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"The B.F.F. Podcast” gives voice to two of the leading queer, fat and Black changemakers while calling in the world to examine and understand what it means to love oneself...
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"The B.F.F. Podcast” gives voice to two of the leading queer, fat and Black changemakers while calling in the world to examine and understand what it means to love oneself unapologetically - in a world where loving oneself often feels impossible.
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9 DEC 2025 · This week the BFF's are joined by Krystina Arielle to talk storytelling, the power of Black imagination and why we all cheered when that house fell on Nessarose. We also ask the important question - why do I have to pay for parking if I already paid for my hotel stay? Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCoNjbsOPGels3DOxduxid0w&ved=2ahUKEwi00oC6pfiJAxVbJEQIHTheKDsQFnoECBQQAQ&usg=AOvVaw3aoTNjgFaFYUNU3LofKx49! https://www.doctorjonpaul.com/blackfatfemmebook Follow the show on social: https://www.instagram.com/blkfatfemmepod/?hl=en |https://bsky.app/profile/blackfatfemmepod.bsky.social | https://www.tiktok.com/@blackfatfemmepod Follow DoctorJonPaul: https://bsky.app/profile/did:plc:2jvlkl6cmenepg3iiovc3ha5 | https://www.instagram.com/doctorjonpaul/ |http://www.DoctorJonPaul.com | https://www.tiktok.com/@doctorjonpaul Follow Jordan: https://www.instagram.com/johodaniels/ | https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=2ahUKEwjDyaW1xbP6AhWdKkQIHR_DDd8QFnoECBMQAQ&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.jordandaniels.com%2F&usg=AOvVaw0KF44UJVg1i2LehYgFxnzM | https://www.tiktok.com/@johodaniels Follow Krystina: https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=https://www.tiktok.com/%40krystinaarielle&ved=2ahUKEwjv6PnNva-RAxXUJkQIHaZaJAMQFnoECB0QAQ&usg=AOvVaw0FixMQRLjgdg2oTZApo0dx| https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=https://www.instagram.com/krystinaarielle/%3Fhl%3Den&ved=2ahUKEwjop_bXva-RAxVuJUQIHZ-KJmwQFnoECAwQAQ&usg=AOvVaw19RLNbetqa13dEo-H5kKin | https://krystinaarielle.tumblr.com See https://omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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2 DEC 2025 · This week is a the crossover episode you didn't know you needed. We are joined by Kris and Shana of the https://www.badqueers.com/episodes/episode/7dee9502/loretta-devine-was-a-stud-with-bff-black-fat-femme-pod-or-episode-283 where we talk the origin story of our show, the love + lessons in their friendship, the success of their show, Jonathan’s book https://rep.club/products/fat-black-femme?srsltid=AfmBOopTNVcaCeUxNpp0Un2NBTqUrN26hDlmdIwqxNmeWPfo1_eZR5QM, a surprise Loretta Devine stud reveal, their Bad Queer Opinions, and the nastiness online they brush off. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCoNjbsOPGels3DOxduxid0w&ved=2ahUKEwi00oC6pfiJAxVbJEQIHTheKDsQFnoECBQQAQ&usg=AOvVaw3aoTNjgFaFYUNU3LofKx49! https://www.doctorjonpaul.com/blackfatfemmebook https://www.patreon.com/cw/BadQueersPodcast/membership Follow the show on social: https://www.instagram.com/blkfatfemmepod/?hl=en |https://bsky.app/profile/blackfatfemmepod.bsky.social | https://www.tiktok.com/@blackfatfemmepod Follow DoctorJonPaul: https://bsky.app/profile/did:plc:2jvlkl6cmenepg3iiovc3ha5 | https://www.instagram.com/doctorjonpaul/ |http://www.DoctorJonPaul.com | https://www.tiktok.com/@doctorjonpaul Follow Jordan: https://www.instagram.com/johodaniels/ | https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=2ahUKEwjDyaW1xbP6AhWdKkQIHR_DDd8QFnoECBMQAQ&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.jordandaniels.com%2F&usg=AOvVaw0KF44UJVg1i2LehYgFxnzM | https://www.tiktok.com/@johodaniels Follow Bad Queers Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/badqueerspod/?hl=en | https://www.tiktok.com/@badqueerspod | https://www.youtube.com/@BadQueersPodcastSee https://omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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25 NOV 2025 · This week your BFF’s discuss the complicated dance of activism and capitalism, why we need to bring begging back to R&B, shout out the 95 Pinto and talk why companies need to pay contractors on time. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCoNjbsOPGels3DOxduxid0w&ved=2ahUKEwi00oC6pfiJAxVbJEQIHTheKDsQFnoECBQQAQ&usg=AOvVaw3aoTNjgFaFYUNU3LofKx49! https://www.doctorjonpaul.com/blackfatfemmebook Follow the show on social: https://www.instagram.com/blkfatfemmepod/?hl=en |https://bsky.app/profile/blackfatfemmepod.bsky.social | https://www.tiktok.com/@blackfatfemmepod Follow DoctorJonPaul: https://bsky.app/profile/did:plc:2jvlkl6cmenepg3iiovc3ha5 | https://www.instagram.com/doctorjonpaul/ |http://www.DoctorJonPaul.com | https://www.tiktok.com/@doctorjonpaul Follow Jordan: https://www.instagram.com/johodaniels/ | https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=2ahUKEwjDyaW1xbP6AhWdKkQIHR_DDd8QFnoECBMQAQ&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.jordandaniels.com%2F&usg=AOvVaw0KF44UJVg1i2LehYgFxnzM | https://www.tiktok.com/@johodanielsSee https://omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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18 NOV 2025 · This week, we are joined by the mommas of all mommas, Jessica Rose of She Really Had a Baby. We discuss reframing parenthood through an equitable lens, why celebrity won't save us and why the Louvre needs better security. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCoNjbsOPGels3DOxduxid0w&ved=2ahUKEwi00oC6pfiJAxVbJEQIHTheKDsQFnoECBQQAQ&usg=AOvVaw3aoTNjgFaFYUNU3LofKx49! https://www.doctorjonpaul.com/blackfatfemmebook Follow the show on social: https://www.instagram.com/blkfatfemmepod/?hl=en |https://bsky.app/profile/blackfatfemmepod.bsky.social | https://www.tiktok.com/@blackfatfemmepod Follow DoctorJonPaul: https://bsky.app/profile/did:plc:2jvlkl6cmenepg3iiovc3ha5 | https://www.instagram.com/doctorjonpaul/ |http://www.DoctorJonPaul.com | https://www.tiktok.com/@doctorjonpaul Follow Jordan: https://www.instagram.com/johodaniels/ | https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=2ahUKEwjDyaW1xbP6AhWdKkQIHR_DDd8QFnoECBMQAQ&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.jordandaniels.com%2F&usg=AOvVaw0KF44UJVg1i2LehYgFxnzM | https://www.tiktok.com/@johodaniels Follow Jessica: https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=https://www.tiktok.com/%40thisisjessicarose%3Flang%3Den&ved=2ahUKEwij-pvKjvqQAxVUNzQIHcwTFrgQFnoECB8QAQ&usg=AOvVaw2dRCZfFbg0tyh2iVtnfNNW| https://www.instagram.com/thisisjessicarose/ | https://shereallyhadababy.com/ See https://omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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11 NOV 2025 · This week your BFF’s discuss the joy that is Zohran Mamdani, hope, give kudos to the state of Mississippi and talk about why we are both so tired of xenophobia. We also tell certain celebs why they need to close their racist a$$ traps! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCoNjbsOPGels3DOxduxid0w&ved=2ahUKEwi00oC6pfiJAxVbJEQIHTheKDsQFnoECBQQAQ&usg=AOvVaw3aoTNjgFaFYUNU3LofKx49! https://www.doctorjonpaul.com/blackfatfemmebook Follow the show on social: https://www.instagram.com/blkfatfemmepod/?hl=en |https://bsky.app/profile/blackfatfemmepod.bsky.social | https://www.tiktok.com/@blackfatfemmepod Follow DoctorJonPaul: https://bsky.app/profile/did:plc:2jvlkl6cmenepg3iiovc3ha5 | https://www.instagram.com/doctorjonpaul/ |http://www.DoctorJonPaul.com | https://www.tiktok.com/@doctorjonpaul Follow Jordan: https://www.instagram.com/johodaniels/ | https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=2ahUKEwjDyaW1xbP6AhWdKkQIHR_DDd8QFnoECBMQAQ&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.jordandaniels.com%2F&usg=AOvVaw0KF44UJVg1i2LehYgFxnzM | https://www.tiktok.com/@johodanielsSee https://omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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4 NOV 2025 · This week, we are joined by the hilarious Tyreak Told You live, loud and in color from NYC. The dolls talk about moments they want to relive, events from 2025 that need to stay in 2025 and why flying out of JFK is NUTS. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCoNjbsOPGels3DOxduxid0w&ved=2ahUKEwi00oC6pfiJAxVbJEQIHTheKDsQFnoECBQQAQ&usg=AOvVaw3aoTNjgFaFYUNU3LofKx49! https://www.doctorjonpaul.com/blackfatfemmebook Follow the show on social: https://www.instagram.com/blkfatfemmepod/?hl=en |https://bsky.app/profile/blackfatfemmepod.bsky.social | https://www.tiktok.com/@blackfatfemmepod Follow DoctorJonPaul: https://bsky.app/profile/did:plc:2jvlkl6cmenepg3iiovc3ha5 | https://www.instagram.com/doctorjonpaul/ |http://www.DoctorJonPaul.com | https://www.tiktok.com/@doctorjonpaul Follow Jordan: https://www.instagram.com/johodaniels/ | https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=2ahUKEwjDyaW1xbP6AhWdKkQIHR_DDd8QFnoECBMQAQ&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.jordandaniels.com%2F&usg=AOvVaw0KF44UJVg1i2LehYgFxnzM | https://www.tiktok.com/@johodaniels Follow Tyreak: https://www.tiktok.com/@tyreaktoldyou| https://www.instagram.com/tyreaktoldyou/?hl=en See https://omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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28 OCT 2025 · This week your BFF’s dive into the obsession America has with dating shows, talk about who is the real underrated queer horror icon (just in time for Halloween) and discuss why our problematic fave might just be having the best year ever. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCoNjbsOPGels3DOxduxid0w&ved=2ahUKEwi00oC6pfiJAxVbJEQIHTheKDsQFnoECBQQAQ&usg=AOvVaw3aoTNjgFaFYUNU3LofKx49! https://www.doctorjonpaul.com/blackfatfemmebook Follow the show on social: https://www.instagram.com/blkfatfemmepod/?hl=en |https://bsky.app/profile/blackfatfemmepod.bsky.social | https://www.tiktok.com/@blackfatfemmepod Follow DoctorJonPaul: https://bsky.app/profile/did:plc:2jvlkl6cmenepg3iiovc3ha5 | https://www.instagram.com/doctorjonpaul/ |http://www.DoctorJonPaul.com | https://www.tiktok.com/@doctorjonpaul Follow Jordan: https://www.instagram.com/johodaniels/ | https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=2ahUKEwjDyaW1xbP6AhWdKkQIHR_DDd8QFnoECBMQAQ&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.jordandaniels.com%2F&usg=AOvVaw0KF44UJVg1i2LehYgFxnzM | https://www.tiktok.com/@johodanielsSee https://omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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21 OCT 2025 · This week, the BFF's welcome Kristian A. Smith to the third seat to talk about the difference between church hurt & religious trauma. We also pay our respects to legends (rest well D'Angelo) and talk about why we are sick of people heckling Kamala. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCoNjbsOPGels3DOxduxid0w&ved=2ahUKEwi00oC6pfiJAxVbJEQIHTheKDsQFnoECBQQAQ&usg=AOvVaw3aoTNjgFaFYUNU3LofKx49! https://www.doctorjonpaul.com/blackfatfemmebook Follow the show on social: https://www.instagram.com/blkfatfemmepod/?hl=en |https://bsky.app/profile/blackfatfemmepod.bsky.social | https://www.tiktok.com/@blackfatfemmepod Follow DoctorJonPaul: https://bsky.app/profile/did:plc:2jvlkl6cmenepg3iiovc3ha5 | https://www.instagram.com/doctorjonpaul/ |http://www.DoctorJonPaul.com | https://www.tiktok.com/@doctorjonpaul Follow Jordan: https://www.instagram.com/johodaniels/ | https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=2ahUKEwjDyaW1xbP6AhWdKkQIHR_DDd8QFnoECBMQAQ&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.jordandaniels.com%2F&usg=AOvVaw0KF44UJVg1i2LehYgFxnzM | https://www.tiktok.com/@johodaniels Follow Kristian: https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=https://www.tiktok.com/%40thekristianasmith%3Flang%3Den&ved=2ahUKEwicsfj8vLOQAxUfDzQIHdfDFIUQFnoECD4QAQ&usg=AOvVaw0P_ccORMY4QaVVjOG4yahS| https://www.instagram.com/thekristianasmith/See https://omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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14 OCT 2025 · This week your BFF’s dive into what Black shows from yesteryear made them feel the most seen, talk about why we love Bad Bunny and ask the million dollar question: who did the casting on this season of "Love is Blind"? See Jon & Joho in conversation at the Mira Mesa Barne's & Noble on October 18th at 4pm @ 10775 Westview Parkway San Diego, CA 92126. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCoNjbsOPGels3DOxduxid0w&ved=2ahUKEwi00oC6pfiJAxVbJEQIHTheKDsQFnoECBQQAQ&usg=AOvVaw3aoTNjgFaFYUNU3LofKx49! https://www.doctorjonpaul.com/blackfatfemmebook Follow the show on social: https://www.instagram.com/blkfatfemmepod/?hl=en |https://bsky.app/profile/blackfatfemmepod.bsky.social | https://www.tiktok.com/@blackfatfemmepod Follow DoctorJonPaul: https://bsky.app/profile/did:plc:2jvlkl6cmenepg3iiovc3ha5 | https://www.instagram.com/doctorjonpaul/ |http://www.DoctorJonPaul.com | https://www.tiktok.com/@doctorjonpaul Follow Jordan: https://www.instagram.com/johodaniels/ | https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=2ahUKEwjDyaW1xbP6AhWdKkQIHR_DDd8QFnoECBMQAQ&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.jordandaniels.com%2F&usg=AOvVaw0KF44UJVg1i2LehYgFxnzM | https://www.tiktok.com/@johodanielsSee https://omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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7 OCT 2025 · This week your BFF’s aren’t just talking about coming out, but we answer the more important question - what is life like after you do? Both host drop life lessons, important pieces of advice and remind you of why loving yourself out loud is the perfect way to celebrate LGBTQ History Month 2025. Listen to, “It’s Okay to be Gay” everywhere you get your podcasts! 🎧
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#blackfatfemme #blackpodcasts #lgbtq #iheartmedia See Jon & Joho in conversation at the Mira Mesa Barne's & Noble on October 18th at 4pm @ 10775 Westview Parkway San Diego, CA 92126. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCoNjbsOPGels3DOxduxid0w&ved=2ahUKEwi00oC6pfiJAxVbJEQIHTheKDsQFnoECBQQAQ&usg=AOvVaw3aoTNjgFaFYUNU3LofKx49! https://www.doctorjonpaul.com/blackfatfemmebook Follow the show on social: https://www.instagram.com/blkfatfemmepod/?hl=en |https://bsky.app/profile/blackfatfemmepod.bsky.social | https://www.tiktok.com/@blackfatfemmepod Follow DoctorJonPaul: https://bsky.app/profile/did:plc:2jvlkl6cmenepg3iiovc3ha5 | https://www.instagram.com/doctorjonpaul/ |http://www.DoctorJonPaul.com | https://www.tiktok.com/@doctorjonpaul Follow Jordan: https://www.instagram.com/johodaniels/ | https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=2ahUKEwjDyaW1xbP6AhWdKkQIHR_DDd8QFnoECBMQAQ&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.jordandaniels.com%2F&usg=AOvVaw0KF44UJVg1i2LehYgFxnzM | https://www.tiktok.com/@johodanielsSee https://omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
"The B.F.F. Podcast” gives voice to two of the leading queer, fat and Black changemakers while calling in the world to examine and understand what it means to love oneself...
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"The B.F.F. Podcast” gives voice to two of the leading queer, fat and Black changemakers while calling in the world to examine and understand what it means to love oneself unapologetically - in a world where loving oneself often feels impossible.
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