http://www.TheStefanG.comenReligion & Spirituality2024, Stefan Gilliam. All rights reserved.https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/9ca3ba5fa9a109c781ae97eee0bedf62.jpghttp://www.TheStefanG.comMon, 18 Nov 2024 14:34:07 +0000Stefan GilliamStefan Gilliamcontact@thebrillianceinstitute.orgAsking questions and provoking thought through Christ...falseepisodichttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-123-love-alchemy--27302800https://thestefang.com/?p=6574Mon, 29 Jul 2019 09:38:28 +0000Stefan GilliamI love you because… nothing!!  Today, Kym returns for a special appearance and hits us with those powerful words.  She also brought a friend with her, who leads us to walk in transformative love.  This is a highly insightful and introspective episode.1698african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-122-relationships-and-power--27302802https://thestefang.com/?p=6569Tue, 09 Jul 2019 06:34:30 +0000Stefan GilliamIn a POWERFUL episode, Tina and Joy discuss utilizing power properly in relationships and when it’s appropriate to cut people off.  This show was AMAZING!!  Joy shared her heart and opened up on how she used to use others to fill her voids.  Tina...3179african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-121-the-path-to-thankfulness--18487144http://www.thestefang.com/?p=6561Mon, 01 Jul 2019 05:27:17 +0000Stefan GilliamWhat if thankfulness is the key to success?  Today Mike and Stefan are challenged in how they exhibit thankfulness in their lives.  In the midst of it all, they walk down a path to experience fullness in thanksgiving with the Lord.2009african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-120-why-am-i-here--18350183http://www.thestefang.com/?p=6557Sun, 23 Jun 2019 04:23:39 +0000Stefan GilliamSometimes we can find ourselves wondering why we are in a particular space or season in life.  Especially if that season is difficult or trying.  Today was Mike’s turn to sit on the couch, as Stefan and Joy helped him find answers about why he may be...2983african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-119-christian-standards--17738020http://www.thestefang.com/?p=6550Wed, 24 Apr 2019 23:00:56 +0000Stefan GilliamToday we discovered that Christians are stereotyped by our society which can limit our ability to minister or even just connect with others.  But who instilled this stereotype?  And is it a stereotype or is it a standard we must uphold as Christians? ...2086african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-118-voids--27302809https://thestefang.com/?p=6546Mon, 08 Apr 2019 00:40:26 +0000Stefan GilliamHow many of us have voids in our lives and in our hearts that we have not addressed.  Contrary to belief, it’s not time that heals, it’s Jesus that heals.  When we allow voids to remain in our hearts, we run the risk of them negatively affecting other...2798african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-117-do-women-need-a-man--27302833https://thestefang.com/?p=6543Sun, 07 Apr 2019 09:35:01 +0000Stefan GilliamQUICK SHOT SHOW!!  Somehow, in between commercials, we got into the conversation about whether Tina “needed” a man.  Luckily, we were recording everything!  So, on this show we talk about why women need men… and vice versa.814african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-116-power-trip--19570746http://www.thestefang.com/?p=6532Wed, 26 Dec 2018 01:23:54 +0000Stefan GilliamOne main thing those who serve in Christ should avoid like the plague is power trips! Recently we’ve noticed an increase of Christian leaders being caught on camera in the midst of a power trip.  But what’s the boundary between authority in Christ and...2491african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-115-the-word-for-2019--27302795https://thestefang.com/?p=6531Wed, 26 Dec 2018 01:18:36 +0000Stefan GilliamHave you gotten your word from the Lord for 2019? Well we have! Wanna know what Jesus told Stefan, Joy and Tina about 2019?  You’ll have to listen to today’s show of course!!1984african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-114-stupid-people--27302841https://thestefang.com/?p=6530Wed, 26 Dec 2018 01:11:07 +0000Stefan GilliamIt eventually had to be addressed.  It’s not politically correct, and it’s frowned upon to say in society today, but it is truth.  The world is full of stupid people. More specifically, the world is full of stupid Christians.  On this show, we address...1625african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-113-politics-and-religion--27302847https://thestefang.com/?p=6526Tue, 13 Nov 2018 06:00:39 +0000Stefan GilliamIs America REALLY a Christian nation? Let’s discuss two things that are not supposed to go together, politics and religion. Today, learn why the Christian faith seems to be losing it’s leverage in American politics and policy.  Have Christians focused...2457african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-112-how-easy-is-being-a-christian--27302798https://thestefang.com/?p=6520Tue, 30 Oct 2018 13:01:00 +0000Stefan GilliamWe’ve been taught for so long that being a Christian is hard road.  So, we decided to really examine whether this is true or not.  On today’s show Stefan and Mike go through some of the things that makes being a Christian such an easy choice.  And we...2360african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-111-when-joy-returns--27302807https://thestefang.com/?p=6515Tue, 16 Oct 2018 01:30:29 +0000Stefan GilliamAfter nearly two months away from the show Joy returns to Moment of Clarity (no that’s not her in the picture- LOL).  On her first show back, she celebrates with us some of the triumphs and challenges the Lord asked of her while she was away.  She...2560african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-110-faith-and-focus--19570759http://www.thestefang.com/?p=6511Tue, 09 Oct 2018 01:30:05 +0000Stefan GilliamRemember that time you had faith that God was going to bless your efforts, but you were still unsuccessful? Are you sure you were walking in faith?  How do you know?  On today’s show, Stefan and the crew mark the difference between faith and hope, and...2544african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-109-control-fear-success--27302799https://thestefang.com/?p=6504Tue, 11 Sep 2018 20:35:44 +0000Stefan GilliamWho is supposed to be in control of our lives?  How do we manage life and ensure success?  Is it fear keeping us from the success we actually look for in life?  Why do we ask so many questions in these show descriptions? Well, because we want you to...2738african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-108-the-land-of-should-have--27302819https://thestefang.com/?p=6499Tue, 04 Sep 2018 23:14:05 +0000Stefan GilliamWhat keeps us from what we’ve always dreamed of? Always hoped for? Always strived after? What do you regret not achieving in life? On today’s show, we discuss THE ONE THING keeping us from achieving all we can in life. The Land of Should Have!2543african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-107-the-church--27302851https://thestefang.com/?p=6496Tue, 28 Aug 2018 19:22:29 +0000Stefan GilliamWe talk about church a LOT on this show.  But on today’s show, we really take a look at church as an entity and as an institution.  Stefan and Mike discuss why we go to church, what church looks like, what it is or isn’t supposed to look like, and is...2489african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-106-how-healing-looks--27302814https://thestefang.com/?p=6477Tue, 17 Jul 2018 05:40:32 +0000Stefan GilliamThe idea of healing from our past can be daunting, especially for those who understand how broken they truly are.  Plus we may not understand why God is bringing this particular thing BACK up again, when we thought we had already healed from it.  But...1493african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-105-lust--19570769http://www.thestefang.com/?p=6464Tue, 10 Jul 2018 06:25:54 +0000Stefan GilliamIt is the forbidden fruit in all of Christianity. Lust. It brings feelings and thoughts of shame, helplessness, and more to believers.  But what actually is it? How does it find it’s way into our lives? And most importantly, how can we be rid of it?...2600african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-104-independence--19570766http://www.thestefang.com/?p=6460Wed, 04 Jul 2018 23:46:31 +0000Stefan GilliamIn the midst of the fireworks and cookouts, friends and family, Stefan questions this thing we call independence.  Is this a place Christians should dwell?  Is it possible for Christians balance a pride in their independence and what God has asked of...1928african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-103-removing-toxic-people--19570767http://www.thestefang.com/?p=6455Wed, 27 Jun 2018 00:32:52 +0000Stefan Gilliam  Sometimes you feel like people just have to go!  They don’t add to your life and your walk with God and you feel as if they are just toxic to be around.  But is that biblical?  Aren’t Christians called to be the “salt of the earth”?  On today’s show...2419african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-102-positioned-for-purpose--27302813https://thestefang.com/?p=6451Tue, 19 Jun 2018 06:45:06 +0000Stefan GilliamThis show is all about putting yourself in position to discover and then achieve your purpose! Stefan and Tina talk about what purpose looks like, ways to find your purpose, how your purpose is not always supposed to be your career, and the challenges...2304african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-101-when-god-doesn-t-come-through--27302863https://thestefang.com/?p=6444Mon, 11 Jun 2018 16:36:01 +0000Stefan GilliamLife can be filled with broken promises and unanswered prayers.  But what should we do when God has let us down?  How does our response impact our lives?  Our faith?  On today’s show, Tina and Stefan talk about being angry at God.2653african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-100-nice-for-what--27302823https://thestefang.com/?p=6440Tue, 05 Jun 2018 02:49:49 +0000Stefan GilliamHave we all gotten too sensitive?  Is there a place for direct truth from Christians today?  On this show, we find out how understanding Christians should really be, and look for the dividing line between truth and love.  Also, Joy tells us why she is...2229african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-99-expectations--27302801https://thestefang.com/?p=6436Tue, 29 May 2018 23:10:05 +0000Stefan GilliamShould we really live our lives with no expectations?  Is it realistic to give to others with no expectation of return?  On today’s show Stefan and the crew tackle these questions as they pertain to life and ministry… and out new host Joy, gets her...3395african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-98-christian-acceptance--27302867https://thestefang.com/?p=6424Mon, 21 May 2018 20:44:31 +0000Stefan GilliamOn today’s show, Stefan welcomes Mike back to the show and they talk about the role of acceptance in Christianity. Are we as accepting to others as we should be? Or is it possible that Christians have already accepted too much from American culture...2555african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-97-return-of-the-g--19570772http://www.thestefang.com/?p=6421Mon, 14 May 2018 04:22:57 +0000Stefan GilliamIt’s the first day of the official return of Moment of Clarity and I have so much to share with you all.  On today’s show I share the incident that will change this radio show forever, and hopefully the lives of all those who listen.  I invite you to...2080african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-96-transtions--19570792http://www.thestefang.com/?p=6411Tue, 01 Aug 2017 02:57:31 +0000Stefan GilliamI’m back BABY!!  On today’s episode, I’m outlining the single roadblock most people encounter that keeps them from making the most of their season of transition.  How do we know when we’re in a stage of transition?  Better yet, how do ensure we make...2608african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-95-struggle-for-humility--19570781http://www.thestefang.com/?p=6388Mon, 02 Jan 2017 23:06:49 +0000Stefan GilliamIn a world that glorifies self-promotion, how do we maintain the humility Christ has called us to?  Selfies and self-proclaimed gurus engulf our society and our media consumption. In today’s show, Mike and Stefan talk about how we can make sure we are...1290african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-94-preparing-for-the-new-year--19570797http://www.thestefang.com/?p=6384Fri, 09 Dec 2016 12:59:05 +0000Stefan GilliamDiscover how to make 2017 you BEST YEAR EVER!!!  No seriously!  Today’s show walks you through the simple steps to make sure your new year is EXACTLY what you need for growth, peace, prosperity, and love!!1899african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-93-spiritual-growth--19570805http://www.thestefang.com/?p=6379Thu, 01 Dec 2016 05:01:54 +0000Stefan GilliamWant to know what’s keeping you from acheiving the growth you desire in your life?  There is a practical answer for you!  Regardless of how you may feel, Jesus wants you to advance in your life. Whether it be on your job, in your relationships, with...2119african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-92-reaching-generations--27302852https://thestefang.com/?p=6370Thu, 17 Nov 2016 09:55:34 +0000Stefan GilliamThere is a divide growing between generations.  It’s happening in many aspects of our growing society, but one place where it is most prevalent is the church.  How can we reach the next generation effectively so they can carry on the mission Jesus...1827african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-91-hearing-god-s-voice--27302870https://thestefang.com/?p=3898Thu, 03 Nov 2016 03:12:50 +0000Stefan GilliamHow do you hear God’s voice? It’s one of the biggest questions Christians regularly ask. Does God still speak to people?  Is He speaking to me? Was that me or was that God? Kym and Stefan address all these questions on today’s show.3063african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-90-intentional-living--27302805https://thestefang.com/?p=3803Fri, 21 Oct 2016 03:13:05 +0000Stefan GilliamYour life can be better than you ever dreamed, if you are willing to give thought to the purpose, the plan and the process of your future.  This is intentional living.  And this is the place where you are living out a life strategically designed for you.2922african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-89-your-social-media-ministry--19570779http://www.thestefang.com/?p=3773Thu, 13 Oct 2016 03:48:53 +0000Stefan GilliamMany Christians are ruining our ability to minister to others because of how we use social media. Since much of life’s discourse has moved from face-to-face conversations to online interactions, should Christians be more responsible with their posts,...2078african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-88-what-men-want-part-3--27302827https://thestefang.com/?p=3770Fri, 07 Oct 2016 03:28:56 +0000Stefan GilliamIf you are sensitive, you might not want to hear this show!! The question was asked, what is the ONE thing men believe women should stop doing right now?! The guys were asked to name things women could change in order to find themselves in more...2038african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-87-what-men-want-part-2--19570830http://www.thestefang.com/?p=3767Thu, 29 Sep 2016 03:31:30 +0000Stefan GilliamApparently men are NOT attracted to independent women. At least that is what the men on our panel confessed. The illustration that society has given the “independent” woman is not what men are looking for in potential mates, and evidently it will keep...1996african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-86-what-men-want-part-1--19570823http://www.thestefang.com/?p=490Thu, 15 Sep 2016 03:49:26 +0000Stefan GilliamAfter spending over a month hearing the women’s side of the story, Stefan brings in the guys to respond.  The men sit down and relay EXACTLY what men want AND men are thinking from the man’s perspective.  Today we cover what men are looking for in the...2480african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-85-where-are-the-good-men-pt4-engaging-the-relationship--27302829https://thestefang.com/?p=485Thu, 08 Sep 2016 02:51:14 +0000Stefan GilliamIt’s the 4th and FINAL installment of our ladies night round table series.  Today we make our way through the friendzone and discuss actually engaging the relaionship past the friendship.  The talks go deeper as we discover how women can uncover...1507african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-84-where-are-the-good-men-pt3-making-the-connection--19570780http://www.thestefang.com/?p=480Thu, 25 Aug 2016 02:58:49 +0000Stefan GilliamAs we go into part 3 of our ladies round table series, we make our way out of the friend zone and attempt to discover HOW men and women can actually make a connection.  Stefan asks the question, how can we help men learn the importance of friendship...1445african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-83-where-are-the-good-men-pt2-the-friend-zone--19570784http://www.thestefang.com/?p=474Fri, 19 Aug 2016 02:16:19 +0000Stefan GilliamIs the friend zone a real place?  Why do women put men there?  In this episode we keep searching for “the good men”.  Our Ladies Night round table continues, focusing on the beloved/dreaded friend zone.1227african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-82-where-are-the-good-men--19570826http://www.thestefang.com/?p=470Thu, 11 Aug 2016 11:02:41 +0000Stefan GilliamWe FINALLY find an answer to the question so many women are asking…  Where are all the good men?  Well we’ve found them!!  It’s LADIES NIGHT on this episode of Moment of Clarity.  4 women join Stefan to discuss where to find a good man!2582african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-81-a-new-kind-of-love--19570828http://www.thestefang.com/?p=464Thu, 04 Aug 2016 03:02:01 +0000Stefan GilliamAre you a good lover?  Most of us would automatically answer yes, but have we really taken the time to discover how good we are at this thing called love?  Find out what you can do to take your love life to the next level.  What if we take it a step...2530african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-80-what-if-jesus-were-real--27302822https://thestefang.com/?p=461Thu, 28 Jul 2016 09:41:01 +0000Stefan GilliamMany of us would say we “do our best” to follow God’s Word and be the best followers of Christ that we can possibly be.  But What if Jesus were actually real?  Like, really real?  Would our lives, thoughts, actions change?  Find out what it means to...2318african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-79-like-everyone-else--19570783http://www.thestefang.com/?p=457Thu, 23 Jun 2016 16:25:50 +0000Stefan GilliamOn today’s show we take on the internal struggle so many Christians go through, the struggle of being just like everyone else.  As Christians we’ve allow the world to define, who, how, and what we must be to keep the title of Christian. The idea...2021african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-78-shine-orlando--19570791http://www.thestefang.com/?p=452Wed, 15 Jun 2016 13:12:10 +0000Stefan GilliamIn the midst of experiencing such a heartbreaking tragedy in our hometown, Stefan, Kym and Mike focus on the Orlando shooting and discuss what a Christian response should look like.  Is there a difference? How can we be light in the middle of this...2258african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-77-limitless--19570817http://www.thestefang.com/?p=448Thu, 09 Jun 2016 03:43:36 +0000Stefan GilliamAs a child of God you can do almost anything!!  But we put so many limitations on ourselves based off of false conceptions.  So why do we rarely use the access Christ has given us to change the world or even our own lives?  On today’s show Stefan and...3268african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-76-the-place-of-transition--19570789http://www.thestefang.com/?p=442Thu, 02 Jun 2016 05:15:58 +0000Stefan GilliamTransitioning from one phase of life to the next can be scary, overwhelming, confusing, as well as affirming, productive, hopeful and much much more.  Today Stefan, Kym, and Mike outline 5 keys to making it through your transition victoriously!2358african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-75-fear-not--19570803http://www.thestefang.com/?p=436Fri, 27 May 2016 01:00:35 +0000Stefan GilliamIt’s time to move beyond fear!  Many of is allow fear to paralize us without even knowing it.  It limits our success, keeps us from our purpose, and restricts God’s ability to move in our lives.  Today Stefan, Kym, and Mike tackle fear.  They share...1912african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-74-the-journey-continues--19570827http://www.thestefang.com/?p=431Thu, 19 May 2016 05:58:13 +0000Stefan GilliamNo matter how much you believe you’ve healed, you journey with Christ will continue day by day.  Today Stefan and Kym talk about what can happen when you find yourself in a state of transition with Christ.  They explore “Safe Mode” a state of being...3371african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-73-finding-love--19570834http://www.thestefang.com/?p=426Thu, 12 May 2016 15:19:40 +0000Stefan GilliamWe all need love!  So on today’s show Kym, Mike, and Stefan discuss the principles of finding love!  And they FINALLY answer the age old question, “How do I find me a Bae?!?!”  From positioning yourself for love, to listening for the cues and clues,...1908african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-72-purpose-destiny--19570786http://www.thestefang.com/?p=411Thu, 05 May 2016 05:26:02 +0000Stefan GilliamThere is something inside each of us that calls out, asking us to be more, and reach higher.  That something is our life’s destiny. If you haven’t found yours, or are unsure of which direction your purpose may take you, listen to this show.  Stefan,...1540african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-71-vulnerability--19570787http://www.thestefang.com/?p=405Thu, 21 Apr 2016 15:48:38 +0000Stefan GilliamOur vulnerability is our true self.  But, there are so many things in life that want to squash our ability to be vulnerable with each other, and with Christ.  Pride, fear, hurt, and so many other things can keep us from being vulnerable, open, and...2110african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-70-you-are-my-brother--27302864https://thestefang.com/?p=399Thu, 14 Apr 2016 03:45:23 +0000Stefan GilliamPossibly the most powerful show we’ve ever had on Moment of Clarity.  Today Kym shares an experience that puts our charge as Christians into real perspective.  Can you love ONLY?  God calls us to love each other as brothers and sisters, with no...2095african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-69-technology--19570831http://www.thestefang.com/?p=391Thu, 07 Apr 2016 04:26:47 +0000Stefan GilliamMike and Stefan recently discovered how many Christians don’t use the simplest technology, and they were stunned. Where technology is taking us masterful! So many people neglect to utilize technology to its fullest ability. Today we recap some of the...2082african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-68-donald-j-trump-for-president--19570790http://www.thestefang.com/?p=380Thu, 31 Mar 2016 04:05:50 +0000Stefan Gilliam  I’ve been trying to be good.  But I can’t hold it in any longer!  I’m listening to numerous people support Trump.  I’m listening to many many people attack Trump.  And it’s finally time for me to chime in.  Kym took the week off, so I’m going to...2250african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-67-trust-and-the-truth--19570839http://www.thestefang.com/?p=368Thu, 10 Mar 2016 05:56:06 +0000Stefan GilliamIn our faith God calls us to embrace truth. It is the only way to salvation, to believe, to have faith, in the truth of Christ and the Gospel. So why do we avoid truth so much in our everyday lives? Do we have a trust issue? And are there individual...2192african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-66-why-men-are-not-getting-married--27302875https://thestefang.com/?p=363Thu, 03 Mar 2016 05:59:27 +0000Stefan GilliamAn article recently came out that said 70% of men under 35 are not getting married for one specific reason.  And it’s more about what they want in marriage than anything else.  On today’s show Stefan and Kym analyze why men aren’t signing up to...2666african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-66-why-men-are-not-getting-married--19570794http://www.thestefang.com/?p=363Thu, 03 Mar 2016 05:59:27 +0000Stefan GilliamAn article recently came out that said 70% of men under 35 are not getting married for one specific reason.  And it’s more about what they want in marriage than anything else.  On today’s show Stefan and Kym analyze why men aren’t signing up to...2666african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-65-breaking-down-singleness-and-relationships--19570807http://www.thestefang.com/?p=358Thu, 25 Feb 2016 16:35:52 +0000Stefan GilliamLearn the truth about your singleness and how to move towards that relationship you desire. On today’s show Stefan and Kym talk about how our singleness grooms us all for the relationship to come. They break down the act of being single and how to...3473african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-64-how-to-overcome-worry-in-your-life--19570838http://www.thestefang.com/?p=352Fri, 12 Feb 2016 01:28:07 +0000Stefan GilliamWorry overtakes many of us through life’s situations. However there are some clear and easy ways to overcome the worry in your life by understanding it and why it occurs.  On today’s show, Stefan and Kym break down what can cause worry and why we need...1801african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-63-what-does-true-forgiveness-look-like--27302824https://thestefang.com/?p=348Thu, 04 Feb 2016 07:54:58 +0000Stefan GilliamHave you really forgiven them? Have you really forgiven yourself? Forgiveness is the gift that is given to us so easily by Christ, but we can often find ourselves reluctant to offer real forgiveness to others.  How do we offer true forgiveness that...2123african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-62-submission--27302869https://thestefang.com/?p=342Thu, 21 Jan 2016 19:44:19 +0000Stefan GilliamWe all will often find ourselves in between…  Do we decided to submit, or are we going to be in charge.  This happens at work, in marriage, with friends and family, and inevitably with Christ.  So why do many have such a problem with submission?  Why...1916african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-61-evangelism-and-why-it-s-losing-effectiveness--27302860https://thestefang.com/?p=336Thu, 10 Dec 2015 15:30:55 +0000Stefan GilliamWhy isn’t evangelism in America more effective? I struggled with this question for some time, wondering what we could do as Christians to motivate others towards experiencing this life that we adore so greatly. The number of people who claim some...1955african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-60-sex-before-marriage-is-okay-for-christians-now--19570811http://www.thestefang.com/?p=331Thu, 03 Dec 2015 03:59:40 +0000Stefan GilliamApprently sex before marriage is okay now.  Obviously I missed the memo. I wish I had gotten it, so I could’ve been included in the fun.  I wish I had gotten the word, so I could have had MORE SEX!!! It would have saved me many nights crying out to...2269african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-59-the-purpose-of-prayer--19570814http://www.thestefang.com/?p=326Thu, 19 Nov 2015 14:58:02 +0000Stefan GilliamEveryone prays, whether they are Christian or not, whether they realize it or not, everyone prays.  But, why do we pray?  Why should we pray?  Is it possible to get more substance out of our prayers? I’ve noticed so many people who pray so many...2178african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-58-thestruggle--19570821http://www.thestefang.com/?p=321Wed, 11 Nov 2015 23:43:15 +0000Stefan Gilliam#TheStruggle is REAL.  Life is not easy.  And that is okay!  Too often I have had struggles in my life (legitimate struggles) that my friends and family have only made worse by trying to force me to realize, everything will be okay.  First of all,...2096african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talk,thestrugglefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-57-spiritual-abuse--19570848http://www.thestefang.com/?p=316Thu, 05 Nov 2015 07:16:16 +0000Stefan GilliamSpiritual Abuse is a problem running rampant in the church today. It can be difficult to identify, and unbelievably detrimental to those who have to live in this experience. I have lived in and esacped from a spiritually abusive Pastor and church. If...2180african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-56-the-sinner--19570809http://www.thestefang.com/?p=311Thu, 29 Oct 2015 05:00:35 +0000Stefan Gilliam  After looking at a list of every sin in the Bible, I was WILDLY convicted. I discovered, even though I may “think” I have a great relationship with Christ, there is no way I could ever live up to the standard He has set. No matter how close we are...2073african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-55-defeating-temptation--19570833http://www.thestefang.com/?p=307Thu, 22 Oct 2015 13:10:44 +0000Stefan GilliamTemptation is EVERYWHERE! No matter what you are attracted to… sex, food, money, power, pity, etc. all Christians must deal with temptation. But, the reason we can not beat tempation is because we do not realize the key to defeating temptation is...1337african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-54-how-to-experience-christ-like-never-before--19570829http://www.thestefang.com/?p=295Thu, 15 Oct 2015 04:53:14 +0000Stefan GilliamThere is a key to being able to experience the most Christ has to offer. Many of us do not realize what it really takes to have the encounter with Christ most of us desire. Today I outline that solution. It is easier than you think.2036african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-53-why-you-are-missing-out-on-your-blessing--19570810http://www.thestefang.com/?p=259Tue, 13 Oct 2015 05:01:25 +0000Stefan GilliamGod is going to do it! Your blessing is right around the corner! So many Christians use these statements as a way to reinforce the belief that God is going to bless them. We wait and wait and never experience the blessings we so desperately seek. But...1958african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-52-church-hurts--19570836http://www.thestefang.com/?p=248Wed, 07 Oct 2015 00:12:24 +0000Stefan GilliamThere is a VIRUS that is spreading rapidly across America, and it’s begin transmitted through the church. This contamination can negatively affect our lives and our relationship with Christ if we let it. It’s Church Hurt. Today I’ll address this GIANT...1964african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-51-finally-the-key-to-reaching-your-destiny-and-achieving-your-dreams--19570840http://www.thestefang.com/?p=241Thu, 01 Oct 2015 06:43:32 +0000Stefan GilliamFor so long I’ve watched leaders in Christianity telling people to reach their destiny and achieve their dreams. They give a bunch of motivational and inspirational quotes in hopes of helping you reach that ultimate goal. But for you my friends I’ve...1807african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-50-rick-warren-false-teachers-and-why-you-keep-falling-for-it--19570841http://www.thestefang.com/?p=235Sat, 26 Sep 2015 20:52:47 +0000Stefan GilliamThe preacher speaks it sounds good, addresses my struggles in life, so we keep it in our hearts. But your favorite preacher may just be leading you down a road that you won’t be able to pull yourself out of. Today I’ll be talking about false preachers...2417african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-49-are-you-walking-in-faith-or-feelings--19570812http://www.thestefang.com/?p=230Thu, 10 Sep 2015 04:01:19 +0000Stefan GilliamTime for a faith BOOST!!!  As important as faith is in the lifestyle of Christian, I’ve noticed it’s sometimes difficult to identify when I’m walking in faith, and when I’m high on my own feelings.  This deception is easy to fall into.  We find...2053african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-48-are-we-misguided-as-christians--27302876https://thestefang.com/?p=212Wed, 02 Sep 2015 03:59:06 +0000Stefan GilliamI look around and I realize that what Christians are doing in America is NOT WORKING!! I know we’re trying. I know we’re praying. But our approach, our strategy, is not working!  Just look around… It’s very possible that we have been misguided. Today...1874african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-47-it-s-time-to-leave-your-church--19570816http://www.thestefang.com/?p=207Thu, 20 Aug 2015 11:00:48 +0000Stefan GilliamChurches are failing at their job description, and it’s getting old.  What was once the cornerstone of many communities, has now become an institution focused solely on sustaining itself.  On today’s show, I discuss many aspects lacking in the modern...2060african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-46-parenting-you-re-doing-it-wrong--27302868https://thestefang.com/?p=202Thu, 06 Aug 2015 14:43:48 +0000Stefan GilliamDear parents, parenting is not about what makes you feel good!  If you’re kids are your whole world, you’re parenting wrong!  Our kids were never meant to be these miniature demi-gods we follow around and proclaim the world for.  After watching people...1729african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-45-the-coward-and-sandra-bland--27302873https://thestefang.com/?p=197Fri, 24 Jul 2015 01:16:49 +0000Stefan GilliamAnother day.  Another issue with a police officer and a black citizen.  Today I ask, where are our heroes?  Our police force has become a troupe of cowards and it’s affecting all of our lives.  Where are the people who are called to protect us?  More...2243african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-44-that-place-between-grace-and-hell--19570849http://www.thestefang.com/?p=170Tue, 21 Jul 2015 09:58:47 +0000Stefan GilliamSo many Christians live in one of a few places when it comes to sin.  The two most prevalent are that we either believe we are terrible, horrible, no good, very bad people, and Christ can’t be pleased with us, and there is nothing we can do, and if we...1869african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-43-the-inequality-of-equality--27302844https://thestefang.com/?p=184Thu, 16 Jul 2015 14:42:30 +0000Stefan GilliamThe FSU quarterback arrest for punching a woman in the face at a bar set of a wave of videos on social media of men hitting women. Not only are these videos more prevalent, but more and more people are in support of the men who are hitting women. Has...2156african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-42-how-gay-replaced-jesus-as-the-symbol-for-love--19570837http://www.thestefang.com/?p=176Thu, 09 Jul 2015 05:58:59 +0000Stefan GilliamWho picked gay marriage as the #1 issue Christians in America must fight against?  Who decided that we must invest so much time, energy, political capital, and religious collateral on condemning the way a group of people like to have sex?  While we...2809african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-41-dear-white-people--19570820http://www.thestefang.com/?p=111Tue, 09 Jun 2015 15:53:57 +0000Stefan GilliamDear White People, YOU’RE WRONG AGAIN!!  I love hearing the conversation from people who disagree.  But when situations like the McKinney pool party arise, I find it difficult to understand WHY there is such a big, giant, trench between the two sides....1880african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-40-conversation-with-david-taylor--19570822http://www.thestefang.com/?p=69Thu, 01 Jan 2015 18:06:28 +0000Stefan GilliamI found myself on the phone with a good friend of mine, David Taylor.  After a while, I knew this was a conversation that needed to be recorded.  Take a listen, because this conversation is guaranteed to inspire you for 2015!  To hear more from my...1213african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-39-conversation-with-michael-yaffee--19570852http://www.thestefang.com/?p=16Wed, 03 Dec 2014 17:05:03 +0000Stefan GilliamIn the wake of all that’s been happening with Ferguson and Staten Island, I decided to give my friend and radio host Michael Yaffee a call just to get his take on things. Within a couple minutes I knew I had to record this conversation. Take a listen,...862african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-38-me-4-me--27302855https://thestefang.com/?p=7Fri, 30 May 2014 19:35:40 +0000Stefan GilliamYou want to be loved for who you really are.  But there are 3 things that you probably do to make sure that will never ever ever happen! Find them out in this episode of Moment of Clarity.3209african,american,black,christian,church,clarity,g,gilliam,jesus,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-37-top-5-benefits-of-sin--19570832http://www.thestefang.com/?p=13Mon, 21 Apr 2014 00:40:43 +0000Stefan GilliamSin has its benefits and you should know what they are!  Find out the Top 5 Benefits of Sin in this episode of Moment of Clarity.3821african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-36-liar-liar--19570842http://www.thestefang.com/?p=29Wed, 12 Mar 2014 21:25:35 +0000Stefan GilliamThere are two BIG lies churches, pastors, and Christians tell new believers or those considering salvation. In this episode Stefan identifies those lies, and gives clarity to the matter.3905african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-35-about-tonight--19570844http://www.thestefang.com/?p=39Fri, 14 Feb 2014 17:00:49 +0000Stefan GilliamIn an effort to help all you lovers out there today I am talking about the most important things to know about love, dating, and relationships, before going on your Valentine dinner. You’ll certainly want to hear this before you head out.3496african,american,black,christian,clarity,g,gilliam,moment,of,radio,stefan,talkfalsefull