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https://www.scienceabc.com/pure-sciences/what-is-murphys-law....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you struggle to find the perfect gift, this edition of <i>Doing What Works </i>is a present for you!<br /><br />Here are your show notes…<br /><br /><a href="https://www.scienceabc.com/pure-sciences/what-is-murphys-law" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">If you keep anything long enough you can throw it away</a>.<br /><br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Clutter-Busting-Letting-Whats-Holding/dp/1577316592" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Brooks Palmer suggests moving clutter to another room to see it for what it is, clutter)</a>. <a href="https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/clutter-busting-your-life-brooks-palmer/1110780810" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">That applies to relationships, too</a>.<br /><br /><a href="https://www.huffpost.com/entry/valentines-day-gifts_b_2538837" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Why my husband and I won’t be exchanging gifts on Valentine’s Day</a>.<br /><br /><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/9880040-love-is-the-quality-of-attention-we-pay-to-things" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Love is the quality of attention we pay to things</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2391</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/eb2aa3ebf53b8ab3b0bf3e053ff0aba7.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>What makes for a balanced relationship?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-makes-for-a-balanced-relationship--72750902</link><description><![CDATA[If you’re putting more into a relationship than you’re getting back, you might love this edition of <i>Doing What Works</i>.<br /><br />Here are your show notes…<br /><br /><a href="https://americanliterature.com/author/wh-auden/poem/the-more-loving-one" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">If equal affection cannot be, let the more loving one be me</a>.<br /><br /><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hanlon%27s_razor" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity</a>.<br /><i></i><br /><a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1001508/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><i>He’s Just Not That Into You</i></a>.<br /><br /><a href="https://www.gottman.com/blog/turn-toward-instead-of-away/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Do you respond to bids for connection</a>?]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72750902</guid><pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2026 03:03:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72750902/dww062026podcast.mp3" length="38244638" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Doing What Works</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you’re putting more into a relationship than you’re getting back, you might love this edition of Doing What Works.

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https://americanliterature.com/author/wh-auden/poem/the-more-loving-one....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you’re putting more into a relationship than you’re getting back, you might love this edition of <i>Doing What Works</i>.<br /><br />Here are your show notes…<br /><br /><a href="https://americanliterature.com/author/wh-auden/poem/the-more-loving-one" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">If equal affection cannot be, let the more loving one be me</a>.<br /><br /><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hanlon%27s_razor" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity</a>.<br /><i></i><br /><a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1001508/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><i>He’s Just Not That Into You</i></a>.<br /><br /><a href="https://www.gottman.com/blog/turn-toward-instead-of-away/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Do you respond to bids for connection</a>?]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2391</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/eb2aa3ebf53b8ab3b0bf3e053ff0aba7.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How do you keep childhood dreams alive?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-do-you-keep-childhood-dreams-alive--72640528</link><description><![CDATA[When Katie was little she wanted to be a glassblower. Whatever happened to that dream? We can’t wait to give you an update in this edition of <i>Doing What Works</i>.<br /><br />Here are your show notes…<br /><br /><a href="https://home.cmog.org/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Corning Museum of Glass</a>.<br /><i></i><br /><a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt9908860/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><i>Blown Away</i></a> was a reality show about glassblowing.<br /><br /><a href="https://www.azquotes.com/author/10566-Walter_Murch" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Your chances for happiness are increased if you wind up doing something that is a reflection of what you loved most when you were somewhere between nine and eleven years old</a>.<br /><br />Katie’s artwork is a wonderful way of, as <a href="https://lifesighs.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Chris Shea</a> puts it, escorting my words off the page.<br /><br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dM4Tv3gWmkI" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Michael Bryant</a> is a career coach.<br /><br />The poet <a href="https://taylormali.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Taylor Mali</a> suggests you not worry about people who shame you for a college major with, “What are you going to do with that?”<br /><i></i><br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Joyful-Surprising-Ordinary-Extraordinary-Happiness/dp/0316399272/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?sr=8-3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><i>Joyful: The Surprising Power of Ordinary Things to Create Extraordinary Happiness</i></a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72640528</guid><pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2026 23:36:35 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72640528/dww061326podcast.mp3" length="38243802" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Doing What Works</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>When Katie was little she wanted to be a glassblower. Whatever happened to that dream? We can’t wait to give you an update in this edition of Doing What Works.

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https://home.cmog.org/.

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt9908860/...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[When Katie was little she wanted to be a glassblower. Whatever happened to that dream? We can’t wait to give you an update in this edition of <i>Doing What Works</i>.<br /><br />Here are your show notes…<br /><br /><a href="https://home.cmog.org/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Corning Museum of Glass</a>.<br /><i></i><br /><a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt9908860/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><i>Blown Away</i></a> was a reality show about glassblowing.<br /><br /><a href="https://www.azquotes.com/author/10566-Walter_Murch" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Your chances for happiness are increased if you wind up doing something that is a reflection of what you loved most when you were somewhere between nine and eleven years old</a>.<br /><br />Katie’s artwork is a wonderful way of, as <a href="https://lifesighs.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Chris Shea</a> puts it, escorting my words off the page.<br /><br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dM4Tv3gWmkI" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Michael Bryant</a> is a career coach.<br /><br />The poet <a href="https://taylormali.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Taylor Mali</a> suggests you not worry about people who shame you for a college major with, “What are you going to do with that?”<br /><i></i><br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Joyful-Surprising-Ordinary-Extraordinary-Happiness/dp/0316399272/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?sr=8-3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><i>Joyful: The Surprising Power of Ordinary Things to Create Extraordinary Happiness</i></a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2390</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/eb2aa3ebf53b8ab3b0bf3e053ff0aba7.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How can an old dog teach you new tricks?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-can-an-old-dog-teach-you-new-tricks--72541954</link><description><![CDATA[Katie exudes joy, but even she was no match for the dog entrusted to her care for a week. We hope you enjoy the canine (and encore!) edition of <i>Doing What Works</i>!<br /><br />Here are your show notes…<br /><br />Watching <a href="https://maureenanderson.us4.list-manage.com/track/click?u=72e986237378ea403672b6e53&amp;id=9e17fb8eec&amp;e=768653f7cd" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><i>Marley &amp; Me</i></a> for the first time, with friends, left a bad taste in Katie’s mouth.<br /><br />A <a href="https://maureenanderson.us4.list-manage.com/track/click?u=72e986237378ea403672b6e53&amp;id=c9b31e80b3&amp;e=768653f7cd" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Tamagotchi</a> is as close as caring for a pet as she got when she was little.<br /><br /><a href="https://maureenanderson.us4.list-manage.com/track/click?u=72e986237378ea403672b6e53&amp;id=436ce914e3&amp;e=768653f7cd" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Peek-a-boo teaches a child that whoever just disappeared will come back</a>.<br /><br /><a href="https://maureenanderson.us4.list-manage.com/track/click?u=72e986237378ea403672b6e53&amp;id=e6841c5bdd&amp;e=768653f7cd" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">If you get the first three years right with a child you’re probably set</a>.<br /><br /><a href="https://maureenanderson.us4.list-manage.com/track/click?u=72e986237378ea403672b6e53&amp;id=b90e61448b&amp;e=768653f7cd" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Dogs <i>can</i> smell fear</a>!<br /><br /><a href="https://maureenanderson.us4.list-manage.com/track/click?u=72e986237378ea403672b6e53&amp;id=f9cd51bfd4&amp;e=768653f7cd" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Notice I’m tensing up, decide that can’t be good, tense up even more</a>.<br /><br />Much of what Maureen knows about dogs came from <a href="https://maureenanderson.us4.list-manage.com/track/click?u=72e986237378ea403672b6e53&amp;id=28e6a5cb42&amp;e=768653f7cd" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><i>City Slickers</i></a>.<br /><br /><a href="https://maureenanderson.us4.list-manage.com/track/click?u=72e986237378ea403672b6e53&amp;id=886f777c61&amp;e=768653f7cd" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">George Carlin likes people on a case-by-case basis</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72541954</guid><pubDate>Mon, 15 Jun 2026 23:22:22 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72541954/dww060626podcast.mp3" length="38244638" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Doing What Works</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Katie exudes joy, but even she was no match for the dog entrusted to her care for a week. We hope you enjoy the canine (and encore!) edition of Doing What Works!

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Watching...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Katie exudes joy, but even she was no match for the dog entrusted to her care for a week. We hope you enjoy the canine (and encore!) edition of <i>Doing What Works</i>!<br /><br />Here are your show notes…<br /><br />Watching <a href="https://maureenanderson.us4.list-manage.com/track/click?u=72e986237378ea403672b6e53&amp;id=9e17fb8eec&amp;e=768653f7cd" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><i>Marley &amp; Me</i></a> for the first time, with friends, left a bad taste in Katie’s mouth.<br /><br />A <a href="https://maureenanderson.us4.list-manage.com/track/click?u=72e986237378ea403672b6e53&amp;id=c9b31e80b3&amp;e=768653f7cd" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Tamagotchi</a> is as close as caring for a pet as she got when she was little.<br /><br /><a href="https://maureenanderson.us4.list-manage.com/track/click?u=72e986237378ea403672b6e53&amp;id=436ce914e3&amp;e=768653f7cd" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Peek-a-boo teaches a child that whoever just disappeared will come back</a>.<br /><br /><a href="https://maureenanderson.us4.list-manage.com/track/click?u=72e986237378ea403672b6e53&amp;id=e6841c5bdd&amp;e=768653f7cd" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">If you get the first three years right with a child you’re probably set</a>.<br /><br /><a href="https://maureenanderson.us4.list-manage.com/track/click?u=72e986237378ea403672b6e53&amp;id=b90e61448b&amp;e=768653f7cd" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Dogs <i>can</i> smell fear</a>!<br /><br /><a href="https://maureenanderson.us4.list-manage.com/track/click?u=72e986237378ea403672b6e53&amp;id=f9cd51bfd4&amp;e=768653f7cd" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Notice I’m tensing up, decide that can’t be good, tense up even more</a>.<br /><br />Much of what Maureen knows about dogs came from <a href="https://maureenanderson.us4.list-manage.com/track/click?u=72e986237378ea403672b6e53&amp;id=28e6a5cb42&amp;e=768653f7cd" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><i>City Slickers</i></a>.<br /><br /><a href="https://maureenanderson.us4.list-manage.com/track/click?u=72e986237378ea403672b6e53&amp;id=886f777c61&amp;e=768653f7cd" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">George Carlin likes people on a case-by-case basis</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2391</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/eb2aa3ebf53b8ab3b0bf3e053ff0aba7.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Do you say yes often enough?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/do-you-say-yes-often-enough--42698020</link><description><![CDATA[You don’t know what’s going to make you happy until you try it. The job or the relationship that looks good on paper may not feel so great at, say, ten o’clock on a Tuesday. That’s one reason to say yes to more things, so you can get a better feel for more things. Saying yes is a habit and a mindset. If you practice saying yes to smaller things with low stakes, you might find yourself more willing to take bigger risks. That’s what we hope to inspire in this edition of Doing What Works. <br /><br />Here are your show notes…<br /><br />Irresistible author Adam Alter [<a href="http://adamalterauthor.com/" rel="noopener">http://adamalterauthor.com/</a>] was one of Katie’s professors at NYU Stern and “say yes” was his advice.<br /><br />“I wish I might go back and do the little things you asked me to” is from a poem by Alice E. Chase [<a href="https://www.scrapbook.com/poems/doc/860.html" rel="noopener">https://www.scrapbook.com/poems/doc/860.html</a>] entitled “To My Grown-Up Son.”<br /><br />Saying “yes” (and “yes, and”) is a rule of improv [<a href="https://medium.com/the-improv-blog/the-first-rule-of-improv-is-yes-and-30e5954240d6" rel="noopener">https://medium.com/the-improv-blog/the-first-rule-of-improv-is-yes-and-30e5954240d6</a>].<br /><br />“If you can’t imagine any other explanation for a set of facts, it might be because you are bad at imagining things.” That’s from Dilbert creator Scott Adams [<a href="https://twitter.com/ScottAdamsSays" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/ScottAdamsSays</a>].<br /><br />“Marriage is a big bet. It’s the only bet of its kind, one in which you say, ‘This feels right; I think I’ll change everything.’” That’s from Jerry Seinfeld [<a href="https://www.today.com/popculture/seinfeld-turns-25-read-jerrys-best-real-life-lines-1D79884423" rel="noopener">https://www.today.com/popculture/seinfeld-turns-25-read-jerrys-best-real-life-lines-1D79884423</a>].]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/42698020</guid><pubDate>Mon, 28 Dec 2020 23:57:44 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/42698020/121920hour1.mp3" length="37565302" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Doing What Works</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You don’t know what’s going to make you happy until you try it. The job or the relationship that looks good on paper may not feel so great at, say, ten o’clock on a Tuesday. That’s one reason to say yes to more things, so you can get a better feel for...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You don’t know what’s going to make you happy until you try it. The job or the relationship that looks good on paper may not feel so great at, say, ten o’clock on a Tuesday. That’s one reason to say yes to more things, so you can get a better feel for more things. Saying yes is a habit and a mindset. If you practice saying yes to smaller things with low stakes, you might find yourself more willing to take bigger risks. That’s what we hope to inspire in this edition of Doing What Works. <br /><br />Here are your show notes…<br /><br />Irresistible author Adam Alter [<a href="http://adamalterauthor.com/" rel="noopener">http://adamalterauthor.com/</a>] was one of Katie’s professors at NYU Stern and “say yes” was his advice.<br /><br />“I wish I might go back and do the little things you asked me to” is from a poem by Alice E. Chase [<a href="https://www.scrapbook.com/poems/doc/860.html" rel="noopener">https://www.scrapbook.com/poems/doc/860.html</a>] entitled “To My Grown-Up Son.”<br /><br />Saying “yes” (and “yes, and”) is a rule of improv [<a href="https://medium.com/the-improv-blog/the-first-rule-of-improv-is-yes-and-30e5954240d6" rel="noopener">https://medium.com/the-improv-blog/the-first-rule-of-improv-is-yes-and-30e5954240d6</a>].<br /><br />“If you can’t imagine any other explanation for a set of facts, it might be because you are bad at imagining things.” That’s from Dilbert creator Scott Adams [<a href="https://twitter.com/ScottAdamsSays" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/ScottAdamsSays</a>].<br /><br />“Marriage is a big bet. It’s the only bet of its kind, one in which you say, ‘This feels right; I think I’ll change everything.’” That’s from Jerry Seinfeld [<a href="https://www.today.com/popculture/seinfeld-turns-25-read-jerrys-best-real-life-lines-1D79884423" rel="noopener">https://www.today.com/popculture/seinfeld-turns-25-read-jerrys-best-real-life-lines-1D79884423</a>].]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2348</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/eb2aa3ebf53b8ab3b0bf3e053ff0aba7.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item></channel></rss>
