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What is gaslighting, how to spot it and how to disengage from it!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3258</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>gaydating,gaylove,gayrelationship,gayromance,gaysex</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/cac7cc4952dcbca529478dc1976b7f14.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Sex first ask questions later...</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/sex-first-ask-questions-later--10838269</link><description><![CDATA[Sex often seems so much easeir for gay men than intimacy...what's the deal?  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How does it work? is it a go or a no?]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1870</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>dating,intimacy,love,relationship,sex</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e77a29c0ffb9cbdb73e356221ad491a8.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Meditation, spirituality and intimacy...</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/meditation-spirituality-and-intimacy--9561031</link><description><![CDATA[What is meditation or spritual practice and what does it have to do with intimacy]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/9561031</guid><pubDate>Tue, 04 Oct 2016 10:59:31 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/9561031/meditation_spirituality_and_intimacy.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>GAY LOVE MATTERS</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What is meditation or spritual practice and what does it have to do with intimacy</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What is meditation or spritual practice and what does it have to do with intimacy]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1918</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>intamcy,love,meditation,sex,spirituality</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e77a29c0ffb9cbdb73e356221ad491a8.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Alternative relationship Structures...</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/alternative-relationship-structures--9553563</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/9553563</guid><pubDate>Mon, 03 Oct 2016 11:06:35 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/9553563/alternative_relationship_structures.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>GAY LOVE MATTERS</itunes:author><itunes:duration>1640</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e77a29c0ffb9cbdb73e356221ad491a8.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How relationships fail!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-relationships-fail--9532517</link><description><![CDATA[There is one main reasons why relationships fail...join me and find out why!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/9532517</guid><pubDate>Fri, 30 Sep 2016 11:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/9532517/how_relationships_fail.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>GAY LOVE MATTERS</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There is one main reasons why relationships fail...join me and find out why!</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There is one main reasons why relationships fail...join me and find out why!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2025</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>gay,gaylove,gaysex,intimacy,love</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e77a29c0ffb9cbdb73e356221ad491a8.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Whips and Chains!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/whips-and-chains--9521696</link><description><![CDATA[Listen in as Andrew Harwin and I talk about KINK! <br />Andrew Harwin is a gay Life Coach and Ordained Interfaith/Interspiritual Minister. 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