Andi gave her son his first iPhone at age 7, a gift that seemed harmless until it slowly devolved into gaming marathons, failing grades, and a complete erosion of his sense of right and wrong.

After trying parental controls, the Adlerian free-will approach, and prolonged battles with his school over Chromebook use, Andi reached a breaking point that forced her to shift from rule-setting to values-based parenting. In December 2024, she cleared the house of all devices entirely.

But when her son continued sneaking access with his school-issued Chromebook and lying about it, Andi made the agonizing decision to send him out of state to therapeutic boarding school. He went willingly, a decision he agreed with and remains proud of.

Seven months in, the transformation is remarkable. Her son, now 13, has regained his personality, shed the addiction, and speaks about tech addiction with clarity and drawing sharp comparisons to drug addiction. 

Andi tells his story not just as a cautionary tale, but as proof that full removal, structured support, and a values-driven home can work.

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Andi is a Houston mother who spent years battling her son's tech addiction before sending him to therapeutic boarding school, and now advocates for families navigating the hidden crisis of screen addiction in children.

Questions this episode answers:
How can a child's iPhone at age 7 spiral into full-blown tech addiction?
What are the signs your child has a video game or internet addiction?
Why do screen time limits and parental controls actually make things worse?
What did a 13-year-old say about his own tech addiction that every parent needs to hear?
How is tech addiction neurologically similar to drug addiction?
What should parents do when a child's tech addiction destroys their morals and school performance?
Why is YouTube in schools like handing a drink to an alcoholic at lunch?
What is therapeutic boarding school and can it actually heal tech addiction?
Why is the 28-day rehab model failing addicts — and who profits from keeping people sick?
How do dopamine and oxytocin explain why screens are so dangerously addictive?

Matt Handy is the founder of Harmony Grove Behavioral Health in Houston, Texas, where their mission is to provide compassionate, evidence-based care for anyone facing addiction, mental health challenges, and co-occurring disorders.

My Last Relapse explores what everyone is thinking but no one is saying about addiction and recovery through conversations with those whose lives have changed.

For anyone disillusioned with traditional recovery and feeling left out, misunderstood, or weighed down by unrealistic expectations, this podcast looks ahead—rejecting the lies and dogma that keep people from imagining life without using.

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About Harmony Grove Behavioral Health

Harmony Grove delivers outpatient addiction and mental health treatment focused on wellness, creativity, and authentic human connection—providing a supportive space for healing that extends beyond traditional clinical care. Find out more at http://harmonygrovebh.com/

Harmony Grove’s IOP in Houston, Texas, is more than a program; it’s a lifeline for those ready to take the next step in their recovery. We are ready to meet you where you are and find your unique path to change.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed or struggling, you don’t have to face it alone. Reaching out for support is a sign of strength, and help is always available. If you or anyone you know needs help, give us a call 24 hours a day at 844-430-3060.

Host: Matthew Handy
Producer: Eva Sheie
Assistant Producers: Mary Ellen Clarkson & Hannah Burkhart
Engineering: Chris Mann
Theme music: Survive The Tide, Machina Aeon
Cover Art:  DMARK

My Last Relapse is a production of Kind Creative: kindcreative.com