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As BDSM has become more mainstream it is important that people become informed and educated about truth of the BDSM community instead of letting inaccurate books and movies shape minds, opinions, and lifestyles in a way that is both incorrect and unhealthy. Myself and guests, from porn stars to pastors, will dive deep into all sides of the lifestyle to paint an accurate, informed, and unbiased picture of BDSM and the surprising truth behind the psychology of participants.]]>enSexualityCopyright Kuldrin Entertainment LLChttps://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3edd7cfa15b5960638bb4ac32fbd9e5c.jpghttps://kuldrinskrypt.comSat, 30 Mar 2024 15:39:32 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCKuldrin Entertainment LLCmasterkuldrin@gmail.comWith over 25 years in the BDSM community and the mental health field, I have gained a unique understanding and respect for the alternative lifestyle. As BDSM has become more mainstream it is important that people become informed and educated about...
As BDSM has become more mainstream it is important that people become informed and educated about truth of the BDSM community instead of letting inaccurate books and movies shape minds, opinions, and lifestyles in a way that is both incorrect and unhealthy. Myself and guests, from porn stars to pastors, will dive deep into all sides of the lifestyle to paint an accurate, informed, and unbiased picture of BDSM and the surprising truth behind the psychology of participants.]]>yesepisodichttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/523Recorded: Feb 18th, 2024 / Published: March 24th, 2024

• - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.  

• - In this episode, Mayfair and I are talking about the somewhat controversial topic of not joining or being involved with your local BDSM scene.
• - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)

1. 1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
   2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
   3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

• - “Top 10 Reasons NOT to Join Your Local Community-S05E23?”

• We realize that all communities have their own ups and downs and overall cultures. We are not saying that all communities have all, some, or any of these issues. We are speaking generally.

• • 10: Bad vibes: Pay attention to your intuition (Ben)
  • 9: Unsavory activities: Drugs/drinking (Ben)
  • 8: People not taking no for an answer: (Jon)
  • 7: Lack of education (Jon)
  • 6: A culture of pressuring people to go further than they are comfortable or want. (Ben)
    • 6A: Culture of “breaking slaves and subs”
  • 5: Lack of education by partner (Daddy’s Princess)
  • 4: Partner’s feelings about the safety of your relationship (Daddy’s Princess)
  • 3: Predators and the protection of predators by the community
  • 2: Relationship issues
  • 1: People are crazy

• Important Links:
  1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/522
  2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
  3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org 
  4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication 
  5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
  6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic 
  Show Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:
  Kuldrin Entertainment
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  Alcoa, TN      37701
  • - Benefactor ($2,000/month): 
  • - Pro Producer ($100/month): 
  • - Master Producer ($50/month): 
  • - Executive Producer ($25/month) Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
  • - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and Marie
  • - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Knot_the_Daddy, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, LilyChaos, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and Maria
  • - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Meg, Astridinchains, littlebear22, and Tea
  Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)
  • - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
  • - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
  • - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
  • - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist 
  • - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
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]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59154875Sun, 24 Mar 2024 17:10:31 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: Feb 18th, 2024 / Published: March 24th, 2024 - - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt athttps://kuldrinskrypt.com.   - - In this episode, Mayfair and I are talking about the somewhat controversial topic of not...Recorded: Feb 18th, 2024 / Published: March 24th, 2024

• - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.  

• - In this episode, Mayfair and I are talking about the somewhat controversial topic of not joining or being involved with your local BDSM scene.
• - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)

1. 1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
   2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
   3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

• - “Top 10 Reasons NOT to Join Your Local Community-S05E23?”

• We realize that all communities have their own ups and downs and overall cultures. We are not saying that all communities have all, some, or any of these issues. We are speaking generally.

• • 10: Bad vibes: Pay attention to your intuition (Ben)
  • 9: Unsavory activities: Drugs/drinking (Ben)
  • 8: People not taking no for an answer: (Jon)
  • 7: Lack of education (Jon)
  • 6: A culture of pressuring people to go further than they are comfortable or want. (Ben)
    • 6A: Culture of “breaking slaves and subs”
  • 5: Lack of education by partner (Daddy’s Princess)
  • 4: Partner’s feelings about the safety of your relationship (Daddy’s Princess)
  • 3: Predators and the protection of predators by the community
  • 2: Relationship issues
  • 1: People are crazy

• Important Links:
  1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/522
  2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
  3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org 
  4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication 
  5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
  6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic 
  Show Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:
  Kuldrin Entertainment
  257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
  Alcoa, TN      37701
  • - Benefactor ($2,000/month): 
  • - Pro Producer ($100/month): 
  • - Master Producer ($50/month): 
  • - Executive Producer ($25/month) Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
  • - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and Marie
  • - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Knot_the_Daddy, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, LilyChaos, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn,...]]>6556bdsm,drama,education,gossip,safety,sexyes523fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/522Recorded: February 4, 2024 / Published: March 19, 2024
    
    • - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use [our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.  
    • - In this episode, by request, we are talking about human furniture play.
    • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
    1.  Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
    2.  KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
    3.  “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
    1. - “The New Predator Part 3: Histrionic Personality Disorder-S05E22”
       1. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-autism-spectrum-disorder/202009/5-signs-you-might-be-drama-queen#:~:text=Creating%20drama%20was%20one%20way,%2C%20psychopathic%2C%20and%20narcissistic%20disorders.
       1. https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/9743-histrionic-personality-disorder 
       1. https://www.psychdb.com/personality/histrionic#:~:text=DSM%2D5%20Diagnostic%20Criteria&text=Interaction%20with%20others%20is%20often,to%20draw%20attention%20to%20self 
       2. Histrionic personality disorder (HPD) is a mental health condition marked by intense, unstable emotions and a distorted self-image. The word “histrionic” means “dramatic or theatrical.”
       1. “5 Signs You Might Be a Drama Queen” by Claire Jack Ph.D.
       2. Cleveland Clinic
       3. Histrionic Personality Disorder (HPD)
    For people with histrionic personality disorder, their self-esteem depends on the approval of others and doesn’t come from a true feeling of self-worth. They have an overwhelming desire to be noticed and often behave dramatically or inappropriately to get attention.People with histrionic personality disorder often don’t realize their behavior and way of thinking may be problematic.
    
    1. A pervasive pattern of excessive emotionality and attention seeking, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by 5 or more of the following (Diagnosis Criteria):
       1. Is uncomfortable in situations in which he or she is not the center of attention
       2.  Interaction with others is often characterized by inappropriate sexually seductive or provocative behavior
       3.  Displays rapidly shifting and shallow expression of emotions
       4. Consistently uses physical appearance to draw attention to self
       5. Has a style of speech that is excessively impressionistic and lacking in detail
       6. Shows self-dramatization, theatricality, and exaggerated expression of emotion
       7.  Is suggestible (i.e. - easily influenced by others or circumstances)
       8.  Considers relationships to be more intimate than they actually are
    2. What are the signs and symptoms of histrionic personality disorder?
       1. Personality disorders, including histrionic personality disorder, are among the least understood mental health conditions.
       2. Studies that have been done about histrionic and other personality disorders have identified several factors that may lead to the development of histrionic or other personality disorders:
       3. Genetics: Histrionic personality disorder tends to run in families, so scientists think there may be a genetic (inherited) link.
       4. Childhood trauma: Children may cope with trauma, such as child abuse or the death of a family member, that later as an adult may be disruptive or problematic in their life and become part of a personality disorder.
       5. Parenting styles: Children who experience parenting styles that lack boundaries, are over-indulgent or inconsistent may be more likely to develop histrionic personality disorder. In addition, parents who display dramatic, erratic, volatile or inappropriate sexual behavior put their children at risk for developing this condition. Some researchers think that problems in parent-child relationships lead to the characteristic low self-esteem in people with HPD.
    3. How is histrionic personality disorder diagnosed?
       1. Past history.
       2. Relationships
       3. Previous work history.
       4. Reality testing.
       5. Impulse control.
       1. Personality continues to evolve throughout child and adolescent development. Because of this, healthcare providers don’t typically diagnose someone with histrionic personality disorder until after the age of 18.
       2. Personality disorders, including histrionic personality disorder, can be difficult to diagnose since most people with a personality disorder don’t think there’s a problem with their behavior or way of thinking.
       3. When they do seek help, it’s often due to conditions such as anxiety or depression due to the problems created by their personality disorder, such as divorce or lost relationships, and not the disorder itself.
       4. When a mental health professional, such as a psychologist or psychiatrist, suspects someone might have histrionic personality disorder, they often ask broad, general questions that won’t create a defensive response or hostile environment. They ask questions that will shed light on:
       5. Because a person suspected of having histrionic personality disorder may lack awareness of their behaviors, mental health professionals might ask to collect information from the person’s family and friends.
       6. Mental health providers base a diagnosis of histrionic personality disorder on the criteria for the condition in the American Psychiatric Association’s Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders.
    4. To learn about “Management and Treatment, “Prevention”, “Outlook / Prognosis / Complications” visit Cleveland Clinics website:: https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/9743-histrionic-personality-disorder 
    Important Links:
    
    1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/522
    2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
    3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org 
    4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication 
    5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
    6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic 
    Show Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN      37701
    
    
    • - Benefactor ($2,000/month): 
    • - Pro Producer ($100/month): 
    • - Master Producer ($50/month): 
    • - Executive Producer ($25/month) Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
    • - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and Marie
    • - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Knot_the_Daddy, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, LilyChaos, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, Maria, and Miss Troi
    • - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Meg, Astridinchains, littlebear22, and Tea
    Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)
    
    • - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
    • - http://whippingstripes.com
    ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59103935Tue, 19 Mar 2024 19:05:46 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: February 4, 2024 / Published: March 19, 2024 - - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use [our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel...Recorded: February 4, 2024 / Published: March 19, 2024
    
    • - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use [our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.  
    • - In this episode, by request, we are talking about human furniture play.
    • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
    1.  Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
    2.  KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
    3.  “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
    1. - “The New Predator Part 3: Histrionic Personality Disorder-S05E22”
       1. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-autism-spectrum-disorder/202009/5-signs-you-might-be-drama-queen#:~:text=Creating%20drama%20was%20one%20way,%2C%20psychopathic%2C%20and%20narcissistic%20disorders.
       1. https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/9743-histrionic-personality-disorder 
       1. https://www.psychdb.com/personality/histrionic#:~:text=DSM%2D5%20Diagnostic%20Criteria&text=Interaction%20with%20others%20is%20often,to%20draw%20attention%20to%20self 
       2. Histrionic personality disorder (HPD) is a mental health condition marked by intense, unstable emotions and a distorted self-image. The word “histrionic” means “dramatic or theatrical.”
       1. “5 Signs You Might Be a Drama Queen” by Claire Jack Ph.D.
       2. Cleveland Clinic
       3. Histrionic Personality Disorder (HPD)
    For people with histrionic personality disorder, their self-esteem depends on the approval of others and doesn’t come from a true feeling of self-worth. They have an overwhelming desire to be noticed and often behave dramatically or inappropriately to get attention.People with histrionic personality disorder often don’t realize their behavior and way of thinking may be problematic.
    
    1. A pervasive pattern of excessive emotionality and attention seeking, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by 5 or more of the following (Diagnosis Criteria):
       1. Is uncomfortable in situations in which he or she is not the center of attention
       2.  Interaction with others is often characterized by inappropriate sexually seductive or provocative behavior
       3.  Displays rapidly shifting and shallow expression of emotions
       4. Consistently uses physical appearance to draw attention to self
       5. Has a style of speech that is excessively impressionistic and lacking in detail
       6. Shows self-dramatization, theatricality, and exaggerated expression of emotion
       7.  Is suggestible (i.e. - easily influenced by others or circumstances)
       8.  Considers relationships to be more intimate than they actually are
    2. What are the signs and symptoms of histrionic personality disorder?
       1. Personality...]]>5812abuse,bdsm,chaos,disorder,drama,education,histrionic,hpd,personality,psychologyyes521fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/521Recorded: January 21, 2024 / Published: March 10, 2024 
          • - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use [our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.  
          • - In this episode, we are talking to Oklahoma's own 6'3" Ebony Amazon and Professional Domme, Mistress Mia Darque.
          • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
          1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
          2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
          3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
          • - “Professional BDSM Domination: Mistress Mia Darque-S05E21”
          1. 1. https://www.justsayred.com/ 
             2. Quote: "... if for any reason you were unsatisfied with your D/s experience please feel free to complain to the domme that you chose to scene with, but if this domme was wearing a pretty flogger on her hip and kept asking if she's hurting you, WELL... ya just got your monies worth..." -M.M.D.
             3. How long?
             4. Pro only or pro and lifestyle?
             5. Do you switch?
             6. Most unusual request?
             7. Your style of domination?
             8. What are your thoughts on BDSM education and do you teach?
             9. Within the lifestyle, what is your passion to talk to others about?
             10. What advice to give to people asking you how to get into the pro set?
             11. Do you mentor others? If so, is there a fee?
             12. What do you have coming up? 
          Important Links:
          1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/521
          2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
          3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org 
          4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication 
          5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
          6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic 
          Show Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN      37701 
          • - Benefactor ($2,000/month): 
          • - Pro Producer ($100/month): 
          • - Master Producer ($50/month): 
          • - Executive Producer ($25/month) Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
          • - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and Marie
          • - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Knot_the_Daddy, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, LilyChaos, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and Maria
          • - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Meg, Astridinchains, littlebear22, and Tea
          Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)
          • - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
          • - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
          • - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
          • - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist 
          • - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
          Contact info:
          • Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
          • Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
          • Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
          • Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
          ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58991115Sun, 10 Mar 2024 18:52:30 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: January 21, 2024 / Published: March 10, 2024  - - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use [our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel...Recorded: January 21, 2024 / Published: March 10, 2024 
          • - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use [our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.  
          • - In this episode, we are talking to Oklahoma's own 6'3" Ebony Amazon and Professional Domme, Mistress Mia Darque.
          • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
          1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
          2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
          3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
          • - “Professional BDSM Domination: Mistress Mia Darque-S05E21”
          1. 1. https://www.justsayred.com/ 
             2. Quote: "... if for any reason you were unsatisfied with your D/s experience please feel free to complain to the domme that you chose to scene with, but if this domme was wearing a pretty flogger on her hip and kept asking if she's hurting you, WELL... ya just got your monies worth..." -M.M.D.
             3. How long?
             4. Pro only or pro and lifestyle?
             5. Do you switch?
             6. Most unusual request?
             7. Your style of domination?
             8. What are your thoughts on BDSM education and do you teach?
             9. Within the lifestyle, what is your passion to talk to others about?
             10. What advice to give to people asking you how to get into the pro set?
             11. Do you mentor others? If so, is there a fee?
             12. What do you have coming up? 
          Important Links:
          1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/521
          2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
          3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org 
          4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication 
          5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
          6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic 
          Show Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN      37701 
          • - Benefactor ($2,000/month): 
          • - Pro Producer ($100/month): 
          • - Master Producer ($50/month): 
          • - Executive Producer ($25/month) Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
          • - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and Marie
          • - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Knot_the_Daddy, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, LilyChaos, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme &...]]>6968bdsm,darque,dom,domination,domme,education,mia,mistress,pro,professionalyes521fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/520Recorded: January 7, 2024 / Published:February 25, 2024
            
            • - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
            • - In this episode, by request, we are talking about human furniture play.
            • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
            1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
            2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
            3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
            1. Disclaimer: Mayfair and I are not medical professionals and we are only giving our interpretation of the information. Because our advice is to talk to a professional, if you choose to make any decisions because of something we say, you are making those decisions against our advised and are solely responsible for all outcomes of your decisions.
            2. “From a message: How can you call someone with a mental illness a predator?”
               1. Answer: Thank you for the question, especially an easy one when someone isn’t emotionally attached to the topic. First, because all predators have some degree of mental illness or they wouldn’t prey on people. Second, People with BPD tend to use the diagnosis as an excuse for their behavior. It is an explanation NOT an excuse.
            3. - “Drama Queens: The New Predator Part 2: Borderline Personality DIsorder-S05E20”
               1. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-autism-spectrum-disorder/202009/5-signs-you-might-be-drama-queen#:~:text=Creating%20drama%20was%20one%20way,%2C%20psychopathic%2C%20and%20narcissistic%20disorders.
               1. https://neurodivergentinsights.com/blog/dsm-5-criteria-for-borderline-personality-disorder
               2. PBD is a personality disorder characterized by a pervasive pattern of instability. More specifically, Borderline Personality Disorder is characterized by instability in relationships, self-image, emotions, and behavior (impulsivity).
               3. Criteria for diagnosis:
                  1. 1. Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment.
                  2. 2. A pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation.
                  3. 3. Identity disturbance: markedly and persistently unstable self-image or sense of self.
                  4. 4. Impulsivity in at least two potentially self-damaging areas (e.g., spending, sex, substance abuse, reckless driving, binge eating).
                  5. 5. Recurrent suicidal behavior, gestures or threats, or self-mutilating behavior.
                  6. 6. Affective instability due to a marked reactivity of mood (e.g., intense episodic dysphoria, irritability, or anxiety usually lasting a few hours and rarely more than a few days).
                  7. 7. Chronic feelings of emptiness.
                  8. 8. Inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger (e.g., frequent displays of temper, constant anger, recurrent physical fights).
                  9. 9. Transient, stress-related paranoid ideation or severe dissociative symptoms.
               1. PBD is a most commonly a trauma/PTSD based disorder.
               2. Another cause of BPD is learned behavior from having a parent with BPD or other serious mental health disorder such as bipolar disorder or substance abuse.
               3. About 70% of diagnosed patients are female. 6.2% female and 5.6% male.
               4. People with BPD tend to use the diagnosis as an excuse for their behavior. It is an explanation NOT an excuse.
               5. Relationship push and pull (Hot and cold)
               6. Views the world in extremes (Black or white thinking)
               7. Everyone feels they must walk on eggshells around someone with BPD because they are prone to explosiveness.
               8. They tend to manipulate others
               9. Common self harming behaviors: cutting, scratching, substance abuse, dangerous sex, dangerous sexual situations, starting verbal and physical altercations,
               10. Uncommon self harming behaviors: Pulling out their own hair (Trichotillomania)
               1. Medication can assist with symptoms such as depression and anxiety but do nothing for the behavioral symptoms of the disorder.
               2. Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) (Recognized as the best treatment for BPD):
                  1. the core principles of DBT – dialectical thinking, mindfulness, emotional regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness – provide a comprehensive framework for helping individuals achieve emotional balance, develop meaningful relationships, and navigate life's challenges with resilience.
               1. “5 Signs You Might Be a Drama Queen” by Claire Jack Ph.D.
               2. Borderline Personality DIsorder (BPD):
               3. What to know about people with BPD:
               4. Treatment Options:
            Dialectical thinking is the ability to view issues from multiple perspectives and to arrive at the most economical and reasonable reconciliation of seemingly contradictory information and postures.
            
            1. The Fours Steps of DBT: (Completion takes a minimum of six months to one year and often takes about two years.)
               1. Stage 1: Foundational DBT Skills: ‍This stage focuses on developing the foundational skills needed for managing emotions, improving relationships, and reducing impulsive behavior.
               2. Stage 2: Addressing the Issue: ‍This stage focuses on addressing trauma and other underlying issues contributing to emotional dysregulation.
               3. Stage 3: Greater Sense of Self-Respect: This stage focuses on achieving a greater sense of self-respect and self-esteem and developing a stronger sense of self-identity.
               4. Stage 4: Meaning & Purpose: This stage focuses on achieving a sense of meaning and purpose in life and developing a greater understanding of spiritual connection.
            1. Cognative Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
               1. A form of talk therapy that focuses on changing a persons internal dialog.
            1. Resources:
               1. Book: “I Hate You-Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality” by Jerold J. Kreisman and Hal Straus https://www.amazon.com/Hate-You-Dont-Leave-Understanding-Personality/dp/0399536213
               2. Book “Emotional Sobriety: From Relationship Trauma to Resilience and Balance” by Tian Dayton https://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Sobriety-Relationship-Resilience-Balance/dp/0757306098
            Important Links:
            
            1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/520
            2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
            3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
            4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
            5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
            6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
            Show Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701
            
            
            • - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
            • - Pro Producer ($100/month):
            • - Master Producer ($50/month):
            • - Executive Producer ($25/month) Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
            • - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and Marie
            • - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Knot_the_Daddy, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, LilyChaos, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti &
            ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58816639Sun, 25 Feb 2024 18:18:42 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: January 7, 2024 / Published:February 25, 2024 - - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt athttps://kuldrinskrypt.com. - - In this episode, by request, we are talking about human furniture play. - - Rules to...Recorded: January 7, 2024 / Published:February 25, 2024
            
            • - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
            • - In this episode, by request, we are talking about human furniture play.
            • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
            1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
            2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
            3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
            1. Disclaimer: Mayfair and I are not medical professionals and we are only giving our interpretation of the information. Because our advice is to talk to a professional, if you choose to make any decisions because of something we say, you are making those decisions against our advised and are solely responsible for all outcomes of your decisions.
            2. “From a message: How can you call someone with a mental illness a predator?”
               1. Answer: Thank you for the question, especially an easy one when someone isn’t emotionally attached to the topic. First, because all predators have some degree of mental illness or they wouldn’t prey on people. Second, People with BPD tend to use the diagnosis as an excuse for their behavior. It is an explanation NOT an excuse.
            3. - “Drama Queens: The New Predator Part 2: Borderline Personality DIsorder-S05E20”
               1. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-autism-spectrum-disorder/202009/5-signs-you-might-be-drama-queen#:~:text=Creating%20drama%20was%20one%20way,%2C%20psychopathic%2C%20and%20narcissistic%20disorders.
               1. https://neurodivergentinsights.com/blog/dsm-5-criteria-for-borderline-personality-disorder
               2. PBD is a personality disorder characterized by a pervasive pattern of instability. More specifically, Borderline Personality Disorder is characterized by instability in relationships, self-image, emotions, and behavior (impulsivity).
               3. Criteria for diagnosis:
                  1. 1. Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment.
                  2. 2. A pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation.
                  3. 3. Identity disturbance: markedly and persistently unstable self-image or sense of self.
                  4. 4. Impulsivity in at least two potentially self-damaging areas (e.g., spending, sex, substance abuse, reckless driving, binge eating).
                  5. 5. Recurrent suicidal behavior, gestures or threats, or self-mutilating behavior.
                  6. 6. Affective instability due to a marked reactivity of mood (e.g., intense episodic dysphoria, irritability, or anxiety usually lasting a few hours and rarely more than a few days).
                  7. 7. Chronic feelings of emptiness.
                  8. 8. Inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger (e.g., frequent displays of temper, constant anger, recurrent physical fights).
                  9. 9. Transient, stress-related paranoid ideation or severe dissociative symptoms.
               1. PBD is a most commonly a trauma/PTSD based disorder.
               2. Another cause of BPD is learned behavior from having a parent with BPD or other serious mental health disorder such as bipolar disorder or substance abuse.
               3. About 70% of diagnosed patients are female. 6.2% female and 5.6%...]]>5624attention,bdsm,borderline,bpd,disorder,drama,education,gossip,personality,psychology,seekingyes519fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/519Recorded: December 17, 2023 / Published: Feb 17, 2024
                  • - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                  • - In this first episode of a three part series we are deep diving into the most controversial topic we have address on the podcast: the predatory drama queen.
                  • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                  1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                  2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                  3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                  1. - “Drama Queens: The New Predator Part 1-S05E19”
                     1. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-autism-spectrum-disorder/202009/5-signs-you-might-be-drama-queen#:~:text=Creating%20drama%20was%20one%20way,%2C%20psychopathic%2C%20and%20narcissistic%20disorders.
                     1. is a personality disorder characterized by a pervasive pattern of instability. More specifically, Borderline Personality Disorder is characterized by instability in relationships, self-image, emotions, and behavior (impulsivity).
                     2. Criteria for diagnosis:
                        1. 1. Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment.
                        2. 2. A pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation.
                        3. 3. Identity disturbance: markedly and persistently unstable self-image or sense of self.
                        4. 4. Impulsivity in at least two potentially self-damaging areas (e.g., spending, sex, substance abuse, reckless driving, binge eating).
                        5. 5. Recurrent suicidal behavior, gestures or threats, or self-mutilating behavior.
                        6. 6. Affective instability due to a marked reactivity of mood (e.g., intense episodic dysphoria, irritability, or anxiety usually lasting a few hours and rarely more than a few days).
                        7. 7. Chronic feelings of emptiness.
                        8. 8. Inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger (e.g., frequent displays of temper, constant anger, recurrent physical fights).
                        9. 9. Transient, stress-related paranoid ideation or severe dissociative symptoms.
                     1. A pervasive pattern of excessive emotionality and attention seeking, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by 5 (or more) of the following:
                     2. 1. Is uncomfortable in situations in which he or she is not the center of attention
                     3. 2. Interaction with others is often characterized by inappropriate sexually seductive or provocative behavior
                     4. 3. Displays rapidly shifting and shallow expression of emotions
                     5. 4. Consistently uses physical appearance to draw attention to self
                     6. 5. Has a style of speech that is excessively impressionistic and lacking in detail
                     7. 6. Shows self-dramatization, theatricality, and exaggerated expression of emotion
                     8. 7. Is suggestible (i.e. - easily influenced by others or circumstances)
                     9. 8. Considers relationships to be more intimate than they actually are
                     1. “5 Signs You Might Be a Drama Queen” by Claire Jack Ph.D.
                     2. Borderline Personality DIsorder (BPD):
                     3. Histrionic Personality Disorder (HPD)
                  Important Links:
                  1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/519
                  2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                  3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                  4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                  5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                  6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                  Show Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701
                  
                  • - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                  • - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                  • - Master Producer ($50/month):
                  • - Executive Producer ($25/month) Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
                  • - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and Marie
                  • - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Knot_the_Daddy, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, LilyChaos, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and Maria
                  • - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Meg, Astridinchains, littlebear22, and Tea
                  Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)
                  • - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                  • - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                  • - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                  • - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                  • - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
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                  ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58718857Sat, 17 Feb 2024 22:34:13 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: December 17, 2023 / Published: Feb 17, 2024 - - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt athttps://kuldrinskrypt.com. - - In this first episode of a three part series we are deep diving into the most...Recorded: December 17, 2023 / Published: Feb 17, 2024
                  • - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                  • - In this first episode of a three part series we are deep diving into the most controversial topic we have address on the podcast: the predatory drama queen.
                  • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                  1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                  2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                  3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                  1. - “Drama Queens: The New Predator Part 1-S05E19”
                     1. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-autism-spectrum-disorder/202009/5-signs-you-might-be-drama-queen#:~:text=Creating%20drama%20was%20one%20way,%2C%20psychopathic%2C%20and%20narcissistic%20disorders.
                     1. is a personality disorder characterized by a pervasive pattern of instability. More specifically, Borderline Personality Disorder is characterized by instability in relationships, self-image, emotions, and behavior (impulsivity).
                     2. Criteria for diagnosis:
                        1. 1. Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment.
                        2. 2. A pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation.
                        3. 3. Identity disturbance: markedly and persistently unstable self-image or sense of self.
                        4. 4. Impulsivity in at least two potentially self-damaging areas (e.g., spending, sex, substance abuse, reckless driving, binge eating).
                        5. 5. Recurrent suicidal behavior, gestures or threats, or self-mutilating behavior.
                        6. 6. Affective instability due to a marked reactivity of mood (e.g., intense episodic dysphoria, irritability, or anxiety usually lasting a few hours and rarely more than a few days).
                        7. 7. Chronic feelings of emptiness.
                        8. 8. Inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger (e.g., frequent displays of temper, constant anger, recurrent physical fights).
                        9. 9. Transient, stress-related paranoid ideation or severe dissociative symptoms.
                     1. A pervasive pattern of excessive emotionality and attention seeking, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by 5 (or more) of the following:
                     2. 1. Is uncomfortable in situations in which he or she is not the center of attention
                     3. 2. Interaction with others is often characterized by inappropriate sexually seductive or provocative behavior
                     4. 3. Displays rapidly shifting and shallow expression of emotions
                     5. 4. Consistently uses physical appearance to draw attention to self
                     6. 5. Has a style of speech that is excessively impressionistic and lacking in detail
                     7. 6. Shows self-dramatization, theatricality, and exaggerated expression of emotion
                     8. 7. Is suggestible (i.e. - easily influenced by others or circumstances)
                     9. 8. Considers relationships to be more intimate than they actually are
                     1. “5 Signs You Might Be a Drama Queen” by Claire Jack Ph.D.
                     2. Borderline Personality DIsorder (BPD):
                     3. Histrionic Personality Disorder (HPD)
                  Important Links:
                  1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/519
                  2. National Suicide Hotline:...]]>6059abuse,bdsm,bpd,coercion,education,hpd,psychology,sexyes519fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/518Recorded: Nov 3rd, 2023 / Published: Fed 4th, 2024
                     
                     • - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                     • - In this episode, by request, we are talking about human furniture play.
                     • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                     1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                     2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                     3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                     1. - “Human Furniture: What, Why, and How?-S05E18”
                        1. Human furniture refers to a practice within the BDSM community where a person acts as an object or piece of furniture for another individual's use or pleasure. This practice involves a consensual and negotiated power exchange dynamic where one person willingly takes on the role of being used as an object or piece of furniture by another person or group. The person might be positioned or manipulated to resemble furniture, such as becoming a footstool, table, chair, or any other household item. The submissive might be required to hold a specific pose or position for a certain period, providing physical support or serving as a surface for the dominant person's comfort or convenience.
                        1. Participation in human furniture kink, like many other activities within BDSM or fetish communities, can be motivated by a variety of psychological factors and individual desires. Here are a few potential reasons:
                           1. Power Dynamics: For some, assuming the role of human furniture can be a way to explore power dynamics. Both the person taking on the role of furniture and the person using them may find pleasure in the exchange of power and control.
                           2. Sensory Stimulation: Engaging in this kink might provide intense sensory experiences. For some individuals, being in a static position or role could create physical sensations or mental states that are stimulating or arousing.
                           3. Role-Playing and Fantasy: Like many BDSM activities, human furniture play can involve role-playing and fulfilling specific fantasies. It could be a form of escapism or a way to explore desires that are not easily expressed in everyday life.
                           4. Exploration and Experimentation: Engaging in unconventional or taboo activities like this can be a way for some to explore their own boundaries, desires, and limits within a safe and consensual context.
                           5. Connection and Intimacy: It might also serve as a means of connection and intimacy between partners. Trust and communication are crucial in these scenarios, and the level of intimacy can deepen as participants engage in a vulnerable yet controlled environment.
                        2. Crafting a human furniture scene: Like all scenes, there are eight basic steps to follow to help mitigate risks and increase rewards. A few of the most important things to remember are to communicate thoroughly, go slow, and don’t expect yourself or someone else to be a table for hours on end at the start. Like kneeling, impact play, bondage, and most other types of play, a person needs to build stamina through practice.
                           1. Communication and Consent: Start by discussing interests, desires, and limits with your partner(s). Clearly express what you're comfortable with and what you're interested in exploring. This includes the roles, positions, intensity of the play, medical conditions, medications, and psychological issues and needs.
                           2. Establish Safe Words and Signals: Agree upon a safe word or signal that anyone involved can use to pause or stop the role play if they feel uncomfortable or need a break. Safety and consent are paramount.
                           3. Define Roles and Scenarios: Decide who will take on the role of the human furniture and who will be the user. Discuss the specifics of the scene, including the type of furniture the submissive person will portray and the expectations regarding behavior and interaction.
                           4. Set Up a Safe Space: Choose a safe and comfortable space for the role play. Ensure the area is free of potential hazards, and have any necessary equipment or padding to ensure the comfort and safety of the human furniture.
                           5. Agree on Boundaries and Limits: Clearly establish boundaries and limits for the scene. Discuss what is acceptable and what is not, and ensure everyone involved understands and respects these boundaries.
                           6. Consent to Physical Contact: Define the level of physical contact allowed during the role play. Some scenarios may involve touch or manipulation to position the human furniture, so make sure everyone consents to and is comfortable with the agreed-upon physical contact.
                           7. Engage in the Role Play: Once everything is discussed and agreed upon, start the role play. Maintain open communication throughout the scene and regularly check in with each other to ensure everyone is comfortable and enjoying themselves.
                           8. Aftercare: After the role play, engage in aftercare. This involves providing emotional support, reassurance, and comfort to each other. It's a crucial part of the experience, allowing participants to decompress and reconnect after intense or vulnerable moments.
                        3. It's important to note that the motivations behind participating in human furniture kink, or any other BDSM-related activity, vary widely among individuals. Each person's preferences, desires, and reasons for engaging in such activities can differ significantly, and there is no single explanation that applies to everyone. The key aspect in these scenarios is mutual consent, communication, and respect for boundaries.
                        1. What is human furniture?
                        2. Why?
                     Important Links:
                     
                     1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/518
                     2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                     3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                     4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                     5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                     6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                     Show Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701
                     
                     
                     • - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
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                     • - Master Producer ($50/month):
                     • - Executive Producer ($25/month) Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
                     • - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and Marie
                     • - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Knot_the_Daddy, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, LilyChaos, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and Maria
                     • - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Meg, Astridinchains, littlebear22, and Tea
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                     • - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
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                     • - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                     • - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                     • - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
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                     ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58568270Sun, 04 Feb 2024 19:46:14 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: Nov 3rd, 2023 / Published: Fed 4th, 2024 - - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt athttps://kuldrinskrypt.com. - - In this episode, by request, we are talking about human furniture play. - - Rules to Love By:...Recorded: Nov 3rd, 2023 / Published: Fed 4th, 2024
                     
                     • - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                     • - In this episode, by request, we are talking about human furniture play.
                     • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                     1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                     2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                     3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                     1. - “Human Furniture: What, Why, and How?-S05E18”
                        1. Human furniture refers to a practice within the BDSM community where a person acts as an object or piece of furniture for another individual's use or pleasure. This practice involves a consensual and negotiated power exchange dynamic where one person willingly takes on the role of being used as an object or piece of furniture by another person or group. The person might be positioned or manipulated to resemble furniture, such as becoming a footstool, table, chair, or any other household item. The submissive might be required to hold a specific pose or position for a certain period, providing physical support or serving as a surface for the dominant person's comfort or convenience.
                        1. Participation in human furniture kink, like many other activities within BDSM or fetish communities, can be motivated by a variety of psychological factors and individual desires. Here are a few potential reasons:
                           1. Power Dynamics: For some, assuming the role of human furniture can be a way to explore power dynamics. Both the person taking on the role of furniture and the person using them may find pleasure in the exchange of power and control.
                           2. Sensory Stimulation: Engaging in this kink might provide intense sensory experiences. For some individuals, being in a static position or role could create physical sensations or mental states that are stimulating or arousing.
                           3. Role-Playing and Fantasy: Like many BDSM activities, human furniture play can involve role-playing and fulfilling specific fantasies. It could be a form of escapism or a way to explore desires that are not easily expressed in everyday life.
                           4. Exploration and Experimentation: Engaging in unconventional or taboo activities like this can be a way for some to explore their own boundaries, desires, and limits within a safe and consensual context.
                           5. Connection and Intimacy: It might also serve as a means of connection and intimacy between partners. Trust and communication are crucial in these scenarios, and the level of intimacy can deepen as participants engage in a vulnerable yet controlled environment.
                        2. Crafting a human furniture scene: Like all scenes, there are eight basic steps to follow to help mitigate risks and increase rewards. A few of the most important things to remember are to communicate thoroughly, go slow, and don’t expect yourself or someone else to be a table for hours on end at the start. Like kneeling, impact play, bondage, and most other types of play, a person needs to build stamina through practice.
                           1. Communication and Consent: Start by discussing interests, desires, and limits with your partner(s). Clearly express what you're comfortable with and what you're interested in exploring. This includes the roles, positions, intensity of the play, medical conditions, medications, and psychological issues and needs.
                           2. Establish Safe Words and Signals: Agree upon a safe word or signal that anyone involved can use to pause or stop the role play if they feel uncomfortable or need a break. Safety and consent are paramount.
                           3. Define Roles and Scenarios: Decide who will take on the role of...]]>4452bazaar,bdsm,education,exciting,fetish,fun,furniture,human,kink,sexyes518fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/517Recorded: November 5, 2023 / Published: , 2023
                              • - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use [our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                              • - In this episode, we are talking to long-time Krypt Producer BuffaloMax about his introduction into BDSM and it saved his marriage and life.
                              • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                              1. 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                              2. 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                              3. 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                              1. - “BDSM Saved my Marriage and Life-S05E17”
                                 1. Introduction: Buffalo_Max92 https://fetlife.com/users/12215665
                                 2. Ten Licks:
                                    1. How long have been into Kink?
                                    2. Top, bottom, or switch?
                                    3. Relationship Status?
                                    4. Favorite Position?
                                    5. Favorite Implement?
                                    6. Favorite Roleplay?
                                    7. Favorite kink or fetish?
                                    8. Favorite place for kink?
                                    9. Strangest Place you've had sex?
                                    10. Something you want to try?
                                 3. Marriage?
                                 4. Life?
                                 5. Advice to others?
                              Important Links:
                              1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/517
                              2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                              3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                              4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                              5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                              6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                              Show Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701
                              
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                              • - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, XxLilyXxX, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and The Plummer
                              • - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and littlebear22
                              • - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, and Astridinchains
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                              • - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
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                              ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58313525Mon, 15 Jan 2024 22:16:26 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: November 5, 2023 / Published: , 2023 - - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use [our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths,...Recorded: November 5, 2023 / Published: , 2023
                              • - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use [our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                              • - In this episode, we are talking to long-time Krypt Producer BuffaloMax about his introduction into BDSM and it saved his marriage and life.
                              • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                              1. 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                              2. 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                              3. 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                              1. - “BDSM Saved my Marriage and Life-S05E17”
                                 1. Introduction: Buffalo_Max92 https://fetlife.com/users/12215665
                                 2. Ten Licks:
                                    1. How long have been into Kink?
                                    2. Top, bottom, or switch?
                                    3. Relationship Status?
                                    4. Favorite Position?
                                    5. Favorite Implement?
                                    6. Favorite Roleplay?
                                    7. Favorite kink or fetish?
                                    8. Favorite place for kink?
                                    9. Strangest Place you've had sex?
                                    10. Something you want to try?
                                 3. Marriage?
                                 4. Life?
                                 5. Advice to others?
                              Important Links:
                              1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/517
                              2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                              3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                              4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                              5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                              6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                              Show Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701
                              
                              • - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                              • - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                              • - Master Producer ($50/month):
                              • - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
                              • - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, XxLilyXxX, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and The Plummer
                              • - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and littlebear22
                              • - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, and...]]>5868bdsm,education,sexyes517fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/516Recorded: November 5, 2023 / Published: Dec 31, 2023
                                
                                • - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                • - In this episode, we are talking about a new study performed by the makers of the KinkD BDSM app that shows 68% of women who try BDSM through online meetups are assaulted.
                                • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                1. - “Study Reveals 68% Abuse Rate in BDSM-S05E16”
                                   • “68% of women have had a non-consensual experience trying BDSM” by Emilie Lavinia / Wed, 1 November 2023
                                   • https://uk.news.yahoo.com/68-women-had-non-consensual-143800598.html?guccounter=1&guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbS8&guce_referrer_sig=AQAAAEe7ATbsKgO0pty6e4qxTl1ehc0fP1U7B7LOJ6PUXD52kER9UTWkRS3kf4PVHMrYtFQt-FHvg9wiuZB0IGKnunZkdBZO9jH0XhPfyig5KZjhwQ7kADroYigntXg5WYfsi3NCj-PM3G7b42TSk8nHtttimTjq3O1Se9xfuL28E0XJ
                                   • A new piece of research has revealed that a staggeringly high number of women have had a non-consensual sexual experience while experimenting with a partner.
                                The research, carried out by KinkD – a dating app for BDSM and kink enthusiasts, showed that 68% of female respondents claimed to have had a non-consensual kinky experience with people they’d met online who claimed to be into BDSM.
                                
                                Of more than 3,000 women who use online dating apps, more than half said they had experienced a violent or degrading act that hadn’t been agreed upon with prior consent.
                                
                                As BDSM grows in popularity thanks to kinky dating apps, sex clubs and movies like Fifty Shades hitting the mainstream, knowing how to practice kink safely is more important than ever. According to Bedbible, ownership of BDSM equipment, such as ropes and whips, has increased, with 23% having used some form in 2023 compared to only 14% in 2017. So, if you’re planning to allow someone to tie you up because it turns you on, it’s vital that you feel safe.
                                Kink, arguably, is not something that should be practiced with a stranger as it requires a level of trust and a clear understanding of your partner’s interests, intentions and boundaries. However, the internet is a great place to connect with like-minded people who might be into the same stuff as you or have the same sexual fantasies, and that’s why kinky dating apps work so well.
                                "In the diverse landscape of alternative relationship dating, these statistics underscore the importance of constant evolution and vigilant safety measures,” says John Martinuk, the founder of KinkD. “Our commitment isn't just to connect individuals with shared interests but to ensure that their interactions remain consensual and secure.
                                "The kink community is serious about safety, but if you’re new to it, how are you supposed to know who is a safe person to hook up with and who isn’t, and whether someone is being honest about their level of experience?
                                If you’re looking to broaden your horizons and you’re curious about BDSM or trying new kinks or rough sex, there are several things you need to bear in mind before you dive in. This checklist isn’t just about personal responsibility, it’s about ensuring your partner knows the importance of personal respect, safety and boundaries, and the consequences of ignoring these things too.
                                Always have a conversation with your partner before a “scene”, especially if you’re meeting them for the first time. Discuss what you would like to happen, step by step and that any deviations from the plan that haven’t been discussed will require consent before they happen.
                                Agree on a safeword and agree that you’ll use the traffic light system during the session. If something traumatic is happening to you, a common response is to freeze, which makes using your words a challenge. So make sure your partner knows your hand signals too.
                                
                                It’s also important to state before anything happens that you expect the other person to respect you and your boundaries, and if they don’t or if they intend to hurt you, that person will be responsible. Ask them if they’re aware of the laws around consent and if they’re happy to proceed.
                                
                                68% is a shocking number and with BDSM and kink on the rise in the bedroom – and why not, it can be very fun when practiced properly – it’s up to everyone taking part to have a conversation about consent before, during and after sex.
                                
                                If you've been impacted by the information in this article or think you've been the victim of sexual assault or rape, in the U.S. you can contact National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-4673 if you live in the U.K. contact the 24/7 Rape & Sexual Abuse Support Line 24 hours a day on 0808 500 2222 or visit the website to start a free online chat.
                                
                                Important Links:
                                
                                1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/516
                                2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                Show Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023):
                                Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                Alcoa, TN 37701
                                
                                
                                • - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                • - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                • - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                • - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
                                • - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, XxLilyXxX, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and The Plummer
                                • - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and littlebear22
                                • - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, and Astridinchains
                                Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)
                                
                                • - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                • - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                • - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                • - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                • - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
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                                ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58161657Sun, 31 Dec 2023 18:35:02 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: November 5, 2023 / Published: Dec 31, 2023 - - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt athttps://kuldrinskrypt.com. - - In this episode, we are talking about a new study performed by the makers of the KinkD...Recorded: November 5, 2023 / Published: Dec 31, 2023
                                
                                • - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                • - In this episode, we are talking about a new study performed by the makers of the KinkD BDSM app that shows 68% of women who try BDSM through online meetups are assaulted.
                                • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                1. - “Study Reveals 68% Abuse Rate in BDSM-S05E16”
                                   • “68% of women have had a non-consensual experience trying BDSM” by Emilie Lavinia / Wed, 1 November 2023
                                   • https://uk.news.yahoo.com/68-women-had-non-consensual-143800598.html?guccounter=1&guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbS8&guce_referrer_sig=AQAAAEe7ATbsKgO0pty6e4qxTl1ehc0fP1U7B7LOJ6PUXD52kER9UTWkRS3kf4PVHMrYtFQt-FHvg9wiuZB0IGKnunZkdBZO9jH0XhPfyig5KZjhwQ7kADroYigntXg5WYfsi3NCj-PM3G7b42TSk8nHtttimTjq3O1Se9xfuL28E0XJ
                                   • A new piece of research has revealed that a staggeringly high number of women have had a non-consensual sexual experience while experimenting with a partner.
                                The research, carried out by KinkD – a dating app for BDSM and kink enthusiasts, showed that 68% of female respondents claimed to have had a non-consensual kinky experience with people they’d met online who claimed to be into BDSM.
                                
                                Of more than 3,000 women who use online dating apps, more than half said they had experienced a violent or degrading act that hadn’t been agreed upon with prior consent.
                                
                                As BDSM grows in popularity thanks to kinky dating apps, sex clubs and movies like Fifty Shades hitting the mainstream, knowing how to practice kink safely is more important than ever. According to Bedbible, ownership of BDSM equipment, such as ropes and whips, has increased, with 23% having used some form in 2023 compared to only 14% in 2017. So, if you’re planning to allow someone to tie you up because it turns you on, it’s vital that you feel safe.
                                Kink, arguably, is not something that should be practiced with a stranger as it requires a level of trust and a clear understanding of your partner’s interests, intentions and boundaries. However, the internet is a great place to connect with like-minded people who might be into the same stuff as you or have the same sexual fantasies, and that’s why kinky dating apps work so well.
                                "In the diverse landscape of alternative relationship dating, these statistics underscore the importance of constant evolution and vigilant safety measures,” says John Martinuk, the founder of KinkD. “Our commitment isn't just to connect individuals with shared interests but to ensure that their interactions remain consensual and secure.
                                "The kink community is serious about safety, but if you’re new to it, how are you supposed to know who is a safe person to hook up with and who isn’t, and whether someone is being honest about their level of experience?
                                If you’re looking to broaden your horizons and you’re curious about BDSM or trying new kinks or rough sex, there are several things you need to bear in mind before you dive in. This checklist isn’t just...]]>4996abuse,abussive,bdsm,consent,education,gaslighting,relationship,safety,violation,warningyes516fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/515Recorded: October 15, 2023 / Published: Dec 20, 2023
                                
                                • - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                • - In this episode, we are talking about the hidden sexual fantasies associated with each Zodiac sign.
                                • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                1. - “Your secret sexual fantasy, according to your zodiac sign”
                                   • By Reda Wigle Published Aug. 30, 2023 / Updated Aug. 30, 2023
                                   • https://nypost.com/2023/08/30/zodiac-signs-secret-sex-fantasy/
                                   • 1: ARIES (March 21 – April 19): Rough sex
                                   • 2: TAURUS (April 20 – May 20): Sex in the woods
                                   • 3: GEMINI (May 21 – June 20): Quickie in public
                                   • 4: CANCER (June 21 – July 22): Rope play
                                   • 5:LEO (July 23 – August 22): Voyeurism
                                   • 6: VIRGO (August 23 – September 22): Workplace fantasy
                                   • 7: LIBRA (September 23 – October 22): BDSMS
                                   • 8: SCORPIO (October 23 – November 21): Erotic asphyxiation
                                   • 9: SAGITTARIUS (November 22 – December 21): Mile High Club
                                   • 10: CAPRICORN (December 22 – January 19): Getting paid for sex
                                   • 11: AQUARIUS (January 20 – February 18): Alien role play
                                   • 12: PISCES (February 19 – March 20): Orgy
                                
                                Important Links:
                                
                                1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/515
                                2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                Show Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023):
                                
                                
                                Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                
                                
                                Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                Alcoa, TN 37701
                                
                                
                                • - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                • - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                • - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                • - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
                                • - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, XxLilyXxX, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and The Plummer
                                • - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and littlebear22
                                • - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, and Astridinchains
                                Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)
                                • - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                • - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                • - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                • - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                • - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
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                                • Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
                                ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58075441Wed, 20 Dec 2023 20:04:14 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: October 15, 2023 / Published: Dec 20, 2023 - - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt athttps://kuldrinskrypt.com. - - In this episode, we are talking about the hidden sexual fantasies associated with each...Recorded: October 15, 2023 / Published: Dec 20, 2023
                                
                                • - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                • - In this episode, we are talking about the hidden sexual fantasies associated with each Zodiac sign.
                                • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                1. - “Your secret sexual fantasy, according to your zodiac sign”
                                   • By Reda Wigle Published Aug. 30, 2023 / Updated Aug. 30, 2023
                                   • https://nypost.com/2023/08/30/zodiac-signs-secret-sex-fantasy/
                                   • 1: ARIES (March 21 – April 19): Rough sex
                                   • 2: TAURUS (April 20 – May 20): Sex in the woods
                                   • 3: GEMINI (May 21 – June 20): Quickie in public
                                   • 4: CANCER (June 21 – July 22): Rope play
                                   • 5:LEO (July 23 – August 22): Voyeurism
                                   • 6: VIRGO (August 23 – September 22): Workplace fantasy
                                   • 7: LIBRA (September 23 – October 22): BDSMS
                                   • 8: SCORPIO (October 23 – November 21): Erotic asphyxiation
                                   • 9: SAGITTARIUS (November 22 – December 21): Mile High Club
                                   • 10: CAPRICORN (December 22 – January 19): Getting paid for sex
                                   • 11: AQUARIUS (January 20 – February 18): Alien role play
                                   • 12: PISCES (February 19 – March 20): Orgy
                                
                                Important Links:
                                
                                1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/515
                                2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                Show Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023):
                                
                                
                                Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                
                                
                                Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                Alcoa, TN 37701
                                
                                
                                • - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                • - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                • - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                • - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
                                • - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, XxLilyXxX, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and The Plummer
                                • - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399,...]]>3765astrology,bdsm,education,sex,signyes515fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/514Recorded: September 17, 2023 / Published: , 2023
                                  
                                  • - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                  • - In this episode, we are talking about where trauma and BDSM connect.
                                  • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                  • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                  • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                  • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                  1. - “How to Navigate BDSM and Trauma-S05E14”
                                     • “Navigating The Delicate Yet Dynamic Universe Of BDSM And Kink With Trauma” by Tanisha RK / Sept. 25, 2023
                                     • https://elle.in/navigating-bsdm-and-kink-with-trauma/
                                  1: Understanding Trauma
                                  2: Navigating BDSM
                                  3: Where Kink and Trauma Connect
                                  4: Realizing The Role Kink Plays In Trauma Recovery
                                  
                                  Important Links:
                                  1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/514
                                  2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                  3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                  4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                  5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                  6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                  Show Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023):
                                  Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                  Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                  
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                                  Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                  257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                  Alcoa, TN 37701
                                  
                                  • - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                  • - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                  • - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                  • - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
                                  • - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, XxLilyXxX, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and The Plummer
                                  • - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and littlebear22
                                  • - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, and Astridinchains
                                  Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)
                                  • - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                  • - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                  • - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                  • - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                  • - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                  Contact info:
                                  • Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                  • Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                  • Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                  Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57963319Sun, 10 Dec 2023 02:49:31 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: September 17, 2023 / Published: , 2023 - - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel...Recorded: September 17, 2023 / Published: , 2023
                                  
                                  • - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                  • - In this episode, we are talking about where trauma and BDSM connect.
                                  • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                  • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                  • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                  • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                  1. - “How to Navigate BDSM and Trauma-S05E14”
                                     • “Navigating The Delicate Yet Dynamic Universe Of BDSM And Kink With Trauma” by Tanisha RK / Sept. 25, 2023
                                     • https://elle.in/navigating-bsdm-and-kink-with-trauma/
                                  1: Understanding Trauma
                                  2: Navigating BDSM
                                  3: Where Kink and Trauma Connect
                                  4: Realizing The Role Kink Plays In Trauma Recovery
                                  
                                  Important Links:
                                  1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/514
                                  2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                  3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                  4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                  5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                  6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                  Show Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023):
                                  Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                  Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                  
                                  Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                  Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                  257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                  Alcoa, TN 37701
                                  
                                  • - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                  • - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                  • - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                  • - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
                                  • - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, XxLilyXxX, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and The Plummer
                                  • - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and littlebear22
                                  • - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, and...]]>5519bdsm,education,sex,traumayes514fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/513
                                    - - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt athttps://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                    
                                    - - In this episode, we are all learning together as this was something I never heard of until last night. Depth Play?!?!?!
                                    - - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                    - 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                    - 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                    - 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                    
                                    - - “What is BDSM Depth Play?-S05E13”
                                    - “What Is Depth Play: The Ultimate Guide”
                                    - by J Station X: Sports, Video Games and More
                                    - https://jstationx.com/what-is-depth-play/
                                    Exploring the world of BDSM can be an exciting and fulfilling journey for individuals who are open to exploring their deepest desires. Within the realm of BDSM, there are numerous activities and practices that cater to various interests, one of which is depth play. In this article, we will delve into the concept of depth play, its purpose, and common FAQs associated with it.
                                    What Is Depth Play?
                                    Depth play is a term used to describe a specific type of BDSM activity that focuses on exploring intense psychological and emotional experiences. It involves delving into the depths of one’s mind and emotions to create intense connections and sensations. Depth play can encompass a wide range of activities, such as intense role-playing scenarios, mind games, sensory deprivation, and more.
                                    The Purpose of Depth Play:
                                    The primary purpose of depth play is to challenge and explore the psychological and emotional aspects of BDSM. It allows participants to push their boundaries, experience intense emotions, and develop a deeper understanding of themselves and their partners. Depth play can create a strong sense of vulnerability, trust, and connection between individuals involved.
                                    Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs):
                                    
                                    - Is depth play only for experienced BDSM practitioners? No, depth play can be enjoyed by individuals at any level of experience. However, it is crucial to have open and honest communication with your partner(s) and establish clear boundaries before engaging in any depth play activities.
                                    - Is depth play safe? Like any BDSM activity, safety is paramount. It is crucial to engage in depth play with a trusted partner(s) who respects your limits and consent. Establishing a safe word and practicing aftercare are essential aspects of ensuring a safe and consensual experience.
                                    - Are there any risks associated with depth play? While depth play can be emotionally intense, it is essential to engage in activities that are within your emotional and psychological limits. Pushing boundaries is encouraged, but it should be done gradually and with the utmost care, ensuring the well-being of all involved parties.
                                    - Can depth play be done in a long-distance relationship? Yes, depth play can be adapted to long-distance relationships through various means such as virtual role-playing, intense messaging, or webcam sessions. However, it is crucial to establish clear communication channels and ensure the emotional well-being of all parties involved.
                                    - What are some common activities involved in depth play? Common activities may include intense role-playing scenarios, psychological mind games, sensory deprivation, humiliation play, consensual non-consent, and more. The possibilities are extensive and depend on the interests and boundaries of the participants.
                                    - How can one prepare for depth play? Preparation for depth play involves open communication, establishing boundaries, and discussing desires, limits, and potential triggers with your partner(s). Engaging in aftercare activities, such as emotional support and debriefing, is also crucial for a positive experience.
                                    - Can depth play be therapeutic? For some individuals, depth play can be therapeutic, as it allows them to explore and process deep-seated emotions and desires in a safe and consensual environment. However, it is important to approach depth play with the understanding that it is not a substitute for professional therapy.
                                    - How can one ensure the emotional well-being of all parties involved? Open communication, consent, and aftercare are key to ensuring the emotional well-being of all parties involved. Regular check-ins, creating a safe and non-judgmental space, and establishing trust are crucial aspects of engaging in healthy depth play.
                                    - Can depth play be combined with other BDSM practices? Yes, depth play can be combined with a wide range of other BDSM practices, such as bondage, impact play, or sensory play. The key is to communicate and negotiate boundaries and desires with your partner(s) to create a mutually satisfying experience.
                                    - Are there any resources available for learning more about depth play? Yes, there are numerous resources available, including books, online forums, and educational workshops that delve into the concept of depth play. It is important to research and educate yourself before engaging in any new BDSM activity.
                                    - Can depth play be enjoyed by individuals who are not interested in pain or physical sensations? Yes, depth play is not solely focused on pain or physical sensations. It primarily focuses on exploring intense psychological and emotional experiences. It can be tailored to suit the interests and boundaries of all individuals involved.
                                    - Is depth play only for romantic partners? No, depth play can be enjoyed any individuals who have established trust and consent. It is not limited to romantic partners and can be experienced with friends or other trusted individuals.
                                    - Can depth play lead to long-term psychological effects? When practiced responsibly, depth play should not lead to long-term psychological effects. However, it is essential to be aware of personal limits, communicate openly, and prioritize self-care and emotional well-being during and after engaging in depth play activities.
                                    In conclusion, depth play is a captivating and intense form of BDSM that focuses on exploring psychological and emotional experiences. It can be enjoyed by individuals at any level of experience, as long as there is open communication, consent, and a focus on personal and emotional well-being. Engaging in depth play can create profound connections, trust, and self-discovery, making it a powerful and fulfilling aspect of the BDSM world.
                                    
                                    Important Links:
                                    
                                    - Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/513
                                    - National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                    - NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                    - https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                    - https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey
                                    - https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                    Show Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023):
                                    Become a show producer: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/Patreon
                                    Make a one-time donation: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/PayPal
                                    Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                    Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                    257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                    Alcoa, TN 37701
                                    
                                    
                                    - - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                    - - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                    - - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                    - - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
                                    - - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, XxLilyXxX, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and The Plummer
                                    - - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and littlebear22
                                    - - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, and Astridinchains
                                    Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)
                                    
                                    - - http://bdsmcontracts.org/ Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                    - - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                    Contact info:
                                    
                                    - Email: mailto:MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                    - Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57864545Thu, 30 Nov 2023 15:27:02 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: September 17, 2023 / Published: Nov 30, 2023 - - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt athttps://kuldrinskrypt.com. - - In this episode, we are all learning together as this was something I never heard of...
                                    - - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt athttps://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                    
                                    - - In this episode, we are all learning together as this was something I never heard of until last night. Depth Play?!?!?!
                                    - - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                    - 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                    - 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                    - 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                    
                                    - - “What is BDSM Depth Play?-S05E13”
                                    - “What Is Depth Play: The Ultimate Guide”
                                    - by J Station X: Sports, Video Games and More
                                    - https://jstationx.com/what-is-depth-play/
                                    Exploring the world of BDSM can be an exciting and fulfilling journey for individuals who are open to exploring their deepest desires. Within the realm of BDSM, there are numerous activities and practices that cater to various interests, one of which is depth play. In this article, we will delve into the concept of depth play, its purpose, and common FAQs associated with it.
                                    What Is Depth Play?
                                    Depth play is a term used to describe a specific type of BDSM activity that focuses on exploring intense psychological and emotional experiences. It involves delving into the depths of one’s mind and emotions to create intense connections and sensations. Depth play can encompass a wide range of activities, such as intense role-playing scenarios, mind games, sensory deprivation, and more.
                                    The Purpose of Depth Play:
                                    The primary purpose of depth play is to challenge and explore the psychological and emotional aspects of BDSM. It allows participants to push their boundaries, experience intense emotions, and develop a deeper understanding of themselves and their partners. Depth play can create a strong sense of vulnerability, trust, and connection between individuals involved.
                                    Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs):
                                    
                                    - Is depth play only for experienced BDSM practitioners? No, depth play can be enjoyed by individuals at any level of experience. However, it is crucial to have open and honest communication with your partner(s) and establish clear boundaries before engaging in any depth play activities.
                                    - Is depth play safe? Like any BDSM activity, safety is paramount. It is crucial to engage in depth play with a trusted partner(s) who respects your limits and consent. Establishing a safe word and practicing aftercare are essential aspects of ensuring a safe and consensual experience.
                                    - Are there any risks associated with depth play? While depth play can be emotionally intense, it is essential to engage in activities that are within your emotional and psychological limits. Pushing boundaries is encouraged, but it should be done gradually and with the utmost care, ensuring the well-being of all involved parties.
                                    - Can depth play be done in a long-distance relationship? Yes, depth play can be adapted to long-distance relationships through various means such as virtual role-playing, intense messaging, or webcam sessions. However, it is crucial to establish clear communication channels and ensure the emotional well-being of all parties involved.
                                    - What are some common activities involved in depth play? Common activities may include intense role-playing scenarios, psychological mind games, sensory deprivation, humiliation play, consensual non-consent, and more. The possibilities are extensive and depend on the interests and boundaries of the participants.
                                    - How can one prepare for depth play? Preparation for depth play involves open communication, establishing boundaries, and...]]>4662101,bdsm,depth,depthplay,education,play,podcast,sexyes513fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/512Recorded: Aug 20, 2023 / Published: Nov 16, 2023
                                    • - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                    • - In this episode, we are diving into the why, what, when, where, and how of people being ashamed of their own kinks.
                                    • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                    • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                    • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                    • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                    1. - “I'm Ashamed of My Kink-S05E12”
                                       • Why do people feel shame?
                                         • Society
                                         • Family
                                         • Friends
                                         • Religion
                                         • Self-esteem
                                         • Self judgement
                                         • Outed
                                       • What exactly do people feel?
                                         • Shame
                                         • Disgrace
                                         • Persecution
                                       • When do people feel ashamed?
                                         • When they fantasize.
                                         • When they perform.
                                         • When it's been done.
                                         • When others talk about it.
                                       • Where do people feel shame?
                                         • Home
                                         • Work
                                         • Church
                                         • Life
                                       • How do people feel shame?
                                         • Mentally
                                         • Physically
                                         • Financially
                                         • Relationships / Socially
                                       • How does a person conquer their shame?
                                         • It depends on the person and their reason for feeling ashamed.
                                         • A better understanding of themselves.
                                         • A better understanding of their kinks.
                                         • A better understanding of their religion.
                                         • Therapy
                                    Important Links:
                                    1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/512
                                    2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                    3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                    4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                    5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                    6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                    Show Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701
                                    
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                                    ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57667820Thu, 16 Nov 2023 17:01:21 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: Aug 20, 2023 / Published: Nov 16, 2023 - - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths,...Recorded: Aug 20, 2023 / Published: Nov 16, 2023
                                    • - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                    • - In this episode, we are diving into the why, what, when, where, and how of people being ashamed of their own kinks.
                                    • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                    • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                    • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                    • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                    1. - “I'm Ashamed of My Kink-S05E12”
                                       • Why do people feel shame?
                                         • Society
                                         • Family
                                         • Friends
                                         • Religion
                                         • Self-esteem
                                         • Self judgement
                                         • Outed
                                       • What exactly do people feel?
                                         • Shame
                                         • Disgrace
                                         • Persecution
                                       • When do people feel ashamed?
                                         • When they fantasize.
                                         • When they perform.
                                         • When it's been done.
                                         • When others talk about it.
                                       • Where do people feel shame?
                                         • Home
                                         • Work
                                         • Church
                                         • Life
                                       • How do people feel shame?
                                         • Mentally
                                         • Physically
                                         • Financially
                                         • Relationships / Socially
                                       • How does a person conquer their shame?
                                         • It depends on the person and their reason for feeling ashamed.
                                         • A better understanding of themselves.
                                         • A better understanding of their kinks.
                                         • A better understanding of their religion.
                                         • Therapy
                                    Important Links:
                                    1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/512
                                    2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                    3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                    4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                    5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                    6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                    Show Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701
                                    
                                    • - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
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                                    • - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                    • - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
                                    • - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, XxLilyXxX, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and The Plummer
                                    • - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit,...]]>6520bdsm,education,help,kink,kinkshaming,self,selfhelp,sex,shame,shamingyes512fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/511Recorded: August 20, 2023 / Published: Oct. 18, 2023
                                      
                                      • - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                      • - In this episode, we are talking about the current push to be kinky.
                                      • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                      • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                      • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                      • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                      • - “So, You're Not Kinky, What Now?-S05E11”
                                      • https://hellogiggles.com/i-tried-being-kinky/ By Katka Lapelosova April 16, 2023
                                      1. • When it comes to sex, I am always interested in exploring new experiences and pushing the boundaries of what is considered normal. But as someone who has dedicated a majority of my adult life to researching and writing about and sex and relationships, I’m surprisingly not kinky.
                                      I’ve had hundreds of sex partners, yet I’ve always been a bit hesitant about venturing into the world of fetishes. A lot of my sexually liberated friends think you’re not really good at sex until you’ve tried everything in the book: sex parties, swinging, furries, pony play, wax play… the list goes on and on.But sometimes I get overwhelmed just visiting a sex shop. Will a latex bodysuit chafe my nipples? How many calories are in edible panties? Does a leather whip really need a bluetooth speaker?And then there’s the question of why even bother with all this off-the-wall stuff when the simple act itself is pretty damn good. My therapist once told me kink is always rooted in something much deeper than the act of sex itself.“It’s why all these CEOs are into dominatrixes and humiliation,” she explained. “They spend their days screaming at lower level employees and manipulating people into doing what they need to build their business. They want to be dommed because they want someone else to make the decisions for once.”I certainly am not looking to sex to alleviate work-related imbalances. But I did wonder, am I really not sexually adventurous if I’m kink-averse? Am I missing out? I decided to explore it more, and this is what I learned.
                                      Apparently, butt stuff isn’t kinky
                                      BDSM is such a head trip
                                      Costumes are expensive
                                      .And then there are some things I just flat out won’t doI
                                      Stop telling me I’ll “find my kink” eventually
                                      
                                      Important Links:
                                      
                                      1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/511
                                      2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                      3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                      4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                      5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                      6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                      Show Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023):
                                      Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                      Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                      
                                      Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                      Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                      257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                      Alcoa, TN 37701
                                      
                                      
                                      • - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                      • - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                      • - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                      • - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
                                      • - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, XxLilyXxX, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and The Plummer
                                      • - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and littlebear22
                                      • - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, and Astridinchains
                                      Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)
                                      
                                      • - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                      • - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                      • - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                      • - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                      • - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
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                                      ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57294791Wed, 18 Oct 2023 19:18:03 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: August 20, 2023 / Published: Oct. 18, 2023 - - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt athttps://kuldrinskrypt.com. - - In this episode, we are talking about the current push to be kinky. - - Rules to Love By:...Recorded: August 20, 2023 / Published: Oct. 18, 2023
                                      
                                      • - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                      • - In this episode, we are talking about the current push to be kinky.
                                      • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                      • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                      • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                      • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                      • - “So, You're Not Kinky, What Now?-S05E11”
                                      • https://hellogiggles.com/i-tried-being-kinky/ By Katka Lapelosova April 16, 2023
                                      1. • When it comes to sex, I am always interested in exploring new experiences and pushing the boundaries of what is considered normal. But as someone who has dedicated a majority of my adult life to researching and writing about and sex and relationships, I’m surprisingly not kinky.
                                      I’ve had hundreds of sex partners, yet I’ve always been a bit hesitant about venturing into the world of fetishes. A lot of my sexually liberated friends think you’re not really good at sex until you’ve tried everything in the book: sex parties, swinging, furries, pony play, wax play… the list goes on and on.But sometimes I get overwhelmed just visiting a sex shop. Will a latex bodysuit chafe my nipples? How many calories are in edible panties? Does a leather whip really need a bluetooth speaker?And then there’s the question of why even bother with all this off-the-wall stuff when the simple act itself is pretty damn good. My therapist once told me kink is always rooted in something much deeper than the act of sex itself.“It’s why all these CEOs are into dominatrixes and humiliation,” she explained. “They spend their days screaming at lower level employees and manipulating people into doing what they need to build their business. They want to be dommed because they want someone else to make the decisions for once.”I certainly am not looking to sex to alleviate work-related imbalances. But I did wonder, am I really not sexually adventurous if I’m kink-averse? Am I missing out? I decided to explore it more, and this is what I learned.
                                      Apparently, butt stuff isn’t kinky
                                      BDSM is such a head trip
                                      Costumes are expensive
                                      .And then there are some things I just flat out won’t doI
                                      Stop telling me I’ll “find my kink” eventually
                                      
                                      Important Links:
                                      
                                      1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/511
                                      2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                      3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                      4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                      5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                      6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                      Show Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023):
                                      Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                      Make a one-time donation: 4660bdsm,education,kink,kinky,notkinky,selfhelpyes511fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/510Recorded: July 16, 2023 / Published: Oct 4, 2023
                                      
                                      • Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                      • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                      • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                      • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                      • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                      1. - “Kinks Don't Match? End It!-S05E10”
                                         • https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/jun/23/i-am-kinky-but-my-partner-is-not-should-i-end-our-secure-loving-relationship
                                         • “Every relationship involves sacrifices, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. But yours might not be as fulfilling as you think – for either party
                                         • Talk about Stephen Ing’s “Your magic sex number” and personal experiences to intro the topic.
                                         • “I am kinky but my partner is not. Should I end our secure, loving relationship?” by Eleanor Gordon-Smith Thu 22 Jun 2023
                                      I have been in a loving relationship for three years. When I first met him, I told a close friend that I thought I’d met the love of my life. That initial infatuation gave way to a more realistic affection, but he’s smart, handsome and caring. I enjoy our time together and feel secure and trusting.
                                      Sexually, things were enjoyable at the beginning. That calmed down into a less frantic dynamic but we still have sex once per week.I am kinky and he is not. We have discussed this and he doesn’t feel comfortable doing the things that I enjoy.
                                      Initially, I thought this would be OK – relationships always have compromise – but as time has gone on I am not sure it is something I can forgo. He has made clear that an open relationship would not be acceptable to him.I have an anonymous online profile on a kink dating site. I started talking with someone who shared my interests. We met, and the sexual encounter was satisfying to a level I have never experienced before. We have continued to meet on a weekly basis for six months. Neither party knows about the other.I do not want to end my relationship, but I cannot live without this aspect of my sexuality. I feel guilt about being unfaithful but exploring in this way has enabled me to stay in the relationship.
                                      Should I leave my partner because of the gap between our sexual tastes? Should I give up my kink desires for what is otherwise a relationship I would have no reason to leave?
                                      My boyfriend’s aggressive dog has stalled our plans to move in together. How can we move forward?
                                      Eleanor says: Listen, it’s fine to feel that this part of your sexuality is something you can’t live without. It’s also fine to decide that a relationship isn’t going to work because of that. We get to leave relationships when staying would mean being bereft over missing out on something. That doesn’t get less true just because the thing in question is sexual. You could leave if you wanted kids and your partner didn’t; if you wanted to live in a particular country and your partner didn’t. Continuing a relationship isn’t just a question of whether you like this person, it’s a question of whether your lives can really dovetail.
                                      But what’s never going to be fine is continually deceiving your partner into staying in a relationship that isn’t the way they think it is or the way they want it to be. You say your partner has been clear that he wouldn’t be alright with an open relationship. Unbeknown to him, though, he’s already been in one, and continuing these meetups is continuing to keep him in an arrangement you know he wouldn’t be OK with.
                                      Your partner will be making sacrifices to be in this relationship. They might differ from the sacrifices you make in their content and exact contours, but all of us change our lives and reorder our priorities to be in a relationship. So far as I can tell, you’re accepting this person’s sacrifices – monogamy, commitment, support, cooperation, friendship. He’s making considerable alterations to his life in order to have a certain kind of relationship with you, which, in fact, he isn’t getting.
                                      It is not deviant or selfish to decide that you have to have this part of yourself satisfied. For many of us, sexuality isn’t an optional extra to a life well-lived, it’s just as crucial an ingredient in wellbeing as friends or exercise or time with family. The fact that it’s called “kink” and gets relegated to the sidelines of subculture doesn’t mean you have to relegate it to the sidelines of your life.
                                      But it’s just never going to be the case that the best thing to do would be to carry on deceiving someone who you respect. Quite aside from the obvious unfairness, it also won’t get you what you want – not really. You want to feel electric. You don’t want to keep this part of yourself separate from the rest of your life forever, so that it’s always wrapped up with splintering; with concealment.
                                      You said that, this aside, you’d have no reason to leave. As I see it, though, you do have a reason to leave: the fact that if you stay, you’ll be deciding your partner should remain in a relationship of significant deceit instead of finding someone whose preferences about sex and monogamy really do align with his. Whether to end this relationship isn’t just a question of, as you put it, what you want.”
                                      
                                      Important Links:
                                      
                                      1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/510
                                      2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                      3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                      4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                      5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                      6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                      Show Producers (Updated April 15, 2023):
                                      Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                      Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                      Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                      Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                      257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                      Alcoa, TN 37701
                                      
                                      
                                      • - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                      • - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                      • - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                      • - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
                                      • - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, clk124, gentleman_sadist
                                      • - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, XxLilyXxX, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, A.U., Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, and Valfreyja
                                      • - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dark Diamonte, and Astridinchains
                                      Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                      
                                      • - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                      • - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                      Contact info:
                                      
                                      • Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                        Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                        Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                        Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
                                      ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57061061Wed, 04 Oct 2023 18:18:38 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: July 16, 2023 / Published: Oct 4, 2023 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt athttps://kuldrinskrypt.com. - - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com) - 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed -...Recorded: July 16, 2023 / Published: Oct 4, 2023
                                      
                                      • Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                      • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                      • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                      • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                      • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                      1. - “Kinks Don't Match? End It!-S05E10”
                                         • https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/jun/23/i-am-kinky-but-my-partner-is-not-should-i-end-our-secure-loving-relationship
                                         • “Every relationship involves sacrifices, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. But yours might not be as fulfilling as you think – for either party
                                         • Talk about Stephen Ing’s “Your magic sex number” and personal experiences to intro the topic.
                                         • “I am kinky but my partner is not. Should I end our secure, loving relationship?” by Eleanor Gordon-Smith Thu 22 Jun 2023
                                      I have been in a loving relationship for three years. When I first met him, I told a close friend that I thought I’d met the love of my life. That initial infatuation gave way to a more realistic affection, but he’s smart, handsome and caring. I enjoy our time together and feel secure and trusting.
                                      Sexually, things were enjoyable at the beginning. That calmed down into a less frantic dynamic but we still have sex once per week.I am kinky and he is not. We have discussed this and he doesn’t feel comfortable doing the things that I enjoy.
                                      Initially, I thought this would be OK – relationships always have compromise – but as time has gone on I am not sure it is something I can forgo. He has made clear that an open relationship would not be acceptable to him.I have an anonymous online profile on a kink dating site. I started talking with someone who shared my interests. We met, and the sexual encounter was satisfying to a level I have never experienced before. We have continued to meet on a weekly basis for six months. Neither party knows about the other.I do not want to end my relationship, but I cannot live without this aspect of my sexuality. I feel guilt about being unfaithful but exploring in this way has enabled me to stay in the relationship.
                                      Should I leave my partner because of the gap between our sexual tastes? Should I give up my kink desires for what is otherwise a relationship I would have no reason to leave?
                                      My boyfriend’s aggressive dog has stalled our plans to move in together. How can we move forward?
                                      Eleanor says: Listen, it’s fine to feel that this part of your sexuality is something you can’t live without. It’s also fine to decide that a relationship isn’t going to work because of that. We get to leave relationships when staying would mean being bereft over missing out on something. That doesn’t get less true just because the thing in question is sexual. You could leave if you wanted kids and your partner didn’t; if you wanted to live in a particular country and your partner didn’t. Continuing a relationship isn’t just a question of whether you like this person, it’s a question of whether your lives can really dovetail.
                                      But what’s never going to be fine is continually deceiving your partner into staying in a relationship that isn’t the way they think it is or the way they want it to be. You say your partner has been clear that he wouldn’t be alright with an open relationship. Unbeknown to him, though, he’s already been in one, and...]]>4927bdsm,education,help,kink,relations,relationship,self,selfhelp,self-help,sexyes510fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/508Recorded: July 2, 2023 / Published: August 10, 2023
                                      
                                      • - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                      • - In this episode, we are talking about one of my favorite things-edging.
                                      • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                      • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                      • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                      • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                      1. - “A Guide to Edging-S05E08”
                                         • Delayed gratification: Building up to orgasm and repeatedly backing off builds up the physical, mental, and emotional anticipation typically resulting in harder, longer, and more fulfilling orgasms.
                                         • Control: It is very common in BDSM play for the Dom(me) to deny or edge a submissive. Denial of a basic animalistic urge can be an extremely intoxicating type of control
                                         • Awareness: Edging tends to make people more self-aware of their bodies and minds involving their orgasmic state and how things like breathing and internal thoughts add to or take away from their orgasms. They can then apply that knowledge to other sexual experiences when not edging to provide similar results.
                                         • According to Anne Russo, LCSW, “edging involves building up to orgasm and then slowing down or taking breaks before you or your partner reach climax. The process, sometimes called “surfing” or “peaking,” can increase blood flow to the genitals to enhance arousal. This can create a lot of sexual tension and excitement, which can lead to a really intense and pleasurable orgasm. It’s like a rollercoaster ride for your body.”
                                         • The prolonged release of dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, testosterone, and estrogen can provide a much deeper and longer-lasting euphoric state.
                                         • Addiction: due to the release of neurotransmitters and hormones it is an easily addictive behavior.
                                         • Loss of orgasm: This can happen once (common), often (common), or permanently (rare). There is a fine line between an edging, a denied, and a ruined orgasm. Many people if edged too long can become so mentally frustrated that it gets in the way of the physical release.
                                         • Some people start requiring longer and longer “rollercoaster rides” to get the same level of chemical release. If this is constantly being fed, the mind and body will become programmed through classic conditioning and won’t be able to get enough to complete the release. You will easily recognize this happening and you know to take a few weeks or even a few months from all sexual activity to allow for a reset. It’s also advised to seek help from a professional therapist or psychologist who specializes in sexual addictions and dysfunctions.
                                         • Diminished or loss of genital sensitivity: On average it takes women 20 minutes to climax and men 2-10 minutes. Think about the amount of stimulation that it takes for an hour, two-hour, or ten-hour “rollercoaster ride” of edging! Now, multiply that by the average number of times a person masturbates and has sex a week. I don’t have those figures but that’s got to be a metric shit-ton. The nerves are so sensitive that prolonged, intense stimulation can cause them to dull. This can make it difficult, hard, or even impossible to orgasm.
                                         • The numbers game: rating the pleasure intensity on a scale from 0-10 and picking numbers or rolling dice for pleasure peaks and valleys.
                                         • How close can you get? Pushing for the exact edge of climax without going over.
                                         • Ejaculating without orgasm: Running a man to edge of climax and then removing all stimulation can cause men to ejaculate without the full body orgasm. This often means no loss of erection and further build-ups to finally achieve climax is possible.
                                      • A great article on edging by Tianna Soto: https://stylecaster.com/lifestyle/love-sex/1388127/what-is-edging/
                                      • What is edging? Edging, peaking, or surfing is a sexual technique whereby an orgasm is controlled for the purpose of prolonged pleasure and/or agony, It can be performed alone or with a partner and involves the maintenance of a high level of sexual arousal for an extended period without reaching climax.
                                      • Why?
                                      • How does it work?
                                      • Who’s it for? Everyone, right?!?! Well, no. I haven’t been able to find any statistics I trust so basing it only on my personal experiences, I’d say half or most people have stronger, longer-lasting orgasms from edging, around 20% have mixed results, and 20% have consistently diminished orgasmic experiences.
                                      • Risks?
                                      • How? Easy! First, if doing this with a partner, talk about it thoroughly and openly. Make sure everyone is on board, consent is agreed upon, and an easy safe word is known. Bring yourself or your partner to the brink of orgasm and slow down, stop, or move the focal point of stimulation to another part of the body. Do this as many times as desired or until a safe word is called. Be sure to talk about what that safe word means. Does it mean all sexual contact must stop? Is it a way to say “I can’t take it anymore! I need to cum NOW!” or does it indicate a need to check in and see which one the person wants. I prefer that “yellow” means “check in with me”, “May I PLEASE cum, Sir” tells me she’s had enough and want to be finished off, and “red” means all activity stops, I check on their physical, mental, and emotional safety, provide any medical attention, support, food, drink, or space needed, and enter in to aftercare. It is not the time for 20 questions of “Why did you call red?!?!?!” They will get to that. It is time to make sure your partner feels and is safe.
                                      • Games:
                                      Important Links:
                                      
                                      1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/508
                                      2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                      3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                      4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                      5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
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                                      ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56754335Sun, 10 Sep 2023 19:21:22 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: July 2, 2023 / Published: August 10, 2023 - - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt athttps://kuldrinskrypt.com. - - In this episode, we are talking about one of my favorite things-edging. - - Rules to Love...Recorded: July 2, 2023 / Published: August 10, 2023
                                      
                                      • - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                      • - In this episode, we are talking about one of my favorite things-edging.
                                      • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                      • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                      • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                      • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                      1. - “A Guide to Edging-S05E08”
                                         • Delayed gratification: Building up to orgasm and repeatedly backing off builds up the physical, mental, and emotional anticipation typically resulting in harder, longer, and more fulfilling orgasms.
                                         • Control: It is very common in BDSM play for the Dom(me) to deny or edge a submissive. Denial of a basic animalistic urge can be an extremely intoxicating type of control
                                         • Awareness: Edging tends to make people more self-aware of their bodies and minds involving their orgasmic state and how things like breathing and internal thoughts add to or take away from their orgasms. They can then apply that knowledge to other sexual experiences when not edging to provide similar results.
                                         • According to Anne Russo, LCSW, “edging involves building up to orgasm and then slowing down or taking breaks before you or your partner reach climax. The process, sometimes called “surfing” or “peaking,” can increase blood flow to the genitals to enhance arousal. This can create a lot of sexual tension and excitement, which can lead to a really intense and pleasurable orgasm. It’s like a rollercoaster ride for your body.”
                                         • The prolonged release of dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, testosterone, and estrogen can provide a much deeper and longer-lasting euphoric state.
                                         • Addiction: due to the release of neurotransmitters and hormones it is an easily addictive behavior.
                                         • Loss of orgasm: This can happen once (common), often (common), or permanently (rare). There is a fine line between an edging, a denied, and a ruined orgasm. Many people if edged too long can become so mentally frustrated that it gets in the way of the physical release.
                                         • Some people start requiring longer and longer “rollercoaster rides” to get the same level of chemical release. If this is constantly being fed, the mind and body will become programmed through classic conditioning and won’t be able to get enough to complete the release. You will easily recognize this happening and you know to take a few weeks or even a few months from all sexual activity to allow for a reset. It’s also advised to seek help from a professional therapist or psychologist who specializes in sexual addictions and dysfunctions.
                                         • Diminished or loss of genital sensitivity: On average it takes women 20 minutes to climax and men 2-10 minutes. Think about the amount of stimulation that it takes for an hour, two-hour, or ten-hour “rollercoaster ride” of edging! Now, multiply that by the average number of times a person masturbates and has sex a week. I don’t have those figures but that’s got to be a metric shit-ton. The nerves are so sensitive that prolonged, intense stimulation can cause them to dull. This can make it difficult, hard, or even impossible to orgasm.
                                         • The numbers game: rating the pleasure intensity on a scale from 0-10 and picking numbers or rolling dice for pleasure peaks and valleys.
                                         • How close can you get? Pushing for the exact edge of climax without going over.
                                         • Ejaculating without orgasm: Running a man to edge of climax and then removing all stimulation can cause men to ejaculate without the full body...]]>3814bdsm,dom,edging,education,subyes510fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/507Recorded: June 18, 2023 / Published: Sept. 2, 2023
                                           • - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                           • - In this episode, Mayfair and I discuss most of the things to know about BDSM brats.
                                           • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                           • • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                             • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                             • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                           • - “Most Things to Know About BDSM Brats-S05E07”
                                           • • “A beginner's guide to being a 'brat' in BDSM”
                                           1. • • By: Gigi Engle on April 20,, 2023
                                                • https://mashable.com/article/bdsm-brats-explained
                                              • -What is a brat?
                                           “Make me.” According to the Fetlife Kinktionairy, a brat is defined as “A person who likes to exhibit one or more of the following behaviors: teasing, playful, sneaky, mischievous, stubborn, rebellious, disrespectful, or disobedient. This behavior may be a component of their power exchange relationship and should be consented to beforehand”Emerson Karsh, a kink educator, said “A "brat" is a delightfully disobedient sub within the Dom/sub dynamic in BDSM. "Brats enjoy questioning dominance, as well as like for dominance to be proven to them."- Why would you want to be a brat during play or sex? Why wouldn't you? Being cheeky, disobedient, snarky, and naughty can be fun. It creates a sense of playfulness that is often missing in sex. Being a brat is a very fun way to engage with your submissive side, without being a stereotypical sub. Brats are mouthy, badly behaved, and keen on punishment."Brats get great enjoyment from playing [a game of] cat and mouse, defying authority, and in turn receiving a ‘punishment’ from their Brat Tamer," explains Julieta Chiaramonte, another kink instructor and sex expert.If you’re turned on by disobedience, this might be something you want to explore.-What it means to be a 'brat.'The brat can be a very fun submissive persona. A brat intentionally misbehaves in order to get a rise out of their Dom, often eliciting "punishments." The brat enjoys driving the Dom a bit mad with their naughtiness. It’s all centered around defying authority, which can be very hot.A brat will taunt, push boundaries, and test their Dom’s limits and patience in hopes of causing a reaction. The Brat Tamer/brat dynamic is typically very playful and easily adjusted for nearly any consenting dynamic. -How is this submission?Brats offer their submission in a way that is amusing, consensual, and done for a reaction. You’re not being obedient in the traditional D/s way, but a brat will submit when their Dom decides to punish them.-The Dom is the 'brat tamer.'They may choose to go by a different name like Sir, Daddy, Mommy,or whatever but the brat tamer is their style of Domination.Their 'role' is to put their brat in their place, remind them of the rules, and enforce punishments and order that was negotiated. While it may not appear like it to some Brat Tamer is an authoritative and patient role that one must be comfortable and confident with accepting.Brat Tamer is not a soft roll. You can not be afraid to put your foot down. It takes a lot of skill and development. You have to hone your skills in giving your brat space to be a brat and maintain a healthy power exchange. It could be through punishments, orders, ignoring the brat or the behavior, or something else.-How brats act out and how they get punished.Ask a thousand people and get a thousand answers. However, here are a few common examples for each:
                                           • • • Verbally:
                                                 • Make me.
                                                 • That’s all?
                                                 • You can do better than that.
                                                 • You can’t make me.
                                                 • Oh, yeah? What’s the worst that can happen?
                                                 • Prove it.
                                               • Behaviorally
                                                 • Throwing things
                                                 • Sitting down when told to “come here”
                                               • Punishments
                                           • • • Spankings.
                                               • Orgasm denial.
                                               • Forced silence.
                                               • Getting walked like a puppy.
                                               • Forced orgasm.
                                               • Bondage.
                                               • Tickling.
                                               • Being put in a cage.
                                           -How to engage in brat play in a safe way.
                                           • • • Do your research.
                                               • Communication and consent.
                                               • Pick a safe word.
                                               • Start Low Go Slow
                                               • Don’t be afraid to get creative.
                                           Important Links:
                                           1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/507
                                           2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                           3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                           4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                           5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                           6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
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                                           Alcoa, TN 37701
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                                           • - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                           • - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, Maxi, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
                                           • - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, and clk124
                                           • - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, XxLilyXxX, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, A.U., Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, and Valfreyja
                                           • - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dark Diamonte, and Astridinchains
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                                           • - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
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                                           ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56670612Sat, 02 Sep 2023 20:32:23 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: June 18, 2023 / Published: Sept. 2, 2023 - - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel...Recorded: June 18, 2023 / Published: Sept. 2, 2023
                                           • - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                           • - In this episode, Mayfair and I discuss most of the things to know about BDSM brats.
                                           • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                           • • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                             • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                             • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                           • - “Most Things to Know About BDSM Brats-S05E07”
                                           • • “A beginner's guide to being a 'brat' in BDSM”
                                           1. • • By: Gigi Engle on April 20,, 2023
                                                • https://mashable.com/article/bdsm-brats-explained
                                              • -What is a brat?
                                           “Make me.” According to the Fetlife Kinktionairy, a brat is defined as “A person who likes to exhibit one or more of the following behaviors: teasing, playful, sneaky, mischievous, stubborn, rebellious, disrespectful, or disobedient. This behavior may be a component of their power exchange relationship and should be consented to beforehand”Emerson Karsh, a kink educator, said “A "brat" is a delightfully disobedient sub within the Dom/sub dynamic in BDSM. "Brats enjoy questioning dominance, as well as like for dominance to be proven to them."- Why would you want to be a brat during play or sex? Why wouldn't you? Being cheeky, disobedient, snarky, and naughty can be fun. It creates a sense of playfulness that is often missing in sex. Being a brat is a very fun way to engage with your submissive side, without being a stereotypical sub. Brats are mouthy, badly behaved, and keen on punishment."Brats get great enjoyment from playing [a game of] cat and mouse, defying authority, and in turn receiving a ‘punishment’ from their Brat Tamer," explains Julieta Chiaramonte, another kink instructor and sex expert.If you’re turned on by disobedience, this might be something you want to explore.-What it means to be a 'brat.'The brat can be a very fun submissive persona. A brat intentionally misbehaves in order to get a rise out of their Dom, often eliciting "punishments." The brat enjoys driving the Dom a bit mad with their naughtiness. It’s all centered around defying authority, which can be very hot.A brat will taunt, push boundaries, and test their Dom’s limits and patience in hopes of causing a reaction. The Brat Tamer/brat dynamic is typically very playful and easily adjusted for nearly any consenting dynamic. -How is this submission?Brats offer their submission in a way that is amusing, consensual, and done for a reaction. You’re not being obedient in the traditional D/s way, but a brat will submit when their Dom decides to punish them.-The Dom is the 'brat tamer.'They may choose to go by a different name like Sir, Daddy, Mommy,or whatever but the brat tamer is their style of Domination.Their 'role' is to put their brat in their place, remind them of the rules, and enforce punishments and order that was negotiated. While it may not appear like it to some Brat Tamer is an authoritative and patient role that one must be comfortable and confident with accepting.Brat Tamer is not a soft roll. You can not be afraid to put your foot down. It takes a...]]>4489bdsm,brat,brats,education,sex,tameryes56fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/506Recorded: May 21st, 2023 / Published: August 19th, 2023
                                           
                                           • - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                           • - In this episode, Mayfair and I are diving deep into the new legal standards involving BDSM.
                                           • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                           • • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                             • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                             • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                           • - “New Consent Laws for BDSM-S05E06”
                                           • “Criminal Charges and Consensual Kink New guidelines may help consenting adults avoid being charged.” Posted June 2, 2023 by: David J. Ley, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist and the author of “Insatiable Wives, Women Who Stray and The Men Who Love Them.”
                                           • • https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-who-stray/202306/criminal-charges-and-consensual-kink
                                           • • KEY POINTS
                                           1. • • BDSM and kinky sexual practices are increasingly seen as forms of normal sexual diversity.
                                                • BDSM and kinky sex can result in criminal charges, even when such behaviors are completely consensual.
                                                • New guidelines, known as Explicit Prior Permission (EPP), may offer protection from prosecution.
                                                • EPP requires explicit informed consent, no extreme behaviors, and an ability to end activities.
                                              • There is increasing evidence that human sexuality involves far more diverse flavors and interests than historically acknowledged. When von Kafft-Ebing first began labeling various paraphilic sexual interests, they were believed to be generally rare. But research by Joyal and Carpentier reports that nearly 50 percent of a non-clinical, random sample disclosed being interested in at least one sexual behavior historically deemed unusual or anomalous.
                                           • • Criminal Conflict With BDSM
                                           
                                           
                                           • • EPP: Explicit Prior Permission
                                           Important Links:
                                           1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/506
                                           2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                           3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                           4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                           5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                           6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                           Show Producers (Updated April 15, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701
                                           
                                           • - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                           • - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                           • - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                           • - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, Maxi, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
                                           • - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, and clk124
                                           • - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, XxLilyXxX, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, A.U., Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, and Valfreyja
                                           • - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dark Diamonte, and Astridinchains
                                           Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                           • - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                           • - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                           • - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                           • - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                           • - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
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                                           ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56523090Sat, 19 Aug 2023 23:16:25 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: May 21st, 2023 / Published: August 19th, 2023 - - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt athttps://kuldrinskrypt.com. - - In this episode, Mayfair and I are diving deep into the new legal standards involving...Recorded: May 21st, 2023 / Published: August 19th, 2023
                                           
                                           • - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                           • - In this episode, Mayfair and I are diving deep into the new legal standards involving BDSM.
                                           • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                           • • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                             • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                             • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                           • - “New Consent Laws for BDSM-S05E06”
                                           • “Criminal Charges and Consensual Kink New guidelines may help consenting adults avoid being charged.” Posted June 2, 2023 by: David J. Ley, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist and the author of “Insatiable Wives, Women Who Stray and The Men Who Love Them.”
                                           • • https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-who-stray/202306/criminal-charges-and-consensual-kink
                                           • • KEY POINTS
                                           1. • • BDSM and kinky sexual practices are increasingly seen as forms of normal sexual diversity.
                                                • BDSM and kinky sex can result in criminal charges, even when such behaviors are completely consensual.
                                                • New guidelines, known as Explicit Prior Permission (EPP), may offer protection from prosecution.
                                                • EPP requires explicit informed consent, no extreme behaviors, and an ability to end activities.
                                              • There is increasing evidence that human sexuality involves far more diverse flavors and interests than historically acknowledged. When von Kafft-Ebing first began labeling various paraphilic sexual interests, they were believed to be generally rare. But research by Joyal and Carpentier reports that nearly 50 percent of a non-clinical, random sample disclosed being interested in at least one sexual behavior historically deemed unusual or anomalous.
                                           • • Criminal Conflict With BDSM
                                           
                                           
                                           • • EPP: Explicit Prior Permission
                                           Important Links:
                                           1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/506
                                           2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                           3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                           4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                           5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                           6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                           Show Producers (Updated April 15, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701
                                           
                                           • - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                           • - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                           • - Master Producer...]]>3482bdsm,bdsmandthelaw,education,law,legal,ncsf,sexyesfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/let-s-talk-about-rough-sex-s05e05--56451135Recorded: May 21, 2023 / Published: August 12, 2023
                                             
                                             • - Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                             • - In this episode, Mayfair and I are talking about the somewhat controversial topic of blood play.
                                             • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                             • • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                               • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                               • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                             • - “Let’s Talk about Rough Sex-S05E05”
                                             • • “Kinktok, BDSM and manhandling: never mind the so-called "sex recession", here's what horny young people are getting up to in the bedroom.” LIFE Words: by Brit Dawson / 16th May 2023
                                             • • https://theface.com/life/why-is-everyone-so-into-rough-sex-right-now-dating-relationships-advice
                                             • • Whether you’re single and sleeping around or shacked up and living vicariously through your mates’ wild dating lives, you’ll have likely heard that sex is going through a rough patch right now.
                                             
                                             Important Links:
                                             
                                             1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/505
                                             2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                             3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                             4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                             5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                             6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                             Show Producers (Updated April 15, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                             Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                             257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                             Alcoa, TN 37701
                                             
                                             1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                             2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                             3. - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                             4. - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, Maxi, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
                                             5. - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, and clk124
                                             6. - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, XxLilyXxX, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, A.U., Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, and Valfreyja
                                             7. - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dark Diamonte, and Astridinchains
                                             Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                             
                                             1. - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                             2. - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                             3. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                             4. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                             5. - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                             6. - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                             Contact info:
                                             
                                             • • • Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
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                                                 • Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
                                             ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56451135Sat, 12 Aug 2023 19:46:50 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: May 21, 2023 / Published: August 12, 2023 - - Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt athttps://kuldrinskrypt.com. - - In this episode, Mayfair and I are talking about the somewhat controversial topic of...Recorded: May 21, 2023 / Published: August 12, 2023
                                             
                                             • - Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                             • - In this episode, Mayfair and I are talking about the somewhat controversial topic of blood play.
                                             • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                             • • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                               • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                               • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                             • - “Let’s Talk about Rough Sex-S05E05”
                                             • • “Kinktok, BDSM and manhandling: never mind the so-called "sex recession", here's what horny young people are getting up to in the bedroom.” LIFE Words: by Brit Dawson / 16th May 2023
                                             • • https://theface.com/life/why-is-everyone-so-into-rough-sex-right-now-dating-relationships-advice
                                             • • Whether you’re single and sleeping around or shacked up and living vicariously through your mates’ wild dating lives, you’ll have likely heard that sex is going through a rough patch right now.
                                             
                                             Important Links:
                                             
                                             1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/505
                                             2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                             3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                             4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                             5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                             6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                             Show Producers (Updated April 15, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                             Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                             257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                             Alcoa, TN 37701
                                             
                                             1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                             2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                             3. - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                             4. - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, Maxi, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
                                             5. - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, and clk124
                                             6. - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, XxLilyXxX, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, A.U., Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, and Valfreyja
                                             7. - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator...]]>5470yes55fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/504Recorded: May 7, 2023 / Published: August 5, 2023
                                                
                                                • - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                • - In this episode, Mayfair and I are talking about the somewhat controversial topic of blood play.
                                                • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                1. - “BDSM Blood Play-S05E04”
                                                   • Playing to the point of bloodletting
                                                   • Blood bathing
                                                   • Blood consumption
                                                   • Menstrual blood
                                                   • Combining the erotic and the spiritual
                                                   • The connection with the person or people involved
                                                   • Impact Play
                                                   • Sharps
                                                   • Scratches
                                                   • Biting
                                                   • Syringe Draws
                                                   • Lancettes for diabetic testing
                                                   • Consumption: In very small amounts (say, a few teaspoons), and if the blood is free from pathogens (such as the many blood-borne diseases), blood might not harm you. Beyond that, watch out. The strange fact is, blood, when drank, is toxic. Sourced from “7 strange ways that people act like vampires” YouTube does not allow this link. For uncensored show notes visit: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/504
                                                   • Testing for fluid/blood bonding
                                                   • If biting, help mitigate risks by rinsing with an alcohol-based mouthwash.
                                                   • Standard Precautions Vs Universal Precautions
                                                   1. Universal precautions are applicable to all patients, while standard precautions provide an additional layer of protection for those at higher risk of transmitting certain infections. Together, they create a comprehensive and effective strategy for reducing the risk of healthcare-associated diseases.
                                                2. PPE
                                                   1. gloves, gowns, masks, protective eyewear, splatter protection,...
                                                3. Wound care
                                                   1. Disinfect with antiseptic. Do not use peroxide.
                                                   2. Apply wound care ointment.
                                                   3. Cover with sterile bandages.
                                                   4. Keep clean and change dressing regularly.
                                                • Disclaimer: We are not doctors. We are not providing 100% of all information on the topic of blood play. While we enjoy it, for safety purposes we do not endorse anyone participating in blood play activities. If you choose to participate in this behavior, you are doing so at your own risk and with the understanding that you are responsible for further information, education, risks, harms, and deaths resulting from this activity.
                                                • What is blood play?
                                                • Why?
                                                • How?
                                                • Precautions?
                                                Important Links:
                                                
                                                1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/504
                                                2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                                4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                Show Producers (Updated April 15, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                
                                                
                                                1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                3. - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                4. - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, Maxi, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
                                                5. - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, and clk124
                                                6. - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, XxLilyXxX, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, A.U., Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, and Valfreyja
                                                7. - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dark Diamonte, and Astridinchains
                                                Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                
                                                1. - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                2. - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                3. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                4. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                5. - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                6. - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                Contact info:
                                                
                                                • Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                • Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                • Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                • Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
                                                ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56379608Sat, 05 Aug 2023 19:36:07 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: May 7, 2023 / Published: August 5, 2023 - - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt athttps://kuldrinskrypt.com. - - In this episode, Mayfair and I are talking about the somewhat controversial topic of blood...Recorded: May 7, 2023 / Published: August 5, 2023
                                                
                                                • - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                • - In this episode, Mayfair and I are talking about the somewhat controversial topic of blood play.
                                                • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                1. - “BDSM Blood Play-S05E04”
                                                   • Playing to the point of bloodletting
                                                   • Blood bathing
                                                   • Blood consumption
                                                   • Menstrual blood
                                                   • Combining the erotic and the spiritual
                                                   • The connection with the person or people involved
                                                   • Impact Play
                                                   • Sharps
                                                   • Scratches
                                                   • Biting
                                                   • Syringe Draws
                                                   • Lancettes for diabetic testing
                                                   • Consumption: In very small amounts (say, a few teaspoons), and if the blood is free from pathogens (such as the many blood-borne diseases), blood might not harm you. Beyond that, watch out. The strange fact is, blood, when drank, is toxic. Sourced from “7 strange ways that people act like vampires” YouTube does not allow this link. For uncensored show notes visit: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/504
                                                   • Testing for fluid/blood bonding
                                                   • If biting, help mitigate risks by rinsing with an alcohol-based mouthwash.
                                                   • Standard Precautions Vs Universal Precautions
                                                   1. Universal precautions are applicable to all patients, while standard precautions provide an additional layer of protection for those at higher risk of transmitting certain infections. Together, they create a comprehensive and effective strategy for reducing the risk of healthcare-associated diseases.
                                                2. PPE
                                                   1. gloves, gowns, masks, protective eyewear, splatter protection,...
                                                3. Wound care
                                                   1. Disinfect with antiseptic. Do not use peroxide.
                                                   2. Apply wound care ointment.
                                                   3. Cover with sterile bandages.
                                                   4. Keep clean and change dressing regularly.
                                                • Disclaimer: We are not doctors. We are not providing 100% of all information on the topic of blood play. While we enjoy it, for safety purposes we do not endorse anyone participating in blood play activities. If you choose to participate in this behavior, you are doing so at your own risk and with the understanding that you are responsible for further information, education, risks, harms, and deaths resulting from this activity.
                                                • What is blood play?
                                                • Why?
                                                • How?
                                                • Precautions?
                                                Important Links:
                                                
                                                1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/504
                                                2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                                4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                Show Producers (Updated April 15, 2023):Become a show producer: 54fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/509Recorded: July 16, 2023 / Published: July 21, 2023
                                                • - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                • - In this episode, we are talking to Bueller, the mind behind “Red and Black” which is a new heist movie featuring a femme fatal Dominatrix, BDSM, and a rollercoaster of fun.
                                                • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                1. - “"Red and Black" Movie Interview w/ Bueller-S05E09”
                                                • Bueller is a member of the Utah kink community and the Utah indie film industry. He's made over 50 short films (several of which have won awards) and is currently making his first feature film. In his spare time, he likes to read comic books.
                                                • Bueller’s social media: https://AllMyLinks.com/RedAndBlackMovie
                                                • IndieGoGo: https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/red-and-black-heist-movie/x/33237469
                                                Important Links:
                                                1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/509
                                                2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                                4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                Show Producers (Updated April 15, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                
                                                • - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                • - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                • - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                • - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, Maxi, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
                                                • - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, clk124, gentleman_sadist
                                                • - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, XxLilyXxX, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, A.U., Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, and Valfreyja
                                                • - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dark Diamonte, and Astridinchains
                                                Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                • - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                • - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                • - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                • - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                • - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                Contact info:
                                                • Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                • Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                • Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                • Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
                                                ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56181050Fri, 21 Jul 2023 22:25:56 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: July 16, 2023 / Published: July 21, 2023 - - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel...Recorded: July 16, 2023 / Published: July 21, 2023
                                                • - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                • - In this episode, we are talking to Bueller, the mind behind “Red and Black” which is a new heist movie featuring a femme fatal Dominatrix, BDSM, and a rollercoaster of fun.
                                                • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                1. - “"Red and Black" Movie Interview w/ Bueller-S05E09”
                                                • Bueller is a member of the Utah kink community and the Utah indie film industry. He's made over 50 short films (several of which have won awards) and is currently making his first feature film. In his spare time, he likes to read comic books.
                                                • Bueller’s social media: https://AllMyLinks.com/RedAndBlackMovie
                                                • IndieGoGo: https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/red-and-black-heist-movie/x/33237469
                                                Important Links:
                                                1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/509
                                                2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                                4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                Show Producers (Updated April 15, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                
                                                • - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                • - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                • - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                • - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, Maxi, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
                                                • - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, clk124, gentleman_sadist
                                                • - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, XxLilyXxX, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, A.U., Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Arden Solace, Pepa,...]]>5586bdsm,bueller,director,education,interview,movie,redandblack,sexyes59fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/503Recorded: April 16, 2023 / Published: July 3, 2023
                                                  • - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                  • - In this episode, Mayfair and I are joined by Arc_Ulfgrim and AcrDag to talk about everything primal.
                                                  • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                    • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                    • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                    • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                  • - “Primal Play with AcroDag-S05E03”
                                                  1. • AcroDag: Bio :Acrodag (He/Him) is a demi-queer sadistic werewolf and national presenter who seeks to share the knowledge they’ve gained as well as highlight diverse experiences and voices in our community. They host a weekly kink education podcast, ‘Topside Talk’ and they are the Education Director for Denver Sanctuary. With 10+ years in the kink community, they have a passion for all levels of kink education, but specialize in topics they’ve researched extensively, surrounding negotiation, pain/impact, primal play, and interrogation scenes.
                                                       • Top Side Talk Podcast: https://spotify.link/797L0oCc8xb
                                                     • What is Primal Play?
                                                     • What is a primal power exchange/dynamic like?
                                                     • How to negotiate a primal scene.
                                                     • Safety concerns?
                                                     • Techniques?
                                                     • Primal games
                                                  Important Links:
                                                  1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/503
                                                  2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                  3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                                  4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                  5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                  6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                  Show Producers (Updated April 15, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                  257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                  Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                  1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                  2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                  3. - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                  4. - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, Maxi, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and OnceUponATime81
                                                  5. - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, and clk124
                                                  6. - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, XxLilyXxX, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, A.U., Frozen Moron, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, and Valfreyja
                                                  7. - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dark Diamonte, and Astridinchains
                                                  Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                  1. - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                  2. - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                  3. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                  4. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                  5. - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                  6. - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                  Contact info:
                                                  • Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                  • Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                  • Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                  • Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
                                                  ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/55971338Mon, 03 Jul 2023 20:24:46 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: April 16, 2023 / Published: July 3, 2023 - - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel...Recorded: April 16, 2023 / Published: July 3, 2023
                                                  • - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                  • - In this episode, Mayfair and I are joined by Arc_Ulfgrim and AcrDag to talk about everything primal.
                                                  • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                    • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                    • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                    • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                  • - “Primal Play with AcroDag-S05E03”
                                                  1. • AcroDag: Bio :Acrodag (He/Him) is a demi-queer sadistic werewolf and national presenter who seeks to share the knowledge they’ve gained as well as highlight diverse experiences and voices in our community. They host a weekly kink education podcast, ‘Topside Talk’ and they are the Education Director for Denver Sanctuary. With 10+ years in the kink community, they have a passion for all levels of kink education, but specialize in topics they’ve researched extensively, surrounding negotiation, pain/impact, primal play, and interrogation scenes.
                                                       • Top Side Talk Podcast: https://spotify.link/797L0oCc8xb
                                                     • What is Primal Play?
                                                     • What is a primal power exchange/dynamic like?
                                                     • How to negotiate a primal scene.
                                                     • Safety concerns?
                                                     • Techniques?
                                                     • Primal games
                                                  Important Links:
                                                  1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/503
                                                  2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                  3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                                  4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                  5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                  6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                  Show Producers (Updated April 15, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                  257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                  Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                  1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                  2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                  3. - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                  4. - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, Maxi, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and OnceUponATime81
                                                  5. - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, and clk124
                                                  6. - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, XxLilyXxX, Arctic...]]>5987bdsm,education,interview,nature,play,primal,sexyes53fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/502
                                                     You can text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                     
                                                     In this episode, we are helping everyone feel more comfortable in their own skin by explaining why being kinky is not only normal but typical.
                                                     
                                                     
                                                     Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                     
                                                     • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                     • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                     • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                     
                                                     “Kinky isn’t just Normal it’s Typical-S05E02”
                                                     
                                                     • “Why You May Not Be as Kinky As You Think”
                                                     • 04/03/2023 by Justin Lehmiller
                                                     • https://areomagazine.com/2023/03/04/why-you-may-not-be-as-kinky-as-you-think/
                                                     
                                                     
                                                     Important Links:
                                                     
                                                     • Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/502
                                                     • National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                     • NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                                     • https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                     • https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                     • https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                     
                                                     
                                                     Show Producers:
                                                     
                                                     Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                     Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                     
                                                     Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                     
                                                     Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                     257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                     Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                     
                                                     • Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                     • - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                     • - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                     • - Executive Producer ($25/month) Master Gabriel, ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81
                                                     • - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Saviy, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, and DarkDiamond
                                                     • - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Frozen Moron, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Katie, Kitten399, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Neon, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Officer Davis, Finn, Unassuming_dude, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyJay, Daddy’s Princess
                                                     • - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black as Blood, and Astridinchains
                                                     
                                                     Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                     
                                                     • - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                     • - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                     • - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                     • - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                     • - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                     • - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                     Contact info:
                                                     
                                                     Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                     Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                     Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                     Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/55184630Tue, 27 Jun 2023 04:08:43 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: April 2, 2023 / Published: June 27, 2023 You can text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode, we are helping everyone feel more comfortable in their own skin by...
                                                     You can text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                     
                                                     In this episode, we are helping everyone feel more comfortable in their own skin by explaining why being kinky is not only normal but typical.
                                                     
                                                     
                                                     Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                     
                                                     • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                     • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                     • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                     
                                                     “Kinky isn’t just Normal it’s Typical-S05E02”
                                                     
                                                     • “Why You May Not Be as Kinky As You Think”
                                                     • 04/03/2023 by Justin Lehmiller
                                                     • https://areomagazine.com/2023/03/04/why-you-may-not-be-as-kinky-as-you-think/
                                                     
                                                     
                                                     Important Links:
                                                     
                                                     • Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/502
                                                     • National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                     • NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                                     • https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                     • https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                     • https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                     
                                                     
                                                     Show Producers:
                                                     
                                                     Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                     Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                     
                                                     Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                     
                                                     Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                     257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                     Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                     
                                                     • Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                     • - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                     • - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                     • - Executive Producer ($25/month) Master Gabriel, ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81
                                                     • - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Saviy, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, and DarkDiamond
                                                     • - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Frozen Moron, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Katie, Kitten399, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Neon, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Officer Davis, Finn, Unassuming_dude, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyJay, Daddy’s Princess
                                                     • - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black as Blood, and Astridinchains
                                                     
                                                     Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                     
                                                     • - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                     • - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                     • - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                     • - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                     • - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                     • - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                     Contact info:
                                                     
                                                     Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                     Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                     Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                     Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt]]>5019bdsm,education,healthy,kink,kinky,normal,psychology,sex,typicalyes52fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/501- Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Mayfair. Kuldrin is still out recovering from surgery. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and Kuldrin’s 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                     
                                                     -In this episode, while Master Kuldrin is still recovering from his surgery Mayfair and Junicornsangel will be taking over. We asked our Discord Group group what questions they have for a submissives-only show. So chat room, get your question ready for Juni and me!
                                                     
                                                     Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                     
                                                     • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                     • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                     • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                     -“Things Only submissives Know-S05E01”
                                                     
                                                     • Mayfair Intro,Juni Intro
                                                     • Update on Kuldrin’s Recovery
                                                     • As we ask questions of each other, we invite the chat room to participate with their answers, and any questions they want to ask, as well!
                                                     • Favorite scene with Kuldrin
                                                     • Mayfair’s- 1st scene together, possibly the closest I was to frenzy, I was so caught up in the moment I didn’t want it to end.
                                                     • Juni’s- 1st scene - discovery of my Primal side or Humiliation scene that led to my understanding of why I like that kind of play.
                                                     • Funniest or most awkward moment in mid scene
                                                     • Mayfair’s- While it wasn’t a scene, the day I got my nipples pierced, the piercing lady told me “Good Girl” after she completed the 2nd one. I immediately looked at Kuldrin, I know my face asked was she allowed to say that?! He laughed and said well she did just top you so to speak its ok and you were a Good Girl.
                                                     • Juni’s- snot bubbles! Tears, drool, sweat, all okay, but trying to keep the nose from dripping! ( And arousal.. Awkward for me!)
                                                     
                                                     
                                                     We asked our fellow Kryptors for suggestions about what they’d like us to talk about, & here were some of the suggestions:
                                                     
                                                     How would you like to be approached on FL? Neither one of us receives that many messages, but what would the right approach be for you?
                                                     
                                                     Frenzy; crazy things we’ve seen while people are in frenzy (side note: this was presented as “sub”frenzy, and I have some thoughts on that!)
                                                     
                                                     Favorite things (songs on your kink playlist, favorite kink furniture, favorite kink implement, something unexpected about kinksters that you’ve learned, Favorite Kuldrin’s Krypt episode - chat room participation would be great for all of these!)
                                                     
                                                     Important Links:
                                                     Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/501
                                                     National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                     NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                                     https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                     https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                     https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                     
                                                     Show Producers:
                                                     Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                     Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                     
                                                     Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                     Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                     257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                     Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                     
                                                     • Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                     • - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                     • - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                     • - Executive Producer ($25/month) Master Gabriel, ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81
                                                     • - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Saviy, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, and DarkDiamond
                                                     • - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Frozen Moron, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Katie, Kitten399, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Neon, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Officer Davis, Finn, Unassuming_dude, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyJay, Daddy’s Princess
                                                     • - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black as Blood, and Astridinchains
                                                     • Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                     • - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                     • - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                     • - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                     • - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                     • - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                     • - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                     Contact info:
                                                     Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                     Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                     Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                     Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
                                                     ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54651897Wed, 21 Jun 2023 19:29:15 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: March 19, 2023 / Published: June 21, 2023 - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Mayfair. Kuldrin is still out recovering from surgery. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and Kuldrin’s 20 years...- Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Mayfair. Kuldrin is still out recovering from surgery. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and Kuldrin’s 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                     
                                                     -In this episode, while Master Kuldrin is still recovering from his surgery Mayfair and Junicornsangel will be taking over. We asked our Discord Group group what questions they have for a submissives-only show. So chat room, get your question ready for Juni and me!
                                                     
                                                     Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                     
                                                     • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                     • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                     • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                     -“Things Only submissives Know-S05E01”
                                                     
                                                     • Mayfair Intro,Juni Intro
                                                     • Update on Kuldrin’s Recovery
                                                     • As we ask questions of each other, we invite the chat room to participate with their answers, and any questions they want to ask, as well!
                                                     • Favorite scene with Kuldrin
                                                     • Mayfair’s- 1st scene together, possibly the closest I was to frenzy, I was so caught up in the moment I didn’t want it to end.
                                                     • Juni’s- 1st scene - discovery of my Primal side or Humiliation scene that led to my understanding of why I like that kind of play.
                                                     • Funniest or most awkward moment in mid scene
                                                     • Mayfair’s- While it wasn’t a scene, the day I got my nipples pierced, the piercing lady told me “Good Girl” after she completed the 2nd one. I immediately looked at Kuldrin, I know my face asked was she allowed to say that?! He laughed and said well she did just top you so to speak its ok and you were a Good Girl.
                                                     • Juni’s- snot bubbles! Tears, drool, sweat, all okay, but trying to keep the nose from dripping! ( And arousal.. Awkward for me!)
                                                     
                                                     
                                                     We asked our fellow Kryptors for suggestions about what they’d like us to talk about, & here were some of the suggestions:
                                                     
                                                     How would you like to be approached on FL? Neither one of us receives that many messages, but what would the right approach be for you?
                                                     
                                                     Frenzy; crazy things we’ve seen while people are in frenzy (side note: this was presented as “sub”frenzy, and I have some thoughts on that!)
                                                     
                                                     Favorite things (songs on your kink playlist, favorite kink furniture, favorite kink implement, something unexpected about kinksters that you’ve learned, Favorite Kuldrin’s Krypt episode - chat room participation would be great for all of these!)
                                                     
                                                     Important Links:
                                                     Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/501
                                                     National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                     NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                                     https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                     https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                     https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                     
                                                     Show Producers:
                                                     Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                     Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                     
                                                     Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                     Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                     257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                     Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                     
                                                     • Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                     • - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                     • - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                     • - Executive Producer ($25/month) Master Gabriel, ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81
                                                     • - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force,...]]>4329bdsm,edcation,sex-ed,submissivesyes51fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/452Recorded: Feb. 19, 2023 / Published: June 16, 2023
                                                       • - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                       • - In this episode, I am fading off to the background as Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast takes over as moderator for a submissives roundtable with Mayfair, junicornangel, and sub_x13..
                                                       1. - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                       • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                       • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                       • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                       1. - “Submissive Roundtable #2-S04E52”
                                                          • Mayfair85 (https://fetlife.com/users/5147394)
                                                          • junicornsAngel (https://fetlife.com/users/8828974)
                                                          • Sub_X13 (https://fetlife.com/users/10968318)
                                                       • Moderated by Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast https://www.eroticawakening.com/
                                                       • Panel Members:
                                                       Important Links:
                                                       1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/452
                                                       2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                       3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                                       4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                       5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                       6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                       Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                       
                                                       1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                       2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                       3. - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                       4. - Executive Producer ($25/month) Master Gabriel, ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81
                                                       5. - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Saviy, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, and DarkDiamond
                                                       6. - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Frozen Moron, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Katie, Kitten399, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Neon, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Officer Davis, Finn, Unassuming_dude, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyJay, Daddy’s Princess
                                                       7. - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black as Blood, and Astridinchains
                                                       Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                       1. - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                       2. - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                       3. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                       4. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                       5. - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                       6. - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                       Contact info:
                                                       • Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                       • Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                       • Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                       • Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
                                                       ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54463831Fri, 16 Jun 2023 20:47:07 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: Feb. 19, 2023 / Published: June 16, 2023 - - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - - In this episode, I am fading off to the background as Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast...Recorded: Feb. 19, 2023 / Published: June 16, 2023
                                                       • - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                       • - In this episode, I am fading off to the background as Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast takes over as moderator for a submissives roundtable with Mayfair, junicornangel, and sub_x13..
                                                       1. - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                       • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                       • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                       • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                       1. - “Submissive Roundtable #2-S04E52”
                                                          • Mayfair85 (https://fetlife.com/users/5147394)
                                                          • junicornsAngel (https://fetlife.com/users/8828974)
                                                          • Sub_X13 (https://fetlife.com/users/10968318)
                                                       • Moderated by Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast https://www.eroticawakening.com/
                                                       • Panel Members:
                                                       Important Links:
                                                       1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/452
                                                       2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                       3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                                       4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                       5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                       6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                       Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                       
                                                       1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                       2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                       3. - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                       4. - Executive Producer ($25/month) Master Gabriel, ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81
                                                       5. - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Saviy, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, and DarkDiamond
                                                       6. - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Frozen Moron, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Katie, Kitten399, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Neon, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Officer Davis, Finn, Unassuming_dude, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyJay, Daddy’s Princess
                                                       7. - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa,...]]>5741bdsm,eapodcast,education,eroticeawakening,follower,roundtable,sex,slave,submissiveyes452fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/451Recorded: Feb 5, 2023 / Published: June 10, 2023
                                                          
                                                          • - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                          • - In this episode Mayfair and I are addressing a listener question about what to do when you catch the feels for a play partner.
                                                          1. - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                          • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                          • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                          • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                          1. - “Catching the Feels for a Playpartner-S04E51”
                                                          • Anonymous writes:
                                                          • Hello Kuldrin!
                                                          • • First, let me say that your podcast is a treasure trove! I just recently entered the BDSM community, and your podcast has been an amazing help!Question: Have you done an episode on catching the feels for play partners? I am in a monogamous marriage but we just started playing with others. I have kind of become infatuated with my first and so far only "extramarital" play partner. Lucky for me he lives 3 hours away and all signs point to the feelings not being mutual.We plan on seeing him again and probably playing with them.I don't like how easily I developed the feels for him. First time I've had this experience in over 20 years and I'm not sure how to process it. We barely spent any time with them, so it isn't any deeper than sexual attraction, I think.So long story short, do you have an episode that addresses this?Thanks!
                                                          
                                                          
                                                          My response:
                                                          Important Links:
                                                          Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/451
                                                          National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                          NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                                          https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                          https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                          https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                          Show Producers:
                                                          Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                          Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                          Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                          Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                          257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                          Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                          
                                                          - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                          - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                          - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                          - Executive Producer ($25/month) Master Gabriel, ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81
                                                          - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Saviy, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, and DarkDiamond
                                                          - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Frozen Moron, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Katie, Kitten399, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Neon, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Officer Davis, Finn, Unassuming_dude, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyJay, Daddy’s Princess
                                                          - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black as Blood, and Astridinchains
                                                          
                                                          Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                          - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                          - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                          - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                          - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                          - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                          - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                          
                                                          Contact info:
                                                          
                                                          • Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                          • Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                          • Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                          • Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
                                                          ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54215128Sat, 10 Jun 2023 20:14:16 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: Feb 5, 2023 / Published: June 10, 2023 - - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - - In this episode Mayfair and I are addressing a listener question about what to do when you...Recorded: Feb 5, 2023 / Published: June 10, 2023
                                                          
                                                          • - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                          • - In this episode Mayfair and I are addressing a listener question about what to do when you catch the feels for a play partner.
                                                          1. - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                          • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                          • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                          • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                          1. - “Catching the Feels for a Playpartner-S04E51”
                                                          • Anonymous writes:
                                                          • Hello Kuldrin!
                                                          • • First, let me say that your podcast is a treasure trove! I just recently entered the BDSM community, and your podcast has been an amazing help!Question: Have you done an episode on catching the feels for play partners? I am in a monogamous marriage but we just started playing with others. I have kind of become infatuated with my first and so far only "extramarital" play partner. Lucky for me he lives 3 hours away and all signs point to the feelings not being mutual.We plan on seeing him again and probably playing with them.I don't like how easily I developed the feels for him. First time I've had this experience in over 20 years and I'm not sure how to process it. We barely spent any time with them, so it isn't any deeper than sexual attraction, I think.So long story short, do you have an episode that addresses this?Thanks!
                                                          
                                                          
                                                          My response:
                                                          Important Links:
                                                          Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/451
                                                          National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                          NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                                          https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                          https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                          https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                          Show Producers:
                                                          Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                          Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                          Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                          Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                          257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                          Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                          
                                                          - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                          - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                          - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                          - Executive Producer ($25/month) Master Gabriel, ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81
                                                          - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Saviy, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, and DarkDiamond
                                                          - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Frozen Moron, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist,...]]>4995bdsm,catching,catchingfeels,education,feels,partner,play,playpartner,sexyes451fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/450Recorded: January 15, 2023 / Published: June 2, 2023
                                                          • - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                          • - In this week’s episode Master Gabriel is back for a visit to talk about some listener questions regarding contracts, KinkTok, and a few other things.
                                                          • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                          • • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                            • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                            • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                          • - “Contracts, Kink Tok, and More w/ Master Gabriel-S04E50”
                                                          • • Trinityfae: (A) Revising and revisiting. (B) Building up and growing a smaller community.
                                                          • • Trouble113: What’s the best/safest way to get back into BDSM if you have been out for a long time? And what to avoid.
                                                          • • Ariel: "Is he going to be restarting The event called Gentleman in Charge (I think it’s called)? I had heard great things about it, but never got to participate in it because of Covid."
                                                          • • babylove: kink-tok- has he seen an increase in new people because of kink-tok/pandemic kink?
                                                          • • Trinityfae: That's a good one! How he feels about it in general. Are there creators he feels are actually decent?
                                                          • • House Standards Topics:
                                                          • • • What is the difference between Discipline and Punishment. When is it appropriate to discipline? When is it appropriate to punish?
                                                              • What are "Honorifics" and "Titles" are. When are each commonly used in the community?
                                                              • What is the difference between communication during a scene and "Topping from the bottom."
                                                          Important Links:
                                                          1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/450
                                                          2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                          3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                                          4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                          5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                          6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                          Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                          257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                          Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                          1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                          2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                          3. - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                          4. - Executive Producer ($25/month) Master Gabriel, ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81(Special shout-out: I heard you got your shit and was wearing it with pride to the Dungeon!)
                                                          5. - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, Atsila, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Saviy, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, and DarkDiamond
                                                          6. - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Frozen Moron, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Katie, Kitten399, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Neon, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Officer Davis, Finn, Unassuming_dude, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyJay, Daddy’s Princess
                                                          7. - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black as Blood, and Astridinchains
                                                          Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                          1. - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                          2. - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                          3. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                          4. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                          5. - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                          6. - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                          Contact info:
                                                          • Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                          • Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                          • Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                          • Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
                                                          ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54080225Fri, 02 Jun 2023 21:20:06 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: January 15, 2023 / Published: June 2, 2023 - - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - - In this week’s episode Master Gabriel is back for a visit to talk about some listener...Recorded: January 15, 2023 / Published: June 2, 2023
                                                          • - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                          • - In this week’s episode Master Gabriel is back for a visit to talk about some listener questions regarding contracts, KinkTok, and a few other things.
                                                          • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                          • • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                            • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                            • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                          • - “Contracts, Kink Tok, and More w/ Master Gabriel-S04E50”
                                                          • • Trinityfae: (A) Revising and revisiting. (B) Building up and growing a smaller community.
                                                          • • Trouble113: What’s the best/safest way to get back into BDSM if you have been out for a long time? And what to avoid.
                                                          • • Ariel: "Is he going to be restarting The event called Gentleman in Charge (I think it’s called)? I had heard great things about it, but never got to participate in it because of Covid."
                                                          • • babylove: kink-tok- has he seen an increase in new people because of kink-tok/pandemic kink?
                                                          • • Trinityfae: That's a good one! How he feels about it in general. Are there creators he feels are actually decent?
                                                          • • House Standards Topics:
                                                          • • • What is the difference between Discipline and Punishment. When is it appropriate to discipline? When is it appropriate to punish?
                                                              • What are "Honorifics" and "Titles" are. When are each commonly used in the community?
                                                              • What is the difference between communication during a scene and "Topping from the bottom."
                                                          Important Links:
                                                          1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/450
                                                          2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                          3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                                          4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                          5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                          6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                          Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                          257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                          Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                          1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                          2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                          3. - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                          4. - Executive Producer ($25/month) Master Gabriel, ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81(Special shout-out: I heard you got your shit and was wearing it with pride to the Dungeon!)
                                                          5. - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex,...]]>6469bdsm,contract,dominant,d/s,education,family,household,kinktoc,kinktok,master,m/s,pack,slave,submissiveyes450fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/449Recorded: Dec 18, 2022 / Published: May 28, 2023
                                                             
                                                             • - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                             • - In this week’s episode we are talking about Dark Communities, Yucking Yums, & Sensualists. Plus, there will be a bonus conversation about D/s and M/s communication that comes from a listener question.
                                                             1. - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                             • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                             • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                             • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                             1. - “Dark Communities, Yucking Yums, & Sensualists-S04E49”
                                                             • A shout-out to Matt for asking me about these things!
                                                             • What are “Dark Communities”?
                                                             • What is up with the saying “don’t yuck someone else’s yum”?
                                                             • Since nearly everything we do in the world of BDSM makes a person feel something either physically, mentally, emotionally, or any combination of them, what is a sensualist?
                                                             Bonus Topic:
                                                             
                                                             • I've gone back to the very beginning of the podcast and started from episode one.
                                                             The one question I have about communicating in an M/s dynamic when speaking is restricted is about emergency situations. If the slave gets burned or cut in the kitchen making dinner or out doing yard work can they ask for help by yelling that they've been hurt and need assistance? Or will they get in trouble for not following protocol despite the injury?
                                                             
                                                             Important Links:
                                                             
                                                             1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/449
                                                             2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                             3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                                             4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                             5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                             6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                             Show Producers:
                                                             Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                             Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                             Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                             Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                             257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                             Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                             
                                                             
                                                             1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                             2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                             3. - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                             4. - Executive Producer ($25/month) Master Gabriel, ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81(Special shout-out: I heard you got your shit and was wearing it with pride to the Dungeon!)
                                                             5. - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, Atsila, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Saviy, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, and Iamar Kinhawk
                                                             6. - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Frozen Moron, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Katie, Kitten399, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Neon, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Officer Davis, Finn, Unassuming_dude, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyJay, Daddy’s Princess
                                                             7. - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, and Black as Blood
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                                                             1. - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                             2. - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                             3. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                             4. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                             5. - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                             Contact info:
                                                             
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                                                             ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54022560Sun, 28 May 2023 15:59:03 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: Dec 18, 2022 / Published: May 28, 2023 - - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - - In this week’s episode we are talking about Dark Communities, Yucking Yums, &...Recorded: Dec 18, 2022 / Published: May 28, 2023
                                                             
                                                             • - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                             • - In this week’s episode we are talking about Dark Communities, Yucking Yums, & Sensualists. Plus, there will be a bonus conversation about D/s and M/s communication that comes from a listener question.
                                                             1. - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                             • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                             • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                             • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                             1. - “Dark Communities, Yucking Yums, & Sensualists-S04E49”
                                                             • A shout-out to Matt for asking me about these things!
                                                             • What are “Dark Communities”?
                                                             • What is up with the saying “don’t yuck someone else’s yum”?
                                                             • Since nearly everything we do in the world of BDSM makes a person feel something either physically, mentally, emotionally, or any combination of them, what is a sensualist?
                                                             Bonus Topic:
                                                             
                                                             • I've gone back to the very beginning of the podcast and started from episode one.
                                                             The one question I have about communicating in an M/s dynamic when speaking is restricted is about emergency situations. If the slave gets burned or cut in the kitchen making dinner or out doing yard work can they ask for help by yelling that they've been hurt and need assistance? Or will they get in trouble for not following protocol despite the injury?
                                                             
                                                             Important Links:
                                                             
                                                             1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/449
                                                             2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                             3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                                             4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                             5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                             6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                             Show Producers:
                                                             Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                             Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                             Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                             Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                             257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                             Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                             
                                                             
                                                             1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                             2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                             3. - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                             4. - Executive Producer ($25/month) Master Gabriel, ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81(Special shout-out: I heard you got your shit and was wearing it with pride to the Dungeon!)
                                                             5. - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, Atsila, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Saviy, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, and Iamar Kinhawk
                                                             6. - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Just_Call_Me_Ash,...]]>5039bdsm,communication,community,dark,education,kink,party,sex,shaming,yuking,yumsyes449fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/448Recorded: 12/04/2022 / Published: May/20/2023
                                                                
                                                                
                                                                • - Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                • - In this week’s episode we are joined by _Rhiannon_ of ShadowWeaversEDU to talk about Coercive Control.
                                                                1. - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                1. - “Coercive Control with Shadow Weavers EDU-S04E48”
                                                                   • Rhiannon is a 31 year old Indigenous woman living in Upstate New York with her Master and two cats. She has been a 24/7 slave in the BDSM community since 2015. While serving she also worked as a Pro-Domme online and in person for the same amount of time. In 2021 Rhiannon took over as Co-Director of MAst Rochester- a chapter of the international organization, Masters and slaves together. This organization historically was founded by members of the gay leather community and seeks to help those who are interested in learning more about power-exchange within the lifestyle and authority based relationships. Rhiannon has been leading workshops and BDSM 101 presentations for about 3 years now. She has filled many roles within her submission from babygirl, to slave, to human house pet and identifies as a divine concubine to honor her sacred sexuality within her current dynamic.
                                                                • In addition to her lifestyle experience, Rhiannon has worked with adults who have severe and persistent mental illness for 8 years. She has served that community in many positions from residential and peer counseling, to apartment programs that seek to help those with mental illness maintain their independence. Rhiannon has worked with a variety of individuals living with mental illness from schizophrenia, borderline personality disorder, PTSD and substance use disorder as well as those with neurodivergence and those fleeing domestic violence. She hopes to serve as an example of a person with mental illness successfully engaging in BDSM to those in the community seeking acceptance and fighting the stigma, as she also lives with bipolar disorder and PTSD. Aside from her professional background, Rhiannon also is a survivor of domestic violence and of coercive control. That being said, she is NOT a licensed clinician or therapist or a substitute for professional services.
                                                                • To hear more about her services and groups: https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2022-archive/459---rhiannon-shadow-weave.html
                                                                • ShadowWeaversEDU Bio and History:
                                                                  • Shadow-Weavers Coaching and Lifestyle Education is a freelance Kinky Education Academy. Here you can sign up for online workshops, join a book club committed to studying the lifestyle, and get connected with a community of individuals who are passionate about BDSM.
                                                                  • Shadow Weaver’s offers individual coaching sessions for those who need advice, support, or help leaving and healing after a difficult dynamic. Her services are geared toward the following issues:
                                                                  • -D/s dynamic struggles and advice
                                                                  • -Submissive Support
                                                                  • -Mentoring
                                                                  • -Coping with a difficult D/s
                                                                  • -Resolving Conflict within D/s
                                                                  • -Identifying your unique roles and interests
                                                                  • -Recovery Support from Coercive Control and Personality Cults
                                                                  • -Vetting Support and Negotiations
                                                                  • -Drop or Frenzy Support
                                                                  • -Gender/sexual orientation and the lifestyle
                                                                  • -Mental Illness and the lifestyle
                                                                • Coercive Control Defined:
                                                                  • Domestic abuse isn’t always physical. Coercive control is an act or a pattern of acts of assault, threats, humiliation and intimidation or other abuse that is used to harm, punish, or frighten their victim. This controlling behavior is designed to make a person dependent by isolating them from support, exploiting them, depriving them of independence and regulating their everyday behavior. Coercive control creates invisible chains and a sense of fear that pervades all elements of a victim’s life. It works to limit their human rights by depriving them of their liberty and reducing their ability for action. Experts like Evan Stark liken coercive control to being taken hostage. As he says: “the victim becomes captive in an unreal world created by the abuser, entrapped in a world of confusion, contradiction and fear.”
                                                                  • Source: https://www.womensaid.org.uk/information-support/what-is-domestic-abuse/coercive-control/
                                                                • Examples and how to recognize it:
                                                                • Behavior Control
                                                                • Information Control
                                                                • Thought Control
                                                                • Emotional Control
                                                                
                                                                
                                                                • Important Links:
                                                                  Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/448
                                                                  National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                  NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                                                  https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                  https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                  https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                  
                                                                • Show Producers:
                                                                  Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                  Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                  Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                                  Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                  257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                  Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                  
                                                                  • Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                  • - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                  • - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                  • - Executive Producer ($25/month) Master Gabriel, ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81
                                                                  • - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, RoxieBear, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, Atsila, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, and Iamar Kinhawk
                                                                  • - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Frozen Moron, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Katie, Kitten399, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Officer Davis, Finn, Unassuming_dude, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyJay, Daddy’s Princess
                                                                  • - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, and Meg
                                                                  
                                                                  Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.
                                                                  - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                  - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                  - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                  - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                  - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                  - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                  
                                                                • Contact info:
                                                                  Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
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                                                                  Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
                                                                  
                                                                ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53944527Sat, 20 May 2023 19:47:55 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 12/04/2022 / Published: May/20/2023 - - Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - - In this week’s episode we are joined by _Rhiannon_ of ShadowWeaversEDU to talk about Coercive...Recorded: 12/04/2022 / Published: May/20/2023
                                                                
                                                                
                                                                • - Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                • - In this week’s episode we are joined by _Rhiannon_ of ShadowWeaversEDU to talk about Coercive Control.
                                                                1. - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                1. - “Coercive Control with Shadow Weavers EDU-S04E48”
                                                                   • Rhiannon is a 31 year old Indigenous woman living in Upstate New York with her Master and two cats. She has been a 24/7 slave in the BDSM community since 2015. While serving she also worked as a Pro-Domme online and in person for the same amount of time. In 2021 Rhiannon took over as Co-Director of MAst Rochester- a chapter of the international organization, Masters and slaves together. This organization historically was founded by members of the gay leather community and seeks to help those who are interested in learning more about power-exchange within the lifestyle and authority based relationships. Rhiannon has been leading workshops and BDSM 101 presentations for about 3 years now. She has filled many roles within her submission from babygirl, to slave, to human house pet and identifies as a divine concubine to honor her sacred sexuality within her current dynamic.
                                                                • In addition to her lifestyle experience, Rhiannon has worked with adults who have severe and persistent mental illness for 8 years. She has served that community in many positions from residential and peer counseling, to apartment programs that seek to help those with mental illness maintain their independence. Rhiannon has worked with a variety of individuals living with mental illness from schizophrenia, borderline personality disorder, PTSD and substance use disorder as well as those with neurodivergence and those fleeing domestic violence. She hopes to serve as an example of a person with mental illness successfully engaging in BDSM to those in the community seeking acceptance and fighting the stigma, as she also lives with bipolar disorder and PTSD. Aside from her professional background, Rhiannon also is a survivor of domestic violence and of coercive control. That being said, she is NOT a licensed clinician or therapist or a substitute for professional services.
                                                                • To hear more about her services and groups: https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2022-archive/459---rhiannon-shadow-weave.html
                                                                • ShadowWeaversEDU Bio and History:
                                                                  • Shadow-Weavers Coaching and Lifestyle Education is a freelance Kinky Education Academy. Here you can sign up for online workshops, join a book club committed to studying the lifestyle, and get connected with a community of individuals who are passionate about BDSM.
                                                                  • Shadow Weaver’s offers individual coaching sessions for those who need advice, support, or help leaving and healing after a difficult dynamic. Her services are geared toward the following issues:
                                                                  • -D/s dynamic struggles and advice
                                                                  • -Submissive Support
                                                                  • -Mentoring
                                                                  • -Coping with a difficult D/s
                                                                  • -Resolving Conflict within D/s
                                                                  • -Identifying your unique roles and interests
                                                                  • -Recovery Support from Coercive Control and Personality Cults
                                                                  • -Vetting Support and Negotiations
                                                                  • -Drop or Frenzy Support
                                                                  • -Gender/sexual orientation and the...]]>5890abuse,bdsm,coercive,control,education,gas,lighting,manipulation,mastyes448fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/447Recorded: 11/20/2022 / Published: May/17/2023
                                                                    • - Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                    • - In this week’s episode husband and wife TRexTies and Babylove who also have a D/s dynamic are joining us along with her other Dominant, Dan who you will know from Erotic Awakening Podcast, to talk about the ups and downs of serving multiple Dominants.
                                                                    • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                    • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                    • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                    • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                    • - “Two Doms One sub: Serving Multiple Doms-S04E47”
                                                                      • Due to privacy and a current lack of permission, I am unable to share the show notes provided by Babylove. She has not refused permission, I have not yet been able to speak with her about it. When I am able to do so and she approves it, I will edit this with the approved notes. Check back once a week.
                                                                    Important Links:
                                                                    1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/447
                                                                    2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                    3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                                                    4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                    5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                    6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                    Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                    257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                    Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                    1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                    2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                    3. - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                    4. - Executive Producer ($25/month) Master Gabriel, ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81
                                                                    5. - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, RoxieBear, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, Atsila, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, and Iamar Kinhawk
                                                                    6. - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Frozen Moron, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Katie, Kitten399, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Officer Davis, Finn, Unassuming_dude, Arden Solace, Pepa, and KinkyJay
                                                                    7. - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, and Meg
                                                                    Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.
                                                                    1. - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                    2. - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                    3. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                    4. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                    5. - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                    6. - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                    Contact info:
                                                                    • Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                                    • Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                    • Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                                    • Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
                                                                    ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53908921Wed, 17 May 2023 16:52:03 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 11/20/2022 / Published: May/17/2023 - - Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - - In this week’s episode husband and wife TRexTies and Babylove who also have a D/s dynamic are...Recorded: 11/20/2022 / Published: May/17/2023
                                                                    • - Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                    • - In this week’s episode husband and wife TRexTies and Babylove who also have a D/s dynamic are joining us along with her other Dominant, Dan who you will know from Erotic Awakening Podcast, to talk about the ups and downs of serving multiple Dominants.
                                                                    • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                    • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                    • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                    • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                    • - “Two Doms One sub: Serving Multiple Doms-S04E47”
                                                                      • Due to privacy and a current lack of permission, I am unable to share the show notes provided by Babylove. She has not refused permission, I have not yet been able to speak with her about it. When I am able to do so and she approves it, I will edit this with the approved notes. Check back once a week.
                                                                    Important Links:
                                                                    1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/447
                                                                    2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                    3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                                                    4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                    5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                    6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                    Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                    257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                    Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                    1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                    2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                    3. - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                    4. - Executive Producer ($25/month) Master Gabriel, ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81
                                                                    5. - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, RoxieBear, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, Atsila, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, and Iamar Kinhawk
                                                                    6. - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Frozen Moron, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Katie, Kitten399, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Officer Davis, Finn, Unassuming_dude, Arden Solace, Pepa, and KinkyJay
                                                                    7. - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, and Meg
                                                                    Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors...]]>5717bdsm,dom,d/s,dynamic,eapodcast,education,lifestyle,master,poly,slave,subyes447fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/eight-things-every-kinkster-needs-to-know-w-junicornsangel-s04e46--53741056Recorded: 11/06/2022 / Published: 5/4/2023
                                                                    • - Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                    • - In this week’s episode I am talking to JunicornsAngel about her list of eight things every kinkster needs to know.
                                                                    • Correction from the last episode. I started the show in 2016, not 2017, so this will be my 6-year anniversary on November 6, 2022. Also, the 200th episode was a couple back, S04E43, an interview we did with Brittany from the Dungeon Store and Split Peaches.
                                                                    • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                    1. 1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                       2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                       3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                    • - “Eight Things Every Kinkster Needs to Know w/ Junicorn's Angel-S04E46”
                                                                    1. • Ten Licks:
                                                                         • 1: How long have been into Kink?
                                                                         • 2: Top, bottom, or switch?
                                                                         • 3: Relationship Status?
                                                                         • 4: Favorite Position?
                                                                         • 5: Favorite Implement?
                                                                         • 6: Favorite Roleplay?
                                                                         • 7: Favorite kink or fetish?
                                                                         • 8: Favorite place for kink?
                                                                         • 9: Strangest Place you've had sex?
                                                                         • 10: Something you want to try?
                                                                       • Newbies:
                                                                         • 1. Safety
                                                                         • 2. Communication/Honesty
                                                                         • 3. Community
                                                                         • 4. Responsibility
                                                                         • 5. Bravery
                                                                       • Everyone:
                                                                         • 1. FUN is not just for newbies
                                                                         • 2. Breathe!
                                                                       • Safety: things I still do to stay safer
                                                                       • Communication/Honesty: (self-honesty) What do you really like? What do you not?
                                                                       • Community: not for everyone, but reasons I like to participate
                                                                       • Responsibility: being new isn’t an excuse for personal responsibility
                                                                       • Bravery: how taking advantage of those few seconds of bravery (thanks Savvy) can change everything
                                                                    Important Links:
                                                                    1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/446
                                                                    2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                    3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                                                    4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                    5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                    6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                    Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                    257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                    Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                    1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                    2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                    3. - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                    4. - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81
                                                                    5. - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, PerfectlyThick, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, Thorn, and Iamar Kinhawk
                                                                    6. - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Officer Davis, Unassuming_dude, and KinkyJay
                                                                    7. - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, and Meg
                                                                    Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.
                                                                    1. - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                    2. - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                    3. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                    4. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                    5. - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                    6. - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                    7. - Split Peaches https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/SplitPeaches
                                                                    Contact info:
                                                                    • Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                                    • Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                    • Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                                    • Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
                                                                    ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53741056Thu, 04 May 2023 15:05:29 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 11/06/2022 / Published: 5/4/2023 - - Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - - In this week’s episode I am talking to JunicornsAngel about her list of eight things every...Recorded: 11/06/2022 / Published: 5/4/2023
                                                                    • - Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                    • - In this week’s episode I am talking to JunicornsAngel about her list of eight things every kinkster needs to know.
                                                                    • Correction from the last episode. I started the show in 2016, not 2017, so this will be my 6-year anniversary on November 6, 2022. Also, the 200th episode was a couple back, S04E43, an interview we did with Brittany from the Dungeon Store and Split Peaches.
                                                                    • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                    1. 1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                       2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                       3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                    • - “Eight Things Every Kinkster Needs to Know w/ Junicorn's Angel-S04E46”
                                                                    1. • Ten Licks:
                                                                         • 1: How long have been into Kink?
                                                                         • 2: Top, bottom, or switch?
                                                                         • 3: Relationship Status?
                                                                         • 4: Favorite Position?
                                                                         • 5: Favorite Implement?
                                                                         • 6: Favorite Roleplay?
                                                                         • 7: Favorite kink or fetish?
                                                                         • 8: Favorite place for kink?
                                                                         • 9: Strangest Place you've had sex?
                                                                         • 10: Something you want to try?
                                                                       • Newbies:
                                                                         • 1. Safety
                                                                         • 2. Communication/Honesty
                                                                         • 3. Community
                                                                         • 4. Responsibility
                                                                         • 5. Bravery
                                                                       • Everyone:
                                                                         • 1. FUN is not just for newbies
                                                                         • 2. Breathe!
                                                                       • Safety: things I still do to stay safer
                                                                       • Communication/Honesty: (self-honesty) What do you really like? What do you not?
                                                                       • Community: not for everyone, but reasons I like to participate
                                                                       • Responsibility: being new isn’t an excuse for personal responsibility
                                                                       • Bravery: how taking advantage of those few seconds of bravery (thanks Savvy) can change everything
                                                                    Important Links:
                                                                    1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/446
                                                                    2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                    3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                                                    4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                    5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                    6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                    Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                    257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                    Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                    1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                    2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                    3. - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                    4. - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81
                                                                    5. - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy,...]]>4074bdsm,dom,education,interview,junicornsangel,master,safety,sex,slave,subyes446fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/445Recorded: 10/16/2022 / Published: 4/21/2023
                                                                       
                                                                       • - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                       • - In this week’s episode we are diving into another question I frequently get: “I’m new and one of my biggest fears is that I’ll do something to embarrass myself. What can I do to prevent this?”
                                                                       • Correction from the last episode. I started the show in 2016, not 2017, so this will be my 6-year anniversary on November 6, 2022. Also, the 200th episode was a couple back, S04E43, an interview we did with Brittany from the Dungeon Store and Split Peaches.
                                                                       • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                       • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                       • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                       • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                       • - “How to not embarrass yourself when trying BDSM-S04E45”
                                                                       1. • “How to Not Embarrass Yourself When Trying Kink Play” By Gigi Fong / Sep 9, 2022
                                                                          • https://hypebae.com/2022/9/fifty-shades-of-grey-what-is-kink-sex-tips
                                                                          • “Kink and BDSM make sexual pleasure all the more fun — if you understand the rules. It takes a certain level of maturity to practice, while also holding a safe space for yourself and your partner(s) during sex.
                                                                       So, if you’d like to avoid embarrassing yourself, keep reading.
                                                                       
                                                                       1. Following toxic pop culture. As much as it made for great discussions, Fifty Shades is not an accurate representation of a consensual kink relationship. Opt for more boundary setting, communication and comprehension, and most importantly, respect.
                                                                       2. Unclear Boundaries. Not being sure on what you’re okay with versus not, can leave you feeling violated and sexually unsatisfied. Neutral environments, like a coffee shop or beach date, are best for having that initial boundary-setting conversation. Make sure you do this before trying something sexually new.
                                                                       3. Relying on safe words too much. Safe words are important, but if you find yourself blurting them out more often than not, you’re probably not mentally or sexually ready for this new adventure. It may be best to do more research and communicate, then revisit — or not.
                                                                       4. Be prepared to laugh. Just as with life, nothing ever rarely goes as planned — but you have your tools. For example, the gym for stress relief when something goes left. Kink play is the same. You might get caught off guard at some points and let out a nervous laugh. That’s okay. As long as you feel safe and respected.”
                                                                       • Mayfair’s List:
                                                                         • Manage expectations: you aren't likely to be ready for a thirty-minute whip scene right away
                                                                         • You aren't the only ones playing, prepare to hear others and to not be too disruptive. (ball gags can help)
                                                                         • Arousal can happen, if it wasn't pre-discussed leave it alone for now.
                                                                       • Kuldrin’s List:
                                                                         • Properly preparing for play: education, practice, “clean out”, …
                                                                         • Become comfortable with the grunts, groans, moans, squeals, and “bodily noises”...they're all going to happen
                                                                         • Frenzy can be embarrassing. Especially when everyone else sees you in the midst of it and you don’t recognize it.
                                                                       Important Links:
                                                                       
                                                                       1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/445
                                                                       2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                       3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
                                                                       4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                       5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                       6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                       Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                       257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                       Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                       
                                                                       1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                       2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                       3. - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                       4. - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81
                                                                       5. - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, PerfectlyThick, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, Thorn, and Iamar Kinhawk
                                                                       6. - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Officer Davis, and Unassuming_dude
                                                                       7. - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, and Meg
                                                                       Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.
                                                                       
                                                                       1. - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                       2. - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                       3. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                       4. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                       5. - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                       6. - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                       7. - Split Peaches https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/SplitPeaches
                                                                       Contact info:
                                                                       
                                                                       • Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                                       • Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                       • Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                                       • Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
                                                                       ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53609455Fri, 21 Apr 2023 21:05:49 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 10/16/2022 / Published: 4/21/2023 - - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get...Recorded: 10/16/2022 / Published: 4/21/2023
                                                                       
                                                                       • - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                       • - In this week’s episode we are diving into another question I frequently get: “I’m new and one of my biggest fears is that I’ll do something to embarrass myself. What can I do to prevent this?”
                                                                       • Correction from the last episode. I started the show in 2016, not 2017, so this will be my 6-year anniversary on November 6, 2022. Also, the 200th episode was a couple back, S04E43, an interview we did with Brittany from the Dungeon Store and Split Peaches.
                                                                       • - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                       • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                       • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                       • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                       • - “How to not embarrass yourself when trying BDSM-S04E45”
                                                                       1. • “How to Not Embarrass Yourself When Trying Kink Play” By Gigi Fong / Sep 9, 2022
                                                                          • https://hypebae.com/2022/9/fifty-shades-of-grey-what-is-kink-sex-tips
                                                                          • “Kink and BDSM make sexual pleasure all the more fun — if you understand the rules. It takes a certain level of maturity to practice, while also holding a safe space for yourself and your partner(s) during sex.
                                                                       So, if you’d like to avoid embarrassing yourself, keep reading.
                                                                       
                                                                       1. Following toxic pop culture. As much as it made for great discussions, Fifty Shades is not an accurate representation of a consensual kink relationship. Opt for more boundary setting, communication and comprehension, and most importantly, respect.
                                                                       2. Unclear Boundaries. Not being sure on what you’re okay with versus not, can leave you feeling violated and sexually unsatisfied. Neutral environments, like a coffee shop or beach date, are best for having that initial boundary-setting conversation. Make sure you do this before trying something sexually new.
                                                                       3. Relying on safe words too much. Safe words are important, but if you find yourself blurting them out more often than not, you’re probably not mentally or sexually ready for this new adventure. It may be best to do more research and communicate, then revisit — or not.
                                                                       4. Be prepared to laugh. Just as with life, nothing ever rarely goes as planned — but you have your tools. For example, the gym for stress relief when something goes left. Kink play is the same. You might get caught off guard at some points and let out a nervous laugh. That’s okay. As long as you feel safe and respected.”
                                                                       • Mayfair’s List:
                                                                         • Manage expectations: you aren't likely to be ready for a thirty-minute whip scene right away
                                                                         • You aren't the only ones playing, prepare to hear others and to not be too disruptive. (ball gags can help)
                                                                         • Arousal can happen, if it wasn't pre-discussed leave it alone for now.
                                                                       • Kuldrin’s List:
                                                                         • Properly preparing for play: education, practice, “clean out”, …
                                                                         • Become comfortable with the grunts, groans, moans, squeals, and “bodily noises”...they're all going to happen
                                                                         • Frenzy can be embarrassing. Especially when everyone else sees you in the midst of it...]]>3813adult,bdsm,education,kink,self-help,sexyesfullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/443Recorded: 9/04/2022 / Published: 4/6/2023
                                                                           • - You can text in your question at 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                           • - In this week’s episode we are talking about erotic blueprints and the ups and downs of each one of them..
                                                                           1. - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                           1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                           2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                           3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                           1. - “Split Peaches and The Dungeon Stores Brittany-S04E43”
                                                                              1. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/SplitPeaches
                                                                              2. https://thedungeonstore.com/
                                                                           2. Ten Licks:
                                                                              1. How long have been into Kink?
                                                                              2. Top, bottom, or switch?
                                                                              3. Relationship Status?
                                                                              4. Favorite Position?
                                                                              5. Favorite Implement?
                                                                              6. Favorite Roleplay?
                                                                              7. Favorite kink or fetish?
                                                                              8. Favorite place for kink?
                                                                              9. Strangest Place you've had sex?
                                                                              10. Something you want to try?
                                                                           3. What is the Dungeon Store?
                                                                           4. What is Split Peaches?
                                                                           Important Links:
                                                                           1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/443
                                                                           2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                           3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
                                                                           4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                           5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                           6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                           Show Producers: Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                           
                                                                           1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                           2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                           3. - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                           4. - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81
                                                                           5. - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, and Thorn
                                                                           6. - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, CivlDisobedience, Officer Davis, and Unassuming_dude.
                                                                           7. - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, and Meg,
                                                                           Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.
                                                                           1. - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                           2. - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                           3. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                           4. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                           5. - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                           6. - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                           7. - Split Peaches https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/SplitPeaches
                                                                           Contact info:
                                                                           • Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                                           • Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                           • Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                                           • Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
                                                                           ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53463916Thu, 06 Apr 2023 17:16:50 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 9/04/2022 / Published: 4/6/2023 - - You can text in your question at 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - - In this week’s episode we are talking about erotic blueprints and the ups and downs of each one of...Recorded: 9/04/2022 / Published: 4/6/2023
                                                                           • - You can text in your question at 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                           • - In this week’s episode we are talking about erotic blueprints and the ups and downs of each one of them..
                                                                           1. - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                           1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                           2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                           3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                           1. - “Split Peaches and The Dungeon Stores Brittany-S04E43”
                                                                              1. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/SplitPeaches
                                                                              2. https://thedungeonstore.com/
                                                                           2. Ten Licks:
                                                                              1. How long have been into Kink?
                                                                              2. Top, bottom, or switch?
                                                                              3. Relationship Status?
                                                                              4. Favorite Position?
                                                                              5. Favorite Implement?
                                                                              6. Favorite Roleplay?
                                                                              7. Favorite kink or fetish?
                                                                              8. Favorite place for kink?
                                                                              9. Strangest Place you've had sex?
                                                                              10. Something you want to try?
                                                                           3. What is the Dungeon Store?
                                                                           4. What is Split Peaches?
                                                                           Important Links:
                                                                           1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/443
                                                                           2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                           3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
                                                                           4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                           5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                           6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                           Show Producers: Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                           
                                                                           1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                           2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                           3. - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                           4. - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81
                                                                           5. - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, and Thorn
                                                                           6. - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, CivlDisobedience, Officer Davis, and Unassuming_dude.
                                                                           7. - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, and Meg,
                                                                           Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid...]]>2806bdsm,dungeonstore,education,kink,splitpeaches,vendoryes443fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/444Recorded: 10/02/2022 / Published: //2023
                                                                           
                                                                           • - Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                           • - In this week’s episode we are talking about Top Guilt and how it affects Dom/Top Drop
                                                                           1. - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                           • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                           • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                           • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                           1. - “Top Guilt and how it affects Dom Drop-S04E44”
                                                                              • Red guilt:
                                                                              • Marking guilt:
                                                                              • Accident guilt:
                                                                              • Newbie guilt:
                                                                              • Religious guilt:
                                                                              • Madonna/whore guilt:
                                                                              • General guilt:
                                                                              • Educating yourself as much can help prevent landmines.
                                                                              • Self-exploration:
                                                                              • Partnered Exploration:
                                                                              • Negotiation:
                                                                              • Communication, starting low and going slow:
                                                                              • Dom/Top Guilt Defined: feelings of remorse, regret, and/or empathy felt by Doms and Tops after a scene due to the effects of the scene, whether positive or negative, on the submissive or bottom. It can also be caused by intentional or unintentional shaming. (i.e. you could have hit harder (unintentional), I thought you were a Dominant (intentional), etc)
                                                                              • Who experiences Dom/Top guilt?:
                                                                              • Why does Dom/Top guilt occur?:
                                                                              • Types of Dom/Top guilt:
                                                                              • Dealing with Dom/Top guilt:
                                                                              • Preventing Dom/Top Guilt:
                                                                           Important Links:
                                                                           
                                                                           1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/444
                                                                           2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                           3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
                                                                           4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                           5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                           6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                           Show Producers: Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift: Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                           
                                                                           
                                                                           1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                           2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                           3. - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                           4. - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81
                                                                           5. - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, PerfectlyThick, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, Thorn, and Iamar Kinhawk
                                                                           6. - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, SirBNice, Neon,
                                                                              1. Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Officer Davis, and Unassuming_dude
                                                                              2. - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, and Meg
                                                                              Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.
                                                                              1. - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                              2. - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                              3. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                              4. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                              5. - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                              6. - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                              7. - Split Peaches https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/SplitPeaches
                                                                              Contact info:
                                                                              • Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                                              • Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                              • Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                                              Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
                                                                           ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53344873Sun, 26 Mar 2023 19:41:43 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 10/02/2022 / Published: //2023 - - Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - - In this week’s episode we are talking about Top Guilt and how it affects Dom/Top Drop - - Rules to...Recorded: 10/02/2022 / Published: //2023
                                                                           
                                                                           • - Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                           • - In this week’s episode we are talking about Top Guilt and how it affects Dom/Top Drop
                                                                           1. - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                           • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                           • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                           • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                           1. - “Top Guilt and how it affects Dom Drop-S04E44”
                                                                              • Red guilt:
                                                                              • Marking guilt:
                                                                              • Accident guilt:
                                                                              • Newbie guilt:
                                                                              • Religious guilt:
                                                                              • Madonna/whore guilt:
                                                                              • General guilt:
                                                                              • Educating yourself as much can help prevent landmines.
                                                                              • Self-exploration:
                                                                              • Partnered Exploration:
                                                                              • Negotiation:
                                                                              • Communication, starting low and going slow:
                                                                              • Dom/Top Guilt Defined: feelings of remorse, regret, and/or empathy felt by Doms and Tops after a scene due to the effects of the scene, whether positive or negative, on the submissive or bottom. It can also be caused by intentional or unintentional shaming. (i.e. you could have hit harder (unintentional), I thought you were a Dominant (intentional), etc)
                                                                              • Who experiences Dom/Top guilt?:
                                                                              • Why does Dom/Top guilt occur?:
                                                                              • Types of Dom/Top guilt:
                                                                              • Dealing with Dom/Top guilt:
                                                                              • Preventing Dom/Top Guilt:
                                                                           Important Links:
                                                                           
                                                                           1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/444
                                                                           2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                           3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
                                                                           4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                           5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                           6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                           Show Producers: Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift: Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                           
                                                                           
                                                                           1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                           2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                           3. - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                           4. - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81
                                                                           5. - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, PerfectlyThick, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, Thorn, and Iamar Kinhawk
                                                                           6. - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, SirBNice, Neon,
                                                                              1. Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Officer Davis, and...]]>5106bdsm,dominant,education,guilt,help,self,selfhelp,slave,submissive,topyesfullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/441
                                                                                 I am having to take a small break while recovering from cervical spine surgery but we will be back to publishing sometime in the next few weeks. The show is NOT ending. I still have 11 unpublished episodes that I am editing for the podcast feed and new live episodes are recorded via YouTube on the first and third Sundays of every month. The show starts at 3pm est. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/YouTube
                                                                                 With that said, there may or may not be a live show on March 5th, 2023, due to surgery recovery. I will have to see how I feel the day of and make the call on the fly. If you go to my YouTube channel through the link above and subscribe and follow the channel be sure to turn on the notification so you will know when we are live.
                                                                                 
                                                                                 As always, a HUGE THANK YOU to all of our producers and everyone that listens to the show!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52882378Tue, 28 Feb 2023 22:53:00 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCPublished: Feb. 28, 2023 I am having to take a small break while recovering from cervical spine surgery but we will be back to publishing sometime in the next few weeks. The show is NOT ending. I still have 11 unpublished episodes that I am editing...
                                                                                 I am having to take a small break while recovering from cervical spine surgery but we will be back to publishing sometime in the next few weeks. The show is NOT ending. I still have 11 unpublished episodes that I am editing for the podcast feed and new live episodes are recorded via YouTube on the first and third Sundays of every month. The show starts at 3pm est. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/YouTube
                                                                                 With that said, there may or may not be a live show on March 5th, 2023, due to surgery recovery. I will have to see how I feel the day of and make the call on the fly. If you go to my YouTube channel through the link above and subscribe and follow the channel be sure to turn on the notification so you will know when we are live.
                                                                                 
                                                                                 As always, a HUGE THANK YOU to all of our producers and everyone that listens to the show!]]>64announcement,cervical,communication,spine,surgerycleanfullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/442Recorded: 9/04/2022 / Published: 2/18/2023
                                                                                 
                                                                                 • Text in your question at 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                 • In this week’s episode we are talking about erotic blueprints and the ups and downs of each one of them..
                                                                                 1. Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                 • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                 • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                 • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                 1. - “Your Erotic Blueprint-S04E42”
                                                                                 • https://camillestyles.com/wellness/erotic-blueprint/
                                                                                 • What is an Erotic Blueprint?
                                                                                 Conceptualized and trademarked by Miss Jaiya (https://missjaiya.com/), it is a method that helps explain your sexual preferences, needs, and desires. Together, the Five Erotic Blueprints™ give couples and singles a menu of how turn-on works in your body, how you can please your partner and ask for what you want, and how to expand your definition of “sex” into a whole new world of play and erotic possibilities.
                                                                                 
                                                                                 • What is a shadow? What are the shadow sides of each type?
                                                                                 • What are the types and what are their shadows?
                                                                                 • Energetic Types
                                                                                 • Energetic Types Shadow:
                                                                                 • Sensual Types
                                                                                 • Sensual Types Shadow:
                                                                                 • Sexual Types
                                                                                 • Sexual Types Shadow:
                                                                                 • Kinky Types
                                                                                 • Kinky Types Shadow:
                                                                                 • Shapeshifter Types
                                                                                 • Shapeshifter Types Shadow:
                                                                                 • How can you learn your erotic blueprint?
                                                                                 Take the quiz! https://bit.ly/yesannemore_Quiz
                                                                                 
                                                                                 Important Links:
                                                                                 1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/442
                                                                                 2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                 3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
                                                                                 4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                 5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                 6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                 Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                 
                                                                                 1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                 2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                 3. - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                 4. - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81
                                                                                 5. - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, and Thorn
                                                                                 6. - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, CivlDisobedience, Officer Davis, and Unassuming_dude.
                                                                                 7. - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, and Meg,
                                                                                 Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.
                                                                                 1. - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                 2. - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                 3. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                 4. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                 5. - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                 6. - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                 Contact info:
                                                                                 • Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                                                 • Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                 • Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                                                 • Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
                                                                                 ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52775968Sat, 18 Feb 2023 17:16:03 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 9/04/2022 / Published: 2/18/2023 - Text in your question at 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode we are talking about erotic blueprints and the ups and downs of each one of them.. - Rules...Recorded: 9/04/2022 / Published: 2/18/2023
                                                                                 
                                                                                 • Text in your question at 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                 • In this week’s episode we are talking about erotic blueprints and the ups and downs of each one of them..
                                                                                 1. Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                 • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                 • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                 • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                 1. - “Your Erotic Blueprint-S04E42”
                                                                                 • https://camillestyles.com/wellness/erotic-blueprint/
                                                                                 • What is an Erotic Blueprint?
                                                                                 Conceptualized and trademarked by Miss Jaiya (https://missjaiya.com/), it is a method that helps explain your sexual preferences, needs, and desires. Together, the Five Erotic Blueprints™ give couples and singles a menu of how turn-on works in your body, how you can please your partner and ask for what you want, and how to expand your definition of “sex” into a whole new world of play and erotic possibilities.
                                                                                 
                                                                                 • What is a shadow? What are the shadow sides of each type?
                                                                                 • What are the types and what are their shadows?
                                                                                 • Energetic Types
                                                                                 • Energetic Types Shadow:
                                                                                 • Sensual Types
                                                                                 • Sensual Types Shadow:
                                                                                 • Sexual Types
                                                                                 • Sexual Types Shadow:
                                                                                 • Kinky Types
                                                                                 • Kinky Types Shadow:
                                                                                 • Shapeshifter Types
                                                                                 • Shapeshifter Types Shadow:
                                                                                 • How can you learn your erotic blueprint?
                                                                                 Take the quiz! https://bit.ly/yesannemore_Quiz
                                                                                 
                                                                                 Important Links:
                                                                                 1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/442
                                                                                 2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                 3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
                                                                                 4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                 5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                 6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                 Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                 
                                                                                 1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                 2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                 3. - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                 4. - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81
                                                                                 5. - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, and Thorn
                                                                                 6. - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad &...]]>3722bdsm,education,healthy,help,relationship,self,sexyes4fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/440Recorded: 7/17/2022 / Published: 2/13/2023
                                                                                    • Text questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                    • In this week’s episode we are having some fun and talking about the joined by Dan and Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast to learn about BDSM rituals.
                                                                                    • Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                    • Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                    • KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                    • “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                    • “BDSM Rituals with Erotic Awakening Podcast-S04E40”
                                                                                    1. • https://www.eroticawakening.com/
                                                                                    Important Links:
                                                                                    1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/440
                                                                                    2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                    3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
                                                                                    4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                    5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                    6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                    Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                                                    Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                    257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                    Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                    1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                    2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                    3. - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                    4. - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, and DarlingTN and Sarge
                                                                                    5. - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, and Thorn
                                                                                    6. - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, CivlDisobedience, Officer Davis and Unassuming_dude.
                                                                                    7. - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, and Meg,
                                                                                    Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.
                                                                                    1. - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                    2. - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                    3. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                    4. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                    5. - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                    6. - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                    7. - Split Peaches https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/SplitPeaches
                                                                                    Contact info:
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                                                                                    ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52721035Mon, 13 Feb 2023 21:42:28 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 7/17/2022 / Published: 2/13/2023 - Text questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode we are having some fun and talking about the joined by Dan and Dawn from Erotic...Recorded: 7/17/2022 / Published: 2/13/2023
                                                                                    • Text questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                    • In this week’s episode we are having some fun and talking about the joined by Dan and Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast to learn about BDSM rituals.
                                                                                    • Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                    • Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                    • KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                    • “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                    • “BDSM Rituals with Erotic Awakening Podcast-S04E40”
                                                                                    1. • https://www.eroticawakening.com/
                                                                                    Important Links:
                                                                                    1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/440
                                                                                    2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                    3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
                                                                                    4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                    5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                    6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                    Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                                                    Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                    257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                    Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                    1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                    2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                    3. - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                    4. - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, and DarlingTN and Sarge
                                                                                    5. - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, and Thorn
                                                                                    6. - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, CivlDisobedience, Officer Davis and Unassuming_dude.
                                                                                    7. - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, and Meg,
                                                                                    Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.
                                                                                    1. - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                    2. - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                    3. - 440fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/439Recorded: 7/17/2022 / Published: 02/03/2023
                                                                                       • Text questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                       • - In this week’s episode we are having some fun and talking about the weird, bizarre, and nasty things that happen during sex.
                                                                                       1. - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                       • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                       • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                       • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                       1. - “The Nasty Parts of Sex-S04E39”
                                                                                       • https://www.buzzfeed.com/daniellaemanuel/terrible-parts-sex?fbclid=IwAR2u8kbBY7AmQ45AMtQmw2N9jCAGQ0z3otnK1Umi6cJoHo7fGsnMfw3HbUE
                                                                                       • https://www.buzzfeed.com/daniellaemanuel/people-awful-sex?d_id=4742279&ref=bffbsoml&utm_source=dynamic&utm_campaign=bffbsoml&fbclid=IwAR1LvTjjmi0kNstqOKewdZmP7tUHLaTilIFjIncrZPBvLqwAbWY9H3fxT0Y
                                                                                       Important Links:
                                                                                       1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/439
                                                                                       2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                       3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
                                                                                       4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                       5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                       6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                       Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                       
                                                                                       1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                       2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                       3. - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                       4. - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, and DarlingTN and Sarge
                                                                                       5. - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, and Thorn
                                                                                       6. - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, CivlDisobedience, Officer Davis and Unassuming_dude.
                                                                                       7. - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, and Meg,
                                                                                       Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.
                                                                                       1. - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                       2. - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                       3. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                       4. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                       5. - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                       6. - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                       7. - Split Peaches https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/SplitPeaches
                                                                                       Contact info:
                                                                                       • Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
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                                                                                       • Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
                                                                                       ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52632333Fri, 03 Feb 2023 22:22:40 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 7/17/2022 / Published: 02/03/2023 - Text questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - - In this week’s episode we are having some fun and talking about the weird, bizarre, and nasty things that...Recorded: 7/17/2022 / Published: 02/03/2023
                                                                                       • Text questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                       • - In this week’s episode we are having some fun and talking about the weird, bizarre, and nasty things that happen during sex.
                                                                                       1. - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                       • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                       • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                       • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                       1. - “The Nasty Parts of Sex-S04E39”
                                                                                       • https://www.buzzfeed.com/daniellaemanuel/terrible-parts-sex?fbclid=IwAR2u8kbBY7AmQ45AMtQmw2N9jCAGQ0z3otnK1Umi6cJoHo7fGsnMfw3HbUE
                                                                                       • https://www.buzzfeed.com/daniellaemanuel/people-awful-sex?d_id=4742279&ref=bffbsoml&utm_source=dynamic&utm_campaign=bffbsoml&fbclid=IwAR1LvTjjmi0kNstqOKewdZmP7tUHLaTilIFjIncrZPBvLqwAbWY9H3fxT0Y
                                                                                       Important Links:
                                                                                       1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/439
                                                                                       2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                       3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
                                                                                       4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                       5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                       6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                       Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                       
                                                                                       1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                       2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                       3. - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                       4. - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, and DarlingTN and Sarge
                                                                                       5. - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, and Thorn
                                                                                       6. - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, CivlDisobedience, Officer Davis and Unassuming_dude.
                                                                                       7. - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope...]]>5276bdsm,bodily,comedy,education,functions,funny,nasty,sexyes4fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/438Recorded: 7/17/2022 / Published: 01/25/2023
                                                                                          
                                                                                          • Text questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                          • In this week’s episode we are talking about Praise Kinks and Breeding Fetishes.
                                                                                          1. Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                          • Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                          • KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                          • “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                          1. - “How to Explore a Praise Kink, According to Sex Experts-S04E38”
                                                                                          • By: Hendy Phillips, June 21, 2022
                                                                                          • https://www.popsugar.com/love/praise-kink-48857696
                                                                                          “What is a Praise Kink:ll, student, daddy, baby, teacher, pet, term of endearment, sub, dom, etc.].
                                                                                          
                                                                                          • - You're so good at [insert skill].
                                                                                          • - I'm so lucky to have you. I know everyone wants a _______ just like you.
                                                                                          • - You look so hot when you [insert activity].
                                                                                          • - I can't wait to show you off.
                                                                                          • - You look so good in that [insert item of clothing/fetish wear].
                                                                                          • - Your [insert body part] is irresistible.
                                                                                          • - You taste so good. I can't get enough of you.
                                                                                          • - You're doing amazing — I'm so proud of you.
                                                                                          - Praise Kink Tips:
                                                                                          
                                                                                          1. Breeding Kink…WTF?
                                                                                             • https://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-news/elon-musk-nick-cannon-breeding-kink-1382676/amp/?fbclid=IwAR1Cuyfoyfb_KOA6agVNMG_a3BJRqfGVEuKFwfrST-llixaolz3xc7dJe4g
                                                                                          • “A breeding kink is a sexual desire to impregnate as many people as possible for reasons related to power, control, or even in some cases eugenics; an impulse shared by such illustrious luminaries as Jeffrey Epstein and Donald Cline, the Indianapolis fertility doctor featured in Netflix’s Our Father who inseminated dozens of women without their consent over the course of decades. (He later pleaded guilty to two felony counts of obstruction of justice related to the investigation, receiving a one-year suspended sentence.)”
                                                                                          Important Links:
                                                                                          
                                                                                          1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/438
                                                                                          2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                          3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
                                                                                          4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                          5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                          6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                          Show Producers:
                                                                                          Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                          Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                          Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                                                          Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                          257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                          Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                          
                                                                                          
                                                                                          1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                          2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                          3. - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                          4. - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, and DarlingTN and Sarge
                                                                                          5. - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, SirSilverWolf, and Thorn
                                                                                          6. - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Lily, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, CivlDisobedience, Officer Davis and Unassuming_dude.
                                                                                          7. - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, and Meg,
                                                                                          Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.
                                                                                          
                                                                                          1. - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                          2. - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                          3. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                          4. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                          5. - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                          6. - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                          • Contact info:
                                                                                            • Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                                                            • Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                            • Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                                                              
                                                                                          ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52544538Wed, 25 Jan 2023 21:02:41 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 7/17/2022 / Published: 01/25/2023 - Text questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode we are talking about Praise Kinks and Breeding Fetishes. - Rules to Love By:...Recorded: 7/17/2022 / Published: 01/25/2023
                                                                                          
                                                                                          • Text questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                          • In this week’s episode we are talking about Praise Kinks and Breeding Fetishes.
                                                                                          1. Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                          • Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                          • KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                          • “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                          1. - “How to Explore a Praise Kink, According to Sex Experts-S04E38”
                                                                                          • By: Hendy Phillips, June 21, 2022
                                                                                          • https://www.popsugar.com/love/praise-kink-48857696
                                                                                          “What is a Praise Kink:ll, student, daddy, baby, teacher, pet, term of endearment, sub, dom, etc.].
                                                                                          
                                                                                          • - You're so good at [insert skill].
                                                                                          • - I'm so lucky to have you. I know everyone wants a _______ just like you.
                                                                                          • - You look so hot when you [insert activity].
                                                                                          • - I can't wait to show you off.
                                                                                          • - You look so good in that [insert item of clothing/fetish wear].
                                                                                          • - Your [insert body part] is irresistible.
                                                                                          • - You taste so good. I can't get enough of you.
                                                                                          • - You're doing amazing — I'm so proud of you.
                                                                                          - Praise Kink Tips:
                                                                                          
                                                                                          1. Breeding Kink…WTF?
                                                                                             • https://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-news/elon-musk-nick-cannon-breeding-kink-1382676/amp/?fbclid=IwAR1Cuyfoyfb_KOA6agVNMG_a3BJRqfGVEuKFwfrST-llixaolz3xc7dJe4g
                                                                                          • “A breeding kink is a sexual desire to impregnate as many people as possible for reasons related to power, control, or even in some cases eugenics; an impulse shared by such illustrious luminaries as Jeffrey Epstein and Donald Cline, the Indianapolis fertility doctor featured in Netflix’s Our Father who inseminated dozens of women without their consent over the course of decades. (He later pleaded guilty to two felony counts of obstruction of justice related to the investigation, receiving a one-year suspended sentence.)”
                                                                                          Important Links:
                                                                                          
                                                                                          1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/438
                                                                                          2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                          3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
                                                                                          4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                          5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                          6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
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                                                                                          1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                          2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                          3. - Master Producer ($50/month):...]]>4995adoration,breed,breeding,education,fetish,honorific,humiliation,kink,praise,sexyes4fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/437Recorded: 7/3/2022 / Published: 01/18/2023
                                                                                             • Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                             • In this week’s episode, we are talking about new relationship energy.
                                                                                             • Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                             1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                             2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                             3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                             • “New Relationship Energy-S04E37”
                                                                                             1. 1. What is NRE?
                                                                                                   1. the strong emotional, physical, and sexual response you have towards someone when you are in a new relationship with them. NRE is most often thought about with a new partner. However, NRE can be the result of a new friendship, job, vehicle, video game, pet, or basically anything new that enters into a person’s life.
                                                                                                2. How long does it last?
                                                                                                   1. It starts from the initial attraction and can last anywhere from three months to two years.
                                                                                                3. What causes NRE?
                                                                                                   1. The new relationship causes changes in brain signals that cause an immense rush of hormones, particularly adrenaline and oxytocin. After an unknown time period, habituation kicks in and our brain chemistry will return to what it was prior to the hormone rush.
                                                                                                4. Is it dangerous?
                                                                                                   1. In short, yes.
                                                                                                      1. First, it causes a person to act in a way they normally would not act. Often this is compared to the way addicts behave.
                                                                                                      2. Second, when it is a bad case of NRE, it tends to create exceptionally unhealthy and very codependent relationships.
                                                                                                      3. Finally, a large number of people become addicted to NRE and will constantly jump from one relationship to another. Often this is not done with ethics and people are hurt in the process.
                                                                                                5. Can it be avoided?
                                                                                                   1. No. However, the level of NRE a person gives into can absolutely be minimized through communication with loved ones, self-awareness, not rushing things, not forgetting about other things you love, forcing yourself to maintain your hobbies, and setting boundaries within the new and preexisting relationships.
                                                                                                6. Dealing with the aftermath:
                                                                                                   1. There are two groups of people that have to deal with NRE aftermath the person that experienced it and the people they’ve hurt.
                                                                                                   2. The person that experienced NRE:
                                                                                                      1. Accept responsibility for your actions.
                                                                                                      2. Atone within reason. (While you may have hurt people spending the rest of your life making up for it is typically not the way to go for anyone involved. Sometimes, people are unable to get over being hurt. When this is the case, a mature and friendly conversation about ending the relationship is typically best for all involved. With this said, this is not a decision that should be made quickly. I believe that people should work together to either improve their relationship or earn their way out by doing everything possible to make it work and reach a place of forgiveness and health. Therapy, including relationship therapy, is typically part of that process.
                                                                                                   3. The people caught in the wake of NRE:
                                                                                                      1. Try your best to be understanding toward the situation while also being true to yourself. If you have done the work and you know that forgiveness and moving forward is not a possibility then don’t punish yourself by punishing them. Have that mature and friendly conversation about how to end the relationship.
                                                                                             Important Links:
                                                                                             1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/437
                                                                                             2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                             3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
                                                                                             4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                             5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                             6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                             Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                                                             Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                             257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                             Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                             1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                             2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                             3. - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                             4. - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, and DarlingTN and Sarge
                                                                                             5. - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, SirSilverWolf, and Thorn
                                                                                             6. - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Lily, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, CivlDisobedience, and Officer Davis
                                                                                             7. - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, Meg, and Unassuming_dude
                                                                                             Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                             1. - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                             2. - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                             3. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                             4. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                             5. - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                             6. - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                             7. - Split Peaches https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/SplitPeaches
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                                                                                             ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52479335Thu, 19 Jan 2023 00:15:09 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 7/3/2022 / Published: 01/18/2023 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode, we are talking about new relationship energy. - Rules to Love By:...Recorded: 7/3/2022 / Published: 01/18/2023
                                                                                             • Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                             • In this week’s episode, we are talking about new relationship energy.
                                                                                             • Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                             1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                             2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                             3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                             • “New Relationship Energy-S04E37”
                                                                                             1. 1. What is NRE?
                                                                                                   1. the strong emotional, physical, and sexual response you have towards someone when you are in a new relationship with them. NRE is most often thought about with a new partner. However, NRE can be the result of a new friendship, job, vehicle, video game, pet, or basically anything new that enters into a person’s life.
                                                                                                2. How long does it last?
                                                                                                   1. It starts from the initial attraction and can last anywhere from three months to two years.
                                                                                                3. What causes NRE?
                                                                                                   1. The new relationship causes changes in brain signals that cause an immense rush of hormones, particularly adrenaline and oxytocin. After an unknown time period, habituation kicks in and our brain chemistry will return to what it was prior to the hormone rush.
                                                                                                4. Is it dangerous?
                                                                                                   1. In short, yes.
                                                                                                      1. First, it causes a person to act in a way they normally would not act. Often this is compared to the way addicts behave.
                                                                                                      2. Second, when it is a bad case of NRE, it tends to create exceptionally unhealthy and very codependent relationships.
                                                                                                      3. Finally, a large number of people become addicted to NRE and will constantly jump from one relationship to another. Often this is not done with ethics and people are hurt in the process.
                                                                                                5. Can it be avoided?
                                                                                                   1. No. However, the level of NRE a person gives into can absolutely be minimized through communication with loved ones, self-awareness, not rushing things, not forgetting about other things you love, forcing yourself to maintain your hobbies, and setting boundaries within the new and preexisting relationships.
                                                                                                6. Dealing with the aftermath:
                                                                                                   1. There are two groups of people that have to deal with NRE aftermath the person that experienced it and the people they’ve hurt.
                                                                                                   2. The person that experienced NRE:
                                                                                                      1. Accept responsibility for your actions.
                                                                                                      2. Atone within reason. (While you may have hurt people spending the rest of your life making up for it is typically not the way to go for anyone involved. Sometimes, people are unable to get over being hurt. When this is the case, a mature and friendly conversation about ending the relationship is typically best for all involved. With this said, this is not a decision that should be made quickly. I believe that people should work together to either improve their relationship or earn their way out by doing everything possible to make it work and reach a place of forgiveness and health. Therapy, including relationship therapy, is typically part of that process.
                                                                                                   3. The people caught in the wake of NRE:
                                                                                                      1. Try your best to be understanding toward the situation while also being true to yourself. If you have done the work and you know that forgiveness and moving forward is not a possibility then don’t punish yourself by punishing them. Have that mature and friendly conversation about how to end the relationship.
                                                                                             Important Links:
                                                                                             1. Full show notes: 4fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/moving-to-a-new-community-playing-with-a-friend-s04e36--52401712Recorded: 6/5/2022 / Published: 1/10/2023
                                                                                                • Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                • In this week’s episode, we are talking about moving to a new community and how to deal with the kink politic of the new community and stay to the end because there are going to be big changes coming to the podcast…so, we are going to talk about those.
                                                                                                • Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                1. 1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                   2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                   3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                • “Moving to a New Community? Playing with a friend?-S04E36”
                                                                                                1. 1. If possible, prepare early by visiting before you move. At least watch the groups in the area to see which ones are active and what the mood and tone of the groups are. After you have a pretty good idea about which ones you’d like to get involved with reach out to the leaders or active members and let them know you are moving to the area, ask about their vetting processes, and simply gather information. Just don’t send them a book of questions. Be respectful of their time.
                                                                                                   2. No matter how well known or respected you are in the old community, chances are the new one won't care and will be wary of you. Don't be offended, they are being protective of their group.
                                                                                                   3. Rule #1A: Be respectful
                                                                                                   4. Rule #1B: Be honest
                                                                                                   5. Rule #2: Do not frenzy
                                                                                                   6. Rule #3: Do not name drop. Offer to give ways to vette you but DO NOT name names until asked unless you enjoy making yourself look like an arrogant and pompous ass…especially if your inner circle are truly well-known people within the greater BDSM community. …And on that, as one of those decently well know people, most of us absolutely respond to messages about vetting someone. I have personally had name-dropped several times by people I’ve never heard of. I’m flattered that someone would think that doing that would get them an auto pass but absolutely does not. BE HONEST!
                                                                                                   7. Rule #4 Be yourself. Putting on a front is a huge turn off and only a narcissist would believe they could keep the front up forever. If you’re a nerd, a geek, a “little off”, strange, weird, or whatever just be you. I have troubles because I have a really off sense of humor. Most see it as sarcasm, arrogance, cockiness, or that I’m simply just an asshole or dick. Those that get to know me understand that I am just “a little different”.The ones that take the time to get to know me become my tribe and everyone else just isn’t for me…and that is OK! Not everyone likes you!
                                                                                                   8. Rule #5: Do not be too quick to judge…about anything.
                                                                                                • Playing with someone new that you’re friends with.
                                                                                                1. 1. Since you already know the person you may feel more or less nervous about asking for a scene. You may think that maybe you won’t need to talk through as many negotiations since you know their style already but really it will be just as important, if not more important, with someone you already know since you may assume they know things but they don’t.
                                                                                                   2. Things to consider:
                                                                                                      1. What does your partner (if you have one or more) think about the idea of you playing with the friend
                                                                                                      2. Do they have other partners who might need to be contacted first?
                                                                                                      3. Are they someone whose friendship is strong enough to stand if something goes wrong? Things happen sometimes no matter how prepared we are and if the friendship bond isn’t strong you could lose a friend.
                                                                                                      4. Is their style one you enjoy from what you have observed? (Do they like more stingy things than you do, are they more about sensual play than you, etc.)
                                                                                                      5. Sex. Is it on the table in any manner? It can change friendships dramatically. Even if it is sexual touching or energy it can make things weird between friends if not planned or at least discussed.
                                                                                                Important Links:
                                                                                                1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/436
                                                                                                2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
                                                                                                4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                                                                Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                1. 1. Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                   2. Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                                   3. Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                   4. Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, and DarlingTN and Sarge
                                                                                                   5. Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, and AK-47
                                                                                                   6. Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Art Kitten, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Lily, SirBNice, Neil, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife
                                                                                                   7. Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, and Meg
                                                                                                Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                1. - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                2. - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                3. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                4. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                5. - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                6. - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                                Contact info:
                                                                                                • Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
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                                                                                                • Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
                                                                                                ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52401712Tue, 10 Jan 2023 14:53:04 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 6/5/2022 / Published: 1/10/2023 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode, we are talking about moving to a new community and how to deal with the kink...Recorded: 6/5/2022 / Published: 1/10/2023
                                                                                                • Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                • In this week’s episode, we are talking about moving to a new community and how to deal with the kink politic of the new community and stay to the end because there are going to be big changes coming to the podcast…so, we are going to talk about those.
                                                                                                • Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                1. 1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                   2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                   3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                • “Moving to a New Community? Playing with a friend?-S04E36”
                                                                                                1. 1. If possible, prepare early by visiting before you move. At least watch the groups in the area to see which ones are active and what the mood and tone of the groups are. After you have a pretty good idea about which ones you’d like to get involved with reach out to the leaders or active members and let them know you are moving to the area, ask about their vetting processes, and simply gather information. Just don’t send them a book of questions. Be respectful of their time.
                                                                                                   2. No matter how well known or respected you are in the old community, chances are the new one won't care and will be wary of you. Don't be offended, they are being protective of their group.
                                                                                                   3. Rule #1A: Be respectful
                                                                                                   4. Rule #1B: Be honest
                                                                                                   5. Rule #2: Do not frenzy
                                                                                                   6. Rule #3: Do not name drop. Offer to give ways to vette you but DO NOT name names until asked unless you enjoy making yourself look like an arrogant and pompous ass…especially if your inner circle are truly well-known people within the greater BDSM community. …And on that, as one of those decently well know people, most of us absolutely respond to messages about vetting someone. I have personally had name-dropped several times by people I’ve never heard of. I’m flattered that someone would think that doing that would get them an auto pass but absolutely does not. BE HONEST!
                                                                                                   7. Rule #4 Be yourself. Putting on a front is a huge turn off and only a narcissist would believe they could keep the front up forever. If you’re a nerd, a geek, a “little off”, strange, weird, or whatever just be you. I have troubles because I have a really off sense of humor. Most see it as sarcasm, arrogance, cockiness, or that I’m simply just an asshole or dick. Those that get to know me understand that I am just “a little different”.The ones that take the time to get to know me become my tribe and everyone else just isn’t for me…and that is OK! Not everyone likes you!
                                                                                                   8. Rule #5: Do not be too quick to judge…about anything.
                                                                                                • Playing with someone new that you’re friends with.
                                                                                                1. 1. Since you already know the person you may feel more or less nervous about asking for a scene. You may think that maybe you won’t need to talk through as many negotiations since you know their style already but really it will be just as important, if not more important, with someone you already know since you may assume they know things but they don’t.
                                                                                                   2. Things to consider:
                                                                                                      1. What does your partner (if you have one or more) think about the idea of you playing with the friend
                                                                                                      2. Do they have other partners who might need to be contacted first?
                                                                                                      3. Are they someone whose friendship is strong enough to stand if something goes wrong? Things happen sometimes no matter how prepared we are and if the friendship bond isn’t strong you could lose a friend.
                                                                                                      4. Is their style one you enjoy...]]>4532bdsm,boundaries,community,education,friends,friendship,how,moving,respect,toyes4fullhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/what-is-relationship-anarchy-s04e35Recorded: 6/5/2022 / Published: 1/03/2023
                                                                                                         
                                                                                                         • Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                         • In this week’s episode, we are examining relationship anarchy.
                                                                                                         • Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                         1. 1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                         • “What is Relationship Anarchy-S04E35”
                                                                                                         • “What Is Relationship Anarchy?: This Modern Dating Approach Is All About Freedom” by Rebecca Strong / May 31, 2022
                                                                                                         1. 1. https://www.askmen.com/dating/dating_advice/what-is-relationship-anarchy-this-modern-dating-approach-is-all-about-freedom.html
                                                                                                            2. Over the last 40 years, the way people date has changed drastically. Rather than there being one model for your love life, there are several.
                                                                                                         These days, some people are dating multiple people at the same time. Some are waiting longer to get married. Some are opting to never get married at all, having kids before they tie the knot, or getting hitched but never moving in together. Others are choosing no-strings casual encounters over committed bonds.The point is, one by one, many of the unspoken “rules” of dating have been thrown out the window. And no one embraces this more than relationship anarchists. As the name suggests, relationship anarchy (RA) means rejecting any of society’s expectations when it comes to love. A 2017 study found that at least one in five people has engaged in some form of “consensual non-monogamy” before — including RA. But it’s certainly not for everyone. So, what exactly does relationship anarchy look like, and is it right for you? We talked to dating and relationship experts to find out.
                                                                                                         - What Is Relationship Anarchy?
                                                                                                         - Examples of Relationship Anarchy
                                                                                                         - Relationship Anarchy vs. Polyamory
                                                                                                         - Is Relationship Anarchy Right for You?
                                                                                                         
                                                                                                         Important Links:
                                                                                                         
                                                                                                         1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/435
                                                                                                         2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                         3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
                                                                                                         4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                         5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                         6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                         Show Producers:
                                                                                                         Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                         Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                         Snail mail donations and gifts:
                                                                                                         Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                         257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                         Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                         1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                         2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                                         3. - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                         4. - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, and DarlingTN and Sarge
                                                                                                         5. - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, and AK-47
                                                                                                         6. - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Art Kitten, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Gator & Gizmo, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Lily, SirBNice, Neil, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife
                                                                                                         7. - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo Ashley, and Meg
                                                                                                         Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                         1. - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                         2. - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                         3. - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                         4. - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                                         Contact info:
                                                                                                         • Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
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                                                                                                         • Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
                                                                                                         ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52344499Tue, 03 Jan 2023 18:38:28 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 6/5/2022 / Published: 1/03/2023 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode, we are examining relationship anarchy. - Rules to Love By:...Recorded: 6/5/2022 / Published: 1/03/2023
                                                                                                         
                                                                                                         • Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                         • In this week’s episode, we are examining relationship anarchy.
                                                                                                         • Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                         1. 1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                         • “What is Relationship Anarchy-S04E35”
                                                                                                         • “What Is Relationship Anarchy?: This Modern Dating Approach Is All About Freedom” by Rebecca Strong / May 31, 2022
                                                                                                         1. 1. https://www.askmen.com/dating/dating_advice/what-is-relationship-anarchy-this-modern-dating-approach-is-all-about-freedom.html
                                                                                                            2. Over the last 40 years, the way people date has changed drastically. Rather than there being one model for your love life, there are several.
                                                                                                         These days, some people are dating multiple people at the same time. Some are waiting longer to get married. Some are opting to never get married at all, having kids before they tie the knot, or getting hitched but never moving in together. Others are choosing no-strings casual encounters over committed bonds.The point is, one by one, many of the unspoken “rules” of dating have been thrown out the window. And no one embraces this more than relationship anarchists. As the name suggests, relationship anarchy (RA) means rejecting any of society’s expectations when it comes to love. A 2017 study found that at least one in five people has engaged in some form of “consensual non-monogamy” before — including RA. But it’s certainly not for everyone. So, what exactly does relationship anarchy look like, and is it right for you? We talked to dating and relationship experts to find out.
                                                                                                         - What Is Relationship Anarchy?
                                                                                                         - Examples of Relationship Anarchy
                                                                                                         - Relationship Anarchy vs. Polyamory
                                                                                                         - Is Relationship Anarchy Right for You?
                                                                                                         
                                                                                                         Important Links:
                                                                                                         
                                                                                                         1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/435
                                                                                                         2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                         3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
                                                                                                         4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                         5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                         6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                         Show Producers:
                                                                                                         Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                         Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                         Snail mail donations and gifts:
                                                                                                         Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                         257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                         Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                         1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                         2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                                         3. - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                         4. - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox,...]]>3106anarchy,education,freedom,hooking,modern,poly,polyamory,relationship,sexual,upyes435fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chronic-pain-management-thru-bdsm-s04e34--52151105- Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about managing our pain with BDSM.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Chronic Pain Management thru BDSM-S04E34”
                                                                                                            “Why Chronic Pain Sufferers Are Turning to BDSM” by Emma Madden, September 25, 2019
                                                                                                            For some folks, pain is the default setting. BDSM offers them a way to control the volume.
                                                                                                            “No pain, no gain” is a rallying slogan employed at both the beauty parlor and at the gym. Sometimes after a workout, you might even get a massage, which is quite literally the act of inflicting pain to the point of relaxation.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/434
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, and DarlingTN and Sarge
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, and AK-47
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Art Kitten, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Gator & Gizmo, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Lily ,SirBNice, Neil, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Ashley, and Meg
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52151105Sun, 11 Dec 2022 03:27:40 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 5/29/2022 / Published: 12/10/2022 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about managing our pain with BDSM. - Rules to...- Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about managing our pain with BDSM.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Chronic Pain Management thru BDSM-S04E34”
                                                                                                            “Why Chronic Pain Sufferers Are Turning to BDSM” by Emma Madden, September 25, 2019
                                                                                                            For some folks, pain is the default setting. BDSM offers them a way to control the volume.
                                                                                                            “No pain, no gain” is a rallying slogan employed at both the beauty parlor and at the gym. Sometimes after a workout, you might even get a massage, which is quite literally the act of inflicting pain to the point of relaxation.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/434
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, and DarlingTN and Sarge
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, and AK-47
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Art Kitten, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Gator & Gizmo, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Lily ,SirBNice, Neil, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Ashley, and Meg
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - 2817bdsm,educaton,management,masochist,pain,sadish,sadist,sadomasochism,sexyes4fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bdsm-humiliation-play-s04e33--52052379
                                                                                                            Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are diving deep into humiliation play.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                             Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “BDSM Humiliation Play-S04E33”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “What’s a humiliation kink? Here’s why it’s hot & how to get started” by Stella Harris / May 10, 2022
                                                                                                            https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/what-is-humiliation-kink 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - What Is A Humiliation Kink?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - What’s Hot About Being Humiliated?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Kink Can Be Therapeutic, But It’s Not Therapy
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - What Should You Consider Before Playing With Humiliation?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - How To Make Humiliation Hot
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - How To Make Humiliation Safe
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - How To Play With Humiliation For The First Time
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Experts: Midori, Sexologist, Kink Educator, author of Wild Side Sex
                                                                                                            Sunny Megatron, Certified Sexuality Educator and host of American Sex Podcast
                                                                                                            Rebecca Jay, LMSW
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/433
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication 
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon 
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood ST. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN      37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month): 
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): 
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, and Anomalous Mats
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, and AK-47
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Art Kitten, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Gator & Gizmo,  Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Lily ,SirBNice, Neil, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Ashley, and Meg
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist 
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                                            - Split Peaches https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/SplitPeaches
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52052379Wed, 30 Nov 2022 06:25:37 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 5/15/2022 / Published: 11/30/2022 Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.  In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are diving deep into humiliation play.  Rules to Love By:...
                                                                                                            Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are diving deep into humiliation play.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                             Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “BDSM Humiliation Play-S04E33”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “What’s a humiliation kink? Here’s why it’s hot & how to get started” by Stella Harris / May 10, 2022
                                                                                                            https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/what-is-humiliation-kink 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - What Is A Humiliation Kink?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - What’s Hot About Being Humiliated?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Kink Can Be Therapeutic, But It’s Not Therapy
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - What Should You Consider Before Playing With Humiliation?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - How To Make Humiliation Hot
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - How To Make Humiliation Safe
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - How To Play With Humiliation For The First Time
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Experts: Midori, Sexologist, Kink Educator, author of Wild Side Sex
                                                                                                            Sunny Megatron, Certified Sexuality Educator and host of American Sex Podcast
                                                                                                            Rebecca Jay, LMSW
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/433
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication 
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon 
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood ST. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN      37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month): 
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): 
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, and Anomalous Mats
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, and AK-47
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Art Kitten, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Gator & Gizmo,  Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Lily ,SirBNice, Neil, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Ashley, and Meg
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - 4366bdsm,dom,dominant,education,humiliation,kink,sex,sub,submissiveyes4fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ecofetishism-blending-nature-and-bdsm-s04e32--52002553- Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about ecofetishism-combining kink and nature.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Ecofetishism: Blending Nature and BDSM-S04E32”
                                                                                                            https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a39762463/sacred-sadism-ecofetishism-interview/?fbclid=IwAR0JRcFQwviQaj6tsCCUZDXYRqh4-Xuc4dOvqIzekV1W7-Dskjpb7fx9taQ
                                                                                                            Why is nettle painful? Stinging nettle has fine hairs on the leaves and stems that contain irritating chemicals, which are released when the plant comes in contact with the skin. The hairs or spines of the stinging nettle are normally very painful to the touch.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
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                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
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                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, and Anomalous Mats
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, and AK-47
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Art Kitten, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Gator & Gizmo, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Lily,SirBNice, Neil, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, and Black Angel
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Ashley, and Meg
                                                                                                            Sir Rj Recife IDK what level
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                                            - Split Peaches https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/splitpeaches
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52002553Thu, 24 Nov 2022 16:51:34 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 5/01/2022 / Published: 11/24/2022 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about ecofetishism-combining kink and nature. - Rules to...- Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about ecofetishism-combining kink and nature.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Ecofetishism: Blending Nature and BDSM-S04E32”
                                                                                                            https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a39762463/sacred-sadism-ecofetishism-interview/?fbclid=IwAR0JRcFQwviQaj6tsCCUZDXYRqh4-Xuc4dOvqIzekV1W7-Dskjpb7fx9taQ
                                                                                                            Why is nettle painful? Stinging nettle has fine hairs on the leaves and stems that contain irritating chemicals, which are released when the plant comes in contact with the skin. The hairs or spines of the stinging nettle are normally very painful to the touch.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/432
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
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                                                                                                            Show Producers:
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                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, and Anomalous Mats
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, and AK-47
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Art Kitten, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Gator & Gizmo, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Lily,SirBNice, Neil, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, and Black Angel
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Ashley, and Meg
                                                                                                            Sir Rj Recife IDK what level
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most...]]>3500bdsm,ecofetish,ecofetishism,education,kink,nature,sex,sexinghthewoods,woodsyes4fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/submissive-roundtable-on-sensations-of-play-s04e31--51907916- Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are joined by JunicornsAngel, Subx13, and SortOutTheKinks for a submissive’s roundtable about sensations during play.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Sub Roundtable on Sensations of Play-S04E31”
                                                                                                            This episode is dedicated to Artimis
                                                                                                            Junicornsangel https://fetlife.com/users/8828974
                                                                                                            SortOutTheKinks https://fetlife.com/users/6224000
                                                                                                            Sub_X13 https://fetlife.com/users/10968318
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/431
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
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                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, and Anomalous Mats
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae and AK-47
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Art Kitten, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Gator & Gizmo, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Lily,SirBNice, Neil, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, and Black Angel
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Ashley, and Meg
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                                            - Split Peaches
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
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                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51907916Wed, 16 Nov 2022 05:37:12 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 4/03/2022 / Published: 11/16/2022 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are joined by JunicornsAngel, Subx13, and SortOutTheKinks for...- Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are joined by JunicornsAngel, Subx13, and SortOutTheKinks for a submissive’s roundtable about sensations during play.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Sub Roundtable on Sensations of Play-S04E31”
                                                                                                            This episode is dedicated to Artimis
                                                                                                            Junicornsangel https://fetlife.com/users/8828974
                                                                                                            SortOutTheKinks https://fetlife.com/users/6224000
                                                                                                            Sub_X13 https://fetlife.com/users/10968318
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/431
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, and Anomalous Mats
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae and AK-47
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Art Kitten, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Gator & Gizmo, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Lily,SirBNice, Neil, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, and Black Angel
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Ashley, and Meg
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish...]]>6372bdsm,education,how,play,round,roundtable,sensation,sub,submissive,table,toyes4fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/orgasm-control-forced-orgasm-and-on-demand-s04e30--51816800
                                                                                                            - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are getting in to a topic that myself and Mayfair both love and rarely talk about Body Mods as BDSM and Kink Fetishes.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Orgasm Control, Forced Orgasm, and On Demand-S04E30”
                                                                                                            This episode is dedicated to Bonzo
                                                                                                            Slave arcane currently resides just outside Columbus, Ohio with his Master, Ms. Brenda.
                                                                                                            He has lived in a collar for more than two decades. He was honored to carry the titles: GLLA Ohio slave for 2014 (and 2015), GLLA slave 2014 and Mr. Classic Leather 2018! He has been one of the moderators for the AIS submissive roundtable, and is co-director of MAsT: Columbus. He and Ms. Brenda are passionate about setting a realistic example of what a 24/7 Female Master / male slave relationship can be. They have presented across the country on a range of topics from M/s dynamics to chastity, including a historical overview of female domination as portrayed in literature and the arts. When not making, vending or teaching about floggers, he is probably making sawdust in the woodshop, or tinkering with his motorcycle.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/430
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, and Anomalous Mats
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae and AK-47
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Art Kitten, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Gator & Gizmo, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, and Lily
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Ashley, and Meg
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                                            - Split Peaches
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51816800Mon, 07 Nov 2022 22:53:49 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 4/03/2022 / Published: 11/07/2022 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are getting in to a topic that myself and Mayfair both love...
                                                                                                            - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are getting in to a topic that myself and Mayfair both love and rarely talk about Body Mods as BDSM and Kink Fetishes.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Orgasm Control, Forced Orgasm, and On Demand-S04E30”
                                                                                                            This episode is dedicated to Bonzo
                                                                                                            Slave arcane currently resides just outside Columbus, Ohio with his Master, Ms. Brenda.
                                                                                                            He has lived in a collar for more than two decades. He was honored to carry the titles: GLLA Ohio slave for 2014 (and 2015), GLLA slave 2014 and Mr. Classic Leather 2018! He has been one of the moderators for the AIS submissive roundtable, and is co-director of MAsT: Columbus. He and Ms. Brenda are passionate about setting a realistic example of what a 24/7 Female Master / male slave relationship can be. They have presented across the country on a range of topics from M/s dynamics to chastity, including a historical overview of female domination as portrayed in literature and the arts. When not making, vending or teaching about floggers, he is probably making sawdust in the woodshop, or tinkering with his motorcycle.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/430
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, and Anomalous Mats
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae and AK-47
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Art Kitten, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Gator & Gizmo, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, and Lily
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Ashley, and Meg
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - 5068bdsm,comand,come,control,education,forced,kink,on,orgasm,sex,slave,submissiveyes4fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/body-mods-and-bimbofication-as-bdsm-and-kink-fetishes-s04e29--51768241- Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are getting into a topic that Mayfair and I both love and rarely talk about - Body Mods as BDSM and Kink Fetishes.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Dom sub Body Mods as BDSM and Kink Fetishes-S04E29”
                                                                                                            “BDSM, Bimbos and Branding: The extreme World of Body Modification Fetishes” by Sophie Wilson March 29, 2022
                                                                                                            https://www.dazeddigital.com/beauty/body/article/55792/1/bdsm-bimbos-and-branding-the-extreme-world-of-body-modification.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            PERMANENT BODY MODS CHANGE THE RECIPIENT’S APPEARANCE FOREVER, TAKING SEXUAL KINKS OUTSIDE THE BEDROOM AND MAKING THEM A 24/7 LIFESTYLE
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            When Kim Kardashian went on The Ellen DeGeneres Show this month, she revealed that Pete Davidson has had her name branded on his chest.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/428
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, and Anomalous Mats
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, Solstice, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, SirBNice, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, and Lily
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, Ashley, and Meg
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                                            - Split Peaches
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51768241Wed, 02 Nov 2022 20:03:55 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 4/03/2022 / Published: 11/02/2022 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are getting into a topic that Mayfair and I both love and...- Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are getting into a topic that Mayfair and I both love and rarely talk about - Body Mods as BDSM and Kink Fetishes.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Dom sub Body Mods as BDSM and Kink Fetishes-S04E29”
                                                                                                            “BDSM, Bimbos and Branding: The extreme World of Body Modification Fetishes” by Sophie Wilson March 29, 2022
                                                                                                            https://www.dazeddigital.com/beauty/body/article/55792/1/bdsm-bimbos-and-branding-the-extreme-world-of-body-modification.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            PERMANENT BODY MODS CHANGE THE RECIPIENT’S APPEARANCE FOREVER, TAKING SEXUAL KINKS OUTSIDE THE BEDROOM AND MAKING THEM A 24/7 LIFESTYLE
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            When Kim Kardashian went on The Ellen DeGeneres Show this month, she revealed that Pete Davidson has had her name branded on his chest.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/428
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, and Anomalous Mats
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, Solstice, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, SirBNice, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, and Lily
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, Ashley, and Meg
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all...]]>4265bdsm,bimbofication,body,education,fetish,kink,mods,scarification,sexyes4fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dominant-submissive-power-exchange-with-erotic-awakening-podcast-s04e28--51673508-Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are joined by Dan and Dawn from the Erotic Awakening Podcast to talk about power exchange dynamics.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Dominant submissive Power Exchange with Erotic Awakening Podcast-S04E28”
                                                                                                            Important “Dan and Dawn” Links:
                                                                                                            All things Erotic Awakening: https://www.eroticawakening.com/
                                                                                                            Podcast: https://www.eroticawakening.com/podcast/
                                                                                                            Books: https://blossomtradingcompany.ecwid.com/
                                                                                                            The new book “Hearts & Collars”: https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/hearts-collars#/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Ten Licks:
                                                                                                            How long have you been into Kink?
                                                                                                            Top, bottom, or switch?
                                                                                                            Relationship Status?
                                                                                                            Favorite Position?
                                                                                                            Favorite Implement?
                                                                                                            Favorite Roleplay?
                                                                                                            Favorite kink or fetish?
                                                                                                            Favorite place for kink?
                                                                                                            Strangest Place you've had sex?
                                                                                                            Something you want to try?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            About Erotic Awakening Podcast:
                                                                                                            Welcome to the Erotic Awakening Podcast! Since 2009, we’ve brought you this informative and entertaining exploration of all things erotic. From sacred sexuality to fetishes, Power Exchange and polyamory, BDSM to erotic spirituality, nonstandard relationships to alternative love styles, as well as simply fun kink.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Over the years we’ve grown to be a community-supported and focused podcast for people like us – those who seek an alternative expression for intimacy, authentic growth, and well-being.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/428
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, and Anomalous Mats
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, Solstice, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, SirBNice, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, and Lily
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, Ashley, and Meg
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                                            - Split Peaches
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51673508Mon, 24 Oct 2022 16:27:56 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 3/27/2022 / Published: 10/24/2022 -Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.  - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are joined by Dan and Dawn from the Erotic Awakening Podcast...-Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are joined by Dan and Dawn from the Erotic Awakening Podcast to talk about power exchange dynamics.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Dominant submissive Power Exchange with Erotic Awakening Podcast-S04E28”
                                                                                                            Important “Dan and Dawn” Links:
                                                                                                            All things Erotic Awakening: https://www.eroticawakening.com/
                                                                                                            Podcast: https://www.eroticawakening.com/podcast/
                                                                                                            Books: https://blossomtradingcompany.ecwid.com/
                                                                                                            The new book “Hearts & Collars”: https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/hearts-collars#/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Ten Licks:
                                                                                                            How long have you been into Kink?
                                                                                                            Top, bottom, or switch?
                                                                                                            Relationship Status?
                                                                                                            Favorite Position?
                                                                                                            Favorite Implement?
                                                                                                            Favorite Roleplay?
                                                                                                            Favorite kink or fetish?
                                                                                                            Favorite place for kink?
                                                                                                            Strangest Place you've had sex?
                                                                                                            Something you want to try?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            About Erotic Awakening Podcast:
                                                                                                            Welcome to the Erotic Awakening Podcast! Since 2009, we’ve brought you this informative and entertaining exploration of all things erotic. From sacred sexuality to fetishes, Power Exchange and polyamory, BDSM to erotic spirituality, nonstandard relationships to alternative love styles, as well as simply fun kink.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Over the years we’ve grown to be a community-supported and focused podcast for people like us – those who seek an alternative expression for intimacy, authentic growth, and well-being.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/428
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, and Anomalous Mats
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin,...]]>5511dom,dominant,dynamic,education,exchange,power,sex,sub,submissiveyes4fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/new-federal-consent-laws-with-susan-wright-s04e27--51578878https://ncsfreedom.org
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Recorded: 3/20/2022 / Published: 10/14/2022
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Text in your questions to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “New Federal Consent Laws with Susan Wright-S04E27”
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom: https://ncsfreedom.org/2021/07/15/consent-counts-2/
                                                                                                            The American Law Institute: http://www.thealiadviser.org/sexual-assault/
                                                                                                            The Evolution of the Model Penal Code “Consent” Definition: https://www.thealiadviser.org/sexual-assault/evolution-of-model-penal-code-consent-definition/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Check out Susan's first visit to our podcast: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/221
                                                                                                            Consent, as it is practiced in the BDSM communities, is accurately reflected in Section 213.10 of the MPC, with “Explicit Prior Permission” preventing criminal prosecution of activities that are truly consensual and do not result in serious injury. Permission is “explicit” when it is personally given, orally or by written agreement, along with:
                                                                                                            (a) specifying that the actor may ignore the other party’s expressions of unwillingness or other absence of consent;
                                                                                                            (b) identifying the specific forms and extent of force, restraint, or threats that are permitted; and
                                                                                                            (c) stipulating the specific words or gestures that will withdraw the permission.
                                                                                                            Dick Cunningham has been assisting in the revision of the Model Penal Code on Sexual Assault as part of NCSF’s Consent Counts project, helping to establish this legal framework that acknowledges the use of safewords, protecting those who use them properly, and equipping prosecution for when they are violated or when serious harm is done. Survivors who are sexually assaulted during kink activities also may now be covered by “rape shield” laws, meaning that their prior sexual behavior with others generally can’t be used as evidence, reducing exposure to possible stigma attached to kink activities.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “Without this change, BDSM practices, even when consensual, might still be violating the law,” says Susan Wright, Spokesperson for NCSF. “In fact, there is not a single appellate court decision in the U.S. that has accepted consent as a defense in an assault or abuse prosecution arising from BDSM conduct. This case law has established that using nipple clamps or dripping hot wax on someone constitutes ‘serious bodily injury,’ when in reality, these are relatively mild activities.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Section 213.10 may be cited in opinions and briefs in cases involving BDSM activities, even in states where the legislature has not adopted the MPC on Sexual Assault.
                                                                                                            Needs explanation: the new MPC on Sexual Assault includes a general definition of consent for sexual activity, in which consent may be inferred from behavior—both action and inaction—in the context of all the circumstances. Neither verbal nor physical resistance is required to establish that consent is lacking, however, consent is ineffective when given by a person who is incompetent to consent or under circumstances precluding the free exercise of consent.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Explicit Prior Permission
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/427
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
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                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, and Anomalous Mats
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, Solstice, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, SirBNice, Kitten399, Katiee, and Koitsukihime(AD)
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, Ashley, and Meg
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
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                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51578878Fri, 14 Oct 2022 21:39:53 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLC- In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are learning about new federal laws defining consent and decriminalizing BDSM from Susan Wright, the head of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. https://ncsfreedom.org - Recorded: 3/20/2022 /...https://ncsfreedom.org
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Recorded: 3/20/2022 / Published: 10/14/2022
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Text in your questions to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “New Federal Consent Laws with Susan Wright-S04E27”
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom: https://ncsfreedom.org/2021/07/15/consent-counts-2/
                                                                                                            The American Law Institute: http://www.thealiadviser.org/sexual-assault/
                                                                                                            The Evolution of the Model Penal Code “Consent” Definition: https://www.thealiadviser.org/sexual-assault/evolution-of-model-penal-code-consent-definition/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Check out Susan's first visit to our podcast: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/221
                                                                                                            Consent, as it is practiced in the BDSM communities, is accurately reflected in Section 213.10 of the MPC, with “Explicit Prior Permission” preventing criminal prosecution of activities that are truly consensual and do not result in serious injury. Permission is “explicit” when it is personally given, orally or by written agreement, along with:
                                                                                                            (a) specifying that the actor may ignore the other party’s expressions of unwillingness or other absence of consent;
                                                                                                            (b) identifying the specific forms and extent of force, restraint, or threats that are permitted; and
                                                                                                            (c) stipulating the specific words or gestures that will withdraw the permission.
                                                                                                            Dick Cunningham has been assisting in the revision of the Model Penal Code on Sexual Assault as part of NCSF’s Consent Counts project, helping to establish this legal framework that acknowledges the use of safewords, protecting those who use them properly, and equipping prosecution for when they are violated or when serious harm is done. Survivors who are sexually assaulted during kink activities also may now be covered by “rape shield” laws, meaning that their prior sexual behavior with others generally can’t be used as evidence, reducing exposure to possible stigma attached to kink activities.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “Without this change, BDSM practices, even when consensual, might still be violating the law,” says Susan Wright, Spokesperson for NCSF. “In fact, there is not a single appellate court decision in the U.S. that has accepted consent as a defense in an assault or abuse prosecution arising from BDSM conduct. This case law has established that using nipple clamps or dripping hot wax on someone constitutes ‘serious bodily injury,’ when in reality, these are relatively mild activities.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Section 213.10 may be cited in opinions and briefs in cases involving BDSM activities, even in states where the legislature has not adopted the MPC on Sexual Assault.
                                                                                                            Needs explanation: the new MPC on Sexual Assault includes a general definition of consent for sexual activity, in which consent may be inferred from behavior—both action and inaction—in the context of all the circumstances. Neither verbal nor physical resistance is required to establish that consent is lacking, however, consent...]]>4182adult,advocacy,bdsm,concent,education,law,ncsf,relationship,sex,susan,wrightyes4fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/taxes-for-cam-models-and-kink-businesses-s04e26--51400168- Text questions 24/7 to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about taxes for cam models, pornstars, and kink businesses.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Taxes for Cam Models and Kink Businesses-S04E26”
                                                                                                            “I help OnlyFans creators prep their taxes. They're often surprised what can be a tax write-off, from BDSM gear and tattoos to their Spotify subscription.” by Jenny Powers Feb 5, 2022
                                                                                                            https://www.businessinsider.com/help-onlyfans-creators-adult-entertainers-prep-taxes-2022-2?fbclid=IwAR0640M09sLk0_rwGS6mla9oMMgmVEyiYFwedC00iuSJ-NsbHEtq6rd2fh8
                                                                                                            Katherine Studley, 28, is a financial strategist and tax accountant based in Virginia. She launched The Only Consultant to offer judgment-free tax prep services for adult entertainers.
                                                                                                            "A Simple Resource for OnlyFans Creators Tax Guide 2021" https://payhip.com/b/2Ndp
                                                                                                            This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Katherine Studley, a tax accountant in Virginia, about her career path. It has been edited for length and clarity.
                                                                                                            Chances are if you're an amateur porn model making a living on OnlyFans, you might not exactly want to pop over to your local H&R Block to get your taxes done when tax season rolls around.
                                                                                                            It's nothing personal against H&R Block or any traditional firm setting, but it's no secret people in the adult-entertainment field often experience stigma. Many OnlyFans creators want the option to be more discreet and work with a professional who understands the nuances of the adult industry. That's where I come in.
                                                                                                            I call myself The Only Consultant because my business is tailored to OnlyFans creators who are looking for an open-minded tax professional. I'm not only unfazed by questions like, "Are the sex toys I use in my videos tax-deductible? or, "Am I required to pay taxes on cash gifts from my sugar daddy?" — I'm also equally equipped to answer them (PS. the answer to both is yes, to an extent).
                                                                                                            My goal is to serve as an industry ally and assist sex workers with their tax prep without judgment
                                                                                                            My dad is a tax CPA, so growing up in our house in Buffalo, New York, there were five seasons: winter, spring, summer, fall, and tax season. As a kid, everywhere we went, people would ask my dad tax questions, which made me realize early on that while everyone has to file taxes, not everyone has the wherewithal to do it on their own.
                                                                                                            The process can be pretty daunting, especially as a 1099 independent contractor, which is the category content creators fall into because, in essence, they're operating their own small business.
                                                                                                            I majored in accounting at Niagara University and after graduating in 2017, I did a tax internship followed by nearly two years at regional CPA firms, where I easily clocked 65 hours a week.
                                                                                                            In summer 2019, I decided to hit the reset button on my life and moved to Alexandria, Virginia, where I began working in a coffee shop
                                                                                                            I made it a mission to meet a lot of people and see where my networking might take me.
                                                                                                            I began moonlighting for local business owners I met at the coffee shop and assisting them with their online marketing strategies. That winter, my networking also led to a full-time government contract job as a business operations manager.
                                                                                                            Then COVID-19 hit, and despite still being employed in my government job, I panicked about being alone in a new city and stuck inside all day. But then something clicked.
                                                                                                            I told myself that if I could get a grip and stop worrying long enough to focus and pay attention, there might be a business opportunity amid the chaos
                                                                                                            In April 2020, less than a month after the pandemic hit, OnlyFans saw a 75% increase in creator accounts. One day, I got to talking to a friend of mine who'd recently started an OnlyFans page during the lockdown.
                                                                                                            It was the first time she'd be a 1099 contractor, so I told her about everything she could deduct as work expenses, from production-related equipment like her computer, camera, and ring lights to more niche-related items like lingerie and sex toys. She had no idea those could be considered write-offs, which gave me an idea.
                                                                                                            Shortly after, I began researching the adult industry and its niches and in January 2021, I self-published an ebook called "A Simple Resource for OnlyFans Creators Tax Guide 2021" and sold it for $15 through my social media. I figured it would be a good way to help content creators understand tax implications while simultaneously giving me a passive income.
                                                                                                            There was some buzz around the book and by the following month, creators began to reach out to me saying, "We don't really want to learn to do our taxes, we want you to do our taxes," and that's when I decided to start my business.
                                                                                                            One month in, I decided to quit my government job and go all-in with my new business
                                                                                                            Although I'm a tax accountant, I'm not a CPA like my dad, which is the gold standard. So for quality-assurance purposes, I decided that I wanted all of my client's tax returns to be signed off on by a CPA.
                                                                                                            That decision turned out to be easier said than done — every CPA I called to partner with either ignored my calls or hung up on me once I mentioned amateur porn models.
                                                                                                            It took a month and a lot of outreach before I finally found a sole proprietor along with a local CPA firm back home in Buffalo that agreed to partner with me and sign off on my client returns.
                                                                                                            Since quitting my job a year ago and launching The Only Consultant, I've signed more than 100 clients
                                                                                                            ...Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/426 ...
                                                                                                            Potential Business Expenses
                                                                                                            Advertising
                                                                                                            Costumes
                                                                                                            Makeup
                                                                                                            Beauty Supplies
                                                                                                            Dry Cleaning
                                                                                                            Photography
                                                                                                            Props
                                                                                                            Travel
                                                                                                            Professional Fees
                                                                                                            Clerical Help
                                                                                                            Bank Charges
                                                                                                            Computers
                                                                                                            Cameras
                                                                                                            Cell Phone
                                                                                                            Web Services
                                                                                                            Mileage
                                                                                                            Home Office
                                                                                                            Others *ask your CPA
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/426
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, and Anomalous Mats
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, Solstice, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, SirBNice, Kitten399, Katiee, and Koitsukihime(AD)
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, Ashley, and Meg
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                                            -Split Peaches https://kuldrinskrypt.com/splitpeaches
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
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                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51400168Sat, 01 Oct 2022 19:15:45 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 3/13/2022 / Published: //2022 - Text questions 24/7 to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about taxes for cam models, pornstars, and kink businesses. -...- Text questions 24/7 to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about taxes for cam models, pornstars, and kink businesses.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Taxes for Cam Models and Kink Businesses-S04E26”
                                                                                                            “I help OnlyFans creators prep their taxes. They're often surprised what can be a tax write-off, from BDSM gear and tattoos to their Spotify subscription.” by Jenny Powers Feb 5, 2022
                                                                                                            https://www.businessinsider.com/help-onlyfans-creators-adult-entertainers-prep-taxes-2022-2?fbclid=IwAR0640M09sLk0_rwGS6mla9oMMgmVEyiYFwedC00iuSJ-NsbHEtq6rd2fh8
                                                                                                            Katherine Studley, 28, is a financial strategist and tax accountant based in Virginia. She launched The Only Consultant to offer judgment-free tax prep services for adult entertainers.
                                                                                                            "A Simple Resource for OnlyFans Creators Tax Guide 2021" https://payhip.com/b/2Ndp
                                                                                                            This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Katherine Studley, a tax accountant in Virginia, about her career path. It has been edited for length and clarity.
                                                                                                            Chances are if you're an amateur porn model making a living on OnlyFans, you might not exactly want to pop over to your local H&R Block to get your taxes done when tax season rolls around.
                                                                                                            It's nothing personal against H&R Block or any traditional firm setting, but it's no secret people in the adult-entertainment field often experience stigma. Many OnlyFans creators want the option to be more discreet and work with a professional who understands the nuances of the adult industry. That's where I come in.
                                                                                                            I call myself The Only Consultant because my business is tailored to OnlyFans creators who are looking for an open-minded tax professional. I'm not only unfazed by questions like, "Are the sex toys I use in my videos tax-deductible? or, "Am I required to pay taxes on cash gifts from my sugar daddy?" — I'm also equally equipped to answer them (PS. the answer to both is yes, to an extent).
                                                                                                            My goal is to serve as an industry ally and assist sex workers with their tax prep without judgment
                                                                                                            My dad is a tax CPA, so growing up in our house in Buffalo, New York, there were five seasons: winter, spring, summer, fall, and tax season. As a kid, everywhere we went, people would ask my dad tax questions, which made me realize early on that while everyone has to file taxes, not everyone has the wherewithal to do it on their own.
                                                                                                            The process can be pretty daunting, especially as a 1099 independent contractor, which is the category content creators fall into because, in essence, they're operating their own small business.
                                                                                                            I majored in accounting at Niagara University and after graduating in 2017, I did a tax internship followed by nearly two years at regional CPA firms, where I easily clocked 65 hours a week.
                                                                                                            In summer 2019, I decided to hit the reset button on my life and moved to Alexandria, Virginia, where I began working in a coffee shop
                                                                                                            I made it a mission to meet a lot of people and see where my networking might take me.
                                                                                                            I began moonlighting for local business owners I met at the coffee shop and assisting them with their online marketing strategies. That winter, my networking also led to a full-time government...]]>4684bdsm,cam,camming,cammodel,education,sex,sexworker,taxyes4fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/colleges-teaching-bdsm-101-s04e25--51399830
                                                                                                            - Text in you questions to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about BDSM being taught at colleges and what it means for the safety of young adults.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Colleges Teaching BDSM 101-S04E25”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “SU’s Kink 101 seminar is distasteful and embarrassing to the entire university”
                                                                                                            Published on 2/21/22 by Augustus LeRoux email: aoleroux@syr.edu
                                                                                                            https://dailyorange.com/2022/02/syracuse-university-kink-101-seminar-distasteful-embarrassing-entire-university/?fbclid=IwAR0AjQF5EigktJtPTE1LJjE2mKF09wGqn_OxVJgI-_d71B-uFGBs77T_pfM
                                                                                                            “If you visited the Syracuse University events calendar recently, you may have stumbled upon the university’s latest “Health and Wellness” seminar: Kink 101, a Bondage Domination Sadism Masochism (commonly known as BDSM) seminar aimed at teaching students how to tie up, whip and burn their sexual partners. It seems the movement in recent years to re-paint perversion with a coating of academic credibility has finally made a stop at SU.
                                                                                                            At an age where young minds are still quite impressionable and on a campus where, in 2020, 19% of students said they were sexually assaulted, SU would like students to believe that sadism and masochism are normal and encouraged components of intimacy. Only at SU can a student simultaneously demand constant coddling but be deemed developed enough for a crash course on how to have violent sex.
                                                                                                            Apologists for this sort of programming will say that young people need “sex education” and that it’s meant to promote safety. The assumption is that because some people are going to torture or be tortured for pleasure, we might as well destigmatize the whole thing for everyone.
                                                                                                            Promoting fetishistic sexual behaviors to students as young as 18 years old is not SU’s place. BDSM should be off SU’s campus and far away from the eyes of students. The degree to which students’ day-to-day lives have become hypersexualized has damaging implications. SU’s normalization of violent sex compounds an already existing mental health crisis supplemented by the widespread consumption of internet pornography. The sole defense our society has against this — shame — is now buckling thanks to those universities that now encourage depravity.
                                                                                                            There is a very real danger in how we are distorting Gen Z’s perceptions of sex. After Billie Eilish became a voice of reason and criticized violence in pornography, commentators rushed straight to the defense of their favorite adult videos.
                                                                                                            There is a very vocal crowd that likes to paint our new hypersexualized culture as harmless and liberated, but the reality facing many young people is that the kind of sex they are now expected to have is uncomfortable, unhealthy and even painful. That warped perception exerts an immense amount of pressure on young people.
                                                                                                            This is not an isolated incident. Students at universities across the country are being encouraged to normalize violence in sex. The same week SU hosted its Kink 101 seminar, Tulane University hosted its own BDSM workshop as part of the university’s annual Sex Week. Just last semester, America’s premiere Ivy League school did the same, offering an Intro to BDSM workshop. SUNY Fredonia even had a ”distinguished” professor of pornography, sexual fantasies and torture — at least until he was suspended earlier this month for making statements in support of pedophilia.
                                                                                                            This is not alarmism, and it is not contended that SU will soon be racked by a deluge of sexual violence. On the contrary, exposure to gratuitous and degrading sexual material is not out of the ordinary for young people — it is the new normal. What is perhaps most disturbing is not that SU hosted this workshop, but that most people are too addled by the TV show “Euphoria” and on-demand internet pornography to even notice.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/425
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
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                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51399830Tue, 27 Sep 2022 21:12:55 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 3/06/2022 / Published: 09/27/2022 - Text in you questions to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about BDSM being taught at colleges and what it means for...
                                                                                                            - Text in you questions to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about BDSM being taught at colleges and what it means for the safety of young adults.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Colleges Teaching BDSM 101-S04E25”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “SU’s Kink 101 seminar is distasteful and embarrassing to the entire university”
                                                                                                            Published on 2/21/22 by Augustus LeRoux email: aoleroux@syr.edu
                                                                                                            https://dailyorange.com/2022/02/syracuse-university-kink-101-seminar-distasteful-embarrassing-entire-university/?fbclid=IwAR0AjQF5EigktJtPTE1LJjE2mKF09wGqn_OxVJgI-_d71B-uFGBs77T_pfM
                                                                                                            “If you visited the Syracuse University events calendar recently, you may have stumbled upon the university’s latest “Health and Wellness” seminar: Kink 101, a Bondage Domination Sadism Masochism (commonly known as BDSM) seminar aimed at teaching students how to tie up, whip and burn their sexual partners. It seems the movement in recent years to re-paint perversion with a coating of academic credibility has finally made a stop at SU.
                                                                                                            At an age where young minds are still quite impressionable and on a campus where, in 2020, 19% of students said they were sexually assaulted, SU would like students to believe that sadism and masochism are normal and encouraged components of intimacy. Only at SU can a student simultaneously demand constant coddling but be deemed developed enough for a crash course on how to have violent sex.
                                                                                                            Apologists for this sort of programming will say that young people need “sex education” and that it’s meant to promote safety. The assumption is that because some people are going to torture or be tortured for pleasure, we might as well destigmatize the whole thing for everyone.
                                                                                                            Promoting fetishistic sexual behaviors to students as young as 18 years old is not SU’s place. BDSM should be off SU’s campus and far away from the eyes of students. The degree to which students’ day-to-day lives have become hypersexualized has damaging implications. SU’s normalization of violent sex compounds an already existing mental health crisis supplemented by the widespread consumption of internet pornography. The sole defense our society has against this — shame — is now buckling thanks to those universities that now encourage depravity.
                                                                                                            There is a very real danger in how we are distorting Gen Z’s perceptions of sex. After Billie Eilish became a voice of reason and criticized violence in pornography, commentators rushed straight to the defense of their favorite adult videos.
                                                                                                            There is a very vocal crowd that likes to paint our new hypersexualized culture as harmless and liberated, but the reality facing many young people is that the kind of sex they are now expected to have is uncomfortable, unhealthy and even painful. That warped perception exerts an immense amount of pressure on young people.
                                                                                                            This is not an isolated incident. Students at universities across the country are being encouraged to normalize violence in sex. The same week SU hosted its Kink 101 seminar, Tulane University hosted its own BDSM workshop as part of the university’s annual Sex Week. Just last semester, America’s premiere Ivy League school did the same, offering an Intro to...]]>3781101,bdsm,college,education,sex,syracuse,universityyes4fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/funny-sad-and-weird-us-sex-laws-s04e24--51221638
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                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are having a laugh about United States laws involving sex.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Funny, Sad, and Weird U.S. Sex Laws-S04E24” For full show notes that include each law we discuss click below.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51221638Wed, 14 Sep 2022 21:40:37 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 2/13/2022 / Published: 9/14/2022 - Text your questions in to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are having a laugh about United States laws involving sex. - Rules...
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                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are having a laugh about United States laws involving sex.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Funny, Sad, and Weird U.S. Sex Laws-S04E24” For full show notes that include each law we discuss click below.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are giving a brief run down of Netflix’s “Love and Leashes” and having a listener Q&A
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Netflix’s ‘Love and Leashes’ and Listener Q&A-S04E23”
                                                                                                            - 2022 | TV-14 | 1h 58m | Comedies “Love never hurt so good for two co-workers who enter a contractual relationship as partners in consensual play, pleasure and pain.” Starring: Seohyun, Lee Jun-young, EL
                                                                                                            - Issues and fixes
                                                                                                            - “You’re not my Master yet.”
                                                                                                            - Shoe scene
                                                                                                            - Bloody Flogging
                                                                                                            - Communications
                                                                                                            - Glasses
                                                                                                            - Rape attempt and cops not being called.
                                                                                                            - Awkwardness of figuring things out.
                                                                                                            - Listener Q&A
                                                                                                            - Why do I say that BDSM should not be used in conjunction with therapy?
                                                                                                            - What is sounding?
                                                                                                            - Why do people say that BDSM is illegal?
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, and Anomalous Mats
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, Solstice, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, SirBNice, Kitten399, Katiee, and Koitsukihime(AD)
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                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
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                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
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                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51221636Mon, 12 Sep 2022 21:59:26 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 2/13/2022 / Published: 9/12/2022 - Text in your questions to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are giving a brief run down of Netflix’s “Love and Leashes” and having a...- Text in your questions to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are giving a brief run down of Netflix’s “Love and Leashes” and having a listener Q&A
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Netflix’s ‘Love and Leashes’ and Listener Q&A-S04E23”
                                                                                                            - 2022 | TV-14 | 1h 58m | Comedies “Love never hurt so good for two co-workers who enter a contractual relationship as partners in consensual play, pleasure and pain.” Starring: Seohyun, Lee Jun-young, EL
                                                                                                            - Issues and fixes
                                                                                                            - “You’re not my Master yet.”
                                                                                                            - Shoe scene
                                                                                                            - Bloody Flogging
                                                                                                            - Communications
                                                                                                            - Glasses
                                                                                                            - Rape attempt and cops not being called.
                                                                                                            - Awkwardness of figuring things out.
                                                                                                            - Listener Q&A
                                                                                                            - Why do I say that BDSM should not be used in conjunction with therapy?
                                                                                                            - What is sounding?
                                                                                                            - Why do people say that BDSM is illegal?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
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                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, and Anomalous Mats
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, Solstice, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, SirBNice, Kitten399, Katiee, and Koitsukihime(AD)
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - 3819bdsm,education,love&leashes,q&ayes4fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/subs-topping-their-doms-as-an-act-of-service-s04e22--51122687
                                                                                                            - Text your questions to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we discuss Dominant and submissive acts of service.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Dominant and Submissive Acts of Service-S04E22”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “An Act of Service: Strapping My Dom As a Leatherdyke Bottom” by A.C. Lamberty / Nov 8, 2021
                                                                                                            https://www.autostraddle.com/an-act-of-service-strapping-my-dom-as-a-leatherdyke-bottom/?fbclid=IwAR3G6MWFomDkxZfm3XmyJ1S4_UMbbTVaPc1e_Jiacf7UEVKynoW-79FLxf8
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
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                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
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                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, and Anomalous Mats
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, Solstice, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, SirBNice, Kitten399, and Katiee
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51122687Mon, 05 Sep 2022 04:20:02 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 2/06/2022 / Published: 9/5/2022 - Text your questions to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we discuss Dominant and submissive acts of service. - Rules to Love By:...
                                                                                                            - Text your questions to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we discuss Dominant and submissive acts of service.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Dominant and Submissive Acts of Service-S04E22”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “An Act of Service: Strapping My Dom As a Leatherdyke Bottom” by A.C. Lamberty / Nov 8, 2021
                                                                                                            https://www.autostraddle.com/an-act-of-service-strapping-my-dom-as-a-leatherdyke-bottom/?fbclid=IwAR3G6MWFomDkxZfm3XmyJ1S4_UMbbTVaPc1e_Jiacf7UEVKynoW-79FLxf8
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/422
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
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                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, and Anomalous Mats
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, Solstice, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, SirBNice, Kitten399, and Katiee
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group:...]]>3194act,bdsm,dominant,follower,leader,of,service,submissiveyes4fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/billie-eilish-on-porn-s04e21--51122684
                                                                                                            - Text your questions in to us at 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are jumping into Billie Eilish’s statements on porn and the good and the bad of it.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Billie Eilish on Porn-S04E21”
                                                                                                            Interview with Howard Stern (Clip)
                                                                                                            Justin Evert from “Lust is Boring” and YouTube
                                                                                                            https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WiPS-oCnuSU
                                                                                                            What does porn do to our attractions?
                                                                                                            Is porn ok if it’s tastefully done and not violent?
                                                                                                            Can porn cause “brain rot”?
                                                                                                            Does porn impair our freedom to consent?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/421
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, and Frozen Moron
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, RodderBaily, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, Solstice, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, and Katiee
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
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                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51122684Fri, 02 Sep 2022 19:43:34 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 1/30/2022 / Published: 9/2/2022 - Text your questions in to us at 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are jumping into Billie Eilish’s statements on porn and the good...
                                                                                                            - Text your questions in to us at 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are jumping into Billie Eilish’s statements on porn and the good and the bad of it.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Billie Eilish on Porn-S04E21”
                                                                                                            Interview with Howard Stern (Clip)
                                                                                                            Justin Evert from “Lust is Boring” and YouTube
                                                                                                            https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WiPS-oCnuSU
                                                                                                            What does porn do to our attractions?
                                                                                                            Is porn ok if it’s tastefully done and not violent?
                                                                                                            Can porn cause “brain rot”?
                                                                                                            Does porn impair our freedom to consent?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/421
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, and Frozen Moron
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, RodderBaily, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, Solstice, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, and Katiee
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: 3774abuse,bdsm,education,porn,sexyes4fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/hpv-genital-warts-vs-skin-tags-s04e20--50760582
                                                                                                            - Visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are taking a deep dive into HPV and genital warts, and the comparing them to skin tags.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “HPV/Genital Warts Vs Skin Tags-S04E20”
                                                                                                            STD Center New York
                                                                                                            https://stdcenterny.com/articles/genital-warts-versus-skin-tags.html
                                                                                                            This article should help people who aren’t doctors differentiate between skin tags and HPV (which is often called “genital warts”) and establish the right diagnosis.
                                                                                                            It’s important to distinguish these two conditions because one of them—genital warts—is infectious, meaning it can be passed from one person to another. Skin tags are not infectious; their formation is induced by other factors, as discussed below.
                                                                                                            Please keep in mind that neither condition is life-threatening or even dangerous.
                                                                                                            Both skin tags and genital warts are common conditions affecting the genitals of people of all ages and both genders. They can be easily confused because they’re similar in appearance.
                                                                                                            When establishing the diagnosis and differentiating between those two conditions, a few things need to be considered in combination:
                                                                                                            Visual examination of the skin is 90% of the diagnosis.
                                                                                                            Context information is 10% of the diagnosis (mainly, it confirms the diagnosis made based on visual examination). The context includes the history of the bump (how it’s changing over time and how fast it is growing), the patient’s age, the location of the skin lesion, the prevalence of each condition in the geographic area, and the patient’s genetic predisposition.
                                                                                                            Let’s talk about each of these things in more detail! Full shownotes found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/420
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/420
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, and Frozen Moron
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, and CurtainCall, RodderBaily, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, Solstice, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Katiee, and FetishArtist
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50760582Sun, 07 Aug 2022 18:39:43 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 1/23/2022 / Published: //2022 - Visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are taking a deep dive into HPV and genital warts, and the comparing them to skin tags. - Rules to Love By: (...
                                                                                                            - Visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are taking a deep dive into HPV and genital warts, and the comparing them to skin tags.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “HPV/Genital Warts Vs Skin Tags-S04E20”
                                                                                                            STD Center New York
                                                                                                            https://stdcenterny.com/articles/genital-warts-versus-skin-tags.html
                                                                                                            This article should help people who aren’t doctors differentiate between skin tags and HPV (which is often called “genital warts”) and establish the right diagnosis.
                                                                                                            It’s important to distinguish these two conditions because one of them—genital warts—is infectious, meaning it can be passed from one person to another. Skin tags are not infectious; their formation is induced by other factors, as discussed below.
                                                                                                            Please keep in mind that neither condition is life-threatening or even dangerous.
                                                                                                            Both skin tags and genital warts are common conditions affecting the genitals of people of all ages and both genders. They can be easily confused because they’re similar in appearance.
                                                                                                            When establishing the diagnosis and differentiating between those two conditions, a few things need to be considered in combination:
                                                                                                            Visual examination of the skin is 90% of the diagnosis.
                                                                                                            Context information is 10% of the diagnosis (mainly, it confirms the diagnosis made based on visual examination). The context includes the history of the bump (how it’s changing over time and how fast it is growing), the patient’s age, the location of the skin lesion, the prevalence of each condition in the geographic area, and the patient’s genetic predisposition.
                                                                                                            Let’s talk about each of these things in more detail! Full shownotes found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/420
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/420
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, and Frozen Moron
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, and CurtainCall, RodderBaily, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin,...]]>2679education,genital,hpv,sex,std,sti,wartsyes4fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ncsf-krypt-update-and-q-a-s04e19--50759955- Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “NCSF, Krypt Update, and Q&A-S04E19”
                                                                                                            National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
                                                                                                            https://ncsfreedom.org/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/419
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
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                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, and Frozen Moron
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, and CurtainCall, RodderBaily, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, Solstice, FetishArtist, and SirBNice
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50759955Sat, 30 Jul 2022 19:46:30 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 1/16/2022 / Published: 7/30/2022 - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid...- Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “NCSF, Krypt Update, and Q&A-S04E19”
                                                                                                            National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
                                                                                                            https://ncsfreedom.org/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/419
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
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                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
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                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, and Frozen Moron
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, and CurtainCall, RodderBaily, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, Solstice, FetishArtist, and SirBNice
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: 3729bdsm,education,kink,ncsfyes4fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/effective-leadership-in-the-bdsm-community-s04e18--50358753
                                                                                                            - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking to returning guest Curtain Call from “The Playspace: BDSM for the Short Attention Span”. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7OHBB1qy3a6dRu2jP2ojpQ
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Effective Leadership in the BDSM Community-S04E18”
                                                                                                            What is a leader within the BDSM community?
                                                                                                            Why did you want to talk about this?
                                                                                                            See a need. Fill the need.
                                                                                                            The dark side of leaders.
                                                                                                            How do we become effective leaders?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/418
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
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                                                                                                            Show Producers:
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                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, and Frozen Moron
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, and CurtainCall, RodderBaily, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, Solstice, FetishArtist, and SirBNice
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50358753Sun, 26 Jun 2022 05:30:45 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 1/9/2022 / Published: 6/26/2022 - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get...
                                                                                                            - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking to returning guest Curtain Call from “The Playspace: BDSM for the Short Attention Span”. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7OHBB1qy3a6dRu2jP2ojpQ
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Effective Leadership in the BDSM Community-S04E18”
                                                                                                            What is a leader within the BDSM community?
                                                                                                            Why did you want to talk about this?
                                                                                                            See a need. Fill the need.
                                                                                                            The dark side of leaders.
                                                                                                            How do we become effective leaders?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/418
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, and Frozen Moron
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, and CurtainCall, RodderBaily, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, Solstice, FetishArtist, and SirBNice
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - 5060bdsm,call,curtain,education,leadership,live,theplayspace,youtubeyes4fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bdsm-and-kink-shaming-s04e17--50078493- https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about kink shaming within the BDSM community.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “BDSM and Kink Shaming-S04E17”
                                                                                                            “DEAR DEIDRE My wife begs me to try her sexual fantasies, but she won’t wear tights for me” Edited By Sally Land 17:45, 2 Dec 2021
                                                                                                            https://www.thesun.co.uk/dear-deidre/16921779/my-wife-begs-live-out-her-sex-fantasies/
                                                                                                            She is 38, I am 45 and we have been married for nine years. We have enjoyed taking online BDSM courses, which have certainly livened things up in the bedroom.
                                                                                                            From the start, my wife was open about her role-play fantasies. She likes it when we dress up and I dominate her.
                                                                                                            Sometimes we pretend I am her boss, a strict teacher or a fireman. Any time she wants to try a new character, I oblige.
                                                                                                            Until recently, I’ve always kept my fantasy a secret.
                                                                                                            Ever since I was a teen, I’ve had a thing for dressing up in women’s tights and stockings. I have always found them sexy and love the feel of them against my skin.
                                                                                                            Last month, I finally got up the courage to tell my wife my fantasy involved us both wearing stockings during sex.
                                                                                                            She was mortified, screwing up her face as if I’d asked for something disgusting, and called me a freak.
                                                                                                            I waited another couple of weeks before bringing it up again but she was still completely against it.
                                                                                                            We haven’t spoken about it since. I’m hurt and have been avoiding sex since her reaction.
                                                                                                            She is still being open about things she would like to try but hasn’t mentioned my request.
                                                                                                            Obviously, I wouldn’t want to do anything that makes her feel uncom­fortable. But I would like her to be as open-minded as I have been about her fantasies.
                                                                                                            Should I try mentioning it to her once more?
                                                                                                            DEIDRE SAYS: You are not a freak – many men feel the same way you do and have similar fantasies.
                                                                                                            But the fact your wife hasn’t brought it up again suggests she is still struggling to process this information.
                                                                                                            In a quiet moment, discuss how you can see it out in a way that makes her feel comfortable.
                                                                                                            Her issue may be that she doesn’t understand why you have this longing to wear stockings, so I’m sending you my support pack on crossdressing, which explains.
                                                                                                            But it might also help to contact the Beaumont Society (01582 412 220, beaumontsociety.org.uk), where they will understand these issues.
                                                                                                            I am also sending you my support pack on fantasies. Perhaps there is something new in there that appeals to you both which might help you get your sex life back on track.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/417
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
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                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, and Frozen Moron
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, and CurtainCall, RodderBaily, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, Solstice, FetishArtist, and SirBNice
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50078493Thu, 09 Jun 2022 01:27:23 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 11/28/2021 / Published: 6/6/2022 - https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about kink shaming within the BDSM community. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com ) 1: Safe, sane,...- https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about kink shaming within the BDSM community.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “BDSM and Kink Shaming-S04E17”
                                                                                                            “DEAR DEIDRE My wife begs me to try her sexual fantasies, but she won’t wear tights for me” Edited By Sally Land 17:45, 2 Dec 2021
                                                                                                            https://www.thesun.co.uk/dear-deidre/16921779/my-wife-begs-live-out-her-sex-fantasies/
                                                                                                            She is 38, I am 45 and we have been married for nine years. We have enjoyed taking online BDSM courses, which have certainly livened things up in the bedroom.
                                                                                                            From the start, my wife was open about her role-play fantasies. She likes it when we dress up and I dominate her.
                                                                                                            Sometimes we pretend I am her boss, a strict teacher or a fireman. Any time she wants to try a new character, I oblige.
                                                                                                            Until recently, I’ve always kept my fantasy a secret.
                                                                                                            Ever since I was a teen, I’ve had a thing for dressing up in women’s tights and stockings. I have always found them sexy and love the feel of them against my skin.
                                                                                                            Last month, I finally got up the courage to tell my wife my fantasy involved us both wearing stockings during sex.
                                                                                                            She was mortified, screwing up her face as if I’d asked for something disgusting, and called me a freak.
                                                                                                            I waited another couple of weeks before bringing it up again but she was still completely against it.
                                                                                                            We haven’t spoken about it since. I’m hurt and have been avoiding sex since her reaction.
                                                                                                            She is still being open about things she would like to try but hasn’t mentioned my request.
                                                                                                            Obviously, I wouldn’t want to do anything that makes her feel uncom­fortable. But I would like her to be as open-minded as I have been about her fantasies.
                                                                                                            Should I try mentioning it to her once more?
                                                                                                            DEIDRE SAYS: You are not a freak – many men feel the same way you do and have similar fantasies.
                                                                                                            But the fact your wife hasn’t brought it up again suggests she is still struggling to process this information.
                                                                                                            In a quiet moment, discuss how you can see it out in a way that makes her feel comfortable.
                                                                                                            Her issue may be that she doesn’t understand why you have this longing to wear stockings, so I’m sending you my support pack on crossdressing, which explains.
                                                                                                            But it might also help to contact the Beaumont Society (01582 412 220, beaumontsociety.org.uk), where they will understand these issues.
                                                                                                            I am also sending you my support pack on fantasies. Perhaps there is something new in there that appeals to you both which might help you get your sex life back on track.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
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                                                                                                            - https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking to Sir Ezra of House Algos about his new book “Minfucking Mindfully: A Guide to Mental Manipulation for BDSM and Sadomasochism.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Mindfucking Mindfully with Sir Ezra-S04E16”
                                                                                                            Sir Ezra is a Pansexual, Polyamorous, Dominant, and Sexual Sadist. When not volunteering at DomCon, the AVN’s, LA Pride, and Threshold or teaching classes like whipping, fire, negotiation, and, of course Mindfucking, he is an Intimacy Coach, Educator, and Author of “Mindfucking Mindfully”.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - "Ten Licks”
                                                                                                            How long have been into Kink?
                                                                                                            Top, bottom, or switch?
                                                                                                            Relationship Status?
                                                                                                            Favorite Position?
                                                                                                            Favorite Implement?
                                                                                                            Favorite Roleplay?
                                                                                                            Favorite kink or fetish?
                                                                                                            Favorite place for kink?
                                                                                                            Strangest Place you’ve had sex?
                                                                                                            Something you want to try?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            What is mindfucking and what do you mean by “doing it mindfully”?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            What mindfucking is not: Pg. 22 para. 2.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Types of Mindfucks:
                                                                                                            Illusions
                                                                                                            Humiliation
                                                                                                            Expectation
                                                                                                            Perceived Power
                                                                                                            Asymmetric Information (Midori)
                                                                                                            Perception Alteration
                                                                                                            Degrading or Ennobling
                                                                                                            Negotiation Types:
                                                                                                            Spamming
                                                                                                            Expectations and Conditional Ask
                                                                                                            Trauma-Informed Mindfucking
                                                                                                            EMDR
                                                                                                            Pg. 74 Negotiating Trauma.
                                                                                                            Nonconsensual Mindfucks
                                                                                                            Politics
                                                                                                            TV/Marketing
                                                                                                            Corporate Culture (Raises/Family)
                                                                                                            Cautions and Warnings:
                                                                                                            Mistakes Happen
                                                                                                            Potholes Vs Landmines
                                                                                                            Kinky Blackjack
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/416
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
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                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, and Frozen Moron
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, and CurtainCall, RodderBaily, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, Solstice, FetishArtist, and SirBNice
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
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                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50056241Sat, 04 Jun 2022 00:12:00 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 11/28/2021 / Published: 6/3/2022 - https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking to Sir Ezra of House Algos about his new book “Minfucking Mindfully: A Guide to Mental Manipulation for BDSM and...
                                                                                                            - https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking to Sir Ezra of House Algos about his new book “Minfucking Mindfully: A Guide to Mental Manipulation for BDSM and Sadomasochism.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Mindfucking Mindfully with Sir Ezra-S04E16”
                                                                                                            Sir Ezra is a Pansexual, Polyamorous, Dominant, and Sexual Sadist. When not volunteering at DomCon, the AVN’s, LA Pride, and Threshold or teaching classes like whipping, fire, negotiation, and, of course Mindfucking, he is an Intimacy Coach, Educator, and Author of “Mindfucking Mindfully”.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - "Ten Licks”
                                                                                                            How long have been into Kink?
                                                                                                            Top, bottom, or switch?
                                                                                                            Relationship Status?
                                                                                                            Favorite Position?
                                                                                                            Favorite Implement?
                                                                                                            Favorite Roleplay?
                                                                                                            Favorite kink or fetish?
                                                                                                            Favorite place for kink?
                                                                                                            Strangest Place you’ve had sex?
                                                                                                            Something you want to try?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            What is mindfucking and what do you mean by “doing it mindfully”?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            What mindfucking is not: Pg. 22 para. 2.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Types of Mindfucks:
                                                                                                            Illusions
                                                                                                            Humiliation
                                                                                                            Expectation
                                                                                                            Perceived Power
                                                                                                            Asymmetric Information (Midori)
                                                                                                            Perception Alteration
                                                                                                            Degrading or Ennobling
                                                                                                            Negotiation Types:
                                                                                                            Spamming
                                                                                                            Expectations and Conditional Ask
                                                                                                            Trauma-Informed Mindfucking
                                                                                                            EMDR
                                                                                                            Pg. 74 Negotiating Trauma.
                                                                                                            Nonconsensual Mindfucks
                                                                                                            Politics
                                                                                                            TV/Marketing
                                                                                                            Corporate Culture (Raises/Family)
                                                                                                            Cautions and Warnings:
                                                                                                            Mistakes Happen
                                                                                                            Potholes Vs Landmines
                                                                                                            Kinky Blackjack
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/416
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, and Frozen Moron
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, and CurtainCall, RodderBaily, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany,...]]>4235bdsm,consent,education,games,gaslighting,manipulation,mind,sexyes4fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/keeping-it-kinky-for-the-holidays-revisited-s04e15--49989586
                                                                                                            - https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are revisiting how to keep it kinky during the holiday season.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Keeping it Kinky for the Holidays Revisited-S04E15”
                                                                                                            With the holidays fast approaching I get a lot of questions about maintaining a D/s role around the nonkinky family. And a special thank you to my sub, Mayfair for suggesting that I do this as an episode...again. There are several ways to stay in role but not appear anyway that would make grandma uncomfortable. So here are five ways to keep the kink without killing kinfolk.
                                                                                                            Decide on names.
                                                                                                            Decide on food limits prior to any gatherings.
                                                                                                            Use gestures.
                                                                                                            Serve food and drinks.
                                                                                                            Pick clothing and day collar in advance.
                                                                                                            Holiday Protocols
                                                                                                            Make it a scene:
                                                                                                            Negotiate expectations
                                                                                                            Set up small inconspicuous tasks
                                                                                                            Important hand signals
                                                                                                            Being excused
                                                                                                            Needing affection
                                                                                                            Needing “saved”
                                                                                                            Needing alone time or time away due to stress levels
                                                                                                            Need to leave the gathering aka “RED!”
                                                                                                            If this one is needed, separate transportation may be needed as well.
                                                                                                            Planned the fun rewards and punishments/funishments for after the event.
                                                                                                            Drop Role – the slave is permitted to actually “drop role” and behave in any way she wishes. The slave is specifically NOT to use words like “Master” nor engage in any overt submissive behavior (e.g. ask permission to go to the bathroom, etc.), nor make any overt BDSM references while in the Drop Role environment/situation. However, the slave IS expected to behave in a manner which still reflects well on The Master, i.e. common courtesy and politeness should still be present, and proper social graces are expected. The slave may converse freely with anyone. The slave remains “Drop Role” until otherwise instructed by The Master, but should be ready to return to proper role at a moment’s notice. This command is especially useful, for example, when spending time with Vanilla peers or parents. This can also be assigned to a specific time period, such as “Drop Role for the entire weekend while we are staying in your parent’s house.” [Arcane, Master. IGNITING THE FIRE: The Art of Romantic Submission]
                                                                                                            Slipping up with lifestyle names and actions and ways to cover.
                                                                                                            I.e. referring to Dom as Master, Sir, Daddy, …
                                                                                                            Formal presentation of items.
                                                                                                            Presents
                                                                                                            Are vanilla presents ok?
                                                                                                            Picking the right time to exchange gifts.
                                                                                                            Are collars ok to give as presents?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/415
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, and Frozen Moron
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, and CurtainCall, RodderBaily and SubmissiveKay
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, Solstice, FetishArtist, and SirBNice
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
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                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49989586Sun, 29 May 2022 20:28:53 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 11/21/2021 / Published: 5/29/2022 - https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are revisiting how to keep it kinky during the holiday season. - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com) 1: Safe,...
                                                                                                            - https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are revisiting how to keep it kinky during the holiday season.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Keeping it Kinky for the Holidays Revisited-S04E15”
                                                                                                            With the holidays fast approaching I get a lot of questions about maintaining a D/s role around the nonkinky family. And a special thank you to my sub, Mayfair for suggesting that I do this as an episode...again. There are several ways to stay in role but not appear anyway that would make grandma uncomfortable. So here are five ways to keep the kink without killing kinfolk.
                                                                                                            Decide on names.
                                                                                                            Decide on food limits prior to any gatherings.
                                                                                                            Use gestures.
                                                                                                            Serve food and drinks.
                                                                                                            Pick clothing and day collar in advance.
                                                                                                            Holiday Protocols
                                                                                                            Make it a scene:
                                                                                                            Negotiate expectations
                                                                                                            Set up small inconspicuous tasks
                                                                                                            Important hand signals
                                                                                                            Being excused
                                                                                                            Needing affection
                                                                                                            Needing “saved”
                                                                                                            Needing alone time or time away due to stress levels
                                                                                                            Need to leave the gathering aka “RED!”
                                                                                                            If this one is needed, separate transportation may be needed as well.
                                                                                                            Planned the fun rewards and punishments/funishments for after the event.
                                                                                                            Drop Role – the slave is permitted to actually “drop role” and behave in any way she wishes. The slave is specifically NOT to use words like “Master” nor engage in any overt submissive behavior (e.g. ask permission to go to the bathroom, etc.), nor make any overt BDSM references while in the Drop Role environment/situation. However, the slave IS expected to behave in a manner which still reflects well on The Master, i.e. common courtesy and politeness should still be present, and proper social graces are expected. The slave may converse freely with anyone. The slave remains “Drop Role” until otherwise instructed by The Master, but should be ready to return to proper role at a moment’s notice. This command is especially useful, for example, when spending time with Vanilla peers or parents. This can also be assigned to a specific time period, such as “Drop Role for the entire weekend while we are staying in your parent’s house.” [Arcane, Master. IGNITING THE FIRE: The Art of Romantic Submission]
                                                                                                            Slipping up with lifestyle names and actions and ways to cover.
                                                                                                            I.e. referring to Dom as Master, Sir, Daddy, …
                                                                                                            Formal presentation of items.
                                                                                                            Presents
                                                                                                            Are vanilla presents ok?
                                                                                                            Picking the right time to exchange gifts.
                                                                                                            Are collars ok to give as presents?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/415
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro...]]>4570bdsm,dom,dominant,education,exchange,kink,kinky,power,relationship,sex,sub,submissiveyes4fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/polyamory-partner-compatibility-and-jealously-s04e14--49866513- at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about polyamory partner compatibility and jealousy.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Polyamory Partner Compatibility and Jealousy-S04E14”
                                                                                                            Polyamory from Curtain Call https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OyO1H6eBP60
                                                                                                            Definitions to know: https://www.webmd.com/sex/what-is-polyamory
                                                                                                            Polyamory: multiple loving, intentional, and intimate relationships at the same time. Polyamory is a type of open or non-monogamous relationship that follows certain guidelines.
                                                                                                            Polyamory specifically refers to people who have multiple romantic relationships at the same time. It does not mean any type of open relationship that may include more casual sexual partners. In many polyamorous relationships, each partner is aware of the other ones.
                                                                                                            Partners may also have relationships or friendships with each other.
                                                                                                            There are a few different types of polyamory:
                                                                                                            Solo polyamory includes people who don't have primary partnerships but date multiple people. They remain mostly independent in their personal lives.
                                                                                                            Polyfidelity refers to a group of three or more people who have a committed relationship with each other and do not date outside of the group.
                                                                                                            Hierarchical polyamory means people who have primary partnerships to which they devote the most time and attention, and secondary and tertiary partnerships that receive less time and attention. The primary partner may have more power over important decisions.
                                                                                                            Non-hierarchical polyamory refers to people who don’t have a hierarchy of partners. It is also called egalitarian polyamory or relationship anarchy. Each partner may receive equal time and attention. They may also have equal input on important life choices.
                                                                                                            New Relationship Energy (NRE)
                                                                                                            Kitchen Table Polyamory
                                                                                                            What is the Difference Between Polyamory and Swinging?
                                                                                                            Swingers have multiple sexual partners but may not develop emotional or romantic connections with their partners. Swingers usually attend sex parties and other events to swap partners. They may have recurring sexual partners, but their focus is not on having romantic relationships.
                                                                                                            “Compatibility is Less Obvious Than You'd Think” by Laura Boyle, Jan 26,
                                                                                                            https://www.readyforpolyamory.com/post/compatibility-is-less-obvious-than-you-d-think
                                                                                                            “It seems like the primary problem for a polyamorous person would be “do we get along well enough to date?” and then “are they interested in polyamory or already polyamorous?” and if both are a yes, everyone is all set. While that’s certainly the first question, it’s unfortunately not the last.
                                                                                                            Compatibility in a polyamorous relationship can be complicated by all the same factors as compatibility in monogamous relationships - are you looking for something serious right now? If so: Do you want kids/Do you have kids? Are you good with money? Do you keep house in comfortably compatible ways? Do you intend to move soon or travel as part of your lifestyle? Do either/any of you have issues with addiction that will complicate your relationship to the point of incompatibility?
                                                                                                            And compatibility is additionally complicated by uniquely polyamorous problems: are you looking for relationships to fit into similar structures or can you handle being a connection between differing networks? Do you have enough time and energy to give each other the relationship you want without neglecting the other relationship(s) you’re already in? Are you prepared to help each other address jealousy head on?
                                                                                                            I think many of us are “trained” from a pretty young age to make sure we know our answers to the monogamous questions as if they’re universal. A lot of them do transfer over, so it’s good if we’re self-aware enough to have paid attention and noticed them. Some of them, like if you’d live together well, you won’t know until you’re quite deep in with someone unless you’re starting to date a long-time friend, but it’s good to note that they matter and try to keep them in the back of your mind.
                                                                                                            The two ways that relationship “structure” can matter is in the matter of hierarchy or non-hierarchical relationships and kitchen table to parallel relationships. I think the latter is much more easily overcome; but for some people, a casual relationship with someone who considers them secondary where they don’t use that term in their own relationships generally is fine, so long as they don’t make a larger habit of it.
                                                                                                            Time and energy (or, combined, “bandwidth”) for a relationship you’re adding can be a pretty hard thing to judge if you’re swept up in feelings and NRE. It’s important to try to look at your schedule and be realistic about how often you’ll see someone while maintaining your connections with other partners. Most polyamorous people are understanding about a few weeks of excitement and less time while you’re seeing someone new a little extra, but long-term shifting of priorities can leave people feeling lost and forgotten.
                                                                                                            This can mean that newest partners gain time in your schedule slowly, especially if your partners don’t prefer a kitchen table model of polyamory - so both or all of you being prepared to talk over and process jealous moments can be important. As we’ve mentioned before, jealousy is a reminder to see what’s happening, and can be harmless or serious depending on the moment, but the checking on it matters.
                                                                                                            It’s really tempting to believe that any nice polyamorous person willing to go on a date will be compatible with us, but there are other dimensions and some of these are polyamory specific. I hope I’ve given you a little sense of what those are and reminded you of the overall compatibility tests we need to apply, still, because shared community isn’t always shared values.”
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49866513Thu, 19 May 2022 21:16:05 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 11/14/2021 / Published: 5/19/2022 - at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about polyamory partner compatibility and jealousy. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com ) 1:...- at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about polyamory partner compatibility and jealousy.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Polyamory Partner Compatibility and Jealousy-S04E14”
                                                                                                            Polyamory from Curtain Call https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OyO1H6eBP60
                                                                                                            Definitions to know: https://www.webmd.com/sex/what-is-polyamory
                                                                                                            Polyamory: multiple loving, intentional, and intimate relationships at the same time. Polyamory is a type of open or non-monogamous relationship that follows certain guidelines.
                                                                                                            Polyamory specifically refers to people who have multiple romantic relationships at the same time. It does not mean any type of open relationship that may include more casual sexual partners. In many polyamorous relationships, each partner is aware of the other ones.
                                                                                                            Partners may also have relationships or friendships with each other.
                                                                                                            There are a few different types of polyamory:
                                                                                                            Solo polyamory includes people who don't have primary partnerships but date multiple people. They remain mostly independent in their personal lives.
                                                                                                            Polyfidelity refers to a group of three or more people who have a committed relationship with each other and do not date outside of the group.
                                                                                                            Hierarchical polyamory means people who have primary partnerships to which they devote the most time and attention, and secondary and tertiary partnerships that receive less time and attention. The primary partner may have more power over important decisions.
                                                                                                            Non-hierarchical polyamory refers to people who don’t have a hierarchy of partners. It is also called egalitarian polyamory or relationship anarchy. Each partner may receive equal time and attention. They may also have equal input on important life choices.
                                                                                                            New Relationship Energy (NRE)
                                                                                                            Kitchen Table Polyamory
                                                                                                            What is the Difference Between Polyamory and Swinging?
                                                                                                            Swingers have multiple sexual partners but may not develop emotional or romantic connections with their partners. Swingers usually attend sex parties and other events to swap partners. They may have recurring sexual partners, but their focus is not on having romantic relationships.
                                                                                                            “Compatibility is Less Obvious Than You'd Think” by Laura Boyle, Jan 26,
                                                                                                            https://www.readyforpolyamory.com/post/compatibility-is-less-obvious-than-you-d-think
                                                                                                            “It seems like the primary problem for a polyamorous person would be “do we get along well enough to date?” and then “are they interested in polyamory or already polyamorous?” and if both are a yes, everyone is all set. While that’s certainly the first question, it’s unfortunately not the last.
                                                                                                            Compatibility in a polyamorous relationship can be complicated by all the same factors as compatibility in monogamous relationships - are you looking for something serious right now? If so: Do you want kids/Do you have kids? Are you good with money? Do you keep house in comfortably compatible ways? Do you intend to move soon or travel as part of your lifestyle? Do either/any of you have issues with addiction that will complicate your relationship to the point of incompatibility?
                                                                                                            And compatibility is additionally complicated by uniquely polyamorous problems: are you looking...]]>3348bdsm,dominant,d/s,education,poly,submissiveyes4fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/five-year-anniversery-episode-s04e13--49669816https://kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are celebrating the 5 year anniversary of the podcast! This is not a typical episode.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Five Year Anniversary-S04E13”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Seasons 1-4 review.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Kuldrin gets interviewed by Mayfair and take's 10 licks.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Mayfair gets 10 licks.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
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                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, and Frozen Moron
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, and CurtainCall
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, Solstice, FetishArtist, and SirBNice
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49669816Thu, 05 May 2022 03:06:05 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLC- Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are celebrating the 5 year anniversary of the podcast! This is not a typical episode. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com ) 1: Safe, sane,...https://kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are celebrating the 5 year anniversary of the podcast! This is not a typical episode.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Five Year Anniversary-S04E13”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Seasons 1-4 review.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Kuldrin gets interviewed by Mayfair and take's 10 licks.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Mayfair gets 10 licks.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/413
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
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                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, and Frozen Moron
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, and CurtainCall
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, Solstice, FetishArtist, and SirBNice
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: 4087bdsm,education,harm,help,reduction,self,sexyes4fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bdsm-risk-mitigation-s04e12--49590377- https://kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are back from Panama City Beach, Florida and talking about an extremely important topic; risk mitigation.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “BDSM Risk Mitigation-S04E12”
                                                                                                            Deviant Discussions Podcast and Kynk101.com (Https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Risk)
                                                                                                            Risk Mitigation:
                                                                                                            Definition (Project Management Institute): The process of developing options and actions to enhance opportunities and reduce threats to project objectives.
                                                                                                            Risk mitigation Progress Monitoring (Project Management Institute):
                                                                                                            Definition: The tracking of identified risks, identifying new risks, and evaluating risk process effectiveness throughout the project.
                                                                                                            Steps of Risk Mitigation:
                                                                                                            Risk Identification:
                                                                                                            Risk Impact Assessment:
                                                                                                            Risk Prioritization Analysis:
                                                                                                            Risk Mitigation Planning, Implementation, and Progress Monitoring.
                                                                                                            Risk Mitigation Handling Options: (https://www.mitre.org/publications/systems-engineering-guide/acquisition-systems-engineering/risk-management/risk-mitigation-planning-implementation-and-progress-monitoring)
                                                                                                            Assume/Accept: Acknowledge the existence of a particular risk, and make a deliberate decision to accept it without engaging in special efforts to control it. Communication by all parties is required for risks to be accepted.
                                                                                                            Avoid: Adjust scene requirements or constraints to eliminate or reduce the risk. This adjustment could be accommodated by a change in scheduling, venue, technical requirements, food, implements to be used, etc.
                                                                                                            Control: Implement actions to minimize the impact or likelihood of the risk.
                                                                                                            Transfer: Reassign accountability, responsibility, and authority to another person/play partner willing to accept the risk.
                                                                                                            Watch/Monitor: Monitor the environment for changes that affect the nature and/or the impact of the risk. The environment includes but is not limited to: venue, location, area of the body for play, implements used, consumables (foods available), time of day, week, month, year, participants, observers, length of scene, music, etc.
                                                                                                            Example: Risk Mitigation for Impact Play (https://kynk101.com/kink-bdsm-facts/impact-play-risks):
                                                                                                            Definition: A scene involving one person striking themselves or another person in a sexual or nonsexual manner.
                                                                                                            Common risks: Bruising, Cuts, Scratches, Bone damage, Internal injuries
                                                                                                            Key Requirements: Negotiation, Verbal and nonverbal safewords, Aftercare and secondary aftercare
                                                                                                            Considerations for Play:
                                                                                                            Be patient and progress slow. Start low. Go slow.
                                                                                                            Practice on inanimate objects.
                                                                                                            Communicate high risk areas (Top and bottom)
                                                                                                            Focus on fleshy areas.
                                                                                                            Allow time to heal.
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/412
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
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                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, and Frozen Moron
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, and CurtainCall
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, Solstice, FetishArtist, and SirBNice
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49590377Fri, 29 Apr 2022 00:04:09 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 10/31/2021 / Published: 4/28/2022 - https://kuldrinskrypt.com - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are back from Panama City Beach, Florida and talking about an extremely important topic; risk mitigation. - Rules to Love By: (...- https://kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are back from Panama City Beach, Florida and talking about an extremely important topic; risk mitigation.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “BDSM Risk Mitigation-S04E12”
                                                                                                            Deviant Discussions Podcast and Kynk101.com (Https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Risk)
                                                                                                            Risk Mitigation:
                                                                                                            Definition (Project Management Institute): The process of developing options and actions to enhance opportunities and reduce threats to project objectives.
                                                                                                            Risk mitigation Progress Monitoring (Project Management Institute):
                                                                                                            Definition: The tracking of identified risks, identifying new risks, and evaluating risk process effectiveness throughout the project.
                                                                                                            Steps of Risk Mitigation:
                                                                                                            Risk Identification:
                                                                                                            Risk Impact Assessment:
                                                                                                            Risk Prioritization Analysis:
                                                                                                            Risk Mitigation Planning, Implementation, and Progress Monitoring.
                                                                                                            Risk Mitigation Handling Options: (https://www.mitre.org/publications/systems-engineering-guide/acquisition-systems-engineering/risk-management/risk-mitigation-planning-implementation-and-progress-monitoring)
                                                                                                            Assume/Accept: Acknowledge the existence of a particular risk, and make a deliberate decision to accept it without engaging in special efforts to control it. Communication by all parties is required for risks to be accepted.
                                                                                                            Avoid: Adjust scene requirements or constraints to eliminate or reduce the risk. This adjustment could be accommodated by a change in scheduling, venue, technical requirements, food, implements to be used, etc.
                                                                                                            Control: Implement actions to minimize the impact or likelihood of the risk.
                                                                                                            Transfer: Reassign accountability, responsibility, and authority to another person/play partner willing to accept the risk.
                                                                                                            Watch/Monitor: Monitor the environment for changes that affect the nature and/or the impact of the risk. The environment includes but is not limited to: venue, location, area of the body for play, implements used, consumables (foods available), time of day, week, month, year, participants, observers, length of scene, music, etc.
                                                                                                            Example: Risk Mitigation for Impact Play (https://kynk101.com/kink-bdsm-facts/impact-play-risks):
                                                                                                            Definition: A scene involving one person striking themselves or another person in a sexual or nonsexual manner.
                                                                                                            Common risks: Bruising, Cuts, Scratches, Bone damage, Internal injuries
                                                                                                            Key Requirements: Negotiation, Verbal and nonverbal safewords, Aftercare and secondary aftercare
                                                                                                            Considerations for Play:
                                                                                                            Be patient and progress slow. Start low. Go slow.
                                                                                                            Practice on inanimate objects.
                                                                                                            Communicate high risk areas (Top and bottom)
                                                                                                            Focus on fleshy areas.
                                                                                                            Allow time to heal.
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/412
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
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                                                                                                            - https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are finishing up our deep dive to help people recognize abusive relationships and get out of them.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “How to Recognize the Signs of Mental and Emotional Abuse-S04E10”
                                                                                                            Medically reviewed by Timothy J. Legg, Ph.D., CRNP — Written by Ann Pietrangelo — Updated on December 6, 2018
                                                                                                            https://www.healthline.com/health/signs-of-mental-abuse?fbclid=IwAR1TSnF_j8kYoAgmVxYBF0Bs7A2Iup-4eZA4igXfeO2-QMHk7mRo7rBnFqM
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Overview
                                                                                                            You probably know many of the more obvious signs of mental and emotional abuse. But when you’re in the midst of it, it can be easy to miss the persistent undercurrent of abusive behavior.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Psychological abuse involves a person’s attempts to frighten, control, or isolate you. It’s in the abuser’s words and actions, as well as their persistence in these behaviors.
                                                                                                            The abuser could be your spouse or other romantic partner. They could be your business partner, parent, or a caretaker.
                                                                                                            No matter who it is, you don’t deserve it and it’s not your fault. Continue reading to learn more, including how to recognize it and what you can do next.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - What to do:
                                                                                                            If you’re being mentally and emotionally abused, trust your instincts. Know that it isn’t right and you don’t have to live this way.
                                                                                                            If you fear immediate physical violence, call 911 or your local emergency services.
                                                                                                            If you aren’t in immediate danger and you need to talk or find someplace to go, call the National Domestic Abuse Hotline at 800-799-7233. This 24/7 hotline can put you in touch with service providers and shelters across the United States.
                                                                                                            Otherwise, your choices come down to the specifics of your situation. Here’s what you can do:
                                                                                                            Accept that the abuse isn’t your responsibility. Don’t try to reason with your abuser. You may want to help, but it’s unlikely they’ll break this pattern of behavior without professional counseling. That’s their responsibility.
                                                                                                            Disengage and set personal boundaries. Decide that you won’t respond to abuse or get sucked into arguments. Stick to it. Limit exposure to the abuser as much as you can.
                                                                                                            Exit the relationship or circumstance. If possible, cut all ties. Make it clear that it’s over and don’t look back. You might also want to find a therapist who can show you a healthy way to move forward.
                                                                                                            Give yourself time to heal. Reach out to supportive friends and family members. If you’re in school, talk to a teacher or guidance counselor. If you think it will help, find a therapist who can help you in your recovery.
                                                                                                            Leaving the relationship is more complex if you’re married, have children, or have commingled assets. If that’s your situation, seek legal assistance. Here are a few other resources:
                                                                                                            Break the Cycle: Supporting young people between 12 and 24 to build healthy relationships and create an abuse-free culture.
                                                                                                            DomesticShelters.org: Educational information, hotline, and searchable database of services in your area.
                                                                                                            Love Is Respect (National Dating Abuse Hotline): Giving teens and young adults a chance to chat online, call, or text with advocates.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/411
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49551746Mon, 25 Apr 2022 22:24:57 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 10/17/2021 / Published: 4/25/2022 - https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are finishing up our deep dive to help people recognize abusive relationships and get out of them. - Rules to Love By: (...
                                                                                                            - https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are finishing up our deep dive to help people recognize abusive relationships and get out of them.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “How to Recognize the Signs of Mental and Emotional Abuse-S04E10”
                                                                                                            Medically reviewed by Timothy J. Legg, Ph.D., CRNP — Written by Ann Pietrangelo — Updated on December 6, 2018
                                                                                                            https://www.healthline.com/health/signs-of-mental-abuse?fbclid=IwAR1TSnF_j8kYoAgmVxYBF0Bs7A2Iup-4eZA4igXfeO2-QMHk7mRo7rBnFqM
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Overview
                                                                                                            You probably know many of the more obvious signs of mental and emotional abuse. But when you’re in the midst of it, it can be easy to miss the persistent undercurrent of abusive behavior.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Psychological abuse involves a person’s attempts to frighten, control, or isolate you. It’s in the abuser’s words and actions, as well as their persistence in these behaviors.
                                                                                                            The abuser could be your spouse or other romantic partner. They could be your business partner, parent, or a caretaker.
                                                                                                            No matter who it is, you don’t deserve it and it’s not your fault. Continue reading to learn more, including how to recognize it and what you can do next.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - What to do:
                                                                                                            If you’re being mentally and emotionally abused, trust your instincts. Know that it isn’t right and you don’t have to live this way.
                                                                                                            If you fear immediate physical violence, call 911 or your local emergency services.
                                                                                                            If you aren’t in immediate danger and you need to talk or find someplace to go, call the National Domestic Abuse Hotline at 800-799-7233. This 24/7 hotline can put you in touch with service providers and shelters across the United States.
                                                                                                            Otherwise, your choices come down to the specifics of your situation. Here’s what you can do:
                                                                                                            Accept that the abuse isn’t your responsibility. Don’t try to reason with your abuser. You may want to help, but it’s unlikely they’ll break this pattern of behavior without professional counseling. That’s their responsibility.
                                                                                                            Disengage and set personal boundaries. Decide that you won’t respond to abuse or get sucked into arguments. Stick to it. Limit exposure to the abuser as much as you can.
                                                                                                            Exit the relationship or circumstance. If possible, cut all ties. Make it clear that it’s over and don’t look back. You might also want to find a therapist who can show you a healthy way to move forward.
                                                                                                            Give yourself time to heal. Reach out to supportive friends and family members. If you’re in school, talk to a teacher or guidance counselor. If you think it will help, find a therapist who can help you in your recovery.
                                                                                                            Leaving the relationship is more complex if you’re married, have children, or have commingled assets. If that’s your situation, seek legal assistance. Here are a few other resources:
                                                                                                            Break the Cycle: Supporting young people between 12 and 24 to build healthy relationships and create an abuse-free culture.
                                                                                                            DomesticShelters.org: Educational information, hotline, and searchable database of services in your area.
                                                                                                            Love Is Respect (National Dating Abuse Hotline): Giving teens and young adults a chance to chat online, call, or text with advocates.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/411
                                                                                                            National Suicide...]]>4328abuse,bdsm,domestic,education,gas,gaslighting,lighting,manipulation,violenceyes4fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/pt-2-how-to-recognize-signs-of-mental-emotional-abuse-s04e10--49486020- https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are diving heavily into psychology with part 2 of an attempt to help people recognize abusive relationships and get out of them.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “How to Recognize the Signs of Mental and Emotional Abuse-S04E10”
                                                                                                            Medically reviewed by Timothy J. Legg, Ph.D., CRNP — Written by Ann Pietrangelo — Updated on December 6, 2018
                                                                                                            https://www.healthline.com/health/signs-of-mental-abuse?fbclid=IwAR1TSnF_j8kYoAgmVxYBF0Bs7A2Iup-4eZA4igXfeO2-QMHk7mRo7rBnFqM
                                                                                                            Overview
                                                                                                            You probably know many of the more obvious signs of mental and emotional abuse. But when you’re in the midst of it, it can be easy to miss the persistent undercurrent of abusive behavior.
                                                                                                            Psychological abuse involves a person’s attempts to frighten, control, or isolate you. It’s in the abuser’s words and actions, as well as their persistence in these behaviors.
                                                                                                            The abuser could be your spouse or other romantic partner. They could be your business partner, parent, or a caretaker.
                                                                                                            No matter who it is, you don’t deserve it and it’s not your fault. Continue reading to learn more, including how to recognize it and what you can do next.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Accusing, blaming, and denial
                                                                                                            This behavior comes from an abuser’s insecurities. They want to create a hierarchy in which they’re at the top and you’re at the bottom.
                                                                                                            Here are some examples:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Emotional neglect and isolation
                                                                                                            Abusers tend to place their own emotional needs ahead of yours. Many abusers will try to come between you and people who are supportive of you to make you more dependent on them. They do this by:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Codependence
                                                                                                            A codependent relationship is when everything you do is in reaction to your abuser’s behavior. And they need you just as much to boost their own self-esteem. You’ve forgotten how to be any other way. It’s a vicious circle of unhealthy behavior. You might be codependent if you:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Next week we will will wrap up this conversation by talking about what professionals suggest people in these types of relationships recommend doing. In the meantime, If you need help contact the National Domestic Abuse Hotline at 800-799-7233. This 24/7 hotline can put you in touch with service providers and shelters across the United States.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/410
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
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                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
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                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, and Frozen Moron
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, JustTommy, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Charlie & little bit, Mr. Byond, and CurtainCall
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                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49486020Wed, 20 Apr 2022 00:18:53 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 10/10/2021 / Published: 4/19/2022 - https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are diving heavily into psychology with part 2 of an attempt to help people recognize abusive relationships and get out of them. -...- https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are diving heavily into psychology with part 2 of an attempt to help people recognize abusive relationships and get out of them.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “How to Recognize the Signs of Mental and Emotional Abuse-S04E10”
                                                                                                            Medically reviewed by Timothy J. Legg, Ph.D., CRNP — Written by Ann Pietrangelo — Updated on December 6, 2018
                                                                                                            https://www.healthline.com/health/signs-of-mental-abuse?fbclid=IwAR1TSnF_j8kYoAgmVxYBF0Bs7A2Iup-4eZA4igXfeO2-QMHk7mRo7rBnFqM
                                                                                                            Overview
                                                                                                            You probably know many of the more obvious signs of mental and emotional abuse. But when you’re in the midst of it, it can be easy to miss the persistent undercurrent of abusive behavior.
                                                                                                            Psychological abuse involves a person’s attempts to frighten, control, or isolate you. It’s in the abuser’s words and actions, as well as their persistence in these behaviors.
                                                                                                            The abuser could be your spouse or other romantic partner. They could be your business partner, parent, or a caretaker.
                                                                                                            No matter who it is, you don’t deserve it and it’s not your fault. Continue reading to learn more, including how to recognize it and what you can do next.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Accusing, blaming, and denial
                                                                                                            This behavior comes from an abuser’s insecurities. They want to create a hierarchy in which they’re at the top and you’re at the bottom.
                                                                                                            Here are some examples:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Emotional neglect and isolation
                                                                                                            Abusers tend to place their own emotional needs ahead of yours. Many abusers will try to come between you and people who are supportive of you to make you more dependent on them. They do this by:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Codependence
                                                                                                            A codependent relationship is when everything you do is in reaction to your abuser’s behavior. And they need you just as much to boost their own self-esteem. You’ve forgotten how to be any other way. It’s a vicious circle of unhealthy behavior. You might be codependent if you:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Next week we will will wrap up this conversation by talking about what professionals suggest people in these types of relationships recommend doing. In the meantime, If you need help contact the National Domestic Abuse Hotline at 800-799-7233. This 24/7 hotline can put you in touch with service providers and shelters across the United States.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/410
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
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                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
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                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master...]]>4432abuse,domestic,education,guilt,narcissism,relationship,violenceyes4fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/pt-1-how-to-recognize-signs-of-mental-emotional-abuse-s04e09--49441613- https://kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are diving heavily into psychology today in an attempt to help people recognize abusive relationships and get out of them.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “How to Recognize the Signs of Mental and Emotional Abuse-S04E09”
                                                                                                            Medically reviewed by Timothy J. Legg, Ph.D., CRNP — Written by Ann Pietrangelo — Updated on December 6, 2018
                                                                                                            https://www.healthline.com/health/signs-of-mental-abuse?fbclid=IwAR1TSnF_j8kYoAgmVxYBF0Bs7A2Iup-4eZA4igXfeO2-QMHk7mRo7rBnFqM
                                                                                                            Overview
                                                                                                            You probably know many of the more obvious signs of mental and emotional abuse. But when you’re in the midst of it, it can be easy to miss the persistent undercurrent of abusive behavior.
                                                                                                            Psychological abuse involves a person’s attempts to frighten, control, or isolate you. It’s in the abuser’s words and actions, as well as their persistence in these behaviors.
                                                                                                            The abuser could be your spouse or other romantic partner. They could be your business partner, parent, or a caretaker.
                                                                                                            No matter who it is, you don’t deserve it and it’s not your fault. Continue reading to learn more, including how to recognize it and what you can do next.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Humiliation, negating, criticizing: These tactics are meant to undermine your self-esteem. The abuse is harsh and unrelenting in matters big and small.
                                                                                                            Name-calling.
                                                                                                            Character assassination.
                                                                                                            Yelling, screaming, and swearing
                                                                                                            Patronizing.
                                                                                                            Public embarrassment.
                                                                                                            Dismissiveness.
                                                                                                            “Joking.”
                                                                                                            Sarcasm.
                                                                                                            Insults of your appearance.
                                                                                                            Belittling your accomplishments.
                                                                                                            Put-downs of your interests.
                                                                                                            Pushing your buttons.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Control and shame
                                                                                                            Trying to make you feel ashamed of your inadequacies is just another path to power.
                                                                                                            Tools of the shame and control game include:
                                                                                                            Threats.
                                                                                                            Monitoring your whereabouts.
                                                                                                            Digital spying.
                                                                                                            Unilateral decision-making.
                                                                                                            Financial control.
                                                                                                            Lecturing.
                                                                                                            Direct orders.
                                                                                                            Outbursts.
                                                                                                            Treating you like a child.
                                                                                                            Feigned helplessness.
                                                                                                            Unpredictability.
                                                                                                            They walk out.
                                                                                                            Using others.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/409
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, dboat, and Frozen Moron
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, JustTommy, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Toredon, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Charlie & little bit, and Mr. Byond
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, and Solstice
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49441613Fri, 15 Apr 2022 06:29:24 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 10/03/2021 / Published: 4/15/2022 - https://kuldrinskrypt.com - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are diving heavily into psychology today in an attempt to help people recognize abusive relationships and get out of them. -...- https://kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are diving heavily into psychology today in an attempt to help people recognize abusive relationships and get out of them.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “How to Recognize the Signs of Mental and Emotional Abuse-S04E09”
                                                                                                            Medically reviewed by Timothy J. Legg, Ph.D., CRNP — Written by Ann Pietrangelo — Updated on December 6, 2018
                                                                                                            https://www.healthline.com/health/signs-of-mental-abuse?fbclid=IwAR1TSnF_j8kYoAgmVxYBF0Bs7A2Iup-4eZA4igXfeO2-QMHk7mRo7rBnFqM
                                                                                                            Overview
                                                                                                            You probably know many of the more obvious signs of mental and emotional abuse. But when you’re in the midst of it, it can be easy to miss the persistent undercurrent of abusive behavior.
                                                                                                            Psychological abuse involves a person’s attempts to frighten, control, or isolate you. It’s in the abuser’s words and actions, as well as their persistence in these behaviors.
                                                                                                            The abuser could be your spouse or other romantic partner. They could be your business partner, parent, or a caretaker.
                                                                                                            No matter who it is, you don’t deserve it and it’s not your fault. Continue reading to learn more, including how to recognize it and what you can do next.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Humiliation, negating, criticizing: These tactics are meant to undermine your self-esteem. The abuse is harsh and unrelenting in matters big and small.
                                                                                                            Name-calling.
                                                                                                            Character assassination.
                                                                                                            Yelling, screaming, and swearing
                                                                                                            Patronizing.
                                                                                                            Public embarrassment.
                                                                                                            Dismissiveness.
                                                                                                            “Joking.”
                                                                                                            Sarcasm.
                                                                                                            Insults of your appearance.
                                                                                                            Belittling your accomplishments.
                                                                                                            Put-downs of your interests.
                                                                                                            Pushing your buttons.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Control and shame
                                                                                                            Trying to make you feel ashamed of your inadequacies is just another path to power.
                                                                                                            Tools of the shame and control game include:
                                                                                                            Threats.
                                                                                                            Monitoring your whereabouts.
                                                                                                            Digital spying.
                                                                                                            Unilateral decision-making.
                                                                                                            Financial control.
                                                                                                            Lecturing.
                                                                                                            Direct orders.
                                                                                                            Outbursts.
                                                                                                            Treating you like a child.
                                                                                                            Feigned helplessness.
                                                                                                            Unpredictability.
                                                                                                            They walk out.
                                                                                                            Using others.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/409
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats,...]]>4563abuse,bdsm,education,gas,gaslighting,lighting,prevention,psychologyyes4fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-your-dom-sub-relationship-is-not-going-to-last-s04e08--49386299
                                                                                                            - https://kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are discussing some of the reasons D/s relationships fail and how to prevent them from happening.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Why Your Dom/sub Relationship Will Not Work-S04E08”
                                                                                                            “Race Bannon: Dom Disillusionment Syndrome” 21 May 2019
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://www.recon.com/en/Blog/Article/race-bannon-dom-disillusionment-syndrome/2802
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/408
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            Snail mail a donation of gift:
                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, dboat, and Frozen Moron
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, JustTommy, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Toredon, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Charlie & little bit, and Mr. Byond
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, and Solstice
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49386299Sun, 10 Apr 2022 17:00:50 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 09/26/2021 / Published: 4/10/2022 - https://kuldrinskrypt.com - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are discussing some of the reasons D/s relationships fail and how to prevent them from happening. - Rules to Love By:...
                                                                                                            - https://kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are discussing some of the reasons D/s relationships fail and how to prevent them from happening.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Why Your Dom/sub Relationship Will Not Work-S04E08”
                                                                                                            “Race Bannon: Dom Disillusionment Syndrome” 21 May 2019
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://www.recon.com/en/Blog/Article/race-bannon-dom-disillusionment-syndrome/2802
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/408
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            Snail mail a donation of gift:
                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, dboat, and Frozen Moron
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, JustTommy, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Toredon, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Charlie & little bit, and Mr. Byond
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, and Solstice
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: 4333abuse,bannon,bdsm,dominant,educaton,follower,health,leader,mental,psychology,race,submissiveyes4fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/narcissist-defined-and-it-is-what-it-is-s04e07--49324196
                                                                                                            - https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are touching on a few topics like narcissists and the saying "it is what it is" and answering random questions out of the chatroom.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Narcissists, 'It is What it is', and Live Q&A-S04E07”
                                                                                                            Narcissist Defined: a mental condition in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others.
                                                                                                            “Facts don’t care about your feelings.”
                                                                                                            “It is what it is.” by Emerald Wolf https://fetlife.com/users/7081106/posts/7462467
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/407
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, dboat, and Frozen Moron
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, JustTommy, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Toredon, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Charlie & little bit, and Mr. Byond
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, and Solstice
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49324196Tue, 05 Apr 2022 05:23:20 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 09/12/2021 / Published: 4/05/2022 - https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are touching on a few topics like narcissists and the saying "it is what it is" and answering random questions out of the...
                                                                                                            - https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are touching on a few topics like narcissists and the saying "it is what it is" and answering random questions out of the chatroom.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Narcissists, 'It is What it is', and Live Q&A-S04E07”
                                                                                                            Narcissist Defined: a mental condition in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others.
                                                                                                            “Facts don’t care about your feelings.”
                                                                                                            “It is what it is.” by Emerald Wolf https://fetlife.com/users/7081106/posts/7462467
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/407
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, dboat, and Frozen Moron
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, JustTommy, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Toredon, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Charlie & little bit, and Mr. Byond
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, and Solstice
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: 3406bdsm,education,narcissist,q&ayes4fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/financial-domination-bdsm-findom-s04e06--49230395- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt it's a requested topic by Mi Tu: FinDoms. Also known as Financial Domination.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Financial Domination (BDSM FinDom)-S04E06”
                                                                                                            Defined: is a subsect of the BDSM lifestyle, specifically dominance and submission, in which a submissive gives control of their finances to a Dominant. Often degradation and humiliation are included in the D/s dynamic.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            What is the difference between Financial Domination and sugar babying?
                                                                                                            A sugar baby relationship is where a sugar daddy/mama offers gifts and money to the "baby" in return for a relationship, generally without any explicit elements of domination. In financial domination, the submissive has no expectation of sexual contact in return for the money, and often there is no physical contact of any kind between the two parties.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Lingo:
                                                                                                            Dominant: money mistress, findomme, Goddess or money domme 
                                                                                                            Submissive: money slave, finsub, paypig, human ATM, or cash piggy
                                                                                                            Conversational: tribute,
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Types of Dynamics:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Online: Contact is maintained strictly through social media sites or FinDom specific dating sites. Tributes are given through online payment sites or apps.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            In-person: Tributes are almost always given and often the submissive is to accompany the dominant shopping and paying for everything, the sub is to give the Dom a credit card from the subs account, or both.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Hybrid: Typically, FinDom dynamics in the U.S.A. start off as an online situation. After trust is gained, some will move it into real-life meetups.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Dangers of FinDom dynamics:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Addiction: It is a highly addictive process. A quick online search will show you thousands of articles, videos, and documentaries proving that it can easily be one of the most life-ruining kinks or fetishes that a person can become involved in.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            End Game: The ultimate fantasy for most men that participate as a paypig is to have to file bankruptcy after selling everything they own to pay their FinDom tribute. Sadly, this is also a goal of many FinDoms.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Ending of Relationships: Often as people start running low on cash they will borrow and/or steal from loved ones to get their tribute fix.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Death: Depression is a real issue after a person realizes they have role played themselves in losing everything they once found dear to them. Suicide is not an uncommon occurrence among online-only participants. This is often credited to the disconnect that online play affords.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/406
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, dboat, and Frozen Moron
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Toredon, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Charlie & little bit, and Mr. Byond
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, and Solstice
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49230395Mon, 28 Mar 2022 21:06:32 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 09/12/2021 / Published: 3/28/2022 - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt it's a requested topic by Mi Tu: FinDoms. Also known as Financial...- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt it's a requested topic by Mi Tu: FinDoms. Also known as Financial Domination.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Financial Domination (BDSM FinDom)-S04E06”
                                                                                                            Defined: is a subsect of the BDSM lifestyle, specifically dominance and submission, in which a submissive gives control of their finances to a Dominant. Often degradation and humiliation are included in the D/s dynamic.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            What is the difference between Financial Domination and sugar babying?
                                                                                                            A sugar baby relationship is where a sugar daddy/mama offers gifts and money to the "baby" in return for a relationship, generally without any explicit elements of domination. In financial domination, the submissive has no expectation of sexual contact in return for the money, and often there is no physical contact of any kind between the two parties.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Lingo:
                                                                                                            Dominant: money mistress, findomme, Goddess or money domme 
                                                                                                            Submissive: money slave, finsub, paypig, human ATM, or cash piggy
                                                                                                            Conversational: tribute,
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Types of Dynamics:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Online: Contact is maintained strictly through social media sites or FinDom specific dating sites. Tributes are given through online payment sites or apps.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            In-person: Tributes are almost always given and often the submissive is to accompany the dominant shopping and paying for everything, the sub is to give the Dom a credit card from the subs account, or both.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Hybrid: Typically, FinDom dynamics in the U.S.A. start off as an online situation. After trust is gained, some will move it into real-life meetups.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Dangers of FinDom dynamics:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Addiction: It is a highly addictive process. A quick online search will show you thousands of articles, videos, and documentaries proving that it can easily be one of the most life-ruining kinks or fetishes that a person can become involved in.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            End Game: The ultimate fantasy for most men that participate as a paypig is to have to file bankruptcy after selling everything they own to pay their FinDom tribute. Sadly, this is also a goal of many FinDoms.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Ending of Relationships: Often as people start running low on cash they will borrow and/or steal from loved ones to get their tribute fix.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Death: Depression is a real issue after a person realizes they have role played themselves in losing everything they once found dear to them. Suicide is not an uncommon occurrence among online-only participants. This is often credited to the disconnect that online play affords.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/406
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            Snail mail a donation or gift:
                                                                                                            Kuldrin...]]>3051bdsm,dom,dominant,domination,dominatrix,domme,education,financial,findom,kink,master,podcast,pro,professional,slave,sub,submissiveyes4fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kink-as-a-competition-s04e05--49114180- https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about competing in kink.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Kink as a Compition-S04E05”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Who competes?
                                                                                                            Doms with other Doms: Who has the most subs? Who has the “best” sub? Who is the best top? Who is the most extreme/heaviest top? Who has the most notoriety?
                                                                                                            Subs with other subs: Who has the “best” dom? Who is the “best” sub? Who is the “best” bottom? Who is the most extreme bottom? Who knows all the slave positions and performs them the best? Who has the most notoriety?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Why?
                                                                                                            People are naturally competitive.
                                                                                                            The lingo and talk of our community naturally encourage it.
                                                                                                            Frenzy.
                                                                                                            Ego.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Is it healthy?
                                                                                                            Comparing ourselves to others
                                                                                                            Acting outside our comfort zone
                                                                                                            Acting outside our safety zone
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - What happens when we compete in BSDM?
                                                                                                            Self-harm
                                                                                                            The harm of others
                                                                                                            Relationship “bouncing”
                                                                                                            Bad reputation
                                                                                                            Banishment
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - How to recognize when you are competing in kink
                                                                                                            Basing the quality of a scene on:
                                                                                                            The number or color of marks.
                                                                                                            The number of people watching.
                                                                                                            How “hard”, sensual, or playful your scene is.
                                                                                                            Looking around to see what others are doing while you are scening.
                                                                                                            Moments of jealousy when cruising fetlife
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - How to stop it.
                                                                                                            Recognize it within yourself
                                                                                                            Work on self-confidence
                                                                                                            Work on learning to enjoy yourself in the moment.
                                                                                                            Make the decision and follow through every time it hits.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/405
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            Send a letter, a check, or a gift:
                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, dboat, and Frozen Moron
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Toredon, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Charlie & little bit, and Mr. Byond
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, Solsticee, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, and Beatrix Kiddo
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49114180Mon, 21 Mar 2022 03:50:02 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 08/29/2021 / Published: 03/20/2021 - https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about competing in kink. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com ) 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and...- https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about competing in kink.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Kink as a Compition-S04E05”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Who competes?
                                                                                                            Doms with other Doms: Who has the most subs? Who has the “best” sub? Who is the best top? Who is the most extreme/heaviest top? Who has the most notoriety?
                                                                                                            Subs with other subs: Who has the “best” dom? Who is the “best” sub? Who is the “best” bottom? Who is the most extreme bottom? Who knows all the slave positions and performs them the best? Who has the most notoriety?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Why?
                                                                                                            People are naturally competitive.
                                                                                                            The lingo and talk of our community naturally encourage it.
                                                                                                            Frenzy.
                                                                                                            Ego.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Is it healthy?
                                                                                                            Comparing ourselves to others
                                                                                                            Acting outside our comfort zone
                                                                                                            Acting outside our safety zone
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - What happens when we compete in BSDM?
                                                                                                            Self-harm
                                                                                                            The harm of others
                                                                                                            Relationship “bouncing”
                                                                                                            Bad reputation
                                                                                                            Banishment
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - How to recognize when you are competing in kink
                                                                                                            Basing the quality of a scene on:
                                                                                                            The number or color of marks.
                                                                                                            The number of people watching.
                                                                                                            How “hard”, sensual, or playful your scene is.
                                                                                                            Looking around to see what others are doing while you are scening.
                                                                                                            Moments of jealousy when cruising fetlife
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - How to stop it.
                                                                                                            Recognize it within yourself
                                                                                                            Work on self-confidence
                                                                                                            Work on learning to enjoy yourself in the moment.
                                                                                                            Make the decision and follow through every time it hits.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/405
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            Send a letter, a check, or a gift:
                                                                                                            Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
                                                                                                            257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
                                                                                                            Alcoa, TN 37701
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, dboat, and Frozen Moron
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Toredon, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Charlie & little bit, and Mr. Byond
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                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are diving into BDSM Discipline and Punishments.  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            - Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            - KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            - “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “BDSM Discipline and Punishments-S04E04” 
                                                                                                            Why do we use discipline and punishments?
                                                                                                            Growth and improvement are part of the Dom/sub dynamic and discipline and punishments are valuable tools in obtaining goals agreed on and set within the dynamic.  
                                                                                                            When is it ok to discipline or punish?
                                                                                                            When agreed-upon rules have been broken.
                                                                                                            When the infraction is understood.
                                                                                                            When anger isn’t directing the punishment.
                                                                                                            What are common types of disciplines and punishments?
                                                                                                            Spankings, floggings, wooden spoon, …
                                                                                                            Groundings 
                                                                                                            Humiliation
                                                                                                            Being left alone
                                                                                                            Withholding cuddles
                                                                                                            Silent treatment
                                                                                                            Taking away items like stuffies, toys, foods, …
                                                                                                            Withholding sex, orgasms, …
                                                                                                            Forced orgasms/pleasure torture 
                                                                                                            Withholding the right to please the Dominant
                                                                                                            Writing lines
                                                                                                            Writing essays
                                                                                                            Extra chores
                                                                                                            Swear/brat jar
                                                                                                            Lecture
                                                                                                            Figging
                                                                                                            Washing mouth out with soap
                                                                                                            Nipple clamps on the tongue
                                                                                                            Extended kneeling
                                                                                                            Kneeling on sandpaper, rice, or legos
                                                                                                            Standing in the corner
                                                                                                            Hands and or feet in ice
                                                                                                            Popsicle inserted in a hole
                                                                                                            Boot/ leather care/worship
                                                                                                            Staring into a mirror
                                                                                                            Paying compliments to self
                                                                                                            Violent wand
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
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                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Toredon, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Charlie & little bit, and Mr. Byond
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, Solsticee, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, and Beatrix Kiddo
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                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49023888Mon, 14 Mar 2022 02:00:02 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 08/29/2021 / Published: 03/13/2022 https://kuldrinskrypt.com.  In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are diving into BDSM Discipline and Punishments.   Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com ) - Safe, sane, consensual,...
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are diving into BDSM Discipline and Punishments.  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            - Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            - KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            - “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “BDSM Discipline and Punishments-S04E04” 
                                                                                                            Why do we use discipline and punishments?
                                                                                                            Growth and improvement are part of the Dom/sub dynamic and discipline and punishments are valuable tools in obtaining goals agreed on and set within the dynamic.  
                                                                                                            When is it ok to discipline or punish?
                                                                                                            When agreed-upon rules have been broken.
                                                                                                            When the infraction is understood.
                                                                                                            When anger isn’t directing the punishment.
                                                                                                            What are common types of disciplines and punishments?
                                                                                                            Spankings, floggings, wooden spoon, …
                                                                                                            Groundings 
                                                                                                            Humiliation
                                                                                                            Being left alone
                                                                                                            Withholding cuddles
                                                                                                            Silent treatment
                                                                                                            Taking away items like stuffies, toys, foods, …
                                                                                                            Withholding sex, orgasms, …
                                                                                                            Forced orgasms/pleasure torture 
                                                                                                            Withholding the right to please the Dominant
                                                                                                            Writing lines
                                                                                                            Writing essays
                                                                                                            Extra chores
                                                                                                            Swear/brat jar
                                                                                                            Lecture
                                                                                                            Figging
                                                                                                            Washing mouth out with soap
                                                                                                            Nipple clamps on the tongue
                                                                                                            Extended kneeling
                                                                                                            Kneeling on sandpaper, rice, or legos
                                                                                                            Standing in the corner
                                                                                                            Hands and or feet in ice
                                                                                                            Popsicle inserted in a hole
                                                                                                            Boot/ leather care/worship
                                                                                                            Staring into a mirror
                                                                                                            Paying compliments to self
                                                                                                            Violent wand
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/404
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
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                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, dboat, and Frozen Moron
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Toredon, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Charlie & little bit, and Mr. Byond
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, Solsticee, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, and Beatrix Kiddo
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - 4616bdsm,discipline,dom,dominance,dominant,dynamic,education,exchange,healthy,kink,power,punishments,relationship,sub,submission,submissiveyes4fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/cheating-and-bsdm-s04e03--49023886- https://kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are diving into BDSM Discipline and Punishments.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “BDSM Discipline and Punishments-S04E04”
                                                                                                            Why do we use discipline and punishments?
                                                                                                            Growth and improvement are part of the Dom/sub dynamic and discipline and punishments are valuable tools in obtaining goals agreed on and set within the dynamic.
                                                                                                            When is it ok to discipline or punish?
                                                                                                            When agreed-upon rules have been broken.
                                                                                                            When the infraction is understood.
                                                                                                            When anger isn’t directing the punishment.
                                                                                                            What are common types of disciplines and punishments?
                                                                                                            Spankings, floggings, wooden spoon, …
                                                                                                            Groundings
                                                                                                            Humiliation
                                                                                                            Being left alone
                                                                                                            Withholding cuddles
                                                                                                            Silent treatment
                                                                                                            Taking away items like stuffies, toys, foods, …
                                                                                                            Withholding sex, orgasms, …
                                                                                                            Forced orgasms/pleasure torture
                                                                                                            Withholding the right to please the Dominant
                                                                                                            Writing lines
                                                                                                            Writing essays
                                                                                                            Extra chores
                                                                                                            Swear/brat jar
                                                                                                            Lecture
                                                                                                            Figging
                                                                                                            Washing mouth out with soap
                                                                                                            Nipple clamps on the tongue
                                                                                                            Extended kneeling
                                                                                                            Kneeling on sandpaper, rice, or legos
                                                                                                            Standing in the corner
                                                                                                            Hands and or feet in ice
                                                                                                            Popsicle inserted in a hole
                                                                                                            Boot/ leather care/worship
                                                                                                            Staring into a mirror
                                                                                                            Paying compliments to self
                                                                                                            Violent wand
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/404
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
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                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, dboat, and Frozen Moron
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Toredon, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Charlie & little bit, and Mr. Byond
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, Solsticee, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, and Beatrix Kiddo
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49023886Fri, 11 Mar 2022 02:02:43 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 08/29/2021 / Published: 3/10/2022 - https://kuldrinskrypt.com - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are diving into BDSM Discipline and Punishments. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com ) 1: Safe, sane,...- https://kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are diving into BDSM Discipline and Punishments.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “BDSM Discipline and Punishments-S04E04”
                                                                                                            Why do we use discipline and punishments?
                                                                                                            Growth and improvement are part of the Dom/sub dynamic and discipline and punishments are valuable tools in obtaining goals agreed on and set within the dynamic.
                                                                                                            When is it ok to discipline or punish?
                                                                                                            When agreed-upon rules have been broken.
                                                                                                            When the infraction is understood.
                                                                                                            When anger isn’t directing the punishment.
                                                                                                            What are common types of disciplines and punishments?
                                                                                                            Spankings, floggings, wooden spoon, …
                                                                                                            Groundings
                                                                                                            Humiliation
                                                                                                            Being left alone
                                                                                                            Withholding cuddles
                                                                                                            Silent treatment
                                                                                                            Taking away items like stuffies, toys, foods, …
                                                                                                            Withholding sex, orgasms, …
                                                                                                            Forced orgasms/pleasure torture
                                                                                                            Withholding the right to please the Dominant
                                                                                                            Writing lines
                                                                                                            Writing essays
                                                                                                            Extra chores
                                                                                                            Swear/brat jar
                                                                                                            Lecture
                                                                                                            Figging
                                                                                                            Washing mouth out with soap
                                                                                                            Nipple clamps on the tongue
                                                                                                            Extended kneeling
                                                                                                            Kneeling on sandpaper, rice, or legos
                                                                                                            Standing in the corner
                                                                                                            Hands and or feet in ice
                                                                                                            Popsicle inserted in a hole
                                                                                                            Boot/ leather care/worship
                                                                                                            Staring into a mirror
                                                                                                            Paying compliments to self
                                                                                                            Violent wand
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/404
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, dboat, and Frozen Moron
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Toredon, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Charlie & little bit, and Mr. Byond
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, Solsticee, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, and Beatrix Kiddo
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - 3534bdsm,discipline,dom,dominance,dominant,education,fetish,kink,punishment,sub,submissiveyes4fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/annalynne-mccord-and-unhealthy-bdsm-s04e02--48969445- https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are diving into a discussion about unhealthy times to participate in BDSM.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “AnnaLynne McCord and Unhealthy BDSM?-S04E02”
                                                                                                            “AnnaLynne McCord Says She Experimented with Cutting, BDSM: 'To Feel Anything In My Body At All'” By TooFab Staff 8/4/2021
                                                                                                            https://toofab.com/2021/08/04/annalynne-mccord-says-she-experimented-with-cutting-bdsm/
                                                                                                            “AnnaLynne McCord has opened up about her childhood trauma and abuse, and the different behaviors and coping mechanisms she experienced as a result.
                                                                                                            Speaking candidly on Wednesday's episode of the "Call Me Daddy" podcast, the "90210" actress recalled being "abusive" to herself because the "level of torture" in her youth was "so horrific" that she would attempt to remove any pain reception.
                                                                                                            "I just stopped feeling pain," AnnaLynne began. "The self-harming started just because I couldn't feel anything. The level of torture that I went through as a child that I now remember was so horrific that my brain said no, she can't feel, so we're gonna shut off feeling."
                                                                                                            In attempts to counter the numbness, the former model, 34, would also find herself in sexual relationships that practiced sadism and masochism. "A big part of BDSM for me was just trying to feel anything in my body at all," she added.
                                                                                                            "I was opening up Pandora's box sexually without consciously knowing why I might like these things, why they might turn me on the way they did," she continued. "Because our beautiful brains that put pain and pleasure together to try to help us, ended up keeping me in a body that would go on to abuse herself for a very long time."
                                                                                                            "People laugh and say, 'Oh, I have a high tolerance for pain' -- you should ask yourself why. Because that's not a good thing. We have pain for a reason, it's to let us know something's wrong. And you don't win awards for having a high tolerance for pain. That's unkind to your body."
                                                                                                            Only after she became a success in Hollywood did AnnaLynne discover she had a lifelong battle with dissociative identity disorder, the disease formerly known as multiple personality disorder.
                                                                                                            "You are not multiple personalities when you experience DID. You are fragmented versions of yourself," she explained. "The reason that the brain splits in this regard, it's always a protective mechanism."
                                                                                                            One of the versions of herself was called "Little Anna" where she used baby talk when dealing with the opposite sex.
                                                                                                            "I had this mechanism with men where I thought I had to be really small. And it wasn't a conscious thought," AnnaLynne said. "Bad things happened if I wasn't a good little girl, who was the special girl, who did the things that she was supposed to do."
                                                                                                            "I didn't know why I had to just give my body to people and I didn't realize that I was doing it because I was hoping that I'd get some love back," she added. "And I was so desperate to be loved because I was so alone and had been so alone for so long."
                                                                                                            She would eventually seek help with a doctor who explored her repressed memories and taught her how to heal.
                                                                                                            "I want my quality of life to get better and that's why I stepped into this healing process," she said in April. "I want to thrive."”
                                                                                                            What instances could BDSM be unhealthy?
                                                                                                            Trauma replacement (Topping/bottoming)
                                                                                                            Coercion
                                                                                                            Participating because it’s the “in thing”.
                                                                                                            Unethical participation
                                                                                                            Major Depression/Suicidal thoughts…
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            xemeraldxwolfx: I think the entire HALT acronym applies. Hungry, Angry, lonely, and tired but also includes horny, drinking or sick.
                                                                                                            I think it’s worth noting that there’s a difference between being around kinky friends and family, and actively participating. Someone I know locally was dealing with a lot of things and traumas in her life, and while she came to parties and was around, she didn’t actively participate because she and her therapist agreed that she wasn’t in a good headspace for it.
                                                                                                            Art Kitten: lack of self control, inability to say no (for any reason), depending on it to feel, lack of self care
                                                                                                            TinkerBratTN: BDSM is just like anything. If you use it as avoidance, you're only worsening your mental and emotional health. There is nothing wrong with stepping back and working on self.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/402
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
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                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
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                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Toredon, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Charlie & little bit, and Mr. Byond
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                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48969445Sun, 06 Mar 2022 18:36:50 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 08/08/2021 / Published: 3/6/2022 - https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are diving into a discussion about unhealthy times to participate in BDSM. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com...- https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are diving into a discussion about unhealthy times to participate in BDSM.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “AnnaLynne McCord and Unhealthy BDSM?-S04E02”
                                                                                                            “AnnaLynne McCord Says She Experimented with Cutting, BDSM: 'To Feel Anything In My Body At All'” By TooFab Staff 8/4/2021
                                                                                                            https://toofab.com/2021/08/04/annalynne-mccord-says-she-experimented-with-cutting-bdsm/
                                                                                                            “AnnaLynne McCord has opened up about her childhood trauma and abuse, and the different behaviors and coping mechanisms she experienced as a result.
                                                                                                            Speaking candidly on Wednesday's episode of the "Call Me Daddy" podcast, the "90210" actress recalled being "abusive" to herself because the "level of torture" in her youth was "so horrific" that she would attempt to remove any pain reception.
                                                                                                            "I just stopped feeling pain," AnnaLynne began. "The self-harming started just because I couldn't feel anything. The level of torture that I went through as a child that I now remember was so horrific that my brain said no, she can't feel, so we're gonna shut off feeling."
                                                                                                            In attempts to counter the numbness, the former model, 34, would also find herself in sexual relationships that practiced sadism and masochism. "A big part of BDSM for me was just trying to feel anything in my body at all," she added.
                                                                                                            "I was opening up Pandora's box sexually without consciously knowing why I might like these things, why they might turn me on the way they did," she continued. "Because our beautiful brains that put pain and pleasure together to try to help us, ended up keeping me in a body that would go on to abuse herself for a very long time."
                                                                                                            "People laugh and say, 'Oh, I have a high tolerance for pain' -- you should ask yourself why. Because that's not a good thing. We have pain for a reason, it's to let us know something's wrong. And you don't win awards for having a high tolerance for pain. That's unkind to your body."
                                                                                                            Only after she became a success in Hollywood did AnnaLynne discover she had a lifelong battle with dissociative identity disorder, the disease formerly known as multiple personality disorder.
                                                                                                            "You are not multiple personalities when you experience DID. You are fragmented versions of yourself," she explained. "The reason that the brain splits in this regard, it's always a protective mechanism."
                                                                                                            One of the versions of herself was called "Little Anna" where she used baby talk when dealing with the opposite sex.
                                                                                                            "I had this mechanism with men where I thought I had to be really small. And it wasn't a conscious thought," AnnaLynne said. "Bad things happened if I wasn't a good little girl, who was the special girl, who did the things that she was supposed to do."
                                                                                                            "I didn't know why I had to just give my body to people and I didn't realize that I was doing it because I was hoping that I'd get some love back," she added. "And I was so desperate to be loved because I was so alone and had been so alone for so long."
                                                                                                            She would eventually seek help with a doctor who explored her repressed memories and taught her how to heal.
                                                                                                            "I want my quality of life to get better and that's why I stepped into this healing process," she said in April. "I want to thrive."”
                                                                                                            What instances could BDSM be unhealthy?
                                                                                                            Trauma replacement (Topping/bottoming)
                                                                                                            Coercion 3420bdsm,healthy,relationship,sex,unhealthyyes4fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/when-is-it-time-to-step-away-from-bdsm-s04e01--48888815
                                                                                                            - https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are discussing the rule life before lifestyle and the difference between stepping away and walking away.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “When is it Time to Step Away From BDSM?-S04E01”
                                                                                                            What does it mean to step away?
                                                                                                            Taking a temporary break from parties, events, munches, cons, D/s dynamics, topping, bottoming, and/or other lifestyle-related activities.
                                                                                                            Stepping away is not to be confused with walking away. Walking away means that it isn’t a break, it is a decision to permanently leave.
                                                                                                            Why would someone need to step away?
                                                                                                            In general, it is best to follow the “Life before Lifestyle” rule but here are some specific reasons we can think of the people have, including ourselves, have given:
                                                                                                            - Marital/Relationship problems
                                                                                                            - Work
                                                                                                            - Stress
                                                                                                            - Frenzy
                                                                                                            - Issues within the community
                                                                                                            - Drama
                                                                                                            - Abuse
                                                                                                            - Dealing with recent or previous trauma or abuse
                                                                                                            - Death of a loved one
                                                                                                            - Boredom
                                                                                                            - Accidental injury of a partner
                                                                                                            - Depression
                                                                                                            - Anxiety
                                                                                                            - Burnout
                                                                                                            How to help prevent the need to step away:
                                                                                                            - Develop a support system
                                                                                                            - Take time to learn about frenzy
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/401
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
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                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, RoxieBear, Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Thorn, Odie & Ceci, Toredon, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Knot_the_Daddy, and Charlie & little bit
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Lily, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Anthony, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, -miggs-, TripleDelicious, Ben, Solsticee, and TinkerBratTN
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
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                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48888815Mon, 28 Feb 2022 21:57:44 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 08/02/2021 / Published: 2/28/2022 - https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are discussing the rule life before lifestyle and the difference between stepping away and walking away. - Rules to Love By:...
                                                                                                            - https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are discussing the rule life before lifestyle and the difference between stepping away and walking away.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “When is it Time to Step Away From BDSM?-S04E01”
                                                                                                            What does it mean to step away?
                                                                                                            Taking a temporary break from parties, events, munches, cons, D/s dynamics, topping, bottoming, and/or other lifestyle-related activities.
                                                                                                            Stepping away is not to be confused with walking away. Walking away means that it isn’t a break, it is a decision to permanently leave.
                                                                                                            Why would someone need to step away?
                                                                                                            In general, it is best to follow the “Life before Lifestyle” rule but here are some specific reasons we can think of the people have, including ourselves, have given:
                                                                                                            - Marital/Relationship problems
                                                                                                            - Work
                                                                                                            - Stress
                                                                                                            - Frenzy
                                                                                                            - Issues within the community
                                                                                                            - Drama
                                                                                                            - Abuse
                                                                                                            - Dealing with recent or previous trauma or abuse
                                                                                                            - Death of a loved one
                                                                                                            - Boredom
                                                                                                            - Accidental injury of a partner
                                                                                                            - Depression
                                                                                                            - Anxiety
                                                                                                            - Burnout
                                                                                                            How to help prevent the need to step away:
                                                                                                            - Develop a support system
                                                                                                            - Take time to learn about frenzy
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/401
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, dboat, and Frozen Moron
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, RoxieBear, Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Thorn, Odie & Ceci, Toredon, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Knot_the_Daddy, and Charlie & little bit
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Lily, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Anthony, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, -miggs-, TripleDelicious, Ben, Solsticee, and TinkerBratTN
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
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                                                                                                            In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about BDSM dungeon etiquette and your first play party.  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “BDSM Dungeon Etiquette and Your First Play Party-S03E52” 
                                                                                                            What is a play party?: 
                                                                                                            A play party is a gathering for those in the lifestyle, getting together for various methods of play, be they demonstrations, performances, or just scenes in general.
                                                                                                            Types of play parties:
                                                                                                            General play parties are usually listed on Fetlife and openly known about within community munch circles and groups.
                                                                                                            Dark parties are by invitation only and are only known about by those who have been invited. These are not to be talked about to anyone before or after the event. These most often take place in a private residence.
                                                                                                            How to get invited to events?
                                                                                                            Dark parties: it comes down to who you know. 
                                                                                                            Community play parties: You can check the events page on Fetlife to see if anything is listed for your local community.  
                                                                                                            Vetting is vital to these types of events.  It’s an important practice on both sides, as the host and as those attending.  Most if not all local communities vet via munches. If you have not attended a munch and want to attend, a one-on-one sit-down meeting for MAY take place with group leaders or the event host. However, this ONLY happens at the convenience of the leaders or event host and should NOT be expected. It is our responsibility to do things necessary to be invited. Also, it is often considered rude and poor etiquette to ask for this to happen. 
                                                                                                            It’s important to be patient and openly communicative if you are not being invited to these events as quickly as you had hoped.  Some groups simply have extensive vetting practices, especially for dark parties.  
                                                                                                            It is also important that you vet those you know are attending and your hosts.  You can check who is going to most community parties and vet them on Fetlife, for dark parties, you will more likely know people on a more personal level before you are invited.   
                                                                                                            What to bring?  (In no particular order)
                                                                                                            Fetish-wear or other appropriate clothing to change into or out of for the event.  Some events have strict dress codes to adhere to. The most common is vanilla to the door. After you get inside, nudity is allowed.
                                                                                                            Towels and washcloths.  While some hosts will provide towels and washcloths to sit on and for clean up, it’s often more considerate to simply pack your own. No host likes to do that much laundry after a party!
                                                                                                            Bottled water. Many will offer refreshments but again to be considerate and mindful of others it’s often better just to already have it on hand.  
                                                                                                            Wipes/moist towelettes.  Even if you’re not participating in a scene you may find yourself sweaty or arouse, and these make life so much easier.  
                                                                                                            Your own toys/toy box in a discreet container!
                                                                                                            Aspirin/Tylenol. One word: headaches.  NO one wants a headache to ruin this kind of experience, and getting into the practice of having these on hand will make for better experiences down the road as well.  
                                                                                                            What to expect?
                                                                                                            Do not expect to participate in a scene unless previously negotiated to do so; you can learn a lot from just watching
                                                                                                            Ask yourself what are your personal expectations for this experience? 
                                                                                                            Regular people, doing ordinary things, and having ordinary conversations, during this event.  
                                                                                                            Acts that bring out things from your wildest fantasies; often for the firsts time ever in real life; or make you uncomfortable due to your own limits/ interests.
                                                                                                            Casual nudity and/or fetish wear that may make you aroused or uncomfortable
                                                                                                            Sex or sexual acts being carried out.
                                                                                                            House Rules
                                                                                                            Different hosts/houses have different sets of rules, it’s important to learn these beforehand and/or go over them upon arrival. Usually, they will be posted and you can ask your hosts to view them.  
                                                                                                            Is there an entry fee or a potluck contribution expected? This is good to know before you arrive.  
                                                                                                            Where you can go, and where you cannot. You are usually entering a host’s private home for these parties. Some rooms like living spaces will usually be allowed while bedrooms and often outdoor spaces will be set as off-limits. 
                                                                                                            What kind of scenes are appropriate/against the rules. While this isn’t a big deal the first time you attend as you most likely will not be participating, it’s still good to pick up on for future events.  
                                                                                                            Protocol rules for the household. Is this event high protocol friendly?  
                                                                                                            What is the dress code both in the house and for your arrival and departure? Make sure you’ve dressed appropriately.  
                                                                                                            Where to sit while viewing a scene and if a towel is needed/preferred? 
                                                                                                            Do not interrupt a scene or interject yourself as there are risks involved for the participants and distractions increase those risks.  
                                                                                                            Bring any safety concerns you have for a scene being performed to your hosts discreetly, they have often gone over what will occur with those performing beforehand to address many of these concerns or will stop a scene if you have a valid safety issue to be addressed.  
                                                                                                            The general no touching rule, applies to both persons and toys/implements. The rule:  If it’s not yours, don’t touch it.  
                                                                                                            Know what to do in case of an emergency.  Many hosts will have specific protocols in place and first aid kits on hand on the off chance that something may go wrong.  
                                                                                                            Play party scenes, demos, and performances explained.
                                                                                                            In a scene of this nature, some people such as exhibitionists enjoy being watched. Others become humiliated and enjoy it on another level.  
                                                                                                            For those participating in the scene, the world falls away allowing them to focus on what they are doing unless distractions occur.
                                                                                                            Save any questions you have for after the scene, including aftercare completion. Do NOT run up to someone right after the scene ends and they are in aftercare to tell them how beautiful it was or ask questions!
                                                                                                            Be prepared for more than one scene to be taking place at the party at one time and don’t become too anxious with feeling as though you’re missing something.  It’s important to simply enjoy the experience as a whole.  
                                                                                                            Our own stories and experiences
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/352
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
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                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication 
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Benefactor ($2,000/month): 
                                                                                                            Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            Master Producer ($50/month): 
                                                                                                            Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, dboat, and Frozen Moron
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, RoxieBear, Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Thorn, Odie & Ceci, Toredon, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Knot_the_Daddy, and Charlie & little bit
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Lily, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove,  Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Anthony, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, -miggs-, TripleDelicious, Ben, Solsticee, and TinkerBratTN
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist 
                                                                                                            Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48869655Fri, 25 Feb 2022 20:16:41 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 7/11/2021 / Published: 2/25/2022 Visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.  In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about BDSM dungeon etiquette and your first play party.   Rules to Love By:...
                                                                                                            Visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about BDSM dungeon etiquette and your first play party.  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “BDSM Dungeon Etiquette and Your First Play Party-S03E52” 
                                                                                                            What is a play party?: 
                                                                                                            A play party is a gathering for those in the lifestyle, getting together for various methods of play, be they demonstrations, performances, or just scenes in general.
                                                                                                            Types of play parties:
                                                                                                            General play parties are usually listed on Fetlife and openly known about within community munch circles and groups.
                                                                                                            Dark parties are by invitation only and are only known about by those who have been invited. These are not to be talked about to anyone before or after the event. These most often take place in a private residence.
                                                                                                            How to get invited to events?
                                                                                                            Dark parties: it comes down to who you know. 
                                                                                                            Community play parties: You can check the events page on Fetlife to see if anything is listed for your local community.  
                                                                                                            Vetting is vital to these types of events.  It’s an important practice on both sides, as the host and as those attending.  Most if not all local communities vet via munches. If you have not attended a munch and want to attend, a one-on-one sit-down meeting for MAY take place with group leaders or the event host. However, this ONLY happens at the convenience of the leaders or event host and should NOT be expected. It is our responsibility to do things necessary to be invited. Also, it is often considered rude and poor etiquette to ask for this to happen. 
                                                                                                            It’s important to be patient and openly communicative if you are not being invited to these events as quickly as you had hoped.  Some groups simply have extensive vetting practices, especially for dark parties.  
                                                                                                            It is also important that you vet those you know are attending and your hosts.  You can check who is going to most community parties and vet them on Fetlife, for dark parties, you will more likely know people on a more personal level before you are invited.   
                                                                                                            What to bring?  (In no particular order)
                                                                                                            Fetish-wear or other appropriate clothing to change into or out of for the event.  Some events have strict dress codes to adhere to. The most common is vanilla to the door. After you get inside, nudity is allowed.
                                                                                                            Towels and washcloths.  While some hosts will provide towels and washcloths to sit on and for clean up, it’s often more considerate to simply pack your own. No host likes to do that much laundry after a party!
                                                                                                            Bottled water. Many will offer refreshments but again to be considerate and mindful of others it’s often better just to already have it on hand.  
                                                                                                            Wipes/moist towelettes.  Even if you’re not participating in a scene you may find yourself sweaty or arouse, and these make life so much easier.  
                                                                                                            Your own toys/toy box in a discreet container!
                                                                                                            Aspirin/Tylenol. One word: headaches.  NO one wants a headache to ruin this kind of experience, and getting into the practice of having these on hand will make for better experiences down the road as well.  
                                                                                                            What to expect?
                                                                                                            Do not expect to participate in a scene unless previously negotiated to do so; you can learn a lot from just watching
                                                                                                            Ask yourself what are your personal expectations for this experience? 
                                                                                                            Regular people, doing ordinary things, and having ordinary conversations, during this event.  
                                                                                                            Acts that bring out things from your wildest fantasies; often for the firsts time...]]>5539bdsm,common sense,dark party,dungeon,education,etiquette,first time,kink,manners,play partyyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/doms-and-subs-how-not-to-introduce-yourself-s03e51--48812806
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about how not to introduce yourself to others and sharing some FetLife messages some of the Krypt Producer’s have received. These are some of the dumbest, idiotic, and thirsty messages I have ever had the laugh of reading. As a disclaimer, this episode strays outside the typical high-brow use of the English language we like to primarily stick to using. This episode is not safe for children are none of the episodes should never be shared with anyone under 18. However, this one isn’t safe for work, college, or human consumption in general. Now, sit back, grab your favorite beverage, and let’s all enjoy laughing and puking at some of the terrible messages that were seriously intended as a way to get the sender laid.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            As a disclaimer, this episode strays outside the typical high-brow use of the English language we like to primarily stick to using. This episode is not safe for children as are none of the episodes should ever be shared with anyone under 18. However, this one isn’t safe for work, college, or human consumption in general. Now, sit back, grab your favorite beverage, and let’s all enjoy laughing and puking at some of the terrible messages that were seriously intended as a way to get the sender laid.
                                                                                                            - “Doms and subs: How NOT to Introduce Yourself-S03E51”
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, dboat, and Frozen Moron
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, RoxieBear, Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Thorn, Odie & Ceci, Toredon, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Knot_the_Daddy, and Charlie & little bit
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Lily, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Anthony, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, -miggs-, TripleDelicious, Ben, Solsticee, and TinkerBratTN
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48812806Mon, 21 Feb 2022 04:21:27 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 7/04/2021 / Published: 2/20/2022 - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about how not to introduce yourself to others and...
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about how not to introduce yourself to others and sharing some FetLife messages some of the Krypt Producer’s have received. These are some of the dumbest, idiotic, and thirsty messages I have ever had the laugh of reading. As a disclaimer, this episode strays outside the typical high-brow use of the English language we like to primarily stick to using. This episode is not safe for children are none of the episodes should never be shared with anyone under 18. However, this one isn’t safe for work, college, or human consumption in general. Now, sit back, grab your favorite beverage, and let’s all enjoy laughing and puking at some of the terrible messages that were seriously intended as a way to get the sender laid.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            As a disclaimer, this episode strays outside the typical high-brow use of the English language we like to primarily stick to using. This episode is not safe for children as are none of the episodes should ever be shared with anyone under 18. However, this one isn’t safe for work, college, or human consumption in general. Now, sit back, grab your favorite beverage, and let’s all enjoy laughing and puking at some of the terrible messages that were seriously intended as a way to get the sender laid.
                                                                                                            - “Doms and subs: How NOT to Introduce Yourself-S03E51”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/351
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, dboat, and Frozen Moron
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, RoxieBear, Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Thorn, Odie & Ceci, Toredon, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Knot_the_Daddy, and Charlie & little bit
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Lily, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Anthony, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, -miggs-, TripleDelicious, Ben, Solsticee, and TinkerBratTN
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None...]]>5829abuse,bdsm,disgusting,dm,hookup,messages,verbalyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/top-10-lgbtq-documentaries-to-watch-s03e50--48777328
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are raping up gay pride month by talking about giving you a list of the top ten LGBTQ documentaries according to Screenrant.com and then we have a quick, funny, and surprisingly refreshing bonus article about the Weiner Twitter video.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “Top 10 LGBTQ Documentaries to Watch-S03E50” 
                                                                                                            Netflix's "A Secret Love" (& 9 Other LGBTQ Documentaries) To Watch https://screenrant-com.cdn.ampproject.org/v/s/screenrant.com/netflix-secret-love-other-lgbtq-documentaries-to-watch/amp/?amp_js_v=a6&_gsa=1&usqp=mq331AQKKAFQArABIIACAw%3D%3D#aoh=16247557426252&referrer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com&_tf=From%20%251%24s&share=https%3A%2F%2Fscreenrant.com%2Fnetflix-secret-love-other-lgbtq-documentaries-to-watch%2F
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            #10: A Secret Love (2020)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            #9: Disclosure (2020)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            #8: Circus Of Books (2019)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            #7: Halston (2019) (Amazon Prime original documentary)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            #6: The Death And Life Of Marsha P. Johnson (2017)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            #5: Tig (2015)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            #4: Bridegroom (2013)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            #3: God Loves Uganda (2013)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            #2: We Were Here (2011)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            #1: Paris Is Burning (1990)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Listener Recommendations
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Art Kitten: I'm not sure exactly what you'd classify it but Angel's In America was an emotional journey about the aids epidemic in the LGBT community. Emma Thompson, Meryl Streep
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            K J: “Howard” and “Equal” are narratives based on the Hollywood scene.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            "Original Pride: the Satyrs Motorcycle Club"
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            "You’re the Top: the Cole Porter Story." EXCELLENT.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “Zach Weiner Owns Leaked Video, Support Goes Viral”
                                                                                                            By: Mike Mishkin / June 22, 2021
                                                                                                            https://ilovetheupperwestside.com/zach-weiner-owns-leaked-video-support-goes-viral/ 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            When the New York Post wrote about the leaked video of City Council District 6 candidate Zach Weiner being gagged while tied up by a dominatrix – a video which was flagged to the Post by Weiner’s own campaign manager – the 26-year-old candidate had no issues owning up to his interest in BDSM.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “I didn’t want anyone to see that, but here we are,” Weiner said in a statement to the Post. “I am not ashamed of the private video circulating of me on Twitter. This was a recreational activity that I did with my friend at the time, for fun. Like many young people, I have grown into a world where some of our most private moments have been documented online.” Weiner went on to say that he’s a “proud BDSMer” who “like[s] BDSM activity.”
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Zach Weiner Owns Leaked Video, Support Goes Viral Mike Mishkin  June 22, 2021  Community
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            When the New York Post wrote about the leaked video of City Council District 6 candidate Zach Weiner being gagged while tied up by a dominatrix – a video which was flagged to the Post by Weiner’s own campaign manager – the 26-year-old candidate had no issues owning up to his interest in BDSM.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “I didn’t want anyone to see that, but here we are,” Weiner said in a statement to the Post. “I am not ashamed of the private video circulating of me on Twitter. This was a recreational activity that I did with my friend at the time, for fun. Like many young people, I have grown into a world where some of our most private moments have been documented online.” Weiner went on to say that he’s a “proud BDSMer” who “like[s] BDSM activity.” The tweet: https://twitter.com/ELECTWEINER/status/1406293543975591952/photo/1 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            In an age in which public apologies are the norm, Weiner’s ownership of his extracurricular interests proved to be refreshing – to over 83,000 who’ve liked his Twitter post which addresses the situation (starting with the word “Whoops”).
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month): 
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month): 
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, and dboat, 
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, RoxieBear, Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Thorn, Odie & Ceci, Toredon, Cap'n J, BxB, Saviy, Lilred rose, AK-47, Knot_the_Daddy, and Charlie & little bit
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Lily, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Arctic Foxglove,  Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Anthony, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, -miggs-, TripleDelicious, Ben, and TinkerBrat
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist 
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48777328Thu, 17 Feb 2022 22:44:04 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 6/27/2021 / Published: 2/17/2022 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.  In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are raping up gay pride month by talking about giving you a list...
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are raping up gay pride month by talking about giving you a list of the top ten LGBTQ documentaries according to Screenrant.com and then we have a quick, funny, and surprisingly refreshing bonus article about the Weiner Twitter video.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “Top 10 LGBTQ Documentaries to Watch-S03E50” 
                                                                                                            Netflix's "A Secret Love" (& 9 Other LGBTQ Documentaries) To Watch https://screenrant-com.cdn.ampproject.org/v/s/screenrant.com/netflix-secret-love-other-lgbtq-documentaries-to-watch/amp/?amp_js_v=a6&_gsa=1&usqp=mq331AQKKAFQArABIIACAw%3D%3D#aoh=16247557426252&referrer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com&_tf=From%20%251%24s&share=https%3A%2F%2Fscreenrant.com%2Fnetflix-secret-love-other-lgbtq-documentaries-to-watch%2F
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            #10: A Secret Love (2020)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            #9: Disclosure (2020)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            #8: Circus Of Books (2019)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            #7: Halston (2019) (Amazon Prime original documentary)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            #6: The Death And Life Of Marsha P. Johnson (2017)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            #5: Tig (2015)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            #4: Bridegroom (2013)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            #3: God Loves Uganda (2013)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            #2: We Were Here (2011)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            #1: Paris Is Burning (1990)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Listener Recommendations
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Art Kitten: I'm not sure exactly what you'd classify it but Angel's In America was an emotional journey about the aids epidemic in the LGBT community. Emma Thompson, Meryl Streep
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            K J: “Howard” and “Equal” are narratives based on the Hollywood scene.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            "Original Pride: the Satyrs Motorcycle Club"
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            "You’re the Top: the Cole Porter Story." EXCELLENT.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “Zach Weiner Owns Leaked Video, Support Goes Viral”
                                                                                                            By: Mike Mishkin / June 22, 2021
                                                                                                            https://ilovetheupperwestside.com/zach-weiner-owns-leaked-video-support-goes-viral/ 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            When the New York Post wrote about the leaked video of City Council District 6 candidate Zach Weiner being gagged while tied up by a dominatrix – a video which was flagged to the Post by Weiner’s own campaign manager – the 26-year-old candidate had no issues owning up to his interest in BDSM.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “I didn’t want anyone to see that, but here we are,” Weiner said in a statement to the Post. “I am not ashamed of the private video circulating of me on Twitter. This was a recreational activity that I did with my friend at the time, for fun. Like many young people, I have grown into a world where some of our most private moments have been documented online.” Weiner went on to say that he’s a “proud BDSMer” who “like[s] BDSM activity.”
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            When the New York Post wrote about the leaked video of City Council District 6 candidate Zach Weiner being gagged while tied up by a dominatrix – a video which was flagged to the Post by Weiner’s own campaign manager – the 26-year-old candidate had no issues owning up to his interest in BDSM.
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                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are celebrating gay pride month by talking about ‘The Trevor Project.’
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            National Survey on LGBTQ Youth Mental Health 2021 https://www.thetrevorproject.org/survey-2021/?section=Introduction
                                                                                                            What is The Trevor Project? https://www.thetrevorproject.org
                                                                                                            It’s a nonprofit that was founded in 1998 by the creators of the Academy Award®-winning short film TREVOR. The Trevor Project is the leading national organization providing crisis intervention and suicide prevention services to lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer & questioning (LGBTQ) young people under 25.
                                                                                                            The past year has been incredibly difficult for so many, but we also know that lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer and questioning (LGBTQ) youth have faced unique challenges. The Trevor Project’s 2021 National Survey on LGBTQ Youth Mental Health sheds light on many of these challenges by capturing the experiences of nearly 35,000 LGBTQ youth ages 13–24 across the United States.
                                                                                                            Our third annual survey provides brand new data on the impacts of the COVID-19 pandemic, mental health care disparities, discrimination, food insecurity, conversion therapy, and suicide — in addition to the benefits of LGBTQ-affirming spaces and respecting the pronouns of transgender and nonbinary youth.
                                                                                                            We are also proud that this sample is our most diverse yet, with 45% being LGBTQ youth of color and 38% being transgender or nonbinary.
                                                                                                            Among some of the key findings of the survey:
                                                                                                            42% of LGBTQ youth seriously considered attempting suicide in the past year, including more than half of transgender and nonbinary youth.
                                                                                                            12% of white youth attempted suicide compared to 31% of Native/Indigenous youth, 21% of Black youth, 21% of multiracial youth, 18% of Latinx youth, and 12% of Asian/Pacific Islander youth.
                                                                                                            94% of LGBTQ youth reported that recent politics negatively impacted their mental health.
                                                                                                            More than 80% of LGBTQ youth stated that COVID-19 made their living situation more stressful — and only 1 in 3 LGBTQ youth found their home to be LGBTQ-affirming.
                                                                                                            70% of LGBTQ youth stated that their mental health was "poor" most of the time or always during COVID-19.
                                                                                                            48% of LGBTQ youth reported they wanted counseling from a mental health professional but were unable to receive it in the past year.
                                                                                                            30% of LGBTQ youth experienced food insecurity in the past month, including half of all Native/Indigenous LGBTQ youth.
                                                                                                            75% of LGBTQ youth reported that they had experienced discrimination based on their sexual orientation or gender identity at least once in their lifetime.
                                                                                                            Half of all LGBTQ youth of color reported discrimination based on their race/ethnicity in the past year, including 67% of Black LGBTQ youth and 60% of Asian/Pacific Islander LGBTQ youth.
                                                                                                            13% of LGBTQ youth reported being subjected to conversion therapy, with 83% reporting it occurred when they were under age 18.
                                                                                                            Transgender and nonbinary youth who reported having pronouns respected by all of the people they lived with attempted suicide at half the rate of those who did not have their pronouns respected by anyone with whom they lived.
                                                                                                            Transgender and nonbinary youth who were able to change their name and/or gender marker on legal documents, such as driver’s licenses and birth certificates, reported lower rates of attempting suicide.
                                                                                                            LGBTQ youth who had access to spaces that affirmed their sexual orientation and gender identity reported lower rates of attempting suicide.
                                                                                                            An overwhelming majority of LGBTQ youth said that social media has both positive (96%) and negative (88%) impacts on their mental health and well-being.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48717900Sun, 13 Feb 2022 21:38:04 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 6/20/2021 / Published: 2/13/2022 - https://kuldrinskrypt.com - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are celebrating gay pride month by talking about ‘The Trevor Project.’ - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com ) 1:...- https://kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are celebrating gay pride month by talking about ‘The Trevor Project.’
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            National Survey on LGBTQ Youth Mental Health 2021 https://www.thetrevorproject.org/survey-2021/?section=Introduction
                                                                                                            What is The Trevor Project? https://www.thetrevorproject.org
                                                                                                            It’s a nonprofit that was founded in 1998 by the creators of the Academy Award®-winning short film TREVOR. The Trevor Project is the leading national organization providing crisis intervention and suicide prevention services to lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer & questioning (LGBTQ) young people under 25.
                                                                                                            The past year has been incredibly difficult for so many, but we also know that lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer and questioning (LGBTQ) youth have faced unique challenges. The Trevor Project’s 2021 National Survey on LGBTQ Youth Mental Health sheds light on many of these challenges by capturing the experiences of nearly 35,000 LGBTQ youth ages 13–24 across the United States.
                                                                                                            Our third annual survey provides brand new data on the impacts of the COVID-19 pandemic, mental health care disparities, discrimination, food insecurity, conversion therapy, and suicide — in addition to the benefits of LGBTQ-affirming spaces and respecting the pronouns of transgender and nonbinary youth.
                                                                                                            We are also proud that this sample is our most diverse yet, with 45% being LGBTQ youth of color and 38% being transgender or nonbinary.
                                                                                                            Among some of the key findings of the survey:
                                                                                                            42% of LGBTQ youth seriously considered attempting suicide in the past year, including more than half of transgender and nonbinary youth.
                                                                                                            12% of white youth attempted suicide compared to 31% of Native/Indigenous youth, 21% of Black youth, 21% of multiracial youth, 18% of Latinx youth, and 12% of Asian/Pacific Islander youth.
                                                                                                            94% of LGBTQ youth reported that recent politics negatively impacted their mental health.
                                                                                                            More than 80% of LGBTQ youth stated that COVID-19 made their living situation more stressful — and only 1 in 3 LGBTQ youth found their home to be LGBTQ-affirming.
                                                                                                            70% of LGBTQ youth stated that their mental health was "poor" most of the time or always during COVID-19.
                                                                                                            48% of LGBTQ youth reported they wanted counseling from a mental health professional but were unable to receive it in the past year.
                                                                                                            30% of LGBTQ youth experienced food insecurity in the past month, including half of all Native/Indigenous LGBTQ youth.
                                                                                                            75% of LGBTQ youth reported that they had experienced discrimination based on their sexual orientation or gender identity at least once in their lifetime.
                                                                                                            Half of all LGBTQ youth of color reported discrimination based on their race/ethnicity in the past year, including 67% of Black LGBTQ youth and 60% of Asian/Pacific Islander LGBTQ youth.
                                                                                                            13% of LGBTQ youth reported being subjected to conversion therapy, with 83% reporting it occurred when they were under age 18.
                                                                                                            Transgender and nonbinary youth who reported having pronouns respected by all of the people they lived with attempted suicide at half the rate of those who did not have their pronouns respected by anyone with whom they lived.
                                                                                                            Transgender and nonbinary youth who were able to change their name and/or gender marker on legal...]]>4898bdsm,depression,educaton,health,lgbt,lgbtq,mental,project,psychology,suicide,trevor,youthyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/gay-pride-month-conversion-therapy-s03e48--48686247
                                                                                                            - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are celebrating gay pride month by putting together an episode aimed at parents who want to send their children to conversion therapy. We are going to define it, get into what psychology thinks about it, go over some of the techniques used, tell you if it is still legal and where, and finally, report the unsurprising statics on its effectiveness, the number of self-harm cases caused by it, and whether it increases or decreases suicidal ideation in the gay population.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Gay Pride Month: Conversion Therapy-S03E48” Sexual orientation: .
                                                                                                            What is Conversion therapy: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Conversion_therapy
                                                                                                            Conversion therapy is the pseudoscientific practice of trying to change an individual's sexual orientation from homosexual or bisexual to heterosexual using psychological, physical, or spiritual interventions.
                                                                                                            What does modern psychology have to say about it?
                                                                                                            There is no reliable evidence that sexual orientation can be changed, and medical institutions warn that conversion therapy practices are ineffective and potentially harmful. Medical, scientific, and government organizations in the United States and the United Kingdom have expressed concern over the validity, efficacy, and ethics of conversion therapy. Various jurisdictions around the world have passed laws against conversion therapy.
                                                                                                            The American Psychiatric Association (APA) opposes psychiatric treatment "based upon the assumption that homosexuality per se is a mental disorder or based upon the a priori assumption that a patient should change his/her sexual homosexual orientation" and describes attempts to change a person's sexual orientation by practitioners as unethical. The APA also states that the advancement of conversion therapy may cause social harm by disseminating unscientific views about sexual orientation. In 2001, United States Surgeon General David Satcher issued a report stating that "there is no valid scientific evidence that sexual orientation can be changed".
                                                                                                            What are some of the techniques that have been used?
                                                                                                            Techniques used in conversion therapy in the United States and Western Europe have included ice-pick lobotomies; chemical castration with hormonal treatment; aversive treatments, such as "the application of electric shock to the hands and/or genitals"; "nausea-inducing drugs ... administered simultaneously with the presentation of homoerotic stimuli"; and masturbatory reconditioning. More recent clinical techniques used in the United States have been limited to counseling, visualization, social skills training, psychoanalytic therapy, and spiritual interventions such as "prayer and group support and pressure", though there are some reports of aversive treatments through unlicensed practice as late as the early 2000s. The term reparative therapy has been used as a synonym for conversion therapy in general,[9] but it has been argued that, strictly speaking, it refers to a specific kind of therapy associated with the psychologists Elizabeth Moberly and Joseph Nicolosi.
                                                                                                            Is Conversion Therapy legal?
                                                                                                            For a complete list of states, counties, and cities: https://www.lgbtmap.org/equality-maps/conversion_therapy?fbclid=IwAR3GRyxenu0s0S6AtZl3gLKVuXtrIlrBHJFKgp9UKP24KmuoOgxQ0NFQTUc
                                                                                                            Conversion "therapy" laws prohibit licensed mental health practitioners from subjecting LGBTQ minors to harmful conversion "therapy" practices that attempt to change their sexual orientation or gender identity. These laws do not restrict the practice among religious providers.
                                                                                                            Total state ban: 20 states (CA, CO, CT, DE, HI, IL, MA, MD, ME, NH, NJ, NM, NY, NV, OR, RI, UT, VA, VT, WA) and Washington D.C.
                                                                                                            Partial Ban: 2 states (NC, WI), 1 territory: Puerto Rico
                                                                                                            States in federal judicial circuit with a preliminary injunction currently preventing enforcement of conversion therapy ban: 3 (AL, GA, FL)
                                                                                                            No state law or policy: 25 states, 4 territories
                                                                                                            Is it effective and what are the statistics?
                                                                                                            Ariel Shidlo and Michael Schroeder found in "Changing Sexual Orientation: A Consumer's Report", a peer-reviewed study of 202 respondents published in 2002, that 88% of participants failed to achieve a sustained change in their sexual behavior and 3% reported changing their orientation to heterosexual. The remainder reported either losing all sexual drive or attempting to remain celibate, with no change in attraction. Some of the participants who failed felt a sense of shame and had gone through conversion therapy programs for many years. Others who failed believed that therapy was worthwhile and valuable. Many respondents felt harmed by the attempt to change, and reported depression, suicidal ideation, and attempts, hypervigilance of gender-deviant mannerisms, social isolation, fear of being a child abuser and poor self-esteem. Of the 8 respondents (out of a sample of 202) who reported a change in sexual orientation, 7 worked as ex-gay counselors or group leaders.
                                                                                                            Statistics:
                                                                                                            8 times more likely to attempt suicide
                                                                                                            6 times more likely to experience high levels of depression
                                                                                                            3 times more likely to use illegal drugs
                                                                                                            3 times more likely to be at high risk for HIV, STD’s, and STI’s
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48686247Fri, 11 Feb 2022 11:11:41 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 6/13/2021 / Published: 2/11/2022 - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get...
                                                                                                            - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are celebrating gay pride month by putting together an episode aimed at parents who want to send their children to conversion therapy. We are going to define it, get into what psychology thinks about it, go over some of the techniques used, tell you if it is still legal and where, and finally, report the unsurprising statics on its effectiveness, the number of self-harm cases caused by it, and whether it increases or decreases suicidal ideation in the gay population.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Gay Pride Month: Conversion Therapy-S03E48” Sexual orientation: .
                                                                                                            What is Conversion therapy: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Conversion_therapy
                                                                                                            Conversion therapy is the pseudoscientific practice of trying to change an individual's sexual orientation from homosexual or bisexual to heterosexual using psychological, physical, or spiritual interventions.
                                                                                                            What does modern psychology have to say about it?
                                                                                                            There is no reliable evidence that sexual orientation can be changed, and medical institutions warn that conversion therapy practices are ineffective and potentially harmful. Medical, scientific, and government organizations in the United States and the United Kingdom have expressed concern over the validity, efficacy, and ethics of conversion therapy. Various jurisdictions around the world have passed laws against conversion therapy.
                                                                                                            The American Psychiatric Association (APA) opposes psychiatric treatment "based upon the assumption that homosexuality per se is a mental disorder or based upon the a priori assumption that a patient should change his/her sexual homosexual orientation" and describes attempts to change a person's sexual orientation by practitioners as unethical. The APA also states that the advancement of conversion therapy may cause social harm by disseminating unscientific views about sexual orientation. In 2001, United States Surgeon General David Satcher issued a report stating that "there is no valid scientific evidence that sexual orientation can be changed".
                                                                                                            What are some of the techniques that have been used?
                                                                                                            Techniques used in conversion therapy in the United States and Western Europe have included ice-pick lobotomies; chemical castration with hormonal treatment; aversive treatments, such as "the application of electric shock to the hands and/or genitals"; "nausea-inducing drugs ... administered simultaneously with the presentation of homoerotic stimuli"; and masturbatory reconditioning. More recent clinical techniques used in the United States have been limited to counseling, visualization, social skills training, psychoanalytic therapy, and spiritual interventions such as "prayer and group support and pressure", though there are some reports of aversive treatments through unlicensed practice as late as the early 2000s. The term reparative therapy has been used as a synonym for conversion therapy in general,[9] but it has been argued that, strictly speaking, it refers to a specific kind of therapy associated with the psychologists...]]>5317conversion therapy,education,ethics,gay pride month,laws,lgbt,podcastyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-is-gender-identity-s03e47--48615316
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are celebrating gay pride month by defining and discussing Gender Identity.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Gay Pride Month: What is Gender Identity?-S03E47” https://www.hrc.org/resources/sexual-orientation-and-gender-identity-terminology-and-definitions
                                                                                                            Sexual orientation:
                                                                                                            An inherent or immutable enduring emotional, romantic or sexual attraction to other people.
                                                                                                            Gender identity:
                                                                                                            One's innermost concept of self as male, female, a blend of both or neither – how individuals perceive themselves and what they call themselves. One's gender identity can be the same or different from their sex assigned at birth.
                                                                                                            Gender expression:
                                                                                                            External appearance of one's gender identity, usually expressed through behavior, clothing, haircut or voice, and which may or may not conform to socially defined behaviors and characteristics typically associated with being either masculine or feminine.
                                                                                                            Transgender:
                                                                                                            Gender transition:
                                                                                                            Gender dysphoria:
                                                                                                            Glossary:
                                                                                                            https://www.hrc.org/resources/glossary-of-terms
                                                                                                            Asexual:
                                                                                                            Bisexual:
                                                                                                            Cisgender:
                                                                                                            Gay:
                                                                                                            Gender binary:
                                                                                                            Gender dysphoria:
                                                                                                            Gender-expansive:
                                                                                                            Gender expression:
                                                                                                            Gender-fluid:
                                                                                                            Gender identity:
                                                                                                            Gender non-conforming:
                                                                                                            Genderqueer:
                                                                                                            Intersex:
                                                                                                            Lesbian:
                                                                                                            Non-binary:
                                                                                                            Pansexual:
                                                                                                            Queer:
                                                                                                            Questioning:
                                                                                                            Same-gender loving:
                                                                                                            Sex assigned at birth:
                                                                                                            Sexual orientation:
                                                                                                            Transgender:
                                                                                                            Transitioning:
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48615316Sun, 06 Feb 2022 19:44:27 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 6/06/2021 / Published: 2/06/2022 - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are celebrating gay pride month by defining and discussing...
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are celebrating gay pride month by defining and discussing Gender Identity.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Gay Pride Month: What is Gender Identity?-S03E47” https://www.hrc.org/resources/sexual-orientation-and-gender-identity-terminology-and-definitions
                                                                                                            Sexual orientation:
                                                                                                            An inherent or immutable enduring emotional, romantic or sexual attraction to other people.
                                                                                                            Gender identity:
                                                                                                            One's innermost concept of self as male, female, a blend of both or neither – how individuals perceive themselves and what they call themselves. One's gender identity can be the same or different from their sex assigned at birth.
                                                                                                            Gender expression:
                                                                                                            External appearance of one's gender identity, usually expressed through behavior, clothing, haircut or voice, and which may or may not conform to socially defined behaviors and characteristics typically associated with being either masculine or feminine.
                                                                                                            Transgender:
                                                                                                            Gender transition:
                                                                                                            Gender dysphoria:
                                                                                                            Glossary:
                                                                                                            https://www.hrc.org/resources/glossary-of-terms
                                                                                                            Asexual:
                                                                                                            Bisexual:
                                                                                                            Cisgender:
                                                                                                            Gay:
                                                                                                            Gender binary:
                                                                                                            Gender dysphoria:
                                                                                                            Gender-expansive:
                                                                                                            Gender expression:
                                                                                                            Gender-fluid:
                                                                                                            Gender identity:
                                                                                                            Gender non-conforming:
                                                                                                            Genderqueer:
                                                                                                            Intersex:
                                                                                                            Lesbian:
                                                                                                            Non-binary:
                                                                                                            Pansexual:
                                                                                                            Queer:
                                                                                                            Questioning:
                                                                                                            Same-gender loving:
                                                                                                            Sex assigned at birth:
                                                                                                            Sexual orientation:
                                                                                                            Transgender:
                                                                                                            Transitioning:
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are discussing the ongoing controversy of leather, kink, and BDSM’s involvement or removal in Pride parades.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Gay Pride Month and BDSM Isn't Allowed-S03E46”
                                                                                                            - “BDSM and kink don’t belong in Pride celebrations. This is why
                                                                                                            Every year we have this debate, but the facts stay the same: It’s a matter of politics and consent” By Skylar Baker-Jordan / May 25, 2021
                                                                                                            https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/bdsm-kink-pride-lgbt-rights-celebrations-why-b1853859.html
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “The best clap backs to the ‘no kink at Pride’ discourse: Leather, kink, bare asses and a titty or two are a fundamental part of Pride” By Mel Woods • May 26, 2021
                                                                                                            https://xtramagazine.com/power/kink-at-pride-bdsm-201775?fbclid=IwAR10igoFCs5TMgmbBNigL--jZxLC9XeAPqNuufedtm8C2gnreILirGZRBRs
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - What was Stonewall?
                                                                                                            Stonewall Riots (Jun 28, 1969 – Jul 3, 1969)
                                                                                                            The Stonewall riots were a series of spontaneous demonstrations by members of the gay community in response to a police raid that began in the early morning hours of June 28, 1969, at the Stonewall Inn in the Greenwich Village neighborhood of Manhattan, New York City.
                                                                                                            Fact Sheet: https://dv2oc5tyj18yr.cloudfront.net/wp-content/blogs.dir/2/files/2019/05/stonewallfactsheet-1.pdf
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48579328Thu, 03 Feb 2022 22:21:41 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 5/30/2021 / Published: 2/3/2022 - Visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are discussing the ongoing controversy of leather, kink, and BDSM’s involvement or removal in Pride parades. -...- Visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are discussing the ongoing controversy of leather, kink, and BDSM’s involvement or removal in Pride parades.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Gay Pride Month and BDSM Isn't Allowed-S03E46”
                                                                                                            - “BDSM and kink don’t belong in Pride celebrations. This is why
                                                                                                            Every year we have this debate, but the facts stay the same: It’s a matter of politics and consent” By Skylar Baker-Jordan / May 25, 2021
                                                                                                            https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/bdsm-kink-pride-lgbt-rights-celebrations-why-b1853859.html
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “The best clap backs to the ‘no kink at Pride’ discourse: Leather, kink, bare asses and a titty or two are a fundamental part of Pride” By Mel Woods • May 26, 2021
                                                                                                            https://xtramagazine.com/power/kink-at-pride-bdsm-201775?fbclid=IwAR10igoFCs5TMgmbBNigL--jZxLC9XeAPqNuufedtm8C2gnreILirGZRBRs
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - What was Stonewall?
                                                                                                            Stonewall Riots (Jun 28, 1969 – Jul 3, 1969)
                                                                                                            The Stonewall riots were a series of spontaneous demonstrations by members of the gay community in response to a police raid that began in the early morning hours of June 28, 1969, at the Stonewall Inn in the Greenwich Village neighborhood of Manhattan, New York City.
                                                                                                            Fact Sheet: https://dv2oc5tyj18yr.cloudfront.net/wp-content/blogs.dir/2/files/2019/05/stonewallfactsheet-1.pdf
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            - “Lady Katie on Female Dominants-S03E45”
                                                                                                            - https://fetlife.com/users/6523246?sp=4
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, RoxieBear, Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Thorn, Odie & Ceci, Toredon, Cap'n J, BxB, Saviy, Lilred rose, AK-47, Knot_the_Daddy, and Charlie & little bit
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Lily, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Arctic Foxglove, Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Anthony, Gator, Gizmo, Ataleena, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, -miggs-, TripleDelicious, and Ben
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48513067Sun, 30 Jan 2022 21:34:19 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 5/16/2021 / Published: 1/30/2022 - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking to Lady Katie about female Dominance and The Sapphire Club, - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com ) 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and...- In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking to Lady Katie about female Dominance and The Sapphire Club,
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            - “Lady Katie on Female Dominants-S03E45”
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                                                                                                            5423bdsm,boi,boy,dominate,domme,female,femdom,fetish,findom,kink,male,pro,prodomme,sex,sub,submissive,workeryes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-are-ddlg-bdsm-relationships-s03e44--48417792
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are going to be explaining DD/lg BDSM dynamics.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “What are DDlg BDSM Relationships-S03E44”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -”15 DDLG Quotes That Explain Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships”.
                                                                                                            https://www.yourtango.com/quotes/sex/kinky-ddlg-daddy-dom-quotes
                                                                                                            Daddy Dom and little girl relationships, also known as DDlg or DD/lg relationships, are among the most commonly misunderstood of the various types of passionate loving relationships that fall under the umbrella of BDSM kink.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            I can understand why, at first glance, seeing a Dominant referred to as "Daddy" or "Mommy" and a submissive referred to as "little girl" — or baby girl," "boy," "boi," or a variant along those lines — could appear, well, creepy.
                                                                                                            However, as the DDlg quotes below show, these cute relationships are typically quite healthy and loving.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - What is a Daddy Dom?
                                                                                                            A Daddy Dom is a dominant partner (typically male, but not always) who cares for, nurtures, and assumes responsibility for their submissive, typically referred to as their little or baby girl. Talk about freaky relationship goals.
                                                                                                            Daddy Doms may serve as a paternal figure, but that should not be mistaken to mean the people involved in DDlg relationships are in any way involved or approving of incest or pedophilia.
                                                                                                            "The Daddy Dom indulges, edifies, and chastises his childlike, submissive partner, who may be both emotionally and financially dependent upon him," explains Miya Yamanouchi. "The partner to a 'Daddy' (or 'Mommy') is a 'little girl' or ('little boy')... [a submissive who] enjoys being treated like a child by her lover, most commonly calling her partner 'Daddy' both in and out of the bedroom."
                                                                                                            Many people consider BDSM synonymous with the more old-fashioned, somewhat outdated label "S&M" — sadomasochistic relationships in which one person, the Master or Mistress, has complete control, while the other, the "slave," is a willing victim and subject to his or her Dom or Domme's every whim. This dynamic is generally thought of by many in the Vanilla (non-kinky) community less as a relationship and more as an abusive arrangement between a violator and a victim.
                                                                                                            There are, of course, exceptions to every rule, and abusive relationships, unfortunately, exist within the BDSM community as they do everywhere else. But there are many types of Dominants and submissives, and most are perfectly healthy, high-functioning people involved in perfectly healthy, high-functioning relationships.
                                                                                                            And while some of these relationships are sadomasochistic (hence the SM at the end of BDSM), that is only one end of the kinky spectrum. On the other end, you have Daddy doms and their baby girls.
                                                                                                            Picture all of the best parts of what an ideal Daddy provides: warmth, strength, measured humor, discipline as needed, undivided attention, nurturing, caregiving, stability, support, and unconditional love.
                                                                                                            Now picture the best parts of what the best baby girl provides: laughter, joy, silliness, fun, playfulness, warmth, affection beyond belief, beauty, awe, excitement, mental and physical challenges, and unconditional love. Who wouldn't want a relationship that includes a constant give and take between those qualities?
                                                                                                            You don't have to take my word for it, of course.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - These 15 DDlg quotes about Daddy Doms and littles illustrate exactly how passionate, loving, and not all creepy their relationships can be.
                                                                                                            1. "Anything for my Princess. Anything for my Daddy." — King Baby Boys
                                                                                                            2. "'I need,' she whispers. 'I know, little one,' he replies. 'How?' she asks. 'You're mine. I always know.' She sighs." — Sir Daddy Kitten
                                                                                                            3. "Your Daddy's right here. While you sleep I'll protect you." — Dom Dominator
                                                                                                            4. "There is just something about his strong hands. When he grips me with passion, I feel so secure and wanted. It is pure bliss." — Princess Pufferfish
                                                                                                            5. "I want to do things so wild with you that I don't know how to say them." —​ Anais Nin, "A Literate Passion: Letters of Anaïs Nin & Henry Miller, 1932-1953"
                                                                                                            6. "Protector, lover, guide, friend." — Captain Bro
                                                                                                            7. "It's been too long, hasn't it, peach? Should I let you come now so you're able to focus on our lesson?" — Kendall Ryan, "The Gentleman Mentor"
                                                                                                            8. "Meet me in the corridor of your soul. Invite me to the hidden chambers. Show me the light behind your eyes. Teach me the rhythm of your blood. You are the secret I crave to discover." — Dean Jackson
                                                                                                            9. "Intimacy is not purely physical: It's the act of connecting with someone so deeply, you feel like you can see inside their soul." — Mr. Daddy Dom
                                                                                                            10. "I want to make love to you because I care about you. I want to worship your naked body with my own and learn all of your secrets." ― Sylvain Reynard, "Gabriel's Inferno"
                                                                                                            11. "I want to control you, command you, dominate you, and use you. And then I want to touch you, hold you, kiss you, and make you feel safe." — Daddy Rules
                                                                                                            12. "A Daddy Dom only has so much power because it is given to him by his submissive. This power should be treasured, used wisely and respected. When this fails, the submissive has the right to take that power away." — D.D.
                                                                                                            13. "Close your eyes babygirl. Daddy's here now. Let your worries go. I'll take care of everything." — Daddy Pumpkin
                                                                                                            14. "Can you feel me? Can you hear me? Can you sense my presence? I'm with you, always. Even when you think I'm not." — Sir Bunny Bun
                                                                                                            15. "I represent to you all the sins you have never had the courage to commit." — Oscar Wilde, "The Picture Of Dorian Gray"
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48417792Fri, 28 Jan 2022 09:25:50 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 5/16/2021 / Published: 2/27/2022 - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are going to be explaining DD/lg BDSM dynamics. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com ) 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed 2: KNKI:...
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are going to be explaining DD/lg BDSM dynamics.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “What are DDlg BDSM Relationships-S03E44”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -”15 DDLG Quotes That Explain Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships”.
                                                                                                            https://www.yourtango.com/quotes/sex/kinky-ddlg-daddy-dom-quotes
                                                                                                            Daddy Dom and little girl relationships, also known as DDlg or DD/lg relationships, are among the most commonly misunderstood of the various types of passionate loving relationships that fall under the umbrella of BDSM kink.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            I can understand why, at first glance, seeing a Dominant referred to as "Daddy" or "Mommy" and a submissive referred to as "little girl" — or baby girl," "boy," "boi," or a variant along those lines — could appear, well, creepy.
                                                                                                            However, as the DDlg quotes below show, these cute relationships are typically quite healthy and loving.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - What is a Daddy Dom?
                                                                                                            A Daddy Dom is a dominant partner (typically male, but not always) who cares for, nurtures, and assumes responsibility for their submissive, typically referred to as their little or baby girl. Talk about freaky relationship goals.
                                                                                                            Daddy Doms may serve as a paternal figure, but that should not be mistaken to mean the people involved in DDlg relationships are in any way involved or approving of incest or pedophilia.
                                                                                                            "The Daddy Dom indulges, edifies, and chastises his childlike, submissive partner, who may be both emotionally and financially dependent upon him," explains Miya Yamanouchi. "The partner to a 'Daddy' (or 'Mommy') is a 'little girl' or ('little boy')... [a submissive who] enjoys being treated like a child by her lover, most commonly calling her partner 'Daddy' both in and out of the bedroom."
                                                                                                            Many people consider BDSM synonymous with the more old-fashioned, somewhat outdated label "S&M" — sadomasochistic relationships in which one person, the Master or Mistress, has complete control, while the other, the "slave," is a willing victim and subject to his or her Dom or Domme's every whim. This dynamic is generally thought of by many in the Vanilla (non-kinky) community less as a relationship and more as an abusive arrangement between a violator and a victim.
                                                                                                            There are, of course, exceptions to every rule, and abusive relationships, unfortunately, exist within the BDSM community as they do everywhere else. But there are many types of Dominants and submissives, and most are perfectly healthy, high-functioning people involved in perfectly healthy, high-functioning relationships.
                                                                                                            And while some of these relationships are sadomasochistic (hence the SM at the end of BDSM), that is only one end of the kinky spectrum. On the other end, you have Daddy doms and their baby girls.
                                                                                                            Picture all of the best parts of what an ideal Daddy provides: warmth, strength, measured humor, discipline as needed, undivided attention, nurturing, caregiving, stability, support, and unconditional love.
                                                                                                            Now picture the best parts of what the best baby girl provides: laughter, joy, silliness, fun, playfulness, warmth, affection beyond belief, beauty, awe, excitement, mental and physical challenges, and unconditional love. Who wouldn't want a relationship that includes a constant give and take between those qualities?
                                                                                                            You don't have to take my word for it, of course.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - These 15 DDlg quotes about Daddy Doms and littles illustrate exactly how passionate, loving, and not all creepy their...]]>5317age,ageplay,bdsm,daddy,dd/lg,dom,kink,lil,little,one,playyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-are-bdsm-dom-and-sub-mentorships-s03e43--48416424
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                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt I am going to be talking mentorships-what are they, who needs them, what makes great mentors and mentees, and what causes them to fail.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “What are BDSM Dom and sub Mentorships-S03E43”
                                                                                                            - What is a mentorship?
                                                                                                            Definition: The guidance provided by a mentor, especially an experienced person in a company or educational institution.
                                                                                                            - Why are mentorships important?
                                                                                                            A mentor may share with a mentee (or protege) information about his or her own career path, as well as provide guidance, motivation, emotional support, and role modeling. A mentor may help with exploring careers, setting goals, developing contacts, and identifying resources.
                                                                                                            - Who is suited to mentor someone?
                                                                                                            https://www.forbes.com/sites/maryabbajay/2019/01/20/mentoring-matters-three-essential-element-of-success/?sh=758fe5b545a9
                                                                                                            - A good mentor needs to be more than just a successful individual. A good mentor must have the disposition and desire to develop other people. It requires a willingness to reflect on and share one’s own experiences, including one’s failures. Great mentors must be able to both “talk the talk” and “walk the walk.”
                                                                                                            - What makes a good mentor:
                                                                                                            1: A desire to develop and help others. A good mentor is sincerely interested in helping someone else without any “official” reward. Good mentors do it because they genuinely want to see someone else succeed.
                                                                                                            2: The ability and availability to commit real time and energy to the mentoring relationship. Good intentions aren’t enough—mentoring takes time!
                                                                                                            3: Current and relevant industry or organizational knowledge, expertise, and/or skills. The best mentors have deep knowledge in an area that the mentee wishes to develop.
                                                                                                            4: A willingness to share failures and personal experiences. Mentors need to share both their “how I did it right” and their “how I did it wrong” stories. Both experiences provide valuable opportunities for learning.
                                                                                                            5: A growth mindset and learning attitude. The best teachers have always been and always will be those who remain, curious learners, themselves. Would you rather be advised by someone whose mind is shut because he knows it all or by someone whose mind is open because she is always looking to deepen her knowledge?
                                                                                                            6: Skill in developing others. This includes the very real skills of active listening, asking powerful, open-ended questions, self-reflection, providing feedback, and being able to share stories that include personal anecdotes, case examples, and honest insight.
                                                                                                            - What makes a good protege?
                                                                                                            (See Forbes link above.)
                                                                                                            Just as there are specific characteristics of a successful mentor, there are attributes and sensibilities that make for a good mentee. This is important because mentees must remember that mentors are doing this from the goodness of their heart, so being a good mentee is the best way to ensure the relationship enjoys a healthy purposeful existence.
                                                                                                            - Mentees need to be:
                                                                                                            1: Committed to expanding their capabilities and focused on achieving professional results.
                                                                                                            2: Clear about their career goals, needs, and wants. Mentoring isn’t therapy where one just rambles aimlessly. mentees are responsible for creating the mentoring agenda, so they must be clear about what they hope to get from mentoring.
                                                                                                            3: Willing to ask for help, show vulnerability, and explore different paths and perspectives. Mentees must be open and receptive to learning and trying new ideas. No mentor wants to advise someone who isn’t open to learning!
                                                                                                            4: Able to seek and accept feedback and act upon it.
                                                                                                            5: Be personally responsible and accountable. Mentors want to see movement and growth. If you say you are going to do something, then do it! Sitting on the sidelines in a mentoring relationship is not going to work.
                                                                                                            6: Ready, willing, and able to meet on a regular basis. Relationships take time to develop, so mentees must also be committed to upholding their end of the bargain.
                                                                                                            - Building the Mentor/Mentee Relationship:
                                                                                                            - A mentoring relationship must be managed and nurtured. It is a joint venture that requires both parties to actively attend to its care and feeding. The chances of creating and sustaining a successful mentoring relationship are enhanced by adopting a few simple best practices:
                                                                                                            - Design The Alliance. Take the time to discuss the structure of the relationship. Both parties need to have a shared understanding of the relationship process. This means discussing and articulating things like:
                                                                                                            1: Contact and response times: Who contacts whom? How? What are acceptable response times?
                                                                                                            2: Meetings: Where, when, and how often? Are you meeting in person? On the phone? Virtually?
                                                                                                            3: Confidentiality: What’s shareable and what isn’t?
                                                                                                            4: Focus: What are the parameters of the mentoring? What’s in and out of bounds?
                                                                                                            5: Feedback: What are the expectations around giving and receiving feedback?
                                                                                                            6: Goals and accountability: What would each party want from this experience? How does the mentee want the mentor to hold her accountable? How does the mentor want the mentee to hold her accountable?
                                                                                                            What Next?
                                                                                                            1: Get To Know Each Other. A mentoring relationship is like any other relationship—it takes time to develop. And like other relationships, it will grow faster and stronger if both parties take the time to get to know each other as people. Resist the temptation to dive headfirst into problem-solving and advising. Build trust by learning about each other!
                                                                                                            2: Set The Agenda. Both parties need to be clear about the purpose and focus of the mentoring. Additionally, the mentor and mentee should articulate what they hope to get out of the experience.
                                                                                                            3: Reflect And Evaluate. Every few meetings, one (or both) of the parties should ask: “How is this going for you? What’s been helpful? What hasn’t? What could I do differently to make this a more rewarding experience?” As awkward as it may feel, initiating evaluative conversations will keep the relationship working for both of you.
                                                                                                            4: Closeout. If you are part of a formal mentoring relationship or have negotiated a specific number of mentoring meetings, take the time to close out. This is when each party should reflect and appreciate. What was most rewarding? What did you find the most valuable? What are you most grateful for? Mentees and mentors should clearly articulate their appreciation for the other. Be specific about what you learned and gained from the experience.
                                                                                                            Mentoring is a great opportunity to deliver a rewarding and potentially life-changing experience for both the mentor and the mentee. It is one of the most important things a person can do to enhance their career, personal, and professional life. It takes time and commitment, but it is well worth the effort. Whether you are the mentor or the mentee, it’s a win-win for your life.
                                                                                                            Common issues in mentorships:
                                                                                                            Pride.
                                                                                                            Personality conflicts.
                                                                                                            Crossing sexual boundaries.
                                                                                                            Loss of enthusiasm.
                                                                                                            Laziness.
                                                                                                            Consent violation.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.f]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48416424Sun, 23 Jan 2022 18:26:46 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 5/09/2021 / Published: 1/23/2022 - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt I am going to be talking mentorships-what are they, who needs...
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt I am going to be talking mentorships-what are they, who needs them, what makes great mentors and mentees, and what causes them to fail.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “What are BDSM Dom and sub Mentorships-S03E43”
                                                                                                            - What is a mentorship?
                                                                                                            Definition: The guidance provided by a mentor, especially an experienced person in a company or educational institution.
                                                                                                            - Why are mentorships important?
                                                                                                            A mentor may share with a mentee (or protege) information about his or her own career path, as well as provide guidance, motivation, emotional support, and role modeling. A mentor may help with exploring careers, setting goals, developing contacts, and identifying resources.
                                                                                                            - Who is suited to mentor someone?
                                                                                                            https://www.forbes.com/sites/maryabbajay/2019/01/20/mentoring-matters-three-essential-element-of-success/?sh=758fe5b545a9
                                                                                                            - A good mentor needs to be more than just a successful individual. A good mentor must have the disposition and desire to develop other people. It requires a willingness to reflect on and share one’s own experiences, including one’s failures. Great mentors must be able to both “talk the talk” and “walk the walk.”
                                                                                                            - What makes a good mentor:
                                                                                                            1: A desire to develop and help others. A good mentor is sincerely interested in helping someone else without any “official” reward. Good mentors do it because they genuinely want to see someone else succeed.
                                                                                                            2: The ability and availability to commit real time and energy to the mentoring relationship. Good intentions aren’t enough—mentoring takes time!
                                                                                                            3: Current and relevant industry or organizational knowledge, expertise, and/or skills. The best mentors have deep knowledge in an area that the mentee wishes to develop.
                                                                                                            4: A willingness to share failures and personal experiences. Mentors need to share both their “how I did it right” and their “how I did it wrong” stories. Both experiences provide valuable opportunities for learning.
                                                                                                            5: A growth mindset and learning attitude. The best teachers have always been and always will be those who remain, curious learners, themselves. Would you rather be advised by someone whose mind is shut because he knows it all or by someone whose mind is open because she is always looking to deepen her knowledge?
                                                                                                            6: Skill in developing others. This includes the very real skills of active listening, asking powerful, open-ended questions, self-reflection, providing feedback, and being able to share stories that include personal anecdotes, case examples, and honest insight.
                                                                                                            - What makes a good protege?
                                                                                                            (See Forbes link above.)
                                                                                                            Just as there are specific characteristics of a successful mentor, there are attributes and sensibilities that make for a good mentee. This is important because mentees must remember that mentors are doing this from the goodness of their heart, so being a good mentee is the best way to ensure the relationship enjoys a healthy purposeful existence.
                                                                                                            - Mentees need to be:
                                                                                                            1: Committed to expanding their capabilities and focused on achieving professional results.
                                                                                                            2: Clear about their career goals, needs, and wants. Mentoring isn’t therapy where one just rambles aimlessly. mentees are...]]>5238bdsm,education,mastermind,mentor,mentorship,self-help,student,teacher,trainingyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/safeword-defense-and-consent-violations-s03e42--48381667- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt, we are talking about "The Safeword defense" and consent violations.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Safeword Defense and Consent Violations-S03E42”
                                                                                                            Written by and permission given by Soup on Fetlife. https://fetlife.com/users/10338348/posts/6015142
                                                                                                            Let’s say that Daniel and Craig decided to do a scene together. Daniel lays down a hard limit: don’t put a pineapple up my ass. An hour later, during the scene, when Daniel is vulnerable and things are getting pretty steamy, Craig slowly shoves that pineapple right up into Daniel’s butt.
                                                                                                            Now let’s pause for a second here. In an ideal case, Daniel would safeword. The scene is immediately over, then comes the conversation: “Hey Craig, why did you just violate my hard limit?” But of course, there are quite a few reasons why someone might not safeword. Let’s come back to this later.
                                                                                                            So Daniel says nothing, and Craig continues on his way. Scene over, done, everybody go home. Later that week, Daniel texts Craig. “Hey, can we talk about that scene we did? I feel like my consent was violated, given I put down a hard limit on pineapples and you didn’t respect that.”
                                                                                                            Here comes what I call the Safeword Defense.
                                                                                                            Craig responds: “Uh, well, you didn’t safeword. You don’t really get to complain later if you didn’t safeword.”
                                                                                                            Now there are two things wrong with this.
                                                                                                            First, basic attitude issue. Craig’s immediate reaction to a concern brought up by a bottom is to jump to a defense. Perhaps feedback does need to be given back to the bottom, and that’s alright, but hear them out first. Open conversation and feedback not going to happen in a situation where both sides are throwing up defenses in the first place. Everyone needs to feel safe and heard. If the bottom was truly shaken by their experience and wants to hash it out, listen.
                                                                                                            Second, this is a false method of dismissing someone’s concerns.
                                                                                                            What Daniel and Craig have here is a pretty clear-cut consent violation. The ass pineapple was inarguable. But there’s a contingent of people in the kink community that feel that if you don’t safeword in the scene immediately after your consent was violated, you don’t really have a leg to stand on later.
                                                                                                            This isn’t true though. The bottom’s reaction to a consent violation doesn’t change whether or not it happened. It happened. Definitively.
                                                                                                            If I steal some jewels from the store, but I don’t set off the alarm, I don’t get to argue later that I didn’t actually steal anything because the alarms didn’t go off fast enough. I still stole some jewels, which is a crime, and the cops will put me in jail. The alarms are irrelevant.
                                                                                                            Now in the case of a consent violation, it may not have been intentional, and it may be forgivable. In my view, the problem really boils down to how the top reacts. A good reaction: “I’m concerned to hear I made you feel this way. Tell me your side of the story. I may have made a mistake and I’d like to correct it for the future.” And then after discussing the issue, apologize directly for the consent violation action. “I’m sorry I did not respect your hard limit. In the future, I will listen to bottoms more carefully.”
                                                                                                            Now one may object, but why didn’t Daniel safeword?! Bottoms need to take care of themselves! Consent violations occur when bottoms don’t protect themselves!
                                                                                                            Again, let me make two points in response.
                                                                                                            Firstly, Daniel could have used the safeword, but notice that it’s not a preventative measure. The consent violation already happened - the pineapple is up his ass. Using the safeword in response to a consent violation can only prevent more from occurring, but it cannot stop the one that already happened.
                                                                                                            Secondly, there are some cases where a bottom may not use their safewords. In a more general context, we have subspace and other non-verbal states, which bottoms should disclose to a potential partner if that happens to them. But in the context of a consent violation, a bottom may have been triggered by a specific action. Trauma resurfaces. They no longer feel safe to safeword. Or it’s overwhelming pain and agony, like having a pineapple in your ass, that causes them to be non-verbal or too shocked to speak. Or they’re loathed to stop a fun time, even if they’ve been trampled on and they will need to address it later. Or they’re inexperienced and don’t know their own limits quite yet.
                                                                                                            I do think it’s important for bottoms to safeword when they feel things have gone wrong. This is how communication starts, and how further harm is prevented. Communication is a two-way street.
                                                                                                            But tops who start to fall back on various defenses like the Safeword Defense are - whether intentionally or not - shutting down further communication. What this does is effectively break off any opportunity to learn and grow and do better next time, on both sides. Nobody wins.
                                                                                                            And I will say that the Safeword Defense is probably used maliciously too, to explicitly silence people and disable communication entirely. I have no doubt the Safeword Defense works on new or naive kinksters. It’s probably an easy way for predators to convince their victims to doubt their own narratives, at least for long enough that the pain starts to fade from memory or until the consent violation is too long ago to act upon. There are many methods of utilizing victim-blaming to gain this upper hand and to do so repeatedly.
                                                                                                            Thus, it’s important that we do our best to listen to each other. It’s important to decry fallacious silencing techniques and any other form of victim-blaming rhetoric. It’s equally important to champion open and honest communicators who want to do better and encourage us all to do better. That’s the only way we will all be safe.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48381667Thu, 20 Jan 2022 21:03:47 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 4/25/2021 / Published: 1/20/2022 - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt, we are talking about "The Safeword defense" and consent...- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt, we are talking about "The Safeword defense" and consent violations.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Safeword Defense and Consent Violations-S03E42”
                                                                                                            Written by and permission given by Soup on Fetlife. https://fetlife.com/users/10338348/posts/6015142
                                                                                                            Let’s say that Daniel and Craig decided to do a scene together. Daniel lays down a hard limit: don’t put a pineapple up my ass. An hour later, during the scene, when Daniel is vulnerable and things are getting pretty steamy, Craig slowly shoves that pineapple right up into Daniel’s butt.
                                                                                                            Now let’s pause for a second here. In an ideal case, Daniel would safeword. The scene is immediately over, then comes the conversation: “Hey Craig, why did you just violate my hard limit?” But of course, there are quite a few reasons why someone might not safeword. Let’s come back to this later.
                                                                                                            So Daniel says nothing, and Craig continues on his way. Scene over, done, everybody go home. Later that week, Daniel texts Craig. “Hey, can we talk about that scene we did? I feel like my consent was violated, given I put down a hard limit on pineapples and you didn’t respect that.”
                                                                                                            Here comes what I call the Safeword Defense.
                                                                                                            Craig responds: “Uh, well, you didn’t safeword. You don’t really get to complain later if you didn’t safeword.”
                                                                                                            Now there are two things wrong with this.
                                                                                                            First, basic attitude issue. Craig’s immediate reaction to a concern brought up by a bottom is to jump to a defense. Perhaps feedback does need to be given back to the bottom, and that’s alright, but hear them out first. Open conversation and feedback not going to happen in a situation where both sides are throwing up defenses in the first place. Everyone needs to feel safe and heard. If the bottom was truly shaken by their experience and wants to hash it out, listen.
                                                                                                            Second, this is a false method of dismissing someone’s concerns.
                                                                                                            What Daniel and Craig have here is a pretty clear-cut consent violation. The ass pineapple was inarguable. But there’s a contingent of people in the kink community that feel that if you don’t safeword in the scene immediately after your consent was violated, you don’t really have a leg to stand on later.
                                                                                                            This isn’t true though. The bottom’s reaction to a consent violation doesn’t change whether or not it happened. It happened. Definitively.
                                                                                                            If I steal some jewels from the store, but I don’t set off the alarm, I don’t get to argue later that I didn’t actually steal anything because the alarms didn’t go off fast enough. I still stole some jewels, which is a crime, and the cops will put me in jail. The alarms are irrelevant.
                                                                                                            Now in the case of a consent violation, it may not have been intentional, and it may be forgivable. In my view, the problem really boils down to how the top reacts. A good reaction: “I’m concerned to hear I made you feel this way. Tell me your side of the story. I may have made a mistake and I’d like to correct it for the future.” And then after discussing the issue, apologize directly for the consent violation action. “I’m sorry I did not respect your hard limit. In the future, I will listen to bottoms more carefully.”
                                                                                                            Now one may object, but why didn’t Daniel safeword?! Bottoms need to take care of themselves! Consent violations occur when...]]>4903abuse,bdsm,buyers,consent,defense,dom,dominant,d/s,master,m/s,remorse,safeword,slave,sub,submissive,violationyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ultimate-guide-to-watersports-s03e41--48272988- Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt, thanks to the newest subcategory of TikTok, we are talking about watersports also known as golden showers.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Ultimate Guide to Watersports-S03E41”.
                                                                                                            Why golden showers/watersports?:
                                                                                                            The feel.
                                                                                                            The taste.
                                                                                                            The taboo.
                                                                                                            Dominance/submission..
                                                                                                            Humiliation/degradation.
                                                                                                            Basic types of watersports:
                                                                                                            Wetting
                                                                                                            Pussing (Men watching women pee in toilets)
                                                                                                            Human urinal
                                                                                                            Omorashi or omo: Japanese word meaning "to wet oneself". (Making someone hold it, do the pee-pee dance, and finally wet themselves.
                                                                                                            Myths:
                                                                                                            Urine is sterile. False! There are naturally occurring bacterias in urine. Some bacterias can start growing when it comes in contact with urine.
                                                                                                            Drinking urine is healthy. False! It is a waste product and can spread diseases including bacterial, fungal, and viral infections.
                                                                                                            Drinking urine can dehydrate you. False! There is high sodium (salt) level in urine which will cause fluid retention.
                                                                                                            Safety:
                                                                                                            HIV and Hep B can be transmitted but it is so incredibly rare it is almost impossible. However, it is highly recommended to play safe with STD/STI testing.
                                                                                                            Bacteria can be passed through urine so do not play if you’ve been sick.
                                                                                                            Do not participate if the person providing the shower has a yeast infection.
                                                                                                            Do NOT get urine on open wounds including unhealed piercings and tattoos.
                                                                                                            Allergy Risk: Medications are passed through urine.
                                                                                                            Generally, watersports is a low-risk activity and is typically consider edge play due to the taboo nature of bodily functions.
                                                                                                            Getting started with a partner:
                                                                                                            Communicate: discuss desires, limits, medical issues, safe words, and aftercare.
                                                                                                            Take it to shower: there is no better place to try out watersports than in the shower.
                                                                                                            Do NOT go straight to the face! Even if face pissing is acceptable take your time and start at the legs and feet or even the torso or hands.
                                                                                                            Have a post-scene check-in and talk about it a few days to a week later.
                                                                                                            Level up with waterproof sheets and have some fun!
                                                                                                            Prepping:
                                                                                                            Drink a lot of water before a play session to help flush out the system.
                                                                                                            Do NOT drink coffee, tea, energy drinks, strong-flavored drinks (beer), or protein drinks.
                                                                                                            Do NOT eat strong-smelling foods such as asparagus, broccoli, and garlic.
                                                                                                            Do NOT eat high protein foods including plant-based proteins.
                                                                                                            Less potent teas are great to help with flow. Dandelion tea is a top choice.
                                                                                                            Some people prefer to receive a more “potent” golden shower. In this case, do the opposite of the previous prepping steps.
                                                                                                            Solo (auto-erotic urophilia):
                                                                                                            DD/lg/lb: Diapers and changing
                                                                                                            Primal and Pet Play:
                                                                                                            Marking your territory
                                                                                                            Making someone go outside or use a litterbox to relieve themselves.
                                                                                                            Using piddle pads.
                                                                                                            Power Exchange:
                                                                                                            To some, urine consumption is the ultimate sign of dominance and submission. To this end, it is often reserved for special occasions, performed ritualistically, or used as a punishment.
                                                                                                            Degradation/Humiliation:
                                                                                                            Forced drinking, showering, and wetting.
                                                                                                            Tickle torture.
                                                                                                            Piss orgies.
                                                                                                            Medical Play:
                                                                                                            Collect a urine sample
                                                                                                            Using a bedpan, bedside toilet, or urine jug.
                                                                                                            Inserting a catheter. Get proper training from a medical professional before placing a catheter!
                                                                                                            Voyeur:
                                                                                                            In-person
                                                                                                            Porn
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48272988Sun, 16 Jan 2022 21:21:48 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: April 25, 2021 / Published: Jan 16, 2022 - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths,...- Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt, thanks to the newest subcategory of TikTok, we are talking about watersports also known as golden showers.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Ultimate Guide to Watersports-S03E41”.
                                                                                                            Why golden showers/watersports?:
                                                                                                            The feel.
                                                                                                            The taste.
                                                                                                            The taboo.
                                                                                                            Dominance/submission..
                                                                                                            Humiliation/degradation.
                                                                                                            Basic types of watersports:
                                                                                                            Wetting
                                                                                                            Pussing (Men watching women pee in toilets)
                                                                                                            Human urinal
                                                                                                            Omorashi or omo: Japanese word meaning "to wet oneself". (Making someone hold it, do the pee-pee dance, and finally wet themselves.
                                                                                                            Myths:
                                                                                                            Urine is sterile. False! There are naturally occurring bacterias in urine. Some bacterias can start growing when it comes in contact with urine.
                                                                                                            Drinking urine is healthy. False! It is a waste product and can spread diseases including bacterial, fungal, and viral infections.
                                                                                                            Drinking urine can dehydrate you. False! There is high sodium (salt) level in urine which will cause fluid retention.
                                                                                                            Safety:
                                                                                                            HIV and Hep B can be transmitted but it is so incredibly rare it is almost impossible. However, it is highly recommended to play safe with STD/STI testing.
                                                                                                            Bacteria can be passed through urine so do not play if you’ve been sick.
                                                                                                            Do not participate if the person providing the shower has a yeast infection.
                                                                                                            Do NOT get urine on open wounds including unhealed piercings and tattoos.
                                                                                                            Allergy Risk: Medications are passed through urine.
                                                                                                            Generally, watersports is a low-risk activity and is typically consider edge play due to the taboo nature of bodily functions.
                                                                                                            Getting started with a partner:
                                                                                                            Communicate: discuss desires, limits, medical issues, safe words, and aftercare.
                                                                                                            Take it to shower: there is no better place to try out watersports than in the shower.
                                                                                                            Do NOT go straight to the face! Even if face pissing is acceptable take your time and start at the legs and feet or even the torso or hands.
                                                                                                            Have a post-scene check-in and talk about it a few days to a week later.
                                                                                                            Level up with waterproof sheets and have some fun!
                                                                                                            Prepping:
                                                                                                            Drink a lot of water before a play session to help flush out the system.
                                                                                                            Do NOT drink coffee, tea, energy drinks, strong-flavored drinks (beer), or protein drinks.
                                                                                                            Do NOT eat strong-smelling foods such as asparagus, broccoli, and garlic.
                                                                                                            Do NOT eat high protein foods including plant-based proteins.
                                                                                                            Less potent teas are great to help with flow. Dandelion tea is a top choice.
                                                                                                            Some people prefer to receive a more “potent” golden shower. In this case, do the opposite of the previous prepping steps.
                                                                                                            Solo (auto-erotic urophilia):
                                                                                                            DD/lg/lb: Diapers and changing
                                                                                                            Primal and Pet Play:
                                                                                                            Marking your territory
                                                                                                            Making someone go outside or use a litterbox to relieve themselves.
                                                                                                            Using piddle pads.
                                                                                                            Power Exchange:
                                                                                                            To some, urine consumption is the ultimate sign of dominance and submission. To this end, it is often reserved for special occasions, performed ritualistically, or used as a punishment.
                                                                                                            Degradation/Humiliation:
                                                                                                            Forced...]]>5188bdsm,fetish,golden,goldenshower,kink,kinky,pee,peeing,sex,shower,watersportsyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bdsm-fun-facts-sex-toys-and-q-a-s03e40--48271275- In this week’s episode of The Krypt we have some fun sex toys buying facts from 2020 and then it's another highly requested audience Q&A.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “BDSM Fun Facts, Sex Toys, and Q&A-S03E40”
                                                                                                            “The Rise of Sex Toys and Key Trends for 2021” By Lara Dolden February 8, 21
                                                                                                            https://techround.co.uk/news/the-rise-of-sex-toys-and-key-trends-for-2021/
                                                                                                            Let’s face it, 2020 was not the most exciting year on record. Between canceled holidays, restaurant closures, and separation from friends, it was difficult to stay entertained. Many were taking to the bedroom to add some adventure to the otherwise humdrum lockdown days, with record-breaking increases in sex toy purchases. With much of the world still on lockdown, it seems the enthusiasm for sex toys is set to continue for 2021, with a few key trends.
                                                                                                            Strapped Down in Lockdown
                                                                                                            Whilst many were getting cabin fever during a national lockdown, some were clearly content to get even further locked down. 2020 proved to be a year of experimentation, with sales seemingly showing an increased preference for BDSM. Sexperts at Ann Summers reported increased sales in BDSM products including whips and bondage restraints.
                                                                                                            In particular, there was a 799% sales increase of faux leather buckle cuffs. All of this alongside a 70% increase in Google Searches for “what is BDSM?” There was an enormous increase in sales for bondage essentials such as ball gags and nipple clamps (582%) and spreader bars (429%) showing that bondage and BDSM experimentation is on the rise.
                                                                                                            The Year of the Rear
                                                                                                            Another thing that people seemed to be exploring during the pandemic was anal sex, with a 40% increase in Google search data for “how to have anal sex”. Curiosity for this topic was clearly piqued with another search term, ‘what is pegging in sex?’, experiencing a 250% rise in Google searches. The ‘Intro to Anal Kit’ was the top-selling anal toy, according to data from Ann Summers.
                                                                                                            Additionally, the ‘Booty Blue Beginner’s Butt Plug saw a 137% increase in sales. Experts predict that anal dildos and pegging equipment will be the go-to items for 2021 as couples start to get more experimental in the bedroom.
                                                                                                            The G-Spot is So Last Year
                                                                                                            Sex tech has long-since been establishing itself in the world of tech and robotics, causing a stir at the 2019 CES (Consumer Electronics Show). For 2021, sex tech has come back even bigger and better than before. Remember the one-trick pony sex toys of yesteryear?
                                                                                                            These are a far cry from the latest toys, designed to blend different techniques for the so-called “holy grail of orgasms”.The latest products from pioneering Lora DiCarlo use advanced technology to simultaneously provide clitoral stimulation and stimulation of the CUV (formerly known as the G-Spot). With the latest PercussionTouch, the sex toys are designed to replicate the warmth of human touch and stimulate blood through the use of thermal conductive plastics.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Q&A Time!
                                                                                                            Junicorns Angel​:
                                                                                                            When going to a new or new to you dungeon, what are your first steps for getting familiar with the rules, & the attendees?
                                                                                                            any play stories you are willing to share?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Lily Chaos:
                                                                                                            ​Can you do kink and vanilla bucket lists for both of you when you answer that bucket list question?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The Play Space:
                                                                                                            BDSM for Short Attention Spans​I'd like rope more if I was any good at it. I can't practice with the cats around.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            PWB:
                                                                                                            ​I wanna try saline injection in my Cat
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Lily Chaos:
                                                                                                            ​is there a reason cats prevent practicing rope? Serious question not a smartass remark
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Captain J​:
                                                                                                            Taboos of the Kink universe? What are they, other than the basic Dont Fail/Neglect/choose to play unsafely, don’t play non-consensually, & always communicate. Also you can call me a Legume Loper.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Art Kitten​:
                                                                                                            can one be mentored online? say if it includes zoom, vc, phone calls, pics?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The Play Space: BDSM for Short Attention Spans
                                                                                                            Business question (anyone can answer): I need a new camera to shoot with, but I'm broke as hell. Does anyone have any suggestions?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Kittyxxx:
                                                                                                            ​What is something you both want to achieve by the end of the year?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            babylove&Sir:
                                                                                                            ​Do you recommend people /newbies to attend kink conferences? Why/why not?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Lily Chaos​:
                                                                                                            What is one thing people can do that causes you (MK and Mayfair both) to walk away? Like when you meet a new person what's one thing that someone cant come back from?
                                                                                                            ​What's one thing you feel someone (other than abuse) could do in the community and not come back from. Like an "unforgivable thing".
                                                                                                            What was your favorite part of Kink Life when you started (MK, when you restarted) and now?
                                                                                                            What's the number one stupid question you feel new people ask you about the lifestyle? What is the most common legitimate question you feel new people ask you?
                                                                                                            ​What's your biggest pet peeve in a scene, what's your biggest pet peeve at a dungeon, what's your biggest pet peeve in every day life?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Captain J:
                                                                                                            Have you yourself or have you seen someone have tears of joy or have that wholy positive breakdown of like purely cathartic & all around emotional, physical, sexual release?
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48271275Thu, 13 Jan 2022 21:36:01 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 4/18/2021 / Published: 1/13/2022 - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we have some fun sex toys buying facts from 2020 and then it's another highly requested audience Q&A. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com ) 1: Safe,...- In this week’s episode of The Krypt we have some fun sex toys buying facts from 2020 and then it's another highly requested audience Q&A.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “BDSM Fun Facts, Sex Toys, and Q&A-S03E40”
                                                                                                            “The Rise of Sex Toys and Key Trends for 2021” By Lara Dolden February 8, 21
                                                                                                            https://techround.co.uk/news/the-rise-of-sex-toys-and-key-trends-for-2021/
                                                                                                            Let’s face it, 2020 was not the most exciting year on record. Between canceled holidays, restaurant closures, and separation from friends, it was difficult to stay entertained. Many were taking to the bedroom to add some adventure to the otherwise humdrum lockdown days, with record-breaking increases in sex toy purchases. With much of the world still on lockdown, it seems the enthusiasm for sex toys is set to continue for 2021, with a few key trends.
                                                                                                            Strapped Down in Lockdown
                                                                                                            Whilst many were getting cabin fever during a national lockdown, some were clearly content to get even further locked down. 2020 proved to be a year of experimentation, with sales seemingly showing an increased preference for BDSM. Sexperts at Ann Summers reported increased sales in BDSM products including whips and bondage restraints.
                                                                                                            In particular, there was a 799% sales increase of faux leather buckle cuffs. All of this alongside a 70% increase in Google Searches for “what is BDSM?” There was an enormous increase in sales for bondage essentials such as ball gags and nipple clamps (582%) and spreader bars (429%) showing that bondage and BDSM experimentation is on the rise.
                                                                                                            The Year of the Rear
                                                                                                            Another thing that people seemed to be exploring during the pandemic was anal sex, with a 40% increase in Google search data for “how to have anal sex”. Curiosity for this topic was clearly piqued with another search term, ‘what is pegging in sex?’, experiencing a 250% rise in Google searches. The ‘Intro to Anal Kit’ was the top-selling anal toy, according to data from Ann Summers.
                                                                                                            Additionally, the ‘Booty Blue Beginner’s Butt Plug saw a 137% increase in sales. Experts predict that anal dildos and pegging equipment will be the go-to items for 2021 as couples start to get more experimental in the bedroom.
                                                                                                            The G-Spot is So Last Year
                                                                                                            Sex tech has long-since been establishing itself in the world of tech and robotics, causing a stir at the 2019 CES (Consumer Electronics Show). For 2021, sex tech has come back even bigger and better than before. Remember the one-trick pony sex toys of yesteryear?
                                                                                                            These are a far cry from the latest toys, designed to blend different techniques for the so-called “holy grail of orgasms”.The latest products from pioneering Lora DiCarlo use advanced technology to simultaneously provide clitoral stimulation and stimulation of the CUV (formerly known as the G-Spot). With the latest PercussionTouch, the sex toys are designed to replicate the warmth of human touch and stimulate blood through the use of thermal conductive plastics.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Q&A Time!
                                                                                                            Junicorns Angel​:
                                                                                                            When going to a new or new to you dungeon, what are your first steps for getting familiar with the rules, & the attendees?
                                                                                                            any play stories you are willing to share?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Lily Chaos:
                                                                                                            ​Can you do kink and vanilla bucket lists for both of you when you answer that bucket list question?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The Play Space:
                                                                                                            BDSM for Short Attention Spans​I'd like rope more if I was any good at it. I can't practice with the cats around.5230adult,bdsm,education,facts,fun,live,podcast,sex,toysyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/20-things-you-dont-know-about-sex-s03e39--48230075
                                                                                                            - Ccan call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are going to have some fun and talk about 20 sex facts you probably don’t not know about sex. Plus, if we have time, we’ve three really interesting bonus facts.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “20 Things You Don't Know About Sex-S03E39”
                                                                                                            *Prior to birth, unborn babies masturbate.
                                                                                                            * Orgasm is a reflex of the autonomic nervous system. The ANS controls things we don’t continuously control like arousal, breathing, and digestion.
                                                                                                            * You can orgasm when you are brain dead.
                                                                                                            * You don’t need genitals to orgasm.
                                                                                                            * Orgasm can cause a seminal odor in women’s breath about an hour after achieving orgasm.
                                                                                                            * Orgasming can cure intractable hiccups.
                                                                                                            * Fertility doctors used to prescribe orgasms for conception due to the now-debunked “upsuck theory”.
                                                                                                            * Dr. Kinsey recorded 300 men ejaculating to measure the distance of the shot. A third of the men had no distance and one man shot 8 feet.
                                                                                                            ** The human womb has an oxygen level equivalent to the top of Mount Everest, designed to keep the fetus asleep 95% of the time.
                                                                                                            ** A man had a brain tumor that caused him to orgasm every time he looked at a safety pin.
                                                                                                            ** Powdered wigs became popular to hide syphilis symptoms.
                                                                                                            *** According to a 2005 sex study, you are greatly more likely to orgasm if you wear socks during sex. 80% of couples wearing socks had orgasms but only 50% of the couples not wearing socks got off.
                                                                                                            *** On average fewer heavier men experience premature ejaculation than skinny men.
                                                                                                            *** Sex can temporarily wipe your memory due to Transient Global Amnesia.
                                                                                                            *** People in their twenties have sex an average of 80 times per year.
                                                                                                            *** Going from having sex once a month to once a week can provide a person with the same joy as making an extra $50 thousand a year.
                                                                                                            **** 53% of women want more sex than they are having.
                                                                                                            **** Nearly 75% of women want to have sex at least 3 times a week.
                                                                                                            **** Female orgasm rates: Lesbians 74.7%, straight women 61.6%, and bisexual 58% of the time.
                                                                                                            **** Because nipple play stimulates the exact same areas of the brain, 29% of women have experienced a nipple-gasm.
                                                                                                            Bonus Fact #1: **** Most women cheat on there husbands with men who’s penis is larger than their husbands’ because they associate it with pain and discomfort. This has been proven to be one way a cheating woman will punish herself for her infidelity.
                                                                                                            Bonus Fact #2: **** Simultaneous orgasm is rare, most people will never experience it.
                                                                                                            Bonus Fact #3: **** A man will ejaculate around 4.5 gallons/17 liters of semen in their lifetime.
                                                                                                            Sources:
                                                                                                            * TEDx: “10 things you didn't know about orgasm | Mary Roach”
                                                                                                            https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7jx0dTYUO5E
                                                                                                            ** Sexplanations: “9 Intriguing Sex Facts”
                                                                                                            https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oU9097--t4w
                                                                                                            *** BuzzFeedVideo: “10 Weird Sex Facts That You Should Know”
                                                                                                            https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YtYI1OMrbgY
                                                                                                            **** Psychology Success: “25 Naughty Facts About Sex”
                                                                                                            https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5j3FYb4il30
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48230075Sun, 09 Jan 2022 22:04:00 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 4/11/2021 / Published: 1/9/2022 - Ccan call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are going to have some fun and talk about 20 sex facts you...
                                                                                                            - Ccan call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are going to have some fun and talk about 20 sex facts you probably don’t not know about sex. Plus, if we have time, we’ve three really interesting bonus facts.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “20 Things You Don't Know About Sex-S03E39”
                                                                                                            *Prior to birth, unborn babies masturbate.
                                                                                                            * Orgasm is a reflex of the autonomic nervous system. The ANS controls things we don’t continuously control like arousal, breathing, and digestion.
                                                                                                            * You can orgasm when you are brain dead.
                                                                                                            * You don’t need genitals to orgasm.
                                                                                                            * Orgasm can cause a seminal odor in women’s breath about an hour after achieving orgasm.
                                                                                                            * Orgasming can cure intractable hiccups.
                                                                                                            * Fertility doctors used to prescribe orgasms for conception due to the now-debunked “upsuck theory”.
                                                                                                            * Dr. Kinsey recorded 300 men ejaculating to measure the distance of the shot. A third of the men had no distance and one man shot 8 feet.
                                                                                                            ** The human womb has an oxygen level equivalent to the top of Mount Everest, designed to keep the fetus asleep 95% of the time.
                                                                                                            ** A man had a brain tumor that caused him to orgasm every time he looked at a safety pin.
                                                                                                            ** Powdered wigs became popular to hide syphilis symptoms.
                                                                                                            *** According to a 2005 sex study, you are greatly more likely to orgasm if you wear socks during sex. 80% of couples wearing socks had orgasms but only 50% of the couples not wearing socks got off.
                                                                                                            *** On average fewer heavier men experience premature ejaculation than skinny men.
                                                                                                            *** Sex can temporarily wipe your memory due to Transient Global Amnesia.
                                                                                                            *** People in their twenties have sex an average of 80 times per year.
                                                                                                            *** Going from having sex once a month to once a week can provide a person with the same joy as making an extra $50 thousand a year.
                                                                                                            **** 53% of women want more sex than they are having.
                                                                                                            **** Nearly 75% of women want to have sex at least 3 times a week.
                                                                                                            **** Female orgasm rates: Lesbians 74.7%, straight women 61.6%, and bisexual 58% of the time.
                                                                                                            **** Because nipple play stimulates the exact same areas of the brain, 29% of women have experienced a nipple-gasm.
                                                                                                            Bonus Fact #1: **** Most women cheat on there husbands with men who’s penis is larger than their husbands’ because they associate it with pain and discomfort. This has been proven to be one way a cheating woman will punish herself for her infidelity.
                                                                                                            Bonus Fact #2: **** Simultaneous orgasm is rare, most people will never experience it.
                                                                                                            Bonus Fact #3: **** A man will ejaculate around 4.5 gallons/17 liters of semen in their lifetime.
                                                                                                            Sources:
                                                                                                            * TEDx: “10 things you didn't know about orgasm | Mary Roach”
                                                                                                            https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7jx0dTYUO5E
                                                                                                            ** Sexplanations: “9 Intriguing Sex Facts”
                                                                                                            https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oU9097--t4w
                                                                                                            *** BuzzFeedVideo: “10 Weird Sex Facts That You Should Know”
                                                                                                            https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YtYI1OMrbgY
                                                                                                            **** Psychology Success: “25 Naughty Facts About Sex”
                                                                                                            https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5j3FYb4il30
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important...]]>4683bdsm,education,facts,fun,relationship,sexyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/irl-hooking-up-w-online-players-bdsm-nightmare-s03e38--48119147https://kuldrinskrypt.com. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Two weeks ago we talked about when you should not participate in BDSM play and in this week’s episode of The Krypt we are going to keep with that theme because I found something from Spain that I have to share with as a BDSM nightmare and a huge warning to those of you that love to randomly meet people in person that you have met online.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -  “IRL Hooking up with online players: BDSM Nightmare-S03E38-S03E38”
                                                                                                            “Group Arrested For Torturing, Blackmailing Man With Learning Disability” by Brian Yalung, Mar 11, 2021
                                                                                                            https://www.latintimes.com/group-arrested-torturing-blackmailing-man-learning-disability-466718
                                                                                                            “Seven people who allegedly tortured a mentally unstable man in Spain have been arrested. Four women and three men reportedly glued the lips of the man and forced him to go to the supermarket dressed as a woman. However, that was not the worst part of it. The man, who had a learning disability and wanted to get an extreme makeover, also ended up with tattooed penises on his face. His eyebrows were also shaved while his toes were sewed. The despicable act all started when a man offered to pay anyone online to help him get that makeover.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            At some point, the man, whose identity remains unknown, was able to escape when he told the kidnappers that he needed to go to a cashpoint so that he could pay his captors off. The kidnappers agreed and the victim immediately ran to the police. He has been receiving death threats since doing so.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            It appears all of it stemmed from an online contest which the man organized online. The contest was based on a sexual role-play game where he could pay anyone to help him change his appearance using transvestism and light BDSM.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            There were some who the man-made to sign a contract that was titled “Change of Look.” But it was the group that eventually got chosen and headed to the property in Manacor after meeting up in a city center square in the Majorcan capital Palma called Plaza de Espana.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The victim is reportedly in his 30s and videos show some of the ordeals. That included the man saying that he needed to untie himself in a minute or his eyebrows would be shaved off.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The suspects were reportedly aged between 20 to 30 and were arrested over the torture they did on the man. A mother of one of the suspects has also been called for questioning since the episode took place at her home. She is, however, not among the ones arrested.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “We have taken a statement from the victim and what he's said is that he made it clear ahead of the contest he didn't want extreme violence or sex,” Alejandro Becerra, a spokesman for Spain's National Police in Majorca said. “The effects of the treatment meted out to him are serious because he'll have to have treatment to remove the tattoos for example.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            How to avoid things like this:
                                                                                                            Common sense: 
                                                                                                            If things don’t make sense then run.
                                                                                                            If you don’t understand then run.
                                                                                                            Never forget, “there’s nothing common about common sense.” However, if we make it a point to stop, take a breath, and push the pause button for a few seconds, we can allow ourselves the opportunity to experience a lightbulb moment. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Do your homework:
                                                                                                            Risk Aware Consensual Kink: While it isn’t a person’s responsibility or fault they were abused or raped, it is our responsibility to educate ourselves to try to prevent it. Obviously, there are terrible people out there that are excellent at pretending to be good. Unfortunately, it is impossible to protect ourselves from all of these people. However, we can help our odds with the power of knowledge.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Safe calls:
                                                                                                            Set up times to CALL someone and have codewords in place. Never share the scheduled times of the calls or the codewords with the date! It amazes me how often this happens. 
                                                                                                            Use the Find a Friend app
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Stick to the plans for the evening. They know they have you when they are able to get you to change the plans. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Do not trust vetting! 
                                                                                                            I used to preach vetting like it was a religion until I admitted the truth to myself. Vetting on an actual abuser only works about 25% of the time and the reason is simple: abuse and rape victims often:
                                                                                                            -Blame themselves so they don’t share it.
                                                                                                            -Feel ashamed so they don’t share it.
                                                                                                            -Are traumatized and don’t remember it.
                                                                                                            -Pretend it didn’t happen and avoid it at nearly all costs.
                                                                                                            -It has also been proven that a very small number of victims of assault/abuse will intentionally talk up their abuser to someone who they view is strong enough to be able to bring down the abusive person. They become so focused on the abuser being caught they will send an unknowing “warrior” straight into the lion’s den with no knowledge whatsoever and expect them to come out victorious because the victim has put them on a pedestal and views them as “such a strong person”. It’s important to mention that the people that do this fully believe the strong person will not be hurt.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Do not lose sight of being an adult!
                                                                                                            I have heard over and over “I’m a sub. It’s what I do. When they told me that I was going to the thing, I did the thing.” Being submissive does not mean that you don’t have a backbone and it doesn’t mean that you have an excuse to make you free of all decisions. Especially when there isn’t an established dynamic in place.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Don’t forget BDSM is popular!
                                                                                                            Before there were 12 million people on FetLife, it was hard to find a group of people or a play partner. That reeeally sucked but now that it’s become part of pop culture it is has become a cesspool of freaks, fakes, phoneys, and fuckups. It used to be that one in five people would have a hard limit violated in the first three years of entering the scene. I fully believe that it has grown to 50%. While I also believe a large percentage of that increase is accidental, it doesn’t excuse the lack of education and training people are choosing over playing safe. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/338
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon 
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication 
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month): 
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month): 
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, slave Brendan, and Just_Call_Me_Ash
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, RoxieBear, Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Thorn, Toredon, Cap'n J, BxB, Saviy, Lilred rose, and AK Rich
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Lily, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Arctic Foxglove,  Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Anthony, Gator, Gizmo, Ataleena, JJ, and Jon Shaw
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, and Lexa
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist 
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
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                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48119147Fri, 31 Dec 2021 10:34:46 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLC- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.  - Two weeks ago we talked about when you should not participate in BDSM play and in this week’s episode of The Krypt we are going to keep with that...https://kuldrinskrypt.com. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Two weeks ago we talked about when you should not participate in BDSM play and in this week’s episode of The Krypt we are going to keep with that theme because I found something from Spain that I have to share with as a BDSM nightmare and a huge warning to those of you that love to randomly meet people in person that you have met online.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -  “IRL Hooking up with online players: BDSM Nightmare-S03E38-S03E38”
                                                                                                            “Group Arrested For Torturing, Blackmailing Man With Learning Disability” by Brian Yalung, Mar 11, 2021
                                                                                                            https://www.latintimes.com/group-arrested-torturing-blackmailing-man-learning-disability-466718
                                                                                                            “Seven people who allegedly tortured a mentally unstable man in Spain have been arrested. Four women and three men reportedly glued the lips of the man and forced him to go to the supermarket dressed as a woman. However, that was not the worst part of it. The man, who had a learning disability and wanted to get an extreme makeover, also ended up with tattooed penises on his face. His eyebrows were also shaved while his toes were sewed. The despicable act all started when a man offered to pay anyone online to help him get that makeover.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            At some point, the man, whose identity remains unknown, was able to escape when he told the kidnappers that he needed to go to a cashpoint so that he could pay his captors off. The kidnappers agreed and the victim immediately ran to the police. He has been receiving death threats since doing so.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            It appears all of it stemmed from an online contest which the man organized online. The contest was based on a sexual role-play game where he could pay anyone to help him change his appearance using transvestism and light BDSM.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            There were some who the man-made to sign a contract that was titled “Change of Look.” But it was the group that eventually got chosen and headed to the property in Manacor after meeting up in a city center square in the Majorcan capital Palma called Plaza de Espana.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The victim is reportedly in his 30s and videos show some of the ordeals. That included the man saying that he needed to untie himself in a minute or his eyebrows would be shaved off.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The suspects were reportedly aged between 20 to 30 and were arrested over the torture they did on the man. A mother of one of the suspects has also been called for questioning since the episode took place at her home. She is, however, not among the ones arrested.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “We have taken a statement from the victim and what he's said is that he made it clear ahead of the contest he didn't want extreme violence or sex,” Alejandro Becerra, a spokesman for Spain's National Police in Majorca said. “The effects of the treatment meted out to him are serious because he'll have to have treatment to remove the tattoos for example.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            How to avoid things like this:
                                                                                                            Common sense: 
                                                                                                            If things don’t make sense then run.
                                                                                                            If you don’t understand then run.
                                                                                                            Never forget, “there’s nothing common about common sense.” However, if we make it a point to stop, take a breath, and push the pause button for a few seconds, we can allow ourselves the opportunity to experience a lightbulb moment. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Do your homework:
                                                                                                            Risk Aware Consensual Kink: While it isn’t a person’s responsibility or...]]>3770bdsm,education,irl,kink,nightmare,online,play,safety,sex,warningyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-s-in-a-desired-top-by-tinkerbrattn-s03e37--47925122https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this episode of The Krypt we are going to talk about when you should not participate in BDSM play also know as a scene or scening.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “What's in a Desired Top by TinkerBratTN-S03E37”
                                                                                                            https://fetlife.com/users/12148162/posts/7011967
                                                                                                            “I have this friend that I have known for 5 years. He is a very well known Master and Top in some of my circles. He is semi-famous and sought after to play with. I have wanted to scene with him since we first met at a munch in E TN years ago. We just haven't been able to connect in person to do so and that's ok.
                                                                                                            I was speaking last night to another Top and he asked why so many people flock to this particular fellow. My answer was initially on the lines of "He is educated." "He is well known and highly regarded." "He's a celebrity in our circles."
                                                                                                            But I'm not that type of person. I don't go for the popular and the pretty. I am not a superficial person. I am much deeper than that when it comes to connection. Connection is very important for me even in just a scene. So what is it that draws me to a Dominant or Top? What makes me so picky?
                                                                                                            Well, There are the basics.
                                                                                                            Skill is a must due to safety.
                                                                                                            Education is a must due to safety.
                                                                                                            Having the same interests is a must or a scene wouldn't happen.
                                                                                                            But deeper...under the surface...WHAT draws me only to specific people?
                                                                                                            Intelligence.... I'm an intelligent person. I'm not talking book smarts or computer programing etc. I'm talking about someone that has intelligence enough to go toe to toe with my intellect. I want someone that can outsmart me if I push. I want someone that can pry into my brain and dig around and press buttons I didn't even know I had.
                                                                                                            Intuition....Open, honest, clear communication is a must must must for me. But in a scene, I don't want to have to tell you that this particular sensation is going to drive me wild if you increase it. I want you to observe and use your intuition to take me there based on the lighter version of that sensation. I don't want someone that is going to hit my ass cheeks at 3/4 beat for the entire scene just because that's what they have seen in other scenes.
                                                                                                            Curiosity.... I want someone that looks at my body like it's a blank canvas to write a song on. I want someone to take pleasure in finding buttons and getting reactions. I want their eyes to glaze over when I squirm or squeal. I want them to smile when they catch me in a battle of wills and they know they will win. I want someone that says "hmm.. that's what happened when I did this.. .now what if I do THIS?"
                                                                                                            Empathy... I want someone that understands when I'm in a scene, I give my all. It's not superficial for me. I want someone that understands and can express empathy if something goes wrong or during aftercare. I don't want a Top that is going to run me through the scene like I'm on a conveyer belt and push me off to take on the next bottom.
                                                                                                            In the years I've observed the Top in question, I've observed all of these things. That makes him desirable to me. That, sadly, makes him rare and therefore exotic.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/337
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, slave Brendan, and Just_Call_Me_Ash
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, RoxieBear, Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Thorn, Toredon, Cap'n J, BxB, Saviy, Lilred rose, and AK Rich
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Lily, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Arctic Foxglove, Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Anthony, Gator, Gizmo, Ataleena, and JJ
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, and Lexa
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47925122Thu, 16 Dec 2021 18:19:20 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLChttps://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this episode of The Krypt we are going to talk about when you should not participate in BDSM play also know as a scene or scening. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com ) 1: Safe, sane, consensual,...https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this episode of The Krypt we are going to talk about when you should not participate in BDSM play also know as a scene or scening.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “What's in a Desired Top by TinkerBratTN-S03E37”
                                                                                                            https://fetlife.com/users/12148162/posts/7011967
                                                                                                            “I have this friend that I have known for 5 years. He is a very well known Master and Top in some of my circles. He is semi-famous and sought after to play with. I have wanted to scene with him since we first met at a munch in E TN years ago. We just haven't been able to connect in person to do so and that's ok.
                                                                                                            I was speaking last night to another Top and he asked why so many people flock to this particular fellow. My answer was initially on the lines of "He is educated." "He is well known and highly regarded." "He's a celebrity in our circles."
                                                                                                            But I'm not that type of person. I don't go for the popular and the pretty. I am not a superficial person. I am much deeper than that when it comes to connection. Connection is very important for me even in just a scene. So what is it that draws me to a Dominant or Top? What makes me so picky?
                                                                                                            Well, There are the basics.
                                                                                                            Skill is a must due to safety.
                                                                                                            Education is a must due to safety.
                                                                                                            Having the same interests is a must or a scene wouldn't happen.
                                                                                                            But deeper...under the surface...WHAT draws me only to specific people?
                                                                                                            Intelligence.... I'm an intelligent person. I'm not talking book smarts or computer programing etc. I'm talking about someone that has intelligence enough to go toe to toe with my intellect. I want someone that can outsmart me if I push. I want someone that can pry into my brain and dig around and press buttons I didn't even know I had.
                                                                                                            Intuition....Open, honest, clear communication is a must must must for me. But in a scene, I don't want to have to tell you that this particular sensation is going to drive me wild if you increase it. I want you to observe and use your intuition to take me there based on the lighter version of that sensation. I don't want someone that is going to hit my ass cheeks at 3/4 beat for the entire scene just because that's what they have seen in other scenes.
                                                                                                            Curiosity.... I want someone that looks at my body like it's a blank canvas to write a song on. I want someone to take pleasure in finding buttons and getting reactions. I want their eyes to glaze over when I squirm or squeal. I want them to smile when they catch me in a battle of wills and they know they will win. I want someone that says "hmm.. that's what happened when I did this.. .now what if I do THIS?"
                                                                                                            Empathy... I want someone that understands when I'm in a scene, I give my all. It's not superficial for me. I want someone that understands and can express empathy if something goes wrong or during aftercare. I don't want a Top that is going to run me through the scene like I'm on a conveyer belt and push me off to take on the next bottom.
                                                                                                            In the years I've observed the Top in question, I've observed all of these things. That makes him desirable to me. That, sadly, makes him rare and therefore exotic.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/337
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            4720adult,bdsm,dominant,dynamic,relationship,s/m,submissiveyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/when-shouldn-t-you-participate-in-bdsm-play-s03e36--47108733
                                                                                                            - In this episode of The Krypt we are going to talk about when you should not participate in BDSM play also known as a scene or scening.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “When Shouldn't You Participate in BDSM Play-S03E36”
                                                                                                            As we go through these remember:
                                                                                                            - Mayfair and I are NOT licensed mental health professionals as this is a psychology heavy episode.
                                                                                                            - Both Kuldrin and Mayfair have personal experience with several different types of mental illnesses and treat this topic with the utmost respect.
                                                                                                            - This is not a complete list and these are not the only reasons not to play.
                                                                                                            - Some of these are and others are not absolute reasons to play or not to play.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Physical Health Issues: Diabetes, Blood Pressure, M.S., Blood Clotting Issues, Fibromyalgia, Strokes, Breathing issues, ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Mental Health Issues:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Anxiety disorders, Behavioural and emotional disorders in children, Bipolar affective disorder, Depression, Dissociation and dissociative disorders, Eating disorders, Obsessive-compulsive disorder, Paranoia, Post-traumatic stress disorder, Psychosis, and Schizophrenia https://kuldrinskrypt.com/MentalHealthDisorders
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Personality Disorders listed in the DSM-V https://kuldrinskrypt.com/PersonalityDisorders:
                                                                                                            Paranoid, schizoid, schizotypal, antisocial, borderline, histrionic, narcissistic, avoidant, dependent, and obsessive-compulsive
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Mood Disorders: Major Depression, Mania, Seasonal Affective Disorder, Bipolar Disorder, Schizophrenia,
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Personality Vs Mood: The key difference between personality and mood disorders are the symptom patterns they cause. The main feature of mood disorders is periods of emotional highs and/or lows. Some personality disorders can cause mood swings, but this isn't the main symptom of personality disorders. (https://www.promisesbehavioralhealth.com/addiction-recovery-blog/difference-between-personality-disorder-and-mood-disorder/)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Intoxication: Alcohol, Drugs, Top/Dom/bottom/sub/primal Space
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Anger, Resentment, and Guilt! OH MY!!!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Concern about losing control.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - A lack of communication.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - You don’t want to play.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/336
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, slave Brendan, and Just_Call_Me_Ash
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, RoxieBear, Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Thorn, Toredon, Cap'n J, BxB, Saviy, Lilred rose, and AK Rich
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Lily, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Arctic Foxglove, Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Anthony, Gator, Gizmo, and Ataleena
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, and Lexa
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47108733Tue, 26 Oct 2021 17:30:31 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 3/14/2021 - In this episode of The Krypt we are going to talk about when you should not participate in BDSM play also known as a scene or scening. - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at...
                                                                                                            - In this episode of The Krypt we are going to talk about when you should not participate in BDSM play also known as a scene or scening.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “When Shouldn't You Participate in BDSM Play-S03E36”
                                                                                                            As we go through these remember:
                                                                                                            - Mayfair and I are NOT licensed mental health professionals as this is a psychology heavy episode.
                                                                                                            - Both Kuldrin and Mayfair have personal experience with several different types of mental illnesses and treat this topic with the utmost respect.
                                                                                                            - This is not a complete list and these are not the only reasons not to play.
                                                                                                            - Some of these are and others are not absolute reasons to play or not to play.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Physical Health Issues: Diabetes, Blood Pressure, M.S., Blood Clotting Issues, Fibromyalgia, Strokes, Breathing issues, ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Mental Health Issues:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Anxiety disorders, Behavioural and emotional disorders in children, Bipolar affective disorder, Depression, Dissociation and dissociative disorders, Eating disorders, Obsessive-compulsive disorder, Paranoia, Post-traumatic stress disorder, Psychosis, and Schizophrenia https://kuldrinskrypt.com/MentalHealthDisorders
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Personality Disorders listed in the DSM-V https://kuldrinskrypt.com/PersonalityDisorders:
                                                                                                            Paranoid, schizoid, schizotypal, antisocial, borderline, histrionic, narcissistic, avoidant, dependent, and obsessive-compulsive
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Mood Disorders: Major Depression, Mania, Seasonal Affective Disorder, Bipolar Disorder, Schizophrenia,
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Personality Vs Mood: The key difference between personality and mood disorders are the symptom patterns they cause. The main feature of mood disorders is periods of emotional highs and/or lows. Some personality disorders can cause mood swings, but this isn't the main symptom of personality disorders. (https://www.promisesbehavioralhealth.com/addiction-recovery-blog/difference-between-personality-disorder-and-mood-disorder/)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Intoxication: Alcohol, Drugs, Top/Dom/bottom/sub/primal Space
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Anger, Resentment, and Guilt! OH MY!!!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Concern about losing control.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - A lack of communication.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - You don’t want to play.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/336
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, slave Brendan, and...]]>5059101,bdsm,beginners,dom,health,intro,mental,new,newbie,podcast,psychology,subyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/nevada-s-2021-bdsm-sexual-assault-trial-s03e35--47090219
                                                                                                            - In this episode of The Krypt we are going to have to talk about a few hot button issues that are bouncing around right now because of a Nevada court case currently taking place. Some of those topics are victim-blaming, buyer’s remorse, BDSM and the law, and if we have time relationship contracts.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Nevada's BDSM Sexual Assualt Trial-S03E35”
                                                                                                            “Sex assault trial gets underway in Nevada County courtroom”
                                                                                                            - By Liz Kellar (Staff Writer), February 17, 2021
                                                                                                            -https://www.theunion.com/news/sex-assault-trial-gets-underway-in-nevada-county-courtroom/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - The issue of consent — and whether a BDSM contract was enforced under duress — was the crux of the arguments of both prosecution and defense as the sexual assault trial of a 62-year-old man began Wednesday in Nevada County Superior Court.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Wesley Carl Panighetti is facing felony charges of sodomy by use of force, forcible oral copulation, criminal threats, first-degree burglary and dissuading a witness, as well as one misdemeanor count of battery, Nevada County Superior Court records state.
                                                                                                            Panighetti has pleaded not guilty.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Deputy District Attorney Helenaz Moteabbed Hill told the jury Panighetti and the victim had an on-again, off-again relationship riddled with abuse for 20 years.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “This is a case about manipulation,” Hill said, adding that Panighetti had taken advantage of the victim’s naïveté and vulnerability and got what he wanted through menace and fear. His victim, Hill said, finally stood up for herself and put an end to the terror.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            According to Hill, a BDSM relationship — bondage, domination, sadomasochism — can exist with the consent of both parties, but that requires that both are playing “freely and voluntarily” on the same field. That was not the case between Panighetti and the victim, whose name was not used during the trial, she said.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “He wants to claim consent existed through a legally valid contract,” Hill said. “She naively believed contact was binding simply because a notary signed off on it.”
                                                                                                            While Hill detailed some of the abuse sustained in years past — which led to several arrests and a prior prison sentence — Hill said the charged offenses all relate to three incidents that took place in May and June 2020, in which Panighetti is alleged to have sexually assaulted the victim, strangled her multiple times and threatened to kill her.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The relationship was consensual and on occasion had been initiated or reinstated by the victim, said Panighetti’s attorney, Paul Comiskey. Comiskey cited the gaps in their involvement and the fact that the victim knew contact with Panighetti after his release from prison violated his parole terms.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            According to Comiskey, the victim had told Panighetti their contract was still valid, even after speaking to an attorney, and that implied her consent to the contract. And if that didn’t constitute consent on her part, he argued, Panighetti had a “good faith belief” there was consent to engage in a BDSM relationship.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “Keep an open mind,” he urged the jury.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The trial will resume today. Panighetti remained in custody Wednesday on a $750,000 bond.
                                                                                                            Victim-blaming: When the victim of a crime or any wrongful act is held entirely or partially at fault for the harm that befell them. (Wikipedia.com)
                                                                                                            Buyer’s remorse: The sense of regret one feels after having made a purchase.
                                                                                                            Buyers Remorse Rule (Law): Regulations that provide a cooling-off period for consumers to reconsider their purchases and ensure they fit within their budgets and meet their needs. There is generally a prescribed timeframe, typically 30 days, to reassess your purchase.
                                                                                                            BDSM and the law:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Relationship/BDSM contracts: Agreements between a “sub” (submissive) and “dom” (dominant) set terms on subjects such as the duration of the relationship or the hygienic or sartorial requirements of the parties. (HarvardLawReview.org)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/335
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, slave Brendan, and Just_Call_Me_Ash
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, RoxieBear, Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Thorn, Toredon, Cap'n J, BxB, and Saviy
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Lily, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Arctic Foxglove, Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Anthony, BoundHydrangea, Gator, Gizmo, and Ataleena
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, and Lexa
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zbTsAuBKTy4 )
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47090219Fri, 22 Oct 2021 00:37:31 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 3/7/2021 - In this episode of The Krypt we are going to have to talk about a few hot button issues that are bouncing around right now because of a Nevada court case currently taking place. Some of those topics are victim-blaming, buyer’s...
                                                                                                            - In this episode of The Krypt we are going to have to talk about a few hot button issues that are bouncing around right now because of a Nevada court case currently taking place. Some of those topics are victim-blaming, buyer’s remorse, BDSM and the law, and if we have time relationship contracts.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Nevada's BDSM Sexual Assualt Trial-S03E35”
                                                                                                            “Sex assault trial gets underway in Nevada County courtroom”
                                                                                                            - By Liz Kellar (Staff Writer), February 17, 2021
                                                                                                            -https://www.theunion.com/news/sex-assault-trial-gets-underway-in-nevada-county-courtroom/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - The issue of consent — and whether a BDSM contract was enforced under duress — was the crux of the arguments of both prosecution and defense as the sexual assault trial of a 62-year-old man began Wednesday in Nevada County Superior Court.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Wesley Carl Panighetti is facing felony charges of sodomy by use of force, forcible oral copulation, criminal threats, first-degree burglary and dissuading a witness, as well as one misdemeanor count of battery, Nevada County Superior Court records state.
                                                                                                            Panighetti has pleaded not guilty.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Deputy District Attorney Helenaz Moteabbed Hill told the jury Panighetti and the victim had an on-again, off-again relationship riddled with abuse for 20 years.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “This is a case about manipulation,” Hill said, adding that Panighetti had taken advantage of the victim’s naïveté and vulnerability and got what he wanted through menace and fear. His victim, Hill said, finally stood up for herself and put an end to the terror.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            According to Hill, a BDSM relationship — bondage, domination, sadomasochism — can exist with the consent of both parties, but that requires that both are playing “freely and voluntarily” on the same field. That was not the case between Panighetti and the victim, whose name was not used during the trial, she said.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “He wants to claim consent existed through a legally valid contract,” Hill said. “She naively believed contact was binding simply because a notary signed off on it.”
                                                                                                            While Hill detailed some of the abuse sustained in years past — which led to several arrests and a prior prison sentence — Hill said the charged offenses all relate to three incidents that took place in May and June 2020, in which Panighetti is alleged to have sexually assaulted the victim, strangled her multiple times and threatened to kill her.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The relationship was consensual and on occasion had been initiated or reinstated by the victim, said Panighetti’s attorney, Paul Comiskey. Comiskey cited the gaps in their involvement and the fact that the victim knew contact with Panighetti after his release from prison violated his parole terms.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            According to Comiskey, the victim had told Panighetti their contract was still valid, even after speaking to an attorney, and that implied her consent to the contract. And if that didn’t constitute consent on her part, he argued, Panighetti had a “good faith belief” there was consent to engage in a BDSM relationship.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “Keep an open mind,” he urged the jury.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The trial will resume today. Panighetti remained in custody Wednesday on a $750,000 bond.
                                                                                                            Victim-blaming: When the victim of a crime or any wrongful act is held entirely or partially at fault for the harm that befell them. (Wikipedia.com)
                                                                                                            Buyer’s remorse: The sense of regret one feels after having made a purchase.4942101,assault,bdsm,dom,dominant,education,law,legal,nevada,sub,submissiveyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dominant-submissives-and-live-bdsm-q-a-s03e34--46913878
                                                                                                            - In this episode of The Krypt we are going to have a live Q&A session about anything and everything BDS, sex, and relationships. Plus, today is the day that two people that filled out the podcast survey will each be winning a $25 Amazon gift card!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Dominant, submissives, and Live BDSM Q&A-S03E34”
                                                                                                            - Questions:
                                                                                                            - babylove&Sir: What do you wish new people would ask you?
                                                                                                            What’s the most common question people ask?
                                                                                                            - Alley Hoops: Mayfair, what is a journal topic that you found very useful for understanding the dynamic you were entering?
                                                                                                            - Art Kitten: in one of my groups on fetlife, a Domme posted about her frustrations with submissives who give her a grocery list of what they want like she's supposed to grant their wishes.what do you think contributes to this? lack of education? just plain selfish?
                                                                                                            - LOWBTP1128: what are good questions to ask a new play partner?
                                                                                                            - Haliyi Waya: has anyone asked how to avoid burnout or fatigue
                                                                                                            - Lily Chaos: I have a question. For newer people just going to events that haven’t really had a chance to meet many people, what’s a good way to find people when their looking to scene at an event their attending
                                                                                                            - The Play Space: BDSM for Short Attention Spans: I arrived a few minutes late. Have you explained contracts?
                                                                                                            - Atsila: sorry to revisit... still wondering how Kuldrin feels about Doms* removing collars, or withholding as punishment. (did I miss his reply to that part earlier?)
                                                                                                            The Play Space: BDSM for Short Attention Spans: Are there things that you think EVERYONE should have in their toy box and aftercare kit?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/334
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, slave Brendan, and Just_Call_Me_Ash
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, RoxieBear, Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Thorn, Toredon, Cap'n J, BxB, and Saviy
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Lily, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Arctic Foxglove, Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Anthony, BoundHydrangea, Gator, Gizmo, and Ataleena
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, and Lexa
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zbTsAuBKTy4 )
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
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                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/46913878Mon, 11 Oct 2021 21:44:27 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 2/28/2021 / Published: 10/11/2021 - In this episode of The Krypt we are going to have a live Q&A session about anything and everything BDS, sex, and relationships. Plus, today is the day that two people that filled out the podcast survey...
                                                                                                            - In this episode of The Krypt we are going to have a live Q&A session about anything and everything BDS, sex, and relationships. Plus, today is the day that two people that filled out the podcast survey will each be winning a $25 Amazon gift card!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Dominant, submissives, and Live BDSM Q&A-S03E34”
                                                                                                            - Questions:
                                                                                                            - babylove&Sir: What do you wish new people would ask you?
                                                                                                            What’s the most common question people ask?
                                                                                                            - Alley Hoops: Mayfair, what is a journal topic that you found very useful for understanding the dynamic you were entering?
                                                                                                            - Art Kitten: in one of my groups on fetlife, a Domme posted about her frustrations with submissives who give her a grocery list of what they want like she's supposed to grant their wishes.what do you think contributes to this? lack of education? just plain selfish?
                                                                                                            - LOWBTP1128: what are good questions to ask a new play partner?
                                                                                                            - Haliyi Waya: has anyone asked how to avoid burnout or fatigue
                                                                                                            - Lily Chaos: I have a question. For newer people just going to events that haven’t really had a chance to meet many people, what’s a good way to find people when their looking to scene at an event their attending
                                                                                                            - The Play Space: BDSM for Short Attention Spans: I arrived a few minutes late. Have you explained contracts?
                                                                                                            - Atsila: sorry to revisit... still wondering how Kuldrin feels about Doms* removing collars, or withholding as punishment. (did I miss his reply to that part earlier?)
                                                                                                            The Play Space: BDSM for Short Attention Spans: Are there things that you think EVERYONE should have in their toy box and aftercare kit?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
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                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, RoxieBear, Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Thorn, Toredon, Cap'n J, BxB, and Saviy
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                                                                                                            - In this episode of The Krypt I am joined by a fellow lifestyle veteran and new YouTuber to discuss what you need to know about BDSM.
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -  “What you need to know about BDSM with CurtainCall-S03E33”
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/CurtainCall 
                                                                                                            is a long-time BDSM educator, munch leader, and a new YouTuber with a truly unique delivery. He is a mentor, a protector, and a friend to many. Please join us as The Krypt welcomes him into the YouTube space, learn the lessons he has to teach, and help him grow his channel to reach more people.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Ten Licks (Rapid Fire)
                                                                                                            1. How long have been into Kink?
                                                                                                            2. Top, bottom, or switch?  
                                                                                                            3. Relationship Status?  
                                                                                                            4. Dom, sub, or switch?  
                                                                                                            5. Favorite Implement?
                                                                                                            6. Favorite Roleplay?  
                                                                                                            7. Favorite kink or fetish?
                                                                                                            8. Favorite place for kink?  
                                                                                                            9. Strangest Place you've had sex?
                                                                                                            10. Something kinky on your bucket list?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Briefly: 
                                                                                                            Why did you decide to jump into producing BDSM content on YouTube?
                                                                                                            Where did you “cut your teeth”?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - For you, what is BDSM?
                                                                                                            - Let’s talk about some of your episodes:
                                                                                                            “Top Red Flags”
                                                                                                            “Vetting”
                                                                                                            “Identity”
                                                                                                            “Aftercare”
                                                                                                            “Should You Have a Fetlife Account”
                                                                                                            “Why Can’t I Find a Dominant”
                                                                                                            “Are You Doing it Wrong? The One True Way.”
                                                                                                            - Where do you want your channel to go?
                                                                                                            - What is that one piece of advice you tell every person?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/333
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon 
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication 
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month): 
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month): 
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, slave Brendan, and Just_Call_Me_Ash
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, RoxieBear, Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Thorn, Toredon, Cap'n J, BxB, and Saviy
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Lily, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Arctic Foxglove,  Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Anthony, BoundHydrangea, Gator, Gizmo, and Ataleena
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, and Lexa
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist 
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zbTsAuBKTy4 )
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/46821214Mon, 04 Oct 2021 23:03:07 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 2/21/2021 / Published: 10/04/2021 - In this episode of The Krypt I am joined by a fellow lifestyle veteran and new YouTuber to discuss what you need to know about BDSM. - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at...
                                                                                                            - In this episode of The Krypt I am joined by a fellow lifestyle veteran and new YouTuber to discuss what you need to know about BDSM.
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -  “What you need to know about BDSM with CurtainCall-S03E33”
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/CurtainCall 
                                                                                                            is a long-time BDSM educator, munch leader, and a new YouTuber with a truly unique delivery. He is a mentor, a protector, and a friend to many. Please join us as The Krypt welcomes him into the YouTube space, learn the lessons he has to teach, and help him grow his channel to reach more people.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Ten Licks (Rapid Fire)
                                                                                                            1. How long have been into Kink?
                                                                                                            2. Top, bottom, or switch?  
                                                                                                            3. Relationship Status?  
                                                                                                            4. Dom, sub, or switch?  
                                                                                                            5. Favorite Implement?
                                                                                                            6. Favorite Roleplay?  
                                                                                                            7. Favorite kink or fetish?
                                                                                                            8. Favorite place for kink?  
                                                                                                            9. Strangest Place you've had sex?
                                                                                                            10. Something kinky on your bucket list?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Briefly: 
                                                                                                            Why did you decide to jump into producing BDSM content on YouTube?
                                                                                                            Where did you “cut your teeth”?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - For you, what is BDSM?
                                                                                                            - Let’s talk about some of your episodes:
                                                                                                            “Top Red Flags”
                                                                                                            “Vetting”
                                                                                                            “Identity”
                                                                                                            “Aftercare”
                                                                                                            “Should You Have a Fetlife Account”
                                                                                                            “Why Can’t I Find a Dominant”
                                                                                                            “Are You Doing it Wrong? The One True Way.”
                                                                                                            - Where do you want your channel to go?
                                                                                                            - What is that one piece of advice you tell every person?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/333
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon 
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication 
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month): 
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month): 
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, slave Brendan, and Just_Call_Me_Ash
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, RoxieBear, Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Thorn, Toredon, Cap'n J, BxB, and Saviy
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Lily, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Arctic Foxglove,  Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Anthony, BoundHydrangea, Gator, Gizmo, and Ataleena
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, and Lexa
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Become a show producer:
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                                                                                                            5875101,bdsm,curtaincall,education,live,youtubeyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/abuse-of-power-and-authority-in-bdsm-s03e32--46659227
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I, discuss a problem that is so common in the scene most people don’t even realize they do it; abuse of power and authority.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Abuse of Power and AuthorityBDSM-S03E32”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Abuse of Power, also known as Abuse of Authority, is defined as the use of one’s position to gain an unfair advantage over another outside of that position’s scope.
                                                                                                            To be clear, although writing about this can come across as more clinical and less dramatic, purposeful misuse of power is indeed a form of actual abuse, and its use should not be tolerated.
                                                                                                            Abuse of Power can be done in many ways, consciously or unconsciously, and can come from a variety of sources. Some examples of this include, but is not limited to:
                                                                                                            Using the Household name as a means of elevating one’s self in order to gain an unfair advantage over another
                                                                                                            Trying to exert power over something that was not negotiated or agreed upon.
                                                                                                            Using one’s title to inappropriately exert power over someone not in your sphere of influence.
                                                                                                            Pushing a scene further than you are capable of to “show off”
                                                                                                            Bullying or shaming
                                                                                                            Interjecting unwanted advice into another party’s conversation
                                                                                                            Shifting responsibility for a scene onto the other party if things don’t go well
                                                                                                            Being a “Protector” to someone and also being involved with them romantically or dynamically
                                                                                                            Using the dynamic as leverage against the relationship
                                                                                                            Changing rules or protocol to suit you without notifying, considering, or negotiating with the other party
                                                                                                            Purposely finding or creating loopholes in rules or protocol to suit you
                                                                                                            Purposely defying boundaries, triggers, or limits
                                                                                                            Pushing another to “pay” beyond their means (via time, money, energy, or other forms of “payments”) to be with you
                                                                                                            Withholding communication, sex, or dynamic (outside of negotiated terms) to get your way
                                                                                                            Using your position or title to justify doing something you shouldn’t have done
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Things to remember:
                                                                                                            Abuse of Power does not necessarily mean it is always directly related to a dynamic. Being a part of a Household or simply having many active years in the scene can very well make someone else feel like you hold more power and sway than they do, which makes it possible that this power can be abused.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            It does not always come from the top. Since what we engage in is a Power Exchange, bottoms hold a degree of power as well. Abuses of Power can come from a top, bottom, dominant, submissive, master, or slave. It can come from a well-seasoned kinkster who’s been in the scene for decades or the newbie just getting their feet wet. It can be wielded by anyone.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            When power is abused in the scene it can cause a multitude of problems, foremost of which is the victim who can suffer physically, mentally, psychologically, or even spiritually. As an abuse, the responsibility falls solely to the abuser, but the victim often carries the inner scars from it in the forms of distrust, depression, anxiety, and loss of self-worth amongst others.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            It is important to note that the primary concept here is that power has been used inappropriately. We must all be aware that each of us is capable of Abusing Power and should strive to use it appropriately.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            As a Mentor, you should be looking for an understanding of what Abuse of Power is fundamentally, who perpetrates it, and what issues can arise from it.
                                                                                                            https://www.familylifecanada.com/blog/the-misuse-of-power-in-relationships/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/332
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/PayPal
                                                                                                            https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/masterkuldrin
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, slave Brendan, and Just_Call_Me_Ash
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, RoxieBear, Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Thorn, Toredon, Cap'n J, and BxB
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Arctic Foxglove, Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Anthony, Gator, and Gizmo
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Lilly, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, MilkiyMilf, and Lexa
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zbTsAuBKTy4 )
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
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                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
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                                                                                                            Support the podcast]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/46659227Sun, 26 Sep 2021 14:59:12 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 2/14/2021 / Published: 09/26/2021 - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I, discuss a problem that is so common in the...
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I, discuss a problem that is so common in the scene most people don’t even realize they do it; abuse of power and authority.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Abuse of Power and AuthorityBDSM-S03E32”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Abuse of Power, also known as Abuse of Authority, is defined as the use of one’s position to gain an unfair advantage over another outside of that position’s scope.
                                                                                                            To be clear, although writing about this can come across as more clinical and less dramatic, purposeful misuse of power is indeed a form of actual abuse, and its use should not be tolerated.
                                                                                                            Abuse of Power can be done in many ways, consciously or unconsciously, and can come from a variety of sources. Some examples of this include, but is not limited to:
                                                                                                            Using the Household name as a means of elevating one’s self in order to gain an unfair advantage over another
                                                                                                            Trying to exert power over something that was not negotiated or agreed upon.
                                                                                                            Using one’s title to inappropriately exert power over someone not in your sphere of influence.
                                                                                                            Pushing a scene further than you are capable of to “show off”
                                                                                                            Bullying or shaming
                                                                                                            Interjecting unwanted advice into another party’s conversation
                                                                                                            Shifting responsibility for a scene onto the other party if things don’t go well
                                                                                                            Being a “Protector” to someone and also being involved with them romantically or dynamically
                                                                                                            Using the dynamic as leverage against the relationship
                                                                                                            Changing rules or protocol to suit you without notifying, considering, or negotiating with the other party
                                                                                                            Purposely finding or creating loopholes in rules or protocol to suit you
                                                                                                            Purposely defying boundaries, triggers, or limits
                                                                                                            Pushing another to “pay” beyond their means (via time, money, energy, or other forms of “payments”) to be with you
                                                                                                            Withholding communication, sex, or dynamic (outside of negotiated terms) to get your way
                                                                                                            Using your position or title to justify doing something you shouldn’t have done
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Things to remember:
                                                                                                            Abuse of Power does not necessarily mean it is always directly related to a dynamic. Being a part of a Household or simply having many active years in the scene can very well make someone else feel like you hold more power and sway than they do, which makes it possible that this power can be abused.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            It does not always come from the top. Since what we engage in is a Power Exchange, bottoms hold a degree of power as well. Abuses of Power can come from a top, bottom, dominant, submissive, master, or slave. It can come from a well-seasoned kinkster who’s been in the scene for decades or the newbie just getting their feet wet. It can be wielded by anyone.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            When power is abused in the scene it can cause a multitude of problems, foremost of which is the victim who can suffer physically, mentally, psychologically, or even spiritually. As an abuse, the responsibility falls solely to the abuser, but the victim often carries the inner scars from it in the forms of distrust, depression, anxiety, and loss of self-worth amongst others.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            It is important to note that the primary concept here is that power has been used inappropriately. We must all be aware that each of us is capable of Abusing Power and should strive to use it appropriately.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            As a Mentor, you should be looking for an...]]>5538101,absue,bdsm,dom,dominant,d/s,dynamic,education,master,m/s,relationship,slave,sub,submissiveyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bdsm-etiquette-dom-to-dom-communication-part-2-s03e31--46658393
                                                                                                            In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, Master Gabriel, and I are going to discuss BDSM Etiquette: Dom to Dom Communication Part 2.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. 
                                                                                                            1: Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            2: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            3: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            “BDSM Etiquette: Dom to Dom Communication Part 2-S03E31”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            A brief recap:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The dictionary defines Manners as:
                                                                                                            Ways of behaving with reference to polite standards.
                                                                                                            A way of acting, bearing, or behavior
                                                                                                            The socially correct way of acting.
                                                                                                            Manners really are important no matter what lifestyle you lead, it is the basic common courtesies which most people learn as they grow up. The please and thank you, not speaking with a mouthful of food, not interrupting a conversation, etc. All things that should apply in all situations.
                                                                                                            Protocols and Etiquette, though related to good manners, are really what many people associate with our lifestyle, and many scene people place great importance on both.
                                                                                                            What is a Protocol? What is Etiquette?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Protocol is defined as:
                                                                                                            A code of correct conduct
                                                                                                            The system of rules and acceptable behavior used at official ceremonies and occasions:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Etiquette is defined as:
                                                                                                            Conventional requirements as to social behavior.
                                                                                                            The set of rules or customs which control accepted behavior in particular social groups or social situations
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            From these definitions, it is obvious that protocols are more widely recognized as being official behavior, whereas etiquette is predominantly social behavior, but the basic element is the same, they are about correct behavior in certain situations.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The difference between a title and honorific.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Title: an earned position that has been granted by another.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Honorific: a name used by a subordinate as a sign of respect and to recognize the difference in position and status.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Let’s start at the beginning, introducing yourself?
                                                                                                            Public mixed playspaces
                                                                                                            Private/home/dark parties
                                                                                                            Charity events
                                                                                                            Dom to Dom Interactions
                                                                                                            Negotiating play with a partner, sub, or slave
                                                                                                            Post scene communication
                                                                                                            Dom to another’s sub or slave or to someone not collared?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/46658393Thu, 23 Sep 2021 22:29:43 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 2/7/2021 / Published: 9/23/2021 In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, Master Gabriel, and I are going to discuss BDSM Etiquette: Dom to Dom Communication Part 2. Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the...
                                                                                                            In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, Master Gabriel, and I are going to discuss BDSM Etiquette: Dom to Dom Communication Part 2.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. 
                                                                                                            1: Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            2: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            3: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            “BDSM Etiquette: Dom to Dom Communication Part 2-S03E31”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            A brief recap:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The dictionary defines Manners as:
                                                                                                            Ways of behaving with reference to polite standards.
                                                                                                            A way of acting, bearing, or behavior
                                                                                                            The socially correct way of acting.
                                                                                                            Manners really are important no matter what lifestyle you lead, it is the basic common courtesies which most people learn as they grow up. The please and thank you, not speaking with a mouthful of food, not interrupting a conversation, etc. All things that should apply in all situations.
                                                                                                            Protocols and Etiquette, though related to good manners, are really what many people associate with our lifestyle, and many scene people place great importance on both.
                                                                                                            What is a Protocol? What is Etiquette?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Protocol is defined as:
                                                                                                            A code of correct conduct
                                                                                                            The system of rules and acceptable behavior used at official ceremonies and occasions:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Etiquette is defined as:
                                                                                                            Conventional requirements as to social behavior.
                                                                                                            The set of rules or customs which control accepted behavior in particular social groups or social situations
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            From these definitions, it is obvious that protocols are more widely recognized as being official behavior, whereas etiquette is predominantly social behavior, but the basic element is the same, they are about correct behavior in certain situations.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The difference between a title and honorific.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Title: an earned position that has been granted by another.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Honorific: a name used by a subordinate as a sign of respect and to recognize the difference in position and status.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Let’s start at the beginning, introducing yourself?
                                                                                                            Public mixed playspaces
                                                                                                            Private/home/dark parties
                                                                                                            Charity events
                                                                                                            Dom to Dom Interactions
                                                                                                            Negotiating play with a partner, sub, or slave
                                                                                                            Post scene communication
                                                                                                            Dom to another’s sub or slave or to someone not collared?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/331
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                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven,...]]>5629101,communication,dom,dominant,education,submissive,toyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bdsm-etiquette-dom-to-dom-communication-part-1-s03e30--46592949
                                                                                                            - In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I, are going to figure out what BDSM Etiquette: Dom to Dom Communication is all about.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “BDSM Etiquette: Dom to Dom Communication Part 1-S03E30”
                                                                                                            - This is a topic that comes directly from a listener and is one that, in my experience, isn’t really talked about outside of mentorships, really good Dominant training classes, or after the fact when there has been an issue.
                                                                                                            - The listener, who consent to us using the messages as an example and wishes to remain anonymous, wrote:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “Question about Dom to Dom etiquette. I have a collared submissive that I allowed to play with a previous play partner (They were formerly D/s primary play partners, but she was not collared and did not need permission to play with others) This is the first time they have played since I collared my sub, it's been almost a year since they played.
                                                                                                            We have never met in person only chatted on Kik, our communication has been respectful and the morning of the playdate I posted the rules to our group chat (the three of us) and then said Both of you have a wonderful time today. That's the last communication we have had. It's been 24 hours since they ended play.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Now to my questions @Kuldrin and others
                                                                                                            1. What is the normal etiquette between Doms in this scenario?
                                                                                                            2. Am I wrong for expecting some sort of Thank you for allowing him to play with my Submissive or something similar? I would definitely thank the Dom that allowed me to play with his sub.
                                                                                                            3. If you were the other Dom would you have text anything after the playdate?
                                                                                                            4. I was already going to send a Thank you for taking care of my bg and following the rules, should I send that now anyway.
                                                                                                            I am open to any and all levels of advice input and/or criticism”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The dictionary defines Manners as:
                                                                                                            1: Ways of behaving with reference to polite standards.
                                                                                                            2: A way of acting, bearing, or behavior
                                                                                                            3: The socially correct way of acting.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            So what is a Protocol, and what is Etiquette?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Protocol is defined as:
                                                                                                            1: A code of correct conduct
                                                                                                            2: The system of rules and acceptable behavior used at official ceremonies and occasions:
                                                                                                            - Etiquette is defined as:
                                                                                                            1: Conventional requirements as to social behavior.
                                                                                                            2: The set of rules or customs which control accepted behavior in particular social groups or social situations
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            1: It sounds like you followed proper protocol. As far as etiquette, and keeping in mind I don’t know the time frame from start to finish, I would give a little longer notice on rules.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            2: No, you are not wrong. However, some people are void of social/common courtesies.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            3: Yes, I would have thanked you, assuring you all rules were followed or admitted to anyway I fucked up, and stated intentions of whether or not further play would be requested.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            4: If you did not add a post-scene conversation between you and him in the rules, you can't hold him to that standard. However, I would send a message saying something to the effect of "I didn't have this in the rules because I didn't realize it needed to be but I am disappointed you haven't reached back out to me to say 'Thank you', give me an update of how things went on your side, or state intentions of future play."
                                                                                                            Also, I would wait until it has been 48 hours and make it clear to my sub that she is not to say anything to him about it. That he either needs to come to the understanding naturally or receive that message from me at the 48-hour mark.
                                                                                                            But that's just my two cents.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - So, next week we are going to talk more in detail about general protocol and etiquette like “I’m new and this is my first time at a party or dungeon, do I introduce myself using a title? Do I call others by their title? What is the protocol for talking to a collared sub or slave that isn’t yours? How do I ask another Dom, Master, Owner, Handler, Tamer, to play with their charge?”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
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                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, slave Brendan, and Just_Call_Me_Ash
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, Alexandria, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, xxxLilyChaosxxx, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Thorn, Toredon, and Cap'n J
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/46592949Sun, 19 Sep 2021 21:05:18 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 1/31/2021 / Published: 9/19/2021 - In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I, are going to figure out what BDSM Etiquette: Dom to Dom Communication is all about. - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the...
                                                                                                            - In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I, are going to figure out what BDSM Etiquette: Dom to Dom Communication is all about.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “BDSM Etiquette: Dom to Dom Communication Part 1-S03E30”
                                                                                                            - This is a topic that comes directly from a listener and is one that, in my experience, isn’t really talked about outside of mentorships, really good Dominant training classes, or after the fact when there has been an issue.
                                                                                                            - The listener, who consent to us using the messages as an example and wishes to remain anonymous, wrote:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “Question about Dom to Dom etiquette. I have a collared submissive that I allowed to play with a previous play partner (They were formerly D/s primary play partners, but she was not collared and did not need permission to play with others) This is the first time they have played since I collared my sub, it's been almost a year since they played.
                                                                                                            We have never met in person only chatted on Kik, our communication has been respectful and the morning of the playdate I posted the rules to our group chat (the three of us) and then said Both of you have a wonderful time today. That's the last communication we have had. It's been 24 hours since they ended play.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Now to my questions @Kuldrin and others
                                                                                                            1. What is the normal etiquette between Doms in this scenario?
                                                                                                            2. Am I wrong for expecting some sort of Thank you for allowing him to play with my Submissive or something similar? I would definitely thank the Dom that allowed me to play with his sub.
                                                                                                            3. If you were the other Dom would you have text anything after the playdate?
                                                                                                            4. I was already going to send a Thank you for taking care of my bg and following the rules, should I send that now anyway.
                                                                                                            I am open to any and all levels of advice input and/or criticism”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The dictionary defines Manners as:
                                                                                                            1: Ways of behaving with reference to polite standards.
                                                                                                            2: A way of acting, bearing, or behavior
                                                                                                            3: The socially correct way of acting.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            So what is a Protocol, and what is Etiquette?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Protocol is defined as:
                                                                                                            1: A code of correct conduct
                                                                                                            2: The system of rules and acceptable behavior used at official ceremonies and occasions:
                                                                                                            - Etiquette is defined as:
                                                                                                            1: Conventional requirements as to social behavior.
                                                                                                            2: The set of rules or customs which control accepted behavior in particular social groups or social situations
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            1: It sounds like you followed proper protocol. As far as etiquette, and keeping in mind I don’t know the time frame from start to finish, I would give a little longer notice on rules.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            2: No, you are not wrong. However, some people are void of social/common courtesies.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            3: Yes, I would have thanked you, assuring you all rules were followed or admitted to anyway I fucked up, and stated intentions of whether or not further play would be requested.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            4: If you did not add a post-scene conversation between you and him in the rules, you can't hold him to that standard. However, I would send a message saying something to the effect of "I didn't have this in the rules because I didn't realize it needed to be but I am disappointed you haven't reached back out to me to say 'Thank you', give me an update of how things went on your side, or state intentions of future play."
                                                                                                            Also, I...]]>4500101,bdsm,communication,dom,dominant,education,etiquette,relationship,toyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/my-partner-has-a-fetish-that-s-not-for-me-s03e29--46466739
                                                                                                            - In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I, are going to figure out what we should do if our partner is into kinks and fetishes we are not into.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “My Partner Has a Fetish that's not for Me-S03E29”
                                                                                                            - Power dynamics come into play in ALL relationships to a degree.
                                                                                                            - Just because someone is dominant or submissive in the bedroom does not mean they are the same or opposite their day-to-day life. What happens in the bedroom doesn’t always reveal much about a person’s personality.
                                                                                                            - Many studies have shown that 80% of the population are switches. It is typically the situation or the other personalities around you that determine which side of the slash you take in the moment.
                                                                                                            - Before getting into the fun stuff, like communication and consent, let’s go ahead and knock out some red flags that need to be remembered. Red Flags for which to look:
                                                                                                            - In all circumstances, if you feel uneasy or scared, that is a sign you should either discuss some boundaries with your partner or reconsider your participation. While practices of rough sex and BDSM can be considered on the verge of violent play if at any moment you feel threatened or as though things have gone too far, it is important to stop.
                                                                                                            - If your instincts are making you feel uneasy.
                                                                                                            - If your partner threatens violence if you do not submit.
                                                                                                            - If you have ever felt as though the experience was more like rape or sexual assault.
                                                                                                            - If your partner makes you feel ugly or unwanted or treats you with disrespect.
                                                                                                            - If your basic needs are not being met, e.g., if they withhold things like medical treatment, water, food or clothing.
                                                                                                            - Communication: If you’re curious about BDSM, rough sex, or any other fetish that incorporates power play, communication is absolutely crucial, whether it’s with your partner in a committed relationship or something more casual. It also needs to be done preemptively, not in reaction to something.
                                                                                                            - Don’t wait until things feel uncomfortable.
                                                                                                            - Layout boundaries prior to engaging. Then once you get into playing, if you feel as though you may have misjudged things, it will be mentally easier for you to communicate that you have changed your mind about participating.
                                                                                                            It’s still a success if there is no harm done and everyone communicates openly and honestly.
                                                                                                            - Talking about boundaries with your partner doesn’t have to be awkward or uncomfortable, in fact, it can be sexy. You can go into explicit details around what you like and consider using the exercise as a way of foreplay.
                                                                                                            - Consent IS non-negotiable!
                                                                                                            - What if they’re into it and I’m not?
                                                                                                            It is normal for couples’ interests to not completely match up. However, it can get complicated when the different interests are in the bedroom or day-to-day dynamic.
                                                                                                            The best thing people can do is focus on the communication side of things. By being open and having a willingness to explore and communicate, you can both figure out a way to satisfy desires.
                                                                                                            - BUT, no, seriously, what if we just can’t make it work?
                                                                                                            In this case, if this is a long-term relationship, I strongly suggest finding a kink-friendly relationship counselor to help navigate the following options. If it's a brand new relationship, you might want to consider just being friends before more feelings start to erupt.
                                                                                                            Open relationship?
                                                                                                            Polyamoury?
                                                                                                            Dedicated play partners?
                                                                                                            Then maybe that relationship isn’t the right one for you.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/329
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, slave Brendan, and Just_Call_Me_Ash
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, Alexandria, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, xxxLilyChaosxxx, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Thorn, Toredon, and Cap'n J
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, KJ, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Arctic Foxglove, LilRedRose, Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Anthony, BoundHydrangea, Gator, and Gizmo
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, and MilkyMilf
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/46466739Fri, 10 Sep 2021 23:41:54 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 1/24/2021 - In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I, are going to figure out what we should do if our partner is into kinks and fetishes we are not into. - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt...
                                                                                                            - In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I, are going to figure out what we should do if our partner is into kinks and fetishes we are not into.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “My Partner Has a Fetish that's not for Me-S03E29”
                                                                                                            - Power dynamics come into play in ALL relationships to a degree.
                                                                                                            - Just because someone is dominant or submissive in the bedroom does not mean they are the same or opposite their day-to-day life. What happens in the bedroom doesn’t always reveal much about a person’s personality.
                                                                                                            - Many studies have shown that 80% of the population are switches. It is typically the situation or the other personalities around you that determine which side of the slash you take in the moment.
                                                                                                            - Before getting into the fun stuff, like communication and consent, let’s go ahead and knock out some red flags that need to be remembered. Red Flags for which to look:
                                                                                                            - In all circumstances, if you feel uneasy or scared, that is a sign you should either discuss some boundaries with your partner or reconsider your participation. While practices of rough sex and BDSM can be considered on the verge of violent play if at any moment you feel threatened or as though things have gone too far, it is important to stop.
                                                                                                            - If your instincts are making you feel uneasy.
                                                                                                            - If your partner threatens violence if you do not submit.
                                                                                                            - If you have ever felt as though the experience was more like rape or sexual assault.
                                                                                                            - If your partner makes you feel ugly or unwanted or treats you with disrespect.
                                                                                                            - If your basic needs are not being met, e.g., if they withhold things like medical treatment, water, food or clothing.
                                                                                                            - Communication: If you’re curious about BDSM, rough sex, or any other fetish that incorporates power play, communication is absolutely crucial, whether it’s with your partner in a committed relationship or something more casual. It also needs to be done preemptively, not in reaction to something.
                                                                                                            - Don’t wait until things feel uncomfortable.
                                                                                                            - Layout boundaries prior to engaging. Then once you get into playing, if you feel as though you may have misjudged things, it will be mentally easier for you to communicate that you have changed your mind about participating.
                                                                                                            It’s still a success if there is no harm done and everyone communicates openly and honestly.
                                                                                                            - Talking about boundaries with your partner doesn’t have to be awkward or uncomfortable, in fact, it can be sexy. You can go into explicit details around what you like and consider using the exercise as a way of foreplay.
                                                                                                            - Consent IS non-negotiable!
                                                                                                            - What if they’re into it and I’m not?
                                                                                                            It is normal for couples’ interests to not completely match up. However, it can get complicated when the different interests are in the bedroom or day-to-day dynamic.
                                                                                                            The best thing people can do is focus on the communication side of things. By being open and having a willingness to explore and communicate, you can both figure out a way to satisfy desires.
                                                                                                            - BUT, no, seriously, what if we just can’t make it work?
                                                                                                            In this case, if this is a long-term relationship, I strongly suggest finding a kink-friendly relationship counselor to help navigate the following options. If it's a brand new relationship, you might want to consider just being friends before more feelings start to erupt.
                                                                                                            Open relationship?
                                                                                                            Polyamoury?4553bdsm,education,fetish,help,kink,relationship,selfyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/solo-bdsm-play-s03e28--46335703- In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I, are going to talk about solo BDSM play; a topic that was sparked by a fet message I received from MorIsrael.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Solo BDSM Play-S03E28”
                                                                                                            - There are a lot of reasons someone would want to, need to, or prefer to play alone. Let’s break these areas down and see what kind of advice we and the chatroom can come up with to help people out.
                                                                                                            - Some people just want to play alone.
                                                                                                            - Some people just aren’t ready to come out of their kink closet.
                                                                                                            - The time it takes to find a partner these days can be quite time-consuming and not everyone has the availability to find someone.
                                                                                                            - They haven’t found someone that shares their kink.
                                                                                                            - Proximity to others that share their kinks and fetishes.
                                                                                                            - Besides being single or living in an area where a social kink community is nonexistent, there are a lot of people with social anxiety, depression, covid fears, and health issues that prevent them from meeting others.
                                                                                                            - Unfortunately, trauma-based distrust is another reason an alarming number of people won’t or can’t play with others.
                                                                                                            Finally, maybe their kink doesn’t require another person.
                                                                                                            - So now that we have the why let’s get into the how on few areas of play. Trigger warning: We will be discussing self-harming behaviors and briefly talking about the fine line between healthy, “healthy-ish”, and unhealthy behaviors.
                                                                                                            - Rope: Self-tying
                                                                                                            - Impact: Self-flagellation
                                                                                                            - Wax: It can still be soothing and relaxing.
                                                                                                            - Humiliation and degradation: Mirrors and markers, making yourself perform tasks that fulfill this need. Eat from the floor or out of a dog bowl, ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Fire: This one is an easy one to play with alone but a hard one to do it safely since a spotter is a requirement for safe fire play. However, some people have found that going outside the BDSM community for other firebugs is a great way to have this need fulfilled. Burners.
                                                                                                            Knife: This one can be tricky for those that have a history of self-harming behavior.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Primal: While you can’t really go on a primal hunt for yourself and be both predator and prey, it is possible to have a pretty satisfying primal experience alone because it is a state of mind. I have witnessed some pretty amazing solo scenes both in realistic porn and in dungeons of people breaking out their favorite toys and getting into a primal headspace clawing, scratching, and biting themselves while growling and masturbating with anything from their hands or basic toys to fantasy custom toys. One person particular that comes to mind hit a deep primal headspace, started howling, proceeded to rearrange the room by knocking things over in an animalistic way until she found something that appealed to her and she humped it to completion.
                                                                                                            Self/autoerotic asphyliation
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            NEVER EVER DO THIS!!! IT IS HOW PEOPLE DIE!!!
                                                                                                            - Healthy, healthy-ish, and unhealthy behaviors.
                                                                                                            Healthy: there is no desire to experience pain to cope with stress.
                                                                                                            Healthy-ish: There is another person administering the pain to assist in the moment and with aftercare.
                                                                                                            Unhealthy: The sole focus is to cope with emotional pain through the process of self-harm.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Safety Plan:
                                                                                                            Safe calls before and after solo play.
                                                                                                            First aid kit close by that includes burn ointment and safety shears.
                                                                                                            Keep your phone where you can reach it and use it at all times.
                                                                                                            Figure out an aftercare plan BEFORE you play.
                                                                                                            Before you ever start have your personal and predetermined safety plan in place.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/328
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, slave Brendan, and Just_Call_Me_Ash
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, Alexandria, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, xxxLilyChaosxxx, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Thorn, and Toredon
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, KJ, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Arctic Foxglove, LilRedRose, Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, and Anthony
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, and MilkyMilf
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
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                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
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                                                                                                            CLAIM=b7a7f30790814e294b29fb256c1dbc539177ed57=CLAIM]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/46335703Wed, 01 Sep 2021 22:16:06 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 1/17/2020 / Published: 9/01/2021 - In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I, are going to talk about solo BDSM play; a topic that was sparked by a fet message I received from MorIsrael. - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave...- In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I, are going to talk about solo BDSM play; a topic that was sparked by a fet message I received from MorIsrael.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Solo BDSM Play-S03E28”
                                                                                                            - There are a lot of reasons someone would want to, need to, or prefer to play alone. Let’s break these areas down and see what kind of advice we and the chatroom can come up with to help people out.
                                                                                                            - Some people just want to play alone.
                                                                                                            - Some people just aren’t ready to come out of their kink closet.
                                                                                                            - The time it takes to find a partner these days can be quite time-consuming and not everyone has the availability to find someone.
                                                                                                            - They haven’t found someone that shares their kink.
                                                                                                            - Proximity to others that share their kinks and fetishes.
                                                                                                            - Besides being single or living in an area where a social kink community is nonexistent, there are a lot of people with social anxiety, depression, covid fears, and health issues that prevent them from meeting others.
                                                                                                            - Unfortunately, trauma-based distrust is another reason an alarming number of people won’t or can’t play with others.
                                                                                                            Finally, maybe their kink doesn’t require another person.
                                                                                                            - So now that we have the why let’s get into the how on few areas of play. Trigger warning: We will be discussing self-harming behaviors and briefly talking about the fine line between healthy, “healthy-ish”, and unhealthy behaviors.
                                                                                                            - Rope: Self-tying
                                                                                                            - Impact: Self-flagellation
                                                                                                            - Wax: It can still be soothing and relaxing.
                                                                                                            - Humiliation and degradation: Mirrors and markers, making yourself perform tasks that fulfill this need. Eat from the floor or out of a dog bowl, ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Fire: This one is an easy one to play with alone but a hard one to do it safely since a spotter is a requirement for safe fire play. However, some people have found that going outside the BDSM community for other firebugs is a great way to have this need fulfilled. Burners.
                                                                                                            Knife: This one can be tricky for those that have a history of self-harming behavior.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Primal: While you can’t really go on a primal hunt for yourself and be both predator and prey, it is possible to have a pretty satisfying primal experience alone because it is a state of mind. I have witnessed some pretty amazing solo scenes both in realistic porn and in dungeons of people breaking out their favorite toys and getting into a primal headspace clawing, scratching, and biting themselves while growling and masturbating with anything from their hands or basic toys to fantasy custom toys. One person particular that comes to mind hit a deep primal headspace, started howling, proceeded to rearrange the room by knocking things over in an animalistic way until she found something that appealed to her and she humped it to completion.
                                                                                                            Self/autoerotic asphyliation
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            NEVER EVER DO THIS!!! IT IS HOW PEOPLE DIE!!!
                                                                                                            - Healthy, healthy-ish, and unhealthy behaviors.
                                                                                                            Healthy: there is no desire to experience pain to cope with stress.
                                                                                                            Healthy-ish: There is another person administering the pain to assist in the moment and with aftercare.
                                                                                                            Unhealthy: The sole focus is to cope with emotional pain through the process of self-harm.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Safety Plan:
                                                                                                            Safe calls before and after solo play.
                                                                                                            First aid kit close by that includes burn ointment and safety...]]>5325bdsm,education,impact,kink,medical,play,rope,safety,shibari,soloyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/best-bdsm-toys-to-spice-up-power-play-s03e27--46193329
                                                                                                            - In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I, are going to spice things up and talk about some of our favorite and least favorite BDSM toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “17 Best BDSM Toys to Spice Up Power Play” By Gina Vaynshteyn, Jan 7, 2021
                                                                                                            - https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/17-best-bdsm-toys-spice-211421334.html
                                                                                                            1: Lynx Satin Mask/Blindfold
                                                                                                            2: Bordeaux & Chocolate Massage Candle
                                                                                                            3: Sportsheets S&M Kinky Pinky Cuffs
                                                                                                            4: Love Egg Vibrator
                                                                                                            5: Dark Side of the Rainbow Kit
                                                                                                            6: Spanking paddle
                                                                                                            7: Bijoux Indiscrets MAZE Tassel Flogger
                                                                                                            8: CalExotics Advanced Nipple Suckers
                                                                                                            9: Spartacus Adjustable Tweezer Nipple Clamps
                                                                                                            10: Black Feather Tickler Toy
                                                                                                            11: Sportsheets Saffron Leash & Collar
                                                                                                            12: Bondage Rope
                                                                                                            13: Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Pleasure Tape
                                                                                                            14: New Sensations Novelties Sinful Ball Gag
                                                                                                            15: Under The Bed Restraint System
                                                                                                            16: Master Series Obedience Extreme Sex Bench with Restraint Straps
                                                                                                            17: Please Arousal Cream
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Mayfair’s LIst of Favorites:
                                                                                                            1: Hair Pulling/Growling/Breathe Play (Primal)
                                                                                                            2: Rope
                                                                                                            3: Knives
                                                                                                            4: Barehanded spanking apparently
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Least
                                                                                                            1: Buffalo floggers
                                                                                                            2: 12th gate
                                                                                                            3: Thing Tommy made for you IDK name.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/327
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, slave Brendan, and Just_Call_Me_Ash
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, Alexandria, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, JohnathonHood, Crystal Force, xxxLilyChaosxxx, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Thorn, and Toredon
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, KJ, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Arctic Foxglove, LilRedRose, Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, and Anthony
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, and MilkyMilf
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
                                                                                                            - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fire
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/46193329Sun, 22 Aug 2021 16:34:51 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 1/10/2020 / Published: 08/22/2021 - In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I, are going to spice things up and talk about some of our favorite and least favorite BDSM toys. - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question...
                                                                                                            - In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I, are going to spice things up and talk about some of our favorite and least favorite BDSM toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “17 Best BDSM Toys to Spice Up Power Play” By Gina Vaynshteyn, Jan 7, 2021
                                                                                                            - https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/17-best-bdsm-toys-spice-211421334.html
                                                                                                            1: Lynx Satin Mask/Blindfold
                                                                                                            2: Bordeaux & Chocolate Massage Candle
                                                                                                            3: Sportsheets S&M Kinky Pinky Cuffs
                                                                                                            4: Love Egg Vibrator
                                                                                                            5: Dark Side of the Rainbow Kit
                                                                                                            6: Spanking paddle
                                                                                                            7: Bijoux Indiscrets MAZE Tassel Flogger
                                                                                                            8: CalExotics Advanced Nipple Suckers
                                                                                                            9: Spartacus Adjustable Tweezer Nipple Clamps
                                                                                                            10: Black Feather Tickler Toy
                                                                                                            11: Sportsheets Saffron Leash & Collar
                                                                                                            12: Bondage Rope
                                                                                                            13: Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Pleasure Tape
                                                                                                            14: New Sensations Novelties Sinful Ball Gag
                                                                                                            15: Under The Bed Restraint System
                                                                                                            16: Master Series Obedience Extreme Sex Bench with Restraint Straps
                                                                                                            17: Please Arousal Cream
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Mayfair’s LIst of Favorites:
                                                                                                            1: Hair Pulling/Growling/Breathe Play (Primal)
                                                                                                            2: Rope
                                                                                                            3: Knives
                                                                                                            4: Barehanded spanking apparently
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Least
                                                                                                            1: Buffalo floggers
                                                                                                            2: 12th gate
                                                                                                            3: Thing Tommy made for you IDK name.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to dive into the little know behind the scenes aspect of the movie “Secretary” and hear what Maggie Gyllenhaal and James Spader had to say about BDSM and some unexpected onset aftercare needs.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “‘Secretary’: Maggie Gyllenhaal Once Broke Down on the Set After Her Infamous Spanking Scene With James Spader” By Laura Dorwart, December 14, 2020
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/secretary-maggie-gyllenhaal-once-broke-down-on-the-set-after-her-infamous-spanking-scene-with-james-spader.html/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Maggie Gyllenhaal, Jake Gyllenhaal’s sister, had already appeared in movies like Mona Lisa Smile and Donnie Darko when she landed the lead role of Lee Holloway in the 2002 erotic dark comedy Secretary. But it was this starring role, alongside James Spader as E. Edward Grey (yes, another Mr. Grey!), that made then-24-year-old Gyllenhaal a breakout star.
                                                                                                            Secretary – which was written by Erin Cressida Wilson, directed by Steven Shainberg, and based on a short story by Mary Gaitskill – became a critically-acclaimed cult classic after it premiered at the Sundance Film Festival. The film follows Lee, a shy secretary who was recently hospitalized for self-harm and depression, through her journey of self-discovery amid an intense relationship based around power exchange and BDSM practices with her boss (Mr. Grey, a dominant and eccentric attorney).
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Gyllenhaal said ‘Secretary’ allowed her to explore a hidden side of herself
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Spader thought the spanking scene was done tastefully and ‘with great care’
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Gyllenhaal once felt ‘overwhelmed’ after one take of the scene
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, KJ, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Jace, LilRedRose, Felix, Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, and Subx13
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                                                                                                            - http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            -Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners* TinksToys13
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/46088046Sat, 14 Aug 2021 02:01:55 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 12/20/2020 / Published: 08/13/2021 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/contact In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to dive into the little know...
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/contact
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to dive into the little know behind the scenes aspect of the movie “Secretary” and hear what Maggie Gyllenhaal and James Spader had to say about BDSM and some unexpected onset aftercare needs.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “‘Secretary’: Maggie Gyllenhaal Once Broke Down on the Set After Her Infamous Spanking Scene With James Spader” By Laura Dorwart, December 14, 2020
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/secretary-maggie-gyllenhaal-once-broke-down-on-the-set-after-her-infamous-spanking-scene-with-james-spader.html/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Maggie Gyllenhaal, Jake Gyllenhaal’s sister, had already appeared in movies like Mona Lisa Smile and Donnie Darko when she landed the lead role of Lee Holloway in the 2002 erotic dark comedy Secretary. But it was this starring role, alongside James Spader as E. Edward Grey (yes, another Mr. Grey!), that made then-24-year-old Gyllenhaal a breakout star.
                                                                                                            Secretary – which was written by Erin Cressida Wilson, directed by Steven Shainberg, and based on a short story by Mary Gaitskill – became a critically-acclaimed cult classic after it premiered at the Sundance Film Festival. The film follows Lee, a shy secretary who was recently hospitalized for self-harm and depression, through her journey of self-discovery amid an intense relationship based around power exchange and BDSM practices with her boss (Mr. Grey, a dominant and eccentric attorney).
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Gyllenhaal said ‘Secretary’ allowed her to explore a hidden side of herself
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Spader thought the spanking scene was done tastefully and ‘with great care’
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Gyllenhaal once felt ‘overwhelmed’ after one take of the scene
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
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                                                                                                            In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to discuss the joys of adult movies and 2 articles about the latest screw-up by the adult website Pornhub.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Why Pornhub Might Get Shut Down-S03E25
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Pornhub removes most of its videos in effort to purge illegal content” By Noah Manskar, December 14, 2020 https://nypost.com/2020/12/14/pornhub-removes-millions-of-videos-in-illegal-content-purge/
                                                                                                            Pornhub appears to have removed most of the smutty videos from its site, apparently taking down more than 10 million of them as part of its recent crackdown on illegal content.
                                                                                                            The purge marked a massive shift in the porn site’s approach to content moderation amid pressure from
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Ex-Pornhub moderator details ‘weird excuses’ to keep sick videos online” By Nicolas Vega, December 17, 2020 https://nypost.com/2020/12/17/ex-pornhub-moderator-details-weird-excuses-to-keep-videos-online/
                                                                                                            A former Pornhub moderator has come forward to reveal the lax policies and unusual measures the smut site took to enable illegal and disturbing content to flourish.
                                                                                                            In an interview with Business Insider, an ex-moderator for parent company MindGeek said
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, Alexandria, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, JohnathonHood, Crystal Force, xxxLilyChaosxxx, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, and Thorn
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, KJ, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Jace, LilRedRose, Felix, Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, and Subx13
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, and MilkyMilf
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            -Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners* TinksToys13
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/45956935Tue, 03 Aug 2021 22:37:34 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 12/20/2020 / Published: 8/03/2021 In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to discuss the joys of adult movies and 2 articles about the latest screw-up by the adult website Pornhub. Call in at 865-268-4005 to...
                                                                                                            In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to discuss the joys of adult movies and 2 articles about the latest screw-up by the adult website Pornhub.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Why Pornhub Might Get Shut Down-S03E25
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Pornhub removes most of its videos in effort to purge illegal content” By Noah Manskar, December 14, 2020 https://nypost.com/2020/12/14/pornhub-removes-millions-of-videos-in-illegal-content-purge/
                                                                                                            Pornhub appears to have removed most of the smutty videos from its site, apparently taking down more than 10 million of them as part of its recent crackdown on illegal content.
                                                                                                            The purge marked a massive shift in the porn site’s approach to content moderation amid pressure from
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Ex-Pornhub moderator details ‘weird excuses’ to keep sick videos online” By Nicolas Vega, December 17, 2020 https://nypost.com/2020/12/17/ex-pornhub-moderator-details-weird-excuses-to-keep-videos-online/
                                                                                                            A former Pornhub moderator has come forward to reveal the lax policies and unusual measures the smut site took to enable illegal and disturbing content to flourish.
                                                                                                            In an interview with Business Insider, an ex-moderator for parent company MindGeek said
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/325
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
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                                                                                                            - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
                                                                                                            - Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, slave Brendan, and Just_Call_Me_Ash
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, Alexandria, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, JohnathonHood, Crystal Force, xxxLilyChaosxxx, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, and Thorn
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, KJ, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Jace, LilRedRose, Felix, Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, and Subx13
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, and MilkyMilf
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - 5131adult,bdsm,clips,dom,dominant,master,movie,porn,pornhub,slave,sub,submissive,videoyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-is-a-bdsm-switch-by-cosmo-s03e24--45673371Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to discuss another article published by Cosmopolitan about BDSM switches
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - What is a BDSM Switch by Cosmo-S03E24
                                                                                                            “Let's Discuss What You Need to Know About Being a BDSM Switch: It's like a lil bit of dominant + a lil bit of submissive” by Rachel Varina, Nov 20, 2020
                                                                                                            - https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a34740571/what-is-a-switch-bdsm/
                                                                                                            - “A top is simply someone who leads/guides the scene and the bottom is there to receive the experience,” explains Mistress Rogue, professional dominatrix and headmistress of The Dom House. (The dominant and submissive terms can also be used when there’s a power dynamic as well.) And while you might be most familiar with what a dominant and submissive do, there’s another term you might not be as familiar with: a switch. Let's dive deeper.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - What is a BDSM switch?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - How do you know if you're a switch?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - What are the perks of switching?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Are there any downsides or risks?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Now, here's how to try switching for the first time
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/45673371Tue, 13 Jul 2021 00:34:19 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 12/06/2020 / Published: 7/12/2020 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to discuss another article published by...Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to discuss another article published by Cosmopolitan about BDSM switches
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - What is a BDSM Switch by Cosmo-S03E24
                                                                                                            “Let's Discuss What You Need to Know About Being a BDSM Switch: It's like a lil bit of dominant + a lil bit of submissive” by Rachel Varina, Nov 20, 2020
                                                                                                            - https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a34740571/what-is-a-switch-bdsm/
                                                                                                            - “A top is simply someone who leads/guides the scene and the bottom is there to receive the experience,” explains Mistress Rogue, professional dominatrix and headmistress of The Dom House. (The dominant and submissive terms can also be used when there’s a power dynamic as well.) And while you might be most familiar with what a dominant and submissive do, there’s another term you might not be as familiar with: a switch. Let's dive deeper.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - What is a BDSM switch?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - How do you know if you're a switch?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - What are the perks of switching?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Are there any downsides or risks?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Now, here's how to try switching for the first time
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to talk about a letter of experience and caution sent in by a listener telling his personal recent experience with red flags and respecting boundaries.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Red Flags and Respecting Boundaries-S03E23
                                                                                                            - A listener message titled “Want to Say Thank You” sent to me by CourtsDom69 on December 6, 2020.
                                                                                                            - Kuldrin,
                                                                                                            I wanted to take a minute and say thank you. I grew up ultra vanilla and found myself at age 44 in a relationship with a more experienced partner, OopsCourtDidIt exploring areas of sexuality I never knew existed.
                                                                                                            Courtney had been expressing a desire for BDSM play and told me about her past experiences in the lifestyle. Being eager to please her, I began to do research and learn what I could. I was blown away by the amount of BDSM stuff available on the web (I have never watched 50 shades!)
                                                                                                            Thankfully, I came across your Podcast which has been my predominant source of information.
                                                                                                            Court and I discussed options for play and learning and were both interested in being dominated by a male and a female, I wanted to experience being a bottom/submissive to fully appreciate that aspect from a multisensory perspective.
                                                                                                            We both had reached out to perspective dominant types to engage them in discussion to see if there was an interest, we found one person that was local. The relationship started by Courtney expressing our desires and my willingness to learn and this couple had a dominant husband who liked the idea.
                                                                                                            We decided to meet for dinner one evening a couple of weeks ago to talk and exchange thoughts. The dominant's wife would not be joining the dinner and had started a new relationship with another dominant outside of their marriage, she wasn't able to connect to her husband as a complete submissive and wanted to explore this dynamic.
                                                                                                            I expressed to Courtney that I still wanted to remain focused on what we initially discussed regarding both being dominated. Will, the dominant suggested another female play partner attend the dinner to see what developed.
                                                                                                            In the first meeting with Will, he brought Courtney a dozen roses, an app-controlled vibrator, a handmade wooden paddle, and a professionally bound BDSM contract. The dinner went okay and I had good conversations with both Will and Sasha whom Will had invited.
                                                                                                            Will appeared very confident in his domination experience and I could see Courtney was excited at this prospect, so I remained open-minded. Will also had an app that he used with Courtney called Obedience, complete with goals, rewards, and punishments, I found it very interesting and it helped me understand some of the beneficial psychology of a Dom/Sub dynamic and it helped me understand how to start, progress and end a scene.
                                                                                                            I was not overly comfortable with the dynamic Will wanted with Courtney, I did remain open-minded and in good communication with Courtney. The first time I sat down to review the "contract" I physically got sick to my stomach. I hated just about everything that was in there and as much as I tried, I couldn't shake the feeling. I wrestled with exactly what I was feeling and knew what some of my reservations were and could only describe my feelings as "being put onto a rollercoaster that had previously crashed on me twice, killing two relationships".
                                                                                                            I was married twice before (a major no-no in my uber-religious upbringing) and both marriages ended based largely on the advice my ex-wives received from counselor's. In fact, my first wife remarried our marriage counselor, so my distrust was justifiable.
                                                                                                            I respected the psychology of the Dom/Sub dynamic and viewed it from a more of a therapeutic aspect and have an appreciation of the superior/inferior dynamic and this dynamic is what made me nervous.
                                                                                                            Courtney made Will aware of my hesitations and concerns and we agreed to meet again for dinner.
                                                                                                            ...Read the entire letter at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/323
                                                                                                            Much love and respect,
                                                                                                            CourtsDom69 (Ps you have our permission to read this on your cast, just not my last name please)
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
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                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
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                                                                                                            Limit and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/45453024Sat, 26 Jun 2021 02:08:28 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 12/06/2020 / Published: 6/25/2021 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to talk about a letter of experience...
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to talk about a letter of experience and caution sent in by a listener telling his personal recent experience with red flags and respecting boundaries.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Red Flags and Respecting Boundaries-S03E23
                                                                                                            - A listener message titled “Want to Say Thank You” sent to me by CourtsDom69 on December 6, 2020.
                                                                                                            - Kuldrin,
                                                                                                            I wanted to take a minute and say thank you. I grew up ultra vanilla and found myself at age 44 in a relationship with a more experienced partner, OopsCourtDidIt exploring areas of sexuality I never knew existed.
                                                                                                            Courtney had been expressing a desire for BDSM play and told me about her past experiences in the lifestyle. Being eager to please her, I began to do research and learn what I could. I was blown away by the amount of BDSM stuff available on the web (I have never watched 50 shades!)
                                                                                                            Thankfully, I came across your Podcast which has been my predominant source of information.
                                                                                                            Court and I discussed options for play and learning and were both interested in being dominated by a male and a female, I wanted to experience being a bottom/submissive to fully appreciate that aspect from a multisensory perspective.
                                                                                                            We both had reached out to perspective dominant types to engage them in discussion to see if there was an interest, we found one person that was local. The relationship started by Courtney expressing our desires and my willingness to learn and this couple had a dominant husband who liked the idea.
                                                                                                            We decided to meet for dinner one evening a couple of weeks ago to talk and exchange thoughts. The dominant's wife would not be joining the dinner and had started a new relationship with another dominant outside of their marriage, she wasn't able to connect to her husband as a complete submissive and wanted to explore this dynamic.
                                                                                                            I expressed to Courtney that I still wanted to remain focused on what we initially discussed regarding both being dominated. Will, the dominant suggested another female play partner attend the dinner to see what developed.
                                                                                                            In the first meeting with Will, he brought Courtney a dozen roses, an app-controlled vibrator, a handmade wooden paddle, and a professionally bound BDSM contract. The dinner went okay and I had good conversations with both Will and Sasha whom Will had invited.
                                                                                                            Will appeared very confident in his domination experience and I could see Courtney was excited at this prospect, so I remained open-minded. Will also had an app that he used with Courtney called Obedience, complete with goals, rewards, and punishments, I found it very interesting and it helped me understand some of the beneficial psychology of a Dom/Sub dynamic and it helped me understand how to start, progress and end a scene.
                                                                                                            I was not overly comfortable with the dynamic Will wanted with Courtney, I did remain open-minded and in good communication with Courtney. The first time I sat down to review the "contract" I physically got sick to my stomach. I hated just about everything that was in there and as much as I tried, I couldn't shake the feeling. I wrestled with exactly what I was feeling and knew what some of my reservations were and could only describe my feelings as "being put onto a rollercoaster that had previously crashed on me twice, killing two relationships".
                                                                                                            I was married twice before...]]>5588bdsm,dom,dominant,d/s,dynamic,education,flags,master,red,slave,sub,submissive,warningclean3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/myths-about-bdsm-you-need-to-stop-believing-s03e22--45268731In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to talk about four BDSM myths that simply are not true.
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1) Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2) KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3) “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Four Myths About BDSM You Need to Stop Believing-S03E22
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Original Article by Canela López and Julia Naftulin Nov 16, 2020
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -(https://www.insider.com/myths-about-bdsm-according-to-kink-specialists-2020-2?fbclid=IwAR3-QNCNawRCIv0MZe0pRZQknCIh3zg8UdBzSybgRIwdVGIzipz0beTxMjo)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Here are some of the biggest myths about BDSM, according to kink experts. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            1: Myth: People who like BDSM are sexual deviants and freaks.
                                                                                                            - Whether they're the butt of the joke on shows like "Skins" or openly condemned by the general public, people who engage in BDSM, kink, and fetish sex have historically been seen as weird or grotesque.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            2: Myth: People who like BDSM are traumatized.
                                                                                                            - One of the most common misconceptions about BDSM and kink sex is that people who enjoy it must have been victims of childhood abuse or trauma. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            3: Myth: All BDSM has a dominatrix and a submissive.
                                                                                                            - BDSM sexual and lifestyle practices vary greatly beyond the dominatrix and submissive dynamic, including humiliation (being mocked by degrading language), electroplay (being shocked by an electrical source), and gagging. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            4: Myth: BDSM is just about sex.
                                                                                                            - While sexual dynamics are oftentimes between two people, people who engage in BDSM or fetish sex can form larger communities of support — making their sexual practices go beyond sex. 
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, JohnathonHood, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, and PerfectlyThick
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, KJ, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Jace, LilRedRose, Felix, Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, and WyldThyme & Deacon Sean
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, and Brodie
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist 
                                                                                                            -Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners* TinkdToys13
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/45268731Sat, 12 Jun 2021 01:15:01 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 11/29/2020 /  Published: 6/11/2021 In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to talk about four BDSM myths that simply are not true. Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at...In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to talk about four BDSM myths that simply are not true.
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1) Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2) KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3) “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Four Myths About BDSM You Need to Stop Believing-S03E22
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Original Article by Canela López and Julia Naftulin Nov 16, 2020
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -(https://www.insider.com/myths-about-bdsm-according-to-kink-specialists-2020-2?fbclid=IwAR3-QNCNawRCIv0MZe0pRZQknCIh3zg8UdBzSybgRIwdVGIzipz0beTxMjo)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Here are some of the biggest myths about BDSM, according to kink experts. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            1: Myth: People who like BDSM are sexual deviants and freaks.
                                                                                                            - Whether they're the butt of the joke on shows like "Skins" or openly condemned by the general public, people who engage in BDSM, kink, and fetish sex have historically been seen as weird or grotesque.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            2: Myth: People who like BDSM are traumatized.
                                                                                                            - One of the most common misconceptions about BDSM and kink sex is that people who enjoy it must have been victims of childhood abuse or trauma. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            3: Myth: All BDSM has a dominatrix and a submissive.
                                                                                                            - BDSM sexual and lifestyle practices vary greatly beyond the dominatrix and submissive dynamic, including humiliation (being mocked by degrading language), electroplay (being shocked by an electrical source), and gagging. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            4: Myth: BDSM is just about sex.
                                                                                                            - While sexual dynamics are oftentimes between two people, people who engage in BDSM or fetish sex can form larger communities of support — making their sexual practices go beyond sex. 
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to offer some advice on finding a new Dom, sub, or play partner.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Five Questions to ask a potential Dom/sub or Play Partner-S03E21
                                                                                                            - Before knowing what you want in someone else you have to know yourself.
                                                                                                            - What are the primary characteristics of my Dom/sub/play side?
                                                                                                            - Respectfulness
                                                                                                            - Playful
                                                                                                            - Obedient
                                                                                                            - Friendly
                                                                                                            - Demanding
                                                                                                            - Nurturing
                                                                                                            - Sadistic
                                                                                                            - Exhibition
                                                                                                            - What characteristics do I want in a Dom/sub/play partner?
                                                                                                            - Respect
                                                                                                            - Obedience
                                                                                                            - Thoughtfulness
                                                                                                            - Communication
                                                                                                            - Enjoys erotic humiliation/degradation
                                                                                                            - Masochist
                                                                                                            - Alpha sub
                                                                                                            - Loyalty
                                                                                                            - Community service
                                                                                                            - What are characteristics in others that turn you off?
                                                                                                            - Lack of communication
                                                                                                            - Brats
                                                                                                            - Doormat subs
                                                                                                            - Arrogance
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Now that you have a little better understanding of yourself it’s time to find out a little more about that potential Dom/sub/play partner.
                                                                                                            1: What kinds of scenes turn you on?
                                                                                                            2: What characteristics do you find sexy in a Dom/sub/play partner?
                                                                                                            3: What experience do you have in power exchange?
                                                                                                            4: What gets you off about being submissive/Dominant/play partner?
                                                                                                            5: What are things that you haven’t tried but would like to?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
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                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, JohnathonHood, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, and PerfectlyThick
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, KJ, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Jace, LilRedRose, Felix, Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, and WyldThyme & Deacon Sean
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                                                                                                            - http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/45016283Tue, 25 May 2021 02:15:08 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 11/22/2020 / Published: 5/24/2021 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to offer some advice on finding a new...Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to offer some advice on finding a new Dom, sub, or play partner.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Five Questions to ask a potential Dom/sub or Play Partner-S03E21
                                                                                                            - Before knowing what you want in someone else you have to know yourself.
                                                                                                            - What are the primary characteristics of my Dom/sub/play side?
                                                                                                            - Respectfulness
                                                                                                            - Playful
                                                                                                            - Obedient
                                                                                                            - Friendly
                                                                                                            - Demanding
                                                                                                            - Nurturing
                                                                                                            - Sadistic
                                                                                                            - Exhibition
                                                                                                            - What characteristics do I want in a Dom/sub/play partner?
                                                                                                            - Respect
                                                                                                            - Obedience
                                                                                                            - Thoughtfulness
                                                                                                            - Communication
                                                                                                            - Enjoys erotic humiliation/degradation
                                                                                                            - Masochist
                                                                                                            - Alpha sub
                                                                                                            - Loyalty
                                                                                                            - Community service
                                                                                                            - What are characteristics in others that turn you off?
                                                                                                            - Lack of communication
                                                                                                            - Brats
                                                                                                            - Doormat subs
                                                                                                            - Arrogance
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Now that you have a little better understanding of yourself it’s time to find out a little more about that potential Dom/sub/play partner.
                                                                                                            1: What kinds of scenes turn you on?
                                                                                                            2: What characteristics do you find sexy in a Dom/sub/play partner?
                                                                                                            3: What experience do you have in power exchange?
                                                                                                            4: What gets you off about being submissive/Dominant/play partner?
                                                                                                            5: What are things that you haven’t tried but would like to?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/321
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                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, JohnathonHood, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, and PerfectlyThick
                                                                                                            - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, KJ, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Jace, LilRedRose, Felix, Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, and WyldThyme & Deacon Sean
                                                                                                            - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, and Brodie
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My...]]>5199101,bdsm,dom,education,master,partner,play,safety,slave,sub,vettingclean3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/trauma-survivor-vs-victim-vs-acceptance-s03e20--44884455
                                                                                                            In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair and I have a very special guest on the show to talk about Trauma and the community. She is a Sr. Producer and the administrator of the Patreon producer’s only Discord Community, xEmeraldxWolfx!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - WARNING: Potential trigger risks ahead. Listen at your own risk.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Trauma and Community: Survivor Vs Victim Vs Acceptance-S03E20”
                                                                                                            - By xEmeraldxWolfx https://fetlife.com/users/7081106/posts/6698137
                                                                                                            - I recently attended a munch where part of the focus of conversation revolved around trauma. How we handle it, the mindset we have, where we can get stuck, and just the general approach different people have. I am sure we can all identify or are familiar with people in the various stages or mindsets of processing trauma. The stages were outlined as victim, survivor, and acceptance. Most of us can look back at our lives and recognize when we have experienced one mindset or another, but for some reason, some people never move on from one or another and get stuck there. I am not an expert and I don’t think I can relate to what was explained in a clear concise manner. That being said, this is my understanding of the 3 stages and I wanted to get them out, get some feedback, and see if others have anything to add.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Why did you write this?
                                                                                                            - Has there been any blowback from posting it?
                                                                                                            - We’ve all experienced some level of trauma: death of a loved one, physical and/or emotional abuse, sexual assault, violation of limits, etc. 
                                                                                                            - A: What do you think lies within those who are able to move past it and into acceptance?
                                                                                                            - B: What do you think it is about the victim and survivor mentalities that cause people to get stuck here?
                                                                                                            - Do you think it is possible for people to move forward if they have plateaued in one of those two mentalities?
                                                                                                            What is your biggest piece of advice when talking with people that seem to “stuck” as a victim or as a survivor?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/320 
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
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                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication 
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            -Benefactor ($2,000/month): 
                                                                                                            -Pro Producer ($100/month): 
                                                                                                            -Master Producer ($50/month): 
                                                                                                            -Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, and Brendan
                                                                                                            -Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, JohnathonHood, Crystal Force, Cali, and PerfectlyThick
                                                                                                            -Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, KJ, Hadea, XxLilyXxX, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Jace, LilRedRose, Felix, and MsRedSin & AJRJ
                                                                                                            -Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, and Brodie
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist 
                                                                                                            -Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners*
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/44884455Tue, 18 May 2021 02:31:06 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 11/08/2020 /  Published to Podcast: 5/17/2021 In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair and I have a very special guest on the show to talk about Trauma and the community. She is a Sr. Producer and the administrator of the Patreon producer’s...
                                                                                                            In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair and I have a very special guest on the show to talk about Trauma and the community. She is a Sr. Producer and the administrator of the Patreon producer’s only Discord Community, xEmeraldxWolfx!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - WARNING: Potential trigger risks ahead. Listen at your own risk.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Trauma and Community: Survivor Vs Victim Vs Acceptance-S03E20”
                                                                                                            - By xEmeraldxWolfx https://fetlife.com/users/7081106/posts/6698137
                                                                                                            - I recently attended a munch where part of the focus of conversation revolved around trauma. How we handle it, the mindset we have, where we can get stuck, and just the general approach different people have. I am sure we can all identify or are familiar with people in the various stages or mindsets of processing trauma. The stages were outlined as victim, survivor, and acceptance. Most of us can look back at our lives and recognize when we have experienced one mindset or another, but for some reason, some people never move on from one or another and get stuck there. I am not an expert and I don’t think I can relate to what was explained in a clear concise manner. That being said, this is my understanding of the 3 stages and I wanted to get them out, get some feedback, and see if others have anything to add.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Why did you write this?
                                                                                                            - Has there been any blowback from posting it?
                                                                                                            - We’ve all experienced some level of trauma: death of a loved one, physical and/or emotional abuse, sexual assault, violation of limits, etc. 
                                                                                                            - A: What do you think lies within those who are able to move past it and into acceptance?
                                                                                                            - B: What do you think it is about the victim and survivor mentalities that cause people to get stuck here?
                                                                                                            - Do you think it is possible for people to move forward if they have plateaued in one of those two mentalities?
                                                                                                            What is your biggest piece of advice when talking with people that seem to “stuck” as a victim or as a survivor?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/320 
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon 
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication 
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            -Benefactor ($2,000/month): 
                                                                                                            -Pro Producer ($100/month): 
                                                                                                            -Master Producer ($50/month): 
                                                                                                            -Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, and Brendan
                                                                                                            -Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, JohnathonHood, Crystal Force, Cali, and PerfectlyThick
                                                                                                            -Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, KJ, Hadea, XxLilyXxX, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Jace,...]]>5230acceptance,bdsm,dobetter,guilt,help,psychology,self,survivor,traumaclean3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/narcissist-doms-and-sub-and-a-live-q-a-s03e19--44673987
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this episode of The Krypt it's a Live Q&A with Kuldrin and Mayfair.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Next week Mayfair and I have a very special guest on the show to talk about Trauma and the community. She is a Sr. Producer and the administrator of the Patreon producer’s only Discord Community, xEmeraldxWolfx!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Narcissist Doms and sub and a Live Q&A-S03E19”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/319 
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon 
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication 
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            -Benefactor ($2,000/month): 
                                                                                                            -Pro Producer ($100/month): 
                                                                                                            -Master Producer ($50/month): 
                                                                                                            -Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, and Brendan
                                                                                                            -Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, JohnathonHood, Crystal Force, Cali, and PerfectlyThick
                                                                                                            -Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, KJ, Hadea, XxLilyXxX, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Jace, LilRedRose, Felix, and MsRedSin & AJRJ
                                                                                                            -Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, and Brodie
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist 
                                                                                                            -Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners*
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/44673987Fri, 07 May 2021 03:49:05 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 11/08/2020 /  Published: 05/06/2021 - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.  - In this episode of The Krypt it's a Live Q&A with Kuldrin and Mayfair. - Next week Mayfair and I have...
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this episode of The Krypt it's a Live Q&A with Kuldrin and Mayfair.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Next week Mayfair and I have a very special guest on the show to talk about Trauma and the community. She is a Sr. Producer and the administrator of the Patreon producer’s only Discord Community, xEmeraldxWolfx!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Narcissist Doms and sub and a Live Q&A-S03E19”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
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                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            -Benefactor ($2,000/month): 
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                                                                                                            -Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, and Brendan
                                                                                                            -Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, JohnathonHood, Crystal Force, Cali, and PerfectlyThick
                                                                                                            -Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, KJ, Hadea, XxLilyXxX, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Jace, LilRedRose, Felix, and MsRedSin & AJRJ
                                                                                                            -Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, and Brodie
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist 
                                                                                                            -Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners*
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
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                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram:...]]>5847101,bdsm,coaching,communication,dominant,help,life,live,narcissist,q&a,relationship,self,submissiveclean3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/she-said-she-liked-it-rough-i-had-no-idea-where-to-begin-s03e18--44415189Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair and I have a very educational article from Medium.com titled “She Said She Liked it Rough, I Had No Idea Where to Begin”. If you are a person that struggles with what your partner wants or if you are the one that wants it and they are the one struggling, this might be the thing that helps both of you understand it better.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “She Said She Liked it Rough, I Had No Idea Where to Begin-S03E18”
                                                                                                            By Liam MacAdam https://medium.com/sexography/she-said-she-liked-it-rough-979ce1dfaded
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The other day, my wife Kate was talking to a friend on the phone about her record of falling for the wrong kind of man. She had a thing for bad boys, and was inevitably left heartbroken when they treated her badly.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “You should do what I did”, Kate said, “find a good boy and teach him how to be bad”.
                                                                                                            I knew she was talking about me. Was that really what had transpired in our relationship?
                                                                                                            When we first got together, Kate let me know that she liked it rough in the bedroom. This was a problem for me. I could do athletic — multiple angles, various speeds — but rough was not in my sexual vocabulary.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            My whole being is about niceness. That doesn’t make me perfect, it just means that gentleness,
                                                                                                            politeness and empathy are programmed into everything I do.
                                                                                                            By the way, I’m not trying to suggest that these are virtues I should be praised for. I did not overcome a mean streak through hard work and therapy. Niceness is my innate disposition, my default mode.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            When I asked Kate what she meant by liking it rough, she said that she wanted to be “thrown around the bed”. Apparently, it was one of the things she enjoyed most during an otherwise disappointing previous relationship.
                                                                                                            I panicked inwardly. Some things that are asked of us we can immediately visualize doing well and with authenticity. For me, this was not one of those things.
                                                                                                            I wasn’t sure what throwing someone around the bed would even look like. How could you make it something sexy, and not just naked wrestling? I had no idea.
                                                                                                            As a pleaser, however, I was committed to giving it a try. The next time we had sex, when we had finished doing it from the front, I flipped Kate over so we could do it from behind. I did it with reckless abandon, with scant regard for her physical safety. Afterward, I asked how she liked it.
                                                                                                            “Liked what?” she asked.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            She hadn’t noticed. It was clear I was out of my depth. I asked her for help.
                                                                                                            The next time we were naked in bed together, she suggested I spank her. Spanking I understood. She got up on her hands and knees and I started lightly slapping her upper thighs and bottom. I enjoyed the sound I could make when I struck her flesh just so with my right hand. I could tell she was getting into it by the moans coming from her lips.
                                                                                                            “Harder”, she urged.
                                                                                                            I spanked her with more and more force as she urged me on, harder than I would ever have felt comfortable doing without ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/318
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            -Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            -Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                                            -Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, and Brendan
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, Grog4life, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, JohnathonHood, Crystal Force, Cali, and Janice
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, KJ, Hadea, XxLilyXxX, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad, CozyCow, and Jace
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, and Brodie
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            -Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners*
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
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                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
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                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/44415189Wed, 21 Apr 2021 01:23:59 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 11/01/2020 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair and I have a very educational article from Medium.com titled “She Said She Liked it Rough, I...Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair and I have a very educational article from Medium.com titled “She Said She Liked it Rough, I Had No Idea Where to Begin”. If you are a person that struggles with what your partner wants or if you are the one that wants it and they are the one struggling, this might be the thing that helps both of you understand it better.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “She Said She Liked it Rough, I Had No Idea Where to Begin-S03E18”
                                                                                                            By Liam MacAdam https://medium.com/sexography/she-said-she-liked-it-rough-979ce1dfaded
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The other day, my wife Kate was talking to a friend on the phone about her record of falling for the wrong kind of man. She had a thing for bad boys, and was inevitably left heartbroken when they treated her badly.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “You should do what I did”, Kate said, “find a good boy and teach him how to be bad”.
                                                                                                            I knew she was talking about me. Was that really what had transpired in our relationship?
                                                                                                            When we first got together, Kate let me know that she liked it rough in the bedroom. This was a problem for me. I could do athletic — multiple angles, various speeds — but rough was not in my sexual vocabulary.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            My whole being is about niceness. That doesn’t make me perfect, it just means that gentleness,
                                                                                                            politeness and empathy are programmed into everything I do.
                                                                                                            By the way, I’m not trying to suggest that these are virtues I should be praised for. I did not overcome a mean streak through hard work and therapy. Niceness is my innate disposition, my default mode.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            When I asked Kate what she meant by liking it rough, she said that she wanted to be “thrown around the bed”. Apparently, it was one of the things she enjoyed most during an otherwise disappointing previous relationship.
                                                                                                            I panicked inwardly. Some things that are asked of us we can immediately visualize doing well and with authenticity. For me, this was not one of those things.
                                                                                                            I wasn’t sure what throwing someone around the bed would even look like. How could you make it something sexy, and not just naked wrestling? I had no idea.
                                                                                                            As a pleaser, however, I was committed to giving it a try. The next time we had sex, when we had finished doing it from the front, I flipped Kate over so we could do it from behind. I did it with reckless abandon, with scant regard for her physical safety. Afterward, I asked how she liked it.
                                                                                                            “Liked what?” she asked.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            She hadn’t noticed. It was clear I was out of my depth. I asked her for help.
                                                                                                            The next time we were naked in bed together, she suggested I spank her. Spanking I understood. She got up on her hands and knees and I started lightly slapping her upper thighs and bottom. I enjoyed the sound I could make when I struck her flesh just so with my right hand. I could tell she was getting into it by the moans coming from her lips.
                                                                                                            “Harder”, she urged.
                                                                                                            I spanked her with more and more force as she urged me on, harder than I would ever have felt comfortable doing without ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/318
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            5079101,bdsm,education,how,relationship,toclean3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/right-hole-wrong-toy-kinky-adult-toy-safety-s03e17--44311899
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair and I have a hilariously interesting article from BuzzFeed talking titled “17 Nurses Reveal The Worst Things People Got Stuck Up Their Penises, Vaginas, And Butts” so we thought we would lighten up a bit and talk about toy safety.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love By:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Right Hole, Wrong Toy: Kinky Adult Toy Safety-S03E17”
                                                                                                            Let’s hear from these medical professionals first and then talk about some safety tips that we all need to follow.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - BuzzFeed Article: “17 Nurses Reveal The Worst Things People Got Stuck Up Their Penises, Vaginas, And Butts” https://www.buzzfeed.com/spenceralthouse/things-up-penises-vaginas-and-butts?utm_source=dynamic&utm_campaign=bffbbuzzfeed&ref=bffbbuzzfeed&fbclid=IwAR1Kuw3MLGsfhojVSNV1Zz972FIi5wSrNbBzRaRys9a1AOMFWy9AUfVVEls
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “We asked nurses and doctors in the BuzzFeed Community to tell us the worst thing they've witnessed in the ER. Here are the genital horror stories.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/317
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            1. A Barbie doll's arm
                                                                                                            2. A knife
                                                                                                            3. A potato
                                                                                                            4. A flashlight
                                                                                                            5. A crochet needle
                                                                                                            6. A Lego butt plug
                                                                                                            7. A lightbulb
                                                                                                            8. A giant dildo
                                                                                                            9. A live rat
                                                                                                            10. A carrot
                                                                                                            11. A shower head
                                                                                                            12. A ballerina figurine
                                                                                                            13. A toy lizard
                                                                                                            14. A bloody cucumber
                                                                                                            15. A long piece of floss
                                                                                                            16. A set of tongs
                                                                                                            17. And Campbell's beef soup
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Healthy Toy Tips: These should be obvious but obviously they are not.
                                                                                                            1: If it wasn’t made to be a sex toy, don’t use it as one/Don’t use household items.
                                                                                                            2: Clean, clean, and then clean some more!
                                                                                                            3: Know what material your toys are made of.
                                                                                                            No Phthalates!!! They have been linked to male fertility issues, obesity, type 2 diabetes, asthma, neurodevelopmental issues, and more. (pronounced “thawh-late)
                                                                                                            4: Know what lubes can be used with what toys.
                                                                                                            Don’t use silicone lube with silicone toys!
                                                                                                            5: Don’t be afraid to use condoms on your toys.
                                                                                                            6: Buy from a credible company.
                                                                                                            7: Share with care.
                                                                                                            8: Don’t switch holes without using a condom or disinfecting.
                                                                                                            9: Inspect your toys regularly for battery leaks, wire shorts, and overall condition.
                                                                                                            10: Keep them locked away from children!
                                                                                                            11: If it’s broken, trash it! Do NOT try to fix it!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/317
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            -Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            -Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                                            -Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            -Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, and Brendan
                                                                                                            -Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, Grog4life, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, JohnathonHood, and Crystal Force
                                                                                                            -Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, knot_the_daddy, KJ, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad, CozyCow, and Jace
                                                                                                            -Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, XxLilyXxX, Morgana13, and Rope Aficionado
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            -Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners*
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/44311899Tue, 13 Apr 2021 03:07:02 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 10/25/2020 / Published: 4/12/2021 - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair and I have a hilariously interesting article from BuzzFeed talking...
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair and I have a hilariously interesting article from BuzzFeed talking titled “17 Nurses Reveal The Worst Things People Got Stuck Up Their Penises, Vaginas, And Butts” so we thought we would lighten up a bit and talk about toy safety.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love By:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Right Hole, Wrong Toy: Kinky Adult Toy Safety-S03E17”
                                                                                                            Let’s hear from these medical professionals first and then talk about some safety tips that we all need to follow.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - BuzzFeed Article: “17 Nurses Reveal The Worst Things People Got Stuck Up Their Penises, Vaginas, And Butts” https://www.buzzfeed.com/spenceralthouse/things-up-penises-vaginas-and-butts?utm_source=dynamic&utm_campaign=bffbbuzzfeed&ref=bffbbuzzfeed&fbclid=IwAR1Kuw3MLGsfhojVSNV1Zz972FIi5wSrNbBzRaRys9a1AOMFWy9AUfVVEls
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “We asked nurses and doctors in the BuzzFeed Community to tell us the worst thing they've witnessed in the ER. Here are the genital horror stories.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/317
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            1. A Barbie doll's arm
                                                                                                            2. A knife
                                                                                                            3. A potato
                                                                                                            4. A flashlight
                                                                                                            5. A crochet needle
                                                                                                            6. A Lego butt plug
                                                                                                            7. A lightbulb
                                                                                                            8. A giant dildo
                                                                                                            9. A live rat
                                                                                                            10. A carrot
                                                                                                            11. A shower head
                                                                                                            12. A ballerina figurine
                                                                                                            13. A toy lizard
                                                                                                            14. A bloody cucumber
                                                                                                            15. A long piece of floss
                                                                                                            16. A set of tongs
                                                                                                            17. And Campbell's beef soup
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Healthy Toy Tips: These should be obvious but obviously they are not.
                                                                                                            1: If it wasn’t made to be a sex toy, don’t use it as one/Don’t use household items.
                                                                                                            2: Clean, clean, and then clean some more!
                                                                                                            3: Know what material your toys are made of.
                                                                                                            No Phthalates!!! They have been linked to male fertility issues, obesity, type 2 diabetes, asthma, neurodevelopmental issues, and more. (pronounced “thawh-late)
                                                                                                            4: Know what lubes can be used with what toys.
                                                                                                            Don’t use silicone lube with silicone toys!
                                                                                                            5: Don’t be afraid to use condoms on your toys.
                                                                                                            6: Buy from a credible company.
                                                                                                            7: Share with care.
                                                                                                            8: Don’t switch holes without using a condom or disinfecting.
                                                                                                            9: Inspect your toys regularly for battery leaks, wire shorts, and overall condition.
                                                                                                            10: Keep them locked away from children!
                                                                                                            11: If it’s broken, trash it! Do NOT try to fix it!
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            We were also joined by Krypt friend, supporter, and guest LylacWine to discuss the nuances of being a woman of a certain age.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/44172339Fri, 02 Apr 2021 18:54:37 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCThe post-show for Kink as a Middle-Aged Woman with Gabbing Girl Time Podcast-S03E16. We were also joined by Krypt friend, supporter, and guest LylacWine to discuss the nuances of being a woman of a certain age. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com
                                                                                                            We were also joined by Krypt friend, supporter, and guest LylacWine to discuss the nuances of being a woman of a certain age.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com]]>2305aging,bdsm,how,lessons,life,toclean3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kink-as-a-middle-aged-woman-with-gabbing-girl-time-podcast-s03e16--44080045
                                                                                                            On this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are joined by the hosts of The Gabbing Girt Time Podcast, Bruised Tonsils and Gale Grantham, to talk about kink, sex, D/s relationships, and many more topics that only "women of a certain age" know about.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love By:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “Kink and BDSM as Middle-Aged Woman with Gabbing Girl Time-S03E16”
                                                                                                            - Introducing Gabbing Girl Time Podcast and the hosts BruisedTonsils and Gail Granthem
                                                                                                            - Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gabbinggirltime/
                                                                                                            - Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1A7Zfr135CfwchrogkIYPT
                                                                                                            - How would you define middle-aged?
                                                                                                            - How would you define the modern middle-aged woman?
                                                                                                            - What are some advantages to being in your age bracket?
                                                                                                            - What do you think is the biggest difference between being a middle-aged woman and a middle-aged man?
                                                                                                            - What are some of the biggest disadvantages to being at this stage of life?
                                                                                                            - How does all of this apply to kink, BDSM, and the evolution of relationships?
                                                                                                            - What is the biggest piece of advice you have to offer women in their 20’s and 30’s?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            - Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/316
                                                                                                            - National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            - https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            - https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            - https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            - https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            -Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, and Brendan
                                                                                                            -Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, Grog4life, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, JohnathonHood, and Crystal Force
                                                                                                            -Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, knot_the_daddy, KJ, LilyChaos, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad, CozyCow, and Jace
                                                                                                            -Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, XxLilyXxXMorgana13, and Rope Aficionado
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            -Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners*
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/44080045Sat, 27 Mar 2021 21:22:58 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 10/18/2020 / Published: 3/27/2021 On this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are joined by the hosts of The Gabbing Girt Time Podcast, Bruised Tonsils and Gale Grantham, to talk about kink, sex, D/s relationships, and many more topics...
                                                                                                            On this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are joined by the hosts of The Gabbing Girt Time Podcast, Bruised Tonsils and Gale Grantham, to talk about kink, sex, D/s relationships, and many more topics that only "women of a certain age" know about.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love By:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “Kink and BDSM as Middle-Aged Woman with Gabbing Girl Time-S03E16”
                                                                                                            - Introducing Gabbing Girl Time Podcast and the hosts BruisedTonsils and Gail Granthem
                                                                                                            - Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gabbinggirltime/
                                                                                                            - Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1A7Zfr135CfwchrogkIYPT
                                                                                                            - How would you define middle-aged?
                                                                                                            - How would you define the modern middle-aged woman?
                                                                                                            - What are some advantages to being in your age bracket?
                                                                                                            - What do you think is the biggest difference between being a middle-aged woman and a middle-aged man?
                                                                                                            - What are some of the biggest disadvantages to being at this stage of life?
                                                                                                            - How does all of this apply to kink, BDSM, and the evolution of relationships?
                                                                                                            - What is the biggest piece of advice you have to offer women in their 20’s and 30’s?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            - Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/316
                                                                                                            - National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            - https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            - https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            - https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            - https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
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                                                                                                            -Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, and Brendan
                                                                                                            -Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, Grog4life, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, JohnathonHood, and Crystal Force
                                                                                                            -Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, knot_the_daddy, KJ, LilyChaos, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad, CozyCow, and Jace
                                                                                                            -Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, XxLilyXxXMorgana13, and Rope Aficionado
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist 4056aging,bdsm,d/s,dynamic,education,kink,middle-aged,polyamory,relationship,sexclean3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-monogamous-couples-can-learn-from-polyamory-s03e15--43978772https://kuldrinskrypt.com/315
                                                                                                            Recorded: 10/04/2020
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair and I have an interesting article from Time Magazine talking about lessons the monogamous can learn from the polyamorous.
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “What Monogamous Couples Can Learn From Polyamorous Relationships, According to Experts” by Samantha Cooney / Aug 27, 2018, 3:23 PM EDT
                                                                                                            https://time.com/5330833/polyamory-monogamous-relationships/?fbclid=IwAR0vwTiKjX4UcpgBKB7R2zwJe3LVoDWUSNLQh8mLiDgbni8Zn_w21Gf9h0w
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Polyamory, having more than one consensual sexual or emotional relationship at once, has in recent years emerged on television, mainstream dating sites like OkCupid and even in research. And experts who have studied these kinds of consensual non-monogomous relationships, say they have unique strengths that anyone can learn from.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Consensual non-monogamy can include polyamory, swinging and other forms of open relationships, according to Terri Conley, an associate professor of psychology at the University of Michigan who has studied consensual non-monogamy. While there aren’t comprehensive statistics about how many people in America have polyamorous relationships, a 2016 study published in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy found that one in five people in the U.S. engage in some form of consensual non-monogamy throughout their lives.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Communication
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Successful monogamous relationships require communication about desires, needs and problems, says Joanne Davila, a professor of clinical psychology at Stony Brook University who studies monogamous relationships. And this is one area where polyamorous couples excel.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Defining the relationship
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “Everyone jokes that love is not a finite resource, but time is,” Kincaid says. “You can have multiple partners you want to see a lot — you have to negotiate time and space to do that.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Practicing safe sex
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Managing jealousy
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Maintaining a sense of independence
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “If we’re a married monogamous couple, we have to figure out what to do about our problems. We’re either going to avoid them, resolve them or break up,” Karney says. “But if I’m in a non-monogamous relationship and I have the same problem, I might not have to resolve it if I’m not getting all my needs met from you.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
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                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
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                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication 
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            -Benefactor ($2,000/month): 
                                                                                                            -Pro Producer ($100/month): 
                                                                                                            -Master Producer ($50/month): 
                                                                                                            -Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, and Brendan
                                                                                                            -Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, Grog4life, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, and JohnathonHood
                                                                                                            -Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, knot_the_daddy, KJ, LilyChaos, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad, and CozyCow
                                                                                                            -Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, and Rope Aficionado
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist 
                                                                                                            -Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners*
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/43978772Sat, 20 Mar 2021 19:28:55 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCFull show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/315 Recorded: 10/04/2020 - In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair and I have an interesting article from Time Magazine talking about lessons the monogamous can learn from the polyamorous. - Call in at...https://kuldrinskrypt.com/315
                                                                                                            Recorded: 10/04/2020
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair and I have an interesting article from Time Magazine talking about lessons the monogamous can learn from the polyamorous.
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “What Monogamous Couples Can Learn From Polyamorous Relationships, According to Experts” by Samantha Cooney / Aug 27, 2018, 3:23 PM EDT
                                                                                                            https://time.com/5330833/polyamory-monogamous-relationships/?fbclid=IwAR0vwTiKjX4UcpgBKB7R2zwJe3LVoDWUSNLQh8mLiDgbni8Zn_w21Gf9h0w
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Polyamory, having more than one consensual sexual or emotional relationship at once, has in recent years emerged on television, mainstream dating sites like OkCupid and even in research. And experts who have studied these kinds of consensual non-monogomous relationships, say they have unique strengths that anyone can learn from.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Consensual non-monogamy can include polyamory, swinging and other forms of open relationships, according to Terri Conley, an associate professor of psychology at the University of Michigan who has studied consensual non-monogamy. While there aren’t comprehensive statistics about how many people in America have polyamorous relationships, a 2016 study published in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy found that one in five people in the U.S. engage in some form of consensual non-monogamy throughout their lives.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Communication
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Successful monogamous relationships require communication about desires, needs and problems, says Joanne Davila, a professor of clinical psychology at Stony Brook University who studies monogamous relationships. And this is one area where polyamorous couples excel.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Defining the relationship
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “Everyone jokes that love is not a finite resource, but time is,” Kincaid says. “You can have multiple partners you want to see a lot — you have to negotiate time and space to do that.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Practicing safe sex
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Managing jealousy
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Maintaining a sense of independence
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “If we’re a married monogamous couple, we have to figure out what to do about our problems. We’re either going to avoid them, resolve them or break up,” Karney says. “But if I’m in a non-monogamous relationship and I have the same problem, I might not have to resolve it if I’m not getting all my needs met from you.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/315 
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon 
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication 
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic 
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            -Benefactor ($2,000/month): 
                                                                                                            -Pro Producer ($100/month): 
                                                                                                            -Master Producer ($50/month): 
                                                                                                            -Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, and Brendan
                                                                                                            -Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir,...]]>3647bdsm,education,healthy,kink,marriage,poly,polyamory,relationshipclean3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-kite-and-the-string-with-lylac-wine-s03e14--43865090
                                                                                                            On this episode of The Krypt LylacWine is joining us to talk about the concept of free space and a piece she has written on a sub in free space.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love By:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Free Space (with reference to D/s and submission specifically)
                                                                                                            Definition: (my definition)
                                                                                                            The place or a state of being occupied by a submissive at the end of his/her dynamic and the beginning of a new one. A sub in free space still holds sacred their submissive heart and values therein. He/she is unowned and can be uncollared or self collard in free space.
                                                                                                            The place of deep contemplation, reflection, healing, and self-growth after the ending of dynamic. The re-acclamation of self whilst still striving to preserve his/her submissive values.
                                                                                                            Similar to the vanilla version of being “single” after the end of a relationship.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The Kite and the String (Full writing and shownotes at https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/314
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            1. We have the definition but why call it “free space” and not just single?
                                                                                                            2. Talk about the piece “The Kite String”
                                                                                                            I. what was the motivation for writing this piece?
                                                                                                            2. What does it mean to you to “hold your own string” as you state in the piece?
                                                                                                            Why do you write? What do you get out of it and why? (not sure this question is a good one but brainstorming again).
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            3. Things that you can do as a submissive to assist in healing and growing in free space (? self collaring, writing, support groups, mentors, etc)
                                                                                                            You are self collard so explain that and the reasons why and what you gain from it. Are there any downsides that you have discovered?
                                                                                                            4. how to stay safe as a submissive in free space. (Mentors, protectors, common sense, etc)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            5. Dating again (eek) the pitfalls and learning from the past. (this might need to be a follow-up show given that we will talk our donkeys off for the first lot of subjects lol)
                                                                                                            Recognizing and owning your own issues, pitfalls, and your own place at the end of your last dynamic. (i think this is an important part of learning to hold your own string so might need to put this up further ?).
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            6. Question everything (particularly yourself)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Quote: You are being given a choice to evolve or repeat what happens next is entirely up to you. - author unknown
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
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                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
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                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            -Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            -Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                                            -Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            -Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, and Brendan
                                                                                                            -Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, Grog4life, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, and JohnathonHood
                                                                                                            -Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, knot_the_daddy, KJ, LilyChaos, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad, and CozyCow
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/43865090Sat, 13 Mar 2021 01:57:15 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 10/04/2020 / Published: 3/21/2021 On this episode of The Krypt LylacWine is joining us to talk about the concept of free space and a piece she has written on a sub in free space. Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the...
                                                                                                            On this episode of The Krypt LylacWine is joining us to talk about the concept of free space and a piece she has written on a sub in free space.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love By:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Free Space (with reference to D/s and submission specifically)
                                                                                                            Definition: (my definition)
                                                                                                            The place or a state of being occupied by a submissive at the end of his/her dynamic and the beginning of a new one. A sub in free space still holds sacred their submissive heart and values therein. He/she is unowned and can be uncollared or self collard in free space.
                                                                                                            The place of deep contemplation, reflection, healing, and self-growth after the ending of dynamic. The re-acclamation of self whilst still striving to preserve his/her submissive values.
                                                                                                            Similar to the vanilla version of being “single” after the end of a relationship.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The Kite and the String (Full writing and shownotes at https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/314
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            1. We have the definition but why call it “free space” and not just single?
                                                                                                            2. Talk about the piece “The Kite String”
                                                                                                            I. what was the motivation for writing this piece?
                                                                                                            2. What does it mean to you to “hold your own string” as you state in the piece?
                                                                                                            Why do you write? What do you get out of it and why? (not sure this question is a good one but brainstorming again).
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            3. Things that you can do as a submissive to assist in healing and growing in free space (? self collaring, writing, support groups, mentors, etc)
                                                                                                            You are self collard so explain that and the reasons why and what you gain from it. Are there any downsides that you have discovered?
                                                                                                            4. how to stay safe as a submissive in free space. (Mentors, protectors, common sense, etc)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            5. Dating again (eek) the pitfalls and learning from the past. (this might need to be a follow-up show given that we will talk our donkeys off for the first lot of subjects lol)
                                                                                                            Recognizing and owning your own issues, pitfalls, and your own place at the end of your last dynamic. (i think this is an important part of learning to hold your own string so might need to put this up further ?).
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            6. Question everything (particularly yourself)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Quote: You are being given a choice to evolve or repeat what happens next is entirely up to you. - author unknown
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are tackling the differences between Hot Wife, Cuckold, and Voyeur kinks and fetishes.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Cuck vs hotwife (and now we can add vs voyeur) a Discord post by Atsila
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            "To the best of my knowledge.... these are the basic answers...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Cuck tends to be ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Voyeur...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            I am a Voyeur... 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Basically.... we like to watch... some prefer in ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            It’s hard for me sometimes even ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Hot Wife Vs Cuckold Vs Voyeur-S03E13
                                                                                                            - Hot Wife (https://www.dictionary.com/e/slang/hotwife/)
                                                                                                            Definition: A hotwife is a married woman who has sexual relationships outside of her marriage, with the full knowledge and consent of her husband, who himself doesn’t have affairs.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The idea of hotwifing comes from the concept of a husband showing off and sharing his “hot wife.” The non-monogamous arrangement is ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Typically, the couple gains sexual arousal from the arrangement due to voyeurism, the thrill of doing something taboo, or an infidelity and/or jealousy fetish.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Hotwifing isn’t exactly swinging because ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            In some cases, there really isn’t any extramarital sex taking place in hotwifing. For some, it’s mainly a foreplay exercise to talk through a hypothetical fantasy of infidelity.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Cuckold
                                                                                                            Definition: A man who enjoys the humiliation, degradation, and/or voyeuristic experience of watching or knowing their partner has sex with someone else.
                                                                                                            Depending on the couple’s arrangement, the cuck could be made to ...
                                                                                                            - Voyeur
                                                                                                            Definition: A person who enjoys watching others, usually in a sexual context, without engaging with them.
                                                                                                            There is no degradation or humiliation associated with ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            So what’s the difference between them?
                                                                                                            Intent. While on the outside these three kinks ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            To put it into roles: the cuck is generally submissive, the partner of the hotwife is generally dominant, and the voyeur could be of any role. 
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/43768920Sat, 06 Mar 2021 19:34:11 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 9/27/2020 Published: 3/06/2021 In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are tackling the differences between Hot Wife, Cuckold, and Voyeur kinks and fetishes. Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at...Published: 3/06/2021
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are tackling the differences between Hot Wife, Cuckold, and Voyeur kinks and fetishes.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Cuck vs hotwife (and now we can add vs voyeur) a Discord post by Atsila
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            "To the best of my knowledge.... these are the basic answers...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Cuck tends to be ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Voyeur...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            I am a Voyeur... 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Basically.... we like to watch... some prefer in ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            It’s hard for me sometimes even ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Hot Wife Vs Cuckold Vs Voyeur-S03E13
                                                                                                            - Hot Wife (https://www.dictionary.com/e/slang/hotwife/)
                                                                                                            Definition: A hotwife is a married woman who has sexual relationships outside of her marriage, with the full knowledge and consent of her husband, who himself doesn’t have affairs.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The idea of hotwifing comes from the concept of a husband showing off and sharing his “hot wife.” The non-monogamous arrangement is ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Typically, the couple gains sexual arousal from the arrangement due to voyeurism, the thrill of doing something taboo, or an infidelity and/or jealousy fetish.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Hotwifing isn’t exactly swinging because ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            In some cases, there really isn’t any extramarital sex taking place in hotwifing. For some, it’s mainly a foreplay exercise to talk through a hypothetical fantasy of infidelity.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Cuckold
                                                                                                            Definition: A man who enjoys the humiliation, degradation, and/or voyeuristic experience of watching or knowing their partner has sex with someone else.
                                                                                                            Depending on the couple’s arrangement, the cuck could be made to ...
                                                                                                            - Voyeur
                                                                                                            Definition: A person who enjoys watching others, usually in a sexual context, without engaging with them.
                                                                                                            There is no degradation or humiliation associated with ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            So what’s the difference between them?
                                                                                                            Intent. While on the outside these three kinks ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            To put it into roles: the cuck is generally submissive, the partner of the hotwife is generally dominant, and the voyeur could be of any role. 
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, Grog4life, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, and JohnathonHood
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria,knot_the_daddy, KJ, LilyChaos, CivlDisobience Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila Rose, PWB, MBRpoodle, and Baddogbad
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, and...]]>2891bdsm,boi,bull,cuck,cuckold,fetish,hotwife,kink,sharingiscaring,swingers,swinging,vixen,voyeurclean3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/consent-dominants-have-rights-too-s03e12--43627286Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are talking the often forgotten about Dom’s right to deny consent.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “Sex With My Girlfriend Has Taken an Alarming Turn in Quarantine: Not all of us are cut out to be murderous KGB agents. by STOYA AUG 11, 2020
                                                                                                            https://slate.com/human-interest/2020/08/girlfriend-submissive-top-consent-advice.html
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Dear How to Do It,
                                                                                                            Since the pandemic, my girlfriend has been living with me, so we are spending much more time together and having much more sex. While sharing everyday activities is bringing us closer together in some respects, changes in our sexual relationship are driving us apart. We had what I thought was a fun and varied sex life. We role-play, act out fantasies, play with toys, and suggest new things to each other. Lately, she has been wanting more and more bondage, something that I always enjoyed—and initiated—as fantasy, but am becoming uncomfortable within reality. Previously, the most I would ever do was ... What can I do? Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/312
                                                                                                            —Putin
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Dear Putin,
                                                                                                            You are absolutely correct that consent needs to come from all involved ... Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/312
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Have the two of you ever done a yes/no/maybe ... Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/312
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Remember, you get to have noes too, and ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
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                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, Grog4life, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, and JohnathonHood
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria,knot_the_daddy, KJ, LilyChaos, CivlDisobience Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila Rose, PWB, MBRpoodle, and Baddogbad
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, and Morgana13
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/43627286Thu, 25 Feb 2021 04:16:46 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 9/20/2020 / Published: 2/24/2021 Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and...Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are talking the often forgotten about Dom’s right to deny consent.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “Sex With My Girlfriend Has Taken an Alarming Turn in Quarantine: Not all of us are cut out to be murderous KGB agents. by STOYA AUG 11, 2020
                                                                                                            https://slate.com/human-interest/2020/08/girlfriend-submissive-top-consent-advice.html
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Dear How to Do It,
                                                                                                            Since the pandemic, my girlfriend has been living with me, so we are spending much more time together and having much more sex. While sharing everyday activities is bringing us closer together in some respects, changes in our sexual relationship are driving us apart. We had what I thought was a fun and varied sex life. We role-play, act out fantasies, play with toys, and suggest new things to each other. Lately, she has been wanting more and more bondage, something that I always enjoyed—and initiated—as fantasy, but am becoming uncomfortable within reality. Previously, the most I would ever do was ... What can I do? Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/312
                                                                                                            —Putin
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Dear Putin,
                                                                                                            You are absolutely correct that consent needs to come from all involved ... Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/312
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Have the two of you ever done a yes/no/maybe ... Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/312
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Remember, you get to have noes too, and ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/312
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                                            Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, and Brendan
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, Grog4life, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, and JohnathonHood
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                                                                                                            In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are talking about BDSM dynamic and what it really means.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - What is a BDSM Dominant submissive Dynamic-S03E11
                                                                                                            https://fetlife.com/users/5941729/posts/6570436
                                                                                                            “A Dynamic should always evolve, be updated, be thought about, have the ability to flex, etc. The word Dynamic itself means precisely that.” - Master Gabriel (@RavynBlood), Head of House, @HouseRavynblood
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Dynamic:
                                                                                                            adjective
                                                                                                            (of a process or system) characterized by constant change, activity, or progress.
                                                                                                            In the vanilla world, we refer to relationships in static terms such as dating, hooking up, marriage, and so on. While these lend a hint of evolution somewhere in the background of our minds, they leave out the upfront fact that change is a must. Author John Maxwell wrote "Change is inevitable. Growth is optional". This quote tells the tale of a true dynamic relationship. One that ebbs and flows. One that seeks to ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            All too often open and honest communication is talked about but not completed. This is why D/s and romantic relationships end badly instead of ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Can this be prevented? Absolutely! However, it typically and statistically will not be, and here is why:
                                                                                                            1: Maturity: People often lack the emotional maturity to ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            2: Psychology: Besides the plethora of personality disorders such as Borderline, Avoidant, Oppositional Defiant, and Narcissistic, there is a need in most people to ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            So how do we overcome these two very real issues? We ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            All of this is why I am so careful with whom I enter into a relationship of any kind. I embrace the dynamic. Thus I embrace the inevitable change. Whether it lasts a short time, a long time, or a lifetime, I need to be certain that ...
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/43442756Sat, 13 Feb 2021 07:04:45 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 9/13/2020 / Published: 2/13/2021 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are talking about BDSM dynamic and what it really means. - Rules...Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are talking about BDSM dynamic and what it really means.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - What is a BDSM Dominant submissive Dynamic-S03E11
                                                                                                            https://fetlife.com/users/5941729/posts/6570436
                                                                                                            “A Dynamic should always evolve, be updated, be thought about, have the ability to flex, etc. The word Dynamic itself means precisely that.” - Master Gabriel (@RavynBlood), Head of House, @HouseRavynblood
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Dynamic:
                                                                                                            adjective
                                                                                                            (of a process or system) characterized by constant change, activity, or progress.
                                                                                                            In the vanilla world, we refer to relationships in static terms such as dating, hooking up, marriage, and so on. While these lend a hint of evolution somewhere in the background of our minds, they leave out the upfront fact that change is a must. Author John Maxwell wrote "Change is inevitable. Growth is optional". This quote tells the tale of a true dynamic relationship. One that ebbs and flows. One that seeks to ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            All too often open and honest communication is talked about but not completed. This is why D/s and romantic relationships end badly instead of ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Can this be prevented? Absolutely! However, it typically and statistically will not be, and here is why:
                                                                                                            1: Maturity: People often lack the emotional maturity to ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            2: Psychology: Besides the plethora of personality disorders such as Borderline, Avoidant, Oppositional Defiant, and Narcissistic, there is a need in most people to ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            So how do we overcome these two very real issues? We ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            All of this is why I am so careful with whom I enter into a relationship of any kind. I embrace the dynamic. Thus I embrace the inevitable change. Whether it lasts a short time, a long time, or a lifetime, I need to be certain that ...
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are talking about Breaking (News) the Norm with BDSM: The good, the bad, and the ugly.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - DYING FOR IT: Six in ten pensioners want to have a threesome and try BDSM before they die by Sun Reporter, Aug. 27, 2020 
                                                                                                            https://www.thescottishsun.co.uk/fabulous/5975873/pensioners-threesome-bdsm-six-ten-die/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - ECSO: Woman and 14-year-old boy engaged in BDSM relationship by: Cody Long, Aug 25, 2020
                                                                                                            https://www.wkrg.com/local-news/ecso-woman-and-14-year-old-boy-engaged-in-bdsm-relationship/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Report: Jerry Falwell Watched While ‘Pool Boy’ Had Sex With His Wife by MICHAEL STONE Aug 24, 2020
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/43323556Sat, 06 Feb 2021 20:24:29 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 9/6/2020 /  Published: 2/6/2021 - In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are talking about Breaking (News) the Norm with BDSM: The good, the bad, and the ugly. - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at...
                                                                                                            - In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are talking about Breaking (News) the Norm with BDSM: The good, the bad, and the ugly.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - DYING FOR IT: Six in ten pensioners want to have a threesome and try BDSM before they die by Sun Reporter, Aug. 27, 2020 
                                                                                                            https://www.thescottishsun.co.uk/fabulous/5975873/pensioners-threesome-bdsm-six-ten-die/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - ECSO: Woman and 14-year-old boy engaged in BDSM relationship by: Cody Long, Aug 25, 2020
                                                                                                            https://www.wkrg.com/local-news/ecso-woman-and-14-year-old-boy-engaged-in-bdsm-relationship/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Report: Jerry Falwell Watched While ‘Pool Boy’ Had Sex With His Wife by MICHAEL STONE Aug 24, 2020
                                                                                                            https://www.patheos.com/blogs/progressivesecularhumanist/2020/08/report-jerry-falwell-watched-while-pool-boy-had-sex-with-his-wife/ 
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
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                                                                                                            Tink’s Toys Fb Group: 3444bad,bdsm,breaking,concent,falwell,good,jerry,new,newnormal,news,normal,uglyclean3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/depression-within-the-bdsm-community-s03e09--43203169- In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are going to talk about Depression within the BDSM Community.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Depression within the BDSM Community
                                                                                                            Depression is a mood disorder that causes a persistent feeling of sadness and lack of interest, to the extent that it interferes with your daily life. It is a common mental health problem that normally affects around 7% of the American population in a given year. However, that number has skyrocketed this year, 2020, due to the COVID-19 pandemic, and a cornucopia of other travesties this year has seemingly gift-wrapped for us all.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            There are lots of reasons why a person might be diagnosed with depression, from simple biological causes to psychological and social issues. Whatever causes depression, it’s important to remember that there is help out there for everyone.
                                                                                                            If you’ve found this because you’re feeling down or after listening to this you realize you might be struggling with depression, please reach out to someone – whether it’s a friend, family member, counselor, doctor, or online service.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Quotes:
                                                                                                            “Depression is living in a body that fights to survive, with a mind that tries to die.” – Danny Baker, author of “Depression is a Liar”
                                                                                                            “The only thing more exhausting than being depressed is pretending that you’re not.” – Unknown
                                                                                                            “It’s so difficult to describe depression to someone who’s never been there because it’s not sadness. I know sadness. Sadness is to cry and to feel. But it’s that cold absence of feeling—that really hollowed-out feeling.” – J.K. Rowling, author of “Harry Potter”
                                                                                                            “Depression, suffering, and anger are all part of being human.” - Janet Fitch, author of “White Oleander”
                                                                                                            “I’ll never forget how the depression and loneliness felt good and bad at the same time. Still does.” – Henry Rollins, musician, actor, author, poet, activist
                                                                                                            “It’s a bit like walking down a long corridor, never knowing when the light will go on.” - Neil Lennon, Irish Football Coach
                                                                                                            “Mental pain is less dramatic than physical pain, but it is more common and also more hard to bear. The frequent attempt to conceal mental pain increases the burden: It is easier to say ‘My tooth is aching’ than to say ‘My heart is broken.” – C.S. Lewis author of at least 24 books including “The Chronicles of Narnia”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - What is depression?
                                                                                                            Depression is a mood disorder that causes a persistent feeling of sadness and lack of interest, to the extent that it interferes with your daily life.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Who gets depressed?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - What causes depression?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Is depression curable, treatable, or none of the above?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - How BDSM helps with Depression/Pro’s
                                                                                                            “Kink 101: Depression and BDSM” by David Shorb (Feb. 8, 2019)
                                                                                                            https://www.manystories.com/story/5c5d82ba5fe1e6300036fe09
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Psychological Functioning and Violence Victimization and Perpetration in BDSM Practitioners from the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom”
                                                                                                            https://pdfs.semanticscholar.org/0cd8/abb591fda8685091c1f208bc757d616f0903.pdf
                                                                                                            Prepared by: Tess M. Gemberling, M.A., Co-Principal Investigator, University of Alabama
                                                                                                            Robert J. Cramer, Ph.D., Co-Principal Investigator, University of Alabama
                                                                                                            Susan Wright, M.A., Co-Principal Investigator, National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
                                                                                                            Matt R. Nobles, Ph.D., Co-Principal Investigator, University of Central Florida
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, babylove&Sir, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, Grog4life, Raefe, AuthorMistressBlackrose, and UpstateScCouple
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                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/43203169Sat, 30 Jan 2021 20:33:50 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 8/30/2020 - In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are going to talk about Depression within the BDSM Community. - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - Rules to Love By 1:...- In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are going to talk about Depression within the BDSM Community.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Depression within the BDSM Community
                                                                                                            Depression is a mood disorder that causes a persistent feeling of sadness and lack of interest, to the extent that it interferes with your daily life. It is a common mental health problem that normally affects around 7% of the American population in a given year. However, that number has skyrocketed this year, 2020, due to the COVID-19 pandemic, and a cornucopia of other travesties this year has seemingly gift-wrapped for us all.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            There are lots of reasons why a person might be diagnosed with depression, from simple biological causes to psychological and social issues. Whatever causes depression, it’s important to remember that there is help out there for everyone.
                                                                                                            If you’ve found this because you’re feeling down or after listening to this you realize you might be struggling with depression, please reach out to someone – whether it’s a friend, family member, counselor, doctor, or online service.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Quotes:
                                                                                                            “Depression is living in a body that fights to survive, with a mind that tries to die.” – Danny Baker, author of “Depression is a Liar”
                                                                                                            “The only thing more exhausting than being depressed is pretending that you’re not.” – Unknown
                                                                                                            “It’s so difficult to describe depression to someone who’s never been there because it’s not sadness. I know sadness. Sadness is to cry and to feel. But it’s that cold absence of feeling—that really hollowed-out feeling.” – J.K. Rowling, author of “Harry Potter”
                                                                                                            “Depression, suffering, and anger are all part of being human.” - Janet Fitch, author of “White Oleander”
                                                                                                            “I’ll never forget how the depression and loneliness felt good and bad at the same time. Still does.” – Henry Rollins, musician, actor, author, poet, activist
                                                                                                            “It’s a bit like walking down a long corridor, never knowing when the light will go on.” - Neil Lennon, Irish Football Coach
                                                                                                            “Mental pain is less dramatic than physical pain, but it is more common and also more hard to bear. The frequent attempt to conceal mental pain increases the burden: It is easier to say ‘My tooth is aching’ than to say ‘My heart is broken.” – C.S. Lewis author of at least 24 books including “The Chronicles of Narnia”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - What is depression?
                                                                                                            Depression is a mood disorder that causes a persistent feeling of sadness and lack of interest, to the extent that it interferes with your daily life.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Who gets depressed?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - What causes depression?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Is depression curable, treatable, or none of the above?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - How BDSM helps with Depression/Pro’s
                                                                                                            “Kink 101: Depression and BDSM” by David Shorb (Feb. 8, 2019)
                                                                                                            https://www.manystories.com/story/5c5d82ba5fe1e6300036fe09
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Psychological Functioning and Violence Victimization and Perpetration in BDSM Practitioners from the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom”
                                                                                                            https://pdfs.semanticscholar.org/0cd8/abb591fda8685091c1f208bc757d616f0903.pdf
                                                                                                            Prepared by: Tess M. Gemberling, M.A., Co-Principal Investigator, University of Alabama
                                                                                                            Robert J. Cramer, Ph.D., Co-Principal Investigator, University of Alabama
                                                                                                            Susan...]]>3740bdsm,catharsis,depression,fighting,help,lifestyle,relationships,scening,suicideclean3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bdsm-concerns-about-new-domestic-abuse-laws-s03e08--43056539
                                                                                                            Recorded: 8/23/2020
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            - In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are going to talk about some new scary laws happening around the world and how they apply to those of us who live in the U.S.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - BDSM Concerns About New Domestic Abuse Laws
                                                                                                            “The BDSM Community Is Worried About Changes to the Domestic Abuse Bill: The much-welcomed end to the ‘rough sex defense’ has some kinky people concerned about the implications for BDSM.” by: Alice Snape (https://www.vice.com/en_uk/article/xg87v3/the-bdsm-community-is-worried-about-changes-to-the-domestic-abuse-bill)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            In July of this year, politicians in the UK hailed an amendment to the long-awaited Domestic Abuse Bill as the end of the "rough sex defense”. The new legislation states that consent can never justify grievous or actual bodily harm, even if it was perpetrated for the purposes of sexual gratification.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            While the bill itself has been rightly celebrated as a groundbreaking step forward for victims and survivors, many people in the BDSM community have expressed specific concern over this new amendment.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Actual bodily harm (ABH) can include bruising, scratching, and bite marks, which means that many forms of BDSM – where the mixing of sex and pain is done safely and consensually – could fall squarely within the remit of the new law.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “Any marks that last on the skin for longer than 20 minutes class as ABH, and impact play is commonly seen within a BDSM context,” says Aleph*, who is a top (the person in control during play).
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            During impact play, for instance... Full show notes: https://kuldrinsKrypt.com/308
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, babylove&Sir, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, Grog4life, Raefe, AuthorMistressBlackrose, and UpstateScCouple
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, LilyChaos, knot_the_daddy, KJ, Duckie Monroe, ArtKitten, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69, Bonneville, Atsila Rose, PBW, and MBRpoodle
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/43056539Fri, 22 Jan 2021 03:34:04 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCDue to technical issues that were unknown at the time, the audio quality is not at our usual standard. However, the content is extremely important for all those who enjoy the freedom to practice BDSM. Recorded: 8/23/2020 - Call in at 865-268-4005...
                                                                                                            Recorded: 8/23/2020
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            - In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are going to talk about some new scary laws happening around the world and how they apply to those of us who live in the U.S.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - BDSM Concerns About New Domestic Abuse Laws
                                                                                                            “The BDSM Community Is Worried About Changes to the Domestic Abuse Bill: The much-welcomed end to the ‘rough sex defense’ has some kinky people concerned about the implications for BDSM.” by: Alice Snape (https://www.vice.com/en_uk/article/xg87v3/the-bdsm-community-is-worried-about-changes-to-the-domestic-abuse-bill)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            In July of this year, politicians in the UK hailed an amendment to the long-awaited Domestic Abuse Bill as the end of the "rough sex defense”. The new legislation states that consent can never justify grievous or actual bodily harm, even if it was perpetrated for the purposes of sexual gratification.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            While the bill itself has been rightly celebrated as a groundbreaking step forward for victims and survivors, many people in the BDSM community have expressed specific concern over this new amendment.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Actual bodily harm (ABH) can include bruising, scratching, and bite marks, which means that many forms of BDSM – where the mixing of sex and pain is done safely and consensually – could fall squarely within the remit of the new law.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “Any marks that last on the skin for longer than 20 minutes class as ABH, and impact play is commonly seen within a BDSM context,” says Aleph*, who is a top (the person in control during play).
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            During impact play, for instance... Full show notes: https://kuldrinsKrypt.com/308
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
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                                                                                                            Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/308
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you: 
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Benefactor ($2,000/month): 
                                                                                                            Pro Producer ($100/month): 
                                                                                                            Master Producer ($50/month): 
                                                                                                            Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, and Lylac Wine
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, babylove&Sir, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, Grog4life, Raefe, AuthorMistressBlackrose, and UpstateScCouple
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, LilyChaos, knot_the_daddy, KJ, Duckie Monroe, ArtKitten, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69, Bonneville, Atsila Rose, PBW, and MBRpoodle
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, and Morgana13
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, 3321abuse,bdsm,coalition,concent,dom,freedom,law,laws,master,national,ncsf,relationship,sexual,slave,subclean3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-transition-from-vanilla-marriages-and-ltr-s-to-ds-s03e07--42946711- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this episode of The Krypt, Babylove is joining me and Mayfair to tell her story and give advice about how to transition from a vanilla marriage or relationship into a D/s dynamic.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            How to transition from vanilla marriages/long term relationships to D/s with BabyLove
                                                                                                            - Only my experience, every couple will be different.
                                                                                                            - What is Power Exchange
                                                                                                            - What isn’t PE- it’s not abuse, it’s not domineering, it’s not a doormat
                                                                                                            - While PE falls under BDSM, isn’t just about kinky fun.
                                                                                                            - Equals in an uneven relationship (find the wording for this)
                                                                                                            - Talk. Introduce slowly, Check-in. Go slow. Trial run, Find resources. Engage with other PE couples. Talk some more. Get used to being uncomfortable, vulnerable, and transparent with each other. Talk more. Be ready to discover things about yourself that you love and that you don’t. Talk more.
                                                                                                            - Pick 3-4 things you would like to try out in your dynamic. This is what we added first.
                                                                                                            - Check In’s: We learned this tip from Master Kuldrin! Set aside a consistent and
                                                                                                            - intentional time to check-in. During this time the PE is temporarily suspended to allow for both sides to be able to freely express themselves without fear of stepping on each other’s toes.
                                                                                                            - Questions for check-ins:
                                                                                                            - Looking back at my journals, this is where some of the nitty gritty got sorted out. Me asking if he wanted me to anticipate his tea or wait for him to indicate. Him affirming to me that I was helping to relieve his stress home load
                                                                                                            - Trial period:
                                                                                                            - Resources: PE relationships are intense and a lot of work. We found it helped to find resources that reflected our relationship.
                                                                                                            - Sir’s Self-acceptance: He said he has done a lot more soul searching than expected. By talking to other Doms, listening to podcasts, attending power exchange workshops, he was able to move past his preconceived notions that being a dom doesn’t make him an ass. Being a Dom plays right into his leadership style of empowering others
                                                                                                            - Empowered him at work to also lead and speak out
                                                                                                            - My self-acceptance: For me, it’s been accepting that serving and following Him makes me happy gives me structure.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            - Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/307
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                                            Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, and Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, and Rei Webb
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, Master Gabriel, babylove&Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, and Grog4life, Raefe, and AuthorMistressBlackrose
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, LilyChaos, KJ, knot_the_daddy, Duckie Monroe, ArtKitten, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69, Carly, and Atsila Rose
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, and Jeremiah
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            - http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Bringing Geeky fantasies to life
                                                                                                            - https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 - Tink’s Toys
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/42946711Fri, 15 Jan 2021 05:50:39 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 8/16/2020 / Published: 1/15/2021 - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com - In this episode of The Krypt, Babylove is joining me and Mayfair to tell her story and give advice about...- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - In this episode of The Krypt, Babylove is joining me and Mayfair to tell her story and give advice about how to transition from a vanilla marriage or relationship into a D/s dynamic.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            How to transition from vanilla marriages/long term relationships to D/s with BabyLove
                                                                                                            - Only my experience, every couple will be different.
                                                                                                            - What is Power Exchange
                                                                                                            - What isn’t PE- it’s not abuse, it’s not domineering, it’s not a doormat
                                                                                                            - While PE falls under BDSM, isn’t just about kinky fun.
                                                                                                            - Equals in an uneven relationship (find the wording for this)
                                                                                                            - Talk. Introduce slowly, Check-in. Go slow. Trial run, Find resources. Engage with other PE couples. Talk some more. Get used to being uncomfortable, vulnerable, and transparent with each other. Talk more. Be ready to discover things about yourself that you love and that you don’t. Talk more.
                                                                                                            - Pick 3-4 things you would like to try out in your dynamic. This is what we added first.
                                                                                                            - Check In’s: We learned this tip from Master Kuldrin! Set aside a consistent and
                                                                                                            - intentional time to check-in. During this time the PE is temporarily suspended to allow for both sides to be able to freely express themselves without fear of stepping on each other’s toes.
                                                                                                            - Questions for check-ins:
                                                                                                            - Looking back at my journals, this is where some of the nitty gritty got sorted out. Me asking if he wanted me to anticipate his tea or wait for him to indicate. Him affirming to me that I was helping to relieve his stress home load
                                                                                                            - Trial period:
                                                                                                            - Resources: PE relationships are intense and a lot of work. We found it helped to find resources that reflected our relationship.
                                                                                                            - Sir’s Self-acceptance: He said he has done a lot more soul searching than expected. By talking to other Doms, listening to podcasts, attending power exchange workshops, he was able to move past his preconceived notions that being a dom doesn’t make him an ass. Being a Dom plays right into his leadership style of empowering others
                                                                                                            - Empowered him at work to also lead and speak out
                                                                                                            - My self-acceptance: For me, it’s been accepting that serving and following Him makes me happy gives me structure.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Important Links:
                                                                                                            - https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            - https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            - https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            - https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            - Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/307
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                                            Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, and Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, and Rei Webb
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, Master Gabriel, babylove&Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, and Grog4life, Raefe, and AuthorMistressBlackrose
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, LilyChaos, KJ, knot_the_daddy, Duckie Monroe, ArtKitten, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69, Carly, and Atsila Rose
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month):...]]>5035bdsm,dom,dominant,marriage,relationship,sub,submissive,transitionclean3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/locked-away-bdsm-chastity-with-master-gear-s03e06--42849513
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt, The Reverend aka Master Gear of The KinkyAF Podcast is joining me and Mayfair to take a deep dive into the world of chastity.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Rules to Love By ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Master Reverend Gear from The Kinky AF Podcast http://KinkyAFpodcast.com
                                                                                                            https://anchor.fm/kinkyafpodcast/episodes/Episode-10-Chastity-e1r3dl
                                                                                                            -How long Master Gear thinks is ok or too far to lock.
                                                                                                            -Using an app verse mailing keys away.
                                                                                                            -Chastity contracts. What does he think about signing a long-distance contract? Does he suggest using a service for them?
                                                                                                            -Is pain play ok while locked up?
                                                                                                            -What does he think is better metal or plastic?
                                                                                                            -Which is better for long-distance or long-term?
                                                                                                            -Does a sub need to have a period to release to clean for safety or is it ok to just ride it out.
                                                                                                            -Do either of you think a PA piercing with chastity is a good idea?
                                                                                                            -Would you or do you think it should be allowed for other people other than dom and sub to add time to chastity?
                                                                                                            -How do you feel about chastity from a dom stance? Do you think guys like me should always be locked?
                                                                                                            Questions for the postshow: Not related to chastity, but I feel like you two can come up with good answers.
                                                                                                            -Pee play or public urinal submission. What do you two think?
                                                                                                            -Public humiliation. Best ways to humiliate a sub without getting caught?
                                                                                                            -Day collars for male subs. I feel like there are a lot for females what do you two suggestions for male subs?
                                                                                                            -How do you feel about allowing other doms or subs to add additional punishments or humiliation??
                                                                                                            Comedy Dungeon: A benefit for Sanctuary LAX
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                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/306
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            Pro Producer ($100/month):
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/42849513Fri, 08 Jan 2021 21:06:43 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded Live: 8/09/2020 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt, The Reverend aka Master Gear of The KinkyAF Podcast is joining me and Mayfair to take a deep dive...
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt, The Reverend aka Master Gear of The KinkyAF Podcast is joining me and Mayfair to take a deep dive into the world of chastity.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Master Reverend Gear from The Kinky AF Podcast http://KinkyAFpodcast.com
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                                                                                                            -How long Master Gear thinks is ok or too far to lock.
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                                                                                                            -Chastity contracts. What does he think about signing a long-distance contract? Does he suggest using a service for them?
                                                                                                            -Is pain play ok while locked up?
                                                                                                            -What does he think is better metal or plastic?
                                                                                                            -Which is better for long-distance or long-term?
                                                                                                            -Does a sub need to have a period to release to clean for safety or is it ok to just ride it out.
                                                                                                            -Do either of you think a PA piercing with chastity is a good idea?
                                                                                                            -Would you or do you think it should be allowed for other people other than dom and sub to add time to chastity?
                                                                                                            -How do you feel about chastity from a dom stance? Do you think guys like me should always be locked?
                                                                                                            Questions for the postshow: Not related to chastity, but I feel like you two can come up with good answers.
                                                                                                            -Pee play or public urinal submission. What do you two think?
                                                                                                            -Public humiliation. Best ways to humiliate a sub without getting caught?
                                                                                                            -Day collars for male subs. I feel like there are a lot for females what do you two suggestions for male subs?
                                                                                                            -How do you feel about allowing other doms or subs to add additional punishments or humiliation??
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                                                                                                            -In this episode of The Krypt Myself, Mayfair and the chatroom are going to have a conversation on how BDSM is viewed in third world countries. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -”Sex Talk: Is it domestic violence or BDSM?” by Carolyne Nakazibwe July 30, 2020.
                                                                                                            https://observer.ug/lifestyle/65897-sex-talk-is-it-domestic-violence-or-bdsm
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Someone asked me, does BDSM exist in Uganda? I honestly have no idea, but I bet many of the physically abusive people to their spouses are covertly into BDSM and are just not able to ‘diagnose’ themselves as such.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            In case you were wondering, BDSM are erotic practices (some will say perversions) that involve bondage, dominance, sadism and masochism, executed through role-playing.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Forget the light-weight role-playing of one handcuffing their spouse to the bed during sex or dressing up as a cop, nurse, etc.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            This is some seriously dark stuff that involves treating one’s spouse like grime, whipping them until they bleed, tying them up with ropes, strangling them, etc. I remember when the Fifty Shades Of Grey trilogy was first released in 2011, many married women worldwide bored by the sex in their marriages got weird seeds planted in their minds.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The books by E.L. James are possibly the boldest exploration of BDSM and even seek to glorify it in a way. The trilogy was such a hit that every romance novel-loving woman seemed to have a copy; televangelist and American mega church pastor Dr Creflo Dollar once hilariously spent time debunking the novel before giving one of his sermons, telling the ‘sisters’ to not ask their husbands to bring ropes into the bedroom, or whips to lash them during sex.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            That is BDSM. And the more I think about it, the more I am convinced that where it exists in Uganda, it comes in a sad GBV (gender based violence) package. There are many people who get off by inflicting pain on their spouses, but will not say outright that this is what pervasively turns them on.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            There are wives who argue that unless their husbands physically hurt them, they don’t love them, and even actively provoke their husbands until they receive the beating. Honey, you could be into BDSM; that is, you get sexually aroused from being beaten and treated like trash.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            I am tempted to ‘diagnose’ a couple in my neighborhood as BDSM enthusiasts because the surrounding community knows when they have sex. It always starts with a huge fight in the dead of night, which has the village dogs barking in agitation as they hurl bricks and garden tools at each other and run all over their compound screaming.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Then all goes quiet and the next morning they walk around looking like the cats that ate the cream. The first time I heard them fight, I called 999 (they actually turned up – drunk, but coherent) only for the police to get to the home in question and nobody answered.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Still trying to be the good citizen, the next time it happened I told a village council member to “be ready for a murder one of these days” if nothing was done. Eventually, I was told that was “their thing”. We have learned to sleep through their stampedes.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Each to their own. I think sex is the weirdest thing our Lord created for us; there is no one formula to how different heads are wired when it comes to the kind of lovemaking couples indulge in.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            But the thing with BDSM and this part of Africa is that there is no playing with pain. Maybe the West romanticizes and eroticizes beatings and pain because it is something many do not encounter growing up.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Otherwise, for those that were beaten for coming home late from school; beaten for dodging the midday nap; beaten for saying ‘bad words’ (heck, a Buganda Road primary school teacher beat me for being caught reading the biblical book of Song of Songs!); beaten for taking a bad report card home; beaten for experimenting with cooking using tins and real fire, etc, anyone raises a cane later in life and we only see red! There is no romanticizing GBV here.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            That is why I suspect those that get an erotic kick out of inflicting and receiving physical pain, never say so. All they know is that the sex in their marriage is either make-up sex or no sex at all.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Until someone actually dies or suffers permanent damage.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            carol@observer.ug
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/42204138Fri, 27 Nov 2020 20:33:13 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 5/24/2020 / Published to podcast: 11/27/2020 -Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.  -In this episode of The Krypt Myself, Mayfair and the chatroom are going to have a conversation...
                                                                                                            -Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -In this episode of The Krypt Myself, Mayfair and the chatroom are going to have a conversation on how BDSM is viewed in third world countries. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -”Sex Talk: Is it domestic violence or BDSM?” by Carolyne Nakazibwe July 30, 2020.
                                                                                                            https://observer.ug/lifestyle/65897-sex-talk-is-it-domestic-violence-or-bdsm
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Someone asked me, does BDSM exist in Uganda? I honestly have no idea, but I bet many of the physically abusive people to their spouses are covertly into BDSM and are just not able to ‘diagnose’ themselves as such.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            In case you were wondering, BDSM are erotic practices (some will say perversions) that involve bondage, dominance, sadism and masochism, executed through role-playing.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Forget the light-weight role-playing of one handcuffing their spouse to the bed during sex or dressing up as a cop, nurse, etc.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            This is some seriously dark stuff that involves treating one’s spouse like grime, whipping them until they bleed, tying them up with ropes, strangling them, etc. I remember when the Fifty Shades Of Grey trilogy was first released in 2011, many married women worldwide bored by the sex in their marriages got weird seeds planted in their minds.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The books by E.L. James are possibly the boldest exploration of BDSM and even seek to glorify it in a way. The trilogy was such a hit that every romance novel-loving woman seemed to have a copy; televangelist and American mega church pastor Dr Creflo Dollar once hilariously spent time debunking the novel before giving one of his sermons, telling the ‘sisters’ to not ask their husbands to bring ropes into the bedroom, or whips to lash them during sex.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            That is BDSM. And the more I think about it, the more I am convinced that where it exists in Uganda, it comes in a sad GBV (gender based violence) package. There are many people who get off by inflicting pain on their spouses, but will not say outright that this is what pervasively turns them on.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            There are wives who argue that unless their husbands physically hurt them, they don’t love them, and even actively provoke their husbands until they receive the beating. Honey, you could be into BDSM; that is, you get sexually aroused from being beaten and treated like trash.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            I am tempted to ‘diagnose’ a couple in my neighborhood as BDSM enthusiasts because the surrounding community knows when they have sex. It always starts with a huge fight in the dead of night, which has the village dogs barking in agitation as they hurl bricks and garden tools at each other and run all over their compound screaming.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Then all goes quiet and the next morning they walk around looking like the cats that ate the cream. The first time I heard them fight, I called 999 (they actually turned up – drunk, but coherent) only for the police to get to the home in question and nobody answered.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Still trying to be the good citizen, the next time it happened I told a village council member to “be ready for a murder one of these days” if nothing was done. Eventually, I was told that was “their thing”. We have learned to sleep through their stampedes.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Each to their own. I think sex is the weirdest thing our Lord created for us; there is no one formula to how different heads are wired when it comes to the kind of lovemaking couples indulge in.3581attitude,bdsm,relationship,third,third-world,u.s.a.,view,worldclean3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bdsm-choking-and-breathe-play-s03e04--42190486
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt we are going to talk about choking and breathe play.
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love by:
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                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - DISCLAIMER: This is extremely dangerous. We recommend you NOT do this. If you choose to participate in this type of play, you are taking responsibility for the consequences which could include serious injury and/or death. BDSM is NOT a valid defense for accidental death and if your partner dies you will go to prison for negligent homicide.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Why Some People Are Turned on by Choking During Sex—and How to Do It Safely, According to Experts (By Gigi Engle, July 21, 2020 https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a26471117/choking-during-sex/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Have you been curious about choking during sex? Maybe you had a partner recently who, seemingly out of nowhere, asked you to choke them? Or perhaps you saw a porn scene recently where choking was the main attraction? What’s the deal? We have the goods.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Before we get into the psychology of why people are into choking, it’s important to address that choking during sex is extremely dangerous and should be done with caution. There are many risks. Just because you saw choking in a porn scene or are interested in it, does not mean you should just run off and choke your partner. With so much hardcore porn out there showcasing choking as this “no big deal” kind of thing that apparently happens every time you sleep with someone (it doesn’t), we suddenly have novices out here thinking choking is a first date activity. This is all around a BAD idea.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you’re interested in choking during sex, you need to be so, so careful. This is not the same as spanking, light bondage, or other forms of kinky play. It is capital “D” Dangerous.
                                                                                                            You also need to get explicit verbal consent and negotiate how you’re going to choke your partner before you even think about putting your hands around your partner’s neck. In a recent 2019 study conducted by Debby Herbenick, a professor and sex researcher at the Indiana University School of Public Health, 23 of the 347 female respondents described feeling scared during sex because their partner had tried to choke them unexpectedly.
                                                                                                            So, why are people into choking during sex—and how can you do it safely, if you're one of them? We spoke to some experts to get the inside scoop.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - What's the psychology behind the appeal of choking during sex?
                                                                                                            "For men, choking close to orgasm can have a euphoric effect on climax, but should always be done safely," says Lia Holmgren, intimacy and relationship coach, and the upcoming author of Play with Power. She adds, "Women can have more intense orgasms when coupled with breath play (choking).”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            But the appeal of choking may go beyond stronger orgasms. The turn-on has deep psychological implications, giving both partners an opportunity to explore different roles during sex.
                                                                                                            Choking highlights the giving and receiving of control. Giving someone permission to choke you—or visa versa—is allowing the two of you to take on dominant and submissive roles in bed. This is something many of us long for: A release from control, or the power to take it. For example, when you’re used to making decisions, perhaps the idea of letting someone else control you during sex can be a turn-on.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “Choking is an act of surrender when we completely trust the other, dominant party, and let them take complete ‘life-threatening’ control over the submissive party,” Holmgren says. She points out that the "life-threatening" aspect of choking is simply a perceived fantasy. You’re not really looking for any sort of near-death experience, but the prospect of someone having that power can be hot.
                                                                                                            How can you SAFELY incorporate choking into your sex life?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            There's a problem with the way some people perceive choking. Daniel Saynt, founder of The New Society for Wellness (NSFW), a sex-positive members-only club that hosts sexual education workshops, explains: “Choking is common in porn, usually with a male in the dominant position, so many feel this aggressive action is part of being 'a man' or providing strength/dominance in a sexual experience. They feel that doing it is how sex should be done.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            This has dangerous implications. Watching someone get choked out on RedTube does not, in any way, constitute a lesson in proper choking technique. If you do it wrong, it could lead to serious injury or even death.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - A clear mind is a must.
                                                                                                            If you don’t know what you’re doing, haven’t discussed boundaries, and/or aren’t in a proper state of mind, stay the hell away from breath play of any kind.
                                                                                                            "If you are going to be choking your partner, you need to make it safe, sane, and consensual," Holmgren warns. “Don’t practice or perform choking and breath control when you are under the influence of drugs and alcohol, or when [a partner is] unable to consent or [you] haven’t pre-discussed the act.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Take classes and learn what you’re doing.
                                                                                                            If you don’t know what you’re doing, you could seriously hurt someone. The way to figure out how to choke someone is with workshops, proper training, and practice.
                                                                                                            “If choking or being choked is something you are serious about, you need to take it seriously. Study the anatomy of the neck and read [up] on choking before you even do it,” Holmgren explains.
                                                                                                            Figure out the best way to touch your partner's neck.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - When you start using choking with a partner, gently press on either side of the esophagus and figure out the pressure that works for them. If you push directly on the front of their neck (where you gather breath, the Adam’s Apple section of the throat) you can cause coughing. This is uncomfortable, not sexy, and SUPER DANGEROUS.
                                                                                                            “You are restricting airflow, which means the strength you use on your partner's neck shouldn’t be crushing," Saynt says. "You don’t want to break their esophagus."
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Pay very close attention to how your partner responds.
                                                                                                            “If you restrict airflow too long, you can cause brain damage or death, so don’t get too caught up in the moment," Saynt says. "Be mindful during play to ensure the safest experience for you and your partner."
                                                                                                            Your partner should be able to answer you if you speak. If they can’t, stop what you’re doing immediately. Never choke someone so hard they cannot express words vocally. Check-in with each other and gather information about personal preferences as you become more experienced.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Set up boundaries.
                                                                                                            Before any choking takes place, both partners need to establish boundaries and indicate what they are and aren't OK with. Perhaps you’re looking for “hands-only” play, wherein a partner only uses their hands to choke you, or maybe a collar is more your thing. Whatever you’re into, a discussion must take place.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Holmgren suggests talking about the timing, intensity, and overall goal of the choking. “You want to determine when your partner wants to be choked, (during penetration, oral, etc.) or closer to climax," she adds.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            You should also talk about the "style" of choking: Is it playful, dominant, maybe a little pretend scary? All of this should be determined BEFORE you ever do it, Saynt says.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Finally, have a safe word.
                                                                                                            In all BDSM play, a safe word should be established beforehand. This is an agreed-upon, usually non-sexual phrase that indicates when one's partner is uncomfortable and wants the play to stop.
                                                                                                            Even though your partner should always be able to speak while they’re being choked, you should also have a “safety action,” just in case they aren’t able to verbally communicate. With choking, a common safety action is to quickly shake your head “no” to indicate that the choking needs to immediately cease. Repeatedly tapping your partner (as one does when wrestling) is also another way to indicate that the choking needs to stop.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - “Breath Play Is a Popular Form of BDSM. Here's How to Do It Safely.” (By Suzannah Weiss, July 21, 2020)
                                                                                                            https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a33382089/breath-play-erotic-asphyxiation-bdsm/
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/42190486Fri, 27 Nov 2020 00:28:04 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 7/26/2020 / Podcast Published: 11/26/2020 - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt we are going to talk about choking and breathe play. - Rules to Love...
                                                                                                            - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt we are going to talk about choking and breathe play.
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - DISCLAIMER: This is extremely dangerous. We recommend you NOT do this. If you choose to participate in this type of play, you are taking responsibility for the consequences which could include serious injury and/or death. BDSM is NOT a valid defense for accidental death and if your partner dies you will go to prison for negligent homicide.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Why Some People Are Turned on by Choking During Sex—and How to Do It Safely, According to Experts (By Gigi Engle, July 21, 2020 https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a26471117/choking-during-sex/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Have you been curious about choking during sex? Maybe you had a partner recently who, seemingly out of nowhere, asked you to choke them? Or perhaps you saw a porn scene recently where choking was the main attraction? What’s the deal? We have the goods.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Before we get into the psychology of why people are into choking, it’s important to address that choking during sex is extremely dangerous and should be done with caution. There are many risks. Just because you saw choking in a porn scene or are interested in it, does not mean you should just run off and choke your partner. With so much hardcore porn out there showcasing choking as this “no big deal” kind of thing that apparently happens every time you sleep with someone (it doesn’t), we suddenly have novices out here thinking choking is a first date activity. This is all around a BAD idea.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you’re interested in choking during sex, you need to be so, so careful. This is not the same as spanking, light bondage, or other forms of kinky play. It is capital “D” Dangerous.
                                                                                                            You also need to get explicit verbal consent and negotiate how you’re going to choke your partner before you even think about putting your hands around your partner’s neck. In a recent 2019 study conducted by Debby Herbenick, a professor and sex researcher at the Indiana University School of Public Health, 23 of the 347 female respondents described feeling scared during sex because their partner had tried to choke them unexpectedly.
                                                                                                            So, why are people into choking during sex—and how can you do it safely, if you're one of them? We spoke to some experts to get the inside scoop.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - What's the psychology behind the appeal of choking during sex?
                                                                                                            "For men, choking close to orgasm can have a euphoric effect on climax, but should always be done safely," says Lia Holmgren, intimacy and relationship coach, and the upcoming author of Play with Power. She adds, "Women can have more intense orgasms when coupled with breath play (choking).”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            But the appeal of choking may go beyond stronger orgasms. The turn-on has deep psychological implications, giving both partners an opportunity to explore different roles during sex.
                                                                                                            Choking highlights the giving and receiving of control. Giving someone permission to choke you—or visa versa—is allowing the two of you to take on dominant and submissive roles in bed. This is something many of us long for: A release from control, or the power to take it. For example, when you’re used to making decisions, perhaps the idea of letting someone else control you during sex can be a turn-on.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “Choking is an act of surrender when we completely trust the other, dominant party, and let them take complete...]]>3593bdsm,breathe,choke,choking,dangerous,edge,playclean3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/improving-your-bdsm-play-with-safewords-s03e03--42165661
                                                                                                            -Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair and I are going to be joined by show Executive Producer JUnicornsAngel to have an in-depth conversation about safewords, using them to improve your scene quality, and the underutilized use of yellow.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Safewords: How to use them to improve your scene life.
                                                                                                            Safewords (what constitutes a good safe word)
                                                                                                            Nonverbal safe”words”: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            JUni’s personal history with safewords
                                                                                                            Beginning – not knowing how to yellow, and not wanting to red.
                                                                                                            Learning to yellow but still not wanting to red.
                                                                                                            Being forced to red, good bad indifferent.
                                                                                                            Using red in exactly the right place, the world not ending.
                                                                                                            Kuldrin’s use of safewords?
                                                                                                            Mayfair’s use of safewords
                                                                                                            Emphasis on Yellow:
                                                                                                            Different meanings of yellow
                                                                                                            Extending scene & pleasure
                                                                                                            Safety
                                                                                                            Good measure of “testing” for both Top and Bottom?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Important Links:
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon 
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication 
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic 
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/303
                                                                                                             
                                                                                                            -Show Producers (updated 7/5/2020):
                                                                                                            -Benefactor ($2,000/month): 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                                            Master Producer ($50/month): LilyChaos
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, and Haru Webb
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx,JayKay, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Roxiebear, babylove & Sir, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, Grog4life, Raefe, and Author Mistress Black Rose
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, Trouble113, KJ, Duckie Monroe, Alicia Ray, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, and Raider69Time
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, and macNmiller
                                                                                                            -Become a show producer: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Vendors I know, like, trust, and use. (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.):
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories.
                                                                                                            https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - The finest nerdy insertable sex toys.
                                                                                                            https://fetlife.com/users/9885653 - Tinks-Toys on Fetlife
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Contact info:
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/42165661Wed, 25 Nov 2020 20:34:23 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 7/19/2020 -Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. -In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair and I are going to be joined by show Executive Producer JUnicornsAngel to have an in-depth...
                                                                                                            -Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair and I are going to be joined by show Executive Producer JUnicornsAngel to have an in-depth conversation about safewords, using them to improve your scene quality, and the underutilized use of yellow.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Safewords: How to use them to improve your scene life.
                                                                                                            Safewords (what constitutes a good safe word)
                                                                                                            Nonverbal safe”words”: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            JUni’s personal history with safewords
                                                                                                            Beginning – not knowing how to yellow, and not wanting to red.
                                                                                                            Learning to yellow but still not wanting to red.
                                                                                                            Being forced to red, good bad indifferent.
                                                                                                            Using red in exactly the right place, the world not ending.
                                                                                                            Kuldrin’s use of safewords?
                                                                                                            Mayfair’s use of safewords
                                                                                                            Emphasis on Yellow:
                                                                                                            Different meanings of yellow
                                                                                                            Extending scene & pleasure
                                                                                                            Safety
                                                                                                            Good measure of “testing” for both Top and Bottom?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Important Links:
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon 
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication 
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic 
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/303
                                                                                                             
                                                                                                            -Show Producers (updated 7/5/2020):
                                                                                                            -Benefactor ($2,000/month): 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                                            Master Producer ($50/month): LilyChaos
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, and Haru Webb
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx,JayKay, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Roxiebear, babylove & Sir, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, Grog4life, Raefe, and Author Mistress Black Rose
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, Trouble113, KJ, Duckie Monroe, Alicia Ray, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, and Raider69Time
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, and macNmiller
                                                                                                            -Become a show producer: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Vendors I know, like, trust, and use. (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.):
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories.
                                                                                                            https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - The finest nerdy insertable sex toys.
                                                                                                            https://fetlife.com/users/9885653 - Tinks-Toys on Fetlife
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire 3736bdsm,bottom,dom,dominant,d/s,master,play,playtime,relationship,safe,sex,sir,slave,sub,submissive,top,word,wordsclean3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/play-party-post-covid-19-and-the-mechanics-of-a-bdsm-scene-s03e02--41801744Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair joins us again for a conversation about last night’s play party, we will break down how to scene from start to finish, and then we will answer your questions, live.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Rules to love by.
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Important Links
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/245
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            Pro Producer ($100/month): Lily Chaos
                                                                                                            Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, Sweet Charlotte, and JunicornsAngel
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, and Grog4life
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley, KJ, Duckie and Monroe.
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, and macNmiller
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/41801744Thu, 05 Nov 2020 01:40:48 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 7/12/2020 / Published: 11/04/2020 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair joins us again for a conversation about last night’s play party, we will...Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair joins us again for a conversation about last night’s play party, we will break down how to scene from start to finish, and then we will answer your questions, live.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Rules to love by.
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Important Links
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/245
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            Pro Producer ($100/month): Lily Chaos
                                                                                                            Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, Sweet Charlotte, and JunicornsAngel
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, and Grog4life
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley, KJ, Duckie and Monroe.
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, and macNmiller
                                                                                                            Become a show producer: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>4267bdsm,dungeon,how,play,scene,scening,toclean3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/emotional-sadists-masochists-and-terrorists-s03e01--41607750Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair85 is joining me to talk about emotional sadomasochism.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Rules to Love By:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Some information is sourced from “15 Signs of Emotional Masochism” By Mike Bundrant https://blogs.psychcentral.com/nlp/2015/03/signs-emotional-masochism/?fbclid=IwAR0po8lky89XvbEe35L9uUKF3Ui64DOvaMsVt0PU3rdnsbJ4YB-gSZ9eXSU
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Emotional masochism
                                                                                                            Definition: The tendency to find blatant or subtle pleasure d/t familiarity, self-justification, and/or self-victimization.
                                                                                                            Chronic yet avoidable emotional pain d/t a psychological attachment or trauma.
                                                                                                            Finding subconscious pleasure in emotional negativity.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Emotional sadism
                                                                                                            Definition: The act of inflicting consensual or nonconsensual emotional pain on another person.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -15 Signs of Emotional Masochism
                                                                                                            1: Start arguments for no apparent reason.
                                                                                                            2: Engorge ourselves with food until it hurts.
                                                                                                            3: Quit goals right when things start to go well.
                                                                                                            4: Run from happy relationships.
                                                                                                            5: Quit jobs that have potential.
                                                                                                            6: End friendships over trivial matters.
                                                                                                            7: Knowingly spend more money than we have.
                                                                                                            8: Abuse of alcohol and drugs.
                                                                                                            9: Tolerate people who hurt us.
                                                                                                            10: Tolerate people who control us.
                                                                                                            11: Tolerate people who reject and demean us.
                                                                                                            12: Tolerate people who humiliate us.
                                                                                                            13: Refuse to stand up for ourselves.
                                                                                                            14: Hold onto painful feelings.
                                                                                                            15: Criticize ourselves incessantly.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Definition:
                                                                                                            An emotional sadist, masochist, or sadomasochist that knowingly, intentionally, and nonconsensually inflicts emotional harm to others or creates situations for others to inflict emotional harm to themselves.
                                                                                                            Someone who is pathologically motivated by unresolved tendencies from a problematical childhood or adult trauma and is pathologically insensitive to the feelings of others obsessively seek through unbounded action to achieve a destructive goal with disregard for other people’s wellbeing.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Emotional sadomasochism in BDSM/Kink
                                                                                                            It’s consensual!
                                                                                                            More intense types beyond general 101 degradation and humiliation are most commonly referred to as edge play because there can be long term psychological effects.
                                                                                                            Common forms of emotional sadomasochistic play:
                                                                                                            Degradation: make a person feel less about themselves.
                                                                                                            Humiliation: embarrass someone.
                                                                                                            Fear Play: create a situation where someone believes they are at risk for imminent danger. (Primal, blade, consensual non-consent, kidnapping/capture, interrogation, waterboarding, slave sharing/auction, …)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Total Power Exchange: Giving away all of ones power is in itself an act of emotional masochism.
                                                                                                            Emotional Sobriety (Dr. Tian Dayton, PhD): sheds light on how and why an individual engages in unhealthy coping mechanisms and how to stop them; it is based on research of the physiology of emotions, that is, the mind/body connection (the thinking mind and our limbic system-the part of the brain that processes emotions); studies show that repeated painful experiences or “relationship trauma” deregulate the limbic system, thus inhibiting our ability to naturally process our emotions and control or reactions to stress. When we are in this state of imbalance, it is often that we reach for alternate, sometimes self-destructive “mood mangers”.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            DBT Diary (Dr. Matthew McKay, PhD and Jeffrey C. Wood, Psy D): Therapists developed DBT as way to help people with overwhelming emotions calm themselves when their feelings become too painful or out of control. This book provides an overview of each of the four DBT skills(distress tolerance, mindfulness, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness) and includes a journal you can use each day to monitor your successes, chart your progress, and stay on track making productive changes on our life.
                                                                                                            Practicing Happiness Workbook (Dr. Ruth Baer, PhD): Helps you break free from the psychological traps that can lead to stress, anxiety, and depression. The author outlines four common traps that people get stuck in: rumination, avoidance, emotion-driven behavior, and self-criticism. This book helps you apply mindfulness skills to everyday situations to aid in overcoming these traps.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/301
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers (updated 7/5/2020):
                                                                                                            Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                                            Master Producer ($50/month): LilyChaos
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/41607750Fri, 23 Oct 2020 18:32:06 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 7/5/2020 / Published: 10/23/2020 Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes,...Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair85 is joining me to talk about emotional sadomasochism.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Rules to Love By:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Some information is sourced from “15 Signs of Emotional Masochism” By Mike Bundrant https://blogs.psychcentral.com/nlp/2015/03/signs-emotional-masochism/?fbclid=IwAR0po8lky89XvbEe35L9uUKF3Ui64DOvaMsVt0PU3rdnsbJ4YB-gSZ9eXSU
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Emotional masochism
                                                                                                            Definition: The tendency to find blatant or subtle pleasure d/t familiarity, self-justification, and/or self-victimization.
                                                                                                            Chronic yet avoidable emotional pain d/t a psychological attachment or trauma.
                                                                                                            Finding subconscious pleasure in emotional negativity.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Emotional sadism
                                                                                                            Definition: The act of inflicting consensual or nonconsensual emotional pain on another person.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -15 Signs of Emotional Masochism
                                                                                                            1: Start arguments for no apparent reason.
                                                                                                            2: Engorge ourselves with food until it hurts.
                                                                                                            3: Quit goals right when things start to go well.
                                                                                                            4: Run from happy relationships.
                                                                                                            5: Quit jobs that have potential.
                                                                                                            6: End friendships over trivial matters.
                                                                                                            7: Knowingly spend more money than we have.
                                                                                                            8: Abuse of alcohol and drugs.
                                                                                                            9: Tolerate people who hurt us.
                                                                                                            10: Tolerate people who control us.
                                                                                                            11: Tolerate people who reject and demean us.
                                                                                                            12: Tolerate people who humiliate us.
                                                                                                            13: Refuse to stand up for ourselves.
                                                                                                            14: Hold onto painful feelings.
                                                                                                            15: Criticize ourselves incessantly.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Definition:
                                                                                                            An emotional sadist, masochist, or sadomasochist that knowingly, intentionally, and nonconsensually inflicts emotional harm to others or creates situations for others to inflict emotional harm to themselves.
                                                                                                            Someone who is pathologically motivated by unresolved tendencies from a problematical childhood or adult trauma and is pathologically insensitive to the feelings of others obsessively seek through unbounded action to achieve a destructive goal with disregard for other people’s wellbeing.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Emotional sadomasochism in BDSM/Kink
                                                                                                            It’s consensual!
                                                                                                            More intense types beyond general 101 degradation and humiliation are most commonly referred to as edge play because there can be long term psychological effects.
                                                                                                            Common forms of emotional sadomasochistic play:
                                                                                                            Degradation: make a person feel less about themselves.
                                                                                                            Humiliation: embarrass someone.
                                                                                                            Fear Play: create a situation where someone believes they are at risk for imminent danger. (Primal, blade, consensual non-consent, kidnapping/capture, interrogation, waterboarding, slave sharing/auction, …)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Total Power Exchange: Giving away all of ones power is in itself an act of emotional masochism.
                                                                                                            Emotional Sobriety (Dr. Tian Dayton, PhD): sheds light on how and why an individual engages in unhealthy coping mechanisms and how to stop them; it is based on research of the physiology of emotions, that is, the mind/body connection (the thinking mind and our limbic system-the part of the brain that processes emotions); studies show that repeated painful experiences or...]]>3928101,bdsm,diy,d/s,education,emotional,gaslighting,kink,podcast,psychology,relationship,terrorismclean3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/self-collaring-in-bdsm-s02e52--41411145Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair85 is joining me to take a dive into BDSM Primal Play and then we’ll be answering your questions live.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Collaring Yourself aka Self Collaring.
                                                                                                            https://sexandsilks.com/2019/03/31/self-collaring/?fbclid=IwAR1RuQ8F-ioF5CY4D91w5zxXtHrOeXu1M6mw8Fk47sUzvP-xXfeHfKnqGTg
                                                                                                            https://www.eternitycollars.com/blog/collaring-yourself?fbclid=IwAR2A7KfnBVWmw3c2VDLo1RiWhO-9ryE5GWj_-QY-6D-FW807wk0BDmRncSY
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Collars can have a multitude of meanings in a D/s relationship. They can show ownership, devotion, or subservience, and can be as meaningful as a wedding ring. They can be essential for some kinds of BDSM lifestyles, or just add spice to an already fun, kinky session.
                                                                                                            But what about wearing a collar outside of a relationship? Because of these relationship- and partner-status contexts, many people feel discouraged from wearing a collar just for themselves.
                                                                                                            Some in the lifestyle may ask, “What if I don’t have a Master/Mistress right now? Can I still wear a collar?” The answer is that someone who’s rockin’ their singlehood can definitely wear one, though many people are dispirited by the connotations of their relationship status to sport their own. Some potential wearers might feel like it needs to be gifted to them or else it wouldn’t be a “real” collar.
                                                                                                            Here are some reasons why you should stop caring about what a collar is “supposed to” mean and adorn yourself with one of your own if you feel like it:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - The feeling of being comforted and in control:
                                                                                                            Kate Sloan, bloggess of GirlyJuice, writes for Kinkly: “Even when I’m single, collars bring me comfort. They’re like an encouragement from a hypothetical future partner, or from the bravest part of my inner self.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - The symbolism:
                                                                                                            Collars send a message to others about what kind of kink or lifestyle you’re into. Different collars have different meanings to different groups, and can explain better than words what kind of roles or play you’re willing to take part in.
                                                                                                            The glory of feeling edgy and powerful while in a vanilla setting. Wear them with whatever makes you feel sensuous and formidable.
                                                                                                            Match subtle day-wear collars to your outfit so no one but you know what it’s for, like a sexy little secret.
                                                                                                            Or go the opposite direction and draw the gazes or curious vanilla-folk. Wear something loud and terrifying to passerby: maybe a huge spiked leather collar with kitten bells and neon-colored lace, with a tag that says “ME” (as the answer to “who owns you?” of course).
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Just feeling pretty:
                                                                                                            Maybe that rose gold collar makes your skin tone glow, your freckles shine like stars, and is perfectly on point with the rest of your outfit. Who says that a statement piece has to make a statement? Wear it because you and the collar are cute as heck together.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Learning to love yourself first:
                                                                                                            This is important no matter your relationship status. Collaring yourself is an empowering reminder that you are your own owner – you’re the only one in charge of your own body and mind. Wearing that collar gives you permission to love and protect yourself, and reminds you that you’re worth every ounce of energy it takes to maintain and remember that love.
                                                                                                            Say you got yourself that perfect collar after all – you know the one, that jaw-dropping gorgeous collar that made you blush as soon as you saw it. Now what?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - You can have a collaring ceremony of course.
                                                                                                            Collaring ceremonies are not the sole property of those in relationships. They’re symbolic and meaningful, but it’s a ceremony you can have with yourself too. Here’s how:
                                                                                                            Light a few candles to set a mood.
                                                                                                            In front of a mirror, place the collar on yourself.
                                                                                                            Admire how good you look in it.
                                                                                                            Then make a promise to yourself that you will be devoted to yourself and care for yourself with love and meaning, as any good and rightful owner would.
                                                                                                            Then wink at your reflection, because you’re sexy in that collar
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/41411145Mon, 12 Oct 2020 01:16:29 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 6/28/2020 / Published: //2020 Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and...Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair85 is joining me to take a dive into BDSM Primal Play and then we’ll be answering your questions live.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Collaring Yourself aka Self Collaring.
                                                                                                            https://sexandsilks.com/2019/03/31/self-collaring/?fbclid=IwAR1RuQ8F-ioF5CY4D91w5zxXtHrOeXu1M6mw8Fk47sUzvP-xXfeHfKnqGTg
                                                                                                            https://www.eternitycollars.com/blog/collaring-yourself?fbclid=IwAR2A7KfnBVWmw3c2VDLo1RiWhO-9ryE5GWj_-QY-6D-FW807wk0BDmRncSY
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Collars can have a multitude of meanings in a D/s relationship. They can show ownership, devotion, or subservience, and can be as meaningful as a wedding ring. They can be essential for some kinds of BDSM lifestyles, or just add spice to an already fun, kinky session.
                                                                                                            But what about wearing a collar outside of a relationship? Because of these relationship- and partner-status contexts, many people feel discouraged from wearing a collar just for themselves.
                                                                                                            Some in the lifestyle may ask, “What if I don’t have a Master/Mistress right now? Can I still wear a collar?” The answer is that someone who’s rockin’ their singlehood can definitely wear one, though many people are dispirited by the connotations of their relationship status to sport their own. Some potential wearers might feel like it needs to be gifted to them or else it wouldn’t be a “real” collar.
                                                                                                            Here are some reasons why you should stop caring about what a collar is “supposed to” mean and adorn yourself with one of your own if you feel like it:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - The feeling of being comforted and in control:
                                                                                                            Kate Sloan, bloggess of GirlyJuice, writes for Kinkly: “Even when I’m single, collars bring me comfort. They’re like an encouragement from a hypothetical future partner, or from the bravest part of my inner self.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - The symbolism:
                                                                                                            Collars send a message to others about what kind of kink or lifestyle you’re into. Different collars have different meanings to different groups, and can explain better than words what kind of roles or play you’re willing to take part in.
                                                                                                            The glory of feeling edgy and powerful while in a vanilla setting. Wear them with whatever makes you feel sensuous and formidable.
                                                                                                            Match subtle day-wear collars to your outfit so no one but you know what it’s for, like a sexy little secret.
                                                                                                            Or go the opposite direction and draw the gazes or curious vanilla-folk. Wear something loud and terrifying to passerby: maybe a huge spiked leather collar with kitten bells and neon-colored lace, with a tag that says “ME” (as the answer to “who owns you?” of course).
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Just feeling pretty:
                                                                                                            Maybe that rose gold collar makes your skin tone glow, your freckles shine like stars, and is perfectly on point with the rest of your outfit. Who says that a statement piece has to make a statement? Wear it because you and the collar are cute as heck together.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Learning to love yourself first:
                                                                                                            This is important no matter your relationship...]]>3303101,bdsm,collaring,education,freespace,improvement,podcast,relationship,self,single,submissiveclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bdsm-primal-play-s02e51--41217552Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair85 is joining me to take a dive into BDSM Primal Play.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Primal Play Defined
                                                                                                            - http://www.bdsmwiki.info/Primal
                                                                                                            - Primal play in the kink context is getting to a place where the masks of civilization can fall away and allow for acting on urges and impulses more directly.
                                                                                                            These can be raw, rough sexual feelings, but they could also be joy, silliness, deep feelings of love and intimacy, feelings of deep tenderness, even sadness and grief.
                                                                                                            “Primal” doesn’t necessarily have to mean “rough” (though it often may); it’s more a matter of being raw and unfiltered, whatever the feelings present are.
                                                                                                            The term Primal may refer to a type of play, an identity, or a style of relationships and further primal play is often synonymous with pet play.
                                                                                                            Primal tendencies often do not often conform to rigorous structures involved with protocol but often do have a d/s element which is often established through some for of dominance display.
                                                                                                            Primal play is sometimes subdivided into preferred roles:
                                                                                                            Primal Predator: A primal who seeks to hunt and attempt to capture prey.
                                                                                                            Primal Prey: A primal who seeks to be hunted by a predator.
                                                                                                            RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)
                                                                                                            Primal play frequently contains elements of rough body play and fear play.
                                                                                                            It is important to note that intentionally evoking raw and unfiltered emotions and reactions can sometimes lead to increased safety risks (emotionally and physically) due to loss of self control. Because of this potential, some may consider primal play to be a form of edge play.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - https://www.kinkly.com/definition/12231/primal
                                                                                                            - A primal is someone who enjoys primal play. Primal play is a style of BDSM that focuses on raw feelings and actions that are evoked by natural impulses and urges. Social norms and niceties are discarded for a very unfiltered self. The civilized shell gives way to emotions and sexual desire that ranges from happiness, joy, playfulness, silliness, sadness, and grief. It is arguable that one cannot be fully primal out of prioritizing safety and comfort. However, primal play allows the submissive who loves to be fully dominated to experience their fantasy. This practice involves using the kink tools we were born with: nails, hair, teeth, and skin. Primal play is based around the concept of retreating back to the primitive animal persona, where labels and protocols don't apply. Wrestling, pulling hair back, biting, and growling are some of the many things that fit into this style of BDSM.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Kinkly explains Primal
                                                                                                            - Primal play is a form of BDSM practice that displays raw, emotional, sexual feelings. Being primal includes fighting and animalistic tendencies. Subsequently, it is important that the dominant and submissive are communicative with one another to ensure comfort with the situation. The primal state is purely instinctual. Reason and learned behavior are tossed out when practicing primal play with a partner. As long as there is a high level of trust between the two partners, primal play can be a very intimate and explosive BDSM and sex practice.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - From “The Submissive Guide” by slavekathy
                                                                                                            - https://www.submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/what-is-primal-play
                                                                                                            - Mr. Samsonite. Every group has one; you know, the guy who can't show up to the play party without enough luggage to go on a two-week European tour? He puts on his little kid gloves and unpacks his embarrassment of kinky riches, and by the time he gets them all out, the party is halfway over. We all know this dominant, and his precise, measured method of play. It's fine if it works for him. However, what if Mr. Mechanical isn't what gets your juices flowing? Many slaves and submissives enjoy a more hands-on approach to play, and no expensive tools or toys are required.You were born with all the kink toys you need for playing primal: teeth, nails, hair, and skin.
                                                                                                            Pure and abject submission isn't what's called for here; the dominant who prefers primal play wants to fight. Primal play may be your perfect fit if you're the bratty sub who yearns to be overwhelmed, conquered and forced to submit to a stronger, more powerful dominant.
                                                                                                            A primal play scene may look like wrestling or even martial arts. There may be pressure points involved and even rope bondage, but the thing that sets primal play apart from other types is raw, emotional, sexual feelings displayed. All of the labels, roles, and protocols go out the window during primal play, and the bottom can become a snarling, growling, clawing animal hell-bent on getting away. More sensual types of primal play can look like two animals greeting each other. The top can sniff the submissive, growl in her ear, pull her hair back and bite her neck while holding her immobile.
                                                                                                            One caveat: if you're going to do some of the more edgy types of primal play in a public play space, be sure to let the DM's know what it is you are doing. Primal play is just that...primal, and it can be disturbing to observers who may not be familiar with the concept of an s-type actually fighting back in earnest.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/41217552Wed, 30 Sep 2020 02:35:15 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 6/21/2020 / Published: 9/29/2020 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair85 is joining me to take a dive into BDSM Primal Play. - Rules to Love By...Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair85 is joining me to take a dive into BDSM Primal Play.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Primal Play Defined
                                                                                                            - http://www.bdsmwiki.info/Primal
                                                                                                            - Primal play in the kink context is getting to a place where the masks of civilization can fall away and allow for acting on urges and impulses more directly.
                                                                                                            These can be raw, rough sexual feelings, but they could also be joy, silliness, deep feelings of love and intimacy, feelings of deep tenderness, even sadness and grief.
                                                                                                            “Primal” doesn’t necessarily have to mean “rough” (though it often may); it’s more a matter of being raw and unfiltered, whatever the feelings present are.
                                                                                                            The term Primal may refer to a type of play, an identity, or a style of relationships and further primal play is often synonymous with pet play.
                                                                                                            Primal tendencies often do not often conform to rigorous structures involved with protocol but often do have a d/s element which is often established through some for of dominance display.
                                                                                                            Primal play is sometimes subdivided into preferred roles:
                                                                                                            Primal Predator: A primal who seeks to hunt and attempt to capture prey.
                                                                                                            Primal Prey: A primal who seeks to be hunted by a predator.
                                                                                                            RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)
                                                                                                            Primal play frequently contains elements of rough body play and fear play.
                                                                                                            It is important to note that intentionally evoking raw and unfiltered emotions and reactions can sometimes lead to increased safety risks (emotionally and physically) due to loss of self control. Because of this potential, some may consider primal play to be a form of edge play.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - https://www.kinkly.com/definition/12231/primal
                                                                                                            - A primal is someone who enjoys primal play. Primal play is a style of BDSM that focuses on raw feelings and actions that are evoked by natural impulses and urges. Social norms and niceties are discarded for a very unfiltered self. The civilized shell gives way to emotions and sexual desire that ranges from happiness, joy, playfulness, silliness, sadness, and grief. It is arguable that one cannot be fully primal out of prioritizing safety and comfort. However, primal play allows the submissive who loves to be fully dominated to experience their fantasy. This practice involves using the kink tools we were born with: nails, hair, teeth, and skin. Primal play is based around the concept of retreating back to the primitive animal persona, where labels and protocols don't apply. Wrestling, pulling hair back, biting, and growling are some of the many things that fit into this style of BDSM.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Kinkly explains Primal
                                                                                                            - Primal play is a form of BDSM practice that displays raw, emotional, sexual feelings. Being primal includes fighting and animalistic tendencies. Subsequently, it is important that the dominant and submissive are communicative with one another to ensure comfort with the situation. The primal state is purely instinctual. Reason and learned behavior are tossed out when practicing primal play with a partner. As long as there is a high level of trust between the two partners, primal play can be a very intimate and explosive BDSM and sex practice.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - From “The Submissive Guide” by slavekathy
                                                                                                            - 3677bdsm,d/s,edge,master,owner,play,predator,prey,primal,property,relationship,slaveclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/edging-vs-ruined-orgasm-s02e50--41053022
                                                                                                            Can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair85 and Babylove are joining me to talk all things orgasm play and then we’ll be answering your questions live.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -What Is A Ruined Orgasm? Why Some People Love Them + How To Try https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/ruined-orgasms By Morgan Mandriota
                                                                                                            Some folks dream of being able to someday have an orgasm, while others get off from having their partner spoil their big O. Yep, you read that right—ruined orgasms are totally a thing that some people enjoy. If you're curious, here's what you should know about ruined orgasms before attempting to wreck your or someone else's next climax.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -What is a ruined orgasm?
                                                                                                            "A ruined orgasm is typically a type of control play found in the BDSM community whereby the dominant person gets the submissive person highly aroused and then leaves them hanging to experience a very low-quality, low- to no-sensation type of orgasm, if any at all," explains AASECT-certified sex therapist Jenni Skyler, Ph.D., LMFT, CST. So rather than feeling a 10/10 euphoric explosion of pleasure, the sub would feel a not-so-satisfying 2/10 instead. Yay.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Ruined orgasms can happen by accident.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -What ruined orgasms feel like.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -How to give or have a ruined orgasm:
                                                                                                            1. Ensure you have consent.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            2. Agree upon a safe word.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            3. Do your research.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            4. Focus on teasing your partner.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            5. Stop all stimulation prior to climax.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Ruined orgasm versus edging.
                                                                                                            There's a pretty clear difference between ruined orgasms and edging, which involves getting right up to the point where you're about to orgasm, stopping temporarily, and then...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Last but not least on the list of perks, ruined orgasms can even help people with penises ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            So whether you're potentially into the power play, pain, or twisted pleasure of it all, try having your next orgasm ruined. Who knows? You might be way more into it than you expect.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/250
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/41053022Tue, 22 Sep 2020 04:12:25 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 6/14/2020 / Published: 9/22/2020 Can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair85 and Babylove are joining me to talk all things orgasm play and then...
                                                                                                            Can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair85 and Babylove are joining me to talk all things orgasm play and then we’ll be answering your questions live.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -What Is A Ruined Orgasm? Why Some People Love Them + How To Try https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/ruined-orgasms By Morgan Mandriota
                                                                                                            Some folks dream of being able to someday have an orgasm, while others get off from having their partner spoil their big O. Yep, you read that right—ruined orgasms are totally a thing that some people enjoy. If you're curious, here's what you should know about ruined orgasms before attempting to wreck your or someone else's next climax.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -What is a ruined orgasm?
                                                                                                            "A ruined orgasm is typically a type of control play found in the BDSM community whereby the dominant person gets the submissive person highly aroused and then leaves them hanging to experience a very low-quality, low- to no-sensation type of orgasm, if any at all," explains AASECT-certified sex therapist Jenni Skyler, Ph.D., LMFT, CST. So rather than feeling a 10/10 euphoric explosion of pleasure, the sub would feel a not-so-satisfying 2/10 instead. Yay.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Ruined orgasms can happen by accident.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -What ruined orgasms feel like.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -How to give or have a ruined orgasm:
                                                                                                            1. Ensure you have consent.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            2. Agree upon a safe word.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            3. Do your research.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            4. Focus on teasing your partner.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            5. Stop all stimulation prior to climax.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Ruined orgasm versus edging.
                                                                                                            There's a pretty clear difference between ruined orgasms and edging, which involves getting right up to the point where you're about to orgasm, stopping temporarily, and then...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Last but not least on the list of perks, ruined orgasms can even help people with penises ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            So whether you're potentially into the power play, pain, or twisted pleasure of it all, try having your next orgasm ruined. Who knows? You might be way more into it than you expect.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/250
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, and Johnny Ferrell
                                                                                                            - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, Grog4life, Raefe, and Author Mistress Black Rose
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                                                                                                            - Jr....]]>4804bdsm,control,denial,education,kink,orgasm,relationship,ruined,sex,submissive,trainingclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/can-you-afford-them-by-lylac-wine-s02e49--40826317
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair85 is back with me to talk about a writing that was sent to me on fetlife.com by LylacWine titled “Can you afford them?”.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -“Can you afford her/him?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Can you?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Not in a financial/material sense (although that does play a part), can you afford her in a life sense, a psychological and emotional sense, is there room and reserve enough in you to give her what she needs?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            I have read of this concept before so it is not mine, however, it was just a meme that set off a thought process in my head, a wonderful cerebral exercise in actuality.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            What we ask from each other in dynamic reaches far beyond any relationship you will ever have. What we gift each other is the highest levels of honesty, integrity, growth, and respect. Can you afford that or do you just want her?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            A Dom/Wolf/Master/Daddy (whatever you are) takes on a huge responsibility when accepting the gift of submission. You are her everything, her compass, her lighthouse, her taskmaster, her motivation, her GPS, and her temple of pleasure and purpose. Do you have enough overflow in your life for her? Have you, when faced with an exquisite sub, asked yourself that question? Is there room in your world for her and all that she will need? Time, energy, focus, adoration, learning, direction, attention, growth, change, support, sexual liberation. Every single one of these things takes a piece of your overflow or if you have no overflow it will take a piece of your core being and strength in order to provide that which you have promised in return for her gift.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            We all want. We all see something exquisite and shiny and new and we gravitate towards it, we are human after all. We race towards it instead of stopping to think about whether we can afford it. I implore you as Alphas to do your due diligence, I implore you as subs to recognize that your gift is worthy of asking that question also. We all have a responsibility to ourselves and each other in this regard. It is indeed a lesson learned for me.
                                                                                                            Can you afford her?”
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            -Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, and Johnny Ferrell
                                                                                                            -Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, Grog4life, Raefe, and Author Mistress Black Rose
                                                                                                            -Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley, KJ, Duckie Monroe, Journey, Hadea, Rei, and Derpy Hooves
                                                                                                            -Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, macNmiller, and Lily Chaos
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/40826317Thu, 10 Sep 2020 21:03:57 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 4/19/2020 / Published: 9/10/2020 Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes,...
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair85 is back with me to talk about a writing that was sent to me on fetlife.com by LylacWine titled “Can you afford them?”.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -“Can you afford her/him?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Can you?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Not in a financial/material sense (although that does play a part), can you afford her in a life sense, a psychological and emotional sense, is there room and reserve enough in you to give her what she needs?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            I have read of this concept before so it is not mine, however, it was just a meme that set off a thought process in my head, a wonderful cerebral exercise in actuality.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            What we ask from each other in dynamic reaches far beyond any relationship you will ever have. What we gift each other is the highest levels of honesty, integrity, growth, and respect. Can you afford that or do you just want her?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            A Dom/Wolf/Master/Daddy (whatever you are) takes on a huge responsibility when accepting the gift of submission. You are her everything, her compass, her lighthouse, her taskmaster, her motivation, her GPS, and her temple of pleasure and purpose. Do you have enough overflow in your life for her? Have you, when faced with an exquisite sub, asked yourself that question? Is there room in your world for her and all that she will need? Time, energy, focus, adoration, learning, direction, attention, growth, change, support, sexual liberation. Every single one of these things takes a piece of your overflow or if you have no overflow it will take a piece of your core being and strength in order to provide that which you have promised in return for her gift.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            We all want. We all see something exquisite and shiny and new and we gravitate towards it, we are human after all. We race towards it instead of stopping to think about whether we can afford it. I implore you as Alphas to do your due diligence, I implore you as subs to recognize that your gift is worthy of asking that question also. We all have a responsibility to ourselves and each other in this regard. It is indeed a lesson learned for me.
                                                                                                            Can you afford her?”
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            -Thank you:
                                                                                                            -Show Producers:
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                                                                                                            -Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, Grog4life, Raefe, and Author Mistress Black Rose
                                                                                                            -Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley,...]]>3212101,bdsm,education,love,marriage,relationship,sexclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-i-ve-learned-about-bdsm-in-100-episodes-s02e48--40398781Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt, I’m celebrating episode 100 by talking about what I’ve learned over the past four years and 100 episodes. I’ll also be playing clips from listeners like you that wanted to congratulate me.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [01:08] Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - 100 Episodes and Counting: What Have I Learned About BDSM?
                                                                                                            [01:34] 1: Communication makes me thirsty!
                                                                                                            [03:50] Lady Katheryne
                                                                                                            [04:21] 2: It is what you make it!
                                                                                                            [08:26] Emerald Wolf
                                                                                                            [09:12] 3: Teaching is the best way to learn.
                                                                                                            [12:47] Hadea
                                                                                                            [13:27] Mytor Owner of ThatPlace in Oklahoma City
                                                                                                            [14:00] 4: I'm not a doctor, I just play one on TV!
                                                                                                            [20:28] JUnicorn's Angel
                                                                                                            [20:47] 5: Live Shows: My favorite way to podcast!!!
                                                                                                            [23:03] ShadowyFox
                                                                                                            [23:14] 6: “An intelligent person learns from their own mistakes, but a genius learns from the mistakes of others.” -Anonymous
                                                                                                            [25:44] https://NCSFreedom.org
                                                                                                            [42:07] Roxibear
                                                                                                            [42:28] Lily Chaos and Baby Love
                                                                                                            [42:50] 7: A Self Sufficient Community was a Goal all along!
                                                                                                            [48:49] Darth Art Kitten
                                                                                                            [49:20] Art Kitten
                                                                                                            [49:56] 8: Pain is subjective.
                                                                                                            [56:31] Master Ade
                                                                                                            [56:53] 9: To watch is arousing. To participate is blissful
                                                                                                            [01:01:19] Trouble113
                                                                                                            [01:01:53] 10: My life is now spent responding to messages!
                                                                                                            [01:08:52] Lylac Wine
                                                                                                            [01:10:06] Recap of List
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/40398781Wed, 19 Aug 2020 04:06:17 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 8/17/2020 / Published: 8/19/2020 Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and...Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt, I’m celebrating episode 100 by talking about what I’ve learned over the past four years and 100 episodes. I’ll also be playing clips from listeners like you that wanted to congratulate me.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [01:08] Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            - 100 Episodes and Counting: What Have I Learned About BDSM?
                                                                                                            [01:34] 1: Communication makes me thirsty!
                                                                                                            [03:50] Lady Katheryne
                                                                                                            [04:21] 2: It is what you make it!
                                                                                                            [08:26] Emerald Wolf
                                                                                                            [09:12] 3: Teaching is the best way to learn.
                                                                                                            [12:47] Hadea
                                                                                                            [13:27] Mytor Owner of ThatPlace in Oklahoma City
                                                                                                            [14:00] 4: I'm not a doctor, I just play one on TV!
                                                                                                            [20:28] JUnicorn's Angel
                                                                                                            [20:47] 5: Live Shows: My favorite way to podcast!!!
                                                                                                            [23:03] ShadowyFox
                                                                                                            [23:14] 6: “An intelligent person learns from their own mistakes, but a genius learns from the mistakes of others.” -Anonymous
                                                                                                            [25:44] https://NCSFreedom.org
                                                                                                            [42:07] Roxibear
                                                                                                            [42:28] Lily Chaos and Baby Love
                                                                                                            [42:50] 7: A Self Sufficient Community was a Goal all along!
                                                                                                            [48:49] Darth Art Kitten
                                                                                                            [49:20] Art Kitten
                                                                                                            [49:56] 8: Pain is subjective.
                                                                                                            [56:31] Master Ade
                                                                                                            [56:53] 9: To watch is arousing. To participate is blissful
                                                                                                            [01:01:19] Trouble113
                                                                                                            [01:01:53] 10: My life is now spent responding to messages!
                                                                                                            [01:08:52] Lylac Wine
                                                                                                            [01:10:06] Recap of List
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                                                                                                            Recorded: 5/24/2020 / Published: 7/31/2020
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair and I have a conversation about keeping it Kinky and Platonic.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://valleyadvocate.com/2020/03/23/v-spot-kinky-and-platonic/
                                                                                                            by Yana Tallon-Hicks
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “Hi Yana,
                                                                                                            Middle-aged straight guy here. I’m in a committed, monogamous relationship with a partner who I love very much. We have a great and satisfying physical sex life though naturally there are dry spells, particularly during the winter-time. I love my partner very much and she is who I want exclusively with no reservations.
                                                                                                            I’m kinky and my partner engages in kink activity with me in the bedroom. But, I also love talking about sexuality and kink with people. I like people in the kink community and have developed some good friendships over the years. I don’t want to play or have sex with others — I just want to interact with them because I’m lonely. I feel at home and can be myself in the kink community and my sexuality and kink interests may be the one thing I’ve never felt shame and/or low self-esteem about.
                                                                                                            My partner...
                                                                                                            Your thoughts? Lonely Kinkster
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Dear Lonely,
                                                                                                            Kink in general (an umbrella term for things like BDSM, fetishes, and the increasingly popular rope bondage and suspension world) often gets tied (harty har) directly to sex. This makes sense because for many people, it is. However, for maybe just as many people, it isn’t.
                                                                                                            BDSM in particular is famously flexible in the “Is this sexual?” department and very intentional in the boundaries department, making BDSM activities fun and accessible to a wide range of relationship dynamics and contexts.
                                                                                                            For example, in attending non-sexual, rope education classes such as those hosted by the Western Mass Rope Collective [find out more via westernmassrope@gmail.com], you will find clothed people working on the complex skillsets it takes to tie someone safely in rope complete with lectures, demos, and troubleshooting. In these contexts, friends may tie friends, partners may tie with each other, or strangers may partner up to practice simple knots. This is a classroom, afterall — there’s not much sexual about it.
                                                                                                            Do people go home and use...
                                                                                                            Instead of attempting to water down kink...
                                                                                                            Finally, if someone’s partner wanted to isolate them...
                                                                                                            Yana Tallon-Hicks is a relationship therapist, sex educator, and writer living in the Pioneer Valley. You can find her work and her professional contact information on her website, https://yanatallonhicks.com.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/247
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, and Grog4life
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/40084612Fri, 31 Jul 2020 20:11:18 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCCan kink be platonic? Is kink always sexual? Can people be monogamous and be part of the BDSM community? Recorded: 5/24/2020 / Published: 7/31/2020 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On...
                                                                                                            Recorded: 5/24/2020 / Published: 7/31/2020
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair and I have a conversation about keeping it Kinky and Platonic.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://valleyadvocate.com/2020/03/23/v-spot-kinky-and-platonic/
                                                                                                            by Yana Tallon-Hicks
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “Hi Yana,
                                                                                                            Middle-aged straight guy here. I’m in a committed, monogamous relationship with a partner who I love very much. We have a great and satisfying physical sex life though naturally there are dry spells, particularly during the winter-time. I love my partner very much and she is who I want exclusively with no reservations.
                                                                                                            I’m kinky and my partner engages in kink activity with me in the bedroom. But, I also love talking about sexuality and kink with people. I like people in the kink community and have developed some good friendships over the years. I don’t want to play or have sex with others — I just want to interact with them because I’m lonely. I feel at home and can be myself in the kink community and my sexuality and kink interests may be the one thing I’ve never felt shame and/or low self-esteem about.
                                                                                                            My partner...
                                                                                                            Your thoughts? Lonely Kinkster
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Dear Lonely,
                                                                                                            Kink in general (an umbrella term for things like BDSM, fetishes, and the increasingly popular rope bondage and suspension world) often gets tied (harty har) directly to sex. This makes sense because for many people, it is. However, for maybe just as many people, it isn’t.
                                                                                                            BDSM in particular is famously flexible in the “Is this sexual?” department and very intentional in the boundaries department, making BDSM activities fun and accessible to a wide range of relationship dynamics and contexts.
                                                                                                            For example, in attending non-sexual, rope education classes such as those hosted by the Western Mass Rope Collective [find out more via westernmassrope@gmail.com], you will find clothed people working on the complex skillsets it takes to tie someone safely in rope complete with lectures, demos, and troubleshooting. In these contexts, friends may tie friends, partners may tie with each other, or strangers may partner up to practice simple knots. This is a classroom, afterall — there’s not much sexual about it.
                                                                                                            Do people go home and use...
                                                                                                            Instead of attempting to water down kink...
                                                                                                            Finally, if someone’s partner wanted to isolate them...
                                                                                                            Yana Tallon-Hicks is a relationship therapist, sex educator, and writer living in the Pioneer Valley. You can find her work and her professional contact information on her website, https://yanatallonhicks.com.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
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                                                                                                            Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/247
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            Pro Producer ($100/month):...]]>2802bdsm,dom,dominant,kinky,platonic,relationship,sex,sub,submissiveclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/social-distancing-tips-for-long-distance-bdsm-s02e46--39823863
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair joins us again for a conversation about keeping it kinky during COVID / Corona.
                                                                                                            [03:51] Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://www.autostraddle.com/topping-from-the-bunker-tips-for-long-distance-kink/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://vocal.media/filthy/kink-and-social-distancing.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [05:47] https://www.autostraddle.com/topping-from-the-bunker-tips-for-long-distance-kink/
                                                                                                            [12:12] Role Play
                                                                                                            [14:30] https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/114
                                                                                                            [16:10] Follow instructions.
                                                                                                            [25:19] Practice Orgasm Control
                                                                                                            [30:32] Send Snail Mail
                                                                                                            [31:15] https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            [31:50] https://kuldrinskrypt.com/bdsm-contracts-and-collars-s01e49
                                                                                                            [35:38] Let someone else do the work.
                                                                                                            [39:19] Plan for you kinky future.
                                                                                                            [44:36] https://vocal.media/filthy/kink-and-social-distancing
                                                                                                            [48:59] https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
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                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/246
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            Pro Producer ($100/month): Lily Chaos
                                                                                                            Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, Sweet Charlotte, and JunicornsAngel
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, and Grog4life
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley, KJ, Duckie and Monroe.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, and macNmiller
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/patreonto get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/39823863Fri, 17 Jul 2020 22:12:49 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 5/17/2020 / Published: 7/17/2020 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair joins us again for a conversation about keeping it kinky during COVID /...
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair joins us again for a conversation about keeping it kinky during COVID / Corona.
                                                                                                            [03:51] Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://www.autostraddle.com/topping-from-the-bunker-tips-for-long-distance-kink/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://vocal.media/filthy/kink-and-social-distancing.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [05:47] https://www.autostraddle.com/topping-from-the-bunker-tips-for-long-distance-kink/
                                                                                                            [12:12] Role Play
                                                                                                            [14:30] https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/114
                                                                                                            [16:10] Follow instructions.
                                                                                                            [25:19] Practice Orgasm Control
                                                                                                            [30:32] Send Snail Mail
                                                                                                            [31:15] https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            [31:50] https://kuldrinskrypt.com/bdsm-contracts-and-collars-s01e49
                                                                                                            [35:38] Let someone else do the work.
                                                                                                            [39:19] Plan for you kinky future.
                                                                                                            [44:36] https://vocal.media/filthy/kink-and-social-distancing
                                                                                                            [48:59] https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
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                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/246
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            Pro Producer ($100/month): Lily Chaos
                                                                                                            Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, Sweet Charlotte, and JunicornsAngel
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, and Grog4life
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley, KJ, Duckie and Monroe.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, and macNmiller
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/patreonto get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            3109bdsm,corona,covid,covid-19,distance,in,irl,kink,kinky,ldr,life,long,real,relationship,virusclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/total-power-exchange-tpe-in-bdsm-s02e45--35792452
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair joins us again for a conversation about Total Power Exchange (TPE)..
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [00:50] Rules to love by.
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            [01:29] HaPpY mOtHeR's DaY!!!
                                                                                                            [02:06] https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/YouTube
                                                                                                            [02:17] Total Power Exchange (TPE) Defined
                                                                                                            (https://www.kinkly.com/definition/92/total-power-exchange-tpe)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Total power exchange (TPE) is a relationship dynamic that occurs in a BDSM relationship where the dominant partner has total power over the submissive in everything. TPE always applies in sexual situations, but generally also refers to the dominant having power over all other elements of the submissive's life.
                                                                                                            -TPE is a turn-on for a lot of people because of the level of trust involved. The submissive essentially give their life away to the dominant. This is also a huge responsibility for the dominant and should not be taken lightly.
                                                                                                            -TPE can be used in day-to-day activities, or it can be used for just a few hours during play to spice things up.
                                                                                                            -This type of play is not about micromanaging a person's life; it’s about a submissive giving complete trust to the dominant partner and believing that they will keep the submissive's best interests and pleasure in mind.
                                                                                                            -What can be so hard to understand is that the submissive is actually control. That's because in safe, respectful D/s relationship the submissive can stop the play at any time. It's all about the submissive being able to give up control and the dominant being able to exert control in a safe, consensual way.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [02:32] https://www.kinkly.com/definition/92/total-power-exchange-tpe
                                                                                                            [03:12] Did Kuldrin and mayfair go TPE?
                                                                                                            [03:26] TPE Defined.
                                                                                                            [05:28] A deep dive into micromanaging. Part 1
                                                                                                            [06:03] A contradiction in the definition?
                                                                                                            [08:12] A deep dive into micromanaging. Part 2
                                                                                                            [17:52] Does Kuldrin manage or micromanage Mayfair?
                                                                                                            [20:29] Babylove asks about calling red in a TPE dynamic.
                                                                                                            [28:32] Kuldrin's basic list of everything you need to know about total power exchange.
                                                                                                            [32:52] SSC vs RACK
                                                                                                            [34:38] https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/233
                                                                                                            [35:14] Temporary total power exchange
                                                                                                            [39:30] Trail total power exchange
                                                                                                            [45:57] https://BDSMContracts.org Coupon: Kuldrin20
                                                                                                            [57:23] Mayfair's final thoughts on TPE?
                                                                                                            [58:32] https://kuldrinskrypt.com/youtube
                                                                                                            [59:03] https://kuldrinskrypt.com/patreon
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                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley, KJ, Duckie and Monroe.
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                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/35792452Fri, 03 Jul 2020 23:21:11 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 5/10/2020 / Published: 7/3/2020 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair joins us again for a conversation about Total Power Exchange (TPE).....
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair joins us again for a conversation about Total Power Exchange (TPE)..
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [00:50] Rules to love by.
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            [01:29] HaPpY mOtHeR's DaY!!!
                                                                                                            [02:06] https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/YouTube
                                                                                                            [02:17] Total Power Exchange (TPE) Defined
                                                                                                            (https://www.kinkly.com/definition/92/total-power-exchange-tpe)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Total power exchange (TPE) is a relationship dynamic that occurs in a BDSM relationship where the dominant partner has total power over the submissive in everything. TPE always applies in sexual situations, but generally also refers to the dominant having power over all other elements of the submissive's life.
                                                                                                            -TPE is a turn-on for a lot of people because of the level of trust involved. The submissive essentially give their life away to the dominant. This is also a huge responsibility for the dominant and should not be taken lightly.
                                                                                                            -TPE can be used in day-to-day activities, or it can be used for just a few hours during play to spice things up.
                                                                                                            -This type of play is not about micromanaging a person's life; it’s about a submissive giving complete trust to the dominant partner and believing that they will keep the submissive's best interests and pleasure in mind.
                                                                                                            -What can be so hard to understand is that the submissive is actually control. That's because in safe, respectful D/s relationship the submissive can stop the play at any time. It's all about the submissive being able to give up control and the dominant being able to exert control in a safe, consensual way.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [02:32] https://www.kinkly.com/definition/92/total-power-exchange-tpe
                                                                                                            [03:12] Did Kuldrin and mayfair go TPE?
                                                                                                            [03:26] TPE Defined.
                                                                                                            [05:28] A deep dive into micromanaging. Part 1
                                                                                                            [06:03] A contradiction in the definition?
                                                                                                            [08:12] A deep dive into micromanaging. Part 2
                                                                                                            [17:52] Does Kuldrin manage or micromanage Mayfair?
                                                                                                            [20:29] Babylove asks about calling red in a TPE dynamic.
                                                                                                            [28:32] Kuldrin's basic list of everything you need to know about total power exchange.
                                                                                                            [32:52] SSC vs RACK
                                                                                                            [34:38] https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/233
                                                                                                            [35:14] Temporary total power exchange
                                                                                                            [39:30] Trail total power exchange
                                                                                                            [45:57] https://BDSMContracts.org Coupon: Kuldrin20
                                                                                                            [57:23] Mayfair's final thoughts on TPE?
                                                                                                            [58:32] https://kuldrinskrypt.com/youtube
                                                                                                            [59:03] https://kuldrinskrypt.com/patreon
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                                                                                                            Show notes...]]>3681bdsm,dom,dominant,d/s,exchange,kink,master,m/s,poer,relationship,slave,sub,submissive,total,tpeclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/cosmo-talks-shibari-rope-and-bondage-bdsm-s02e44--33732584We will be discussing the article on Cosmopolitan's website titled "The New Sex Practice Shibari Is Like Bondage’s Cousin, but Better" by Taylor Andrews.
                                                                                                            https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a32240707/shibari-definition/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Is Shibari new?
                                                                                                            What is Shabari Bondage and how is it different from other bondage?
                                                                                                            How can someone learn Shibari?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair85 is joining me and we will be discussing the article on Cosmopolitan's website titled "The New Sex Practice Shibari Is Like Bondage’s Cousin, but Better" by Taylor Andrews. and then we’ll be answering your questions live.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love By:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [03:13] "The New Sex Practice Shibari Is Like Bondage’s Cousin, but Better" by Taylor Andrews https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a32240707/shibari-definition/
                                                                                                            [03:06] https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a32240707/shibari-definition/
                                                                                                            [08:57] Yay! Pop Culture!
                                                                                                            [10:19] Midori and Twisted Monk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b8R3RcMClJI
                                                                                                            [11:44] How is it different from regular bondage?
                                                                                                            [14:51] Where to start trying shibari.
                                                                                                            [16:47] Let's talk about using the "Yellow" safe word.
                                                                                                            [17:09] Kuldrin and Mayfair negotiate a scene.
                                                                                                            [30:50] Knots or frictions; what's the difference?
                                                                                                            [32:09] Shibari tips, tricks, or benefits of trying according to Cosmo.
                                                                                                            [37:01] Mayfair's final thoughts on the article.
                                                                                                            [38:34] Using store bought climbing harnesses?
                                                                                                            [45:58] Patreon Producer List https://kuldrinskrypt.com/patreon
                                                                                                            [57:28] https://kuldrinskrypt.com/patreon
                                                                                                            [57:51] https://kuldrinskrypt.com/youtube
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                                                                                                            -Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            -Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, and Johnny Ferrell
                                                                                                            -Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, Grog4life, Raefe, and Author Mistress Black Rose
                                                                                                            -Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley, KJ, Duckie Monroe, Journey, Hadea, Rie, and Derpy Hooves
                                                                                                            -Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, macNmiller, and Lily Chaos
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            https://fetlife.com/users/9885653 - Tinks-Toys on Fetlife
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/33732584Fri, 26 Jun 2020 20:39:56 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 5/3/2020 / Published to Podcast RSS: 6/26/2020 We will be discussing the article on Cosmopolitan's website titled "The New Sex Practice Shibari Is Like Bondage’s Cousin, but Better" by Taylor Andrews....We will be discussing the article on Cosmopolitan's website titled "The New Sex Practice Shibari Is Like Bondage’s Cousin, but Better" by Taylor Andrews.
                                                                                                            https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a32240707/shibari-definition/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Is Shibari new?
                                                                                                            What is Shabari Bondage and how is it different from other bondage?
                                                                                                            How can someone learn Shibari?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair85 is joining me and we will be discussing the article on Cosmopolitan's website titled "The New Sex Practice Shibari Is Like Bondage’s Cousin, but Better" by Taylor Andrews. and then we’ll be answering your questions live.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love By:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [03:13] "The New Sex Practice Shibari Is Like Bondage’s Cousin, but Better" by Taylor Andrews https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a32240707/shibari-definition/
                                                                                                            [03:06] https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a32240707/shibari-definition/
                                                                                                            [08:57] Yay! Pop Culture!
                                                                                                            [10:19] Midori and Twisted Monk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b8R3RcMClJI
                                                                                                            [11:44] How is it different from regular bondage?
                                                                                                            [14:51] Where to start trying shibari.
                                                                                                            [16:47] Let's talk about using the "Yellow" safe word.
                                                                                                            [17:09] Kuldrin and Mayfair negotiate a scene.
                                                                                                            [30:50] Knots or frictions; what's the difference?
                                                                                                            [32:09] Shibari tips, tricks, or benefits of trying according to Cosmo.
                                                                                                            [37:01] Mayfair's final thoughts on the article.
                                                                                                            [38:34] Using store bought climbing harnesses?
                                                                                                            [45:58] Patreon Producer List https://kuldrinskrypt.com/patreon
                                                                                                            [57:28] https://kuldrinskrypt.com/patreon
                                                                                                            [57:51] https://kuldrinskrypt.com/youtube
                                                                                                            Important Show Links:
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                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/244
                                                                                                            Thank you:
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                                                                                                            -Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            -Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                                            -Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            -Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, and Johnny Ferrell
                                                                                                            -Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, Grog4life, Raefe, and Author Mistress Black Rose
                                                                                                            -Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley, KJ, Duckie Monroe, Journey, Hadea, Rie, and Derpy Hooves
                                                                                                            -Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, macNmiller, and Lily Chaos3518bdsm,cosmo,cosmopolitan,dominant,d/s,master,relationship,rigger,rope,shibari,slave,submissive,suspensionclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/exploratory-cathartic-and-rehabilitation-bdsm-scenes-with-master-gabriel-s02e43--31318294
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt returning guest, Master Gabriel is joining us to talk about Exploratory, Cathartic, and Rehabilitation scenes within the BDSM lifestyle.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [01:49] Show Producer's
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [03:27] Welcome Master Gabriel
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [04:39] Exploratory BDSM
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [22:45] Cathartic Scening
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [36:27] https://NCSFreedom.org
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [51:47] Rehabilitation Scenes
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/243
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            Pro Producer ($100/month): Lily Chaos
                                                                                                            Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, Sweet Charlotte, and JunicornsAngel
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, and Grog4life
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley, KJ, Duckie, and Monroe.
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, and macNmiller
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/31318294Tue, 16 Jun 2020 21:59:29 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 4/26/2020 / Published: 5/16/2020 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt returning guest, Master Gabriel is joining us to talk about Exploratory,...
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt returning guest, Master Gabriel is joining us to talk about Exploratory, Cathartic, and Rehabilitation scenes within the BDSM lifestyle.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [01:49] Show Producer's
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [03:27] Welcome Master Gabriel
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [04:39] Exploratory BDSM
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [22:45] Cathartic Scening
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [36:27] https://NCSFreedom.org
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [51:47] Rehabilitation Scenes
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/243
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            Pro Producer ($100/month): Lily Chaos
                                                                                                            Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, Sweet Charlotte, and JunicornsAngel
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, and Grog4life
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley, KJ, Duckie, and Monroe.
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, and macNmiller
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: 4161bdsm,catharsis,cathartic,exploratory,how2,live,newbie,rehabilitationclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/back-to-the-basics-of-bdsm-101-s02e42--29504601
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The KryptMayfair85 is joining me to go back to the basics of BDSM 101 and then I’ll be answering your questions live.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [01:44] Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [02:14] A brief History of BDSM
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [04:55] BDSM and society
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [05:29] https://NCSFreedom.org
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [06:33] What about submission touches your soul?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [07:02] Sexual Vs Service submission
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [09:16] Branding yourself as a sub or a slave without knowing what a bottom is.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [10:59] Labeling ourselves
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [12:05] Tops, bottoms, and switches
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [18:56] Where Consent and Communication Meet
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [19:34] Communication: one of the lines between abuse and non-abuse.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [21:56] Mayfair's advice to newbies.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [23:20] Safe Call Defined
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [38:03] When do you stop feeling new?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [46:49] Getting back together with an ex?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [48:24] Can people change?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
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                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
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                                                                                                            Show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/242
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, and Johnny Ferrell
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, Grog4life, Raefe, and Author Mistress Black Rose
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley, KJ, Duckie Monroe, Journey, Hadea, Rie, and Derpy Hooves
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, macNmiller, and Lily Chaos
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            https://fetlife.com/users/9885653 - Tinks-Toys on Fetlife
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/29504601Fri, 05 Jun 2020 00:03:33 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 4/19/2020 / Published: 6/4/2020 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The KryptMayfair85 is joining me to go back to the basics of BDSM 101 and then I’ll be...
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The KryptMayfair85 is joining me to go back to the basics of BDSM 101 and then I’ll be answering your questions live.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [01:44] Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [02:14] A brief History of BDSM
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [04:55] BDSM and society
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [05:29] https://NCSFreedom.org
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [06:33] What about submission touches your soul?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [07:02] Sexual Vs Service submission
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [09:16] Branding yourself as a sub or a slave without knowing what a bottom is.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [10:59] Labeling ourselves
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [12:05] Tops, bottoms, and switches
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [18:56] Where Consent and Communication Meet
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [19:34] Communication: one of the lines between abuse and non-abuse.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [21:56] Mayfair's advice to newbies.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [23:20] Safe Call Defined
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [38:03] When do you stop feeling new?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [46:49] Getting back together with an ex?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [48:24] Can people change?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Important Links:
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            Show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/242
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Pro Producer ($100/month):
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, and Johnny Ferrell
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, Grog4life, Raefe, and Author Mistress Black Rose
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley, KJ, Duckie Monroe, Journey, Hadea, Rie, and Derpy Hooves
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, macNmiller, and Lily Chaos
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            https://fetlife.com/users/9885653 - Tinks-Toys on Fetlife
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire 3243101,basics,bdsm,communication,consent,dominant,dom/sub,d/s,master,m/s,respect,slave,submissiveclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/quibi-s-show-sexology-and-live-q-a-s02e41--28334961
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt I am going to talk about the new show “Sexology” on the Quibi app and then I’ll be answering your questions live.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [01:13] LA Times Article on Sexology
                                                                                                            https://www.latimes.com/entertainment-arts/tv/story/2020-04-06/quibi-sexology-shan-boodram-sex-dating
                                                                                                            [04:34] Episode: Good Vibrations
                                                                                                            [05:03] 45% of men use sex toys during sex.
                                                                                                            [07:39] "The Walmart greeter of intimacy.
                                                                                                            [10:55] Frenzy. Let's talk about it.
                                                                                                            [12:26] Episode: What women want. Part 1
                                                                                                            [13:57] Episode: Slip and Slide. 
                                                                                                            [14:25] Episode: What men really want.
                                                                                                            [14:58] Episode: Decoding the perfect profile.
                                                                                                            [19:09] Rules To Love By
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            [19:34] Patreon Producers
                                                                                                            [30:37] BDSM is NOT JUST impact play.
                                                                                                            [31:59] Daddy Dom's training your sub.
                                                                                                            [33:39] Planning a Kinky Camping show.
                                                                                                            [33:48] Handling a partner that is not in the lifestyle.
                                                                                                            [34:29] https://kuldrinskrypt.com/151
                                                                                                            [36:24] Is it weird to have BDSM play with sexual aspects?
                                                                                                            [37:09] More on outdoor/camping scene.
                                                                                                            [37:47] MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                                                                            [38:38] Now taking guests for the show.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon 
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication 
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/241
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you: 
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Benefactor ($2,000/month): 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Pro Producer ($100/month): Lily Chaos
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Master Producer ($50/month): 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, Sweet Charlotte, and JunicornsAngel
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, and Grog4life
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley, KJ, Duckie Monroe, and Journey
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, and macNmiller
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/28334961Tue, 26 May 2020 06:08:35 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 4/12/2020 /  Published: 5/26/2020 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt I am going to talk about the new show “Sexology” on the Quibi app and then I’ll...
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt I am going to talk about the new show “Sexology” on the Quibi app and then I’ll be answering your questions live.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [01:13] LA Times Article on Sexology
                                                                                                            https://www.latimes.com/entertainment-arts/tv/story/2020-04-06/quibi-sexology-shan-boodram-sex-dating
                                                                                                            [04:34] Episode: Good Vibrations
                                                                                                            [05:03] 45% of men use sex toys during sex.
                                                                                                            [07:39] "The Walmart greeter of intimacy.
                                                                                                            [10:55] Frenzy. Let's talk about it.
                                                                                                            [12:26] Episode: What women want. Part 1
                                                                                                            [13:57] Episode: Slip and Slide. 
                                                                                                            [14:25] Episode: What men really want.
                                                                                                            [14:58] Episode: Decoding the perfect profile.
                                                                                                            [19:09] Rules To Love By
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            [19:34] Patreon Producers
                                                                                                            [30:37] BDSM is NOT JUST impact play.
                                                                                                            [31:59] Daddy Dom's training your sub.
                                                                                                            [33:39] Planning a Kinky Camping show.
                                                                                                            [33:48] Handling a partner that is not in the lifestyle.
                                                                                                            [34:29] https://kuldrinskrypt.com/151
                                                                                                            [36:24] Is it weird to have BDSM play with sexual aspects?
                                                                                                            [37:09] More on outdoor/camping scene.
                                                                                                            [37:47] MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                                                                            [38:38] Now taking guests for the show.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon 
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication 
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/241
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you: 
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Benefactor ($2,000/month): 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Pro Producer ($100/month): Lily Chaos
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Master Producer ($50/month): 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, Sweet Charlotte, and JunicornsAngel
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, and Grog4life
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley, KJ, Duckie Monroe, and Journey
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, and macNmiller
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: 2351101,bdsm,dom,education,live,quibi,review,sexology,subclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/quid-pro-quo-bdsm-and-live-q-a-s02e40--25977750
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            In this episode of The Krypt I am going to finally dive into Quid Pro Quo BDSM and exactly what that means.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Definition of Quid Pro Quo: a favor or advantage granted or expected in return for something.
                                                                                                            (https://www.google.com/search?q=quid+pro+quo+definition&oq=quid+pro+quo&aqs=chrome.1.0l6j69i61l2.10242j0j7&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Put simply “This for that.”
                                                                                                            -How does this work?
                                                                                                            -Negotiated Quid Pro Quo
                                                                                                            -BDSM
                                                                                                            -Vanilla:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -“Keepin’ Love Alive: No More Quid Pro Quo” From The Star Harald by Mental Health Therapist Mark Anderson. https://www.starherald.com/keepin-love-alive-no-more-quid-pro-quo/article_3e7f7aa1-e3fb-58ab-8642-00cacb66a24f.html
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Non-Negotiated Quid Pro Quo
                                                                                                            In United States labor law, workplace sexual harassment can take two forms; either "Quid pro quo" harassment or hostile work environment harassment. "Quid pro quo" harassment takes place when a supervisor requires sex, sexual favors, or sexual contact from an employee/job candidate as a condition of their employment.
                                                                                                            (https://www.google.com/search?q=quid+pro+quo+harassment&oq=quid+pro+quo&aqs=chrome.3.69i59j69i57j0l4j69i61l2.15594j1j9&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [00:01:25] Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            [00:02:35] Patreon Producers
                                                                                                            [00:04:16] Discord Group
                                                                                                            [00:05:31] Master Gabriel and slave Star joins the chat
                                                                                                            [00:06:07] Keeping Love Alive by Mark Anderson in The Star Harrold
                                                                                                            [00:07:37] Real Service by Ravan Kaldera
                                                                                                            [00:09:28] 50/50 Split in Relationships
                                                                                                            [00:14:15] Non Negotiated Quid Pro Quo
                                                                                                            [00:18:07] 100/100 Relationship comment by Mytor
                                                                                                            [00:19:05] 50/50 Vs. 100/100 Relationships
                                                                                                            [00:23:11] Relationships are not to be driven by AtlantaChaos
                                                                                                            [00:23:59] Is it possible to give 100%, 100% of the time by LilyChaos
                                                                                                            [00:26:13] Spoon Theory
                                                                                                            [00:29:39] Chronic Illness in Relationships
                                                                                                            [00:30:24] Examples of successful relationships based on quid pro quo
                                                                                                            [00:58:26] Final thought before Q&A.
                                                                                                            [01:03:59] Listener Q&A
                                                                                                            [01:17:37] Silent Communication
                                                                                                            [01:18:19] A final question answered.
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/240
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Pro Producer ($100/month): Lily Chaos
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, Sweet Charlotte, and JunicornsAngel
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, and Grog4life
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley, KJ, Duckie Monroe, and Journey
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, and macNmiller
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrin
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/25977750Thu, 23 Apr 2020 23:14:23 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 4/5/2020 / Published: 4/23/2020 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt I am going to finally dive into Quid Pro Quo BDSM and exactly what that means....
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            In this episode of The Krypt I am going to finally dive into Quid Pro Quo BDSM and exactly what that means.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Definition of Quid Pro Quo: a favor or advantage granted or expected in return for something.
                                                                                                            (https://www.google.com/search?q=quid+pro+quo+definition&oq=quid+pro+quo&aqs=chrome.1.0l6j69i61l2.10242j0j7&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Put simply “This for that.”
                                                                                                            -How does this work?
                                                                                                            -Negotiated Quid Pro Quo
                                                                                                            -BDSM
                                                                                                            -Vanilla:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -“Keepin’ Love Alive: No More Quid Pro Quo” From The Star Harald by Mental Health Therapist Mark Anderson. https://www.starherald.com/keepin-love-alive-no-more-quid-pro-quo/article_3e7f7aa1-e3fb-58ab-8642-00cacb66a24f.html
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Non-Negotiated Quid Pro Quo
                                                                                                            In United States labor law, workplace sexual harassment can take two forms; either "Quid pro quo" harassment or hostile work environment harassment. "Quid pro quo" harassment takes place when a supervisor requires sex, sexual favors, or sexual contact from an employee/job candidate as a condition of their employment.
                                                                                                            (https://www.google.com/search?q=quid+pro+quo+harassment&oq=quid+pro+quo&aqs=chrome.3.69i59j69i57j0l4j69i61l2.15594j1j9&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [00:01:25] Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            [00:02:35] Patreon Producers
                                                                                                            [00:04:16] Discord Group
                                                                                                            [00:05:31] Master Gabriel and slave Star joins the chat
                                                                                                            [00:06:07] Keeping Love Alive by Mark Anderson in The Star Harrold
                                                                                                            [00:07:37] Real Service by Ravan Kaldera
                                                                                                            [00:09:28] 50/50 Split in Relationships
                                                                                                            [00:14:15] Non Negotiated Quid Pro Quo
                                                                                                            [00:18:07] 100/100 Relationship comment by Mytor
                                                                                                            [00:19:05] 50/50 Vs. 100/100 Relationships
                                                                                                            [00:23:11] Relationships are not to be driven by AtlantaChaos
                                                                                                            [00:23:59] Is it possible to give 100%, 100% of the time by LilyChaos
                                                                                                            [00:26:13] Spoon Theory
                                                                                                            [00:29:39] Chronic Illness in Relationships
                                                                                                            [00:30:24] Examples of successful relationships based on quid pro quo
                                                                                                            [00:58:26] Final thought before Q&A.
                                                                                                            [01:03:59] Listener Q&A
                                                                                                            [01:17:37] Silent Communication
                                                                                                            [01:18:19] A final question answered.
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
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                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/240
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Pro Producer ($100/month): Lily Chaos
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, Sweet Charlotte, and JunicornsAngel
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt,...]]>4911clean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/live-q-a-on-covid-19-bratty-dominants-vetting-and-more-s02e39--24937681If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt I have a special guest, Odalvwaya (a.k.a. Odi) assist me with answering your questions live on YouTube!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [00:00:56] Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            [00:01:21] Opening the live show.
                                                                                                            [00:03:05] Daily episodes
                                                                                                            [00:05:04] Getting to know the special guest, Odalvwaya
                                                                                                            [00:05:29] Growing from a submissive to a Dominant
                                                                                                            [00:05:59] When a Dominant bottoms
                                                                                                            [00:07:40] Learning a new implement part 1
                                                                                                            [00:10:41] Learning a new implement part 2
                                                                                                            [00:12:29] How long have you been in the scene?
                                                                                                            [00:14:06] Best advice: Go slow!
                                                                                                            [00:15:47] Biggest warning: Watch out for frenzy!
                                                                                                            [00:16:56] Anyone thing to change?
                                                                                                            [00:18:45] How to handle play during the COVID-19 pandemic?
                                                                                                            [00:24:14] When the play slows down does the D/s power exchange increase?
                                                                                                            [00:26:03] Dealing with brats and being a bratty Dominant
                                                                                                            [00:29:12] How are single people handling playing during COVID-19
                                                                                                            [00:33:55] What makes Odi a bratty Dominant
                                                                                                            [00:39:34] Bluetooth toys for long-distance relationships.
                                                                                                            [00:42:12] Learning resources for kinksters
                                                                                                            [00:44:26] Getting kicked out of a group for being a brat.
                                                                                                            [00:49:24] What is the worst thing in the world for a brat?
                                                                                                            [00:50:17] Bluetooth Toys in Public
                                                                                                            [00:50:54] Dealing with a brat long distance
                                                                                                            [00:54:31] Virtual munches and seminars
                                                                                                            [00:55:38] Gummy bears, slingshots, marshmallow shooters, and flogging with Twizzlers.
                                                                                                            [00:58:35] How to handle a male Dom approaching a female Domme for submission.
                                                                                                            [01:05:16] Advice for people playing at parties in front of others for the first time
                                                                                                            [01:12:51] Meeting people online and are online relationships healthy?
                                                                                                            [01:15:35] Get Kuldrin's Krypt Merchandise
                                                                                                            [01:18:19] What is the best way to approach someone about a scene?
                                                                                                            [01:20:24] Handling people that claims experience but don't participate in local events
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/239
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Pro Producer ($100/month): LilyChaos and Freedom Hills
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox and Sweet Charlotte
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, and SortOutTheKinks
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley, KJ, Daddy Steve, Duckie Monroe, and Journey
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, and macNmiller
                                                                                                            Become one of our show producers: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use (None are paid sponsors of the podcast):
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: masterkuldrin@gmail.com
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/24937681Tue, 07 Apr 2020 19:17:09 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 3/28/2020 / Published: 4/07/2020 If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at...If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt I have a special guest, Odalvwaya (a.k.a. Odi) assist me with answering your questions live on YouTube!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [00:00:56] Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            [00:01:21] Opening the live show.
                                                                                                            [00:03:05] Daily episodes
                                                                                                            [00:05:04] Getting to know the special guest, Odalvwaya
                                                                                                            [00:05:29] Growing from a submissive to a Dominant
                                                                                                            [00:05:59] When a Dominant bottoms
                                                                                                            [00:07:40] Learning a new implement part 1
                                                                                                            [00:10:41] Learning a new implement part 2
                                                                                                            [00:12:29] How long have you been in the scene?
                                                                                                            [00:14:06] Best advice: Go slow!
                                                                                                            [00:15:47] Biggest warning: Watch out for frenzy!
                                                                                                            [00:16:56] Anyone thing to change?
                                                                                                            [00:18:45] How to handle play during the COVID-19 pandemic?
                                                                                                            [00:24:14] When the play slows down does the D/s power exchange increase?
                                                                                                            [00:26:03] Dealing with brats and being a bratty Dominant
                                                                                                            [00:29:12] How are single people handling playing during COVID-19
                                                                                                            [00:33:55] What makes Odi a bratty Dominant
                                                                                                            [00:39:34] Bluetooth toys for long-distance relationships.
                                                                                                            [00:42:12] Learning resources for kinksters
                                                                                                            [00:44:26] Getting kicked out of a group for being a brat.
                                                                                                            [00:49:24] What is the worst thing in the world for a brat?
                                                                                                            [00:50:17] Bluetooth Toys in Public
                                                                                                            [00:50:54] Dealing with a brat long distance
                                                                                                            [00:54:31] Virtual munches and seminars
                                                                                                            [00:55:38] Gummy bears, slingshots, marshmallow shooters, and flogging with Twizzlers.
                                                                                                            [00:58:35] How to handle a male Dom approaching a female Domme for submission.
                                                                                                            [01:05:16] Advice for people playing at parties in front of others for the first time
                                                                                                            [01:12:51] Meeting people online and are online relationships healthy?
                                                                                                            [01:15:35] Get Kuldrin's Krypt Merchandise
                                                                                                            [01:18:19] What is the best way to approach someone about a scene?
                                                                                                            [01:20:24] Handling people that claims experience but don't participate in local events
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/239
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Benefactor ($2,000/month):
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Pro Producer ($100/month): LilyChaos and Freedom Hills
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Master Producer ($50/month):
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox and Sweet Charlotte
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, and SortOutTheKinks
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley, KJ, Daddy Steve, Duckie Monroe, and Journey
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, and macNmiller
                                                                                                            Become one of our show producers: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use (None are paid sponsors of the podcast):
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            5208bdsm,corona,covid-19,dom,d/s,frenzy,live,love,master,m/s,respect,slave,sub,virus,youtubeclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/announcement-the-show-must-go-on-s02e38--23621952
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            This episode of The Krypt I have an announcement concerning where I have been, what happened to my Fetlife.com account, and when the show will return. Also, some very special thank you’s to some amazing individuals. So let’s hit those Rule to Love By and jump into the interviews. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The Show is NOT ending!!!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/238
                                                                                                            Thank you: 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): Freedom Hills
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babyloveandSir, and Sir Pent
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Haley, KJ, LilyChaos, Daddy Steve, Duckie Monroe
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, and macNmiller
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            Next Time on the Krypt: ???
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/23621952Sat, 07 Mar 2020 23:36:43 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded and Published: 3/7/2020 Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your...
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            This episode of The Krypt I have an announcement concerning where I have been, what happened to my Fetlife.com account, and when the show will return. Also, some very special thank you’s to some amazing individuals. So let’s hit those Rule to Love By and jump into the interviews. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The Show is NOT ending!!!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/238
                                                                                                            Thank you: 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): Freedom Hills
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babyloveandSir, and Sir Pent
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Haley, KJ, LilyChaos, Daddy Steve, Duckie Monroe
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, and macNmiller
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            Next Time on the Krypt: ???
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
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                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey ]]>908announcement,bdsm,dominant,d/s,kuldrin,master,m/s,relationship,sex,slave,submissiveclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/fetish-fashion-with-chinadoll-and-calling-red-s02e37--22112266
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. This episode of The Krypt I have a lost interview from DomCom, LA 2019 with China Doll on fetish fashion and a rant about calling red-emotional vs physical reasons. So let’s hit those Rule to Love By and jump into the interviews. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [0:58] Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:25] ChinaDoll
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [14:23] Manscaped: The Lawn Mower 2.0 https://kuldrinskrypt.com/manscaped Coupon Code KULDRIN20
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [17:05] Rant on Calling Red: Physical Vs. Emotional
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/237
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you: 
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx and Freedom Hills
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babyloveandSir, Theod123, and Sir Pent
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Haley, KJ, Daddy Steve, and Duckie Monroe
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, and Jeremiah 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use:
                                                                                                            (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next Time on the Krypt:
                                                                                                            ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
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                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/22112266Mon, 27 Jan 2020 07:10:27 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 5/12/2019 and 1/27/2020 / Published: 1/27/2020 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. This episode of The Krypt I have a lost interview from DomCom, LA 2019 with China Doll on fetish...
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. This episode of The Krypt I have a lost interview from DomCom, LA 2019 with China Doll on fetish fashion and a rant about calling red-emotional vs physical reasons. So let’s hit those Rule to Love By and jump into the interviews. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [0:58] Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:25] ChinaDoll
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [14:23] Manscaped: The Lawn Mower 2.0 https://kuldrinskrypt.com/manscaped Coupon Code KULDRIN20
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [17:05] Rant on Calling Red: Physical Vs. Emotional
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/237
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you: 
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx and Freedom Hills
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babyloveandSir, Theod123, and Sir Pent
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Haley, KJ, Daddy Steve, and Duckie Monroe
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, and Jeremiah 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use:
                                                                                                            (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next Time on the Krypt:
                                                                                                            ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            2776clean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/manscaped-and-domcon-nola-vendor-interviews-s02e36--21700172
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            This episode of The Krypt we are talking to a couple of amazing vendors I met at DomCon New Orleans, I’m going to give you my thoughts on the Manscaped Lawn Mower 2.0, and after the closing stick around for another one of my rants. So let’s hit those Rule to Love By and jump into the interviews.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [0:58] Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:25] Jessica, Owner of Love Lorn Lingerie https://www.lovelornlingerie.com/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [6:17] Manscaped: The Lawn Mower 2.0 https://kuldrinskrypt.com/manscaped Coupon Code KULDRIN20
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [10:54] Reggie, Owner of Valkyrie Designs, LLC https://valkyriedesignllc.com/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/236
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx and Freedom Hills
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babyloveandSir, Theod123, and Sir Pent
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Haley, KJ, Daddy Steve, and Duckie Monroe
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, and Jeremiah
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next Time on the Krypt:
                                                                                                            ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21700172Wed, 15 Jan 2020 06:14:58 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 10/12/2019 / Published: 1/15/2020 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. This episode of The Krypt we are talking to a couple of amazing vendors I met at DomCon New Orleans, I’m...
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            This episode of The Krypt we are talking to a couple of amazing vendors I met at DomCon New Orleans, I’m going to give you my thoughts on the Manscaped Lawn Mower 2.0, and after the closing stick around for another one of my rants. So let’s hit those Rule to Love By and jump into the interviews.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [0:58] Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:25] Jessica, Owner of Love Lorn Lingerie https://www.lovelornlingerie.com/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [6:17] Manscaped: The Lawn Mower 2.0 https://kuldrinskrypt.com/manscaped Coupon Code KULDRIN20
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [10:54] Reggie, Owner of Valkyrie Designs, LLC https://valkyriedesignllc.com/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/236
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx and Freedom Hills
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babyloveandSir, Theod123, and Sir Pent
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Haley, KJ, Daddy Steve, and Duckie Monroe
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, and Jeremiah
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next Time on the Krypt:
                                                                                                            ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt 24252.0,bdsm,communication,fashion,fetish,kink,lawn,management,manscaped,mower,rant,stress,wearclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/hypnosis-and-communication-with-trevor-s02e35--21020563
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. This episode of The Krypt we’ll hit those rules to love by and talk to Trevor about hypnosis and the importance of communication.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:18] Trevor (TigerBoy4947 on Fetlife.com)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:00] The thought behind clothing and appearance.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [4:10] The writer within.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [4:43] Let’s talk kink! How long?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [5:34] The two ways people typically join the BDSM community.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [6:25] What is your primary kink? Hypnosis?!?! Cool!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [7:17] How does consent work with hypnosis? Prenegotiation? Edge Play?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [8:40] Planning a scene.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [9:59] How did you learn to be a hypnotist?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [10:27] "Is Hypnosis Fake?" Hypnotist stuns TEDX crowd https://youtu.be/1RA2Zy_IZfQ
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [10:47] What other areas of BDSM are you into? What do you get out of it? Communication!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [11:08] What makes it fulfilling is open communication.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/235
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babyloveandSir, Theod123, and Sir Pent
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Haley, Pandora, KJ, and Daddy Steve
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, and Jeremiah
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next Time on the Krypt:
                                                                                                            ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fire
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/21020563Tue, 24 Dec 2019 04:05:01 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 5/12/2019 / Published: 12/24/2019 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. This episode of The Krypt we’ll hit those rules to love by and talk to Trevor about hypnosis and the...
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. This episode of The Krypt we’ll hit those rules to love by and talk to Trevor about hypnosis and the importance of communication.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:18] Trevor (TigerBoy4947 on Fetlife.com)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:00] The thought behind clothing and appearance.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [4:10] The writer within.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [4:43] Let’s talk kink! How long?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [5:34] The two ways people typically join the BDSM community.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [6:25] What is your primary kink? Hypnosis?!?! Cool!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [7:17] How does consent work with hypnosis? Prenegotiation? Edge Play?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [8:40] Planning a scene.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [9:59] How did you learn to be a hypnotist?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [10:27] "Is Hypnosis Fake?" Hypnotist stuns TEDX crowd https://youtu.be/1RA2Zy_IZfQ
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [10:47] What other areas of BDSM are you into? What do you get out of it? Communication!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [11:08] What makes it fulfilling is open communication.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/235
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babyloveandSir, Theod123, and Sir Pent
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Haley, Pandora, KJ, and Daddy Steve
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, and Jeremiah
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next Time on the Krypt:
                                                                                                            ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fire
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Instagram: masterkuldrin 2215communication,domcon,dominant,d/s,hypnosis,love,relationship,sex,submissionclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/whips-fire-play-wax-play-fear-play-live-s02e34--20350373Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. This episode of The Krypt is from a YouTube Live session I did for those that came together to purchase myself a whip from @_Maker_ (on Fetlife.com)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:34] A special thank you to those who donated to purchase my whip.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:37] The Bonding Experience with Mistress Vega and Lady Katie https://kuldrinskrypt.com/thebondingexperience
                                                                                                            [3:50] Getting into details about the whip.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [6:36] Whip questions:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            How can you use a whip in a more soft sensual way?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            How to use it in a more intense way?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            How can you use it for mind fucks?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            What's the learning curve for you, on mastering this whip?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            What is your favorite way to use it?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [14:10] Cracking the whip.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [17:15] Favorite feature on this specific whip, or why is it special from this maker?
                                                                                                            I would like to hear the sounds of the whip...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Other questions:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “I’m not putting this question on fet because it’s weird. I've been curious since DomCon if playing does the same release for the top as bottom sometimes and how that works. Because it’s two completely different things. Like, I know for me it felt like walls I’ve put up were literally knocked over. Their back now, but for a few days my walls were knocked down and I got to relax. It’s hard to explain but I think you know what I’m asking.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            What is the strangest thing you've had happen at a munch?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [27:10] BDSM Wax Play, Fire Play, and Fire Cupping 101
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [32:11] Fear Play
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [38:35] Fire Cupping versus Suction Cupping
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/234
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Master Producer($50/month): LilyxChaosx.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babyloveandSir, and Theod123
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Haley, Pandora, and Daddy Steve
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Jeremiah, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, and Jeremiah
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website,
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com - A place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next Time on the Krypt:
                                                                                                            ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
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                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/20350373Fri, 29 Nov 2019 02:33:51 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 11/3/2019 / Published: 11/28/2019 Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and...Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. This episode of The Krypt is from a YouTube Live session I did for those that came together to purchase myself a whip from @_Maker_ (on Fetlife.com)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:34] A special thank you to those who donated to purchase my whip.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:37] The Bonding Experience with Mistress Vega and Lady Katie https://kuldrinskrypt.com/thebondingexperience
                                                                                                            [3:50] Getting into details about the whip.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [6:36] Whip questions:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            How can you use a whip in a more soft sensual way?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            How to use it in a more intense way?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            How can you use it for mind fucks?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            What's the learning curve for you, on mastering this whip?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            What is your favorite way to use it?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [14:10] Cracking the whip.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/TeePublic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [17:15] Favorite feature on this specific whip, or why is it special from this maker?
                                                                                                            I would like to hear the sounds of the whip...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Other questions:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “I’m not putting this question on fet because it’s weird. I've been curious since DomCon if playing does the same release for the top as bottom sometimes and how that works. Because it’s two completely different things. Like, I know for me it felt like walls I’ve put up were literally knocked over. Their back now, but for a few days my walls were knocked down and I got to relax. It’s hard to explain but I think you know what I’m asking.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            What is the strangest thing you've had happen at a munch?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [27:10] BDSM Wax Play, Fire Play, and Fire Cupping 101
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [32:11] Fear Play
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [38:35] Fire Cupping versus Suction Cupping
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/234
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Master Producer($50/month): LilyxChaosx.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babyloveandSir, and Theod123
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Haley, Pandora, and Daddy Steve
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com - A place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and...]]>3027bdsm,fear,fire,live,play,waxclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bdsm-and-the-law-with-attorney-lady-steele-s02e33--19721240
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt I’m going to hit the rules to love by and then it’s a conversation that I’ve been waiting three years to have with Attorney Lady Steele on BDSM and the Law.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:11] Attorney Lady Steele https://kuldrinskrypt.com/AttorneyLadySteele
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:27] America’s only out and proud kink practicing attorney
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [3:22] What all BDSM classes do you teach?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [7:28] The current state of BDSM and the law and Lady Steele’s Disclaimer.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [18:12] How will the changes in the medical community affect the legal aspect of kink?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [30:00] Why are BDSM contract bad? Because legally they are considered evidence of abuse.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [32:00] False accusations of abuse?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [37:14] SESTA/FOSTA and how it applies to the everyday kinkster?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [47:38] Kuldrin’s soapbox on the “Save the Children” argument using vaping as an example.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [48:40] The “Sold in America” Podcast. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/soldinamericapodcast
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [49:31] General legal do’s and don’t for our kinks? What to do if the police show up at your home, a house party,  hotel, or a dungeon party you are attending?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:16:33] Florida man arrested for performing a castration in his home. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/floridacastration
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:22:54] Attorney Lady Steele’s final tidbits on the topic?
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/233  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you: 
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Master Producer($50/month): LilyxChaosx. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia, and Electric_Flow
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove2269, and Theod123
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, and Haley
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Jeremiah, Morgan, and knot_the_daddy.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Next Time on the Krypt:
                                                                                                            ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19721240Sun, 27 Oct 2019 21:19:34 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 10/20/2019 / Published: 10/27/2019 Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and...
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt I’m going to hit the rules to love by and then it’s a conversation that I’ve been waiting three years to have with Attorney Lady Steele on BDSM and the Law.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:11] Attorney Lady Steele https://kuldrinskrypt.com/AttorneyLadySteele
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:27] America’s only out and proud kink practicing attorney
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [3:22] What all BDSM classes do you teach?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [7:28] The current state of BDSM and the law and Lady Steele’s Disclaimer.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [18:12] How will the changes in the medical community affect the legal aspect of kink?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [30:00] Why are BDSM contract bad? Because legally they are considered evidence of abuse.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [32:00] False accusations of abuse?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [37:14] SESTA/FOSTA and how it applies to the everyday kinkster?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [47:38] Kuldrin’s soapbox on the “Save the Children” argument using vaping as an example.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [48:40] The “Sold in America” Podcast. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/soldinamericapodcast
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [49:31] General legal do’s and don’t for our kinks? What to do if the police show up at your home, a house party,  hotel, or a dungeon party you are attending?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:16:33] Florida man arrested for performing a castration in his home. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/floridacastration
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:22:54] Attorney Lady Steele’s final tidbits on the topic?
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/233  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you: 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The Bonding Experience with Mistress Vega and Lady Katie 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/thebondingexperience 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Master Producer($50/month): LilyxChaosx. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia, and Electric_Flow
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove2269, and Theod123
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, and Haley
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Jeremiah, Morgan, and knot_the_daddy.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com - A place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and...]]>5283attorneyladysteele,bdsm,law,legalclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-dark-side-of-bdsm-dominant-with-master-gabriel-s02e32--19333479
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt I’m going to hit the rules to love by and then Master Gabriel is joining us for a talk about the dark side of Dominance.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Master Gabriel:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [:] Imposter Syndrome
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [:] Having" to always be "On”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [:] Blustery behavior
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [:] Herd mentality - Like showing off of how big of a dommy pants you are while in a dungeon or changes in behavior based on where you are and who you're with
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [:] Halo effect - How your behavior as a dominant makes people think certain things of your charges, both good and bad, or how your charge's behavior makes you look
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [:] Being mad at your sub for your own behaviors 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/232  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you: 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The Bonding Experience with Mistress Vega and Lady Katie 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/thebondingexperience 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia, Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, and Theod123
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, and Haley
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Jeremiah, Morgan, and knot_the_daddy.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com - A place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt: ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19333479Thu, 03 Oct 2019 03:43:40 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 9/21/2019 / Published: 10/3/2019 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt I’m going to hit the rules to love by and then Master Gabriel is joining us for a...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt I’m going to hit the rules to love by and then Master Gabriel is joining us for a talk about the dark side of Dominance.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Master Gabriel:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [:] Imposter Syndrome
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [:] Having" to always be "On”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [:] Blustery behavior
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [:] Herd mentality - Like showing off of how big of a dommy pants you are while in a dungeon or changes in behavior based on where you are and who you're with
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [:] Halo effect - How your behavior as a dominant makes people think certain things of your charges, both good and bad, or how your charge's behavior makes you look
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [:] Being mad at your sub for your own behaviors 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/232  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you: 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The Bonding Experience with Mistress Vega and Lady Katie 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/thebondingexperience 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia, Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, and Theod123
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, and Haley
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Jeremiah, Morgan, and knot_the_daddy.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com - A place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt: ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
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                                                                                                            Instagram: masterkuldrin 5173bdsm,dom,dominant,d/s,sub,submissiveclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/pinky-and-angel-are-mother-daughter-kinksters-s02e31--19109112
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt I’m going to the rules to love by, then It’s back to DomCon LA 2019 for a conversation with Pinky and Angel who are mother and daughter kinksters.  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:53] Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:20] Mother Pinky and Daughter Angel Interview
                                                                                                            Mother Pinky, Age 44: 
                                                                                                            Age 40 (2015) started reading “Fifty Shades of Grey” and other “Adult” novels.
                                                                                                            Jumped into research and finding out the truth of BDSM. 
                                                                                                            Started hosting a munch within two months of joining Fetlife.
                                                                                                            Polyamourous and Pinky’s interesting and complicated (to the outside world) dynamics.
                                                                                                            [6:43] 2016 Inland Empire Leather Ambassador Title Holder.
                                                                                                            [11:00] Misinformation in the lifestyle
                                                                                                            [16:34] Daughter Angel, Age 19
                                                                                                            Turning 18 and going to a Dungeon for her birthday
                                                                                                            [21:00] A sub, a little, a kitten, a fox, and a mild masochist
                                                                                                            Advice, warning, and general growth.
                                                                                                            [39:15] Master Kuldrin goes on another rant.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://submissiveguide.com/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/231  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you: 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The Bonding Experience with Mistress Vega and Lady Katie 
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/thebondingexperience 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia, Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, and Theod123
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and Alexandria
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Jeremiah, Hayley, Morgan, knot_the_daddy, and Raefe
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt: ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19109112Sun, 15 Sep 2019 18:14:47 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 5/11/2019 / Published: 9/15/2019 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt I’m going to the rules to love by, then It’s back to DomCon LA 2019 for a...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt I’m going to the rules to love by, then It’s back to DomCon LA 2019 for a conversation with Pinky and Angel who are mother and daughter kinksters.  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:53] Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:20] Mother Pinky and Daughter Angel Interview
                                                                                                            Mother Pinky, Age 44: 
                                                                                                            Age 40 (2015) started reading “Fifty Shades of Grey” and other “Adult” novels.
                                                                                                            Jumped into research and finding out the truth of BDSM. 
                                                                                                            Started hosting a munch within two months of joining Fetlife.
                                                                                                            Polyamourous and Pinky’s interesting and complicated (to the outside world) dynamics.
                                                                                                            [6:43] 2016 Inland Empire Leather Ambassador Title Holder.
                                                                                                            [11:00] Misinformation in the lifestyle
                                                                                                            [16:34] Daughter Angel, Age 19
                                                                                                            Turning 18 and going to a Dungeon for her birthday
                                                                                                            [21:00] A sub, a little, a kitten, a fox, and a mild masochist
                                                                                                            Advice, warning, and general growth.
                                                                                                            [39:15] Master Kuldrin goes on another rant.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://submissiveguide.com/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/231  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you: 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The Bonding Experience with Mistress Vega and Lady Katie 
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/thebondingexperience 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia, Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, and Theod123
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and Alexandria
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Jeremiah, Hayley, Morgan, knot_the_daddy, and Raefe
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt: ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
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                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire...]]>4217clean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/fetish-artist-pro-domme-and-back-to-basics-with-rhiannon-aarons-s02e30--19006432
                                                                                                            https://www.gofundme.com/f/nepak-community-fundraiser
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt I’m going to the rules to love by, raw blog for a few minutes, and then It’s back to DomCon LA 2019 for a conversation with Rhiannon Aarons where we get back to some basics. There are a few spots in this where mixer was acting up but don’t worry the 2 or 3 times it happens are very brief.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:59] Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:26] Rhiannan Aarons
                                                                                                            http://www.rhiannonaarons.com/
                                                                                                            https://twitter.com/rhiannonaarons
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/230
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            The Bonding Experience with Mistress Vega and Lady Katie
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/thebondingexperience
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx.
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia, Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, and Theod123
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and Alexandria
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Jeremiah, Hayley, Morgan, knot_the_daddy, and Raefe
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            Next Time on the Krypt:
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt: ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/19006432Thu, 05 Sep 2019 03:03:54 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 5/11/2019 / Published: 9/4/2019 https://www.gofundme.com/f/nepak-community-fundraiser Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt I’m going to the rules to...
                                                                                                            https://www.gofundme.com/f/nepak-community-fundraiser
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt I’m going to the rules to love by, raw blog for a few minutes, and then It’s back to DomCon LA 2019 for a conversation with Rhiannon Aarons where we get back to some basics. There are a few spots in this where mixer was acting up but don’t worry the 2 or 3 times it happens are very brief.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:59] Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:26] Rhiannan Aarons
                                                                                                            http://www.rhiannonaarons.com/
                                                                                                            https://twitter.com/rhiannonaarons
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/230
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            The Bonding Experience with Mistress Vega and Lady Katie
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/thebondingexperience
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx.
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia, Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, and Theod123
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and Alexandria
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Jeremiah, Hayley, Morgan, knot_the_daddy, and Raefe
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            Next Time on the Krypt:
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt: ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
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                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
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                                                                                                            NEPAK Donations Link: https://www.gofundme.com/f/nepak-community-fundraiser
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt, It’s back to DomCon LA 2019 for a really cool conversation with Sir Pent where we talk about consensual breast torture and several extremely well-stated pieces of advice.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:10] Sir Pent
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            How long have you been in the kink scene?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            What are your favorite things?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            How did you get into breast torture?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            After you discovered this love, how did you get educated?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [5:35] Safety and things to know about breast torture.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [7:45} Breast implants and torture?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [12:32] What does the lifestyle mean to you? FAMILY!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [17:14] Is there any one big piece of advice you give? What is the biggest warning you give?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact Sir Pent: @SirPent89 on Fetlife, Insta, and Twitter
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/229
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            The Bonding Experience with Mistress Vega and Lady Katie
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/thebondingexperience
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia, Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, and Theod123
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and Alexandria
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, Morgan, knot_the_daddy, and Raefe
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt: ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18884138Thu, 22 Aug 2019 05:40:57 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 5/12/2019 / Published: 8/22/2019 NEPAK Donations Link: https://www.gofundme.com/f/nepak-community-fundraiser Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20...
                                                                                                            NEPAK Donations Link: https://www.gofundme.com/f/nepak-community-fundraiser
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt, It’s back to DomCon LA 2019 for a really cool conversation with Sir Pent where we talk about consensual breast torture and several extremely well-stated pieces of advice.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:10] Sir Pent
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            How long have you been in the kink scene?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            What are your favorite things?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            How did you get into breast torture?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            After you discovered this love, how did you get educated?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [5:35] Safety and things to know about breast torture.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [7:45} Breast implants and torture?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [12:32] What does the lifestyle mean to you? FAMILY!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [17:14] Is there any one big piece of advice you give? What is the biggest warning you give?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact Sir Pent: @SirPent89 on Fetlife, Insta, and Twitter
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/229
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            The Bonding Experience with Mistress Vega and Lady Katie
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/thebondingexperience
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia, Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, and Theod123
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and Alexandria
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, Morgan, knot_the_daddy, and Raefe
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt: ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire 1733bdsm,breast,consent,dominant,d/s,master,m/s,pent,sir,@sirpent89,slave,submissive,tortureclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/mistress-barbie-on-bdsm-personality-tests-s02e28--18812804
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt It’s back to DomCon LA 2019 for an interesting chat with Mistress Barbie on Personalities within the community and finding your role through https://BDSMTest.org 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:13] Mistress Barbie 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            BiMistressBarbie on https://fetlife.com/users/1084991 
                                                                                                            Where does Barbie come from? Your first scene?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://BDSMTest.org
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Professional vanilla life merging with Kinky life?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            You consider yourself a hybrid of the scene. What does this mean?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            How often do you recommend people retake the test?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Are you currently involved in long term relationship?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            A female-led relationship?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            How long have you been in kink?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The things we did to our toys when we were kids.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Learning to use your words?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            What are you doing that you are unconscious able?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Master Kuldrin’s soapbox on taking responsibility.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            What are your tricks of the trade? “Crapportunity??? (The website has been moved.)
                                                                                                            http://whatworksconsultants.com/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/228  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you: 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The Bonding Experience with Mistress Vega and Lady Katie 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/thebondingexperience 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia,  Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, and Theod123
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and Alexandria
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, Morgan, knot_the_daddy, and Raefe
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt: Sir Pent on Breast Torture.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18812804Wed, 14 Aug 2019 05:31:04 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 5/11/2019 / Published: 8/14/2019 Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and...
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt It’s back to DomCon LA 2019 for an interesting chat with Mistress Barbie on Personalities within the community and finding your role through https://BDSMTest.org 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:13] Mistress Barbie 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            BiMistressBarbie on https://fetlife.com/users/1084991 
                                                                                                            Where does Barbie come from? Your first scene?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://BDSMTest.org
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Professional vanilla life merging with Kinky life?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            You consider yourself a hybrid of the scene. What does this mean?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            How often do you recommend people retake the test?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Are you currently involved in long term relationship?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            A female-led relationship?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            How long have you been in kink?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The things we did to our toys when we were kids.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Learning to use your words?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            What are you doing that you are unconscious able?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Master Kuldrin’s soapbox on taking responsibility.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            What are your tricks of the trade? “Crapportunity??? (The website has been moved.)
                                                                                                            http://whatworksconsultants.com/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/228  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you: 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The Bonding Experience with Mistress Vega and Lady Katie 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/thebondingexperience 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia,  Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, and Theod123
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and Alexandria
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, Morgan, knot_the_daddy, and Raefe
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt: Sir Pent on Breast Torture.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Fb:...]]>1872barbie,bdsm,bdsmtest.org,femdom,growth,interview,mistress,psychologyclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bdsm-culture-can-make-women-more-assertive-in-work-and-relationships-s02e27--18748747https://theswaddle.com/bdsm-women-positive-effects-confidence
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Recorded: 8/7/2019 / Published: 8/7/2019
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            On this episode of The Krypt, I am going to share an article that Patreon Executive Producer BabyLove2269 she found on theswaddle.com and written by Pallavi Prasad titled BDSM Culture Can Make Women More Assertive In Work, Relationships. After I read it, I’m going to give you my first impression of what was said. Yep, this is going to be totally different than anything I’ve done before in that its pretty much a raw and unedited episode. Stick around afterward for a special announcement. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “BDSM Culture Can Make Women More Assertive In Work, Relationships” By Pallavi Prasad found at https://theswaddle.com/bdsm-women-positive-effects-confidence Published June 28, 2019
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “I don’t know how to explain it … but I have more clarity the morning after. It’s come to a point where my partner and I ensure we engage in a play scene before any big meetings I have. It really gives me the boost I need.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            R.P. is a 32-year-old consultant living in Mumbai. When she joined a high-powered consulting firm seven years ago, she found herself struggling to keep up with the pace and make herself heard.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “Around the same time, I got into a relationship with a man who was into BDSM [bondage and discipline; dominance and submission; sadism and masochism] and kink play. He introduced me to it and I instantly took a liking to it,” R.P. says. “Surprisingly, I found myself gravitating towards the role of the Dominant. Within the confines of a loving and safe space with a partner I trusted, I was able to assert myself in ways I couldn’t outside my bedroom. Slowly, I began to notice that especially on days after we had engaged in a play scene, I would feel more focussed, composed and clear-headed. It was almost as if the satisfied feeling I felt in bed, in that position of power, flowed over the next day. I feel like I know more about myself — my mind and my body.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            According to recent research by Dr. Brad Sagarin, a professor of psychology at Northern Illinois University, kinks such as BDSM alter the blood flow pattern in the brain, creating altered states of consciousness. For those who assume the dominant position in BDSM, these mental states are called “flow” — the term popularized by positive psychologist Mihály Csíkszentmihályi. Flow is defined as an “optimal state of consciousness where we feel our best and perform our best.” It’s a state of hyperawareness, laser focus, and euphoria, which resonates with R.P.’s experience. “I just feel more brave, if that makes sense,” she says. Sagarin’s research confirms just that. The study found that people who regularly experience flow as an effect of dominant BDSM roles report improved concentration, clarity about goals, decision-making skills, and listening and intuitive skills. They also demonstrate lower levels of the stress hormone cortisol, less self-consciousness and less aversion to risk.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The study also found those taking on submissive roles in BDSM play experience “transient hypofrontality,” a peaceful, dreamlike state, often compared to a runner’s high or described as being “in the zone.” Creativity and productivity peak in this state of decreased self-awareness.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            R.P. explains how her female friends from the BDSM community have discussed this before: “Sometimes when we share — and we’re all doms — our experiences with each other, we all agree that we are in a great mood throughout the next day and feel more energized and creative. It’s like a strange high, knowing what we did the previous night.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            People who experience either of these altered mental states report higher levels of happiness, creativity, and productivity for up to three days after, according to research by Harvard University professor Teresa Amabile. They also report transferring the focus, confidence, concentration, and decision-making skills of BDSM into everyday life. It is no wonder, then, that people who engage in BDSM are less neurotic, more extraverted, more open to new experiences, more conscientious, less sensitive to rejection, and have higher subjective well-being outside the bedroom, according to a 2016 study on the psychological characteristics of BDSM practitioners.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Additionally, partners who engage in sadomasochism are more connected and more intimate than those who do not engage in it, according to a 2009 study published in the journal Archives of Sexual Behavior. The honest expression of one’s fantasies and desires, and consensually, respectfully and safely executing that as a BDSM scene, requires a high level of communication and trust between partners — a feature regularly absent from non-kinky or “vanilla” sex, as the BDSM community calls it.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “My boyfriend and I have definitely become much closer since we started exploring this space together. We don’t lie to each other in our relationship — white lies not included, and even those we mostly confess — because the trust between us is the same, inside and outside the bedroom,” says R.P. “There’s very little drama and if we ever fight, we usually resolve it by talking to each other. But it almost never reaches that point because every day, in a way, we tell each other about what it is that we want from the other person and what we don’t. It’s like learning how to negotiate with another person.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Women have traditionally been discouraged from developing such open and clear communication skills. In 2018, former dominatrix, Kasia Urbaniak started The Academy, a school to teach women the “foundations of power and influence” via month-long female empowerment sessions in New York. Speaking to The Guardian, she says: “It’s about the communications that women carry that either make them go speechless, or afraid of coming across as too bossy or too needy.” Urbaniak explains that by being in the dominant role of BDSM, women learn to project their strength and attention outward. It’s a skill they can then use to flip the power dynamic in the outside world, where women are forced to turn their attention inward, with self-doubt and over-analysis.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            A barrage of recent research hints at the effects of empowerment via BDSM: people with sexual kinks or fetishes, such as BDSM, group sex, or role-play, have better mental health, less psychological stress, higher self-worth, and more satisfying relationships.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Not everyone is convinced of BDSM’s benefits, however. The feminist sex wars over BDSM’s potential for women’s empowerment rage on, with one side seeing BDSM as a way to explore and enable female sexuality, and the other side seeing it as yet another manifestation of the hyper-masculine, patriarchal order’s violent idea of sex. But, as black lesbian poet and feminist writer Audrey Lorde puts it in a personal essay, embracing the erotic fosters a deep and irreplaceable “self-connection and fearless underlining of [one’s] capacity for joy.” Released of social context, when examined in individual’s lives and homes, BDSM seems to allow, well, release. And that kind of release writes Lorde, “flows through and colors my life with a kind of energy that heightens and sensitizes and strengthens all my experience.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/227  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you: 
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia,  Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, and Theod123
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and Alexandria
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, Morgan, knot_the_daddy, and Raefe
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            BDSM Contracts for the donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://tporridtimber.com
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18748747Wed, 07 Aug 2019 06:22:38 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCOriginal article found at https://theswaddle.com/bdsm-women-positive-effects-confidence Recorded: 8/7/2019 / Published: 8/7/2019 Patreon Can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this...https://theswaddle.com/bdsm-women-positive-effects-confidence
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Recorded: 8/7/2019 / Published: 8/7/2019
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            On this episode of The Krypt, I am going to share an article that Patreon Executive Producer BabyLove2269 she found on theswaddle.com and written by Pallavi Prasad titled BDSM Culture Can Make Women More Assertive In Work, Relationships. After I read it, I’m going to give you my first impression of what was said. Yep, this is going to be totally different than anything I’ve done before in that its pretty much a raw and unedited episode. Stick around afterward for a special announcement. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “BDSM Culture Can Make Women More Assertive In Work, Relationships” By Pallavi Prasad found at https://theswaddle.com/bdsm-women-positive-effects-confidence Published June 28, 2019
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “I don’t know how to explain it … but I have more clarity the morning after. It’s come to a point where my partner and I ensure we engage in a play scene before any big meetings I have. It really gives me the boost I need.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            R.P. is a 32-year-old consultant living in Mumbai. When she joined a high-powered consulting firm seven years ago, she found herself struggling to keep up with the pace and make herself heard.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “Around the same time, I got into a relationship with a man who was into BDSM [bondage and discipline; dominance and submission; sadism and masochism] and kink play. He introduced me to it and I instantly took a liking to it,” R.P. says. “Surprisingly, I found myself gravitating towards the role of the Dominant. Within the confines of a loving and safe space with a partner I trusted, I was able to assert myself in ways I couldn’t outside my bedroom. Slowly, I began to notice that especially on days after we had engaged in a play scene, I would feel more focussed, composed and clear-headed. It was almost as if the satisfied feeling I felt in bed, in that position of power, flowed over the next day. I feel like I know more about myself — my mind and my body.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            According to recent research by Dr. Brad Sagarin, a professor of psychology at Northern Illinois University, kinks such as BDSM alter the blood flow pattern in the brain, creating altered states of consciousness. For those who assume the dominant position in BDSM, these mental states are called “flow” — the term popularized by positive psychologist Mihály Csíkszentmihályi. Flow is defined as an “optimal state of consciousness where we feel our best and perform our best.” It’s a state of hyperawareness, laser focus, and euphoria, which resonates with R.P.’s experience. “I just feel more brave, if that makes sense,” she says. Sagarin’s research confirms just that. The study found that people who regularly experience flow as an effect of dominant BDSM roles report improved concentration, clarity about goals, decision-making skills, and listening and intuitive skills. They also demonstrate lower levels of the stress hormone cortisol, less self-consciousness and less aversion to risk.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The study also found those taking on submissive roles in BDSM play experience “transient hypofrontality,” a peaceful, dreamlike state, often compared to a runner’s high or described as being “in the zone.” Creativity and productivity peak in this state of decreased self-awareness.1300bdsm,femdom,psychology,research,sex,sexualityclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-real-history-of-hiv-aids-and-leather-s02e26--18681799
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode of The Krypt, we are returning to DomCon LA 2019, for a conversation with the founder of The International Mr. and Ms.Olympus Leather contest, Dave Rhodes. In this conversation, we cover a lot of ground from living through the beginning of the AIDS epidemic to founding a publication and an international leather contest. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:03]Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:30] Dave Rhodes https://www.theleatherjournal.com/ 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:30] How old are you? How long have you been in the lifestyle? Openly gay? 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:40] When did you get into leather?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [4:20] Drummer Magazine in 1976.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [6:52] The “Old Guard” and the transformation of the scene from 1976 to the 1990s.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [7:57] 1978 the real start of the HIV / AIDS epidemic and the personal impact. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [9:00] How did the disease affect the scene and what is the last effect?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [10:38] The lesbian community steps in to help the male guy leather community.
                                                                                                            Losing three people a month from AIDS!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [12:50] What have you done with the Leather Competitions? Founded The International Mr. and Ms. Olympus Leather Contest in 1996.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [19:02] What is it “To be Leather”?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [22:27] What is the best advice you can give to the new and the old?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [27:15] Id the glass half full or half-empty? Yes.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/226  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you: 
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia,  Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, and Theod123
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and Alexandria
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, Morgan, and knot_the_daddy
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            BDSM Contracts for the donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com A place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next Time on the Krypt:
                                                                                                            ???
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18681799Wed, 31 Jul 2019 04:38:38 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 5/11/2019 / Published: 7/31/2019 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt, we are returning to DomCon LA 2019, for a conversation with the founder of The...
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode of The Krypt, we are returning to DomCon LA 2019, for a conversation with the founder of The International Mr. and Ms.Olympus Leather contest, Dave Rhodes. In this conversation, we cover a lot of ground from living through the beginning of the AIDS epidemic to founding a publication and an international leather contest. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:03]Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:30] Dave Rhodes https://www.theleatherjournal.com/ 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:30] How old are you? How long have you been in the lifestyle? Openly gay? 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:40] When did you get into leather?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [4:20] Drummer Magazine in 1976.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [6:52] The “Old Guard” and the transformation of the scene from 1976 to the 1990s.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [7:57] 1978 the real start of the HIV / AIDS epidemic and the personal impact. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [9:00] How did the disease affect the scene and what is the last effect?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [10:38] The lesbian community steps in to help the male guy leather community.
                                                                                                            Losing three people a month from AIDS!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [12:50] What have you done with the Leather Competitions? Founded The International Mr. and Ms. Olympus Leather Contest in 1996.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [19:02] What is it “To be Leather”?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [22:27] What is the best advice you can give to the new and the old?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [27:15] Id the glass half full or half-empty? Yes.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/226  
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia,  Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, and Theod123
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and Alexandria
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, Morgan, and knot_the_daddy
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            BDSM Contracts for the donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com A place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys. 
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            ???
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt we are returning to DomCon LA 2019, for a conversation with Micael G. about being a male submissive and importance of dominant women. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [0:52]Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:19] Micael G.: 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:32] Why are FemDoms so important to you?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:45] Do you work to empower women professionally, as a passion, or both? You are an author? 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [4:35] Are you a submissive male? Service submissive? Do you serve all genders?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [6:48] How old are you and how long have you been involved with kink?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [7:27] Starting in kink so long ago with a more judgemental culture, did you suffer any judgment for being a male submissive that participates in sissification?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [8:57] If you could go back in time, what is one warning and one piece of advice you would give yourself?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [10:22] “Be true to yourself...this isn’t a phase”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [10:33] Giving advice to an 18 or 19-year-old newbie in Vegas.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [11:19] Gender equality in the workplace: how it has changed and how much it still needs to change.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [15:12] The bonobo study https://www.sciencedaily.com/terms/bonobo.htm 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/225  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you: 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia,  Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, and Theod123
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and Alexandria
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, Morgan, and knot_the_daddy
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt: ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18618262Tue, 23 Jul 2019 05:55:15 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 5/10/2019 / Published: 7/23/2019 Patreon Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt we are returning to DomCon LA 2019, for a conversation with Micael G....
                                                                                                            Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt we are returning to DomCon LA 2019, for a conversation with Micael G. about being a male submissive and importance of dominant women. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [0:52]Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:19] Micael G.: 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:32] Why are FemDoms so important to you?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:45] Do you work to empower women professionally, as a passion, or both? You are an author? 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [4:35] Are you a submissive male? Service submissive? Do you serve all genders?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [6:48] How old are you and how long have you been involved with kink?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [7:27] Starting in kink so long ago with a more judgemental culture, did you suffer any judgment for being a male submissive that participates in sissification?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [8:57] If you could go back in time, what is one warning and one piece of advice you would give yourself?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [10:22] “Be true to yourself...this isn’t a phase”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [10:33] Giving advice to an 18 or 19-year-old newbie in Vegas.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [11:19] Gender equality in the workplace: how it has changed and how much it still needs to change.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [15:12] The bonobo study https://www.sciencedaily.com/terms/bonobo.htm 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/225  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you: 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia,  Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, and Theod123
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and Alexandria
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, Morgan, and knot_the_daddy
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt: ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            On this episode of The Krypt, we are returning to DomCon LA 2019, for an interview with world-famous Professional Domme Hudsy Hawn. She has been on Buzzfeed's “The Try Guys: Try "Fifty Shades" Style BDSM”, E! TV special ”The Real 50 Shades of Grey”, and several other shows including A&E’s “Storage Wars” So, let’s hit those Rules to Love By and jump into the interview. Then stay tuned for my thoughts after the conversation.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:10]Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:37] Hudsy Hawn: 
                                                                                                            https://www.fromvanillatokink.com/ 
                                                                                                            For links to her videos: https://www.fromvanillatokink.com/media
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:14] Wrong was the dangerous way you accidentally got into the kink scene?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [3:15] Hudsy the artist and the advocate? Developing life balance and outing yourself.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [5:41] Depression and suicide within the BDSM world is 40 percent!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [6:37] More about self-outing and how the family handled it.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [8:11] “Everyone is kinky if you dig deep enough.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [8:50] WHAT?!?!?! You are a submissive in your personal life?!?!?!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [11:05] A good Top/Dom tries things out on themselves before they try it on others.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [12:17] Kuldrin wants to do a 30-day challenge as a submissive and wants Hudsy to be his Domme.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [15:37] Other than your initial entry into this world, what other pieces of advice do you give newbies?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [16:55] “The kinky trinity: reading books, going to events, and going to classes.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [17:44] When was your last frenzy? New relationship energy with one’s self?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [20:40] http://v2kcoaching.com 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/224  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you: 
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia,  Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect and Master Gabriel.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and Alexandria
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, and Morgan. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt: ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18550935Mon, 15 Jul 2019 05:38:44 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 5/12/2019 / Published: 7/15/2019 Patreon Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt, we are returning to DomCon LA 2019, for an interview with world-famous...
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                                                                                                            On this episode of The Krypt, we are returning to DomCon LA 2019, for an interview with world-famous Professional Domme Hudsy Hawn. She has been on Buzzfeed's “The Try Guys: Try "Fifty Shades" Style BDSM”, E! TV special ”The Real 50 Shades of Grey”, and several other shows including A&E’s “Storage Wars” So, let’s hit those Rules to Love By and jump into the interview. Then stay tuned for my thoughts after the conversation.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:10]Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:37] Hudsy Hawn: 
                                                                                                            https://www.fromvanillatokink.com/ 
                                                                                                            For links to her videos: https://www.fromvanillatokink.com/media
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:14] Wrong was the dangerous way you accidentally got into the kink scene?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [3:15] Hudsy the artist and the advocate? Developing life balance and outing yourself.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [5:41] Depression and suicide within the BDSM world is 40 percent!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [6:37] More about self-outing and how the family handled it.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [8:11] “Everyone is kinky if you dig deep enough.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [8:50] WHAT?!?!?! You are a submissive in your personal life?!?!?!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [11:05] A good Top/Dom tries things out on themselves before they try it on others.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [12:17] Kuldrin wants to do a 30-day challenge as a submissive and wants Hudsy to be his Domme.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [15:37] Other than your initial entry into this world, what other pieces of advice do you give newbies?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [16:55] “The kinky trinity: reading books, going to events, and going to classes.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [17:44] When was your last frenzy? New relationship energy with one’s self?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [20:40] http://v2kcoaching.com 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/224  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you: 
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia,  Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect and Master Gabriel.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and Alexandria
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, and Morgan. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt: ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation...]]>1580balance,bdsm,domconla,dominat,d/s,hawn,hudsy,kink,pro,submissive,work/lifeclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bdsm-meister-schmerz-on-hook-suspension-s02e23--18486029
                                                                                                            Recorded: 5/12/2019 / Published: 7/08/2019
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            On this episode of The Krypt, we are returning to DomCon LA 2019, for an interview with Meister Schmerz on hook suspension. Now, this might not be your bucket list but the stories from Meister Schmerz are still worth your time...especially if you are a fan of Jane’s Addiction or Dave Navarro. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:02]Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:29] Meister Schmerz
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:40] The history name?.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:41] What is hook suspension? 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [4:00] How did you get into hook suspension?
                                                                                                            Book author mentioned: Stelark 
                                                                                                            This is NOT the documentary mentioned in the show but this is a good example of flesh hook suspension. https://vimeo.com/83312499
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [6:36] How many times have you been suspended?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [9:11] What is the Torture Garden? https://torturegarden.com/events/ 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [10:41] What other types of body modifications are you into?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [14:07] Did you vipergate you own tongue?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [15:00] Is there anything that bothers you to watch? Yes, safety violations.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [18:05] Can anesthesia be used?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [19:28] Working with the band Jane’s Addiction and Dave Navarro?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [20:25] Dave Navarro and Billy Morrison (Billy Idol): Above Ground raising funds for mental health awareness. https://youtu.be/zsYOVqPTjqM 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [22:41] Meister Shmerz team Embrace Chaos https://embracechaos.com/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [24:10] What is one piece of advice that you would go back and give yourself at the beginning of your journey?
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/223  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [25:58] Thank you: 
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia,  Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect and Master Gabriel.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and Alexandria
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, and Morgan. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com Day Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys. 
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            On this episode of The Krypt, we are returning to DomCon LA 2019, for an interview with Meister Schmerz on hook suspension. Now, this might not be your bucket list but the stories from Meister Schmerz are still worth your time...especially if you are a fan of Jane’s Addiction or Dave Navarro. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:02]Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:29] Meister Schmerz
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:40] The history name?.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:41] What is hook suspension? 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [4:00] How did you get into hook suspension?
                                                                                                            Book author mentioned: Stelark 
                                                                                                            This is NOT the documentary mentioned in the show but this is a good example of flesh hook suspension. https://vimeo.com/83312499
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [6:36] How many times have you been suspended?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [9:11] What is the Torture Garden? https://torturegarden.com/events/ 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [10:41] What other types of body modifications are you into?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [14:07] Did you vipergate you own tongue?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [15:00] Is there anything that bothers you to watch? Yes, safety violations.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [18:05] Can anesthesia be used?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [19:28] Working with the band Jane’s Addiction and Dave Navarro?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [20:25] Dave Navarro and Billy Morrison (Billy Idol): Above Ground raising funds for mental health awareness. https://youtu.be/zsYOVqPTjqM 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [22:41] Meister Shmerz team Embrace Chaos https://embracechaos.com/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [24:10] What is one piece of advice that you would go back and give yourself at the beginning of your journey?
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/223  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [25:58] Thank you: 
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia,  Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, and Morgan. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com Day Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt: Hudsy Hawn
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode of The Krypt I have a brief listener comment to share, we will hit the Rules to Love By, and then I have something a little different for you. It the sound bite I recorded for The Hall of Kink that covers several different topics from what are Doms and subs to flogging and rope.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “Jackwagon6969” in an email basically said “you talk so slow I just can’t listen. For someone obviously smart, you sound so stupid.” 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Educational Clips from The Hall of Kink at DomCon LA, 2019
                                                                                                            [2:31] The history of BDSM as a term.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [4:15] Clinical Diagnosis of Kink 
                                                                                                            Special thanks to Lady Katheryne for lending her voice and research.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [10:04] What is a Dominant?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [11:38] What is a submissive?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [15:09] How are submissives and slaves different?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [18:36] Why do we flog?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [20:52] Styles of flogging.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [23:31] The different types of ropes and a little on the types of rigging.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/222  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [29:19] Thank you: 
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia,  Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect and Master Gabriel.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Roxiebear, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and Alexandria
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, and Morgan. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            BDSM Contracts for the donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com Day Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt: ???
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18428970Mon, 01 Jul 2019 05:56:56 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 1/31/2019 / Published: 7/01/2019 Patreon Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes,...
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                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode of The Krypt I have a brief listener comment to share, we will hit the Rules to Love By, and then I have something a little different for you. It the sound bite I recorded for The Hall of Kink that covers several different topics from what are Doms and subs to flogging and rope.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “Jackwagon6969” in an email basically said “you talk so slow I just can’t listen. For someone obviously smart, you sound so stupid.” 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Educational Clips from The Hall of Kink at DomCon LA, 2019
                                                                                                            [2:31] The history of BDSM as a term.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [4:15] Clinical Diagnosis of Kink 
                                                                                                            Special thanks to Lady Katheryne for lending her voice and research.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [10:04] What is a Dominant?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [11:38] What is a submissive?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [15:09] How are submissives and slaves different?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [18:36] Why do we flog?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [20:52] Styles of flogging.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [23:31] The different types of ropes and a little on the types of rigging.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/222  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [29:19] Thank you: 
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia,  Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect and Master Gabriel.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Roxiebear, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and Alexandria
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, and Morgan. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            BDSM Contracts for the donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com Day Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt: ???
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode:
                                                                                                            1: The Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            2: Susan Wright from the National Coalition For Sexual Freedom
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:30] Susan Wright from the National Coalition For Sexual Freedom
                                                                                                            https://NCSFreedom.org
                                                                                                            [1:30] What is the NCSF?
                                                                                                            [3:10] What has the NCSF done to help get BDSM removed from the DSM as a diagnosable mental illness. How has this impacted the community?
                                                                                                            [6:25] What steps have been taken to make these changes come about?
                                                                                                            Child custody issues?
                                                                                                            [11:19] Hurt Vs. Harm and nationalizing the definition for consent and decriminalizing BDSM.
                                                                                                            [14:47] Wrongful arrest and conviction of a knife player.
                                                                                                            [15:30] How do we make political changes to make necessary law changes.
                                                                                                            [17:49] Confronting consent violations against men.
                                                                                                            [20:01] FOSTA/SESTA: What is it, what has been the effects of it, and what is being done to fight it?
                                                                                                            [28:51] NCSF Direct Services needs increased due to the current political climate.
                                                                                                            [35:10] Getting the government out of our lives and how to become a lobbyist.
                                                                                                            [39:20] Kink Aware Professionals (K.A.P.) https://www.ncsfreedom.org/key-programs/kink-aware-professionals-59776
                                                                                                            [42:35] What is your personal experience with kink and nonmonogamy?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/221  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [47:00] Thank you Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia,  Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect and Master Gabriel.
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Roxiebear, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and Alexandria
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, and Morgan.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Day Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt: ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18358308Mon, 24 Jun 2019 09:04:12 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 5/25/2019 / Published: 6/24/2019 Patreon Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com On this episode: 1: The Rules to Love By 2: Susan Wright from the National Coalition For Sexual Freedom...
                                                                                                            Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode:
                                                                                                            1: The Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            2: Susan Wright from the National Coalition For Sexual Freedom
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:30] Susan Wright from the National Coalition For Sexual Freedom
                                                                                                            https://NCSFreedom.org
                                                                                                            [1:30] What is the NCSF?
                                                                                                            [3:10] What has the NCSF done to help get BDSM removed from the DSM as a diagnosable mental illness. How has this impacted the community?
                                                                                                            [6:25] What steps have been taken to make these changes come about?
                                                                                                            Child custody issues?
                                                                                                            [11:19] Hurt Vs. Harm and nationalizing the definition for consent and decriminalizing BDSM.
                                                                                                            [14:47] Wrongful arrest and conviction of a knife player.
                                                                                                            [15:30] How do we make political changes to make necessary law changes.
                                                                                                            [17:49] Confronting consent violations against men.
                                                                                                            [20:01] FOSTA/SESTA: What is it, what has been the effects of it, and what is being done to fight it?
                                                                                                            [28:51] NCSF Direct Services needs increased due to the current political climate.
                                                                                                            [35:10] Getting the government out of our lives and how to become a lobbyist.
                                                                                                            [39:20] Kink Aware Professionals (K.A.P.) https://www.ncsfreedom.org/key-programs/kink-aware-professionals-59776
                                                                                                            [42:35] What is your personal experience with kink and nonmonogamy?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/221  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [47:00] Thank you Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia,  Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect and Master Gabriel.
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Roxiebear, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and Alexandria
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, and Morgan.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Day Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt: ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode:
                                                                                                            1: The Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            2: Continuing with our interview series from DomCon, LA 2019:
                                                                                                            A: Ashley from The Crafty Hedonist https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            B: Chris from Torrid Timber http://www.torridtimber.com/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Ashley from The Crafty Hedonist
                                                                                                            [1:35] Ashley from The Crafty Hedonist https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            [2:00] How did you come up with this idea and what did you go to school for?
                                                                                                            http://www.barsinister.net
                                                                                                            [2:25] What made you decide to get into the toy business?
                                                                                                            [3:34] What all products do you make?
                                                                                                            [4:32] How did making adult toys a passion for an artist?
                                                                                                            [5:37] Do you “test drive” every product?
                                                                                                            [7:02] How do you care for The Crafty Hedonist products?
                                                                                                            [8:42] Upcoming pieces? Do you do custom pieces?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Chris from Torrid Timber
                                                                                                            [10:05] Chris from Torrid Timber http://www.torridtimber.com/
                                                                                                            You don’t Master DomCon. It Masters you.
                                                                                                            [11:16] What does Torrid Timber do?
                                                                                                            [11:54] How do your toys play into your kinks? How long have you been in the kink scene?
                                                                                                            [13:15] Is that a cage and can I get in it?
                                                                                                            [13:38] How does Chris prepare to design equipment?
                                                                                                            [17:36] Right brain/left brain balance in design.
                                                                                                            [18:48] “Hey we had an amazing scene and this thing added to it.”
                                                                                                            [19:14] What is your participation in the scene, Dom or sub?
                                                                                                            [19:30] Apologizing, ownership, control, and leading by example.
                                                                                                            [21:33] Do you try out all your own creations? Building from a users point of view, not a personal preference.
                                                                                                            [24:02] Inclusivity. Kneeling for her Master for the first time in ten years!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/220
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia, Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect and Master Gabriel.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Roxiebear, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and Alexandria
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, and Morgan.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Day Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts. https://www.daycollars.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Whipping Stripes: http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next Time on the Krypt:
                                                                                                            Susan Wright from the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom https://NCSFreedom.org
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18292775Mon, 17 Jun 2019 06:32:46 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 3/9/2019 and 5/12/2019 / Published: 6/17/2019 Patreon Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of...Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode:
                                                                                                            1: The Rules to Love By
                                                                                                            2: Continuing with our interview series from DomCon, LA 2019:
                                                                                                            A: Ashley from The Crafty Hedonist https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            B: Chris from Torrid Timber http://www.torridtimber.com/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Ashley from The Crafty Hedonist
                                                                                                            [1:35] Ashley from The Crafty Hedonist https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
                                                                                                            [2:00] How did you come up with this idea and what did you go to school for?
                                                                                                            http://www.barsinister.net
                                                                                                            [2:25] What made you decide to get into the toy business?
                                                                                                            [3:34] What all products do you make?
                                                                                                            [4:32] How did making adult toys a passion for an artist?
                                                                                                            [5:37] Do you “test drive” every product?
                                                                                                            [7:02] How do you care for The Crafty Hedonist products?
                                                                                                            [8:42] Upcoming pieces? Do you do custom pieces?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Chris from Torrid Timber
                                                                                                            [10:05] Chris from Torrid Timber http://www.torridtimber.com/
                                                                                                            You don’t Master DomCon. It Masters you.
                                                                                                            [11:16] What does Torrid Timber do?
                                                                                                            [11:54] How do your toys play into your kinks? How long have you been in the kink scene?
                                                                                                            [13:15] Is that a cage and can I get in it?
                                                                                                            [13:38] How does Chris prepare to design equipment?
                                                                                                            [17:36] Right brain/left brain balance in design.
                                                                                                            [18:48] “Hey we had an amazing scene and this thing added to it.”
                                                                                                            [19:14] What is your participation in the scene, Dom or sub?
                                                                                                            [19:30] Apologizing, ownership, control, and leading by example.
                                                                                                            [21:33] Do you try out all your own creations? Building from a users point of view, not a personal preference.
                                                                                                            [24:02] Inclusivity. Kneeling for her Master for the first time in ten years!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/220
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia, Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect and Master Gabriel.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Roxiebear, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and Alexandria
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, and Morgan.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Day Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs...]]>1894adulttoys,bdsm,cbt,domcon,interview,thecraftyhedonist,torridtimberclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/rope-bondage-with-master-feenix-and-keri-s02e19--18224764Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt, we are hitting the rules to love by, then we are continuing with our interview series from DomCon, LA 2019. This time it is Professional Dom and Rope Master, Master Feenix. After that, I have a lost interview I did at Podfest 2019 in Orlando, FL. with Keri where she talks about her three biggest kinks and how she entered the world of kink.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://Patreon.com/Kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:35] Master Feenix https://www.instagram.com/explore/tags/masterfeenix/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:00] How long have you been in the kink scene?
                                                                                                            http://www.barsinister.net
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:32] What is about rope that drew you in?
                                                                                                            What?!?! You started out as a rope hater?!?!?!
                                                                                                            Midori http://planetmidori.com https://www.youtube.com/user/PlanetMidori/videos
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [6:14] How deep does your love of rope run?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [13:01] What types of ties do you do? Tying on a spanking bench?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [15:40] You tie newbies with a 60-second questionnaire? What’s included in this?
                                                                                                            What kind of rope do you use?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [19:55] How do you avoid consent complaints with such a quick negotiation?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [28:57] Rope bottom Keri
                                                                                                            How long have you been in the scene and how did you get involved?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [29:58] Were you seeing the therapist for personal or professional reasons?
                                                                                                            Professional? Oh, you are a Doctor of Oriental Medicine.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [30:35] What are your “three number one kinks”?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [31:11] What about bondage does it for you?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [32:28] Before entering the lifestyle, did you ever cocoon or use weighted blankets to deal with stress or anxiety?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [30:22] What do you wish you would have known before you got started?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [35:30] Did you hit frenzy?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/219
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): Anonymous.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, Jess, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia, Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, Queen Sage, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah,
                                                                                                            SirMurualRespect and Master Gabriel.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Roxiebear, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and Alexandria
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, and Hayley.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Day Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next Time on the Krypt:
                                                                                                            We are talking to ???. In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18224764Mon, 10 Jun 2019 06:32:59 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 3/9/2019 and 5/12/2019 / Published: 6/10/2019 Patreon Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com On this episode of the Krypt, we are hitting the rules to love by, then we are continuing...Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt, we are hitting the rules to love by, then we are continuing with our interview series from DomCon, LA 2019. This time it is Professional Dom and Rope Master, Master Feenix. After that, I have a lost interview I did at Podfest 2019 in Orlando, FL. with Keri where she talks about her three biggest kinks and how she entered the world of kink.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://Patreon.com/Kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:35] Master Feenix https://www.instagram.com/explore/tags/masterfeenix/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:00] How long have you been in the kink scene?
                                                                                                            http://www.barsinister.net
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:32] What is about rope that drew you in?
                                                                                                            What?!?! You started out as a rope hater?!?!?!
                                                                                                            Midori http://planetmidori.com https://www.youtube.com/user/PlanetMidori/videos
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [6:14] How deep does your love of rope run?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [13:01] What types of ties do you do? Tying on a spanking bench?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [15:40] You tie newbies with a 60-second questionnaire? What’s included in this?
                                                                                                            What kind of rope do you use?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [19:55] How do you avoid consent complaints with such a quick negotiation?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [28:57] Rope bottom Keri
                                                                                                            How long have you been in the scene and how did you get involved?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [29:58] Were you seeing the therapist for personal or professional reasons?
                                                                                                            Professional? Oh, you are a Doctor of Oriental Medicine.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [30:35] What are your “three number one kinks”?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [31:11] What about bondage does it for you?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [32:28] Before entering the lifestyle, did you ever cocoon or use weighted blankets to deal with stress or anxiety?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [30:22] What do you wish you would have known before you got started?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [35:30] Did you hit frenzy?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/219
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): Anonymous.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, Jess, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia, Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, Queen Sage, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah,
                                                                                                            SirMurualRespect and Master Gabriel.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Roxiebear, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and Alexandria
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, and Hayley.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Day Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord...]]>2181bdsm,bondage,dominant,d/s,interview,kink,master,m/s,ownere,rigging,rope,slave,submissiveclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/master-reverend-gear-and-vee-the-master-s-journey-and-kinky-af-podcast-s02e18--18155569
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are hitting the rules to love by and then we are going to an interview from DomCon, LA 2019, with Master Reverend Gear from House RavynBlood and the Kinky AP Podcast and his girl Vee about their journey and about his podcast. Now, this is a lot different from my usual style. These are two amazing people and we couldn’t stop making each other laugh but the nuggets of wisdom in this are quite abundant.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://Patreon.com/Kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:35] Master Reverend Gear and Vee of House RavynBlood and the Kinky AF Podcast. http://kinkyafpodcast.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:12] The surprise of being covered and going from Sir Gear to Master Gear.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [4:37] Vee, how do you feel about it all...and being “voluntold”?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [5:23] What is the Kinky AF Podcast about? http://kinkyafpodcast.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [6:50] How lond have the two of you been in a dynamic?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [8:27] What is the goal of Kinky AF Podcast? http://kinkyafpodcast.com
                                                                                                            Informative, Educational, and Fun!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [12:06] How much is Vee on the show?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [13:45] Topping from the bottom with negotiated permission.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [16:42] How long have you both been involved in the kink scene?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [17:49] How Master Gear got started out.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [20:36] How was it for Vee being thrown into the mix with someone that had so much local popularity?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [23:23] Master Gabriel’s presentation speech to Master Gear upon bestowing him with his Master’s Cover.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/218
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): Anonymous.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, Jess, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia,  Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, Queen Sage, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMurualRespect and Master Gabriel.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Roxiebear, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and Alexandria
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, and Hayley.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com
                                                                                                            Day Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next Time on the Krypt:
                                                                                                            We are talking to Master Feenix about his life long journey of rope. In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
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                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18155569Mon, 03 Jun 2019 06:53:57 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 5/11/2019 / Published: 6/3/2019 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com On this episode of the Krypt we are hitting the rules to love by and then we are going to an interview from...
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are hitting the rules to love by and then we are going to an interview from DomCon, LA 2019, with Master Reverend Gear from House RavynBlood and the Kinky AP Podcast and his girl Vee about their journey and about his podcast. Now, this is a lot different from my usual style. These are two amazing people and we couldn’t stop making each other laugh but the nuggets of wisdom in this are quite abundant.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://Patreon.com/Kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:35] Master Reverend Gear and Vee of House RavynBlood and the Kinky AF Podcast. http://kinkyafpodcast.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:12] The surprise of being covered and going from Sir Gear to Master Gear.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [4:37] Vee, how do you feel about it all...and being “voluntold”?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [5:23] What is the Kinky AF Podcast about? http://kinkyafpodcast.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [6:50] How lond have the two of you been in a dynamic?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [8:27] What is the goal of Kinky AF Podcast? http://kinkyafpodcast.com
                                                                                                            Informative, Educational, and Fun!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [12:06] How much is Vee on the show?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [13:45] Topping from the bottom with negotiated permission.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [16:42] How long have you both been involved in the kink scene?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [17:49] How Master Gear got started out.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [20:36] How was it for Vee being thrown into the mix with someone that had so much local popularity?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [23:23] Master Gabriel’s presentation speech to Master Gear upon bestowing him with his Master’s Cover.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/218
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): Anonymous.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, Jess, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia,  Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, Queen Sage, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMurualRespect and Master Gabriel.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Roxiebear, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and Alexandria
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, and Hayley.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com
                                                                                                            Day Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next Time on the Krypt:
                                                                                                            We are talking to Master Feenix about his life long journey of rope. In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you...]]>1579domcon,dominant,d/s,interview,kink,kinkyaf,master,m/s,relationship,slave,submissiveclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/telling-the-children-dom-sub-relationship-sir-welph-and-robin-s02e17--18083722
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are telling you briefly about a change to our Patreon Page, hitting the rules to love by, and then we are going to an interview from DomCon, LA 2019, with Sir Welph and Sirs’ Button, Robin about telling her children about their D/s relationship.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://Patreon.com/Kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2:KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:38] Sir Welph and Sir’s Button Robin
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:57] Explain to us your dynamic and how you met.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [3:59] How long have you been into the lifestyle?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [6:15] How much of Sir Welph’s Old Guard training and military experience bleeds over into your dynamic?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [7:50] Telling Sir’s Welph’s adult children.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [9:40] Telling Sir’s Button Robin’s children.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [11:17] Helping the child to understand that it’s not abuse because it is consensual and explaining their roles.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [16:25] Balancing playtime and being parents.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [19:00] What is the one piece of advice you would go back in time and tell yourself?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [20:00} What is one warning you give your younger self?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/217
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): Anonymous.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, Jess, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia,  Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, Queen Sage, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, and SirMurualRespect.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Roxiebear, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and Alexandria
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, and Hayley.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Day Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next Time on the Krypt:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt we are talking to Master Reverend Gear and Vee from the Kinky A.F. podcast and House Ravynblood https://anchor.fm/kinkyafpodcast. In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18083722Mon, 27 May 2019 04:05:19 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 5/11/2019 / Published: 5/27/2019 Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and...
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are telling you briefly about a change to our Patreon Page, hitting the rules to love by, and then we are going to an interview from DomCon, LA 2019, with Sir Welph and Sirs’ Button, Robin about telling her children about their D/s relationship.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://Patreon.com/Kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2:KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:38] Sir Welph and Sir’s Button Robin
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:57] Explain to us your dynamic and how you met.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [3:59] How long have you been into the lifestyle?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [6:15] How much of Sir Welph’s Old Guard training and military experience bleeds over into your dynamic?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [7:50] Telling Sir’s Welph’s adult children.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [9:40] Telling Sir’s Button Robin’s children.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [11:17] Helping the child to understand that it’s not abuse because it is consensual and explaining their roles.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [16:25] Balancing playtime and being parents.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [19:00] What is the one piece of advice you would go back in time and tell yourself?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [20:00} What is one warning you give your younger self?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/217
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Producers:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Pro Producer($100/month): Anonymous.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, Jess, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia,  Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, Queen Sage, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, and SirMurualRespect.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Roxiebear, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and Alexandria
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, and Hayley.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Day Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next Time on the Krypt:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt we are talking to Master Reverend Gear and Vee from the Kinky A.F. podcast and House Ravynblood https://anchor.fm/kinkyafpodcast. In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: 1566bdsm,children,dominant,d/s,education,marriage,relationship,sex,submission,tellingclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/mistress-cyan-domcon-pro-dominatrix-and-advocate-s02e16--18019674
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode:
                                                                                                            1. Rules to Love By.
                                                                                                            2. My Collar Maker.
                                                                                                            3. Mistress Cyan. She is lifestyle kinster, Professional Dominatrix, founder of DomCon, dungeon owner, LGBTQ2A advocate, a living legend, one of the most genuine people I have ever met, and so many more amazing things.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:05] Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:29] https://www.daycollars.comDay Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts. They cater to everyone, from sporty and informal daily fashion to the leather community. They will guide you through the styling of your accessory and the whole thing concerning your order is personalized to your needs and specifications. For inspiration and ideas on your personal style or to simply admire their completed works, visit their gallery page.[2:00] Mistress Cyan Interview http://www.mistresscyan.com/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:30] What is and where is DomCon?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [3:11] Why did you start DomCon? Professional Vs. Lifestyle Communities?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [6:27] How long where you kinky before making it a profession?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [8:35] How has DomCon help to change the cultural view of BDSM/Kink and what is https://LAPride.org/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [10:50] Torture Garden: Globe Theatre 10pm-2:30am. Los Angeles, CA September 14, 2019. https://www.torturegarden.com/events/torture-garden-inernational/104-torture-garden-los-angeles
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [:] DomCon NOLA (New Orleans, LA, USA) October 10th-13th, 2019. Astor Crowne Plaza. https://www.domcon.com/home/custom?page=DomCon+New+Orleans[15:34] Sanctuary LAX Dungeon https://www.sanctuarylax.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/216
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            1. Show Producers:
                                                                                                            -Pro Producer($100/month): Anonymous. Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, Jess, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia,  Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            -Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, Queen Sage, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, and SirMurualRespect.
                                                                                                            -Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Roxiebear, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and Alexandria
                                                                                                            -Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, and Hayley. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            2. BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            3.Whipping Stripes http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next Time on the Krypt: Sir Welph and Sir's Button talk about their dynamic and what how they handled her daughter asking questions about him telling her what to do.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/18019674Mon, 20 May 2019 06:02:33 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 5/12/2019 / Published: 5/20/2019 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com On this episode: 1. Rules to Love By. 2. My Collar Maker. 3. Mistress Cyan. She is lifestyle kinster,...
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode:
                                                                                                            1. Rules to Love By.
                                                                                                            2. My Collar Maker.
                                                                                                            3. Mistress Cyan. She is lifestyle kinster, Professional Dominatrix, founder of DomCon, dungeon owner, LGBTQ2A advocate, a living legend, one of the most genuine people I have ever met, and so many more amazing things.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:05] Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:29] https://www.daycollars.comDay Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts. They cater to everyone, from sporty and informal daily fashion to the leather community. They will guide you through the styling of your accessory and the whole thing concerning your order is personalized to your needs and specifications. For inspiration and ideas on your personal style or to simply admire their completed works, visit their gallery page.[2:00] Mistress Cyan Interview http://www.mistresscyan.com/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:30] What is and where is DomCon?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [3:11] Why did you start DomCon? Professional Vs. Lifestyle Communities?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [6:27] How long where you kinky before making it a profession?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [8:35] How has DomCon help to change the cultural view of BDSM/Kink and what is https://LAPride.org/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [10:50] Torture Garden: Globe Theatre 10pm-2:30am. Los Angeles, CA September 14, 2019. https://www.torturegarden.com/events/torture-garden-inernational/104-torture-garden-los-angeles
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [:] DomCon NOLA (New Orleans, LA, USA) October 10th-13th, 2019. Astor Crowne Plaza. https://www.domcon.com/home/custom?page=DomCon+New+Orleans[15:34] Sanctuary LAX Dungeon https://www.sanctuarylax.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/216
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thank you:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            1. Show Producers:
                                                                                                            -Pro Producer($100/month): Anonymous. Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, Jess, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia,  Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and Faisil
                                                                                                            -Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, Queen Sage, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, and SirMurualRespect.
                                                                                                            -Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Roxiebear, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and Alexandria
                                                                                                            -Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, and Hayley. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            2. BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            3.Whipping Stripes http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next Time on the Krypt: Sir Welph and Sir's Button talk about their dynamic and what how they handled her daughter asking questions about him telling her what to do.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: 1211bdsm,cyan,domination,d/s,interview,master,mistress,m/s,professional,slave,submissionclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/five-love-languages-and-bdsm-s02e15--17802340Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [0:55] Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:21] https://www.daycollars.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:52] Dr. Gary Chapman gives, what most expert and layperson alike, consider an excellent representation of the different ways you and I offer and receive acts of love in his appropriately titled book "The Five Love Languages: How To Express Heartfelt Commitment To Your Mate". Let go through these and see how these also apply to the world of BDSM.As we do, make sure to keep in mind that you probably are a mix of these to some degree. Most people have a primary love language and a few secondary ones but there are those that have an equal part of two or even all five of them. Also, consider that for a lot of people the way they show love and affection is also the way they wish to receive it. So, if you are a person that shows love by giving a lot of gifts, chances are you also feel it by receiving lots of little gifts.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:47] Words of Affirmation: This love language is marked by the desire to hear words of encouragement, approval, and appreciation.While vanilla compliments completely apply here saying “good girl” or “good boy/boi” is also important but some of the things that people often don’t think about are those less vanilla things. Basically, I’m talking about humiliation and degradation here. We are involved in this lifestyle because we accept and embrace all of our needs and for some a big part of this is being told how bad we are. You know that I work hard to keep this pretty despite the topic so I won’t go into obvious examples. However, with this, it is detrimental that people that have this as a primary love language and the need for degradations or humiliation to have all of these met in order to feel loved. Just don’t forget the importance of aftercare...which could be said about all of these.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [3:50] Quality Time: This love language is marked by the desire to actively spend time with our significant other, having meaningful conversations or sharing recreational activities. At first glance, this is possibly the easiest one of the five to provide but examining it further and we can’t just brush over the word “quality”. There have been several times where Mayfair and I have set up dates and times to get together for a scene...I mean, it doesn’t get any more quality than that...but then things went wrong. Illness, worked overtime, the mood wasn’t right, family emergencies, ... hundreds of reason why thing haven’t always worked out. Is this considered quality time Well, some of it, yes. The planning time we spent together (not on the phone and especially not when texting), But most of it no. Now, I don’t say that for the times that we were actually able to get together and things like mood got in the way. I’m referring to when we were completely unable to meet up. Just because a scene was “unsuccessful” doesn’t mean that is was a failure or that the time we spent together wasn’t quality. Just like judging the quality of a scene by the pretties is leaves is a HUGE mistake, so is judging a scene that ends earlier than a planned.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [5:25] Receiving Gifts: This love language is marked by the desire to receive gifts, regardless of whether they are expensive commercial gifts or heartfelt, handmade gifts. Like the others this one is pretty self-explanatory but with us kinky folk this one might also include the gift of a pretty, a bite, an additional play partner for the evening, or any number of wildly creative things that you could conjure from the depths of your imagination. Yes, some of these things might also crossover into the other four categories, and we have to be careful to not let them crossover too much or we aren’t speaking the right language, but if it is something that they (not you) would consider a gift then it would count. On a personal note, this one is one of the ones I greatly struggle with as the receiver. Though I am appreciative for gifts, I would much rather be the person giving than the one receiving.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [6:27] Acts of Service: This love language is marked by the desire to have someone do things such as dishwashing, dog walking, and laundry for you.Ah the thing that a lot of people think of in the world of BDSM when they hear the word service is someone cleaning their house for them or doing their laundry. Yes, these are absolutely acts of service but so is sex, bootblacking and other forms of leather care like cleaning floggers and other toys, dropping of a meal to you at work, carrying a stack of your business cards just in case you run out, and cleaning the dungeon equipment after you have played with them or someone else.  In this world, service can and often is servicing. In Elizabeth Cramer’s book “Dom’s Guide to submissive Training” she talks about the importance of oral sex being administered daily. This is WAY more about the act of service than it is about the sexual act. Just because something walks like a duck and quacks like a duck we assume its a duck but sometimes it’s something completely different. If you think back to the comparison Master Arcane made between Alice in the real world and Alice through the looking glass, you will easily understand what I am talking about. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/114
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [8:00] Physical Touch: This love language is marked by the desire to be touched, whether it's holding hands, hugging, kissing, a stroking of the skin, or sex.In my experience, service and this one seem to be the most common amongst the kink community but do not let that sway your own thought, feeling, and most importantly needs. Sadly, it is also one of the most misused and abused forms of love there is. And here is why, with the popularity of kink becoming so prevalent within the popular American culture people feel the need to be the stereotypes they read about. Thus, we have a new generation of young and old people alike that feel they have to be Master Domly Dom stoic Butthead to be Dominant. Thus any meaning and loving touches go straight out the window. All passionate little caresses or hair stokes disappear into the guise of the role they feel they have to play. This is far from the truth. You know me and in that, you know that I constantly advocate for two primary things-communication and aftercare. The thing here though is that while touching, cuddling, kissing, or sex might be a necessity for someone's aftercare that does not count as their required physical touch to feel love. No. That is there required touch to feel safe. Let me repeat that. Anything done in aftercare, whether it is physical touch, gift giving, affirmations, time, acts of service do not in any way EVER count toward some imaginary credit to speaking someone else’s love language. These are things done to make them feel safe. What does count is that random hug, kiss, hair stroke, should rub, or sexual act.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [11:09] My Results: (From https://www.psychologies.co.uk/tests/whats-your-love-language.html) “You respond to physical touch!" (for complete shownotes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/215 )
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [13:53] The thing that is most important to take away from this is that we need to be aware of our
                                                                                                            own love language and the love language of the people we are in relationships with. Whether that be family, friends, or lovers. By becoming aware and actively engaging each other in the way they prefer we will all live a happier, healthier, and less stressed life. I tried for years to talk my preferred language of touch to people that spoke in terms of the other languages and no one in those relationships was happy and all of us felt misunderstood and honestly quite often rejected...and sure rejection in a scene might feel nice but to live that way on a daily basis will create depression and resentment. Besides, if you are going to have a relationship of love and respect then you have to tell them in the way that they understand that you love them and from that, they will also know that you respect them...at least...that’s one piece of that particular puzzle.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The show notes for this episode which contains all links can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/215
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17802340Wed, 01 May 2019 07:37:18 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded and Published: 5/01/2019 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com [0:55] Rules to Love by: 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity...Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [0:55] Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:21] https://www.daycollars.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:52] Dr. Gary Chapman gives, what most expert and layperson alike, consider an excellent representation of the different ways you and I offer and receive acts of love in his appropriately titled book "The Five Love Languages: How To Express Heartfelt Commitment To Your Mate". Let go through these and see how these also apply to the world of BDSM.As we do, make sure to keep in mind that you probably are a mix of these to some degree. Most people have a primary love language and a few secondary ones but there are those that have an equal part of two or even all five of them. Also, consider that for a lot of people the way they show love and affection is also the way they wish to receive it. So, if you are a person that shows love by giving a lot of gifts, chances are you also feel it by receiving lots of little gifts.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:47] Words of Affirmation: This love language is marked by the desire to hear words of encouragement, approval, and appreciation.While vanilla compliments completely apply here saying “good girl” or “good boy/boi” is also important but some of the things that people often don’t think about are those less vanilla things. Basically, I’m talking about humiliation and degradation here. We are involved in this lifestyle because we accept and embrace all of our needs and for some a big part of this is being told how bad we are. You know that I work hard to keep this pretty despite the topic so I won’t go into obvious examples. However, with this, it is detrimental that people that have this as a primary love language and the need for degradations or humiliation to have all of these met in order to feel loved. Just don’t forget the importance of aftercare...which could be said about all of these.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [3:50] Quality Time: This love language is marked by the desire to actively spend time with our significant other, having meaningful conversations or sharing recreational activities. At first glance, this is possibly the easiest one of the five to provide but examining it further and we can’t just brush over the word “quality”. There have been several times where Mayfair and I have set up dates and times to get together for a scene...I mean, it doesn’t get any more quality than that...but then things went wrong. Illness, worked overtime, the mood wasn’t right, family emergencies, ... hundreds of reason why thing haven’t always worked out. Is this considered quality time Well, some of it, yes. The planning time we spent together (not on the phone and especially not when texting), But most of it no. Now, I don’t say that for the times that we were actually able to get together and things like mood got in the way. I’m referring to when we were completely unable to meet up. Just because a scene was “unsuccessful” doesn’t mean that is was a failure or that the time we spent together wasn’t quality. Just like judging the quality of a scene by the pretties is leaves is a HUGE mistake, so is judging a scene that ends earlier than a planned.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [5:25] Receiving Gifts: This love language is marked by the desire to receive gifts, regardless of whether they are expensive commercial gifts or heartfelt, handmade gifts. Like the others this one is pretty self-explanatory but with us kinky folk this one might also include the gift of a pretty, a bite, an additional play partner for the evening, or any number of wildly creative things...]]>1051bdsm,five,languages,love,relationship,relationshipsclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/reserved-doms-vs-assertive-subs-s02e14--17653662Patreon
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                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are hitting the rules to love by, I have to share with you my new collar maker https://www.daycollars.com, and then we are diving into an interesting topic presented to me by a play partner, a friend, a listener, and a show producer, SortOutTheKinks, on Reserved Dominants Vs. Assertive submissives.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com
                                                                                                            Day Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts. They cater to everyone, from sporty and informal daily fashion to the leather community. They will guide you through the styling of your accessory and the whole thing concerning your order is personalized to your needs and specifications. For inspiration and ideas on your personal style or to simply admire their completed works, visit their gallery page.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -The Reserved Dominant
                                                                                                            In order to truly understand this topic I have to first define what I mean by “reserved”. This can be done in a few simple descriptive words such as less outgoing, shy, withdrawn, quiet, standoffish, wallflower, ...these are all descriptors of what I am referring to when I say reserved but just because these things might describe a person it in no way means they aren’t a good Dominant. Think about as you would bread. There are several types, white, wheat, pumpernickel, rye, but they are all bread. There are a few different ingredients that make all those types of bread, bread but they all have a few other different ingredients that make them different. Just as with people, these ingredients are the foundation of what makes us, us.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Working to get over shyness:
                                                                                                            A lot of people think that a person has to be outgoing or even a Type A personality to be a Dom or Top and this simply isn’t true. In fact, a lot of the more typical Type A’s out there would rather be submissive in their personal lives in order to balance out their professional lives.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Education Level:
                                                                                                            Some Dominants may not be confident in their skills, and this may contribute to why they are less apt to invite someone to play or agree to play with others. Going out to classes can improve this and boost confidence in skills.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Limited Event Experience:
                                                                                                            Getting out to play spaces, dungeons, parties, and conventions means getting around like-minded individuals, which in turn means more social education and interaction with experienced people that can teach you the skills necessary to be more confident.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Psychological Foundation:
                                                                                                            Whether it is nurture or nature, some people are just quiet, withdrawn, shy, or have some form of social anxiety and there is NOTHING wrong with that as long as it doesn’t interfere with your activities of daily living. If everyone was the same it would be a very boring world. It is a complete myth propagated by “Master Mister Domly Daddy” that if you are like this then you are not a Dom at all but actually a sub. This is such crap! YOU DON’T HAVE TO BE VERY EXTROVERTED TO BE A GOOD DOM or TOP!!!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Examples:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Corey:
                                                                                                            Things may be slow going with him at first, but it doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you or doesn’t want to play. He is just a very reserved person that needs a connection with a partner to play with them.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            IrishMTDragon:
                                                                                                            Out of all the people I have met along the way he is one of the best examples of this. I interviewed him in S01E27 (https://kuldrinskrypt.com/127) where he talks about his social awkwardness and anxiety but I didn’t see any way that those things made him less of a Dom than me or anyone else that doesn’t have those issues. And believe me, I’m not saying I don’t have issues just not those two...at least not nearly as bad as he does. But regardless, nothing about it prevents him, you, or anyone else from fulfilling the duties of a Dominant.
                                                                                                            And if you’d like to know what I think those duties are, listen to episodes:
                                                                                                            S01E03-“The Dom’s Role and Common Mistakes” (https://kuldrinskrypt.com/103)
                                                                                                            S01E14-”Master Arcane Interview” (https://kuldrinskrypt.com/114)
                                                                                                            S01E30-”Types of BDSM Dominants” (https://kuldrinskrypt.com/130)
                                                                                                            S02E04-”Dominants Bill of Rights and Calling Red” (https://kuldrinskrypt.com/dominants-bill-of-rights-and-calling-red-s02e04)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The Assertive submissive:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Again understanding what is meant by my terminology here is important. Some people think that assertiveness is being stubborn, overbearing, or controlling but the way it is meant in this context is simply someone who isn’t reserved. They are not afraid to be the center of attention, they don’t let social anxieties get in the way of a good time, or they are not afraid to ask a Dom or Top to play with them. In other words, outgoing. If you are a reserved person just talking about some of these things might sound extremely scary or you might wish you could be assertive like these people but just like the saying that the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence, this isn’t without its own set of specific issues.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Assertive subs:
                                                                                                            May feel that they intimidate dominants when pursuing a relationship. In S01E50-Who Pursues Whom in BDSM” (https://kuldrinskrypt.com/who-pursues-whom-in-bdsm-s01e50) we talked a lot about this and both sides of the coin can be a tough sell to you if you feel the other side is correct but regardless, I have known many Dominants and Tops that would get “clammy” if they were approached by a sub or bottom for play or for a potential relationship. I have also heard a lot of stories from /s types about them scaring off potentials because the person they were pursuing believed that anyone that was “truly submissive” would wait until they were addressed. Personally, I love when someone is assertive and lets me know exactly what they would like from me...but then I really just consider that effective communication. Which was discussed at length in S01E24-”Effective Communication in BDSM Relationship” (https://kuldrinskrypt.com/124)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Assertive subs might know what they want and not want to waste their time with someone they “think” doesn’t fit but I’ve often seen people judge to quickly and pass on opportunities that they, more than likely, would have greatly benefitted from.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The last thing to consider is being forward in asking for what they want/need. This one is almost always a good thing but like everything, there is an exception to the rule. Some can be so forward that they forget about another person's needs or boundaries and embarrass them, or even unintentionally disrespect them or someone they are close too. I once had someone walk up to me, bite me, tell me I was the sexiest person they’ve ever met, and forcefully offered their submission while they were holding me by my package. She honestly thought I would appreciate the honesty, flattery, and forwardness but my date nor hers appreciated anything about her actions.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The Bottom Line:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Both of these things can go either way with a Reserved/Assertive Dominant and a Reserved/Assertive sub.  Whether you are more assertive or more reserved than most, you be you and don’t let other people define you as a Dominant, submissive, Top, or bottom. That is for you to decide. If you feel that these, or any other personality traits are causing issues in your life take the bull by the horns by talking with a professional and develop a plan to change those things.[:] The shownotes for this episode which contains links to all the other episodes I have talked to you about can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/214
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, Queen Sage, and SortOutTheKinks.
                                                                                                            Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Roxiebear, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and Alexandria
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17653662Tue, 16 Apr 2019 06:58:02 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 4/16/2019 / Published: 4/16/2019 Patreon Can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com On this episode of the Krypt we are hitting the rules to love by, I have to share with you my new...Patreon
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                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are hitting the rules to love by, I have to share with you my new collar maker https://www.daycollars.com, and then we are diving into an interesting topic presented to me by a play partner, a friend, a listener, and a show producer, SortOutTheKinks, on Reserved Dominants Vs. Assertive submissives.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://www.daycollars.com
                                                                                                            Day Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts. They cater to everyone, from sporty and informal daily fashion to the leather community. They will guide you through the styling of your accessory and the whole thing concerning your order is personalized to your needs and specifications. For inspiration and ideas on your personal style or to simply admire their completed works, visit their gallery page.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -The Reserved Dominant
                                                                                                            In order to truly understand this topic I have to first define what I mean by “reserved”. This can be done in a few simple descriptive words such as less outgoing, shy, withdrawn, quiet, standoffish, wallflower, ...these are all descriptors of what I am referring to when I say reserved but just because these things might describe a person it in no way means they aren’t a good Dominant. Think about as you would bread. There are several types, white, wheat, pumpernickel, rye, but they are all bread. There are a few different ingredients that make all those types of bread, bread but they all have a few other different ingredients that make them different. Just as with people, these ingredients are the foundation of what makes us, us.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Working to get over shyness:
                                                                                                            A lot of people think that a person has to be outgoing or even a Type A personality to be a Dom or Top and this simply isn’t true. In fact, a lot of the more typical Type A’s out there would rather be submissive in their personal lives in order to balance out their professional lives.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Education Level:
                                                                                                            Some Dominants may not be confident in their skills, and this may contribute to why they are less apt to invite someone to play or agree to play with others. Going out to classes can improve this and boost confidence in skills.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Limited Event Experience:
                                                                                                            Getting out to play spaces, dungeons, parties, and conventions means getting around like-minded individuals, which in turn means more social education and interaction with experienced people that can teach you the skills necessary to be more confident.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Psychological Foundation:
                                                                                                            Whether it is nurture or nature, some people are just quiet, withdrawn, shy, or have some form of social anxiety and there is NOTHING wrong with that as long as it doesn’t interfere with your activities of daily living. If everyone was the same it would be a very boring world. It is a complete myth propagated by “Master Mister Domly Daddy” that if you are like this then you are not a Dom at all but actually a sub. This is such crap! YOU DON’T HAVE TO BE VERY EXTROVERTED TO BE A GOOD DOM or TOP!!!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Examples:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Corey:
                                                                                                            Things may be slow going with him at first, but it doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you or doesn’t want to play. He is just a very reserved person that needs a connection with a partner to play with them.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            IrishMTDragon:
                                                                                                            Out of all the people I have met along the way he is one of the best...]]>721assertive,bdsm,dom,dominant,master,reserved,sex,shy,slave,sub,submissiveclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/mayfair85-on-entering-the-bdsm-lifestyle-s02e13--17496727
                                                                                                            Patreon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are hitting the rules to love by, I have to share with you my new collar maker https://www.daycollars.com, and then we are talking to My sub, Mayfair about her experience in entering the scene.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [0:50] Rules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:14] https://www.daycollars.comDay Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts. They cater to everyone, from sporty and informal daily fashion to the leather community. With DayCollars.com you can make your own personalized style of collars, leashes, belts, cuffs and other leather products. They will guide you through the styling of your accessory and the whole thing concerning your order is personalized to your needs and specifications. For inspiration and ideas on your personal style or to simply admire their completed works, visit their gallery page.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:12] What caused you to finally venture out to your first munch?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [4:05] What were her initial thoughts going into the first needle play with you? And also how you approached the negotiation with it.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [5:19] What finally made her take that big step to venture to events? And how did she handle the first time, as she (going off her profile) likes to stay on the outskirts of groups?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [8:00] What was she most excited to try, as well as what was she most scared to try, of the things she has tried so far?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [10:30] What was her biggest lifestyle fear/worry/concern, and in her mind, have you helped alleviate or lessen the fear/worry/concern, even on a small level?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [14:21] (From LillyChaos) You’ve mentioned two things as we’ve been talking. One was that she doesn’t like to be touched and the other was that she’s overly apologetic. I’d be interested to know how she deals with (well dealt with before you) all the huggy touchy people without it being awkward. When people ask for a hug and I say no, I feel guilty and end up doing it even though it makes me extremely uncomfortable.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [16:30] The other question id like to know the answer to is how to break the habit of apologizing and feeling the need to.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [19:14] (Sneaking one last one in,  if it doesn't get covered, that's fine too ~Alexanderia) How has joining Kuldrin and his wife (in her interview she referred to you as “our sub”) changed your thoughts and views on relationships?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [21:56] how she deals with any conflict or hurt feelings or being upset that may occur. Everyone messes up, but (besides communication, like how?) it would be nice to know how it’s dealt with without crossing lines.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [35:15] Also, has she ever had difficulty saying no and if she did, how did she overcome that?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/213
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            A final note or two:
                                                                                                            I’d like to thank our Pro Producer, who wishes to remain anonymous. Executive Producers Jeremiah, Jess, Feline_Rouge, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia, babylove2269, and Queen Sage. Our Sr. Producers Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, and SortOutTheKinks. Our Producers Kainsin, Roxiebear, Sihlus, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, olive_eyes, and Seine (Zine). And our Jr. Producers K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, and Alexandria. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Finally, I’d like to thank http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next Week's AgendaNext time on The Krypt ???. In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17496727Mon, 01 Apr 2019 10:57:48 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 3/26/2019 / Published: 4/1/2019 Patreon Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com On this episode of the Krypt we are hitting the rules to love by, I have to share with you my new collar...
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                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are hitting the rules to love by, I have to share with you my new collar maker https://www.daycollars.com, and then we are talking to My sub, Mayfair about her experience in entering the scene.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [0:50] Rules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:14] https://www.daycollars.comDay Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts. They cater to everyone, from sporty and informal daily fashion to the leather community. With DayCollars.com you can make your own personalized style of collars, leashes, belts, cuffs and other leather products. They will guide you through the styling of your accessory and the whole thing concerning your order is personalized to your needs and specifications. For inspiration and ideas on your personal style or to simply admire their completed works, visit their gallery page.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:12] What caused you to finally venture out to your first munch?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [4:05] What were her initial thoughts going into the first needle play with you? And also how you approached the negotiation with it.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [5:19] What finally made her take that big step to venture to events? And how did she handle the first time, as she (going off her profile) likes to stay on the outskirts of groups?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [8:00] What was she most excited to try, as well as what was she most scared to try, of the things she has tried so far?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [10:30] What was her biggest lifestyle fear/worry/concern, and in her mind, have you helped alleviate or lessen the fear/worry/concern, even on a small level?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [14:21] (From LillyChaos) You’ve mentioned two things as we’ve been talking. One was that she doesn’t like to be touched and the other was that she’s overly apologetic. I’d be interested to know how she deals with (well dealt with before you) all the huggy touchy people without it being awkward. When people ask for a hug and I say no, I feel guilty and end up doing it even though it makes me extremely uncomfortable.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [16:30] The other question id like to know the answer to is how to break the habit of apologizing and feeling the need to.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [19:14] (Sneaking one last one in,  if it doesn't get covered, that's fine too ~Alexanderia) How has joining Kuldrin and his wife (in her interview she referred to you as “our sub”) changed your thoughts and views on relationships?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [21:56] how she deals with any conflict or hurt feelings or being upset that may occur. Everyone messes up, but (besides communication, like how?) it would be nice to know how it’s dealt with without crossing lines.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [35:15] Also, has she ever had difficulty saying no and if she did, how did she overcome that?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/213
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            A final note or two:
                                                                                                            I’d like to thank our Pro Producer, who wishes to remain anonymous. Executive Producers Jeremiah, Jess, Feline_Rouge, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia, babylove2269, and Queen Sage. Our Sr. Producers Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, and SortOutTheKinks. Our Producers Kainsin, Roxiebear, Sihlus, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, olive_eyes, and Seine (Zine). And our Jr. Producers K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, and Alexandria. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, 2790bdsm,dungeon,first,interview,munch,newbie,newby,sub,submissiveclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bdsm-punishments-funishments-and-abuse-s02e12--17337386Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are hitting the rules to love by, I have to share with you my new collar maker https://www.daycollars.com, and then we are talking BDSM Punishments Vs Funishments..
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [0:53] Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:18] https://www.daycollars.com
                                                                                                            Day Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts. They cater to everyone, from sporty and informal daily fashion to the leather community. With DayCollars.com you can make your own personalized style of collars, leashes, belts, cuffs and other leather products. They will guide you through the styling of your accessory and the whole thing concerning your order is personalized to your needs and specifications. For inspiration and ideas on your personal style or to simply admire their completed works, visit their gallery page.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [3:30] According to “uncle google” a punishment is “the infliction or imposition of a penalty as retribution for an offense.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [4:00] Not all dynamics include punishments.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [4:40] Types of Punishment
                                                                                                            Spanking, Kneeling, Kneeling on Something Painful like Legos, Bags of Rice, or a bag of screws, Standing in the Corner, Writing, Repetitive Writing, The Removal of Privileges such as TV, Phones, Internet usage or Going out with Friends (Being Grounded), Putting bruises and/or bite marks in places that the sub is certain to constantly bump, touch, or scrape throughout the next few days or week.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [6:03] Funishment: When the sub (brat) intentionally and playfully acts out in a non-disrespectful way to get the Dom to “punish” them.
                                                                                                            Playful name calling, playfully pushing boundaries, or touching the Dominant in an inappropriate way such as tickling them instead of coming out and asking for play.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [8:31] Types of Funishments
                                                                                                            Typical scening such as impact, electric, needles, whatever a couples normal play would be.
                                                                                                            Tickle torture
                                                                                                            Orgasm Control such as torture or denial
                                                                                                            Guess the implement game
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [11:20] Example: Scene where someone was playfully acting out so I handcuffed her to the ladder.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [13:16] Misuse of the term punishment?
                                                                                                            Usually happens with newbies and online Doms and often can be a sign that the person doesn’t really know what they are doing and/or doesn't have the experience they are claiming to have.
                                                                                                            They will ask about ways to use impact implements to punish their subs when they are actually talking about general scening. A punishment is for when rules have been broken.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [15:58] How to punishments “correctly”:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            1: ALWAYS talk about the offense and define the expectations and how they were not followed. Also remember, that they had to be defined to begin with otherwise you are making rules up as you go along and that’s not fair...which I’m guilty of.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            2: If emotions are high take as long as you need to calm down whether it is minutes or months. NEVER PUNISH ANGRY!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            3: Set the time for the punishment to occur. Make it ritualistic. It helps to set the tone and build a protocol for future events.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            4: Deliver the punishment.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            5: Follow up if the punishment is a task such as writing.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            6: Provide aftercare
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            7: Have sub journal about the entire event from breaking the rule to having to write the journal entry.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            8: Discuss the incident and provide closure of the incident. “Secondary aftercare”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            9: Never bring it up again in a resentful, harsh, harmful, or intentionally obtuse manner.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [23:50] Punishment Examples:
                                                                                                            St. Patrick’s Day 2018 example with Mayfair and why she was punished.
                                                                                                            Nipple clamps on tongue for being disrespectful, demanding, controlling and rule setting.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [30:25] Funishment Example:
                                                                                                            Being a Bratty Dom and making Mayfair wear handcuffs during the entire night at a Dungeon where she still had to perform all of her typical acts of service.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [31:45] Abuse Defined
                                                                                                            Abuse (v):
                                                                                                            use (something) to bad effect or for a bad purpose; misuse.
                                                                                                            treat (a person or an animal) with cruelty or violence, especially regularly or repeatedly.
                                                                                                            Abuse (n):
                                                                                                            the improper use of something.
                                                                                                            cruel and violent treatment of a person or animal.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [32:27] Types of punishments that are abuse.
                                                                                                            1: Anything that is a hard limit.
                                                                                                            2: Any punishment that is perform uncontrolled or in an altered state.
                                                                                                            3: Anger, Intoxication, Mental Illness, …
                                                                                                            4: Any thing that has not been negotiated.
                                                                                                            5: (Sometimes) Humiation and Degradation
                                                                                                            6: (Sometimes) Time and affection denial.
                                                                                                            7: When the Dom changes the rules just so he can make the sub fail. He’s not a Dom, he is an abuser creating ways to satisify his broken ego and needs.
                                                                                                            8: Things done that intentionally go beyond hurt and cause harm.
                                                                                                            9: Things done out of spite.
                                                                                                            10: Pushing a sub to immediately call red at the very start of a scene just to prove a “point”.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/212
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            A final note or two:
                                                                                                            I’d like to thank our Pro Producer, who wishes to remain anonymous. Executive Producers Jeremiah, Jess, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia, babylove2269, and Queen Sage. Our Sr. Producers Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx and Feline_Rouge. Our Producers Kainsin, Roxiebear, Sihlus, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, olive_eyes, and Seine (sane). And our Jr. Producers K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, and Alexandria. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            And finally, I’d like to thank http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt ???. In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17337386Sat, 16 Mar 2019 05:03:02 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 3/15/2019 / Published: 3/16/2019 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com On this episode of the Krypt we are hitting the rules to love by, I have to share with you my new collar maker...Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are hitting the rules to love by, I have to share with you my new collar maker https://www.daycollars.com, and then we are talking BDSM Punishments Vs Funishments..
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [0:53] Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:18] https://www.daycollars.com
                                                                                                            Day Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts. They cater to everyone, from sporty and informal daily fashion to the leather community. With DayCollars.com you can make your own personalized style of collars, leashes, belts, cuffs and other leather products. They will guide you through the styling of your accessory and the whole thing concerning your order is personalized to your needs and specifications. For inspiration and ideas on your personal style or to simply admire their completed works, visit their gallery page.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [3:30] According to “uncle google” a punishment is “the infliction or imposition of a penalty as retribution for an offense.”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [4:00] Not all dynamics include punishments.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [4:40] Types of Punishment
                                                                                                            Spanking, Kneeling, Kneeling on Something Painful like Legos, Bags of Rice, or a bag of screws, Standing in the Corner, Writing, Repetitive Writing, The Removal of Privileges such as TV, Phones, Internet usage or Going out with Friends (Being Grounded), Putting bruises and/or bite marks in places that the sub is certain to constantly bump, touch, or scrape throughout the next few days or week.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [6:03] Funishment: When the sub (brat) intentionally and playfully acts out in a non-disrespectful way to get the Dom to “punish” them.
                                                                                                            Playful name calling, playfully pushing boundaries, or touching the Dominant in an inappropriate way such as tickling them instead of coming out and asking for play.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [8:31] Types of Funishments
                                                                                                            Typical scening such as impact, electric, needles, whatever a couples normal play would be.
                                                                                                            Tickle torture
                                                                                                            Orgasm Control such as torture or denial
                                                                                                            Guess the implement game
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [11:20] Example: Scene where someone was playfully acting out so I handcuffed her to the ladder.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [13:16] Misuse of the term punishment?
                                                                                                            Usually happens with newbies and online Doms and often can be a sign that the person doesn’t really know what they are doing and/or doesn't have the experience they are claiming to have.
                                                                                                            They will ask about ways to use impact implements to punish their subs when they are actually talking about general scening. A punishment is for when rules have been broken.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [15:58] How to punishments “correctly”:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            1: ALWAYS talk about the offense and define the expectations and how they were not followed. Also remember, that they had to be defined to begin with otherwise you are making rules up as you go along and that’s not fair...which I’m guilty of.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            2: If emotions are high take as long as you need to calm down whether it is minutes or months. NEVER PUNISH ANGRY!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            3: Set the time for the punishment to occur. Make it ritualistic. It helps to set the tone and build a protocol for future events.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            4: Deliver the punishment.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            5: Follow up if the punishment is a task such as writing.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            6: Provide aftercare
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            7: Have sub journal about the entire event from breaking the rule to having to write the journal entry.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            8: Discuss the incident and...]]>2435abuse,bdsm,dom,dominant,d/s,funishment,love,punishment,relationship,sex,sub,submissiveclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/master-gabriel-on-bdsm-households-s02e11--17116051https://kuldrinskrypt.com/211
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Recorded: 2/16/2019 / Published: 2/22/2019
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are hitting the rules to love by and then talking to Master Gabriel.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [0:44] Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:05] Master Gabriel:
                                                                                                            A Sadistic Dominant, an Energy Player, and a Devoted Community Educator drawing from an eclectic background of Martial Arts, Psychology, and other surprising contexts, Master Gabriel has been a part of the LA BDSM Community for over a decade. He has a robust skill set spanning various types of play and is known for his unusual creativity in scenes and taking his bottoms to new levels. With his Household, House RavynBlood, Master Gabriel produces, co-hosts, and advises on several events in the LA Community. Together they run events such as Gentleman in Charge and Sanctuary Marketplace, as well as involvement in L.A. Pride, AVN’s, and DomCon. He and many members of the Household also bring many educational opportunities to the kink community. He is known to many as "The Voice" of DomCon LA, and "The Voice" & Master of Ceremonies for THE LAIR at the AVN Expo in Las Vegas.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:33] Ten Licks:
                                                                                                            How long have been into Kink?
                                                                                                            Top, bottom, or switch?
                                                                                                            Relationship Status?
                                                                                                            Favorite Position?
                                                                                                            Favorite Implement?
                                                                                                            Favorite Roleplay?
                                                                                                            Favorite kink or fetish?
                                                                                                            Favorite place for kink?
                                                                                                            Strangest Place you've had sex?
                                                                                                            Something you want to try?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [5:39] What is your definition of a BDSM Household?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [7:46] Why is equality so important?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [9:04] How big is House RavynBlood?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [9:57] What is the difference between D/s and T/b?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [12:37] Can you be a Top if you haven’t bottomed?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [14:56] The steps to become a House Member.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [24:10] How did you create the Household and how were you trained?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [27:11] The burden of Head of Household.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [28:45] Continuing the steps of becoming a House member.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [34:32] Why be in a Household???
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [42:00] Balancing faith, family, work, and being a Household member?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [44:19] Handling the House Financials.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [47:06] What is DomCon?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [48:55] Earning and keeping a Master’s Cover?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [57:00] Household Rituals?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:01:10] The Hall of Kink at DomCon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/hallofkink https://kinkytimeline.org/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            MasterGabrielLAX@gmail.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            A final note:
                                                                                                            1: Our Executive Producers Jeremiah, Jess, and ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia. Our Sr. Producers Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx and Feline_Rouge. Our Producers Kainsin, Roxiebear, Sihlus, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, and olive_eyes. And our Jr. Producers K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Painwaits, LxSoumis, Hayley, and AlexandMae. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            2: BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            3: I’d like to thank http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On the next episode:
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt ???. In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
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                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17116051Fri, 22 Feb 2019 12:53:16 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLChttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/211 Recorded: 2/16/2019 / Published: 2/22/2019 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com On this episode of the Krypt we are hitting the rules to love by and then...https://kuldrinskrypt.com/211
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Recorded: 2/16/2019 / Published: 2/22/2019
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are hitting the rules to love by and then talking to Master Gabriel.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [0:44] Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:05] Master Gabriel:
                                                                                                            A Sadistic Dominant, an Energy Player, and a Devoted Community Educator drawing from an eclectic background of Martial Arts, Psychology, and other surprising contexts, Master Gabriel has been a part of the LA BDSM Community for over a decade. He has a robust skill set spanning various types of play and is known for his unusual creativity in scenes and taking his bottoms to new levels. With his Household, House RavynBlood, Master Gabriel produces, co-hosts, and advises on several events in the LA Community. Together they run events such as Gentleman in Charge and Sanctuary Marketplace, as well as involvement in L.A. Pride, AVN’s, and DomCon. He and many members of the Household also bring many educational opportunities to the kink community. He is known to many as "The Voice" of DomCon LA, and "The Voice" & Master of Ceremonies for THE LAIR at the AVN Expo in Las Vegas.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:33] Ten Licks:
                                                                                                            How long have been into Kink?
                                                                                                            Top, bottom, or switch?
                                                                                                            Relationship Status?
                                                                                                            Favorite Position?
                                                                                                            Favorite Implement?
                                                                                                            Favorite Roleplay?
                                                                                                            Favorite kink or fetish?
                                                                                                            Favorite place for kink?
                                                                                                            Strangest Place you've had sex?
                                                                                                            Something you want to try?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [5:39] What is your definition of a BDSM Household?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [7:46] Why is equality so important?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [9:04] How big is House RavynBlood?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [9:57] What is the difference between D/s and T/b?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [12:37] Can you be a Top if you haven’t bottomed?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [14:56] The steps to become a House Member.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [24:10] How did you create the Household and how were you trained?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [27:11] The burden of Head of Household.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [28:45] Continuing the steps of becoming a House member.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [34:32] Why be in a Household???
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [42:00] Balancing faith, family, work, and being a Household member?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [44:19] Handling the House Financials.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [47:06] What is DomCon?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [48:55] Earning and keeping a Master’s Cover?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [57:00] Household Rituals?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:01:10] The Hall of Kink at DomCon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/hallofkink https://kinkytimeline.org/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            MasterGabrielLAX@gmail.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            A final note:
                                                                                                            1: Our Executive Producers Jeremiah, Jess, and ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia. Our Sr. Producers Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx and Feline_Rouge. Our Producers Kainsin, Roxiebear, Sihlus, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, and olive_eyes. And our Jr. Producers K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Painwaits, LxSoumis, Hayley, and AlexandMae. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            2: BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            3: I’d like to thank http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact...]]>4437bdsm,dominant,d/s,leather,leatherman,love,master,m/s,relationship,relationships,slave,submissiveclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/podcast-rodeo-show-reviewed-me-s02e10--17064717
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                                                                                                            Play Journal, Thoughts on S02E08, and Inside My Head
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Recorded & Published: Jan. 30, 2019
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Welcome to the Kuldrin’s Krypt Patreon Producer’s ONLY Ep. 1
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Today I have some playtime to talk about, some thoughts about my last episode which was S02E08, and finally, I’m going to dive inside my own head about what the future might have in store for Me.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Play Journal:
                                                                                                            1: Playing with a newbie friend of my sub
                                                                                                            2: New Year’s Eve
                                                                                                            3: Having some fun with my Play Partner
                                                                                                            4: Service Topping a man
                                                                                                            5: Play at the local dungeon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thoughts on S02E08
                                                                                                            1: Self Control
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Going inside my head about the future
                                                                                                            1: Work
                                                                                                            2: Personal
                                                                                                            3: Mayfair
                                                                                                            4: The show
                                                                                                            A final note or two.
                                                                                                            I’d like to thank our Executive Producers Jeremiah, Sihlus, Jess, and ArcaneDgr & violetaurelia. Our Sr. Producers Matt and xEmeraldxWolfx. Our Producers Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay and RoxieBear. And our Jr. Producers K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Painwaits, LxSoumis, and Hayley. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            This has been Master Kuldrin for the Krypters...the producers who continue to help me "Unearth the Truth"]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16881399Wed, 30 Jan 2019 09:28:20 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCKuldrin's Krypt: Patreon Producer’s ONLY Play Journal, Thoughts on S02E08, and Inside My Head Recorded & Published: Jan. 30, 2019 Welcome to the Kuldrin’s Krypt Patreon Producer’s ONLY Ep. 1 Today I have some playtime to talk about, some thoughts...
                                                                                                            Play Journal, Thoughts on S02E08, and Inside My Head
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Recorded & Published: Jan. 30, 2019
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Welcome to the Kuldrin’s Krypt Patreon Producer’s ONLY Ep. 1
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Today I have some playtime to talk about, some thoughts about my last episode which was S02E08, and finally, I’m going to dive inside my own head about what the future might have in store for Me.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Play Journal:
                                                                                                            1: Playing with a newbie friend of my sub
                                                                                                            2: New Year’s Eve
                                                                                                            3: Having some fun with my Play Partner
                                                                                                            4: Service Topping a man
                                                                                                            5: Play at the local dungeon
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thoughts on S02E08
                                                                                                            1: Self Control
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Going inside my head about the future
                                                                                                            1: Work
                                                                                                            2: Personal
                                                                                                            3: Mayfair
                                                                                                            4: The show
                                                                                                            A final note or two.
                                                                                                            I’d like to thank our Executive Producers Jeremiah, Sihlus, Jess, and ArcaneDgr & violetaurelia. Our Sr. Producers Matt and xEmeraldxWolfx. Our Producers Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay and RoxieBear. And our Jr. Producers K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Painwaits, LxSoumis, and Hayley. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            This has been Master Kuldrin for the Krypters...the producers who continue to help me "Unearth the Truth"]]>2232bdsm,bonus,dominant,dom/sub,d/s,journal,master,m/s,relationship,slave,sub,submissiveclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/nurturing-positive-dominant-qualities-s02e08--16819650Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            First, a deep into the woods about nurturing positive dominant qualities within one's self. First, I am going to give you a tool to help you figure out what you are already dealing with.
                                                                                                            Second, I’m going to share with you the things that I feel should be commonly found character traits for those on the left side of the slash...if not both.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:04] Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:28] PAD Temperament Mode ( https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/PAD_emotional_state_model )
                                                                                                            In order to know the best things in oneself to nurture we first need to know what is already there. For this, we are going to take a look at the PAD emotional state model which today typical is only used for marketing and developing multidimensional animated characters...but hey, if you can give a cartoon layered emotions and make them come alive on the silver screen with this then it has to have some kind of credibility and usability for us, right? ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [4:25] Pleasure
                                                                                                            The Pleasure-Displeasure Scale measures how pleasant or unpleasant one feels about something. For instance, both anger and fear are unpleasant emotions and both score on the displeasure side. However, joy is a pleasant emotion.
                                                                                                            [4:57] Arousal
                                                                                                            The Arousal-Nonarousal Scale measures how energized or soporific one feels. It is not the intensity of the emotion -- for grief and depression can be low arousal intense feelings. While both anger and rage are unpleasant emotions, rage has a higher intensity or a higher arousal state. However, boredom, which is also an unpleasant state, has a low arousal value.
                                                                                                            [5:43] Dominance
                                                                                                            The Dominance-Submissiveness Scale represents the controlling and dominant versus controlled or submissive one feels. For instance, while both fear and anger are unpleasant emotions, anger is a dominant emotion, while fear is a submissive emotion.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            So now, how do these three things tie together in determining what is what? Let’s say that something happened and you became angry. You would give the emotion of anger values for each of the three sections of the PAD emotional state model. For some this might look like this: Anger is a quite unpleasant, quite aroused, and moderately dominant emotion. While for others it might like: Anger is moderately pleasant, mildly aroused, and mildly dominant emotion.
                                                                                                            Now, use all this in emotions and environmental situations. This means that you are not just looking at the feeling itself but also taking a look a specific setting, with certain people at a restaurant, in a dungeon, … the locations, situations, and emotions is an endless sea of possibilities so this is one of those life exercises that you will need to constantly and consistently come back to for further exploration but be careful not to burn yourself out on it as it can also be pretty exhausting.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [10:23] Ok, so now that you have examined a few emotions using the PAD emotional state model, what have you figured out about yourself? Where do you need to the most work? The areas where the arousal is high that it creates a situation out of your control might be a good place to start along with anything that causes debilitating anxiety, stress, or depression.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [11:41] “...and...how do I go about doing this?”, you ask. There are several ways. The first thing I would do is check out the NCSF website ( https://www.ncsfreedom.org/ ) to see if they are any kink-friendly therapist in your area.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The second thing I would do, besides actually make and attend the appointment with an open mind, is check out some books that are written to help with the specific areas you are having difficulties with or that you want to change. However, keep in mind that things don’t happen overnight and it is always best to tackle a few smaller projects back to back first to build a sense of security within yourself. Otherwise, it is incredibly easy and common to get lost in the process which means you will give up and fail. You and I both know that the worst thing about failing at something is that it often prevents us from moving to the next things because we start thinking that we will just fail at that as well. So, again, you’ve got your list now it’s time to start small.
                                                                                                            The third thing is to, you guessed it, communicate!!! You are changing yourself at your core and the people around you need to know this is happening. There is nothing worse than worrying about someone day in and day out because they are acting differently but they refuse to tell you why. I have lost friendships and had difficulties with family members from both changing and being the one wondering what was going on with the other person. If you don’t know about it, it is frustrating and will cause fights. Again, you are changing your entire foundation.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [14:46] Commonly found character traits in EFFECTIVE Dominants with a history of successful relationships. (and honestly, these are also commonly found in effective submissives with a history of successful relationships.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            1: Self-awareness
                                                                                                            2: Effective Communication: (See also https://kuldrinskrypt.com/s01e24 )
                                                                                                            3: Patience
                                                                                                            4: A realistic view of self, others, the world, and situations
                                                                                                            5: Leadership
                                                                                                            6: Honesty
                                                                                                            7: Loyalty
                                                                                                            8: The desire for education and growth
                                                                                                            9: The ability to grow
                                                                                                            10: Kindness/Politeness
                                                                                                            11: Compassion
                                                                                                            12: Self-control
                                                                                                            13: Integrity
                                                                                                            14: A sense of humor
                                                                                                            15: Generosity
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [39:44] A final note or two:
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                                                                                                            This has been Master Kuldrin for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16819650Wed, 23 Jan 2019 10:14:17 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 1/20/2019 / Published: 1/23/2019 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com Special thanks to Rushguy1969 for recommending this topic! For full show notes visit...Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Special thanks to Rushguy1969 for recommending this topic!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            For full show notes visit https://kuldrinskrypt.com/208
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            First, a deep into the woods about nurturing positive dominant qualities within one's self. First, I am going to give you a tool to help you figure out what you are already dealing with.
                                                                                                            Second, I’m going to share with you the things that I feel should be commonly found character traits for those on the left side of the slash...if not both.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:04] Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:28] PAD Temperament Mode ( https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/PAD_emotional_state_model )
                                                                                                            In order to know the best things in oneself to nurture we first need to know what is already there. For this, we are going to take a look at the PAD emotional state model which today typical is only used for marketing and developing multidimensional animated characters...but hey, if you can give a cartoon layered emotions and make them come alive on the silver screen with this then it has to have some kind of credibility and usability for us, right? ...
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [4:25] Pleasure
                                                                                                            The Pleasure-Displeasure Scale measures how pleasant or unpleasant one feels about something. For instance, both anger and fear are unpleasant emotions and both score on the displeasure side. However, joy is a pleasant emotion.
                                                                                                            [4:57] Arousal
                                                                                                            The Arousal-Nonarousal Scale measures how energized or soporific one feels. It is not the intensity of the emotion -- for grief and depression can be low arousal intense feelings. While both anger and rage are unpleasant emotions, rage has a higher intensity or a higher arousal state. However, boredom, which is also an unpleasant state, has a low arousal value.
                                                                                                            [5:43] Dominance
                                                                                                            The Dominance-Submissiveness Scale represents the controlling and dominant versus controlled or submissive one feels. For instance, while both fear and anger are unpleasant emotions, anger is a dominant emotion, while fear is a submissive emotion.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            So now, how do these three things tie together in determining what is what? Let’s say that something happened and you became angry. You would give the emotion of anger values for each of the three sections of the PAD emotional state model. For some this might look like this: Anger is a quite unpleasant, quite aroused, and moderately dominant emotion. While for others it might like: Anger is moderately pleasant, mildly aroused, and mildly dominant emotion.
                                                                                                            Now, use all this in emotions and environmental situations. This means that you are not just looking at the feeling itself but also taking a look a specific setting, with certain people at a restaurant, in a dungeon, … the locations, situations, and emotions is an endless sea of possibilities so this is one of those life exercises that you will need to constantly and consistently come back to for further exploration but be careful not to burn yourself out on it as it can also be pretty exhausting.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [10:23] Ok, so now that you have examined a few emotions using the PAD emotional state model, what have you figured out about yourself? Where do you need to the most work? The areas where the arousal is high that it creates a situation out of your control might be a good place to start along with anything that causes debilitating anxiety, stress, or depression.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [11:41] “...and...how do I go about...]]>2573bdsm,character,dominant,d/s,love,m/s,psychology,relationship,relationships,sex,submissive,traitsclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/acceptence-within-the-bdsm-commuinty-s02e07--16657671https://kuldrinskrypt.com/207 )
                                                                                                            Recorded: January 7, 2019 / Published: January 8, 2019
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                                                                                                            On this episode: Acceptance within the BDSM Community.
                                                                                                            [0:43] Rules to Love by
                                                                                                            [1:10] Krypter:
                                                                                                            I’ve heard you say on the show that if anyone has questions to write you and I’ve had one for a while that I’m hoping you can help with.
                                                                                                            Like I said earlier we are relatively new to being out in the community and have been welcomed into to the three local private dungeons in our area. One about 20 minutes from our home the others over an hour away in separate directions. We have a very small core group of people and they all basically take turns hosting events and play parties. The problem we are running into is that about 85% of the people are poly (which we are completely fine with it’s just not for us) and they all play amongst themselves and Master and I only play with each other. We both have explained nicely on multiple occasions that we don’t play with others and are strictly monogamous and a little bit about why. However, they aren’t really accepting that. It also states the same thing on both of our Fetlife profiles. I’ve even had individuals make comments at a vanilla baby shower hosted at one dungeon about giving it time and they’d change my song and I’d join their poly group.
                                                                                                            So the question is beyond driving 2 hours to a large city which is prohibitive due to children, cost and restrictions due to opposite days off work what does a couple do? The only options we can come up with are: distance ourselves from the local community and only play at home again, drive to a larger city if and when we can schedule it, or continue to put up with the comments/reiterate our stand at every event.
                                                                                                            Please don’t get me wrong these are very nice individuals and have been happy to accept us into the fold. We just don’t know how to handle the constant inquiries without being downright rude and/or being rejected by the group.
                                                                                                            Thank you for taking the time to read my email, having such a wonderful show and being such a driving force of safety and understanding in the community.
                                                                                                            [4:23] Kuldrin:
                                                                                                            You stated these are good people so it sounds as though they are being playful but also serious in their attempt to change your marriage and dynamic. If it were me, because I tend to be very direct and outgoing, I would pick a munch or gathering where most or all would be and stand together with my sub, get everyone's attention, and then say something like...
                                                                                                            "Good evening everyone! First, my sub Mayfair and I would like to thank you all for being so welcoming as we have ventured out from the bedroom and into this wonderful local community. She and I never expected to make such wonderful friends and have such great experiences and We thank you all for that. From toys to types of play...it makes us excited to continue this journey together. Speaking of, there is one thing that is making us uncomfortable. We respect everyone's dynamic and seeing all the different ways people are together and play. However, there seems to be a lot of pressure and comments that we should try poly...and that just is not our dynamic. Also, by us stating we are not poly and some continuing to push, we feel as though our hard limits are being pushed without either of us consenting to it. We respect that way of doing things but we don't feel the respect in return...like we are judged for such a "vanilla" marriage dynamic like monogamy. Please understand, we know that no one has done this to make us uncomfortable but we do feel strongly that if people continue to disrespect our marriage by trying to convince us to convert to a poly lifestyle we will have to take our fun back behind the comfort and security of our own closed doors."
                                                                                                            I would say it with the nicest, yet most sincere and stern tone possible as to offer respect but command authority.
                                                                                                            [6:36] Krypter:
                                                                                                            I am sorry to hear that you’ve dealt with a similar issue recently and I hope whatever you did has helped the situation. I think doing an episode on this type of thing would be an excellent idea and I’m sure it would help quite a few people. I imagine it would work for most any situation that people are pushing their agendas on others. Situations like the poly issue, problems with someone pushing you to try a kink because they love it (that’s been an issue also, unfortunately), swinging and I’m sure countless others that I’m not even aware are options.
                                                                                                            I loved your speech and definitely heard your voice in my head while reading it and can’t wait to hear what else you have to say on the episode if it come I to existence. And if we can do anything to help you with the podcast let my master or I know.
                                                                                                            [7:27] Kuldrin:
                                                                                                            Really, when you think about it, it comes down to communication...as it almost always does. If they are joking but serious they may not realize that what they are saying is pushy, rude, inappropriate, judgy, etc. Also, they are like most people who think about consent on the terms of physical actions like sex or the use of impact toys. Even when consent is thought about when it comes to words most people just think about humiliation, degradation, and honorifics when in fact it's also being pushy, being intrusive, being obtuse, ... most people, myself included, are guilty of doing this but when it was brought to my attention...welp...you just can't unlearn things once they're stuck in the noodle.
                                                                                                            [8:15] I’m curious about the experience of others that have dealt with this, how you handled it and the outcome. Email me your stories and be sure to include if I can share them.
                                                                                                            [8:31] A brief recap. “If you don’t have anything nice to say, keep your mouth shut.”
                                                                                                            [9:29] Another thing I feel I need to talk to you about is something that happened at a party. A brand new couple came into the middle of a conversation and immediately left because of what they heard. There were a few interracial couples and few singles scattered about in a living room having a rather comical conversation about their lives and the weird things that happen in all relationships, gay, straight, interracial or other and the couple that entered late into the chat packed up and bailed on the party. Later they texted the person that had sponsored them to be there stating that they felt someone of a minority heritage was being made fun of and referenced two people that were doing it. The party host was very concerned about this type of behavior in their house and immediately sought out that truth of the situation.
                                                                                                            The truth was far from the couple that had left’s perception. The two interracial couples were actually leading the conversation, everyone involved was very close friends, and the main comment made in question was actually said by a very sweet slightly older lady that was quoting a comedian. Oh, and a tattoo that was said to be an S.S. tattoo was a pagan symbol.
                                                                                                            [11:21] So what is my point?
                                                                                                            [16:47] So, in wrapping up this topic... (For complete show notes https://kuldrinskrypt.com/207 )
                                                                                                            I’d like to thank our Executive Producers Jeremiah, Sihlus, Jess, and ArcaneDgr & violetaurelia. Our Sr. Producers Matt and xEmeraldxWolfx. Our Producers Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay and RoxieBear. And our Jr. Producers K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Painwaits, LxSoumis, and Hayley. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            And finally, I’d like to thank http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16657671Tue, 08 Jan 2019 10:47:59 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLC(For complete show notes https://kuldrinskrypt.com/207 ) Recorded: January 7, 2019 / Published: January 8, 2019 865-268-4005 / https://kudrinskrypt.com On this episode: Acceptance within the BDSM Community. [0:43] Rules to Love by [1:10] Krypter: I’ve...https://kuldrinskrypt.com/207 )
                                                                                                            Recorded: January 7, 2019 / Published: January 8, 2019
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                                                                                                            On this episode: Acceptance within the BDSM Community.
                                                                                                            [0:43] Rules to Love by
                                                                                                            [1:10] Krypter:
                                                                                                            I’ve heard you say on the show that if anyone has questions to write you and I’ve had one for a while that I’m hoping you can help with.
                                                                                                            Like I said earlier we are relatively new to being out in the community and have been welcomed into to the three local private dungeons in our area. One about 20 minutes from our home the others over an hour away in separate directions. We have a very small core group of people and they all basically take turns hosting events and play parties. The problem we are running into is that about 85% of the people are poly (which we are completely fine with it’s just not for us) and they all play amongst themselves and Master and I only play with each other. We both have explained nicely on multiple occasions that we don’t play with others and are strictly monogamous and a little bit about why. However, they aren’t really accepting that. It also states the same thing on both of our Fetlife profiles. I’ve even had individuals make comments at a vanilla baby shower hosted at one dungeon about giving it time and they’d change my song and I’d join their poly group.
                                                                                                            So the question is beyond driving 2 hours to a large city which is prohibitive due to children, cost and restrictions due to opposite days off work what does a couple do? The only options we can come up with are: distance ourselves from the local community and only play at home again, drive to a larger city if and when we can schedule it, or continue to put up with the comments/reiterate our stand at every event.
                                                                                                            Please don’t get me wrong these are very nice individuals and have been happy to accept us into the fold. We just don’t know how to handle the constant inquiries without being downright rude and/or being rejected by the group.
                                                                                                            Thank you for taking the time to read my email, having such a wonderful show and being such a driving force of safety and understanding in the community.
                                                                                                            [4:23] Kuldrin:
                                                                                                            You stated these are good people so it sounds as though they are being playful but also serious in their attempt to change your marriage and dynamic. If it were me, because I tend to be very direct and outgoing, I would pick a munch or gathering where most or all would be and stand together with my sub, get everyone's attention, and then say something like...
                                                                                                            "Good evening everyone! First, my sub Mayfair and I would like to thank you all for being so welcoming as we have ventured out from the bedroom and into this wonderful local community. She and I never expected to make such wonderful friends and have such great experiences and We thank you all for that. From toys to types of play...it makes us excited to continue this journey together. Speaking of, there is one thing that is making us uncomfortable. We respect everyone's dynamic and seeing all the different ways people are together and play. However, there seems to be a lot of pressure and comments that we should try poly...and that just is not our dynamic. Also, by us stating we are not poly and some continuing to push, we feel as though our hard limits are being pushed without either of us consenting to it. We respect that way of doing things but we don't feel the respect in return...like we are judged for such a "vanilla" marriage dynamic like monogamy. Please understand, we know that no one has done this to make us uncomfortable but we do feel strongly that if people continue to disrespect our marriage by trying to convince us to convert to a poly lifestyle we will have to take our fun back behind the comfort and security of our own closed doors."
                                                                                                            I would...]]>1293acceptance,bdsm,dominance,d/s,love,master,m/s,relationships,slave,submissionclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/psychotherapist-steven-ing-on-your-magic-sex-number-s02e06--16574303Published: Dec. 27, 2018
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/206
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are speaking with psychotherapist Steven Ing about your magic sex number, Talking to your children about sex, BDSM and religion and much more.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:05] TEDx Talk: What’s Your Magic Sex Number” http://stevening.com/events/tedx-university-nevada-2018
                                                                                                            How many times a week do you prefer to have sex?
                                                                                                            No matter what your answer is, you are normal.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [8:26] Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [9:20] THow to have the pre-relationship interview.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [14:10] Sexual intimacy.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [17:30] Therapist assigning biases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [18:25] Sex and power? Does that feed the sexual appetite? “Everything in life is about sex except itself sex its self which about power.” -Oscar Wilde
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [21:00] Swingers and the sexual appetite, power, and the divorce rate.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [27:25] People who are constitutionally incapable of intimacy.
                                                                                                            Personality disorders, addictions, other mental illnesses: 25%
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [28:45] What is true intimacy and sexual intimacy?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [31:05] The puritanical viewpoint in The United States and BDSM and Religion.
                                                                                                            Therapist tendering a “moral diagnosis”.
                                                                                                            Outing a spouse at church as a masturbator.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [37:18] How are spirituality and sexuality the same and why it scares churches.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [39:45] “We’re All Like This” Steven Ing’s book is now used in Human Sexuality classes at the University Level. http://stevening.com/store
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [43:15] Where do spirituality and sex meet? Catharsis!!!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [44:40] Kuldrin Service Topping
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [48:20] Getting in touch with our animal nature and going primal.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [49:32] Talking to children about sex and BDSM relationships.
                                                                                                            Sexual safety and sexual innocence.
                                                                                                            What age does do children start masturbating?
                                                                                                            Teaching the emotions of sex before the mechanics.
                                                                                                            Talking to children about consent before talking about sexuality.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [58:44] Talking to children after they walked in on parents having sex or performing act of BDSM.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:03:20] How to explain BDSM to vanillas.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            A final note or two:
                                                                                                            Thanks to our Executive Producers Jeremiah, Sihlus, Jess, and ArcaneDgr & violetaurelia. Our Sr. Producers Matt and xEmeraldxWolfx. Our Producers Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay and RoxieBear. And our Jr. Producers K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Painwaits, LxSoumis, and Hayley. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Finally, I’d like to thank http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16574303Thu, 27 Dec 2018 11:17:59 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: Dec. 16, 2018 Published: Dec. 27, 2018 https://kuldrinskrypt.com/206 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com On this episode of the Krypt we are speaking with psychotherapist Steven...Published: Dec. 27, 2018
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/206
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are speaking with psychotherapist Steven Ing about your magic sex number, Talking to your children about sex, BDSM and religion and much more.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:05] TEDx Talk: What’s Your Magic Sex Number” http://stevening.com/events/tedx-university-nevada-2018
                                                                                                            How many times a week do you prefer to have sex?
                                                                                                            No matter what your answer is, you are normal.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [8:26] Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [9:20] THow to have the pre-relationship interview.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [14:10] Sexual intimacy.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [17:30] Therapist assigning biases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [18:25] Sex and power? Does that feed the sexual appetite? “Everything in life is about sex except itself sex its self which about power.” -Oscar Wilde
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [21:00] Swingers and the sexual appetite, power, and the divorce rate.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [27:25] People who are constitutionally incapable of intimacy.
                                                                                                            Personality disorders, addictions, other mental illnesses: 25%
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [28:45] What is true intimacy and sexual intimacy?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [31:05] The puritanical viewpoint in The United States and BDSM and Religion.
                                                                                                            Therapist tendering a “moral diagnosis”.
                                                                                                            Outing a spouse at church as a masturbator.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [37:18] How are spirituality and sexuality the same and why it scares churches.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [39:45] “We’re All Like This” Steven Ing’s book is now used in Human Sexuality classes at the University Level. http://stevening.com/store
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [43:15] Where do spirituality and sex meet? Catharsis!!!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [44:40] Kuldrin Service Topping
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [48:20] Getting in touch with our animal nature and going primal.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [49:32] Talking to children about sex and BDSM relationships.
                                                                                                            Sexual safety and sexual innocence.
                                                                                                            What age does do children start masturbating?
                                                                                                            Teaching the emotions of sex before the mechanics.
                                                                                                            Talking to children about consent before talking about sexuality.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [58:44] Talking to children after they walked in on parents having sex or performing act of BDSM.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [1:03:20] How to explain BDSM to vanillas.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            A final note or two:
                                                                                                            Thanks to our Executive Producers Jeremiah, Sihlus, Jess, and ArcaneDgr & violetaurelia. Our Sr. Producers Matt and xEmeraldxWolfx. Our Producers Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay and RoxieBear. And our Jr. Producers K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Painwaits, LxSoumis, and Hayley. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Finally, I’d like to thank http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire 4119bdsm,dominance,d/s,ing,love,master,relationship,sex,slave,steven,submission,therapyclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/keeping-it-kinky-for-the-holidays-s02e05--16429302Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt I’m going to help you keep it kinky for the holidays. So let’s hit those rules to love by and jump straight into the topic.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            With the holidays fast approaching I get a lot of questions about maintaining a D/s role around the nonkinky family. And a special thank you to my sub, Mayfair85 for suggesting that I do this as an episode. There are several ways to stay in role but not appear anyway that would make grandma uncomfortable. So here are five ways to keep the kink without killing kinfolk.
                                                                                                            1: Decide on names.
                                                                                                            2: Decide on food limits prior to any gatherings.
                                                                                                            3: Use gestures.
                                                                                                            4: Serve food and drinks.
                                                                                                            5: Pick clothing and day collar in advance.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Holiday Protocols
                                                                                                            Drop Role – the slave is permitted to actually “drop role” and behave in any way she wishes. The slave is specifically NOT to use words like “Master” nor engage in any overt submissive behavior (e.g. ask permission to go to the bathroom, etc.), nor make any overt BDSM references while in the Drop Role environment/situation. However, the slave IS expected to behave in a manner which still reflects well on The Master, i.e. common courtesy and politeness should still be present, and proper social graces are expected. The slave may converse freely with anyone. The slave remains “Drop Role” until otherwise instructed by The Master, but should be ready to return to the proper role at a moment’s notice. This command is especially useful, for example, when spending time with Vanilla peers or parents. This can also be assigned to a specific time period, such as “Drop Role for the entire weekend while we are staying in your parent’s house.” [Arcane, Master. IGNITING THE FIRE: The Art of Romantic Submission]
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Presents
                                                                                                            1: Are vanilla presents ok?
                                                                                                            2: Picking the right time to exchange gifts.
                                                                                                            3: Are collars ok to give as presents?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            A final note or two.
                                                                                                            1: I’d like to thank our Executive Producers Jeremiah, Sihlus, Jess, and ArcaneDgr & violetaurelia. Our Sr. Producers Matt and xEmeraldxWolfx. Our Producers Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay and RoxieBear. And our Jr. Producers K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Painwaits, LxSoumis, and Hayley. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            2: I’d like to thank BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            3: I’d like to thank http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt . In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16429302Mon, 10 Dec 2018 10:53:32 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 12/09/2018 / Published: 12/10/2018 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com On this episode of the Krypt I’m going to help you keep it kinky for the holidays. So let’s hit those rules to...Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt I’m going to help you keep it kinky for the holidays. So let’s hit those rules to love by and jump straight into the topic.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            With the holidays fast approaching I get a lot of questions about maintaining a D/s role around the nonkinky family. And a special thank you to my sub, Mayfair85 for suggesting that I do this as an episode. There are several ways to stay in role but not appear anyway that would make grandma uncomfortable. So here are five ways to keep the kink without killing kinfolk.
                                                                                                            1: Decide on names.
                                                                                                            2: Decide on food limits prior to any gatherings.
                                                                                                            3: Use gestures.
                                                                                                            4: Serve food and drinks.
                                                                                                            5: Pick clothing and day collar in advance.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Holiday Protocols
                                                                                                            Drop Role – the slave is permitted to actually “drop role” and behave in any way she wishes. The slave is specifically NOT to use words like “Master” nor engage in any overt submissive behavior (e.g. ask permission to go to the bathroom, etc.), nor make any overt BDSM references while in the Drop Role environment/situation. However, the slave IS expected to behave in a manner which still reflects well on The Master, i.e. common courtesy and politeness should still be present, and proper social graces are expected. The slave may converse freely with anyone. The slave remains “Drop Role” until otherwise instructed by The Master, but should be ready to return to the proper role at a moment’s notice. This command is especially useful, for example, when spending time with Vanilla peers or parents. This can also be assigned to a specific time period, such as “Drop Role for the entire weekend while we are staying in your parent’s house.” [Arcane, Master. IGNITING THE FIRE: The Art of Romantic Submission]
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Presents
                                                                                                            1: Are vanilla presents ok?
                                                                                                            2: Picking the right time to exchange gifts.
                                                                                                            3: Are collars ok to give as presents?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            A final note or two.
                                                                                                            1: I’d like to thank our Executive Producers Jeremiah, Sihlus, Jess, and ArcaneDgr & violetaurelia. Our Sr. Producers Matt and xEmeraldxWolfx. Our Producers Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay and RoxieBear. And our Jr. Producers K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Painwaits, LxSoumis, and Hayley. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            2: I’d like to thank BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            3: I’d like to thank http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt . In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire 921bdsm,dominant,d/s,holiday,holidays,kink,kinky,relationships,submissiveclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dominants-bill-of-rights-and-calling-red-s02e04--16311235
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt I have a fet article and private fet message from a listener about Dom’s using safe words and then I’m going to talk about the Dominants Bill of Rights.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1; Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://fetlife.com/users/3949958/posts/4756802 (AMischiefManaged)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            "So I was watching a scene in a play space and I heard something I never expected. In the middle of a scene, a Dominant safeworded. He called "red" and said that he'd like to stop.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            What I saw next nearly floored me and hasn't sat well since.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The submissive turned around furious and said: "You can't do that, only I can safeword." She went on shouting about how only submissives have that power and that it's not like she's doing anything to him that he has the right to safeword for. After more yelling, she stormed off, leaving him in the middle of the room probably stun shocked at what happened.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            I'm not sure what exactly infuriated me most about watching that unfold in front of me. It could have been the total lack of respect or the feeling like she was treating that dominant like some kinky vending machine. That after negotiation, that he somehow owed her to give her what she wanted.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            I didn't want to share this moment when I was in the middle of it. I needed time to process, to decompress it all. It's been a good while between then and now and I've been sitting here at my computer, thinking about what happened that night.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sitting here wondering if this is part of telling people that submissives have all the power, that they can stop a scene whenever they want with a safeword. When in reality both parties have the power to stop a scene if they feel it isn't what they want, if they feel unsafe, or if they simply don't feel like continuing for whatever reason.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Maybe that night, the dominant felt sick, or something triggered inside of him putting him in a really bad space to play with someone else. Maybe he needed a break because of a muscle cramp, injury, or any number of things that would make it a bad idea to continue. Or maybe he just didn't feel like it anymore.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thinking back to that night, it would have been such a different story if she tried to connect and communicate. To ask him why he felt like he needed to stop. It could have been a beautiful moment, teaching everyone watching how that care and concern flows both ways."
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            This one came in from a listener who wishes to remain anonymous:
                                                                                                            "You have brought up multiple times on your podcast that you have called an end to a scene far more times as the top than the bottoms ever have. I just wanted to reach out and reiterate the importance of this once again.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            My sub and I hadn't done much of a scene in the last few months due to schedules. We had done a couple of shorter scenes at parties and we had done lots of rope suspensions recently, but nothing extreme. So, yesterday we set some time aside for "date night" and had negotiated a predicament, impact, and sensation scene.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            However, we started the night with a suspension and that suspension didn't go well. She was in pain, but not alluding to where or what despite my asking. She insisted we just push through finish what I was planning and bring her down. The thing was I hadn't actually planned anything for this session. I was going to bring her up and play around with positioning and how the arms and legs were tied. So, I brought her down and did a TK instead of a hands-free harness to take some weight off the ribs which she had vaguely alluded was an issue (she did not state that there were issues with the hip harness at this time). Up she went again with the same problems as there was no communication to fix everything.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            I was frustrated and I snapped at her. It was just one sentence and I calmed down after. She left the room to make a call she had scheduled and I cleaned up the rope. When I was done I apologized for my outburst as I was out of line.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            She was clearly not in a good headspace at this point and with all my great Domly instincts I knew to check in with her regarding the upcoming scene. I did so. I asked her if she was okay to continue. She assured me she was. I think I even asked a second time. I knew. I could tell she was not in a great place, but it had been a while since we did a scene and she said she was fine so I let her reassurance override my instincts and we proceeded to do the scene.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            With my earlier outburst, I had put her into a place of trauma. She was shut down and simply allowing me to do whatever I wanted as is her way in that headspace. Not a healthy place. Not subspace. Not submitting. Enduring the pain to get through. Followed by a walling off.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Now we will get through this and learn and grow but had I trusted my instincts and called red on the scene before it started it would have prevented a lot of emotional pain. As the top, I should have known better especially knowing her as well as I do. She simply is not able to say no at times and I need to be able to be that voice of reason."
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The Dominant/submissive Bill of Rights:
                                                                                                            1: The right to be treated with respect.
                                                                                                            2: The right to be proud of what you are.
                                                                                                            3: The right to safety.
                                                                                                            4: The right to your emotions and feelings.
                                                                                                            5: The right to express those feelings in a safe manner.
                                                                                                            6: The right to say NO.
                                                                                                            7: The right to expect happiness in life.
                                                                                                            8: The right to belong.
                                                                                                            9: The right to love and be loved.
                                                                                                            10: The right to be healthy.
                                                                                                            11: The right to practice safe sex.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            A final note or two.
                                                                                                            I’d like to thank our Executive Producers Jeremiah, Sihlus, Jess, and ArcaneDgr & violetaurelia. Our Sr. Producers Matt and xEmeraldxWolfx. Our Producers Kainsin, Heather, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay and RoxieBear. And our Jr. Producers K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Painwaits, and Master Ferguson & LxSoumis. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            And finally, I’d like to thank http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16311235Mon, 26 Nov 2018 10:43:40 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded and Published: November 26, 2018 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com On this episode of the Krypt I have a fet article and private fet message from a listener about Dom’s using safe...
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt I have a fet article and private fet message from a listener about Dom’s using safe words and then I’m going to talk about the Dominants Bill of Rights.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1; Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            https://fetlife.com/users/3949958/posts/4756802 (AMischiefManaged)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            "So I was watching a scene in a play space and I heard something I never expected. In the middle of a scene, a Dominant safeworded. He called "red" and said that he'd like to stop.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            What I saw next nearly floored me and hasn't sat well since.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The submissive turned around furious and said: "You can't do that, only I can safeword." She went on shouting about how only submissives have that power and that it's not like she's doing anything to him that he has the right to safeword for. After more yelling, she stormed off, leaving him in the middle of the room probably stun shocked at what happened.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            I'm not sure what exactly infuriated me most about watching that unfold in front of me. It could have been the total lack of respect or the feeling like she was treating that dominant like some kinky vending machine. That after negotiation, that he somehow owed her to give her what she wanted.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            I didn't want to share this moment when I was in the middle of it. I needed time to process, to decompress it all. It's been a good while between then and now and I've been sitting here at my computer, thinking about what happened that night.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sitting here wondering if this is part of telling people that submissives have all the power, that they can stop a scene whenever they want with a safeword. When in reality both parties have the power to stop a scene if they feel it isn't what they want, if they feel unsafe, or if they simply don't feel like continuing for whatever reason.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Maybe that night, the dominant felt sick, or something triggered inside of him putting him in a really bad space to play with someone else. Maybe he needed a break because of a muscle cramp, injury, or any number of things that would make it a bad idea to continue. Or maybe he just didn't feel like it anymore.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Thinking back to that night, it would have been such a different story if she tried to connect and communicate. To ask him why he felt like he needed to stop. It could have been a beautiful moment, teaching everyone watching how that care and concern flows both ways."
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            This one came in from a listener who wishes to remain anonymous:
                                                                                                            "You have brought up multiple times on your podcast that you have called an end to a scene far more times as the top than the bottoms ever have. I just wanted to reach out and reiterate the importance of this once again.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            My sub and I hadn't done much of a scene in the last few months due to schedules. We had done a couple of shorter scenes at parties and we had done lots of rope suspensions recently, but nothing extreme. So, yesterday we set some time aside for "date night" and had negotiated a predicament, impact, and sensation scene.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            However, we started the night with a suspension and that suspension didn't go well. She was in pain, but not alluding to where or what despite my asking. She insisted we just push through finish what I was planning and bring her down. The thing was I hadn't actually planned anything for this session. I was going to bring her up and play around with positioning and how the...]]>1728bdsm,bill,dominant,love,of,red,relationship,rights,submissiveclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bdsm-hygiene-self-care-and-attitude-s02e03--16189053Pub: November 11, 2018
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or https://kudrinskrypt.com/contact
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode: My recent dungeon vacation and a listener question from Jr. Producer, Buffalodom84 about hygiene, then you and I are going to have a chat about self-care with a bonus topic of attitude and a quote that could change your life.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The Woodshed, Orlando, FL, U.S.A., and Master Cecil.
                                                                                                            http://thewoodshedorlando.com/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Hygiene:
                                                                                                            Jr. Producer Buffalodom84 wrote: “I just listened to your newest episode and had an idea for a new episode. Could you do an episode on hygiene?”
                                                                                                            What is hygiene?:
                                                                                                            Conditions and Practices that are to promote health including cleanliness, skin care, and the prevention of infections.
                                                                                                            Cleanliness
                                                                                                            Personal cleanliness
                                                                                                            Cleanliness of environment
                                                                                                            Cleanliness of Food
                                                                                                            Cleanliness of Food Preparation
                                                                                                            Nicotine slows healing because it causes blood vessels to constrict, which decreases the amount of blood, oxygen, and nutrients to get to tissues which increases the chance of the breakdown of skin.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Blood Clots-Signs and symptoms:
                                                                                                            Redness
                                                                                                            Swelling
                                                                                                            Heat
                                                                                                            Pain sensation in the area of the clot.
                                                                                                            Usually happens in one extremity
                                                                                                            Do not do exercises- Go directly to Emergency Room!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            STI’s and Infections U.T.I.'s:
                                                                                                            Urinary Tract Infections: Pathogens in the urethra, vagina, or perineal area enter the urinary tract.
                                                                                                            Bacteria move up the ureters to the kidneys.
                                                                                                            Causative organisms: Escherichia coli, Staphylococcus, Saprophyticus, Proteus, Klebsiella, Seratia, and Pseudomonas
                                                                                                            Symptoms
                                                                                                            Painful urination
                                                                                                            Urine has a foul odor
                                                                                                            Cloudy urine
                                                                                                            Frequent urination
                                                                                                            Don’t feel good
                                                                                                            Flank Pain
                                                                                                            Fever
                                                                                                            Treatment:
                                                                                                            1: Urinary specimen
                                                                                                            2: Antibiotic
                                                                                                            3: Finish antibiotic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            How poor hygiene can affect a person's life:
                                                                                                            1: Some people may find out that they are missing out on friends, job opportunities and partners because of something that no one had ever pointed out to them – their lack of better personal hygiene.
                                                                                                            2: Maybe in the past as a child, their personal habits were pointed out, but in a negative way. No one really took an interest in that person to tell them that they must groom themselves properly or at least try to.
                                                                                                            3: Some bad habits of people who have no concept of personal hygiene are apparent body odor, greasy skin, oily hair, bad breath, and clothing that is dirty or old. The sad part is most of these things can be remedied much quicker than a bad cold and yet, individuals walk around like this day after day and endure the misery bad hygiene often brings. The misery includes people who do not want to be near these people for the above reasons and the lost personal opportunities.
                                                                                                            Some ways people can start to improve is to take a realistic look at themselves in a full-length mirror. Even if it hurts to think about it, they should consider the advice of others, especially the people who are around every day.
                                                                                                            4: Individuals who are suffering from this should try to pinpoint what exactly can be improved, and ask themselves, “What would I really like to improve about myself that is available to me right now?”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Support:
                                                                                                            1a: Executive Producers Jeremiah, Sihlus, Jess, and ArcaneDgr & violetaurelia.
                                                                                                            1b: Sr. Producers Matt and xEmeraldxWolfx.
                                                                                                            1c: Producers Kainsin, Heather, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay and RoxieBear.
                                                                                                            1d: Jr. Producers K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Painwaits, and Master Ferguson & LxSoumis.
                                                                                                            If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            2: BDSM contracts for the donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound BDSM contracts. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            3: http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Self-care:
                                                                                                            “Self-care 101” By Maria Baratta Ph.D., L.C.S.W.
                                                                                                            https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/skinny-revisited/201805/self-care-101
                                                                                                            What is self-care? Self-care, in essence, is the mindful taking time to pay attention to you, not in a narcissistic way, but in a way that ensures that you are being cared for by you.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Ten ways to exercise self-care and take better care of you:
                                                                                                            1: Self-care means knowing who you are and your limits. Self-care means recognizing when you are doing more than you are used to handling and trying to figure out what can be done to slow down.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            2: Self-care means getting the sleep you need and knowing how to rest. Are you getting enough sleep for you? Do you know how much sleep you require every day and are you sleeping at least that much? Making a serious effort to make that happen as well as knowing how to rest your body and your mind are essential.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            3: Self-care means making sure that you're well fed. Do you eat well—does what you eat provide the energy you need to function? Do you take time to eat meals at work and do you take time to have snacks when your body requires intermittent food during the workday? Self-care means integrating favorite healthy foods into your everyday eating routines and planning ahead to make sure you have adequate nutritious foods throughout your day.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            4: Self-care means finding a way to decompress throughout your day, not just when you leave work. What is it you do to rest your mind during and after a workday? What helps you tune out the noise? Most people tell me they don’t have the luxury of taking breaks during their workday but trying to integrate mini-breaks throughout the day helps refresh your mind and body. For example, try stretching or taking a brief walk even if it's only a few feet away, getting yourself a drink of water, talking to a friend, getting in touch with a loved one even if it's just a text, or purposely looking at photos that have special meaning. The brain needs those pauses.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            5: Self-care means giving some thought to changing a difficult work situation. We know best what we need and what we can deal with. Is there anything that can be done to make your work somewhat less stressful? Think about whether changes can be made to your work environment. Are you okay with where you sit and do your work? Are you working unsustainable hours and is there some end in sight? It might be a matter of approaching a supervisor with things that you think may make your work more pleasant such as changing where you sit or changing whether you take an earlier lunch or later start time. Sometimes supervisors are not even aware of the reality of what the worker experiences in a workday. A frank conversation delineating the things that are most stressful might precipitate the process of improving your working conditions. People see the world through their own lenses and supervisors have their own problems and a sometimes a simple conversation can provide the insight they needed to rethink how things are done.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            6: Self-care means taking time to get to know you better. Self-care means learning to recognize your own temperament and trying to prepare for your personal limits. For example, do you have the trait of "high sensitivity? (Aron 1996) and if so, learning to recognize when you are experiencing sensory overload. "Highly Sensitives," "hsp's, " are particularly bothered and affected by over-stimulation and things like being hungry or tired or wearing uncomfortable shoes precipitate marked discomfort. Identifying your temperament and your triggers and planning accordingly might help lessen inevitable stress. That might be as simple as grabbing some almonds before a meeting that usually cuts into your lunch hour so you're not ridiculously hungry or rethinking fabulous but uncomfortable shoes.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            7: Self-care means identifying what you enjoy doing and what's fun for you and make a serious effort to integrate it into your day or, at the very least, your week. Make it a habit to plan something to look forward to every day and that doesn't have to be complicated. It can be as simple as planning to read a good book at night or planning to have dinner with someone whose company you enjoy.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            8: Self-care means knowing how to debrief from a day's work. That might mean walking home from work to clear your head, driving in silence or listening to music to help transition from work to home.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            9: Self-care means feeding your spiritual self. That might take the form of meditating, praying, communing with nature by a walk in a park.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            10: And finally, self-care means taking time to love yourself and appreciating that there's only one you and you're the expert on that.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            What is self-care regarding BDSM?
                                                                                                            1: Knowing what you need for your own aftercare.
                                                                                                            2: Knowing how to recognize drop.
                                                                                                            3: Communicating needs.
                                                                                                            4: Admitting your personal limits.
                                                                                                            5: Recognizing when you can and can’t negotiate.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “ATTITUDE” by Charles Swindoll
                                                                                                            "The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think, say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company... a church... a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we embrace for that day. We cannot change our past... we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play the one string we have, and that is our attitude... I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you... we are in charge of our Attitudes”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16189053Sun, 11 Nov 2018 05:05:18 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRec: November 4, 2018 Pub: November 11, 2018 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or https://kudrinskrypt.com/contact On this episode: My recent dungeon vacation and a listener question from Jr. Producer, Buffalodom84 about hygiene, then...Pub: November 11, 2018
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or https://kudrinskrypt.com/contact
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode: My recent dungeon vacation and a listener question from Jr. Producer, Buffalodom84 about hygiene, then you and I are going to have a chat about self-care with a bonus topic of attitude and a quote that could change your life.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The Woodshed, Orlando, FL, U.S.A., and Master Cecil.
                                                                                                            http://thewoodshedorlando.com/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Hygiene:
                                                                                                            Jr. Producer Buffalodom84 wrote: “I just listened to your newest episode and had an idea for a new episode. Could you do an episode on hygiene?”
                                                                                                            What is hygiene?:
                                                                                                            Conditions and Practices that are to promote health including cleanliness, skin care, and the prevention of infections.
                                                                                                            Cleanliness
                                                                                                            Personal cleanliness
                                                                                                            Cleanliness of environment
                                                                                                            Cleanliness of Food
                                                                                                            Cleanliness of Food Preparation
                                                                                                            Nicotine slows healing because it causes blood vessels to constrict, which decreases the amount of blood, oxygen, and nutrients to get to tissues which increases the chance of the breakdown of skin.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Blood Clots-Signs and symptoms:
                                                                                                            Redness
                                                                                                            Swelling
                                                                                                            Heat
                                                                                                            Pain sensation in the area of the clot.
                                                                                                            Usually happens in one extremity
                                                                                                            Do not do exercises- Go directly to Emergency Room!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            STI’s and Infections U.T.I.'s:
                                                                                                            Urinary Tract Infections: Pathogens in the urethra, vagina, or perineal area enter the urinary tract.
                                                                                                            Bacteria move up the ureters to the kidneys.
                                                                                                            Causative organisms: Escherichia coli, Staphylococcus, Saprophyticus, Proteus, Klebsiella, Seratia, and Pseudomonas
                                                                                                            Symptoms
                                                                                                            Painful urination
                                                                                                            Urine has a foul odor
                                                                                                            Cloudy urine
                                                                                                            Frequent urination
                                                                                                            Don’t feel good
                                                                                                            Flank Pain
                                                                                                            Fever
                                                                                                            Treatment:
                                                                                                            1: Urinary specimen
                                                                                                            2: Antibiotic
                                                                                                            3: Finish antibiotic
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            How poor hygiene can affect a person's life:
                                                                                                            1: Some people may find out that they are missing out on friends, job opportunities and partners because of something that no one had ever pointed out to them – their lack of better personal hygiene.
                                                                                                            2: Maybe in the past as a child, their personal habits were pointed out, but in a negative way. No one really took an interest in that person to tell them that they must groom themselves properly or at least try to.
                                                                                                            3: Some bad habits of people who have no concept of personal hygiene are apparent body odor, greasy skin, oily hair, bad breath, and clothing that is dirty or old. The sad part is most of these things can be remedied much quicker than a bad cold and yet, individuals walk around like this day after day and endure the misery bad hygiene often brings. The misery includes people who do not want to be near these people for the above reasons and the lost personal opportunities.
                                                                                                            Some ways people can start to improve is to take a realistic look at themselves in a full-length mirror. Even if it hurts to think about it, they should consider the advice of others, especially the people who are around every day.
                                                                                                            4: Individuals who are suffering from this should try to pinpoint what exactly can be improved, and ask themselves, “What would I really like to improve about myself that is available to me right now?”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Show Support:
                                                                                                            1a: Executive Producers Jeremiah, Sihlus, Jess, and ArcaneDgr & violetaurelia.
                                                                                                            1b: Sr. Producers Matt and xEmeraldxWolfx.
                                                                                                            1c: Producers Kainsin, Heather, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay and RoxieBear. 3107attitude,bdsm,bondage,d/s,hygiene,love,master,relationship,self-care,slaveclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/relationship-burnout-mindreading-managing-expectations-in-bdsm-relationships-s02e02--16013809Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            On this episode: Rules to Love By, Relationship Burnout, Mindreading, Managing Expectations in BDSM Relationships, a listener question that ended in me writing 10 Rules for Hard Conversations.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Message from ForsakenNymph
                                                                                                            “I just now got to listen to the latest episode. It was good, as always. My condolences to losing Funsize. During the show, someone chatted a line about complacency. That made me think about an idea for the next show. You touched on introducing kink (honeymoon phase). How do you keep things interesting/spice things up after you have gone through every page of your "kinky Kamasutra"? What is the importance of continued open communication after you have gotten to know your partner? What are the dangers of mindreading or expecting someone to know what you want because you have been together a while? Just an idea. ;-)”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            How do you keep things interesting or spice things up after you have gone through every page of your "kinky Kamasutra"?
                                                                                                            Hanging out with other kinksters.
                                                                                                            Attending playspaces or new playspaces.
                                                                                                            Explore soft limits.
                                                                                                            Readdress hard limits.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            What is the importance of continued open communication after you have gotten to know your partner?
                                                                                                            The most important thing people can do.
                                                                                                            You never really know a person.
                                                                                                            Most people start to think they know someone when the New Relationship Energy (N.R.E.)  starts to fade but this is not at all true.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            What are the dangers of mindreading or expecting someone to know what you want because you have been together a while?
                                                                                                            These two things fall right in line with the saying “strive to understand before being understood”. Also, for most people, they are the two biggest pitfalls of effective communication. Let’s break them up into the two categories of Mindreading and Managing Expectations.
                                                                                                            Mindreading:
                                                                                                            As humans, this is probably one of the most arrogant and stupid things that we do. Besides this, when we think we know what someone is thinking or feeling we are taking away their freedom to think and feel the way they typically would. This is because you place pressure on them to think, feel, and be just like you. It’s like the only people we want to be in a relationship with is ourselves. When you catch yourself thinking you already know what your partner or anyone else is thinking or feeling that is when you need to communicate the most. Make sure that you are really on the same page. Think about it, if you are right then you have immediate confirmation that you know them as you think you. If you are wrong, chances it will lead to a bonding conversation. Either way, you are showing them respect by asking, not telling them how they think and feel, thus strengthening your relationship. We want to take communication and relationship shortcuts but humans are to complex for that and we are not built to take those shortcuts. We need to be heard and understood.
                                                                                                            Managing Expectations:
                                                                                                            How often you do become upset, angry, or depressed because someone didn’t react to something the way you thought they would. Maybe they weren’t as excited about something as you were and it bummed you out because you expected them to be over the moon or you had what seemed like the worst day ever and they pretty much gave you a pat on the ass and told you to “shake it off” but you expected them to become enraged with them at the idiot boss they have to deal with on their job? How did this make you feel, how did you react and how did this immediately affect the relationship? Were you disappointed, angry, hurt, confused? Through remembering that people have their own thoughts and feelings separate from your and that their perception of the situation IS going to vary from yours, you can manage your expectations of others, allow them the freedom of being themselves, and save your relationship, from a lot of rough times.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Message from dravendomon
                                                                                                            Hello to all who read this. I am in need of some advice. I am new to the lifestyle and would like some insight. My wife and I have recently moved into an open-closed relationship with me on the open end. I have wanted to have that conversation with her for a few months. On Saturday night I was at my monthly dungeons and dragons game and as I was not driving I was drinking. When I got home after the game I ended up in a very emotional conversation with her about her currently nonexistent sex drive and that I would like to seek out someone that would be able to fill my need. I also have a desire for a D/s relationship. The advice I need is in how to handle the conversation with my wife. She is a very strong Type A personality and I don't want to end my marriage. I just don't know how to talk to her about this sober. Would a contract of a sort be something we should look at. Any advice or insight would be very appreciated.
                                                                                                            This sounds simply complex on the outside but in all reality, this is one of the most common and most complex situations an existing couple goes through as one or both of them realize a need that BDSM can fulfill.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Any conversation worth having is worth having sober.
                                                                                                            Understand that while you may think you are freer to speak while intoxicated or under the influence of a substance, you are actually under the control of the consequences you will have to suffer because you said something the wrong way, couldn’t control your emotions during the conversation and went into a blabbering crying fit, became angry and popped off with things that the other person didn’t deserve, or you flat out lied. Thus the only way to have productive and effective conversations is to take control of your fears and have the conversation. There aren’t any tips or tricks to this that I’ve ever heard that worked. The only thing that has helped me in the past is to set the stage and the rules and go back to them as needed. With that said, writing them down beforehand and scheduling the conversation when all parties are well rested, not hungry, and in a generally decent mood is essential. Here are a few steps to help:
                                                                                                            Preplan using the things I just mentioned
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Ask the other person or people involved when would be a good time to have a serious conversation. While doing this ensure them that nothing is wrong but that you have been thinking about YOUR roll in the relationship and you want to talk about ways you could be better. Remember, even in this step it is all about “I statements” NOT “you statements”.
                                                                                                            When its time to have the conversation start it with the rules by saying something like “I love you and you are the most important person or thing in the world to me AND some of the things we are going to talk about could hurt the other person. This is because I am going to ask you to speak honestly about my roll in our relationship and ways I can improve. So to make sure we don’t end up saying something we might regret and this doesn’t turn into a fight I’ve got some rules that we can talk about and agree on first.
                                                                                                            1: No fighting.
                                                                                                            2: No name calling.
                                                                                                            3: No words of disrespect.
                                                                                                            4: If things get heated we will take a break and sit quietly holding each other or at least holding hands until both are ready to continue.
                                                                                                            5: No interrupting each other.
                                                                                                            6: This conversation will not end here. In a few days, after we have given it some thought we will dive back into it.
                                                                                                            7: We will not allow ourselves to hurt each other because we love and respect each other.
                                                                                                            8: We will remember that this is different for us to communicate this way but we promise to be open, honest, respectful and give it try because it could make our relationship even better than it already is.
                                                                                                            9: When this session is over we will reassure each other that we are loved, cherished, wanted, respected, and desired by the other person.
                                                                                                            10: We will enjoy a reward together for making it through our talk without breaking any of the first nine rules.
                                                                                                            10a: Rewards could be sex, ice cream or a favorite treat, dinner out, a movie, snuggling in bed and going to sleep, or something else agreed upon now before we start the talk.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            “Would a contract be helpful?”
                                                                                                            Yes! As you start the talk make it known that you will be taking notes and offer her a pen and paper so she can as well. You might as well add note-taking to the rules. If you do this, I would also add that the notes will present, talk about, and agree upon at the start of the next session. Making these sound like formal business meeting can often put people in more of a logical mindset and helps them keep a check on their emotional state.
                                                                                                            As you have this conversation you will effectively be writing an agreement that can easily be turned into a contract and the cool thing about doing this way is that nearly all the details have been worked out.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkKh6z8FEvlzTHn-H3t5NNw?view_as=subscriber]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16013809Sun, 21 Oct 2018 10:24:59 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: October 20, 2018 / Published: October 21, 2018 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com On this episode: Rules to Love By, Relationship Burnout, Mindreading, Managing Expectations in BDSM...Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            On this episode: Rules to Love By, Relationship Burnout, Mindreading, Managing Expectations in BDSM Relationships, a listener question that ended in me writing 10 Rules for Hard Conversations.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Message from ForsakenNymph
                                                                                                            “I just now got to listen to the latest episode. It was good, as always. My condolences to losing Funsize. During the show, someone chatted a line about complacency. That made me think about an idea for the next show. You touched on introducing kink (honeymoon phase). How do you keep things interesting/spice things up after you have gone through every page of your "kinky Kamasutra"? What is the importance of continued open communication after you have gotten to know your partner? What are the dangers of mindreading or expecting someone to know what you want because you have been together a while? Just an idea. ;-)”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            How do you keep things interesting or spice things up after you have gone through every page of your "kinky Kamasutra"?
                                                                                                            Hanging out with other kinksters.
                                                                                                            Attending playspaces or new playspaces.
                                                                                                            Explore soft limits.
                                                                                                            Readdress hard limits.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            What is the importance of continued open communication after you have gotten to know your partner?
                                                                                                            The most important thing people can do.
                                                                                                            You never really know a person.
                                                                                                            Most people start to think they know someone when the New Relationship Energy (N.R.E.)  starts to fade but this is not at all true.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            What are the dangers of mindreading or expecting someone to know what you want because you have been together a while?
                                                                                                            These two things fall right in line with the saying “strive to understand before being understood”. Also, for most people, they are the two biggest pitfalls of effective communication. Let’s break them up into the two categories of Mindreading and Managing Expectations.
                                                                                                            Mindreading:
                                                                                                            As humans, this is probably one of the most arrogant and stupid things that we do. Besides this, when we think we know what someone is thinking or feeling we are taking away their freedom to think and feel the way they typically would. This is because you place pressure on them to think, feel, and be just like you. It’s like the only people we want to be in a relationship with is ourselves. When you catch yourself thinking you already know what your partner or anyone else is thinking or feeling that is when you need to communicate the most. Make sure that you are really on the same page. Think about it, if you are right then you have immediate confirmation that you know them as you think you. If you are wrong, chances it will lead to a bonding conversation. Either way, you are showing them respect by asking, not telling them how they think and feel, thus strengthening your relationship. We want to take communication and relationship shortcuts but humans are to complex for that and we are not built to take those shortcuts. We need to be heard and understood.
                                                                                                            Managing Expectations:
                                                                                                            How often you do become upset, angry, or depressed because someone didn’t react to something the way you thought they would. Maybe they weren’t as excited about something as you were and it bummed you out because you expected them to be over the moon or you had what seemed like the worst day ever and they pretty much gave you a pat on the ass and told you to “shake it off” but you expected them to become enraged with them at the idiot boss they have to deal with on their job? How did this make you feel, how did you react and how did this immediately affect the relationship?...]]>224610,bdsm,burnout,d/s,expectation,love,managing,mindreading,relationship,sex,stepsclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/live-7-ways-to-intro-bdsm-into-marriage-s02e01--15899165-Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com/contact
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -On this episode of the Krypt we are going to talk about an article I found titled “7 Safe Ways To Explore BDSM Without Hurting Your Marriage”.
                                                                                                            https://www.yourtango.com/experts/pleasure-mechanics/7-ways-find-your-bdsm-bliss
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [0:33] Step 1: Communication!!!
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:18] Step 2: It brings balance.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [3:10] Total Power Exchange (T.P.E.)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [6:00] Step 3: Don’t Blur Boundaries!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [6:35]Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [7:21] Step 4: Get Specific About What You Want!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [9:10] Step 5: Take Baby Steps.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [10:38] Step 6: “Switch” It Up!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [16:25] Step 7: Get Trained!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [18:22] Q&A
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [21:45] Announcement: Funsize has decided to leave the show due to personal reasons. She will be GREATLY missed!!!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            A final note or two.
                                                                                                            I’d like to thank our Executive Producers Jeremiah, Sihlus, Jess, and ArcaneDgr & violetaurelia. Our Sr. Producers Matt and xEmeraldxWolfx. Our Producers Kainsin, Heather, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay and RoxieBear. And our Jr. Producers K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Painwaits, and Master Ferguson & LxSoumis. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            And finally, I’d like to thank http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt . In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15899165Sun, 07 Oct 2018 04:06:55 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded:   9/15/2018 /      Published: 10/07/2018 -Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com/contact -On this episode of the Krypt we are going to talk about an article I found titled “7 Safe Ways...-Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com/contact
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -On this episode of the Krypt we are going to talk about an article I found titled “7 Safe Ways To Explore BDSM Without Hurting Your Marriage”.
                                                                                                            https://www.yourtango.com/experts/pleasure-mechanics/7-ways-find-your-bdsm-bliss
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [0:33] Step 1: Communication!!!
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [2:18] Step 2: It brings balance.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [3:10] Total Power Exchange (T.P.E.)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [6:00] Step 3: Don’t Blur Boundaries!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [6:35]Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [7:21] Step 4: Get Specific About What You Want!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [9:10] Step 5: Take Baby Steps.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [10:38] Step 6: “Switch” It Up!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [16:25] Step 7: Get Trained!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [18:22] Q&A
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            [21:45] Announcement: Funsize has decided to leave the show due to personal reasons. She will be GREATLY missed!!!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            A final note or two.
                                                                                                            I’d like to thank our Executive Producers Jeremiah, Sihlus, Jess, and ArcaneDgr & violetaurelia. Our Sr. Producers Matt and xEmeraldxWolfx. Our Producers Kainsin, Heather, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay and RoxieBear. And our Jr. Producers K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Painwaits, and Master Ferguson & LxSoumis. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            And finally, I’d like to thank http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt . In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>2239bdsm,communication,kink,kinky,live,love,marriage,respect,sexclean2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/vanilla-with-sprinkles-pt-2-s01e52--15786873
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are going to finish up the interview with Lady Katheryne and then I will give my final thoughts on vanilla with sprinkles. So I’ll hit those rules to love by and then jump right into the interview where we left off last time.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Interview with Lady Katheryne
                                                                                                            [1:37] Kuldrin’s catharsis leads to Lady Katheryne’s catharsis.
                                                                                                            [6:22] What were the following days like?
                                                                                                            [6:57] Lady Katheryne’s first true understanding of why Kuldrin has a need to be a Dom. However, a little knowledge is dangerous and can lead to frenzy and becoming an “insta-dom”.
                                                                                                            [9:18] Trying to tame Lady Katheryne and her opinion on listening to lifestyle veterans. There is no destination in the lifestyle; it’s the journey that matters.
                                                                                                            [10:53] Goals in the BDSM don’t really work and dangers that can come from setting certain types of goals.
                                                                                                            [17:20] 80% of people who enter the BDSM lifestyle switch roles after they discover who they really are and Lady Katheryne thoughts on the subject.
                                                                                                            [21:05] The day you think you know it all and have seen everything is the day you need to give it up and how “each one, teach one” applies.
                                                                                                            [22:02] The kink of masks.
                                                                                                            [24:37] Being Dominant is NOT being a bully or a narcissistic jerk!
                                                                                                            [27:01] The four (4) classes of sadists and learning that a friend of ours is a class three (3) sadist and knowing that people like that use BDSM as a way to implement their abusive nature.
                                                                                                            [30:13] TPE=Total Power Exchange
                                                                                                            [30:20] What advice do you have for people that are in the lifestyle but they are not?
                                                                                                            [32:50] Lady Katheryne’s first real BDSM experience as a teen. How has this new level of communication effected her in the vanilla world?
                                                                                                            [35:20] Contacting LadyKatheryne7 on http://fetlife.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            A final note or two.
                                                                                                            I’d like to thank our Executive Producers Jeremiah, Sihlus, and Jess (KitKat) our Senior Producers Matt, Jeremy, and xEmeraldxWolfx our Producers Kainsin, RoxieBear and Mytor at That Place in Kansas City, and our Jr. Producers K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Pain Waits, LxSoumis, and JayKay. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            And finally, I’d like to thank http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt I will be sharing the audio from the live episode I did a few weeks ago on FB where I talked about 7 ways to introduce BDSM in marriage. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15786873Sun, 23 Sep 2018 13:24:37 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 9/9/2018 / Published: 9/23/2018 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com On this episode of the Krypt we are going to finish up the interview with Lady Katheryne and then I will give...
                                                                                                            Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are going to finish up the interview with Lady Katheryne and then I will give my final thoughts on vanilla with sprinkles. So I’ll hit those rules to love by and then jump right into the interview where we left off last time.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Interview with Lady Katheryne
                                                                                                            [1:37] Kuldrin’s catharsis leads to Lady Katheryne’s catharsis.
                                                                                                            [6:22] What were the following days like?
                                                                                                            [6:57] Lady Katheryne’s first true understanding of why Kuldrin has a need to be a Dom. However, a little knowledge is dangerous and can lead to frenzy and becoming an “insta-dom”.
                                                                                                            [9:18] Trying to tame Lady Katheryne and her opinion on listening to lifestyle veterans. There is no destination in the lifestyle; it’s the journey that matters.
                                                                                                            [10:53] Goals in the BDSM don’t really work and dangers that can come from setting certain types of goals.
                                                                                                            [17:20] 80% of people who enter the BDSM lifestyle switch roles after they discover who they really are and Lady Katheryne thoughts on the subject.
                                                                                                            [21:05] The day you think you know it all and have seen everything is the day you need to give it up and how “each one, teach one” applies.
                                                                                                            [22:02] The kink of masks.
                                                                                                            [24:37] Being Dominant is NOT being a bully or a narcissistic jerk!
                                                                                                            [27:01] The four (4) classes of sadists and learning that a friend of ours is a class three (3) sadist and knowing that people like that use BDSM as a way to implement their abusive nature.
                                                                                                            [30:13] TPE=Total Power Exchange
                                                                                                            [30:20] What advice do you have for people that are in the lifestyle but they are not?
                                                                                                            [32:50] Lady Katheryne’s first real BDSM experience as a teen. How has this new level of communication effected her in the vanilla world?
                                                                                                            [35:20] Contacting LadyKatheryne7 on http://fetlife.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            A final note or two.
                                                                                                            I’d like to thank our Executive Producers Jeremiah, Sihlus, and Jess (KitKat) our Senior Producers Matt, Jeremy, and xEmeraldxWolfx our Producers Kainsin, RoxieBear and Mytor at That Place in Kansas City, and our Jr. Producers K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Pain Waits, LxSoumis, and JayKay. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            And finally, I’d like to thank http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt I will be sharing the audio from the live episode I did a few weeks ago on FB where I talked about 7 ways to introduce BDSM in marriage. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire 2219abuse,bdsm,dom,d/s,interview,love,master,relationship,sadist,slave,sub,submissionclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/vanilla-with-sprinkles-pt-1-s01e51--15753278Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are going to change things up a little from our regular format. Funsize has done an interview with Bratty Red about being vanilla but having some spice in her marriage. Then you will hear the first of a two-part interview I have done with My wife, Lady Katheryne about what it was like to enter the BDSM lifestyle after being married for so long.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Bratty Red Interview
                                                                                                            1. Vanilla with Spice
                                                                                                            2. How was Kink introduced into your marriage?
                                                                                                            3. What kind of kinks do you use?
                                                                                                            4. How were bondage and spanking introduced?
                                                                                                            5. Bratty Red’s change of opinion about “Fifty Shades of Grey” after becoming a Krypter.
                                                                                                            6. Bratty Red’s thoughts on finding out Funsize is a lifestyle kinkster.
                                                                                                            7. How has adding a touch of kink affected your marriage?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Lady Katheryne Interview
                                                                                                            1. How did it feel and what was your thought process as you were introduced to the lifestyle?
                                                                                                            2. Kuldrin admits to handling things the wrong way.
                                                                                                            3. What were some of the difficulties in the beginning?
                                                                                                            4. Outsiders are threats?!?!?!
                                                                                                            5. Territorial and Lady Katheryne’s primal side. How would you define the primal side? Territorial: protection vs jealously.
                                                                                                            6. What is the best way to deal with jealousy?
                                                                                                            7. Primal leading to catharsis? Sexual primal play?
                                                                                                            8. The manifestation of the cathartic release?
                                                                                                            9. Releasing past pains of sexual, physical, and emotional abuse that started at five years old.
                                                                                                            10. Was primal something that you used to relate to me or was it natural?
                                                                                                            11. Lady Katheryne’s kinks?
                                                                                                            12. What are your actual needs as opposed to likes?
                                                                                                            13. Would you descibe yourself as a sadist? Sadist by proxy?
                                                                                                            14. Emotional & mental sadism?
                                                                                                            15. Psychology and the lifestyle: to mix or not to mix.
                                                                                                            16. BDSM should never be used as a replacement for therapy.
                                                                                                            17. Would you ever want to have a submissive of you own?
                                                                                                            18. With traveling for show appearances and demo’s, how difficult is my “pod fame” on you?
                                                                                                            19. Sharing me with the local community and listeners.
                                                                                                            20. Cat-like behavior at home?
                                                                                                            21. Being such a private person, how are you going to handle all of this info being out there?
                                                                                                            22. Your first true cathartic moment?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            A final note or two.
                                                                                                            I’d like to thank our Executive Producers Jeff, Jeremiah, and Sihlus, our Senior Producers Matt, Jeremy, and xEmeraldxWolfx our Producers Kainsin, Danni, and Heather, and our Jr. Producers K-2SO, Irish Mt. Dragon, BuffaloDom84, and Master Ferguson and LxSoumis. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Finally, I’d like to thank http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt we will finish up the interview with Lady Katheryne and I will give my final thoughts on vanilla with sprinkles. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
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                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15753278Wed, 19 Sep 2018 11:18:22 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 9/9/2018 / Published: 9/19/2018 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com On this episode of the Krypt we are going to change things up a little from our regular format. Funsize has...Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are going to change things up a little from our regular format. Funsize has done an interview with Bratty Red about being vanilla but having some spice in her marriage. Then you will hear the first of a two-part interview I have done with My wife, Lady Katheryne about what it was like to enter the BDSM lifestyle after being married for so long.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Bratty Red Interview
                                                                                                            1. Vanilla with Spice
                                                                                                            2. How was Kink introduced into your marriage?
                                                                                                            3. What kind of kinks do you use?
                                                                                                            4. How were bondage and spanking introduced?
                                                                                                            5. Bratty Red’s change of opinion about “Fifty Shades of Grey” after becoming a Krypter.
                                                                                                            6. Bratty Red’s thoughts on finding out Funsize is a lifestyle kinkster.
                                                                                                            7. How has adding a touch of kink affected your marriage?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Lady Katheryne Interview
                                                                                                            1. How did it feel and what was your thought process as you were introduced to the lifestyle?
                                                                                                            2. Kuldrin admits to handling things the wrong way.
                                                                                                            3. What were some of the difficulties in the beginning?
                                                                                                            4. Outsiders are threats?!?!?!
                                                                                                            5. Territorial and Lady Katheryne’s primal side. How would you define the primal side? Territorial: protection vs jealously.
                                                                                                            6. What is the best way to deal with jealousy?
                                                                                                            7. Primal leading to catharsis? Sexual primal play?
                                                                                                            8. The manifestation of the cathartic release?
                                                                                                            9. Releasing past pains of sexual, physical, and emotional abuse that started at five years old.
                                                                                                            10. Was primal something that you used to relate to me or was it natural?
                                                                                                            11. Lady Katheryne’s kinks?
                                                                                                            12. What are your actual needs as opposed to likes?
                                                                                                            13. Would you descibe yourself as a sadist? Sadist by proxy?
                                                                                                            14. Emotional & mental sadism?
                                                                                                            15. Psychology and the lifestyle: to mix or not to mix.
                                                                                                            16. BDSM should never be used as a replacement for therapy.
                                                                                                            17. Would you ever want to have a submissive of you own?
                                                                                                            18. With traveling for show appearances and demo’s, how difficult is my “pod fame” on you?
                                                                                                            19. Sharing me with the local community and listeners.
                                                                                                            20. Cat-like behavior at home?
                                                                                                            21. Being such a private person, how are you going to handle all of this info being out there?
                                                                                                            22. Your first true cathartic moment?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            A final note or two.
                                                                                                            I’d like to thank our Executive Producers Jeff, Jeremiah, and Sihlus, our Senior Producers Matt, Jeremy, and xEmeraldxWolfx our Producers Kainsin, Danni, and Heather, and our Jr. Producers K-2SO, Irish Mt. Dragon, BuffaloDom84, and Master Ferguson and LxSoumis. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Finally, I’d like to thank http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt we will finish up the interview with Lady Katheryne and I will give my final thoughts on vanilla with sprinkles. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be...]]>2717bdsm,d/s,interview,kink,kinky,love,marriage,relationship,relationships,sexclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/who-pursues-whom-in-bdsm-s01e50--15570936Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of experience to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are going to talk about who pursues whom, but before that happens, we need talk about a few new interesting places find our show, hit those three rules to love by and most importantly, I have to welcome the co-hostest with the mostest, Funsize.
                                                                                                            Interesting places to find us: iHeart Radio, Spotify, Blubry on Roku, and smart speakers.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Definition
                                                                                                            Pursuit- To follow, chase, hunt, run after, seek to form a relationship within a persistent way, or a specific type of activity.
                                                                                                            If the Dom is to pursue the submissive?
                                                                                                            What we're really looking at here is a personal preference because there is no right or wrong.  Some tops prefer to take on the hunter’s role of pursuing the bottom.
                                                                                                            For those that do I do wonder if it does have something to do with a primal need, I'm not suggesting that these are all primals, I just wonder if that may be a part of it in that moment.  
                                                                                                            I think the next to consider is power.  Everything we do in BDSM has to do with power.  Pursuing someone is a way of displaying power, and tops could certainly view this a couple different ways.  
                                                                                                            You display the power you want to hold over the bottom by pursuing them, thereby making yourself a more attractive partner.  
                                                                                                            It could be that you view this as your right or even your duty as the dominant partner.  
                                                                                                            Sometimes this could be a dominant playing into the role, even so far as kind of falling into the trope of a big bad Dom who knows exactly what they want and how to get it.  
                                                                                                            However, that does swing us around to something very real.  We're all people who for the most part, do our best every day.  And for a lot of us, that means that we have a relationship FOMO that pops up when we've made a connection with someone.  So what do we do? We go to that person and we pursue them, we make our want of a relationship known. Because we don't want to miss out on something amazing simply because we did not try.
                                                                                                            If the submissive pursues the Dominant?
                                                                                                            Most of what we just talked about still applies to the submissive so far as not wanting to miss an opportunity.  
                                                                                                            If a submissive is stepping up to tell a dominant that they want to pursue a relationship it could also be because they feel it is their duty and right.
                                                                                                            Bottoms offer up their power for the top to wield, and it really is a case of pursuit. If you imagine a submissive on their knees holding up a collar in supplication that's what I'm talking about here.  The sub is saying here is this power over me, please use it.
                                                                                                            Is it topping from the bottom?
                                                                                                            Again I don't think we have a clear cut answer here.  For some submissives, some brats included, it can be a way of getting what they want in terms of a partner, and there in a case of topping from the bottom.  But again that's certain ones and if you think that's what is going on then as the top you can still consent or not to them.
                                                                                                            How to really get the ball rolling?
                                                                                                            Pretty simple, communicate.  Regardless of your preference on the matter, you have to communicate in order to build any relationship.  
                                                                                                            This is one of our shortest episodes in a while but don't worry because next time on the Krypt we'll have a very special interview for you all.  
                                                                                                            A final note or two.
                                                                                                            I’d like to thank our Executive Producers Jeremiah, Sihlus, and Jess our Senior Producers Matt, Jeremy, and xEmeraldxwolfx our Producers Kainsin, Princ3ssPuddl3s, Heather, and ThatPlace Oklahoma City and our Jr. Producers K-2SO, Irish Mt. Dragon, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, painwaits, and J.K. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            And finally, I’d like to thank http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt: “Vanilla with Sprinkles” interviews with three very special guests about their entrance into kink. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
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                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15570936Sun, 26 Aug 2018 09:05:38 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: August 5, 2018  / Published: August 26, 2018 Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of experience to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions...Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of experience to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are going to talk about who pursues whom, but before that happens, we need talk about a few new interesting places find our show, hit those three rules to love by and most importantly, I have to welcome the co-hostest with the mostest, Funsize.
                                                                                                            Interesting places to find us: iHeart Radio, Spotify, Blubry on Roku, and smart speakers.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Definition
                                                                                                            Pursuit- To follow, chase, hunt, run after, seek to form a relationship within a persistent way, or a specific type of activity.
                                                                                                            If the Dom is to pursue the submissive?
                                                                                                            What we're really looking at here is a personal preference because there is no right or wrong.  Some tops prefer to take on the hunter’s role of pursuing the bottom.
                                                                                                            For those that do I do wonder if it does have something to do with a primal need, I'm not suggesting that these are all primals, I just wonder if that may be a part of it in that moment.  
                                                                                                            I think the next to consider is power.  Everything we do in BDSM has to do with power.  Pursuing someone is a way of displaying power, and tops could certainly view this a couple different ways.  
                                                                                                            You display the power you want to hold over the bottom by pursuing them, thereby making yourself a more attractive partner.  
                                                                                                            It could be that you view this as your right or even your duty as the dominant partner.  
                                                                                                            Sometimes this could be a dominant playing into the role, even so far as kind of falling into the trope of a big bad Dom who knows exactly what they want and how to get it.  
                                                                                                            However, that does swing us around to something very real.  We're all people who for the most part, do our best every day.  And for a lot of us, that means that we have a relationship FOMO that pops up when we've made a connection with someone.  So what do we do? We go to that person and we pursue them, we make our want of a relationship known. Because we don't want to miss out on something amazing simply because we did not try.
                                                                                                            If the submissive pursues the Dominant?
                                                                                                            Most of what we just talked about still applies to the submissive so far as not wanting to miss an opportunity.  
                                                                                                            If a submissive is stepping up to tell a dominant that they want to pursue a relationship it could also be because they feel it is their duty and right.
                                                                                                            Bottoms offer up their power for the top to wield, and it really is a case of pursuit. If you imagine a submissive on their knees holding up a collar in supplication that's what I'm talking about here.  The sub is saying here is this power over me, please use it.
                                                                                                            Is it topping from the bottom?
                                                                                                            Again I don't think we have a clear cut answer here.  For some submissives, some brats included, it can be a way of getting what they want in terms of a partner, and there in a case of topping from the bottom.  But again that's certain ones and if you think that's what is going on then as the top you can still consent or not to them.
                                                                                                            How to really get the ball rolling?
                                                                                                            Pretty simple, communicate.  Regardless of your preference on the matter, you have to communicate in order to build any relationship.  
                                                                                                            This is one of our shortest episodes in a while but don't worry because next time on the Krypt we'll have a very special interview for you all.  
                                                                                                            A final note or two.
                                                                                                            I’d like to thank our Executive Producers Jeremiah, Sihlus,...]]>1944bdsm,dominant,d/s,love,master,primal,pursuit,relationship,sex,slave,submissiveclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bdsm-contracts-and-collars-s01e49--15477423Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are going to explore contracts and collars but before that happens, we need talk about a few new interesting places to find our show, hit those three rules to love by and most importantly, I have to welcome the co-hostest with the mostest, Funsize.
                                                                                                            Kuldrin’s Weekend Intensive September 14-16, 2018 https://kuldrinskrypt.com/kwi
                                                                                                            Interesting places to find us: iHeartRadio, Spotify, Blubry on Roku, and smart speakers.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Definition of a BDSM Contract
                                                                                                            A non-legally binding but useful tool in negotiations, there to assist with guiding the relationship preferences, limits, interest, and goals. They are also extremely helpful for later check-ins.
                                                                                                            Contracts
                                                                                                            What a contract means really.
                                                                                                            A contract, as we've discussed before, is not legally binding in most cases. So having one doesn't mean you're having to do something. Instead, it is a document that outlines boundaries, preferences, and can/should be gone back to during check-ins.
                                                                                                            Negotiation.
                                                                                                            Basically, contracts are the written drafts of the negotiation process, only cleaned up and finalized.
                                                                                                            Many times when writing a contract you find yourself negotiating the level of the relationship, hard and soft limits, a timeline for check-ins, and any goals you might have. All of these and more will end up being in the final contract.
                                                                                                            Why they matter.
                                                                                                            They matter not in the legal sense but in the way that they are a tool. Creating the right tool can help with maintenance, fixing any glitches, or simply give you a peace of mind.
                                                                                                            Definition of a BDSM Collars
                                                                                                            A BDSM collar is another tool which can help distinguish the level of the relationship and can also be an accessory for getting into headspace.
                                                                                                            Types
                                                                                                            Consideration Collar:
                                                                                                            A consideration collar marks the commitment of a relationship that has negotiated their dynamic, however, they are still considering the relationship. It's the difference between dating and being married.
                                                                                                            Interestingly to me, I've heard this collar being compared to engagement because the commitment is there but the relationship can still end. Personally, I think a dating relationship is more accurate as your sure you want to be with that person for a time but whether or not you go any further is still up for consideration.
                                                                                                            Protection Collar:
                                                                                                            These are collars which denote that a submissive is under the protection of a dominant. Though occasionally a dominant may also come under the protection of another. I've seen this during periods of discord in a community, and in times where a predatory bottom has surfaced.
                                                                                                            Training
                                                                                                            These are collars typically worn when the bottom is in a training phase of the relationship. They indicate the purpose of learning a specific aspect, the interplay of that relationship, or for a specific relationship dynamic between mentor/trainer and student.
                                                                                                            Play Collar:
                                                                                                            These are collars worn just for the duration of a scene. Often they are significant to assisting with slipping into headspace, not only to the sub, but to the Dom as well.
                                                                                                            To quote Meronym’s wonderful article he posted on Fetlife.com on collars, (and of course there’s a link in the show notes at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/149 ) “It’s an agreement between the person wearing it and the holder of the collar, but only for so long as they are wearing it. When it comes off, that agreement is done.”
                                                                                                            Meronym’s Fetlife.com article: https://fetlife.com/users/120724/posts/5077039
                                                                                                            Day Collar:
                                                                                                            Day collars are those worn either for the purpose of day to day activities or to show preferred role in the community.
                                                                                                            If you're in a committed D/s or M/s relationship with a collar that is blatantly BDSM related but say you have to go to work or the store or on a family outing, a day collar is a way to show respect for your relationship without outing yourself or your partner. It can be a simple piece of jewelry specifically worn for this purpose, for example.
                                                                                                            Some will wear a day or as I also like to call it an availability collar to events to denote a submissive position. In this case, it is only there to show their preferred role. These will often be plain.
                                                                                                            Commitment Collar:
                                                                                                            I'm tempted to throw in wedding bells here because that's the level of commitment that this collar possesses. In M/s these are also referred to as slave collars and are typically those lovely locked steel rings you see. In D/s relationships a commitment collar denotes a permanent or long-term bond. Many commitment collars are given during a formal ceremony, much like a wedding ceremony.
                                                                                                            How to know which is which?
                                                                                                            Ask! If you end up talking to someone wearing a collar and you're not sure of it's meaning just ask.
                                                                                                            What can they be, or be made of?
                                                                                                            Traditional; in the sense that they look like collars, materials include leather, PVC, rubber, steel, and linked chain. They may have decorations like d-rings for leashes, be locking, or have jewels or spikes. The design is and should be very personal to that relationship.
                                                                                                            Non-traditional; doesn't look like a collar; collars can be a ring, necklace, another piece of jewelry, or may include piercing, branding, scarification, or tattoos. I strongly recommend staying away from anything that modifies your physical person until you have at least reached the commitment collar, and even then. However, I'm not a complete hypocrite as I actually have a scarred commitment collar from my old Master on my left breasts and still greatly cherish it.
                                                                                                            The more rigid the material the more serious the relationship it typically denotes.
                                                                                                            Why they matter
                                                                                                            Wearing a collar can not only show others in the community who you are and what your relationship dynamic is but it should also help shift your mental state, to get or keep you in headspace. If you don't experience a shift in at least your mental state when you put on a collar then the commitment to that relationship isn't there to denote using one. Which brings us to our next point...
                                                                                                            Why so many are starting to become upset about them.
                                                                                                            For those of us who are part of the lifestyle and have been in any seriousness, slapping on a collar and saying it's something more than a scrap of fabric when you haven't put in any effort, any knowledge seeking, or any thought to its meaning is a huge slap in the face.
                                                                                                            We get it, lots of people are wearing them as a fashion statement or you might be new and foolish but please think twice before you toss on a collar and form a relationship with someone after knowing them a week. Doing so is basically the equivalent of a drunken wedding to a stranger in Vegas.
                                                                                                            A final note or two.
                                                                                                            I’d like to thank our Executive Producers Jeremiah and Sihlus, our Senior Producers Matt, Jeremy, and xEmeraldxwolfx our Producers Kainsin, Princ3ssPuddl3s, and Heather, and our Jr. Producers K-2SO, Irish Mt. Dragon, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, and painwaits. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hard bound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            And finally, I’d like to thank http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next on The Krypt we are going to dive into who pursues whom. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us (https://kuldrinskrypt.com/supportme) to become a http://patreon.com/kuldrinskrypt supporter.
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                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for https://kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15477423Sun, 12 Aug 2018 21:51:25 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: July 22, 2018 / Published: August 12, 2018 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com On this episode of the Krypt we are going to explore contracts and collars but before that happens, we need...Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are going to explore contracts and collars but before that happens, we need talk about a few new interesting places to find our show, hit those three rules to love by and most importantly, I have to welcome the co-hostest with the mostest, Funsize.
                                                                                                            Kuldrin’s Weekend Intensive September 14-16, 2018 https://kuldrinskrypt.com/kwi
                                                                                                            Interesting places to find us: iHeartRadio, Spotify, Blubry on Roku, and smart speakers.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Definition of a BDSM Contract
                                                                                                            A non-legally binding but useful tool in negotiations, there to assist with guiding the relationship preferences, limits, interest, and goals. They are also extremely helpful for later check-ins.
                                                                                                            Contracts
                                                                                                            What a contract means really.
                                                                                                            A contract, as we've discussed before, is not legally binding in most cases. So having one doesn't mean you're having to do something. Instead, it is a document that outlines boundaries, preferences, and can/should be gone back to during check-ins.
                                                                                                            Negotiation.
                                                                                                            Basically, contracts are the written drafts of the negotiation process, only cleaned up and finalized.
                                                                                                            Many times when writing a contract you find yourself negotiating the level of the relationship, hard and soft limits, a timeline for check-ins, and any goals you might have. All of these and more will end up being in the final contract.
                                                                                                            Why they matter.
                                                                                                            They matter not in the legal sense but in the way that they are a tool. Creating the right tool can help with maintenance, fixing any glitches, or simply give you a peace of mind.
                                                                                                            Definition of a BDSM Collars
                                                                                                            A BDSM collar is another tool which can help distinguish the level of the relationship and can also be an accessory for getting into headspace.
                                                                                                            Types
                                                                                                            Consideration Collar:
                                                                                                            A consideration collar marks the commitment of a relationship that has negotiated their dynamic, however, they are still considering the relationship. It's the difference between dating and being married.
                                                                                                            Interestingly to me, I've heard this collar being compared to engagement because the commitment is there but the relationship can still end. Personally, I think a dating relationship is more accurate as your sure you want to be with that person for a time but whether or not you go any further is still up for consideration.
                                                                                                            Protection Collar:
                                                                                                            These are collars which denote that a submissive is under the protection of a dominant. Though occasionally a dominant may also come under the protection of another. I've seen this during periods of discord in a community, and in times where a predatory bottom has surfaced.
                                                                                                            Training
                                                                                                            These are collars typically worn when the bottom is in a training phase of the relationship. They indicate the purpose of learning a specific aspect, the interplay of that relationship, or for a specific relationship dynamic between mentor/trainer and student.
                                                                                                            Play Collar:
                                                                                                            These are collars worn just for the duration of a scene. Often they are significant to assisting with slipping into headspace, not only to the sub, but to the Dom as well.
                                                                                                            To quote Meronym’s wonderful article he posted on Fetlife.com on collars, (and of course there’s a link in the show notes at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/149 ) “It’s an agreement between the person wearing it and the holder of the collar, but only for so long as they are wearing it. When it comes off, that...]]>3585bdsm,collar,contract,dominant,d/s,love,master,relationship,sex,slave,submissiveclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bdsm-and-marriage-s01e48--15344473Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are going to explore a very complex subject, BDSM in marriage.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Introduction:
                                                                                                            -We have to slightly change up our show's format here because we don't have a definition.  BDSM and marriage separately are such complex topics that intertwining can look like a minefield full of twist and turns.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -What are some of the complexities?
                                                                                                            Jealousy: No matter the dynamic of your marriage jealousy can and more than likely will arise at some point. If you our your partner is poly this may pop up more. It's important to discuss with your spouse if one or both of you become jealous.  Communication can help you find the source of this jealousy and then you can work together on alleviating the situation. Sources may surprise you.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Feeling like you don't get enough attention.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Stress
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Worry over creating emotional bonds.
                                                                                                            Do not allow yourself, your spouse, or any third or fourth party person to become disrespectful.  
                                                                                                            If you have a third person in the relationship and you see them snipping at your spouse or vice versa it's a sign of jealousy.  It's rude, can become abusive, and who wants to live with that kind of discord? Instead, discuss the incident and set the boundary of respect and communication.  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Communication
                                                                                                            This is the single most important thing in any relationship.  Communication cannot be undersold.
                                                                                                            If you are already part of the lifestyle when you get married, simply put, your partner should already know.  However, if you are married and you start getting into the lifestyle it is far better to discuss your growing interest and needs.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -I know there are quite a few people out there who are hiding their BDSM lifestyle from their spouse.  And every single person I know who is doing is this is experiencing the same two things. First, they are sure it would end their marriage if their partner found out.  Second, they live with gut-wrenching fear and guilt over what they are doing.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -If one person in the relationship is in the lifestyle.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Does the vanilla partner know?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -If your spouse does know but isn't interested in participating in the kink community or scenes, they can still be your support system.  I know several vanilla partners, not just spouses but boyfriends and girlfriends, who will just attend munches.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -It is also important to communicate and negotiate what is acceptable in your kink.  You may be dominant but if your spouse says cuddling with a submissive during aftercare crosses a boundary in your marriage, you might just have to find a stand-in for that activity.  
                                                                                                            If both are.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Scenes together
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Negotiate if this a 24/7 lifestyle, or merely in the bedroom.  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Scenes apart
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Having clearly defined boundaries will be important.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Having a family.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Majorly complex already
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -It can be healthy for your family to view your dynamic in vanilla settings.  Communication especially is prized in the BDSM lifestyle and can help teach youngsters how to approach everyday life and relationships.  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Unexpected mines popping up.
                                                                                                            When you get married you agree to stand beside someone as you both learn and grow.  But part of that is that things we don't expect pop up, some good, some bad. In BDSM these mines may require a spouses support, or be caused by that spouse.  How you handle the situation can remake or break your marriage.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Religious beliefs about marriage.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Adultery.  This is something that comes up for a lot of couples.  Many of us grew up with the notion that any relationship outside of marriage was bad and a sexual relationship was adultery.  You may have consented to a polyamorous marriage but the feeling of betrayal can still pop up.
                                                                                                            These feelings that arise can feel like cheating, or they may even be just that.  Go through the steps to handle these situations. Communicate, forgive your partner or yourself, move on and work towards rebuilding.  Punishment can also be a tricky minefield in these situations.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Tips we have found to help with balancing functional marriage and BDSM.  
                                                                                                            -Communicate.
                                                                                                            -Ask questions and clearly negotiate boundaries.
                                                                                                            -Don't become instantly disheartened if your vanilla partner reacts negatively towards BDSM. --There is so much misinformation and so many bad apples ruining it for the rest of us that they may simply require time to process.  Most often they will come back with a million questions. It's important not to get defensive and simple answer.
                                                                                                            Always be respectful
                                                                                                            Offer empathy.
                                                                                                            Take time to calm down if you become angry or upset.  
                                                                                                            Understand that as you both grow as people things are going to change and the unexpected may occur.  
                                                                                                            Be careful to watch for frenzy and/or burnout.  
                                                                                                            If one partner is experiencing either things can become volatile, but if both are….
                                                                                                            Ask for support and a secondary watcher for these things from a third-party person.  
                                                                                                            Be part of each other's support system.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            A final note or two.
                                                                                                            -I’d like to thank our Executive Producers Jeff, Jeremiah, and Sihlus, our Senior Producers Matt and Jeremy, our Producers Kainsin, Danni, and Heather, and our Jr. Producers K-2SO, Irish Mt. Dragon, and BuffaloDom84. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            -Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            -And finally, I’d like to thank http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next, on The Krypt we are going to talk about contracts and collaring. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15344473Sat, 28 Jul 2018 04:05:04 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: June 24, 2018  / Published: July 28, 2018 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com On this episode of the Krypt we are going to explore a very complex subject, BDSM in marriage. Rules...Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are going to explore a very complex subject, BDSM in marriage.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Introduction:
                                                                                                            -We have to slightly change up our show's format here because we don't have a definition.  BDSM and marriage separately are such complex topics that intertwining can look like a minefield full of twist and turns.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -What are some of the complexities?
                                                                                                            Jealousy: No matter the dynamic of your marriage jealousy can and more than likely will arise at some point. If you our your partner is poly this may pop up more. It's important to discuss with your spouse if one or both of you become jealous.  Communication can help you find the source of this jealousy and then you can work together on alleviating the situation. Sources may surprise you.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Feeling like you don't get enough attention.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Stress
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Worry over creating emotional bonds.
                                                                                                            Do not allow yourself, your spouse, or any third or fourth party person to become disrespectful.  
                                                                                                            If you have a third person in the relationship and you see them snipping at your spouse or vice versa it's a sign of jealousy.  It's rude, can become abusive, and who wants to live with that kind of discord? Instead, discuss the incident and set the boundary of respect and communication.  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Communication
                                                                                                            This is the single most important thing in any relationship.  Communication cannot be undersold.
                                                                                                            If you are already part of the lifestyle when you get married, simply put, your partner should already know.  However, if you are married and you start getting into the lifestyle it is far better to discuss your growing interest and needs.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -I know there are quite a few people out there who are hiding their BDSM lifestyle from their spouse.  And every single person I know who is doing is this is experiencing the same two things. First, they are sure it would end their marriage if their partner found out.  Second, they live with gut-wrenching fear and guilt over what they are doing.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -If one person in the relationship is in the lifestyle.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Does the vanilla partner know?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -If your spouse does know but isn't interested in participating in the kink community or scenes, they can still be your support system.  I know several vanilla partners, not just spouses but boyfriends and girlfriends, who will just attend munches.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -It is also important to communicate and negotiate what is acceptable in your kink.  You may be dominant but if your spouse says cuddling with a submissive during aftercare crosses a boundary in your marriage, you might just have to find a stand-in for that activity.  
                                                                                                            If both are.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Scenes together
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Negotiate if this a 24/7 lifestyle, or merely in the bedroom.  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Scenes apart
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Having clearly defined boundaries will be important.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Having a family.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Majorly complex already
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -It can be healthy for your family to view your dynamic in vanilla settings.  Communication especially is prized in the BDSM lifestyle and can help teach youngsters how to approach everyday life and relationships.  
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            -Unexpected mines popping up.
                                                                                                            When you get married you agree to stand beside someone as you both learn and grow.  But part of that is that things we don't expect pop up, some good, some bad. In BDSM these mines may require a spouses support, or be caused by that spouse.  How you handle the situation...]]>3991bdsm,dom,d/s,love,marriage,relationship,relationships,respect,sex,sub,submissiveclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/hurt-vs-harm-in-bdsm-and-kink-s01e47--15267707Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            BDSM definitions for hurt and harm (as defined by Master Kuldrin)
                                                                                                            Hurt: The intentional physical and/or psychological trials that are either self-inflicted or afflicted upon a typically masochistic person consensually participating in a BDSM scene for the purpose of physical, psychological, and/or sexual pleasure.
                                                                                                            Harm: The intentional or unintentional physical and/or psychological trials that are either self-inflicted or afflicted upon a typically masochistic person consensually or nonconsensually participating in a BDSM scene that often has immediate and lasting psychological, and/or physical, and/or sexual negative effects.
                                                                                                            A brief history of hurt and harm:
                                                                                                            Flogging and self-flagellation go back thousands of years and was part of most, if not all civilization throughout history. There are cave paintings of people self-flagellating.
                                                                                                            In the late 17th century, George Jeffreys of Welsh provenance, better known as “The Hanging Judge”, obviously earned his reputation but it extended beyond the gallows. Having sentenced a young woman to lashing at the rear of a cart, he advised the executor of the punishment, “Hangman, I charge you to pay particular attention to this lady! Scourge her soundly, man. Scourge her till her blood runs down! It is Christmas, a cold time for madam to strip in! See that you warm her shoulders thoroughly.”
                                                                                                            It’s talked about in every monotheistic religion and most non monotheistic religions for both the purpose of punishment and enlightenment.
                                                                                                            The U.S. Army abolished flogging on August 5th, 1861. However, direct corporal punishments were still used “off the books” into the mid 1900’s and nondirect corporal punishments such as running, pushups, and a plethora of other physical activities commonly referred to as exercise will forever be used in militaries around the world as an effective method for punishing, training, and psychologically strengthening soldiers.
                                                                                                            Cathartic Flogging is a term coined by Master Skip Chasey wherein he defined it as "Merging the erotic with the ecstatic." It has been defined by Master Taino, the founder of MTTA and Executive Producer of Master/slave Conference as "A spiritual healing, that is erotic and sometimes a teleporting experience, created by the exchange of energy between the participants." He has also referred to it by saying it is "The exorcism of your demons."
                                                                                                            Why is hurt good for us?
                                                                                                            Hurt helps us to learn about ourselves
                                                                                                            Think of the unnamed character play by Edward Norton in the movie “Fight Club”. He had never been in a fight and had no clue of his inner strengths but it was through the fighting that he learned just how strong of a person he was. It often does the same for us...only without the imaginary friend represented by Brad Pitt’s character, Tyler Durden.
                                                                                                            Hurt helps us to experience life
                                                                                                            It has been said that life isn’t about the destination but about the journey. For some, experiencing hurt is a foreign concept or a fantasy that is exciting and intriguing. For others, it is a scary thing...and that in itself can be erotic when you think about the primal instinct. Most people are very aware of the fight or flight instinct but what teachers forgot to teach us that there is more to it than just those two things. It actually fight, flight, freeze, feed, or fuck.
                                                                                                            Another scene from “Fight Club” I love is when they are riding in the car and Edward Norton’s imaginary friend, Tyler talks him into taking his hands off the steering wheel. After they crash and flip the car, Brad Pitt excitedly points out to Edward Norton’s unnamed character that he just had a near life experience.
                                                                                                            Stimulation
                                                                                                            Psychological stimulation:
                                                                                                            Catharsis: Catharsis is a state of peace, where everything else falls away and we are simply able to process and heal. Sometimes physical hurt can help you reach this and let go of mental and emotional pain or stress. Catharsis is incredibly healing.
                                                                                                            Growth: Reaching a new peak of what you can endure as a submissive is a great learning experience. From the dominant standpoint it can also offer lessons on control, and care. Overall the hurt we share allows relationships to grow and run deeper.
                                                                                                            Sexual stimulation:
                                                                                                            Masochist: As a masochist pain from hurt is a wonderful type of stimulation. Just as with experiencing pleasure endorphins are released due to these sensations.
                                                                                                            Change
                                                                                                            From the very first time we play hurt experienced from BDSM play can bring on both short and long-term changes. As we experience, push ourselves, and grow...the major changes become fewer and farther between but the changes that have occurred become hardcoded in us as time passes. These changes are often very personal and usually, aren’t even recognized until weeks or years later...if we ever recognize them but they can be simple things like the way we present ourselves to our entire belief system about ourselves, others, or how the world works. In other words, our entire worldview and characters can benefit from BDSM hurt.
                                                                                                            Why is harm bad for us?
                                                                                                            Harm is abuse. Even though sometimes it is accidental, it is still abuse. We talked about this in great detail in the two-part series on Consent and Boundaries...which can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/135 But a brief rundown of this is pretty simple and self-explanatory. Basically, physical, psychological, and sexual harm are the things that we typically have control over whether or not they occur. If you break someone’s hard limits, which includes doing something they haven’t consented to, then you have automatically harmed them. If you’ve wrapped someone with a flogger, single tail, or other implement then you have harmed them. Yes, this one is usually made “ok” by a quick acknowledgement of what you have done, an apology, and a check in to make sure they are ok but it is important to understand that they didn’t consent to having their neck or collarbone struck with a single tail and it is up to you to practice or focus more so that you don’t do it anyone again. But regardless of the level of harm that we intentionally or unintentionally inflict on someone, all of us need to strive for perfection in this area and be hyper-aware of our actions and the effect we can have on someone.
                                                                                                            Harm Vs. Hurt: What’s the difference?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            A final note or two.
                                                                                                            I’d like to thank our Executive Producers Jeff, Jeremiah, and Sihlus, our Senior Producers Matt and Jeremy, our Producers Kainsin, Danni, and Heather, and our Jr. Producers K-2SO, Irish Mt. Dragon, and BuffaloDom84. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            And finally, I’d like to thank http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next on The Krypt we are going to go into detail about BDSM in marriage. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to because a patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com / funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
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                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15267707Mon, 16 Jul 2018 19:43:48 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: May 27, 2018 / Published: July 16, 2018 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit https://kudrinskrypt.com Rules to Love by: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity...Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            BDSM definitions for hurt and harm (as defined by Master Kuldrin)
                                                                                                            Hurt: The intentional physical and/or psychological trials that are either self-inflicted or afflicted upon a typically masochistic person consensually participating in a BDSM scene for the purpose of physical, psychological, and/or sexual pleasure.
                                                                                                            Harm: The intentional or unintentional physical and/or psychological trials that are either self-inflicted or afflicted upon a typically masochistic person consensually or nonconsensually participating in a BDSM scene that often has immediate and lasting psychological, and/or physical, and/or sexual negative effects.
                                                                                                            A brief history of hurt and harm:
                                                                                                            Flogging and self-flagellation go back thousands of years and was part of most, if not all civilization throughout history. There are cave paintings of people self-flagellating.
                                                                                                            In the late 17th century, George Jeffreys of Welsh provenance, better known as “The Hanging Judge”, obviously earned his reputation but it extended beyond the gallows. Having sentenced a young woman to lashing at the rear of a cart, he advised the executor of the punishment, “Hangman, I charge you to pay particular attention to this lady! Scourge her soundly, man. Scourge her till her blood runs down! It is Christmas, a cold time for madam to strip in! See that you warm her shoulders thoroughly.”
                                                                                                            It’s talked about in every monotheistic religion and most non monotheistic religions for both the purpose of punishment and enlightenment.
                                                                                                            The U.S. Army abolished flogging on August 5th, 1861. However, direct corporal punishments were still used “off the books” into the mid 1900’s and nondirect corporal punishments such as running, pushups, and a plethora of other physical activities commonly referred to as exercise will forever be used in militaries around the world as an effective method for punishing, training, and psychologically strengthening soldiers.
                                                                                                            Cathartic Flogging is a term coined by Master Skip Chasey wherein he defined it as "Merging the erotic with the ecstatic." It has been defined by Master Taino, the founder of MTTA and Executive Producer of Master/slave Conference as "A spiritual healing, that is erotic and sometimes a teleporting experience, created by the exchange of energy between the participants." He has also referred to it by saying it is "The exorcism of your demons."
                                                                                                            Why is hurt good for us?
                                                                                                            Hurt helps us to learn about ourselves
                                                                                                            Think of the unnamed character play by Edward Norton in the movie “Fight Club”. He had never been in a fight and had no clue of his inner strengths but it was through the fighting that he learned just how strong of a person he was. It often does the same for us...only without the imaginary friend represented by Brad Pitt’s character, Tyler Durden.
                                                                                                            Hurt helps us to experience life
                                                                                                            It has been said that life isn’t about the destination but about the journey. For some, experiencing hurt is a foreign concept or a fantasy that is exciting and intriguing. For others, it is a scary thing...and that in itself can be erotic when you think about the primal instinct. Most people are very aware of the fight or flight instinct but what teachers forgot to teach us that there is more to it than just those two things. It actually fight, flight, freeze, feed, or fuck.
                                                                                                            Another scene from “Fight Club” I love is when they are riding in the car and Edward Norton’s imaginary friend, Tyler talks him into taking his hands off the steering wheel....]]>3351abuse,bdsm,d/s,harm,hurt,love,marriage,m/s,relationship,sexclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/live-show-bdsm-masters-dommes-trainers-and-owners-s01e46--15175804
                                                                                                            The chat takes place at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/live
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            BDSM Masters, Dom/mes, Trainers, and Owners
                                                                                                            -Unhealthy types of O/p relationships
                                                                                                            -A brief talk about season 2
                                                                                                            -Bloodplay
                                                                                                            -Announcing a collaborative book with Master Kuldrin and Funsize on BDSM 101
                                                                                                            -Knife play
                                                                                                            -Needle Play
                                                                                                            -Resources for submissive training
                                                                                                            -The submissive's role in social settings
                                                                                                            -How much of a kink relationship is kinky time and how much appears vanilla.
                                                                                                            -Walking a submissive on a leash in public
                                                                                                            -Kneeling in public to present drinks or other items
                                                                                                            -Kuldrin's Krypt t-shirts, hoodies, and other merchandise
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/shop
                                                                                                            -Outing people and what is the lifestyle version of the HIPAA law (Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act) that protects our healthcare information
                                                                                                            -The two types of controlled Dominants
                                                                                                            -Kuldrin's Krypt paddles
                                                                                                            -Being intentional with your actions and not spontaneously reactionary
                                                                                                            -Jeff and Sara win a paddle!!!
                                                                                                            -Should Dom's be willing to do what ask of subs
                                                                                                            -Thanks to the show producers
                                                                                                            -Kuldrin's Weekend Intensive
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/kwi
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Medical Supplies:
                                                                                                            https://www.shopmedvet.com/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Kuldrin's Weekend Intensive:
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/kwi
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Master Arcane Interview with Master Kuldrin
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/s01e14
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Master Arcane's Book on Amazon:
                                                                                                            Igniting the Fire: The Art of Romantic Submission
                                                                                                            https://tinyurl.com/ya6q487m
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Elizabeth Cramer's Book on Amazon:
                                                                                                            Dom's Guide to submissive Training
                                                                                                            https://tinyurl.com/y78uq7u7]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15175804Mon, 02 Jul 2018 14:02:37 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCLive Date: 07/01/2018  /  Published: 07/02/2018 The chat takes place at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/live BDSM Masters, Dom/mes, Trainers, and Owners -Unhealthy types of O/p relationships -A brief talk about season 2 -Bloodplay -Announcing a...
                                                                                                            The chat takes place at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/live
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            BDSM Masters, Dom/mes, Trainers, and Owners
                                                                                                            -Unhealthy types of O/p relationships
                                                                                                            -A brief talk about season 2
                                                                                                            -Bloodplay
                                                                                                            -Announcing a collaborative book with Master Kuldrin and Funsize on BDSM 101
                                                                                                            -Knife play
                                                                                                            -Needle Play
                                                                                                            -Resources for submissive training
                                                                                                            -The submissive's role in social settings
                                                                                                            -How much of a kink relationship is kinky time and how much appears vanilla.
                                                                                                            -Walking a submissive on a leash in public
                                                                                                            -Kneeling in public to present drinks or other items
                                                                                                            -Kuldrin's Krypt t-shirts, hoodies, and other merchandise
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/shop
                                                                                                            -Outing people and what is the lifestyle version of the HIPAA law (Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act) that protects our healthcare information
                                                                                                            -The two types of controlled Dominants
                                                                                                            -Kuldrin's Krypt paddles
                                                                                                            -Being intentional with your actions and not spontaneously reactionary
                                                                                                            -Jeff and Sara win a paddle!!!
                                                                                                            -Should Dom's be willing to do what ask of subs
                                                                                                            -Thanks to the show producers
                                                                                                            -Kuldrin's Weekend Intensive
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/kwi
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Medical Supplies:
                                                                                                            https://www.shopmedvet.com/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Kuldrin's Weekend Intensive:
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/kwi
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Master Arcane Interview with Master Kuldrin
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/s01e14
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Master Arcane's Book on Amazon:
                                                                                                            Igniting the Fire: The Art of Romantic Submission
                                                                                                            https://tinyurl.com/ya6q487m
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Elizabeth Cramer's Book on Amazon:
                                                                                                            Dom's Guide to submissive Training
                                                                                                            https://tinyurl.com/y78uq7u7]]>4033bdsm,bloodplay,dominant,d/s,knifeplay,live,master,m/s,relationships,sex,slave,submissive,youtubeclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/live-show-master-w-littles-middles-collars-leather-households-s01e45--15034910
                                                                                                            1: Can a little or middle be in a dynamic with a Master?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            It depends on the protocol required by the Master and the Master's level of compassion. As someone who previously required high protocol, I have been involved in a successful dynamic with a middle and so have many others. It is not a simple answer and like all relationships, results will vary based on the people involved.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            2:When is it appropriate to give/accept a collar? What are the meanings and types of collars?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Play collars can be given or loaned to any person you play with and it is to be returned after the completion of aftercare.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Training/consideration collars are given after the relationship matures and new relationship energy has worn off. This ensures that the parties involved aren't jumping in to fast. I recommend never collaring someone prior to the six-month mark. Think of this as you would an engagement ring. It's not to be taken lightly.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Full collars are the equivalent of a wedding ring and the collaring of a slave, submissive, pet, ... is often done in a ceremony in front of close friends and/or family.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Collaring: The new fad: No self-respecting lifestyle veteran would offer or accept a collar without truly knowing the other person/people involved.  However, as of late people are offering and accepting collars after only knowing someone for a few weeks or months. Since most kinksters live daily in the vanilla world it would stand to reason that they would marry someone that quickly yet they are so eager to give or wear our version of a ring and this NEEDS to stop. It is completely invalidating the entire purpose and meaning behind the collar.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            3: How do collars and cuffs apply to a Leather Household?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Every piece of leather has a different meaning and in a Leather Household, it carries even more significance. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            4: Kuldrin's Krypt: A BDSM 101 Podcast paddle giveaway announcement, drawing and winner: -LadyKatie-
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com / funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/15034910Wed, 13 Jun 2018 06:20:27 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCLive: June 9, 2018   /  Published as Podcast: June 13, 2018 1: Can a little or middle be in a dynamic with a Master? It depends on the protocol required by the Master and the Master's level of compassion. As someone who previously required high...
                                                                                                            1: Can a little or middle be in a dynamic with a Master?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            It depends on the protocol required by the Master and the Master's level of compassion. As someone who previously required high protocol, I have been involved in a successful dynamic with a middle and so have many others. It is not a simple answer and like all relationships, results will vary based on the people involved.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            2:When is it appropriate to give/accept a collar? What are the meanings and types of collars?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Play collars can be given or loaned to any person you play with and it is to be returned after the completion of aftercare.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Training/consideration collars are given after the relationship matures and new relationship energy has worn off. This ensures that the parties involved aren't jumping in to fast. I recommend never collaring someone prior to the six-month mark. Think of this as you would an engagement ring. It's not to be taken lightly.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Full collars are the equivalent of a wedding ring and the collaring of a slave, submissive, pet, ... is often done in a ceremony in front of close friends and/or family.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Collaring: The new fad: No self-respecting lifestyle veteran would offer or accept a collar without truly knowing the other person/people involved.  However, as of late people are offering and accepting collars after only knowing someone for a few weeks or months. Since most kinksters live daily in the vanilla world it would stand to reason that they would marry someone that quickly yet they are so eager to give or wear our version of a ring and this NEEDS to stop. It is completely invalidating the entire purpose and meaning behind the collar.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            3: How do collars and cuffs apply to a Leather Household?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Every piece of leather has a different meaning and in a Leather Household, it carries even more significance. 
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            4: Kuldrin's Krypt: A BDSM 101 Podcast paddle giveaway announcement, drawing and winner: -LadyKatie-
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com / funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource]]>3060bdsm,collar,dominant,d/s,leather,little,littles,live,master,middle,middles,m/s,relationship,sex,slave,submissiveclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/personal-growth-and-evolution-in-bdsm-s01e44--14958160Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit us at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            On this episode of The Krypt, we are going to talk about personal growth and evolution in BDSM and what it means for you and what its been like for myself and Funsize...and speaking of the world greatest cohost...hello Funsize.
                                                                                                            Amii from Australia
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Definition
                                                                                                            Personal evolution is just that.  It is how we evolve and grow over time.
                                                                                                            What leads to our evolution?
                                                                                                            Learning
                                                                                                            Starting out many of us simply had the idea of a kink or activity sounding fun, but as we learned about that specific thing we started to grow and evolve.  As we learned more we found more that we wanted to learn about and the process continued.
                                                                                                            Experience
                                                                                                            One type of learning is through experience.  It's hands-on, real-world activity, and interaction that shapes the way we view the world, and ourselves.
                                                                                                            Stimulation
                                                                                                            Stimulation comes from experience.  We define what we do and do not like or want to participate in through the mental, physical, and emotional stimulation we receive.  
                                                                                                            Change
                                                                                                            Finally, change is what shows the rest of the world how learning, experiencing, and being stimulated in certain ways has affected us.  
                                                                                                            In the context of BDSM
                                                                                                            Personal evolution happens to all of us and should continue to happen throughout all our lives.  
                                                                                                            We start out as newbies in something, even when we've been part of the lifestyle for a long time.  We learn about that interest, experience it when we're ready, take in the stimulation, and it changes part of who we are.  I always think of the learning stage as being a newbie, the experience stage as becoming an amateur, the stimulation as a novice, and finally the changing stage as mastering a part of yourself.
                                                                                                            Occasionally we will hit a plateau in the cycle of growth, we get burnt out, or just have trouble finding our next interest.  It doesn't mean you can't or won't keep growing. Often a plateau is a temporary pause before you find yourself growing in leaps and bounds.  This is simply because it is not human nature to stop growing.
                                                                                                            Also sometimes being on a particular journey of personal evolution can jettison you into a frenzy.  
                                                                                                            I'd also like to mention that you should experience personal evolution through the course of your relationships too.  We learn from our partners, those experiences, and can make profound changes to ourselves.
                                                                                                            How we have evolved
                                                                                                            Funsize
                                                                                                            Startin as simply being interested, to entering into submissive in training, to starting dominant training, and finally to becoming a switch.
                                                                                                            Master Kuldrin?
                                                                                                            From incredibly shy and naive but secretly super kinky to exploring with a partner as a switch in an underground vampire scene, to developing a strong position as Dominant in a hybrid leather family with extremely high protocol, to what I am now which is currently in an ongoing state of evolution where I have relaxed some of my required protocols and enhanced the more spontaneous primal side of myself...and in doing so completely accepting that I might not be the same person when I wake up tomorrow that I am today.
                                                                                                            A final note or two.
                                                                                                            I’d like to thank our Executive Producers Jeff, Jeremiah, and Sihlus, our Senior Producers Matt and Jeremy, our Producers Kainsin, Danni, and Heather, and our Jr. Producers K-2SO, Irish Mt. Dragon, and BuffaloDom84. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            And finally, I’d like to thank http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next, on The Krypt we are going to go into detail about hurt vs harm. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com / funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14958160Sun, 03 Jun 2018 07:45:47 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: May 27, 2018   / Published: June 3, 2018 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit us at https://kudrinskrypt.com On this episode of The Krypt, we are going to talk about personal growth and evolution in BDSM and what it...Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit us at https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            On this episode of The Krypt, we are going to talk about personal growth and evolution in BDSM and what it means for you and what its been like for myself and Funsize...and speaking of the world greatest cohost...hello Funsize.
                                                                                                            Amii from Australia
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Definition
                                                                                                            Personal evolution is just that.  It is how we evolve and grow over time.
                                                                                                            What leads to our evolution?
                                                                                                            Learning
                                                                                                            Starting out many of us simply had the idea of a kink or activity sounding fun, but as we learned about that specific thing we started to grow and evolve.  As we learned more we found more that we wanted to learn about and the process continued.
                                                                                                            Experience
                                                                                                            One type of learning is through experience.  It's hands-on, real-world activity, and interaction that shapes the way we view the world, and ourselves.
                                                                                                            Stimulation
                                                                                                            Stimulation comes from experience.  We define what we do and do not like or want to participate in through the mental, physical, and emotional stimulation we receive.  
                                                                                                            Change
                                                                                                            Finally, change is what shows the rest of the world how learning, experiencing, and being stimulated in certain ways has affected us.  
                                                                                                            In the context of BDSM
                                                                                                            Personal evolution happens to all of us and should continue to happen throughout all our lives.  
                                                                                                            We start out as newbies in something, even when we've been part of the lifestyle for a long time.  We learn about that interest, experience it when we're ready, take in the stimulation, and it changes part of who we are.  I always think of the learning stage as being a newbie, the experience stage as becoming an amateur, the stimulation as a novice, and finally the changing stage as mastering a part of yourself.
                                                                                                            Occasionally we will hit a plateau in the cycle of growth, we get burnt out, or just have trouble finding our next interest.  It doesn't mean you can't or won't keep growing. Often a plateau is a temporary pause before you find yourself growing in leaps and bounds.  This is simply because it is not human nature to stop growing.
                                                                                                            Also sometimes being on a particular journey of personal evolution can jettison you into a frenzy.  
                                                                                                            I'd also like to mention that you should experience personal evolution through the course of your relationships too.  We learn from our partners, those experiences, and can make profound changes to ourselves.
                                                                                                            How we have evolved
                                                                                                            Funsize
                                                                                                            Startin as simply being interested, to entering into submissive in training, to starting dominant training, and finally to becoming a switch.
                                                                                                            Master Kuldrin?
                                                                                                            From incredibly shy and naive but secretly super kinky to exploring with a partner as a switch in an underground vampire scene, to developing a strong position as Dominant in a hybrid leather family with extremely high protocol, to what I am now which is currently in an ongoing state of evolution where I have relaxed some of my required protocols and enhanced the more spontaneous primal side of myself...and in doing so completely accepting that I might not be the same person when I wake up tomorrow that I am today.
                                                                                                            A final note or two.
                                                                                                            I’d like to thank our Executive Producers Jeff, Jeremiah, and Sihlus, our Senior Producers Matt and Jeremy, our Producers Kainsin, Danni, and Heather, and our Jr. Producers K-2SO, Irish Mt. Dragon, and BuffaloDom84. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that...]]>2198bdsm,change,d/s,evolution,growth,kink,love,m/s,relationship,sexclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-avoid-burnout-in-bdsm-s01e43--14892941Contact us: 865-268-4005 or https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Definitions
                                                                                                            What is burnout? Regardless of your position in the lifestyle you can become burnt out. Burnout is often also called Dom fatigue, or sub fatigue, and thought of as an extended drop. Honestly though you can experience a form of this even without having a partner. It is simply the feeling that you’ve had too much of the lifestyle for a time and you cannot find the energy or zeal that you used to have regularly to continue. And it’s not just a feeling of oh I’m tired after this scene, it’s a deeper more resounding, I want nothing to do with this in my life right now feeling. So for those who are really committed to the lifestyle or a particular relationship the feeling can be devastating. I really always compare burnout in the lifestyle to that of the workplace, if you don’t take a vacation for a long time you can get burnt out and the same applies here.
                                                                                                            How can the lifestyle make you jaded?
                                                                                                            Run-ins with predators and fakes.
                                                                                                            One run in can be detrimental but when you're trying to find the “one” it can be frustrating to the point of spiraling you into a sort of depressed state, which is a lot like burnout feels like.
                                                                                                            Stress
                                                                                                            Changes like a move, new job, or end/beginning of a relationship.
                                                                                                            Of course, having a relationship end can be very mentally jarring and leave you feeling empty and exhausted. But, new relationships can also do this simply because of all the training and adjusting you may find yourself doing. Some people do of course experience frenzy at the start of a relationship but for others, it can be a very daunting thing. You spend so much time looking for the right person that when you find them, you can feel like you just don't have anything left to give.
                                                                                                            Feeling stagnant.
                                                                                                            Sometimes when you've been in a relationship for a while you can start feeling burnt out, the rush of those amazing new relationship drugs has worn off and you can find yourself in a rut. Or you might find yourself doing the same thing every day or every scene and wanting to push forward but just not having it in you to do so. This kind of stagnation can cause an extreme drop that just leaves you drained.
                                                                                                            What to do when you notice this happening?
                                                                                                            Turning to your support system
                                                                                                            Taking a break
                                                                                                            It's important to self-monitor and understand what you are going through. Don't just assume that you are experiencing drop because while you are, burnout runs so much deeper, and often last longer.
                                                                                                            Communicate with those closest to you that you are taking a break in the interest of self-care, and clearly defined what you are stepping back from.
                                                                                                            Taking a break doesn't mean that you are ending a relationship, it just means that you are doing what is necessary to keep the relationship going, and to make all aspects of your life better.
                                                                                                            When taking a break in a committed relationship
                                                                                                            Communication
                                                                                                            If you're experiencing stagnation talk to your partner, you can often use this as a platform to change the way you play. Introduce new fantasies or even reintroduce old ones to create a new experience.
                                                                                                            Finding yourself to ready to get back into the lifestyle
                                                                                                            Bouncing back when you can
                                                                                                            Self-monitor, you'll know when you feel ready to get back into the lifestyle.
                                                                                                            Be aware that coming back from a break can spur you into a frenzied period.
                                                                                                            A final note or two.
                                                                                                            I’d like to thank our Executive Producers Jeff, Jeremiah, and Sihlus, our Senior Producers Matt, Jeremy, and xEmeraldxwolfx, our Producers Kainsin, Danni, and Heather, and our Jr. Producers K-2SO, Irish Mt. Dragon, and BuffaloDom84. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            And finally, I’d like to thank http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next on The Krypt we are going to dive into personal evolution. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com / funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14892941Sat, 26 May 2018 12:17:23 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: May 13, 2018 / Published: May 26, 2018 Contact us: 865-268-4005 or https://kudrinskrypt.com Rules to Love by: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity “Submission is not about...Contact us: 865-268-4005 or https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Definitions
                                                                                                            What is burnout? Regardless of your position in the lifestyle you can become burnt out. Burnout is often also called Dom fatigue, or sub fatigue, and thought of as an extended drop. Honestly though you can experience a form of this even without having a partner. It is simply the feeling that you’ve had too much of the lifestyle for a time and you cannot find the energy or zeal that you used to have regularly to continue. And it’s not just a feeling of oh I’m tired after this scene, it’s a deeper more resounding, I want nothing to do with this in my life right now feeling. So for those who are really committed to the lifestyle or a particular relationship the feeling can be devastating. I really always compare burnout in the lifestyle to that of the workplace, if you don’t take a vacation for a long time you can get burnt out and the same applies here.
                                                                                                            How can the lifestyle make you jaded?
                                                                                                            Run-ins with predators and fakes.
                                                                                                            One run in can be detrimental but when you're trying to find the “one” it can be frustrating to the point of spiraling you into a sort of depressed state, which is a lot like burnout feels like.
                                                                                                            Stress
                                                                                                            Changes like a move, new job, or end/beginning of a relationship.
                                                                                                            Of course, having a relationship end can be very mentally jarring and leave you feeling empty and exhausted. But, new relationships can also do this simply because of all the training and adjusting you may find yourself doing. Some people do of course experience frenzy at the start of a relationship but for others, it can be a very daunting thing. You spend so much time looking for the right person that when you find them, you can feel like you just don't have anything left to give.
                                                                                                            Feeling stagnant.
                                                                                                            Sometimes when you've been in a relationship for a while you can start feeling burnt out, the rush of those amazing new relationship drugs has worn off and you can find yourself in a rut. Or you might find yourself doing the same thing every day or every scene and wanting to push forward but just not having it in you to do so. This kind of stagnation can cause an extreme drop that just leaves you drained.
                                                                                                            What to do when you notice this happening?
                                                                                                            Turning to your support system
                                                                                                            Taking a break
                                                                                                            It's important to self-monitor and understand what you are going through. Don't just assume that you are experiencing drop because while you are, burnout runs so much deeper, and often last longer.
                                                                                                            Communicate with those closest to you that you are taking a break in the interest of self-care, and clearly defined what you are stepping back from.
                                                                                                            Taking a break doesn't mean that you are ending a relationship, it just means that you are doing what is necessary to keep the relationship going, and to make all aspects of your life better.
                                                                                                            When taking a break in a committed relationship
                                                                                                            Communication
                                                                                                            If you're experiencing stagnation talk to your partner, you can often use this as a platform to change the way you play. Introduce new fantasies or even reintroduce old ones to create a new experience.
                                                                                                            Finding yourself to ready to get back into the lifestyle
                                                                                                            Bouncing back when you can
                                                                                                            Self-monitor, you'll know when you feel ready to get back into the lifestyle.
                                                                                                            Be aware that coming back from a break can spur you into a frenzied period.
                                                                                                            A final note or two.
                                                                                                            I’d like to thank our Executive Producers Jeff, Jeremiah, and Sihlus, our Senior Producers Matt, Jeremy, and xEmeraldxwolfx,...]]>1912bdsm,burnout,dominance,d/s,love,master,relationship,sex,slave,submissionclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-old-guard-history-kink-protocol-and-bdsm-s01e42--14835828865-268-4005 or https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            New schedule: With Funsize every other week Interviews for the off weeks
                                                                                                            Definition of the Old Guard: A group that outlined a lot of the etiquette and traditions of modern BDSM through their practices in a subtle military style format post World War Two.
                                                                                                            History: Now we would like to note that while we typically talk about BDSM in a worldview, or as much as we can, the Old Guard history as we know it is something that is very American. We’re definitely interested in how these things have evolved throughout the rest of the world, and Funsize is chomping at the bit to dive deeper into that subject, but for today we are just focusing on the American side of this topic.
                                                                                                            We’ve talked a bit about this before, they were originally World War Two veterans who had returned from the war with a sense of brotherhood, protocols, and their own system of communication. Quite a few of them came back in the leather bomber jackets, which is where the leather part of leather culture comes from, and they began their journey. These men came back from the horrors of war, years away from their homes and had discovered parts of themselves, parts of their sexuality, which wasn’t seen as being okay during that time period. The protocols of the Old Guard evolved as a way to express those things and to protect these men.
                                                                                                            So we know where the communication tactics come from, subtle signals announcing who was who and their relationships etc, which we’ll dive into a bit more in a minute. But what about the sexual practices that are rooted in kink? I say kink here and not BDSM because there is a big difference. Kink is just that, it’s the actual physical bondage, the floggings, the animal play- those kinds of things are kinks. BDSM goes deeper into our mental and emotional sides, beyond just physically consenting to our kinks. It is more, and those kinks some of these men discovered come from the places and histories of the people these veterans encountered during their travels. BDSM has existed in some format throughout the world for millennia. You can trace some roots back to ancient Romans, Egyptians, and even throughout Asia. And then we have the works of Marquis de Sade in 17th century France, which I’m sure a lot of these veterans came across as quite a few of them ended up in, or traveling through those western regions of Europe. BDSM is by far not a new practice to the world, so it’s not surprising that these men found it’s traces, and those who were interested in those things easily incorporated them into their personal protocols.
                                                                                                            I think it should be noted that while we are talking about the history of the Old Guard in context to BDSM that not every person who was part of this tradition even practiced what we would identify as kink. They had a system of who was top and who was bottom, they had etiquette as far as communicating goes, but they didn’t necessarily have scenes with whips and floggers, and pet play, or any of those things. BDSM has certainly evolved in the last century but these are our modern roots.
                                                                                                            But it’s not just that simple as men returning home in the mid-1940’s and creating this subculture. They came home to a very puritanical America, where they were expected to have wives and jobs, and create families. They had to be very subtle and very secretive about their sexuality for a long time to come. They created the framework of their protocols and etiquettes but it wasn’t until the 1960’s and 70s after the Korean and Vietnam wars that the Old Guard truly filled out that framework, and began spilling over into what we identify it as today.
                                                                                                            During the 60’s and 70’s we saw a lot of civil rights movements, and on more personal scales, personal rights movements. There was a whole culture of people who wanted to explore themselves, and the world around them, and weren’t quite happy with how things had been for a very long time. They were having personal and sexual revolutions. But you also had this giant stigma that homosexuality was still very wrong. So these new veterans coming back from the Korean and Vietnam wars had this basis of the military-style hierarchy combined with the need to explore and have their sexual revolution and they came home, and many of them started to exhibit the same habits of the World War Two veterans, the subtle communications, the protocols, and the need to be able to have their own subculture. The older met the younger and there was a blending of ideals, of protocols, and the subculture evolved a bit more.
                                                                                                            This is where we really see leather culture starting to be viewed as a whole, there were the biker gangs, the secret clubs, and also the very real fear of being discovered. And what’s more is it wasn’t just men who were veterans hiding their homosexuality anymore. There were also women getting involved in these things. There were the people who were homosexual and lesbian, but there were people who were straight getting involved more and more into this subculture as they explored parts of themselves that didn’t quite meet the greater status quo of the country at that time. This is really the point in which BDSM, the protocols, the etiquette, the top/bottom relationships, met with the kink aspect on a grander more recognizable scale.
                                                                                                            During the 1980’s we start to see the slow divide between the Old Guard and the biker gangs. More of the leather clubs began to arise and the subculture began to define itself a bit more clearly, to the point where if you were part the Old Guard you could and would follow the cues and etiquette signifying this, and if you weren’t then you would never be part of this leatherman culture. More people who were leathermen but not biker’s began to filter in and the divide between the two became more solidified. From there the culture evolved more and now we have the New Guard arising which we’ll touch on briefly in a moment.
                                                                                                            Protocols
                                                                                                            For now let's talk about the more prevalent protocols that came from the Old Guard, what they were or are, what they signify, and why they will either continue on or evolve as BDSM culture evolves.
                                                                                                            Chaps indicate more commitment than Levi's, and leather pants more commitment than chaps, especially when worn consistently.
                                                                                                            This goes back to how we view BDSM fashion, even today. We see a newbie come in their blue jeans and we go okay, they’re newer, they may only be looking to scene, or learn, or whatever. Then we see someone like Master Kuldrin, yes I’m using you as an example, and he’ll show up to an event with his leather on and it signals to us that this is someone serious about what they are doing, and about who they are in this community and culture. It’s still a very real protocol and communication signal and honestly likely will be for quite some time, however, I personally do see this as being one of the traditions that relaxes a bit more as BDSM evolves in this post 50 shades world.
                                                                                                            Bottoms may not own collars unless a particular Top has allowed that bottom to be the custodian of the Top's collar. A bottom wearing a collar is a slave and belongs to the owner of the collar who, presumably, has the keys. Other Tops are not to engage a collared bottom in conversation, but other bottoms may do so. Should such a relationship end, the collar must be returned to the Top.
                                                                                                            It still stands that tops provide the collars for bottoms, it is theirs to give, and the bottoms to maintain. While the bottom isn’t necessarily a slave, and the terms of top and bottom have expanded to mean just top/bottom, or top/Dom/Master and bottom/sub/slave or pet the idea is still the same. Especially in the case of high protocol settings you still the rule of not speaking or approaching another’s bottom without permission first. So in a lot of ways, this protocol isn’t as rigid as it once was, but it’s certainly not going away anytime soon.
                                                                                                            Tops and experienced bottoms should be accorded higher respect and deference unless and until they behave rudely--all are expected to observe rules of social courtesy-bad manners are inexcusable and can lower one's status in the Scene.
                                                                                                            It’s true that the longer you’re around, and the more you participate the better the vetting is the more people you will have access to, and the more events you can attend. This comes from experience and also how others in the community perceive you. Courtesy and respect still go a long way, and most in the community won’t bother with you if you’re rude.
                                                                                                            Preliminary social contact should be on the formal side.
                                                                                                            You’ll notice this quite a bit as you travel through the BDSM community, people calling each other Sir, or Miss, or just behaving more formally than what we would otherwise behave or witness in the vanilla community, especially at first, or when we first encounter someone new to us.
                                                                                                            Experience being equal, Tops lead the conversation.
                                                                                                            For complete show notes: https:kuldrinskrypt.com/142]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14835828Sat, 19 May 2018 19:47:52 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: 4/29/2018 / Published: 5/19/2018 865-268-4005 or https://kudrinskrypt.com Rules to Love by: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity “Submission is not about authority and it’s...865-268-4005 or https://kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            New schedule: With Funsize every other week Interviews for the off weeks
                                                                                                            Definition of the Old Guard: A group that outlined a lot of the etiquette and traditions of modern BDSM through their practices in a subtle military style format post World War Two.
                                                                                                            History: Now we would like to note that while we typically talk about BDSM in a worldview, or as much as we can, the Old Guard history as we know it is something that is very American. We’re definitely interested in how these things have evolved throughout the rest of the world, and Funsize is chomping at the bit to dive deeper into that subject, but for today we are just focusing on the American side of this topic.
                                                                                                            We’ve talked a bit about this before, they were originally World War Two veterans who had returned from the war with a sense of brotherhood, protocols, and their own system of communication. Quite a few of them came back in the leather bomber jackets, which is where the leather part of leather culture comes from, and they began their journey. These men came back from the horrors of war, years away from their homes and had discovered parts of themselves, parts of their sexuality, which wasn’t seen as being okay during that time period. The protocols of the Old Guard evolved as a way to express those things and to protect these men.
                                                                                                            So we know where the communication tactics come from, subtle signals announcing who was who and their relationships etc, which we’ll dive into a bit more in a minute. But what about the sexual practices that are rooted in kink? I say kink here and not BDSM because there is a big difference. Kink is just that, it’s the actual physical bondage, the floggings, the animal play- those kinds of things are kinks. BDSM goes deeper into our mental and emotional sides, beyond just physically consenting to our kinks. It is more, and those kinks some of these men discovered come from the places and histories of the people these veterans encountered during their travels. BDSM has existed in some format throughout the world for millennia. You can trace some roots back to ancient Romans, Egyptians, and even throughout Asia. And then we have the works of Marquis de Sade in 17th century France, which I’m sure a lot of these veterans came across as quite a few of them ended up in, or traveling through those western regions of Europe. BDSM is by far not a new practice to the world, so it’s not surprising that these men found it’s traces, and those who were interested in those things easily incorporated them into their personal protocols.
                                                                                                            I think it should be noted that while we are talking about the history of the Old Guard in context to BDSM that not every person who was part of this tradition even practiced what we would identify as kink. They had a system of who was top and who was bottom, they had etiquette as far as communicating goes, but they didn’t necessarily have scenes with whips and floggers, and pet play, or any of those things. BDSM has certainly evolved in the last century but these are our modern roots.
                                                                                                            But it’s not just that simple as men returning home in the mid-1940’s and creating this subculture. They came home to a very puritanical America, where they were expected to have wives and jobs, and create families. They had to be very subtle and very secretive about their sexuality for a long time to come. They created the framework of their protocols and etiquettes but it wasn’t until the 1960’s and 70s after the Korean and Vietnam wars that the Old Guard truly filled...]]>2964bdsm,dominant,d/s,guard,history,love,master,m/s,old,relationship,respect,sex,slave,submissive,traditionclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/polyamory-s01e41--14680962Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            What is polyamory?
                                                                                                            Broken down into its two parts, poly simply means many, and amor means loves or lovers. Polyamory is the practice of wanting or having more than one intimate partnership, with the knowledge and awareness of all parties involved.
                                                                                                            Types
                                                                                                            Sometimes those who are polyamorous who have established committed relationships with one or more of their partners will refer to the relationship as an open relationship. When dating this means that the parties involved have consented to one or both of them dating others. Open marriages also occur in which the spouse or spouses have agreed to the same. This can occur within the BDSM lifestyle when a polyamorous person has play partners, Dominants, or submissives along with any other forms of romantic partnership including vanilla ones.
                                                                                                            Open
                                                                                                            If all partners have consented to seeking out or have intimate relationships then the relationship is known as an open polyamorous relationship.
                                                                                                            Open/closed
                                                                                                            If only one party of the primary relationship, marriage for example, is polyamorous then this is often what's known as an open-closed relationship.
                                                                                                            This can happen in a BDSM relationship when a Dom may have a primary submissive that has consented not to scene with others, while the Dom still chooses to, or in the case of harems.
                                                                                                            Harems are simply top/bottom relationships in which typically the top has several bottoms which are committed in some way to serving that top regularly.
                                                                                                            Closed
                                                                                                            A closed polyamorous relationship is what happens when the partners have all consented to stop seeking other relationships outside of those that have been formed. I like to think of this as an extension upon traditional monogamy because the commitments are there though the relationship contains more than two parties.
                                                                                                            Morality vs traditional learnings
                                                                                                            Monogamist can look at polyamorous relationships a bit negatively. They often consider polyamorist as cheaters or simply don't understand how we do it. There's a huge difference between being a moral polyamorist and a cheater. Polyamory is something to be communicated openly and honestly. Cheaters don't communicate what they are doing and that's a huge difference.
                                                                                                            Polyamory is something that certain people need. These relationships are created through honest communication and hard work. And for those who are thinking of jealousy, yes it can occur but just like in any other relationship it just takes work to overcome.
                                                                                                            The myth that everyone who is part of the BDSM lifestyle is polyamorous.
                                                                                                            Many newbies can end up coming into the lifestyle believing they must practice polyamory. Coming into BDSM you may feel like you have to separate your vanilla and kinky life. In this way you may have a vanilla partner while having a BDSM partner as well. It may work for you but if you are not a polyamorist problems will arise and you may end up ruining all the relationships you have built. If you're a monogamist then be a monogamist, you can find a way to have all your needs met if you communicate with your partner.
                                                                                                            New Relationship Energy (NRE)
                                                                                                            Finally we would like to go over the subject of NRE. When new relationships are formed our bodies will send out a rush of chemicals. Oxytocin and dopamine give you a rush, making your heart pound, and giving you a light headed feeling. All these feelings are what happens when you fall in love, not that every relationship contains this emotional connection. In polyamory NRE can result in ignoring your other relationships for a time, or send you into a bout of frenzy. Communication is often the key to overcoming these issues and creating successful relationships. For more information on NRE check out the kinky cast season 2, episode 9 as they covered an amazing amount of information on the subject.
                                                                                                            A final note or two.
                                                                                                            I’d like to thank our Executive Producer Jeremiah, Our Senior Producer Matt, and our Jr. Producers K-2SO, Irish Mt. Dragon and The Accidental Trucker. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/supportme to get that information.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hard bound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            And finally, I’d like to thank http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
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                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14680962Wed, 02 May 2018 05:42:32 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: March 11, 2018 / Published: May 2, 2018 Rules to Love by: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about...Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            What is polyamory?
                                                                                                            Broken down into its two parts, poly simply means many, and amor means loves or lovers. Polyamory is the practice of wanting or having more than one intimate partnership, with the knowledge and awareness of all parties involved.
                                                                                                            Types
                                                                                                            Sometimes those who are polyamorous who have established committed relationships with one or more of their partners will refer to the relationship as an open relationship. When dating this means that the parties involved have consented to one or both of them dating others. Open marriages also occur in which the spouse or spouses have agreed to the same. This can occur within the BDSM lifestyle when a polyamorous person has play partners, Dominants, or submissives along with any other forms of romantic partnership including vanilla ones.
                                                                                                            Open
                                                                                                            If all partners have consented to seeking out or have intimate relationships then the relationship is known as an open polyamorous relationship.
                                                                                                            Open/closed
                                                                                                            If only one party of the primary relationship, marriage for example, is polyamorous then this is often what's known as an open-closed relationship.
                                                                                                            This can happen in a BDSM relationship when a Dom may have a primary submissive that has consented not to scene with others, while the Dom still chooses to, or in the case of harems.
                                                                                                            Harems are simply top/bottom relationships in which typically the top has several bottoms which are committed in some way to serving that top regularly.
                                                                                                            Closed
                                                                                                            A closed polyamorous relationship is what happens when the partners have all consented to stop seeking other relationships outside of those that have been formed. I like to think of this as an extension upon traditional monogamy because the commitments are there though the relationship contains more than two parties.
                                                                                                            Morality vs traditional learnings
                                                                                                            Monogamist can look at polyamorous relationships a bit negatively. They often consider polyamorist as cheaters or simply don't understand how we do it. There's a huge difference between being a moral polyamorist and a cheater. Polyamory is something to be communicated openly and honestly. Cheaters don't communicate what they are doing and that's a huge difference.
                                                                                                            Polyamory is something that certain people need. These relationships are created through honest communication and hard work. And for those who are thinking of jealousy, yes it can occur but just like in any other relationship it just takes work to overcome.
                                                                                                            The myth that everyone who is part of the BDSM lifestyle is polyamorous.
                                                                                                            Many newbies can end up coming into the lifestyle believing they must practice polyamory. Coming into BDSM you may feel like you have to separate your vanilla and kinky life. In this way you may have a vanilla partner while having a BDSM partner as well. It may work for you but if you are not a polyamorist problems will arise and you may end up ruining all the relationships you have built. If you're a monogamist then be a monogamist, you can find a way to have all your needs met if you communicate with your partner.
                                                                                                            New Relationship Energy (NRE)
                                                                                                            Finally we would like to go over the subject of NRE. When new relationships are formed our bodies will send out a rush of chemicals. Oxytocin and dopamine give you a rush, making your heart pound, and giving you a light headed feeling. All these feelings are what happens when you fall in love, not that every relationship contains this emotional connection. In polyamory NRE can result in ignoring your other relationships for a time, or send you into a bout of frenzy. Communication is...]]>2499bdsm,d/s,kink,love,poly,polyamory,relationship,sexclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/listener-q-a-bdsm-play-parties-dungeons-ds-roles-s01e40--14569312Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of experience to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are going to but first, I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Listener Questions
                                                                                                            FrostBiter: (Primal)
                                                                                                            Can one be a primal and still be a sub and be trained?
                                                                                                            NikNakPW: (Ending a scene)
                                                                                                            How is a scene that is naturally coming to an end called? Is there a different word used to let both the sub/bottom and anyone watching know that the scene has ended/is ending? Or is formally ending a scene generally reserved for performances?
                                                                                                            Lora: (Play Party Questions)
                                                                                                            What kind of food should I really bring? Are people going to go all out and be ultra creative or can I just bring something generic like chips and dip? I’ve spent hours on Pinterest looking for simple but hopefully creative food ideas.
                                                                                                            What do I wear? I have some clothes that might be ok to wear but what if they are too revealing or if no one else is wearing something like that? I have my corset but is that gonna be to cliché? Would I even be comfortable wearing that with who knows how many people there? Can I wear regular clothes? WOuld jeans and tshirt be ok or if I'm not wearing kink wear should I dress up really nice or would that be out of place?
                                                                                                            While I kinda figure what kinds of things I'll see just from being at munches and hearing people talk, I’m still nervous about what kind of scenes there will actually be. Would anyone be upset if I walked away while they were doing stuff if it freaked me out? Would I be expected to participate in some level? If I got there and was too overwhelmed would it be rude to leave? Should I have a buddy for my first play party?
                                                                                                            DonniMeow: (BDSM Resources)
                                                                                                            Can you speak resources for clothing and jewelry for those in the BDSM community .... such as collars, etc, also places for dungeons excursions
                                                                                                            L F: (A Variety of Questions)
                                                                                                            I noticed that you do not use whips. Is there some particular reason? Is it a bad idea for me (sub bottom) to bottom for whips?
                                                                                                            Is it appropriate to ask a potential top to read my profile before we play?
                                                                                                            What are your requirements for a sub that make them so hard to find?
                                                                                                            I noticed “oxygen deprivation” and “blood letting” as specialties of yours. My (possibly incorrect) understanding is that neither of these qualify as “safe”. Where does my mistake lie?
                                                                                                            In the case of a dark party, what should one do if something went wrong (consent violation, safety problem, etc) that one does not consider capable of handling oneself, and needs to be addressed after the fact?
                                                                                                            I have been practicing with my flogger on a pillow! Right now I can hit the target pretty accurately if it is lying down and I try to hit with the sides. With the ends on a standing target I would say I am just over 50% accurate. At what point should I look for someone to train me in person?
                                                                                                            Subtweet: (Travel Bags)
                                                                                                            Had a random thought listening to episode 28 about traveling with the flogger. There are tail bags for fake horse tails (like... real life, competition/show horses) that are designed to hold something that is designed in some ways like a flogger. It keeps the tail from tangling, pads/protects it in some cases, and can be hung itself with the tail (or flogger) still tucked inside. Often theybhave individual sleeves that keep the fibers laying down in the correct direction. I have some links below for example.
                                                                                                            https://www.sstack.com/westerntack/Dura-Tech-Deluxe-Fake-Tail-Bag-1-Tail/?gclid=Cj0KCQiAlpDQBRDmARIsAAW6-DP8rF7DhKCP1IOUR2foTWdj3CyU3hA56JamGecZpOwjO4pU4ol-V2QaAsJ_EALw_wcB
                                                                                                            https://www.sstack.com/product/dura-tech-deluxe-fake-tail-bag-2-tail/
                                                                                                            https://www.doversaddlery.com/dovers-tail-bag/p/W1-C10481A/?eid=X18A00U1000&utm_source=google&utm_medium=PLA&mrkgcl=1131&mrkgadid=3206187183&rkg_id=h-9c8cf92b7cd71263e54dda1e794cda69_t-1510237192&utm_campaign=NB_PLA_Retail_Mid-Atlantic_GOOG&adpos=1o5&creative=193718291935&device=m&matchtype=&network=g
                                                                                                            Digital_Fox: (Terminology)
                                                                                                            When my wife and I were first considering going to an education station we talked about how we wanted to act and what I wanted her to call me. I told her to call me master (which she liked) but to only use that term for me. Anyone else can be Sir, Daddy, Mister or what-have-you. Maybe I'm overthinking this, but would that be a faux pas in the community? Or is that really only if I had master in my screen name or demanded other people call me that?
                                                                                                            A final note or two.
                                                                                                            I’d like to thank our Executive Producer Jeremiah, Our Senior Producer Matt, and our Jr. Producers K-2SO, Irish Mt. Dragon and The Accidental Trucker. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/supportme to get that information.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hard bound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            And finally, I’d like to thank http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next on The Krypt we are going to dive into . In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for shownotes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to because a patreon supporter.
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                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com / funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
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                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14569312Wed, 18 Apr 2018 14:59:09 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded: Feb 18,2018 / Published: April 18, 2018 Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of experience to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your...Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of experience to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are going to but first, I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Listener Questions
                                                                                                            FrostBiter: (Primal)
                                                                                                            Can one be a primal and still be a sub and be trained?
                                                                                                            NikNakPW: (Ending a scene)
                                                                                                            How is a scene that is naturally coming to an end called? Is there a different word used to let both the sub/bottom and anyone watching know that the scene has ended/is ending? Or is formally ending a scene generally reserved for performances?
                                                                                                            Lora: (Play Party Questions)
                                                                                                            What kind of food should I really bring? Are people going to go all out and be ultra creative or can I just bring something generic like chips and dip? I’ve spent hours on Pinterest looking for simple but hopefully creative food ideas.
                                                                                                            What do I wear? I have some clothes that might be ok to wear but what if they are too revealing or if no one else is wearing something like that? I have my corset but is that gonna be to cliché? Would I even be comfortable wearing that with who knows how many people there? Can I wear regular clothes? WOuld jeans and tshirt be ok or if I'm not wearing kink wear should I dress up really nice or would that be out of place?
                                                                                                            While I kinda figure what kinds of things I'll see just from being at munches and hearing people talk, I’m still nervous about what kind of scenes there will actually be. Would anyone be upset if I walked away while they were doing stuff if it freaked me out? Would I be expected to participate in some level? If I got there and was too overwhelmed would it be rude to leave? Should I have a buddy for my first play party?
                                                                                                            DonniMeow: (BDSM Resources)
                                                                                                            Can you speak resources for clothing and jewelry for those in the BDSM community .... such as collars, etc, also places for dungeons excursions
                                                                                                            L F: (A Variety of Questions)
                                                                                                            I noticed that you do not use whips. Is there some particular reason? Is it a bad idea for me (sub bottom) to bottom for whips?
                                                                                                            Is it appropriate to ask a potential top to read my profile before we play?
                                                                                                            What are your requirements for a sub that make them so hard to find?
                                                                                                            I noticed “oxygen deprivation” and “blood letting” as specialties of yours. My (possibly incorrect) understanding is that neither of these qualify as “safe”. Where does my mistake lie?
                                                                                                            In the case of a dark party, what should one do if something went wrong (consent violation, safety problem, etc) that one does not consider capable of handling oneself, and needs to be addressed after the fact?
                                                                                                            I have been practicing with my flogger on a pillow! Right now I can hit the target pretty accurately if it is lying down and I try to hit with the sides. With the ends on a standing target I would say I am just over 50% accurate. At what point should I look for someone to train me in person?
                                                                                                            Subtweet: (Travel Bags)
                                                                                                            Had a random thought listening to episode 28 about traveling with the flogger. There are tail bags for fake horse tails (like... real life, competition/show horses) that are designed to hold something that is designed in some ways like a flogger. It keeps the tail from tangling, pads/protects it in some cases, and can be hung itself with the tail (or flogger) still tucked inside. Often theybhave individual sleeves that keep the fibers laying down in the correct direction. I have some links...]]>2680bdsm,d/s,dungeon,fashion,love,m/s,playparties,playparty,q&a,relationship,sex,sexedclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bdsm-protectors-s01e39--14537215Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of experience to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are going to discuss Protectors but first, I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            What are Protectors?
                                                                                                            A usually dominant person who watches over another, their charge, to ensure their safety when interacting in the kink community. They act both online and off, at munches, or even occasionally during scenes to ensure that the charges limits and wishes are upheld.
                                                                                                            Why is it important?
                                                                                                            Protectors assist with navigating any dangers the charge has asked them to watch for and keeping away predators, abusers, and suspicious persons. They can also help with mediating negotiations and scenes before things turn harmful.
                                                                                                            Duties
                                                                                                            Taking on the title of Protector means you will have several duties in looking after your charge.
                                                                                                            Negotiate a scene for your charge. Sometimes protectors have to step in, especially if their charge has frenzy to help enforce practical limits for a scene.
                                                                                                            Give permission on specific play partners. They can act as a secondary advisor during the vetting process.
                                                                                                            Act as a safety call for your charge, or attend those meetings in person.
                                                                                                            Act as a transition dominant to a slave who has recently become unowned. This is more traditional for the Protector role in the leather community.
                                                                                                            Watch over the submissive of another dominant at events.
                                                                                                            When to seek out a Protector?
                                                                                                            If you're new, if you're shy,going through frenzy, if you're having trouble with abusers or predators, or you just have a certain goal in mind but are having trouble weeding out everyone else, you might feel the need to seek out a Protector. It doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you. It doesn’t mean you can’t say no, or that you’re weak, helpless, or stupid as many have come to believe. It just means that you recognize that you sometimes need the support of others and have sought it out.
                                                                                                            How to find one.
                                                                                                            Ask a dominant friend, talk to other charges for recommendations, some Protectors will have more than one charge at a time.
                                                                                                            When you find someone willing and trustworthy of being your Protector you will need to negotiate what you need your Protector to do. Just as you would negotiate any other relationship you need to define the terms of this relationship as well.
                                                                                                            Approaching a Protector and their charge.
                                                                                                            Approaching someone else's’ charge should not make you nervous, if you have good intentions. If anything you can take it as a safety net for both you and that charge.
                                                                                                            Approaching in person when you know someone has a Protector means that you first ask the Protector if you may interact in a conversation, negotiation, etc with the submissive charge. Be respectful and honest about your intentions. If you don't know, be respectful, as you always should, and ask questions to determine just what that protection entails.
                                                                                                            On Fetlife you will often see that someone is under the protection of someone else, or protecting another. When you encounter this and wish to spark up a conversation with the charge, simply respectful request permission for the contact with the Protector. Answer any questions they may have and be honest.
                                                                                                            The bad reputation and sadly low opinion of Protectors and their charges.
                                                                                                            Your Protector Is Hurting You- the essay. (https://xcbdsm.com/2015/12/28/protector/)
                                                                                                            This essay makes several points about why not to have a Protector, or why having a Protector is bad.
                                                                                                            Those points are that if you are a Protector or the charge of one, others simply will not approach you. The article goes in to how Protectors are robbing their charges of the communicating with others in the BDSM community, by scaring off others or limiting the way they communicate.
                                                                                                            The second point this article makes is that Protectors only use the title as a way to isolate the submissive in order gain their trust and manipulate them. The idea here is that Protectors are actually acting as predators and coercing their charges into sexual dynamics. While this is true in some cases, its part of what's giving Protectors a bad rep overall. Not all Protectors are like this. There are bad apples who will take anything good and try to spoil it, that's as true here as it is anywhere.
                                                                                                            The final point is that charges don't or shouldn't need a Protector. It makes out that someone who needs a Protector has something wrong with them, or that they're weak, unwilling or unable to say no. What it doesn't say it that they may want to say yes but be unsure of what their limits should be due to inexperience or frenzy. It doesn't say that we all need to feel safe, as a basic human need, and approaching dangerous situations; which BDSM is, kicks in that basic instinct in us. It also doesn't say that some people, the abusers, predators, or just disrespectful people don't always take no as an answer. Some will keep pressuring, and abusing others. I've been part of this lifestyle for years, I'm clearly strong minded and capable and there are still moments when I want to seek out a protector myself.
                                                                                                            All in all this article holds many of the negative aspects of what people think of when they see the title of Protector, and I would very much like to shatter these illusions.
                                                                                                            Conclusion
                                                                                                            Protectors are an important part of this lifestyle and deserve more respect than they are given. We need to get back what Protectors are supposed to be and shrug off the assumptions that they are predators. But we also need to find a way to cull those who actually are.
                                                                                                            A final note or two.
                                                                                                            I’d like to thank our Executive Producer Jeremiah, Our Senior Producer Matt, and our Jr. Producers K-2SO, Irish Mt. Dragon and The Accidental Trucker. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/supportme to get that information.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hard bound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            And finally, I’d like to thank http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next on The Krypt we are going to dive into . In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to because a patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com / funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14537215Sat, 14 Apr 2018 08:40:40 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded 1/28/2018 / Published 4/14/2018 Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of experience to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You...Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of experience to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are going to discuss Protectors but first, I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            What are Protectors?
                                                                                                            A usually dominant person who watches over another, their charge, to ensure their safety when interacting in the kink community. They act both online and off, at munches, or even occasionally during scenes to ensure that the charges limits and wishes are upheld.
                                                                                                            Why is it important?
                                                                                                            Protectors assist with navigating any dangers the charge has asked them to watch for and keeping away predators, abusers, and suspicious persons. They can also help with mediating negotiations and scenes before things turn harmful.
                                                                                                            Duties
                                                                                                            Taking on the title of Protector means you will have several duties in looking after your charge.
                                                                                                            Negotiate a scene for your charge. Sometimes protectors have to step in, especially if their charge has frenzy to help enforce practical limits for a scene.
                                                                                                            Give permission on specific play partners. They can act as a secondary advisor during the vetting process.
                                                                                                            Act as a safety call for your charge, or attend those meetings in person.
                                                                                                            Act as a transition dominant to a slave who has recently become unowned. This is more traditional for the Protector role in the leather community.
                                                                                                            Watch over the submissive of another dominant at events.
                                                                                                            When to seek out a Protector?
                                                                                                            If you're new, if you're shy,going through frenzy, if you're having trouble with abusers or predators, or you just have a certain goal in mind but are having trouble weeding out everyone else, you might feel the need to seek out a Protector. It doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you. It doesn’t mean you can’t say no, or that you’re weak, helpless, or stupid as many have come to believe. It just means that you recognize that you sometimes need the support of others and have sought it out.
                                                                                                            How to find one.
                                                                                                            Ask a dominant friend, talk to other charges for recommendations, some Protectors will have more than one charge at a time.
                                                                                                            When you find someone willing and trustworthy of being your Protector you will need to negotiate what you need your Protector to do. Just as you would negotiate any other relationship you need to define the terms of this relationship as well.
                                                                                                            Approaching a Protector and their charge.
                                                                                                            Approaching someone else's’ charge should not make you nervous, if you have good intentions. If anything you can take it as a safety net for both you and that charge.
                                                                                                            Approaching in person when you know someone has a Protector means that you first ask the Protector if you may interact in a conversation, negotiation, etc with the submissive charge. Be respectful and honest about your intentions. If you don't know, be respectful, as you always should, and ask questions to determine just what that protection entails.
                                                                                                            On Fetlife you will often see that someone is under the protection of someone else, or protecting another. When you encounter this and wish to spark up a conversation with the charge, simply respectful request permission for the contact with the Protector. Answer any questions they may have and be honest.
                                                                                                            The bad reputation and sadly low opinion of Protectors and their charges.
                                                                                                            Your Protector Is Hurting You- the essay. (305450,bdsm,consent,dom,dominant,domme,d/s,fifty,love,protector,relationship,respect,sex,shades,sub,submissiveclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bdsm-dungeons-s01e38--14452426BDSM Dungeons-S01E38
                                                                                                            Recorded January 21, 2018 / Published April 3rd, 2018
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of experience to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are going to talk about dungeons but first, I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            What are dungeons?
                                                                                                            Dungeons are generally considered as any space with BDSM equipment, used as a play space. They can also be used for classes, meetings, or events. They can be either public, open to a particular community; or private, belonging to a certain person or persons.
                                                                                                            How to find a dungeon in your area?
                                                                                                            There are a few different ways to approach this. Google, is a great place to start if you live in a larger city. Many professional dungeons are listed this way.
                                                                                                            You can also get to know people in your community and often will find your way to a public dungeon this way. And depending on what you’re looking for, some private dungeons as well.
                                                                                                            If you can't seem to find the dungeon of your dreams you can also make your own.
                                                                                                            Making your own
                                                                                                            Private- To make your own private dungeon all you really need is space and imagination. You can build your own furnishings and really do anything you want to meet your needs.
                                                                                                            Public- Just like the case of a private dungeon you need space, many who are choosing to open a public space will use a home, business space, or barn even. Any open space that can provide discretion and feed into fantasies will usually work. It’s also important to set up a set of house rules as the owner and host. Among these, you can decide what activities you’ll allow, tools you’ll have on hand, and any other pertinent details.
                                                                                                            Soundproofing can help especially if the dungeon happens to be close to other businesses or residence. Whether you have a public or private space you can easily add soundproofing to nearly any space with installation, or by adding acoustic panels to the walls. You can also soundproof doors and windows using soundproofing rubber molding around the door. There are also tons of diy projects available to try.
                                                                                                            Liabilities
                                                                                                            Non-disclosure agreements are legal agreements which help to protect confidential information. I’ve gone to a few a hotel styled public dungeons in which I had to sign a non-disclosure at check-in, and it’s always made me feel safer to do so.
                                                                                                            Insurances. Homeowners insurance is there to protect your property and keep an attorney on retainer should you find yourself being sued for injury on your property. Other insurances you should have whether you’re planning to host a public or private dungeon are fire, and water damage. These are worth it especially if you are going to have any form of fire play or water bondage.
                                                                                                            Liabilities if something goes wrong, which it can no matter how cautious we are. We all have heard of someone trying to sue someone else because they were injured on that person’s property. These are cases of whether the property owner was liable or not, and can happen in any dungeon setting. However, in many cases, the owner is only actually liable if they have not given the property maintenance to prevent reasonable harm. You should do what you can to protect yourself by making it clear to anyone who comes into your space to play: any areas that may lead to harm, any risks, and make sure they understand how to use any equipment on hand.
                                                                                                            A final note or two.
                                                                                                            I’d like to thank our Executive Producer Jeremiah, Our Senior Producer Matt, and our Jr. Producers K-2SO, Irish Mt. Dragon, and The Accidental Trucker. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/supportme to get that information.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            And finally, I’d like to thank http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt, we are going to dive into protectors. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com / funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14452426Tue, 03 Apr 2018 23:38:23 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCKuldrin's Krypt: A BDSM 101 Podcast BDSM Dungeons-S01E38 Recorded January 21, 2018 / Published April 3rd, 2018 Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of experience to dispel...BDSM Dungeons-S01E38
                                                                                                            Recorded January 21, 2018 / Published April 3rd, 2018
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of experience to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are going to talk about dungeons but first, I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            What are dungeons?
                                                                                                            Dungeons are generally considered as any space with BDSM equipment, used as a play space. They can also be used for classes, meetings, or events. They can be either public, open to a particular community; or private, belonging to a certain person or persons.
                                                                                                            How to find a dungeon in your area?
                                                                                                            There are a few different ways to approach this. Google, is a great place to start if you live in a larger city. Many professional dungeons are listed this way.
                                                                                                            You can also get to know people in your community and often will find your way to a public dungeon this way. And depending on what you’re looking for, some private dungeons as well.
                                                                                                            If you can't seem to find the dungeon of your dreams you can also make your own.
                                                                                                            Making your own
                                                                                                            Private- To make your own private dungeon all you really need is space and imagination. You can build your own furnishings and really do anything you want to meet your needs.
                                                                                                            Public- Just like the case of a private dungeon you need space, many who are choosing to open a public space will use a home, business space, or barn even. Any open space that can provide discretion and feed into fantasies will usually work. It’s also important to set up a set of house rules as the owner and host. Among these, you can decide what activities you’ll allow, tools you’ll have on hand, and any other pertinent details.
                                                                                                            Soundproofing can help especially if the dungeon happens to be close to other businesses or residence. Whether you have a public or private space you can easily add soundproofing to nearly any space with installation, or by adding acoustic panels to the walls. You can also soundproof doors and windows using soundproofing rubber molding around the door. There are also tons of diy projects available to try.
                                                                                                            Liabilities
                                                                                                            Non-disclosure agreements are legal agreements which help to protect confidential information. I’ve gone to a few a hotel styled public dungeons in which I had to sign a non-disclosure at check-in, and it’s always made me feel safer to do so.
                                                                                                            Insurances. Homeowners insurance is there to protect your property and keep an attorney on retainer should you find yourself being sued for injury on your property. Other insurances you should have whether you’re planning to host a public or private dungeon are fire, and water damage. These are worth it especially if you are going to have any form of fire play or water bondage.
                                                                                                            Liabilities if something goes wrong, which it can no matter how cautious we are. We all have heard of someone trying to sue someone else because they were injured on that person’s property. These are cases of whether the property owner was liable or not, and can happen in any dungeon setting. However, in many cases, the owner is only actually liable if they have not given the property maintenance to prevent reasonable harm. You should do what you can to protect yourself by making it clear to anyone who comes into your space to play: any areas that may lead to harm, any risks, and make sure they understand how to use any equipment on hand.
                                                                                                            A final...]]>1426bdsm,bdsmdungeon,dominant,d/s,dungeon,love,paperwork,relationships,sex,submissiveclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bdsm-and-the-law-s01e37--14399381Call in to get your questions answered at 865-268-4005 or visit at kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are going to dive into BDSM and the law but first, I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            So as we all know the law can be a sticky subject there to help protect us or if we get caught up in it, well it's not so pleasant.  In today's conversation we have a few things to look at:
                                                                                                            What are the laws we directly face as part of the lifestyle?
                                                                                                            In the majority of the U.S at present, there is a common law that states that a person cannot consent to being harmed.  In theory, this would negate all consent of BDSM practices, and generally make everything we do illegal.
                                                                                                            I would like to break down this common law because I very much like to dig deep into these subjects, and frankly, this is one of the stickiest and murkiest bits of law I know.  It states that one cannot consent to be HARMED. There is a huge difference in hurt and harm, to begin with, we're actually planning a whole future episode to discuss this topic.  What it really comes down to is that we each as consenting adults have to define the line between hurt and harm. So in that, we can consent to something.  
                                                                                                            My second huge point on the wording of this is that it seems to be aimed at those who engage in impact play.  As we all know impact play is NOT a must for BDSM. I'm not a fan of these murky generalizations.
                                                                                                            However, even with all this confusing and ill-worded generalization, there is one good point to be made, and that is that this law also helps to protect those who have been abused.  This common law is actually what allows victims of abuse to move into criminal charges against their abusers for assault or aggravated assault.
                                                                                                            There are also laws which ban many BDSM activities as morally reprehensible.  Especially if you live in the Bible-belt.
                                                                                                            These laws can also affect how many adult toys you may own and in some cases that is zero, what types of implements you can have, and even the kinds of sex you can be having.  Sodomy, for example, is illegal in Montana and most states. In most southern states the missionary position is the only legal way to have sex and some states go as far to say “only with the purpose and/or intent of and for procreation”.  
                                                                                                            I don't like these laws simply because they are mostly either too generalized or too specific.  And the idea of something being morally reprehensible doesn't sit well with me in terms of legality because too often laws are created and are often, in fact, immoral or based on religious practices when the Constitution of the United States is supposed to protect us from these types of biases.  
                                                                                                            Legal definitions of some of what we do, that are often considered illegal...because these do vary state to state:  
                                                                                                            Assault and aggravated assault are defined as acts of non-consensual touching of a person by another person or implement.  Aggravated assault applies to the same with the use of a deadly weapon ie knife play.
                                                                                                            Carrying a weapon knife play again for instance.  Some states have very specific laws as to the size of the knife you may have on your person, (in most states the blade cannot be longer than 3 inches) and if you’re into scalpel play these definitions may determine whether your scalpel is deemed a knife or not, and therefore a weapon.  
                                                                                                            False imprisonment and kidnapping are crimes of restraining another person without their consent.  Obviously, we’re all about consent but if you are engaged in a scene and police enter your home and find your partner tied up or in a cage, they may choose to view this as your partner being harmed, and therefore incapable of offering consent.  And I know Kuldrin has a story involving a consensual kidnapping...which is now funny but at the time a very tense and scary story involving a consensual kidnapping.
                                                                                                            Indecent exposure is an act of showing genitals or in some cases even breasts and buttocks.  If done in your own home and someone can see in through an open window or if you are an exhibitionist going about things in a public setting, you may be charged with this crime.  I have to say I really hate this one, because if I’m in my own home and someone is being a peeping tom, to me it is them that is the guilty party and not myself, however I know there are some out there who do put on shows, so I suppose I can understand.
                                                                                                            Impersonating an officer occurs if you engage in role play using costumes of police or firefighters, but in order for this to actually be a crime, you must be wearing a costume that is a replica or closely resembles the uniforms used in your region.  I, funnily enough, had a friend who was charged with this for using a policeman’s costume in a church Christmas play a couple of years ago.
                                                                                                            Prostitution is, unfortunately, a misdemeanor charge that professional dominants may at some point face.  It seems the best way to minimize your risks with this one is simply to offer only non-sexual services but depending on which state you are in the definitions of this could be horrifically tight to extremely loose.   With this one there has been a major change in the past year or two. Where they use to let the Jon’s and Jane’s go or charge them with a misdemeanor they can now be charged with felony aiding and abetting to sex trafficking.
                                                                                                            Rape and molestation are two huge ones for all of us.  They are defined as forced and/or non-consensual sexual intercourse or contact which includes any penetration, however slight, of the vagina or anus, with any object; touching of one person genitals to the anus or mouth of another; any touching of the sexual/intimate parts of another for sexual gratification.
                                                                                                            Reckless endangerment “is a crime consisting of acts that create a substantial risk of serious physical injury to another person. The accused person isn't required to intend the resulting or potential harm, but must have acted in a way that showed a disregard for the foreseeable consequences of the actions.” Essentially any act of edge play including rope bondage and suspension can easily fall into these terms. (https://definitions.uslegal.com/r/reckless-endangerment/)
                                                                                                            Sodomy is sex that involves either anal-genital contact or oral-genital or oral-anal contact.  Most places still consider this as simply anal sex.
                                                                                                            Legal forms that can help you with your alternative lifestyle
                                                                                                            First I want to throw in the disclaimer that BDSM contracts are not legal forms.  50 shades brought a whole lot of nonsense and confusion for many newbies thinking contracts were legally binding.  They are not, they are a tool to outline and help a relationship, nothing more. The ONLY part of the contract that was legally binding in 50 Shades was the non-disclosure agreement and that isn’t even legal when it comes to protecting someone from illegal acts.
                                                                                                            POA forms (Power of Attorney) is a form which allows the person acting as guardian to assume control and responsibility for someone else.  These responsibilities range from private affairs, business, and medical depending on terms specified in these forms.
                                                                                                            Wills exist so that we have protection when the unexpected happens, this as true in the vanilla world as it is in our alternative lifestyle.  This is especially important if you have a long-term relationship, or live with your M/s or D/s partner. On this topic, it’s also recommended that you have a reading of the will BEFORE anything happens to you. It will save your loved ones a lot of hassle...especially if there’s a chance things aren’t considered “fair”.
                                                                                                            Protective orders are to keep a person away from you if you feel there is a reason to fear for immediate harm or danger.  These are typically only obtainable in the case of actual physical harm or sexual assault.
                                                                                                            Restraining orders are legal orders which require the person it has been filed against to stay a set distance away from you and can ban all forms of contact, especially important if you are ever confronted with a stalker.  Unfortunately, it can often be difficult to get a restraining approved for threats or stalking.
                                                                                                            As with the forming of any legally binding document seek help from an attorney to write these forms and make sure you find out if they need to be notarized, filed with the court, sent to or formally served to another person.
                                                                                                            Facing the law.
                                                                                                            What do you do when faced with the police?
                                                                                                            No matter the situation stay calm but appropriate.
                                                                                                            Call an attorney immediately to assist you.  
                                                                                                            Be careful to not self-incriminate. Lawyer up immediately! Unfortunately, some detectives just want to get the case closed and have a conviction on their record. They don’t care if you actually guilty. Always use your right to remain silent even if you haven’t been charged and they are “just talking to you” or “just asking you a few questions”. Don’t answer anything without an attorney present.
                                                                                                            If a consent violation has occurred and you need to seek legal assistance call the police and follow the first three steps above.  
                                                                                                            Do not wash or remove any evidence on your person or clothing. Tampering with evidence in itself is a crime not to mention the fact that it immediately makes you look guilty of something that may not be a chargeable offense but now they’ll make it one.
                                                                                                            Seek medical attention if needed.  Most hospitals will call the police and a social worker when there are signs of abuse. In this case, it does help to be completely honest...unless you want you partner to go to jail.
                                                                                                            Whether you are seeking to press charges or file a civil suit, or both you will need to know a few things.  
                                                                                                            Criminal charges
                                                                                                            For complete show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/137]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14399381Tue, 27 Mar 2018 23:14:36 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded January 14th, 2018 / Published March 27th, 2018 Call in to get your questions answered at 865-268-4005 or visit at kudrinskrypt.com On this episode of the Krypt we are going to dive into BDSM and the law but first, I have to welcome my...Call in to get your questions answered at 865-268-4005 or visit at kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are going to dive into BDSM and the law but first, I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            So as we all know the law can be a sticky subject there to help protect us or if we get caught up in it, well it's not so pleasant.  In today's conversation we have a few things to look at:
                                                                                                            What are the laws we directly face as part of the lifestyle?
                                                                                                            In the majority of the U.S at present, there is a common law that states that a person cannot consent to being harmed.  In theory, this would negate all consent of BDSM practices, and generally make everything we do illegal.
                                                                                                            I would like to break down this common law because I very much like to dig deep into these subjects, and frankly, this is one of the stickiest and murkiest bits of law I know.  It states that one cannot consent to be HARMED. There is a huge difference in hurt and harm, to begin with, we're actually planning a whole future episode to discuss this topic.  What it really comes down to is that we each as consenting adults have to define the line between hurt and harm. So in that, we can consent to something.  
                                                                                                            My second huge point on the wording of this is that it seems to be aimed at those who engage in impact play.  As we all know impact play is NOT a must for BDSM. I'm not a fan of these murky generalizations.
                                                                                                            However, even with all this confusing and ill-worded generalization, there is one good point to be made, and that is that this law also helps to protect those who have been abused.  This common law is actually what allows victims of abuse to move into criminal charges against their abusers for assault or aggravated assault.
                                                                                                            There are also laws which ban many BDSM activities as morally reprehensible.  Especially if you live in the Bible-belt.
                                                                                                            These laws can also affect how many adult toys you may own and in some cases that is zero, what types of implements you can have, and even the kinds of sex you can be having.  Sodomy, for example, is illegal in Montana and most states. In most southern states the missionary position is the only legal way to have sex and some states go as far to say “only with the purpose and/or intent of and for procreation”.  
                                                                                                            I don't like these laws simply because they are mostly either too generalized or too specific.  And the idea of something being morally reprehensible doesn't sit well with me in terms of legality because too often laws are created and are often, in fact, immoral or based on religious practices when the Constitution of the United States is supposed to protect us from these types of biases.  
                                                                                                            Legal definitions of some of what we do, that are often considered illegal...because these do vary state to state:  
                                                                                                            Assault and aggravated assault are defined as acts of non-consensual touching of a person by another person or implement.  Aggravated assault applies to the same with the use of a deadly weapon ie knife play.
                                                                                                            Carrying a weapon knife play again for instance.  Some states have very specific laws as to the size of the knife you may have on your person, (in most states the blade cannot be longer than 3 inches) and if you’re into scalpel play these definitions may determine whether your scalpel is deemed a knife or not, and therefore a weapon.  
                                                                                                            False imprisonment and kidnapping are crimes of restraining another person without their consent.  Obviously, we’re all about consent but if you are engaged in a scene and police enter your home and find your partner tied up or in a cage, they may choose to view this as your...]]>4745bdsm,consent,d/s,law,legal,love,marriage,m/s,relationship,sexclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bdsm-consent-pt-2-boundaries-s01e36--14194042* A special shout out to Kuldrin, much of this podcast was written by Kuldrin, as he used to teach a class in boundaries during his tenure working in the psychological field. Much of this is actually just taken from those lessons and reformatted into show notes.*
                                                                                                            When we left off from part one of our two-part series on consent we were talking about the importance of being able to say no, and uphold our boundaries when it comes to consent.
                                                                                                            A boundary is defined as a dynamic line separating an individual's internal environment and external environment while varying in permeability and flexibility. This also applies to a line between others in that environment.
                                                                                                            Purposes and Types of Boundaries
                                                                                                            Purposes are to facilitate separation and individuation and to assist the individual’s adaptation to the environment.
                                                                                                            For BDSM this means that you will use these personal boundaries to maintain your personal self, and what you are willing to consent to.
                                                                                                            Types of boundaries can be broken down into:
                                                                                                            Ridged open which can be considered your soft limits
                                                                                                            Ridged closed, these are similar to your hard limits.
                                                                                                            Flexible or the things you might be open to, and things you are willing to negotiate.
                                                                                                            You need to learn what your appropriate boundaries are, how to set them, and how to recognize and respect the boundaries of others.
                                                                                                            How to identify your own boundaries.
                                                                                                            Become aware of your needs. You can’t expect others to respect or know what your boundaries are if you don’t know them yourself.
                                                                                                            Get support. Having others who will support you and help you uphold those boundaries is an important step. Many times you can even find a protector to help you in this capacity.
                                                                                                            Communicate effectively. Whether it’s expressing an interest or negotiating your limits, this has always been an important skill. For more information on the subject check out our episode on effective communication.
                                                                                                            Be realistic.
                                                                                                            Where boundaries start.
                                                                                                            Boundaries are natural. Infants start to develop flexible boundaries at 6 months old. Boundaries are developed and set before age 3. Have you ever looked at an infant in the eyes and it staired back briefly just before closing its eyes or turning its head? It did this because the stimulation became too much. Thus it set a boundary.
                                                                                                            People with healthy boundaries have limits and recognize what they are, know what they will or will not do and they know what they will or will not allow others to do.
                                                                                                            Teaching others how to treat you within the BDSM dynamic boundaries.
                                                                                                            Training is a big part of this. Not only do you have general training, but with each new relationship you have to train yourself and your partner as to how to be treated, and how to treat them.
                                                                                                            Again communicate your boundaries. Listen and respect the communications of others as well. And remember that not all communications of these boundaries is vocal. A person may be demonstrating a personal boundary via silent cues so try to always be observant of your surroundings.
                                                                                                            When boundaries aren’t respected.
                                                                                                            When boundaries aren’t respected, and we are faced with consent violations what can we do?
                                                                                                            If your consent has been violated, first determine for yourself if the person has made an honest mistake, or if this is a case of abuse.
                                                                                                            Recognize that you are not to blame in either case.
                                                                                                            Seek support from those around you.
                                                                                                            Communicate your feelings.
                                                                                                            Take your time. The simple fact is if you have been abused it will take time to heal, physically, mentally, and emotionally. The only person who can say whether it has been enough or too much time for this process is you. Rushing can often do more harm than good in these instances.
                                                                                                            What can you do if someone you know has had their consent violated?
                                                                                                            Give them time.
                                                                                                            Listen but never ask or demand that they talk about what has happened.
                                                                                                            Believe what they say. We each individually set our own personal boundaries and we are the only ones capable of saying whether those boundaries have been crossed.
                                                                                                            Do not rush to be their saviors. Often we can find ourselves wanting to be the saviors for those around us, especially if we have taken a role as a protector, but we also need to remember that protecting someone is something which that person also has to consent to. Going off to fight a battle for someone who does not consent to it can be just as harmful to that person as the original consent violation was.
                                                                                                            And now we’re going to dip into the hardest question of all; what do you do if you have been the one who violated someone’s consent?
                                                                                                            Be honest with yourself as to whether or not you intended the violation.
                                                                                                            If it is a case in which you made an honest mistake then you should apologise sincerely, and offer understanding. Understanding comes in many different forms; you will need to understand that your actions have affected someone who placed some level of trust in you, and that you may need to make further amends. Often you will have make a greater effort to regain that person’s trust, using patience and communication every step of the way. And finally you can forgive yourself for mistake, so that you can hopefully learn from it in the future.
                                                                                                            If it was not a mistake….
                                                                                                            Start by owning what you have done. Denying that you abused and mistreated another purposefully will only make things worse.
                                                                                                            Do not think you will live your life without consequences for your misdeeds.
                                                                                                            Do not allow yourself this choice again.
                                                                                                            Do not expect others to treat you with the courtesy or respect you have refused to show someone else.
                                                                                                            Other worthwhile notes on consent within our lifestyle.
                                                                                                            Physical boundaries ie condoms. Condoms are an important boundary for many as they reduce both the risk of pregnancy and that of STIs and STDs. There was actually a law about the removal of condoms before or during a sexual act without your partner's knowledge, an act known as stealthing, added in California back in May 2017, which added that once stealthing has happened the act is no longer considered consensual.
                                                                                                            The NCSF, ALI Project, and Consent Counts.
                                                                                                            The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom or NCSF has been coordinating the Consent Counts project in a BDSM community worldwide effort in education and activism in order to offer legal protection against consent violations. The American Law Institute has been working in conjunction with this to change the Moral Penal Code to decriminalize consensual BDSM.
                                                                                                            What this means for all of us is that for most states in the U.S. and several other countries, whether we consent to the activities we are engaging in or not, they are still considered legally reprehensible. But we will be digging more into this topic during our BDSM and the law episode later on this season.
                                                                                                            Well that wraps up our consent series. If you have any questions or comments join in the conversation in our Fetlife group Kuldrins Kyrpt. And now…
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                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14194042Sun, 04 Mar 2018 07:17:04 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCOn this episode of the Krypt we are going to get into the second half of our Consent podcast, with our main focus on Boundaries but first, I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize. * A special shout out to Kuldrin, much of this podcast was...* A special shout out to Kuldrin, much of this podcast was written by Kuldrin, as he used to teach a class in boundaries during his tenure working in the psychological field. Much of this is actually just taken from those lessons and reformatted into show notes.*
                                                                                                            When we left off from part one of our two-part series on consent we were talking about the importance of being able to say no, and uphold our boundaries when it comes to consent.
                                                                                                            A boundary is defined as a dynamic line separating an individual's internal environment and external environment while varying in permeability and flexibility. This also applies to a line between others in that environment.
                                                                                                            Purposes and Types of Boundaries
                                                                                                            Purposes are to facilitate separation and individuation and to assist the individual’s adaptation to the environment.
                                                                                                            For BDSM this means that you will use these personal boundaries to maintain your personal self, and what you are willing to consent to.
                                                                                                            Types of boundaries can be broken down into:
                                                                                                            Ridged open which can be considered your soft limits
                                                                                                            Ridged closed, these are similar to your hard limits.
                                                                                                            Flexible or the things you might be open to, and things you are willing to negotiate.
                                                                                                            You need to learn what your appropriate boundaries are, how to set them, and how to recognize and respect the boundaries of others.
                                                                                                            How to identify your own boundaries.
                                                                                                            Become aware of your needs. You can’t expect others to respect or know what your boundaries are if you don’t know them yourself.
                                                                                                            Get support. Having others who will support you and help you uphold those boundaries is an important step. Many times you can even find a protector to help you in this capacity.
                                                                                                            Communicate effectively. Whether it’s expressing an interest or negotiating your limits, this has always been an important skill. For more information on the subject check out our episode on effective communication.
                                                                                                            Be realistic.
                                                                                                            Where boundaries start.
                                                                                                            Boundaries are natural. Infants start to develop flexible boundaries at 6 months old. Boundaries are developed and set before age 3. Have you ever looked at an infant in the eyes and it staired back briefly just before closing its eyes or turning its head? It did this because the stimulation became too much. Thus it set a boundary.
                                                                                                            People with healthy boundaries have limits and recognize what they are, know what they will or will not do and they know what they will or will not allow others to do.
                                                                                                            Teaching others how to treat you within the BDSM dynamic boundaries.
                                                                                                            Training is a big part of this. Not only do you have general training, but with each new relationship you have to train yourself and your partner as to how to be treated, and how to treat them.
                                                                                                            Again communicate your boundaries. Listen and respect the communications of others as well. And remember that not all communications of these boundaries is vocal. A person may be demonstrating a personal boundary via silent cues so try to always be observant of your surroundings.
                                                                                                            When boundaries aren’t respected.
                                                                                                            When boundaries aren’t respected, and we are faced with consent violations what can we do?
                                                                                                            If your consent has been violated, first determine for yourself if the person has made an honest mistake, or if this is a case of abuse.
                                                                                                            Recognize that you are not to blame in either case.
                                                                                                            Seek support from those around you.
                                                                                                            Communicate your feelings.
                                                                                                            Take your time. The simple fact is if you have been abused it will take time to heal, physically, mentally, and emotionally. The only person who can say whether it has been enough or too much time for this process is you. Rushing can often do more harm than good in these...]]>3753bdsm,boundaries,consent,fifty,love,relationship,sex,shadesclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bdsm-consent-counts-pt-1-s01e35--13813594Recorded December 12th, 2018 / Published January 16, 2018
                                                                                                            Consent is an incredibly important topic to both of us, and should be an important topic for everyone out there. The news these days is filled with stories of consent violations and thankfully our society is beginning to crack down on these violators quickly. However we still have a long way to go within the BDSM community.
                                                                                                            What is consent exactly?
                                                                                                            Consent is what a person has knowingly and willingly agreed to a form of participation in. That form and those activities, behaviors, etc. are what that consent applies to. Legally consent is defined as being able to freely give agreement to participate in a(n) (sexual) activity. Many states in the U.S. have separate definitions as well which also specify who is capable of giving consent; for example a child many not consent, nor may a person who is unconscious. For more information about these laws and what your state defines as legal consent we have included a link that will help clarify many of these points. https://www.rainn.org/news/how-does-your-state-define-consent
                                                                                                            What do we consent to within the context of BDSM?
                                                                                                            Activities
                                                                                                            Sexual- including everything from kissing to intercourse of any and every kind. This can even include sexual behaviors using inanimate objects.
                                                                                                            Non-sexual- impact play, punishments, rewards, and anything else you can possibly imagine. You can even choose to consent or not to things like writing journals or taking pictures.
                                                                                                            Behaviors- kneeling, honouring, or having these behaviors used on you. Dominants need to give their consent too!
                                                                                                            Why is consent so important?
                                                                                                            The point could be made that in our vanilla lives we don’t ask for explicitly defined consent for every action, or activity we participate in, so why should we have to do that for BDSM?
                                                                                                            We have to in BDSM because of the nature of our relationships. Without consent there can be no trust. Without trust there can be no consent. Without both, there can be no relationship of love and respect.
                                                                                                            We do things within our lifestyles that present risks which require knowing consent to be able to participate in safely. This includes all forms of safety, mental, emotional, and physical.
                                                                                                            A note on knowing consent- Be aware that to give knowing consent you need to be clear and stable of mind. An unconscious or inebriated person, someone who is mentally ill, or someone who is in an altered state of mind i.e. sub/Domspace will not be able to give clear knowing consent.
                                                                                                            Finally, within the bounds of vanilla relationships people SHOULD be seeking consent.
                                                                                                            Types of consent violations.
                                                                                                            Honest Mistakes vs. Abuse
                                                                                                            We have all made honest mistakes at some point, both in and out of the lifestyle.
                                                                                                            Something as simple as referring to Kuldrin as Master without his permission can be a violation of his consent. If you’re informed of this before addressing him, you could easily make this mistake. At which point I’m certain that he and most others would likely correct and forgive you. To choose to keep doing it though… would be a more a serious violation of consent, and not a mistake.
                                                                                                            You might have a scene with an established partner but forget to set up silent hand signals and therefore miss a communication opportunity which can lead to a consent violation. It’s a mistake and a dangerous one, but hopefully one that with the right care can be overcome.
                                                                                                            What makes it abuse?
                                                                                                            Intent is a huge part of what makes a difference between the two. If you intend to violate the consent of your partner, then you are already an abuser. Mistakes can’t be made with intent, only abuse.
                                                                                                            How the person who has their consent violated feels is the ultimate tell as to whether that violation has been a simple mistake or just abuse.
                                                                                                            I have faced both sides of this myself. When it has been a mistake I have found I could apologise and be apologised to. Work could be put in so that trust could be repaired or rebuilt and the relationships have gotten better. When it’s abuse this simply cannot occur. The most you can hope for with abuse is to learn to forgive, even if it's just yourself, and to heal enough to find your own peace.
                                                                                                            Huge Issues with Consent in the BDSM Community
                                                                                                            Many of the problems with consent in our BDSM community are sadly the same ones plaguing the vanilla world as well. However due to the bondage and sadomasochistic elements of our lifestyle we are also faced with the issue that to those of a vanilla mind-set we can also be portrayed as violent, persons who only wish to tie up, abuse, and violate our ‘victims.’ Now we all know this isn’t true but for a long time, and with no help from pop culture icons like 50 shades of grey, this stereotype is still ongoing.
                                                                                                            Some of the other huge problems we are facing and I personally would love to help abolish, and hope that I am in some minute way, are silence, oppression, misinformation, and arrogance.
                                                                                                            Silence comes from a few different places. Shame, fear, and denial of what has occurred can all lead to silence from the victim and from the community.
                                                                                                            When my consent was violated and I was physically abused to the point of needing to receive immediate medical care, I didn’t want to talk about it. I still very rarely do. I was ashamed at what I had, in my mind, allowed to happen. I was ashamed that I was not able to stop the abuse. There I was, I had consented to everything up until that point, I had been trained to protect myself, to take punishments, and yet I was still in a position where I was harmed. After the immediate event I was in the emergency room, and the police were notified because it was very clear that I had been physically assaulted. That’s when the fear hit me too. I was afraid to speak up, because if I explained to the police how I was harmed they would want to know who did it. I was put into a position where I had to out my assaulter. I had to make the choice to break my silence, because I recognised that this person would likely do something like this again to someone else. But I was still scared, of what the police would think of me, of what would happen to me if and when others learned of the incident, and of what my community would do to me as a result of my outing this person. Many communities will out right shun anyone who outs someone, regardless of the reason. I was facing a terrifying moment, where my defenses were already broken down, and I was afraid to face it alone without any support or understanding. I was lucky enough to find that I did have support and understanding from those in my community, but it is a sad and despicable fact that in many cases this is the opposite of what happens to most victims of abuse.
                                                                                                            I have since come across several others who will out right deny that they were ever abused. They say they wanted to submit so they had no right to say no to something they weren’t comfortable with. Or that they never said the words “no” or “stop” or called a safe-word, so consent was given. But here’s the huge issue with that, consent is NOT inherent ever. This is what makes communication from all parties and at all times so important.
                                                                                                            As I was saying, when someone breaks their silence about a consent violation, often a community will try to oppress or deny this abuse ever happened.
                                                                                                            Whenever we are abused within our community it is recommended to alert our community leaders. However what can we do if it is our community leaders who are the abusers? Who can we then turn to? Too often there is no one.
                                                                                                            There are also known cases of leaders sweeping known violations under the proverbial rug because they are “friends” with these people, or simply choose to not believe accusations of abuse. It is sheer arrogance that allows these kinds of instances to occur.
                                                                                                            I recently came across a beautiful piece of writing on Fetlife that I think everyone should check out. It’s by Micchi_Monster, called Believe the Victim, and is truly wonderful. I would like to personally thank them for sharing it. https://fetlife.com/users/1065014/posts/4782318
                                                                                                            Protecting yourself.
                                                                                                            Vetting is a huge part of what you can do to protect yourself from encountering a situation in which your consent, or the consent of another will be violated.
                                                                                                            Don’t trust only the word of others, regardless of who they are. It’s important to vet those around you but you also have to do your own unbiased research.
                                                                                                            Trust your instincts. We all have gut feelings and instincts, if your natural red flags are going off there is probably a reason. Beware the people and situations that set them off.
                                                                                                            Use common sense when entering a situation. Avoid being alone or saying yes to any kind of contact with someone you haven’t properly vetted.
                                                                                                            Don’t be afraid to say no. If something makes you uncomfortable, no matter how little the thing may seem, you can and should say no. You have your own limits and boundaries to uphold and communicate, which brings us to the end of this two parter episode. We will be picking up this subject again in its second half, boundaries, next week.
                                                                                                            Next time we are going to dive into Part 2.
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                                                                                                            Full shownotes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/135]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/13813594Tue, 16 Jan 2018 09:47:16 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCBDSM Consent Counts Pt 1-S01E35 (135) Recorded December 12th, 2018 / Published January 16, 2018 Consent is an incredibly important topic to both of us, and should be an important topic for everyone out there. The news these days is filled with...Recorded December 12th, 2018 / Published January 16, 2018
                                                                                                            Consent is an incredibly important topic to both of us, and should be an important topic for everyone out there. The news these days is filled with stories of consent violations and thankfully our society is beginning to crack down on these violators quickly. However we still have a long way to go within the BDSM community.
                                                                                                            What is consent exactly?
                                                                                                            Consent is what a person has knowingly and willingly agreed to a form of participation in. That form and those activities, behaviors, etc. are what that consent applies to. Legally consent is defined as being able to freely give agreement to participate in a(n) (sexual) activity. Many states in the U.S. have separate definitions as well which also specify who is capable of giving consent; for example a child many not consent, nor may a person who is unconscious. For more information about these laws and what your state defines as legal consent we have included a link that will help clarify many of these points. https://www.rainn.org/news/how-does-your-state-define-consent
                                                                                                            What do we consent to within the context of BDSM?
                                                                                                            Activities
                                                                                                            Sexual- including everything from kissing to intercourse of any and every kind. This can even include sexual behaviors using inanimate objects.
                                                                                                            Non-sexual- impact play, punishments, rewards, and anything else you can possibly imagine. You can even choose to consent or not to things like writing journals or taking pictures.
                                                                                                            Behaviors- kneeling, honouring, or having these behaviors used on you. Dominants need to give their consent too!
                                                                                                            Why is consent so important?
                                                                                                            The point could be made that in our vanilla lives we don’t ask for explicitly defined consent for every action, or activity we participate in, so why should we have to do that for BDSM?
                                                                                                            We have to in BDSM because of the nature of our relationships. Without consent there can be no trust. Without trust there can be no consent. Without both, there can be no relationship of love and respect.
                                                                                                            We do things within our lifestyles that present risks which require knowing consent to be able to participate in safely. This includes all forms of safety, mental, emotional, and physical.
                                                                                                            A note on knowing consent- Be aware that to give knowing consent you need to be clear and stable of mind. An unconscious or inebriated person, someone who is mentally ill, or someone who is in an altered state of mind i.e. sub/Domspace will not be able to give clear knowing consent.
                                                                                                            Finally, within the bounds of vanilla relationships people SHOULD be seeking consent.
                                                                                                            Types of consent violations.
                                                                                                            Honest Mistakes vs. Abuse
                                                                                                            We have all made honest mistakes at some point, both in and out of the lifestyle.
                                                                                                            Something as simple as referring to Kuldrin as Master without his permission can be a violation of his consent. If you’re informed of this before addressing him, you could easily make this mistake. At which point I’m certain that he and most others would likely correct and forgive you. To choose to keep doing it though… would be a more a serious violation of consent, and not a mistake.
                                                                                                            You might have a scene with an established partner but forget to set up silent hand signals and therefore miss a communication opportunity which can lead to a consent violation. It’s a mistake and a dangerous one, but hopefully one that with the right care can be overcome.
                                                                                                            What makes it abuse?
                                                                                                            Intent is a huge part of what makes a difference between the two. If you intend to violate the consent of your partner, then you are already an abuser. Mistakes can’t be made with intent, only abuse.
                                                                                                            How the person who has their consent violated feels is the ultimate tell as to whether that violation has been a...]]>259150,bdsm,consent,counts,dominant,d/s,fifty,kink,kinky,love,relationships,respect,sex,shades,sub,submissiveclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bdsm-in-literature-s01e34--13763218Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of experience to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are going to talk about BDSM in Literature, and no we’re not discussing 50 Shades but first, I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.
                                                                                                            Literature both fiction and nonfiction is a staple of civilized society. The lifestyle is a society in and of itself and we have our literature. Our fictions delve into our deepest fantasies and our non-fictions help us learn and share with others. Funsize you are a huge connoisseur of the written word. What books do you find span the scope of our world the best?
                                                                                                            Non-fictions:
                                                                                                            The Topping and Bottoming Series
                                                                                                            This is a series of books that has been around since the mid 90’s. Written by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy, these books, explore the basics of each perspective in the lifestyle.
                                                                                                            Dossie Easton also wrote the Ethical Slut which explores polyamory.
                                                                                                            The Ultimate Guide to Kink by Tristan Taormino
                                                                                                            A very well written basics guide to everything you need to know when you first enter the lifestyle. Of course there are a lot of interesting things to be found within these pages even if you aren’t new.
                                                                                                            BDSM: How to Take Your First Steps into BDSM
                                                                                                            Another great book for newbies by Scarlett Dalton.
                                                                                                            Life, Leather, and the Pursuit of Happiness by Steve Lenuis
                                                                                                            This particular book delves into the history of leather culture and the beginnings of modern BDSM as we know it. History is very important so this is really a must read.
                                                                                                            You should also check out the Leatherman’s Protocol Handbook by John D. Weal.
                                                                                                            Other nonfictions to check out when you have a moment are:
                                                                                                            Raven Kaldera’s books Power Circuits: Polyamory in a Power Dynamic, and Sacred Power, Holy Shrine.
                                                                                                            Two Knotty Boys and Two Knotty Boys Back on the Ropes, a couple of interesting, educational, and entertaining books on learning the art of rope bondage.
                                                                                                            Elizabeth Cramer, Kuldrin I know you love her writings just because she keeps things short and simple, which works well with your busy schedule. She has written something like six or seven books detailing how to be a dominant and how to be a submissive. We’re both huge fans for a reason.
                                                                                                            And finally, Igniting the Fire: the Art of Romantic Submission by Master Arcane. This amazing book illustrates the BDSM dynamic through the eyes of a truly caring dominant. I’ve personally read this book at least twenty times over. If you want to get an idea of what you’ll be reading definitely go back and listen to the amazing interview between Kuldrin and Master Arcane. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/s01e14
                                                                                                            There are dozens of others we could recommend but in order to keep me from talking until I’m hoarse this is the list we’re going to have to settle for today. If you have any more suggestions feel free to join in the discussion on our Fetlife group, Kuldrin’s Krypt.
                                                                                                            Fiction
                                                                                                            So our starting point for this particular half of the list is a rather obvious choice; the granddaddy of Sadism, the Libertine, Marquis de Sade.
                                                                                                            Justine explores a whole world of human sexuality, torture, imprisonment, and the duality of the justice system. Even if it doesn’t quite explore true BDSM and power dynamics it is a wonderful read.
                                                                                                            120 Days of Sodom is a novel of erotic orgies. While this sounds fun in a sense, this particular tale is all about sexual abuse, torture (not the fun kinds), and finally the slaughter of several characters involved.
                                                                                                            There are several other works by de Sade, many of them available for free in PDF format. It is however, important to remember while de Sade inspired the word sadism for his works on featuring pain in a sexual setting, much of what is actually portrayed is not respectful or caring. It is in fact abusive and often non-consensual acts in vivid detail so if you can not stomach these things, be sure to skip these classics.
                                                                                                            The Way of a Man With a Maid by anonymous is actually one of my favorites. This novel portrays a man who is fascinated by a young woman, which leads to acts of obsession, bondage, and questionable consensual content. It’s highly erotic but can again doesn’t accurately portray the consent necessary for anyone truly in the lifestyle.
                                                                                                            Anne Rice’s Sleeping Beauty series illustrates the traditional tale of sleeping beauty in a more erotic light. It truly does display certain fetishes and parts of the BDSM lifestyle.
                                                                                                            Maya Banks the Enforcers Series, Mastered, Dominated, and Kept, are three books which mix the erotism of BDSM with more romantic notes. Quite enjoyable.
                                                                                                            The Kushiel’s Legacy Series by Jacqueline Carey, which set off my exploration of the lifestyle. I read the very first novel in this series when I was only thirteen years old and when it’s subject matter was discovered it led to a talk which led me to my training years later. It’s still one of my favorite’s not only because of the highly masochistic main character, or the erotic scenes, but also because of the political intrigue.
                                                                                                            And finally the Anita Blake, Vampire Hunter Series by Laurell K. Hamilton. The series as it moves along begins to depict more of the lifestyle and even features a submissive character, Nathaniel, to explore what it’s like for some of us out there. What’s more is that these novels, despite their fantasy/ sci-fi setting, still manage to (mostly) accurately display everything from fetish clubs, to power dynamics, to the roles of protectors. I’m clearly a huge fan.
                                                                                                            So these were the literary works we’ve chosen to delve into. As we said before there are tons more to be found.
                                                                                                            A final note or two.
                                                                                                            I’d like to thank our Executive Producer Jeremiah, Our Senior Producer Matt, Producer Missy Lynn and our Jr. Producers K-2SO, Irish Mt. Dragon and The Accidental Trucker. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/supportme to get that information.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hard bound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            And finally, I’d like to thank http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next on The Krypt we are going to dive into consent. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for shownotes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to because a patreon supporter.
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                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/13763218Wed, 10 Jan 2018 06:53:36 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCRecorded December 3rd, 2017 / Published January 10, 2018 Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of experience to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions...Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of experience to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are going to talk about BDSM in Literature, and no we’re not discussing 50 Shades but first, I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.
                                                                                                            Literature both fiction and nonfiction is a staple of civilized society. The lifestyle is a society in and of itself and we have our literature. Our fictions delve into our deepest fantasies and our non-fictions help us learn and share with others. Funsize you are a huge connoisseur of the written word. What books do you find span the scope of our world the best?
                                                                                                            Non-fictions:
                                                                                                            The Topping and Bottoming Series
                                                                                                            This is a series of books that has been around since the mid 90’s. Written by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy, these books, explore the basics of each perspective in the lifestyle.
                                                                                                            Dossie Easton also wrote the Ethical Slut which explores polyamory.
                                                                                                            The Ultimate Guide to Kink by Tristan Taormino
                                                                                                            A very well written basics guide to everything you need to know when you first enter the lifestyle. Of course there are a lot of interesting things to be found within these pages even if you aren’t new.
                                                                                                            BDSM: How to Take Your First Steps into BDSM
                                                                                                            Another great book for newbies by Scarlett Dalton.
                                                                                                            Life, Leather, and the Pursuit of Happiness by Steve Lenuis
                                                                                                            This particular book delves into the history of leather culture and the beginnings of modern BDSM as we know it. History is very important so this is really a must read.
                                                                                                            You should also check out the Leatherman’s Protocol Handbook by John D. Weal.
                                                                                                            Other nonfictions to check out when you have a moment are:
                                                                                                            Raven Kaldera’s books Power Circuits: Polyamory in a Power Dynamic, and Sacred Power, Holy Shrine.
                                                                                                            Two Knotty Boys and Two Knotty Boys Back on the Ropes, a couple of interesting, educational, and entertaining books on learning the art of rope bondage.
                                                                                                            Elizabeth Cramer, Kuldrin I know you love her writings just because she keeps things short and simple, which works well with your busy schedule. She has written something like six or seven books detailing how to be a dominant and how to be a submissive. We’re both huge fans for a reason.
                                                                                                            And finally, Igniting the Fire: the Art of Romantic Submission by Master Arcane. This amazing book illustrates the BDSM dynamic through the eyes of a truly caring dominant. I’ve personally read this book at least twenty times over. If you want to get an idea of what you’ll be reading definitely go back and listen to the amazing interview between Kuldrin and Master Arcane. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/s01e14
                                                                                                            There are dozens of others we could recommend but in order to keep me from talking until I’m hoarse this is the list we’re going to have to settle for today. If you have any more suggestions feel free to join in the discussion on our Fetlife group, Kuldrin’s Krypt.
                                                                                                            Fiction
                                                                                                            So our starting point for this particular half of the list is a rather obvious choice; the granddaddy of Sadism, the Libertine, Marquis de Sade.
                                                                                                            Justine explores a whole world of human sexuality, torture, imprisonment, and the duality of the justice system. Even if it doesn’t quite explore true BDSM and power dynamics it is a wonderful read.
                                                                                                            120 Days of Sodom...]]>1948bdsm,communication,dominant,d/s,education,fifty,fifty shades of grey,grey,literature,love,relationship,shades,submissiveclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bdsm-on-a-budget-s01e33--13614138So the reason we chose to do this episode now is that Funsize found an infographic on Pinterest about BDSM on a budget and saw a huge safety flaw.
                                                                                                            On this infographic, it suggest several things that are just fine, however one thing it suggest in particular is the use of household candles. This is a huge no, because household candles have a higher melting point than the candle we in the lifestyle use for wax play, so you will burn your partner if you use these. It’s just a huge safety problem, so today we really want to get into how to have safe, sane, budget friendly BDSM. http://www.ucollectinfographics.com/bdsm-on-a-budget-household-items-that-serve-as-cheap-alternatives-to-toys/
                                                                                                            Pervertables- These are items you can convert and pervert for your play, which are not traditionally used in this way.
                                                                                                            Paddles at home:
                                                                                                            Spatulas are one of my favorite to be used as paddles. Also if you have ceramic or metal spatulas you can play with temperature a bit by sticking them in the fridge for 20 minutes prior to play. Just be sure that you use the flat side and avoid the edges as they may be sharper than they appear when used in impact play.
                                                                                                            Hair brushes. Not only does the flat side work as a cheap on the spot paddle, but the bristles can create a marvelous sensory feast, especially when combined with a blindfold. (Which can be made from a silk tie.)
                                                                                                            Rolled up magazines or newspapers create a mild thud and are great fun, especially if you are delving into pet play.
                                                                                                            Paint stirrer sticks. Often you can get these really cheap or for free at your local hardware store.
                                                                                                            Flogging fun:
                                                                                                            Paracord made into a flogger. If you’re looking to make your own paracord is a great place to start, and much cheaper than leather as far as materials go. There are tons of diy patterns for making your own flogger on Fetlife, Pinterest, and the internet in general.
                                                                                                            I recently came across a flogger made from an old yoga mat, cut into thick one inch strips and tied for the mop. I’m actually dying to try this out myself.
                                                                                                            Strips of spare cloth with beads tied to the tails can be arranged into a pretty neat makeshift flogger.
                                                                                                            Other impact play toys at home:
                                                                                                            Bamboo or other wooden switches can either be picked up at your local craft shop, or simply from a tree outside.
                                                                                                            Either way remember to sand the wood to get rid of any splinters.
                                                                                                            You can also make a handle out of simple bits of scrap fabric and electrical tape.
                                                                                                            One of my first experiences which I can pinpoint as a moment of pure masochism was when I was a child and ended up taking shelter under a willow tree during a storm. The branches lashed me as well as any single tail ever has. So if you have a willow tree on hand, cut off a switch and play with care.
                                                                                                            Wet towels or washcloths. You know how in movies during a locker room scene someone will snap someone else with a towel…. Same theory, only when wet they sting a lot more so there’s a lot of fun to be had there.
                                                                                                            Leather gloves… Irishmtdragon surprised me with this one recently and I’ve got to say it was actually a lot of fun; fairly light for impact but the stroke of the leather alone was mmm so nice.
                                                                                                            Pincers and clamps:
                                                                                                            Clothespins, such a marvelous pervertible, and so cheap. And if you’ve ever seen pictures of those pretty zipper patterns, well good chance they’re from clothespins.
                                                                                                            Chip bag clamps. A lot of times you can find these wider clamps and well they are amazing for the uh… lower lips on women. They can create the pinch and hold, but also provide more surface area and therefore less pain too. Combined with using some creatively placed tape, and you’re bound to have a good time.
                                                                                                            Other sensory toys you already have:
                                                                                                            Ice cubes, need we say more. If you haven’t explored temperature play, pull out some ice cubes and grab a towel from the dryer, switch between the two and watch your bottom squirm.
                                                                                                            Safety pins. Tape three or four together with the points open with a pencil as the handle. Using these to trace over your partner's skin lightly can raise all sorts of goosebumps.
                                                                                                            Sand paper. Abrasion play isn’t for everyone and should be approached carefully for those inexperienced in it.
                                                                                                            Back scratchers. Irish and I have two, one with metal claws and one wooden. Both are better for teasing than any feathers we’ve come across.
                                                                                                            Spices, stings, and rice.
                                                                                                            Tabasco…. Woo that stings!
                                                                                                            Ginger… see figging.
                                                                                                            Bags of uncooked rice. When I was being trained I was instructed to sit on a 5 lb. bag of uncooked rice for as long as needed until I learned my lesson. I still haven’t forgotten that lesson or how much that rice stabbing into my knees stung. If you don’t have that much on hand you can spread a cup around inside an empty pillow case for much the same effect.
                                                                                                            Diy and Dom Depot
                                                                                                            Often Home Depot is referred to as Dom Depot but you can also make your furnishings and toys.
                                                                                                            Some of the things you can pick up from Dom Depot are eyelet hooks. Screw a few of these into chairs, foot stools, or sturdy chests and you’ve got your own at home bondage furniture. Things like this are also pretty easy to hide in plain sight if the discretion of your home is anything you need worry about.
                                                                                                            If suspension is your play of choice you can create your own free-standing beam. Making your own will cost 1/10th of what buying one would cost.
                                                                                                            Using a cheap plastic tablecloth or tarp and duct tape you can create a protective cover for your furniture in place of sport sheets.
                                                                                                            If you don’t have a piece of furniture you feel comfortable modifying already, check out your local thrift shops.
                                                                                                            It’s important to explore what you have on hand and be safe as always. There are a lot of groups on Fetlife especially devoted just to sharing plans and diy ideas with others, so be sure to check these out as well.
                                                                                                            A final note or two.
                                                                                                            I’d like to thank our Executive Producer Jeremiah, Our Senior Producer Matt, Producer Missy Lynn and our Jr. Producers K-2SO, Irish Mt. Dragon and The Accidental Trucker. If you are getting anything out of the show we’d be grateful if you would visit the site and click on the support us tab to give through patreon.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hard bound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next on The Krypt BDSM in literature. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for shownotes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to because a patreon supporter.
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                                                                                                            865-268-4005]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/13614138Mon, 18 Dec 2017 11:29:00 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCOn this episode of the Krypt we are going to talk about BDSM on a budget but first, I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize. So the reason we chose to do this episode now is that Funsize found an infographic on Pinterest about BDSM on a budget...So the reason we chose to do this episode now is that Funsize found an infographic on Pinterest about BDSM on a budget and saw a huge safety flaw.
                                                                                                            On this infographic, it suggest several things that are just fine, however one thing it suggest in particular is the use of household candles. This is a huge no, because household candles have a higher melting point than the candle we in the lifestyle use for wax play, so you will burn your partner if you use these. It’s just a huge safety problem, so today we really want to get into how to have safe, sane, budget friendly BDSM. http://www.ucollectinfographics.com/bdsm-on-a-budget-household-items-that-serve-as-cheap-alternatives-to-toys/
                                                                                                            Pervertables- These are items you can convert and pervert for your play, which are not traditionally used in this way.
                                                                                                            Paddles at home:
                                                                                                            Spatulas are one of my favorite to be used as paddles. Also if you have ceramic or metal spatulas you can play with temperature a bit by sticking them in the fridge for 20 minutes prior to play. Just be sure that you use the flat side and avoid the edges as they may be sharper than they appear when used in impact play.
                                                                                                            Hair brushes. Not only does the flat side work as a cheap on the spot paddle, but the bristles can create a marvelous sensory feast, especially when combined with a blindfold. (Which can be made from a silk tie.)
                                                                                                            Rolled up magazines or newspapers create a mild thud and are great fun, especially if you are delving into pet play.
                                                                                                            Paint stirrer sticks. Often you can get these really cheap or for free at your local hardware store.
                                                                                                            Flogging fun:
                                                                                                            Paracord made into a flogger. If you’re looking to make your own paracord is a great place to start, and much cheaper than leather as far as materials go. There are tons of diy patterns for making your own flogger on Fetlife, Pinterest, and the internet in general.
                                                                                                            I recently came across a flogger made from an old yoga mat, cut into thick one inch strips and tied for the mop. I’m actually dying to try this out myself.
                                                                                                            Strips of spare cloth with beads tied to the tails can be arranged into a pretty neat makeshift flogger.
                                                                                                            Other impact play toys at home:
                                                                                                            Bamboo or other wooden switches can either be picked up at your local craft shop, or simply from a tree outside.
                                                                                                            Either way remember to sand the wood to get rid of any splinters.
                                                                                                            You can also make a handle out of simple bits of scrap fabric and electrical tape.
                                                                                                            One of my first experiences which I can pinpoint as a moment of pure masochism was when I was a child and ended up taking shelter under a willow tree during a storm. The branches lashed me as well as any single tail ever has. So if you have a willow tree on hand, cut off a switch and play with care.
                                                                                                            Wet towels or washcloths. You know how in movies during a locker room scene someone will snap someone else with a towel…. Same theory, only when wet they sting a lot more so there’s a lot of fun to be had there.
                                                                                                            Leather gloves… Irishmtdragon surprised me with this one recently and I’ve got to say it was actually a lot of fun; fairly light for impact but the stroke of the leather alone was mmm so nice.
                                                                                                            Pincers and clamps:
                                                                                                            Clothespins, such a marvelous pervertible, and so cheap. And if you’ve ever seen pictures of those pretty zipper patterns, well good chance they’re from clothespins.
                                                                                                            Chip bag clamps. A lot of times you can find these wider clamps and well they are amazing for the uh… lower lips on women. They can create the pinch and hold, but also provide more surface area and therefore less pain too. Combined with using some creatively...]]>2610bdsm,budget,d/s,fifty,relationship,sex,shades,shoppingclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/navigating-the-online-bdsm-community-s01e32--13500591Recorded October 2017
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 32
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of experience to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are going to talk about navigating the online world of BDSM but first, I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.
                                                                                                            This week we’re discussing how to navigate some of the more prominent lifestyle websites out there. This is a listener requested episode, all the way from Germany (?) I believe. Now because there are so many websites out there we’ve chosen to expand on those that have lasted the test of time, bring something unique to our community, or have the largest base of users. So while we are talking about these websites, remember this is by far not every website and quite frankly not even one tenth of what is out there.
                                                                                                            History
                                                                                                            Before we dive into what each of these websites are, what they offer, and how to best make use of them, we would like to touch just shortly on the history of the online community. So 1990 the internet as we know it is created, then in 1991 the word “BDSM” first appeared on a usenet group. Soon after alt.sex.bondage, a group on usenet, found the community expanding further into the online world. A decade later bdsmlibrary.org was founded, and Fetlife popped up seven years after. Today there hundreds more active websites for our community. Some are social networks, some dating apps, some pornographic sites, others are shops which cater to the implements, dress codes, and novelties associated with BDSM culture. The internet opened the lines of communication, for knowledge, connection, and experience in ways that our community simply didn’t have up until that point.
                                                                                                            Now we’re going to go one site at a time and give you ideas of how best to utilize these resources.
                                                                                                            Fetlife- starting with the most popular and well known social site is fairly obvious.
                                                                                                            Created by John Baku Fetlife is essentially the Facebook of the fetish community. There is a feed from people you know, and groups you follow just like on Facebook. However, it’s not pictures of your friend from fourth grade’s puppy (or at least not that kind of puppy)…. It’s going to be posts on things within the lifestyle. That’s not to say that there aren’t vanilla things happening on Fetlife, there are of course, but the majority is all about the kink.
                                                                                                            Kuldrin and I are both on Fetlife, so are our spouses. Along with us there are another 6,230,112 members to date. (https://fetlife.com) There are over 100,000 active groups discussing every possible subject you could think of at any given time. To be a member on Fetlife you must be 18 years of age. Within these 6,000,000 plus users there are people from all walks of life. You can definitely get a broad scope of what we mean when we talk about your kink is okay, by looking at the lists of fetishes alone on Fetlife, and understanding that for each one, there are probably at least 1,000 users who can relate to it at any time.
                                                                                                            Groups are just as diverse as the individual users. We of course have our group Kuldrin’s Krypt, where you can join or start a conversation. There are groups for fetishes, groups for local communities, there are groups for fans of certain book series. I myself am part of groups that offer tutorials, or just give advice. There is so much out there where you can meet people with similar interests and so many learn opportunities.
                                                                                                            Let’s get into what is featured on this particular website. Fetlife provides member profiles, again similar to Facebook in this aspect. Fetish lists allowing members to list their likes, quickly and easily. Members are listed by location, along with events. Several members also post their writings, pictures, and videos.
                                                                                                            Clearly Fetlife has tons to offer and for newbies especially it can get a bit overwhelming. So what are some things that can make meeting the people you want to meet easier?
                                                                                                            A good profile goes a long towards this end. On your profile you should of course list the basics, location (though many list Antarctica,) age (again many will put in 90+ years of age to hide their identities.) You can also list relationship status (including vanilla relationships, ie marriage,) D/s relationships, orientation, activity level within the community, and what you are looking for. After that there’s your About Me section. You can make this is as detailed or basic as you like, however as a tip those who have detailed profiles do better. Now this is not to say that you need to write a book or anything in this section, but typically two to three paragraphs helps.
                                                                                                            I know Kuldrin actually wrote the about section on his wife, Lady Katherine’s profile page and it is brilliant. I think I smiled the entire time I was reading it actually.
                                                                                                            You can also add your fetishes to help other members with similar interests as you in being able to find, and thereby meet you. This is important because you can search members based on fetishes alone.
                                                                                                            Finally you can add any writings you want to share; poetry, articles, and journals; pictures, and videos.
                                                                                                            I will note that videos are only watchable by paid supporters of Fetlife.
                                                                                                            Also and this is something that I know seems very sexist in a way, but a lot of female members are starting to auto-vet men who use photos of their genitals as profile pics. It’s highly unattractive to start with, and honestly it signals to women that you’re only looking for sex. It’s fine to want sex, or even just be looking for a play partner but really there’s nothing less appealing than this. So I would really recommend against this. Especially as the auto-vetting is becoming more and more popular.
                                                                                                            I also have to recommend against showing your face in pictures, or anything that signifies where you work or live. Even on sites like Fetlife you can end up unintentionally outing yourself in this way. Not only that but showing this much of yourself can potentially put you in danger from predators.
                                                                                                            Talking to other members can be done through either group posts, or direct messaging. And this is where a lot of people find hang ups and snags, because what do you say to a stranger in order to form a connection? A lot of people have trouble here because they just don’t know what to say to get or keep a conversation going, or weed out person’s they’re not interested in, or they end up portraying themselves in a certain way they may not have intended. Kuldrin and I actually started talking after I shot him a message about the podcast on Fetlife. What I said was: Hello, I recently listened to a few of your podcasts. You seem to have a lot to offer to the community at large. I'd love to hear more of what you have to say about the lifestyle. Perhaps we could have a few discussions even? Please feel free to contact me.
                                                                                                            Do- Say hello, be friendly but not too familiar.
                                                                                                            Don’t- Use common vernacular and assume that everyone will understand what you mean regardless of their age or region. Example: Yo bro, sup?... Said to a 60 something year old member of the Old Guard just won’t fly.
                                                                                                            Do- Read the person’s profile. This will hopefully give you an idea of who you’re talking to.
                                                                                                            Don’t- Assume you know everything about a person just by what the profile says, you should be asking questions based off what the profile does say.
                                                                                                            Do- Leave an opening for further conversation to follow.
                                                                                                            Don’t- Insist on the conversation taking place, or try to push it towards a certain direction or aim.
                                                                                                            Do- Be honest about what you want.
                                                                                                            Don’t- Think that just because someone is willing to message with you that this means you can skip the vetting process. Vetting is still extremely vital for online interactions.
                                                                                                            Alright now that we’ve explored a lot of what Fetlife has to offer let’s jump to the next site on our list. One of the longest lived sites out there, bdsmlibrary.org. (http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/)
                                                                                                            Bdsm library is often thought of a site solely for stories written about the lifestyle. This however isn’t true. There is a huge library available there, with stories that are definitely worth the read. However the library also hosts an extensive forum section, where members can contribute to a plethora of subjects in the lifestyle. And of course there is the chat room, which holds a large enough collection of regular members to keep the conversation going after so many years.
                                                                                                            Just as with Fetlife you can find members from all walks of life. Everyone must be 18 years of age or older and create a profile to join. The site hosts members from all over the world.
                                                                                                            The best way to use this site is by creating a profile, just as with Fetlife. After you’ve got your profile set up, read through the forums, there are some great topics there. And finally jump into the chat room when you’re ready.
                                                                                                            The Cage is another huge forum site. (https://thecage.co/) For the moment it is a free site, but they are quickly becoming a paid, by invite only website. This is a very serious place for those who want to learn and share with others.
                                                                                                            The Cage has only been around for a couple of years but the member base they host is one of quality.
                                                                                                            For complete show notes go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com/132]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/13500591Mon, 04 Dec 2017 04:39:56 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCNavigating the Online World Recorded October 2017 This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 32 Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of experience to dispel myths, get rid of...Recorded October 2017
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 32
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of experience to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            On this episode of the Krypt we are going to talk about navigating the online world of BDSM but first, I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.
                                                                                                            This week we’re discussing how to navigate some of the more prominent lifestyle websites out there. This is a listener requested episode, all the way from Germany (?) I believe. Now because there are so many websites out there we’ve chosen to expand on those that have lasted the test of time, bring something unique to our community, or have the largest base of users. So while we are talking about these websites, remember this is by far not every website and quite frankly not even one tenth of what is out there.
                                                                                                            History
                                                                                                            Before we dive into what each of these websites are, what they offer, and how to best make use of them, we would like to touch just shortly on the history of the online community. So 1990 the internet as we know it is created, then in 1991 the word “BDSM” first appeared on a usenet group. Soon after alt.sex.bondage, a group on usenet, found the community expanding further into the online world. A decade later bdsmlibrary.org was founded, and Fetlife popped up seven years after. Today there hundreds more active websites for our community. Some are social networks, some dating apps, some pornographic sites, others are shops which cater to the implements, dress codes, and novelties associated with BDSM culture. The internet opened the lines of communication, for knowledge, connection, and experience in ways that our community simply didn’t have up until that point.
                                                                                                            Now we’re going to go one site at a time and give you ideas of how best to utilize these resources.
                                                                                                            Fetlife- starting with the most popular and well known social site is fairly obvious.
                                                                                                            Created by John Baku Fetlife is essentially the Facebook of the fetish community. There is a feed from people you know, and groups you follow just like on Facebook. However, it’s not pictures of your friend from fourth grade’s puppy (or at least not that kind of puppy)…. It’s going to be posts on things within the lifestyle. That’s not to say that there aren’t vanilla things happening on Fetlife, there are of course, but the majority is all about the kink.
                                                                                                            Kuldrin and I are both on Fetlife, so are our spouses. Along with us there are another 6,230,112 members to date. (https://fetlife.com) There are over 100,000 active groups discussing every possible subject you could think of at any given time. To be a member on Fetlife you must be 18 years of age. Within these 6,000,000 plus users there are people from all walks of life. You can definitely get a broad scope of what we mean when we talk about your kink is okay, by looking at the lists of fetishes alone on Fetlife, and understanding that for each one, there are probably at least 1,000 users who can relate to it at any time.
                                                                                                            Groups are just as diverse as the individual users. We of course have our group Kuldrin’s Krypt, where you can join or start a conversation. There are groups for fetishes, groups for local communities, there are groups for fans of certain book series. I myself am part of groups that offer tutorials, or just give advice. There is so much out there where you can...]]>4949bdsm,love,navigation,relationship,sexclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bdsm-frenzy-s01e31--13298217BDSM Frenzy-S01E31
                                                                                                            October 11, 2017
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 31
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of the Krypt we are going to talk about frenzy but first, I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.
                                                                                                            Before we get into the main topic I have a couple of things to bring up.
                                                                                                            First I’d like to thank our Executive Producer Jeremiah, Our Senior Producer Matt, Producer Missy Lynn and our Jr. Producers K-2SO, Irish Mt. Dragon and The Accidental Trucker. If you are getting anything out of I’d be greatful if they would visit the site and click on the support us tab to give through patreon. In order to maintain weekly episodes we are going to have to reach the goal of $30/month in listener support otherwise, due to costs, we will have to go to two episodes a month.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            The definition of frenzy is a condition of being overly excited, wanting to try something new, or several things in very quick fashion; being in a frenzied state in regards to the lifestyle.
                                                                                                            Three types of frenzy, or groups of people it affects.
                                                                                                            Sub-frenzy
                                                                                                            The frenzy submissives feel, also thought of as the most common kind, this is definitely the most talked about form of frenzy.
                                                                                                            Dom-frenzy
                                                                                                            Rarely acknowledged, this is the frenzy dominants feel and often makes them push themselves into new toys or techniques faster than they should.
                                                                                                            Switch frenzy
                                                                                                            Switches feel frenzy from both perspectives and this often can lead to a temporary mindset of “use this on me, okay good, now my turn.” It comes basically from both sides of the fence, but feeling it come from one end of things and not the other can lead to periods of self doubt and questioning of your position in the lifestyle.
                                                                                                            Signs that you or someone you know may be experiencing frenzy:
                                                                                                            Adrenaline rush
                                                                                                            Feeling almost inebriated when approaching the lifestyle, or learning about something that is new to you. Dizziness, surreality, etc.
                                                                                                            Feeling like you need to make up for lost time. Lots of those who are new to the lifestyle will feel like this, as though they have “wasted” time up until this point and are finally becoming who they were meant to be.
                                                                                                            Feeling a surge of excitement and hope when encountering something new.
                                                                                                            Feeling unspecified needs, or an insatiable need for more.
                                                                                                            Feeling the need to mirror what someone else wants or needs. Again this something everyone can do, not just subs as many myths would have you believe.
                                                                                                            Other emotions you may encounter during periods of frenzy, particularly if you are a newbie are fear, guilt, self-disgust, anger, denial, anxiety, and confusion.
                                                                                                            The risks of frenzy:
                                                                                                            You mind find yourself saying, “wait did I really consent to that?”
                                                                                                            Going into a situation or play with a lack of information.
                                                                                                            Higher health risks, due to a lack of information, giving consent without understanding what you consented to, or pushing to otherwise questionable limits.
                                                                                                            Dangerous emotional and physical burn out, often from playing too much or too soon.
                                                                                                            Skipping the proper vetting process, or ending up with a right now parnter instead of the right partner, simply because you want or feel like you need someone.
                                                                                                            Emotional confusion like the I love you feelings forming inappropriately due to be in altered mental state.
                                                                                                            How to avoid or slow down a frenzied state.
                                                                                                            Remember that there is so much to experience there is simply no way any of can learn it all within the span of any lifetime anyway so you might as well make the most of what you can do by slowing down and doing it correctly.
                                                                                                            Reflect on each encounter so that you can be true to yourself, and learn at your pace.
                                                                                                            Read and find trustworthy individuals in the lifestyle to help teach you. Fetlife and google are both amazing resources for this. Definitely hit up your local munches as well.
                                                                                                            Don't be afraid to come out and say I'm new, or I'm new to this. Pride is essentially useless when it comes to the risks involved in this lifestyle.
                                                                                                            Use this time to self moderate. Again really look within to discover what you need, what you want, and just be very self-aware.
                                                                                                            Saying no can be the best thing for you. You don’t have to say yes to every experience you come across to be part of this community. BDSM is lifestyle that’s extremely inclusive and understanding. We all have our own kinks and our own limits so no is a big part of our vocabulary as a whole.
                                                                                                            Count to ten and breathe deep. Staying calm and clear headed as much as you can will reduce a lot of the risks you’re going to encounter during this period.
                                                                                                            Understand that you have limits and don't need to test those parameters to their fullest. You really have nothing to prove. There’s going to be times when you will get to push those limits and fully explore them with a clear mind, so that really can wait until the frenzy has slowed down.
                                                                                                            If you see someone going through frenzy, speak with them about it and set clear limits so that they may grow at a healthy rate. It’s also okay to turn away someone experiencing frenzy if you are not comfortable playing with them at that time.
                                                                                                            Talk to people in the community as a whole, we've all gone through frenzy at some point. Even talking to someone else going through frenzy can help you understand your own experiences and give you a clearer perspective on things.
                                                                                                            Don’t allow a frenzied state to negatively affect the rest of your life or relationships. Communicate your needs and interests to any partners you have, and prioritize your time, energy, and resources realistically.
                                                                                                            Encountering frenzy when you're not new:
                                                                                                            Understand that this is actually a fairly common occurrence.
                                                                                                            There is a plateau stage where we can level off for a while and then suddenly hit a growth spurt and enter frenzy all over again.
                                                                                                            You may hit a later frenzy due to any number of changes both within the lifestyle, and without. I.E. job changes, big moves, a new toy, discovering a new style of play, or a new play partner.
                                                                                                            Finally continue to learn all the time, this will help stave off later frenzy, though it will not prevent them as a whole.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
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                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/13298217Sat, 11 Nov 2017 09:12:06 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCKuldrin's Krypt: A BDSM 101 Podcast BDSM Frenzy-S01E31 October 11, 2017 This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 31 Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of...BDSM Frenzy-S01E31
                                                                                                            October 11, 2017
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 31
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of the Krypt we are going to talk about frenzy but first, I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.
                                                                                                            Before we get into the main topic I have a couple of things to bring up.
                                                                                                            First I’d like to thank our Executive Producer Jeremiah, Our Senior Producer Matt, Producer Missy Lynn and our Jr. Producers K-2SO, Irish Mt. Dragon and The Accidental Trucker. If you are getting anything out of I’d be greatful if they would visit the site and click on the support us tab to give through patreon. In order to maintain weekly episodes we are going to have to reach the goal of $30/month in listener support otherwise, due to costs, we will have to go to two episodes a month.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            The definition of frenzy is a condition of being overly excited, wanting to try something new, or several things in very quick fashion; being in a frenzied state in regards to the lifestyle.
                                                                                                            Three types of frenzy, or groups of people it affects.
                                                                                                            Sub-frenzy
                                                                                                            The frenzy submissives feel, also thought of as the most common kind, this is definitely the most talked about form of frenzy.
                                                                                                            Dom-frenzy
                                                                                                            Rarely acknowledged, this is the frenzy dominants feel and often makes them push themselves into new toys or techniques faster than they should.
                                                                                                            Switch frenzy
                                                                                                            Switches feel frenzy from both perspectives and this often can lead to a temporary mindset of “use this on me, okay good, now my turn.” It comes basically from both sides of the fence, but feeling it come from one end of things and not the other can lead to periods of self doubt and questioning of your position in the lifestyle.
                                                                                                            Signs that you or someone you know may be experiencing frenzy:
                                                                                                            Adrenaline rush
                                                                                                            Feeling almost inebriated when approaching the lifestyle, or learning about something that is new to you. Dizziness, surreality, etc.
                                                                                                            Feeling like you need to make up for lost time. Lots of those who are new to the lifestyle will feel like this, as though they have “wasted” time up until this point and are finally becoming who they were meant to be.
                                                                                                            Feeling a surge of excitement and hope when encountering something new.
                                                                                                            Feeling unspecified needs, or an insatiable need for more.
                                                                                                            Feeling the need to mirror what someone else wants or needs. Again this something everyone can do, not just subs as many myths would have you believe.
                                                                                                            Other emotions you may encounter during periods of frenzy, particularly if you are a newbie are fear, guilt, self-disgust, anger, denial, anxiety, and confusion.
                                                                                                            The risks of frenzy:
                                                                                                            You mind find yourself saying, “wait did I really consent to that?”
                                                                                                            Going into a situation or play with a lack of information.
                                                                                                            Higher health risks, due to a lack of information, giving consent without understanding what you consented to, or pushing to otherwise questionable limits.
                                                                                                            Dangerous emotional and physical burn out, often from playing too much or too soon.
                                                                                                            Skipping the proper vetting process, or ending up with a right now parnter instead of the right partner, simply because you want or feel like you need someone....]]>3241bdsm,dominant,d/s,relationship,submissionclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/types-of-bdsm-dominants-s01e30--13011336
                                                                                                            S01E30-Types of BDSM Dominants
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            October 13, 2017
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of the Krypt we are going to talk about types of Doms but first, I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.
                                                                                                            Before we get into the main topic I have a couple of things to bring up.
                                                                                                            First I’d like to thank our patreon supporters The Accidental Trucker, K-2SO and Matt. If you are getting anything out of I’d be greatful if they would visit the site and click on the support us tab to give through patreon. In order to maintain weekly episodes we are going to have to reach the goal of $30/month in listener support otherwise, due to costs, we will have to go to two episodes a month.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            I like my definitions as always but I feel like we’re going to be defining and exploring several types of Doms and Dommes today. How about we start off we what a dominant is and build from there, Funsize?
                                                                                                            A dominant is someone who is inherently drawn to taking a role of power and control over others, through means of consent. There’s actually a quote here from husdom.com that explains dominants excellently, “Being a Dominant has nothing in common with being domineering, in fact one is a contradiction of the other. A respectful dominant does not rule arbitrary, based on choice or that of a personal whim. A Dominant does not posses an unbridled supremacy or limitless power.” (https://husdom.com/dominant-gentleman/)
                                                                                                            Before we begin to delve into each type of Dom out there, I would like to point out that you can be more than one type, even within the span of a single scene, and that’s perfectly normal and okay.
                                                                                                            Types of Dominants
                                                                                                            A top is a person who takes control during a scene.
                                                                                                            What makes a top different from the typical dominant? A top may be in charge for a scene, while a dominant is someone who will take control outside of a scene as well.
                                                                                                            Femdoms
                                                                                                            Let’s quickly break the stereotype that Femdoms or Dommes have to be ‘hard,’ in order to be in control. It’s an absolute myth and one that often pressures women into pushing those who bottom to them too hard and can lead to serious injury.
                                                                                                            Findom A dominant who asks their submissives to send them tributes in money or (usually) expensive gifts as part of their submission. They also control other financial aspects of their subs’ lives.
                                                                                                            More than once Kuldrin has suggested this for me, but uh… I’m not sure how I feel about it. And there have been certain organizations that have openly taken a stand against findoms within our community. I believe Vanilla Umbrella is one such organization. We’ll be doing a further episode on financial domination later on, so let us know what your thoughts are on this matter.
                                                                                                            Masters and Mistress refers to a dominant who has either mastered a craft or technique of BDSM, or has an active slave under their control
                                                                                                            We’ve talked more than once on and off mic about what makes a Master or Mistress, in this case we’re talking about those who have active submissives or slaves looking up to them and finding them worthy of such titles.
                                                                                                            Gentlemen and Ladies are dominants who behave in chivalrous, and honorable ways towards their submissives and often any who surround them. They showcase respect and good manners in all things.
                                                                                                            Daddies and Mommies are dominants who choose to take on the role of a Daddy or Mommy, to a little submissive, or one who practices infantilism. They typically focus on guiding, and caring for their submissives as a parent would.
                                                                                                            Kuldrin, take it away, this is your area of expertise.
                                                                                                            Owners are tops that view and treat their bottoms as property that they own
                                                                                                            This includes pets, slaves, furniture and those who wish to be only objects.
                                                                                                            Sadists are technically those who gain sexual pleasure from causing pain to others. This can be physical or mental.
                                                                                                            Laughing Sadists are those who will be very Joker-esque in their play, often laughing or cackling as they perform impact play or hurt their consenting submissive in some other way.
                                                                                                            Sensual Sadists will couple pain with sensuality and pleasure.
                                                                                                            Leathermen are dominants who practice the leather traditions of the Old Guard. They have gone through the lessons and put in the work to earn their leathers and their positions within the community. There is a still a connotation of homosexualtiy attached to this, but its not strictly true of all leathermen.
                                                                                                            White Knight is a dominant type who longs to rescue damsels (or danes) in distress. They enjoy playing the hero.
                                                                                                            Mentors and Trainer are people who guide and teach others in one form or another in aspects of the lifestyle, formally.
                                                                                                            A controlled dominant is a dominant who is being controlled by another dominant or mentor, as an agreement in a scene to follow certain rules, or learn a new technique. This is different from a junior top as it pertains only to a particular scene or lesson. A controlled dominant may also be one who is following the rules laid down by a protector for a particular scene.
                                                                                                            Junior Tops refers to a top or dominant who is learning under the supervised care and guidance of a mentoring dominant. Kuldrin, I almost want to say that in a lot of ways both of our spouses could claim this title at the moment.
                                                                                                            Feeders and Breeders are those who focuses on feeding their submissive with the goal of weight gain in mind. These types of dominants usual look at things from the human animal/livestock perspective; ie cows and pigs, for feeding, breeding, and milking scenes.
                                                                                                            Instas or Instant Dominants, subs, or “Masters” (only in quotes for this sense of things!) who have come across a snippet of (usually) fictional BDSM and decided they were instantly part of the lifestyle. They typically know very little and will pretend they know how to handle much of the lifestyle. I’m not a fan of these people at all, for obvious reasons.
                                                                                                            To talk about primals I’ve got to actually read an excellently worded excerpt from dominantguide.com on this; the author says, “I want to start from or get to a place, where the feelings are primary- pure, raw, animal emotions, sensation and/or instinct. It could be fear, vulnerability, desire, grief, or any profound emotional state. I want to get to a place where words are gone- there may be grunting, growling, moaning, nonsense syllables crying or silence; maybe even all of above. “Primal” applies, as per Merriam Webster, in a way that’s raw, past rational thought, animalistic, instinctual. It’spure, core, raw emotion without a lot of the sensibility and good training that gets layered over that.” Kuldrin I happen to know you very much enjoy being a primal dominant, do you have anything to add here? (http://dominantguide.com/1866/what-does-it-mean-to-be-primal/)
                                                                                                            A protector is someone who watches over the safety and well being of a submissive during scenes or at events. They can be a Dom outside of these events but sometimes they merely serve for these scenes only.
                                                                                                            Riggers set up various rope bondage and suspension devices. They may only do this, or they may participate further in the lifestyle.
                                                                                                            Service Top is a top who focuses on giving service or pleasure to the bottom in their care.
                                                                                                            Caring Dominants are those who focus on taking care of their submissives, not in the sense of servicing them, but in the sense of caring for them physically, mentally, and emotionally.
                                                                                                            R.P.s or Role Play Dominants are those who take on various roles for a scene, and take control through those avenues.
                                                                                                            Examples of these might be boss, cop, or teacher role plays.
                                                                                                            Performers are those who put on shows, jump into the often stereotypical role of a dominant, or just perform demonstrations using their submissives.
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next time on The Krypt we are going to dive into “frenzy” and discuss ways to prevent, what to do if you’re experiencing it, and how to help others through it. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for shownotes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to because a patreon supporter.
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                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/13011336Sat, 14 Oct 2017 15:20:44 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCKuldrin’s Krypt: A BDSM 101 Podcast S01E30-Types of BDSM Dominants October 13, 2017 Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your...
                                                                                                            S01E30-Types of BDSM Dominants
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            October 13, 2017
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of the Krypt we are going to talk about types of Doms but first, I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.
                                                                                                            Before we get into the main topic I have a couple of things to bring up.
                                                                                                            First I’d like to thank our patreon supporters The Accidental Trucker, K-2SO and Matt. If you are getting anything out of I’d be greatful if they would visit the site and click on the support us tab to give through patreon. In order to maintain weekly episodes we are going to have to reach the goal of $30/month in listener support otherwise, due to costs, we will have to go to two episodes a month.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            I like my definitions as always but I feel like we’re going to be defining and exploring several types of Doms and Dommes today. How about we start off we what a dominant is and build from there, Funsize?
                                                                                                            A dominant is someone who is inherently drawn to taking a role of power and control over others, through means of consent. There’s actually a quote here from husdom.com that explains dominants excellently, “Being a Dominant has nothing in common with being domineering, in fact one is a contradiction of the other. A respectful dominant does not rule arbitrary, based on choice or that of a personal whim. A Dominant does not posses an unbridled supremacy or limitless power.” (https://husdom.com/dominant-gentleman/)
                                                                                                            Before we begin to delve into each type of Dom out there, I would like to point out that you can be more than one type, even within the span of a single scene, and that’s perfectly normal and okay.
                                                                                                            Types of Dominants
                                                                                                            A top is a person who takes control during a scene.
                                                                                                            What makes a top different from the typical dominant? A top may be in charge for a scene, while a dominant is someone who will take control outside of a scene as well.
                                                                                                            Femdoms
                                                                                                            Let’s quickly break the stereotype that Femdoms or Dommes have to be ‘hard,’ in order to be in control. It’s an absolute myth and one that often pressures women into pushing those who bottom to them too hard and can lead to serious injury.
                                                                                                            Findom A dominant who asks their submissives to send them tributes in money or (usually) expensive gifts as part of their submission. They also control other financial aspects of their subs’ lives.
                                                                                                            More than once Kuldrin has suggested this for me, but uh… I’m not sure how I feel about it. And there have been certain organizations that have openly taken a stand against findoms within our community. I believe Vanilla Umbrella is one such organization. We’ll be doing a further episode on financial domination later on, so let us know what your thoughts are on this matter.
                                                                                                            Masters and Mistress refers to a dominant who has either mastered a craft or technique of BDSM, or has an active slave under their control
                                                                                                            We’ve talked more than once on and off mic about what makes a Master or Mistress, in this case we’re talking about those who have active submissives or slaves looking up to them and finding them worthy of such titles.
                                                                                                            Gentlemen and Ladies are dominants who behave in...]]>4341bdsm,dominant,relationship,sex,submissiveclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/your-first-bdsm-play-party-s01e29--12920813S01E29-Everything You Need to Know About Your First BDSM Play Party
                                                                                                            September 29, 2017
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 29
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of the Krypt we are going to talk about everything you need to know about your first BDSM play party but before we begin I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.
                                                                                                            Before we get into the main topic I have a couple of things to bring up.
                                                                                                            First I’d like to thank our patreon supporters The Accidental Trucker, K-2SO and Matt. If you are getting anything out of I’d be greatful if they would visit the site and click on the support us tab to give through patreon. In order to maintain weekly episodes we are going to have to reach the goal of $30/month in listener support otherwise, due to costs, we will have to go to two episodes a month.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Before we begin I, as usual, like to start out with some definitions. What is a play party Funsize?
                                                                                                            A play party is a gathering for those in the lifestyle, getting together for various methods of play, be they demonstrations, performances, or just scenes in general. There are two types of play parties actually, regular play parties usually listed on Fetlife, or generally known within community munch circles and groups, and dark parties, which are by invitation only.
                                                                                                            How to get invited?
                                                                                                            It usually comes down to who you know, especially in the case of dark parties. However simply having friends who are going to a community play party can be a way of finding out about them. You can also check the events page on Fetlife to see if anything is listed for your local community.
                                                                                                            Vetting is vital to these types of events. It’s an important practice on both sides, as a hosts, and as those attending. Lots of local communities vet via munches. Others prefer one on one sit down meetings for certain events.
                                                                                                            It’s important to be patient and openly communicative if you are not being invited to these events as quickly as you had hoped. Some groups simply have extensive vetting practices, especially for dark parties.
                                                                                                            It is also important that you vet those you know are attending and your hosts. You can check who is going to most community parties and vet them on Fetlife, for dark parties, you will more likely know people on a more personal level before you are invited.
                                                                                                            What to bring? (In no particular order)
                                                                                                            Fetish-wear or other appropriate clothing to change into or out of for the event. Some events have strict dress codes to adhere to.
                                                                                                            Towels and washcloths. While some hosts will provide towels and washcloths to sit on and for clean up, it’s often more considerate to simply pack you own. No hosts likes to do that much laundry after a party!
                                                                                                            Bottled water. Many will offer refreshments but again to be considerate and mindful of others it’s often better just to already have it on hand. (Plus I cannot tell you how many times I’ve gone to an event and then ended up chugging that bottle of water on my way home later.)
                                                                                                            Wipes/ moist towelettes. Even if you’re not participating in a scene you may find yourself sweaty or arouse, and these make life so much easier.
                                                                                                            Your own toys/ toy box in a discreet container! (I've got a story here)
                                                                                                            Aspirin/ Tylenol. One word; headaches. NO one wants a headache to ruin this kind of experience, and getting into the practise of having these on hand will make for better experiences down the road as well.
                                                                                                            What to expect?
                                                                                                            Do not expect to participate in a scene unless previously negotiated to do so; you can learn a lot from just watching
                                                                                                            Ask yourself what are your personal expectations for this experience? (thanks Roxiebear!)
                                                                                                            Regular people, doing ordinary things, and having ordinary conversations, during this event.
                                                                                                            Acts which bring out things from your wildest fantasies; often for the firsts times ever in real life; or make you uncomfortable due to your own limits/ interests.
                                                                                                            Almost casual nudity and/or fetish wear that may make you uncomfortable
                                                                                                            Sometimes sex or sexual acts being carried out, but often times not.
                                                                                                            House Rules
                                                                                                            Different hosts/ houses have different sets of rules, it’s important to learn these beforehand and/or go over them upon arrival, usually they will be posted and you can ask your hosts to view them.
                                                                                                            Is there an entry fee or a potluck contribution expected? This is good to know before you arrive.
                                                                                                            Where you can go, and where you cannot. You are usually entering a hosts private home for these parties. Some rooms like living spaces will usually be allowed while bedrooms and often outdoor spaces will be set as off limits. (Outdoors because of neighbors in most cases, remember your rules of discretion.)
                                                                                                            What kind of scenes are appropriate/against the rules. While this isn’t a big deal the first time you attend as you most likely will not be participating, it’s still good to pick up on for future events.
                                                                                                            Protocol rules for the household. Is this event high protocol friendly?
                                                                                                            What is the dress code both in the house, and for your arrival and departure? Make sure you’re dressed appropriately.
                                                                                                            Where to sit while viewing a scene and if a towel is needed/preferred? (Usually it is.)
                                                                                                            Do not interrupt a scene or interject yourself as there are still risks involved for the participants, and distractions increase those risks.
                                                                                                            Bring any safety concerns you have for a scene being performed to your hosts discreetly, they have often gone over what will occur with those performing beforehand to address many of these concerns or will stop a scene if you have a valid safety issue to be addressed.
                                                                                                            The general no touching rule, which applies to both persons and toys/implements. Very general rule: If it’s not yours, don’t touch it.
                                                                                                            Know what to do in case of an emergency. Many hosts will have specific protocols in place and first aid kits on hand on the off chance that something may go wrong.
                                                                                                            Play party scenes, demos, and performances explained.
                                                                                                            In a scene of this nature some people (exhibitionist *cough* KULDRIN *cough*) enjoy being viewed, others become humiliated and enjoy it on another level.
                                                                                                            The world falls away for the performers, allowing them to focus on what they doing (for the most part- unless some distraction occurs.)
                                                                                                            Save any questions you have for after the scene, including aftercare completion.
                                                                                                            Be prepared for more than one scene to be taking place at the party at one time and don’t become to anxious with feeling as though you’re miss something. It’s important to simply enjoy the experience as a whole.
                                                                                                            Our own stories and experiences
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next on The Krypt a special listener request, Type of Doms Explained. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for shownotes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Facebook group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to because a patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com / funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
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                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/12920813Fri, 29 Sep 2017 20:32:48 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCKuldrin's Krypt: A BDSM 101 Podcast S01E29-Everything You Need to Know About Your First BDSM Play Party September 29, 2017 This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 29 Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the...S01E29-Everything You Need to Know About Your First BDSM Play Party
                                                                                                            September 29, 2017
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 29
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of the Krypt we are going to talk about everything you need to know about your first BDSM play party but before we begin I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.
                                                                                                            Before we get into the main topic I have a couple of things to bring up.
                                                                                                            First I’d like to thank our patreon supporters The Accidental Trucker, K-2SO and Matt. If you are getting anything out of I’d be greatful if they would visit the site and click on the support us tab to give through patreon. In order to maintain weekly episodes we are going to have to reach the goal of $30/month in listener support otherwise, due to costs, we will have to go to two episodes a month.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Before we begin I, as usual, like to start out with some definitions. What is a play party Funsize?
                                                                                                            A play party is a gathering for those in the lifestyle, getting together for various methods of play, be they demonstrations, performances, or just scenes in general. There are two types of play parties actually, regular play parties usually listed on Fetlife, or generally known within community munch circles and groups, and dark parties, which are by invitation only.
                                                                                                            How to get invited?
                                                                                                            It usually comes down to who you know, especially in the case of dark parties. However simply having friends who are going to a community play party can be a way of finding out about them. You can also check the events page on Fetlife to see if anything is listed for your local community.
                                                                                                            Vetting is vital to these types of events. It’s an important practice on both sides, as a hosts, and as those attending. Lots of local communities vet via munches. Others prefer one on one sit down meetings for certain events.
                                                                                                            It’s important to be patient and openly communicative if you are not being invited to these events as quickly as you had hoped. Some groups simply have extensive vetting practices, especially for dark parties.
                                                                                                            It is also important that you vet those you know are attending and your hosts. You can check who is going to most community parties and vet them on Fetlife, for dark parties, you will more likely know people on a more personal level before you are invited.
                                                                                                            What to bring? (In no particular order)
                                                                                                            Fetish-wear or other appropriate clothing to change into or out of for the event. Some events have strict dress codes to adhere to.
                                                                                                            Towels and washcloths. While some hosts will provide towels and washcloths to sit on and for clean up, it’s often more considerate to simply pack you own. No hosts likes to do that much laundry after a party!
                                                                                                            Bottled water. Many will offer refreshments but again to be considerate and mindful of others it’s often better just to already have it on hand. (Plus I cannot tell you how many times I’ve gone to an event and then ended up chugging that bottle of water on my way home later.)
                                                                                                            Wipes/ moist towelettes. Even if you’re not participating in a scene you may find yourself sweaty or arouse, and these make life so much easier.
                                                                                                            Your own toys/ toy box in a discreet...]]>4473bdsm,d/s,love,relationship,sexclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/s01e28-bdsm-basic-safety--12757443S01E28-Basic Safety
                                                                                                            September 9th, 2017
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of the Krypt we are going get into basic safety, but first, as usual I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.
                                                                                                            Before we get into the main topic I have a couple of things to bring up.
                                                                                                            First I’d like to thank our patreon supporter The Accidental Trucker…he’s been around since the beginning of the show. He gives a dollar a month. If the listeners are getting anything out of I’d be greatful if they would visit the site and click on the support us tab to give through patreon.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Basic safety defined: The steps we should all take to ensure the wellbeing of our play partners, mentally, physically, and emotionally.
                                                                                                            In review- limits, both hard and soft, and the use of safewords.
                                                                                                            We’ve already gone over these a few times so just to review; hard limits are limits that are firmly set in place, and to be avoided being broken. Soft limits are limits that are there but open to negotiations in the right situation. And safewords are words or hand gestures used to signify where a bottom is physically, mentally, or emotionally during a scene.
                                                                                                            Physical Safety
                                                                                                            Preparations for a scene
                                                                                                            Stretch, take a mild pain reliever, and drink a glass of water.
                                                                                                            In fact don’t be afraid to pause a scene for water, drink water as part of the scene, and drink water as part of your aftercare. Hydration is everyone’s best friend.
                                                                                                            Get into the proper headspace. Clear away everything else so that you are mentally and emotionally able to get what you need from the experience.
                                                                                                            Do not imbibe in drugs or alcohol previous to or during a scene. This can inhibit decision making i.e. consent, and make it harder to tell when a person is at or has crossed their limits.
                                                                                                            Knowing what you are doing.
                                                                                                            It’s important to have as much knowledge as possible on what you are doing.
                                                                                                            For most vets there is a code of teaching others, and we take this quite seriously with our newbies.
                                                                                                            Understand any risks you are taking. RACK, PRICK, and SSCI.
                                                                                                            Know how to use any implements safely and correctly.
                                                                                                            Understand the tools and implements which you are using. Each implement in your tool box has certain risks involved, especially if used incorrectly, or before you’re ready. Scalpels vs usual knife play is a prime example of this. Scalpels are meant to peel flesh open whereas knives can be used to simply incite fear. So it’s important to understand that scalpels are not for beginners by any means.
                                                                                                            Candles and hot wax play can vary based on the type of wax used. Paraffin is safest because of its low melting point but some dyes added can increase the temperature to a harmful level. Also be aware of how far from the skin the candle is being held and avoid sensitive areas.
                                                                                                            Handcuffs, should be the real cuffs used in law enforcement not the cheap kind sold at places like Spencer's. These have a point where they lick and stay put whereas the cheap kind can tighten from slight movements cutting off circulation. Also make sure you have your key on hand and easily accessible.
                                                                                                            Avoid cheap toys in general as these typically break, are harder to care for, and cause more hurt than intended.
                                                                                                            Be sure you are cleaning, conditioning, maintaining, and storing all implements correctly.
                                                                                                            When participating in impact play know where and how to hit.
                                                                                                            Watch for silent cues that something is wrong.
                                                                                                            Practice safe bondage.
                                                                                                            Use the two finger rule.
                                                                                                            Watch for circulation risks, and possible nerve damage. You can check circulation by pressing on fingernails and counting how long it takes for color to return.
                                                                                                            Be mindful of the materials used. Notes on silk ties and bondage tape.
                                                                                                            Have quick releases available and safety shears on hand.
                                                                                                            Never leave a bottom restrained and unattended.
                                                                                                            Other safety practices and tips.
                                                                                                            Be mindful of your partners temperature.
                                                                                                            Often an extreme and quick drop in temperature signifies that the body is nearing or going into shock. Often what we do creates physical trauma, and this is a sign to back off, regulate temperature and bodily function, so a break or end of play is appropriate.
                                                                                                            Talk to your partner about previous sexual partners and activities. And get proof that they are STD and STI free. You should be doing this anyway whether it's with a play partner (including nonsexual) or a vanilla partner.
                                                                                                            Know what your partner's health conditions and allergies are before play.
                                                                                                            Take care of mental/emotional safety
                                                                                                            Keep an open line of communication (this is what ended my relationship with my last dominant.)
                                                                                                            Don’t let your pride keep you from calling orange or red to address mental/emotional concerns
                                                                                                            Conclusion: With these regular practices of basic safety and aftercare you can the best possible scenes with your partner.
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next on The Krypt we are going to discuss everything you need to know about your first play party. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for shownotes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Facebook group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to because a patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com / funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/12757443Fri, 08 Sep 2017 21:39:18 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCKuldrin's Krypt: A BDSM 101 Podcast S01E28-Basic Safety September 9th, 2017 This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of...S01E28-Basic Safety
                                                                                                            September 9th, 2017
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of the Krypt we are going get into basic safety, but first, as usual I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.
                                                                                                            Before we get into the main topic I have a couple of things to bring up.
                                                                                                            First I’d like to thank our patreon supporter The Accidental Trucker…he’s been around since the beginning of the show. He gives a dollar a month. If the listeners are getting anything out of I’d be greatful if they would visit the site and click on the support us tab to give through patreon.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Basic safety defined: The steps we should all take to ensure the wellbeing of our play partners, mentally, physically, and emotionally.
                                                                                                            In review- limits, both hard and soft, and the use of safewords.
                                                                                                            We’ve already gone over these a few times so just to review; hard limits are limits that are firmly set in place, and to be avoided being broken. Soft limits are limits that are there but open to negotiations in the right situation. And safewords are words or hand gestures used to signify where a bottom is physically, mentally, or emotionally during a scene.
                                                                                                            Physical Safety
                                                                                                            Preparations for a scene
                                                                                                            Stretch, take a mild pain reliever, and drink a glass of water.
                                                                                                            In fact don’t be afraid to pause a scene for water, drink water as part of the scene, and drink water as part of your aftercare. Hydration is everyone’s best friend.
                                                                                                            Get into the proper headspace. Clear away everything else so that you are mentally and emotionally able to get what you need from the experience.
                                                                                                            Do not imbibe in drugs or alcohol previous to or during a scene. This can inhibit decision making i.e. consent, and make it harder to tell when a person is at or has crossed their limits.
                                                                                                            Knowing what you are doing.
                                                                                                            It’s important to have as much knowledge as possible on what you are doing.
                                                                                                            For most vets there is a code of teaching others, and we take this quite seriously with our newbies.
                                                                                                            Understand any risks you are taking. RACK, PRICK, and SSCI.
                                                                                                            Know how to use any implements safely and correctly.
                                                                                                            Understand the tools and implements which you are using. Each implement in your tool box has certain risks involved, especially if used incorrectly, or before you’re ready. Scalpels vs usual knife play is a prime example of this. Scalpels are meant to peel flesh open whereas knives can be used to simply incite fear. So it’s important to understand that scalpels are not for beginners by any means.
                                                                                                            Candles and hot wax play can vary based on the type of wax used. Paraffin is safest because of its low melting point but some dyes added can increase the temperature to a harmful level. Also be aware of how far from the skin the candle is being held and avoid sensitive areas.
                                                                                                            Handcuffs, should be the real cuffs used in law enforcement not the cheap kind sold at places like Spencer's. These have a point where they lick and stay put whereas the cheap kind can tighten from slight movements cutting off circulation. Also make sure you have your key on hand and easily accessible.
                                                                                                            Avoid cheap toys in general as...]]>4786bdsm,love,relationship,safety,sexclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/s01e27-irishmtdragon-interview-on-bdsm-experience--12695515
                                                                                                            S01E27-IrishMTDragon Interview on BDSM Experience
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            August 31, 2017
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/12695515Thu, 31 Aug 2017 13:06:08 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCKuldrin's Krypt: A BDSM 101 Podcast S01E27-IrishMTDragon Interview on BDSM Experience August 31, 2017 https://kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            S01E27-IrishMTDragon Interview on BDSM Experience
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            August 31, 2017
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com]]>2207bdsm,interview,love,relationship,sexclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/s01e26-consensual-non-consent-revisted--12632971S01E26-Consensual Non Consent Revisted
                                                                                                            August 23, 2017
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of the Krypt we are going to revisit consensual non-consent. Before we begin I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.
                                                                                                            Before we get into the main topic I have a couple of things to bring up.
                                                                                                            First I’d like to thank our patreon supporter The Accidental Trucker…he’s been around since the beginning of the show. He gives a dollar a month. If the listeners are getting anything out of I’d be greatful if they would visit the site and click on the support us tab to give through patreon.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Before we begin I, as usual, like to start out with some definitions, however we’re going to be hitting a very sensitive topic today so the definitions we’re going to start with are going to SSC, RACK, and PRICK.
                                                                                                            Safe, Sane, and Consensual: Think of it as a checklist for anything you’re going to do within the lifestyle. Is it safe, physically, mentally and emotionally? Is it something you find to be sane? Do you and the other participants knowingly consent to doing it?
                                                                                                            RACK- Risk Aware Consensual Kink: This means that all parties know that there are risks involved, the know what those risks are, and still are fully consenting in participating in this variety of kink.
                                                                                                            PRICK- Personal Responsibility, Informed, Consensual Kink: The idea behind this is that each individual participant should seek out the knowledge and assume personal responsibility for the activities (kink) they are consenting to.
                                                                                                            Finally there are two primary definitions for consensual non-consent.
                                                                                                            Full tpe (or total power exchange) CNC in which a slave has given full permission to their Master or Mistress to essentially remove all boundaries and possible limits, fully entrusting their care and consent in their top.
                                                                                                            CNC as in rape play, or the consent given for a role-play of nonconsensual acts to be carried within a scene.
                                                                                                            Okay so going back to CNC for the M/s dynamic this is a consent that has been given that essentially creates a carte blanche for that dynamic.
                                                                                                            What it means?
                                                                                                            It means that the slave and Master have built such a level of trust that the slave feels it is no longer necessary to have negotiations or any will to practice willful consent. Not all M/s relationships work like this.
                                                                                                            What it takes?
                                                                                                            Years of trust building, open communication, and care. And even then it may not be something every M/s relationship reaches.
                                                                                                            Risks involved?
                                                                                                            The risks involved here is that without limits and boundaries you truly have to rely on your partner to be able to fully understand your needs, even when they sometimes push beyond that which you had once considered to hard limits.
                                                                                                            CNC aka Rape Play
                                                                                                            Why it appeals to some?
                                                                                                            It has the appeal of fear, of making one ‘truly helpless,’ and there’s a certain taboo element to it too.
                                                                                                            How to approach this topic with a partner?
                                                                                                            Keep open honest communication, during a check-in or negotiation you may choose to bring it up as a fantasy.
                                                                                                            Risks involved?
                                                                                                            Mental and emotional damage, misunderstandings of consent could turn a fantasy into a real rape if not handled correctly, which can lead to long lasting consequences for all parties involved.
                                                                                                            How to decide if either version of CNC is right for you?
                                                                                                            Meditate on it if you think you are interested in either one.
                                                                                                            Be aware of the risks involved.
                                                                                                            Talk to your partner and if they feel this is not the right path for your relationship, be respectful.
                                                                                                            Be very mindful of your check-ins and aftercare.
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next on The Krypt. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for shownotes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Facebook group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to because a patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com / funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/12632971Wed, 23 Aug 2017 04:26:42 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCKuldrin's Krypt: A BDSM 101 Podcast S01E26-Consensual Non Consent Revisted August 23, 2017 Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer...S01E26-Consensual Non Consent Revisted
                                                                                                            August 23, 2017
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of the Krypt we are going to revisit consensual non-consent. Before we begin I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.
                                                                                                            Before we get into the main topic I have a couple of things to bring up.
                                                                                                            First I’d like to thank our patreon supporter The Accidental Trucker…he’s been around since the beginning of the show. He gives a dollar a month. If the listeners are getting anything out of I’d be greatful if they would visit the site and click on the support us tab to give through patreon.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Before we begin I, as usual, like to start out with some definitions, however we’re going to be hitting a very sensitive topic today so the definitions we’re going to start with are going to SSC, RACK, and PRICK.
                                                                                                            Safe, Sane, and Consensual: Think of it as a checklist for anything you’re going to do within the lifestyle. Is it safe, physically, mentally and emotionally? Is it something you find to be sane? Do you and the other participants knowingly consent to doing it?
                                                                                                            RACK- Risk Aware Consensual Kink: This means that all parties know that there are risks involved, the know what those risks are, and still are fully consenting in participating in this variety of kink.
                                                                                                            PRICK- Personal Responsibility, Informed, Consensual Kink: The idea behind this is that each individual participant should seek out the knowledge and assume personal responsibility for the activities (kink) they are consenting to.
                                                                                                            Finally there are two primary definitions for consensual non-consent.
                                                                                                            Full tpe (or total power exchange) CNC in which a slave has given full permission to their Master or Mistress to essentially remove all boundaries and possible limits, fully entrusting their care and consent in their top.
                                                                                                            CNC as in rape play, or the consent given for a role-play of nonconsensual acts to be carried within a scene.
                                                                                                            Okay so going back to CNC for the M/s dynamic this is a consent that has been given that essentially creates a carte blanche for that dynamic.
                                                                                                            What it means?
                                                                                                            It means that the slave and Master have built such a level of trust that the slave feels it is no longer necessary to have negotiations or any will to practice willful consent. Not all M/s relationships work like this.
                                                                                                            What it takes?
                                                                                                            Years of trust building, open communication, and care. And even then it may not be something every M/s relationship reaches.
                                                                                                            Risks involved?
                                                                                                            The risks involved here is that without limits and boundaries you truly have to rely on your partner to be able to fully understand your needs, even when they sometimes push beyond that which you had once considered to hard limits.
                                                                                                            CNC aka Rape Play
                                                                                                            Why it appeals to some?
                                                                                                            It has the appeal of fear, of making one ‘truly helpless,’ and there’s a certain taboo element to it too.
                                                                                                            How to approach this topic with a partner?
                                                                                                            Keep open honest communication, during a check-in or negotiation you may choose to bring it up as a fantasy.
                                                                                                            Risks involved?
                                                                                                            Mental and emotional damage, misunderstandings of consent could turn a fantasy into a real rape if not handled correctly,...]]>1904consensual non consent,fifty shades,love,relationship,sexclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/s01e25-bdsm-aftercare--12577167
                                                                                                            Season 1 Episode 25
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            August 15, 2017
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 25
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of the Krypt we are going get into basic safety, but first, as usual I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.
                                                                                                            Before we get into the main topic I have a couple of things to bring up.
                                                                                                            First I’d like to thank our patreon supporter The Accidental Trucker…he’s been around since the beginning of the show. He gives a dollar a month. If the listeners are getting anything out of I’d be greatful if they would visit the site and click on the support us tab to give through patreon.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Aftercare basics
                                                                                                            Check-ins
                                                                                                            Have your first aid kit stocked and ready
                                                                                                            Spend time together, watch tv, cuddle, take a bath or shower
                                                                                                            Drink water
                                                                                                            Maintain a steady temperature
                                                                                                            Massages
                                                                                                            Talk about what you liked or didn’t like
                                                                                                            Express any feelings even if it means crying or screaming
                                                                                                            Tell your partner that you care (do not say 'I love you' if you don't mean it) just show your respect, and care.  
                                                                                                            Conclusion:  With these regular practices of basic safety and aftercare you can the best possible scenes with your partner.  
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next on The Krypt we are going to revisit consensual non-consent. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for shownotes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Facebook group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to because a patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com / funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/12577167Tue, 15 Aug 2017 05:07:51 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCKuldrin's Krypt Season 1 Episode 25 August 15, 2017 This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 25 Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and...
                                                                                                            Season 1 Episode 25
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            August 15, 2017
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 25
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of the Krypt we are going get into basic safety, but first, as usual I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.
                                                                                                            Before we get into the main topic I have a couple of things to bring up.
                                                                                                            First I’d like to thank our patreon supporter The Accidental Trucker…he’s been around since the beginning of the show. He gives a dollar a month. If the listeners are getting anything out of I’d be greatful if they would visit the site and click on the support us tab to give through patreon.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Aftercare basics
                                                                                                            Check-ins
                                                                                                            Have your first aid kit stocked and ready
                                                                                                            Spend time together, watch tv, cuddle, take a bath or shower
                                                                                                            Drink water
                                                                                                            Maintain a steady temperature
                                                                                                            Massages
                                                                                                            Talk about what you liked or didn’t like
                                                                                                            Express any feelings even if it means crying or screaming
                                                                                                            Tell your partner that you care (do not say 'I love you' if you don't mean it) just show your respect, and care.  
                                                                                                            Conclusion:  With these regular practices of basic safety and aftercare you can the best possible scenes with your partner.  
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next on The Krypt we are going to revisit consensual non-consent. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for shownotes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Facebook group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to because a patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com / funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>1238aftercare,bdsm,d/s,relationship,sexclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/s01e24-effective-communication-in-bdsm-relationships--12513968S01E24-Effective Communication in BDSM
                                                                                                            August 8th, 2017
                                                                                                            Intro
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 24 for August 8th, 2017.
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of the Krypt we are going get into Effective Communication. But first let’s say hello to my co-host, Funsize. Hello Funsize.
                                                                                                            Before we get into the main topic I have a couple of things to bring up.
                                                                                                            First I’d like to thank our patreon supporter The Accidental Trucker…he’s been around since the beginning of the show. He gives a dollar a month. If the listeners are getting anything out of I’d be greatful if they would visit the site and click on the support us tab to give through patreon.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Verbal
                                                                                                            Negotiations, safe words, and consent. We’ve gone over all these things before. Speak openly and honestly. If you’re uncomfortable or not sure about something it’s important to come out and just say so.
                                                                                                            Disagreements. Respect is a must, along with trust. If someone has a limit, whether you agree or not it’s important to respect that. You can also disagree as a sub and still be respectful. And take time to calm down and discuss disagreements with a clear head.
                                                                                                            Have normal conversations too. Too many times we forget to do this, but it’s important for building communication and trust.
                                                                                                            Check-ins and setting time aside to talk. Make sure you prioritize communication.
                                                                                                            Silent Communication- hand signals, body language and the very telling eyes.
                                                                                                            Communication is both a skill and a tool. Constant work on communication will make your relationship a thousand times better but if it’s not there or breaks down then it can end your relationship. Put in the work cause it’s worth it.
                                                                                                            Communication for Doms and subs.
                                                                                                            As a Dom keep a line of communication open. You need your sub to feel like they can approach you.
                                                                                                            As a sub always speak with respect.
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next on The Krypt we are going to jump into basic safety. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for shownotes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Facebook group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to because a patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com / funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/12513968Mon, 07 Aug 2017 04:05:03 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCKuldrin’s Krypt S01E24-Effective Communication in BDSM August 8th, 2017 Intro This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 24 for August 8th, 2017. Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to...S01E24-Effective Communication in BDSM
                                                                                                            August 8th, 2017
                                                                                                            Intro
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 24 for August 8th, 2017.
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of the Krypt we are going get into Effective Communication. But first let’s say hello to my co-host, Funsize. Hello Funsize.
                                                                                                            Before we get into the main topic I have a couple of things to bring up.
                                                                                                            First I’d like to thank our patreon supporter The Accidental Trucker…he’s been around since the beginning of the show. He gives a dollar a month. If the listeners are getting anything out of I’d be greatful if they would visit the site and click on the support us tab to give through patreon.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Verbal
                                                                                                            Negotiations, safe words, and consent. We’ve gone over all these things before. Speak openly and honestly. If you’re uncomfortable or not sure about something it’s important to come out and just say so.
                                                                                                            Disagreements. Respect is a must, along with trust. If someone has a limit, whether you agree or not it’s important to respect that. You can also disagree as a sub and still be respectful. And take time to calm down and discuss disagreements with a clear head.
                                                                                                            Have normal conversations too. Too many times we forget to do this, but it’s important for building communication and trust.
                                                                                                            Check-ins and setting time aside to talk. Make sure you prioritize communication.
                                                                                                            Silent Communication- hand signals, body language and the very telling eyes.
                                                                                                            Communication is both a skill and a tool. Constant work on communication will make your relationship a thousand times better but if it’s not there or breaks down then it can end your relationship. Put in the work cause it’s worth it.
                                                                                                            Communication for Doms and subs.
                                                                                                            As a Dom keep a line of communication open. You need your sub to feel like they can approach you.
                                                                                                            As a sub always speak with respect.
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next on The Krypt we are going to jump into basic safety. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for shownotes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Facebook group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to because a patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com / funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            https://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>215750,bdsm,communication,relationship,sexclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/s01e23-bdsm-negotiation--12484991
                                                                                                            S01E23-BDSM Negotiation
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            August 1st, 2017
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Intro
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show
                                                                                                            this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You
                                                                                                            can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of the Krypt we’re diving into negotiations but first I have to say hello to my lovely co-host Funsize.
                                                                                                             
                                                                                                            Before we get into the main topic I have a couple of things to bring up.
                                                                                                            1. First I’d like to thank our Patreon supporter The Accidental Trucker he’s been around since the beginning of the show. He gives a dollar a month. If the listeners are getting anything out of I'd be grateful if they would visit the site and click on the support us tab to give through Patreon.
                                                                                                             
                                                                                                            2. Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                             
                                                                                                            3. Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            a. Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            b. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            c. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                             
                                                                                                            Negotiations
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Definition: Negotiations are the agreements, disagreements, and compromises made around the limits and interests between play partners or those engaging in D/s or M/s relationships.
                                                                                                             
                                                                                                            What makes negotiations important?
                                                                                                            They define what you are and are not consenting to.
                                                                                                            As consent is so important negotiations are a vital part of communicating consent.
                                                                                                             
                                                                                                            Types of negotiations:
                                                                                                            1: Scenes only - these are negotiations used to the communicate the boundaries of what is and is not consented upon for a scenes. Whether they be single scenes or the individual scenes undertaken by play partners.
                                                                                                            Example: We might agree to moderate spanking for a scene but no sex of any kind.
                                                                                                             
                                                                                                            2: D/s and M/s relationships - more serious negotiations for on going relationships, negotiations are usually used to determine the particulars of contracts.
                                                                                                            For help writing your contract check out our sponsor bdsmcontracts.org
                                                                                                            Example: High protocol? Is it is something Funsize would consent to? That would be something that for instance we would have negotiate for the long run of any D/s or M/s relationship we entered into.
                                                                                                             
                                                                                                            3: Renegotiations - A renegotiation is the process of checking in at a typically defined point of time (2 months, 4 months, etc,) to negotiate any changes necessary to the pre-existing dynamic.
                                                                                                             Example: You might need to renegotiate a soft limit, that has become a hard limit or has moved into something you would like to incorporate into more regular use.
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next week on The Krypt we are going revisit consensual non-consent together. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for shownotes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Facebook group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for the monthly giveaway. While you’re there click on support us for the Patreon link.
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com / funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/12484991Wed, 02 Aug 2017 02:21:43 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCKuldrin's Krypt: A BDSM 101 Podcast S01E23-BDSM Negotiation August 1st, 2017 Intro Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer...
                                                                                                            S01E23-BDSM Negotiation
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            August 1st, 2017
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Intro
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show
                                                                                                            this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You
                                                                                                            can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of the Krypt we’re diving into negotiations but first I have to say hello to my lovely co-host Funsize.
                                                                                                             
                                                                                                            Before we get into the main topic I have a couple of things to bring up.
                                                                                                            1. First I’d like to thank our Patreon supporter The Accidental Trucker he’s been around since the beginning of the show. He gives a dollar a month. If the listeners are getting anything out of I'd be grateful if they would visit the site and click on the support us tab to give through Patreon.
                                                                                                             
                                                                                                            2. Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                             
                                                                                                            3. Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            a. Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            b. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            c. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                             
                                                                                                            Negotiations
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Definition: Negotiations are the agreements, disagreements, and compromises made around the limits and interests between play partners or those engaging in D/s or M/s relationships.
                                                                                                             
                                                                                                            What makes negotiations important?
                                                                                                            They define what you are and are not consenting to.
                                                                                                            As consent is so important negotiations are a vital part of communicating consent.
                                                                                                             
                                                                                                            Types of negotiations:
                                                                                                            1: Scenes only - these are negotiations used to the communicate the boundaries of what is and is not consented upon for a scenes. Whether they be single scenes or the individual scenes undertaken by play partners.
                                                                                                            Example: We might agree to moderate spanking for a scene but no sex of any kind.
                                                                                                             
                                                                                                            2: D/s and M/s relationships - more serious negotiations for on going relationships, negotiations are usually used to determine the particulars of contracts.
                                                                                                            For help writing your contract check out our sponsor bdsmcontracts.org
                                                                                                            Example: High protocol? Is it is something Funsize would consent to? That would be something that for instance we would have negotiate for the long run of any D/s or M/s relationship we entered into.
                                                                                                             
                                                                                                            3: Renegotiations - A renegotiation is the process of checking in at a typically defined point of time (2 months, 4 months, etc,) to negotiate any changes necessary to the pre-existing dynamic.
                                                                                                             Example: You might need to renegotiate a soft limit, that has become a hard limit or has moved into something you would like to incorporate into more regular use.
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next week on The Krypt we are going revisit consensual non-consent together. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for shownotes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Facebook group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for the monthly giveaway. While you’re there click on support us for the Patreon link.
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com / funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>154350,bdsm,negotiation,relationship,sexclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/s01e22-discretion-in-bdsm--12396532S01E22-Discretion in BDSM
                                                                                                            June 20th, 2017
                                                                                                            Intro
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 22 for June 20th, 2017.
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of the Krypt we are going get into Discretion in BDSM. Why it’s important? How to be discrete? And what happens if someone is outed but as usual I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.
                                                                                                            Before we get into the main topic I have a couple of things to bring up.
                                                                                                            First I’d like to thank our patreon supporter The Accidental Trucker...he’s been around since the beginning of the show. He gives a dollar a month. If the listeners are getting anything out of I’d be greatful if they would visit the site and click on the support us tab to give through patreon.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Discretion defined:
                                                                                                            What is it to be discrete?
                                                                                                            What is outing?
                                                                                                            What makes discretion so important?
                                                                                                            Consequences to those who have been outed.
                                                                                                            Consequences for those who out others.
                                                                                                            What you can do to if you have been outed.
                                                                                                            How to be discreet.
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next on The Krypt we are going to back to the foundation of the show and getting into BDSM Safety 101. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for shownotes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Facebook group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to because a patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com / funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/12396532Thu, 20 Jul 2017 18:21:05 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCKuldrin’s Krypt S01E22-Discretion in BDSM June 20th, 2017 Intro This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 22 for June 20th, 2017. Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths,...S01E22-Discretion in BDSM
                                                                                                            June 20th, 2017
                                                                                                            Intro
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 22 for June 20th, 2017.
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of the Krypt we are going get into Discretion in BDSM. Why it’s important? How to be discrete? And what happens if someone is outed but as usual I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.
                                                                                                            Before we get into the main topic I have a couple of things to bring up.
                                                                                                            First I’d like to thank our patreon supporter The Accidental Trucker...he’s been around since the beginning of the show. He gives a dollar a month. If the listeners are getting anything out of I’d be greatful if they would visit the site and click on the support us tab to give through patreon.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Discretion defined:
                                                                                                            What is it to be discrete?
                                                                                                            What is outing?
                                                                                                            What makes discretion so important?
                                                                                                            Consequences to those who have been outed.
                                                                                                            Consequences for those who out others.
                                                                                                            What you can do to if you have been outed.
                                                                                                            How to be discreet.
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next on The Krypt we are going to back to the foundation of the show and getting into BDSM Safety 101. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for shownotes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Facebook group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to because a patreon supporter.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com / funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>2074101,bdsm,discretion,relationships,sexclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/s01e21-bdsm-without-sex--12317481
                                                                                                            S01E21-BDSM/submission without Sex
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            July 9th, 2017
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Intro
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 20 for July 9th, 2017.
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of the Krypt it all about BDSM without sex but first I have to say hello to my lovely co-host Funsize.
                                                                                                            Before we get into the main topic I have a couple of things to bring up.
                                                                                                            First I’d like to thank our Patreon supporter The Accidental Trucker...he’s been around since the beginning of the show. He gives a dollar a month. If the listeners are getting anything out of I’d be grateful if they would visit the site and click on the support us tab to give through Patreon.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            BDSM without Sex
                                                                                                            Forest scenes from Eros Exposed.  
                                                                                                            This was not a metaphor for sex, but for all relationships in times of stress and hardship.  
                                                                                                            Why is it okay or preferable for some to have BDSM without sex?  
                                                                                                            Marriage
                                                                                                            Simplifies things
                                                                                                            Everything else is about sex, this can be one thing that isn’t.  
                                                                                                            How to achieve this?  
                                                                                                            Tell your play partner what you want from the start. Communicate!
                                                                                                            How it can help?
                                                                                                            Lets you have all the benefits of BDSM without feeling used.
                                                                                                            Brings clarity and intimacy.
                                                                                                            No fear of children or STDs.  
                                                                                                            No guilt or question of adultery or cheating.
                                                                                                            How to find a play partner for celibate BDSM?
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next on The Krypt I am going to giving a lot of myself to you as Funsize interrogates me about the ins and out of being a Professional Dom. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for shownotes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Facebook group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for the monthly giveaway. While you’re there click on support us for the patreon link.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com / funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/12317481Mon, 10 Jul 2017 02:59:27 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCKuldrin’s Krypt S01E21-BDSM/submission without Sex July 9th, 2017 Intro This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 20 for July 9th, 2017. Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to...
                                                                                                            S01E21-BDSM/submission without Sex
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            July 9th, 2017
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Intro
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 20 for July 9th, 2017.
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of the Krypt it all about BDSM without sex but first I have to say hello to my lovely co-host Funsize.
                                                                                                            Before we get into the main topic I have a couple of things to bring up.
                                                                                                            First I’d like to thank our Patreon supporter The Accidental Trucker...he’s been around since the beginning of the show. He gives a dollar a month. If the listeners are getting anything out of I’d be grateful if they would visit the site and click on the support us tab to give through Patreon.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            BDSM without Sex
                                                                                                            Forest scenes from Eros Exposed.  
                                                                                                            This was not a metaphor for sex, but for all relationships in times of stress and hardship.  
                                                                                                            Why is it okay or preferable for some to have BDSM without sex?  
                                                                                                            Marriage
                                                                                                            Simplifies things
                                                                                                            Everything else is about sex, this can be one thing that isn’t.  
                                                                                                            How to achieve this?  
                                                                                                            Tell your play partner what you want from the start. Communicate!
                                                                                                            How it can help?
                                                                                                            Lets you have all the benefits of BDSM without feeling used.
                                                                                                            Brings clarity and intimacy.
                                                                                                            No fear of children or STDs.  
                                                                                                            No guilt or question of adultery or cheating.
                                                                                                            How to find a play partner for celibate BDSM?
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next on The Krypt I am going to giving a lot of myself to you as Funsize interrogates me about the ins and out of being a Professional Dom. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for shownotes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Facebook group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for the monthly giveaway. While you’re there click on support us for the patreon link.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com / funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>1818bdsm,d/s,fifty shades,relationship,sexclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/s01e20-professional-doms-funsize-interrogates-kuldrin--12171548
                                                                                                            S01E21-Explaining Professional Domination
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            June 19th, 2017
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Intro
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 21 for June 19th, 2017.
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of the Krypt it all about BDSM without sex but first I have to say hello to my lovely co-host from Order-of-Avalon.com, Funsize.
                                                                                                            Before we get into the main topic I have a couple of things to bring up.
                                                                                                            First I’d like to thank our patreon supporter The Accidental Trucker...he’s been around since the beginning of the show. He gives a dollar a month. If the listeners are getting anything out of I’d be greatful if they would visit the site and click on the support us tab to give through patreon.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Pro Dom Questions
                                                                                                            What is a pro dom?
                                                                                                            What is and isn't legal?
                                                                                                            What is the vetting process for clients? 
                                                                                                            How does one become a prodom?
                                                                                                            It is different from other forms of D/s?    How?
                                                                                                            How do you find a prodom in your area?
                                                                                                            Costs for services?
                                                                                                            Accepting and turning away clientele?
                                                                                                            What can interested sub do to ensure the safest possible experience?
                                                                                                            IMVU and other communities vs. r/l dungeons?
                                                                                                            What kind of services are typically offered?
                                                                                                            How to get set up as a prodom?
                                                                                                            How to make a profit?
                                                                                                            Getting a loyal client base?
                                                                                                            Findomination and prodoms?  
                                                                                                            Training to be a prodom?
                                                                                                            Taxes, how is it listed as a legal business?
                                                                                                            How is a client different from a lifestyle sub?
                                                                                                            Working alone vs. working in a pro dungeon?
                                                                                                            Finding a pro dungeon?
                                                                                                            What makes a good pro dom?
                                                                                                            Personal limits and interests, and how they effect professionalism?
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next on The Krypt I am going to giving a lot of myself to you as Funsize interrogates me about the ins and out of being a Professional Dom. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for shownotes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Facebook group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for the monthly giveaway. While you’re there click on support us for the patreon link.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com / funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            http://www.order-of-avalon.com
                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/12171548Wed, 21 Jun 2017 03:56:00 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCKuldrin’s Krypt S01E21-Explaining Professional Domination June 19th, 2017 Intro This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 21 for June 19th, 2017. Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a...
                                                                                                            S01E21-Explaining Professional Domination
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            June 19th, 2017
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Intro
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 21 for June 19th, 2017.
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of the Krypt it all about BDSM without sex but first I have to say hello to my lovely co-host from Order-of-Avalon.com, Funsize.
                                                                                                            Before we get into the main topic I have a couple of things to bring up.
                                                                                                            First I’d like to thank our patreon supporter The Accidental Trucker...he’s been around since the beginning of the show. He gives a dollar a month. If the listeners are getting anything out of I’d be greatful if they would visit the site and click on the support us tab to give through patreon.
                                                                                                            Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Pro Dom Questions
                                                                                                            What is a pro dom?
                                                                                                            What is and isn't legal?
                                                                                                            What is the vetting process for clients? 
                                                                                                            How does one become a prodom?
                                                                                                            It is different from other forms of D/s?    How?
                                                                                                            How do you find a prodom in your area?
                                                                                                            Costs for services?
                                                                                                            Accepting and turning away clientele?
                                                                                                            What can interested sub do to ensure the safest possible experience?
                                                                                                            IMVU and other communities vs. r/l dungeons?
                                                                                                            What kind of services are typically offered?
                                                                                                            How to get set up as a prodom?
                                                                                                            How to make a profit?
                                                                                                            Getting a loyal client base?
                                                                                                            Findomination and prodoms?  
                                                                                                            Training to be a prodom?
                                                                                                            Taxes, how is it listed as a legal business?
                                                                                                            How is a client different from a lifestyle sub?
                                                                                                            Working alone vs. working in a pro dungeon?
                                                                                                            Finding a pro dungeon?
                                                                                                            What makes a good pro dom?
                                                                                                            Personal limits and interests, and how they effect professionalism?
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Next on The Krypt I am going to giving a lot of myself to you as Funsize interrogates me about the ins and out of being a Professional Dom. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for shownotes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Facebook group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for the monthly giveaway. While you’re there click on support us for the patreon link.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com / funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            http://www.order-of-avalon.com
                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>3896bdsm,domination,professional,relationship,sexclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/s01e19-bdsm-master-and-slave-dynamics--12098628S01E19-BDSM Master/slave Dynamics
                                                                                                            June 12th, 2017
                                                                                                            Intro
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 19 for June 12th, 2017.
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of the Krypt Funsize and I are going dive into Master/slave dynamics. Funsize how you doing today?
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org
                                                                                                            Master defined: The leader of a fully committed and collared D/s relationship responsible for the safety, training, and personal improvement of the slave. The Master is also known as the owner.
                                                                                                            slave defined: The fully collared submissive of a D/s relationship. Committed to serving their Master in every negotiated way. The slave is also known as property.
                                                                                                            Voluntary servitude
                                                                                                            Contracts, check ins, and renegotiations
                                                                                                            What are the Masters rights?
                                                                                                            Do slaves have rights?
                                                                                                            The sharing or selling of slaves?
                                                                                                            The head space
                                                                                                            Protocol High and Low
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next week’s agenda we are going to dive into submission without sex. In the meantime be sure to checkout our site kuldrinskrypt.com and while you’re there click on support us to find out how to receive a Kuldrin’s Krypt t-shirt or hoodie. Also, don’t forget about kuldrinskrypt.com/shop It’s our amazon affiliate store where we tryout fun toys, books and other things...if we like it we add it there.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com / funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/12098628Tue, 13 Jun 2017 01:37:55 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCKuldrin’s Krypt S01E19-BDSM Master/slave Dynamics June 12th, 2017 Intro This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 19 for June 12th, 2017. Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel...S01E19-BDSM Master/slave Dynamics
                                                                                                            June 12th, 2017
                                                                                                            Intro
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 19 for June 12th, 2017.
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of the Krypt Funsize and I are going dive into Master/slave dynamics. Funsize how you doing today?
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            http://bdsmcontracts.org
                                                                                                            Master defined: The leader of a fully committed and collared D/s relationship responsible for the safety, training, and personal improvement of the slave. The Master is also known as the owner.
                                                                                                            slave defined: The fully collared submissive of a D/s relationship. Committed to serving their Master in every negotiated way. The slave is also known as property.
                                                                                                            Voluntary servitude
                                                                                                            Contracts, check ins, and renegotiations
                                                                                                            What are the Masters rights?
                                                                                                            Do slaves have rights?
                                                                                                            The sharing or selling of slaves?
                                                                                                            The head space
                                                                                                            Protocol High and Low
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next week’s agenda we are going to dive into submission without sex. In the meantime be sure to checkout our site kuldrinskrypt.com and while you’re there click on support us to find out how to receive a Kuldrin’s Krypt t-shirt or hoodie. Also, don’t forget about kuldrinskrypt.com/shop It’s our amazon affiliate store where we tryout fun toys, books and other things...if we like it we add it there.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com / funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>2578bdsm,d/s,m/s,relationships,sexclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/s01e18-play-partner-vs-lifestyle-partner--11986229S01E18-Play Partner Vs Lifestyle Partner
                                                                                                            May 29th, 2017
                                                                                                            Intro
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 18 for May 29th, 2017.
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. Today it's going to be all about play. We are going to define play partners and lifestyle partners, talk about the similarities and differences, and help you figure out what are the most important traits your partner or partners must have to provide you with what you are looking for. But before that happens...I’ve got to say hello to my lovely co-host.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            What is a Play Partner?
                                                                                                            A play partner is anyone you play, or scene with, whether in real life or online, that you are not in a relationship with. In the vanilla world these would be called “friends with benefits” or “one night stands”. You might meet these people online, at munches, at dungeon parties, or out in the general public, hit it off and scene together once and that be it or you could end up having scenes with them for years but it is never a relationship. It’s also important to remind people that even though I made the comparison to “friends with benefits” and “one night stands” of the vanilla world, these BDSM play partners might not be sexual partners...and if you’ve listened to previous episodes you will know that the majority of my personal BDSM experience is of a nonsexual nature.
                                                                                                            What is a Lifestyle Partner?
                                                                                                            Just as any relationship a Lifestyle Partner can take several different forms but in all of those forms they involve a type of relationship with someone that is more than a Play Partners. Emotions and feelings are most often present at this level. Whether it be Dominant and submissive or Master and slave there is a strong bond developed after what should be a long negotiation period. In all of the following examples of different lifestyle partner examples it is important to remember that even though the people involved may only scene randomly there is a connection between them and there will more than likely be tasks that the sub or slave has to perform and a defined checkin time that could be set up several times a day to once a week or even less in a few cases I have seen.
                                                                                                            Collar on/off
                                                                                                            24/7
                                                                                                            Nights & Weekends
                                                                                                            Whenever they happen to get together.
                                                                                                            How are they the same?
                                                                                                            Negotiation
                                                                                                            D/s or M/s setting
                                                                                                            Scening
                                                                                                            Aftercare
                                                                                                            Checkin
                                                                                                            Renegotiation
                                                                                                            How are they different?
                                                                                                            When the scene ends the dominance and submission or topping and bottoming ends.
                                                                                                            You might never see a play partner again after the scene.
                                                                                                            The emotional attachment is greatly decreased or nonexistent with play partners.
                                                                                                            A number of other things.
                                                                                                            How do we determine what I need in a partner of any type?
                                                                                                            One of the best ways is to complete a list of limits and interest. Which is why we have one on our site at kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            The other way is by experiencing every you that can that is SSCI. However, it is also VERY important to remember that just because you like something in online play or in real life with someone does not mean that you will like it with another person or under different circumstances.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next week on the Krypt we are diving off the cliff and going deep into Master/slave dynamics. In the meantime, visit Kuldrinskrypt.com read the show notes for each and every episode, contact us, subscribe to the show, and find out how you can help us continue to bring you our years of experience, like The Accidental Trucker has from the beginning, by becoming a Patreon.com supporter.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com , funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            http://www.order-or-avalon.com
                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/11986229Tue, 30 May 2017 04:21:21 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCKuldrin’s Krypt S01E18-Play Partner Vs Lifestyle Partner May 29th, 2017 Intro This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 18 for May 29th, 2017. Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to...S01E18-Play Partner Vs Lifestyle Partner
                                                                                                            May 29th, 2017
                                                                                                            Intro
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 18 for May 29th, 2017.
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. Today it's going to be all about play. We are going to define play partners and lifestyle partners, talk about the similarities and differences, and help you figure out what are the most important traits your partner or partners must have to provide you with what you are looking for. But before that happens...I’ve got to say hello to my lovely co-host.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            What is a Play Partner?
                                                                                                            A play partner is anyone you play, or scene with, whether in real life or online, that you are not in a relationship with. In the vanilla world these would be called “friends with benefits” or “one night stands”. You might meet these people online, at munches, at dungeon parties, or out in the general public, hit it off and scene together once and that be it or you could end up having scenes with them for years but it is never a relationship. It’s also important to remind people that even though I made the comparison to “friends with benefits” and “one night stands” of the vanilla world, these BDSM play partners might not be sexual partners...and if you’ve listened to previous episodes you will know that the majority of my personal BDSM experience is of a nonsexual nature.
                                                                                                            What is a Lifestyle Partner?
                                                                                                            Just as any relationship a Lifestyle Partner can take several different forms but in all of those forms they involve a type of relationship with someone that is more than a Play Partners. Emotions and feelings are most often present at this level. Whether it be Dominant and submissive or Master and slave there is a strong bond developed after what should be a long negotiation period. In all of the following examples of different lifestyle partner examples it is important to remember that even though the people involved may only scene randomly there is a connection between them and there will more than likely be tasks that the sub or slave has to perform and a defined checkin time that could be set up several times a day to once a week or even less in a few cases I have seen.
                                                                                                            Collar on/off
                                                                                                            24/7
                                                                                                            Nights & Weekends
                                                                                                            Whenever they happen to get together.
                                                                                                            How are they the same?
                                                                                                            Negotiation
                                                                                                            D/s or M/s setting
                                                                                                            Scening
                                                                                                            Aftercare
                                                                                                            Checkin
                                                                                                            Renegotiation
                                                                                                            How are they different?
                                                                                                            When the scene ends the dominance and submission or topping and bottoming ends.
                                                                                                            You might never see a play partner again after the scene.
                                                                                                            The emotional attachment is greatly decreased or nonexistent with play partners.
                                                                                                            A number of other things.
                                                                                                            How do we determine what I need in a partner of any type?
                                                                                                            One of the best ways is to complete a list of limits and interest. Which is why we have one on our site at kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            The other way is by experiencing every you that can that is SSCI. However, it is also VERY important to remember that just because you like something in online play or in real life with someone does not mean that you will like it with another person or under different circumstances.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next week on the Krypt we are diving off the cliff and going deep into Master/slave dynamics. In the meantime, visit Kuldrinskrypt.com read the show notes for each and every episode, contact us, subscribe to the show, and find out how you can help us continue...]]>1555bdsm,lifestyle,love,relationship,sexclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/s01e17-moving-online-to-offline--11930448S01E17-Moving Online Play to Offline Play
                                                                                                            5/22/2017
                                                                                                            Intro: Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. Joining us today and every episode hereafter is my new co-host, Funsize. In our last episode we discussed the nuances of online play. Today we’re looking at moving online relationships offline.
                                                                                                            When is the Right Time?
                                                                                                            Very individual
                                                                                                            Typically most like to try for 6 months to a year after official collaring
                                                                                                            Circumstances prove optimal
                                                                                                            Things have lined up for a most enjoyable experience
                                                                                                            Are you or they nearby? Is this a vacation, or a permanent move?
                                                                                                            Are you or they relocating to be closer?
                                                                                                            Other situations with jobs, or family lining up just so?
                                                                                                            Doing the Switch the Right Way
                                                                                                            Safety First
                                                                                                            Avoiding Catfish and Predators
                                                                                                            Where to meet
                                                                                                            Emergency protocols if things go badly
                                                                                                            Have a safe place you can go
                                                                                                            Have people you check in with
                                                                                                            Making sure you're not isolated
                                                                                                            Basic first meeting practices
                                                                                                            How Things Will Change
                                                                                                            Your bond will grow deeper.
                                                                                                            There will need to be another negotiation.
                                                                                                            At first you’ll go through a training period.
                                                                                                            Things aren’t going to go the way you initially thought they would.
                                                                                                            You might feel bored at times. Or annoyed, or depressed.
                                                                                                            The more work you put in, the better it will be.
                                                                                                            You HAVE to be realistic about your limits, and communicate even more.
                                                                                                            You may find that an online life with this person works much better than offline.
                                                                                                            Making the Most of the New Experience
                                                                                                            Keep it SSC, or RACK, or PRICK
                                                                                                            Be realistic
                                                                                                            Communicate about everything.
                                                                                                            Enjoy every moment.
                                                                                                            Have your own space
                                                                                                            Http://www.BDSMContracts.org
                                                                                                            Hey Kuldrin here. If you are having trouble putting together contract for your D/s relationship or it you want something nicer, say in soft or hard bound, check out bdsmcontracts.org. I’ve used them in the past and I will continue to use them in the futrure. Use the coupon code Kuldrins20 for a 20% discount off all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next week Funsize is going to continue educating us about modern BDSM practices by discussing the ins and out of taking that online relationship to a real world setting. In the meantime visit kuldrinskrypt.com to sign up for our mailing list, to get subscribed to the podcast, and also help support the show through patreon.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            http://order-of-avalon.com
                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/11930448Tue, 23 May 2017 03:08:27 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCKuldrin’s Krypt: A BDSM 101 Podcast S01E17-Moving Online Play to Offline Play 5/22/2017 Intro: Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer...S01E17-Moving Online Play to Offline Play
                                                                                                            5/22/2017
                                                                                                            Intro: Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. Joining us today and every episode hereafter is my new co-host, Funsize. In our last episode we discussed the nuances of online play. Today we’re looking at moving online relationships offline.
                                                                                                            When is the Right Time?
                                                                                                            Very individual
                                                                                                            Typically most like to try for 6 months to a year after official collaring
                                                                                                            Circumstances prove optimal
                                                                                                            Things have lined up for a most enjoyable experience
                                                                                                            Are you or they nearby? Is this a vacation, or a permanent move?
                                                                                                            Are you or they relocating to be closer?
                                                                                                            Other situations with jobs, or family lining up just so?
                                                                                                            Doing the Switch the Right Way
                                                                                                            Safety First
                                                                                                            Avoiding Catfish and Predators
                                                                                                            Where to meet
                                                                                                            Emergency protocols if things go badly
                                                                                                            Have a safe place you can go
                                                                                                            Have people you check in with
                                                                                                            Making sure you're not isolated
                                                                                                            Basic first meeting practices
                                                                                                            How Things Will Change
                                                                                                            Your bond will grow deeper.
                                                                                                            There will need to be another negotiation.
                                                                                                            At first you’ll go through a training period.
                                                                                                            Things aren’t going to go the way you initially thought they would.
                                                                                                            You might feel bored at times. Or annoyed, or depressed.
                                                                                                            The more work you put in, the better it will be.
                                                                                                            You HAVE to be realistic about your limits, and communicate even more.
                                                                                                            You may find that an online life with this person works much better than offline.
                                                                                                            Making the Most of the New Experience
                                                                                                            Keep it SSC, or RACK, or PRICK
                                                                                                            Be realistic
                                                                                                            Communicate about everything.
                                                                                                            Enjoy every moment.
                                                                                                            Have your own space
                                                                                                            Http://www.BDSMContracts.org
                                                                                                            Hey Kuldrin here. If you are having trouble putting together contract for your D/s relationship or it you want something nicer, say in soft or hard bound, check out bdsmcontracts.org. I’ve used them in the past and I will continue to use them in the futrure. Use the coupon code Kuldrins20 for a 20% discount off all purchases.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next week Funsize is going to continue educating us about modern BDSM practices by discussing the ins and out of taking that online relationship to a real world setting. In the meantime visit kuldrinskrypt.com to sign up for our mailing list, to get subscribed to the podcast, and also help support the show through patreon.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            http://order-of-avalon.com
                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>1175bdsm,dating,online,relationship,sexclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/s01e16-online-play-relationships-101--11874172S01E16-Online Play & Relationships
                                                                                                            5/15/2017
                                                                                                            Intro: Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. Joining us today and every episode hereafter is my new co-host, Funsize. Today we’ll be discussing online BDSM, and relationships. Many newcomers to the lifestyle are part of the online scene, as well as several veterans these days. So Funsize, you've got a bit more experience in this area than I do, what exactly is online play?
                                                                                                            Online BDSM and play is a way for people to connect and learn safely and sometimes more conveniently than in real life. It’s setting up a virtual scene and while some choose to use cams, or pictures, mostly it’s carried out various chat and instant messaging forums, sometimes even through texting.
                                                                                                            What makes it safer or more convenient?
                                                                                                            Well for newbies to the lifestyle it’s safer because it’s a way for them to learn and experience, often for the first time, a scene. This doesn’t mean there aren’t dangers or risks in online play, but it does change things.
                                                                                                            When you say there are risks, what kinds of risks?
                                                                                                            Well, online as with every where, there are predators. With online play, particularly in chat rooms, the risks of running into these predators increases. Many have been known to even stalk certain online communities.
                                                                                                            How would you classify an online predator?
                                                                                                            Usually online predators will behave one of two ways when they start out. They will either start off very sweet, feigning ‘feelings’ that progress very quickly, unreasonably so, or they will instantly ask you to partake in a scene, typically either ignoring or not even bothering with limits or negotiations, and you may feel pressured into a situation that may not be quite comfortable. Other behaviors they may exhibit is asking for pictures, cams, face times, tasks to be carried out, some even want your home or cell phone numbers. Many predators like this will also react badly if you try to put a stop to their behavior, using classic abusive tendencies; guilt, bullying, lying, and even intimidation. They’re different from the fake or instas in that they know what they are doing and push past people’s limits and personal boundaries for their own selfish gains. And I think what throws most people is that it’s not just Doms that can be predators, subs can be too.
                                                                                                            Subs?
                                                                                                            Submissive predators are just as dangerous as any others out there, and exhibit a lot of the same behaviors.
                                                                                                            Wow lots to look out for out there. Alright, back to what you said about it being more convenient?
                                                                                                            Well for one thing it’s easier to meet people. With the spread of the internet, the flow of communication has grown, and BDSM has stepped out of the proverbial closet, and with it thousands of people are able to connect and be a part of this community like never before. Now you can “meet” someone online that’s across town or halfway around the world. It’s more convenient for finding the right person or people that way. You can also spend months vetting your potential partners before ever meeting face to face. And of course there’s the ease created for those of us with more complicated situations. Marriage, children, personal personas, and ours jobs may keep us from living the lifestyle 24/7, and virtual reality can help with that. It’s a way that many of us can live and have our needs fulfilled when we otherwise couldn’t.
                                                                                                            I have a friend who takes advantage of this facet of online play in just this way. He has a vanilla marriage, and a high profile career, so online play is really his only outlet currently. His needs are still there, so he has an online only submissive, she’s discreet, and they’re both happy with the arrangement. To me this part of modern BDSM only highlights how accepting our community can be, even when the rest of the world really isn’t sometimes.
                                                                                                            Alright, so online play stays on online, it’s carried out in virtual reality only.
                                                                                                            Not always, there are ways for people to experience some parts of it in the real world as well. There’s obviously tasks to be assigned and carried out, but there’s also various forms of self-love, (keeping it pg-13 here), and self-flagellation. Many of it is virtual however, but as they say, the mind is mightier than the flesh.
                                                                                                            How would a typical scene be played out? Can you give a Pg-13 example?
                                                                                                            Well for example if you and I were to ever set up a scene, we would start by negotiating hard and soft limits, just as we normally would. However some of those might change from online to real life or vice versa, for example I might say no cams for online, but in real life it might not matter, or it might be no shared videos. Anyway, most likely in this scenario you would say something like, “go to my dungeon.” We could then start the scene in that setting, you could pick a plethora of toys, that you may not even have at your disposal, and “whip” me with them. Or maybe you’d just ask me to “kneel” and behave submissively towards you. Sometimes these scenes develop into something sexual but as with all BDSM, sex isn’t always involved. In truth a lot of online play is based on the mindset of those involved. It’s all about communication and honest interaction.
                                                                                                            As I understand it you have an online relationship that’s ongoing right now, what can you tell us about that?
                                                                                                            I have an online Dominant and a sub I play with regularly. I have a collar and everything, actually I have a physical collar. I wear it at home, I wish I could wear it to work but then I’d be violating the dress code, which I’m sure is something many others have experienced. Um we play and have scenes once maybe twice a week, but communicate outside of that every day or at least every other day. I have this kind of relationship right now because it’s more convenient for me that way. I’ve had the 24/7 lifestyle before in real life, but with my current situation in life, I didn’t think I could handle it realistically. Online play is a way for my needs to be met, and for me to have a balance in my life I’d otherwise be lacking.
                                                                                                            Where would someone go to experience the online lifestyle?
                                                                                                            There are tons of websites out there that cater to BDSM chat. Fetlife, huge community, has a very good internal messaging service for its members. Then there’s websites like Alt.com, though that is payed a community. And there’s the website I administrate for, the Order of Avalon. But there are tons and tons more out, basically just google BDSM chat and you’ll likely find something.
                                                                                                            Alright so that’s online play 101, if anyone has any questions please feel free to post, leave messages, or email us.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next week Funsize is going to continue educating us about modern BDSM practices by discussing the ins and out of taking that online relationship to a real world setting. In the meantime visit kuldrinskrypt.com to sign up for our mailing list, to get subscribed to the podcast, and also help support the show through patreon.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com , funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/11874172Tue, 16 May 2017 02:40:04 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCKuldrin’s Krypt: A BDSM 101 Podcast S01E16-Online Play & Relationships 5/15/2017 Intro: Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your...S01E16-Online Play & Relationships
                                                                                                            5/15/2017
                                                                                                            Intro: Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. Joining us today and every episode hereafter is my new co-host, Funsize. Today we’ll be discussing online BDSM, and relationships. Many newcomers to the lifestyle are part of the online scene, as well as several veterans these days. So Funsize, you've got a bit more experience in this area than I do, what exactly is online play?
                                                                                                            Online BDSM and play is a way for people to connect and learn safely and sometimes more conveniently than in real life. It’s setting up a virtual scene and while some choose to use cams, or pictures, mostly it’s carried out various chat and instant messaging forums, sometimes even through texting.
                                                                                                            What makes it safer or more convenient?
                                                                                                            Well for newbies to the lifestyle it’s safer because it’s a way for them to learn and experience, often for the first time, a scene. This doesn’t mean there aren’t dangers or risks in online play, but it does change things.
                                                                                                            When you say there are risks, what kinds of risks?
                                                                                                            Well, online as with every where, there are predators. With online play, particularly in chat rooms, the risks of running into these predators increases. Many have been known to even stalk certain online communities.
                                                                                                            How would you classify an online predator?
                                                                                                            Usually online predators will behave one of two ways when they start out. They will either start off very sweet, feigning ‘feelings’ that progress very quickly, unreasonably so, or they will instantly ask you to partake in a scene, typically either ignoring or not even bothering with limits or negotiations, and you may feel pressured into a situation that may not be quite comfortable. Other behaviors they may exhibit is asking for pictures, cams, face times, tasks to be carried out, some even want your home or cell phone numbers. Many predators like this will also react badly if you try to put a stop to their behavior, using classic abusive tendencies; guilt, bullying, lying, and even intimidation. They’re different from the fake or instas in that they know what they are doing and push past people’s limits and personal boundaries for their own selfish gains. And I think what throws most people is that it’s not just Doms that can be predators, subs can be too.
                                                                                                            Subs?
                                                                                                            Submissive predators are just as dangerous as any others out there, and exhibit a lot of the same behaviors.
                                                                                                            Wow lots to look out for out there. Alright, back to what you said about it being more convenient?
                                                                                                            Well for one thing it’s easier to meet people. With the spread of the internet, the flow of communication has grown, and BDSM has stepped out of the proverbial closet, and with it thousands of people are able to connect and be a part of this community like never before. Now you can “meet” someone online that’s across town or halfway around the world. It’s more convenient for finding the right person or people that way. You can also spend months vetting your potential partners before ever meeting face to face. And of course there’s the ease created for those of us with more complicated situations. Marriage, children, personal personas, and ours jobs may keep us from living the lifestyle 24/7, and virtual reality can help with that. It’s a way that many of us can live and have our needs fulfilled when we otherwise couldn’t.
                                                                                                            I have a friend who takes advantage of this facet of online play in just this way. He has a vanilla marriage, and a high profile career, so online play is really his only outlet currently. His needs are still there, so he has an online only submissive, she’s discreet, and they’re...]]>115250,bdsm,relationship,sex,shadesclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/s01e15-funsize-interview-order-of-avalon--11816106S01E15-Funsize Interview & Order of Avalon
                                                                                                            May 8th, 2017
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 15 for May 8th, 2017.
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the chow this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your questions or visit The Krypt at kuldrinskrypt.com. Our guest today is a switch and no newbie to the lifestyle. She is a player of several different kinks including rigging, deep impact, consensual non consent, medical fetishes, and many more. She is a co-founder and administrator of The Order of Avalon, an online fetish community built on the values of safety, education and acceptance. Funsize welcome to the Krypt.
                                                                                                            Name: Funsize (Adminstrator of the Order of Avalon), zeppoJane on Fetlife
                                                                                                            Contact Info: FunsizeSwitch@outlook.com, https://fetlife.com/users/2090432, http://www.order-of-avalon.com/profile/7-funsize/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Status: Owned and Married
                                                                                                            Interest: Gyno-kink, blood play, edge play, bondage, rigging, flagellation, masochism, sadism, suspension, nipple torture, needles, clamps, whips, canes, temperature play, sensory deprivation, rape play, spankings, medical fetish, blindfolds, blood fetishism, and more.
                                                                                                            Orientation: Bisexual
                                                                                                            Age: 28
                                                                                                            Role: Switch
                                                                                                            Experience: I’ve been part of the lifestyle in real life and online for just over a decade. I started with a trainer just after my 18th birthday, and spent just over a year just learning. I originally started my training as a submissive but quickly learned that I am a switch. Since then I’ve had subs and Dom’s and even participated in M/s relationships. I spend my time these days in an online only relationship, going to local munches, and helping to run the new online community Order of Avalon.
                                                                                                            Before we get into The Order of Avalon and the other topics, I'd like to hit you with ten licks if you'd consent.
                                                                                                            Ten Licks
                                                                                                            1. How long have been into Kink?
                                                                                                            2. Top, bottom, or switch?
                                                                                                            3. Relationship Status?
                                                                                                            4. Favorite Position?
                                                                                                            5. Favorite Implement?
                                                                                                            6. Favorite Roleplay?
                                                                                                            7. Favorite kink or fetish?
                                                                                                            8. Favorite place for kink?
                                                                                                            9. Strangest Place you've had sex?
                                                                                                            10. Something you want to try?
                                                                                                            Interview Questions
                                                                                                            1. How old were you and how did you enter you the life style?
                                                                                                            2. Tell us a little more about the training.
                                                                                                            3. Lets get into The Order of Avalon. How did this thing start?
                                                                                                            4. What has this lifestyle done for you?
                                                                                                            5. How has it made you a different person in the vanilla word?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next week my new co-host and I will be discussing the ins and out of Online BDSM Play and Relationships. In the meantime visit kuldrinskrypt.com to sign up for our mailing list, to get subscribed to the podcast, and also help support the show through patreon.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/11816106Mon, 08 May 2017 07:54:43 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCKuldrin’s Krypt S01E15-Funsize Interview & Order of Avalon May 8th, 2017 This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 15 for May 8th, 2017. Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the chow this is a place to dispel...S01E15-Funsize Interview & Order of Avalon
                                                                                                            May 8th, 2017
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 15 for May 8th, 2017.
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the chow this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your questions or visit The Krypt at kuldrinskrypt.com. Our guest today is a switch and no newbie to the lifestyle. She is a player of several different kinks including rigging, deep impact, consensual non consent, medical fetishes, and many more. She is a co-founder and administrator of The Order of Avalon, an online fetish community built on the values of safety, education and acceptance. Funsize welcome to the Krypt.
                                                                                                            Name: Funsize (Adminstrator of the Order of Avalon), zeppoJane on Fetlife
                                                                                                            Contact Info: FunsizeSwitch@outlook.com, https://fetlife.com/users/2090432, http://www.order-of-avalon.com/profile/7-funsize/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Status: Owned and Married
                                                                                                            Interest: Gyno-kink, blood play, edge play, bondage, rigging, flagellation, masochism, sadism, suspension, nipple torture, needles, clamps, whips, canes, temperature play, sensory deprivation, rape play, spankings, medical fetish, blindfolds, blood fetishism, and more.
                                                                                                            Orientation: Bisexual
                                                                                                            Age: 28
                                                                                                            Role: Switch
                                                                                                            Experience: I’ve been part of the lifestyle in real life and online for just over a decade. I started with a trainer just after my 18th birthday, and spent just over a year just learning. I originally started my training as a submissive but quickly learned that I am a switch. Since then I’ve had subs and Dom’s and even participated in M/s relationships. I spend my time these days in an online only relationship, going to local munches, and helping to run the new online community Order of Avalon.
                                                                                                            Before we get into The Order of Avalon and the other topics, I'd like to hit you with ten licks if you'd consent.
                                                                                                            Ten Licks
                                                                                                            1. How long have been into Kink?
                                                                                                            2. Top, bottom, or switch?
                                                                                                            3. Relationship Status?
                                                                                                            4. Favorite Position?
                                                                                                            5. Favorite Implement?
                                                                                                            6. Favorite Roleplay?
                                                                                                            7. Favorite kink or fetish?
                                                                                                            8. Favorite place for kink?
                                                                                                            9. Strangest Place you've had sex?
                                                                                                            10. Something you want to try?
                                                                                                            Interview Questions
                                                                                                            1. How old were you and how did you enter you the life style?
                                                                                                            2. Tell us a little more about the training.
                                                                                                            3. Lets get into The Order of Avalon. How did this thing start?
                                                                                                            4. What has this lifestyle done for you?
                                                                                                            5. How has it made you a different person in the vanilla word?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next week my new co-host and I will be discussing the ins and out of Online BDSM Play and Relationships. In the meantime visit kuldrinskrypt.com to sign up for our mailing list, to get subscribed to the podcast, and also help support the show through patreon.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>2275bdsm,fiftyshades,love,relationship,sexclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/s01e14-master-arcane-interview--11757194S01E14-Master Arcane Interview
                                                                                                            May 5th, 2017
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 14 for May 5th, 2017.
                                                                                                            Interview scheduled for April 23, 2017, @ 7:00pm EST.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the chow this is a place to dispell myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your questions or visit The Krypt at kuldrinskrypt.com. Today on the Krypt Words can't express the level respect I have for today's guest or the excitement I have to be able be able to talk with him today. As a life long kinkster, a world renowned educator and demonstrater of BDSM, an author, and the founder and owner of The Crow Academy he has taught thousands the art of romantic submission and has been an inspiration to countless more including myself. ...Today on The Krypt...Master Arcane
                                                                                                            Arcane, welcome to the show.
                                                                                                            Here at the Krypt we like to do a rapid fire question/response get to know you called "10 licks". Would you conscent?
                                                                                                            How long have been into Kink?
                                                                                                            ——— Since I was 5 years old technically. Otherwise my entire adult life as I lost my virginity to my first submissive.
                                                                                                            Top, bottom, or switch?
                                                                                                            ——— Always a Top / Dominant except for one experiment with my very first submissive partner.
                                                                                                            But I only call myself 99% Dominant as I am submissive to Acupuncturists, Chiropractors, and Deep Tissue Massage folk. ;-)
                                                                                                            Relationship Status?
                                                                                                            ——— Living happily with my slave Daphne
                                                                                                            Favorite Position?
                                                                                                            ——— Position 1 from The Crow Academy Style
                                                                                                            Favorite Implement?
                                                                                                            ——— Floggers & Fur
                                                                                                            Favorite Roleplay?
                                                                                                            ——— Too many to count. That is how I started at age 5.
                                                                                                            But I do have a thing for being a Pirate kidnapping his favorite Wench / Heiress, etc.
                                                                                                            Daphne and I come up with wild role-plays all the time. :)
                                                                                                            Favorite kink or fetish?
                                                                                                            ——— Bondage - also how I started at age 5, tying up the neighborhood girls in our childhood games.
                                                                                                            Favorite place for kink?
                                                                                                            ——— My own Dungeon / Play Room.
                                                                                                            Strangest Place you've had sex?
                                                                                                            ——— Whew….. hard one to answer. Probably in public as a botanical garden with people walking right past us and smiling at us, while not knowing we were having sex.
                                                                                                            Something you want to try?
                                                                                                            ——— Sex at 30’ below the surface of the ocean at neutral buoyancy. (Daphne just got scuba certified and I am a former instructor)
                                                                                                            This would only be surpassed by sex in true Zero Gravity. I think the scuba one will be easier.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            *In my introductory episodes I briefly mentioned you, your style of D/s, and The Crow Academy but can you give us details as to what exactly The Crow Academy is? How it started? What it's mission is? And is it a physical place that people can go to learn from you?
                                                                                                            (Discuss/follow up)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            * As a Master I am often asked by newbies and sometimes even veterans of the lifestyle two questions that I'm sure you have received over the years and I'm sure our listeners would love to hear how you respond:
                                                                                                            What makes me a master?
                                                                                                            What is the difference between a Dom and a Master?
                                                                                                            (Discuss/follow up)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            *Another question that I often get along those lines that I believe you answer in your book "Igniting The Fire: The Art of Romantic Submission" is:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            What is the difference between a submissive and a slave?
                                                                                                            How do you answer that?
                                                                                                            (Discuss/follow up)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            *Is there another book in the works?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            ******** The number one priority is getting IGNITING THE FIRE out in it’s GORGEOUS Hardback, Coffee-Table Edition.
                                                                                                            This is going to happen any day now - just a few more adjustments at the printer.
                                                                                                            It will be stunning and is intended to be a collectors edition as well.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            I am already far into the outline of the Sequel (Book Two from The Crow Academy) which will cater mainly to Dominants.
                                                                                                            One of my goals is to help create and guide more Top Quality Dominants in the world.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            *As someone that is frequently interviewed, is there any question or questions that you don't get asked that you would like the opportunity to address?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            ********* Please see attached text document (rtf) “Interview Questions” for some ideas - pick and choose what you feel your audience would like to know.
                                                                                                            The set of questions is aimed at Absolute Beginners. :)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            *What events and appearances do you have coming up?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            ********* Doing a show on the 21st (will have just passed); Big launch of The Crow Academy Members Lounge online - videos, books, documents, forums, etc.
                                                                                                            Biggest EASY way to come learn from The Crow Academy is through the Monthly Live Webinars that will be available to all Members where I will be answering questions and teaching directly. A vast variety of topics. I’m actually very excited about that. :)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            *Where can people find you?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            ******** All of the following:
                                                                                                            www.CrowAcademy.com
                                                                                                            www.ArcaneAdvice.com
                                                                                                            Facebook.com/TheCrowAcademy
                                                                                                            Instagram: CrowAcademy
                                                                                                            Twitter: #CrowAcademy
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            I also like to keep an open door for anyone to contact me via the Contact Form found on all websites, answer questions as best as I can, etc.
                                                                                                            Guiding people into what I consider the incredibly beautiful world of Fine D/s and Romantic BDSM is extremely fulfilling for me.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            I also announce workshops and seminars (and pretty much everything else) in The Crow Academy Newsletter which is free and when you sign up you get a free 20 Page Ebook “The Crow Academy Guide To Starting Safely With Domination & Submission.” :)
                                                                                                            http://crowacademy.com/sign-up/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            *Where can people find you?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            ******** All of the following:
                                                                                                            www.CrowAcademy.com
                                                                                                            www.ArcaneAdvice.com
                                                                                                            Facebook.com/TheCrowAcademy
                                                                                                            Instagram: CrowAcademy
                                                                                                            Twitter: #CrowAcademy
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            I also like to keep an open door for anyone to contact me via the Contact Form found on all websites, answer questions as best as I can, etc.
                                                                                                            Guiding people into what I consider the incredibly beautiful world of Fine D/s and Romantic BDSM is extremely fulfilling for me.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            I also announce workshops and seminars (and pretty much everything else) in The Crow Academy Newsletter which is free and when you sign up you get a free 20 Page Ebook “The Crow Academy Guide To Starting Safely With Domination & Submission.” :)
                                                                                                            http://crowacademy.com/sign-up/
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next week I will be sharing an interview with you I did with Funsize. She is a switch with over over a decade of experience and a co-founder and administrator of the online community www.order-of-avalon.com. In the meantime visit kuldrinskrypt.com to sign up for our mailing list, to get subscribed to the podcast, and also help support the show through patreon.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
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                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
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                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/11757194Mon, 01 May 2017 08:44:20 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCKuldrin’s Krypt S01E14-Master Arcane Interview May 5th, 2017 This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 14 for May 5th, 2017. Interview scheduled for April 23, 2017, @ 7:00pm EST. Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you...S01E14-Master Arcane Interview
                                                                                                            May 5th, 2017
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 14 for May 5th, 2017.
                                                                                                            Interview scheduled for April 23, 2017, @ 7:00pm EST.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the chow this is a place to dispell myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your questions or visit The Krypt at kuldrinskrypt.com. Today on the Krypt Words can't express the level respect I have for today's guest or the excitement I have to be able be able to talk with him today. As a life long kinkster, a world renowned educator and demonstrater of BDSM, an author, and the founder and owner of The Crow Academy he has taught thousands the art of romantic submission and has been an inspiration to countless more including myself. ...Today on The Krypt...Master Arcane
                                                                                                            Arcane, welcome to the show.
                                                                                                            Here at the Krypt we like to do a rapid fire question/response get to know you called "10 licks". Would you conscent?
                                                                                                            How long have been into Kink?
                                                                                                            ——— Since I was 5 years old technically. Otherwise my entire adult life as I lost my virginity to my first submissive.
                                                                                                            Top, bottom, or switch?
                                                                                                            ——— Always a Top / Dominant except for one experiment with my very first submissive partner.
                                                                                                            But I only call myself 99% Dominant as I am submissive to Acupuncturists, Chiropractors, and Deep Tissue Massage folk. ;-)
                                                                                                            Relationship Status?
                                                                                                            ——— Living happily with my slave Daphne
                                                                                                            Favorite Position?
                                                                                                            ——— Position 1 from The Crow Academy Style
                                                                                                            Favorite Implement?
                                                                                                            ——— Floggers & Fur
                                                                                                            Favorite Roleplay?
                                                                                                            ——— Too many to count. That is how I started at age 5.
                                                                                                            But I do have a thing for being a Pirate kidnapping his favorite Wench / Heiress, etc.
                                                                                                            Daphne and I come up with wild role-plays all the time. :)
                                                                                                            Favorite kink or fetish?
                                                                                                            ——— Bondage - also how I started at age 5, tying up the neighborhood girls in our childhood games.
                                                                                                            Favorite place for kink?
                                                                                                            ——— My own Dungeon / Play Room.
                                                                                                            Strangest Place you've had sex?
                                                                                                            ——— Whew….. hard one to answer. Probably in public as a botanical garden with people walking right past us and smiling at us, while not knowing we were having sex.
                                                                                                            Something you want to try?
                                                                                                            ——— Sex at 30’ below the surface of the ocean at neutral buoyancy. (Daphne just got scuba certified and I am a former instructor)
                                                                                                            This would only be surpassed by sex in true Zero Gravity. I think the scuba one will be easier.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            *In my introductory episodes I briefly mentioned you, your style of D/s, and The Crow Academy but can you give us details as to what exactly The Crow Academy is? How it started? What it's mission is? And is it a physical place that people can go to learn from you?
                                                                                                            (Discuss/follow up)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            * As a Master I am often asked by newbies and sometimes even veterans of the lifestyle two questions that I'm sure you have received over the years and I'm sure our listeners would love to hear how you respond:
                                                                                                            What makes me a master?
                                                                                                            What is the difference between a Dom and a Master?
                                                                                                            (Discuss/follow up)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            *Another question that I often get along those lines that I believe you answer in your book "Igniting The Fire: The Art of Romantic Submission" is:
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            What is the difference between a submissive and a slave?
                                                                                                            How do you answer that?
                                                                                                            (Discuss/follow up)
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            *Is there another book in the works?
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            ******** The number one priority is getting IGNITING THE FIRE out in it’s GORGEOUS Hardback, Coffee-Table Edition.
                                                                                                            This is going to happen any day now - just a few more adjustments at the printer.
                                                                                                            It will be stunning and is intended to be a collectors edition as well.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            I am already far into the outline of the Sequel (Book Two from The Crow Academy) which will cater mainly...]]>5541arcane,bdsm,fifty shades,relationship,sexclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/s01e13-humor-in-bdsm--11670624S01E13-Humor in BDSM
                                                                                                            April 24th, 2017
                                                                                                            Intro
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 13 for April 24th, 2017.
                                                                                                            (Dave Jackson www.schoolofpodcasting.com BDSM clip)
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of Kuldrin’s Krypt we are going to discuss the importance of humor in BDSM.
                                                                                                            My original intent when thinking of this episode was to include clips from you, the listeners, based on your personal experiences. However, the very limited amount of response I received, which is to be expected, was of such low audio quality I couldn’t use it but I am grateful for the participation I received and as promised those stickers are in the mail. But don’t worry, I still have something for you that will actually provide you with more information than what I had originally planned.
                                                                                                            To the outside or vanilla world BDSM can seem rigid and cold, even cruel or abusive at times but along with love and respect that the vanilla don’t see or don’t understand and that I have talked about in every episode also comes humor. One of the biggest mistakes that new kinksters often make is losing site of the fact that this is a role play and should not only be fun but also filled with laughter and happiness. I have to admit here that I was one of those overly serious, stern, stoic types as I entered the lifestyle because I thought that no submissive would ever submit to someone with any other personality and other Dom’s wouldn’t respect me as a peer if I wasn’t almost perpetually pissed off. This couldn’t have been farther from the truth.
                                                                                                            Makita, the young woman that introduce me to BDSM through our shared vampire fetish, sat me down and pointed out that she had entered into our relationship because of the person I was and she would be leaving it if I continued to be the person I had become. To some this may make perfect sense and to others is might sound harsh or uncaring but to she and I it served as a valuable piece of information to a newbie. “I know all of this seems serious, and there are times when it is, but the rest of time it’s ok to be who we are and laugh a little but like we use too.”
                                                                                                            I started this episode out with a partial BDSM remake of “A Few of My Favorite Things” instead of my usual “ Welcome to my Dungeon”. This was done by Dave Jackson from schoolofpodcasting.com a podcast about podcasting. Now, I have met Dave, I am a member of The School of Podcasting, we have talked quite a bit, and in all honesty not only is he responsible for me being able to perform the technical side of this podcast but he is also directly responsible for me being alive today. However, when he recorded this spoof we didn’t really know each other at all. I called into his show to leave him a comment and when I left my name and podcast information it was his knee jerk reaction to do what he does which is combined his witty sense of humor with his years of teaching experience and long musical career to deliver those lines that would make people not only remember what was being said but make them connect by a base emotional experience. He always says to deliver content that will make people think, laugh, groan or cry and that is what he was doing. It’s also important to note that he showed an enormous amount of respect by emailing me to tell me what he had done and ask my opinion on publishing it as he didn’t want to offend me or the BDSM community. He didn’t have to do this but that’s the kind of good person he is. So what’s my point in all this? I could have gotten all pissy because an outsider, with little to no knowledge of what we are about made fun of me and the community I love, OR, I could see the truth of the situation...some things are just plane funny...and I don’t know about you but I’d much rather laugh often than walk around ticked off all the time.
                                                                                                            Now to bring this back to a scene, in multiple previous episodes I have said I am far from perfect and I will stress that again here. Also, I have made many mistakes before, during and after scenes and I have found in some cases one of the best ways to keep the energy of the scene when mistakes are made isn’t to overreact, get angry, be embarrassed, apologize a hundred times,... It’s to make sure that everyone involved is ok then share in a laugh about it. Granted sometimes this can be inappropriate or to soon, timing IS everything, but it can also help remind us that though we often play at the speed of sound sometimes we have to stop and realize that some of the things we do is, in fact, laughable. Which is why I’ve decided to add a new element to the show. A few times a week I am going to give “A not so daily dose of humor from the Krypt”. These will be short jokes published on their own. Some are funny...others not so much but it's a reminder that we are people and alongside the stern names we go by, the evil glares we strive to perfect, the intimidating stances some practice in the mirror, and explicit joy we receive from intimidating our submissives during a scene we are people and people need laughter.
                                                                                                            To close out this episode I have funny clips I have recorded asking a random people a single simple question-”What do you think of when you hear the term BDSM?”
                                                                                                            Vox pop interviews
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next week on Kuldrin’s Krypt: A BDSM 101 Podcast I will be conducting an interview that I have wanted to do for years. I will be talking to Master Arcane of The Crow Academy.
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                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/11670624Mon, 24 Apr 2017 15:30:53 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCKuldrin’s Krypt S01E13-Humor in BDSM April 24th, 2017 Intro This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 13 for April 24th, 2017. (Dave Jackson www.schoolofpodcasting.com BDSM clip) Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are...S01E13-Humor in BDSM
                                                                                                            April 24th, 2017
                                                                                                            Intro
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 13 for April 24th, 2017.
                                                                                                            (Dave Jackson www.schoolofpodcasting.com BDSM clip)
                                                                                                            Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of Kuldrin’s Krypt we are going to discuss the importance of humor in BDSM.
                                                                                                            My original intent when thinking of this episode was to include clips from you, the listeners, based on your personal experiences. However, the very limited amount of response I received, which is to be expected, was of such low audio quality I couldn’t use it but I am grateful for the participation I received and as promised those stickers are in the mail. But don’t worry, I still have something for you that will actually provide you with more information than what I had originally planned.
                                                                                                            To the outside or vanilla world BDSM can seem rigid and cold, even cruel or abusive at times but along with love and respect that the vanilla don’t see or don’t understand and that I have talked about in every episode also comes humor. One of the biggest mistakes that new kinksters often make is losing site of the fact that this is a role play and should not only be fun but also filled with laughter and happiness. I have to admit here that I was one of those overly serious, stern, stoic types as I entered the lifestyle because I thought that no submissive would ever submit to someone with any other personality and other Dom’s wouldn’t respect me as a peer if I wasn’t almost perpetually pissed off. This couldn’t have been farther from the truth.
                                                                                                            Makita, the young woman that introduce me to BDSM through our shared vampire fetish, sat me down and pointed out that she had entered into our relationship because of the person I was and she would be leaving it if I continued to be the person I had become. To some this may make perfect sense and to others is might sound harsh or uncaring but to she and I it served as a valuable piece of information to a newbie. “I know all of this seems serious, and there are times when it is, but the rest of time it’s ok to be who we are and laugh a little but like we use too.”
                                                                                                            I started this episode out with a partial BDSM remake of “A Few of My Favorite Things” instead of my usual “ Welcome to my Dungeon”. This was done by Dave Jackson from schoolofpodcasting.com a podcast about podcasting. Now, I have met Dave, I am a member of The School of Podcasting, we have talked quite a bit, and in all honesty not only is he responsible for me being able to perform the technical side of this podcast but he is also directly responsible for me being alive today. However, when he recorded this spoof we didn’t really know each other at all. I called into his show to leave him a comment and when I left my name and podcast information it was his knee jerk reaction to do what he does which is combined his witty sense of humor with his years of teaching experience and long musical career to deliver those lines that would make people not only remember what was being said but make them connect by a base emotional experience. He always says to deliver content that will make people think, laugh, groan or cry and that is what he was doing. It’s also important to note that he showed an enormous amount of respect by emailing me to tell me what he had done and ask my opinion on publishing it as he didn’t want to offend me or the BDSM community. He didn’t have to do this but that’s the kind of good person he is. So what’s my point in all this? I could have gotten all pissy because an outsider, with little to no knowledge of what we are about made fun of me and the community I love, OR, I...]]>827bdsm,fifty shades,humor,relationship,sexclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/s01e12-announcement-3-19-2017--11430221
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                                                                                                            *Expaining that episode frequency is somewhat inconsistent due to me choosing to provide valuable content as apposed to just throwing out episodes. However, I am taking a couple of weeks off starting today, March 19, 2017, to conduct interviews and prepare several episodes that will be be uploaded and scheduled to automatically publish on a specific day of the week I set. So episodes will pick back up...the podcast is NOT ending!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            * I need the audience to send in those funny sex/BDSM stories or I will NOT be able to finish the Humor & BDSM episode scheduled for April 1st, 2017. (That will also launch the daily jokes from the krypt. Only those that read the show notes will know about this as I did NOT talk about the daily jokes in the episode. If you read this please tweet " I read it! @MasterKuldrin " Thank you for doing that.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            This has been Master Kuldrin for KuldrinsKrypt.com "Unearth the Truth"]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/11430221Mon, 20 Mar 2017 10:00:42 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCMarch 19, 2017 sir@kuldrinskrypt.com A brief announcement: *Thanking you, the listener, for providing valuable feed back via email, voicemail, and speakpipe. All are easy to find at Kuldrinskrypt.com/contactrescources. *Expaining that episode...
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                                                                                                            A brief announcement:
                                                                                                            *Thanking you, the listener, for providing valuable feed back via email, voicemail, and speakpipe. All are easy to find at Kuldrinskrypt.com/contactrescources.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            *Expaining that episode frequency is somewhat inconsistent due to me choosing to provide valuable content as apposed to just throwing out episodes. However, I am taking a couple of weeks off starting today, March 19, 2017, to conduct interviews and prepare several episodes that will be be uploaded and scheduled to automatically publish on a specific day of the week I set. So episodes will pick back up...the podcast is NOT ending!
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            * I need the audience to send in those funny sex/BDSM stories or I will NOT be able to finish the Humor & BDSM episode scheduled for April 1st, 2017. (That will also launch the daily jokes from the krypt. Only those that read the show notes will know about this as I did NOT talk about the daily jokes in the episode. If you read this please tweet " I read it! @MasterKuldrin " Thank you for doing that.
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            This has been Master Kuldrin for KuldrinsKrypt.com "Unearth the Truth"]]>326bdsm,dominant,fifty shades,sex,submissionclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/s01e11-pt-3-red-flags-fake-doms-and-predators--11317735S01E11-Pt 3 Red Flags, Fake Doms, & Predators
                                                                                                            February 20th, 2017
                                                                                                            Intro
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 11 for February 20th, 2017.
                                                                                                            (start theme pre-roll) Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of Kuldrin’s Krypt we are going to wrap up our 3 part conversation about red flags, fake doms & predators.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The last two weeks we discussed Red Flags and Fake Doms so if you missed that you will need to go back and listen to episodes 109 and 110 before listening to this episode. As usual, this is partly taken from an article and partly my own experience. You can find the link to the submissiveguide.com article in the show notes at http://kuldrinskrypt.com/111 Lets get started.
                                                                                                            In Parts 1 and 2, we looked at the information that you should try to gather when starting to interact with an unknown Dom/me. However, there are other warning signs that can appear once you start to develop a relationship with your new Dom/me.
                                                                                                            Evaluating your training
                                                                                                            Once you start in training you have a better chance to evaluate your new Dom/me. You should always allow yourself permission evaluate your training by asking yourself: Is the Dom creating a positive learning environment, or, do they make you feel that you are constantly failing their orders? Was it really a newbie mistake, or, is there a lack of training that is causing the failure? Submission can easily set up a feeling of need and dependency on the Dom/me. The sub is often rewarded with praise and punishment, and the new sub will long to perform well in order to get that praise and avoid the punishment. Good Dom/mes want happy and proud subs. There is a difference between ‘beating’ and ‘browbeating’ just as there is a difference between being Dominant and domineering as we discussed in episode #3 "Rules to Love By & The Dom's Role
                                                                                                            Another warning sign in training is the lack of limits or safe words. I know there are experienced Dom/mes who say they don’t use either; however, I strongly believe both are necessary for the safety of a new sub. My first thought when someone says no limits is what about things like breath play, CNC, and primal play. Not to mention knife play, blood play, marking, scars and piercings? If there are no safe word how is your Dom/me going to know if there is some physical or mental effect that you are having trouble dealing with? There are some very experienced and observant Dom/mes out there, and the safe word may rarely or never be used but most of the time when that’s the case it’s also with an experienced sub that probably has logged a lot of playtime with that Dom/me...and besides all that, why would a Dom/me feel threatened by having a safe word in place?
                                                                                                            Is it Abuse or is it BDSM?
                                                                                                            A predator can use the feeling of need and dependency to create an unhealthy environment, rather than participation in an exciting power exchange. Signs of an abuser in the vanilla world are denial, isolation, dependency, anger, control, and emotional impact. How does this relate to the BDSM world? Let’s look at them one by one, and compare with the vanilla world.
                                                                                                            Denial
                                                                                                            In the BDSM world the Dom may punish you for serious offenses. I have only had to severely punish a sub a few times in the past 21 years. If I was not allowed to punish them in a way that had been pre negotiated, the alternative would be to end the relationship, due to the nature of the conflict. They chose to accept the punishment. Often a Dom will discipline the sub, giving a clear explanation of the ‘offense’, and the discipline, e.g. standing in the corner because you talked back to your Dom. The discipline will fit the seriousness of the offense. This can be an enjoyable part of the power exchange, and ‘brat subs’ in particular will do things to make the Dom discipline them. A perfect example...if you’ve ever seen the movie secretary in the last scene she put a bug on the bed. Discipline can also be a useful training tool. Predators however will convince you that you deserve punishment for a wide variety of real and imagined offenses. They do not use appropriate levels of discipline, so the punishment does not fit the indiscretion. It is never part of a consensual power exchange, and offenses are not forgiven after the discipline. There is a constant reminder of your ‘failure’. True Doms learn to leave the past in the past.
                                                                                                            Isolation
                                                                                                            A vanilla abuser will isolate a girlfriend from her friends and family. The caring Dom/me may limit certain contacts in order to protect the sub, but will encourage healthy relationships inside and outside of the community...and not just with his chosen people. Don’t forget, you entered into your relationship friends and in part of a healthy relationship is spending time apart from each other with those friends. Otherwise, codependency will lead to isolation, a form of abuse in and of itself, but it typically doesn’t stop there.
                                                                                                            Dependency
                                                                                                            If an abuser can control the person, he can control their feelings and keep them. A Dom is all about control, but again, the power exchange is the key. A sub consents to this control, and can withdraw consent at any time. Submissives derive great satisfaction from being owned and under control...it’s kinda what makes them submissives. However they should still have independent thoughts and actions. This makes life for both of parties more exciting as willing submission is the ultimate power exchange.
                                                                                                            Anger
                                                                                                            The abuser reacts with anger instead of a range of emotions. The Dom/me will always keep calm and under control, especially when dispensing discipline or punishment. This is key for the safety of his or her submissive toy. As I have said in the past, I have ended a scene more times than my subs have combined because I wasn’t fully in the correct head head space. Whether it was anger with them, someone else, or just a general distraction. Anger has no place in administering punishment and should not be used to control anyone no matter the nature of the relationship.
                                                                                                            Control
                                                                                                            With the abuser it is his/her way or the highway. A proper Dom/me will negotiate roles in advance, and when a bump is encountered, renegotiation is encouraged. If this does not work out, then both sub or Dom/me have the choice to move on to another relationship, with no hard feelings on either side.
                                                                                                            Emotional Impact
                                                                                                            You can get used to being treated poorly, and begin to think it is normal. The predator Dom/me will approach slavery and submission as a lowly thing. Regarding most submissives or slaves a Dom/me might say ‘she’s just a slave’, but that sub or slave is usually highly valued. Humiliation play can be fun, but constant humiliation is abusive. If your instinct is that you are performing a valuable service, but your Dom/me has any of the characteristics we’ve discussed in this 3 part series, follow your instincts and find another Dom/me.
                                                                                                            There are wolves in this community. Some of these wolves are quite open about the fact, and proud of it (which gives you an interesting option if you have Red Riding Hood fantasies). Others are predators hiding behind fancy names and secrecy. The author of this submissiveguide.com article quoted her Master: “they refuse to come out into the light of munches and parties, and they pull newbies out to the fringes like separating lambs from the flock”. Unfortunately, I have to agree with him. The world of BDSM is about playing with the dark side of emotions, pain, and pleasure, or about serving in ways that are often unacceptable in the vanilla world. Subs need to be aware of warning signs to protect themselves, just as they do with dating in the vanilla world. In this case a little knowledge is not a dangerous thing; it can help you reap the rewards of the lifestyle of your choice.
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next week’s agenda we are going to do a complete 180 from this topic and discuss the importance of humor BDSM. In the meantime be sure to checkout our site kuldrinskrypt.com and while you’re there click on support us to find out how to receive a Kuldrin’s Krypt t-shirt or hoodie. Also, don’t forget about kuldrinskrypt.com/shop It’s our amazon affiliate store where we tryout fun toys, books and other things...if we like it we add it there.
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                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/11317735Sun, 05 Mar 2017 19:55:01 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCKuldrin’s Krypt S01E11-Pt 3 Red Flags, Fake Doms, & Predators February 20th, 2017 Intro This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 11 for February 20th, 2017. (start theme pre-roll) Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you...S01E11-Pt 3 Red Flags, Fake Doms, & Predators
                                                                                                            February 20th, 2017
                                                                                                            Intro
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 11 for February 20th, 2017.
                                                                                                            (start theme pre-roll) Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of Kuldrin’s Krypt we are going to wrap up our 3 part conversation about red flags, fake doms & predators.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            The last two weeks we discussed Red Flags and Fake Doms so if you missed that you will need to go back and listen to episodes 109 and 110 before listening to this episode. As usual, this is partly taken from an article and partly my own experience. You can find the link to the submissiveguide.com article in the show notes at http://kuldrinskrypt.com/111 Lets get started.
                                                                                                            In Parts 1 and 2, we looked at the information that you should try to gather when starting to interact with an unknown Dom/me. However, there are other warning signs that can appear once you start to develop a relationship with your new Dom/me.
                                                                                                            Evaluating your training
                                                                                                            Once you start in training you have a better chance to evaluate your new Dom/me. You should always allow yourself permission evaluate your training by asking yourself: Is the Dom creating a positive learning environment, or, do they make you feel that you are constantly failing their orders? Was it really a newbie mistake, or, is there a lack of training that is causing the failure? Submission can easily set up a feeling of need and dependency on the Dom/me. The sub is often rewarded with praise and punishment, and the new sub will long to perform well in order to get that praise and avoid the punishment. Good Dom/mes want happy and proud subs. There is a difference between ‘beating’ and ‘browbeating’ just as there is a difference between being Dominant and domineering as we discussed in episode #3 "Rules to Love By & The Dom's Role
                                                                                                            Another warning sign in training is the lack of limits or safe words. I know there are experienced Dom/mes who say they don’t use either; however, I strongly believe both are necessary for the safety of a new sub. My first thought when someone says no limits is what about things like breath play, CNC, and primal play. Not to mention knife play, blood play, marking, scars and piercings? If there are no safe word how is your Dom/me going to know if there is some physical or mental effect that you are having trouble dealing with? There are some very experienced and observant Dom/mes out there, and the safe word may rarely or never be used but most of the time when that’s the case it’s also with an experienced sub that probably has logged a lot of playtime with that Dom/me...and besides all that, why would a Dom/me feel threatened by having a safe word in place?
                                                                                                            Is it Abuse or is it BDSM?
                                                                                                            A predator can use the feeling of need and dependency to create an unhealthy environment, rather than participation in an exciting power exchange. Signs of an abuser in the vanilla world are denial, isolation, dependency, anger, control, and emotional impact. How does this relate to the BDSM world? Let’s look at them one by one, and compare with the vanilla world.
                                                                                                            Denial
                                                                                                            In the BDSM world the Dom may punish you for serious offenses. I have only had to severely punish a sub a few times in the past 21 years. If I was not allowed to punish them in a way that had been pre negotiated, the alternative would be to end the relationship, due...]]>1121bdsm,fifty shades,love,relationship,sexclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/s01e10-pt2-red-flags-fake-doms-predators--10844065S01E10-Red Flags, Fake Doms, & Predators Part 2
                                                                                                            February 13th, 2017
                                                                                                            Intro
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 10 for February 13th, 2017.
                                                                                                            (start theme pre-roll) Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of Kuldrin’s Krypt we are going to continue unearthing the truth in part 2 of the 3 part series on red flags, fake doms & predators.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Last week we discussed Red Flags and Fake Doms so if you missed that you will need to go back and listen to Part one and come back to this episode. As usual, this is partly taken from an article and partly my own experience. You can find the link to the submissiveguide.com article in the show notes at http://kuldrinskrypt.com/110 So without further adue on to the main topic.
                                                                                                            Information Please!
                                                                                                            If you’re a new submissive this lifestyle may seem overwhelming at first. A submissive I know terms it ‘the new submissive smell’. Dom/mes cense ‘new blood’, and swarm like piranhas to interact with, play with or train the new submissive in the group. Dom/mes may contact you online or meet you at a munch. They are covered with impressive or threatening names: Sir Snod of Grass or Master Whackyourass. With no experience, how can you tell if they are someone you can trust? The answer is information!
                                                                                                            Questions and Answers
                                                                                                            First of all, ask lots and lots of questions. A Dom/me should not feel threatened by a sub’s questions, especially when establishing a new relationship. This is his or her chance to encourage open communication and feedback. Being told that questions aren’t welcome, or having your questions ignored or avoided should make you think twice about continue to chat with or meet this Dom/me. A good Dom/me will encourage learning, and the first and most important thing you need to learn about is your Dom/me! S/he is going to teach you, guide you, and maybe torture you. Would you allow a stranger to do that?
                                                                                                            What are questions that you can ask the Dom/me? The following questions were provided by the author’s Master as ones He would like a sub to ask Him.
                                                                                                            What does SSC stand for? This is the cornerstone of BDSM, and S/he should be able to answer this (even if S/he professes to follow RACK (Risk-aware consensual kink) instead, he should still be able to answer this, and give you a discussion of the differences in theories).
                                                                                                            What is their training style? How do they intend to adjust it to your personality?
                                                                                                            What is the job/purpose of the sub?
                                                                                                            What is the job/purpose of the Dom?
                                                                                                            If they were to use an implement on you, how would they gauge how hard they are hitting you?
                                                                                                            How do they tell if you’ve had enough or reached your limit (physically or mentally)?
                                                                                                            Do they use safe words?
                                                                                                            If you are going to be intimate, would they be willing to be tested for STD’s and STI’s and provide you with the paperwork?
                                                                                                            What is aftercare?
                                                                                                            How do they intend to handle sub drop if it happens several days later?
                                                                                                            What are some munches and parties they have attended? Are they willing to give you the names and contact information of the organizers?
                                                                                                            Now, as a newbie, you may not be able to evaluate these answers fully. However, you can judge whether your Dom/me is willing to answer the questions, and even better – if they enthusiastically discuss the questions and answers with you! Some of these questions can lead to long wonderful discussion which can greatly influence your path.
                                                                                                            Naming Names
                                                                                                            Unless they are new a Dom/me should be willing and able to give references. Are there subs they have had in the past, either under contract or just in play? What happened with the previous subs? Can they give you their email addresses or introduce you to them? Write or talk to a couple of these subs and listen closely to what they say. It is always important to me to tell any potential subs my history with other subs, both the good and the bad. Maybe your new Dom/me has only had wonderful experiences, but for those who make this lifestyle part of their everyday lives, it is just as likely that there has been the occasional personality conflict. In the end the bad reports might tell you more about his/her strengths and weaknesses than the glowing reports from friends.
                                                                                                            And speaking of friends, will the Dom/me introduce you to friends in the lifestyle? Are there any? I’m not talking about the ‘friends’ on FetLife. That might be just a collection of names that seems to establish credibility, but has no basis in reality. I’m talking about people that they have interacted with. How they treat other Dom/mes and subs on a casual basis will reflect on how they will treat you once that “new sub smell” wears off.
                                                                                                            Aside from his/her own friends, is the Dom/me willing to let you go to munches to form relationships in the community? Will they only let you go with him or her, or do they tell you can only go when they feels you are ready? Munches are an important part of the community. They are a safe place where you can ask questions, receive various (and sometimes conflicting) opinions, and meet people with whom you may interact for the rest of your time in the lifestyle. They may legitimately want to be present with you in order to teach you protocol and ease your way into the lifestyle. After all, most Dom/mes care deeply about teaching their subs but if they continually tells you are not ready, and doesn’t do any training to get you there, consider this a bright red flag!
                                                                                                            Isolation from the community can occur as with munches, with forbidding you to join lists, or forbidding you to talk to other subs. Many Dom/mes will deny permission to talk to other Dom/mes due to protocol issues, but most have no problems encouraging communication with subs. Many experienced subs love to mentor new subs, and love to be asked questions and talk about their experiences. That should be a relationship that the Dom/me encourages, although they may want to be copied on the emails. A caring Dom/me will not limit your questions, but just monitor them so any concerns that may arise can be addressed.
                                                                                                            As a new sub, you should gather as much information as you can to make an informed decision as to whether or not you want to form a relationship with this Dom/me. Most Dom’s rule is “Protect the toy” not “Isolate the toy”. As far as I am concerned you are performing your duty as a submissive by developing relationships within the kink community, asking questions, and making sure you are entering a safe and healthy relationship.
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            We will wrap up the three part series. In Part 3, we will examine warning signs in training, and abuse vs BDSM.
                                                                                                            In the meantime be sure to checkout our site kuldrinskrypt.com and while you’re there click on the support us to find out how to receive a Kuldrin’s Krypt t-shirt or hoodie. Also, don’t forget about kuldrinskrypt.com/shop It’s our amazon affiliate store where we tryout fun toys, books and other things...if we like it we add it there.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
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                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/10844065Thu, 16 Feb 2017 05:46:08 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCKuldrin’s Krypt S01E10-Red Flags, Fake Doms, & Predators Part 2 February 13th, 2017 Intro This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 10 for February 13th, 2017. (start theme pre-roll) Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you...S01E10-Red Flags, Fake Doms, & Predators Part 2
                                                                                                            February 13th, 2017
                                                                                                            Intro
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 10 for February 13th, 2017.
                                                                                                            (start theme pre-roll) Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of Kuldrin’s Krypt we are going to continue unearthing the truth in part 2 of the 3 part series on red flags, fake doms & predators.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Last week we discussed Red Flags and Fake Doms so if you missed that you will need to go back and listen to Part one and come back to this episode. As usual, this is partly taken from an article and partly my own experience. You can find the link to the submissiveguide.com article in the show notes at http://kuldrinskrypt.com/110 So without further adue on to the main topic.
                                                                                                            Information Please!
                                                                                                            If you’re a new submissive this lifestyle may seem overwhelming at first. A submissive I know terms it ‘the new submissive smell’. Dom/mes cense ‘new blood’, and swarm like piranhas to interact with, play with or train the new submissive in the group. Dom/mes may contact you online or meet you at a munch. They are covered with impressive or threatening names: Sir Snod of Grass or Master Whackyourass. With no experience, how can you tell if they are someone you can trust? The answer is information!
                                                                                                            Questions and Answers
                                                                                                            First of all, ask lots and lots of questions. A Dom/me should not feel threatened by a sub’s questions, especially when establishing a new relationship. This is his or her chance to encourage open communication and feedback. Being told that questions aren’t welcome, or having your questions ignored or avoided should make you think twice about continue to chat with or meet this Dom/me. A good Dom/me will encourage learning, and the first and most important thing you need to learn about is your Dom/me! S/he is going to teach you, guide you, and maybe torture you. Would you allow a stranger to do that?
                                                                                                            What are questions that you can ask the Dom/me? The following questions were provided by the author’s Master as ones He would like a sub to ask Him.
                                                                                                            What does SSC stand for? This is the cornerstone of BDSM, and S/he should be able to answer this (even if S/he professes to follow RACK (Risk-aware consensual kink) instead, he should still be able to answer this, and give you a discussion of the differences in theories).
                                                                                                            What is their training style? How do they intend to adjust it to your personality?
                                                                                                            What is the job/purpose of the sub?
                                                                                                            What is the job/purpose of the Dom?
                                                                                                            If they were to use an implement on you, how would they gauge how hard they are hitting you?
                                                                                                            How do they tell if you’ve had enough or reached your limit (physically or mentally)?
                                                                                                            Do they use safe words?
                                                                                                            If you are going to be intimate, would they be willing to be tested for STD’s and STI’s and provide you with the paperwork?
                                                                                                            What is aftercare?
                                                                                                            How do they intend to handle sub drop if it happens several days later?
                                                                                                            What are some munches and parties they have attended? Are they willing to give you the names and contact information of the organizers?
                                                                                                            Now, as a newbie, you may not be able to evaluate these answers fully. However, you can judge whether your Dom/me is willing to answer the questions, and even better – if they enthusiastically discuss the questions and answers with you! Some of these questions can lead to long wonderful discussion...]]>806bdsm,fifty shades,love,relationships,sexclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/s01e09-pt1-red-flags-fake-doms-predators--10654851S01E09-Red Flags, Fake Doms, & Predators
                                                                                                            February 6th, 2017
                                                                                                            Intro
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 9 for February 4th, 2017.
                                                                                                            (start theme pre-roll) Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On the krypt tonight it’s part one of a three part series where we are going to unearth the truth about red flags, fake doms & predators.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Now to Red Flags, Fake Doms, and Predators
                                                                                                            http://www.submissiveguide.com/2009/04/identifying-fake-dominants-posers/
                                                                                                            To start this discussion we need to get a couple of definitions out of the way...
                                                                                                            First, what exactly are “red flags”? They are anything that warns you of impending dread, danger, and/or threat. Second, what is a fake Dominant? This is someone who is just out for sex, fantasy and an easy lay. Fake Dominants may also be predators but we will get into those in later in this episode. Most of the time you will be dealing with the fakers, so that’s what this segment is all about.
                                                                                                            We now have online and real time versions of Dominants. I’m going to blend the two, because in this day and age it is likely that you meet someone online and move to real life.
                                                                                                            The most obvious fake Dominant will want to skip straight to the sex. They may start their conversation out sweetly enough, but it will soon become sexually oriented.
                                                                                                            Cyber sex may be suggested or you will be pushed to play on the first date or well before you’d be ready to. They don’t get to know you for who you are first. These are the booty chasers.
                                                                                                            Fake “doms” will also exaggerate their experience level. It does NOT matter what someone says...unless they can prove it. Chances are a 25 year old does not have 10 years of experience unless they are counting fantasies. However, you can’t judge experience by a number. Someone can say they have 10 years of experience, but if 6 years of that they were ‘on a break’ or not in a relationship...then that’s not experience.
                                                                                                            Fake Dominants will also try to Dom you without a relationship being present. This could be dictating what you are to wear for first meetings, when you are to be available online to chat, etc. Setting up rules and trying to make you do them before it is agreed upon is a HUGE red flag. If you haven’t negotiated these things then it isn’t informed consent.
                                                                                                            Some “doms” say they have a lot of references and can list names, but when I asked for phone numbers, email addresses, or Fetlife info they always come up with a reason to not have the requested info. References are meant to be useful. If they can’t give you contact information so that you can check them out, that’s a huge red flag. Honest Dominants will not only give them to you, but be happy that you check them out. Remember, those that have nothing to hide, hide nothing.
                                                                                                            Fake Dominants may also try to get you to not meet them in public...and they can be pretty persuasive…”oh, just come to the house so we can get to know each other in private.” Yeah, right. DO NOT...and I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH...DO NOT meet anyone you don’t know in a private location! Set up your safe call, and if the “dom” refuses to let you check in, and sometimes they are just really good at distracting you so you forget or don’t think about it, but if this is taking place leave immediately!
                                                                                                            Another red flag to be cautious of is if they want to get to know you, you are on good terms and they won’t share their phone number, where they live, etc but they expect you to. Also, if you are only able to call between narrow time frames. This is a red flag of not only fake Dominants but also cheaters! Another clue of cheaters is disappearing online without warning and doing it frequently. They bail so that their partner doesn’t see what they are doing.
                                                                                                            And finally is a Dominant requesting or forcing you to change something before you’ve agreed to a relationship. This could be along the lines of changing your hair because they don’t like it, losing weight, or breaking up with friends because they are ‘bad influences’. No one should make you change. A good Dominant will like you for who you are when getting to know you. There is no reason you should try to fit someone’s mold.
                                                                                                            Fake Dominants are everywhere and have many tricks up their sleeve. Use this a starting point because the list of things they can do to try to get you to believe in them and open up is almost endless. Stay safe, use your common sense and if it feels wrong it probably is.
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            We will continue the conversation with part two of red flags, fake doms, and predators.
                                                                                                            In the meantime be sure to checkout our site kuldrinskrypt.com and while you’re there click on the support us to find out how to receive a Kuldrin’s Krypt t-shirt or hoodie. Also, don’t forget about kuldrinskrypt.com/shop It’s our amazon affiliate store where we tryout fun toys, books and other things...if we like it we add it there.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/10654851Thu, 09 Feb 2017 06:42:10 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCKuldrin’s Krypt S01E09-Red Flags, Fake Doms, & Predators February 6th, 2017 Intro This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 9 for February 4th, 2017. (start theme pre-roll) Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to...S01E09-Red Flags, Fake Doms, & Predators
                                                                                                            February 6th, 2017
                                                                                                            Intro
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 9 for February 4th, 2017.
                                                                                                            (start theme pre-roll) Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On the krypt tonight it’s part one of a three part series where we are going to unearth the truth about red flags, fake doms & predators.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Now to Red Flags, Fake Doms, and Predators
                                                                                                            http://www.submissiveguide.com/2009/04/identifying-fake-dominants-posers/
                                                                                                            To start this discussion we need to get a couple of definitions out of the way...
                                                                                                            First, what exactly are “red flags”? They are anything that warns you of impending dread, danger, and/or threat. Second, what is a fake Dominant? This is someone who is just out for sex, fantasy and an easy lay. Fake Dominants may also be predators but we will get into those in later in this episode. Most of the time you will be dealing with the fakers, so that’s what this segment is all about.
                                                                                                            We now have online and real time versions of Dominants. I’m going to blend the two, because in this day and age it is likely that you meet someone online and move to real life.
                                                                                                            The most obvious fake Dominant will want to skip straight to the sex. They may start their conversation out sweetly enough, but it will soon become sexually oriented.
                                                                                                            Cyber sex may be suggested or you will be pushed to play on the first date or well before you’d be ready to. They don’t get to know you for who you are first. These are the booty chasers.
                                                                                                            Fake “doms” will also exaggerate their experience level. It does NOT matter what someone says...unless they can prove it. Chances are a 25 year old does not have 10 years of experience unless they are counting fantasies. However, you can’t judge experience by a number. Someone can say they have 10 years of experience, but if 6 years of that they were ‘on a break’ or not in a relationship...then that’s not experience.
                                                                                                            Fake Dominants will also try to Dom you without a relationship being present. This could be dictating what you are to wear for first meetings, when you are to be available online to chat, etc. Setting up rules and trying to make you do them before it is agreed upon is a HUGE red flag. If you haven’t negotiated these things then it isn’t informed consent.
                                                                                                            Some “doms” say they have a lot of references and can list names, but when I asked for phone numbers, email addresses, or Fetlife info they always come up with a reason to not have the requested info. References are meant to be useful. If they can’t give you contact information so that you can check them out, that’s a huge red flag. Honest Dominants will not only give them to you, but be happy that you check them out. Remember, those that have nothing to hide, hide nothing.
                                                                                                            Fake Dominants may also try to get you to not meet them in public...and they can be pretty persuasive…”oh, just come to the house so we can get to know each other in private.” Yeah, right. DO NOT...and I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH...DO NOT meet anyone you don’t know in a private location! Set up your safe call, and if the “dom” refuses to let you check in, and sometimes they are just really good at distracting you so you forget or don’t think about it, but if this is taking place leave immediately!
                                                                                                            Another red flag to be cautious of is if they want to get to know you, you...]]>970bsdm,fifty shades,love,relationships,sexclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/s01e08-vetting-consensual-non-consent--10453721S01E08 - Vetting and Consensual Non Consent (CNC)
                                                                                                            January 31, 2017
                                                                                                            Intro
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 8 for January 31th, 2017.
                                                                                                            (start theme pre-roll) Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of Kuldrin’s Krypt we are changing up the format a little bit and I’m giving you two segments. The first is straight from a short Fetlife article and the other a cautionary tale about consensual non consent also known as CNC. Let’s get started!
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            The vetting process can be extremely easy to extremely hard to do for some people. Especially if you are not yet fully into the community...and in that case you may consider either waiting just a little longer or facing your fears, dive on in and those questions that need to be asked. I found a really good article on Fetlife.com about this and I felt I have to share it with you. I commented on the post asking her permission and she responding “yes, podcast away! My intention in posting was to potentially help others in an area I wish I would have better understood when I started kinking. If it helps one person not have to bumble around the way I did, then I'm a happy girl! :) PM me if there is anything else I can do to assist. Best wishes with your podcast!” So with the author’s permission, who goes by “ruminating” ( https://fetlife.com/users/3612738 ) on Fetlife (and there is a link to her profile in the show notes)here it is:
                                                                                                            Vetting is only as good as the questions asked and information provided. Asking “how’s so-and-so?" often results in answers like “cool” or “ok”. After playing, I've sometimes recognized that I could have been better informed and prepared had I asked better questions beforehand.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Everybody vets differently, and certainly some situations call for more thorough vetting than others. Additionally, just because you ask someone a question doesn’t mean they need to respond. Not everybody is comfortable responding to these kinds of questions; that is okay. This is just what has worked for me, which I’m sharing in case it helps anyone else as they determine what works for them.
                                                                                                            What is vetting? Vetting is researching the person before you play with them. Tops can vet bottoms; bottoms can vet tops. Vetting can help you understand and mitigate potential risks.
                                                                                                            Who can I contact for vetting? You could ask the person directly for an initial list of references (understand that this list may be biased, but it's a start!). You could ask community/group leaders or other people in the community who you feel might have experience interacting with this person. For photography or rope in particular, you might find contacts by looking through a person's portfolio. With each person you contact, consider asking them "who else would you suggest I contact?"
                                                                                                            Sample vetting message:
                                                                                                            1. Introduction.
                                                                                                            “Hi, I’m thinking of doing [activity] with [so-and-so] and thought you might be a good person to contact for vetting. If you feel comfortable, would you mind sharing your thoughts?”
                                                                                                            I've had much better results when I provide a little detail on what I’m vetting them for (ie, floggers at a play party vs. rope instruction in a workshop vs. medieval dental torture while alone in their basement in the back woods of Arkansas)
                                                                                                            2. From here, determine what questions would be most helpful given the situation and the person you’re asking. Possibilities:
                                                                                                            How long have you known them/played with them?
                                                                                                            Have you done [activity] with them before?
                                                                                                            How would you describe the style of their play? (Understanding that their style may vary)
                                                                                                            How would you describe their technical proficiency or experience level?
                                                                                                            Did you feel safe?
                                                                                                            Challenges happen. It’s a risk we take. Challenges aren’t always indicative of something “bad”, but can provide learning opportunity. Have you experienced any challenges with playing with them? (Physical, emotional, consent/negotiation/boundaries, anything else)
                                                                                                            If there was a challenge, how was it handled?
                                                                                                            Do you feel they are receptive to feedback?
                                                                                                            Was there anything you wish you would have known before playing with them?
                                                                                                            Would you play with them again?
                                                                                                            How do you feel about their overall reputation for safety, respect, and responsibility?
                                                                                                            Any other insight/advice?
                                                                                                            3. Who else would you suggest I contact for vetting?
                                                                                                            The same framework can be used, if desired, when responding to a request for vetting from someone else. Happy kinking! :)
                                                                                                            Consensual nonconsent: A cautionary tale
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/10453721Wed, 01 Feb 2017 07:26:32 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCKuldrin’s Krypt S01E08 - Vetting and Consensual Non Consent (CNC) January 31, 2017 Intro This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 8 for January 31th, 2017. (start theme pre-roll) Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are...S01E08 - Vetting and Consensual Non Consent (CNC)
                                                                                                            January 31, 2017
                                                                                                            Intro
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 8 for January 31th, 2017.
                                                                                                            (start theme pre-roll) Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of Kuldrin’s Krypt we are changing up the format a little bit and I’m giving you two segments. The first is straight from a short Fetlife article and the other a cautionary tale about consensual non consent also known as CNC. Let’s get started!
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            The vetting process can be extremely easy to extremely hard to do for some people. Especially if you are not yet fully into the community...and in that case you may consider either waiting just a little longer or facing your fears, dive on in and those questions that need to be asked. I found a really good article on Fetlife.com about this and I felt I have to share it with you. I commented on the post asking her permission and she responding “yes, podcast away! My intention in posting was to potentially help others in an area I wish I would have better understood when I started kinking. If it helps one person not have to bumble around the way I did, then I'm a happy girl! :) PM me if there is anything else I can do to assist. Best wishes with your podcast!” So with the author’s permission, who goes by “ruminating” ( https://fetlife.com/users/3612738 ) on Fetlife (and there is a link to her profile in the show notes)here it is:
                                                                                                            Vetting is only as good as the questions asked and information provided. Asking “how’s so-and-so?" often results in answers like “cool” or “ok”. After playing, I've sometimes recognized that I could have been better informed and prepared had I asked better questions beforehand.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            Everybody vets differently, and certainly some situations call for more thorough vetting than others. Additionally, just because you ask someone a question doesn’t mean they need to respond. Not everybody is comfortable responding to these kinds of questions; that is okay. This is just what has worked for me, which I’m sharing in case it helps anyone else as they determine what works for them.
                                                                                                            What is vetting? Vetting is researching the person before you play with them. Tops can vet bottoms; bottoms can vet tops. Vetting can help you understand and mitigate potential risks.
                                                                                                            Who can I contact for vetting? You could ask the person directly for an initial list of references (understand that this list may be biased, but it's a start!). You could ask community/group leaders or other people in the community who you feel might have experience interacting with this person. For photography or rope in particular, you might find contacts by looking through a person's portfolio. With each person you contact, consider asking them "who else would you suggest I contact?"
                                                                                                            Sample vetting message:
                                                                                                            1. Introduction.
                                                                                                            “Hi, I’m thinking of doing [activity] with [so-and-so] and thought you might be a good person to contact for vetting. If you feel comfortable, would you mind sharing your thoughts?”
                                                                                                            I've had much better results when I provide a little detail on what I’m vetting them for (ie, floggers at a play party vs. rope instruction in a workshop vs. medieval dental torture while alone in their basement in the back woods of Arkansas)
                                                                                                            2. From here, determine what questions would be most helpful given the situation and the person you’re asking....]]>1144bdsm,fifty shades,love,relationship,sexclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/s01e07-rights-vs-privileges-live--10363963S01E07 - Rights Vs Privileges
                                                                                                            January 6, 2017
                                                                                                            Intro
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 7 for January 6th, 2017.
                                                                                                            (start theme pre-roll) Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of Kuldrin’s Krypt we are going discuss Rights Vs Privileges. First we’ll define each of them, then discuss who sets them, what happens when Dominants try to use the submissives rights as a bargaining tool and to top it off I’ll give a few examples of how a Dominant can use privileges as effective motivation.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Defining Rights https://www.google.com/search?q=define+rights&oq=define+rights&aqs=chrome..69i57j0l5.2593j0j4&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8
                                                                                                            That which is morally correct, just, or honorable.
                                                                                                            A moral or legal entitlement to have or obtain something or to act in a certain way.
                                                                                                            Defining Privileges https://www.google.com/search?q=define+privieges&oq=define+privieges&aqs=chrome..69i57j0l5.7275j0j9&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8
                                                                                                            a special right, advantage, or immunity granted or available only to a particular person or group of people.
                                                                                                            Who set the terms of the Rights and Privileges in the relationship?
                                                                                                            All parties involved. It should be an ongoing discussion as part of the neverending negotiation and check in process.
                                                                                                            Who has rights and privileges in a D/s relationship?
                                                                                                            The sub? That’s always the one that is thought of first especially when it comes to privileges because that word is often interchangeable with reward but...
                                                                                                            Dom’s also may be granted privileges from the sub. Remember, it is a power exchange. The only reason the Dom has power is because it has been granted to them by the sub. I have had subs and bottoms offer me one time privileges on things that were soft and hard limits for special occasions. It was something that was well thought out by them and NEVER spur of the moment. A few examples would be going to a restaurant they absolutely hated, seeing a movie that was part of a franchise they hated, cutting their hair a certain way, and of course sexual activities. Now, some of these things don’t seem like that big of a deal but to the subs involved each of these things were huge and had actually been negotiated as soft or hard limits. They had absolutely no obligation to offer these services to me but did so because I had earned their trust and respect and proven I was a Dominant worthy of their submission so they gave a little extra. And of course, this recharged me to up my game even more.
                                                                                                            What happens when rights are used as bargaining tools?
                                                                                                            Unfortunately this is a frequent occurrence in any type of relationship from the whitest vanilla to the kinkiest of kinky. Sometimes it’s intentional and other times it happens because no one involved is really paying attention until it is too late and resentment and animosity has already developed. In either case, it is abuse. One of the reasons I like a strong, not bratty but strong submissive is because they are not afraid to bring things up that need to be talked about that I am not seeing. Just because I am an experienced Dom I am far from perfect and I like a sub that is also experienced enough to bring up the truly important issues that someone who is new may shy away from. Of course I always try to provide an environment where there is no fear of punishment for things said during check ins but some are still to timid to bring up certain things.
                                                                                                            How to use privileges as effective motivators?
                                                                                                            It is pretty obvious to most people how to do this-actions of going above and beyond can be rewarded. Normally, I am all about the importance of consistency but when it comes to using privileges as a reward I am intentionally and systematically inconsistent. The reason for this is simple, I do not want the privilege to become the norm. When this happens, it is no longer thought of as a privilege but as a right and is something that is expected. When this happens it creates conflict and confusion. Why wouldn’t my sub expect it if I’m granting that privilege or reward every time they do something a little special.
                                                                                                            However, when it comes to submissive training tools this can be a great thing and here consistency is the key. Let's say I had 24/7 live in sub and she wanted more than anything for me to sleep in her bed for the night. I have already discussed it with my wife and that would be used as a very, VERY special reward or training tool. If there was a particular training that the sub was really struggling with we would set smaller goals and each time one of those goals was met then she would be rewarded with me spending the night in her room and in her bed. Now, what do you think would happen if she put in the work and wasn’t granted this extremely special reward after a goal was met? That’s right, she would no longer trust my word or my training and she wouldn’t care about meeting the next goal.
                                                                                                            Motivation Vs Coercion
                                                                                                            Manipulation
                                                                                                            Choice
                                                                                                            “Dangle the Carrot”
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            
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                                                                                                            Email: masterkuldrin@gmail.com
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                                                                                                            Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/10363963Sun, 22 Jan 2017 22:35:17 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCKuldrin’s Krypt S01E07 - Rights Vs Privileges January 6, 2017 Intro This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 7 for January 6th, 2017. (start theme pre-roll) Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a...S01E07 - Rights Vs Privileges
                                                                                                            January 6, 2017
                                                                                                            Intro
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 7 for January 6th, 2017.
                                                                                                            (start theme pre-roll) Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of Kuldrin’s Krypt we are going discuss Rights Vs Privileges. First we’ll define each of them, then discuss who sets them, what happens when Dominants try to use the submissives rights as a bargaining tool and to top it off I’ll give a few examples of how a Dominant can use privileges as effective motivation.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Defining Rights https://www.google.com/search?q=define+rights&oq=define+rights&aqs=chrome..69i57j0l5.2593j0j4&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8
                                                                                                            That which is morally correct, just, or honorable.
                                                                                                            A moral or legal entitlement to have or obtain something or to act in a certain way.
                                                                                                            Defining Privileges https://www.google.com/search?q=define+privieges&oq=define+privieges&aqs=chrome..69i57j0l5.7275j0j9&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8
                                                                                                            a special right, advantage, or immunity granted or available only to a particular person or group of people.
                                                                                                            Who set the terms of the Rights and Privileges in the relationship?
                                                                                                            All parties involved. It should be an ongoing discussion as part of the neverending negotiation and check in process.
                                                                                                            Who has rights and privileges in a D/s relationship?
                                                                                                            The sub? That’s always the one that is thought of first especially when it comes to privileges because that word is often interchangeable with reward but...
                                                                                                            Dom’s also may be granted privileges from the sub. Remember, it is a power exchange. The only reason the Dom has power is because it has been granted to them by the sub. I have had subs and bottoms offer me one time privileges on things that were soft and hard limits for special occasions. It was something that was well thought out by them and NEVER spur of the moment. A few examples would be going to a restaurant they absolutely hated, seeing a movie that was part of a franchise they hated, cutting their hair a certain way, and of course sexual activities. Now, some of these things don’t seem like that big of a deal but to the subs involved each of these things were huge and had actually been negotiated as soft or hard limits. They had absolutely no obligation to offer these services to me but did so because I had earned their trust and respect and proven I was a Dominant worthy of their submission so they gave a little extra. And of course, this recharged me to up my game even more.
                                                                                                            What happens when rights are used as bargaining tools?
                                                                                                            Unfortunately this is a frequent occurrence in any type of relationship from the whitest vanilla to the kinkiest of kinky. Sometimes it’s intentional and other times it happens because no one involved is really paying attention until it is too late and resentment and animosity has already developed. In either case, it is abuse. One of the reasons I like a strong, not bratty but strong submissive is because they are not afraid to bring things up that need to be talked about that I am not seeing. Just because I am an experienced Dom I am far from perfect and I like a sub that is also experienced enough to...]]>3095bdsm,d/s,love,relationshipsclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/s01e06-dom-sub-space-drop--10299238Podcast #6 - Dom/sub Space & Drop
                                                                                                            December 30, 2016
                                                                                                            AGENDA
                                                                                                            Intro
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 6 for December 30th, 2016.
                                                                                                            (start theme pre-roll) Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispell myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this epidode of Kuldrin’s Krypt we are going respond to a listener's email, revisit the KNKI App and answer the following questions about Dom/sub space & Dom/sub drop. What is it? Is it real? And is aftercare really that important?
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by and the KNKI App:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Addressing why I always reference other sites:
                                                                                                            Why reinvent the wheel
                                                                                                            Like churches in the south, there’s already one on every corner...I’m not so sure another is the answer. It should be about quality not quantity.
                                                                                                            I’m not trying to write a book or a complete guide BDSM at this point. I’m just giving general information and resources so those interested can have a place to start.
                                                                                                            Dom/sub Space:
                                                                                                            http://dominantguide.com/2312/dom-space-is-that-a-thing/
                                                                                                            http://dominantguide.com/1309/lets-explore-subspace/
                                                                                                            What causes it: the chemical endorphin release caused by the excitement and the psychology of the scene.
                                                                                                            What it feels like: Being high, completely cathartic, tunnel vision, time shifting, out of body, extreme bonding (imprinting)
                                                                                                            How to get there: First, you can’t focus on it-a watched pot never boils. 1: Ritual 2: Intimacy/trust 3: Confidence/flow/presence 4: Fexibility/relaxation
                                                                                                            Ted Talk about flow http://www.ted.com/talks/mihaly_csikszentmihalyi_on_flow
                                                                                                            The difference between Dompace and subspace: Domspace isn’t as obtainable due to the need of the Dom to stay in control and not violating any limits.
                                                                                                            Dom/sub Drop: A feeling of emptiness or depression after a scene ends and the chemicals and emotions are returning to normal.
                                                                                                            For subs it’s usually very quick to follow the scene. With Dom’s it can happen a week after scene. For me it’s usually three days.
                                                                                                            Aftercare: http://dominantguide.com/encyclopedia/aftercare/
                                                                                                            Defined: the negotiated time after a scene or play time where you recover and take care of each other’s needs. This is also a time to reconnect to reality and re-establish roles outside the scene. Some scenes are very intense emotionally and psychologically and the Dominant may need to help the submissive unwind and recover. Dominants also need aftercare; some like a massage or sex, but at the least you should both get re-hydrated and rest.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next week it’s a requested/suggested topic-”Rights Vs Privileges”.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: masterkuldrin@gmail.com
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MastKuldrin
                                                                                                            kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            Outro:
                                                                                                            This has been Master Kuldrin Fire for kuldrinskrypt.com “Unearth the Truth”]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/10299238Fri, 13 Jan 2017 17:50:47 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCKuldrin’s Krypt Podcast #6 - Dom/sub Space & Drop December 30, 2016 AGENDA Intro This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 6 for December 30th, 2016. (start theme pre-roll) Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new...Podcast #6 - Dom/sub Space & Drop
                                                                                                            December 30, 2016
                                                                                                            AGENDA
                                                                                                            Intro
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 6 for December 30th, 2016.
                                                                                                            (start theme pre-roll) Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispell myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this epidode of Kuldrin’s Krypt we are going respond to a listener's email, revisit the KNKI App and answer the following questions about Dom/sub space & Dom/sub drop. What is it? Is it real? And is aftercare really that important?
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by and the KNKI App:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            Addressing why I always reference other sites:
                                                                                                            Why reinvent the wheel
                                                                                                            Like churches in the south, there’s already one on every corner...I’m not so sure another is the answer. It should be about quality not quantity.
                                                                                                            I’m not trying to write a book or a complete guide BDSM at this point. I’m just giving general information and resources so those interested can have a place to start.
                                                                                                            Dom/sub Space:
                                                                                                            http://dominantguide.com/2312/dom-space-is-that-a-thing/
                                                                                                            http://dominantguide.com/1309/lets-explore-subspace/
                                                                                                            What causes it: the chemical endorphin release caused by the excitement and the psychology of the scene.
                                                                                                            What it feels like: Being high, completely cathartic, tunnel vision, time shifting, out of body, extreme bonding (imprinting)
                                                                                                            How to get there: First, you can’t focus on it-a watched pot never boils. 1: Ritual 2: Intimacy/trust 3: Confidence/flow/presence 4: Fexibility/relaxation
                                                                                                            Ted Talk about flow http://www.ted.com/talks/mihaly_csikszentmihalyi_on_flow
                                                                                                            The difference between Dompace and subspace: Domspace isn’t as obtainable due to the need of the Dom to stay in control and not violating any limits.
                                                                                                            Dom/sub Drop: A feeling of emptiness or depression after a scene ends and the chemicals and emotions are returning to normal.
                                                                                                            For subs it’s usually very quick to follow the scene. With Dom’s it can happen a week after scene. For me it’s usually three days.
                                                                                                            Aftercare: http://dominantguide.com/encyclopedia/aftercare/
                                                                                                            Defined: the negotiated time after a scene or play time where you recover and take care of each other’s needs. This is also a time to reconnect to reality and re-establish roles outside the scene. Some scenes are very intense emotionally and psychologically and the Dominant may need to help the submissive unwind and recover. Dominants also need aftercare; some like a massage or sex, but at the least you should both get re-hydrated and rest.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            Next week it’s a requested/suggested topic-”Rights Vs Privileges”.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: masterkuldrin@gmail.com
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MastKuldrin
                                                                                                            kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            Outro:
                                                                                                            This has been Master Kuldrin Fire for kuldrinskrypt.com “Unearth the Truth”]]>1954bdsm,love,psychology,relationship,sexclean1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/s01e05-the-switch--10208045Podcast #5-Switches
                                                                                                            December 23, 2016
                                                                                                            Intro
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 5 for December 23rd, 2016.
                                                                                                            (start theme pre-roll) Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispell myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. Today we are going take a look at what it is to be a Switch.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            The Switch
                                                                                                            Dom/sub-Psychological
                                                                                                            Top/bottom-Physical
                                                                                                            From: http://www.submissiveguide.com/encyclopedia/switch/
                                                                                                            In BDSM, a switch is someone who participates in SM activities as both a top and a bottom, or possibly in D/s activities as both a Dominant and a submissive. A switch will be the top on some occasions and the bottom on other occasions, not necessarily with the same partner. Switching within a scene, or even during a session is very rare.
                                                                                                            Switches are known to get a negative reaction from some purists who believe you can not be a switch and that these individuals just can’t make up their minds. This is far from the truth. It is difficult to define exactly who is a switch; there are many heated debates about switches on the BDSM forums. However, it is agreed that a switch is someone who can be either a top or bottom (not necessarily to the same person), one who can both dominate and submit.
                                                                                                            Common Myths:
                                                                                                            Switches are confused because they haven’t met the right person
                                                                                                            Switches can’t be successful as a “real” Dom or as a “real” sub.
                                                                                                            Switches are typically bisexual
                                                                                                            Common mistakes
                                                                                                            Proper mental state to “scene”
                                                                                                            Communication breakdown
                                                                                                            Not knowing difference between dominant & domineering
                                                                                                            Summary
                                                                                                            People often shy away from admitting they like to switch because they fear derision.
                                                                                                            Being a switch is just as valuable a role as either of the others. The art of being able to fully submit or be a Top at one moment or another takes a very strong person that knows exactly what they want from BDSM and goes out to get it.
                                                                                                            
                                                                                                            NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
                                                                                                            We are going to get into the ins and out of Dom and sub space/drop and how that can affect a relationship.
                                                                                                            Contact info:
                                                                                                            Email: masterkuldrin@gmail.com
                                                                                                            Fb: Kuldrin Fire
                                                                                                            Twitter: @MasterKuldrin
                                                                                                            Instagram: kuldrinfire
                                                                                                            Patreon: kuldrinskrypt
                                                                                                            Paypal: MastKuldrin
                                                                                                            kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
                                                                                                            Outro:
                                                                                                            This has been Master Kuldrin Fire for kuldrinskrypt.com “Unearth the Truth”]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/10208045Thu, 29 Dec 2016 07:41:00 +0000Kuldrin Entertainment LLCKuldrin’s Krypt Podcast #5-Switches December 23, 2016 Intro This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 5 for December 23rd, 2016. (start theme pre-roll) Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a...Podcast #5-Switches
                                                                                                            December 23, 2016
                                                                                                            Intro
                                                                                                            This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 5 for December 23rd, 2016.
                                                                                                            (start theme pre-roll) Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispell myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. Today we are going take a look at what it is to be a Switch.
                                                                                                            Rules to Love by:
                                                                                                            Safe, sane, consensual, informed
                                                                                                            KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
                                                                                                            “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
                                                                                                            The Switch
                                                                                                            Dom/sub-Psychological
                                                                                                            Top/bottom-Physical
                                                                                                            From: http://www.submissiveguide.com/encyclopedia/switch/
                                                                                                            In BDSM, a switch is someone who participates in SM activities as both a top and a bottom, or possibly in D/s activities as both a Dominant and a submissive. A switch will be the top on some occasions and the bottom on other occasions, not necessarily with the same partner. Switching within a scene, or even during a session is very rare.
                                                                                                            Switches are known to get a negative reaction from some purists who believe you can not be a switch and that these individuals just can’t make up their minds. This is far from the truth. It is difficult to define exactly who is a switch; there are many heated debates about switches on the BDSM forums. However, it is agreed that a switch is someone who can be either a top or bottom (not necessarily to the same person), one who can both dominate and submit.
                                                                                                            Common Myths:
                                                                                                            Switches are confused because they haven’t met the right person
                                                                                                            Switches can’t be successful as a “real” Dom or as a “real” sub.
                                                                                                            Switches are typically bisexual
                                                                                                            Common mistakes
                                                                                                            Proper mental state to “scene”
                                                                                                            Communication breakdown
                                                                                                            Not knowing difference between dominant & domineering
                                                                                                            Summary
                                                                                                            People often shy away from admitting they like to switch because they fear derision.
                                                                                                            Being a switch is just as valuable a role as either of the others. The art of being able to fully submit or be a Top at one moment or another takes a very strong person that knows exactly what they want from BDSM and goes out to get it.
                                                                                                            
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