuver through this.

– Comfort Zone

Check out my thoughts and more during this week's edition of CRAZY GOOD ADVICE, as heard on FIRST SPORTS!]]>391falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-061119--18238308https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18238308Tue, 11 Jun 2019 14:07:03 +0000Steven BortsteinWhether it was obligation, a need to compete or a sense of oncoming elimination on the part of Kevin Durant, his time on the court Monday night proved costly, as he set his career path back some time helping Golden State win game 5 in Toronto....601falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-060719--18204489Check out more of my thoughts on this story in the MORNING MONOLOGUE, as heard today on FIRST SPORTS!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18204489Fri, 07 Jun 2019 14:41:30 +0000Steven BortsteinSimply banning a person from going to basketball games won’t be enough to satisfy those who want their fair share of retribution. Unfortunately, Mark Stevens is going to be an example of a cultural norm that hates the things we find to be...Check out more of my thoughts on this story in the MORNING MONOLOGUE, as heard today on FIRST SPORTS!]]>864falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-060619--18195133https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18195133Thu, 06 Jun 2019 16:29:35 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes and I chatted about the NBA Finals and we also talked about Pete Rose's comments on the Baseball Hall of Fame. Check out our podcast right here!1265falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chip-gehrke-060619--18195131https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18195131Thu, 06 Jun 2019 16:29:14 +0000Steven BortsteinCheck out a preview of Saturday's Belmont Stakes with Horse Racing Nation analyst Chip Gehrke. Our podcast is right here!1169falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-060619--18193970https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18193970Thu, 06 Jun 2019 14:16:23 +0000Steven BortsteinI need a moment to explain to Jets running back Le’Veon Bell how jealousy actually works. According to police in Florida, Bell recently had quite a bit of jewelry stolen from his home by what he described as girlfriends. There can only be one...556falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-060519--18193322Check out more on this topic during the MORNING MONOLOGUE, as heard today on FIRST SPORTS!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18193322Thu, 06 Jun 2019 13:00:42 +0000Steven BortsteinMLB commissioner Rob Manfred has heard both sides, and is obviously paying attention to reactions regarding the safety of fans at games. But let me put out this little selfish public service reminder. Someone pays a lot of money for those premium...Check out more on this topic during the MORNING MONOLOGUE, as heard today on FIRST SPORTS!]]>698falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-060419--18169470
About six months ago, I met a woman at work who was absolutely gorgeous. As a professional person, I didn't pursue it, but we got to know each other because we had reason to work together. We had good talks and she seemed to take an interest in engaging with me. I thought we were starting a great friendship. After about three months, I friended her on Facebook and she accepted.

The next week came and went and she didn't show up to work for a few days. I thought she might be on vacation, but the following week she didn't return. I sent her a text on messenger asking her where she'd been, and she replied that she didn't work there anymore. As much as it disappointed me, I thought that this could be a chance to ask her out because it would no longer be unprofessional. Just before I asked, she sent me a note saying that she and her husband were moving away soon. I was devastated – for two reasons. One, she's married! Two, she's leaving. I've been feeling very negative lately and this feels worse than it should. How do I move past it?

– Disappointed

Click here for my reply in this week's installment of CRAZY GOOD ADVICE, from today's FIRST SPORTS!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18169470Tue, 04 Jun 2019 14:12:45 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, About six months ago, I met a woman at work who was absolutely gorgeous. As a professional person, I didn't pursue it, but we got to know each other because we had reason to work together. We had good talks and she seemed to take an...
About six months ago, I met a woman at work who was absolutely gorgeous. As a professional person, I didn't pursue it, but we got to know each other because we had reason to work together. We had good talks and she seemed to take an interest in engaging with me. I thought we were starting a great friendship. After about three months, I friended her on Facebook and she accepted.

The next week came and went and she didn't show up to work for a few days. I thought she might be on vacation, but the following week she didn't return. I sent her a text on messenger asking her where she'd been, and she replied that she didn't work there anymore. As much as it disappointed me, I thought that this could be a chance to ask her out because it would no longer be unprofessional. Just before I asked, she sent me a note saying that she and her husband were moving away soon. I was devastated – for two reasons. One, she's married! Two, she's leaving. I've been feeling very negative lately and this feels worse than it should. How do I move past it?

– Disappointed

Click here for my reply in this week's installment of CRAZY GOOD ADVICE, from today's FIRST SPORTS!]]>325falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-060419--18169422
Click the link for my thoughts on the NFL and more from the MORNING MONOLOGUE, as heard today during FIRST SPORTS!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18169422Tue, 04 Jun 2019 14:05:28 +0000Steven BortsteinThere’s a level of greed from the NFL side of things when it comes to reducing the preseason schedule in exchange for expanding the regular season. The players association knows this and they want their piece of the pie, with added compensation and...
Click the link for my thoughts on the NFL and more from the MORNING MONOLOGUE, as heard today during FIRST SPORTS!]]>582falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-060419--18169397https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18169397Tue, 04 Jun 2019 14:02:19 +0000Steven BortsteinCheck out NBA Finals chat plus a breakdown on the Houston Rockets odd start to the offseason with Jamieson Welsh. Our podcast can be found right here!923falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-053119--18135129https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18135129Fri, 31 May 2019 16:25:41 +0000Steven BortsteinPaul West (P Dub's Sports Hub) recaps Dodgers vs. Mets and the new debate on netting for stadiums. Listen to our chat right here!1281falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/valerie-miller-053119--18134638https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18134638Fri, 31 May 2019 15:28:48 +0000Steven BortsteinThe eight co-champions from last night's Scripps National Spelling Bee appeared on the show. Listen to our chat right here!1213falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-053119--18134399https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18134399Fri, 31 May 2019 15:00:52 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (Touchdown Wire) talks CBA negotiations and more NFL news. Listen to our podcast right here!961falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-053119--18134086https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18134086Fri, 31 May 2019 14:29:53 +0000Steven BortsteinIt’s easy to say that Thursday’s win by Toronto in Game 1 of the NBA Finals only leads to a dramatic and perhaps elongated series. That may not be inaccurate, but the cracks are starting to show within the Warrior family. Draymond Green couldn’t...389falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/valerie-miller-053019--18124839https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18124839Thu, 30 May 2019 16:52:42 +0000Steven BortsteinValerie Miller, representing the Scripps National Spelling Bee, previews tonight's final round. Listen to our chat right here!622falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/james-holas-053019--18124835https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18124835Thu, 30 May 2019 16:52:03 +0000Steven BortsteinJames Holas previews and predicts the NBA Finals and offers thoughts on the Lakers and Rockets situations. Check out our podcast right here!1155falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-053019--18124841https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18124841Thu, 30 May 2019 16:51:41 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes does a deep dive on the Lakers mess and more. Click the link for our exclusive chat!1120falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-053019--18123681https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18123681Thu, 30 May 2019 14:45:22 +0000Steven BortsteinYou can expect there will be a lot on the table when the NFL and the players union sit down at some point to avoid a potential work stoppage at the end of the 2020 season. Some executives are talking about an expanded playoff format or an 18-game...901falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/willie-ramirez-052919--18113902https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18113902Wed, 29 May 2019 16:51:39 +0000Steven BortsteinWillie Ramirez (Gaming Today) talked NHL Stanley Cup Final action with us. Listen to our podcast right here!1032falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-052919--18113900https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18113900Wed, 29 May 2019 16:51:20 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) chatted PGA Tour news and more. Listen to our podcast right here!542falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-052919--18112700https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18112700Wed, 29 May 2019 14:54:04 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini talked Lakers and the NBA Finals with us. We also discussed who was the better "Joker", Nicholson or Ledger. Hear our discussion right here!1410falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-052919--18112324Check out the MORNING MONOLOGUE for more on this discussion, as heard today on FIRST SPORTS!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18112324Wed, 29 May 2019 14:31:07 +0000Steven BortsteinLet’s not fall for the false narrative in which we call out the Raiders for signing Richie Incognito to a contract while poor old Colin Kaepernick still can’t get a job. Incognito is probably a troubled dude. Doesn’t that fit in with the allure of the...Check out the MORNING MONOLOGUE for more on this discussion, as heard today on FIRST SPORTS!]]>619falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-052819--18103372https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18103372Tue, 28 May 2019 16:47:54 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh chatted NBA Finals preview and storylines regarding Kevin Durant and Kawhi Leonard. Listen to our podcast right here!1106falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jed-rigney-052819--18103368https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18103368Tue, 28 May 2019 16:47:24 +0000Steven BortsteinJed Rigney (Foul Territory Baseball) talked Bill Buckner and Dodgers baseball. Check out our podcast right here!994falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-052819--18102140A few months ago, I asked you for advice on how I should respond to my grieving ex. At the time, I was completely over him. But things have changed since then. I think that after months of feeling nothing after I broke up with him, my heartbreak is starting to kick in.

I have been feeling overwhelmed the last few weeks with work and changes within my family and have had to leave situations to get myself together because I cannot stop thinking about how I ruined everything. Long story short, my mental health has not been stable over the last few months, and I know it was not easy on him when we were still together.

I called him to see if he was open to speaking about getting back together, and he shut me down. We dated for over two years and I can't imagine myself with anyone else. I've always been embarrassed to let myself think this kind of thing, but I believe he's the love of my life. I don't know if I should even expect him to hear me out since I have gone back and forth about our relationship in the past or if this is the right time to do this or how to cope if the break up is final.

– Grieving now]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18102140Tue, 28 May 2019 14:29:18 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, A few months ago, I asked you for advice on how I should respond to my grieving ex. At the time, I was completely over him. But things have changed since then. I think that after months of feeling nothing after I broke up with him, my...A few months ago, I asked you for advice on how I should respond to my grieving ex. At the time, I was completely over him. But things have changed since then. I think that after months of feeling nothing after I broke up with him, my heartbreak is starting to kick in.

I have been feeling overwhelmed the last few weeks with work and changes within my family and have had to leave situations to get myself together because I cannot stop thinking about how I ruined everything. Long story short, my mental health has not been stable over the last few months, and I know it was not easy on him when we were still together.

I called him to see if he was open to speaking about getting back together, and he shut me down. We dated for over two years and I can't imagine myself with anyone else. I've always been embarrassed to let myself think this kind of thing, but I believe he's the love of my life. I don't know if I should even expect him to hear me out since I have gone back and forth about our relationship in the past or if this is the right time to do this or how to cope if the break up is final.

– Grieving now]]>265falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-052819--18102007
Listen to my tribute to the career and life of Bill Buckner in the MORNING MONOLOGUE, as heard today on FIRST SPORTS!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18102007Tue, 28 May 2019 14:10:08 +0000Steven BortsteinAll it would have taken was one other highlight, one moment, just one other play that people could turn to in order to change the narrative surrounding the legacy of Bill Buckner. Go to Youtube and type his name, there’s the play in ‘86. Go to...
Listen to my tribute to the career and life of Bill Buckner in the MORNING MONOLOGUE, as heard today on FIRST SPORTS!]]>760falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-052419--18065936https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18065936Fri, 24 May 2019 16:37:50 +0000Steven BortsteinPaul West (PDub'sSportsHub.com) talked MLB news and notes. Check out our podcast right here!675falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/james-holas-052419--18065306https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18065306Fri, 24 May 2019 15:25:46 +0000Steven BortsteinJames Holas (RealBallInsider.com) talked Raptors, Bucks, the "Drake controversy" and more.... Listen to our podcast right here!1128falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-052419--18064488https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18064488Fri, 24 May 2019 13:54:58 +0000Steven BortsteinAll this nonsense to pop icon Drake and his time following the Raptors has to be seen as a positive for the NBA. At a time when too many seem focused on the Western Conference and the darlings in Golden State, there needed to be a little flavor to the...409falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-052319--18055585https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18055585Thu, 23 May 2019 16:28:13 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes chatted up the latest on the drama surrounding the Lakers. Check in with our podcast right here!1410falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-052319--18055583https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18055583Thu, 23 May 2019 16:27:53 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini talked NBA Playoffs and how the eventual Eastern Conference champion will match up with Golden State. Listen to our podcast right here!1277falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-052319--18054498https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18054498Thu, 23 May 2019 14:15:12 +0000Steven BortsteinI’m encouraged by the latest reports suggesting the NFL is at least willing to talk with the players association about the use of medical marijuana to help treat injured players. It’s encouraging to think a multi-billion dollar corporation is...751falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/willie-ramirez-052219--18045695https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18045695Wed, 22 May 2019 16:51:01 +0000Steven BortsteinWillie Ramirez (Gaming Today) previewed the NHL Stanley Cup Final. Hear his analysis and predictions on our podcast right here!928falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-052219--18045692https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18045692Wed, 22 May 2019 16:50:39 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee recapped last weekend's win of Brooks Koepka in the PGA Championship. Listen to our podcast right here!646falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-052219--18045686https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18045686Wed, 22 May 2019 16:50:19 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (USA Today/Touchdown Wire) talked NFL news and notes with us. Check out our podcast right here!1175falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-052219--18044470https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18044470Wed, 22 May 2019 14:28:39 +0000Steven BortsteinSo let’s check in on the Pittsburgh Steelers, who are quietly coming to terms with the fact that Ben Roethlisberger may have run their best offensive weapon out of town. Ben offered up an apology to Antonio Brown this week, suggesting he could have...650falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-052119--18033901
I'm currently a college senior, and it's been an intense and exciting few months moving toward graduation. I have a boyfriend I've been with for almost two years, but we're unsure about where our relationship should go. He is going back home, across the country, and then a few months later to the other side of the world for a fellowship. I'm very proud and happy for him, but totally devastated for us as a couple. It feels like the only option is for us to break up, as I have no idea when we could be together next.

We could possibly visit each other while he stays in the country, but then he's gone for a year, and while I’m aware we can keep in touch online and on the phone, it’s just not the same. Also, and understandably, he doesn't yet have a plan for after his fellowship, so I have no idea if we'll be near each other.

How do I deal with this impending breakup? I want to enjoy the time we have left together, but lately I feel sad every time I'm around him. Also, it's so hard for me to stop thinking that maybe we'll get back together one day. I know I'm young and have plenty of time to meet people and explore myself, but it's hard to have a positive outlook right now.

I love him so much and can't imagine being without him, physically or emotionally.

– Graduation]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18033901Tue, 21 May 2019 14:19:03 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I'm currently a college senior, and it's been an intense and exciting few months moving toward graduation. I have a boyfriend I've been with for almost two years, but we're unsure about where our relationship should go. He is going back...
I'm currently a college senior, and it's been an intense and exciting few months moving toward graduation. I have a boyfriend I've been with for almost two years, but we're unsure about where our relationship should go. He is going back home, across the country, and then a few months later to the other side of the world for a fellowship. I'm very proud and happy for him, but totally devastated for us as a couple. It feels like the only option is for us to break up, as I have no idea when we could be together next.

We could possibly visit each other while he stays in the country, but then he's gone for a year, and while I’m aware we can keep in touch online and on the phone, it’s just not the same. Also, and understandably, he doesn't yet have a plan for after his fellowship, so I have no idea if we'll be near each other.

How do I deal with this impending breakup? I want to enjoy the time we have left together, but lately I feel sad every time I'm around him. Also, it's so hard for me to stop thinking that maybe we'll get back together one day. I know I'm young and have plenty of time to meet people and explore myself, but it's hard to have a positive outlook right now.

I love him so much and can't imagine being without him, physically or emotionally.

– Graduation]]>321falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-052119--18033891https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18033891Tue, 21 May 2019 14:16:33 +0000Steven BortsteinThe male ego is a wonderful thing, particularly when you get to see all of its elements played out in a high-stakes drama. Rob Pelinka never tasted the success of being an NBA player, Magic Johnson on the other hand, did all of that and is an icon in...643falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/sam-neumann-052019--18024568https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18024568Mon, 20 May 2019 15:41:21 +0000Steven BortsteinSam Neumann (Jets Wire) updates us on the latest chaos in the New York Jets organization plus more story lines regarding LeVeon Bell. Check out our podcast right here!769falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-052019--18024550https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18024550Mon, 20 May 2019 15:38:30 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh talks NBA Conference Finals matchups as well as the latest in league news. Click here for our podcast!904falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-052019--18023767https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18023767Mon, 20 May 2019 14:23:31 +0000Steven BortsteinGolden State fans who may be concerned or more or less convinced that Kevin Durant is headed elsewhere should consider this run in the Western Conference finals a recruiting trip. The devastating way the Warriors have run over Portland in this series...601falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jarrod-horak-051719--18002063https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18002063Fri, 17 May 2019 16:29:17 +0000Steven BortsteinJarrod Horak (Today's Racing Digest) previews this weekend's Preakness Stakes. Check out our podcast right here!1055falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/james-holas-051719--18002067https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18002067Fri, 17 May 2019 16:28:56 +0000Steven BortsteinJames Holas (Real Ball Insiders) talks NBA Playoffs and more league news. Listen to our podcast right here!1063falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-051719--18001377https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18001377Fri, 17 May 2019 15:27:39 +0000Steven BortsteinHow quickly we forget the embarrassing mess when Kyler Murray opted not to play for the Oakland A’s after they’d drafted the 2-sport athlete from Oklahoma. Just a few months later, the New Orleans Pelicans are supposed to take the word of Zion...457falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thur-song-tribute--17948633https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17948633Thu, 16 May 2019 16:22:12 +0000Steven Bortstein.... and the song tribute goes to all you upside-down brides. Check it out right here!171falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chip-gehrke-051619--17948630https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17948630Thu, 16 May 2019 16:21:52 +0000Steven BortsteinChip Gehrke (Horse Racing Nation) previewed this weekend's Preakness Stakes. Tune in for our chat at the link.764falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-051619--17948629https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17948629Thu, 16 May 2019 16:21:31 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes talked Lakers, Zion Williamson and more. Listen to our podcast right here!1441falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-051619--17948625https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17948625Thu, 16 May 2019 16:21:10 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (Touchdown Wire) chatted up NFL news and notes. Listen to our podcast right here!1401falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-051619--17947499https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17947499Thu, 16 May 2019 14:13:36 +0000Steven BortsteinThe only thing more shocking than the clearing house-like personnel changes happening with the New York Jets is that anyone is really surprised at all. Team CEO Christopher Johnson would like you to think this was all his decision and that there's...481falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/clubs-for-kids--17946828https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17946828Thu, 16 May 2019 13:25:25 +0000Steven BortsteinThe First Tee of San Juan County uses golf to positively impact the lives of young people, offering character-based programs designed to develop social, academic and physical skills which will mold our youth into the future leaders of our community...1801falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/willie-ramirez-051519--17937531https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17937531Wed, 15 May 2019 16:06:56 +0000Steven BortsteinWe talked up the NHL Conference Finals and more with Gaming Today writer and PHWA member Willie Ramirez. Listen to our breakdown right here!730falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-051519--17937105https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17937105Wed, 15 May 2019 15:30:45 +0000Steven BortsteinWe previewed this week's PGA Championship and more with Golf News Net writer/editor Ryan Ballengee. Check out our podcast right here!837falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/john-scheinman-051519--17937107https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17937107Wed, 15 May 2019 15:30:23 +0000Steven BortsteinWe chatted with Eclipse Award-winning turfwriter John Scheinman about this weekend's Preakness Stakes as well as more fallout from last week's Kentucky Derby and news from Pimlico. Check out our conversation right here!984falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-051519--17936680https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17936680Wed, 15 May 2019 14:38:15 +0000Steven BortsteinI don’t know what Josh Rosen was expecting to hear when Cardinals GM Steve Keim or coach Kliff Kingsbury were supposed to speak to him before taking Kyler Murray with the number one pick in last month’s draft. We all attach our own values of right and...561falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-051419--17927571https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17927571Tue, 14 May 2019 16:33:17 +0000Steven BortsteinPaul West (P Dubs Sports Hub) talks MLB news and notes as the season reaches the first quarter mark. Listen to our chat right here!1374falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-051419--17926607https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17926607Tue, 14 May 2019 15:00:49 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Castle Country Radio) chats up this week's NBA Conference Championship matchups and more. Listen to our podcast right here!1235falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-051419--17926283
I went through a breakup about a year ago with someone who I've always considered my "first love." I knew him for six years. The relationship was very emotionally draining. He was manipulative and mentally abusive. I saw him through alcohol problems, most of which resulted in angry fights that he made up reasons for in his head (keep in mind we were both only 23). After cheating on me, he got himself sick from alcohol consumption, was in the hospital for about one month, and then rehab for another two months. I stayed with him through it all. He promised my parents and me that he would turn his life around and be a better man for me.

He convinced me that if I stuck with him, he would marry me. About a month after leaving rehab, he left me for a girl from Tinder, of all things. Instead of telling me himself, he let me find out by changing his relationship status on Facebook and adding pictures of them kissing.

The pain was debilitating. He blocked me on every form of communication you can think of as soon as he realized I knew, without ever saying anything about why he did things this way. It is blatantly obvious that this person has no love or care for me. Recently he unblocked me and tried to add me back on Facebook, liked some of my pictures, and messaged me. I have yet to add him. Thankfully I am at a point where I realize that there are much better men in the world, more fit for me.

I fell in love after him (we have since broken up), and that relationship opened me up to the possibilities the world has to offer. My only problem is, I can't help but feel that although I don't want to be with him, I am bitter about the way the break up happened. He is still in a relationship with the woman he left me for. I can't seem to rid myself of the angry feelings and the thought that I don't want their relationship to work out, just because of the way it started. A part of me just wants him to feel some pain and I need some help ridding myself of these bitter feelings so long after the ending. Friends of mine have told me that the severity of the break up is something I probably will never get over, that they wouldn't if they were me. Any advice for me?

– Bitter]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17926283Tue, 14 May 2019 14:27:10 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I went through a breakup about a year ago with someone who I've always considered my "first love." I knew him for six years. The relationship was very emotionally draining. He was manipulative and mentally abusive. I saw him through...
I went through a breakup about a year ago with someone who I've always considered my "first love." I knew him for six years. The relationship was very emotionally draining. He was manipulative and mentally abusive. I saw him through alcohol problems, most of which resulted in angry fights that he made up reasons for in his head (keep in mind we were both only 23). After cheating on me, he got himself sick from alcohol consumption, was in the hospital for about one month, and then rehab for another two months. I stayed with him through it all. He promised my parents and me that he would turn his life around and be a better man for me.

He convinced me that if I stuck with him, he would marry me. About a month after leaving rehab, he left me for a girl from Tinder, of all things. Instead of telling me himself, he let me find out by changing his relationship status on Facebook and adding pictures of them kissing.

The pain was debilitating. He blocked me on every form of communication you can think of as soon as he realized I knew, without ever saying anything about why he did things this way. It is blatantly obvious that this person has no love or care for me. Recently he unblocked me and tried to add me back on Facebook, liked some of my pictures, and messaged me. I have yet to add him. Thankfully I am at a point where I realize that there are much better men in the world, more fit for me.

I fell in love after him (we have since broken up), and that relationship opened me up to the possibilities the world has to offer. My only problem is, I can't help but feel that although I don't want to be with him, I am bitter about the way the break up happened. He is still in a relationship with the woman he left me for. I can't seem to rid myself of the angry feelings and the thought that I don't want their relationship to work out, just because of the way it started. A part of me just wants him to feel some pain and I need some help ridding myself of these bitter feelings so long after the ending. Friends of mine have told me that the severity of the break up is something I probably will never get over, that they wouldn't if they were me. Any advice for me?

– Bitter]]>364falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-051419--17926150
Now imagine you’re Joe Flacco. The whispers are that you haven’t been working at the highest level, and here comes the new kid on the block. Flacco’s right, mentoring Drew Lock isn’t his job, but it’s damn sure gonna be.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17926150Tue, 14 May 2019 14:05:43 +0000Steven BortsteinAsk anyone who’s been on a job for a very long time and has done so at a high level how eager they’d be to hand over the secrets of that job to some kid fresh off the college trail. Now imagine you’re Joe Flacco. The whispers are that you haven’t...
Now imagine you’re Joe Flacco. The whispers are that you haven’t been working at the highest level, and here comes the new kid on the block. Flacco’s right, mentoring Drew Lock isn’t his job, but it’s damn sure gonna be.]]>713falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-051319--17916206https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17916206Mon, 13 May 2019 15:20:17 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh chats the NBA Playoffs and big coaching news. Listen to our podcast right here!1008falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-051319--17915796https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17915796Mon, 13 May 2019 14:35:15 +0000Steven BortsteinThere’s a lot to unpack about this past weekend’s NBA playoff action, but there’s also the saga in L.A. when it comes to the hiring of new coach Frank Vogel. Let it be known Vogel wasn’t the team’s best option, and certainly not the first preference,...607falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-050919--17881819https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17881819Thu, 09 May 2019 17:13:07 +0000Steven BortsteinWe talked about the Lakers coaching mess with Chuck Hayes. Listen to our breakdown right here!1415falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-050919--17881815https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17881815Thu, 09 May 2019 17:12:44 +0000Steven BortsteinCheck out my chat with NFL writer/editor Neal Coolong (TouchdownWire) as we talked Browns, Eagles and the XFL. Our podcast can be found right here!940falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/james-holas-050919--17881812https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17881812Thu, 09 May 2019 17:12:23 +0000Steven BortsteinWe talked with NBA writer James Holas about Kevin Durant's status going forward as well as Milwaukee's dominant playoff run and more. Listen to our chat right here!824falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-050919--17880369https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17880369Thu, 09 May 2019 14:36:04 +0000Steven BortsteinIt seems we’ve been here before with the Warriors and Rockets. Last year, Houston couldn’t close out the Western Conference finals when Chris Paul was forced to miss Games 6 and 7. Now, while we wait to find out the extent of Kevin Durant’s injury...545falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/willie-ramirez-050819--17871569https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17871569Wed, 08 May 2019 16:39:34 +0000Steven BortsteinWillie Ramirez (Gaming Today, PHWA) joined us to talk NHL Playoff matchups. Check out our podcast right here!929falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-050819--17870932https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17870932Wed, 08 May 2019 15:37:57 +0000Steven Bortstein721falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-050719--17860523https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17860523Tue, 07 May 2019 16:35:31 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Castle Country Radio) chatted up NBA Playoff recaps and predictions. Check out our podcast right here.1270falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chip-gehrke-050719--17860524https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17860524Tue, 07 May 2019 16:35:03 +0000Steven BortsteinChip Gehrke (Horse Racing Nation) recapped more fallout from last weekend's Kentucky Derby. Listen to our podcast right here.1188falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-050719--17859462My boyfriend and I have two entirely different methods of fighting and it makes our little arguments huge. I am the type of person who needs to walk away from a heated situation. I process my thoughts slowly and I am not quick-witted like he is, so I miss entire parts of the discussion or I get far too riled up and explode, saying things I don't mean, or I come across very harsh. I've learned that when I am upset, I have to stay quiet, take a few deep breaths, and let myself calm down before I can come back to it. Sometimes, during that cool-down time, I even realize that the thing that angered one of us was so silly that I laugh and don't even bother bringing it up again. He hates that. It makes his blood boil if I get quiet or try to walk away. He will actually chase me down to "settle things right now." He's an action man in that respect. We have to discuss it now and apologize now and figure everything out NOW or else ... I don’t know what the else is, but it's very important to him.

Literally our most recent argument, right in the middle of it, if I take even 15 seconds to pause and think, he'll say things like "You're ignoring me," or "You're not even paying attention." If I start to realize I was in the wrong, he'll come at me with "So you can't even apologize?" I need time to feel sorry (unless he wants insincere apologies). A quick example: The other day he said, "I wish you would own up to your mistakes more and apologize when you are wrong, and not get so defensive if I say anything," and in the argument I "rephrased it" to "When you said I need to be apologetic and less defensive," to which he lost it screaming "That's not what I said, you NEVER listen to me."

He's not denying that he said those things either; he is literally mad that I didn't use the EXACT wording that he used. It makes me want to carry around a tape recorder. What do I do? How do I make these little meaningless things not become so huge? I don't know how to change how I'm wired.

Signed,
Numb]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17859462Tue, 07 May 2019 14:45:31 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, My boyfriend and I have two entirely different methods of fighting and it makes our little arguments huge. I am the type of person who needs to walk away from a heated situation. I process my thoughts slowly and I am not quick-witted like...My boyfriend and I have two entirely different methods of fighting and it makes our little arguments huge. I am the type of person who needs to walk away from a heated situation. I process my thoughts slowly and I am not quick-witted like he is, so I miss entire parts of the discussion or I get far too riled up and explode, saying things I don't mean, or I come across very harsh. I've learned that when I am upset, I have to stay quiet, take a few deep breaths, and let myself calm down before I can come back to it. Sometimes, during that cool-down time, I even realize that the thing that angered one of us was so silly that I laugh and don't even bother bringing it up again. He hates that. It makes his blood boil if I get quiet or try to walk away. He will actually chase me down to "settle things right now." He's an action man in that respect. We have to discuss it now and apologize now and figure everything out NOW or else ... I don’t know what the else is, but it's very important to him.

Literally our most recent argument, right in the middle of it, if I take even 15 seconds to pause and think, he'll say things like "You're ignoring me," or "You're not even paying attention." If I start to realize I was in the wrong, he'll come at me with "So you can't even apologize?" I need time to feel sorry (unless he wants insincere apologies). A quick example: The other day he said, "I wish you would own up to your mistakes more and apologize when you are wrong, and not get so defensive if I say anything," and in the argument I "rephrased it" to "When you said I need to be apologetic and less defensive," to which he lost it screaming "That's not what I said, you NEVER listen to me."

He's not denying that he said those things either; he is literally mad that I didn't use the EXACT wording that he used. It makes me want to carry around a tape recorder. What do I do? How do I make these little meaningless things not become so huge? I don't know how to change how I'm wired.

Signed,
Numb]]>278falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-050719--17859298https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17859298Tue, 07 May 2019 14:28:28 +0000Steven BortsteinI have no issues with owner Gary West stating he wasn’t going to run Maximum Security in the Preakness next weekend. If we learned anything from the race, is that rules are there for a reason, and businessmen often make decisions that have nothing to...869falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-050619--17850375https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17850375Mon, 06 May 2019 17:07:41 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh talks NBA Playoffs and more. Listen to our podcast right here.1091falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kevin-kerstein-050619--17850376https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17850376Mon, 06 May 2019 17:07:15 +0000Steven BortsteinKevin Kerstein (Churchill Downs) recaps a wild weekend at the Kentucky Derby and the controversy behind the disqualification of Maximum Security. Listen to our podcast right here!1150falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-050619--17850147https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17850147Mon, 06 May 2019 16:48:18 +0000Steven BortsteinRaiders head coach Jon Gruden feels good about his recent draft class, specifically because they come from a culture of winning. That sounds great, but being a winner at an early age comes with it a sense of entitlement that winning comes naturally or...497falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chip-gehrke-050519--17840989https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17840989Sun, 05 May 2019 15:22:03 +0000Steven BortsteinChip Gehrke (Horse Racing Nation) recaps a controversial decision which changed the outcome of the Kentucky Derby. Hear our breakdown of the events right here.901falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/fcf-050519--17840789https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17840789Sun, 05 May 2019 14:43:45 +0000Steven BortsteinSan Juan College has received a grant from the New Mexico Public Education Department to support innovative work to recruit and support highly promising Native American teaching candidates. People who participate in “Project ALPINE” will receive...1801falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/james-holas-050319--17826714https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17826714Fri, 03 May 2019 16:15:33 +0000Steven BortsteinJames Holas talks NBA Playoffs news and picks for this weekend's games. Click the link for our exclusive chat right here.908falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/molly-jo-rosen-050319--17826708https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17826708Fri, 03 May 2019 16:15:08 +0000Steven BortsteinMolly Jo Rosen previews today's Kentucky Oaks and tomorrow's Kentucky Derby. Check out our previews and picks right here!1897falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-050319--17826557https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17826557Fri, 03 May 2019 15:56:08 +0000Steven BortsteinIt may be inexcusable to be a lousy parent, but that’s neither a violation of the law, nor standards and practices of the NFL. The detailed letter sent by Tyreek Hill’s attorney to the league this week details the many ways Hill and his fiancée were...390falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-050219--17816030https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17816030Thu, 02 May 2019 16:01:02 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes chats up the UofA men's basketball scandal and more, including the coaching search for the Lakers. Listen to our podcast right here.1201falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chip-gehrke-050219--17816025https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17816025Thu, 02 May 2019 16:00:26 +0000Steven BortsteinChip Gehrke (Horse Racing Nation) has the latest on Omaha Beach being scratched from the Kentucky Derby. Check out our podcast and predictions right here!1051falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-050219--17816050https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17816050Thu, 02 May 2019 16:00:00 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (Touchdown Wire, USA Today) chats up NFL news and notes, plus the latest on the demise of the AAF. Listen to our podcast right here.1212falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-050219--17815880https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17815880Thu, 02 May 2019 15:39:52 +0000Steven BortsteinThere’s no bombshells coming out of testimony this week, nor in wiretaps played before a jury, indicating that the University of Arizona men’s basketball team was knowingly paying one of its players. The real story is the continued defiance of those...439falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jarrod-horak-050119--17806116https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17806116Wed, 01 May 2019 16:47:39 +0000Steven BortsteinJarrod Horak (Today's Racing Digest, The Runaway Horse) previews this weekend's Kentucky Derby and Kentucky Oaks. Listen to our exclusive podcast right here.1201falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-050119--17806117https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17806117Wed, 01 May 2019 16:47:09 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) previews this weekend's Wells Fargo Championships. Check out our podcast right here!614falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/willie-ramirez-050119--17806120https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17806120Wed, 01 May 2019 16:46:40 +0000Steven BortsteinWillie Ramirez (AP Sports, Gaming Today) recaps and previews NHL Stanley Cup Playoff action. Check out our podcast right here.1174falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-050119--17805032https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17805032Wed, 01 May 2019 14:35:19 +0000Steven BortsteinAs much as we made of the so-called phantom calls made or not made by NBA officials heading into Game 2 of the Golden State series with Houston, even more impressive was the disappearing act pulled by Rockets all-star Chris Paul. He was a whopping...496falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-043019--17794692https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17794692Tue, 30 Apr 2019 16:34:43 +0000Steven BortsteinMajor League Baseball news and notes with Paul West (P Dub's Sports Hub). Click the link for our exclusive chat from this morning's show.1228falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kevin-kerstein-043019--17794697https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17794697Tue, 30 Apr 2019 16:34:23 +0000Steven BortsteinKevin Kerstein (Churchill Downs) previews this weekend's Kentucky Derby and Kentucky Oaks. Check out our chat right here!721falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-043019--17794218
I have what most outside people would consider a perfect relationship. Going on 30 years together, through thick and thin, with great and supportive friends and family – at least it appears so!
My husband and I entered retirement and now the fabric is falling apart. I've now realized that the bulk of effort, energy, love, finances, and the day-to-day "little things" all fell on my shoulders. Every day for 30 years.
Now, I want to retire – really retire. I made the finances happen, taking care of the details and the heavy lifting. Now I'm more unhappy than I've ever been. Because here we are, at the last and supposedly best times of our lives, and I am totally isolated and alone. My immediate family has passed on. My friends favor my husband due to his health issues, which eventually will be terminal. The poor thing. Well, who gave up 28 years to accommodate finding and seeing the best doctors in the world? Who jeopardized career aspirations over the years to be there during emergency medical issues? Who made sure everyone else was taken care of before dealing with her own breast cancer?

The sadness is paralyzing. This is no way to spend the last, best years of a life lived working hard every day since I was 14. What was the point of the last 60 years?

– Looking back]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17794218Tue, 30 Apr 2019 15:40:50 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I have what most outside people would consider a perfect relationship. Going on 30 years together, through thick and thin, with great and supportive friends and family – at least it appears so! My husband and I entered retirement and now...
I have what most outside people would consider a perfect relationship. Going on 30 years together, through thick and thin, with great and supportive friends and family – at least it appears so!
My husband and I entered retirement and now the fabric is falling apart. I've now realized that the bulk of effort, energy, love, finances, and the day-to-day "little things" all fell on my shoulders. Every day for 30 years.
Now, I want to retire – really retire. I made the finances happen, taking care of the details and the heavy lifting. Now I'm more unhappy than I've ever been. Because here we are, at the last and supposedly best times of our lives, and I am totally isolated and alone. My immediate family has passed on. My friends favor my husband due to his health issues, which eventually will be terminal. The poor thing. Well, who gave up 28 years to accommodate finding and seeing the best doctors in the world? Who jeopardized career aspirations over the years to be there during emergency medical issues? Who made sure everyone else was taken care of before dealing with her own breast cancer?

The sadness is paralyzing. This is no way to spend the last, best years of a life lived working hard every day since I was 14. What was the point of the last 60 years?

– Looking back]]>443falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-043019--17793531https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17793531Tue, 30 Apr 2019 14:20:14 +0000Steven BortsteinJosh Rosen is once again fighting the narrative about what is expected behavior of a professional football player. He’s a bright kid with a seemingly endless amount of ability who may or may not be solely motivated by his exploits on the field. He is...466falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bruno-de-julio-042919--17779671https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17779671Mon, 29 Apr 2019 16:02:51 +0000Steven BortsteinKentucky Derby workout analysis and preview with Bruno De Julio. Check out our podcast right here!1172falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-042919--17779372https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17779372Mon, 29 Apr 2019 15:30:36 +0000Steven BortsteinNBA Playoff chat and more with Jamieson Welsh. Listen to our podcast right here!1210falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-042919--17778241The Houston Rockets can complain all they want about the officiating in Sunday night’s opening game of their series with Golden State. If you’re the team that chucks up 47 three-pointers and makes less than 30 percent of them, maybe some time learning to take better shots, grabbing rebounds or getting back on defense could be incorporated into learning how to gripe when foul calls don’t go your way. You can't call out the need for better officiating while also maintaining a well-below average shooting percentage. It reeks of desperation and only makes the Warriors seem that much more efficient, in a game where they clearly weren't at their best as well.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17778241Mon, 29 Apr 2019 14:00:23 +0000Steven BortsteinI'm by no means suggesting the Rockets change who they are. They're a predominantly outside shooting team that enjoys the high-risk, high-reward nature of their offensive approach, but the risk can be cataclysmic if you continue to employ those...The Houston Rockets can complain all they want about the officiating in Sunday night’s opening game of their series with Golden State. If you’re the team that chucks up 47 three-pointers and makes less than 30 percent of them, maybe some time learning to take better shots, grabbing rebounds or getting back on defense could be incorporated into learning how to gripe when foul calls don’t go your way. You can't call out the need for better officiating while also maintaining a well-below average shooting percentage. It reeks of desperation and only makes the Warriors seem that much more efficient, in a game where they clearly weren't at their best as well.]]>661falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/james-holas-042619--17755244https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17755244Fri, 26 Apr 2019 17:50:08 +0000Steven BortsteinJames Holas (Real Ball Insiders) talks NBA news and chats up this weekend's NBA Playoff matchups. Listen to our analysis at the link here!934falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-042619--17755248https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17755248Fri, 26 Apr 2019 17:49:47 +0000Steven BortsteinFirst round of the NFL Draft recap with Neal Coolong (Touchdown Wire, USA Today). Click here for our chat.1120falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-042619--17755250https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17755250Fri, 26 Apr 2019 17:49:26 +0000Steven BortsteinWhat to expect from the Dallas Cowboys this weekend in the NFL Draft and more with Kristi Scales (Cowboys Radio). Click here for our chat!841falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-042619--17753450https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17753450Fri, 26 Apr 2019 14:23:09 +0000Steven BortsteinThe spotlight of the first round of the NFL Draft was quickly dimmed Thursday night when audio was released of Tyreek Hill threatening the mother of his child and being implicated in the abuse of his child. This, despite the fact county police filed...380falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-042519--17744400https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17744400Thu, 25 Apr 2019 15:55:10 +0000Steven BortsteinMore NFL Draft coverage with Jordan Buscarini (Castle Country Radio/Drive Time Sports). Check out our podcast right here!853falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-042519--17744411https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17744411Thu, 25 Apr 2019 15:48:30 +0000Steven BortsteinTalking NFL Draft and more with Chuck Hayes (CBS Sports) this morning. Listen to our chat right here.1239falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-042519--17743696
That’s an even more compelling statement in light of news this week that charges won’t be filed against Hill on allegations of child abuse, though investigators said they believe a crime was committed. But hey, at least your fantasy team is safe.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17743696Thu, 25 Apr 2019 14:27:44 +0000Steven BortsteinThe quote of the month may belong to Kansas City Chiefs coach Andy Reid, who said last week of Tyreek Hill, "I’m not here to judge. I’m here to coach." That’s an even more compelling statement in light of news this week that charges won’t be filed...
That’s an even more compelling statement in light of news this week that charges won’t be filed against Hill on allegations of child abuse, though investigators said they believe a crime was committed. But hey, at least your fantasy team is safe.]]>620falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/willie-ramirez-042419--17734606https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17734606Wed, 24 Apr 2019 16:12:19 +0000Steven BortsteinCheck out a recap of NHL Playoff action and more with Willie Ramirez (Gaming Today). We have our exclusive podcast right here!1086falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-042419--17734579https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17734579Wed, 24 Apr 2019 16:11:51 +0000Steven BortsteinListen in as Ryan Ballengee and I talk more Tiger Woods as well as a preview of what's happening in golf. Check out our chat right here!681falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-042419--17734580https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17734580Wed, 24 Apr 2019 16:11:25 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (Touchdown Wire) breaks down rumors, headlines and more on tomorrow's NFL Draft. Check up on our podcast right here!1348falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-042419--17732706https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17732706Wed, 24 Apr 2019 14:00:24 +0000Steven BortsteinOnce again, too many people are going to tell you the many ways in which to behave in what will be an ugly lawsuit against current Sacramento Kings coach Luke Walton. You’ll hear all the buzzwords about how quick you are to judge the man or you’ll be...640falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/sam-neumann-042319--17723711https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17723711Tue, 23 Apr 2019 16:04:03 +0000Steven BortsteinSam Neumann (Jets Wire) chats with us about the Jets and their 3rd pick in this week's NFL Draft! Check out our podcast right here!752falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-042319--17723718https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17723718Tue, 23 Apr 2019 16:03:31 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (Orange & Blue AM760) previews the Broncos 10th pick in this week's NFL Draft. Hear our chat right here!784falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-042319--17722690I suppose if I really needed a mid-level wide receiver, I wouldn’t go with the most talented or durable, but which one could tell me how far a train would travel in 4 seconds if it was going 25 feet in a third of a second.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17722690Tue, 23 Apr 2019 14:28:55 +0000Steven BortsteinAfter scouts get finished with their poking, prodding and measuring soon to be NFL draftees, then it's the players turn to show how smart they were at silly math and vocabulary questions with the Wonderlic test. I suppose if I really needed a...I suppose if I really needed a mid-level wide receiver, I wouldn’t go with the most talented or durable, but which one could tell me how far a train would travel in 4 seconds if it was going 25 feet in a third of a second.]]>812falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-042319--17722649I have an issue I need some advice with. I have been married to my wife for a few years, and we've been together for nearly 10 years. We have children together and I have considered everything generally happy. However I discovered through some old Facebook messages an incident that occurred when we were engaged.
My now wife was at a bachelorette party about seven years ago. She met some famous athletes at a casino in Las Vegas. I know this part because she even told me at the time. What she did not tell me was that she hung out with one of these athletes all night and then went to their hotel room later. It doesn't seem like they had sex, but stuff happened. I feel like I've been living a lie. Should I confront her? Also, does this mean she has been unfaithful beyond this encounter?
– Stuff Happened]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17722649Tue, 23 Apr 2019 14:21:26 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I have an issue I need some advice with. I have been married to my wife for a few years, and we've been together for nearly 10 years. We have children together and I have considered everything generally happy. However I discovered through...I have an issue I need some advice with. I have been married to my wife for a few years, and we've been together for nearly 10 years. We have children together and I have considered everything generally happy. However I discovered through some old Facebook messages an incident that occurred when we were engaged.
My now wife was at a bachelorette party about seven years ago. She met some famous athletes at a casino in Las Vegas. I know this part because she even told me at the time. What she did not tell me was that she hung out with one of these athletes all night and then went to their hotel room later. It doesn't seem like they had sex, but stuff happened. I feel like I've been living a lie. Should I confront her? Also, does this mean she has been unfaithful beyond this encounter?
– Stuff Happened]]>399falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-042219--17713352https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17713352Mon, 22 Apr 2019 15:06:31 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh talked NBA Playoffs and more with us this morning. Check out our podcast right here!1094falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jess-root-042219--17713353https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17713353Mon, 22 Apr 2019 15:06:07 +0000Steven BortsteinJess Root (Cards Wire) previews the team with the #1 in the NFL Draft. Listen to our chat right here!820falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/marcus-mosher-042219--17713355https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17713355Mon, 22 Apr 2019 15:05:40 +0000Steven BortsteinMarcus Mosher (Raiders Wire) talked NFL Draft and the latest on Jon Gruden storylines. Listen to our podcast right here!673falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-042219--17712977https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17712977Mon, 22 Apr 2019 14:23:46 +0000Steven BortsteinThere’s plenty of fascinating stories of how one man’s career rose and fell in a matter of moments. Michael Sam was as celebrated for his college career as he was for choices in his personal life. Ultimately, it was those choices which flipped the...510falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-041919--17691177https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17691177Fri, 19 Apr 2019 16:15:54 +0000Steven BortsteinThis morning, we chatted with Paul West (P Dubs Sports Hub) with news and notes around the MLB. Listen to our podcast right here!1127falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/james-holas-041919--17691096https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17691096Fri, 19 Apr 2019 16:05:01 +0000Steven BortsteinAnd we talked NBA Playoffs and the mess of the Lakers with James Holas (Real Ball Insiders). Check out our podcast right here!873falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-041919--17691100https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17691100Fri, 19 Apr 2019 16:04:32 +0000Steven BortsteinAlso, we previewed Crawford vs. Khan with Jordan Buscarini (Castle Country Radio). Listen to our preview and predictions right here!872falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-041919--17690126https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17690126Fri, 19 Apr 2019 14:09:16 +0000Steven BortsteinAdd another log onto the fire when it comes to the sensitivities of our collective pasts. The New York Yankees announced this week that Kate Smith’s version of God Bless America was no longer being featured at home games after a song she recorded in...547falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-041819--17679051https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17679051Thu, 18 Apr 2019 16:04:28 +0000Steven BortsteinThis morning, we talked NFL Draft, Schedule Release, Russell Wilson and more with Neal Coolong (US Today). Check out our podcast right here!1306falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-041819--17678846https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17678846Thu, 18 Apr 2019 15:40:57 +0000Steven BortsteinThis morning, we talked Tiger Woods, Clippers, Lakers and Robert Kraft with our friend Chuck Hayes (CBS Sports). Listen to our podcast right here!1326falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-041819--17678361https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17678361Thu, 18 Apr 2019 14:56:59 +0000Steven BortsteinIt seems the only team in the now-shuttered Alliance of American Football that showed a profit was the Birmingham Iron. Earlier this week, it was announced that the league was filing for chapter 7 bankruptcy. In court papers showing assets and...541falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/willie-ramirez-041719--17670222https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17670222Wed, 17 Apr 2019 17:40:14 +0000Steven BortsteinAlso, we chatted NHL Playoffs with Willie Ramirez (Gaming Today), including the demise of the Lightning and more. Listen to our chat right here!1178falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-041719--17669492https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17669492Wed, 17 Apr 2019 16:04:34 +0000Steven BortsteinThis morning, we looked back at Tiger Woods winning the Masters with Ryan Ballengee (Golf News Net). Listen to our recap in the podcast page here!976falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-041719--17669370https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17669370Wed, 17 Apr 2019 15:49:41 +0000Steven BortsteinWe all agree that fights in hockey games are cool. After all, it’s that part of the game we see most often on social media. But that in turn, is part of the problem. The bulk of sports consumption is done online, and if our impression of the game is...779falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-041619--17656693
I'm a divorced single parent. It was a very cliché sort of story (husband leaves wife and kids for younger woman), but shockingly painful. I didn't date for several years; I suddenly had to become mother, father, caretaker and breadwinner for my children. And I did it somehow, quite successfully. I have a good career, and my children are doing really well. I spend all my energy on the children and my job. Everyone wanted me to start dating again, said it was "time." Time is probably the thing I have least of, but I decided to give it a shot.

I started dating "Joe" a couple of years ago. We've taken it very slowly, and he is an amazing guy – generous, kind, and patient. But I'm not in love with him. I want to be, but I feel like I can't ever really "love" again. As if that part of me is just irreparably broken. I don't think I'd love anyone else either, so it's not a case of not finding the right guy. I know I trust him, but that's as far as I seem to be able to go. I care for him enough that I want more for him. He deserves someone who can love as much as he does in return.

He says he will always be there for me, and will take things as quickly or slowly as I need. But he never seems to care about his own needs. I care about his needs more than he seems to. It feels selfish to hold onto him like this. I know I would miss him if we broke up, but I feel like he would be better off with someone whole. I know he would never break up with me. It would have to be me. Should I let him go?

– Loveless]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17656693Tue, 16 Apr 2019 14:26:02 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I'm a divorced single parent. It was a very cliché sort of story (husband leaves wife and kids for younger woman), but shockingly painful. I didn't date for several years; I suddenly had to become mother, father, caretaker and breadwinner...
I'm a divorced single parent. It was a very cliché sort of story (husband leaves wife and kids for younger woman), but shockingly painful. I didn't date for several years; I suddenly had to become mother, father, caretaker and breadwinner for my children. And I did it somehow, quite successfully. I have a good career, and my children are doing really well. I spend all my energy on the children and my job. Everyone wanted me to start dating again, said it was "time." Time is probably the thing I have least of, but I decided to give it a shot.

I started dating "Joe" a couple of years ago. We've taken it very slowly, and he is an amazing guy – generous, kind, and patient. But I'm not in love with him. I want to be, but I feel like I can't ever really "love" again. As if that part of me is just irreparably broken. I don't think I'd love anyone else either, so it's not a case of not finding the right guy. I know I trust him, but that's as far as I seem to be able to go. I care for him enough that I want more for him. He deserves someone who can love as much as he does in return.

He says he will always be there for me, and will take things as quickly or slowly as I need. But he never seems to care about his own needs. I care about his needs more than he seems to. It feels selfish to hold onto him like this. I know I would miss him if we broke up, but I feel like he would be better off with someone whole. I know he would never break up with me. It would have to be me. Should I let him go?

– Loveless]]>442falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-041619--17656450Is he a larger-than-life comeback story? Is he worthy of all the praise we heaped upon him, in spite of his misdeeds and his "fall from grace" if you will for the better part of the last decade?
The win in the Masters should have been a feel-good story, and for many of us, it was. But why do we feel good about it, and why are so many others bothered by the attention it has received?
Did Tiger Woods put the past behinf him, or did he call attention to it all over again?
Click the link here for my thoughts on this topic during the Morning Monologue, as heard this morning on FIRST SPORTS!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17656450Tue, 16 Apr 2019 14:22:01 +0000Steven BortsteinThere's a lot of emotion swirling around the way we covered the Tiger Woods saga in recent days. Is he a larger-than-life comeback story? Is he worthy of all the praise we heaped upon him, in spite of his misdeeds and his "fall from grace" if you will...Is he a larger-than-life comeback story? Is he worthy of all the praise we heaped upon him, in spite of his misdeeds and his "fall from grace" if you will for the better part of the last decade?
The win in the Masters should have been a feel-good story, and for many of us, it was. But why do we feel good about it, and why are so many others bothered by the attention it has received?
Did Tiger Woods put the past behinf him, or did he call attention to it all over again?
Click the link here for my thoughts on this topic during the Morning Monologue, as heard this morning on FIRST SPORTS!]]>571falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-041219--17617404https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17617404Fri, 12 Apr 2019 17:32:36 +0000Steven BortsteinThis morning, we previewed the NBA Playoffs and got perspectives on the Magic Johnson saga with the LA Lakers. We chatted with Jordan Buscarini (Drive Time Sports)1259falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/james-holas-041219--17617408https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17617408Fri, 12 Apr 2019 17:32:10 +0000Steven BortsteinThis morning, we previewed the NBA Playoffs and got perspectives on the Magic Johnson saga with the LA Lakers. We chatted with James Holas (Real Ball Insiders).789falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-041219--17617364Click here for more on this topic in the Morning Monologue!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17617364Fri, 12 Apr 2019 17:26:46 +0000Steven BortsteinIt’s easy to mock or ridicule the terrible stat line put together by Chris Jones of the Baltimore Orioles. After all, how bad do you feel for a guy who’s earning more than 161 million dollars? Still, there’s professional pride at stake and as much as...Click here for more on this topic in the Morning Monologue!]]>386falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-041119--17605476https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17605476Thu, 11 Apr 2019 17:52:51 +0000Steven BortsteinOur chat with Neal Coolong, covering all the top stories in the NFL, can be heard right here.1152falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-041119--17605481https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17605481Thu, 11 Apr 2019 17:52:31 +0000Steven BortsteinOur chat with Chuck Hayes, talking all about the Magic Johnson retirement announcement as President of the Lakers, was an entertaining one. Hear our conversation from this morning's show right here!1260falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-0411419--17602984
Check out my exclusive previews of all the NBA first round matchups, as heard this morning on First Sports! Click the link here for my thoughts and more!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17602984Thu, 11 Apr 2019 14:10:49 +0000Steven BortsteinThe NBA playoffs get underway this weekend and perhaps the most intriguing first round matchup is out west where the Denver Nuggets come in as the 2 seed facing San Antonio. Denver has had moments of brilliance this season but come in as the new kids...
Check out my exclusive previews of all the NBA first round matchups, as heard this morning on First Sports! Click the link here for my thoughts and more!]]>691falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-041019--17594529https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17594529Wed, 10 Apr 2019 18:03:45 +0000Steven BortsteinPaul West (P Dubs Sports Hub) talks MLB news and notes, including thoughts on Dodgers, Cubs, Red Sox and more. Listen to our podcast right here!1572falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jacob-rude-041019--17593303https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17593303Wed, 10 Apr 2019 18:03:25 +0000Steven BortsteinJacob Rude (USA Today Sports Media) breaks down the latest on the Magic Johnson announcement. Listen to our podcast right here.759falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-041019--17593301https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17593301Wed, 10 Apr 2019 18:03:03 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) previews the Masters and offers up a prediction to walk off with the coveted Green Jacket. Check out our podcast right here!785falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-041019--17593040https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17593040Wed, 10 Apr 2019 15:30:34 +0000Steven BortsteinThe path of destruction carved out by Magic Johnson's bombshell announcement that he was stepping down as President of the Lakers is still a lot to process. But this isn't a surprise, considering Johnson's record of success in other areas of his...573falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/scott-wright-040919--17583386https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17583386Tue, 09 Apr 2019 17:53:02 +0000Steven BortsteinThis morning, we talked about the NFL Draft with Scott Wright. We chatted about the Kyler Murray storyline and more. Listen to our podcast right here!1108falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/willie-ramirez-040919--17583393https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17583393Tue, 09 Apr 2019 17:52:39 +0000Steven BortsteinThis morning, we previewed the NHL Stanley Cup Playoffs with Willie Ramirez. We found out more about sleepers and potential Conference champions. Listen to our podcast right here!1141falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-040919--17583292I need some advice, or maybe just need an objective opinion.
I started graduate school this past September and met a guy in my program who is absolutely incredible. We became fast friends, delighting in how much we shared in terms of world views, values, and interests. Over time, I have begun to fall very much in love with him. I thought at one point he was starting to feel the same way ... but then he started mentioning someone he has strong feelings for from his hometown, so I actively tried to shut my own feelings down (to no avail).
This person is someone I hope will always be in my life; he is a friend I strongly value and respect. But as each day passes, it becomes harder and harder to pretend like these feelings for him aren't there. I haven't felt this way in a long time and want to be honest with him, even if he doesn't feel the same way.
What I fear is what may happen to our friendship if I bring this up. We have one more year of graduate school together, and I cannot bear the thought of not being able to spend time together like we usually do. Do I bite the bullet and lay all my cards on the table, or do I keep silent and allow time to pass and see what the future holds for us?
Signed,
– In Love With My Best Friend

Click the link for my reply in the latest installment of Crazy Good Advice, as heard on this morning's show!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17583292Tue, 09 Apr 2019 17:41:07 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I need some advice, or maybe just need an objective opinion. I started graduate school this past September and met a guy in my program who is absolutely incredible. We became fast friends, delighting in how much we shared in terms of...I need some advice, or maybe just need an objective opinion.
I started graduate school this past September and met a guy in my program who is absolutely incredible. We became fast friends, delighting in how much we shared in terms of world views, values, and interests. Over time, I have begun to fall very much in love with him. I thought at one point he was starting to feel the same way ... but then he started mentioning someone he has strong feelings for from his hometown, so I actively tried to shut my own feelings down (to no avail).
This person is someone I hope will always be in my life; he is a friend I strongly value and respect. But as each day passes, it becomes harder and harder to pretend like these feelings for him aren't there. I haven't felt this way in a long time and want to be honest with him, even if he doesn't feel the same way.
What I fear is what may happen to our friendship if I bring this up. We have one more year of graduate school together, and I cannot bear the thought of not being able to spend time together like we usually do. Do I bite the bullet and lay all my cards on the table, or do I keep silent and allow time to pass and see what the future holds for us?
Signed,
– In Love With My Best Friend

Click the link for my reply in the latest installment of Crazy Good Advice, as heard on this morning's show!]]>369falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-040919--17581078For more on this topic, check out my thoughts on the Morning Monologue, as heard on this morning's show!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17581078Tue, 09 Apr 2019 14:00:11 +0000Steven BortsteinThe first-person account penned by Utah Jazz guard Kyle Korver on what we like to call white privilege is a breath of fresh air for those covering the impact sports has on society. And for all the ways most fans would like to use sports as a tool to...For more on this topic, check out my thoughts on the Morning Monologue, as heard on this morning's show!]]>601falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-040819--17571828https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17571828Mon, 08 Apr 2019 17:57:59 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini talked up the top story lines in the early weeks of the MLB season, including the Dodgers, Cubs and more. Listen to our chat from this morning's show right here!1229falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/greg-peterson-040819--17570234https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17570234Mon, 08 Apr 2019 15:32:26 +0000Steven BortsteinGreg Peterson recapped last weekend's Final Four matchups and previewed tonight's Men's Final. Listen to our chat and check out his prediction on the game right here!740falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-040819--17570197https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17570197Mon, 08 Apr 2019 15:28:53 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh talked NBA's final playoff push for the Rockets and Nuggets out west, also chimed in on the MVP race and tonight's NCAA Men's Final. Listen to our podcast right here!1242falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-040819--17569568https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17569568Mon, 08 Apr 2019 14:30:22 +0000Steven BortsteinNo matter which team cuts down nets in Monday night’s NCAA men’s final, the overwhelming lesson that needs to be taken from this year’s tournament is that there are repercussions when we focus too much attention on one player, one team, one storyline....742falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tea-cast-040419--17533911Thanks to Brit Ward, David Mayeux and Chuck Holmes for their time on the show! Hear the podcast right here!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17533911Thu, 04 Apr 2019 18:07:28 +0000Steven BortsteinThis morning on FIRST SPORTS, I had the chance to chat with my fellow cast and crew members for this weekend's productions of A Way Back and Tuesdays with Morrie at the Totah Theater. Thanks to Brit Ward, David Mayeux and Chuck Holmes for their time...Thanks to Brit Ward, David Mayeux and Chuck Holmes for their time on the show! Hear the podcast right here!]]>988falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-040419--17531932Check out the Morning Monologue for more thoughts about this by clicking the link right here!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17531932Thu, 04 Apr 2019 14:25:49 +0000Steven BortsteinThere still seems to be a certain amount of disbelief when it comes to the tumultuous end of the Alliance of American Football. Staff members appear to have been let go, there’s reports of players being stranded away from home. It’s rare to find an...Check out the Morning Monologue for more thoughts about this by clicking the link right here!]]>753falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-040319--17521368https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17521368Wed, 03 Apr 2019 14:22:53 +0000Steven BortsteinThere will be some fair amount of kidding and kicking around of the AAF this week, in light of the announcement they were suspending operations with just a couple weeks left in their inaugural season. At the end of the day, a lack of interest is what...685falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/willie-ramirez-040219--17511598https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17511598Tue, 02 Apr 2019 16:03:31 +0000Steven BortsteinToday, we caught up with Willie Ramirez and talked NHL playoff matchups and regular season awards. Listen to our chat at the link.935falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/darren-antola-040219--17511592https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17511592Tue, 02 Apr 2019 16:03:02 +0000Steven BortsteinDarren Antola, co-producer of the film 350 Days, chatted about the movie as well as the old-school wrestling performers from the film. Check out our chat right here!825falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/greg-peterson-040219--17511600https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17511600Tue, 02 Apr 2019 16:02:13 +0000Steven BortsteinThis morning, we talked Final Four matchups and college basketball news with Greg Peterson. Listen to our exclusive podcast right here.961falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-040219--17510637
I've been dating a married man for about three years, and he has been married for six. We work together and have formed a great friendship where we depend on each other for happiness. I am now in the early stages of pregnancy; he had been telling me that he was getting divorced, so I stopped taking my birth control. He was understandably a little upset because he didn't want to bring a baby into this situation before getting everything finalized. They are currently living separately. We are all in our mid 30s and I am financially independent. We both have children, and his are from before his marriage.

He has admitted that the process for the divorce is delayed because she doesn't want it, although I am not going anywhere either. I recently made it clear to her that I'm pregnant and she has started to make our lives a living hell. I barely see him after work now, and she says I'm a home-wrecker – although their relationship was already doomed. (He's been with other women during their relationship and said he should have never gotten married.)

I am very excited about the pregnancy, and once I know it is viable, I will let all of our coworkers know. I would like to plan things, for him to come to doctors visits, etc. But he has been too stressed to think about anything and is very short with me. I must admit that I do worry about how my kids will relate to me if he is still married for too long. How can I make them understand that the situation is complicated and unique? How do I get my boyfriend to understand where I'm coming from so that he stops being so evasive and speeds up the process? How long will it take if she refuses?

– Waiting

Click the link here for my reply on another edition of Crazy Good Advice!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17510637Tue, 02 Apr 2019 14:26:24 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I've been dating a married man for about three years, and he has been married for six. We work together and have formed a great friendship where we depend on each other for happiness. I am now in the early stages of pregnancy; he had been...
I've been dating a married man for about three years, and he has been married for six. We work together and have formed a great friendship where we depend on each other for happiness. I am now in the early stages of pregnancy; he had been telling me that he was getting divorced, so I stopped taking my birth control. He was understandably a little upset because he didn't want to bring a baby into this situation before getting everything finalized. They are currently living separately. We are all in our mid 30s and I am financially independent. We both have children, and his are from before his marriage.

He has admitted that the process for the divorce is delayed because she doesn't want it, although I am not going anywhere either. I recently made it clear to her that I'm pregnant and she has started to make our lives a living hell. I barely see him after work now, and she says I'm a home-wrecker – although their relationship was already doomed. (He's been with other women during their relationship and said he should have never gotten married.)

I am very excited about the pregnancy, and once I know it is viable, I will let all of our coworkers know. I would like to plan things, for him to come to doctors visits, etc. But he has been too stressed to think about anything and is very short with me. I must admit that I do worry about how my kids will relate to me if he is still married for too long. How can I make them understand that the situation is complicated and unique? How do I get my boyfriend to understand where I'm coming from so that he stops being so evasive and speeds up the process? How long will it take if she refuses?

– Waiting

Click the link here for my reply on another edition of Crazy Good Advice!]]>516falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-040219--17510383Listen to my thoughts on the arrival of Odell Beckham, Jr., and what it all means right here on the Morning Monologue!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17510383Tue, 02 Apr 2019 13:55:40 +0000Steven BortsteinThis week’s introductory press conference with Odell Beckham, Junior didn’t do a thing to change my opinion of him as a self-loathing, eyes on himself mentality that doesn’t add to the chemistry of a locker room. But maybe that’s not what the...Listen to my thoughts on the arrival of Odell Beckham, Jr., and what it all means right here on the Morning Monologue!]]>568falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-040119--17500228https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17500228Mon, 01 Apr 2019 17:37:46 +0000Steven BortsteinThis morning, we talked Lakers, potential NBA postseason matchups, NCAA Tournament news and Michael Avanetti with Jamieson Welsh. Listen to our exclusive podcast right here!1109falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-040119--17500230https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17500230Mon, 01 Apr 2019 17:36:57 +0000Steven BortsteinWe talked Final Four matchups and how this weekend will play for fans and network sponsors with Jordan Buscarini. Listen to our chat right here!1272falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-040119--17498122Listen to the Morning Monologue for more thoughts on this weekend's Final Four right here!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17498122Mon, 01 Apr 2019 13:55:11 +0000Steven BortsteinIt may not be the Final Four that most fans were hoping for, with only one regional top seed advancing to this weekend. Virginia, a footnote last year becoming the first top seed to lose in the first round, gets a chance to redeem itself. Tom Izzo and...Listen to the Morning Monologue for more thoughts on this weekend's Final Four right here!]]>653falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-032919--17473426https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17473426Fri, 29 Mar 2019 14:00:19 +0000Steven BortsteinGlancing over the NBA standings with just a handful of games left in the regular season, it’s time to look at potential storylines in the playoffs. And wouldn’t you know it, the other team in Los Angeles is worthy of attention. Despite a loss to...334falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-032819--17465238https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17465238Thu, 28 Mar 2019 16:32:59 +0000Steven BortsteinWe talked with Chuck Hayes about the Dodgers opening day, as well as mistakes made at hotels and the trials and tribulations of the Big Baller Brand. Our chat can be found right here.1282falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/art-shamsky-032819--17465234https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17465234Thu, 28 Mar 2019 16:32:36 +0000Steven BortsteinWe chatted with former Met player and author Art Shamsky about his new book, recalling the Miracle Mets of 1969 and much more. Check out our exclusive podcast right here.941falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-032819--17464638https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17464638Thu, 28 Mar 2019 15:21:06 +0000Steven BortsteinLess than two months into their inaugural season and it’s time to start speculating about the financial viability of the AAF. And don’t get swayed into the storyline that the NFL players association isn’t doing their part to help the fledgling league....560falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-032719--17454283https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17454283Wed, 27 Mar 2019 16:31:17 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (USA Today Sports Media Group, TouchdownWire.com) talked new review/replay rules, Hard Knocks and Rob Gronkowski's retirement. Check out our exclusive podcast right here.1321falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-032719--17453835https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17453835Wed, 27 Mar 2019 15:47:33 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) chatted WGC Match Play Invitational and more. Listen to our exclusive chat right here!872falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bob-klapisch-032719--17453837https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17453837Wed, 27 Mar 2019 15:47:08 +0000Steven BortsteinBob Klapisch (Inside The Empire) talked about his new book and talked Yankees baseball. Listen to our podcast right here!661falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-032719--17453164https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17453164Wed, 27 Mar 2019 14:23:08 +0000Steven BortsteinI’ll assume that neither Raiders owner Mark Davis nor head coach Jon Gruden would actually part ways over a TV show, but the rumor is the NFL would like the Raiders to be the team that goes under a microscope for HBO’s Hard Knocks. Davis said this...547falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/greg-peterson-032619--17443589https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17443589Tue, 26 Mar 2019 16:40:44 +0000Steven BortsteinThis morning, we talked with Greg Peterson (VSINLive) and broke down some Sweet 16 matchups and storylines from the NCAA Tournament. Listen to our podcast right here!901falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-032619--17443590https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17443590Tue, 26 Mar 2019 16:40:24 +0000Steven BortsteinWe also talked with Paul West (P Dub's Sports Hub) and broke down division previews in the National League for the upcoming MLB season. Listen to our chat right here.1406falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-032619--17442082
I am in a panic lately because I am having continuous thoughts about another guy – and dreams. A little back story here: I've been in a relationship for more than four years with the most amazing guy. We started dating fresh out of high school when we were 18 and he is my first real relationship and love. I am almost done with college now.

I have always developed little crushes on guys in my classes. They pass very quickly, and my boyfriend knows all about them. More recently, though, there has been one that's lingering. This crush shows up in my dreams, and I wake up sad that it was only a dream. He gives me attention when we are in class together, and every part of me just wants to explore that. I know the grass is always greener, but it is beginning to take away from my current relationship. I am thinking about the other guy when we are intimate. I feel so terrible and guilty about this because I know my current partner is the one.

I have asked him if he would be open to one night away, or a break, but he isn't. I hate that I even asked, but I feel like this obsession is not going to go away until I explore the other guy. It isn't as simple as a break, though, because Jack and I live together, have a cat together, and share a lot of financial commitments. I feel like I am stuck in the relationship, but I know that actually isn't the case because he is so important to me and I want to marry him one day.

It's getting to the point where I don't even tell Jack about the thoughts anymore because they have started making him jealous and hurt. I wish I could just get rid of the fantasies about this other guy. Have 're seen a situation like this before? What was your advice? I know I have two options, but I think I need a little bit of advice.

– Tempted]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17442082Tue, 26 Mar 2019 14:22:17 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I am in a panic lately because I am having continuous thoughts about another guy – and dreams. A little back story here: I've been in a relationship for more than four years with the most amazing guy. We started dating fresh out of high...
I am in a panic lately because I am having continuous thoughts about another guy – and dreams. A little back story here: I've been in a relationship for more than four years with the most amazing guy. We started dating fresh out of high school when we were 18 and he is my first real relationship and love. I am almost done with college now.

I have always developed little crushes on guys in my classes. They pass very quickly, and my boyfriend knows all about them. More recently, though, there has been one that's lingering. This crush shows up in my dreams, and I wake up sad that it was only a dream. He gives me attention when we are in class together, and every part of me just wants to explore that. I know the grass is always greener, but it is beginning to take away from my current relationship. I am thinking about the other guy when we are intimate. I feel so terrible and guilty about this because I know my current partner is the one.

I have asked him if he would be open to one night away, or a break, but he isn't. I hate that I even asked, but I feel like this obsession is not going to go away until I explore the other guy. It isn't as simple as a break, though, because Jack and I live together, have a cat together, and share a lot of financial commitments. I feel like I am stuck in the relationship, but I know that actually isn't the case because he is so important to me and I want to marry him one day.

It's getting to the point where I don't even tell Jack about the thoughts anymore because they have started making him jealous and hurt. I wish I could just get rid of the fantasies about this other guy. Have 're seen a situation like this before? What was your advice? I know I have two options, but I think I need a little bit of advice.

– Tempted]]>405falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-032619--17441881Listen to my Morning Monologue right here for my thoughts on this developing story.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17441881Tue, 26 Mar 2019 14:00:33 +0000Steven BortsteinI’ll admit it, there’s a certain level of apathy, if not outright disinterest in the claims from celebrity shyster Michael Avenatti in regards to a scandal with Nike and some amateur basketball coaches. Perhaps I’m just too jaded now to believe that...Listen to my Morning Monologue right here for my thoughts on this developing story.]]>713falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/henry-mckenna-032519--17432884https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17432884Mon, 25 Mar 2019 16:46:07 +0000Steven BortsteinWe chatted with Henry McKenna (PatriotsWire, USA Today Sports Media Group) about the retirement announcement this weekend by Rob Gronkowski. Listen to our chat right here.947falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-032519--17432885https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17432885Mon, 25 Mar 2019 16:45:47 +0000Steven BortsteinWe talked NBA and NCAA Tournament news with Jamieson Welsh, giving his breakdown of the Sweet 16 and more. Listen to our podcast right here!1021falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-032519--17431152
And this is something we do as talk show hosts, we do this when we’re trying to drum up interest in an event, something already being played out on a grand stage.

Learn more right here!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17431152Mon, 25 Mar 2019 13:53:17 +0000Steven BortsteinSo much for chaos and a lack of parity. As the first two rounds of the NCAA tournament have come to an end, the Sweet 16 is loaded with all but two of the top four seeds in each region advancing. Oregon may be wearing the glass slipper right now in...
And this is something we do as talk show hosts, we do this when we’re trying to drum up interest in an event, something already being played out on a grand stage.

Learn more right here!]]>541falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/eric-alwan-032219--17405600https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17405600Fri, 22 Mar 2019 16:50:11 +0000Steven BortsteinThis morning, we chatted with Sunland Park marketing director Eric Alwan, who previewed this weekend's $800,000 Sunland Derby as well as a phenomenal card of thoroughbred racing, one of the best this year. Listen to our podcast right here!!872falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-032219--17404281
The money may have been the issue. And whether it’s 10 dollars, 10 million dollars, somewhere in the middle or somewhere over the top, he got one over on the NFL. Good for him!
More on this topic can be found right here on the Morning Monologue. Listen to the audio right here!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17404281Fri, 22 Mar 2019 14:18:27 +0000Steven BortsteinGiven the amount of misinformation which consumed many of us during the Colin Kaepernick debacle, it’s no surprise there’s some dispute on the reporting which occurred this week suggesting Kaepernick’s settlement with the NFL was only worth 10 million...
The money may have been the issue. And whether it’s 10 dollars, 10 million dollars, somewhere in the middle or somewhere over the top, he got one over on the NFL. Good for him!
More on this topic can be found right here on the Morning Monologue. Listen to the audio right here!]]>416falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-032119--17394483https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17394483Thu, 21 Mar 2019 15:38:59 +0000Steven BortsteinThis morning, we talked with Ryan Edwards (Orange & Blue AM760) about Broncos new QB Joe Flacco and other Broncos related news. Listen to our podcast right here!907falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-032119--17394398https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17394398Thu, 21 Mar 2019 15:27:00 +0000Steven BortsteinToday, we caught up with Chuck Hayes (CBS Sports) with a recap of NASCAR in Fontana and the latest on Mike Trout's influence with the largest contract in MLB history. Listen to our podcast right here.1259falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-032119--17393933
But you also have to expect that Kraft has faced similar challenges in the past, ironically enough due to his ownership of the Patriots.

If there's video evidence, it's just another version of "SpyGate".

If there's a case to be made about the legal definition of what is and what isn't a sex act, then much like the ballyhooed "Tuck Rule", the Patriots weathered that storm as well.

And if this has ANYTHING to do with deflated balls.... well, I'll let you work on that one yourself.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17393933Thu, 21 Mar 2019 14:40:27 +0000Steven BortsteinYou had to expect that New England Patriots owner Bob Kraft wasn't going to agree to a plea bargain in his case alleging the 77-year-old solicited sex from a prostitute at a "day spa" in Florida. But you also have to expect that Kraft has faced...
But you also have to expect that Kraft has faced similar challenges in the past, ironically enough due to his ownership of the Patriots.

If there's video evidence, it's just another version of "SpyGate".

If there's a case to be made about the legal definition of what is and what isn't a sex act, then much like the ballyhooed "Tuck Rule", the Patriots weathered that storm as well.

And if this has ANYTHING to do with deflated balls.... well, I'll let you work on that one yourself.]]>693falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/greg-peterson-032019--17383764https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17383764Wed, 20 Mar 2019 16:43:49 +0000Steven BortsteinGreg Peterson (VSINLive) talked up March Madness and offered up some big time bracket busters for opening weekend of the Men's Tournament. Check out our podcast right here.1185falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jed-rigney-and-jon-sumple-032019--17383768https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17383768Wed, 20 Mar 2019 16:43:28 +0000Steven BortsteinJed Rigney and Jon Sumple from Foul Territory Baseball broke down the Mike Trout contract and talked MLB news and notes. Listen to our podcast right here.913falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-032019--17383771https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17383771Wed, 20 Mar 2019 16:43:07 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee from Golf News Net joined us this morning to recap Rory McIlroy's big win last weekend and other PGA Tour news. Listen to our podcast right here.621falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-032019--17382046https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17382046Wed, 20 Mar 2019 14:36:52 +0000Steven BortsteinHow much does it cost to have some peace of mind? How many dollars will you pay to not have to deal with a headache? Think about that the next time you’re buying that lottery ticket or hoping to cash in on that investment opportunity. Mike Trout’s...471falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-031919--17372855https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17372855Tue, 19 Mar 2019 16:50:44 +0000Steven BortsteinWe talked this morning with Neal Coolong (TouchdownWire) with the latest on the Broncos, Giants, Steelers and Johnny Manziel. Listen to our exclusive podcast right here.1501falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-031919--17372561https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17372561Tue, 19 Mar 2019 16:10:09 +0000Steven BortsteinWe chatted this morning with Jordan Buscarini (Drive Time Sports, Castle Country Radio) with his take on the NCAA Tournament. Listen to our previews and predictions right here.1640falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-031919--17371668
I'm a 29-year-old man. I became friends with a female co-worker at my relatively new job and she seems to enjoy talking to me and spending time with me. In fact, we have been out one-on-one a few times, and have another outing planned later this week. I guess I should be happy, but I am concerned because she is very hard to read. On the last date, I paid for her lunch, which she thanked me for. Sometimes after work, I’ll stop by her office, and we'll talking for up to an hour each time. I know she likes me; that's not the issue. The issue is that I don't know to what extent she likes me. We have a lot in common, and every time I talk to her I find out something else about her that I like.

I realized a few weeks ago that I love her. Yes, my feelings are strong enough to use the word "love." She is a bit younger and has never been in a relationship before. I can't tell if she is attracted to me and is just very subdued about showing it, or if she just thinks of me as a friend. Surely she must have picked up by now that I am interested in her, seeing how I paid for her lunch the last time and often invite her to do things one-on-one. I am reaching the point where I am tired of trying to guess and want to know once and for all if she returns my feelings. I'm also trying to be very careful in my interactions with her and take it slow. I have not been in a relationship in a very long time, and my last girlfriend hurt me terribly when she broke up with me.

More or less, in my past relationship, it was discovered I have an anxiety disorder, and she couldn't handle it. I swore that I would never let anyone hurt me like that again. My feelings of distrust have gotten a lot better in the last couple of years, but I can feel my cynicism kicking in as I prepare for this weekend. I fear my coworker might use it as an opportunity to tell me that she just wants to be friends, in which case I would most likely give up on relationships altogether and accept my life as a bachelor. I would be hurt that much.

In fact, I am beginning to suspect that she is not attracted to me and just enjoys seeing the area with someone who knows it, since she is from out of state. I don't want to be subdued, angry, or moody, since I have been looking forward to our outing for some time. I still don't know if it's even a date in her eyes, and I don't know how to go about finding out how she feels. I have talked to my therapist about it, and he told me that he was glad I was taking it slow, and that I would know when the time was right to move on to the next stage in our friendship. I feel like that time is either this weekend or soon thereafter, but I don't know how to deal with the situation.

Signed,
– Next stage]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17371668Tue, 19 Mar 2019 14:34:55 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I'm a 29-year-old man. I became friends with a female co-worker at my relatively new job and she seems to enjoy talking to me and spending time with me. In fact, we have been out one-on-one a few times, and have another outing planned...
I'm a 29-year-old man. I became friends with a female co-worker at my relatively new job and she seems to enjoy talking to me and spending time with me. In fact, we have been out one-on-one a few times, and have another outing planned later this week. I guess I should be happy, but I am concerned because she is very hard to read. On the last date, I paid for her lunch, which she thanked me for. Sometimes after work, I’ll stop by her office, and we'll talking for up to an hour each time. I know she likes me; that's not the issue. The issue is that I don't know to what extent she likes me. We have a lot in common, and every time I talk to her I find out something else about her that I like.

I realized a few weeks ago that I love her. Yes, my feelings are strong enough to use the word "love." She is a bit younger and has never been in a relationship before. I can't tell if she is attracted to me and is just very subdued about showing it, or if she just thinks of me as a friend. Surely she must have picked up by now that I am interested in her, seeing how I paid for her lunch the last time and often invite her to do things one-on-one. I am reaching the point where I am tired of trying to guess and want to know once and for all if she returns my feelings. I'm also trying to be very careful in my interactions with her and take it slow. I have not been in a relationship in a very long time, and my last girlfriend hurt me terribly when she broke up with me.

More or less, in my past relationship, it was discovered I have an anxiety disorder, and she couldn't handle it. I swore that I would never let anyone hurt me like that again. My feelings of distrust have gotten a lot better in the last couple of years, but I can feel my cynicism kicking in as I prepare for this weekend. I fear my coworker might use it as an opportunity to tell me that she just wants to be friends, in which case I would most likely give up on relationships altogether and accept my life as a bachelor. I would be hurt that much.

In fact, I am beginning to suspect that she is not attracted to me and just enjoys seeing the area with someone who knows it, since she is from out of state. I don't want to be subdued, angry, or moody, since I have been looking forward to our outing for some time. I still don't know if it's even a date in her eyes, and I don't know how to go about finding out how she feels. I have talked to my therapist about it, and he told me that he was glad I was taking it slow, and that I would know when the time was right to move on to the next stage in our friendship. I feel like that time is either this weekend or soon thereafter, but I don't know how to deal with the situation.

Signed,
– Next stage]]>490falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-031919--17371237I can sit here and gripe all I want, going all Gran Torino and "get off my lawn" about these kids today, but the role of a manager or a coach is not only played out during the nine innings of a baseball game or within the time constraints of any event. He has to be responsible for the actions of his employees, and apparently, some of his employees need a bit more "parenting" than others.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17371237Tue, 19 Mar 2019 13:56:20 +0000Steven BortsteinWhen I was a kid, I was persuaded to stay away from endless hours playing video games. Back in the old days, you had to go an arcade and drop rolls of quarters into machines and consume sugary drinks to keep your high score on Defender from being...I can sit here and gripe all I want, going all Gran Torino and "get off my lawn" about these kids today, but the role of a manager or a coach is not only played out during the nine innings of a baseball game or within the time constraints of any event. He has to be responsible for the actions of his employees, and apparently, some of his employees need a bit more "parenting" than others.]]>560falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-031819--17361060https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17361060Mon, 18 Mar 2019 17:25:48 +0000Steven BortsteinOur conversation with Jamieson Welsh, in which we talked Men's NCAA Tournament brackets and NBA news can be found right here.1248falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-031819--17361053https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17361053Mon, 18 Mar 2019 17:25:22 +0000Steven BortsteinCheck out our AL Preview with Paul West from this morning's show right here.1537falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-031819--17360219https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17360219Mon, 18 Mar 2019 15:43:27 +0000Steven BortsteinI know there’s this been passive aggressive nature in how we think about the Alliance of American Football. The fledgling spring football league is a fun option away from the endless basketball coverage. So, let me tell you that the circus is back in...757falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/art-wilson-031519--17332418https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17332418Fri, 15 Mar 2019 16:08:09 +0000Steven BortsteinGive a listen to our friend and longtime L.A. turf writer Art Wilson, covering the latest events at Santa Anita Park. You can find our podcast right here.746falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-031519--17332423https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17332423Fri, 15 Mar 2019 16:07:44 +0000Steven BortsteinCheck out our chat on the Spence vs. Garcia match with Jordan Buscarini (Drive Time Sports). Our podcast is found right here.1390falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/james-holas-031519--17332431https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17332431Fri, 15 Mar 2019 16:07:20 +0000Steven BortsteinMake sure to catch up on news and notes in the NBA with James Holas of RealBallInsiders and Lineups. Get the podcast right here.961falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-031519--17331498
Transparency, as it turns out, is a wonderful thing. It allows us to gain some perspective on “how we got here” for lack of a better term.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17331498Fri, 15 Mar 2019 14:40:39 +0000Steven BortsteinI can only imagine what it was like being inside the Utah Jazz home arena Thursday night, being lectured by team owner Gail Miller just days after an incident involving a rogue fan being disrespectful to Russell Westbrook. Miller reminded those in...
Transparency, as it turns out, is a wonderful thing. It allows us to gain some perspective on “how we got here” for lack of a better term.]]>558falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jed-rigney-and-jon-sumple-031419--17321902https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17321902Thu, 14 Mar 2019 16:54:28 +0000Steven BortsteinThis morning, we chatted with Foul Territory's Jed Rigney and Jon Sumple about MLB's Spring Training news and notes. Listen to our podcast right here!867falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-031419--17321920https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17321920Thu, 14 Mar 2019 16:54:09 +0000Steven BortsteinToday, we talked NASCAR, college scandals and more with Chuck Hayes. Listen to our podcast right here.1010falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-031419--17320582Bad teams making big moves in the offseason don't make good teams suddenly go bad. Listen to more on this topic right here in the Morning Monologue!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17320582Thu, 14 Mar 2019 14:27:17 +0000Steven BortsteinSuper Bowl runs aren’t made in March, but the road to nowhere can be ventured upon at all times. And it’s true that the Raiders are making some right moves this offseason, it’s also honest to question whether Jon Gruden and Mike Mayock will navigate...Bad teams making big moves in the offseason don't make good teams suddenly go bad. Listen to more on this topic right here in the Morning Monologue!]]>712falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-031319--17310791https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17310791Wed, 13 Mar 2019 15:52:59 +0000Steven BortsteinChatted this morning with Neal Coolong (Touchdown Wire/USA Today Sports Media Group) about NFL Free Agency news. Listen to our podcast right here.1158falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-031319--17310760https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17310760Wed, 13 Mar 2019 15:52:38 +0000Steven BortsteinChatted this morning with Ryan Ballengee (Golf News Net) about this weekend's Players Championship. Check out our podcast right here.820falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jeff-risdon-031319--17310749https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17310749Wed, 13 Mar 2019 15:52:18 +0000Steven BortsteinChatted this morning with Jeff Risdon (Browns Wire) about the trade bringing Odell Beckham, Jr. to Cleveland. Listen to our chat right here.874falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-031319--17309766What does this trade mean for the Browns, and maybe more importantly, for the NY Giants? Listen to my Wednesday Morning Monologue right here!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17309766Wed, 13 Mar 2019 13:56:30 +0000Steven BortsteinAfter years of being the perfect comedy partner after years of futility, it may be time for the Cleveland Browns to be taken seriously. It still remains to be seen how wide receiver Odell Beckham, Junior will mesh with his new teammates in Cleveland,...What does this trade mean for the Browns, and maybe more importantly, for the NY Giants? Listen to my Wednesday Morning Monologue right here!]]>651falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-031219--17300627My boyfriend and I have dated for more than a year and a half. He has, what I suspect to be an online "friend" who he won't stop talking to.
Just before we met, he was introduced to her at work, but she moved back home to the east coast. She has everything he has always wanted -- dark hair, athletic and pretty. I'm sure she has a great sense of humor too because they are always messaging each other via Snapchat, Facebook and Instagram. I don't know what they're always talking about, but I mean what else could it be? He claims they are "friends." I don't have any male friends like that.
She currently lives in Tennessee, and when we traveled there a couple months ago, he was engaging with her via those same social media channels the entire time we were there. Most of the time, he was on his phone. I have been checking her social media profiles - and his - and it appears he is interacting with her more than I thought. He keeps blowing it off. How can I approach this without blowing up, because it's been happening a few months now and his communication with her doesn't seem to be stopping no matter how much I tell him I don't like it. Everything in our relationship seemed fine, but now I am now ruminating on this as their communication seems more frequent and he is trying to hide it.
Signed,
-- Too Social For Me]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17300627Tue, 12 Mar 2019 16:59:02 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, My boyfriend and I have dated for more than a year and a half. He has, what I suspect to be an online "friend" who he won't stop talking to. Just before we met, he was introduced to her at work, but she moved back home to the east coast....My boyfriend and I have dated for more than a year and a half. He has, what I suspect to be an online "friend" who he won't stop talking to.
Just before we met, he was introduced to her at work, but she moved back home to the east coast. She has everything he has always wanted -- dark hair, athletic and pretty. I'm sure she has a great sense of humor too because they are always messaging each other via Snapchat, Facebook and Instagram. I don't know what they're always talking about, but I mean what else could it be? He claims they are "friends." I don't have any male friends like that.
She currently lives in Tennessee, and when we traveled there a couple months ago, he was engaging with her via those same social media channels the entire time we were there. Most of the time, he was on his phone. I have been checking her social media profiles - and his - and it appears he is interacting with her more than I thought. He keeps blowing it off. How can I approach this without blowing up, because it's been happening a few months now and his communication with her doesn't seem to be stopping no matter how much I tell him I don't like it. Everything in our relationship seemed fine, but now I am now ruminating on this as their communication seems more frequent and he is trying to hide it.
Signed,
-- Too Social For Me]]>289falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/cody-taylor-031219--17300481https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17300481Tue, 12 Mar 2019 16:42:12 +0000Steven BortsteinCody Taylor (TheThunderWire/USA Today Sports Media Group) chatted about the Russell Westbrook incident last night. Listen to our podcast right here.818falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/willie-ramirez-031219--17300483https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17300483Tue, 12 Mar 2019 16:41:53 +0000Steven BortsteinWillie Ramirez talked up NHL headlines and previewed a couple of big games coming up tonight. Listen to our conversation right here.688falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/greg-peterson-031219--17300484https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17300484Tue, 12 Mar 2019 16:41:29 +0000Steven BortsteinGreg Peterson (VSINLive) talked up some of college basketball's top storylines ahead of major conference tournament action.Listen to our chat right here.841falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-031219--17300054https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17300054Tue, 12 Mar 2019 16:04:39 +0000Steven BortsteinThere certainly will be more fallout after the events of Monday Night in Utah involving a fan and his verbal give-and-take with Oklahoma City Thunder all-star Russell Westbrook, but the reality is simple. Westbrook needs to be the better man. It’s...792falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-031119--17289817https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17289817Mon, 11 Mar 2019 16:44:28 +0000Steven BortsteinChatted this morning on MLB Spring Training news and more with Jordan Buscarini (Drive Time Sports). Listen to our podcast right here.1405falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-031119--17289819https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17289819Mon, 11 Mar 2019 16:44:07 +0000Steven BortsteinAlso, talked NBA news and more with Jamieson Welsh. Listen to our breakdown of the Lakers downslide in our podcast right here!1097falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-031119--17288173https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17288173Mon, 11 Mar 2019 14:00:22 +0000Steven BortsteinIt doesn’t necessarily feel good to be right about the demise of the Lakers as they drift away in the home stretch of the NBA season. But what it could mean is that casual fans have a renewed interest in the playoffs. So much of the past few...642falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/matt-manocherian-030119--17194565https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17194565Fri, 01 Mar 2019 17:28:40 +0000Steven BortsteinThis morning, we chatted with Matt Manocherian, talking about this week's NFL Scouting Combine and more. Check out our podcast right here930falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-030119--17194559https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17194559Fri, 01 Mar 2019 17:27:56 +0000Steven BortsteinToday, we talked with Dallas Cowboys Radio Network sideline reporter Kristi Scales about Jason Witten returning to the team. Listen to our chat right here.692falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-030119--17193722Click the link for my thoughts on Harper's signing and what it means.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17193722Fri, 01 Mar 2019 15:56:11 +0000Steven BortsteinAllow me to explain the numbers and the motivation. Bryce Harper wasn’t looking for loyalty. He wanted to be a headline. By signing a thirteen-year deal for three hundred thirty million, he gets five million more than Giancarlo Stanton got from the...Click the link for my thoughts on Harper's signing and what it means.]]>930falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-022819--17184424https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17184424Thu, 28 Feb 2019 17:29:26 +0000Steven BortsteinCheck out our chat with Chuck Hayes, covering the latest on the Bryce Harper chase, as well as thoughts on Johnny Manziel, the NFL Scouting Combine and Robert Kraft. Listen to our podcast right here.1333falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/greg-peterson-022819--17184426https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17184426Thu, 28 Feb 2019 17:29:04 +0000Steven BortsteinCheck out thoughts and updates on college basketball with VSIN correspondent Greg Peterson. Our podcast can be found right here.675falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-022819--17182461https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17182461Thu, 28 Feb 2019 15:00:05 +0000Steven BortsteinOnce again, we turn our attention to Johnny Manziel. It was announced this week that Manziel was being released from the Montreal Alouettes of the CFL. No word on what happened to cause the release other than he quote has been unable to abide by the...711falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-022719--17173353https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17173353Wed, 27 Feb 2019 17:39:46 +0000Steven BortsteinThis morning, we caught up with Golf News Net's Ryan Ballengee with recaps of last week's winners on the PGA Tour and a preview of this week's Honda Classic. Check our podcast right here.697falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-022719--17173355https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17173355Wed, 27 Feb 2019 17:39:26 +0000Steven BortsteinWe chatted this morning with Neal Coolong of Touchdown Wire with his thoughts on the Robert Kraft investigation and the upcoming NFL Combine. Listen to our chat right here in this podcast.1353falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-022719--17170294Check out my thoughts on the story and more on the Wednesday Morning Monologue right here!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17170294Wed, 27 Feb 2019 15:19:56 +0000Steven BortsteinRemember the outcry after the missed pass interference call? How could officials miss an obvious call? When will the NFL fix this and make things right? Remember the shouting for a do-over? The lawsuits? The Saints got robbed? Yeah, no one still...Check out my thoughts on the story and more on the Wednesday Morning Monologue right here!]]>688falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-022619--17160830https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17160830Tue, 26 Feb 2019 17:34:25 +0000Steven BortsteinThis morning, we chatted with Jordan Buscarini (Drive Time Sports) with his thoughts on the LeBron James comments plus notes on Bob Kraft and Bryce Harper. Check out our podcast right here!1173falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/willie-ramirez-022619--17160832https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17160832Tue, 26 Feb 2019 17:33:55 +0000Steven BortsteinThis morning, we chatted with Willie Ramirez (PHWA) with an NHL Trade Deadline recap and notes around the NHL. Listen to our podcast right here!1261falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-022619--17159748I am a longtime listener and felt compelled to write in after hearing your response to a recent issue. I feel as though I am a very social person. I genuinely enjoy spending time with my large family and friends, whether that means going out to dinner, drinks, cooking meals together, etc. My boyfriend of eight months is an only child with an extremely small family. He only has a couple of friends, and they've started families of their own. He rarely sees them, probably about once every two months, if that.
I understand women tend to be more social beings than men, but this has me worried as I think about the future of our relationship. I not only think it is a little odd to have no friends to plan things with on the weekend, but I also can't get past his lack of desire to do so. He is an introvert and enjoys spending time at home by himself, which is the opposite of how I am. I will bring him out with my groups of friends and family, but when I do this, I notice he seems distant and doesn't want to be there, and doesn't make an effort to be nice to and get to know them.
When I think about us moving in together, it makes me nervous that there will be pressure on me to always be his source of entertainment since he doesn't have anyone else to do things with. I would love to hear if this is something other people have written in about or have a similar issue with. I do love him and we work well together in most aspects of our relationship, but I'm not sure if it something I can get past.

– Social Butterfly]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17159748Tue, 26 Feb 2019 15:33:13 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I am a longtime listener and felt compelled to write in after hearing your response to a recent issue. I feel as though I am a very social person. I genuinely enjoy spending time with my large family and friends, whether that means going...I am a longtime listener and felt compelled to write in after hearing your response to a recent issue. I feel as though I am a very social person. I genuinely enjoy spending time with my large family and friends, whether that means going out to dinner, drinks, cooking meals together, etc. My boyfriend of eight months is an only child with an extremely small family. He only has a couple of friends, and they've started families of their own. He rarely sees them, probably about once every two months, if that.
I understand women tend to be more social beings than men, but this has me worried as I think about the future of our relationship. I not only think it is a little odd to have no friends to plan things with on the weekend, but I also can't get past his lack of desire to do so. He is an introvert and enjoys spending time at home by himself, which is the opposite of how I am. I will bring him out with my groups of friends and family, but when I do this, I notice he seems distant and doesn't want to be there, and doesn't make an effort to be nice to and get to know them.
When I think about us moving in together, it makes me nervous that there will be pressure on me to always be his source of entertainment since he doesn't have anyone else to do things with. I would love to hear if this is something other people have written in about or have a similar issue with. I do love him and we work well together in most aspects of our relationship, but I'm not sure if it something I can get past.

– Social Butterfly]]>328falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-022619--17159215Click here for more thoughts on LeBron's comments at the link here!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17159215Tue, 26 Feb 2019 14:53:45 +0000Steven BortsteinLeBron James has had enough. His comments about teammates being distracted following a loss to Memphis only add more fuel to the fire about his frustration. The comments are divisive and alarming, but they’re also very LeBron-like. What did you expect...Click here for more thoughts on LeBron's comments at the link here!]]>601falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chris-winn-022519--17150505https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17150505Mon, 25 Feb 2019 18:36:37 +0000Steven BortsteinWe talked with Las Vegas sports talk show host Chris Winn and got his thoughts regarding the latest allegations against Patriots owner Robert Kraft. Check out our chat right here!929falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-022519--17150519https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17150519Mon, 25 Feb 2019 18:36:11 +0000Steven BortsteinWe chatted with Jamieson Welsh on news and notes in the NBA, including thoughts on LeBron James and the latest on the Houston Rockets. Check out our conversation right here.898falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-022519--17144440https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17144440Mon, 25 Feb 2019 15:36:39 +0000Steven BortsteinCertain names draw certain emotions. Robert Kraft is one of those names, and when you have a salacious story like the one which broke over the weekend and attach his name to it, the emotions take over and we can let the fun begin. It’s safe to say...841falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-022219--17118861https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17118861Fri, 22 Feb 2019 18:13:30 +0000Steven BortsteinReaction to the Zion Williamson injury has been loud and often times, resulting in misplaced anger. Yes, a shoe broke and the young man is lucky the damage is recoverable. But this isn’t about Nike and it’s not about Duke or a flawed NCAA system. This...369falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-022219--17118498https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17118498Fri, 22 Feb 2019 17:27:30 +0000Steven BortsteinWe chatted this morning with Paul West (P Dub's Sports Hub) about the Manny Machado signing, as well as Bryce Harper's availability and the future of other soon to be free agents. We also looked back on the legacy of Don Newcombe. Check out our...1590falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/james-holas-022219--17118233https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17118233Fri, 22 Feb 2019 16:55:52 +0000Steven BortsteinWe chatted this morning with NBA insider James Holas on the Warriors, Bucks as well as the future of Zion Williamson and more. Listen to our podcast right here!1039falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-022119--17108078https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17108078Thu, 21 Feb 2019 17:34:38 +0000Steven BortsteinThis morning, we talked with USA Today's Neal Coolong (Touchdown Wire) about the latest on Antonio Brown, as well as Odell Beckham rumors and ramifications on the Colin Kaepernick settlement. Listen to our podcast right here.1218falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-022119--17107253https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17107253Thu, 21 Feb 2019 16:29:21 +0000Steven BortsteinThis morning, we chatted with Ryan Ballengee (GolfNewsNet) about last weekend's Genesis Open, the latest on the Matt Kuchar "caddy-gate" and why shorts on the PGA Tour are a big deal. Check out our chat right here!547falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-022119--17106915https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17106915Thu, 21 Feb 2019 15:55:12 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes and I talked NASCAR action, including last weekend's Daytona 500 win by Denny Hamlin and much more! Listen to our podcast right here!1086falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-022119--17106684https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17106684Thu, 21 Feb 2019 15:27:05 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh updated us on the injury suffered by Duke University standout Zion Williamson and chatted up the return of NBA action after the conclusion of the All-Star break. Listen to our podcast right here!753falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-022119--17106433https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17106433Thu, 21 Feb 2019 14:57:34 +0000Steven BortsteinPortland Trail Blazer all star Damian Lillard said on a podcast this week that he wouldn’t, “sell himself out to win a title”, which of course led to speculation Lillard was referring to current Golden State Warrior Kevin Durant. And if he was, so...413falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-022019--17096345https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17096345Wed, 20 Feb 2019 15:21:01 +0000Steven BortsteinWho was the biggest winner in the deal between the Padres and Manny Machado? If it’s not Machado, who just became one of the richest players in the sport, and if it’s not the Padres, who will gradually ease back into relevance after more than a decade...842falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/greg-peterson-021919--17086850https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17086850Tue, 19 Feb 2019 17:48:32 +0000Steven Bortstein786falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/eric-macramalla-021919--17086841https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17086841Tue, 19 Feb 2019 17:48:11 +0000Steven BortsteinChatted this morning with Eric Macramalla (TSN, Forbes Magazine) in regards to the settlement agreed to by the NFL and Colin Kaepernick and Eric Reid. Listen to the breakdown of the settlement and more right here!869falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/greg-peterson-021919--17086849https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17086849Tue, 19 Feb 2019 17:47:43 +0000Steven BortsteinThis morning, we caught with Greg Peterson (VSIN) about the latest news in college basketball. He also offered up a best bet for tonight's slate of action. Check out our conversation right here.786falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-021919--17085658
I was recently in a relationship with a guy in the military. We'd been dating for a little over five years and started dating in high school. I was with him through everything, including when he went to basic training. We did long distance for about two and a half years. That was until he decided to break up with me out of nowhere. We made plans for me to move out of state to live with him, and he had recently bought me plane tickets to go see him. Suddenly one weekend, though, he started to get really distant. That was when I asked him if everything was fine and he told me he just wasn't happy. As confusing as it was for me, it was even worse because he had just told me two days prior that he wanted me to move there.

Its been a little over a month since he broke up with me, and I still can't get him out of my head. I still see things on social media that upset me and bring me back down. He is seeing another girl that he met where he lives and I can't help but think that he broke up with me because of her. He claims they were just friends but I can't believe that. I constantly think of him and how he is so much happier with her, but here I am dwelling in the past and still so upset over it. I don't know what to do. I just don't understand how you can do that to someone you claim to love. I cry often about it and feel like I'm all alone because the only person I want to talk to is him. I would just love some advice from you that could help me move on with my life. Thank you.

Signed,
Left Behind]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17085658Tue, 19 Feb 2019 15:24:50 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I was recently in a relationship with a guy in the military. We'd been dating for a little over five years and started dating in high school. I was with him through everything, including when he went to basic training. We did long...
I was recently in a relationship with a guy in the military. We'd been dating for a little over five years and started dating in high school. I was with him through everything, including when he went to basic training. We did long distance for about two and a half years. That was until he decided to break up with me out of nowhere. We made plans for me to move out of state to live with him, and he had recently bought me plane tickets to go see him. Suddenly one weekend, though, he started to get really distant. That was when I asked him if everything was fine and he told me he just wasn't happy. As confusing as it was for me, it was even worse because he had just told me two days prior that he wanted me to move there.

Its been a little over a month since he broke up with me, and I still can't get him out of my head. I still see things on social media that upset me and bring me back down. He is seeing another girl that he met where he lives and I can't help but think that he broke up with me because of her. He claims they were just friends but I can't believe that. I constantly think of him and how he is so much happier with her, but here I am dwelling in the past and still so upset over it. I don't know what to do. I just don't understand how you can do that to someone you claim to love. I cry often about it and feel like I'm all alone because the only person I want to talk to is him. I would just love some advice from you that could help me move on with my life. Thank you.

Signed,
Left Behind]]>284falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-021919--17085638
Some questions to consider...
(1) Why is the settlement undisclosed? Who benefits the most from keeping the details sealed up inside an envelope?
(2) Regardless the outcome, will anyone's perception of Kaepernick be changed? Or the NFL's image... has that been damaged as well?
(3) What will the NFL do to address situations like this from occurring again? As much as the league feels they may have finally moved on from this, how will they ensure themselves to avoid this type of issue from disrupting their business?]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17085638Tue, 19 Feb 2019 15:23:05 +0000Steven BortsteinFormer San Francisco 49ers quarterback Colin Kaepernick and his teammate Eric Reid, have reached a settlement with the NFL over their collusion lawsuit and will take no further action in the case. The terms of the settlement were not disclosed. Some...
Some questions to consider...
(1) Why is the settlement undisclosed? Who benefits the most from keeping the details sealed up inside an envelope?
(2) Regardless the outcome, will anyone's perception of Kaepernick be changed? Or the NFL's image... has that been damaged as well?
(3) What will the NFL do to address situations like this from occurring again? As much as the league feels they may have finally moved on from this, how will they ensure themselves to avoid this type of issue from disrupting their business?]]>594falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/sam-atwell-021519--17054168https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17054168Fri, 15 Feb 2019 17:42:52 +0000Steven BortsteinWe'll preview this weekend's Daytona 500 and predict the winner of the 2019 NASCAR season with Sam Atwell. Check out our podcast right here!661falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wola-odeniran-021519--17054159https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17054159Fri, 15 Feb 2019 17:42:26 +0000Steven BortsteinWe'll talk with Wola Odeniran (Ravens Wire) about the recent trade sending Baltimore QB Joe Flacco to Denver. Tune in right here for our chat.769falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friday-monologue-021519--17052672https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17052672Fri, 15 Feb 2019 15:04:22 +0000Steven BortsteinThere’s a lot to unpack in this story regarding Colin Kaepernick supposedly wanting 20 million dollars to play in the AAF. Let’s say it’s true, couldn’t it be argued he’d be the most popular player in the league and thus, should be renumerated as...403falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-021419--17044065https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17044065Thu, 14 Feb 2019 17:34:01 +0000Steven BortsteinChatted this morning with Chuck Hayes regarding Kyler Murray's decision to forego MLB and enter the NFL, as well as a look ahead to this weekend's Daytona 500. Click here for our chat.1050falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-021419--17044067https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17044067Thu, 14 Feb 2019 17:33:40 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Castle Country Radio) chatted with us about the opening of spring training camps in MLB, as well as both Bryce Harper and Manny Machado still being unsigned and more MLB news. Listen to our podcast right here.1321falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thursday-monologue-021419--17042522
Click the link for more on the trade and implications for both the Broncos and Ravens.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17042522Thu, 14 Feb 2019 14:56:35 +0000Steven BortsteinI know some Broncos fans are upset, disturbed, flummoxed if you will about the news of their trade for QB Joe Flacco. And while I understand the apprehension for trusting John Elway’s evaluation skills of late at the position, I’d ask what was he...
Click the link for more on the trade and implications for both the Broncos and Ravens.]]>576falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-021319--17034201https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17034201Wed, 13 Feb 2019 17:59:30 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (USA Today Sports Media, TouchdownWire) joined us with the latest on Antonio Brown's trade request, Kyler Murray's decision to join the NFL Draft and more.... Listen to our chat right here!1299falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-021319--17034203https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17034203Wed, 13 Feb 2019 17:59:07 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (GolfNewsNet) recapped Phil Mickelson's win this past weekend and much more news on the PGA Tour. Check out our podcast right here!663falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-021319--17033506https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17033506Wed, 13 Feb 2019 16:53:40 +0000Steven BortsteinMultiple sources reporting the Denver Broncos have acquired QB Joe Flacco from the Baltimore Ravens. The details of the trade cannot be finalized until March 13. Ryan Edwards of Orange & Blue AM760 in Denver filled us in on the latest. Listen to our...456falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-monologue-021319--17032517https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17032517Wed, 13 Feb 2019 15:05:37 +0000Steven BortsteinThe Steelers have until March 17 to decide how to handle Antonio Brown's trade request. In the meantime, we delve a little deeper into what's turned into an elongated soap opera in the NFL. Check out my Wednesday Morning Monologue right here.457falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jed-rigney-and-jon-sumple-021219--17023186https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17023186Tue, 12 Feb 2019 17:56:19 +0000Steven BortsteinJed Rigney & Jon Sumple from the Foul Territory baseball podcast joined us to talk all things MLB with pitchers and catchers set to report to spring training facilities. Listen to our chat right here.1135falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/scott-wright-021219--17023194https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17023194Tue, 12 Feb 2019 17:55:56 +0000Steven BortsteinScott Wright of Draft Countdown talked Kyler Murray and his decision to commit to the NFL over MLB. Listen to our chat right here!746falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-021219--17022016
My boyfriend and I have been together for four years and have been living together for almost six months. I felt like before we moved in together, everything was perfect. However, that is not the case now. I love him but I wonder if he will ever grow up. I'm constantly picking up after him, and I pay all the bills. He has a job but it's not serious.

I'm finding out that living together is just more work for me to do. Meanwhile, I’m working my butt off in grad school. We have always talked about marriage and a family one day, but now I feel like I'm second guessing every decision we've made together. I have tried to talk to him about my issues with our living situation, but he always brushes it off and won't go into deep conversation on ways to make living together easier. Can I change him to start being mature? Or should we go our separate ways?

Signed,
– Frustrated]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17022016Tue, 12 Feb 2019 15:30:13 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, My boyfriend and I have been together for four years and have been living together for almost six months. I felt like before we moved in together, everything was perfect. However, that is not the case now. I love him but I wonder if he...
My boyfriend and I have been together for four years and have been living together for almost six months. I felt like before we moved in together, everything was perfect. However, that is not the case now. I love him but I wonder if he will ever grow up. I'm constantly picking up after him, and I pay all the bills. He has a job but it's not serious.

I'm finding out that living together is just more work for me to do. Meanwhile, I’m working my butt off in grad school. We have always talked about marriage and a family one day, but now I feel like I'm second guessing every decision we've made together. I have tried to talk to him about my issues with our living situation, but he always brushes it off and won't go into deep conversation on ways to make living together easier. Can I change him to start being mature? Or should we go our separate ways?

Signed,
– Frustrated]]>253falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuesday-monologue-021219--17021684https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17021684Tue, 12 Feb 2019 14:56:07 +0000Steven BortsteinI don't want this to come across like sour grapes, but Kyler Murray's decision to choose a career in the NFL speak volumes about the current state of the NFL and Major League Baseball. Listen to my Tuesday Morning Monologue to find out why!732falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ej-christian-021119--17012335https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17012335Mon, 11 Feb 2019 17:05:19 +0000Steven BortsteinEJ Christian, of Earnestly Speaking Media, talked all things sports with us, including the opening weekend of the AAF, Kevin Durant's issues with the media and more. Listen to our podcast right here!!1372falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-021119--17012307https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17012307Mon, 11 Feb 2019 17:04:53 +0000Steven BortsteinThis morning, we chatted with Jamieson Welsh on NBA headlines, including the Anthony Davis/Pelicans saga, as well as growing issues with the Celtics and more. Listen to our chat right here.1064falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/monday-monologue-021119--17010823Click the link for more thoughts on the opening weekend coverage and action right here!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17010823Mon, 11 Feb 2019 14:55:29 +0000Steven BortsteinThe first impressions from the opening weekend of the Alliance of American Football are that it’s not very good from a competitive standpoint. There’s a reason many of these guys weren’t good enough for the NFL. One thing I appreciated was being able...Click the link for more thoughts on the opening weekend coverage and action right here!]]>632falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/four-corners-focus-021019--17010297https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17010297Mon, 11 Feb 2019 13:51:40 +0000Steven BortsteinThe annual Mayor’s Ball is held each year to raise monies for non-profits in San Juan County. Funds raised in 2018, 2019 and 2020 benefit the Boys & Girls Clubs of Farmington, Bloomfield and Aztec. The mayors of these communities will be in attendance...1581falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/mike-colangelo-020819--16988040https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16988040Fri, 08 Feb 2019 18:19:53 +0000Steven BortsteinMike Colangelo (Touchdown Wire) previews the opening weekend of the inaugural season of the Alliance of American Football. Listen to our breakdown of what can be expected from the new league on the podcast link right here.700falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/james-holas-020819--16988046https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16988046Fri, 08 Feb 2019 18:19:30 +0000Steven BortsteinJames Holas (Real Ball Insiders) and I broke down the whimper of NBA Trade Deadline news, as well as Lavar Ball's influence in the Lakers organization and Kevin Durant's media issues. Tune in to our podcast right here.1063falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-020819--16988051https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16988051Fri, 08 Feb 2019 18:19:06 +0000Steven BortsteinPaul West (P Dub's Sports Hub) and I looked back at the legacy of the late Frank Robinson. We also chatted about the newly designated "Injury List" in Major League Baseball. It's a fun conversation, check out the podcast right here.1298falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bortstein-monologue-020819--16986977https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16986977Fri, 08 Feb 2019 16:34:25 +0000Steven BortsteinMajor League Baseball announced this week that the term "Disabled List" will be changed to "Injured List". This is an absurd decision, made even more ridiculous because of a perceived reaction to terminology that doesn't exist.566falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-020719--16977118https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16977118Thu, 07 Feb 2019 17:19:47 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes (CBS Sports) previewed this weekend's Clash at Daytona and talked about the chaos within the Lakers locker room. Listen to our chat right here.1060falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/glenn-erby-020719--16977115https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16977115Thu, 07 Feb 2019 17:19:27 +0000Steven BortsteinGlenn Erby (The Eagles Wire) recapped Super Bowl notes and talked about the future of QB Nick Foles. Listen to our podcast right here.646falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-van-bibber-020619--16967739https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16967739Wed, 06 Feb 2019 18:09:52 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Van Bibber, new senior editor at Outside Magazine, talking NFL news, joined us this morning. Listen to our chat right here.854falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-020619--16967737https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16967737Wed, 06 Feb 2019 18:09:26 +0000Steven BortsteinGolf News Net's Ryan Ballengee, recapped the Waste Management Open and Sergio Garcia meltdowns. Check out our podcast right here!924falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-020519--16958054https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16958054Tue, 05 Feb 2019 17:41:41 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (Touchdown Wire) recapped Super Bowl 53 and talked upcoming NFL headlines. Check out our podcast right here.1292falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/cameron-da-silva-020519--16957816https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16957816Tue, 05 Feb 2019 17:40:57 +0000Steven BortsteinCameron Da Silva (Rams Wire) talked Rams storylines coming out of Super Bowl 53 and more. Listen to our podcast right here.978falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-020519--16956542This year I turned 40 and I've never felt better. Call it what you will, mid life-crisis maybe, but I have spent many hours re-evaluating my life. To be honest, I can't complain about anything. I have been in a solid marriage for 10 years, we have an amazing child, and my job, my house, my fitness, finances, etc. are all where they should be. I have the recipe to be extremely happy and it all looks great on paper.

The problem is that I'm not happy and feel I followed the path in life that I should have taken in my head, but didn't want to in my heart. I guess you can say I settled for the sake of being secure in life at the cost of my happiness. Don't get me wrong, I could have ended up with someone I was wildly attracted to who treated me like garbage and I wouldn't have had the fortunate life I have now. The truth is my husband has amazing qualities, but he doesn't "do it" for me. I've always loved him, but I've never been in love.

Some may say that's enough for a good life, but I've been craving to be in love for so long. Fast forward to today. I had innocently re-connected with a past hookup from my 20s via Facebook. As all flirtations go, it's exciting and feels good to be desired. But this meeting has turned into daily messages of affirmation and weekly secret meetings. For me, it's developed into something more. I realize under these circumstances, it's impossible to really know each other and maybe it's all an illusion, but he claims he feels the same and doesn't want it to end.

He's been in a long, unfulfilling relationship (not married, no kids) as well, so I think we both like the escape from our situations. Maybe I'm being naive. He could be feeding me what I want to hear, but something in my gut tells me this is genuine, and I fantasize if it's possible our lives could intertwine. It's been a few months and we spoke of taking a step physically, which I want, but it's a huge decision. I can't say I'd leave my husband and life for this person yet, but this can only go on for so long. I don't want to let my kid or my family down – they'd be absolutely devastated. Do I live out my privileged live and forgo my happiness for the sake of my child and family? Please help wake me up!

Signed,
– Trying To Find Happiness]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16956542Tue, 05 Feb 2019 15:38:02 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, This year I turned 40 and I've never felt better. Call it what you will, mid life-crisis maybe, but I have spent many hours re-evaluating my life. To be honest, I can't complain about anything. I have been in a solid marriage for 10 years,...This year I turned 40 and I've never felt better. Call it what you will, mid life-crisis maybe, but I have spent many hours re-evaluating my life. To be honest, I can't complain about anything. I have been in a solid marriage for 10 years, we have an amazing child, and my job, my house, my fitness, finances, etc. are all where they should be. I have the recipe to be extremely happy and it all looks great on paper.

The problem is that I'm not happy and feel I followed the path in life that I should have taken in my head, but didn't want to in my heart. I guess you can say I settled for the sake of being secure in life at the cost of my happiness. Don't get me wrong, I could have ended up with someone I was wildly attracted to who treated me like garbage and I wouldn't have had the fortunate life I have now. The truth is my husband has amazing qualities, but he doesn't "do it" for me. I've always loved him, but I've never been in love.

Some may say that's enough for a good life, but I've been craving to be in love for so long. Fast forward to today. I had innocently re-connected with a past hookup from my 20s via Facebook. As all flirtations go, it's exciting and feels good to be desired. But this meeting has turned into daily messages of affirmation and weekly secret meetings. For me, it's developed into something more. I realize under these circumstances, it's impossible to really know each other and maybe it's all an illusion, but he claims he feels the same and doesn't want it to end.

He's been in a long, unfulfilling relationship (not married, no kids) as well, so I think we both like the escape from our situations. Maybe I'm being naive. He could be feeding me what I want to hear, but something in my gut tells me this is genuine, and I fantasize if it's possible our lives could intertwine. It's been a few months and we spoke of taking a step physically, which I want, but it's a huge decision. I can't say I'd leave my husband and life for this person yet, but this can only go on for so long. I don't want to let my kid or my family down – they'd be absolutely devastated. Do I live out my privileged live and forgo my happiness for the sake of my child and family? Please help wake me up!

Signed,
– Trying To Find Happiness]]>417falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/henry-mckenna-020419--16948613https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16948613Mon, 04 Feb 2019 17:46:01 +0000Steven BortsteinPatriots Wire editor Henry McKenna gave us his thoughts on New England's win in Super Bowl 53. Check out our podcast right here!849falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-020419--16948612https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16948612Mon, 04 Feb 2019 17:45:38 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh talked NBA Trade Deadline storylines and much more. Listen to our podcast right here.891falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-020419--16948610https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16948610Mon, 04 Feb 2019 17:45:13 +0000Steven BortsteinDrive Time Sports host Jordan Buscarini recapped Super Bowl 53. Listen to our chat right here.1081falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lee-sterling-020119--16924163https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16924163Fri, 01 Feb 2019 17:53:38 +0000Steven BortsteinLee Sterling of Paramount Sports breaks down Super Bowl 53 and offers advice on prop bets and more. Check out our chat right here.681falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/james-holas-020119--16924165https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16924165Fri, 01 Feb 2019 17:53:14 +0000Steven BortsteinJames Holas from Real Ball Insiders recaps a wild few days of headlines around the NBA. Listen to our podcast right here.834falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-013119--16895455https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16895455Thu, 31 Jan 2019 17:52:28 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes of CBS Sports in Los Angeles talks Rams football and Lakers drama. Listen to our chat right here.1090falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-013119--16895448https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16895448Thu, 31 Jan 2019 17:52:04 +0000Steven BortsteinCastle Country Radio's Jordan Buscarini previews this weekend's Super Bowl matchup. Listen to our conversation right here!1232falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-013119--16895456https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16895456Thu, 31 Jan 2019 17:51:42 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards from Orange and Blue AM760 in Denver gives us an update on Broncos news plus a preview of Super Bowl 53. Check out our podcast right here.586falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-van-bibber-013019--16885812https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16885812Wed, 30 Jan 2019 18:04:47 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Van Bibber (SB Nation NFL) previews Super Bowl 53 and other NFL news. Check out our chat right here.1042falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-013019--16885803https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16885803Wed, 30 Jan 2019 18:04:00 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) previews the shenanigans of this weekend's Waste Management Open. Check out our discussion right here.950falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/cameron-da-silva-013019--16884523https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16884523Wed, 30 Jan 2019 15:36:42 +0000Steven BortsteinCameron Da Silva (NFL Wire, Rams Wire) previews Super Bowl 53 and chats about Rams news leading up to the big game. Listen to our conversation right here.816falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-012319--16875200https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16875200Tue, 29 Jan 2019 16:22:28 +0000Steven BortsteinThis morning, we chatted with Neal Coolong from Touchdown Wire, with his take on Super Bowl 53. Listen to our podcast right here.1540falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-012919--16874815I'm in my early 30s and a new single mom. I'm nowhere near ready to start dating again, but lately I have been thinking about the future, and what I've read about single mothers on the internet is so discouraging. When I was pregnant and my ex bailed, it never crossed my mind that I would be looked down upon for having a child alone. If anything, I thought people could see that I was a good person for taking responsibility and not running away like his father.
Instead, this is the impression I get: single mothers are single for a reason; they have loose morals; they are gold-diggers looking for a bailout; they lack character for choosing a man who would leave; kids are baggage, etc. I wish I could've seen his father for who he truly was before I was pregnant, but who hasn't dated and made this mistake? How many people will assume the worst about me? I feel like dating was already hard before all this, and when I do date again it will just be harder. Am I doomed? Maybe I should just stay off the internet.

Signed,
– Destined To Be Single]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16874815Tue, 29 Jan 2019 15:32:26 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I'm in my early 30s and a new single mom. I'm nowhere near ready to start dating again, but lately I have been thinking about the future, and what I've read about single mothers on the internet is so discouraging. When I was pregnant and...I'm in my early 30s and a new single mom. I'm nowhere near ready to start dating again, but lately I have been thinking about the future, and what I've read about single mothers on the internet is so discouraging. When I was pregnant and my ex bailed, it never crossed my mind that I would be looked down upon for having a child alone. If anything, I thought people could see that I was a good person for taking responsibility and not running away like his father.
Instead, this is the impression I get: single mothers are single for a reason; they have loose morals; they are gold-diggers looking for a bailout; they lack character for choosing a man who would leave; kids are baggage, etc. I wish I could've seen his father for who he truly was before I was pregnant, but who hasn't dated and made this mistake? How many people will assume the worst about me? I feel like dating was already hard before all this, and when I do date again it will just be harder. Am I doomed? Maybe I should just stay off the internet.

Signed,
– Destined To Be Single]]>344falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/nick-lowery-012918--16863941https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16863941Mon, 28 Jan 2019 16:53:33 +0000Steven BortsteinFormer NFL star Nick Lowery talked Super Bowl 53 and gave commentary on a controversy regarding a medical marijuana commercial turned down by CBS. Listen to our exclusive podcast right here.823falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-012819--16863411https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16863411Mon, 28 Jan 2019 15:54:51 +0000Steven BortsteinNBA reporter Jamieson Welsh filled us in on breaking Anthony Davis trade news and much more. Listen in right here to our exclusive chat.1299falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/pete-sweeney-012519--16841177https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16841177Fri, 25 Jan 2019 18:00:37 +0000Steven BortsteinWe chatted with Chiefs correspondent Pete Sweeney at SB Nation about last weekend's loss to the Patriots and a look ahead to next weekend's Super Bowl. You can hear our podcast right here!769falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-012419--16832152https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16832152Thu, 24 Jan 2019 17:52:17 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes (CBS Sports) talks Rams and Lakers news. Check out our exclusive podcast right here!1493falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-van-bibber-012419--16832149https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16832149Thu, 24 Jan 2019 17:51:59 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Van Bibber (SB Nation NFL) breaks down last weekend's Conference Championship games and talks Browns and Cowboys plus an early preview of Super Bowl 53. Listen to our chat right here.769falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-012419--16832147https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16832147Thu, 24 Jan 2019 17:51:38 +0000Steven BortsteinPaul West (P Dub's Sports Hub) reacts to the Baseball Hall of Fame announcements and more. Listen to our chat right here.1279falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-012319--16823181https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16823181Wed, 23 Jan 2019 17:36:19 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) previews this weekend's PGA Tour action and more. Listen to our podcast at the link.533falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/greg-peterson-012319--16823178https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16823178Wed, 23 Jan 2019 17:35:58 +0000Steven BortsteinGreg Peterson covering college basketball talked Duke, Virginia, Michigan and more. Listen in right here!930falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-012319--16823177https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16823177Wed, 23 Jan 2019 17:35:32 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (Touchdown Wire) talked up Conference Championship recaps and offered some early insight into Super Bowl LIII. Listen to our chat right here.1540falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-012319--16821991
I recently met a lady where I used to work. From day one, before I left that business for another opportunity, I knew she was attracted to me, however there was something that seemed a little off. Fast forward a couple of weeks, and after a long conversation, I found out she had lost her husband about two years ago. One of my previous coworkers always spoke very highly about her, and I decided to give her an opportunity.

Here's my problem: I’m a little scared and anxious. I've never been in a situation where I've dated a woman who's lost a significant other, let alone a husband. I'm being very cautious with my own feelings, knowing her current situation. I waited a couple of weeks to finally have a conversion with her about what's going on and I admitted I keep asking myself whether she's really ready to move on.

She expressed her feelings toward me and let me know that she truly feels like she IS indeed ready. And in my opinion, she wouldn't have asked me to date her if she were not ready. I never want her to erase that part of her life, but my concern is that I don't want to be anyone's shoulder to cry on or have her compare him to me. I'm open-minded and willing to talk about him whenever she needs support. Ultimately, should I give this lady an opportunity?

Signed,
Ready To Step Into the Water]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16821991Wed, 23 Jan 2019 15:32:36 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I recently met a lady where I used to work. From day one, before I left that business for another opportunity, I knew she was attracted to me, however there was something that seemed a little off. Fast forward a couple of weeks, and after...
I recently met a lady where I used to work. From day one, before I left that business for another opportunity, I knew she was attracted to me, however there was something that seemed a little off. Fast forward a couple of weeks, and after a long conversation, I found out she had lost her husband about two years ago. One of my previous coworkers always spoke very highly about her, and I decided to give her an opportunity.

Here's my problem: I’m a little scared and anxious. I've never been in a situation where I've dated a woman who's lost a significant other, let alone a husband. I'm being very cautious with my own feelings, knowing her current situation. I waited a couple of weeks to finally have a conversion with her about what's going on and I admitted I keep asking myself whether she's really ready to move on.

She expressed her feelings toward me and let me know that she truly feels like she IS indeed ready. And in my opinion, she wouldn't have asked me to date her if she were not ready. I never want her to erase that part of her life, but my concern is that I don't want to be anyone's shoulder to cry on or have her compare him to me. I'm open-minded and willing to talk about him whenever she needs support. Ultimately, should I give this lady an opportunity?

Signed,
Ready To Step Into the Water]]>281falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-011719--16739022https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16739022Thu, 17 Jan 2019 17:55:31 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes (CBS Sports) talks Jaylen Hurts and much more. Take a listen to our podcast right here!1291falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/cameron-da-silva-011719--16739020https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16739020Thu, 17 Jan 2019 17:55:07 +0000Steven BortsteinCameron Da Silva (Rams Wire) previews this weekend's NFC Championship Game. Listen to our chat right here.705falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/james-holas-011719--16739017https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16739017Thu, 17 Jan 2019 17:54:37 +0000Steven BortsteinJames Holas (RealBallInsiders) talked Golden State Warriors, James Harden, Scottie Pippen's comments on Duke star Zion Willamson and much more. Take a listen to our chat right here.1116falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-011619--16729595https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16729595Wed, 16 Jan 2019 17:23:20 +0000Steven BortsteinPaul West talks MLB news as well as the Kyler Murray fiasco from P Dub's Sports Hub. Listen to our chat right here.1398falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-011619--16729145https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16729145Wed, 16 Jan 2019 16:40:46 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee with the latest from Golf News Net. Take a listen to our chat right here841falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-van-bibber-011619--16728882https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16728882Wed, 16 Jan 2019 16:05:47 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Van Bibber (SB Nation NFL) covers the NFL playoffs and other league news. Check out our podcast right here.1138falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/henry-mckenna-011519--16720323https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16720323Tue, 15 Jan 2019 16:51:40 +0000Steven BortsteinHenry McKenna (Patriots Wire) recaps last weekend's win over the Chargers and previews this weekend's AFC Title game against the Chiefs. Check out our podcast right here.799falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-011519--16720293https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16720293Tue, 15 Jan 2019 16:49:47 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (Touchdown Wire) chats NFL news and previews this weekend's Conference Championship games. Listen to our podcast right here.1398falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/diamond-dallas-page-011519--16719622https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16719622Tue, 15 Jan 2019 15:17:10 +0000Steven BortsteinDiamond Dallas Page talks about his new book "Positively Unstoppable". Listen to our podcast right here.529falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-011519--16719442https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16719442Tue, 15 Jan 2019 14:52:42 +0000Steven BortsteinWe’re into our fifth month of this segment, and I’m fairly certain we’ve probably ended more relationships than kept them going. What started on this program earlier this summer has now turned into a routine.368falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-011419--16710080https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16710080Mon, 14 Jan 2019 17:54:10 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh, with insight into the NBA season, chatted with us. Listen to our podcast right here.1043falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-011419--16710071https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16710071Mon, 14 Jan 2019 17:53:31 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Castle Country Radio) covering the NFL Playoffs with us this morning. Listen to our podcast right here.1272falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/glenn-erby-011119--16688159https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16688159Fri, 11 Jan 2019 17:18:26 +0000Steven BortsteinGlenn Erby (Eagles Wire) previews Sunday's Divisional Round playoff game at the New Orleans Saints. Listen to our chat right here.664falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/james-holas-011119--16687988https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16687988Fri, 11 Jan 2019 16:56:36 +0000Steven BortsteinJames Holas (RealBallInsiders) talks about the Denver Nuggets, Houston Rockets and more NBA news. Check out our exclusive podcast right here!945falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-011119--16687475https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16687475Fri, 11 Jan 2019 16:00:39 +0000Steven BortsteinKristi Scales (Dallas Cowboys Radio Network) previews tomorrow's Divisional Round playoff game at the L.A. Rams. Check out our preview right here.990falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/pete-sweeney-011019--16679457https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16679457Thu, 10 Jan 2019 17:35:43 +0000Steven BortsteinPete Sweeney from ArrowheadPride.com previews Saturday's AFC Divisional matchup between Kansas City and the Indianapolis Colts. Tune in right here for our previews and predictions.749falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-011019--16679088https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16679088Thu, 10 Jan 2019 16:53:02 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards, covering the Broncos for Orange & Blue AM760, talks about the Broncos new head coach Vic Fangio and playoff matchups this weekend. Listen to our chat right here.883falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-011019--16679080https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16679080Thu, 10 Jan 2019 16:52:10 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes of CBS Sports talking college football and much more. Listen in right here to our podcast.1270falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/henry-mckenna-0111019--16678437https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16678437Thu, 10 Jan 2019 15:31:45 +0000Steven BortsteinHenry McKenna of PatriotsWire.com previews Sunday's AFC Divisional matchup between New England and the L.A. Chargers. Check out our chat right here.947falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-van-bibber-010919--16670207https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16670207Wed, 09 Jan 2019 17:07:29 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Van Bibber (SB Nation NFL) talks coaching moves and previews this weekend's Divisional Round games. Listen to our chat right here.1184falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-010919--16670208https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16670208Wed, 09 Jan 2019 17:07:08 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) recaps last weekend's Tournament of Champions and more. Listen to our chat right here.769falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kevin-hickey-010919--16670213https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16670213Wed, 09 Jan 2019 17:06:40 +0000Steven BortsteinKevin Hickey (Colts Wire, USA Today Sports Media Group) previews Indianapolis vs. Kansas City. Click the link for our exclusive podcast.830falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-010819--16660801https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16660801Tue, 08 Jan 2019 17:31:56 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (The NFL Wire) chats Divisional Round action and more NFL news and notes. Listen in right here.1334falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/greg-peterson-010819--16660623https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16660623Tue, 08 Jan 2019 17:01:59 +0000Steven BortsteinGreg Peterson (VSIN) chats up college basketball news and notes. Our podcast is right here!673falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-010819--16660013https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16660013Tue, 08 Jan 2019 16:33:00 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Castle Country Radio) recapping the Clemson win over Alabama. Check out our podcast right here!1184falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-010819--16659495
I am a 23-year-old college graduate who moved here last year for a job opportunity. I’ve never been in a serious relationship. I struggled with mental health issues and making friends in high school and college, but eventually I found my way to friendships and health. Now I feel stuck with dating.

I had major crushes on two girls in college and one on someone I met at work. With all of them, things didn't work out and they were either not interested or as it turns out, gay. Some girls have expressed interest either directly or indirectly but I haven't been interested in them. I feel like I've been unlucky, and I'm realizing that I’m fairly late to the game – not dating has always made me feel inadequate. I feel strongly that I want to meet someone in person and not online, but understand that ultimately online dating is something I'm going to have to try given my desire to connect with someone and the reality that I haven't been lucky yet.

Do you have any practical advice?

– Frustrated Late Bloomer]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16659495Tue, 08 Jan 2019 15:27:54 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I am a 23-year-old college graduate who moved here last year for a job opportunity. I’ve never been in a serious relationship. I struggled with mental health issues and making friends in high school and college, but eventually I found my...
I am a 23-year-old college graduate who moved here last year for a job opportunity. I’ve never been in a serious relationship. I struggled with mental health issues and making friends in high school and college, but eventually I found my way to friendships and health. Now I feel stuck with dating.

I had major crushes on two girls in college and one on someone I met at work. With all of them, things didn't work out and they were either not interested or as it turns out, gay. Some girls have expressed interest either directly or indirectly but I haven't been interested in them. I feel like I've been unlucky, and I'm realizing that I’m fairly late to the game – not dating has always made me feel inadequate. I feel strongly that I want to meet someone in person and not online, but understand that ultimately online dating is something I'm going to have to try given my desire to connect with someone and the reality that I haven't been lucky yet.

Do you have any practical advice?

– Frustrated Late Bloomer]]>272falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wade-smith-010719--16649977https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16649977Mon, 07 Jan 2019 17:01:34 +0000Steven BortsteinCheck out a preview of tonight's National Championship Game with Wade Smith (I Heart Radio). Podcast is here!1115falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-010719--16649877https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16649877Mon, 07 Jan 2019 16:48:40 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh covering the NBA, talked about James Harden's impressive week as well as the firing of Tom Thibodeau at Minnesota, plus previews of a couple matchups tonight. Hear our podcast right here.1227falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wola-odeniran-010419--16630539https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16630539Fri, 04 Jan 2019 18:25:42 +0000Steven BortsteinWola Odeniran (The Ravens Wire) previews Baltimore vs. LA Chargers. Check out our conversation right here.825falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-010419--16629977https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16629977Fri, 04 Jan 2019 17:01:50 +0000Steven BortsteinKristi Scales (Dallas Cowboys Radio Network) previews Dallas vs. Seattle. Listen to our podcast right here.539falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-010419--16629971https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16629971Fri, 04 Jan 2019 17:01:07 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (Orange & Blue AM 760) puts a final spin on the Broncos 2018 season and looks at potential head coaching candidates. Listen to our chat right here.963falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kenneth-arthur-010319--16621382https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16621382Thu, 03 Jan 2019 17:19:29 +0000Steven BortsteinKenneth Arthur (FieldGulls) previews Seahawks vs. Cowboys. Listen to our podcast right here.756falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/mark-lane-010319--16621386https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16621386Thu, 03 Jan 2019 17:19:10 +0000Steven BortsteinMark Lane (TexansWire) previews Texans vs. Colts. Check out our preview right here.821falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-010319--16621385https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16621385Thu, 03 Jan 2019 17:18:39 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes (CBSSports) recaps the Rose Bowl, talks college football news and more. Listen to our podcast right here.1231falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-van-bibber-010319--16621381https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16621381Thu, 03 Jan 2019 17:18:18 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Van Bibber (SB Nation NFL) previews this weekend's Wildcard games and chats NFL coaching news. Listen to our podcast right here.1203falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-010219--16613225https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16613225Wed, 02 Jan 2019 18:29:35 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Castle Country Radio) talked college football news. Listen to our chat right here.1334falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-010219--16612066https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16612066Wed, 02 Jan 2019 16:43:08 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (Touchdown Wire) got us caught up with a ton of NFL news. Listen to our podcast right here!1212falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-010219--16612063https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16612063Wed, 02 Jan 2019 16:42:51 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) previewed this weekend's Tournament of Champions. Check out our podcast right here.712falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-010219--16611470https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16611470Wed, 02 Jan 2019 15:39:15 +0000Steven BortsteinWe’re into our fifth month of this segment, and I’m fairly certain we’ve probably ended more relationships than kept them going. That being said, hopefully those involved in somewhat murky waters are starting to make better decisions. What started on...336falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/eric-alwan-122718--16576134https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16576134Thu, 27 Dec 2018 17:05:54 +0000Steven BortsteinSunland Park marketing director Eric Alwan previewed opening weekend at the track and more. Listen to our podcast right here.1008falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-van-bibber-122718--16576148https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16576148Thu, 27 Dec 2018 17:05:31 +0000Steven BortsteinSB Nation NFL editor Ryan Van Bibber previewed Week 17 action. Check out our exclusive podcast right here!896falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-122718--16576160https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16576160Thu, 27 Dec 2018 17:05:03 +0000Steven BortsteinI Heart Radio's Ryan Edwards (Orange&Blue 760) talked Denver's season finale against the Chargers and more Broncos news. Listen to our chat right here.814falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-122718--16576166https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16576166Thu, 27 Dec 2018 17:04:32 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Drive Time Sports) previewed this weekend's College Football Playoff matchups. Listen to our predictions and analysis right here.961falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/james-holas-122618--16569604https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16569604Wed, 26 Dec 2018 17:19:44 +0000Steven BortsteinJames Holas (Lineups) talking all things NBA. Listen to our podcast right here!691falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-122618--16569346https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16569346Wed, 26 Dec 2018 16:24:59 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (TouchdownWire) previewed Week 17 and talked up NFL headlines. Listen to our chat right here!1368falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chevel--16539977https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16539977Fri, 21 Dec 2018 14:57:12 +0000Steven BortsteinKTRA’s Dave Schaefer visits with “The Voice” Champion, Chevel Shepherd. Hear the interview here.302falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-122018--16531940https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16531940Thu, 20 Dec 2018 16:51:46 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (Orange & Blue AM760) previewed the Monday Night game between the Broncos and Raiders. Listen to our chat right here.883falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-122018--16531651https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16531651Thu, 20 Dec 2018 16:22:23 +0000Steven BortsteinKristi Scales (Dallas Cowboys Radio Network) previews Sunday's game against the Tampa Bay Buccaneers. Listen in right here.910falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kevin-kerstein-121918--16523296https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16523296Wed, 19 Dec 2018 17:44:10 +0000Steven BortsteinKevin Kerstein (Churchill Downs) talked up Justify's winning the Triple Crown, our 5th biggest sports headline for 2018. Listen to our discussion right here.697falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-van-bibber-121918--16523298https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16523298Wed, 19 Dec 2018 17:43:45 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Van Bibber (SB Nation NFL) talked Week 16 previews as well as other NFL news. Listen to our exclusive podcast right here.1054falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wola-odeniran-121918--16523301https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16523301Wed, 19 Dec 2018 17:42:59 +0000Steven BortsteinWoda Odeniran (Ravens Wire) previewed this weekend's Baltimore vs. LA Chargers game. Check out our podcast right here.906falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/greg-peterson-121818--16513160https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16513160Tue, 18 Dec 2018 17:20:31 +0000Steven BortsteinGreg Peterson (VSIN), covering college basketball and recapping one of 2018's biggest sports stories. Listen to our chat right here.1321falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-121818--16512998https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16512998Tue, 18 Dec 2018 17:02:51 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (Touchdown Wire) talked up NFL news and notes. Listen to our podcast right here!1321falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-121818--16512166https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16512166Tue, 18 Dec 2018 15:32:35 +0000Steven BortsteinWe’re into our fifth month of this segment, and I’m fairly certain we’ve probably ended more relationships than kept them going. That being said, hopefully those involved in somewhat murky waters are starting to make better decisions.336falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-121718--16497972https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16497972Mon, 17 Dec 2018 17:06:04 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Castle Country Radio) talked college football and possible CFP expansion. Listen to our chat right here.1646falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-121718--16497970https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16497970Mon, 17 Dec 2018 17:05:44 +0000Steven BortsteinNBA insider Jamieson Welsh talks headlines and rookie of the year debate. Listen to our podcast right here.1117falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-121418--16478096https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16478096Fri, 14 Dec 2018 20:30:36 +0000Steven BortsteinKristi Scales of the Dallas Cowboys Radio Network previews this weekend's match against the Indianapolis Colts. Check out our podcast right here.792falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-1214218--16478099https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16478099Fri, 14 Dec 2018 20:30:05 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee of Golf News Net helped us highlight one of the top sports stories of 2018. Listen as we look back on Tiger Woods' triumphs.841falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lee-sterling-121418--16478104https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16478104Fri, 14 Dec 2018 20:29:43 +0000Steven BortsteinLee Sterling of Paramount Sports serves up college football and NFL best bets. Listen to our chat right here.781falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/pete-sweeney-121318--16462013https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16462013Thu, 13 Dec 2018 16:54:50 +0000Steven BortsteinPete Sweeney (Arrowhead Pride) previews tonight's Chiefs vs. Chargers game. Listen to our discussion right here.765falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-121318--16461490https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16461490Thu, 13 Dec 2018 16:51:36 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (Orange & Blue AM760) talked Broncos vs. Browns and other AFC West news. Listen to or podcast right here.781falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-121318--16461922https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16461922Thu, 13 Dec 2018 16:42:24 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes (CBS Sports) talked college football news and notes. Listen to our podcast right here!1393falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kyle-posey-121218--16454131https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16454131Wed, 12 Dec 2018 18:28:08 +0000Steven BortsteinKyle Posey covering the L.A. Chargers appeared with us this morning to preview Chargers vs. Chiefs. Listen to our chat right here.659falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-van-bibber-121218--16454132https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16454132Wed, 12 Dec 2018 18:27:47 +0000Steven BortsteinSB Nation NFL editor Ryan Van Bibber talked news and notes around the league. Listen to our exclusive podcast right here!1228falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/greg-peterson-121118--16443805https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16443805Tue, 11 Dec 2018 18:48:54 +0000Steven BortsteinCollege basketball insider Greg Peterson chatted up the latest headlines. Check out our podcast right here.588falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-121118--16443811https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16443811Tue, 11 Dec 2018 18:48:34 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong at Touchdown Wire recapped Week 14 action plus previewed Chargers vs. Chiefs. Listen in right here.1213falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tom-stone-121118--16443813https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16443813Tue, 11 Dec 2018 18:48:13 +0000Steven BortsteinAuthor Tom Stone talked up his new book "Now Taking The Plate". Listen to our chat right here!786falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-121118--16442184https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16442184Tue, 11 Dec 2018 15:30:55 +0000Steven BortsteinAnother edition of our newest segment of the show.... relationship advice, from the last person you'd expect to give that kind of advice. You'll understand when you hear it!296falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-121018--16433208https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16433208Mon, 10 Dec 2018 18:31:43 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh covers the NBA for us, and we'll hear his takes on Kevin Durant and more. Listen in right here.871falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-121018--16433206https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16433206Mon, 10 Dec 2018 18:31:23 +0000Steven BortsteinCollege football news on the docket with Jordan Buscarini from Castle Country Radio. Check out our podcast right here!1434falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jason-hirschhorn-120718--16411981https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16411981Fri, 07 Dec 2018 17:33:49 +0000Steven BortsteinGreen Bay Packers correspondent Jason Hirschhorn talks Mike McCarthy's firing and this weekend's matchup against the Falcons. Listen to our chat here.743falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-120718--16411731https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16411731Fri, 07 Dec 2018 17:03:19 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini predicts the Heisman race and chats Urban Meyer and more. Listen to our podcast right here.1046falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-van-bibber-120718--16411738https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16411738Fri, 07 Dec 2018 17:03:01 +0000Steven BortsteinSB Nation NFL editor Ryan Van Bibber talks Week 14 matchups and more. Check out our conversation right here.853falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-120718--16411501https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16411501Fri, 07 Dec 2018 16:31:31 +0000Steven BortsteinDallas Cowboys Radio Network sideline reporter Kristi Scales previews Dallas hosting Philadelphia. Listen to our chat right here.1021falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-120618--16402905https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16402905Thu, 06 Dec 2018 16:55:33 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (#NFLWire) talked Kareem Hunt, Green Bay Packers and more. Listen to our podcast right here.1142falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-120618--16402710https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16402710Thu, 06 Dec 2018 16:29:35 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (I Heart Radio, Orange and Blue AM760) updated the injury status of Emmanuel Sanders and previews this weekend's Broncos vs. 49ers game. Check out our podcast right here!890falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-120618--16402715https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16402715Thu, 06 Dec 2018 16:29:15 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes (CBS Sports) talks Pac-12 Football, including the hiring of Kliff Kingsbury at USC plus the latest on Urban Meyer. Listen in right here.1042falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-112918--16341489https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16341489Thu, 29 Nov 2018 16:20:14 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (Orange & Blue AM760) talked Broncos vs. Bengals and recapped last weekend's Denver win over Pittsburgh. Check out our conversation right here.833falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-112918--16341306https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16341306Thu, 29 Nov 2018 16:02:35 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes (CBS Sports) talked USC football as well as Rams vs. Lions. Listen in right here.1116falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lee-sterling-112918--16341027https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16341027Thu, 29 Nov 2018 15:29:50 +0000Steven BortsteinLee Sterling (Paramount Sports) offers up his best bets for the college and pro football weekend. Listen to his picks right here.781falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-van-bibber-112818--16332395https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16332395Wed, 28 Nov 2018 17:49:54 +0000Steven BortsteinSB Nation's NFL editor Ryan Van Bibber talked up some of the league's biggest headlines. Check out podcasts right here!1059falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-112818--16331751https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16331751Wed, 28 Nov 2018 16:45:10 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) recapped Tiger vs. Phil. Check out our chat at the link.901falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-112818--16331742https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16331742Wed, 28 Nov 2018 16:43:01 +0000Steven BortsteinKristi Scales of the Dallas Cowboys Radio Network previewed Dallas vs. New Orleans. Listen to our predictions and more right here.908falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wade-smith-112718--16322957https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16322957Tue, 27 Nov 2018 17:05:53 +0000Steven BortsteinWade Smith (I Heart Radio) previewed this weekend's college football conference championships. Check out our podcast right here.977falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/greg-peterson-112718--16322758https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16322758Tue, 27 Nov 2018 16:44:58 +0000Steven BortsteinGreg Peterson talked college basketball headlines with us. Listen in right here.798falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-112718--16322757https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16322757Tue, 27 Nov 2018 16:44:40 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (Touchdown Wire/USA Today) talked headlines around the NFL. Listen to our podcast right here.1119falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-112718--16322094https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16322094Tue, 27 Nov 2018 15:25:06 +0000Steven BortsteinWe’re entering our fifth month of this segment, and I’m fairly certain we’re doing more harm than good as it comes to saving actual relationships. That being said, hopefully those involved in somewhat troubled relationships are starting to make better...365falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-112618--16314323https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16314323Mon, 26 Nov 2018 17:46:02 +0000Steven BortsteinNBA insider Jamieson Welsh chatted with us this morning about the Clippers and the latest on Markelle Fultz. Listen in to our podcast right here.999falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-112618--16314320https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16314320Mon, 26 Nov 2018 17:45:44 +0000Steven BortsteinTalk show host/college football insider Jordan Buscarini chatted about last weekend's highlights and previews of this weekend's conference title games. Listen in right here.1613falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-112018--16268979https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16268979Tue, 20 Nov 2018 17:03:37 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (NFL Wire/USA Today) recapped last night's Monday Night Football epic and much more NFL news. Listen to our podcast right here.1277falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/greg-peterson-112018--16268984https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16268984Tue, 20 Nov 2018 17:03:18 +0000Steven BortsteinGreg Peterson (VSIN) chatted up Duke basketball and much more on this morning's show. Check it out right here.738falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-112018--16268184
I recently broke up with my girlfriend, who had been telling me things like “This isn’t working.” She was referring to things like not living close enough to each other to make getting together quick and easy, and that our financial and career situations are in very different places right now. When I broke up with her I thought she would basically agree it was the right thing to do, given her repeated complaints.

Instead, all she did was cry and screamed, and then tried to tell me that “this isn’t working,” was supposed to mean, “Just dating isn’t working so you should propose.”

I’m kind of ticked off right now because now I don’t know how to interpret what she was saying. Does the fact that I didn’t pick up on what she was saying mean I have problems reading people? Or does it mean she has problems with communicating, which is all the more reason that I was right to break up in the first place??

Signed,
This Isn’t Working]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16268184Tue, 20 Nov 2018 15:34:34 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I recently broke up with my girlfriend, who had been telling me things like “This isn’t working.” She was referring to things like not living close enough to each other to make getting together quick and easy, and that our financial and...
I recently broke up with my girlfriend, who had been telling me things like “This isn’t working.” She was referring to things like not living close enough to each other to make getting together quick and easy, and that our financial and career situations are in very different places right now. When I broke up with her I thought she would basically agree it was the right thing to do, given her repeated complaints.

Instead, all she did was cry and screamed, and then tried to tell me that “this isn’t working,” was supposed to mean, “Just dating isn’t working so you should propose.”

I’m kind of ticked off right now because now I don’t know how to interpret what she was saying. Does the fact that I didn’t pick up on what she was saying mean I have problems reading people? Or does it mean she has problems with communicating, which is all the more reason that I was right to break up in the first place??

Signed,
This Isn’t Working]]>318falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-111918--16260390
NBA insider Jamieson Welsh breaks down the latest on the Lakers, Warriors and more. Listen to our chat here.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16260390Mon, 19 Nov 2018 18:18:40 +0000Steven BortsteinCollege football chat with Jordan Buscarini (Castle Country Radio) can be found right here. NBA insider Jamieson Welsh breaks down the latest on the Lakers, Warriors and more. Listen to our chat here.
NBA insider Jamieson Welsh breaks down the latest on the Lakers, Warriors and more. Listen to our chat here.]]>1136falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-111918--16260389https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16260389Mon, 19 Nov 2018 18:18:20 +0000Steven BortsteinNBA insider Jamieson Welsh breaks down the latest on the Lakers, Warriors and more. Listen to our chat here.986falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lee-sterling-111618--16240514https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16240514Fri, 16 Nov 2018 18:59:57 +0000Steven BortsteinTalked with Lee Sterling about this weekend's football best bets from Paramount Sports. Listen to our chat right here.821falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-111618--16240517https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16240517Fri, 16 Nov 2018 18:59:16 +0000Steven BortsteinAlso, talked with Lee Sterling about this weekend's football best bets from Paramount Sports. Listen to our chat right here.681falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-111518--16230475https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16230475Thu, 15 Nov 2018 17:02:37 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (Orange & Blue AM760) previewed this Sunday's game between the Broncos and Chargers. Listen to our preview right here.783falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-111518--16230330https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16230330Thu, 15 Nov 2018 16:47:33 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes (CBS Sports) talked up USC vs UCLA and much more. Listen to our podcast right here.1155falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-van-bibber-111418--16218596https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16218596Wed, 14 Nov 2018 17:07:20 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Van Bibber (SB Nation NFL) talked NFL news and previewed Week 11 matchups. Check out the podcast right here.947falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-111418--16218560https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16218560Wed, 14 Nov 2018 17:06:51 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) previewed Tiger vs. Phil's pay-per-view extravaganza. Listen to our preview right here.743falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/john-feinstein-111418--16218563https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16218563Wed, 14 Nov 2018 17:06:09 +0000Steven BortsteinBest selling author of "Quarterback", John Feinstein talked about his new book. Check out our podcast right here.841falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-111318--16209660https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16209660Tue, 13 Nov 2018 18:16:16 +0000Steven BortsteinPaul West (P Dubs Sports Hub) and I chat about the MLB Awards. Check in with our predictions and free agent news right here.1608falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-111318--16208307https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16208307Tue, 13 Nov 2018 16:42:27 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (USA Today Sports Media Group) chats up NFL news. Listen to our podcast right here.1297falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-111318--16207450
That said, it’s time for another edition of Crazy Good Advice.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16207450Tue, 13 Nov 2018 15:19:26 +0000Steven BortsteinWe’re entering our fifth month of this segment, and I’m fairly certain we’re doing more harm than good as it comes to saving actual relationships. That being said, hopefully those involved in somewhat troubled relationships are starting to make better...
That said, it’s time for another edition of Crazy Good Advice.]]>377falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-111218--16199191https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16199191Mon, 12 Nov 2018 16:50:43 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini covers a busy time in college football with us. Listen to our chat right here.1056falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-111218--16199170https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16199170Mon, 12 Nov 2018 16:50:03 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh talked NBA news and notes with us this morning. Listen to our podcast right here.1174falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-110918--16180191https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16180191Fri, 09 Nov 2018 18:36:10 +0000Steven BortsteinKristi Scales of the Dallas Cowboys Radio Network, previewing Dallas at Philadelphia. Listen to the podcast right here.721falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lee-sterling-110918--16180189https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16180189Fri, 09 Nov 2018 18:35:49 +0000Steven BortsteinLee Sterling from Paramount Sports with best bets in college football and the NFL. Check them out right here.801falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-van-bibber-110818--16169652https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16169652Thu, 08 Nov 2018 17:04:04 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Van Bibber (SB Nation NFL) previewed Steelers vs. Panthers and talked about Dez Bryant going to the Saints. Listen in right here.1115falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-110818--16169569https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16169569Thu, 08 Nov 2018 17:03:44 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (Orange & Blue AM760) talked "State of the Broncos" heading into the bye week. Listen to our chat right here.803falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-110818--16169566https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16169566Thu, 08 Nov 2018 17:03:25 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes (CBS Sports) talked NASCAR, college football and NFL news. Listen to our podcast from this morning's show.1154falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-110718--16160380https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16160380Wed, 07 Nov 2018 18:22:37 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) talks pay per view matchups and rules news. Listen to our podcast right here.763falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/glenn-erby-110718--16160377https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16160377Wed, 07 Nov 2018 18:22:04 +0000Steven BortsteinGlenn Erby (Eagles Wire) previews Sunday night's Eagles matchup vs. the Cowboys. Hear our chat right here.548falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-110718--16160376https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16160376Wed, 07 Nov 2018 18:20:30 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (Steelers Wire) talked NFL news and notes and previewed tomorrow night's Steelers vs. Panthers game. Listen in right here.1251falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-110618--16151248https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16151248Tue, 06 Nov 2018 18:13:29 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Castle Country Radio) covering last weekend's college football highlights. Listen to podcasts right here.1462falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/greg-peterson-110618--16150500https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16150500Tue, 06 Nov 2018 16:53:22 +0000Steven BortsteinGreg Peterson (VSIN) covering tonight's big college basketball doubleheader. Listen to our preview right here.866falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-110618--16149927
I recently started dating a woman but this is all kind of uncharted territory for me. In addition to being new to this area, I never really entered a serious relationship before. I was a bit of a love ‘em and leave ‘em guy, so the idea of being involved with someone on a more personal level scares me. I know she’s been involved with other men in the past, so what should I expect when this conversation comes up?

Signed,
Walking Gently]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16149927Tue, 06 Nov 2018 15:22:08 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I recently started dating a woman but this is all kind of uncharted territory for me. In addition to being new to this area, I never really entered a serious relationship before. I was a bit of a love ‘em and leave ‘em guy, so the idea of...
I recently started dating a woman but this is all kind of uncharted territory for me. In addition to being new to this area, I never really entered a serious relationship before. I was a bit of a love ‘em and leave ‘em guy, so the idea of being involved with someone on a more personal level scares me. I know she’s been involved with other men in the past, so what should I expect when this conversation comes up?

Signed,
Walking Gently]]>322falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kevin-kerstein-110518--16141089https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16141089Mon, 05 Nov 2018 17:01:55 +0000Steven BortsteinKevin Kerstein recapped last weekend's Breeders' Cup. Check out the podcast right here!919falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-110518--16140421https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16140421Mon, 05 Nov 2018 15:42:06 +0000Steven BortsteinKristi Scales previews Cowboys vs. Titans. Listen in right here.781falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-110518--16140275https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16140275Mon, 05 Nov 2018 15:21:45 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh talked Lakers and NBA news and notes. Listen to our chat right here.919falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kevin-kerstein-110218--16120741https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16120741Fri, 02 Nov 2018 17:35:59 +0000Steven BortsteinKevin Kerstein has news and notes on this weekend's Breeders' Cup live from Churchill Downs. Check out our podcast right here.787falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lee-sterling-110218--16119935https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16119935Fri, 02 Nov 2018 16:01:41 +0000Steven BortsteinBest bets in college and pro football are on the agenda with Paramount Sports' Lee Sterling. Check them out right here!841falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-110118--16111388https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16111388Thu, 01 Nov 2018 16:06:41 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (Orange & Blue AM760) talks Broncos vs. Texans and more. Listen in right here.782falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-110118--16111375https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16111375Thu, 01 Nov 2018 16:06:16 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes and I take a last look at the Dodgers losing the World Series, as well as talk USC football and the L.A. Rams matchup this weekend against New Orleans. Check out our podcast right here.1373falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jarrod-horak-110118--16111371https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16111371Thu, 01 Nov 2018 16:05:46 +0000Steven BortsteinJarrod Horak (Todays Racing Digest) preview this weekend's Breeders Cup at Churchill Downs. Listen to our best bets and previews right here.830falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chip-gehrke-103118--16103873https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16103873Wed, 31 Oct 2018 17:32:15 +0000Steven BortsteinChip Gehrke (Horse Racing Nation) previews this weekend's Breeders' Cup and offers up a couple best bets for the weekend festivities at Churchill Downs. Check out our coverage right here.922falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wade-smith-103118--16103889https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16103889Wed, 31 Oct 2018 17:31:45 +0000Steven BortsteinWade Smith (I Heart Radio, Alabama) previews Alabama at LSU and talks college football news. Listen to our chat right here.897falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-van-bibber-103118--16103884https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16103884Wed, 31 Oct 2018 17:31:19 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Van Bibber (SB Nation NFL) talked NFL trade deadline news and the latest on the Cleveland Browns. Check out our podcast right here.1174falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-103018--16093246https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16093246Tue, 30 Oct 2018 17:15:52 +0000Steven BortsteinRecapping the World Series and what's next for the Red Sox and the Dodgers with Paul West (P Dub's Sports Hub). Check out our podcast right here.1476falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-103018--16092112https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16092112Tue, 30 Oct 2018 15:01:46 +0000Steven BortsteinTalking NFL news and notes with Neal Coolong (Steelers Wire). Listen to our chat right here.1135falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-103018--16091871https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16091871Tue, 30 Oct 2018 14:27:52 +0000Steven BortsteinWe’re entering our fourth month of this segment, and now it’s become more of a regular segment than I ever imagined. What’s still surprising to me is how much it’s grown. What started as what I have to believe was a mistake has turned into a routine...441falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-102918--16083501https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16083501Mon, 29 Oct 2018 16:48:35 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh talking NBA news and notes, including the firing of Cavs head coach Tyronn Lue. Check out our podcast right here.1345falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-102918--16083498https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16083498Mon, 29 Oct 2018 16:48:23 +0000Steven BortsteinCheck out podcasts with Jordan Buscarini (Castle Country Radio) covering college football. Listen to our podcast right here.632falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jed-rigney-102618--16063604https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16063604Fri, 26 Oct 2018 16:04:10 +0000Steven BortsteinJed Rigney from Foul Territory Baseball previews tonight's Game 3 of the World Series and explains whether analytics are killing the Dodgers in the series. Listen to our discussion right here.961falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lee-sterling-102618--16063278https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16063278Fri, 26 Oct 2018 15:26:17 +0000Steven BortsteinParamount Sports' Lee Sterling has your best bets in college football and the NFL this weekend. Listen in right here.809falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-102618--16062983https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16062983Fri, 26 Oct 2018 14:46:46 +0000Steven BortsteinDallas Cowboys Radio Network sideline reporter Kristi Scales talked about last week's game as well as the Amari Cooper and headlines during the bye week. Listen to our chat right here.794falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-102518--16053669https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16053669Thu, 25 Oct 2018 17:42:37 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes (CBS Sports) talked Dodgers baseball and USC football. Listen to our podcast right here.1261falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-102518--16053666https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16053666Thu, 25 Oct 2018 17:42:18 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (Orange & Blue AM760) talked Broncos vs. Chiefs as well as other Broncos news. Check out our podcast right here.751falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-van-bibber-10258--16053664https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16053664Thu, 25 Oct 2018 17:42:06 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Van Bibber (SB Nation NFL) chatted Week 8 previews and NFL news. Listen in right here.886falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-102418--16043097https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16043097Wed, 24 Oct 2018 17:49:38 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (Steelers Wire, USA Today Sports Media Group) talked NFL news and previews of Week 8 matchups. Listen to our podcast right here.1127falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-102418--16043095https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16043095Wed, 24 Oct 2018 17:49:24 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Castle Country Radio) talked college football on this morning's show. You can hear our discussion right here.1229falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-101818--15995068https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15995068Thu, 18 Oct 2018 16:44:00 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes, talking L.A. Dodgers playoffs and the opening of the Lakers season. Listen to our podcast right here.1161falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-101818--15994633https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15994633Thu, 18 Oct 2018 16:07:06 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (Orange & Blue AM760) talks Broncos football ahead of tonight's matchup with the Cardinals. Listen in right here.721falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lee-sterling-101818--15993818https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15993818Thu, 18 Oct 2018 14:40:26 +0000Steven BortsteinLee Sterling (Paramount Sports) has his best bets in college football and the NFL. Listen in right here.801falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jon-sumple-jed-rigney-101718--15986334https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15986334Wed, 17 Oct 2018 17:17:44 +0000Steven BortsteinJed Rigney and Jon Sumple from Four Territory Baseball chatted up all the storylines coming out of last night's Game 4 of the NLCS. You can hear our chat right here.989falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-101718--15985236https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15985236Wed, 17 Oct 2018 15:55:58 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) has all the latest news in the world of golf. Catch the podcast right here.775falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-101718--15985238https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15985238Wed, 17 Oct 2018 15:55:27 +0000Steven BortsteinKristi Scales (Dallas Cowboys Radio Network) recaps a big win over Jacksonville and previews this weekend against Washington. Listen to our chat right here.683falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-van-bibber-101718--15985241https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15985241Wed, 17 Oct 2018 15:55:02 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Van Bibber (SB Nation NFL) talks NY Giants drama and Week 7 previews. Listen to our chat right here.790falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-101618--15977531https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15977531Tue, 16 Oct 2018 17:35:56 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (SteelersWire.com) chatted NFL news this morning. Check out the podcast right here.971falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-101618--15976546https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15976546Tue, 16 Oct 2018 16:06:13 +0000Steven BortsteinPaul West (PDubsSportsHub.com) talked MLB Postseason news and notes. Listen to our podcast here.1222falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-101618--15975855
All that said, it’s time for another edition of Crazy Good Advice.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15975855Tue, 16 Oct 2018 14:26:12 +0000Steven BortsteinWe’re entering our fourth month of this segment, and now it’s become more of a regular segment than I ever imagined. What’s still surprising to me is how much it’s grown. What started as what I have to believe was a mistake has turned into a routine...
All that said, it’s time for another edition of Crazy Good Advice.]]>321falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-101518--15966401https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15966401Mon, 15 Oct 2018 16:06:46 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini, (Drive Time Sports) covering college football, spoke with us this morning. Check out our chat right here.1321falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-101518--15966229https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15966229Mon, 15 Oct 2018 15:53:23 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh, covering the NBA, joined us this morning. Listen in right here.1330falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/eric-stephen-101218--15946832https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15946832Fri, 12 Oct 2018 17:45:35 +0000Steven BortsteinEric Stephen (True Blue LA) previewing the National League Championship Series. Check out our analysis right here.1034falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lee-sterling-101218--15946074https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15946074Fri, 12 Oct 2018 16:06:38 +0000Steven BortsteinLee Sterling (Paramount Sports) offers up college football and NFL best bets. Listen in right here.788falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-101218--15946067https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15946067Fri, 12 Oct 2018 16:06:11 +0000Steven BortsteinKristi Scales (Dallas Cowboys Radio Network) previews Cowboys vs. Jaguars. Listen to our chat from this morning's show right here.938falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-van-bibber-101118--15937349https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15937349Thu, 11 Oct 2018 16:02:10 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Van Bibber (SB Nation) caught us up with NFL news and notes. You can hear all about it here.846falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-101118--15937035https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15937035Thu, 11 Oct 2018 16:01:53 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes talked USC vs Colorado and more. Check out our conversation right here.1429falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-101118--15937037https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15937037Thu, 11 Oct 2018 16:01:39 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (Orange & Blue AM760) talked Broncos vs. Rams. Listen to our preview right here.735falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/glenn-erby-101018--15928645https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15928645Wed, 10 Oct 2018 16:25:27 +0000Steven BortsteinChatted this morning with Glenn Erby (The Eagles Wire) previewed Thursday Night Football between Philadelphia and the New York Giants. Check out the podcast right here.771falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-100918--15918391https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15918391Tue, 09 Oct 2018 17:40:34 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong, covering the NFL for USA Today Sports Media Network, joined us on the show. Listen to our Week 5 wrapup right here.1130falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-100918--15918389https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15918389Tue, 09 Oct 2018 17:40:15 +0000Steven BortsteinPaul West of P Dub's Sports Hub, talked MLB playoffs with us. Check out our podcast right here.1262falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-100918--15916939
My wife and I have been married for 6 years now. We have a 6 year old daughter together. A few weeks ago, during a meet the teacher event at a local school, I was stunned to find out that her teacher is my ex-fiancé. We were together for about 10 years, and our break up wasn’t exactly smooth. She looked just as stunned to see me but didn’t say anything. My question is this. Do I say anything to my wife. I know the automatic answer is yes, however my wife can be really “jealous” and she doesn’t know I’ve been engaged before. I keep going back and forth, and keep coming back to not saying anything, and hoping my ex can be professional enough that I can leave it in the past.

Signed,
Schooled]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15916939Tue, 09 Oct 2018 14:39:35 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, My wife and I have been married for 6 years now. We have a 6 year old daughter together. A few weeks ago, during a meet the teacher event at a local school, I was stunned to find out that her teacher is my ex-fiancé. We were together for...
My wife and I have been married for 6 years now. We have a 6 year old daughter together. A few weeks ago, during a meet the teacher event at a local school, I was stunned to find out that her teacher is my ex-fiancé. We were together for about 10 years, and our break up wasn’t exactly smooth. She looked just as stunned to see me but didn’t say anything. My question is this. Do I say anything to my wife. I know the automatic answer is yes, however my wife can be really “jealous” and she doesn’t know I’ve been engaged before. I keep going back and forth, and keep coming back to not saying anything, and hoping my ex can be professional enough that I can leave it in the past.

Signed,
Schooled]]>358falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-100818--15909588https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15909588Mon, 08 Oct 2018 18:09:48 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini recapped a busy weekend in college football. Check out our conversation right here!1059falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/larry-pepe-100818--15907515https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15907515Mon, 08 Oct 2018 14:01:52 +0000Steven BortsteinLarry Pepe gave us a recap on Khabib vs. Conor. Hear all about it right here.1329falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-100518--15889245https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15889245Fri, 05 Oct 2018 17:24:37 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards of Orange & Blue AM760 previews Denver vs. the New York Jets. Check our analysis right here.823falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-100518--15888571https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15888571Fri, 05 Oct 2018 16:05:01 +0000Steven BortsteinKristi Scales of the Cowboys Radio Network previews Dallas vs. Houston. Listen to our chat right here.963falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lee-sterling-100518--15888566https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15888566Fri, 05 Oct 2018 16:04:50 +0000Steven BortsteinLee Sterling with Paramount Sports has best bets in the NFL and in college football. Check them out right here.857falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-100418--15879283https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15879283Thu, 04 Oct 2018 15:45:05 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes, talking Rams and USC football. You can hear it all right here.1249falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lake-lewis-100418--15879264https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15879264Thu, 04 Oct 2018 15:44:44 +0000Steven BortsteinLake Lewis (SportsJourney.com), talked Redskins football and previewed Monday Night Football vs. the Saints. Listen to our chat right here.794falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/larry-pepe-100418--15879257https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15879257Thu, 04 Oct 2018 15:44:32 +0000Steven BortsteinLarry Pepe, previewing UFC229, joined us this morning. Listen to our exclusive preview right here.1404falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-van-bibber-100318--15870472https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15870472Wed, 03 Oct 2018 16:07:59 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Van Bibber (SB Nation NFL) and I talked up NFL news and notes. Listen to our chat right here.793falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/henry-mckenna-100318--15870299https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15870299Wed, 03 Oct 2018 15:54:05 +0000Steven BortsteinHenry McKenna (Patriots Wire) and I recapped last weekend's NE victory over Miami and previews Thursday Night Football vs. Indianapolis. Listen in right here.903falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-100318--15870295https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15870295Wed, 03 Oct 2018 15:53:42 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) recapped the Ryder Cup on this morning's show. Take a listen to our chat right here.754falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-100218--15862577https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15862577Tue, 02 Oct 2018 18:26:59 +0000Steven BortsteinPaul West (P Dub's Sports Hub) previewed this week's MLB Playoffs matchups. Listen in right here.1590falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-100218--15862579https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15862579Tue, 02 Oct 2018 18:26:31 +0000Steven BortsteinChatted with Neal Coolong (USA Today Sports Media) on NFL news and notes. Listen in right here.1221falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-100218--15861517
I’m a married woman with a young son. I recently got in touch with my first ex. I met him 20 years ago and for some reason we didn't become much closer and it has always been a void in my heart.

Recently we got in touch again, exchanging photos and started to have conversations. And the connection just got deeper and deeper. He is married with kids as well.

He talked about meeting up and I know it is the wrong thing to do. I tried two times to tell him we cannot meet and we should talk less. But somehow, we couldn't resist talking to each other.

I tried to work with my husband by communicating more. We even tried some therapy to learn better skills. But I still feel there is a distance or wall between us. My husband is a very loving father, but he cares for his son the most and sometimes I feel very lonely since we do not talk much.

He is also an alcoholic who needs his wine every night. I tried to persuade him to drink less and maybe we could go on a date. We haven’t had any intimacy for 2 years (ever since my son was born).

So my heart is torn. One part of me wants to meet him and see if there is attraction between us. Another part of me knows this is a very bad thing to do and I ought to stop.

Signed,
Distracted]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15861517Tue, 02 Oct 2018 16:08:34 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I’m a married woman with a young son. I recently got in touch with my first ex. I met him 20 years ago and for some reason we didn't become much closer and it has always been a void in my heart. Recently we got in touch again, exchanging...
I’m a married woman with a young son. I recently got in touch with my first ex. I met him 20 years ago and for some reason we didn't become much closer and it has always been a void in my heart.

Recently we got in touch again, exchanging photos and started to have conversations. And the connection just got deeper and deeper. He is married with kids as well.

He talked about meeting up and I know it is the wrong thing to do. I tried two times to tell him we cannot meet and we should talk less. But somehow, we couldn't resist talking to each other.

I tried to work with my husband by communicating more. We even tried some therapy to learn better skills. But I still feel there is a distance or wall between us. My husband is a very loving father, but he cares for his son the most and sometimes I feel very lonely since we do not talk much.

He is also an alcoholic who needs his wine every night. I tried to persuade him to drink less and maybe we could go on a date. We haven’t had any intimacy for 2 years (ever since my son was born).

So my heart is torn. One part of me wants to meet him and see if there is attraction between us. Another part of me knows this is a very bad thing to do and I ought to stop.

Signed,
Distracted]]>307falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-100118--15853502https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15853502Mon, 01 Oct 2018 17:21:16 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Castle Country Radio) and I broke down last weekend in college football. Listen in right here.1254falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-100118--15852764https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15852764Mon, 01 Oct 2018 15:42:08 +0000Steven BortsteinWe chatted with Ryan Edwards (Orange & Blue AM760), previewing tonight's Monday Night Football matchup between the Broncos and Chiefs. Hear our talk right here.785falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ian-oconnor-100118--15852265https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15852265Mon, 01 Oct 2018 14:36:47 +0000Steven BortsteinIan O'Connor, author of the book "Belichick", talked about the book and the latest on the New England Patriots. Listen to our chat right here.690falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-092818--15832875https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15832875Fri, 28 Sep 2018 17:35:53 +0000Steven BortsteinKristi Scales (Dallas Cowboys Radio) previews Cowboys vs. Detroit Lions. Hear our chat right here.808falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/antwan-staley-092818--15832873https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15832873Fri, 28 Sep 2018 17:35:30 +0000Steven BortsteinAntwan Staley (Dolphins Wire) previews Miami vs. New England. You can hear our discussion right here.601falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lee-sterling-092818--15832872https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15832872Fri, 28 Sep 2018 17:35:07 +0000Steven BortsteinLee Sterling (Paramount Sports) offers college football and NFL best bets. Listen to our chat right here.842falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/terry-johnson-092718--15823084https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15823084Thu, 27 Sep 2018 17:51:29 +0000Steven BortsteinTerry Johnson (Buckeye Wire) previewed this weekend's Ohio State vs. Penn State game. Check out our conversation right here.805falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-092718--15823081https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15823081Thu, 27 Sep 2018 17:51:08 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes talked up Chargers and Rams football as well as NASCAR. Check out our conversation.1288falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-van-bibber-092718--15823079https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15823079Thu, 27 Sep 2018 17:50:45 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Van Bibber (SB Nation NFL) talked up NFL news and notes, also previewed tonight's game as well as Monday Night Football. Listen in to our chat right here.828falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-092618--15812805https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15812805Wed, 26 Sep 2018 16:49:06 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) talked up Tiger Woods' victory in the TOUR Championship as well as previewed this week's Ryder Cup. Hear all about it right here.661falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/cameron-da-silva-092518--15812803https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15812803Wed, 26 Sep 2018 16:48:31 +0000Steven BortsteinCameron Da Silva (The Rams Wire) previewed Thursday Night Football. Listen to our chat right here.862falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-092518--15804499https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15804499Tue, 25 Sep 2018 17:55:08 +0000Steven BortsteinPaul West (PDub's Sports Hub) talked MLB pennant races on this morning's show. Check out our chat right here.1852falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-092518--15804498https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15804498Tue, 25 Sep 2018 17:54:42 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (Steelers Wire) recapped Monday Night Football and chatted up NFL news and notes. Listen to our discussion right here.1344falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-092518--15804445
Kids can be an excuse to get out of anything. Sorry to tell people that, but it’s true. If you’re a divorced man who’s always breaking plans because your kid is sick or getting an award, has a game or whatever else it is… You’re essentially telling the other person that they’re not a priority...]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15804445Tue, 25 Sep 2018 17:48:06 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, Kids can be an excuse to get out of anything. Sorry to tell people that, but it’s true. If you’re a divorced man who’s always breaking plans because your kid is sick or getting an award, has a game or whatever else it is… You’re...
Kids can be an excuse to get out of anything. Sorry to tell people that, but it’s true. If you’re a divorced man who’s always breaking plans because your kid is sick or getting an award, has a game or whatever else it is… You’re essentially telling the other person that they’re not a priority...]]>289falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-092418--15796214https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15796214Mon, 24 Sep 2018 17:56:14 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini and I spent time this morning recapping a buys weekend in college football. Check out our podcast right here.1142falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jamieson-welsh-092418--15796212https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15796212Mon, 24 Sep 2018 17:55:56 +0000Steven BortsteinJamieson Welsh and I took some time talking NBA preseason news and notes. Listen to our podcast right here.1004falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-092118--15775619https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15775619Fri, 21 Sep 2018 17:00:03 +0000Steven BortsteinKristi Scales (Dallas Cowboys Radio) recaps Dallas beating the Giants and previews this weekend's matchup with the Seattle Seahawks. Listen to our chat right here.940falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lee-sterling-092118--15775620https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15775620Fri, 21 Sep 2018 16:59:41 +0000Steven BortsteinLee Sterling (Paramount Sports) offered up college football and NFL best best for this weekend. Listen to our podcast right here.688falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-092018--15765791https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15765791Thu, 20 Sep 2018 16:56:53 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes, talking college football and much more. Listen to the podcast right here.1216falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-092018--15765790https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15765790Thu, 20 Sep 2018 16:56:35 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (Orange & Blue AM760), covers the Broncos and previews this weekend's road trip to Baltimore. Check out our breakdown right here.745falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-van-bibber-092018--15765788https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15765788Thu, 20 Sep 2018 16:56:11 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Van Bibber (SB Nation NFL) talks Antonio Brown, Vontae Davis and more NFL news, plus previews tonight's Jets-Browns game. Listen to our chat right here.1004falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jeff-risdon-091918--15756913https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15756913Wed, 19 Sep 2018 17:22:33 +0000Steven BortsteinJeff Risdon (The Browns Wire) previews tomorrow night against the NY Jets. Check out our conversation at the link.866falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-091918--15756914https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15756914Wed, 19 Sep 2018 17:22:12 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) talked new PGA Tour rules and this weekend's Tour Championship. Listen in to our discussion right here.927falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/evan-winter-091918--15756915https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15756915Wed, 19 Sep 2018 17:21:49 +0000Steven BortsteinEvan Winter (Bucs Nation) on the Buccaneers, Ryan Fitzpatrick and a preview of Monday Night Football against Pittsburgh. Hear it all right here.851falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-091818--15746843https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15746843Tue, 18 Sep 2018 15:31:27 +0000Steven BortsteinToday, we caught up on NFL headlines with Neal Coolong (Steelers Wire, USA Today Sports Media Group). Check out our chat right here.1578falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-091818--15746232https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15746232Tue, 18 Sep 2018 14:34:27 +0000Steven BortsteinHere's another relationship advice session.... this time, we're dealing with an issue of pet adoption when in the middle of a relationship...389falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-091718--15738196https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15738196Mon, 17 Sep 2018 16:53:51 +0000Steven BortsteinChatted this morning with Jordan Buscarini (Castle Country Radio), recapping college football and Canelo Alvarez' victory over GGG.1539falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lee-sterling-091418--15718412https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15718412Fri, 14 Sep 2018 16:42:31 +0000Steven BortsteinLee Sterling (Paramount Sports) offers up best bets in college and pro football. Check here for our discussion.735falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-091418--15718415https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15718415Fri, 14 Sep 2018 16:42:12 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (Orange & Blue AM760) previews Broncos vs. Raiders. Listen to our chat right here.768falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-091418--15718410https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15718410Fri, 14 Sep 2018 16:41:54 +0000Steven BortsteinKristi Scales (Dallas Cowboys Radio) previews Cowboys vs. Giants. Click the link for the podcast.888falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/marcus-mosher-091318--15710111https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15710111Thu, 13 Sep 2018 16:44:39 +0000Steven BortsteinMarcus Mosher (The Raiders Wire) previews Raiders vs. Broncos. Listen in right here.645falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-091318--15710115https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15710115Thu, 13 Sep 2018 16:44:19 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes talks USC vs. Texas and Rams/Raiders storylines. You can hear our discussion right here.1220falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-091318--15710473https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15710473Thu, 13 Sep 2018 16:43:57 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini (Castle Country Radio), covering Canelo vs. GGG. Check out our interview right here.1160falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/fox-flush-091318--15709360https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15709360Thu, 13 Sep 2018 14:54:54 +0000Steven BortsteinWith Week 1 in the books, we "flush" two teams each week from contention in that season's upcoming Super Bowl. Find out who we flushed right here.229falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-van-bibber-091218--15701098https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15701098Wed, 12 Sep 2018 16:35:21 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Van Bibber (SB Nation NFL) recaps a wild opening weekend and previews top storylines for this weekend. Click here for the podcast.1094falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-091218--15701086https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15701086Wed, 12 Sep 2018 16:33:11 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) talks Fed Ex Cup Championship news. Listen to our chat right here.879falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/matt-stevens-091218--15701088https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15701088Wed, 12 Sep 2018 16:32:53 +0000Steven BortsteinMatt Stevens (The Ravens Wire) previews tomorrow night's Baltimore vs. Cincinnati game. Check out our preview right here.995falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/eddie-dominguez-091118--15691993https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15691993Tue, 11 Sep 2018 16:33:04 +0000Steven BortsteinAuthor Eddie Dominguez (The Baseball Cop) talked about his newest release. You can hear all about it right here.1067falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/paul-west-091118--15691990https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15691990Tue, 11 Sep 2018 16:32:44 +0000Steven BortsteinPaul West (P Dub's Sports Hub) chatted MLB pennant races with us. Get the latest right here.1319falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neal-coolong-091118--15691985https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15691985Tue, 11 Sep 2018 16:32:20 +0000Steven BortsteinNeal Coolong (The Steelers Wire) recapped the opening week of the NFL season. Click the link for our recap.910falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-091118--15691927
I have been talking to a guy since February (I’ve known him for over a year). He texts me basically texts me all day long every single day. We have hung out a few times and we did get intimate a couple times.
I have asked him what I mean to him but he completely dodges the question yet continues to text me every day. Another issue is that he’s busy almost every single weekend and we don’t see each other too often.
Am I rushing this as we have only been talking for about two months? Should I just keep it cool for a little bit? I don’t want to scare him off, but I don’t know how to proceed. I do like him and can potentially see myself with him!

Signed,
Nothing But A Text Thing]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15691927Tue, 11 Sep 2018 16:28:28 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, I have been talking to a guy since February (I’ve known him for over a year). He texts me basically texts me all day long every single day. We have hung out a few times and we did get intimate a couple times. I have asked him what I...
I have been talking to a guy since February (I’ve known him for over a year). He texts me basically texts me all day long every single day. We have hung out a few times and we did get intimate a couple times.
I have asked him what I mean to him but he completely dodges the question yet continues to text me every day. Another issue is that he’s busy almost every single weekend and we don’t see each other too often.
Am I rushing this as we have only been talking for about two months? Should I just keep it cool for a little bit? I don’t want to scare him off, but I don’t know how to proceed. I do like him and can potentially see myself with him!

Signed,
Nothing But A Text Thing]]>296falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/cameron-da-silva-091018--15684245https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15684245Mon, 10 Sep 2018 16:56:34 +0000Steven BortsteinCameron Da Silva of The Rams Wire, previewed Rams vs. Raiders tonight. Hear all about it right here.669falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jordan-buscarini-091018--15684240https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15684240Mon, 10 Sep 2018 16:56:13 +0000Steven BortsteinJordan Buscarini of Castle Country Radio, wrapping up a busy weekend of college football. Listen to our discussion right here.1241falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/matt-zemek-091018--15684237https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15684237Mon, 10 Sep 2018 16:55:49 +0000Steven BortsteinMatt Zemek of Tennis Accent, covering the U.S. Open womens' finals, talked about the Serena Williams "meltdown". Hear our chat right here.1394falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bday-tribute--15683296https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15683296Mon, 10 Sep 2018 14:36:51 +0000Steven BortsteinDanielle's birthday tribute133falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kristi-scales-090718--15665305https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15665305Fri, 07 Sep 2018 17:24:18 +0000Steven BortsteinKristi Scales (Dallas Cowboys Radio) previews the season opener against the Carolina Panthers. Listen to our chat right here.1098falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lee-sterling-090718--15665307https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15665307Fri, 07 Sep 2018 17:23:57 +0000Steven BortsteinLee Sterling (Paramount Sports) has NFL and college football best bets. Check them out right here.830falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chuck-hayes-090618--15656819https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15656819Thu, 06 Sep 2018 17:35:13 +0000Steven BortsteinChuck Hayes (Southern Cal) previews USC vs. Stanford, UCLA vs. Oklahoma and more. Catch the interview right here.1043falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-van-bibber-090618--15656822https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15656822Thu, 06 Sep 2018 17:34:49 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Van Bibber (SB Nation NFL) talks LeVeon Bell, Nike and previews this weekend's highlight games. Listen to our chat right here.1016falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-edwards-090618--15656825https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15656825Thu, 06 Sep 2018 17:34:29 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Edwards (Orange & Blue AM760) previews Sunday's Broncos vs. Seahawks season opener. Check out our predictions and analysis right here.673falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jacob-infante-080518--15648582https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15648582Wed, 05 Sep 2018 16:48:35 +0000Steven BortsteinJacob Infante (Windy City Gridiron) previews Bears vs. Packers and the addition of Khalil Mack. Listen to the podcast right here.773falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ryan-ballengee-090518--15648580https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15648580Wed, 05 Sep 2018 16:48:12 +0000Steven BortsteinRyan Ballengee (Golf News Net) talks FedEx Cup Playoffs and U.S. Ryder Cup add-ons. Listen to our chat right here.841falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/scott-carasik-090518--15648573https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15648573Wed, 05 Sep 2018 16:48:02 +0000Steven BortsteinScott Carasik (The Falcons Wire) previews Atlanta vs. Philadelphia. Click here to listen to the podcast.677falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crazy-good-advice-090418--15640902
My girlfriend of 5 months broke up with me this week but for some reason I feel differently about this one than my previous ones. Maybe I’ve grown up.
Long story short, I work a lot and I have expensive taste so I spend a bit of money on things which makes me motivated to work hard and in turn I lost someone that meant a lot to me.
I’m used to it. I lost another great girl years ago for the same reason. No fights no cheating, just my indirect ignorance of how valuable our time together was.
She had me take some silly relationship test from an online thing… my result was that I spend too much time worrying what people think of me. It’s true. I lost the person that thought most of me because of my worry of others. The epitome of excuses. I want success, status, and respect because I watched too many movies and read too many articles. I’m back to being alone and I’m not mad at her for it because she’s right. I hope she finds what she’s looking for. I wish it was me.
Am I wrong to want these things, or is it wrong of me to pursue what makes me happy, even if it ultimately means I wind up alone more often than not?

Signed,
The BreakUp King]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15640902Tue, 04 Sep 2018 19:56:25 +0000Steven BortsteinDear Steve, My girlfriend of 5 months broke up with me this week but for some reason I feel differently about this one than my previous ones. Maybe I’ve grown up. Long story short, I work a lot and I have expensive taste so I spend a bit of money...
My girlfriend of 5 months broke up with me this week but for some reason I feel differently about this one than my previous ones. Maybe I’ve grown up.
Long story short, I work a lot and I have expensive taste so I spend a bit of money on things which makes me motivated to work hard and in turn I lost someone that meant a lot to me.
I’m used to it. I lost another great girl years ago for the same reason. No fights no cheating, just my indirect ignorance of how valuable our time together was.
She had me take some silly relationship test from an online thing… my result was that I spend too much time worrying what people think of me. It’s true. I lost the person that thought most of me because of my worry of others. The epitome of excuses. I want success, status, and respect because I watched too many movies and read too many articles. I’m back to being alone and I’m not mad at her for it because she’s right. I hope she finds what she’s looking for. I wish it was me.
Am I wrong to want these things, or is it wrong of me to pursue what makes me happy, even if it ultimately means I wind up alone more often than not?

Signed,
The BreakUp King]]>352falsefull