http://deborahleeann.comenReligion & SpiritualityDeborah LeeAnn Morleyhttps://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5f886d7d8a0aac1f2950c8cd0191260b.jpghttp://deborahleeann.comThu, 30 Jul 2026 15:23:39 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyDeborah LeeAnn Morleydeborah@deborahleeann.comConnecting you to life hacks for living, working and being Authentic - Integral - True to YOU. Yes, it's safe to be the unique beautiful BEING you are!falseepisodichttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-gift-of-presence--73242338
This is my gift to you, to invite you into a Presencing practice. Listen to practice, then modify or create one of your own. 

Enjoy!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/73242338Thu, 30 Jul 2026 15:23:34 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyWhen we are Centered, we are in our bodies, calming our minds and nervous systems, slowing our breathing, and relaxing.  There is a timelessness and peace that allows us to rest and regenerate. This is my gift to you, to invite you into a Presencing...
This is my gift to you, to invite you into a Presencing practice. Listen to practice, then modify or create one of your own. 

Enjoy!]]>485falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/pausing-to-enrich-our-spirits--69008891 Join Deborah for a few minutes of tuning into our Breath and Light within as we embody the Light of the WisdomKeeper and our own Intoxicating Brilliance!

Cover art photo provided by Marco Grosso on Unsplash: https://unsplash.com/@marcozzolo90?utm_source=spreaker&utm_medium=referral]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69008891Fri, 12 Dec 2025 15:41:07 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyDuring this time of Great Change and the holiday season's busyness, our energy systems are needing recalibration and enrichment more than ever! Join Deborah for a few minutes of tuning into our Breath and Light within as we embody the Light of the... Join Deborah for a few minutes of tuning into our Breath and Light within as we embody the Light of the WisdomKeeper and our own Intoxicating Brilliance!

Cover art photo provided by Marco Grosso on Unsplash: https://unsplash.com/@marcozzolo90?utm_source=spreaker&utm_medium=referral]]>347falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/learning-to-relax-an-introduction--48876289https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48876289Sat, 26 Feb 2022 00:09:13 +0000Deborah LeeAnn Morley889falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-art-of-ease--17513544
This has been one whirlwind of change, upleveling, evolving for us all, hasn't it?

Moving through deep transitions in my personal life, with my business and even my health, has brought much to share...I promise to make it in small, digestible bites for you! Each segment has to do with diving into the Inner space of Be-Coming...Becoming the very best versions of ourSelves so we can be the most effective change agents and leaders.

First of all is moving from the Doingness, the constant need to be moving, busy, acting and thinking "there's so much to do!" to a relaxed state of Trust, Naturalness and Allowing.
Listen in to see where we go today with this deep topic, that alone could take hours to unpack, but we'll make do with a short amount of space/time.

Why not take a moment for you and make a cup of tea, or stare out the window or sit outside soakng up the sun while you listen?]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/17513544Tue, 02 Apr 2019 19:52:27 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyHappy Spring! This has been one whirlwind of change, upleveling, evolving for us all, hasn't it? Moving through deep transitions in my personal life, with my business and even my health, has brought much to share...I promise to make it in small,...
This has been one whirlwind of change, upleveling, evolving for us all, hasn't it?

Moving through deep transitions in my personal life, with my business and even my health, has brought much to share...I promise to make it in small, digestible bites for you! Each segment has to do with diving into the Inner space of Be-Coming...Becoming the very best versions of ourSelves so we can be the most effective change agents and leaders.

First of all is moving from the Doingness, the constant need to be moving, busy, acting and thinking "there's so much to do!" to a relaxed state of Trust, Naturalness and Allowing.
Listen in to see where we go today with this deep topic, that alone could take hours to unpack, but we'll make do with a short amount of space/time.

Why not take a moment for you and make a cup of tea, or stare out the window or sit outside soakng up the sun while you listen?]]>1139authenticleadership,authenticliferadio,consciousleadership,deborahleeann,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/topsy-turvy-times--16578579https://api.spreaker.com/episode/16578579Thu, 27 Dec 2018 18:41:12 +0000Deborah LeeAnn Morley476falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lessons-from-my-garden--14828747
Like many of us, it’s difficult to say I’m anything else besides a mother, an entrepreneur, a leadership trainer. We tend to limit ourSelves to our job title or what our role is at home. Like many of us, it’s been a learning opportunity to say I’m anything else besides a mother, an entrepreneur, a leadership trainer.

Go to my website to read more: www.deborahleeann.com]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/14828747Fri, 18 May 2018 17:44:16 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyI’m a gardener. A cook. A traveler. A spiritual guide. A paradigm-shifter. A conscious connector and conversationalist. Like many of us, it’s difficult to say I’m anything else besides a mother, an entrepreneur, a leadership trainer. We tend to...
Like many of us, it’s difficult to say I’m anything else besides a mother, an entrepreneur, a leadership trainer. We tend to limit ourSelves to our job title or what our role is at home. Like many of us, it’s been a learning opportunity to say I’m anything else besides a mother, an entrepreneur, a leadership trainer.

Go to my website to read more: www.deborahleeann.com]]>792authenticleadership,deborahleeann,leadership,learningopportunityfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/it-s-all-about-magic-let-s-create-some--13636770
During the Holiday Season, we talk about the Magic of gift-giving. The Magic of Believing. The Magic of Joy and Miracles and Beauty and Health and Well Wishes.

And, I'm here, saying Magic is a year-round thing. It's with us all the time. It's IN each of us.

So let's remember to Tune in. Turn on. And, Turn It Up. It's in every one of us.

Happy December from us all at DeborahLeeAnn.com and Authentic Leadership Academy and Consulting!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/13636770Wed, 20 Dec 2017 18:18:39 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyI love Magic. Magick. Magik. All forms of it. All stories about it. All songs too! During the Holiday Season, we talk about the Magic of gift-giving. The Magic of Believing. The Magic of Joy and Miracles and Beauty and Health and Well Wishes. And,...
During the Holiday Season, we talk about the Magic of gift-giving. The Magic of Believing. The Magic of Joy and Miracles and Beauty and Health and Well Wishes.

And, I'm here, saying Magic is a year-round thing. It's with us all the time. It's IN each of us.

So let's remember to Tune in. Turn on. And, Turn It Up. It's in every one of us.

Happy December from us all at DeborahLeeAnn.com and Authentic Leadership Academy and Consulting!]]>527authenticleadership,consciousleadership,deborahleeann,leadershippresence,magicfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dialogue-vs-debate-authentic-communications--13465817
Speaking our truth amongst like-minded folks is great for validation and massaging of our ego.

Speaking our truth amid “others” can be scary. Isolating. Possibly life-threatening (or so it feels!)

Is the alternative not engaging? Walking away and not saying anything? Unfriending on social media? Getting another drink or hitting the buffet table to "deal with it” by numbing or stuffing it?

Or, possibly, responding and engaging.

Asking for clarification.

Learning where someone else stands and why they feel that way. Asking if they ever wondered if _____________ was possible? Or thought about it this way (state another view here)?

Each time I leave a racial awareness, social justice, diversity type of training or workshop I learn new techniques to continue the dialogue. Share more authentically. Listen more deeply. Broaden my views and add to my confidence.

It doesn’t mean it’s not scary. I still over-think and wonder if that post on LinkedIn has put me in a box with potential clients or friends. No one responded or engaged with me. Crickets.

Yet it was my truth. It’s my way of showing up. Sharing me and who I am with the marketplace. And, I believe it will attract the ideal clients who want to work with someone with my values as well as my experience and expertise.

Some additional ideas for Dialogue?

After exploring and agreeing that there are differences in views or beliefs, ask if there is interest in finding common ground as well.

Remember to model being a bridge-builder, one who is calmly (even if passionately) wanting to learn from the other, create relationship and keep the door open to further dialogue.

This is a way to collaborate, come together and explore solutions and not be the “owner” of the truth. There are many paths to it. How can we walk together and find new solutions, together?

Nothing risked, nothing gained. Join me in not being a silent partner in systemic racism, sexism, classism, and all the other barriers to humanism.

© 2017 Deborah LeeAnn Morley www.DeborahLeeAnn.com
Authentic Leadership Academy & Consulting]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/13465817Wed, 29 Nov 2017 18:58:34 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyIt's the holiday season (perhaps you’ve noticed?) with lots of events on the calendar providing us with lots of opportunities to be with "other-minded" people. Whether family, neighbors, co-workers or even circles of friends, we are more and more...
Speaking our truth amongst like-minded folks is great for validation and massaging of our ego.

Speaking our truth amid “others” can be scary. Isolating. Possibly life-threatening (or so it feels!)

Is the alternative not engaging? Walking away and not saying anything? Unfriending on social media? Getting another drink or hitting the buffet table to "deal with it” by numbing or stuffing it?

Or, possibly, responding and engaging.

Asking for clarification.

Learning where someone else stands and why they feel that way. Asking if they ever wondered if _____________ was possible? Or thought about it this way (state another view here)?

Each time I leave a racial awareness, social justice, diversity type of training or workshop I learn new techniques to continue the dialogue. Share more authentically. Listen more deeply. Broaden my views and add to my confidence.

It doesn’t mean it’s not scary. I still over-think and wonder if that post on LinkedIn has put me in a box with potential clients or friends. No one responded or engaged with me. Crickets.

Yet it was my truth. It’s my way of showing up. Sharing me and who I am with the marketplace. And, I believe it will attract the ideal clients who want to work with someone with my values as well as my experience and expertise.

Some additional ideas for Dialogue?

After exploring and agreeing that there are differences in views or beliefs, ask if there is interest in finding common ground as well.

Remember to model being a bridge-builder, one who is calmly (even if passionately) wanting to learn from the other, create relationship and keep the door open to further dialogue.

This is a way to collaborate, come together and explore solutions and not be the “owner” of the truth. There are many paths to it. How can we walk together and find new solutions, together?

Nothing risked, nothing gained. Join me in not being a silent partner in systemic racism, sexism, classism, and all the other barriers to humanism.

© 2017 Deborah LeeAnn Morley www.DeborahLeeAnn.com
Authentic Leadership Academy & Consulting]]>1202authenticcommunications,authenticleadershipacademy,deborahleeann,dialoguenotdebate,womensleadershipcatalystfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/metoo-movement-for-good--13334598
It’s become so common that no one is surprised anymore. We all just nod our heads in some type of secret solidarity.

Yet, why are we sharing from a place of shame? Or Guilt? Or Embarrassment? Or, even, with a sense of thinking we are responsible, in some awful way?

It’s time to stop the avoiding and clean up the shame, and start healing.

This open door will never swing shut again. More and more sexual assaults, inappropriate behavior, rapes kept under wraps are now seeing the light of day. The media posts new stories daily and we aren’t even bothering to read them. (Or, maybe that’s me, this is not new!)

What if…

What if we took this new-found solidarity, commonality across all women of different cultures, colors and class, and used it to fuel our Light?

What would happen if we were sharing with glee something beautiful that happened from sharing and healing to becoming more empowered, conscious and ready to tell our truth?

I’d love to discover what could happen when we realized that this totally inappropriate treatment we’ve all received was just a catalyst for igniting our realization of our value, our worth, our strength?

As we glue together the pieces where we previously thought we were broken, we heal the parts and are even more beautiful, more complex and more resilient.

The term Wabi-Sabi applies here…the Japanese believe in the beauty of impermanence and imperfection. When a piece of art or pottery is broken, they often fill the cracks with gold. Creating a more beautiful piece and honoring the imperfection.

Let’s shift into this type of #MEtoo. Let’s shift into the beauty of what we are now from the healing, growing and expansion into a more stunning piece of art? What if we shined our light through those cracks?

© 2017 Deborah LeeAnn www.DeborahLeeAnn.com
Authentic Leadership Academy & Consulting]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/13334598Wed, 15 Nov 2017 19:34:54 +0000Deborah LeeAnn Morley#MEtoo. It’s become so common that no one is surprised anymore. We all just nod our heads in some type of secret solidarity. Yet, why are we sharing from a place of shame? Or Guilt? Or Embarrassment? Or, even, with a sense of thinking we are...
It’s become so common that no one is surprised anymore. We all just nod our heads in some type of secret solidarity.

Yet, why are we sharing from a place of shame? Or Guilt? Or Embarrassment? Or, even, with a sense of thinking we are responsible, in some awful way?

It’s time to stop the avoiding and clean up the shame, and start healing.

This open door will never swing shut again. More and more sexual assaults, inappropriate behavior, rapes kept under wraps are now seeing the light of day. The media posts new stories daily and we aren’t even bothering to read them. (Or, maybe that’s me, this is not new!)

What if…

What if we took this new-found solidarity, commonality across all women of different cultures, colors and class, and used it to fuel our Light?

What would happen if we were sharing with glee something beautiful that happened from sharing and healing to becoming more empowered, conscious and ready to tell our truth?

I’d love to discover what could happen when we realized that this totally inappropriate treatment we’ve all received was just a catalyst for igniting our realization of our value, our worth, our strength?

As we glue together the pieces where we previously thought we were broken, we heal the parts and are even more beautiful, more complex and more resilient.

The term Wabi-Sabi applies here…the Japanese believe in the beauty of impermanence and imperfection. When a piece of art or pottery is broken, they often fill the cracks with gold. Creating a more beautiful piece and honoring the imperfection.

Let’s shift into this type of #MEtoo. Let’s shift into the beauty of what we are now from the healing, growing and expansion into a more stunning piece of art? What if we shined our light through those cracks?

© 2017 Deborah LeeAnn www.DeborahLeeAnn.com
Authentic Leadership Academy & Consulting]]>916authenticleadership,deborahleeann,metoo,shine,womenleadersfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/returning-home-and-turning-on-the-light--13276312
Do I start by blessing you? Or by blessing me? Blessing my wisdom, channel to Source, inspired words and the messaging reaches the audience with just what they are ready to hear and allow?

Is it my gift to share in this way?

Or is video blogging better, where I"m speaking to you more directly?

Either way, I'm not sure. When I start second-guessing, the flow becomes constricted.

OK, so Grounding. Centering. Breathing mySelf back Home.

Today, I am speaking my truth. Sharing from my heart, soul, and inspiration.

Opening up to be the brightest Lightworker I can be. Or a Whitelighter.

If you ever watched the old TV show, Charmed, you would understand the Whitelighter role. It's the guardian angel who helps heal, guide and support the ones doing good magic in the world. Whitelighters also protect and nurture them for their intended destiny.

You see, that's where I like to play. In the support of each of you stepping more fully into your power. Into your roles of change agent. Into the next highest, brilliant source of Good you are here to share.

Today's leaders need Whitelighters. We all do.

It's a universal feeling, don't you think? To bask in the security of being watched over, guided and loved with no conditions. Reminded of who we are as we get off track and forget and held during times of illness or trauma.

It's time we recognize we are not here to do our great work ALONE. We are much stronger, powerful, magical, effective and brilliant when we come together in unity.

But first, we need to come home. Do our inner work. Tune in, turn on and turn up our Essence. From this place we can SHINE. We can SHARE. We can co-create. We can serve. We can live, love, lead with Authenticity, Grace and Power.

So today is about Coming Home. Returning to our own Selves. Regenerating, renewing, remembering the power of "I am."

Then, help others. Then, allow support in. Only then, give. From here, receive. Allow, Be guided. Inspired. Co-create.

Then we can go on out and do our Great Work.

© 2017 Deborah LeeAnn www.DeborahLeeAnn.com
Authentic Leadership Academy & Consulting]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/13276312Wed, 08 Nov 2017 17:59:22 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyWhat am I speaking on, ranting on, sharing about or wanting to shine with today? I'm ready to open my heart and share what can be the most useful, most valuable to those who are listening. Do I start by blessing you? Or by blessing me? Blessing my...
Do I start by blessing you? Or by blessing me? Blessing my wisdom, channel to Source, inspired words and the messaging reaches the audience with just what they are ready to hear and allow?

Is it my gift to share in this way?

Or is video blogging better, where I"m speaking to you more directly?

Either way, I'm not sure. When I start second-guessing, the flow becomes constricted.

OK, so Grounding. Centering. Breathing mySelf back Home.

Today, I am speaking my truth. Sharing from my heart, soul, and inspiration.

Opening up to be the brightest Lightworker I can be. Or a Whitelighter.

If you ever watched the old TV show, Charmed, you would understand the Whitelighter role. It's the guardian angel who helps heal, guide and support the ones doing good magic in the world. Whitelighters also protect and nurture them for their intended destiny.

You see, that's where I like to play. In the support of each of you stepping more fully into your power. Into your roles of change agent. Into the next highest, brilliant source of Good you are here to share.

Today's leaders need Whitelighters. We all do.

It's a universal feeling, don't you think? To bask in the security of being watched over, guided and loved with no conditions. Reminded of who we are as we get off track and forget and held during times of illness or trauma.

It's time we recognize we are not here to do our great work ALONE. We are much stronger, powerful, magical, effective and brilliant when we come together in unity.

But first, we need to come home. Do our inner work. Tune in, turn on and turn up our Essence. From this place we can SHINE. We can SHARE. We can co-create. We can serve. We can live, love, lead with Authenticity, Grace and Power.

So today is about Coming Home. Returning to our own Selves. Regenerating, renewing, remembering the power of "I am."

Then, help others. Then, allow support in. Only then, give. From here, receive. Allow, Be guided. Inspired. Co-create.

Then we can go on out and do our Great Work.

© 2017 Deborah LeeAnn www.DeborahLeeAnn.com
Authentic Leadership Academy & Consulting]]>907authenticleadership,deborahleeann,leadershipcatalyst,lightworker,womenleadersfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/fear-and-vulnerability--13219644
When are you most afraid - Sharing vulnerably yourself? Or being with someone else who is sharing vulnerably?

Let’s define Vulnerability:

vul·ner·a·bil·i·ty
noun
noun: vulnerability; plural noun: vulnerabilities
1.the quality or state of being exposed to the possibility of being attacked or harmed, either physically or emotionally.

It’s been a difficult or trying week for me.

Monday was the anniversary of my wedding.

Tomorrow is the anniversary of signing the divorce papers.

Tomorrow night is the Farewell Party for my ex and his wife as they prepare to move out of the county, to a destination where our daughters will spend considerable time.

I told a former lover I couldn’t speak to him now as I am still processing our relationship ending.

And, I got the news that my application was not accepted to a co-working collaborative.

So, I’ve been sitting with all of the heaviness. The spiritual by-passing (the feeling that I SHOULD be) feeling grateful for what all HAS transpired and lessons learned. And, the emotions of grief, hurt, upset and more have washed over me. Yes, Grief has cycles and I’ve been riding them!

The difference this week, is that I’ve reached out. Talked and cried and shared and asked for support. Given myself extreme self-care.

Why is that so difficult for us as powerful, independent, brilliant women?

For me? It’s a “not wanting to bother anyone” or “I don’t want to be a burden” or “who wants to talk to a whiner, a soppy mess of a friend?”

Yet, when I asked for support to attend the party? All 3 women responded “Yes! Of course!”

When I cried a bit when my trainer asked me how I was doing on the metabolic challenge cleanse this week, she was lovely and understanding why I was not following the diet to a “T”.

When my business coach asked what I thought I could do this week, and I answered honestly, she was compassionate yet firm, my plan was do-able.

When my daughter asked me how I was, I was honest. Not angry. Just sad. Not talking bad about anyone. Accepting that they are who they are and we are not in alignment anymore.

I even can feel the excitement of what might be coming next for me through the pain and loss of this time. I had another ding this morning.

And, felt into and B E Y O N D the pain and saw the echoing of old stories and patterns - now releasing. Now bowing to what is emerging. And, making way, stepping aside.

It’s such a different feeling. The gratitude for the pain. The awareness of being in the present with all that IS and all that is on its way.

The most difficult part? Has been the weirdness of sharing with others. The fear of showing up less than, broken, messy and VULNERABLE. I don’t like asking for help. As much as I coach others on Receiving…it’s not that easy for me to Allow in the support and love I SO crave. Need. Want.

So, on this All Saints Day/All Souls Day/Post Samhain/Halloween day, sandwiched between two very significant dates for me, I have called in the Magic of connection. Community, support, sharing, giving, receiving. Receiving even when I don’t ask for it. Even without reciprocation expected.

And, gratitude shows up. Appreciation. And FEAR becomes fear…and disappears.

Poof!

Ahhh…this feels so much better!

© 2017 Deborah LeeAnn, Authentic Leadership Academy & Consulting


]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/13219644Wed, 01 Nov 2017 18:16:26 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyContinuing with the theme of FEAR this week, I’m curious… When are you most afraid - Sharing vulnerably yourself? Or being with someone else who is sharing vulnerably? Let’s define Vulnerability: vul·ner·a·bil·i·ty noun noun: vulnerability; plural...
When are you most afraid - Sharing vulnerably yourself? Or being with someone else who is sharing vulnerably?

Let’s define Vulnerability:

vul·ner·a·bil·i·ty
noun
noun: vulnerability; plural noun: vulnerabilities
1.the quality or state of being exposed to the possibility of being attacked or harmed, either physically or emotionally.

It’s been a difficult or trying week for me.

Monday was the anniversary of my wedding.

Tomorrow is the anniversary of signing the divorce papers.

Tomorrow night is the Farewell Party for my ex and his wife as they prepare to move out of the county, to a destination where our daughters will spend considerable time.

I told a former lover I couldn’t speak to him now as I am still processing our relationship ending.

And, I got the news that my application was not accepted to a co-working collaborative.

So, I’ve been sitting with all of the heaviness. The spiritual by-passing (the feeling that I SHOULD be) feeling grateful for what all HAS transpired and lessons learned. And, the emotions of grief, hurt, upset and more have washed over me. Yes, Grief has cycles and I’ve been riding them!

The difference this week, is that I’ve reached out. Talked and cried and shared and asked for support. Given myself extreme self-care.

Why is that so difficult for us as powerful, independent, brilliant women?

For me? It’s a “not wanting to bother anyone” or “I don’t want to be a burden” or “who wants to talk to a whiner, a soppy mess of a friend?”

Yet, when I asked for support to attend the party? All 3 women responded “Yes! Of course!”

When I cried a bit when my trainer asked me how I was doing on the metabolic challenge cleanse this week, she was lovely and understanding why I was not following the diet to a “T”.

When my business coach asked what I thought I could do this week, and I answered honestly, she was compassionate yet firm, my plan was do-able.

When my daughter asked me how I was, I was honest. Not angry. Just sad. Not talking bad about anyone. Accepting that they are who they are and we are not in alignment anymore.

I even can feel the excitement of what might be coming next for me through the pain and loss of this time. I had another ding this morning.

And, felt into and B E Y O N D the pain and saw the echoing of old stories and patterns - now releasing. Now bowing to what is emerging. And, making way, stepping aside.

It’s such a different feeling. The gratitude for the pain. The awareness of being in the present with all that IS and all that is on its way.

The most difficult part? Has been the weirdness of sharing with others. The fear of showing up less than, broken, messy and VULNERABLE. I don’t like asking for help. As much as I coach others on Receiving…it’s not that easy for me to Allow in the support and love I SO crave. Need. Want.

So, on this All Saints Day/All Souls Day/Post Samhain/Halloween day, sandwiched between two very significant dates for me, I have called in the Magic of connection. Community, support, sharing, giving, receiving. Receiving even when I don’t ask for it. Even without reciprocation expected.

And, gratitude shows up. Appreciation. And FEAR becomes fear…and disappears.

Poof!

Ahhh…this feels so much better!

© 2017 Deborah LeeAnn, Authentic Leadership Academy & Consulting


]]>1170authenticleadership,deborahleeann,fear,fearandvulnerability,vulnerabilityfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/courageous-authenticity-what-are-you-afraid-of--13135937
In honor of Halloween and Dia de los Muertos next week, let’s talk about fear.

Funny how lots of people like scary movies. We can laugh at the ridiculousness of the plots and know that it’s not real.

Yet, when scary stuff comes up for us, we literally cringe. Hide. Run away or freeze.

For most of us, Fear runs our life. We are so afraid of what we don't want to happen, we are literally closing off what we do want.

It’s where we let old stories, and often younger versions of ourselves, take the driver’s seat. Where we step aside, literally, giving our power away.

I run. I hide. And, I freeze.

I veg watching Netflix. Drinking wine. Or through sex.

I get super busy. Or, stop doing anything at all in a state of depression-like coma.

All in resistance to what wants to be expressed or experienced or let in.

What am I SO afraid of? Who am I so afraid of Be-Coming?

And when I recognize it, how do I use that energy to fuel my momentum versus let it suck me back into the same-old, stuffy, suffocating space of who I used to be.

Let’s move into the next iteration of Courageous Authenticity. Where we don’t run from our Fear, or Hide from it, or even manage it. We welcome it, transform the energy of it and utilize it.

Nothing in life is wasted. All forms of energy are valuable.

What is holding you back? Where are you stopping your SHINE from radiating from you? Who do you want to show up as and how does she want to BE in the world?
Chances are, it’s exactly what you need and want that calls you forward. It's more powerful than Fear.

Ready? I’m here with you…remember it’s a journey.


© 2017 Deborah LeeAnn ~ Authentic Leadership Academy & Consulting]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/13135937Thu, 26 Oct 2017 18:48:29 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyWhat is your deepest fear? In honor of Halloween and Dia de los Muertos next week, let’s talk about fear. Funny how lots of people like scary movies. We can laugh at the ridiculousness of the plots and know that it’s not real. Yet, when scary stuff...
In honor of Halloween and Dia de los Muertos next week, let’s talk about fear.

Funny how lots of people like scary movies. We can laugh at the ridiculousness of the plots and know that it’s not real.

Yet, when scary stuff comes up for us, we literally cringe. Hide. Run away or freeze.

For most of us, Fear runs our life. We are so afraid of what we don't want to happen, we are literally closing off what we do want.

It’s where we let old stories, and often younger versions of ourselves, take the driver’s seat. Where we step aside, literally, giving our power away.

I run. I hide. And, I freeze.

I veg watching Netflix. Drinking wine. Or through sex.

I get super busy. Or, stop doing anything at all in a state of depression-like coma.

All in resistance to what wants to be expressed or experienced or let in.

What am I SO afraid of? Who am I so afraid of Be-Coming?

And when I recognize it, how do I use that energy to fuel my momentum versus let it suck me back into the same-old, stuffy, suffocating space of who I used to be.

Let’s move into the next iteration of Courageous Authenticity. Where we don’t run from our Fear, or Hide from it, or even manage it. We welcome it, transform the energy of it and utilize it.

Nothing in life is wasted. All forms of energy are valuable.

What is holding you back? Where are you stopping your SHINE from radiating from you? Who do you want to show up as and how does she want to BE in the world?
Chances are, it’s exactly what you need and want that calls you forward. It's more powerful than Fear.

Ready? I’m here with you…remember it’s a journey.


© 2017 Deborah LeeAnn ~ Authentic Leadership Academy & Consulting]]>1327courageousauthenticity,deborahleeann,fear,shine,womenleadersfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-new-moon-and-authentic-leadership--13070205
This week I define Authenticity and Authentic Leadership.

What is important about this practice of conscious
leadership, especially during this time of change and chaos?

It’s rare and takes courage. It’s collective and co-creative and collaborative.

We are all learning to be more of our self, our highest and best versions of ourSelf. And, to do so we need to do our inner work.

Monthly, we are guided by the phases of the moon to do the deeper work of releasing and listening to see what is coming through us, what wants to become “real” from our visions, dreams and goals.

The new moon is a darker night, feels more magical and mysterious. These nights bring forth the fertile soil to plant new seeds, ideas, initiatives, or patterns of behavior.


I like to take the time to write out, speak or share with another, what I’m releasing and what I’m bringing forth.

The beauty of burning this (whether a stick, a log, or the piece of paper your wrote out your thoughts on) allows you to see the visual of the concept changing form.

Other ways besides a fire ceremony are to iterally give away old items, clear time on the calendar, or clean up your finances, all of which provide new space for what you are bringing forth. Making the space for what is coming into our lives both energetically and physically.

What are you bringing forth? Who are you calling into your life? What types of support or community do you want or need?

What new moon rituals do you practice?

The recording begins with a cry from my cat, Salem. He's a constant reminder for me of grounding and being fully present. Enjoy!

For more ideas (or for a community to practice with) connect with me, I’ve got guided meditations and curriculum to share each month from Unify Global Sisterhood and The TreeSisters.

©2017 DeborahLeeAnn.com
Authentic Leadership Academy & Consulting]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/13070205Wed, 18 Oct 2017 17:16:09 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyWhat does the New Moon have to do with Authentic Leadership? This week I define Authenticity and Authentic Leadership. What is important about this practice of conscious leadership, especially during this time of change and chaos? It’s rare and...
This week I define Authenticity and Authentic Leadership.

What is important about this practice of conscious
leadership, especially during this time of change and chaos?

It’s rare and takes courage. It’s collective and co-creative and collaborative.

We are all learning to be more of our self, our highest and best versions of ourSelf. And, to do so we need to do our inner work.

Monthly, we are guided by the phases of the moon to do the deeper work of releasing and listening to see what is coming through us, what wants to become “real” from our visions, dreams and goals.

The new moon is a darker night, feels more magical and mysterious. These nights bring forth the fertile soil to plant new seeds, ideas, initiatives, or patterns of behavior.


I like to take the time to write out, speak or share with another, what I’m releasing and what I’m bringing forth.

The beauty of burning this (whether a stick, a log, or the piece of paper your wrote out your thoughts on) allows you to see the visual of the concept changing form.

Other ways besides a fire ceremony are to iterally give away old items, clear time on the calendar, or clean up your finances, all of which provide new space for what you are bringing forth. Making the space for what is coming into our lives both energetically and physically.

What are you bringing forth? Who are you calling into your life? What types of support or community do you want or need?

What new moon rituals do you practice?

The recording begins with a cry from my cat, Salem. He's a constant reminder for me of grounding and being fully present. Enjoy!

For more ideas (or for a community to practice with) connect with me, I’ve got guided meditations and curriculum to share each month from Unify Global Sisterhood and The TreeSisters.

©2017 DeborahLeeAnn.com
Authentic Leadership Academy & Consulting]]>988authenticleadership,deborahleeann,doingtheinnerwork,newmoonritual,womensleadershipcatalystfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/letting-go-authentically-and-consciously--13012943
Letting Go to Live More Fully is one of my mantras and I’m typically singing it as I welcome this time of year.

I'm finding myself tossing old items, giving away piles of clothing and linens, cleaning out toiletries, (how does that drawer get so cluttered?) and generally, cleaning house.

Culling from my freezer and pantry too. Getting off of mailing and email lists. Aligning my bank accounts. And, reviewing/assessing/releasing relationships. This one is the hardest.

This brings me to my topic for today. When we consciously make the decision to walk away from a person who has been a big part of our life, it's a big deal. So is standing up and asking for things to change. And, additionally, being willing, AND READY, to leave if they don't.

So, here is that time of year. Mastermind circles ending. My first Authentic Leadership Academy coming to a close, the realization that the romantic relationship I'm in is no longer where I'm flourishing and happy.

With all of this "letting go" comes a sense of clarity. Freedom. More space to BE. And, the fear of being “alone” is also present.

Many of my friends, clients and colleagues are coupled. If you are one, you may not understand what I'm going through, It's been one hell of a decade since my divorce, and I thought I was done healing.

Maybe we are never done. Just like we are never complete.

Here's to seeing where this takes me and how I'll grow in the process!
“Landslide” cover and full Sweet Letting Go playlist on Spotify by desiremap ((Danielle LaPorte)

©2017 www.DeborahLeeAnn.com
Authentic Leadership Academy & Consulting

“Landslide” cover and full Sweet Letting Go playlist on Spotify by desiremap (Danielle LaPorte)]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/13012943Wed, 11 Oct 2017 19:53:55 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyIt's harvest time for many but not for me. Autumn is my "spring cleaning" time. Letting Go to Live More Fully is one of my mantras and I’m typically singing it as I welcome this time of year. I'm finding myself tossing old items, giving away...
Letting Go to Live More Fully is one of my mantras and I’m typically singing it as I welcome this time of year.

I'm finding myself tossing old items, giving away piles of clothing and linens, cleaning out toiletries, (how does that drawer get so cluttered?) and generally, cleaning house.

Culling from my freezer and pantry too. Getting off of mailing and email lists. Aligning my bank accounts. And, reviewing/assessing/releasing relationships. This one is the hardest.

This brings me to my topic for today. When we consciously make the decision to walk away from a person who has been a big part of our life, it's a big deal. So is standing up and asking for things to change. And, additionally, being willing, AND READY, to leave if they don't.

So, here is that time of year. Mastermind circles ending. My first Authentic Leadership Academy coming to a close, the realization that the romantic relationship I'm in is no longer where I'm flourishing and happy.

With all of this "letting go" comes a sense of clarity. Freedom. More space to BE. And, the fear of being “alone” is also present.

Many of my friends, clients and colleagues are coupled. If you are one, you may not understand what I'm going through, It's been one hell of a decade since my divorce, and I thought I was done healing.

Maybe we are never done. Just like we are never complete.

Here's to seeing where this takes me and how I'll grow in the process!
“Landslide” cover and full Sweet Letting Go playlist on Spotify by desiremap ((Danielle LaPorte)

©2017 www.DeborahLeeAnn.com
Authentic Leadership Academy & Consulting

“Landslide” cover and full Sweet Letting Go playlist on Spotify by desiremap (Danielle LaPorte)]]>1533consciousuncoupling,deborahleeann,harvestrenewal,leadershipcatalyst,lettinggofalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/authentic-community-stepping-into-a-higher-version-of-me--12957031
Last week was my own Axial experience.

"Axial" in that it was a pivotal moment when I could see all of who I have been coming together for this particular group of people, with that specific location, and those unique speakers and leaders. I knew it was going to be life-changing…just wish I knew how much was going to shift for me and those around me.

We had speakers from NASA to Harvard, experts from Google and MIT, Tai Chi Masters and international journalists and beekeepers who all shared their authentic selves and messages.

I was literally in heaven!

Beautiful conscious deep conversations…moments of transformative learning … tears and laughter of intimate sharing.

So many memories!

Lots of new people that I was initially feeling disconnected or separate from have now become new friends, colleagues, connections and potential partners.

Then the re-entry. A term many of us at the Summit used to describe our returning to our Real Life. It’s been a rough one, personally, professionally and on a spiritual level too.

At this time of continued heartbreak, chaos, low confidence or trust in our nation’s leadership and the mixed messages from our media, it’s time for us to find this Summit within. And, from that strength of inner knowing, groundedness in our Truth and Wisdom, share and act from Compassion and Love in our circles, families and communities.

I felt my own wings and heart expand and grow last week…not just my mind.

There was a deep knowing that I am perfectly perched, ready to take off and soar with my message.

It’s time to take a stand. Rooted in our physical self and connected to our divine self. Guided by our Passion/Purpose and Pleasure.

My new mantra for the next 100 days is:

I am a powerful creatrix who easily receives outrageous prosperity creating beauty and excellence all around me, simply by being my authentic embodied self.

What is yours?

©️ 2017 DeborahLeeAnn.com
Authentic Leadership Academy & Consulting]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/12957031Wed, 04 Oct 2017 18:21:43 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyLast week I attended The Leadership Circle™ Summit. It was way more than a training opportunity. Or a vacation. Or a conference with like-minded hearts, minds and souls. Last week was my own Axial experience. "Axial" in that it was a pivotal moment...
Last week was my own Axial experience.

"Axial" in that it was a pivotal moment when I could see all of who I have been coming together for this particular group of people, with that specific location, and those unique speakers and leaders. I knew it was going to be life-changing…just wish I knew how much was going to shift for me and those around me.

We had speakers from NASA to Harvard, experts from Google and MIT, Tai Chi Masters and international journalists and beekeepers who all shared their authentic selves and messages.

I was literally in heaven!

Beautiful conscious deep conversations…moments of transformative learning … tears and laughter of intimate sharing.

So many memories!

Lots of new people that I was initially feeling disconnected or separate from have now become new friends, colleagues, connections and potential partners.

Then the re-entry. A term many of us at the Summit used to describe our returning to our Real Life. It’s been a rough one, personally, professionally and on a spiritual level too.

At this time of continued heartbreak, chaos, low confidence or trust in our nation’s leadership and the mixed messages from our media, it’s time for us to find this Summit within. And, from that strength of inner knowing, groundedness in our Truth and Wisdom, share and act from Compassion and Love in our circles, families and communities.

I felt my own wings and heart expand and grow last week…not just my mind.

There was a deep knowing that I am perfectly perched, ready to take off and soar with my message.

It’s time to take a stand. Rooted in our physical self and connected to our divine self. Guided by our Passion/Purpose and Pleasure.

My new mantra for the next 100 days is:

I am a powerful creatrix who easily receives outrageous prosperity creating beauty and excellence all around me, simply by being my authentic embodied self.

What is yours?

©️ 2017 DeborahLeeAnn.com
Authentic Leadership Academy & Consulting]]>1547authenticleadershipacademy,deborahleeann,shine,theleadershipcircle,tlcsummit17falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-s-calling-you-forward--12846628
Its time to take an assessment, an honest look at where we are. Where we want to be.

Who we are. Who we are Be-Coming.

What needs to end? Begin?

What do we want more of? Desire less of?

The Autumnal Equinox is a great lesson in Nature of balance. Light and dark. The changing into a new season. The continuing of the cycle of seasons.

As the leaves fall, it reminds me that I need to clean out, let go, release. The old patterns that are not serving. The foods that don’t make me feel good. The people or clothing that no longer “fit”.

It’s also a wonderful time to review the abundance of what we have created this year. The fruits of our harvest. Sharing in thanks-giving and community.

So what do you want to stop doing?

Start doing?

Stop being?

Start BEing?

A great place to take stock is in your surroundings. Your bank account. Your circle of closest friends and those you spend the most time with.

Are they reflective of you in your Highest and Best?

If not…who would be in that Circle?

Maybe it’s time to create or join a group that reflect You back to YOU. In all your glorious imperfect Perfection and Beauty.

There are Moon Circles. Masterminds. Power Networking groups. Collaborative business meet ups. Conscious Leaders convergences and conferences. Coffee connections and social activist breakfast clubs.

What are you looking to be more of? What support calls you forward into the next up-leveling of YOU?

Lots will be generating underground in the coming months as I revamp in my 2018 offerings. Share what you are looking for, chances are I know a group that just might be a great fit.

Or, let’s co-create something together. I’m all about manifesting and generating what you want to dream into being!

©️2017 www.DeborahLeeAnn.com
#SHINE
Authentic Leadership Academy]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/12846628Wed, 20 Sep 2017 15:11:23 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyThe Fall Equinox is upon us. Its time to take an assessment, an honest look at where we are. Where we want to be. Who we are. Who we are Be-Coming. What needs to end? Begin? What do we want more of? Desire less of? The Autumnal Equinox is a...
Its time to take an assessment, an honest look at where we are. Where we want to be.

Who we are. Who we are Be-Coming.

What needs to end? Begin?

What do we want more of? Desire less of?

The Autumnal Equinox is a great lesson in Nature of balance. Light and dark. The changing into a new season. The continuing of the cycle of seasons.

As the leaves fall, it reminds me that I need to clean out, let go, release. The old patterns that are not serving. The foods that don’t make me feel good. The people or clothing that no longer “fit”.

It’s also a wonderful time to review the abundance of what we have created this year. The fruits of our harvest. Sharing in thanks-giving and community.

So what do you want to stop doing?

Start doing?

Stop being?

Start BEing?

A great place to take stock is in your surroundings. Your bank account. Your circle of closest friends and those you spend the most time with.

Are they reflective of you in your Highest and Best?

If not…who would be in that Circle?

Maybe it’s time to create or join a group that reflect You back to YOU. In all your glorious imperfect Perfection and Beauty.

There are Moon Circles. Masterminds. Power Networking groups. Collaborative business meet ups. Conscious Leaders convergences and conferences. Coffee connections and social activist breakfast clubs.

What are you looking to be more of? What support calls you forward into the next up-leveling of YOU?

Lots will be generating underground in the coming months as I revamp in my 2018 offerings. Share what you are looking for, chances are I know a group that just might be a great fit.

Or, let’s co-create something together. I’m all about manifesting and generating what you want to dream into being!

©️2017 www.DeborahLeeAnn.com
#SHINE
Authentic Leadership Academy]]>1173authenticleadership,autumnalequinox,deborahleeann,shine,womenleadersfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/cultivating-our-character-in-the-new-axial-era--12790442
The first one occurred in the first millennium BCE.

The phrase originated with the German psychiatrist and philosopher Karl Jaspers, who noted that during this period there was a shift—or a turn, as if on an axis—away from more predominantly localized concerns and toward transcendence.

(love this, as I'm all about Transcendence and Transformation...)

More info is here: https://www.britannica.com/list/the-axial-age-5-fast-facts

We are on the wave of a New Axial Era. A pivot point.

The importance of Character and its role in Education, Leadership, and Community is not a new concept. However, it 's been lost amidst our reverence for Science and Technology, Math and Engineering.

We’ve left philosophy and religion to pick up the education and development of Character (what makes you uniquely you) as now it’s time to drive the forging of discovering and developing our Character Strengths with areas of Passion and to fuel and create change.

That is shifting now.

Media and the millennials are driving forward the merging of personal passions with innovation to create an impact on the world. And we all need to get on board.

AND, today is Character Day 2017!

When I first heard about it from change agent, Karen Hoffman, Founder of Gateway to Dreams, (just to name one of her entrepreneurial pursuits) I thought, "Oh, this is cool. Segues nicely with my work, happy to be a part of it."

However, in the weeks leading up to it as an Ambassador and Facilitator of this global event occurring in hundreds of countries and all 50 states on the same day, I’ve gotten more excited.

Blending beautiful video imagery with both local and global discussions and interaction can be illuminating for all involved and can truly ignite the fires of creativity and community change we are ready for.

Find an event near you or at least watch the movies at http://www.letitripple.org/character-day/

And as always, SHINE on with YOUR unique Character Strengths and Passion! How can you use them in Creating the Change YOU want to see?

©️Copyright 2017 DeborahLeeAnn.com and Authentic Leadership Academy & Consulting]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/12790442Wed, 13 Sep 2017 13:19:05 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyDid you know we are in the New Axial Era? A pivotal time when converging thoughts/philosophies/cultures/religions are driving us to an evolution of humanity? The first one occurred in the first millennium BCE. The phrase originated with the...
The first one occurred in the first millennium BCE.

The phrase originated with the German psychiatrist and philosopher Karl Jaspers, who noted that during this period there was a shift—or a turn, as if on an axis—away from more predominantly localized concerns and toward transcendence.

(love this, as I'm all about Transcendence and Transformation...)

More info is here: https://www.britannica.com/list/the-axial-age-5-fast-facts

We are on the wave of a New Axial Era. A pivot point.

The importance of Character and its role in Education, Leadership, and Community is not a new concept. However, it 's been lost amidst our reverence for Science and Technology, Math and Engineering.

We’ve left philosophy and religion to pick up the education and development of Character (what makes you uniquely you) as now it’s time to drive the forging of discovering and developing our Character Strengths with areas of Passion and to fuel and create change.

That is shifting now.

Media and the millennials are driving forward the merging of personal passions with innovation to create an impact on the world. And we all need to get on board.

AND, today is Character Day 2017!

When I first heard about it from change agent, Karen Hoffman, Founder of Gateway to Dreams, (just to name one of her entrepreneurial pursuits) I thought, "Oh, this is cool. Segues nicely with my work, happy to be a part of it."

However, in the weeks leading up to it as an Ambassador and Facilitator of this global event occurring in hundreds of countries and all 50 states on the same day, I’ve gotten more excited.

Blending beautiful video imagery with both local and global discussions and interaction can be illuminating for all involved and can truly ignite the fires of creativity and community change we are ready for.

Find an event near you or at least watch the movies at http://www.letitripple.org/character-day/

And as always, SHINE on with YOUR unique Character Strengths and Passion! How can you use them in Creating the Change YOU want to see?

©️Copyright 2017 DeborahLeeAnn.com and Authentic Leadership Academy & Consulting]]>686authenticleadership,axialage,characterday2017,cultivatingcharacter,deborahleeannfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/integrity-being-all-in--12740624
Operating more from outside influences (people’s expectations, society’s norms, cultural or religious practices?) or from your own Inner Guidance System?

When we “go with the flow” sometimes we are not checking in to see if it’s our Flow. Our own wisdom. Our own soul’s whispering of where our heart is desiring to go.

This is what I call Living Outside of Ourself. I know it well. It is how I spent the first 50 years of my life.

Even when I felt strongly about something and shared my view in a conversation or heated discussion, I could feel persuaded to move/shift/turn away from it by listening to another’s well-reasoned explanation or perspective.

It felt wishy-washy. I wasn’t sure where I stood sometimes. I could see the world through so many other’s eyes, I wasn’t confident in what I was really seeing.

Sometimes that is a good thing.

Anything at ALL times, is not a good thing.

I listened to all the gurus, teachers, experts, and wise ones and would shift and slip away from my own Truth.

This was good in some ways. Just not in ALL ways.

How do you determine what is right for you? Where you stand? What your Inner Wise One is saying versus when to listen and learn from others?

Where do you stand in Integrity? Wholeness? Self-Alignment?

That’s the topic today. Let’s see where this takes us…

As always, I welcome your comments, suggestions, questions and conversation.

Join us in the Facebook Group SHINE Challenge or message me at deborah@DeborahLeeAnn.com

Much love and gratitude for you being here with me on this Journey!

©️2017 SHINE Principle www.DeborahLeeAnn.com]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/12740624Wed, 06 Sep 2017 19:25:13 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyAre you too open? Operating more from outside influences (people’s expectations, society’s norms, cultural or religious practices?) or from your own Inner Guidance System? When we “go with the flow” sometimes we are not checking in to see if it’s...
Operating more from outside influences (people’s expectations, society’s norms, cultural or religious practices?) or from your own Inner Guidance System?

When we “go with the flow” sometimes we are not checking in to see if it’s our Flow. Our own wisdom. Our own soul’s whispering of where our heart is desiring to go.

This is what I call Living Outside of Ourself. I know it well. It is how I spent the first 50 years of my life.

Even when I felt strongly about something and shared my view in a conversation or heated discussion, I could feel persuaded to move/shift/turn away from it by listening to another’s well-reasoned explanation or perspective.

It felt wishy-washy. I wasn’t sure where I stood sometimes. I could see the world through so many other’s eyes, I wasn’t confident in what I was really seeing.

Sometimes that is a good thing.

Anything at ALL times, is not a good thing.

I listened to all the gurus, teachers, experts, and wise ones and would shift and slip away from my own Truth.

This was good in some ways. Just not in ALL ways.

How do you determine what is right for you? Where you stand? What your Inner Wise One is saying versus when to listen and learn from others?

Where do you stand in Integrity? Wholeness? Self-Alignment?

That’s the topic today. Let’s see where this takes us…

As always, I welcome your comments, suggestions, questions and conversation.

Join us in the Facebook Group SHINE Challenge or message me at deborah@DeborahLeeAnn.com

Much love and gratitude for you being here with me on this Journey!

©️2017 SHINE Principle www.DeborahLeeAnn.com]]>1365authenticleadershipacademy,deborahleeann,integrity,shine,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/leading-loving-and-living-with-radiance-and-vibrancy--12688297
Are you SHINING in some places in your life but not others? Are you aware of how you operate differently with different people? In different scenarios? In different roles?

It was easier for me to SHINE when at work for many years. My career offered me a place to be smart, witty, strategic, a people connector and a brilliant problem-solver. All strengths of mine.

When I was with clients I felt the most comfortable and engaged and fulfilled. I know now why that is, I enjoy helping them see different ways of operating their businesses, open to new ways of leading, learn about how they are getting in their own way and how to navigate differently.

I am a manifesting maven when it comes to supporting others in creating their dreams.

Not so much when it comes to my own.

Yet, the more I dip into, deepen in, or fully dive into my own dreams, I’m not feeling as magical. Not as powerful. Not that brilliant.

I know this is true for many of us. We love to support others, advocate for them, argue for their cause and open doors for them all while seeing them at their highest and best, especially when they forget. Think of how we parent!

And, then turn it around. Do we support ourself? Advocate for ourself? Argue for our own cause/value/mission/dream? Open doors and receive? See ourSelf at our Highest and best?

This is the direction I’m heading into today. While also exploring what creates that Radiant Health and Vibrant Energy that we all desire.

Share with me any thoughts you have in the Facebook Group, The SHINE Challenge.

We’re all in this together. And, we all SHINE a bit brighter when one of us shares their brilliance!

©️Copyright 2017 Deborah LeeAnn #SHINE Challenge www.DeborahLeeAnn.com]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/12688297Wed, 30 Aug 2017 14:30:23 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyHow much do you SHINE? And, where? Are you SHINING in some places in your life but not others? Are you aware of how you operate differently with different people? In different scenarios? In different roles? It was easier for me to SHINE when at work...
Are you SHINING in some places in your life but not others? Are you aware of how you operate differently with different people? In different scenarios? In different roles?

It was easier for me to SHINE when at work for many years. My career offered me a place to be smart, witty, strategic, a people connector and a brilliant problem-solver. All strengths of mine.

When I was with clients I felt the most comfortable and engaged and fulfilled. I know now why that is, I enjoy helping them see different ways of operating their businesses, open to new ways of leading, learn about how they are getting in their own way and how to navigate differently.

I am a manifesting maven when it comes to supporting others in creating their dreams.

Not so much when it comes to my own.

Yet, the more I dip into, deepen in, or fully dive into my own dreams, I’m not feeling as magical. Not as powerful. Not that brilliant.

I know this is true for many of us. We love to support others, advocate for them, argue for their cause and open doors for them all while seeing them at their highest and best, especially when they forget. Think of how we parent!

And, then turn it around. Do we support ourself? Advocate for ourself? Argue for our own cause/value/mission/dream? Open doors and receive? See ourSelf at our Highest and best?

This is the direction I’m heading into today. While also exploring what creates that Radiant Health and Vibrant Energy that we all desire.

Share with me any thoughts you have in the Facebook Group, The SHINE Challenge.

We’re all in this together. And, we all SHINE a bit brighter when one of us shares their brilliance!

©️Copyright 2017 Deborah LeeAnn #SHINE Challenge www.DeborahLeeAnn.com]]>899authenticleadershipacademy,deborahleeann,radiance,self-advocacy,shinefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/shine-post-eclipse-shifts-and-awarenesses--12635789
Whether you experienced Totality or not, I’m certain the experience was meaningful. Some enjoyed the science of it, others the photography challenges of capturing the beauty, others were deep in spiritual ceremony and ritual. Everyone was moved in some way, even if they ran outside into the street to capture it for only a moment during a break from work.

For such a momentous occasion, I did something quite unlike me. I was with a party of revelers - some of whom popped their first beer (artisan brand that it was) at 7:15 am. This well-orchestrated event was planned months ago and I appreciated not having to make any arrangements and just show up.

So Show Up I did.

We were at a large multi-leveled outdoor space an hour outside of town, with all breakfast and barbecue lunch and refreshments included. A variety of outdoor games and oversized Jenga and Chess boards entertained many. Seating arrangements varied from couches, to tables and chairs, to picnic tables and benches, plus indoor dining areas all filled with groups in conversation and live music. There was a constant and steady buzz that surrounded me. I felt like an observer of it all.

I watched myself pull away to find space and journal. I noticed when I got up to change seating arrangements or moved into different circles of conversation. I enjoyed sipping coffee and water and beer as the day wore on and relaxing. It felt like being on vacation. By myself.

I enjoyed moving when I felt like it, enjoying my body's grace and strength and sitting and feeling the breeze when it wafted over me on occasion. I listened to my body when it asked for more water, please! or it's time to get something to eat, or only one bite of the Moon Pie, methinks.

As the day wore on, I noticed how I searched out certain people to speak with and later realized I only once learned someone’s name. Yet, we exchanged deep, almost intimate details about our lives. It was not a day of light conversation.

It was also interesting to note that I spent most of the day in the company of men. Two different couples, a group of young people with 3 guys and one gal, an older gentleman and his son who was close to my age, and the very handsome and interesting friend of a friend who came in town to visit for the event.

An all around different kind of day for me; one who normally stays home and shies away from these types of party events.

And, the best part? I got to SHINE. I played with it all day. It was fun, fascinating and easy. AND, so freeing to not feel I needed to play a role, entertain anyone, be anything other than who I am. Wow!

The moon tried to cover the sun for those 2 1/2 minutes, and the sun still made beautiful light flares and rings around it. Almost hugging that which tried to eclipse it. Surrounding it and shining anyway.

Reminding me and all of us that we are still Light, even when there are obstacles (real or imaginary) that are trying to dim our Light.

What looks or feels differently to you now? What has shifted for you? I'd love to hear! Share with me in the The SHINE Challenge Facebook Group.

SHINE on! It’s our reason for living. It’s also our Purpose. And Passion. And Pleasure.

© Copyright 2017 Deborah LeeAnn :: Authentic Life Radio]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/12635789Wed, 23 Aug 2017 15:37:11 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleySo, where were YOU during the Great American Eclipse? Whether you experienced Totality or not, I’m certain the experience was meaningful. Some enjoyed the science of it, others the photography challenges of capturing the beauty, others were deep in...
Whether you experienced Totality or not, I’m certain the experience was meaningful. Some enjoyed the science of it, others the photography challenges of capturing the beauty, others were deep in spiritual ceremony and ritual. Everyone was moved in some way, even if they ran outside into the street to capture it for only a moment during a break from work.

For such a momentous occasion, I did something quite unlike me. I was with a party of revelers - some of whom popped their first beer (artisan brand that it was) at 7:15 am. This well-orchestrated event was planned months ago and I appreciated not having to make any arrangements and just show up.

So Show Up I did.

We were at a large multi-leveled outdoor space an hour outside of town, with all breakfast and barbecue lunch and refreshments included. A variety of outdoor games and oversized Jenga and Chess boards entertained many. Seating arrangements varied from couches, to tables and chairs, to picnic tables and benches, plus indoor dining areas all filled with groups in conversation and live music. There was a constant and steady buzz that surrounded me. I felt like an observer of it all.

I watched myself pull away to find space and journal. I noticed when I got up to change seating arrangements or moved into different circles of conversation. I enjoyed sipping coffee and water and beer as the day wore on and relaxing. It felt like being on vacation. By myself.

I enjoyed moving when I felt like it, enjoying my body's grace and strength and sitting and feeling the breeze when it wafted over me on occasion. I listened to my body when it asked for more water, please! or it's time to get something to eat, or only one bite of the Moon Pie, methinks.

As the day wore on, I noticed how I searched out certain people to speak with and later realized I only once learned someone’s name. Yet, we exchanged deep, almost intimate details about our lives. It was not a day of light conversation.

It was also interesting to note that I spent most of the day in the company of men. Two different couples, a group of young people with 3 guys and one gal, an older gentleman and his son who was close to my age, and the very handsome and interesting friend of a friend who came in town to visit for the event.

An all around different kind of day for me; one who normally stays home and shies away from these types of party events.

And, the best part? I got to SHINE. I played with it all day. It was fun, fascinating and easy. AND, so freeing to not feel I needed to play a role, entertain anyone, be anything other than who I am. Wow!

The moon tried to cover the sun for those 2 1/2 minutes, and the sun still made beautiful light flares and rings around it. Almost hugging that which tried to eclipse it. Surrounding it and shining anyway.

Reminding me and all of us that we are still Light, even when there are obstacles (real or imaginary) that are trying to dim our Light.

What looks or feels differently to you now? What has shifted for you? I'd love to hear! Share with me in the The SHINE Challenge Facebook Group.

SHINE on! It’s our reason for living. It’s also our Purpose. And Passion. And Pleasure.

© Copyright 2017 Deborah LeeAnn :: Authentic Life Radio]]>1159authenticleadership,authenticliferadio,deborahleeann,eclipseshifts,shinefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wake-up-white-women--12587289
What to do?

How to be with People of Color?

I’m stuck. Truly. For one who is rarely short on words, I’m a bag of emotions.

And, not sure if I want to blame it on the mixed messages of our country’s leaders or Mercury Retrograde or centuries of history where white privilege has been the norm or the fact that my antennae are hyper focused on receiving messages that are beyond and out of alignment with what I see with my eyes…

Whiteness. White privilege. White women. White culture. We are so IN in, it’s hard to imagine NOT being in it. Yet we share this world, this country, our communities, our neighborhoods, sometimes even our families with those who do not identify as white.

Waking up is painful. It’s easier to go back to sleep. Yet, we can’t sleep this nightmare away. It’s our responsibility to at least acknowledge this isn’t right. It can’t continue. I disagree. This feels wrong.

And I am not just talking about the horrific events last weekend and the lack of accountability by our top government officials to denounce it in a way, apologize in a way, unify in a way, that I had hoped he would.

I am speaking of all ways. Always. Speaking up. Standing up. Moving beyond our fear. Showing up. Not agreeing. Or, not standing by in silence.

No more hiding. Leaders do not hide. They do their work. They SHINE their most brilliantly when the times get dark.

And, I’m learning, that SHINING is not always easy. Or pretty!

Listen in and let me know what resonates. What doesn’t. It’s time to practice opening up and sharing in a more vulnerable way. I’d love to witness that from you.

More info on SHINE Principle at http://DeborahLeeAnn.com/Shine

Join the SHINE Challenge on FB here: http://bit.ly/2i5dDQE

Til our next time together, SHINE your light with love, compassion and authenticity!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/12587289Wed, 16 Aug 2017 14:01:42 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyWhat to say? What to do? How to be with People of Color? I’m stuck. Truly. For one who is rarely short on words, I’m a bag of emotions. And, not sure if I want to blame it on the mixed messages of our country’s leaders or Mercury Retrograde or...
What to do?

How to be with People of Color?

I’m stuck. Truly. For one who is rarely short on words, I’m a bag of emotions.

And, not sure if I want to blame it on the mixed messages of our country’s leaders or Mercury Retrograde or centuries of history where white privilege has been the norm or the fact that my antennae are hyper focused on receiving messages that are beyond and out of alignment with what I see with my eyes…

Whiteness. White privilege. White women. White culture. We are so IN in, it’s hard to imagine NOT being in it. Yet we share this world, this country, our communities, our neighborhoods, sometimes even our families with those who do not identify as white.

Waking up is painful. It’s easier to go back to sleep. Yet, we can’t sleep this nightmare away. It’s our responsibility to at least acknowledge this isn’t right. It can’t continue. I disagree. This feels wrong.

And I am not just talking about the horrific events last weekend and the lack of accountability by our top government officials to denounce it in a way, apologize in a way, unify in a way, that I had hoped he would.

I am speaking of all ways. Always. Speaking up. Standing up. Moving beyond our fear. Showing up. Not agreeing. Or, not standing by in silence.

No more hiding. Leaders do not hide. They do their work. They SHINE their most brilliantly when the times get dark.

And, I’m learning, that SHINING is not always easy. Or pretty!

Listen in and let me know what resonates. What doesn’t. It’s time to practice opening up and sharing in a more vulnerable way. I’d love to witness that from you.

More info on SHINE Principle at http://DeborahLeeAnn.com/Shine

Join the SHINE Challenge on FB here: http://bit.ly/2i5dDQE

Til our next time together, SHINE your light with love, compassion and authenticity!]]>1260authenticvoice,deborahleeann,leadership,wakeup,whitewomenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/simple-pleasures-the-art-of-simplicity--12537754
It felt so beyond my day-to-day experience I was afraid it would come across as inauthentic.

So, starting simply, as I remind my clients, I looked at my morning practices. This morning in particular, it included saying good morning to the sunrise and sky, then moving into daily routine of cat care, kitchen cleanup, walking recycling out to the dumpster, making and eating breakfast (today eaten outside in the sun on my back stoop) and checking out the garden.

My garden walk is getting to be more about appreciating the bounty and beauty than noticing what needs to be cleared or worry about the overgrowth of weeds in areas.

Setting up the sprinkler in 3 different places to get the back, side and front yards is the Simple Pleasure that made me smile. Ta-Da! Found my topic for today.

Listening to the water spray and it’s intensity as it winds back to the original spot is soothing. Great background for meditation…which I’ll complete before recording.

What are your Simple Pleasures? Remember the magazine Real Simple? I loved it for many years. The feel of the paper, the odd oversized shape, the beautiful photos and well written articles that spoke my language. Even though I didn’t practice what they wrote about, I longed for “that life.”

Little by little, that magazine has been the foundation for this life of mine today. That and the book, Simple Abundance by Sarah BanBreathnach, were life-changing for me as I dreamed this life into being.

We are doing that all the time. Dreaming our one and only precious life (this time around, anyway) into BEing.

So, how are you practicing Simplicity and enjoying Simple Pleasures? Simple, yet elegant tasty meals? Simple, yet meaningful gatherings with friends? Simple and sacred moments for yourSelf? For me, it’s a cup of coffee, staring at the big oak tree or sky and ruminating about my day before heading into planning or meditation or creating this podcast/newsletter.

This is an essential piece of the puzzle for me to SHINE. It’s also a basic principle for the work I do in Authentic Leadership. We are all meant to be living on Purpose, with Passion and experiencing Pleasure. I actually think it may be the other way around.

Beginning with Pleasure.

What makes your heart sing? Do more of that. Really. We would all love you more. And you would be more in love with yourSelf, your Life.

To learn more about The SHINE Principle, visit http://DeborahLeeAnn.com/Shine or connect with me at deborah@DeborahLeeAnn.com

© 2017 Deborah LeeAnn All Rights Reserved#SHINE]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/12537754Wed, 09 Aug 2017 15:35:11 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyI wanted to write about Play. The Art of Play. Authentic Play for us adult people. It felt so beyond my day-to-day experience I was afraid it would come across as inauthentic. So, starting simply, as I remind my clients, I looked at my morning...
It felt so beyond my day-to-day experience I was afraid it would come across as inauthentic.

So, starting simply, as I remind my clients, I looked at my morning practices. This morning in particular, it included saying good morning to the sunrise and sky, then moving into daily routine of cat care, kitchen cleanup, walking recycling out to the dumpster, making and eating breakfast (today eaten outside in the sun on my back stoop) and checking out the garden.

My garden walk is getting to be more about appreciating the bounty and beauty than noticing what needs to be cleared or worry about the overgrowth of weeds in areas.

Setting up the sprinkler in 3 different places to get the back, side and front yards is the Simple Pleasure that made me smile. Ta-Da! Found my topic for today.

Listening to the water spray and it’s intensity as it winds back to the original spot is soothing. Great background for meditation…which I’ll complete before recording.

What are your Simple Pleasures? Remember the magazine Real Simple? I loved it for many years. The feel of the paper, the odd oversized shape, the beautiful photos and well written articles that spoke my language. Even though I didn’t practice what they wrote about, I longed for “that life.”

Little by little, that magazine has been the foundation for this life of mine today. That and the book, Simple Abundance by Sarah BanBreathnach, were life-changing for me as I dreamed this life into being.

We are doing that all the time. Dreaming our one and only precious life (this time around, anyway) into BEing.

So, how are you practicing Simplicity and enjoying Simple Pleasures? Simple, yet elegant tasty meals? Simple, yet meaningful gatherings with friends? Simple and sacred moments for yourSelf? For me, it’s a cup of coffee, staring at the big oak tree or sky and ruminating about my day before heading into planning or meditation or creating this podcast/newsletter.

This is an essential piece of the puzzle for me to SHINE. It’s also a basic principle for the work I do in Authentic Leadership. We are all meant to be living on Purpose, with Passion and experiencing Pleasure. I actually think it may be the other way around.

Beginning with Pleasure.

What makes your heart sing? Do more of that. Really. We would all love you more. And you would be more in love with yourSelf, your Life.

To learn more about The SHINE Principle, visit http://DeborahLeeAnn.com/Shine or connect with me at deborah@DeborahLeeAnn.com

© 2017 Deborah LeeAnn All Rights Reserved#SHINE]]>1881authenticleadership,authenticliferadio,deborahleeann,shine,simplepleasuresfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/science-and-spirituality-of-our-eclipse-season--12488187
We are all effected by the planetary systems, our moon and sun in particular.

AND, when they cross over each other in their paths? That’s a big deal.

It’s rare to have this total solar eclipse be visible over the US. And, really fun that the path crosses right through our area!

Typically, this time can be considered a time when all brightness and shadows become one. A collapsing of dualities.

We are not all Light. Nor are we all Dark. This union of them is such a scientific marvel and a beautiful spiritual model for us as well.

Since we have so much chaos surrounding us, and even more that will be revealed during the coming month, it’s another call for Authenticity. Leadership with is based on Integrity, rooted in Self-Awareness, a conscious model of both connection with others and a deep connection within.

Let’s dive in and see where this week’s podcast takes us. How fun that the SHINE Principle continues to grow and unfold for both mySelf and my community… it’s even being modeled by the heavens above us!

More info on all of the celestial happenings this month can be seen here:
http://news.nationalgeographic.com/2017/08/skywatching-guide-august-solar-eclipse-moon-perseids-science/

Curious about the SHINE Principle? Check out the events on Facebook or the details here: http://DeborahLeeAnn.com/SHINE

© 2017 Deborah LeeAnn Authentic Life Radio]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/12488187Wed, 02 Aug 2017 14:50:34 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyThis is a big month. For someone who is not oriented to the stars and planets and patterns they play out, it’s still important to note that these are extraordinary circumstances. We are all effected by the planetary systems, our moon and sun in...
We are all effected by the planetary systems, our moon and sun in particular.

AND, when they cross over each other in their paths? That’s a big deal.

It’s rare to have this total solar eclipse be visible over the US. And, really fun that the path crosses right through our area!

Typically, this time can be considered a time when all brightness and shadows become one. A collapsing of dualities.

We are not all Light. Nor are we all Dark. This union of them is such a scientific marvel and a beautiful spiritual model for us as well.

Since we have so much chaos surrounding us, and even more that will be revealed during the coming month, it’s another call for Authenticity. Leadership with is based on Integrity, rooted in Self-Awareness, a conscious model of both connection with others and a deep connection within.

Let’s dive in and see where this week’s podcast takes us. How fun that the SHINE Principle continues to grow and unfold for both mySelf and my community… it’s even being modeled by the heavens above us!

More info on all of the celestial happenings this month can be seen here:
http://news.nationalgeographic.com/2017/08/skywatching-guide-august-solar-eclipse-moon-perseids-science/

Curious about the SHINE Principle? Check out the events on Facebook or the details here: http://DeborahLeeAnn.com/SHINE

© 2017 Deborah LeeAnn Authentic Life Radio]]>1923authenticleadership,authenticliferadio,deborahleeann,shine,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/authentic-lessons-from-gardening-weeding-and-watering-you--12439937
Similar to a longer Medicine Walk that I both practice as well as facilitate for clients, a Garden Walk allows me to take assessment of what’s going on,.

Where are the weeds or invasive plants getting out of hand?

What needs water? Or, what needs to be emptied from water gathering?

What plants are bearing fruit? Which ones look healthy? Which ones need to be staked and supported? Which ones are just being beautiful and graceful and wanting to be appreciated?

When I’m weeding, I like to see how “clean” the space looks after the undesirable plant is removed. I enjoy the feeling of getting the whole thing, by the roots, to ensure it doesn’t just come back. It’s more of a tending and clearing than fighting. That’s not how it used to be. I used to act like the weed was doing something "to me.” Taking up space and nourishment that belongs to other plants I like more. They were “Wrong.”

It used to be it was the “fight” against these weeds that took more energy. Now, it’s the looking forward to what the space would look like without them. I’m finding that clearing the weeds is a feeding energy. A positive one.

I pile up the weeds to die on the hot pavers and then compost them for future plants to be nurtured by. The other plants in the garden now have breathing space and I enjoy the beauty that results.

It’s a win-win for all.

This week’s podcast is about where we put out energy. Are we feeding the good or giving more energy to the unwanted? Fighting or fueling?

Join in to listen to what unfolds.

And drink lots of water, and notice where your energy is flowing. Nourish what you find beautiful, including your gorgeous Self!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/12439937Wed, 26 Jul 2017 15:54:34 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyI love to do Garden Walks. Similar to a longer Medicine Walk that I both practice as well as facilitate for clients, a Garden Walk allows me to take assessment of what’s going on,. Where are the weeds or invasive plants getting out of hand? What...
Similar to a longer Medicine Walk that I both practice as well as facilitate for clients, a Garden Walk allows me to take assessment of what’s going on,.

Where are the weeds or invasive plants getting out of hand?

What needs water? Or, what needs to be emptied from water gathering?

What plants are bearing fruit? Which ones look healthy? Which ones need to be staked and supported? Which ones are just being beautiful and graceful and wanting to be appreciated?

When I’m weeding, I like to see how “clean” the space looks after the undesirable plant is removed. I enjoy the feeling of getting the whole thing, by the roots, to ensure it doesn’t just come back. It’s more of a tending and clearing than fighting. That’s not how it used to be. I used to act like the weed was doing something "to me.” Taking up space and nourishment that belongs to other plants I like more. They were “Wrong.”

It used to be it was the “fight” against these weeds that took more energy. Now, it’s the looking forward to what the space would look like without them. I’m finding that clearing the weeds is a feeding energy. A positive one.

I pile up the weeds to die on the hot pavers and then compost them for future plants to be nurtured by. The other plants in the garden now have breathing space and I enjoy the beauty that results.

It’s a win-win for all.

This week’s podcast is about where we put out energy. Are we feeding the good or giving more energy to the unwanted? Fighting or fueling?

Join in to listen to what unfolds.

And drink lots of water, and notice where your energy is flowing. Nourish what you find beautiful, including your gorgeous Self!]]>1328authenticleadershipacademy,authenticlife,deborahleeann,lessonsfromthegarden,womensleadershipcatalystfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/authentic-purpose-shines--12389372
In each case, it has to do with doing work they love: work that has meaning for them, uses their strengths and talents and that that brings them joy.

It’s 3 pronged.

Being “on purpose." Being “in joy.” All while using our unique gifts and competencies.

The beauty is ...when we are creating a life that is full of meaning, deeply aligned to who we are and what we do well and best AND that is pleasurable to us, we SHINE.

Often, we hear “Wow, you look so happy!” Or, “What are you doing differently” or “Are you in Love?” when we are in the flow of creating and living a life we love.

So, are you?

Creating and living a life you LOVE?

One that is on your terms? Built on what feels true and authentic to you?

My garden is currently displaying these “wildflowers” from a packet of seeds spread last year. There are beautiful old-fashioned phlox that just bloom in all their beauty no matter the heat or rain. They just keep standing tall and doing their thing. Living their purpose. Not worried about draught or humidity or what the news is blaring.

This has become my new mantra. To tune in and remember the fullness, beauty and sovereignty of Who. I. Am.

The wholeness/holiness and inner connection (or intersection) of all of me. The embodiment of my Soul. The beaming of my heart. The brilliance of ME that cannot be denied.

So where does that light go when we are confronted with Showing Up? Sharing who we are with the world? Expressing our Self amidst colleagues and other SHINING souls? Or those we believe are less SHINE-y than ourSelves?

Where do you dim to fit in? Or quasi-SHINE with an inauthentic “trying to be better than”? Or, be honest, hold back our SHINE in fear of being judged as “too bright” or “too much”?

Listen in. Let's see what unfolds.

We’re all in this together. And the more each of us SHINEs the more we create a brighter world. There’s plenty of room for all of us to SHINE!

I welcome your feedback! For more information on the SHINE workshop series or to make a comment or ask a question, please connect with me at deborah@DeborahLeeAnn.com.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/12389372Wed, 19 Jul 2017 19:48:54 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyWhile speaking to a few clients recently, we discussed what “lights them up” or makes their “heart sing.” In each case, it has to do with doing work they love: work that has meaning for them, uses their strengths and talents and that that brings them...
In each case, it has to do with doing work they love: work that has meaning for them, uses their strengths and talents and that that brings them joy.

It’s 3 pronged.

Being “on purpose." Being “in joy.” All while using our unique gifts and competencies.

The beauty is ...when we are creating a life that is full of meaning, deeply aligned to who we are and what we do well and best AND that is pleasurable to us, we SHINE.

Often, we hear “Wow, you look so happy!” Or, “What are you doing differently” or “Are you in Love?” when we are in the flow of creating and living a life we love.

So, are you?

Creating and living a life you LOVE?

One that is on your terms? Built on what feels true and authentic to you?

My garden is currently displaying these “wildflowers” from a packet of seeds spread last year. There are beautiful old-fashioned phlox that just bloom in all their beauty no matter the heat or rain. They just keep standing tall and doing their thing. Living their purpose. Not worried about draught or humidity or what the news is blaring.

This has become my new mantra. To tune in and remember the fullness, beauty and sovereignty of Who. I. Am.

The wholeness/holiness and inner connection (or intersection) of all of me. The embodiment of my Soul. The beaming of my heart. The brilliance of ME that cannot be denied.

So where does that light go when we are confronted with Showing Up? Sharing who we are with the world? Expressing our Self amidst colleagues and other SHINING souls? Or those we believe are less SHINE-y than ourSelves?

Where do you dim to fit in? Or quasi-SHINE with an inauthentic “trying to be better than”? Or, be honest, hold back our SHINE in fear of being judged as “too bright” or “too much”?

Listen in. Let's see what unfolds.

We’re all in this together. And the more each of us SHINEs the more we create a brighter world. There’s plenty of room for all of us to SHINE!

I welcome your feedback! For more information on the SHINE workshop series or to make a comment or ask a question, please connect with me at deborah@DeborahLeeAnn.com.]]>1926authenticleadershipacademy,authentiliferadio,deborahleeann,womenleaders,womensleadershipcatalystfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/conscious-creator-or-reactive-victim--12338230
And, after such a good morning!

Meditating, quiet time contemplating how to create my day, a great session with my shaman/business coach, some delicious coffee, and some creating of new connections for new business through a referral service..then BAM!

What I learned was that each of these “referrals” was costing me. Not even if they were qualified or for a $10,000 project, but even for single or short term $500 coaching package.

Ahhh, so this is the cost of being “in flow?”

Or, is it my resistance to being open to really having it come to me with grace and ease?

And, then the inner critic. The “I told you so!” The “you knew there would be a cost associated, didn’t you?” And on and on. Down the slippery slope of shame, doubt, confusion, until I hit victim. This is where I walk around, looking for something to eat, activities to distract, and ways to numb.

I really dislike feeling yucky like that anymore. And am beginning to become aware of it earlier and earlier.

So, what to do now?

Focus.

Inward and downward. Remembering this is all temporary, and a result of where I WAS, not where I’m going.

Clarity emerges. Bit by bit. With each breath. I am in Creative space. Bye-bye Reactive Self. I’m back in the driver’s seat. And, from here, the words flow.

Momentum is like being in a canoe floating down stream. It’s easy. It feels good. The scenery changes and I get to see what is around me.

So unlike the fighting against the current. Where all my attention is on pushing and striving.

Back in Flow. Back to Creating my Life.

More will be shared in the podcast, I’m sure. Listen in?

Share with me, where do you get stuck? What are your practices for turning yourSelf around?]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/12338230Wed, 12 Jul 2017 18:28:51 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyWhen seeing how I was allowing myself to get W A Y off-track today, I noticed that my thoughts were on a downward spiral. And, after such a good morning! Meditating, quiet time contemplating how to create my day, a great session with my...
And, after such a good morning!

Meditating, quiet time contemplating how to create my day, a great session with my shaman/business coach, some delicious coffee, and some creating of new connections for new business through a referral service..then BAM!

What I learned was that each of these “referrals” was costing me. Not even if they were qualified or for a $10,000 project, but even for single or short term $500 coaching package.

Ahhh, so this is the cost of being “in flow?”

Or, is it my resistance to being open to really having it come to me with grace and ease?

And, then the inner critic. The “I told you so!” The “you knew there would be a cost associated, didn’t you?” And on and on. Down the slippery slope of shame, doubt, confusion, until I hit victim. This is where I walk around, looking for something to eat, activities to distract, and ways to numb.

I really dislike feeling yucky like that anymore. And am beginning to become aware of it earlier and earlier.

So, what to do now?

Focus.

Inward and downward. Remembering this is all temporary, and a result of where I WAS, not where I’m going.

Clarity emerges. Bit by bit. With each breath. I am in Creative space. Bye-bye Reactive Self. I’m back in the driver’s seat. And, from here, the words flow.

Momentum is like being in a canoe floating down stream. It’s easy. It feels good. The scenery changes and I get to see what is around me.

So unlike the fighting against the current. Where all my attention is on pushing and striving.

Back in Flow. Back to Creating my Life.

More will be shared in the podcast, I’m sure. Listen in?

Share with me, where do you get stuck? What are your practices for turning yourSelf around?]]>1535authenticleadershipacademy,authenticliferadio,creatingvsreacting,deborahleeann,womenleadersfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/push-pull-the-growing-pains-of-showing-up-authentically--12290095
When reflecting about the first 6 months of this year, I had lots to celebrate. Lots of lessons learned too. And, it pushed me into a growth cycle of wanting to be farther along than my "results" are showing.

So, I got into fast-pace mode. And, all the Up-leveling is taking its toll.

It's part of growth and expansion, what we are all experiencing whether we like it or not.

Not only have I began a new iteration of my work - SHINE - I’ve begun a bed & breakfast business. And committed to speaking more. And expanding my consulting services. And publishing a new website.

All in the past month. Whew!

It’s not anything new for most of us entrepreneurs who are constantly evolving and expanding.

Yet, too much too quickly brings about tell-tale results for me.

Scattered-ness. Lack of preparation for a meeting with a potential collaborator. Stubbing my toe on a coffee table (OUCH) and then a mini-crisis with family. Needing to rearrange my day to fit in some extra TLC for my stepdad who is caring for my mother with Alzheimer’s. A technology mess of backup drive not working and a new malware showing up!

And that’s how my expansion tends to show up for me. A fast and furious growth spurt that ends up with physical, emotional and mental anguish.

And, thank you for the lesson again, the opportunity to recognize that slowing down is being called for. Less DOing, more BEing.

That was last week’s show but bears repeating. Slowing down allows us to grow faster.

And, just like my daughter when she was having a growth spurt, rubbing the sore shins or taking a bath or going to bed earlier are all ways to get to the next level.

SHINING and showing up takes more than courage and confidence. It takes compassion. The full recognition that we are human beings who will make mistakes, have accidents and want to re-do stuff. It takes letting go of perfection. AND, the kindness and compassion to allow for the process to unfold. For our SHINING Self to unfold. For our Vision, Value and Voice to ripple out more clearly and consciously than ever before. And to keep growing and shifting and evolving, just as we do.

We are a beautiful work in progress. Art being (re)created each and every day.

How are you showing up?]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/12290095Wed, 05 Jul 2017 21:11:10 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyWe are halfway through 2017. Yikes! (says a part of me) When reflecting about the first 6 months of this year, I had lots to celebrate. Lots of lessons learned too. And, it pushed me into a growth cycle of wanting to be farther along than my...
When reflecting about the first 6 months of this year, I had lots to celebrate. Lots of lessons learned too. And, it pushed me into a growth cycle of wanting to be farther along than my "results" are showing.

So, I got into fast-pace mode. And, all the Up-leveling is taking its toll.

It's part of growth and expansion, what we are all experiencing whether we like it or not.

Not only have I began a new iteration of my work - SHINE - I’ve begun a bed & breakfast business. And committed to speaking more. And expanding my consulting services. And publishing a new website.

All in the past month. Whew!

It’s not anything new for most of us entrepreneurs who are constantly evolving and expanding.

Yet, too much too quickly brings about tell-tale results for me.

Scattered-ness. Lack of preparation for a meeting with a potential collaborator. Stubbing my toe on a coffee table (OUCH) and then a mini-crisis with family. Needing to rearrange my day to fit in some extra TLC for my stepdad who is caring for my mother with Alzheimer’s. A technology mess of backup drive not working and a new malware showing up!

And that’s how my expansion tends to show up for me. A fast and furious growth spurt that ends up with physical, emotional and mental anguish.

And, thank you for the lesson again, the opportunity to recognize that slowing down is being called for. Less DOing, more BEing.

That was last week’s show but bears repeating. Slowing down allows us to grow faster.

And, just like my daughter when she was having a growth spurt, rubbing the sore shins or taking a bath or going to bed earlier are all ways to get to the next level.

SHINING and showing up takes more than courage and confidence. It takes compassion. The full recognition that we are human beings who will make mistakes, have accidents and want to re-do stuff. It takes letting go of perfection. AND, the kindness and compassion to allow for the process to unfold. For our SHINING Self to unfold. For our Vision, Value and Voice to ripple out more clearly and consciously than ever before. And to keep growing and shifting and evolving, just as we do.

We are a beautiful work in progress. Art being (re)created each and every day.

How are you showing up?]]>1394authenticleadership,authenticliferadio,deborahleeann,growingpains,womenleadersfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/shining-a-state-of-being-not-doing--12234549
We SHINE when we are in our Essence. Owning our Beauty and Brilliance.

We dim when we pretend or hide or act from fear. When we are desperate for others to see us, like us, want us, hire us, love us.

This “dimming” takes its toll. Just like from abuse or neglect (chronic and repeated experiences of being injured physically, emotionally, or psychologically) our Essence will shut down.

How to get back to the brightness and brilliance of you?

Takes courage. Might be risky. Always is the e x h a l e of relief and pleasure on the other side.

And…, feeling a level of sovereignty and freedom in letting go of the mask, letting our uniqueness out, trusting our guidance and speaking from our authentic truth.

Sound good?

Listen in and let’s see if some of these practices can support you in SHINING and BE-ing your most magnificent and amazing Self.

As always, I’d love to hear from you. How do you dim your light? What helps you to SHINE with authenticity, grace and power?]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/12234549Wed, 28 Jun 2017 16:02:36 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyThis SHINE project I’m playing with is a constant state of evolving, metamorphosing, growing, changing, checking in. Lots of words that describe the intensity of the process depending on the day, the moment. We SHINE when we are in our Essence....
We SHINE when we are in our Essence. Owning our Beauty and Brilliance.

We dim when we pretend or hide or act from fear. When we are desperate for others to see us, like us, want us, hire us, love us.

This “dimming” takes its toll. Just like from abuse or neglect (chronic and repeated experiences of being injured physically, emotionally, or psychologically) our Essence will shut down.

How to get back to the brightness and brilliance of you?

Takes courage. Might be risky. Always is the e x h a l e of relief and pleasure on the other side.

And…, feeling a level of sovereignty and freedom in letting go of the mask, letting our uniqueness out, trusting our guidance and speaking from our authentic truth.

Sound good?

Listen in and let’s see if some of these practices can support you in SHINING and BE-ing your most magnificent and amazing Self.

As always, I’d love to hear from you. How do you dim your light? What helps you to SHINE with authenticity, grace and power?]]>1224authenticleadership,authenticliferadio,deborahleeann,shine,womenleadersfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/shine-we-all-can-do-it-why-don-t-we--12176972
If you don't, are you afraid to SHINE? Feeling awkward or you'll be viewed as a fraud or inauthentic? Or bragging and self-centered?

SHINE is a new way of BEing in the world. For me at least. It's part of the journey I've been on and have not been able to fully articulate until now.

A month ago I shared this concept to a room full of women entrepreneurs. The response was a resounding "Yes!" and I believe I hit a chord for everyone in the room.

SHINE is the acronym for Self-Awareness, Holistic Health, Integrity, No limits, and Equanimity and Environment. This fully explains the scope of workshops and retreats and consulting all focused on Leadership Development.

AND…

What happens on the days when SHINing is NOT what you want to do?

Tune in, let’s explore this. It’s up for me today and how can we move from unSHINE to SunSHINE when it feels like that’s the last thing we want to do?

I’ll see if I can shift this less than sun-shiny funk I’m in …or not! It might just be where I am today or there might be a way to get out of it.

No promises. Here goes!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/12176972Wed, 21 Jun 2017 18:49:45 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyDo you SHINE? If you do, how do you feel when you SHINE? If you don't, are you afraid to SHINE? Feeling awkward or you'll be viewed as a fraud or inauthentic? Or bragging and self-centered? SHINE is a new way of BEing in the world. For me at least....
If you don't, are you afraid to SHINE? Feeling awkward or you'll be viewed as a fraud or inauthentic? Or bragging and self-centered?

SHINE is a new way of BEing in the world. For me at least. It's part of the journey I've been on and have not been able to fully articulate until now.

A month ago I shared this concept to a room full of women entrepreneurs. The response was a resounding "Yes!" and I believe I hit a chord for everyone in the room.

SHINE is the acronym for Self-Awareness, Holistic Health, Integrity, No limits, and Equanimity and Environment. This fully explains the scope of workshops and retreats and consulting all focused on Leadership Development.

AND…

What happens on the days when SHINing is NOT what you want to do?

Tune in, let’s explore this. It’s up for me today and how can we move from unSHINE to SunSHINE when it feels like that’s the last thing we want to do?

I’ll see if I can shift this less than sun-shiny funk I’m in …or not! It might just be where I am today or there might be a way to get out of it.

No promises. Here goes!]]>1374authenticleadership,deborahleeann,leadership,shine,womenleadersfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/sacred-space-creating-it-sharing-it-opening-to-it--12114265
Space in your home, job, relationship, schedule that is just for you?

Do you safeguard it? Treasure it? Honor it?

OR…do you feel like there’s no time, no room, no freedom to have such a luxury in your life?

What do I mean by Sacred Space?

My home is my Sacred Space. So are my gardens. My bedroom. My workspace. My meditation room.

Being in Nature is Sacred to me. Time alone is Sacred to me. Space in my relationships is Sacred too! And, especially, time on my calendar each day and every week for tuning into this Space.

And it has been also a place for me to hide. I love Solitude. Silence. Space to be still, be wild, dance and sing as I feel the urge. AND, I’ve used this as a fortress to keep away the intimacy, (both romantic and sister-friendship) that I also crave.

How to manage the Space with the Sharing of it?

I’m a new AirBnB host. I’ve opened up a portion of my small home to visitors from around the world who are coming to St. Louis to visit.

Yikes! This is a big deal. Not just the cleaning and clearing of closets, it’s the sharing of my SPACE. How will this effect my own work and love life? There’s already a day I had planned to be out of town and I’m supposed to be hosting.

Yet, it’s important for me to trust this process. It’s next on the swing back from living with NO space, not even knowing how to find it or own it to the opposite end of the spectrum, creating, protecting it, honoring it and NOT sharing at all.

Now, it’s time to share part time. Open my home. My heart. My business.

The new possibilities are endless. I’m excited to see what comes of this. New friends? A new way to work keeping order and organization? Extra Income? A way to write off housecleaning? The space set aside for VIP Clients?

The connections to all of this are not lost on me. And the timing is exquisite as I open to allowing a broader more expansive version of my work to emerge.

How do you maintain your Space? Physically? Emotionally? Intellectually? Spiritually?

I’d be delighted to connect with you more on this subject. Reach out if you feel this hit a chord and it’s time!

SHINE on dear One. The world needs you and your light.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/12114265Wed, 14 Jun 2017 18:16:19 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyDo you have Sacred Space? Space in your home, job, relationship, schedule that is just for you? Do you safeguard it? Treasure it? Honor it? OR…do you feel like there’s no time, no room, no freedom to have such a luxury in your life? What do I...
Space in your home, job, relationship, schedule that is just for you?

Do you safeguard it? Treasure it? Honor it?

OR…do you feel like there’s no time, no room, no freedom to have such a luxury in your life?

What do I mean by Sacred Space?

My home is my Sacred Space. So are my gardens. My bedroom. My workspace. My meditation room.

Being in Nature is Sacred to me. Time alone is Sacred to me. Space in my relationships is Sacred too! And, especially, time on my calendar each day and every week for tuning into this Space.

And it has been also a place for me to hide. I love Solitude. Silence. Space to be still, be wild, dance and sing as I feel the urge. AND, I’ve used this as a fortress to keep away the intimacy, (both romantic and sister-friendship) that I also crave.

How to manage the Space with the Sharing of it?

I’m a new AirBnB host. I’ve opened up a portion of my small home to visitors from around the world who are coming to St. Louis to visit.

Yikes! This is a big deal. Not just the cleaning and clearing of closets, it’s the sharing of my SPACE. How will this effect my own work and love life? There’s already a day I had planned to be out of town and I’m supposed to be hosting.

Yet, it’s important for me to trust this process. It’s next on the swing back from living with NO space, not even knowing how to find it or own it to the opposite end of the spectrum, creating, protecting it, honoring it and NOT sharing at all.

Now, it’s time to share part time. Open my home. My heart. My business.

The new possibilities are endless. I’m excited to see what comes of this. New friends? A new way to work keeping order and organization? Extra Income? A way to write off housecleaning? The space set aside for VIP Clients?

The connections to all of this are not lost on me. And the timing is exquisite as I open to allowing a broader more expansive version of my work to emerge.

How do you maintain your Space? Physically? Emotionally? Intellectually? Spiritually?

I’d be delighted to connect with you more on this subject. Reach out if you feel this hit a chord and it’s time!

SHINE on dear One. The world needs you and your light.]]>1349authenticleadership,authenticlife,deborahleeann,space,womenleadersfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-s-your-perspective--12055202It's tricky. And we believe there's only one. ours.
What are you looking for in that person who drives you nuts every day?

What are you expecting when you get home at night from your partner?

What pre-conceived ideas are you bringing into a meeting versus being open-minded and ready to listen and learn?

When we operate from the place that we already know we will be disappointed, or that our mate is selfish or that this is just another boring meeting with the boss, we get to be right, more often than not.

How do we change our perspective?

Walk around and look at the issue, person, relationship or challenge from all sides. Invite others to share what they see (if it involves them or you value their viewpoint) or literally put on different lenses.

Just like wearing sunglasses can sometimes alter the color of an object, or wearing reading glasses can help some of us see the letters more clearly, looking at an issue from the other side or with a lens of curiosity gives us a wider range of options and potential solutions.

We often have disagreements with people (especially online these days, it seems) for seeing political or social issues from different viewpoints. What if both sides are valid and the Truth is neither or both?

And, when we bring our negative views forward or grudges from past experiences to the table, it’s not fair for anyone. Not the person we are judging, not the potential outcome for all involved, not for ourself. It’s limiting and another place to expand our awareness.

Where do you place your lens of perception? With whom do you look for the best? What about yourSelf? Do you give yourSelf the benefit of a doubt or automatically say, “You are so stupid/klutzy/silly/ugly/fat _______(insert your word here).” “There’s no way you’ll get this done in time.” “You’re always late.”

OR…

“You are amazing!” “You look beautiful today!” “ I believe in you, and we’re just learning this new exercise/process/technology/way of operating.” “Great progress - you’re becoming more aware every day.” “Let’s change the time we leave so we can feel better and arrive on time.”

It’s all in how we look at things. It’s all in the self-talk. It’s also, all in how we look at others and our relationships. I’m looking.for more good in mine today, how about you?]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/12055202Wed, 07 Jun 2017 14:50:46 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyPerspective. It's tricky. And we believe there's only one. ours. What are you looking for in that person who drives you nuts every day? What are you expecting when you get home at night from your partner? What pre-conceived ideas are you bringing...It's tricky. And we believe there's only one. ours.
What are you looking for in that person who drives you nuts every day?

What are you expecting when you get home at night from your partner?

What pre-conceived ideas are you bringing into a meeting versus being open-minded and ready to listen and learn?

When we operate from the place that we already know we will be disappointed, or that our mate is selfish or that this is just another boring meeting with the boss, we get to be right, more often than not.

How do we change our perspective?

Walk around and look at the issue, person, relationship or challenge from all sides. Invite others to share what they see (if it involves them or you value their viewpoint) or literally put on different lenses.

Just like wearing sunglasses can sometimes alter the color of an object, or wearing reading glasses can help some of us see the letters more clearly, looking at an issue from the other side or with a lens of curiosity gives us a wider range of options and potential solutions.

We often have disagreements with people (especially online these days, it seems) for seeing political or social issues from different viewpoints. What if both sides are valid and the Truth is neither or both?

And, when we bring our negative views forward or grudges from past experiences to the table, it’s not fair for anyone. Not the person we are judging, not the potential outcome for all involved, not for ourself. It’s limiting and another place to expand our awareness.

Where do you place your lens of perception? With whom do you look for the best? What about yourSelf? Do you give yourSelf the benefit of a doubt or automatically say, “You are so stupid/klutzy/silly/ugly/fat _______(insert your word here).” “There’s no way you’ll get this done in time.” “You’re always late.”

OR…

“You are amazing!” “You look beautiful today!” “ I believe in you, and we’re just learning this new exercise/process/technology/way of operating.” “Great progress - you’re becoming more aware every day.” “Let’s change the time we leave so we can feel better and arrive on time.”

It’s all in how we look at things. It’s all in the self-talk. It’s also, all in how we look at others and our relationships. I’m looking.for more good in mine today, how about you?]]>1299authenticleadershipacademy,authenticlife,perspective,shine,womensleadershipcatalystfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/occupy-self-begin-within--11999751
How protesters camped out to make sure their message was received? They physically and literally stood their ground asking to be heard.

Same with the folks who gathered for weeks at Standing Rock, protesting and blocking the progress of the pipeline across their lands. Even amidst the bitter cold and water blasts from law enforcement, they stayed put…chanting, praying, and in nonviolent protest.

What do you stand for?

Who do you stand for?

Typically, most of us have a cause or our children/family that will activate our inner protester.

What is yours?

When the Occupy movement was happening, I started looking at where I was spending my money. And, who these companies supported politically. I learned that many of my monthly bills were heading to coffers that were backing legislation that wasn’t aligned with my values.

That meant my money was going towards creating a world that was not in alignment to what I knew I wanted. So, I protested, in my own way. I left one communications company, and found another that was a nonprofit, donating profits monthly toward causes I believed in. I shopped at stores that had a scorecard towards my values politically, environmentally, energetically. I did stay with my financial institution due to the relationships and history there, but got out of another messy financial relationship.

All in all, I felt cleaner, more in alignment and happier.

It came up again the other day as I was planning for some upcoming workshops and retreats. It’s important to me that all of the activities that have my name on them be in alignment with my values, my vision, my voice.

Tune in today to learn more about how you can Occupy yourSelf and use your power to create change.

Be the Change…It's time to put your time, energy, money and power where your heart is.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/11999751Wed, 31 May 2017 16:19:54 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyRemember Occupy Wall Street? How protesters camped out to make sure their message was received? They physically and literally stood their ground asking to be heard. Same with the folks who gathered for weeks at Standing Rock, protesting and...
How protesters camped out to make sure their message was received? They physically and literally stood their ground asking to be heard.

Same with the folks who gathered for weeks at Standing Rock, protesting and blocking the progress of the pipeline across their lands. Even amidst the bitter cold and water blasts from law enforcement, they stayed put…chanting, praying, and in nonviolent protest.

What do you stand for?

Who do you stand for?

Typically, most of us have a cause or our children/family that will activate our inner protester.

What is yours?

When the Occupy movement was happening, I started looking at where I was spending my money. And, who these companies supported politically. I learned that many of my monthly bills were heading to coffers that were backing legislation that wasn’t aligned with my values.

That meant my money was going towards creating a world that was not in alignment to what I knew I wanted. So, I protested, in my own way. I left one communications company, and found another that was a nonprofit, donating profits monthly toward causes I believed in. I shopped at stores that had a scorecard towards my values politically, environmentally, energetically. I did stay with my financial institution due to the relationships and history there, but got out of another messy financial relationship.

All in all, I felt cleaner, more in alignment and happier.

It came up again the other day as I was planning for some upcoming workshops and retreats. It’s important to me that all of the activities that have my name on them be in alignment with my values, my vision, my voice.

Tune in today to learn more about how you can Occupy yourSelf and use your power to create change.

Be the Change…It's time to put your time, energy, money and power where your heart is.]]>1268authenticleadership,authenticlife,integrity,occupyself,shinefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/authentic-commitment-the-c-word--11946214
Commitment usually comes up in relationships. Yet,the most important relationship we have is the one with ourself. How are you doing in that one? Do you tend to commit to others and then slide on your word or commitment to yourself?

I do. I have. And, I'm aware of it now. We can't build Trust with ourSelf unless we commit to ourSelf. Commit and keep our word to ourSelf.

Self-Trust is the driver that sees my dreams and visions through to reality. It's the fuel that keeps me movin forward even when it's tough, or I don't feel like it, or there's too much on my plate already.

Yet, when I commit to something, it tends to get done.

Goal setting has never been motivating to me. However, when I make a commitment to greet the sky each morning and stretch and touch my toes, breathing in connection to the stars, sun, moon, Earth, I know it's the foundation of my day. Things tend to be easier. I'm grounded and in the flow.

I can expand the practice or leave it at the basic 1 minute one. But, it's daily. It's a sign of commitment to Momentum and Trust in Self and the Universe's support and my work in the world.

While listening to a spiritual teacher yesterday who talked about Commitment, I got it. There's lots of things I say I want to do, I am doing or are written in my journal, but what am I committed to?

A few months back, I actually held my own Commitment Ceremony. I placed a ring that had been sitting in my jewelry drawer for ages on my finger and said "This ring symbolized my Commitment to Me, My Work in the World, and to Consciously Receiving Support from all helpful allies (seen and unseen). I asked for guidance and blessing on this Commitment/Marriage/Union and now, when looking at it daily, feeling its weight heavy on my right index finger, remember the Commitment and Meaning. It's become a touchstone.

Listen in as I relay a bit more of the story and meaning and the importance Authentic Commitment (to yourSelf first) plays to uplevel your Life.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/11946214Wed, 24 May 2017 20:16:18 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyWhat are you committed to? What will you do - no matter what else happens - every day? Commitment usually comes up in relationships. Yet,the most important relationship we have is the one with ourself. How are you doing in that one? Do you tend to...
Commitment usually comes up in relationships. Yet,the most important relationship we have is the one with ourself. How are you doing in that one? Do you tend to commit to others and then slide on your word or commitment to yourself?

I do. I have. And, I'm aware of it now. We can't build Trust with ourSelf unless we commit to ourSelf. Commit and keep our word to ourSelf.

Self-Trust is the driver that sees my dreams and visions through to reality. It's the fuel that keeps me movin forward even when it's tough, or I don't feel like it, or there's too much on my plate already.

Yet, when I commit to something, it tends to get done.

Goal setting has never been motivating to me. However, when I make a commitment to greet the sky each morning and stretch and touch my toes, breathing in connection to the stars, sun, moon, Earth, I know it's the foundation of my day. Things tend to be easier. I'm grounded and in the flow.

I can expand the practice or leave it at the basic 1 minute one. But, it's daily. It's a sign of commitment to Momentum and Trust in Self and the Universe's support and my work in the world.

While listening to a spiritual teacher yesterday who talked about Commitment, I got it. There's lots of things I say I want to do, I am doing or are written in my journal, but what am I committed to?

A few months back, I actually held my own Commitment Ceremony. I placed a ring that had been sitting in my jewelry drawer for ages on my finger and said "This ring symbolized my Commitment to Me, My Work in the World, and to Consciously Receiving Support from all helpful allies (seen and unseen). I asked for guidance and blessing on this Commitment/Marriage/Union and now, when looking at it daily, feeling its weight heavy on my right index finger, remember the Commitment and Meaning. It's become a touchstone.

Listen in as I relay a bit more of the story and meaning and the importance Authentic Commitment (to yourSelf first) plays to uplevel your Life.]]>1344authenticleadership,authenticlife,commitment,deborahleeann,womensleadershipcatalystfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dancing-with-the-old-and-familiar-doubt-confusion-sisters--11890086
And/or Confusion. She's tricky this one. She loves to keep us in "we need more info" mode, or "I'm not sure what to do next" place or "I just wish I had clarity on what is the right decision for me now" space. Been there. A lot.

And, when paired together? They activate each other. Like Synergy, but gone awry. It can get ugly.

Both of these shadow selves are present for me this week. (and are pretty familiar each time I reach an edge, a growth phase or a new chapter of my life.) They can look different, but just like someone who changes their hair color, I can recognize them. The sneaky part is that they like to appear quietly, silently hijacking my momentum, shifting gears into low (or Park) until I notide that I'm not going anywhere! I'm stalled. And then it's a bit late.

So, this week, my amazing business coach and I were talking about them. (I've actually named them Debbie Doubter and Connie Confusion) and my desire to fire them, release them, remove them or heal them. The suggestion I received was to "promote" them. What????

Promoting them to come from their Gift side, their flip persona of Inquiry and Illumination felt RIGHT. Perfect. And timely. Allowing them to still be valuable and necessary parts of me and to shine from their Gifts allows me to move into bringing them forward in my life in all ways, always.

The brilliant outcome of this promotion ceremony is the more cohesive way of recognizing when they are showing up. To bring forth their gifts in each interaction and then shine from within their highest spiritual teachings of Truth and Illumination! And how these already show up as guiding values and principles for me in my life and work? Divine guidance indeed!

So let's dive in. These are real show-stoppers and I don't know about you, but I'm ready to get on with the Show!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/11890086Wed, 17 May 2017 17:10:54 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyDoubt. That 2nd-guessing. Wondering how it could have played out differently. Reviewing the memory over and over and wishing it were different. And, the loud voice that keeps us from taking that next step forward, asking the big question, sharing...
And/or Confusion. She's tricky this one. She loves to keep us in "we need more info" mode, or "I'm not sure what to do next" place or "I just wish I had clarity on what is the right decision for me now" space. Been there. A lot.

And, when paired together? They activate each other. Like Synergy, but gone awry. It can get ugly.

Both of these shadow selves are present for me this week. (and are pretty familiar each time I reach an edge, a growth phase or a new chapter of my life.) They can look different, but just like someone who changes their hair color, I can recognize them. The sneaky part is that they like to appear quietly, silently hijacking my momentum, shifting gears into low (or Park) until I notide that I'm not going anywhere! I'm stalled. And then it's a bit late.

So, this week, my amazing business coach and I were talking about them. (I've actually named them Debbie Doubter and Connie Confusion) and my desire to fire them, release them, remove them or heal them. The suggestion I received was to "promote" them. What????

Promoting them to come from their Gift side, their flip persona of Inquiry and Illumination felt RIGHT. Perfect. And timely. Allowing them to still be valuable and necessary parts of me and to shine from their Gifts allows me to move into bringing them forward in my life in all ways, always.

The brilliant outcome of this promotion ceremony is the more cohesive way of recognizing when they are showing up. To bring forth their gifts in each interaction and then shine from within their highest spiritual teachings of Truth and Illumination! And how these already show up as guiding values and principles for me in my life and work? Divine guidance indeed!

So let's dive in. These are real show-stoppers and I don't know about you, but I'm ready to get on with the Show!]]>1337authenticleadership,authenticlife,deborahleeann,doubt&confusion,womensleadershipfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/authentic-pause-slowing-down-to-recharge--11832987
We’ve stayed up late, eating cake and ice cream (to celebrate Merinda’s graduation, of course!) or just drinking wine and getting caught up. Last night, conversations got heavier, deeper, intimate. It was midnight before we knew it!

Swimming, lounging and sunsets at the beach, combined with my shamanic business mastermind added to my day yesterday and reminded me that I’m neither totally on vacation or totally “at work.”

Yet, this feels right. Just enough of the creative and learning and growing I receive when working as well as the eating, drinking, slowness of vacation activities and time away.

Without realizing it I’m achieving my intention this week. I want to recharge. Reconnect. Remember who I am at a deeper level. Being with old friends and my daughter help me to see myself, learn about myself in a way it’s not easy to do alone.

And healing the old patterns of disconnection, aloneness, not belonging, not being lovable or loved. The old stories in our psyche, emotional space and physical bodies are literally melting away. The “I’m broken.” “I don’t belong.” “I’m such a weirdo…”

When we are with a sisterhood, that special circle of family and friends who see us deeply, with compassion and love and little to no judgement (we are human after all!) it’s a safe space to BE. Heal. Fall into Wholeness.

And this is where we regain, recharge and remember our power. The universal power that is always present and flows through us, connecting us to all that is and the potential of all that could be. When here, I find it easiest to tap into my vision, receiving wisdom and intuition and then use this passion/life force energy to create. Moving forward in my bigger vision and life's work.

So, that is where we’ll start today. Not sure with all the swirling around of new learnings and experiences and downloads recently received, where we’ll go!

Feel free to share with me what this full moon energy is shifting, growing, releasing and bringing to you! You are the reason I create these. Thank you for the honor to do so!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/11832987Wed, 10 May 2017 13:00:01 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyHow do you recharge? In the 6 days since leaving home, there's been lots of activities, ranging from large noisy family dinners and brunches to my daughter’s graduation from college in Indiana, to partying at houses and bars to flying to Florida,...
We’ve stayed up late, eating cake and ice cream (to celebrate Merinda’s graduation, of course!) or just drinking wine and getting caught up. Last night, conversations got heavier, deeper, intimate. It was midnight before we knew it!

Swimming, lounging and sunsets at the beach, combined with my shamanic business mastermind added to my day yesterday and reminded me that I’m neither totally on vacation or totally “at work.”

Yet, this feels right. Just enough of the creative and learning and growing I receive when working as well as the eating, drinking, slowness of vacation activities and time away.

Without realizing it I’m achieving my intention this week. I want to recharge. Reconnect. Remember who I am at a deeper level. Being with old friends and my daughter help me to see myself, learn about myself in a way it’s not easy to do alone.

And healing the old patterns of disconnection, aloneness, not belonging, not being lovable or loved. The old stories in our psyche, emotional space and physical bodies are literally melting away. The “I’m broken.” “I don’t belong.” “I’m such a weirdo…”

When we are with a sisterhood, that special circle of family and friends who see us deeply, with compassion and love and little to no judgement (we are human after all!) it’s a safe space to BE. Heal. Fall into Wholeness.

And this is where we regain, recharge and remember our power. The universal power that is always present and flows through us, connecting us to all that is and the potential of all that could be. When here, I find it easiest to tap into my vision, receiving wisdom and intuition and then use this passion/life force energy to create. Moving forward in my bigger vision and life's work.

So, that is where we’ll start today. Not sure with all the swirling around of new learnings and experiences and downloads recently received, where we’ll go!

Feel free to share with me what this full moon energy is shifting, growing, releasing and bringing to you! You are the reason I create these. Thank you for the honor to do so!]]>1007authenticleadership,authenticlife,deborahleeann,leadershipcatalyst,womenleadersfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/authentic-passion-finding-it-and-fueling-it--11784578
We find it. Fuel it and it grows. And, too often, we lose it and have to find it again.

It was very clear to me that I've been wallowing around in deep waters of emotional stuff for the last week or two, then after attending a few community events in the span of a week, I remembered who I am and what lights me up!

Yes, I know, You always hear me saying that you need to turn on your own light, right? Shine it from within so that your radiance and brilliance lights up the space around you and all those who come into contact!

And, that's true.

Yet, sometimes we just need to r e m e m b e r...

Remember WHO we truly are. WHAT our gifts are. FEEL our Desire. IMAGINE what we are here to do in this one, wild and crazy life.

Yesterday, my Passion returned. After a few chance meetings where I put my Authentic Self out there, I felt it. That bright light turned on and turned up. It was shining all over everyone I connected with. It felt amazing!

I could write about it. Talk about it. I felt the LIGHT shining so brightly, just like the brilliant sun we got to see after days of rain! I got lots done!

So, today on this very wet, gray, cold spring day, my passion feels dimmed. Less bright. After waking too early and not returning to sleep, and skipping my morning ritual for the 2nd day in a row, I said a quick grounding prayer as I drove a roundabout way to my breakfast meeting at the edge of 2 main thoroughfares that were closed due to flooding, right beyond the venue.

The event was poorly attended due to the extensive flooding all around us. Yet, as if by some special divine design, 3 important conversations took place that opened up new opportunities for collaborative projects and strategic alliances!

Finding our Passion, what essence within that makes our heart sing is a personal journey. It's funny how we blame outside circumstances of external forces or even our relationships from keeping us away from this essential life force. Once you know discover your Passion, learn what fuels it and really turns you on, make sure to build that activity or energy into your week - no matter what else is going on.

Feel free to share this with someone who might resonate with the message. We need our support system, circle of sisters or love and/or biz partners to know what our Passion is and to help us remember to feed it a steady and nutritious diet, because we may forget. I did this week. Learned my lesson (again!)

Let's see where this goes, shall we?]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/11784578Wed, 03 May 2017 19:54:48 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyPassion. It comes. Then it goes. We find it. Fuel it and it grows. And, too often, we lose it and have to find it again. It was very clear to me that I've been wallowing around in deep waters of emotional stuff for the last week or two, then after...
We find it. Fuel it and it grows. And, too often, we lose it and have to find it again.

It was very clear to me that I've been wallowing around in deep waters of emotional stuff for the last week or two, then after attending a few community events in the span of a week, I remembered who I am and what lights me up!

Yes, I know, You always hear me saying that you need to turn on your own light, right? Shine it from within so that your radiance and brilliance lights up the space around you and all those who come into contact!

And, that's true.

Yet, sometimes we just need to r e m e m b e r...

Remember WHO we truly are. WHAT our gifts are. FEEL our Desire. IMAGINE what we are here to do in this one, wild and crazy life.

Yesterday, my Passion returned. After a few chance meetings where I put my Authentic Self out there, I felt it. That bright light turned on and turned up. It was shining all over everyone I connected with. It felt amazing!

I could write about it. Talk about it. I felt the LIGHT shining so brightly, just like the brilliant sun we got to see after days of rain! I got lots done!

So, today on this very wet, gray, cold spring day, my passion feels dimmed. Less bright. After waking too early and not returning to sleep, and skipping my morning ritual for the 2nd day in a row, I said a quick grounding prayer as I drove a roundabout way to my breakfast meeting at the edge of 2 main thoroughfares that were closed due to flooding, right beyond the venue.

The event was poorly attended due to the extensive flooding all around us. Yet, as if by some special divine design, 3 important conversations took place that opened up new opportunities for collaborative projects and strategic alliances!

Finding our Passion, what essence within that makes our heart sing is a personal journey. It's funny how we blame outside circumstances of external forces or even our relationships from keeping us away from this essential life force. Once you know discover your Passion, learn what fuels it and really turns you on, make sure to build that activity or energy into your week - no matter what else is going on.

Feel free to share this with someone who might resonate with the message. We need our support system, circle of sisters or love and/or biz partners to know what our Passion is and to help us remember to feed it a steady and nutritious diet, because we may forget. I did this week. Learned my lesson (again!)

Let's see where this goes, shall we?]]>1522authenticleadershipacademy,authenticlife,passion,womenleaders,womensleadershipcatalystfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/authenticity-and-letting-go-of-the-old--11722526
Each of us have one life. With the imagination and power to create on a huge scale. Yet, many of these inspirations get swallowed up by some rules, constraints or negative stories we tell ourselves. So many of them never get done. Then the regret, shame, guilt and beating up that comes with not achieving. It can be a vicious cycle.

As the new moon fell during the dawn this morning, I went outside to tap into its potent energy. The beginning of the day is always a special and spiritual time for me and I love doing my morning practices while the sky is lit up with colors. Outside though? This is something not as common for me.

As I burned away many sticks and last year's leftover brush I had cleared away this spring, I felt it. The renewal. The cleansing, The letting go of the old. Then the prayers and practice flowed from there. Dedicated to me, the collective, the new day and new era we are stepping into.

Join in to listen to my practice and see if there might be something you can begin using to call in your power, your dreams, the will to make them happen and how to clear away all the old stuff in the way!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/11722526Wed, 26 Apr 2017 12:56:19 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyWhat is calling you? Is there a desire or dream that, if you allow yourself to imagine it, you feel guilty? Or shame? Or the fear of it coming to reality? Or, even worse, the fear that you can't reach it? Each of us have one life. With the...
Each of us have one life. With the imagination and power to create on a huge scale. Yet, many of these inspirations get swallowed up by some rules, constraints or negative stories we tell ourselves. So many of them never get done. Then the regret, shame, guilt and beating up that comes with not achieving. It can be a vicious cycle.

As the new moon fell during the dawn this morning, I went outside to tap into its potent energy. The beginning of the day is always a special and spiritual time for me and I love doing my morning practices while the sky is lit up with colors. Outside though? This is something not as common for me.

As I burned away many sticks and last year's leftover brush I had cleared away this spring, I felt it. The renewal. The cleansing, The letting go of the old. Then the prayers and practice flowed from there. Dedicated to me, the collective, the new day and new era we are stepping into.

Join in to listen to my practice and see if there might be something you can begin using to call in your power, your dreams, the will to make them happen and how to clear away all the old stuff in the way!]]>1422authenticleadership,authenticlife,deborahleeann,women,womenleadersfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/authenticity-requires-shadowwork-and-self-awareness--11665928
Healing, as well as accepting who we are, on all levels, is deep, sacred and uncomfortable work. We may think we've handled some issue, only to have it show up again and again.

The example I'm pointing to in my life is my desire for things to be different, look different, feel different. My Inner Critic goes crazy on how things "Should" look, be, feel. Then add a dose of Self-Doubt in where I think I am going, a dash or two or sometimes an overly large helping of Confusion and I've got the recipe for a hot mess.

AND, I see this pattern showing up now and can head it off at the pass. There's such a comfort in saying to mySelf, "Ah-ha! You thought you would steer me away from that big new dream of mine? Guess what dear Egoic Self, I'm not buying that story today." And I'm learning to celebrate that Perfectionist, Controlling, Critical part of me and to let her go out and play in the garden or dance that energy into something new.

We are railroaded by one or more of these patterns that, once we learn them, recognize their early stages, we can take over their control. We can step back into the Driver's Seat and even let them out of the vehicle!

So, shadow-work, learning, owning and celebrating the gifts of our less-than-pretty parts (OR just as importantly, claiming our Amazing, Brilliant and Creative Genius traits!) is essential training to become the Authentic Leader, or to Love Authentically and live the Authentic Life.

Let's see where this goes, shall we? Listen in...I typically go beyond this original topic, wonder where we'll go today?]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/11665928Wed, 19 Apr 2017 16:50:27 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyWe are complex Be-ings. Not as simple or easy to diagnose or become intimate with as we would like. It takes work. Possibly a mirror, or a coach, or a huge life-changing event, to throw us more deeply into self-knowledge and self-awareness. Healing,...
Healing, as well as accepting who we are, on all levels, is deep, sacred and uncomfortable work. We may think we've handled some issue, only to have it show up again and again.

The example I'm pointing to in my life is my desire for things to be different, look different, feel different. My Inner Critic goes crazy on how things "Should" look, be, feel. Then add a dose of Self-Doubt in where I think I am going, a dash or two or sometimes an overly large helping of Confusion and I've got the recipe for a hot mess.

AND, I see this pattern showing up now and can head it off at the pass. There's such a comfort in saying to mySelf, "Ah-ha! You thought you would steer me away from that big new dream of mine? Guess what dear Egoic Self, I'm not buying that story today." And I'm learning to celebrate that Perfectionist, Controlling, Critical part of me and to let her go out and play in the garden or dance that energy into something new.

We are railroaded by one or more of these patterns that, once we learn them, recognize their early stages, we can take over their control. We can step back into the Driver's Seat and even let them out of the vehicle!

So, shadow-work, learning, owning and celebrating the gifts of our less-than-pretty parts (OR just as importantly, claiming our Amazing, Brilliant and Creative Genius traits!) is essential training to become the Authentic Leader, or to Love Authentically and live the Authentic Life.

Let's see where this goes, shall we? Listen in...I typically go beyond this original topic, wonder where we'll go today?]]>1456authenticity,authenticleadership,authenticliferadio,deborahleeann,womenleadersfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/we-are-the-dance-not-the-dancer--11612494
At the Art of Feminine Presence Intensive last weekend, Rachael Jayne Groover opened with the concept that we are Receivers. It was a potent reminder that we can tune into the channel of our choice and it's been at top of mind for the past 5 days.

Many of us spend time on social media, reading the news, listening to "doom and gloom" on the radio, or talking to people who are concerned about the end of the world, or humanity as we know it.

Then there are those who are a bit more realistic, pointing out the facts, checking for data and staying in tune with what is going on that is important, while also searching for data that supports we are a bit better off. Reality can easily lead down the path towards doom and gloom mindset.

I've decided to tune into a new wave of thinking, feeling and experiening. To dance with Authenticity, Grace and Power. It's funny, as we did a similar exercise a few months back in my MasterMind on Visioning...and I see the importance of it even more now.

Listen in to hear the what I'm learning, growing into and ready to share with my clients in Authentic Leadership Academy.

See how you feel when hearing the various tones of voice and words, AND see if your energy and mindset shifts.

I'm curious to hear your feedback. This is an important tool to use in creating the life and business you desire.

Authentic Life begins right here. With the concept that we co-create it, It's not already divined. Not out of our hands. We are way more powerful than we know.

To paraphrase Eckhart Tolle:
"Life is the dancer, you are the dance." Your body is life itself. What is within you is the dance, what makes you move and live. "Life lives you."

Desire is a powerful force that drives us to create. And Desire is another topic we'll explore...maybe next week?]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/11612494Wed, 12 Apr 2017 15:34:25 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyWe are Receivers. What Channel Are You Tuned Into? What music is playing through you? What is your mindset set to? It all will show up in how we live. How we dance this amazing life of ours. At the Art of Feminine Presence Intensive last weekend,...
At the Art of Feminine Presence Intensive last weekend, Rachael Jayne Groover opened with the concept that we are Receivers. It was a potent reminder that we can tune into the channel of our choice and it's been at top of mind for the past 5 days.

Many of us spend time on social media, reading the news, listening to "doom and gloom" on the radio, or talking to people who are concerned about the end of the world, or humanity as we know it.

Then there are those who are a bit more realistic, pointing out the facts, checking for data and staying in tune with what is going on that is important, while also searching for data that supports we are a bit better off. Reality can easily lead down the path towards doom and gloom mindset.

I've decided to tune into a new wave of thinking, feeling and experiening. To dance with Authenticity, Grace and Power. It's funny, as we did a similar exercise a few months back in my MasterMind on Visioning...and I see the importance of it even more now.

Listen in to hear the what I'm learning, growing into and ready to share with my clients in Authentic Leadership Academy.

See how you feel when hearing the various tones of voice and words, AND see if your energy and mindset shifts.

I'm curious to hear your feedback. This is an important tool to use in creating the life and business you desire.

Authentic Life begins right here. With the concept that we co-create it, It's not already divined. Not out of our hands. We are way more powerful than we know.

To paraphrase Eckhart Tolle:
"Life is the dancer, you are the dance." Your body is life itself. What is within you is the dance, what makes you move and live. "Life lives you."

Desire is a powerful force that drives us to create. And Desire is another topic we'll explore...maybe next week?]]>1828authenticliferadio,receiving,tuningin,womenleadersfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/authentic-balance-is-it-possible--11558604
And, sleep never fully returned. My to-do list was forming in my head; my spirit was nudging me on some clearing out, cleaning out to mkae way for new; my heart wondering who else I'm meaning to connect with and how to make that happen before the Academy next week; my body wondering if a walk or yoga stretches would be better to start the energy moving. And each voice had a valid point.

I began looking for an old ledger that came to mind (acting on inspiration sometimes takes you in strange directions) and I began seeing the last 10 years of finance and tax files I had lumped on the floor when moving my file cabinets. Replacing them in their rightful space felt honoring of my financial history (and money relationship in general) and the floor has reclaimed some space. Just the beginning to getting that office spring cleaned!

Coming downstairs, I decided cleaning off the glass dining room table was next. It's been bothering me that the glass had smudges on it and that tolerance of stuff bothering us? It's a sign to clean it up.

Feng Shui is about balancing of the energies. It's about honoring the space around you. Creating a sacred space to create, love, live and connect on all levels.

When there is too much Yang energy (all light colors, lots of sharp angles and fiery energy) it can feel chaotic. Too much Yin energy (dark colors, soft and rounded shapes and low light) creates a space for sleep and resting, but not much action. What is the right balance for work? For play? For love? For creativity? For you?

I'm learning that the glass topped tables are symbolic of water and emotions. There's a lot of glass in my home to balance the earth, metal and fire elements that are present.

And, when they get cluttered, dirty with drink circles or fingerprints, it's annoying to me. When clean, they sparkle, shine, reflect and show the beautiful rugs below, or highlight what is placed on top.

Where can you create more beauty? More space? Clearing away to allow for new? AND, what is the right balance of Action and Being that serves you?

As a borderline Introvert, I can be out at networking events, social gatherings or delivering a workshop, then need to return home to my haven for renewal and replenishing of my energy. I love that my home has lots of items that make me smile with their beauty, memory or meaning.

Balance is when we are able to find what is true and right for us. When we honor our mind, heart, body and spirit. When we feel our connection to all that is, seen and unseen. It's going to look and feel differently for everyone. The key is for you to find your's and then continue to tune in to discern what needs to be tweaked back into balance.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/11558604Wed, 05 Apr 2017 12:34:53 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyToday I was wide awake listening to the birds around 3:30 am. I didn't know that was the time and I enjoyed the variety of birdsong for quite a while before getting up. When I saw the time, my mind went crazy. "OMG, it's too early! Get back to...
And, sleep never fully returned. My to-do list was forming in my head; my spirit was nudging me on some clearing out, cleaning out to mkae way for new; my heart wondering who else I'm meaning to connect with and how to make that happen before the Academy next week; my body wondering if a walk or yoga stretches would be better to start the energy moving. And each voice had a valid point.

I began looking for an old ledger that came to mind (acting on inspiration sometimes takes you in strange directions) and I began seeing the last 10 years of finance and tax files I had lumped on the floor when moving my file cabinets. Replacing them in their rightful space felt honoring of my financial history (and money relationship in general) and the floor has reclaimed some space. Just the beginning to getting that office spring cleaned!

Coming downstairs, I decided cleaning off the glass dining room table was next. It's been bothering me that the glass had smudges on it and that tolerance of stuff bothering us? It's a sign to clean it up.

Feng Shui is about balancing of the energies. It's about honoring the space around you. Creating a sacred space to create, love, live and connect on all levels.

When there is too much Yang energy (all light colors, lots of sharp angles and fiery energy) it can feel chaotic. Too much Yin energy (dark colors, soft and rounded shapes and low light) creates a space for sleep and resting, but not much action. What is the right balance for work? For play? For love? For creativity? For you?

I'm learning that the glass topped tables are symbolic of water and emotions. There's a lot of glass in my home to balance the earth, metal and fire elements that are present.

And, when they get cluttered, dirty with drink circles or fingerprints, it's annoying to me. When clean, they sparkle, shine, reflect and show the beautiful rugs below, or highlight what is placed on top.

Where can you create more beauty? More space? Clearing away to allow for new? AND, what is the right balance of Action and Being that serves you?

As a borderline Introvert, I can be out at networking events, social gatherings or delivering a workshop, then need to return home to my haven for renewal and replenishing of my energy. I love that my home has lots of items that make me smile with their beauty, memory or meaning.

Balance is when we are able to find what is true and right for us. When we honor our mind, heart, body and spirit. When we feel our connection to all that is, seen and unseen. It's going to look and feel differently for everyone. The key is for you to find your's and then continue to tune in to discern what needs to be tweaked back into balance.]]>1261authenticleadership,authenticlife,balance,womenleaders,womensleadershipcatalystfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/an-authentic-invitation-for-you-sweet-sister--11506923
I devoured it.

Each word in The Invitation, by Oriah sang to me, woke me up, brought a resonance to my soul that has long been asleep.

And, it seems to call to me each time I need to wake up again.

Are you waking up? If so, it can be daunting. The lights seem so bright, the sounds too loud. The activity too busy. And, it makes us want to dive back into our covers and go back to sleep.

Yet, these times are calling us out of slumber. Whether courageous and wanting to risk, grow and change or not, we are unable to find the comfort in slumber we used to.

We have been preparing for this. We know that, on some level, we are ready. And, here is my invitation to you. Listen in and stay awake. We've been holding it together for too long.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/11506923Wed, 29 Mar 2017 12:42:19 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyYears ago this book arrived in a gift bag with several other items from a friend who saw me better than I saw myself. I devoured it. Each word in The Invitation, by Oriah sang to me, woke me up, brought a resonance to my soul that has long been...
I devoured it.

Each word in The Invitation, by Oriah sang to me, woke me up, brought a resonance to my soul that has long been asleep.

And, it seems to call to me each time I need to wake up again.

Are you waking up? If so, it can be daunting. The lights seem so bright, the sounds too loud. The activity too busy. And, it makes us want to dive back into our covers and go back to sleep.

Yet, these times are calling us out of slumber. Whether courageous and wanting to risk, grow and change or not, we are unable to find the comfort in slumber we used to.

We have been preparing for this. We know that, on some level, we are ready. And, here is my invitation to you. Listen in and stay awake. We've been holding it together for too long.]]>1365authenticleadership,authenticlife,invitation,sweetsister,womenleadersfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/trading-in-the-polished-professional-for-real-raw--11453143https://api.spreaker.com/episode/11453143Wed, 22 Mar 2017 13:14:35 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyOne of the things about living and leading and loving from Authenticity, is that I get to be reminded, often, of the places where I still hide. It's safe to pull back and retreat from the world. Where no one is watching (or so I believe) and I can...1407brilliance,raw,self-acceptance,self-love,spiritualityfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/authentic-connection--11339776
Why do we wear all of that protection?

Where did we learn to cover up? Fake it? Tell untruths? Pretend?

Radical acceptance, deep awareness and honest looking within has been my way of connecting. First WITHIN. Then without. I was taught and modeled the opposite.

Not sure where this message will go today as I unravel more about what it feels like to live an Authentic Life. What I do know is that as lonely and invisible as I used to feel along this journey has prepared me well to live in this space. My Space. My Truth.

What is your experience of living authentically? Where is it easy? Where do you feel like you want to hide or escape or pretend, numb out and not feel?]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/11339776Wed, 08 Mar 2017 20:02:17 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyThe peace we feel when we drop the mask, veil, armor? Wow. It feels so luscious, free and ... almost spiritual. Why do we wear all of that protection? Where did we learn to cover up? Fake it? Tell untruths? Pretend? Radical acceptance, deep...
Why do we wear all of that protection?

Where did we learn to cover up? Fake it? Tell untruths? Pretend?

Radical acceptance, deep awareness and honest looking within has been my way of connecting. First WITHIN. Then without. I was taught and modeled the opposite.

Not sure where this message will go today as I unravel more about what it feels like to live an Authentic Life. What I do know is that as lonely and invisible as I used to feel along this journey has prepared me well to live in this space. My Space. My Truth.

What is your experience of living authentically? Where is it easy? Where do you feel like you want to hide or escape or pretend, numb out and not feel?]]>1225authenticconnection,authenticleadershipacademy,authenticlife,deborahleeann,womenleadersfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/authentic-wisdom-within--11287525
How many books are you reading currently?

I am in the middle of several leadership books, one on the Awakened Warrior, one on Culture, one on Leadership development and another on The Spirit of Leadership. Each offering e a different perspective, new ways of looking at this fascinating topic for me.

And, while integrating all of this additional knowledge, where do I rely on what I already know? What I instinctively and intuiitvely understand? Why do I feel like I am "needing" to learn more, before I'm ready to share with others?

Yesterday I went to the Social System Design Lab at Washington University's Brown School of Social Work. There, with the new Director, we envisioned several ways to use the lab to map out the various levels and numerous factors that are going into leadership culture today and how to use these materials to support leadership development for organizations into the future.

Fascinating. Creating something NEW. Not another's idea. But mine, co-created with another's.

Let's dive into why we feel we need to keep looking outside ourSelves for wisdom, when we are sitting on a goldmine of knowledge within.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/11287525Wed, 01 Mar 2017 18:39:00 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyWhy do I keep looking outside myself for more guidance, wisdom and learning? There is SO much within just waiting for me to tap into it. How many books are you reading currently? I am in the middle of several leadership books, one on the Awakened...
How many books are you reading currently?

I am in the middle of several leadership books, one on the Awakened Warrior, one on Culture, one on Leadership development and another on The Spirit of Leadership. Each offering e a different perspective, new ways of looking at this fascinating topic for me.

And, while integrating all of this additional knowledge, where do I rely on what I already know? What I instinctively and intuiitvely understand? Why do I feel like I am "needing" to learn more, before I'm ready to share with others?

Yesterday I went to the Social System Design Lab at Washington University's Brown School of Social Work. There, with the new Director, we envisioned several ways to use the lab to map out the various levels and numerous factors that are going into leadership culture today and how to use these materials to support leadership development for organizations into the future.

Fascinating. Creating something NEW. Not another's idea. But mine, co-created with another's.

Let's dive into why we feel we need to keep looking outside ourSelves for wisdom, when we are sitting on a goldmine of knowledge within.]]>1378authenticleadershipacademy,authenticlife,authenticwisdom,deborahleeann,womenleadersfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/authentic-anger-hell-hath-no-fury-like-a-woman-scorned--11047088
I am and the perfect example. It was the first emotion available in my palette that allowed me to really feel and to tap into what was mine. My truth. My Authenticity. My Essence.

For that reason I think once opened to it, women tend use it as it as a weapon. As way of showing how strong and powerful we are.

A woman's anger (picture the power of mother Earth's storms!) is a lashing out, a destructive force. It's a force you can’t deny. And, it’s often quick and swift. It’s a balancing of energy. It's about standing strong in our essence, in our conviction and passion, declaring our truth.

It’s not a lot of words. It's not a lot about the hurting of another. It’s not making the other pay or share in what’s our’s. It's not about making a point by tearing down the other’s ego - be it physically, emotionally, spiritually.

It's sad that we have not learned the teachings of Martin Luther King, Jr. and Gandhi around nonviolent conflict, peaceful protesting and working together TOWARDS an end, versus FIGHTING AGAINST the other. There's a way of making a point with clarity and courageous conviction, sometimes even more so without words.

This reminds me of the Compassionate Samurai. A samurai warrior is trained in all of the martial arts and trains his body to be strong and powerful and also to open his heart. Open his/her mind in a way of serving for all. It's it's about dropping our ego, standing tall for the collective.

This is where a woman's anger can be very affective. When we are fighting for our child or for the rights of all women, or a beloved, we do so in a forward thinking type of way. We want to create change that leads us towards where. We. Want. To. Go. (versus fighting back at what has happened)

This has to be a changed in our mindset. We can change our belief system to learn that what has happened has been the catalyst that turned on this emotion and power and sharpens our senses, and from there, discern how we will move or take action or respond in a way that generates momentum to build what we want.

Join me as we transform our Authentic Anger into the energy that spurs us as compassionate leaders, heard and seen as powerful, strategic, grounded and leading towards change.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/11047088Thu, 23 Feb 2017 15:12:26 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyAuthentic anger, especially for women, looks very different than a lot of we've been seeing, or what we've been taught, or what . AND, It’s true that women have a millennia or two worth of of actions and historical events and current events to be...
I am and the perfect example. It was the first emotion available in my palette that allowed me to really feel and to tap into what was mine. My truth. My Authenticity. My Essence.

For that reason I think once opened to it, women tend use it as it as a weapon. As way of showing how strong and powerful we are.

A woman's anger (picture the power of mother Earth's storms!) is a lashing out, a destructive force. It's a force you can’t deny. And, it’s often quick and swift. It’s a balancing of energy. It's about standing strong in our essence, in our conviction and passion, declaring our truth.

It’s not a lot of words. It's not a lot about the hurting of another. It’s not making the other pay or share in what’s our’s. It's not about making a point by tearing down the other’s ego - be it physically, emotionally, spiritually.

It's sad that we have not learned the teachings of Martin Luther King, Jr. and Gandhi around nonviolent conflict, peaceful protesting and working together TOWARDS an end, versus FIGHTING AGAINST the other. There's a way of making a point with clarity and courageous conviction, sometimes even more so without words.

This reminds me of the Compassionate Samurai. A samurai warrior is trained in all of the martial arts and trains his body to be strong and powerful and also to open his heart. Open his/her mind in a way of serving for all. It's it's about dropping our ego, standing tall for the collective.

This is where a woman's anger can be very affective. When we are fighting for our child or for the rights of all women, or a beloved, we do so in a forward thinking type of way. We want to create change that leads us towards where. We. Want. To. Go. (versus fighting back at what has happened)

This has to be a changed in our mindset. We can change our belief system to learn that what has happened has been the catalyst that turned on this emotion and power and sharpens our senses, and from there, discern how we will move or take action or respond in a way that generates momentum to build what we want.

Join me as we transform our Authentic Anger into the energy that spurs us as compassionate leaders, heard and seen as powerful, strategic, grounded and leading towards change.]]>1413anger,authenticanger,authenticleadership,authenticlife,womenleadersfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/opening-to-receive--10832815Yet, we redirect compliments, offers of support, opportunities to engage and connect, right?
When a young woman offered her support recently as I sat by the ocean and was sobbing into my journal, I brushed her off, saying "I'm fine...or I'll be fine. No thank you." I did just that. How comforting it would have been to have her get the cup of tea she offered! To accept a hug from her, even. To ask for, and receive!
We have been taught to be resilient, independent, to be able to fend for ourselves. We don't like appearing weak, needy, incompetent. Yet, we are not designed to be silos!
How do we learn to open to Receive?]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/10832815Wed, 15 Feb 2017 22:44:04 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyHow often do you receive a gift and toss it back in the giver's face? Probably not often, if ever. Yet, we redirect compliments, offers of support, opportunities to engage and connect, right? When a young woman offered her support recently as I...Yet, we redirect compliments, offers of support, opportunities to engage and connect, right?
When a young woman offered her support recently as I sat by the ocean and was sobbing into my journal, I brushed her off, saying "I'm fine...or I'll be fine. No thank you." I did just that. How comforting it would have been to have her get the cup of tea she offered! To accept a hug from her, even. To ask for, and receive!
We have been taught to be resilient, independent, to be able to fend for ourselves. We don't like appearing weak, needy, incompetent. Yet, we are not designed to be silos!
How do we learn to open to Receive?]]>959artofreceiving,authenticlife,deborahleeann,receiving,wednesdaywisdomradiofalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/authentic-awareness-and-imagination--10636987
Awareness gained through imagining or dreaming is much broader than our intellect alone. It allows us to gain a wider view of possibilities, to aim higher, dream bigger!

How do you create your vision? Your goals? Your daily or weekly plan?

Would you like to learn a practice that is ancient, yet feels very new to most of us? It's the mindfulness of Being Here Now. And, it's quick!

Listen in and I'll share a few tips to get to this place of inspiration and guidance no matter where you are and how much time you have.

We'll step into this today as it sets the stage for The Art of Receiving Challenge that begins again next week.

Ready? Let's play!
For more info on Art of Receiving Challenge, find us on FB!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/10636987Wed, 08 Feb 2017 17:05:09 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyHow's your imagination these days? Awareness gained through imagining or dreaming is much broader than our intellect alone. It allows us to gain a wider view of possibilities, to aim higher, dream bigger! How do you create your vision? Your...
Awareness gained through imagining or dreaming is much broader than our intellect alone. It allows us to gain a wider view of possibilities, to aim higher, dream bigger!

How do you create your vision? Your goals? Your daily or weekly plan?

Would you like to learn a practice that is ancient, yet feels very new to most of us? It's the mindfulness of Being Here Now. And, it's quick!

Listen in and I'll share a few tips to get to this place of inspiration and guidance no matter where you are and how much time you have.

We'll step into this today as it sets the stage for The Art of Receiving Challenge that begins again next week.

Ready? Let's play!
For more info on Art of Receiving Challenge, find us on FB!]]>993authenticleadership,authenticleadershipacademy,awareness,deborahleeann,imaginationfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/authentic-life-it-s-not-always-easy--10458108
More importantly, Why did I agree to it? And, have the strong nudge to teach it, share it, model it for others?

Here I am, sitting with a boatload of ideas, plans and projects, and I'm playing this game with myself. Authentic Life is about eating, living, leading, loving from our truth, our wholeness, our realness. NOT what we always want others to see.

As I prepare to invite friends and neighbors over to my home for class on Cleaning without Chemicals, and a few workshops on using Essential Oils for a healthy, holistic support system for change and emotional wellness, I'm frozen. Why?

I'm worried I'll be a bother. People are busy. They don't want to add something else to their calendar.

OR, do they? What if my discomfort is not about them. It's my stuff. Managing my fear of what they will think. Funny, on Facebook, I'm not hiding as much as I do in person. When it comes to reaching out via phone or text.

What if I'm not inviting them and they WANT to learn, grow, become more aligned with who they want to become as Authentic Leaders who lead with Grace and Power?

What if my sharing of this information would help heal them and their families by incorporating a new paradigm of seeing how to live with less chemicals in their bodies, homes, lives? What if they want to make a difference for our planet?

I'm getting on the phone. To share about my little classes and workshops, as well as to invite them into a larger vision. One where we all come together and learn from each other. Talk, share, love, grow in community? (LIke my mom did in the old days when the neighborhood moms met for coffee at each other's houses?)

Where do you need to stand up and share some of your wisdom? Where are you allowing others to take your power? Your voice? Your vision? I'm taking a stand for me, my power and vision today.

Join me?]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/10458108Wed, 01 Feb 2017 17:50:51 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyAuthentic Life, what is it? More importantly, Why did I agree to it? And, have the strong nudge to teach it, share it, model it for others? Here I am, sitting with a boatload of ideas, plans and projects, and I'm playing this game with myself....
More importantly, Why did I agree to it? And, have the strong nudge to teach it, share it, model it for others?

Here I am, sitting with a boatload of ideas, plans and projects, and I'm playing this game with myself. Authentic Life is about eating, living, leading, loving from our truth, our wholeness, our realness. NOT what we always want others to see.

As I prepare to invite friends and neighbors over to my home for class on Cleaning without Chemicals, and a few workshops on using Essential Oils for a healthy, holistic support system for change and emotional wellness, I'm frozen. Why?

I'm worried I'll be a bother. People are busy. They don't want to add something else to their calendar.

OR, do they? What if my discomfort is not about them. It's my stuff. Managing my fear of what they will think. Funny, on Facebook, I'm not hiding as much as I do in person. When it comes to reaching out via phone or text.

What if I'm not inviting them and they WANT to learn, grow, become more aligned with who they want to become as Authentic Leaders who lead with Grace and Power?

What if my sharing of this information would help heal them and their families by incorporating a new paradigm of seeing how to live with less chemicals in their bodies, homes, lives? What if they want to make a difference for our planet?

I'm getting on the phone. To share about my little classes and workshops, as well as to invite them into a larger vision. One where we all come together and learn from each other. Talk, share, love, grow in community? (LIke my mom did in the old days when the neighborhood moms met for coffee at each other's houses?)

Where do you need to stand up and share some of your wisdom? Where are you allowing others to take your power? Your voice? Your vision? I'm taking a stand for me, my power and vision today.

Join me?]]>1552authentic,authenticity,authenticleadershipacademy,authenticlife,lifefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/authentic-expansion-are-you-ready-am-i-ready--10386238Where are you shying away from your great work? Who is supporting you in helping you remember what your heart desires? Do you have a strong knowing that you are part of a bigger plan? Do you get glimpses of what it is or is it clearly formed in your mind?

I'll be sharing my side of this process. Join me. Ask the same questions of yourself and see where they might take you!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/10386238Wed, 25 Jan 2017 21:35:53 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyAs I connect to my vision for 2017 (and beyond) it seems too big, too much and that I'm not ready or worthy of it. Before my mind begins to doubt and close off possibilities, I move into a place of connecting to all that is and allow for the Higher...Where are you shying away from your great work? Who is supporting you in helping you remember what your heart desires? Do you have a strong knowing that you are part of a bigger plan? Do you get glimpses of what it is or is it clearly formed in your mind?

I'll be sharing my side of this process. Join me. Ask the same questions of yourself and see where they might take you!]]>1807authenticity,authenticleadership,expansion,growth,womenleadersfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/one-degree-of-difference--10333812
We all stayed home (after running wildly to the store for last minute "necessities") and watched as it rained, sleeted, and rained. And, were a bit miffed it wasn't as bad as they predicted!

Yet, it was obvious, how one little degree could make such a difference.

The rain, had it been much colder, would have shown up as snow. Or, more icey. Yet, since it was hovering around the freezing point, it stayed mostly liquid...which isn't inherently dangerous. With just enough of the solid to make it potentially very dangerous.

And, this brings us to the question, where are you one degree of NOT taking action? Making a more solid form of your dream or legacy vision?

This is the time of year when we are making goals, vision boards, writing new plans and resolutions into our new calendars and datebooks. And, where are you playing it safe? Writing down what feels do-able? What's easier to reach, simpler to create? What's stopping you from showing up one percent more?

That area of both/and, where liquid AND ice was forming last weekend, and where a dream or vision becomes form by writing out one action step, then taking that step...that's where it begins.

No action = no risk of creating something new = no movement. No growth. No gain. No change. Do you want another year like that?

Let's step beyond our comfort zone...up the ante one more degree. Create the change we want to see. Not by watching on the sidelines. But by showing up. Sharing from the heart. Creating that new thing. Opening up to what else is possible. Then moving forward into what was previously impossible, into making it possible.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/10333812Wed, 18 Jan 2017 15:30:28 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyWe had this winter storm last week. Ice, rain, drizzling and misting of freezing rain, sleet, and more rain. The predictions were scary and dire. Warnings to stay off the roads, and schools/businesses/events cancelled regionally. We all stayed...
We all stayed home (after running wildly to the store for last minute "necessities") and watched as it rained, sleeted, and rained. And, were a bit miffed it wasn't as bad as they predicted!

Yet, it was obvious, how one little degree could make such a difference.

The rain, had it been much colder, would have shown up as snow. Or, more icey. Yet, since it was hovering around the freezing point, it stayed mostly liquid...which isn't inherently dangerous. With just enough of the solid to make it potentially very dangerous.

And, this brings us to the question, where are you one degree of NOT taking action? Making a more solid form of your dream or legacy vision?

This is the time of year when we are making goals, vision boards, writing new plans and resolutions into our new calendars and datebooks. And, where are you playing it safe? Writing down what feels do-able? What's easier to reach, simpler to create? What's stopping you from showing up one percent more?

That area of both/and, where liquid AND ice was forming last weekend, and where a dream or vision becomes form by writing out one action step, then taking that step...that's where it begins.

No action = no risk of creating something new = no movement. No growth. No gain. No change. Do you want another year like that?

Let's step beyond our comfort zone...up the ante one more degree. Create the change we want to see. Not by watching on the sidelines. But by showing up. Sharing from the heart. Creating that new thing. Opening up to what else is possible. Then moving forward into what was previously impossible, into making it possible.]]>900authenticleadership,authenticleadershipacademy,nomorehiding,nomoremaybes,womenleadersfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/authentic-leadership-radio-beginnings-and-endings--10334632
Today as the winds gusted up to 45 mph here in St. Louis, the temps shifted, the clouds lifted and sun and springlike weather showed up this afternoon.  Brought on by winds of change.

Do you feel it?  The palpable shifting of our society, our energy, our truth-telling, our growing compassion and caring for one another?

Maybe it takes huge change to allow us to deepen into our truth.  To feel ready to speak up.  Speak out.

And, I'll be moving my show over to Spreaker as the host as well as SoundCloud for available listening.  We'll also be searchable on iTunes if you like to subscribe there. 

And the new name?  No great shock there.  Authentic Leadership is what I do.  Who I am.  And the names of my new businesses, Authentic Leadership Consulting and Authentic Leadership Academy. 

Listen in for a brief farewell, then the full message that was pre-recorded for you last week whle at the beach in Manly, Australis is ready for you and following.

All the best in this new year...a year of new beginnings and MUCH movement, growth and expansion.  It's been a long time since all our planetary beings have supported us by turning direct! 

As Elizabeth Gilbert says, "Onward!"

 

 ]]>http://www.blogtalkradio.com/deborahleeann/2017/01/11/authentic-leadership-radio--beginnings-and-endingsWed, 11 Jan 2017 13:30:00 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyHappy 2017!  Today as the winds gusted up to 45 mph here in St. Louis, the temps shifted, the clouds lifted and sun and springlike weather showed up this afternoon.  Brought on by winds of change. Do you feel it?  The palpable shifting of our...
Today as the winds gusted up to 45 mph here in St. Louis, the temps shifted, the clouds lifted and sun and springlike weather showed up this afternoon.  Brought on by winds of change.

Do you feel it?  The palpable shifting of our society, our energy, our truth-telling, our growing compassion and caring for one another?

Maybe it takes huge change to allow us to deepen into our truth.  To feel ready to speak up.  Speak out.

And, I'll be moving my show over to Spreaker as the host as well as SoundCloud for available listening.  We'll also be searchable on iTunes if you like to subscribe there. 

And the new name?  No great shock there.  Authentic Leadership is what I do.  Who I am.  And the names of my new businesses, Authentic Leadership Consulting and Authentic Leadership Academy. 

Listen in for a brief farewell, then the full message that was pre-recorded for you last week whle at the beach in Manly, Australis is ready for you and following.

All the best in this new year...a year of new beginnings and MUCH movement, growth and expansion.  It's been a long time since all our planetary beings have supported us by turning direct! 

As Elizabeth Gilbert says, "Onward!"

 

 ]]>244authenticleadership,authenticleadershipacademy,deborahleeann,newbeginnings,wedwisdomradiofalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/authentic-leadership-time-for-bravery--10334633
To stand, To speak up, To not let the overwhelm take hold.

I've been laying low, cancelling events, filling my days with lots of introspection AND lots of diversions and distractions.  There's something being called forward within me, within the collective, and I've been pretending not to hear it.  It's about depression.  It's about feeling everything.  It's about slowing down to actually DEAL with it all.

This year is an exceptional one as well.  It's had it's ups and downs, (RIGHT?) and also I've been blessed with the time and resources to lay low, riding the waves, reading the tea leaves, and watching lots of Netflix.

That time is coming to an end, in a fantastic and glorious way, as I prepare for my trip on the shortest day here in North America to the longest day in South America.  Flying on the Solstice, my 60th birthday.

So, what is in store?  A lot and maybe not so much.  I'm being open to the fullness of this gift of a time away from my home, the winter temps and my push to find clarity on that is coming in 2017.  And, my next steps in crossing that threshold.

And - honoring this time of pulling back, sleeping in once or twice this week, going to bed early, eating popcorn for dinner and listening to the sounds of silence.  Preparing for putting on my mantle, pulling on my boots and walking forward...into The Great Adventure of the Unknown. 2017.

This will be my last live broadcast of the year, but I will be uploading some thoughts and musings from my delicious time on Manly Beach north of Sydney.  Stay tuned on FB or find me on SoundCloud to catch the recordings.

See you on the other side!]]>http://www.blogtalkradio.com/deborahleeann/2016/12/14/authentic-leadership--time-for-braveryWed, 14 Dec 2016 18:00:00 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyIt is never too late for Bravery says Margaret Wheatley.  To stand, To speak up, To not let the overwhelm take hold. I've been laying low, cancelling events, filling my days with lots of introspection AND lots of diversions and distractions. ...
To stand, To speak up, To not let the overwhelm take hold.

I've been laying low, cancelling events, filling my days with lots of introspection AND lots of diversions and distractions.  There's something being called forward within me, within the collective, and I've been pretending not to hear it.  It's about depression.  It's about feeling everything.  It's about slowing down to actually DEAL with it all.

This year is an exceptional one as well.  It's had it's ups and downs, (RIGHT?) and also I've been blessed with the time and resources to lay low, riding the waves, reading the tea leaves, and watching lots of Netflix.

That time is coming to an end, in a fantastic and glorious way, as I prepare for my trip on the shortest day here in North America to the longest day in South America.  Flying on the Solstice, my 60th birthday.

So, what is in store?  A lot and maybe not so much.  I'm being open to the fullness of this gift of a time away from my home, the winter temps and my push to find clarity on that is coming in 2017.  And, my next steps in crossing that threshold.

And - honoring this time of pulling back, sleeping in once or twice this week, going to bed early, eating popcorn for dinner and listening to the sounds of silence.  Preparing for putting on my mantle, pulling on my boots and walking forward...into The Great Adventure of the Unknown. 2017.

This will be my last live broadcast of the year, but I will be uploading some thoughts and musings from my delicious time on Manly Beach north of Sydney.  Stay tuned on FB or find me on SoundCloud to catch the recordings.

See you on the other side!]]>1443authenticleadershipacademy,authenticlife,deborahleeann,wedwisdomradio,womensleadershipcatalystfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-wisdom-radio-creating-space-for-authenticity--10334634
It's been said, "Nature abhors a vacuum"...and many of us do too.  Notice how uncomfortable it is when the conversation dies down or the movie score goes silent?

Even the space between my upper and lower teeth is, too often, closed up, clenched, not allowed to be open, slack.  And, now I have a hairline crack in one of my teeth to show that my unconscious, while I'm sleeping, is constricted, not relaxed, holding onto pent-up energy. 

How can we open to allow ourselves to grow, expand and step into new realms of Love, Joy, Good, Magic, Prosperity?  Into our next phase of Be-Coming? 

I believe one step is to Create Space. 

Just like we clean our homes before inviting friends over, or do spring cleaning (an ancient practice to welcome in the new being birthed at that time of year) we prepare for the new that is coming in, by relaxing, letting go, clearing space (yes, like in Feng Shui) and releasing old patterns to energetically, emotionally, physically and mentally, roll out the red carpet.

Let's see what shows up by doing our end-of-the-year clearing and releasing. ]]>http://www.blogtalkradio.com/deborahleeann/2016/12/07/wednesday-wisdom-radio-creating-space-for-authenticityWed, 07 Dec 2016 18:00:00 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleySpace.  A block of time?  A bit of quiet?  An open shelf or drawer, an empty plate.  How do you fill it? It's been said, "Nature abhors a vacuum"...and many of us do too.  Notice how uncomfortable it is when the conversation dies down or the movie...
It's been said, "Nature abhors a vacuum"...and many of us do too.  Notice how uncomfortable it is when the conversation dies down or the movie score goes silent?

Even the space between my upper and lower teeth is, too often, closed up, clenched, not allowed to be open, slack.  And, now I have a hairline crack in one of my teeth to show that my unconscious, while I'm sleeping, is constricted, not relaxed, holding onto pent-up energy. 

How can we open to allow ourselves to grow, expand and step into new realms of Love, Joy, Good, Magic, Prosperity?  Into our next phase of Be-Coming? 

I believe one step is to Create Space. 

Just like we clean our homes before inviting friends over, or do spring cleaning (an ancient practice to welcome in the new being birthed at that time of year) we prepare for the new that is coming in, by relaxing, letting go, clearing space (yes, like in Feng Shui) and releasing old patterns to energetically, emotionally, physically and mentally, roll out the red carpet.

Let's see what shows up by doing our end-of-the-year clearing and releasing. ]]>1344authenticleadership,authenticleadershipacademy,deborahleeann,wedwisdomradio,womenleadersfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-wisdom-radio-authentic-surrender--10334636
First the stoic, "I can handle it." 

Then, affirmations of "I can do this!"  "You are stronger than the obstacles!"  "Keep moving!"

Until finally, letting go.  Letting God.  Letting it all out.  The Grief.  Anguish.  Acceptance of Failure.  Acknowledgement of Where. I. Am. 

Lost enough to see that I've been ignoring the signs.  I KNOW these signs.  My body's signals, my soul's song, my heart's cries.  And, I've only been listening to the louder Ego.  My mind's Critical voice drowned out the others.  And I didn't stop to listen for them either.  I believed the loud noise.  Or turned it off by distractions, Netflix, cooking, cleaning, caring for others. 

Well, last night, exhausted, I gave in.  Surrendered literally, spiritually, emotionally.  I'll tell you about it, (not in all the gory details, but enough so you get the picture) and also how the prayers were answered with miracles of music, inspiration and a lighter state of Being showed up for me this morning. 

All is well.  Truly, when I allow it to be, All is well.]]>http://www.blogtalkradio.com/deborahleeann/2016/11/30/wednesday-wisdom-radio-authentic-surrenderWed, 30 Nov 2016 18:00:00 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyIt's been coming.  And I've been fighting it. First the stoic, "I can handle it."  Then, affirmations of "I can do this!"  "You are stronger than the obstacles!"  "Keep moving!" Until finally, letting go.  Letting God.  Letting it all out.  The...
First the stoic, "I can handle it." 

Then, affirmations of "I can do this!"  "You are stronger than the obstacles!"  "Keep moving!"

Until finally, letting go.  Letting God.  Letting it all out.  The Grief.  Anguish.  Acceptance of Failure.  Acknowledgement of Where. I. Am. 

Lost enough to see that I've been ignoring the signs.  I KNOW these signs.  My body's signals, my soul's song, my heart's cries.  And, I've only been listening to the louder Ego.  My mind's Critical voice drowned out the others.  And I didn't stop to listen for them either.  I believed the loud noise.  Or turned it off by distractions, Netflix, cooking, cleaning, caring for others. 

Well, last night, exhausted, I gave in.  Surrendered literally, spiritually, emotionally.  I'll tell you about it, (not in all the gory details, but enough so you get the picture) and also how the prayers were answered with miracles of music, inspiration and a lighter state of Being showed up for me this morning. 

All is well.  Truly, when I allow it to be, All is well.]]>1422falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-wisdom-radio-authentic-gratitude--10334638
Thank you for being here.  For reading this. For listening in.  Showing up. For your friendship, kindness, connection, referral, support, sharing. 

For Being You.

And I truly mean it.  Between Thank You and I'm Sorry - How can we express ourselves more clearly?  More authentically, more real, more true.

We are in a world where we wear our busyness, our social media connections, our use of technology, like a badge of honor.  I'm taking the day off.  To play, bake, prepare for family feasts and just to be still.  Loving Self, my daughters, whoever shows up today and tomorrow at my home or at my parents.  No matter who they voted for.  No matter their differing views.

This week is full of events.  Yet for me it is simple, it's about being in Gratitude.  Join in, take a few minutes to be still, drink tea, or wine, or eggnog or cider.  Really taste it.  Let the pleasure radiate from within for this moment.

And, from the bottom of my heart (and my BEing) sending you Grateful Blessings for an Abundant and Pleasure-filled holiday!

 

 ]]>http://www.blogtalkradio.com/deborahleeann/2016/11/23/wednesday-wisdom-radio-authentic-gratitudeWed, 23 Nov 2016 14:30:00 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyThank you. Thank you for being here.  For reading this. For listening in.  Showing up. For your friendship, kindness, connection, referral, support, sharing.  For Being You. And I truly mean it.  Between Thank You and I'm Sorry - How can we express...
Thank you for being here.  For reading this. For listening in.  Showing up. For your friendship, kindness, connection, referral, support, sharing. 

For Being You.

And I truly mean it.  Between Thank You and I'm Sorry - How can we express ourselves more clearly?  More authentically, more real, more true.

We are in a world where we wear our busyness, our social media connections, our use of technology, like a badge of honor.  I'm taking the day off.  To play, bake, prepare for family feasts and just to be still.  Loving Self, my daughters, whoever shows up today and tomorrow at my home or at my parents.  No matter who they voted for.  No matter their differing views.

This week is full of events.  Yet for me it is simple, it's about being in Gratitude.  Join in, take a few minutes to be still, drink tea, or wine, or eggnog or cider.  Really taste it.  Let the pleasure radiate from within for this moment.

And, from the bottom of my heart (and my BEing) sending you Grateful Blessings for an Abundant and Pleasure-filled holiday!

 

 ]]>1087authenticgratitude,gratitude,thanks,wedwisdomradio,women leadersfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-wisdom-radio-authenticity-in-high-stakes-situations--10334635
In a matter of a few hours, I get to have an important phone call that could result in speaking at a conference AND a video shoot of a speech in front of a live audience, to promote a women's conference.

Am I prepared?  How much is too much prep?  Not counting creating this podcast. 

I KNOW this stuff.  This is my purpose to share my message on Authenticity and it's importance in leading for change.  We can't create change without changing ourselves...see there I go.  I am ready to teach this. 

Or, should I change the story?  The punch line?  The exercise I'm going to faciltate to create an experiential learning?

Back and forth.  Heeding my Inner Wise Woman.  Listening to my Inner Child's fears.  My mind's critical commentary and my heart's excitement and expansion.  It's a lot!  Who wins?

Over and over, I hear professional women share that they feel they need to:  Wear a mask, hide, pretend to feel confident, play a role to fulfill other's expections, have to be 2 or 3 different people depending on what they are doing and who they are with.  Isn't that exhausting?  Where do we get to BE ourselves?

Who knocks you off center (and out of your Authenticity)?  Is it more at work?  At home?  With family and friends?  Is it a big opportunity?  And how do you handle the stress of these situations?  Do you have any practices or prayers that center you?

Let's dive in, Sisters.  This is work we all need to do. ]]>http://www.blogtalkradio.com/deborahleeann/2016/11/16/wednesday-wisdom-radio-authenticity-in-high-stakes-situationsWed, 16 Nov 2016 18:00:00 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyYikes!  My stomach is in knots.  I'm wanting to take a nap.  Or, find myself distracted from the task at hand. (it's at these times that I tend to clean or do laundry, or sort the junk drawer...) In a matter of a few hours, I get to have an important...
In a matter of a few hours, I get to have an important phone call that could result in speaking at a conference AND a video shoot of a speech in front of a live audience, to promote a women's conference.

Am I prepared?  How much is too much prep?  Not counting creating this podcast. 

I KNOW this stuff.  This is my purpose to share my message on Authenticity and it's importance in leading for change.  We can't create change without changing ourselves...see there I go.  I am ready to teach this. 

Or, should I change the story?  The punch line?  The exercise I'm going to faciltate to create an experiential learning?

Back and forth.  Heeding my Inner Wise Woman.  Listening to my Inner Child's fears.  My mind's critical commentary and my heart's excitement and expansion.  It's a lot!  Who wins?

Over and over, I hear professional women share that they feel they need to:  Wear a mask, hide, pretend to feel confident, play a role to fulfill other's expections, have to be 2 or 3 different people depending on what they are doing and who they are with.  Isn't that exhausting?  Where do we get to BE ourselves?

Who knocks you off center (and out of your Authenticity)?  Is it more at work?  At home?  With family and friends?  Is it a big opportunity?  And how do you handle the stress of these situations?  Do you have any practices or prayers that center you?

Let's dive in, Sisters.  This is work we all need to do. ]]>1265authenticleadershipacademy,deborahleeann,wedwisdomradio,womensleadership,womensleadershipcatalystfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-wisdom-radio-authentic-inquiry-to-heal-learn-grow--10334642
I'm not ready to be a brilliant example of empowerment today.  I need to grieve.  Heal.

Then Heal. Learn.  Grow. 

Then Act.  Be The Change.

First comes a place of Being Still.  Asking and listening.  Allowing and listening.  Letting what comes up, show up.  Listening more.  Asking more. 

No matter who you voted for, to see the popular vote be at 47.5, and 47.7 with 98.8 reported, it means there are a lot of people -- HALF the US-  is unhappy.  And not just a little unhappy. Devastated.  Confused.  Wondering what will happen.  And no matter who won this would be the case.

We are divided, literally, and polarized on so many views.  How do we come together?

Appreciative Inquiry.  Asking.  Not telling.  Learning.  Listening.  Loving.

Let's see where this goes and take an inner journey to Be in Inquiry.  Authenticity begins here.  Love does too.]]>http://www.blogtalkradio.com/deborahleeann/2016/11/09/wednesday-wisdom-radio-authentic-inquiry-to-heal-learn-growWed, 09 Nov 2016 20:00:00 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyI'm sad.  I'm not ready to be a brilliant example of empowerment today.  I need to grieve.  Heal. Then Heal. Learn.  Grow.  Then Act.  Be The Change. First comes a place of Being Still.  Asking and listening.  Allowing and listening.  Letting what...
I'm not ready to be a brilliant example of empowerment today.  I need to grieve.  Heal.

Then Heal. Learn.  Grow. 

Then Act.  Be The Change.

First comes a place of Being Still.  Asking and listening.  Allowing and listening.  Letting what comes up, show up.  Listening more.  Asking more. 

No matter who you voted for, to see the popular vote be at 47.5, and 47.7 with 98.8 reported, it means there are a lot of people -- HALF the US-  is unhappy.  And not just a little unhappy. Devastated.  Confused.  Wondering what will happen.  And no matter who won this would be the case.

We are divided, literally, and polarized on so many views.  How do we come together?

Appreciative Inquiry.  Asking.  Not telling.  Learning.  Listening.  Loving.

Let's see where this goes and take an inner journey to Be in Inquiry.  Authenticity begins here.  Love does too.]]>1613authenticleadership,deborahleeann,spiritofleadership,wedwisdomradio,womensleadershipcatalystfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-wisdom-radio-the-spirit-of-leadership--10334637
Just like medicine, we are beginning to see how just addressing the symptoms doesn't work.  There are underlying reasons why we get sick, and teams are dysfunctional or organizations get off-track. 

Leading Self, a team or a business is best done when all parts are integrated.  All voices heard.  All ideas considered.  And when all are heading in the same direction.

An example is, you want to be a public speaker.  You have a great story to tell, wisdom to share, and it's part of the bigger plan for your life.  Yet...it terrifies you to be on stage.  The thought of hearing your voice amplified.  The fear of looking incompetent, silly, or stupid can keep you from doing what you know you need to and want to.

This is an example of letting all of your mind, heart, body and soul may not be in alignment. 

Leadership is the same.  We bring our full selves to this role each day: leading intellectually, physically, emotionally and spiritually.

The Spirit of Leadership brings all of this together in a way that honors all of our parts/selves just as it honors the diverse team or community we lead. 

This is a deep and wide theme for our November podcasts ...let's get started in it today and see where we go!

Curious to learn about your Authentic Leadership quotient?  Connect with me to learn where you can up your game to expand your Influence, Impact and Income!]]>http://www.blogtalkradio.com/deborahleeann/2016/11/02/wednesday-wisdom-radio-the-spirit-of-leadershipWed, 02 Nov 2016 17:00:00 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyIsn't it time to lead holistically?  Just like medicine, we are beginning to see how just addressing the symptoms doesn't work.  There are underlying reasons why we get sick, and teams are dysfunctional or organizations get off-track.  Leading Self,...
Just like medicine, we are beginning to see how just addressing the symptoms doesn't work.  There are underlying reasons why we get sick, and teams are dysfunctional or organizations get off-track. 

Leading Self, a team or a business is best done when all parts are integrated.  All voices heard.  All ideas considered.  And when all are heading in the same direction.

An example is, you want to be a public speaker.  You have a great story to tell, wisdom to share, and it's part of the bigger plan for your life.  Yet...it terrifies you to be on stage.  The thought of hearing your voice amplified.  The fear of looking incompetent, silly, or stupid can keep you from doing what you know you need to and want to.

This is an example of letting all of your mind, heart, body and soul may not be in alignment. 

Leadership is the same.  We bring our full selves to this role each day: leading intellectually, physically, emotionally and spiritually.

The Spirit of Leadership brings all of this together in a way that honors all of our parts/selves just as it honors the diverse team or community we lead. 

This is a deep and wide theme for our November podcasts ...let's get started in it today and see where we go!

Curious to learn about your Authentic Leadership quotient?  Connect with me to learn where you can up your game to expand your Influence, Impact and Income!]]>1603authenticleadershipacademy,deborahleeann,leadingfrominsideout,spiritofleadership,wedwisdomradiofalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-wisdom-radio-authentic-collaboration--10334640
What is it about women competing with each other?  (even when we know better?)

Do you ever feel diminished by another's success?  Or feel a contraction when you see someone else doing the same thing (or a bit similar even or especially superior) to your business or program offering?

For so long, we have been pitted against each other, for beauty, yes, but even for brains, for roles in organizations or plays, for being the best ______________.  (you fill in the blank, is it Mother?  CFO?  Community Organizer?  Philanthropist?  Athlete?  Scholar?)

This is probably why concepts of CrossFit where you only compete with yourself while receiving support in a community is so popular.  It's becoming very common to see collaborations between different consultants and coaches and trainers as they can offer a blend of their work to appeal to a wider audience (or the same audience on a deeper level). 

We all get more when we combine our talents and gifts with another to create synergy.  And celebrate each other's talents and gifts.

Yet, with all the work and knowledge I have on collaborating versus competition, why do I still feel that cringe or punch in the gut when someone else is doing what I do, offering a workshop or program that sounds like mine or publishing the book I've got in my head?

It's all good.  There's a way to calm yourself (and mySelf) down and laught at it all.

It's the topic for today.  Tune in and give it a listen.  If it speaks to you, I'd love to hear your feedback.  If someone comes to mind that might like to hear it, please share.

Thanks for doing what you do.  There really is only one of you...own that and trust it.]]>http://www.blogtalkradio.com/deborahleeann/2016/10/26/wednesday-wisdom-radio-authentic-collaborationWed, 26 Oct 2016 18:00:00 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyWe women can be our own worst enemies.  What is it about women competing with each other?  (even when we know better?) Do you ever feel diminished by another's success?  Or feel a contraction when you see someone else doing the same thing (or a bit...
What is it about women competing with each other?  (even when we know better?)

Do you ever feel diminished by another's success?  Or feel a contraction when you see someone else doing the same thing (or a bit similar even or especially superior) to your business or program offering?

For so long, we have been pitted against each other, for beauty, yes, but even for brains, for roles in organizations or plays, for being the best ______________.  (you fill in the blank, is it Mother?  CFO?  Community Organizer?  Philanthropist?  Athlete?  Scholar?)

This is probably why concepts of CrossFit where you only compete with yourself while receiving support in a community is so popular.  It's becoming very common to see collaborations between different consultants and coaches and trainers as they can offer a blend of their work to appeal to a wider audience (or the same audience on a deeper level). 

We all get more when we combine our talents and gifts with another to create synergy.  And celebrate each other's talents and gifts.

Yet, with all the work and knowledge I have on collaborating versus competition, why do I still feel that cringe or punch in the gut when someone else is doing what I do, offering a workshop or program that sounds like mine or publishing the book I've got in my head?

It's all good.  There's a way to calm yourself (and mySelf) down and laught at it all.

It's the topic for today.  Tune in and give it a listen.  If it speaks to you, I'd love to hear your feedback.  If someone comes to mind that might like to hear it, please share.

Thanks for doing what you do.  There really is only one of you...own that and trust it.]]>1701authenticity,authenticleadershipacademy,deborahleeann,wedwisdomradio,womenleadersfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-wisdom-radio-authentic-messaging-dropping-the-shield--10334641
It's taken all my life to build it and perfect it and refine it to fit me perfectly.

Protection, as an unconscious behavior, is unfortunately, a necessary one at times. 

We women don't feel safe.  Most of the time.  When we do, our truest, most Authentic Self comes out to play.

You know, those weekend mornings after a great night of sleep (and maybe more!) creates the space for us to "let down our hair?"  Free from masks, protective barriers, constriction of busy schedules and a prerequisite role to fulfill?

I love those mornings...dancing, singing to myself, making and enjoying a leisurely breakfast and cup of tea/coffee...piddling around, cleaning up, digging in the garden.  And, the most amazing stuff comes through then. 

What if we create our most brilliant messaging, our most unique offering to the world, our most inspirational writing from this place?

This morning, while at an event for fellow entrepreneurs and experts, the messages were true, hit home, were delivered with heart and I got to "see" the person in a new light.  The stuff between our ears, the inner dialogue dominated by a loud Inner Critic, drowns out our Authentic Self.  We hear more often the voice telling us to "Be careful,"  "Don't say that! They'll think you're weird", or "don't know your stuff, or _________" (fill in the blank for yourself.)  

What if, our most real, Authentic Self got a chance to speak?  Can we even Hear Her?

Let's play in the space where our Authentic Self speaks today.  Yes, I know, it's not the weekend, but we can pretend, right? ]]>http://www.blogtalkradio.com/deborahleeann/2016/10/19/wednesday-wisdom-radio-authentic-messaging-dropping-the-shieldWed, 19 Oct 2016 17:30:00 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyDrop my Shield? It's taken all my life to build it and perfect it and refine it to fit me perfectly. Protection, as an unconscious behavior, is unfortunately, a necessary one at times.  We women don't feel safe.  Most of the time.  When we do, our...
It's taken all my life to build it and perfect it and refine it to fit me perfectly.

Protection, as an unconscious behavior, is unfortunately, a necessary one at times. 

We women don't feel safe.  Most of the time.  When we do, our truest, most Authentic Self comes out to play.

You know, those weekend mornings after a great night of sleep (and maybe more!) creates the space for us to "let down our hair?"  Free from masks, protective barriers, constriction of busy schedules and a prerequisite role to fulfill?

I love those mornings...dancing, singing to myself, making and enjoying a leisurely breakfast and cup of tea/coffee...piddling around, cleaning up, digging in the garden.  And, the most amazing stuff comes through then. 

What if we create our most brilliant messaging, our most unique offering to the world, our most inspirational writing from this place?

This morning, while at an event for fellow entrepreneurs and experts, the messages were true, hit home, were delivered with heart and I got to "see" the person in a new light.  The stuff between our ears, the inner dialogue dominated by a loud Inner Critic, drowns out our Authentic Self.  We hear more often the voice telling us to "Be careful,"  "Don't say that! They'll think you're weird", or "don't know your stuff, or _________" (fill in the blank for yourself.)  

What if, our most real, Authentic Self got a chance to speak?  Can we even Hear Her?

Let's play in the space where our Authentic Self speaks today.  Yes, I know, it's not the weekend, but we can pretend, right? ]]>1525authenticleadership,authenticself,deborahleeann,wedwisdomradio,womensleadershipfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-wisdom-radio-authenticity-no-hiding--10334643
And, it used to serve me but not so much anymore.

You see, Hiding is not only being a wallflower (or a lurker) or making safe statements so your voice gets lost in the "noise," it's not takingany risks. It's not showing up.  Not being Real, Not telling the truth...my truth.

Why do we strive so hard to fit in?  To not "rock the boat" or to be afraid to speak what's really going on?

Remember the children's tale of The Emperor's New Clothes?  In it, the Emperor was tricked into believing he was wearing clothes made of an invisible cloth only able to be seen by those who were smart and fit for their position. 

How often do we see the truth of something or know the answer to a problem or have a great idea to share, yet hold back...fearing speaking up and speaking out? 

It's time, my lovely listeners.  We are needed to speak up.  Be Seen, Heard, Valued.  But only from our Authentic, Grace-filled Truth.

 ]]>http://www.blogtalkradio.com/deborahleeann/2016/10/12/wednesday-wisdom-radio-authenticity-no-hidingWed, 12 Oct 2016 18:00:00 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyI've been hiding.  Even with being online, recording a podcast, and doing live interviews with exceptional women leaders. And, it used to serve me but not so much anymore. You see, Hiding is not only being a wallflower (or a lurker) or making safe...
And, it used to serve me but not so much anymore.

You see, Hiding is not only being a wallflower (or a lurker) or making safe statements so your voice gets lost in the "noise," it's not takingany risks. It's not showing up.  Not being Real, Not telling the truth...my truth.

Why do we strive so hard to fit in?  To not "rock the boat" or to be afraid to speak what's really going on?

Remember the children's tale of The Emperor's New Clothes?  In it, the Emperor was tricked into believing he was wearing clothes made of an invisible cloth only able to be seen by those who were smart and fit for their position. 

How often do we see the truth of something or know the answer to a problem or have a great idea to share, yet hold back...fearing speaking up and speaking out? 

It's time, my lovely listeners.  We are needed to speak up.  Be Seen, Heard, Valued.  But only from our Authentic, Grace-filled Truth.

 ]]>1724authenticity,authenticleadershipacademy,nomorehiding,wedwisdomradio,womenleadersfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-wisdom-radio-october-opening-and-deepening-into-authenticity--10334644
Protecting? 

People-pleasing, telling half-truths to yourself and others.  OR...Overly complying???

We have been trained and molded into being such "Good Girls." And, isn't it interesting that the girls who are making waves in our community, nation and world, are anything but Good?

They are not afraid to speak up.  Speak out.  Wear different clothes, or different hairstyles.  They SHOW UP, in a way that can not be denied.  And, sometimes we are in awe.  Or envious.  But we can't ignore them they are creating wakes wherever they go. 

And, a part of us yearns for a wider reach, or bigger scope of influence.  Yet, are we prepared to move outside of the Comfort Zone?  To create a bigger version of ourselves by sharing a bigger vision, a controversial view, or an unconventional solution to an issue?

I've been responding to everyone else's requests of me for a long time.  Now that Motherhood, Partnership and Corporate employment are not defining me, who am I?  The more I deepen in, listening and allowing my truth to come forward, the more I am falling deeper into Love, Self-Acceptance and an IMPLICIT Trust of who I am and what my purpose is.  It's like a gut-rehab of an old house...and seeing the beautiful results that are emerging is So. Very. Exciting.

Let's dive in, deepen in, open up and discover with some practices you can use too, to get more clear on who you are in these ever-increasing times of Volatility, Uncertainty, Chaos and Ambiguity. 

There's Beauty, Authenticity and Grace on the other side.  All components that feed our Authentic Life and Authentic Leadership.]]>http://www.blogtalkradio.com/deborahleeann/2016/10/05/wednesday-wisdom-radio-october-opening-and-deepening-into-authenticityWed, 05 Oct 2016 17:30:00 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyWhere are you hiding?  Protecting?  People-pleasing, telling half-truths to yourself and others.  OR...Overly complying??? We have been trained and molded into being such "Good Girls." And, isn't it interesting that the girls who are making waves...
Protecting? 

People-pleasing, telling half-truths to yourself and others.  OR...Overly complying???

We have been trained and molded into being such "Good Girls." And, isn't it interesting that the girls who are making waves in our community, nation and world, are anything but Good?

They are not afraid to speak up.  Speak out.  Wear different clothes, or different hairstyles.  They SHOW UP, in a way that can not be denied.  And, sometimes we are in awe.  Or envious.  But we can't ignore them they are creating wakes wherever they go. 

And, a part of us yearns for a wider reach, or bigger scope of influence.  Yet, are we prepared to move outside of the Comfort Zone?  To create a bigger version of ourselves by sharing a bigger vision, a controversial view, or an unconventional solution to an issue?

I've been responding to everyone else's requests of me for a long time.  Now that Motherhood, Partnership and Corporate employment are not defining me, who am I?  The more I deepen in, listening and allowing my truth to come forward, the more I am falling deeper into Love, Self-Acceptance and an IMPLICIT Trust of who I am and what my purpose is.  It's like a gut-rehab of an old house...and seeing the beautiful results that are emerging is So. Very. Exciting.

Let's dive in, deepen in, open up and discover with some practices you can use too, to get more clear on who you are in these ever-increasing times of Volatility, Uncertainty, Chaos and Ambiguity. 

There's Beauty, Authenticity and Grace on the other side.  All components that feed our Authentic Life and Authentic Leadership.]]>1614authenticleadershipacademy,authenticlife,deborahleeann,opening,wedwisdomradiofalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-wisdom-radio-savoring-leads-to-joy--10334752
Here's a Radical thought... Slowing down to actually feel what's going on? 

We tend to gloss over things, skim over reading, scan emails, barely noticing the glow of other beings, the radiance in nature, the taste of our food, the feel of the material on our bodies...even the solidness of the ground beneath us.

And we wonder why we are always wanting for something more.

There's this itch to get away on vacation.  Run away to experience something other than our Life.

My musings this morning brought up another concept.  The beauty of my life RIGHT NOW. 

Yep, it's amazing, when I sit in meditation or with a cup of tea, or just stare out the window and breathe, how I realize how absolutely perfect my ife is in this moment. 

If we have all these sensations as Human Be-ings, why don't we enjoy them?  Feel deeply, sense often, bask in the sun or wind on our face, or the water streaming over us in the shower. 

While having a facial yesterday I was almost in tears at the decadence of the sensations.  Even during an acupuncture session on Monday, where I was to lie still for an hour, brought to mind how glorious it is being the steward of this body.  Even when there's pain.  It's my body's language asking me to pay attention.  Which brings about the steps to healing.  Which brings us full circle to our Essence.  Joy.

Joy, let's savor it.  And anything else that we're feeling, get ourSelves immersed in it.  It all leads us back to Joy.]]>http://www.blogtalkradio.com/deborahleeann/2016/09/28/wednesday-wisdom-radio-savoring-leads-to-joyWed, 28 Sep 2016 19:00:00 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyMindfullness is a practice yes, but can we make it a lifestyle?  Here's a Radical thought... Slowing down to actually feel what's going on?  We tend to gloss over things, skim over reading, scan emails, barely noticing the glow of other beings, the...
Here's a Radical thought... Slowing down to actually feel what's going on? 

We tend to gloss over things, skim over reading, scan emails, barely noticing the glow of other beings, the radiance in nature, the taste of our food, the feel of the material on our bodies...even the solidness of the ground beneath us.

And we wonder why we are always wanting for something more.

There's this itch to get away on vacation.  Run away to experience something other than our Life.

My musings this morning brought up another concept.  The beauty of my life RIGHT NOW. 

Yep, it's amazing, when I sit in meditation or with a cup of tea, or just stare out the window and breathe, how I realize how absolutely perfect my ife is in this moment. 

If we have all these sensations as Human Be-ings, why don't we enjoy them?  Feel deeply, sense often, bask in the sun or wind on our face, or the water streaming over us in the shower. 

While having a facial yesterday I was almost in tears at the decadence of the sensations.  Even during an acupuncture session on Monday, where I was to lie still for an hour, brought to mind how glorious it is being the steward of this body.  Even when there's pain.  It's my body's language asking me to pay attention.  Which brings about the steps to healing.  Which brings us full circle to our Essence.  Joy.

Joy, let's savor it.  And anything else that we're feeling, get ourSelves immersed in it.  It all leads us back to Joy.]]>1619authenticleadershipacademy,authenticlife,deborahleeann,savoringseptember,wedwisdomradiofalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-wisdom-radio-savoring-beauty-in-all-its-forms--10334646
We are inundated by media's definition of Beauty. 

We turn to what's familiar and cultur's idea of Beauty ...versus seeking out the bizarre, different, odd, or strange.

We are trained early to see beauty, especially in women, as being small, young, sweet, sexy and similar.  Similar?  Yes, to what we know, what we are comfortable with.  What we've grown up seeing or being told is beautiful.  Each culture has its own Beauty standards.  So, finding something (or being someone) other that what we were trained to believe is "beautiful", makes us feel different from our family, friends, society...Think about all the "beautiful people" on the covers of magazines, on Facebook or Instagram feeds, or TV.

So, how can we feel Beautiful?  Truly in love with our looks as well as our Shining Hearts & Souls?  AND, be Unique.  Standing out in our Brilliance? 

Authentic Beauty is standing in our Fullness, our Wholeness, in our Powerful Body, while unapologetically sharing our intellectual and intuitive creative selves with the world.  It's knowing, deep down, that we are Enough.  Perfectly imperfect and gorgeous, just by BE-ing Real.  It's caring so much for our inner and outer self that our Radiance glows...we are vibrant, magnetic, attractive and fully Sovereign.  We don't need anyone else or anything else to make us Whole.

Let's dive in.  This is a big one for many of us Women.  And, an important part of becoming an Authentic Leader, A Woman of Presence, A Woman of Substance.

How do you feel about your appearance?  Connect with me for two quick tips to Become more magnetic immediately, so you can lead with Authenticity, Grace & Power!

 ]]>http://www.blogtalkradio.com/deborahleeann/2016/09/21/wednesday-wisdom-radio-savoring-beauty--in-all-its-formsWed, 21 Sep 2016 20:30:00 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyWe love Beauty.  We are inundated by media's definition of Beauty.  We turn to what's familiar and cultur's idea of Beauty ...versus seeking out the bizarre, different, odd, or strange. We are trained early to see beauty, especially in women, as...
We are inundated by media's definition of Beauty. 

We turn to what's familiar and cultur's idea of Beauty ...versus seeking out the bizarre, different, odd, or strange.

We are trained early to see beauty, especially in women, as being small, young, sweet, sexy and similar.  Similar?  Yes, to what we know, what we are comfortable with.  What we've grown up seeing or being told is beautiful.  Each culture has its own Beauty standards.  So, finding something (or being someone) other that what we were trained to believe is "beautiful", makes us feel different from our family, friends, society...Think about all the "beautiful people" on the covers of magazines, on Facebook or Instagram feeds, or TV.

So, how can we feel Beautiful?  Truly in love with our looks as well as our Shining Hearts & Souls?  AND, be Unique.  Standing out in our Brilliance? 

Authentic Beauty is standing in our Fullness, our Wholeness, in our Powerful Body, while unapologetically sharing our intellectual and intuitive creative selves with the world.  It's knowing, deep down, that we are Enough.  Perfectly imperfect and gorgeous, just by BE-ing Real.  It's caring so much for our inner and outer self that our Radiance glows...we are vibrant, magnetic, attractive and fully Sovereign.  We don't need anyone else or anything else to make us Whole.

Let's dive in.  This is a big one for many of us Women.  And, an important part of becoming an Authentic Leader, A Woman of Presence, A Woman of Substance.

How do you feel about your appearance?  Connect with me for two quick tips to Become more magnetic immediately, so you can lead with Authenticity, Grace & Power!

 ]]>1720authenticbeauty,authenticleadershipacademy,deborahleeann,wedwisdomradio,womenleadersfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-wisdom-radio-savoring-september-authentically-slowing-down--10334753
How do you savor? 

The definitions that resonated with me were:

1. To taste or smell, especially with pleasure: savored each morsel of the feast.

2. To appreciate fully; enjoy or relish:

Savoring feels appropriate for this lovely month as the weather is perfect, the food is plentiful, the days are a bit shorter and we head into the final months of the year.

Slowing down is not what I used to do in September.  The calendar is full, the days flying by as we head towards the holidays and end of the year.

Yet, even though I'm not heading back to school, and my daughters are away with less activities requiring my presence, the pressure to move faster and to get a lot done is palpable!

How about you?

Are you pushing to get all of your To-Do's, Commitments, Goals and Planning completed in your personal or professional life?  ( I get it, as my year will end even sooner since I'm taking off the final 2 weeks of the year for vacation and play...)

Let's see what arises as we s l o w down...retreat if you will, take a look around, and savor these days.  I'm guessing it will be worth every effort to rearrange some things off the calendar and take time to recharge!

Need help with clearing your calendar?  To give yourself permission to Slow Down and Savor??? Connect with me and let's talk.  Have you booked your complimentary session with me yet?]]>http://www.blogtalkradio.com/deborahleeann/2016/09/14/wednesday-wisdom-radio-savoring-septemberauthentically-slowing-downWed, 14 Sep 2016 17:30:00 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyTo Savor...slowing down to enjoy, appreciate, feel pleasure, receive a deep breath. How do you savor?  The definitions that resonated with me were: 1. To taste or smell, especially with pleasure: savored each morsel of the feast. 2. To...
How do you savor? 

The definitions that resonated with me were:

1. To taste or smell, especially with pleasure: savored each morsel of the feast.

2. To appreciate fully; enjoy or relish:

Savoring feels appropriate for this lovely month as the weather is perfect, the food is plentiful, the days are a bit shorter and we head into the final months of the year.

Slowing down is not what I used to do in September.  The calendar is full, the days flying by as we head towards the holidays and end of the year.

Yet, even though I'm not heading back to school, and my daughters are away with less activities requiring my presence, the pressure to move faster and to get a lot done is palpable!

How about you?

Are you pushing to get all of your To-Do's, Commitments, Goals and Planning completed in your personal or professional life?  ( I get it, as my year will end even sooner since I'm taking off the final 2 weeks of the year for vacation and play...)

Let's see what arises as we s l o w down...retreat if you will, take a look around, and savor these days.  I'm guessing it will be worth every effort to rearrange some things off the calendar and take time to recharge!

Need help with clearing your calendar?  To give yourself permission to Slow Down and Savor??? Connect with me and let's talk.  Have you booked your complimentary session with me yet?]]>1588authenticleadershipacademy,deborahleeann,savoringseptember,slowdown&savor,wedwisdomradiofalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-wisdom-radio-can-i-be-authentic-and-amazing--10334750
For me, it took years (decades) of learning Who I Really Am through falling into emotional depths and feeling my way to my Truth.

How about being Authentic and True AND being at our most Radiant, Brilliant and Creative? Our AMAZING Self?

A challenge I was handed recently while attending Authentic Speakers Academy (sound familiar?) was to "Show Everyone How AMAZING I am." 

Yikes!

The other challenges I agreed to were not easy, but seemed do-able, for me.  This one?  Not. So. Much.

Especially as my topic was Authenticity. 

I'll share this story and let's play with this topic more.  AND, add it to our #ArtOfReceivingChallenge. 

Are you in????]]>http://www.blogtalkradio.com/deborahleeann/2016/09/07/wednesday-wisdom-radio-can-i-be-authentic-and-amazingWed, 07 Sep 2016 17:30:00 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyBeing Authentic doesn't have to look and feel messy, raw and scary, does it?  For me, it took years (decades) of learning Who I Really Am through falling into emotional depths and feeling my way to my Truth. How about being Authentic and True AND...
For me, it took years (decades) of learning Who I Really Am through falling into emotional depths and feeling my way to my Truth.

How about being Authentic and True AND being at our most Radiant, Brilliant and Creative? Our AMAZING Self?

A challenge I was handed recently while attending Authentic Speakers Academy (sound familiar?) was to "Show Everyone How AMAZING I am." 

Yikes!

The other challenges I agreed to were not easy, but seemed do-able, for me.  This one?  Not. So. Much.

Especially as my topic was Authenticity. 

I'll share this story and let's play with this topic more.  AND, add it to our #ArtOfReceivingChallenge. 

Are you in????]]>1578deborahleeann,theinnergame,wedwisdomradio,womanleadershipadvantage,womensleadershipfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-wisdom-radio-authenticity-in-asking-for-what-we-want-then-receiving--10334754
I get it.  And, maybe because we're tired of the IN-Authenticity of our culture.  Our politics.  Our own life, perhaps?

When looking at how to announce the new program/offering #AuthenticLeadershipAcademy, I had problems finding the new URL I wanted.  There's even a new coaching program for Authentic Leadership being offered somewhere. 

The constant course correction to stay in Authenticty is based in Awareness.  Intention. And Asking.  Tuning into our Authentic Desire (see last week's podcast) and then, Authentically Asking for What We Want. 

And, the more I dive into being Authentic, the more I realize it's a CONSTANT Authenticity Authenticity isn't something we "Do"...It's about diving in and Being Who We Really Are. And, knowing that we aren't here to do it all ourselves, we ask for what we want, need and desire. This is not easy for many of us powerful and independent women.

Today at a workshop with some amazing NonProfit Leaders and ChangeMakers, we talked about Vision, Voice and Value. And how we are truly tied to what we are here to do.  It shows up in how we lead our lives, our organizations, our families, our communities.  And, it all come from Being Authentic.  Fully in our Power.  And, Fully OPEN to Receive.

Authenticity isn't something we "Do"...It's about diving in and Being Who We Really Are. Then asking.  For what we want.

Authenticity leads to Asking for What We Want.  And, then Authentically RECEIVING. 

Join the Authentic Receiving Challenge with us on Facebook! http://bit.ly/ArtofReceiving]]>http://www.blogtalkradio.com/deborahleeann/2016/08/31/wednesday-wisdom-radio-authenticity-in-asking-for-what-we-want-then-receivingWed, 31 Aug 2016 20:00:00 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyIt's the buzz now...all the rage.  Authentic This, Authentic That.  I get it.  And, maybe because we're tired of the IN-Authenticity of our culture.  Our politics.  Our own life, perhaps? When looking at how to announce the new program/offering...
I get it.  And, maybe because we're tired of the IN-Authenticity of our culture.  Our politics.  Our own life, perhaps?

When looking at how to announce the new program/offering #AuthenticLeadershipAcademy, I had problems finding the new URL I wanted.  There's even a new coaching program for Authentic Leadership being offered somewhere. 

The constant course correction to stay in Authenticty is based in Awareness.  Intention. And Asking.  Tuning into our Authentic Desire (see last week's podcast) and then, Authentically Asking for What We Want. 

And, the more I dive into being Authentic, the more I realize it's a CONSTANT Authenticity Authenticity isn't something we "Do"...It's about diving in and Being Who We Really Are. And, knowing that we aren't here to do it all ourselves, we ask for what we want, need and desire. This is not easy for many of us powerful and independent women.

Today at a workshop with some amazing NonProfit Leaders and ChangeMakers, we talked about Vision, Voice and Value. And how we are truly tied to what we are here to do.  It shows up in how we lead our lives, our organizations, our families, our communities.  And, it all come from Being Authentic.  Fully in our Power.  And, Fully OPEN to Receive.

Authenticity isn't something we "Do"...It's about diving in and Being Who We Really Are. Then asking.  For what we want.

Authenticity leads to Asking for What We Want.  And, then Authentically RECEIVING. 

Join the Authentic Receiving Challenge with us on Facebook! http://bit.ly/ArtofReceiving]]>1493authenticity,changemakers,deborahleeann,nonprofitleaders,wedwisdomradiofalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-wisdom-radio-authenticity-includes-desire-whimsey-and-joy--10334751
Does it truly light your heart and soul on FIRE? 

This path of Authenticity has taken me deep within - where each time I'm in a business coaching session or a healing session or an energy session, when I am asked "What is your Heart's Desire?"  I panic.

My first several answers are what my mind wants.  What my body/physical self wants.  What my ego-self says I'm only allowed to want...because that is Do-Able.  Realistic.  Safe.

Playing it safe isn't the creative, conscious and amazing life I want to live any more.  It's part of the reason why I've been playing so small.  And mostly unfulfilled. 

So - here I go, diving deep into Desire.  Feeling into the whimsey (not a mind thing) and wonder of what else is possible? What do I really want?  And letting that fire me up.  It's been more fun than I could have imagined.

Join me!  Find your own Heart's Desire, or book a session with me to tap into it.  Often we can fool ourselves.  But having another hold space and give you permission to really go deep?  That's AMAZING.  Life-changing.  And Oh. So. Needed. 

Wonder where we would be as a community, nation, world, if more of us were following our Heart's Desire?]]>http://www.blogtalkradio.com/deborahleeann/2016/08/24/wednesday-wisdom-radio-authenticity-includes-desire-whimsey-and-joyWed, 24 Aug 2016 18:30:00 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyWho are you?  What do you want to create in the world?  How much do you want it? Does it truly light your heart and soul on FIRE?  This path of Authenticity has taken me deep within - where each time I'm in a business coaching session or a healing...
Does it truly light your heart and soul on FIRE? 

This path of Authenticity has taken me deep within - where each time I'm in a business coaching session or a healing session or an energy session, when I am asked "What is your Heart's Desire?"  I panic.

My first several answers are what my mind wants.  What my body/physical self wants.  What my ego-self says I'm only allowed to want...because that is Do-Able.  Realistic.  Safe.

Playing it safe isn't the creative, conscious and amazing life I want to live any more.  It's part of the reason why I've been playing so small.  And mostly unfulfilled. 

So - here I go, diving deep into Desire.  Feeling into the whimsey (not a mind thing) and wonder of what else is possible? What do I really want?  And letting that fire me up.  It's been more fun than I could have imagined.

Join me!  Find your own Heart's Desire, or book a session with me to tap into it.  Often we can fool ourselves.  But having another hold space and give you permission to really go deep?  That's AMAZING.  Life-changing.  And Oh. So. Needed. 

Wonder where we would be as a community, nation, world, if more of us were following our Heart's Desire?]]>1439authenticaugust,authenticity,authenticleadershipacademy,deborahleeann,wedwisdomradiofalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-wisdom-radio-leading-with-authenticity--9171570
Whether you like it or not, you are a leader...of your business, your team, your project, your art, your family, in your community, and of your body's choices.

For a long time, we led with our brains and skills, right?

Authenticity, the new buzz word, is turning that upside-down.

So, why is Authenticity important? I thought for decades that just showing how smart I was, how competent I was and how well people liked me was important. But being Real? Showing up in full integrity, speaking my truth, giving HONEST feedback (not the flowery kind that dances around the Truth) and keeping the systems flowing with no hiccups, while following the rules and policies, was what I was expected and paid to do.

Guess what? That world is no longer. The seamless, perfect, easy, and status-quo rarely works in this environment of change, volatility, ambiguity and uncertainty.

What does? How do we increase Authenticity without going overboard with emotions or inappropriateness? Where is the line? Is there one?

Join in, listen to my take and then let's have a conversation. This is shifting ground under our feet, yet there is one thing I know for certain - There is NO Going Back!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/9171570Thu, 11 Aug 2016 16:44:17 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyLeadership. Yes, this applies to you, no matter what your “title.” Whether you like it or not, you are a leader...of your business, your team, your project, your art, your family, in your community, and of your body's choices. For a long time, we...
Whether you like it or not, you are a leader...of your business, your team, your project, your art, your family, in your community, and of your body's choices.

For a long time, we led with our brains and skills, right?

Authenticity, the new buzz word, is turning that upside-down.

So, why is Authenticity important? I thought for decades that just showing how smart I was, how competent I was and how well people liked me was important. But being Real? Showing up in full integrity, speaking my truth, giving HONEST feedback (not the flowery kind that dances around the Truth) and keeping the systems flowing with no hiccups, while following the rules and policies, was what I was expected and paid to do.

Guess what? That world is no longer. The seamless, perfect, easy, and status-quo rarely works in this environment of change, volatility, ambiguity and uncertainty.

What does? How do we increase Authenticity without going overboard with emotions or inappropriateness? Where is the line? Is there one?

Join in, listen to my take and then let's have a conversation. This is shifting ground under our feet, yet there is one thing I know for certain - There is NO Going Back!]]>1360authenticity,authenticleadership,deborahleeann,wedwisdomradio,womensleadershipfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wednesday-wisdom-radio-balance-self-care-during-chaos--7911008
March, for many of us, is a month marked with the beginnings of Spring flowers showing themselves, Spring breaks for students, "Springing forward" into Daylight Savings Time and the Spring Equinox.

This also is a time that when we feel very much like balancing of our systems too. As the days get longer, or we prepare to be in our summer clothing, many begin new detox and cleansing programs. Or, start a running or walking regime. Our food intake may be more greens as they grow abundantly now and less of the starchy root veggies and squash that got us through the summer. That's all good.

And, it's a great time to look within. Now, more than ever, is the time to up our game around Self-Care. Not just physical forms of nourishment and movement, but inner spring cleaning as well! What no longer serves? What old beliefs can be released now to make room for the Newer Updated Version of You? Time spent unplugged, listening to our Inner Wise Woman, opening to what messages and inspired actions are being asked of us.

This is a new time. A new world. An interconnected global system that appears chaotic and unorganized and, in some ways, falling apart. And we are poised to be the ones who are holding space. We are exactly where we need to be. Stay in touch with your inner re-Sources. Stay connected to your human and nonhuman guides. It's quiet in there and All. Is. Well.

I'm ready to enter a new chapter of my life this month too, ... marrying the Art & Science of Women's Wisdom with Women's Leadership. Sentient, Sensual and Spriitual Leadership...hmmm, like the sound of that! We need each of us to up our game, ready?]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/7911008Wed, 02 Mar 2016 18:42:20 +0000Deborah LeeAnn MorleyBeing in a new place is a great time to look at how we react to change and chaos and store up our inner resources. I'm currently in Washington DC area for a Leadership Circle Profile Training and certification. Wow! March, for many of us, is a...
March, for many of us, is a month marked with the beginnings of Spring flowers showing themselves, Spring breaks for students, "Springing forward" into Daylight Savings Time and the Spring Equinox.

This also is a time that when we feel very much like balancing of our systems too. As the days get longer, or we prepare to be in our summer clothing, many begin new detox and cleansing programs. Or, start a running or walking regime. Our food intake may be more greens as they grow abundantly now and less of the starchy root veggies and squash that got us through the summer. That's all good.

And, it's a great time to look within. Now, more than ever, is the time to up our game around Self-Care. Not just physical forms of nourishment and movement, but inner spring cleaning as well! What no longer serves? What old beliefs can be released now to make room for the Newer Updated Version of You? Time spent unplugged, listening to our Inner Wise Woman, opening to what messages and inspired actions are being asked of us.

This is a new time. A new world. An interconnected global system that appears chaotic and unorganized and, in some ways, falling apart. And we are poised to be the ones who are holding space. We are exactly where we need to be. Stay in touch with your inner re-Sources. Stay connected to your human and nonhuman guides. It's quiet in there and All. Is. Well.

I'm ready to enter a new chapter of my life this month too, ... marrying the Art & Science of Women's Wisdom with Women's Leadership. Sentient, Sensual and Spriitual Leadership...hmmm, like the sound of that! We need each of us to up our game, ready?]]>801deborahleeann,selfcare,springequinox,wedwisdomradio,womensleadershipcatalystfalsefull